WEBVTT - DeVon Franklin Interview and More 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:03.720 Fifty percent right center year, I love you fifty percent. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:09.799 Rat to sit down. Didn't becoming the most prominent form 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:11.760 for you wait your ass up early in the morning. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:13.560 But they tell me it was y'all. I said, oh, 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:16.160 hell yeah, I'm getting the world Suos Stage Choice, water 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:22.480 Shot three People's Choice. Actually I got you sharmamade people. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.520 I can't believe you guys are the basket. Look did 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:39.559 we know that breakfast club petition? Good morning Usa yo 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:41.440 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:44.800 yo yo yo yo yo yo. Good morning angela yea, 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:48.320 Hey dj MV Charlamagne the guy piece to the planet. 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:51.199 Guess what day it is? Guess what day it is? 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:57.640 Ha ha ha haha, hey yea, No, why this is 0:00:57.720 --> 0:00:59.920 und of wheat? Like Elma, you always do that LM 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.840 voice for everything, my kid. I mean, I'm trying to 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.800 do the best ange leave voice as I can. Okay, Well, 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:11.160 good morning, good morning, d d VS. Everything good. I'm 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:13.080 not gonna lie. I'm exhausted today. I've been having a 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.600 long week. But shout out to everybody who came out 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.399 to my book club yesterday. You know, every month I 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.080 do this book club. I try to support of black 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.360 authors because there's not a lot of outlets for authors 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:26.040 to support themselves and to promote when they have a 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:28.039 book coming out. So I do this book club, and 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:29.920 this is the first time I did it at the Schaumberg, 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:32.280 which is in Harlem, and it's part of the New 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:35.920 York Public Library Hole ecosystem, so I'm also an ambassador 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:37.480 for the New York Public Library. So it was like 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:40.959 my first situation with them. Nice. It was really great, 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:42.840 and thank you to Divine Franklin who came out. He's 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.640 gonna be on the Breakfast Club this morning. He's gonna 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:45.959 be joining us this morning in a little bit, so 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:47.800 we'll kick it with him. You know, yesterday I did 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:50.600 nothing but sleep. I've been tired for nice from Atlanta. 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:52.800 I was in Atlanta for the last four days from 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:54.800 Super Bowl. I was looking at some property, so I 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.200 was just tired. So yesterday when I got home, I 0:01:57.200 --> 0:01:59.680 said hello to the kids. I was hoping London with 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.200 a home working. The next thing I knew, it was 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:02.720 four o'clock, any time for me to get up. So 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:03.920 I don't know if I helped the right. I don't 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:05.760 know if I helped the because you had to make sentences, 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:07.960 so I'm hoping the sentences are right. Well, look, I 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.080 went to bed, I got home at like ten thirty. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.960 And then I have another book club, well a book 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:15.160 of launch for Anti Tea Time and she wrote to 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:16.880 Hate You Give and she has another book on the 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:20.079 come up. So that book is like four hundred something pages. Wow, 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:21.760 And so I was trying to make sure I got 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:23.400 through it. So I stayed up trying to read last 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:27.200 night until I fell asleep. And then I also have 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:31.720 officially launched my drink fresh Juice dot com, which is 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:34.679 my subscription based press juices. So if you go to 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:38.400 drink fresh Juice dot com, it's official. Finally. It's taking 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:39.799 a long time to get it together. I thought it 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:42.280 was going to launch in November, then December, but it's 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:45.959 finally ready to go. Everything approved and it's all fresh 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.919 natural press juices. It's vegan, all of that. Nothing added 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.880 to it. Well, congratulations, thank you. Did you see them? 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:57.240 I can just guess he talked about building a wall, 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:00.359 talked about building a wall, and he said he's gonna 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.240 build the wall. I'm sure that's what he said. Well, 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:04.200 don't worry. On Front page News, I do have some 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.040 of those recaps because I was trying to watch that 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.919 this morning as I was getting ready for work. So 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.560 whatever you missed, we have some of those recaps for 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:13.480 you this morning. All right. We'll get into all that, 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.119 and don't forget the Vrone Frank when we'll be joining 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.799 us in a little bit as well, So don't move. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.160 It's to breakfast club. Good morning, morning, everybody is dj 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.080 M v Angela. Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are to 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:26.480 breakfast clubles's getting some front page news. Yes, we're talking 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:30.520 about Oh, do you have any sports now, there's no sports, okay, Charlomagne, 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:34.160 good morning, all right. We're talking about Donald Trump State 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:39.320 of the Union yesterday. Now he is asking for unity 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:41.760 in the government because you know, the government shut down. 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:45.000 It has only been delayed until next week, so hopefully 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.320 they can come to some sort of resolution so that 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:50.600 people can stay working and stay getting paid for their work. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.600 Here's what he had to say. We must choose between 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:58.920 great yes or grid luck, results or resistance, vision or vengeance, 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:06.040 incredible progress or pointless destruction. Tonight, I ask you to 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:11.280 choose greatness, all right. Now. He also, of course, has 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.480 talked about border security. Here's what he says about border security. 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:17.680 In the past, most of the people in this room 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:22.120 voted for a wall, but the proper wall never got built. 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:26.839 I will get it built. Congress has ten days left 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:30.320 to pass a bill that will fund our government, protect 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:35.160 our homeland, and secure our very dangerous southern border. I 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:39.680 have ordered another three thousand, seven hundred and fifty troops 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:44.640 to our southern border to prepare for this tremendous onslaught. 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:48.560 All right, Now he goes on to talk about these 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:50.479 Chinese tarriers, because you know, a lot of people were 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.880 discussing the economy and how that's going to affect people. 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:56.040 Here here's what he said about these taxes before. He said, 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.080 so if he doesn't do this in the next ten days, 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:01.760 what happens in ten days? Set it back down, because 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:04.040 you know it's only temporary that it's not shut down 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:07.840 until I think the fifteenth. I'm not shut it down again, 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.520 but it's possible. Yeah, you never know with this guy. 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.200 Here's what he had to say about these Chinese tariffs. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:17.000 We are now making it clear to China that after 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:22.320 years of targeting our industries and stealing our intellectual property, 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:26.080 the theft of American jobs and wealth has come to 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:30.640 an end. Therefore, we recently imposed tariffs on two hundred 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:34.280 and fifty billion dollars of Chinese goods, and now our 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:40.360 treasury is receiving billions and billions of dollars. Another thing 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:42.440 that Donald Tumps talked about in his State of the 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:45.560 Union last night was North Korea. Here's what he has 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:48.760 to say. If I had not been elected President of 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.760 the United States, we would right now, in my opinion, 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:57.400 being a major war with North Korea. Arch work remains 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:01.960 to be done, but my relationship with Kim Jong On 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:05.080 is a good one. Chairman, Kim and I will meet 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:09.800 again on February twenty seventh and twenty eighth in Vietnam. 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.520 Donald Trump in the State of the Union also goes 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.960 on to talk about here was something good that everyone 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:21.760 shared for women in Congress, and exactly one century after 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:28.080 Congress passed the Constitutional Amendment giving women the right to vote, 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:34.279 we also have more women serving in Congress than at 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:38.000 any time before. Well, that was one of the good 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:40.279 things that has come out from people being more aware 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:42.919 of what's going on and understanding that they have to 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.240 make sure that we put ourselves in positions. I thought 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:48.200 the State of the Union was solid. I mean, the 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:51.240 bars weren't immaculate. He's no Baraca. No, you know, well 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:53.320 he stuck to the script. No me, but you know 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:56.320 he was good. Now, here's what Van Jones thought about 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:58.760 Donald Trump State of the Union. I saw this as 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:04.280 a psychotically incoherent speech with cookies and dog poop. He 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.560 tries to put together in the same speech these warm, 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:12.280 kind things about human hereanism and caring about children. At 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:16.680 the same time he is demonizing people who are immigrants 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:21.960 in a way that was a pop all right. He definitely, 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:25.920 uh was standing firm on his stance about illegal immigrants. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:28.440 He's never backing down from that. Now, that's not Here's 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:30.000 what else Van Jones had to see about the State 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:33.720 of the Union. That's okay. So that's the only Aldio 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.560 we got, all right. I think Van is upset because 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.080 Van didn't get a shot out when Donald Trump took 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.040 full credit for the first first step back. You think 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.440 that's all that was, Yeah, I think so. And he said, 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.240 when you talked about alex Marie Johnson, he said, my 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.760 friends didn't give kim O Kanye a shot out either. 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.360 That Kanye's man he might beat this morning. Ain't getting 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:55.960 no shot out. All right, well last front page news. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.920 Get it off your chests eight five, eight, five one 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:00.400 or five one. If you're up that you need to 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.240 vent hit us up right now. Maybe you had a 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.680 bad night, or your morning is horrible, or maybe you 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:07.640 feel blessed, whatever it may be. Eight hundred, five, five 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.640 one or five one, Get it off your chest. It's 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:12.920 the Breakfast Club. Go morning, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:16.160 will never be the same. You don't need to snow 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.440 to have an adult snow day. Had to eBay this 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.160 winter and make the most of your money shopping eBay 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.640 deals with our best price guarantee plus free shipping on 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.480 millions of items. If it's happening on your adult snow day, 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:33.120 it's happening on eBay. It's your time to get it 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:35.600 off your chests. Whether you're man or blessed, so you 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.559 better have the same industry. We want to hear from 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:42.120 you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this Eric Detroit? 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.280 What's up? Bro? What up? Done? Get it off your chests? 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:50.679 What up? No? Come on, angel? Literally, what's up? What's up? 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.320 What's up? Give me y'all driving and Detroit. We have it. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.560 We have a severe ice storm and I'm on my 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.000 way to work right there, driving a driving to some ice. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:01.640 Try to get y'all off the radio and put my 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:06.280 handful there. Yesterday. Yeah, well, you know what, I'm gonna 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.240 tell you. What they're saying. They say in Michigan is 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.480 always if you don't like the weather, just wait a minute. 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:14.400 So you know, we were like we were like like 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.959 twenty thirty below and then like two days later it 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.360 got the fifty and hours of ice storm or whatnot. 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:21.880 But yeah, guys, I want to say a couple of days. 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.160 First of all, you're making me think of something because 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.320 I try to call you guys. Last week one day 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.320 some can't called you guys. He said, Man, I'm so 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.360 tired of this cold. I'm tired of this cold. Y'all said, 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:32.440 what y'all call? What are you calling from? He's like Miami, 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.719 and y'all flipped out on him, like, oh, it's like 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:37.520 three degrees here and it's like fifty down there. That 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:41.000 day it was minus twenty in Detroit. I wanted to 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:43.600 get in get on y'all line so bad to tell dude, 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.960 when you sit still, brother, I'm Detroit and the one 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.880 of the the time and you will be crying to go home. 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:52.960 But flip side, Charlotte, mine this for you. Brother. Last 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.040 week or a couple of weeks ago, you were talking 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.160 to the guy traffic calls all the time, and you 0:09:57.520 --> 0:09:59.920 he had said he had a comment about you calling 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:04.120 Jake Cole the Tim Duncan rap. Right. Yeah. Wow. For me, 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:06.680 this means one or two things. This guy doesn't watch 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.720 basketball or he does not understand who Tim Duncan is. 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:13.480 I'm a huge first fan, first and foremost, so when 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.079 I heard you say that, I said, that is so 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:20.240 dead on calling anybody the Tim Duncan of anything is 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:25.760 a supreme compliment because the guy was fundamentally sound. That's flashy, 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:29.000 and ye hadn't steel was a star. And I think 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:30.920 you got said he had four rings. He's got five 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:33.640 five rings? Yeah I had that wrong. Five rings, fifteen 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:39.480 time All Star. Okay, two MVPs, three NBA Finals, MVPs, Jim, 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:43.160 that's Jacole. Jay Cole is big, fundamental, not flashy, but 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:46.320 he's a star. Hello, who's this? Hey? Get it off 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:49.439 your chess. Oh, I can't believe in my heir because 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.520 I was talking to somebody else. Okay, my daughter. First 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:55.800 thing is Stabry Rays the fourteenth. I'm from Columbia, so right, 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:59.280 you know three, what's happening? Okay? Okay? And then I 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.920 want to shout out her YouTube page. She's not trying 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.880 to be a rapp for Charlomagne. She's only three, okay four. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:09.520 It's Skylar Love s k y la R l o 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:13.040 v E. And we're doing a giveaway on her birthday 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:16.000 if we get up to ten thousand subscribers and ten 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:20.320 thousand views the page. What is she doing her YouTube page? 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:23.319 Play with toys, Open up toys, Play with toys. I 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.760 ain't mad at you. There's a lot of kids making 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.160 a lot of money doing it, and for some reason, 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:27.920 my kids like to watch it. I don't know why, 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:31.600 but it's it's confusing, but they do. Tell your kids 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:33.679 to go over to my daughter page Skylar Love. Now 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:35.880 it's a lot of scholar loves on YouTube, but she's 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:39.240 the black three year old little girl. All right, yeah, 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:41.559 but what is she giving away? We're giving away two 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.360 hundred and fifty dollars if we get ten thousand subscribers 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:47.600 and ten thousand views. Okay, okay, okay, that's two hundred 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.040 and fifty dollars. There's a lot of money, and that's 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:51.480 a light bill for a month. She's making money at 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.600 an early age. I'm gonna subscribe, my kids subscribe. Thank 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.480 your d j Envy and I shout out to Anthela. Ye, 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.240 it's well as Charlomagne. I used to miss to you 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:02.840 on one hot one on three point nine, and I 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.839 even came to some of your events. My eventus used 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.600 to be popping, right. Yeah you you you you were 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.920 like I was, was gonna get slapped back in the day, 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:14.760 But yeah I did. It's not like I didn't. I 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:16.679 mean not in Columbia, but you know I did once 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.200 or twice here in New York. Okay, well I always 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:21.200 thought that for you. And what do you mean what 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:23.360 you used to it? We still wet one three nine 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.760 right now in the morning, right now. No, no, I listened. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.440 She's been listening to you for a long time. Dropping 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:30.800 a clue bump for nine Columbia, South Carolina. When it 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:32.240 came up in the point of the four radio stations 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.319 that I got fired from my radio career. You go, 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.199 Chris Connors, what's up? My brother he want to fire you. Yes, 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:39.360 that's my guy though. Okay, you always told me that 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:42.800 I was a start he deserved, but you wasn't a man. 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:45.480 It happened sometimes the business. You know what I'm saying, business, 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.840 get it off your chest. Eight dreat five eight five 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:49.319 one or five one hit us up. Now. It was 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:55.679 the breakfast club the morning, the breakfast club. This is 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.400 your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:01.880 man from you on the breakfast club, but you got 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:06.640 something on your mind. Let hello, who's this good morning? 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:12.199 This is Jennie from Spring lay right right around a 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:15.520 corner from Jako. Shout out to Jeko. But um, the 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.840 first thing I want to say is y'all left me. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.880 I'll hold the other morning. Then just hung up. And 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:23.360 I was so excited to come. But my grife is 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:27.040 about the real estate business. When I was in school, 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:31.119 everybody was so high. I'm gonna be your first customer 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.920 or a client. I can't wait to buy a house 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:37.720 never I'm licens. Where are the buyers? Where the sellers? 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.079 Where was all that energy when I was in school? 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.480 And it took me five times to pass the debt 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:44.559 or the way my bank account, the way my bank 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.640 account set up? Baby, you know I don't have it 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:48.800 the way I had it when you was just going 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:52.040 in when you were in school, when you located North Carolina. 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:56.040 Janice Henry of Luca's More Realty, come see me, somebody 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.360 let them see her. You know what I'm job. You 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.520 know what I realized about North Carolina. Lot of people 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.280 that are into buying houses and flipping houses. They become 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.320 real estate agents themselves and saves him a lot of money. 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:07.679 Tell me about it. Four of my friends have I 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:10.800 already went to school and I love that. Go for it, 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:14.839 but seriously, where are the She's like, Okay, that's great enough. 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:18.920 But all right, mama, last your plague where people can 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.400 find you right now? Go to Janie Henry of Lucas 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:28.880 More Realty on Facebook. Okay, me up, Good luck Mama. Thanks? Hello, 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:35.840 Who's this's what's up? Bro? Get it off your chest? Yo? 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.920 I want to. I want to say that you guys 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.880 got me backing up every morning. I love listening to 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.720 you guys. You guys get me going. I'm a truck driver. 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:47.120 I'm on the road, truck driver. Um so I want 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.440 to thank you guys for that. And uh to, I 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:53.720 just want to spress somebodive vibe to anybody else there 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:57.920 that's going through anything um bad or just trying to 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.920 pursue their career. You know, I just wanted to let 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:04.960 them know, don't stop, keep going because if you do 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.400 stop or you're gonna just be at position wearing one. 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:11.680 So the reason why I say that because I'm twenty 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:15.120 two myself. I'm from New York, from Long Island, and 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.480 I've been I've been through the worst. I know there's 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:20.080 a lot of people out there going through the tool 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.320 at a young age. I didn't do the worst, no, 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.000 and I just didn't stop. I didn't give up, and 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:29.360 I pursued my career as a trunk driver in August 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:34.120 of last year, and I made it so that congratulations 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:38.200 my brother. We love some positive energy. Keep it going, man, definitely. Man, 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:41.760 you got to motivateb You gotta love y'all too. We 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.680 love you. I love brothers so funny brothers. I just 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:46.680 loving brothers. Can tell each other they love We love 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:49.120 each other. Man. You know what I'm saying, Hello, who's this? 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:54.040 He's like, Hello, what's up? Right? We love you too, bro, 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:58.120 We love you, Rod. You can't now. I wanted to 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:01.360 press from positivity because, um, about six seven months ago, 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.760 my little eight year old daughter told me she wanted 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.600 a DJ, and I you know, I'm like, kid out 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:07.200 of here. So I bought her a little DJ that 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:10.480 and make a long story short, she's been getting a 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:13.680 lot of attention, just fopped her little Instagram videos, even 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:16.440 much that the CEO of the Miami Dawkins had her 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:20.560 DJ August twenty fifth, a halftime show at Dalphin Stadium, 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.680 leaving gotten like little sponsorships with kids, foot locker and 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:28.000 all that other stuffs and awesome. So so you invested 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.520 to your invested in your child and the investment came back. 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:32.960 That's right. Keep pushing them, man. So y'all, yeah, y'all 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:37.160 follow her DJ Marley nine five four six, seven months 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.240 only and I'm not a DJ. So she just been 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.960 learning on the stuff, looking at YouTube videos, looking at 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.640 even NB two. She looked at videos where you're doing 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.880 other things like in UM clubs, I guess or something 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:48.880 like that. She's relate, that's what I want to do. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:55.040 I'm like, all right, yes, actually I'm pretty okay out 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.440 there with the DJ thing too. Okay, all right, but 0:16:57.560 --> 0:17:00.160 thank you man. Shout to DJ Marley nine five. Well, 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:01.560 make sure y'all go out there and follow up. I 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:03.600 like to hear stories like that. Only problem is there's 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:07.119 nowhere to go but down from him exactly. She can 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.960 still go up and six months, it's gonna come a 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:12.320 period where it's gonna be like a little dull period 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:14.760 for her. She'd gotta keep going, she'd keep pushing up. 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.440 She still got high school, she got college. She'll be 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:19.520 all right, Yes she will. All right, man, good luck, 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:22.120 get it off your chests. Eight hundred five A five 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:23.840 one oh five one. If you need to vent, you 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:25.920 can hit us up right now. Now you've got rumors 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:29.440 on the way. Yes, Tyrese has fifty thousand dollars on 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:32.320 someone's head. Find out who he's mad at. Also, we'll 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:35.120 give you an update on Freeway after undergoing his long 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:38.040 awaited kidney transplant. All right, we'll get into all that 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.200 when we come back. Keeping lock. This the breakfast Club. 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:47.680 Good morning, the breakfast Club. She's filling the team. This 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:51.640 is the rumor report with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:55.199 But this is getting spicy, all right, there's some new 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:58.399 rap beef after chance. The wrapper was in the Flaming 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:06.880 Hot Dorrito's commercial for this Super Bowl. I stopped full 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:11.800 over my nachos, waking like a topco drum roost fingers, 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:13.639 I'm a hot chester Man. And then come on, man, 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:17.960 I'm gonna need some need another outfit fling and I'm 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:25.200 magan one into the clime. Am I talking? Well? Chester 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.840 Cheetah didn't like that Lord Wayne need to be beef 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.160 with a chance to rapping for copywriter Frenchman. He sounded 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:32.880 just like Lott who stole Little whe his whole style, delivery, 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:35.400 everything on that. He definitely does sound like Little Wayne 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.840 and that. Now Chester Cheetah had an issue as well, 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:41.880 Chester Cheetah, what else that you don't know? Chester Cheetah, Oh, 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:44.080 I got this for you, because now there's some beef, 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:47.240 some Frito Lay beef, now, Chester Cheetah said. When I 0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:50.720 saw that Doritos dropped a hot, flaming Hot Nato flavor, 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.200 I had to come through and remind them that I'm 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:58.359 the flaming hot og. Listen to this. Come on, Doritos, 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:00.480 you can't drupt the flaming hot And I didn't watch 0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:03.399 your stabs from the old in the stack game. You 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:05.840 claim trying gonna I made you square. You had to 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:08.720 borrow my key just to make the world Care, you 0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:11.640 got slabs and the remix song for lack a bag 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.800 of Cheetos. You won't last long. So next time you 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:17.440 try to take what I got, remember I'm flaming hot 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:23.840 and you're flaming not Cheetos versus. I thought flaming was 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:27.920 a gayesler. It was at one point in life. Well, 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:29.800 these are just for Chetos right now, and de Ritos 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:33.959 so's flaming hot. Yeah, these are flaming hot. No, they 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.159 both gonna kill you. Flaming hot is not a flavor. 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:38.480 All that process food mad at each other, rap battle 0:19:38.520 --> 0:19:40.479 and to see who can kill you first. The only 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:42.280 thing that is flaming hot is fire. Who he has 0:19:42.280 --> 0:19:45.800 ever tasted fire? Exactly? We taste fire, That's my point. 0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:48.800 But I do love really spicy spicy foods all the 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:51.320 time flaming hot, but I've never ever had either one 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.320 of those. I think I could be on that show 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:55.200 Hot Wings and be fine because I can eat really 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:58.640 spicy hot food. Yeah, I ate all my wings. Yeah, 0:19:58.640 --> 0:20:00.320 I don't have any power. I love that loving my 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:07.040 mouth is on fire. Oh and really, Andy, Andy, you 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:10.639 should have had you at I wanted when it came 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:14.359 through immediately. Who needs Andy when you got Angela? All 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:19.360 right now, Tyrese versus Tory Lane, how did this all happen? Well, 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:22.159 Tyrese preview the new song and Tory LANEZ had some 0:20:22.280 --> 0:20:25.320 words for it now here. It is finally called a vibe. 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:49.360 That's a prayer, right, He's he's rapping a prayer. Well, yeah, 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:53.280 that's some new previews that Tyrese has been doing on Instagram. Well, 0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:55.520 Tory LANEZ, I guess it wasn't feeling it. Check it out? 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.520 Oh God, like god, Tyres, I don't know what the 0:20:58.920 --> 0:21:01.639 you're talking about, sir, d you about to be other. 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:06.040 That's the game Tory Lanes versus Tyrese. When it comes 0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:09.400 to R and B, Tyrese got that, Tory Lanes versus 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.840 black Tie and Rap. Tory Lane got that, m okay, 0:21:12.840 --> 0:21:15.880 So you give it to to Tory Lane and Rap. Yes, 0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:18.119 Tory versus black Tie. I'm giving that the Tory all 0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:19.879 day long. But Tyrese wants to know who has the 0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:22.680 better album full album smoke fifty K in your head 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:25.360 in or not. That's what he wrote on his Instagram. 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:27.400 It just depends. Like if it's R and B, I'm 0:21:27.400 --> 0:21:29.240 gonna go with Tyrese. Like just strictly R and B. 0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:34.400 That's tyres Is Lane all day. But Rap Tory does RMB. 0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:37.639 But yeah, ain't he't not mess with with with Tyrese 0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:40.919 when it comes to R and B. Now RMB, All right, now, 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:43.200 let's send our prayers out to Freeway. He had to 0:21:43.320 --> 0:21:46.840 check into a Baltimore hospital for surgery. He got his 0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.760 long away to kidney transplant and his manager did provide 0:21:49.760 --> 0:21:52.280 an update saying that it was a success. He is 0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:55.360 now in recovery and he has thanked everyone for all 0:21:55.480 --> 0:22:00.879 their prayers. So shout out to our guy Freeways a 0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:03.959 lot happy for that brother, dropping the clues from Freeway. 0:22:04.200 --> 0:22:06.040 If you're a woman from Philly or a guy from 0:22:06.080 --> 0:22:07.919 Philly and you ever dance to rock the mic at 0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.680 your prom and you didn't say salute the Freeway yesterday, 0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:15.280 you're gonna die. WHOA come on now on a tasty cake. 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:18.680 That Freeway had this to say, thank y'all for all 0:22:18.720 --> 0:22:24.560 the prayers, on the support everything. Well the surgery, well 0:22:25.119 --> 0:22:30.960 I got the doctor said, everything's fine. All right. Taylor, 0:22:31.359 --> 0:22:33.320 Taylor from Philly, that's one of our producers. Did you 0:22:33.359 --> 0:22:38.639 salute Freeway? You got to shout him out shout out 0:22:38.680 --> 0:22:41.320 to Freeway. Out to Freeway. You did your first Lottle 0:22:41.359 --> 0:22:43.760 dance to no Better Love by the young guns that 0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:45.919 state property. The least you could do is a salute 0:22:45.920 --> 0:22:49.359 freeway'm angela, yean, that's your rumor report. All right, thank you, 0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:51.680 miss ye Now when we come back with our front 0:22:51.720 --> 0:22:54.520 page news, we're talking about your president. Yes, your president 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:56.240 had had stated at the Union I know your eyes 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:58.359 were glued to the television last night. All right, we'll 0:22:58.400 --> 0:22:59.960 talk about it when we come back. Don't move. It's 0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:04.560 Breakfast Club Corning. Good morning. Everybody is DJ mvy Angela yee, 0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:07.080 Charlomagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. Let's getting 0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:10.800 some front page news. All the Wizards fans out there 0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:12.320 watching the Wizards. I know you might be a little 0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:14.800 upset John Wall. It looks like he will be out 0:23:14.880 --> 0:23:17.800 twelve months. They're saying that he slipped in his house 0:23:18.400 --> 0:23:20.560 and he are eruptured in his achilles, so he will 0:23:20.600 --> 0:23:24.160 be out for twelve months. Yeah, that sucks, that's very 0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:26.680 that's horrible. Es. Basically, to slip in your house, I'd rather, like, 0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:29.119 you know, slip on the court, like you want to 0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:30.720 get hurt in the line. Of duty. You know, you 0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:32.199 don't get hurt at all, You don't want get hurt 0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:33.080 at all, but if you do, you want to get 0:23:33.119 --> 0:23:34.479 hurt in the line of duties, just walking around your crib. 0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:36.399 Because now I'm sure people are questioning him, like, oh, 0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:38.240 how do we know he really fell in his heart 0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:41.639 that motorcycle? Was he really doing exactly? Was he doing 0:23:41.680 --> 0:23:43.040 something that where we don't have to pay him his 0:23:43.080 --> 0:23:45.640 money right even though I think he's guaranteed regards. Yeah, 0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:48.639 what else were talking about? Well, yesterday was Donald Trump's 0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:51.720 second State of the Union address, and it's also just 0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.520 weeks after the longest shutdown that we've had in the 0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:58.200 United States history, and we also have another funding laps 0:23:58.240 --> 0:23:59.600 coming up, so we don't know whether or not there's 0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:01.720 going to be an the shutdown anyway. In the midst 0:24:01.720 --> 0:24:03.200 of all that, Donald Trump had a State of the 0:24:03.280 --> 0:24:04.879 Union address, and here are some of the things that 0:24:04.960 --> 0:24:07.560 he said. He wants there to be unity within the government. 0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:12.520 We must choose between greatness or grid luck, results or resistance, 0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:20.000 vision or vengeance, incredible progress or pointless destruction. Tonight I 0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:25.560 ask you to choose greatness, all right. In addition to that, 0:24:25.840 --> 0:24:28.760 he of course had to push home his point about 0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:32.080 border security. In the past, most of the people in 0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:35.760 this room voted for a wall, but the proper wall 0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:40.800 never got built. I will get it built. Congress has 0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:44.359 ten days left to pass a bill that will fund 0:24:44.400 --> 0:24:48.720 our government, protect our homeland, and secure our very dangerous 0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:53.720 southern border. I have ordered another three thousand, seven hundred 0:24:53.760 --> 0:24:57.399 and fifty troops to our southern border to prepare for 0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:01.040 this tremendous onslaught. You know what I'd like to know 0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:04.280 about border security? What do they have now? Like? What's 0:25:04.320 --> 0:25:06.320 there now? Like what they do have security there? Now? 0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.400 It's not a wall yet, they have security though, Yeah, 0:25:09.480 --> 0:25:13.080 they have thousands of people at the borders all right now. 0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:15.639 He also had one point that everybody I think can 0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:18.480 agree on, and that was the point about women in Congress. 0:25:18.920 --> 0:25:25.520 And exactly one century after Congress passed the constitutional amendment 0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:30.920 giving women the right to vote, we also have more 0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:36.960 women serving in Congress than at any time before. Well, 0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.119 that's good news, right, But a lot of that is 0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:42.280 the reaction to Donald Trump being president. Um. Now, Van 0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:45.200 Jones had this to say about Donald Trump's speech. I 0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:49.240 saw this as a as a psychotically incoherent speech with 0:25:49.800 --> 0:25:52.920 cookies and dog poop. He tries to put together in 0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:58.119 the same speech these warm, kind things about humanitarianism and 0:25:58.240 --> 0:26:01.440 caring about children. At the same time he is demonizing 0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:07.040 uh people who are immigrants in a way that was pelo. Okay, Van, 0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:08.760 you keep that rhetoric up. There ain't gonna be no 0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.200 second step, all right. In fact, that first step you took, 0:26:11.200 --> 0:26:13.040 we're gonna tell you to take that one back. All right. 0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:16.440 All right, well that is your front page news. But 0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:18.200 by the way, I thought trump speech was solid. I 0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:19.760 don't believe the word he says, but I thought it 0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:21.440 was solid. I was never wrote it. Oh yeah, I 0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:23.360 wasn't expecting much, and I mean he had extra time 0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:25.000 to prepare because you know, he had the whole government 0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:28.200 shutdown and whatnot. But I thought it was cool. Wasn't 0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:32.800 as entertaining as I would have actually liked. To be honest, Trump, 0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:35.159 I think he's one of the best to end up 0:26:35.160 --> 0:26:36.960 comics in the world today. I didn't really you know, 0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:40.600 he laughed, We didn't chuckle. Super Bowl was better. I 0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:42.480 didn't watch the Super Bowl. I don't know that. My 0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:45.560 daughter sheilean competition. All right, all right, Well, when we 0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:49.040 come back off of Pastor Davone Franklin will be joining us. 0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:51.760 Franklin shout out to divine Franklin. Man. I was with 0:26:51.880 --> 0:26:54.560 him last night, A year with him today, right, Oh yes, 0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:56.280 I gotta fly to Chicago for the day and we're 0:26:56.320 --> 0:26:58.399 doing an event. Don't ask me anything else because I 0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:01.520 don't know. I don't. I just know I'm in Chicago 0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:03.480 for the day. I'm coming an event with Dvan Franklin 0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:06.760 mental health and you know, growing as a man, stuff 0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:08.399 like that. All right, well, we'll kick it with him 0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:10.160 when we come back, so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. 0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:13.840 Good morning morn and everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, 0:27:13.960 --> 0:27:16.000 Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got 0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:18.720 a special guest in the building, My man, Devon Franklin 0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:21.240 is here. Good morning, yo man, Good morning, good morning. 0:27:21.240 --> 0:27:22.760 How are you feeling. He's got a new book called 0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:25.600 The Truth About Men, What Men and Women need to Know. 0:27:26.080 --> 0:27:28.159 Can I read some of these chapter g before we started? 0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:31.639 Oh my gosh, here we got our men really dogs 0:27:31.840 --> 0:27:34.520 Chapter one, Beware of the Dog, Chapter two, Except the dog, 0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:37.160 Chapter three, Master the Dog, Chapter four, Don't feed the Dog. 0:27:37.359 --> 0:27:41.400 Chapter five, claiming Territory, Chapter six, Discipline the Dog, Safe 0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:44.160 Space Chapter eight, Repair the Damage. What are you saying 0:27:44.200 --> 0:27:47.760 about the brothers divon? What are you saying about us? Man? 0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:49.560 I'm saying that we got to do our work. What 0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:51.800 I'm saying is that every man struggles. And so when 0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:53.280 you look at this, of course, I'm not calling men 0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:55.520 dogs at all. You know, I put in the introduction 0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:58.000 men are not dogs, but we can behave like one 0:27:58.400 --> 0:28:00.480 when we allow the dog in us. And I believe 0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:02.280 that every man has a dog. And that's an analogy. 0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:05.160 It's a metaphor for lust, and that's a selfish impulse 0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:09.400 for professional sexual, financial gain by any means necessary, even 0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.679 if those means are detrimental. So when you read all 0:28:11.720 --> 0:28:14.080 those chapters, I use this analogy that if we as 0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:16.560 men can master the dog, which means putting love and 0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:20.480 control of lust. Love is sacrificial, meaning love of self, 0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:22.400 love of God, love of the woman in our life. 0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:25.840 Lust is selfish, It demands to be fed whenever it 0:28:25.920 --> 0:28:28.040 starts to quote unquote bark. But when we as men 0:28:28.160 --> 0:28:31.840 put love and control of lust, selflessness and control of selfishness, 0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:34.239 then we begin to learn how to master this thing 0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.200 that all men have that you cannot eradicate, but you 0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.160 can master it. So all those chapter titles are just 0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:44.160 steps on how to do it. You basically, let me 0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:51.560 tell y'all something you do, let me tell you both something? Yeah, absolutely, right, Okay, 0:28:54.480 --> 0:29:01.000 trying to tell right right. I feel like, you know, 0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:03.120 I've heard Minister Frackon say that you have to turn 0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:05.480 the dog around. You have to be where God where 0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.040 divine beings. Yeah, you know, so you have to turn 0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:12.040 that dog around were God's Yes, well it's it's true. 0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:15.880 But so often, as men, we become so accustomed to 0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:19.520 the ways of the dog in our life, you know, selflessness, 0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:22.240 putting our own needs above everyone else, that it becomes 0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:25.360 hard to be aware that instead of God controlling our lives, 0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:27.840 it's the dog controlling our life. So the beginning part 0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:30.080 is awareness. Hey, I gotta look in the mirror and say, 0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:32.040 you know what, I gotta be better, yes, and I 0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:33.920 gotta do better. And I got to become more accountable 0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:35.680 and responsible for my behavior as a man. You even 0:29:35.720 --> 0:29:37.640 talk about writing this book, right, what even made you 0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:39.600 do this? Maria Schreiber, You said you had an interview 0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.720 when she said you need to write a book about this, 0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:43.720 but it was a lot for you to have to 0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:47.320 be introspective about issues that you've had within yourself. Yeah, 0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:49.200 you know. I mean I didn't want to write this book, 0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:51.080 you know, because I believe as men, we don't like 0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:52.760 to look in the mirror, and I don't like to 0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:54.600 look in the mirror. And I didn't have to write 0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.320 this book. It required me to be transparent, and I 0:29:57.400 --> 0:29:59.560 can't encourage everybody else to be transparent if I'm not 0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:02.800 going to be parent. So, Maria Shriver, you prompted me 0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.120 because I had pitched her what this idea was. She said, 0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.280 you need to do it now, But the idea was 0:30:07.320 --> 0:30:09.200 already there. And one of the reasons why I wanted 0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:12.200 to write this book is because of pain. And I believe, 0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:14.520 as men, we inflict so much pain on the lives 0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:17.320 of women, and women are in so much pain relative 0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:20.040 to our behavior. And one of the things that was 0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:22.840 very personal to me was my father. My father died 0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:24.640 when I was nine years old of a heart attack 0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:27.120 when he was thirty six, at thirty six years old, 0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:29.840 and so, you know, we grew up he was an alcoholic, 0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:31.880 but it wasn't until my teenage years where I found 0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:35.080 a picture of him, my mother and a female family 0:30:35.120 --> 0:30:38.600 member sitting on a bed, and my mother was looking distraught, 0:30:38.920 --> 0:30:41.320 but my father and that female family member were looking 0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:43.800 very happy. And I said, what's going on here? Why 0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:46.440 is my mother in so much pain? Come to find out, 0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:49.560 my father and that female family member had an affair. 0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:52.200 And so I began to say, well, wait a minute. 0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:56.040 If my father, you know, had an affair with someone 0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:58.160 else in my family and cause that kind of pain 0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:00.720 to my mother, what does that say about me? And 0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:03.000 I began to ask the question can men be faithful? 0:31:03.440 --> 0:31:05.000 Can we? And when I would ask the women in 0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:07.680 my family, they would say, of all men cheap And 0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:10.719 so as a kid, I'm like, is this true? I said, well, 0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:12.360 what do I have to do to become the one percent? 0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:15.200 And what I began to realize, it's part of becoming 0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:18.680 the one percent, was acknowledging that Yo, I'm part of 0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:20.959 the problem too. If I don't do my work, if 0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:23.520 I don't recognize I have this thing in me that 0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:25.520 wants what it wants whatever it wants it, If I 0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:28.720 don't learn to master that, I then no matter how, 0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:30.400 no matter how much I love my wife and I 0:31:30.520 --> 0:31:33.280 love her too, death all right, and I am completely faithful. 0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:35.200 But if I think that I don't have to do 0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.560 my work one day, I will do something that will 0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:40.040 cause the same pain that my mother had in my 0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:42.080 wife's lives. If I don't do my work. You have 0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:44.240 no idea how much you preach it to the choiry. Now, 0:31:44.360 --> 0:31:46.880 like I've been with my woman for twenty years, I've 0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:49.560 been We've both done dirt over the past twenty years. 0:31:49.560 --> 0:31:52.800 But I've been completely faithful since like twenty sixty. And 0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:56.160 I made that choice for that exact same reason, because 0:31:56.160 --> 0:31:57.880 I was, like, I do not want to cause my 0:31:58.120 --> 0:32:01.200 family the same pain that my father called my mom 0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:03.080 and our family. There it is, man, there it is, 0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:05.040 and and so much of us as men, you know, 0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:08.360 our struggle is so much directly related to our fathers. 0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:11.000 And a lot of us, especially in communities of color, 0:32:11.040 --> 0:32:13.080 were raised without fathers, or the fathers that we had 0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:15.000 may not have been everything we want, and so a 0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:16.640 lot of times, you know, especially I know for me, 0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:18.760 you know, I grew up with a lot of brokenness 0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.040 because society says this is what this is what men 0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:23.440 are supposed to be. You're supposed to be strong, you're 0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:25.680 supposed to be tough. You're not supposed to cry, and 0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:28.600 supposed to get a lot of vagina, right, But and 0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.840 if you don't do any of those things, most of 0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:32.880 the time growing up we're met with violence. So what 0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:36.640 do we learn? Do not talk, don't communicate, suppress, But 0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:40.200 anything we suppress we empower to destroy us. That's why 0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:43.280 this lusk can get so strong because we're not talking 0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:45.320 about it, We're not being honest about it. And what 0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:47.600 does it do. It finds it a way to come 0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:50.000 out in the most detrimental and usually destructive ways. And 0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:51.600 a lot of times women are on the receiving end 0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.200 of this, and a lot of times women are programmed 0:32:53.200 --> 0:32:55.280 to think, well, I have to deal with this type 0:32:55.280 --> 0:32:59.200 of behavior from my man, because like you said, and 0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:01.479 women really to leave that. So they're like, well, at 0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:03.440 least he treats me good in every other way. We 0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:08.720 are getting this number? Well, he said, he asked women 0:33:10.480 --> 0:33:12.560 women in their heads. If you ask women, they think 0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:14.920 on men cheat, Yeah, And so like we've had this 0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:17.400 discussion many times on live services, women like, well, men 0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:20.120 always cheat anyway, I don't know any man who doesn't cheat. 0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:22.240 So it kind of makes it normalize that type of 0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:24.800 behavior where that's just what it is well well, And 0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:26.080 that's one of the reasons why I wanted to write 0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:28.160 the book, because the book is not just for men. 0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:31.240 It's for women too, because women are dealing with something 0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:34.080 and dealing with someone they do not understand. And so 0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:37.400 if you don't understand something, your odds of becoming successful 0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:39.480 with it are very, very low. So I wrote this 0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:41.880 book to illuminate truth about men so women can get it. 0:33:42.000 --> 0:33:45.040 But when a woman makes the decision that I will 0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:48.360 live less than what I believe i'm worth just to 0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:50.680 be with a man and accept him however he is, 0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:52.640 I believe that one of the reasons I wrote this 0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:54.120 book is for women to read it and say, you 0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.320 know what, I'm gonna stop today. I'm gonna be I'm 0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:59.000 gonna challenge him on his behavior even if he leaves 0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:01.720 me guess what he's gonna leave anyway, because today begins 0:34:01.760 --> 0:34:04.240 a day of respect and a day of love. And 0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:06.680 I'm not just going to be a doormat for a 0:34:06.760 --> 0:34:08.839 man's ways. And when I talk about in the book, 0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:11.800 men need women to master this dog. We need you 0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:13.480 talk about you've been with your one for twenty years, 0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:15.680 I guarantee you or I would not be the men 0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:17.120 that we are if we didn't have the love of 0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:19.239 a woman in our life. But that's a love of 0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:21.839 a woman that we allow into our process. I think 0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:24.839 sometimes women think they can master the man's dog form. 0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.319 You can't do that, But the love of a woman 0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:30.319 can help. But it starts with respect. And as men, 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:33.960 when the woman in our life doesn't respect us, she 0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:36.040 allows us just to do whatever we want. And even 0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:38.160 though men don't like to be told what to do, 0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:40.440 we do need to be held accountable. All right. We 0:34:40.560 --> 0:34:43.640 have more author and pastor Devon Franklin. When we come back, 0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:46.520 don't move. It's to breakfast club. Go morning, Jay Envy 0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:49.719 Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. 0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:52.879 We have author and pastor Devone Franklin in the building. Yee. 0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.000 For some people, I will say this, they feel like 0:34:55.360 --> 0:34:57.399 in a relationship you have to go through so many 0:34:57.480 --> 0:34:59.360 things to get to that point. Like you have to 0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:02.440 go through if you've been together for a while, the lying, 0:35:02.560 --> 0:35:05.040 they're cheating, they're breaking up, they're getting back together for 0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.239 your relationship to be strong. How do you know when 0:35:07.280 --> 0:35:09.600 it's time to say okay, it's time to walk away, 0:35:09.640 --> 0:35:12.359 this isn't working, or it's time for us to work 0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:14.960 on each other, because this can be rectified. You know, 0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:17.800 I get this question a lot, and I wish that 0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:22.160 the process with men was less messy. You know, a 0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:23.880 lot of it has to do with our brokenness and 0:35:23.880 --> 0:35:25.440 a lot of it has to do with how we're raised. 0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:28.480 So what you're are articulating is a truth of many 0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:31.160 relationships that there's a lot of mess before you can 0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:33.759 get to a place where everything is good. What I 0:35:33.840 --> 0:35:36.799 will say is that sometimes the only thing a man 0:35:36.920 --> 0:35:38.920 will understand, and this dog and a man will understand 0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:41.840 is pain and the pain of the absence of the 0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:45.719 woman that he loves. And sometimes that work gott to 0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:49.560 walk away, you know what I'm saying. Sometimes women stay 0:35:49.560 --> 0:35:52.480 too close and you gotta step away. And let me 0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:55.800 tell you, the man who really has the master and 0:35:55.880 --> 0:35:58.080 is in touch with the master in themselves, when the 0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:01.880 woman they love steps away, it's a catalyst for change. 0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:03.719 And so that absence, and this is one of the 0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:05.360 things a lot of times in my experience, women come 0:36:05.400 --> 0:36:06.719 to me for counseling. They don't want to do this, 0:36:07.120 --> 0:36:09.319 They don't want to take a step away and I say, listen, 0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:12.120 I know you love him, right, but sometimes the best 0:36:12.160 --> 0:36:14.200 way to love him is from afar. I love you 0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:16.480 so much that I can't stay here and be treated 0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:18.759 less than I know I'm worth. Now, you say in 0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:20.439 the book, I've been in the church my whole life, 0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:21.880 and I can say that no one, and I mean 0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.520 no one teaches men how to deal with our urges. 0:36:24.640 --> 0:36:26.360 It's kind of mind blowing. We can talk about the 0:36:26.400 --> 0:36:28.200 fruits of the spirit, how to pray, how to preach, 0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:30.440 and how to sing praises, but rarely do we get 0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.680 real talk about how to deal with the dog. Yeah. Yeah. 0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:36.440 When I confronted my father for cheating back in the day, 0:36:37.239 --> 0:36:38.920 and you know, my father said, my father looked at 0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:41.120 me dead. My eye goes you only got one girlfriend? 0:36:41.640 --> 0:36:44.560 He said, no way, he said, one day you gonna understand. Wow. 0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:47.200 So in my mind he played, he started making me 0:36:47.239 --> 0:36:49.239 feel like something was wrong with me, Yeah, because I 0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:52.320 only had one girl. Yeah, And then and just expand 0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:54.880 on that. Then you also talk about your own transparency, 0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:56.640 and you said, after I marry Megan, I caught myself 0:36:56.719 --> 0:36:58.960 looking at another woman. It was very casual, and I 0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.680 almost did it without things. Then I caught myself and thought, 0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:03.919 what are you doing. I had no desire for this woman. 0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:05.800 I was not interested in her in the least, but 0:37:05.960 --> 0:37:13.600 I found myself checking her out almost instinctively. Let's talk 0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:17.759 about let's talk this is really important. So the first part, 0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:20.200 you know, I was raising the church. In the church, 0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:22.960 a lot of times there's a culture of suppression because 0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:27.720 we don't talk about. Okay, everybody gets horny, everybody has urges. 0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:30.400 How do you deal with that? No matter how holy, 0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:32.120 no matter how safe saft, if I feel the Holy 0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:34.520 he goes any of us may be, it doesn't stop 0:37:34.760 --> 0:37:36.960 what happens in our flesh. So in the church a 0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:38.560 lot of times it's just like, don't talk about it. 0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:40.719 But anything we don't talk about it's gonna grow. So 0:37:40.800 --> 0:37:42.920 I wanted to say, listen, let's take the veil. Let's 0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:45.560 start speaking this truth. And so the whole point about Megan, 0:37:45.760 --> 0:37:47.600 you know, which blew me away. It's like, hey, I thought, 0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:49.879 oh I'm getting married. It's gonna put the dog to sleep. 0:37:50.000 --> 0:37:52.160 For a couple months, I was good, but then all 0:37:52.200 --> 0:37:53.560 of a sudden, I talk about that in the book, 0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:55.360 you know, I started looking at this other woman. I'm like, 0:37:55.719 --> 0:37:57.840 what's wrong with me? I don't want to be being 0:37:57.920 --> 0:37:59.839 unfaithful to my wife. So I first had to get 0:37:59.840 --> 0:38:01.879 to the place where I was like, yo, I got 0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:03.879 this thing in me. I wish I didn't have this dog. 0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:07.080 It's here. Now what am I going to do about it? Now? 0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.239 Once I acknowledge, I can actually begin the process of 0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:11.920 mastery so that when a thought or feeling comes on me, 0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:13.960 I don't you know, get crazy, I'm like, okay, cool, 0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:16.759 it's there, but I'm not going to let that thought grow. 0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:19.439 The guilt of it, like knowing you did something wrong, 0:38:19.520 --> 0:38:21.279 you bring that energy into the house and then you 0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:23.440 start looking at her side with it's like what is 0:38:23.520 --> 0:38:27.520 she doing? Rush? It's us? Yeah, yeah, no, that that guilt. 0:38:27.680 --> 0:38:29.920 But but this is but I think you know, Charlottagne, 0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:33.320 you're you're at a point where you are focused on mastery, 0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:36.480 and a lot of men yet aren't there. And that's 0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:38.319 why I wanted to write this book to say, hey, 0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:40.200 you know what we have to become to it. We 0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:42.319 have to get to a place where that guilt bothers us. 0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:45.480 So first of all, it's having enough awareness where you 0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:48.440 begin to say, hey, if somebody was doing this to 0:38:48.600 --> 0:38:51.200 my mother, or my sister or my daughter, would I 0:38:51.280 --> 0:38:53.400 accept it as a man. And if the answer is no, 0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:56.799 then as men, we should not perpetuate that same pain 0:38:56.960 --> 0:39:00.640 on someone else's sister, mother, or daughter, right because that 0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:03.759 guilt is so powerful When we love somebody and we've 0:39:03.800 --> 0:39:06.040 seen that hurt in their eyes, we never want to 0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:08.680 see it again, and that guilt can be convicting. Oh you, 0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:11.319 when you started doing your work, you know, was gonna 0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:13.880 wait until marriage for sex didn't when I got in 0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:16.440 senior year in high school, and I pretty much was 0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:19.120 not celibate for about four or five years, you know, 0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:20.879 while I was in college, and then coming out of college, 0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:23.680 I decided to be celibate. But even though I was celibate, 0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.719 I still wasn't a good dater. And I really didn't 0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:29.400 start doing my work probably until my late twenties when 0:39:29.440 --> 0:39:32.160 I had this vision, you know, it was literally like 0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:34.280 this vision from God where I was at the altar 0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:36.520 of my wedding and the minister said, looked behind you, 0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:38.960 And when I looked behind me down the aisle where 0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:41.920 all the women I had dated, but they were all 0:39:41.960 --> 0:39:44.839 cut open and their bodies were littered down the aisle, 0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:48.799 and God said, do you think it was worth all 0:39:48.880 --> 0:39:51.560 of their hearts to get here? And that vision my 0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:56.359 late twenties. It startled me so much. I said, I've 0:39:56.400 --> 0:39:58.280 got to do it. I've got to put more intention 0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:00.600 in my dating. If I'm not serious, it's about her, 0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.120 I've got to tell her. What's interesting is this is 0:40:03.239 --> 0:40:07.160 the celibacy, right you said, actually helped you flourish your career, 0:40:07.560 --> 0:40:10.960 absolutely because you're focused and discipline. If a man can 0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:13.840 get disciplined in this area of sex, there is nothing 0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:15.920 the man cannot do. Now, I want to ask you 0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:19.160 about pornography, because you address this in the book, and um, 0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:22.600 you feel that pornography is harmful to relationships, and some 0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:25.200 people clearly do get addicted to porn and that's harmful. 0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:28.919 But do you think that casually watching porn man listen 0:40:28.960 --> 0:40:31.040 shouldn't be done. I don't think it should be done 0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:32.600 because in the book, I have a whole thing about 0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:35.719 the one you feed, and so within us you have 0:40:35.800 --> 0:40:38.560 to feed the master of the dog. I call vice 0:40:38.960 --> 0:40:41.680 dog food. I call virtue soul food. And I would 0:40:41.719 --> 0:40:44.960 put porn in the category of dog food because that's 0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:48.000 what it is. It's vice. And also I have this fascinating. Uh. 0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:50.279 You know, research that I came across about Japan and 0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:53.880 Japan they the pornography problem is so extreme in Japan 0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:57.920 that when they bring men and women, young men and 0:40:58.000 --> 0:41:00.320 women together in a social setting, they don't even engage 0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:01.920 one of those. So as a result, the birth rate 0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:06.320 is declining because they are so fixated on these fantasy 0:41:06.400 --> 0:41:10.280 worlds that that's how they are becoming accustomed to realistic 0:41:10.400 --> 0:41:12.680 dolls and everything. Yeah, so I do believe that that 0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.879 porn is dangerous. I do believe that even a casual Yeah, 0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:17.480 it's like, yeah, you eat, you eat bad food. Oh, 0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:19.239 you know, well once in a while. No, I think 0:41:19.280 --> 0:41:21.279 that it can be a slippery slope. And the reality is, 0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:24.239 of course everybody deals with that differently. But I would 0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:25.680 say as a rule, that's why I put in the 0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:27.560 book that is something to be really looked at and 0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.440 to be managed so that you don't get into a 0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.560 situation where it manages you. So you can manage it, 0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.400 you just can't overdo it, like is it because I 0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:36.319 think some people learn a lot of tricks from porn. 0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:38.920 But here's the thing, but this is also where the 0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:41.600 dog dog runs wild, because you do you look at 0:41:41.719 --> 0:41:48.400 something that is not real. Big penises not real. You 0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:50.120 can't do it. So a lot of times you see 0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:51.799 these images and you think, oh, I'll learned some tricks. 0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:53.960 But what it does is it creates an unrealistic expectation 0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.520 of what intimacy really looks like, and that can be destructive, 0:41:57.920 --> 0:41:59.880 especially when you're trying to practice that intimacy with the 0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:06.240 Now I was a sex has a sex that's happening. 0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:09.440 What about masturbation? Can you talk about talk about that 0:42:09.520 --> 0:42:11.160 as well? I talk about that as well. It's something 0:42:11.160 --> 0:42:12.880 you got it you really got to look at. Because 0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:16.480 again I put that in the category of feeding the dog, right, 0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:18.880 and anytime the dog is well fed and makes it 0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:21.080 harder for the master and a man to be strong enough. 0:42:21.080 --> 0:42:26.880 That masturvation was healthy. Listen, I'm not as tranquilizing, okay 0:42:27.360 --> 0:42:30.799 when at the time psychologist, but that's why I put 0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:34.280 manage it. You know, everybody has to wrestle with that thing. Everybody. 0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:40.400 I wrestle with it, definitely. I'm not saying that my 0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:44.919 wife man with me. I wrestle with it. Transparency, truth, 0:42:44.960 --> 0:42:48.399 I love it really wins that match. We don't want 0:42:48.440 --> 0:42:51.799 to know, Angela. We don't want to know the truth 0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:53.920 about men. Go get this book, man. I think it's 0:42:54.040 --> 0:42:57.239 very important for us brothers to do the work. Thank you, 0:42:57.520 --> 0:42:59.439 my brother, my man. I take you to d von 0:42:59.520 --> 0:43:01.800 Frankly for joining us. Non move. We got rumors on 0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:04.680 the way. It's the breakfast club. Go morning all right, morning, 0:43:04.719 --> 0:43:08.320 everybody is stej mv Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy. We 0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:10.719 are the breakfast club. Yes, indeed, now shout to the 0:43:10.800 --> 0:43:13.480 Vaughn Franklin for joining us this morning. Yes, yes, I'm 0:43:13.520 --> 0:43:15.200 sure he pissed off a lot of guys this morning. 0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:17.200 They ride and they call with their ladies like, all 0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:18.879 men ain't dogs. I don't know what you're talking about. 0:43:19.040 --> 0:43:21.160 He's not saying the men are dogs. He just uses 0:43:21.239 --> 0:43:24.560 the metaphor of how a dog trainer trains dogs for 0:43:24.640 --> 0:43:27.120 you to train yourself. Yeah, we all have that nature. 0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:29.279 You can either submit to your higher nature, which is 0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:31.200 the God, and you will submit to your lord nature, 0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:32.759 which is the devil, and you a dog and you 0:43:32.840 --> 0:43:34.520 whatever you want to call it. What do you mean training? 0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:36.400 I missed it because I was in Atlanta. What do 0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:39.200 you mean when he said, basically, you know, all us trash, 0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:42.000 all us trash ass dudes. Trash ass dude, we used 0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:43.719 to be. We gotta train ourselves not to be that. 0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:47.320 That's all right. Basically mastered the dog within you. So, 0:43:47.520 --> 0:43:50.320 in other words, instead of operating on lust and desire, 0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.960 operate from a higher place. Wild talking about not masturbating. 0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:57.560 But he said he masterbated, Yeah, he said, he said 0:43:58.600 --> 0:44:01.040 wild because you know, when you out of town, you 0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:02.600 ain't got your move with you. That's the only way 0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:04.399 to train. You gotta trank a lot of the dog. 0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:07.120 You know what I'm saying. You got you gotta trank 0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:10.040 a lot of that dog. Man. Well, everybody's circumstances different, 0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:14.759 and so that's everybody's circumstances different. No, what circumstance, Oh, 0:44:15.040 --> 0:44:16.880 it's different. You know what, Why why do you think 0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.879 masturbation was wrong? You gotta read the book. Read the book. 0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:24.000 He just talked about a slippery slope. That's funny. That's funny, 0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:28.440 love a slippery slope. All right. Well, and I did 0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:31.160 have Divine Franklin doing my book club yesterday, so that 0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:33.720 was dope. A lot of people have some great questions today. 0:44:33.719 --> 0:44:36.399 I'm doing Angie Thomas is on the Come Up book. 0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:38.400 I've been reading a lot of books lately, and she 0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:41.040 wrote that Hate You Give, which got adapted into a movie, 0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:43.200 and they did just announce that her book on the 0:44:43.280 --> 0:44:45.520 Come Up is actually going to be a movie as well. 0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:50.160 So congratulations to her next. So I'll be with her tonight, 0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:52.279 and I think there's still a few tickets available if 0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:54.560 anybody wants to come to that. All right, Well we 0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:56.520 got from well we have the Rules coming up next. 0:44:56.760 --> 0:44:58.640 Oh man, Yes, we are going to be talking about 0:44:58.760 --> 0:45:00.840 um well, I was gonna talk about that. But a 0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:03.600 TV show that you guys love that they cancel, but 0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:05.719 there is a finale that's a movie, and we have 0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:07.920 that trailer for you. Okay, we'll get into that next. 0:45:08.000 --> 0:45:11.840 Keeping locked it the Breakfast Club, Good morning wanted. Everybody 0:45:12.000 --> 0:45:15.440 is dj mv Angela, Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are 0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:17.279 the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the rumors. Just talk 0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:27.919 Liam Neeson. Listen, just oh reports reports club. But there's 0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:30.120 a lot of backlash for Liam Needson right now. He 0:45:30.200 --> 0:45:32.920 got Donkey of the Day yesterday. In addition to that, 0:45:33.080 --> 0:45:36.320 he has all red carpet interviews canceled for his movie 0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:39.120 co Pursuit that he's been promoting none of the cast 0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:41.440 is going to actually be doing any red carpet interviews 0:45:41.520 --> 0:45:43.719 for that movie. And that's a decision that was made 0:45:43.760 --> 0:45:46.040 by the film studio, which is Lion's Gate. Why the 0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:48.640 whole cast got to suffer because Liam Neeson stupid. I 0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:50.279 don't know. I guess they feel like this story is 0:45:50.320 --> 0:45:53.080 just too big. It's kind of overshadowing the actual movie. Now, 0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:58.640 now the original co pursuit the original. What he said 0:45:58.640 --> 0:46:01.480 originally was this, she told me she had been raped, 0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:04.920 but she handled the situation of the rape. I asked, 0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.640 did you know who? I wasn't known what color they? 0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:11.839 She shut it was a black person. I have an 0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:16.960 open tourne areas with a cash, hoping i'd be approached 0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:20.279 by someone. I'm ashamed to say that. I did it 0:46:20.400 --> 0:46:24.960 for maybe a week, hoping some black bastard would come 0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:26.800 out of a pub and have a call at me 0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:30.239 about something, you know, so I could kill him. Who 0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:33.759 That's awful. And then yesterday we played this cup and 0:46:33.840 --> 0:46:36.280 yesterday was also what would have been Trayvon Martin's birthday, 0:46:36.800 --> 0:46:39.439 and that's yeah, that's what sucked about it. Treyvonn would 0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:41.560 have been twenty four yesterday and Trayvonne was killed by 0:46:41.600 --> 0:46:44.200 a fat Bathard named George Demman who was looking at 0:46:44.200 --> 0:46:46.080 all black men the way Liam was. He was looking 0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:47.600 at all black men one way, and he wanted to 0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.240 murder a black man, and that could have been God forbid, 0:46:50.360 --> 0:46:52.759 something would happen. He would have came across a black man, 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:54.840 he would have ended up killing him. But according to 0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:56.960 said what he had to say. Now, he's been trying 0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.319 to do what seems like damage control. Right. He went 0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:02.760 on Good Morning America and said this, I'm not racist. 0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:05.840 I just said in Irish or a scott or a 0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:08.600 brig or a Lithuanian, I would I know I would 0:47:08.600 --> 0:47:11.239 have fed the same effect. I was trying to show 0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:14.920 honor to my stand up from my dear friend and 0:47:15.040 --> 0:47:19.839 this terrible medieval fashion. Alright. He goes on to talk 0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:23.000 about what would have happened. Do you think he actually 0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:27.399 would have done a black man who had nothing to do? Yeah, 0:47:27.440 --> 0:47:30.319 I know that was my feeling that I did want 0:47:30.360 --> 0:47:33.120 to lie shut and I admit that. And it's a 0:47:33.280 --> 0:47:35.640 learning curve. But what are you hoping that people will 0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:39.560 learn from you making these statements to talk to open up, 0:47:39.760 --> 0:47:42.800 to talk about these things you know, we all pretend 0:47:42.920 --> 0:47:46.200 we're all kind of, you know, politically correct. I mean 0:47:46.680 --> 0:47:49.040 in this country. It's the same in my own country too. 0:47:49.120 --> 0:47:52.200 You sometimes just scratch the surface and you discovered this 0:47:53.000 --> 0:47:56.840 racism and that's fair. Yeah, I mean, I respect honesty. 0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:58.839 We all have to unlearn to be as we have learned. 0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:00.680 I just don't know if you can. I don't know 0:48:00.680 --> 0:48:04.320 if you can unlearn racism. I think that it is 0:48:04.360 --> 0:48:06.480 deep routed. But I think once you it's so many 0:48:06.520 --> 0:48:08.520 different things that you hear about somebody else, and then 0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:11.160 when you actually learn and speak to them, things can change. 0:48:11.760 --> 0:48:14.240 I think this ignited the whole discussion on Twitter because 0:48:14.400 --> 0:48:16.839 Terry Crew said, I believe that every person on earth 0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:19.919 is capable of the greatest good or unspeakable evil. Liam 0:48:20.080 --> 0:48:23.160 is just describing his fork in the road. Now people 0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:26.600 got upset. Why LEI was one person that said, na, na, Nope, 0:48:26.719 --> 0:48:29.479 Liam is trash. We're losing brothers all the time because 0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:34.319 of this proverbial fork, not fam And then Terry Crew said, 0:48:34.320 --> 0:48:35.680 what are we going to do? And while they said, 0:48:35.680 --> 0:48:38.120 I know what we're not gonna do, Terry, so there 0:48:38.160 --> 0:48:39.880 you go, what are we not going to do? Go 0:48:40.000 --> 0:48:42.960 out and kill black people that are innocent, Oh okay, 0:48:43.320 --> 0:48:47.080 and excuse and excuse people's behavior and the words that 0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:50.319 they say that could be harmful to innocent people. Yeah, 0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:52.880 but you know, when it comes to stereotyping, when it 0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:55.080 comes to the profile, and when it comes to the biases, 0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:57.000 when it comes to pre judging, a lot of us 0:48:57.040 --> 0:48:59.040 we have that mentality because of what we've been taught 0:48:59.080 --> 0:49:00.800 over the is and we've never had a conversation with 0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:02.400 the people that we feel this way about. So what 0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:04.319 if you have a conversation with the person and you're like, damn, 0:49:04.680 --> 0:49:08.600 I was seeing this group of people in the wrong way. 0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:12.600 Liam said he would deliberately go into black areas in 0:49:12.680 --> 0:49:14.560 the city looking to be set upon. He said it 0:49:14.640 --> 0:49:16.600 shocked him and it hurt him, and he did see 0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:18.359 how he went to go see a priest. So yeah, 0:49:18.440 --> 0:49:21.399 so there's no he can never change. Ever, I think 0:49:21.480 --> 0:49:24.680 I've not changed, you know, listen, we hope about him, 0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:26.640 but I think people could change change. But that was 0:49:26.719 --> 0:49:28.880 just an awful thing to say, especially because there's so 0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:30.719 many innocent black men that have nothing to do with 0:49:30.760 --> 0:49:33.839 anything that are getting killed. Oh no, I could put 0:49:33.920 --> 0:49:35.840 that energy out there that sounds crazy. I agree with 0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:38.960 that totally, right. I don't know. I don't know about racism, 0:49:39.040 --> 0:49:42.560 but people can grow in the ball. All right, let's 0:49:42.760 --> 0:49:45.239 switch gears a little bit and let's talk about Being 0:49:45.320 --> 0:49:48.279 Mary Jane. Now. I know you guys love that show. 0:49:48.360 --> 0:49:50.840 People were very upset when it was canceled. Well, BT 0:49:51.000 --> 0:49:52.640 has released a trailer because you know they're doing the 0:49:52.680 --> 0:50:07.439 finale as a movie. Oh like a baby it's time. 0:50:10.560 --> 0:50:13.439 You're excited to see the baby being married Jane movie. 0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:16.959 Nobody you never watch Being Mary Jane. I ever watched 0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:21.120 Mary You guys we're on it. Well, not really, but 0:50:21.560 --> 0:50:24.040 they mentioned us non drop on a clues bam for 0:50:24.080 --> 0:50:26.400 Being Mary Jane BT. I just I just never watched it. 0:50:26.480 --> 0:50:28.040 I know people enjoy it, but I never watched it. 0:50:28.640 --> 0:50:31.719 All right, Well, people are excited, FYI. I'm excited all 0:50:31.800 --> 0:50:33.840 right now? Cardie B? How much does it cost to 0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:36.240 be Cardi B? While she revealed it in a Twitter 0:50:36.400 --> 0:50:39.480 video that she spends about two hundred and fifty thousand 0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:42.600 and three hundred thousand dollars a month for her lifestyle 0:50:42.719 --> 0:50:44.359 check it out. No, what I hate? I hate when 0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:48.759 celebrities do something very extravagant by something very luxurious. There's 0:50:48.760 --> 0:50:51.120 people in the comments that you could have donated that 0:50:51.640 --> 0:50:53.840 all we going backwards, who could have done this and 0:50:53.920 --> 0:50:55.719 that with your money? And it's like, who are you 0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:57.480 go to tell people what to do with their hard 0:50:57.520 --> 0:50:59.719 work and ass money? First of all, do you know 0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:03.040 the irs? Out of every check that you make, they 0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:06.160 automatically take forty five percent of your check. Then, like 0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:08.640 an artist like me and a lot of rappers that 0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:11.280 I know, they literally take care of their whole family. 0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:14.839 On top of that, my bills is like I'll say 0:51:14.880 --> 0:51:17.879 about three hundred thousand, two hundred and fifty thousand every 0:51:17.920 --> 0:51:25.279 single months. Now I'm just giving you the information about 0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:26.960 how much she ends up having to spend on taking 0:51:27.000 --> 0:51:28.839 care of her family every single month. That's a lot 0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:31.719 of money and responsibility. You know what, though, it's a 0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:34.360 good idea sometimes to put your family on payroll because 0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:37.920 then it's more manageable. It is a write off, and 0:51:38.000 --> 0:51:40.480 if you're giving them money anywhere employee, then it's kind 0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:42.040 of like a steady check and they can't really ask 0:51:42.080 --> 0:51:44.200 you for They shouldn't ask you for more than that 0:51:44.200 --> 0:51:46.040 if you put them on payroll. Because I've worked places 0:51:46.080 --> 0:51:49.680 where people had their family members on payroll. So just 0:51:49.760 --> 0:51:52.640 a good idea that she's right between security, between traveling 0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:57.880 between nannies, between stylists, between employees, and between employees, between managers, 0:51:57.920 --> 0:52:00.719 spreading out a business between Yeah, she spends a lot 0:52:00.760 --> 0:52:02.520 of money, and I would say Cardy B Is probably 0:52:02.560 --> 0:52:05.040 one of the people that I know that tries to 0:52:05.200 --> 0:52:07.759 do things like she tries to fly regular all the time, 0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:09.680 and she gets noticed all the time. She tries not 0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:12.120 to do private. She tries, she said, but the baby, 0:52:12.160 --> 0:52:14.200 she does end up having to fly private a lot. Yeah, 0:52:15.440 --> 0:52:18.880 she posted about that. She said she has a publicist, stylist, 0:52:18.960 --> 0:52:21.719 makeup artist, security, baby said, a business management, she said, 0:52:21.719 --> 0:52:23.600 to have a baby. So it's a must to take 0:52:23.640 --> 0:52:25.560 a private jet when she moves. When I'm required to 0:52:25.600 --> 0:52:27.880 work in La Just on rent is about thirty thousand 0:52:27.920 --> 0:52:30.560 a month drivers, and that's not including rent and mortgage 0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:33.319 of homes in New York and Atlanta and investment properties. Yeah, 0:52:33.360 --> 0:52:35.200 don't get a twisted Cardy got a lot of investments. 0:52:35.239 --> 0:52:36.920 And I've been talking to her about her investments and 0:52:37.160 --> 0:52:38.680 we've been doing some things. But yeah, Cardy got a 0:52:38.719 --> 0:52:40.480 lot of investment. She knows, she's not stupid. At all. 0:52:41.440 --> 0:52:43.120 Don't tell me what to do with my goddamn money. 0:52:43.160 --> 0:52:45.359 There you go. Okay, this is my bread. All right, check. 0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:47.200 I'm the one that got to pay the taxes on 0:52:47.280 --> 0:52:49.560 this money. Right, Okay, this is mine. I'm gonna do 0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:51.839 what I want with it, period. All right. Well lim 0:52:51.880 --> 0:52:54.480 angela yee. And that is your rumor report. All right, 0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:59.799 thank you. I ain't got nothing, all right, shout alike, 0:53:00.080 --> 0:53:01.880 Yes here, given that, donkey, listen, man, let's have a 0:53:01.920 --> 0:53:05.480 conversation about the male fragile ego to males ego, A 0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:09.839 soul fragile and Calvin Wilkins fell victim to a fragile ego. 0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:11.879 All right, we'll talk about it four after that. We'll 0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:13.640 get to that next. Keep a locktic to breakfast club 0:53:13.680 --> 0:53:17.040 the morning the breakfast club, Your mornings will never be 0:53:17.239 --> 0:53:19.719 the same. You don't need to snow to have an 0:53:19.760 --> 0:53:22.400 adult snow day. Had to eBay this winter and make 0:53:22.440 --> 0:53:25.279 the most of your money shopping eBay deals with our 0:53:25.360 --> 0:53:28.840 best price guarantee plus free shipping on millions of items. 0:53:28.880 --> 0:53:31.320 If it's happening on your adult snow day, it's happening 0:53:31.440 --> 0:53:36.560 on eBay. I was born to donkey. It's the Donkey 0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:52.279 of the Death. Don't get day that Charlemagne Devil breakfast club. Yes, 0:53:52.440 --> 0:53:55.279 Donkey today for Wednesday, February six goals to thirty eight 0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:58.520 year old Calvin Wilkins of Medfifth, Tennessee. Now, Calvin was 0:53:58.640 --> 0:54:01.680 not with Captives past day because him and his compadres 0:54:01.680 --> 0:54:04.120 decided to have a super Bowl party. I can't lie. 0:54:04.440 --> 0:54:06.640 I enjoy a good super Bowl party food. It's super 0:54:06.680 --> 0:54:10.520 Bowl parties. It's very underrated. Okay, when we discuss great 0:54:10.680 --> 0:54:13.640 holiday eating, we don't really discuss super Bowl food. Maybe 0:54:13.680 --> 0:54:15.759 because we don't look at the super bowls. We don't 0:54:15.760 --> 0:54:18.040 look at super Bowl Sunday as an actual national holiday, 0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:20.480 but it is the unofficial holiday in America for some. 0:54:20.920 --> 0:54:25.440 In the combination of beef, a turkey, meatballs, chicken wings, nachos, 0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:28.120 man those made for some damn good super Bowl eats. Okay, 0:54:28.560 --> 0:54:31.120 my wife, My wife didn't make that this year because 0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:33.640 we were at my daughter's cheer leading competition this Sunday. 0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:36.160 But I really enjoy when she makes my favorite super 0:54:36.200 --> 0:54:38.520 Bowl foods. I love my wife's cooking in general. Okay, 0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:41.840 there's three people on this planet whose food tastes different 0:54:41.920 --> 0:54:44.880 simply because it's made with an ingredient you can't buy anywhere, 0:54:45.080 --> 0:54:48.680 and that ingredient is unconditional love. You only get that 0:54:48.960 --> 0:54:52.880 ingredient in your food from your wife, your mom, and 0:54:53.000 --> 0:54:55.759 your grandma, your big grandmother, your mama's mama. Okay, those 0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:57.440 three right there, I got a season and called love 0:54:57.640 --> 0:55:01.200 that is better than lours. All right, basil, reagano, salt, pepper, 0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:05.279 parsley bear, all those are great seasonings. But nothing beats 0:55:05.360 --> 0:55:08.080 that seasoning called unconditional love, which can only come from 0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:10.360 your wife, mom or your mom's mom. And now I 0:55:10.480 --> 0:55:12.600 want to ask the married men in the room a question. 0:55:12.680 --> 0:55:17.920 Who aren't here married me? Okay? And those out there 0:55:18.000 --> 0:55:20.440 listening feel free to talk back to the radio. Is 0:55:20.480 --> 0:55:22.560 there a patriarchy when it comes to how food is 0:55:22.600 --> 0:55:25.320 served in your crib? Meaning if your wife cooks? Okay, 0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:27.400 as a man, do you expect for your plate to 0:55:27.520 --> 0:55:29.319 get fixed first by your wife or do you make 0:55:29.360 --> 0:55:30.640 your own plate? How does it go down for you? 0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:34.480 In my house, it depends. Usually my wife decides who 0:55:34.520 --> 0:55:37.520 eats first. Usually if the kids are there, the kids 0:55:37.560 --> 0:55:39.319 are get their plate first because they need to eat first. 0:55:39.400 --> 0:55:41.359 All Sometimes it's me. It doesn't matter if we don't 0:55:41.360 --> 0:55:43.000 really care. We don't really stress it. As a man, 0:55:43.040 --> 0:55:45.200 you don't expect her to make your plate and give 0:55:45.200 --> 0:55:49.480 it feed you first, Eddie, what about you either or 0:55:49.520 --> 0:55:51.640 the other matter? Same here. I got three kids in 0:55:51.680 --> 0:55:53.160 the house, so I expect for their plates to be 0:55:53.239 --> 0:55:54.800 made first. Let the kids eat. I can fix my 0:55:54.880 --> 0:55:56.840 own plate, but I do prefer for my wife to 0:55:56.920 --> 0:55:58.719 make my plate only because when a woman fixes your 0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:01.000 plate is organized better. Okay, it's just to write amount 0:56:01.000 --> 0:56:03.080 of everything on the plate to plate is rashing out properly, 0:56:03.120 --> 0:56:05.040 with the proper portions of everything. That is true. I 0:56:05.120 --> 0:56:07.120 can't describe it. But when you have had your plate 0:56:07.160 --> 0:56:09.719 fixed by your mom, wife or grandma, your mama's mama, 0:56:09.760 --> 0:56:11.279 you know what I'm talking about. Now I want to 0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:13.399 ask them in the room another question. Yes, if your 0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:15.919 wife or girlfriend fix somebody else to play the food 0:56:16.000 --> 0:56:21.120 before you, would you feel away? Yes, you would feel 0:56:21.200 --> 0:56:24.279 if everyone wasn't my kids or my family man. Yeah, yes, 0:56:24.360 --> 0:56:26.640 it was just some dude that's in you fix Tony 0:56:26.719 --> 0:56:29.080 a plate before you. Yea, I might feel a little 0:56:29.080 --> 0:56:31.520 way hetty. Would you feel away? Yeah? If you was 0:56:31.560 --> 0:56:33.160 making your man a plate with you, if you if 0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:35.400 you was fixing food. Would you make sure your man 0:56:35.960 --> 0:56:38.640 got sirved first? I think in my head if I 0:56:38.680 --> 0:56:40.680 would answered that, I would, But I don't know what 0:56:40.800 --> 0:56:42.359 might happen in real life. I might going to get 0:56:42.400 --> 0:56:45.200 my mama plate first, or outside your mom I'm gonna say, 0:56:45.280 --> 0:56:48.000 just another guy? Was there another random guy? Where are 0:56:48.040 --> 0:56:52.160 we super Bowl party? Step brother? Let's just say a 0:56:52.200 --> 0:56:57.479 step brother. I don't know if I would think about 0:56:57.480 --> 0:56:59.080 it that all right, but I think my instinct would 0:56:59.080 --> 0:57:01.720 be to do his plate first. Okay, Well, Calvin Wilkins 0:57:02.080 --> 0:57:04.080 from Memphis, Tennessee. He did feel the way and he 0:57:04.160 --> 0:57:06.680 made an emotional decision. And what did you? Uncle? H'all 0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:09.680 always tell you kids move off strategy, not emotion, because 0:57:09.680 --> 0:57:12.040 when you move off from motion, things like this happened. 0:57:12.120 --> 0:57:14.080 Let's go to Fox thirteen Memphis for the report. Police. 0:57:14.200 --> 0:57:17.240 Thirty eight year old Calvin Wilkins was taken into custody. 0:57:17.600 --> 0:57:20.600 He was charged with the murder of his stepbrother, twenty 0:57:20.640 --> 0:57:23.800 eight year old Isaaca Powell. According to the arrest report, 0:57:23.880 --> 0:57:27.000 wilkins wife turned him in. She says Wilkins was having 0:57:27.040 --> 0:57:29.680 a Super Bowl party at the house in Whitehaven. She 0:57:29.800 --> 0:57:32.240 told police her husband got upset with her after she 0:57:32.360 --> 0:57:35.440 made someone else a plate of food. She says Wilkins 0:57:35.520 --> 0:57:40.200 became quote verbally abusive, so everyone but the two victims 0:57:40.640 --> 0:57:44.120 left the party. Wilkins wife told police she received voicemails 0:57:44.200 --> 0:57:47.480 from the two victims. A little after ten thirty Sunday nine. 0:57:47.880 --> 0:57:50.920 She says she heard her husband's voice, a victim begged 0:57:50.960 --> 0:57:55.240 for their life, and then gunshots. Wilkins is also charged 0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:58.440 with attempted murder after police say he shot Sierra Storn's 0:57:58.640 --> 0:58:02.040 multiple times. Her family tells me she's on life support 0:58:02.200 --> 0:58:07.680 and has no brain activity right now. What, Yes, Calvin 0:58:07.720 --> 0:58:11.520 Wilkins shot up to place because his wife fixed somebody 0:58:11.600 --> 0:58:15.720 else a plate before him. The male ego, the male 0:58:15.800 --> 0:58:17.640 ego is a fragile package, and I feel sorry for 0:58:17.680 --> 0:58:19.280 women who are in a relationship with men who have 0:58:19.560 --> 0:58:21.400 not done the work on themselves. To have a highest 0:58:21.400 --> 0:58:23.880 sense of self. Knowledge yourself is essential for survival and 0:58:23.960 --> 0:58:25.800 purpose on this planet. It gives you a sense of 0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:29.080 confidence that guys like Calvin Wilkins clearly lack. Okay, my brother, 0:58:29.160 --> 0:58:31.640 you are in jail right now. Charge the first degree murder, 0:58:31.800 --> 0:58:34.480 criminal attempt of first degree murder, employment of a firearm 0:58:34.600 --> 0:58:36.920 during a dangerous felony and being a convicted felon in 0:58:36.960 --> 0:58:39.840 possession of a handgun, all because your wife made another man, 0:58:40.240 --> 0:58:42.640 your step brother, a play of wings and some nachos. 0:58:42.960 --> 0:58:45.600 I'm telling you, male supremacy, the sense of entitlement that 0:58:45.720 --> 0:58:47.720 i'm that I'm the man, you're my woman, so I 0:58:47.800 --> 0:58:50.560 deserve to have this power over you. That's what caused 0:58:50.600 --> 0:58:52.600 Calvin to do this. Okay, brothers be front and like 0:58:52.640 --> 0:58:54.720 they're so strong, like they're so tough, Like we don't 0:58:54.720 --> 0:58:56.919 give a damn about a thing until a small change 0:58:56.960 --> 0:58:59.400 in our ecosystem happened. Something as simple as you're a 0:58:59.440 --> 0:59:04.080 woman fixing a plate for another man, your stepbrother. Okay, 0:59:04.320 --> 0:59:06.680 we'll set them off now. I'm no therapist. I'm just 0:59:06.760 --> 0:59:10.200 somebody who enjoys therapy and I'm observing the situation from afar. 0:59:10.600 --> 0:59:12.720 Calvin selfers from low self esteem. So when you have 0:59:12.760 --> 0:59:15.280 a fragile ego and fragile self esteem, when it comes 0:59:15.320 --> 0:59:17.200 to people you hold dear to you, like your woman, 0:59:17.440 --> 0:59:19.480 you can have a lot of mental insecurity. And when 0:59:19.520 --> 0:59:23.080 you have that mental insecurity, man, something as simple as 0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:24.920 your wife fixing the man another plate can cause you 0:59:25.000 --> 0:59:28.120 to make a very very very terrible emotional decision like 0:59:28.320 --> 0:59:30.800 Calvin did. Listen to my brothers, we all feel insecure 0:59:30.840 --> 0:59:32.840 at different times. Our self esteem can take a hit 0:59:32.880 --> 0:59:35.200 every now and then, especially when it comes to our ladies. 0:59:35.320 --> 0:59:38.640 But here's the thing. Just express yourself. Okay. Yeah, not 0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:40.680 not in the way Calvin did. Okay, Calvin could have 0:59:40.720 --> 0:59:42.840 tucked those emotions for the moment of pulled his wife 0:59:42.880 --> 0:59:44.560 to the side and simply say, yo, man, you hurt 0:59:44.600 --> 0:59:46.880 my feelings fixing their man's plate before mind. Okay, if 0:59:46.920 --> 0:59:49.120 she really loves you, she will understand. All right. It's 0:59:49.200 --> 0:59:51.000 very important that people know how to talk to their 0:59:51.040 --> 0:59:53.520 booze their babes. Okay, it's very useful to talk about 0:59:53.520 --> 0:59:56.120 your feelings, my brothers. Don't be afraid to express your 0:59:56.160 --> 0:59:58.480 feelings to your woman and double check your own feelings 0:59:58.720 --> 1:00:01.320 and share your emotions so you don't make the mistakes 1:00:01.400 --> 1:00:04.000 like Calvin did. Don't be a hard rock when you 1:00:04.080 --> 1:00:06.720 really are a gym baby boy, because being a hard 1:00:06.800 --> 1:00:08.920 rock with a fragile ego in the case of Calvin, 1:00:09.040 --> 1:00:10.840 will take you from being mad at your wife for 1:00:10.960 --> 1:00:13.240 not making you a plate, the possibly being in prison 1:00:13.640 --> 1:00:16.680 having someone eat off yours. Please give Calvin Wilkins the 1:00:16.720 --> 1:00:22.960 biggest all he should read Divine Franklin's book The Truth 1:00:23.040 --> 1:00:25.040 About Men and What Men and Women Need to Know. Well, 1:00:25.080 --> 1:00:27.800 I think we can send it to him a lot 1:00:27.840 --> 1:00:29.440 of time. I don't think that. I don't think he's 1:00:29.440 --> 1:00:31.520 gonna be in a relationship with a woman for a long, long, 1:00:31.600 --> 1:00:34.280 long long time. But he can learn to treat somebody 1:00:34.320 --> 1:00:37.680 in jail with the respect that they deserve. Now he'll 1:00:37.720 --> 1:00:39.680 be serving other people meals. Oh it's somebody gonna be 1:00:39.720 --> 1:00:41.440 eating off his plate. You ain't even gotta worry about that. 1:00:42.120 --> 1:00:44.160 He gonna be fixing some plates in jail. All right, 1:00:44.520 --> 1:00:47.560 all right, all right, thank you for that. Donkey to day. 1:00:47.920 --> 1:00:50.800 All right, up next ask ye eight hundred five eight 1:00:50.920 --> 1:00:53.200 five one on five one if you need relationship advice 1:00:53.280 --> 1:00:55.520 at any type of advice, call ye right now. Is 1:00:55.520 --> 1:01:03.920 to breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. Ej envy angela, yee, Charlomagne. Guy, 1:01:04.000 --> 1:01:06.760 we are the breakfast club at time for asking? He Hello, 1:01:06.840 --> 1:01:10.000 who's this big? Hey, Shanny? What's your question for ye? 1:01:10.920 --> 1:01:15.040 Should I take my baby daddy deck? Okay? Why are 1:01:15.080 --> 1:01:18.760 you not together? We're not together because he recently cheated 1:01:18.880 --> 1:01:22.880 on me a year ago and I was pregnant with 1:01:22.960 --> 1:01:27.560 our third child. He ended up having a possibility baby, 1:01:28.240 --> 1:01:30.680 So you don't know yet if that's his baby the 1:01:30.880 --> 1:01:33.360 next Yeah, we don't. Yeah, we don't know yet. And 1:01:33.760 --> 1:01:36.720 have you been in contact with this woman? She always 1:01:36.880 --> 1:01:39.960 contacted me to get a hold of him, and I'm like, 1:01:40.080 --> 1:01:44.200 I'm not, I'm not in y'all situation. She done. She 1:01:44.360 --> 1:01:46.600 tried to put a restraint in order on us. Just 1:01:46.800 --> 1:01:50.000 she's been doing like weird, Like I don't talk to her. 1:01:50.280 --> 1:01:51.600 I don't even know why she tried to put a 1:01:51.680 --> 1:01:54.280 restraint in order on us. We went to court, the 1:01:54.680 --> 1:01:57.000 justice looking at her like, bitches, you crazy. You need 1:01:57.080 --> 1:01:59.040 to He's like, you need to put a restraint on her, 1:01:59.080 --> 1:02:01.080 on us, on her, and I'm like, I don't do 1:02:01.200 --> 1:02:03.560 all that? All right? Sheannon said, let's back up for 1:02:03.600 --> 1:02:06.960 a second. So you and your baby father are together? No, 1:02:07.120 --> 1:02:10.320 we not together, But do you all live together? Yeah? 1:02:10.360 --> 1:02:13.280 We still live together, So you are kind of I mean, 1:02:14.200 --> 1:02:16.680 and you still love him? Yeah? I still love him. 1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:20.040 He's only i've been with We've been together for almost 1:02:20.120 --> 1:02:23.120 nine years. But now there's gonna be some messiness if 1:02:23.200 --> 1:02:26.440 this is indeed his baby. Now, let's as far as 1:02:26.480 --> 1:02:28.880 the other woman, right, you can't be mad at her. 1:02:28.920 --> 1:02:30.600 She's pregnant with a child on the way that that 1:02:30.720 --> 1:02:34.080 child is his, and he's not communicating already had the baby. 1:02:34.120 --> 1:02:36.600 Oh she had it. So there's been no opportunity tests 1:02:36.680 --> 1:02:40.080 or anything. Yeah, they just rankfully. She sent like some 1:02:40.200 --> 1:02:43.280 people to my house with these court orders and they 1:02:43.440 --> 1:02:45.880 just recently got a test done. The test should be 1:02:45.960 --> 1:02:48.560 back here in March. We'll find out in March. So 1:02:49.640 --> 1:02:51.880 part of what you want to do is is it 1:02:52.040 --> 1:02:54.200 depended also on whether or not this is his child. 1:02:54.880 --> 1:02:56.880 I just don't know if I should take him back 1:02:57.000 --> 1:03:00.080 perial like that. It's from her, I was pregnant and 1:03:00.240 --> 1:03:02.640 he went on did that. But the sad thing is, 1:03:02.720 --> 1:03:04.479 it's like, I know why he went on and cheated 1:03:04.520 --> 1:03:10.000 because I'm crazy. Baby. Listen, don't blame a man for 1:03:10.120 --> 1:03:13.320 cheating on you and not being honest. That's not your fault. Okay, 1:03:13.640 --> 1:03:15.360 he could have broken up with you and said it's 1:03:15.400 --> 1:03:18.560 not working. You can't excuse the fact that he's not 1:03:18.760 --> 1:03:21.360 your fault. Ever, you can't say I understand why he 1:03:21.400 --> 1:03:24.520 did it. He's wrong, Okay. True. So don't say, oh, 1:03:24.600 --> 1:03:26.920 I can understand why he cheated. Don't let him brainwash 1:03:26.960 --> 1:03:30.240 you that way. But oh no, it's a simple factor 1:03:30.520 --> 1:03:32.840 like I did from real crazy Like if he just 1:03:33.200 --> 1:03:36.680 worked out, I'll probably would have when cheated too. He 1:03:36.800 --> 1:03:40.200 didn't brainwash me or not. But Shannon, I'm gonna say, 1:03:40.240 --> 1:03:42.640 what did you do? I just gotta know. Oh, I 1:03:42.800 --> 1:03:47.000 stabbed him. Oh my god, this is a toxic relationship. 1:03:48.080 --> 1:03:51.520 This cheating, that's stabbing, this violence. Oh, you're doing anything 1:03:51.640 --> 1:03:53.120 like as far as the fact that you have kids 1:03:53.200 --> 1:03:56.960 to raise together with therapy, like family therapy, therapy with him. 1:03:57.400 --> 1:03:59.240 That's what his mom told us to do. But you're 1:03:59.280 --> 1:04:02.920 just not Shannon. That's what you have to say. That's 1:04:02.960 --> 1:04:04.840 what you have to do. Y'all got kids involved. You 1:04:04.920 --> 1:04:07.920 guys are violent, there's affairs, there's things going on, and 1:04:08.000 --> 1:04:09.480 you want to make sure in the future that these 1:04:09.520 --> 1:04:12.080 things don't happen and learn how to deal with your anger, right. 1:04:12.440 --> 1:04:14.480 And so the first step I would say for you, 1:04:14.680 --> 1:04:16.600 before you decide if you're taking him back or not, 1:04:17.320 --> 1:04:19.120 is for you to both go to therapy and find 1:04:19.200 --> 1:04:20.560 out what some of the issues that you have with 1:04:20.640 --> 1:04:22.360 each other and how to deal with those issues. Better 1:04:22.840 --> 1:04:25.480 work on that before you decide what decision you're going 1:04:25.520 --> 1:04:28.200 to make. But you have to do that, all right, right, 1:04:28.720 --> 1:04:32.120 for the sake of your children. Do that. You're so hard, 1:04:32.600 --> 1:04:35.560 I don't even know. Listen, the things that are beneficial 1:04:35.640 --> 1:04:38.680 to you are not always easy, right, and I promise 1:04:38.760 --> 1:04:41.280 you it's going to help you as a person, as 1:04:41.360 --> 1:04:44.360 a mom, as a potential wife. You have to heal 1:04:44.480 --> 1:04:47.360 that first. And whether or not you guys end up together, 1:04:47.440 --> 1:04:50.000 this would be great for you, all right, deep art 1:04:50.000 --> 1:04:52.560 you all right, So don't make any decisions now, but 1:04:52.920 --> 1:04:54.800 make the decision to go to therapy. That's the only 1:04:54.840 --> 1:04:58.680 one you need to make. Okay, all right, Shannon, please 1:04:58.760 --> 1:05:00.720 check back in and let me know what happens. We 1:05:00.840 --> 1:05:05.320 want to monitor your progress. Thank you. Okay, don't stab anyone. 1:05:07.240 --> 1:05:10.400 I'm done with that angry like I don't know when 1:05:10.440 --> 1:05:13.000 I get pregnant, I get angry like goodn't is gracious? 1:05:14.040 --> 1:05:17.920 All right, mama, geezh, all right, ask ye eight hundred 1:05:18.000 --> 1:05:19.560 five A five one O five one. If you need 1:05:19.600 --> 1:05:21.720 relationship advice, here e now was the breakfast club. Good 1:05:21.760 --> 1:05:26.440 morning morning, everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. 1:05:26.560 --> 1:05:28.600 We are the breakfast club. We are in the middle 1:05:28.640 --> 1:05:31.320 of asking ye, we have Trey on the line, trae, 1:05:31.360 --> 1:05:33.960 good morning, good morning. What's your question for you? Bro? 1:05:34.160 --> 1:05:37.560 So I'll go into the DNB and I see it bad. 1:05:37.840 --> 1:05:41.520 Don't come to the door, and I'm like, yo, hey, hey, 1:05:41.640 --> 1:05:44.720 what's up? That's good? So I get her number and 1:05:44.840 --> 1:05:48.680 then I checked and I called and fairly respond So 1:05:48.840 --> 1:05:51.280 I'm like, why are you giving your number if you 1:05:51.320 --> 1:05:53.720 aren't interrupt? Why are you approaching with the hey, hey, 1:05:53.960 --> 1:05:56.480 yo yo? Why are you approaching like that? Though? Bro? 1:05:56.800 --> 1:05:59.000 She responded with my head that was in my head. 1:05:59.520 --> 1:06:02.720 I was my life, she responded. At first, no, no, no, 1:06:02.760 --> 1:06:04.439 I didn't say that a live I'm just like Bram, 1:06:04.600 --> 1:06:06.720 like wow, look at this. So I posed a course 1:06:06.800 --> 1:06:09.000 like a gentleman and saying, hey, you know, hey, how 1:06:09.040 --> 1:06:12.520 are you doing? My name? You know, you know you 1:06:12.560 --> 1:06:15.480 have a boy from you know, the still and she 1:06:15.560 --> 1:06:18.320 gave me her number and I checked it. Maybe I 1:06:18.360 --> 1:06:22.000 don't know. A couple of days later called she responding 1:06:22.000 --> 1:06:23.920 every once in a while, and then she respond like 1:06:24.040 --> 1:06:27.040 maybe eight hours later, and then after a while just 1:06:27.200 --> 1:06:30.360 got like drop just like well trade maybe she mess 1:06:30.400 --> 1:06:33.400 somebody else or maybe she you know, it's just not 1:06:33.600 --> 1:06:36.560 that interested. What are you saying on these text messages? 1:06:36.600 --> 1:06:38.960 And when you call, hey, how are you doing U? 1:06:39.560 --> 1:06:42.160 You know, just are you interested? When you're available, we've 1:06:42.200 --> 1:06:43.920 got some time we can go out, and you go out. 1:06:44.000 --> 1:06:45.920 Then I get to know each other, you know, your 1:06:45.960 --> 1:06:48.360 basic stuff. And she'll come back with, oh, well, you 1:06:48.400 --> 1:06:50.280 know I worked all day, I'm busy, or I was 1:06:50.280 --> 1:06:53.280 gonna spend some time my time. I'm like, okay, well yeah, 1:06:53.320 --> 1:06:56.520 trade she's clearly not interested. But you know, nothing wrong 1:06:56.600 --> 1:06:58.960 with checking in every now and then. But I wouldn't 1:06:58.960 --> 1:07:01.720 have too high expectations for that, and I do want 1:07:01.720 --> 1:07:04.240 to get some advice. UM, don't just say hey, when 1:07:04.280 --> 1:07:07.200 you have some time, let's do something. It has something specific, like, hey, 1:07:07.320 --> 1:07:10.440 such and such has got a concert here on Thursday, 1:07:10.480 --> 1:07:12.080 and I have tickets if you want to go, you know, 1:07:12.120 --> 1:07:14.560 I'd love for you to come. I look bit of 1:07:14.560 --> 1:07:17.600 a comedy show. If you're interested, you know, I'd like 1:07:17.680 --> 1:07:19.600 for you to join me. I mean I did, I 1:07:19.680 --> 1:07:23.600 went through the test. Okay, I don't understand the game. 1:07:24.920 --> 1:07:26.720 Well it's not a game. A game is if she 1:07:26.840 --> 1:07:29.520 really was responding, but maybe something happened. You don't even 1:07:29.560 --> 1:07:31.480 know her or what's going on in her life. It 1:07:31.560 --> 1:07:34.440 could be anything. Oh that's a good point, So just 1:07:34.640 --> 1:07:38.040 take the loss. If she's interested, you know whatever. If 1:07:38.080 --> 1:07:39.880 she's not, it just is what it is. There's nothing 1:07:39.920 --> 1:07:41.640 you could do about it. But it might not necessarily 1:07:41.720 --> 1:07:44.280 be a game. You don't think so, No, I mean 1:07:44.360 --> 1:07:45.960 you don't know what's the problem. You don't know if 1:07:46.000 --> 1:07:49.000 she's met somebody else. She's stating there. I mean maybe 1:07:49.040 --> 1:07:51.000 she thought maybe she would be and she changed her mind. 1:07:51.040 --> 1:07:55.720 We're allowed to do that. Just don't send no passive 1:07:55.760 --> 1:08:00.560 aggressive text messages. We can't stand those. Oh damn it, 1:08:00.600 --> 1:08:02.880 because that's annoying. That'll make me. Never hit somebody back 1:08:03.080 --> 1:08:04.840 when you do, well, why did you give me your number? 1:08:05.000 --> 1:08:06.800 Or you know, well I've been trying to reach. If 1:08:06.840 --> 1:08:08.720 you're not interested, just say so. I don't like when 1:08:08.760 --> 1:08:11.680 people do that. Just be polite. Just always be polite, 1:08:11.720 --> 1:08:13.640 Always be nice. If you do the side of hitter 1:08:13.760 --> 1:08:16.559 up and just be chill, because that's a red flag 1:08:16.680 --> 1:08:19.040 when somebody's already irritated and I don't even know you, 1:08:19.360 --> 1:08:22.920 But why I give the number empty interested? Don't give 1:08:23.040 --> 1:08:26.360 that fall you know interested. I mean just say, nah, 1:08:26.479 --> 1:08:29.360 you know I'm not interested initially, Chait. Maybe she at 1:08:29.400 --> 1:08:32.519 first wasn't. Then she ain't like your text messages. None 1:08:32.520 --> 1:08:35.800 of my all my text was good, none too bad, 1:08:35.920 --> 1:08:38.400 until like maybe a week later when I see that 1:08:38.479 --> 1:08:41.439 you're responding eight hours or the next day later, and 1:08:41.520 --> 1:08:43.920 I'm like, Hey, what's up with these games? Okay? Yeah, 1:08:43.960 --> 1:08:47.360 that's it? You cut off? Man, Hey, what's up with 1:08:47.439 --> 1:08:49.519 these games? I don't even know you already gotta issue. 1:08:49.760 --> 1:08:52.080 You gotta just be chilled. You sound a little crazy track. 1:08:55.240 --> 1:08:57.400 You can't say stuff like that. I'm scared now. I 1:08:57.439 --> 1:09:00.679 think you're stalker and I gotta change my number. Okay, 1:09:01.479 --> 1:09:06.360 I couldn't, It's gracious, all right, up with these games? 1:09:06.400 --> 1:09:08.000 You don't know what happened. What if somebody in my 1:09:08.080 --> 1:09:10.080 family died? I'm working on. You don't know what's going 1:09:10.120 --> 1:09:12.640 on in somebody's life. You know my child got her 1:09:12.680 --> 1:09:14.719 to say, hey, you couldn't get to it right now? Jase? 1:09:15.600 --> 1:09:17.920 All right, ask ye eight hundred five eighty five, one 1:09:18.000 --> 1:09:19.479 on five one. We got rumors on the way. Yes, 1:09:19.560 --> 1:09:22.160 let's talk about twenty one Savage. We have another update 1:09:22.200 --> 1:09:26.160 on what's going on with his situation as far as immigration. Um, 1:09:26.520 --> 1:09:28.760 we'll tell you what he has to say now, all right, 1:09:28.800 --> 1:09:30.920 we'll get into that next. Keeping locked this to breakfast Club. 1:09:30.960 --> 1:09:37.040 Good morning the breakfast Club. This is the rum of 1:09:37.080 --> 1:09:45.439 report with Angela Ye breakfast Club isn't an amazing the 1:09:45.520 --> 1:09:48.040 things that become front page news now on CNN, the 1:09:48.120 --> 1:09:51.719 headline is Corey Booker says he's in a relationship quote, 1:09:51.800 --> 1:09:54.759 I got a boo. We sat down with Corey Booker, 1:09:54.880 --> 1:09:58.760 had a pretty long conversation because he announced his he's 1:09:58.800 --> 1:10:01.240 going to be running for president in twenty twenty. This 1:10:01.439 --> 1:10:02.920 is our first time being able to sit down and 1:10:03.000 --> 1:10:05.559 talk to him about what kind of policies he wants 1:10:05.560 --> 1:10:07.960 to implement, what his stand is going to be. And 1:10:08.400 --> 1:10:11.760 at the end of the interview, Charlemagne did ask him 1:10:11.800 --> 1:10:14.559 about whether or not he's gonna get married. He said, 1:10:14.960 --> 1:10:16.800 you know, well, let me play it for you. You 1:10:16.800 --> 1:10:18.599 would only be like you'd be like the third president. 1:10:18.640 --> 1:10:21.559 I think I think, first of all, there's two more 1:10:21.680 --> 1:10:23.960 years until I might swear he might get married some time. 1:10:25.479 --> 1:10:28.120 I think it didn't existence my girlfriends might listen to this, 1:10:28.200 --> 1:10:29.680 So you don't want to, Okay, come about to say 1:10:29.680 --> 1:10:31.639 you don't want to marry somebody. Now when she saw 1:10:31.680 --> 1:10:34.000 getting hot you might become president, she might just want 1:10:34.040 --> 1:10:37.760 you for that Nola, before I declare president, I'm dating 1:10:37.800 --> 1:10:40.920 somebody that's really special. So oh yeah, so Corey Booker 1:10:40.920 --> 1:10:47.360 got a boot? Who's booto? Ye Rozario Dawson. Okay, that's 1:10:47.400 --> 1:10:49.720 in the article too. Since people think that I make 1:10:49.800 --> 1:10:53.000 things up tell secret information. Yeah, I saw a trash 1:10:53.160 --> 1:10:55.759 article on the route or that this dude name Stephen 1:10:55.960 --> 1:10:58.280 Crockett Junior wrote and says send it to Corey Booker 1:10:58.320 --> 1:11:00.120 has a girlfriend, Now can we stop talking about his 1:11:00.240 --> 1:11:02.639 dating life? And he was referencing our breakfast club interview 1:11:02.800 --> 1:11:05.200 and saying, how you know, nobody wants to talk about 1:11:05.280 --> 1:11:08.360 policies and voter suppression or things that are important. You 1:11:08.479 --> 1:11:10.640 want to talk about the relationship. That was literally one 1:11:11.320 --> 1:11:14.280 question a forty minute at the very end, at the 1:11:14.560 --> 1:11:17.200 very end, So clearly somebody didn't watch the whole interview. 1:11:17.600 --> 1:11:20.160 Stephen Crockett Junior think that, But that is he would 1:11:20.160 --> 1:11:22.600 be the only third bachelor, like you said, to be 1:11:22.640 --> 1:11:24.680 elected to the White House. And that is something that 1:11:24.840 --> 1:11:27.280 is a story in itself because for some reason people 1:11:27.360 --> 1:11:29.320 feel like in order to be in the White House, 1:11:29.400 --> 1:11:31.360 you have to be married. And I liked what he 1:11:31.439 --> 1:11:33.040 had to say about that as well. And we also 1:11:33.120 --> 1:11:36.400 did discuss why your personal life and things like that, 1:11:36.560 --> 1:11:39.240 unless it's something questionable that you've done, shouldn't even matter 1:11:39.360 --> 1:11:41.840 when it comes to your running for office, And we 1:11:41.920 --> 1:11:44.400 discussed all of that. Stephen Stephen Crockett Junior from the 1:11:44.479 --> 1:11:46.960 Root said nobody us only seen the clip and that 1:11:46.960 --> 1:11:48.640 happens a lot, yes, And he said, nobody should be 1:11:48.680 --> 1:11:50.960 talking about Corey Brooker's dating life unless of course he's 1:11:51.040 --> 1:11:54.599 dating Rihanna, because she do anything contradicted. So that's why 1:11:54.600 --> 1:11:57.920 I say the article's trash. He contradicted this whole stuffs, Rihanna. 1:11:58.000 --> 1:12:00.040 Did you read the whole article? Yes, of course, So 1:12:02.800 --> 1:12:05.000 he probably didn't listen to the interview. He just heard 1:12:06.080 --> 1:12:08.759 CNN interviews, I mean the CNN story. All right, twenty 1:12:08.800 --> 1:12:11.400 one savage, Now let's discuss this. His people have just 1:12:11.520 --> 1:12:14.120 put out a statement and they believe that the motives 1:12:14.240 --> 1:12:16.720 for ice are corrupt. They said. Many have speculated as 1:12:16.760 --> 1:12:21.080 to possible ulterior motives for his arrest and detention, including 1:12:21.120 --> 1:12:23.760 that he released music five days prior to his arrest 1:12:23.800 --> 1:12:26.720 by Ice, which included new lyrics condemning the behavior of 1:12:26.800 --> 1:12:30.200 immigration officials for their detention of children at the border. 1:12:30.240 --> 1:12:33.639 And that's the song a lot. But I can't imagine 1:12:33.680 --> 1:12:35.920 my kids stuck at the border. The fleece still in 1:12:36.000 --> 1:12:39.280 the water. People was innocent, kidna get lords, all right, 1:12:39.320 --> 1:12:40.840 So he had been through some things. So I can't 1:12:40.880 --> 1:12:43.840 imagine my kids stuck at the border. So I guess 1:12:43.880 --> 1:12:47.760 twenty one savage under what his residency in the United States, 1:12:47.800 --> 1:12:51.320 because he's been here since he was what seven years old? Five, 1:12:51.439 --> 1:12:54.400 or he's eligible to seek cancelation of removal from an 1:12:54.439 --> 1:12:58.040 immigration judge. And you know, I've spoken a lot about 1:12:58.040 --> 1:12:59.680 the dreamers and the kids who have grown up in 1:12:59.720 --> 1:13:01.559 this country and have been here since they were young, 1:13:01.600 --> 1:13:03.360 and this is all they know, and we have to 1:13:03.439 --> 1:13:06.120 make sure that they're able to stay here legally, so 1:13:07.120 --> 1:13:09.200 they feel like in front of an immigration judge, he 1:13:09.200 --> 1:13:10.800 would be able to say. And he did apply in 1:13:10.880 --> 1:13:13.840 twenty seventeen for a U visa, so that's why they 1:13:13.920 --> 1:13:16.200 had his address and that information as well. And man 1:13:16.320 --> 1:13:18.439 got three kids here, that man paid taxes here, and 1:13:18.520 --> 1:13:23.200 man does a lot for the community in Atlanta. He 1:13:23.280 --> 1:13:25.840 went through all a grade school, Like, there's absolutely no 1:13:25.960 --> 1:13:28.320 reason for twenty one Savage to be in the current 1:13:28.360 --> 1:13:30.759 situation that he's in now to keep him in concrated, 1:13:30.840 --> 1:13:33.160 like he actually committed a crime. Now, yes, according to 1:13:33.240 --> 1:13:35.519 his manager, he's been spending twenty three hours a day 1:13:35.600 --> 1:13:38.479 and lock up in his only communications ten minute phone 1:13:38.520 --> 1:13:40.720 costs what he's like, he didn't even commit a crime. Like, 1:13:40.800 --> 1:13:42.879 it's not like they are arrested him because he committed 1:13:42.920 --> 1:13:44.640 a murder or some type of a soul like he 1:13:44.760 --> 1:13:48.120 was a random traffic stop. You know, it's interesting because 1:13:48.120 --> 1:13:50.320 there's so many people that are being detained in this 1:13:50.439 --> 1:13:52.920 similar fashion, and now we're all aware of it because 1:13:53.000 --> 1:13:56.040 of twenty one Savage, and it's been an ongoing situation 1:13:56.160 --> 1:13:58.639 that's been happening here in the United States. Twenty One's gonna, 1:13:58.640 --> 1:14:01.040 you know, end up being a post child for this, 1:14:01.200 --> 1:14:03.479 the same way Meek is for prison reform. So, like 1:14:03.560 --> 1:14:06.040 I said, always say, sometimes things happen to you so 1:14:06.200 --> 1:14:08.240 God can work through you. Now, Shala made me sell 1:14:08.280 --> 1:14:11.680 you post the Boondocks comics is back right, and you 1:14:11.760 --> 1:14:14.519 posted a message from Aaron McGruder. Did these for fun 1:14:14.600 --> 1:14:16.400 and to see if I still could, so tell us 1:14:16.439 --> 1:14:20.120 the backstory of that. Oh, Aaron mcgruder's back doing the 1:14:20.160 --> 1:14:22.800 Boondocks comic script. That was the first time Aaron has 1:14:22.840 --> 1:14:25.480 done it in like a decade or so. That was informative. 1:14:25.520 --> 1:14:28.880 I mean, Aaron's my guy. I thought the genius. I mean, 1:14:28.920 --> 1:14:33.000 I would give us some everybody. But he said it. 1:14:33.080 --> 1:14:35.639 He said it in the caption. He felt like doing 1:14:35.720 --> 1:14:38.120 some Boondocks sketches, you know, if you realize, if you know, 1:14:38.200 --> 1:14:39.800 he stopped doing the sketches because he felt like he 1:14:39.840 --> 1:14:42.200 didn't have anything anything else to say. So I guess 1:14:42.280 --> 1:14:44.080 now he has a lot to say because of everything 1:14:44.120 --> 1:14:45.559 that we've been seeing in the past couple of years, 1:14:45.880 --> 1:14:48.360 you know, due to the Trump administration. So um, I 1:14:48.439 --> 1:14:52.160 put those those Boondocks comic scripts out yesterday because Aaron 1:14:52.200 --> 1:14:54.479 asked me to. And I think Aaron is a genius. 1:14:54.600 --> 1:14:56.560 I ask my guy not support him in anything that 1:14:56.600 --> 1:14:59.559 he does. But and last thing, r Kelly, he has 1:14:59.560 --> 1:15:02.760 announced that he's touring. So he's going to be going 1:15:02.800 --> 1:15:06.880 on a tour. Ain't in America, I know that much, Australia, 1:15:06.960 --> 1:15:09.519 New Zealand and Sri Lanka. Yeah, I figured that he 1:15:09.920 --> 1:15:12.200 do know they got the internet, right, Let's see what 1:15:12.320 --> 1:15:14.080 we can happen. Some promoter was to pay for it 1:15:14.120 --> 1:15:16.519 already if they announced the dates, and he posted that 1:15:16.640 --> 1:15:19.320 on his Instagram page new tour Alert. Didn't I hear 1:15:19.360 --> 1:15:21.000 something like Philly bann him from coming to the city 1:15:21.040 --> 1:15:23.120 or something like that. Oh, I don't know. I didn't 1:15:23.120 --> 1:15:26.000 see that. All right, Well I'm in ye and that's 1:15:26.120 --> 1:15:28.479 your rumor report. All right, Philly, you feel you can 1:15:28.520 --> 1:15:30.240 just ban them out? You just you can never come 1:15:30.280 --> 1:15:32.479 to the city, no fly zone. I think all states 1:15:32.560 --> 1:15:34.560 that stought with the letter piece should ban Oca. You 1:15:35.800 --> 1:15:40.160 give it yo, you're fast man, You're just the state 1:15:40.200 --> 1:15:44.240 of the city. And Philadelphi, Pennsylvania's pep, so they definitely 1:15:44.240 --> 1:15:47.360 should be you're quick, You're quick, all right, thank you? 1:15:47.479 --> 1:15:50.519 Ye up next to People's Choice mix, I revote, We'll 1:15:50.520 --> 1:15:53.080 see you later. Everybody else People's Choice mixes up next 1:15:53.080 --> 1:15:57.639 to Scar Morning, everybody in cdj Envy and Angela Yee, 1:15:57.720 --> 1:16:01.120 Scharlomagne the guy, we all the breakfast club. Black History Month? 1:16:01.880 --> 1:16:04.200 What are we doing when we representing today? Charleman Today? 1:16:04.320 --> 1:16:07.080 In Anna Bob Marley's born day, we turned to a 1:16:07.200 --> 1:16:10.240 new Black History Month legend who once started a movie 1:16:10.320 --> 1:16:13.240 called I Am Legend. Remember when Will Smith played the 1:16:13.360 --> 1:16:16.800 character Robert Neville, and Robert had to school Anna Montez 1:16:17.040 --> 1:16:20.880 on the greatness of Bob Marley because Anna had zero clue. Well, 1:16:20.880 --> 1:16:23.000 if you don't remember, or if you don't know, here's 1:16:23.040 --> 1:16:25.960 your chance to learn. Will Smith is Robert Neville waxing 1:16:26.040 --> 1:16:30.080 poetically about the late grade Bob Marley. The Breakfast Club 1:16:30.160 --> 1:16:33.560 presents a new Black History Month legend. He had this 1:16:33.760 --> 1:16:39.680 idea of kind of a virologists idea. He believed that 1:16:39.800 --> 1:16:43.479 you could cure racism and hate, literally cure it by 1:16:43.840 --> 1:16:50.240 injecting music and love in the people's lives, and that 1:16:50.320 --> 1:16:54.280 he was scheduled to perform at a peace rally. Gunman 1:16:54.360 --> 1:16:58.599 came to his house and shot him down. Two days later, 1:17:00.120 --> 1:17:04.960 fut on that stage and sang. Somebody asked him why. 1:17:05.640 --> 1:17:09.679 He said, the people we're trying to make this world 1:17:09.840 --> 1:17:13.200 worse are not taking a day off. How can I? 1:17:13.560 --> 1:17:16.000 And that was another New Black History Month for legends, 1:17:16.200 --> 1:17:19.200 courtesy of The Breakfast Club. All right, and happy birthday 1:17:19.200 --> 1:17:22.400 to Barb Molly. Today's born day to Bob Marley. You should, 1:17:22.520 --> 1:17:24.200 you should, We should all hope to make the impact 1:17:24.280 --> 1:17:27.360 on the world that Bob Molly. Absolutely he might. You 1:17:27.400 --> 1:17:30.080 think I would say he's like the biggest artist universally 1:17:31.040 --> 1:17:35.400 ever across everything Bob. Yeah, I think Jackson. I think 1:17:35.479 --> 1:17:37.679 Bob might have Michael beat across the world. I don't 1:17:37.720 --> 1:17:41.240 know though, that's close Bob and Michael only maybe Tupac 1:17:41.400 --> 1:17:43.880 and even like as far as his um. You know, 1:17:44.280 --> 1:17:46.920 all the merchandise, are they telling the hell out of 1:17:49.479 --> 1:17:55.639 day coffee? Coffee, yeah, candles, matches, all types of Bob Molly. Yeah, 1:17:55.640 --> 1:17:57.519 I wonder that. I wonder if the kids out there, 1:17:57.520 --> 1:17:59.960 who even his legacy, his children. Do you think people 1:18:00.120 --> 1:18:02.599 know about Molly's a real person. Yes, it's kids. I'm 1:18:02.600 --> 1:18:03.960 just saying because you think about all the kids that 1:18:04.040 --> 1:18:07.120 just see him on merchandise. Yeah, they said they know 1:18:07.200 --> 1:18:10.120 he's a real Yeah. His music stilled today to this day. 1:18:10.160 --> 1:18:13.160 People like Ante Mama like just a That's what I'm saying. 1:18:14.200 --> 1:18:16.400 I know he's a real person. Anjema might be real too. 1:18:16.560 --> 1:18:19.160 I'm not sure what the hell was that? See talk 1:18:19.200 --> 1:18:24.080 about my goodness? All right? When we come back. We 1:18:24.160 --> 1:18:26.160 got the positive note though, moves to breakfast slogan more. 1:18:26.200 --> 1:18:30.240 Anybody is DJ Envy Angeluye Charlemagne, the guy. We are 1:18:30.280 --> 1:18:32.880 the Breakfast Club now shout to Davone Frankly for joining 1:18:33.000 --> 1:18:35.960 us today. Yes, he's a class act, that guy. Let 1:18:36.040 --> 1:18:39.080 me say, he definitely has inspired and helped a lot 1:18:39.160 --> 1:18:41.240 of people. We had a Q and A yesterday, and 1:18:41.360 --> 1:18:43.839 the questions that people were asking him in the audience 1:18:43.880 --> 1:18:46.960 at the Schoenberg where pretty good. There was one one 1:18:47.000 --> 1:18:50.280 woman who said that she's been with her husband, I 1:18:50.320 --> 1:18:52.479 think for like seventeen years and she's now ready to 1:18:52.600 --> 1:18:54.840 leave him, and she just read his book and now 1:18:54.960 --> 1:18:56.760 she wants to know what should her next steps be. 1:18:57.360 --> 1:19:00.200 And you gotta hear what his answer was to that. 1:19:00.320 --> 1:19:04.240 But you know, there's real life situations to be careful 1:19:04.400 --> 1:19:06.240 when you play with when you play with people's lives 1:19:06.280 --> 1:19:07.640 and you really don't know the ins and outs and 1:19:07.800 --> 1:19:10.479 you give people advice. Well, he recommended, of course that 1:19:10.560 --> 1:19:13.920 they they've been in couples therapy for five years, and 1:19:14.080 --> 1:19:17.080 she talked about how they have gone through a different 1:19:17.200 --> 1:19:19.439 therapist because they were trying to find somebody that was 1:19:19.479 --> 1:19:22.280 suitable for them. She had these dreams and passions in 1:19:22.400 --> 1:19:24.920 life that she has not still achieved, and he's not 1:19:25.000 --> 1:19:27.000 supportive of what it is that she wants to do, 1:19:27.080 --> 1:19:28.160 and she put a lot of the things that she 1:19:28.200 --> 1:19:29.920 wanted to do when made a lot of sacrifices. What 1:19:30.000 --> 1:19:32.400 if you want to rap and he just like to trash, 1:19:32.840 --> 1:19:35.320 that's true, which was to be a rapper, you know. 1:19:35.439 --> 1:19:39.040 But anyway, as I was saying, you know, she's tried, basically, 1:19:39.080 --> 1:19:42.880 and she's gone through all the different feelings and gone 1:19:42.920 --> 1:19:45.400 through counseling and all of that, and you know, he 1:19:45.479 --> 1:19:49.080 definitely did. He isn't telling you to leave him or whatever, 1:19:49.240 --> 1:19:51.960 but everybody's relationship and situation is different. All he can 1:19:52.040 --> 1:19:53.840 do is guide you on some things that you can do, 1:19:54.000 --> 1:19:57.439 some actionable steps to kind of help you figure it out. Okay, 1:19:57.560 --> 1:19:59.439 all right, Well, I hope with Vonne Franklin and Knight 1:19:59.479 --> 1:20:02.160 in Chicago too. Well, we're gonna be at the Fellowship 1:20:02.280 --> 1:20:07.599 Missionary Baptist Church having a uh don't get me the line, 1:20:08.040 --> 1:20:10.200 but it's a program discussing the current state in the 1:20:10.280 --> 1:20:12.760 future of you know, just African American men. So we'll 1:20:12.760 --> 1:20:15.160 be talking about you know, mental health and just just 1:20:15.360 --> 1:20:17.880 doing the work to be a better human being out 1:20:17.880 --> 1:20:19.920 of here. That's all. Yeah, get rid of that dog 1:20:20.040 --> 1:20:23.599 inside of you that believe it's on a positive note, 1:20:23.720 --> 1:20:25.720 listen to positive Notice this man. If you find a 1:20:25.760 --> 1:20:29.240 path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere. Breakfast 1:20:29.280 --> 1:20:31.439 club you don't finish for y'all dumb