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Speaker 1: You're listening to mess ooh child.

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Speaker 2: Okay, girl, I'm Haggeroni's how you doing? I'm doing well.

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Speaker 1: I think if I think about how I'm actually doing,

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna make me feel bad. But I'm

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Speaker 1: doing well really Yeah. Like you know how someone's like,

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Speaker 1: how you doing and you just say good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? But sometimes I need to learn how to do that?

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Speaker 2: How you do that? You lie? I'm bad at that.

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Speaker 2: You have we not realized I am.

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Speaker 3: I need to cut transparency out of my life.

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Speaker 2: I'm done, you do, I'm done. You need to be more.

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Speaker 2: What's the opposite of transparent?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, that's what I need to That's the word.

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Speaker 2: Of the day. Okay, every time we say it, take

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Speaker 2: a shot. Yes? So are you? Are you overwhelmed? This

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Speaker 2: is the holidays? Is it just?

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I have a lot of stuff

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Speaker 1: that I need to do. Yeah, and if I don't

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Speaker 1: write it down, it won't get done. And even if

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Speaker 1: I do write it, it might not get done, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like I need to I have

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Speaker 1: like a notebook now where I write in big sharpie

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Speaker 1: it because usually I write everything on like an envelope

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Speaker 2: On, Mama's what You're just writing it on loose papers.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I just write it on the table like it's

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Speaker 2: a dry erase ball. Well, at least you're writing it down.

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Speaker 3: I feel like writing it down and thinking about it

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Speaker 3: is just it's doing too much. That's a mess for me,

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Speaker 3: like seeing what I have to do and knowing what

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Speaker 3: I have to do. That's why i'm right now. Is

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Speaker 3: I feel manic. I feel absolutely manic, because you know,

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Speaker 3: I know you're tired of me talking about trying to

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Speaker 3: get an apartment.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but after we talk about it now, we'll never

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Speaker 1: talk about it never.

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Speaker 2: We'll never talk about it again, because we will.

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Speaker 3: I will after this comes out, I will hopefully have

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Speaker 3: already gotten in an apartment. That my mess, fully is

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Speaker 3: like trying to unmess my life.

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Speaker 2: That's what's going on right now. I am.

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Speaker 3: I think I am tired of saying I'm a mess.

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Speaker 3: It's okay that the pod is called mess, but I

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Speaker 3: don't want that to be my life. I need to

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Speaker 3: I need a whole rebrand. I need to, you know,

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Speaker 3: gut it, gut the whole thing. Start Like the shell

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Speaker 3: inside we rearranging ship.

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Speaker 2: The shell of your life, the shell of my life.

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Speaker 3: You know, because a friend was like, I think it's

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Speaker 3: But I'm like, I I am, I'm through.

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Speaker 2: I'm exhausted. I actually don't want to know more. You're retired.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to hang it up. Whatever, my my messy

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'll ever go really be on time.

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Speaker 3: That's fine, but like I just want my papers in order,

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Speaker 3: my clothes, hung up, my money, my money.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like that's I'm not asking for much, bitch. Put

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Speaker 1: all that on the prayer list.

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Speaker 2: Let me write that down. Yeah, so your papers and

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Speaker 2: what papers? Oh? Any no? Anytime papers? Papers? The girl

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Speaker 2: the way the papers just.

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Speaker 3: Be lying around, Like have my whole bank statement, social security,

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Speaker 3: my whole information just out I will I will rip up.

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Speaker 1: my table right now, and I'm I leave them out

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Speaker 1: because I'm like, if they're out, maybe I'll read them.

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Speaker 1: But I think I'm just gonna have to go to

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. Please.

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Speaker 3: Actually, while I'm starting my new life, I don't want

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Speaker 3: to get arrested.

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Speaker 2: I've done that already. I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: It is the new black I can't do it, the

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Speaker 2: Or can we can we be another year? But that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, because when you're young, you think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: Do I have Parkinson's. I would like to say that's

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Speaker 2: Not the title.

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Speaker 3: But the way I will never I won't tell anybody

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Speaker 3: I was trying to do the landing, trying to have

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Speaker 2: You know that's why you was late to the to

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Speaker 2: Is cooty? Is the Cucci cute? Is it Couchie cute.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: And I've got one eye open while I'm doing it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's too much.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's you know how some people can't have

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Speaker 3: just I don't like it. I don't want to see

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Speaker 2: I never said that. I never said that. You said that.

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Speaker 3: But my my mess this week is I went to

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Speaker 3: I don't know what like you're over, but also you

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Speaker 3: I don't know what they need, but they need to

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Speaker 3: rework some ways they speak to people. I went to this,

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Speaker 2: In New York City.

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Speaker 3: We walking, We're walking up the stairs. It feels like

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Speaker 3: whatever's up there, it's staying up It's my mayonnise, my wallet,

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Speaker 2: Beautiful, but it's not for me.

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Speaker 3: It's not for me because I go up the stairs.

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Speaker 3: Where's the closets. There's no closet, there's no space. It's

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Speaker 3: like everything is for some cuty young kid that's in college.

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Speaker 2: It's nothing.

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Speaker 3: None of these apartments is for a grown ass bitch.

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Speaker 3: That's like, I have stuff, I've lived, I have things.

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Speaker 3: Where do my things go? Well, because it's a cue bedroom,

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Speaker 3: it's actually anti horder right now, and I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Anti horder.

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Speaker 3: They're like, oh, where're you gonna put yourself? You can't,

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Speaker 3: there's nowhere to put the thing.

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Speaker 1: No, you gotta they said, this little second bedroom. That's

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Speaker 1: the closet.

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Speaker 2: That's the closet.

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Speaker 3: And it's like, well, who's gonna pay for this second bed?

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Speaker 3: My clothes are not paying for this closet. So this

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Speaker 3: their teeth. They're upset because they're like, we walked all

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Speaker 3: the way up here, We're not buying this, this is

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Speaker 3: this is dumb. Then I go to another place and

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Speaker 3: you know, another open house. Now I'm not being fucking rude,

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Speaker 3: but I'm rude right now. Now I see the people

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Speaker 3: who pulled up to see this apartment. I say, well,

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Speaker 3: these are the people who are trying to see the department.

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Speaker 3: I don't need to be here because what.

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Speaker 2: Is what the people? Look?

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Speaker 3: It was a ragtag of who where are y'all coming

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Speaker 3: from like are you where you live? Like they just

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Speaker 3: It was an odd couple. And then it was these roommates.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, babe, I'm on the list.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So then we go up.

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Speaker 3: You know, they're selling, selling, selling these apartments that are

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Speaker 3: need a two bedroom ex? Oh no, none of your

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Speaker 3: fucking business. Whoa I could be in here with my

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Speaker 2: But also, why is he talking to you like he

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Speaker 1: Woo Marie, you are rude, miss so.

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Speaker 3: Then I said, oh, well, I'm gonna you know, uh,

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Speaker 2: He's like a husband.

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Speaker 3: First of all, if I was gonna be with a husband,

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Speaker 3: He's like, oh, well he's roommate now, but he might

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Speaker 3: be a husband later. You are too familiar, sir, How

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Speaker 3: be minding his business. You should be wanting me to apply.

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Speaker 3: I now no longer want to apply. I wasn't going

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Speaker 1: Welcome Matt you have of this place. I'm all set,

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Speaker 1: but he's just it.

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Speaker 3: Was it was giving very sexist, over familiar, weirdo vibes.

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Speaker 1: And I was just like I was. He could tell

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Speaker 1: same for me. He said, these views, the views are great.

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, I He's like, you're not going to

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, sir? What he was what they were asking for?

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Speaker 2: What price? I think it was.

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Speaker 3: I think it was like thirty one for you know,

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Speaker 3: just a regular like skinny two bedroom. Not enough closets,

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Speaker 3: the kitchen is in the living room, the living room

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Speaker 3: is in the bath.

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Speaker 2: It was all of that.

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Speaker 3: It wasning. It was nothing that he's like, oh, we

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Speaker 3: have a gym. I don't care about these amenities, sir.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be in that gym. No. I would

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Speaker 2: Don't know me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I would like it as an option, but it's

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Speaker 2: Why I'm in the building, do you understand.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, that pissed me off, and I was just

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Speaker 3: but he called me to say what, probably just checking it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know because I didn't pick up. But I

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, did anybody apply because I know I didn't,

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Speaker 2: That's so petty.

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Speaker 3: It is petty, and that's I should have been like that,

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Speaker 3: because it was just like, sir, who the f are

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Speaker 2: AnyWho?

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Speaker 3: I just can't wait till I get an apartment because

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Speaker 3: I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put petty Sydney on the prayer list.

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Speaker 2: You should be.

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Speaker 3: More petty, could be more petty. I should be more

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Speaker 3: petty and more organized. That's all I want, And now

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to get I'm gonna. I saw an apartment.

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Speaker 3: I liked it. You know, my friend likes it. I

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Speaker 3: actually wanted to bed too bath. But it's you know,

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Speaker 3: I need more money. I need more money. Put that

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Speaker 3: on the prayer list as well. I need money, more coins,

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Speaker 3: Marie money. Okay, I put it on there.

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Speaker 2: I never about me. What about you?

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Speaker 1: Oh, let's talk about my mess I do really think

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Speaker 1: getting older is messy, because you know, when you're young

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Speaker 1: and your eyes are awesome and your body is great,

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Speaker 1: you take it for granted. You know, you squint into

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be able to see forever.

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Speaker 1: So I had an eye exam last week, and you

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Speaker 1: know I cheated. I cheated at the eye exam. I

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Speaker 1: was trying to put both eyes in one hole and.

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Speaker 2: I was, whoa, you eyes one hole. That's crazy, Marie.

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Speaker 2: But that's hot? Is that? Will that be a new Porno?

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Speaker 2: Two eyes, one hole. It's gonna be nasty like the

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Speaker 2: original part.

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Speaker 1: One, two girls, one cup. But yeah, so I you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to cheat. The guys like what do you

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Speaker 1: see up there? I'm like, what do you see? The

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Speaker 2: So I got glasses.

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Speaker 1: But he was like, you know how they're like this

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Speaker 1: time I'm like, no, no, they kind of look the same.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just I'm I'm not even really paying attention.

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Speaker 2: You have to take the it's serious. They have glasses.

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Speaker 2: They're too strong. I'm like, yeah, I feel like I

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Speaker 2: put them on for you. Yeah, let's see.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when I wear I feel cross and

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Speaker 1: then want to thank them off now you just got

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Speaker 1: to get used to it. I got some cool little

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Speaker 1: hipster joints. It's not like I think.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like when you put a Diva cup

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Speaker 3: in you know it doesn't feel right just yet, but

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Speaker 3: then you siting in it for a little bit and

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh, it didn't maneuvered.

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Speaker 2: It's I don't need to see this clearly.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I can see the world in four

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Speaker 1: K right now, like the wall has a text door.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see that. I can these buttons breathing.

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Speaker 1: I can see the dust on the fuck you need

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Speaker 1: to be able to see friends, I'm thinking about.

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Speaker 2: That's probably why we're not on time. We don't see well,

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Speaker 2: we can't see the time. First of all, the glasses

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Speaker 2: are too strong.

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Speaker 1: And when I went to pick them up, I was

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Speaker 2: And then I did not wear that. You have to

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Speaker 2: wear them for the weekend, Marie, wear them for the

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Speaker 2: rest of the show. Girl, my eyes, this is too

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Speaker 2: much sister you and I see you. You look beautif baby.

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Speaker 1: This is the opposite of Ray Charles, and I don't

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Speaker 1: like it, Like, I mean, see you watching this right now.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I need to see them. Maybe they're too strong.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I mean pretty you are without my glass?

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Speaker 1: No hold on, oh no, I can see these. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I need Maybe this is my prescription.

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Speaker 2: Please look, please look into the camera. What do I

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Speaker 1: Do I look as good as Freeze? I don't know

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Speaker 1: if they look good the way you're laughing at me.

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Speaker 1: Let me see they do look good. I'm just saying, oh,

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Speaker 1: but Jesus, cute girl, and they go and they go

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Speaker 1: with the shirt.

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Speaker 2: It's given miss Frizzle just a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Mis Frizzle would never look this simple, babe, she would

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Speaker 1: have one seventeen patterns.

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Speaker 2: Girl, these glasses, I'm screaming seeing it's terrible now, thank you,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. See, let me not terrible. I

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, anyway, so I got glasses and they're

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Speaker 1: too strong. That's my mess.

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Speaker 2: That is your mess. But at least you know you're

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Speaker 2: working on yourself.

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Speaker 3: You're feeling that is motivating, just knowing that you went

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Speaker 3: there and there's a solution.

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Speaker 2: The solution is glass want my money back.

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Speaker 3: You probably shouldn't have lied on your test, but we'll

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Speaker 3: go back and we'll make it right.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna call back, They're gonna charge me again for them.

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Speaker 1: And you know, they try to up charge me with

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Speaker 1: the thinner sexy polycarbonate, this glass transition. And I was like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: For bringing my own frames. I don't even think these frames.

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Speaker 1: Cost thirty five dollars. How much are the glasses, Sydney?

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Speaker 1: You have these frames? I got them from Amazon and

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Speaker 1: then I put my perscripsion. That's great, so shout out

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Speaker 1: to Jeffrey. Are those glasses sturdy? Then? Because they're Amazon,

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Speaker 1: the wind blow wrong and it breaks, No, the glass,

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Speaker 1: the glass also, they call them glasses, but this is

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Speaker 1: not glass, it's plastic.

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Speaker 2: So why do they call them glass? And the lady

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Speaker 2: was like, I don't know, ma'am. I just work here.

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Speaker 2: She said, just swep your card, badge. I'm asking these

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Speaker 2: questions and pay for the that's real dusty in here.

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Speaker 2: I can see all the dust on the keyboard. A heart.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Y'all? Need a little swiffer, A little swiffer.

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Speaker 1: This bitch, this is crazy. But I will say now

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Speaker 1: that I have glasses and I can see. I wore

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Speaker 1: these on the train and I was making eye contact

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Speaker 2: They're like they just I was like sexy. I feel

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Speaker 2: like Velma when she can see again. That's how I feel. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: who we're gonna take them off. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So another thing I think like getting older is messy

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Speaker 3: is because your perspective changes drastically. Yeah, like just the

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Speaker 3: I don't care no more, like what okay, let's see

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Speaker 3: this is this is a tough one. It's like when

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Speaker 3: the old me, where I would be like, oh yeah

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Speaker 3: that I'm cool with that, But now I think I'm

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Speaker 3: so not sensitive. But things irk me so much. So

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Speaker 3: when somebody asked me or talk to me a certain way,

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Speaker 3: it triggers me where I want to like.

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Speaker 2: Pop off, oh yeah, pop off. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And so I right now I'm trying to work on

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Speaker 3: and being like Okay, I'm gonna get back to you.

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Speaker 3: Let me think about this, because I don't want to

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Speaker 3: write immediately how I feel, and I don't. I want

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Speaker 3: to check me before I check that person. Sometimes you

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Speaker 3: got to check yourself before you wreck yourself.

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Speaker 2: You knew that was coming around. You knew it that

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Speaker 2: I knew it.

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Speaker 1: That was very old. No, No, it's wise.

439
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Speaker 2: That's what it is. I've lived. Why it's the new

440
00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:50,919
Speaker 2: old season. Rude, that's what you are. Thank you, But

441
00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,680
Speaker 2: you know, I'm a youth. The youth are rude.

442
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Speaker 1: That's why you see so well, you know what you

443
00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 1: should start saying. Listen, I can't really hold space for

444
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:04,440
Speaker 1: this right now.

445
00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,200
Speaker 2: That's what it is. I'm gonna get that to work

446
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:12,560
Speaker 2: on space space. But also, yeah, I don't. I have

447
00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:13,159
Speaker 2: two modes.

448
00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,280
Speaker 1: Okay, when somebody says something that I don't want to hear,

449
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,360
Speaker 1: I am either very quick to block now I'm blocking,

450
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:23,920
Speaker 1: or I send a very I'm not gonna say condescending,

451
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,560
Speaker 1: but kind of like a the tone, the tone of

452
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 1: the email is a little bit rude. Like my accountant

453
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,159
Speaker 1: took a really long time to get back to me,

454
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:38,399
Speaker 1: and I looked at the correspondence of the email, and

455
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 1: it had been a month since the first message I sent.

456
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 2: Them, and so last week here, let me read the.

457
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:47,720
Speaker 3: Message I said this, and then we be on the

458
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,680
Speaker 3: chains and I'm like, yo, I need to can you

459
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:53,000
Speaker 3: start a class on how to respond your responses. I'm like,

460
00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,520
Speaker 3: I wouldn't have written that, Yeah, I mean, sometimes it's

461
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 3: stuff I shouldn't write.

462
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 2: I'll be and I'll talk in us say it.

463
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, Siri, and then I'll say it,

464
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: and then I'll why what I do is I type

465
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 1: it out?

466
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,479
Speaker 2: So the way I type is not the way I

467
00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 2: actually speak. Yeah, the way my problem.

468
00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 1: The way I type is sometimes I speak but okay, boom,

469
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 1: hold on, I.

470
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 2: Said, Hi.

471
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,520
Speaker 1: I never heard anything back regarding this, and I now

472
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 1: hear you both loud and clear. A full month has

473
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 1: passed since I sent my initial email regarding this issue,

474
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 1: and I would have appreciated just one message stating that

475
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 1: this was something you're unable to help me with, so

476
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have wasted so much time waiting around moving

477
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 1: on to someone else who can hopefully resolve this for

478
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 1: me quickly. Thanks for dot dot dot you fire them well,

479
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,520
Speaker 1: I mean, then he responded immediately, Hi, Marie, I'm not

480
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what's going on, but I did respond

481
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 1: last week to set up a time to talk this over.

482
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: The response is below, and then he sent it and

483
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,280
Speaker 2: it was in there, but I didn't get it.

484
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you need to write and say, Hey, So

485
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 3: I got new glasses.

486
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 2: I just couldn't see. I'm sorry about that. No, I

487
00:20:59,040 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 2: got a prescription.

488
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,439
Speaker 1: No no, no, I responded, Hi blank, I never received

489
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 1: that message you sent.

490
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 2: And this process has.

491
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 1: Been extremely frustrating because I'll be trying to channel my

492
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 1: inner white woman, you know, and I feel like they

493
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: would say something like this. I'd just like to pay

494
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 1: this fine and get set my accounts up and not

495
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 1: have this problem ever again.

496
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:14,919
Speaker 2: Are you free to.

497
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,719
Speaker 1: Talk today or sometime tomorrow morning? I understand if you're not,

498
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 1: but I do plan to call the IRS today. And

499
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: then we talked.

500
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 2: Girl, you Wesley Snipes, You're going to jail? What's up? Possibly? No, girl,

501
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 2: it's three.

502
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: Hundred twenty dollars fine that I gotta pay plus the

503
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: other fine.

504
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 2: But you know what was the fine for just late

505
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: failure to file? Oh yeah, but I filed just late.

506
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 3: Well, well, maybe you could talk to the IRS and

507
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,680
Speaker 3: be like it wasn't me, it was fucking Greg you know. Yeah,

508
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 3: I always say pushing on somebody else, what they gonna do.

509
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I just listen, I just I'll be

510
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,679
Speaker 1: speaking of my SERI and she says she records it.

511
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 2: I had a comma or two and then I'll send it. Yeah,

512
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: I need to work through that.

513
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: That being said, the first accountant that I talked to

514
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: like that did let herself go. She was like, well,

515
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: because I was like, I thought you were doing my taxes.

516
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 2: What's up?

517
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, I didn't know that I

518
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,239
Speaker 1: was preparing them. And I was like, but I had

519
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 1: been messaging you about my taxes all year. Did you

520
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 1: think I was messaging you because we're friends? And she

521
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 1: was like, I actually don't like your tone and I'm.

522
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 2: Not taking this any further with you. And I was like, damn,

523
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 2: I won't to do my taxes. But also it's like,

524
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 2: I don't know.

525
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes you got to give somebody enough rope for them

526
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: to hang in themselves, and sometimes you got to say

527
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,719
Speaker 3: something for them to be like, you know what I'm going,

528
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna peace out because I wasn't doing my job

529
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:30,199
Speaker 3: right anyway.

530
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 1: I think that's what it is. We forget that, like

531
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,159
Speaker 1: the same way that we half asked. The jobs that

532
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: we had when we were young, and some of the

533
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 1: jobs that we do now it's doctors half assed in

534
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: it's a CPA's.

535
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 2: That's why you have scary right now. I know too much.

536
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 2: I know too.

537
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 3: I remember when like I freaking was like I'm going

538
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 3: to work.

539
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 2: I am so happy to work. I would do anything

540
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 2: to work.

541
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 3: And now I'm like, man, I'm tired working his hard

542
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 3: And I was like, will I know there's people who

543
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 3: are like me who are showing up to work, who

544
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 3: got more important at me and they got the same

545
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 3: vibes as me.

546
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: And are they showing.

547
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 3: Up twenty minutes late too? So they you know, they're

548
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 3: frazzled and stressed. So they're so the energy is just

549
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 3: like exchanging and it's stressing me out.

550
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,959
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about too much at the same time, Yeah,

551
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: you think pilots show up to work half fasten it too.

552
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 3: I think they have to come two hours early before

553
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 3: it's before they have to like fly.

554
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 2: They I don't think.

555
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 3: They'll let anybody show up to work late and then

556
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 3: go fly.

557
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: I have been on flights where they were like, we're

558
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 1: sitting here because the pilot is not here. I have

559
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: been on flights where they were like, we're waiting for

560
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 1: the pilot. He's getting off another flight, and it's like.

561
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: Okay, but getting off another flight is different from he

562
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 3: haven't flown all day and now he pulling up thirty

563
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 3: minutes late.

564
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 2: No, you're wearing the blazer, but he's wearing pajama bottle.

565
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

566
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: He got on sweatpan, you know what.

567
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 3: And that's some people's whole, like identity is where they yes,

568
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: they have the uniform on top, but they too loose.

569
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 2: At the bottom. They too loose at the bottom.

570
00:23:54,880 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 4: That's at the bottom, too loose at the bottom.

571
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: Okay, let's look at some of this stuff that's like

572
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 3: messy for the week that's coming up that I saw

573
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 3: on you know, the internets. So I'm into this artist,

574
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 3: Sabrina Carpenter. I mean also, she's getting pushed down my

575
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 3: throat with algorithm.

576
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 2: Saying to this artist, like people don't know who she's made,

577
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: to this.

578
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: Artist, I don't know if y'all know about her, I

579
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 3: don't know, you know, she just popped out. I am.

580
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 3: I'm thoroughly enjoying. I think it's a short and sweet tour.

581
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 3: Everybody's putting out all these like clips they're going. We've

582
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 3: even had a friend, Marcelo Hernandez from SNL.

583
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: He he was able to do a little skit with her.

584
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 1: They they both posted a picture of them backstage together.

585
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: They look real into it looks so freaking cool, right

586
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: them and tell him I want to officiate the wedding.

587
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 2: It was sweet dope. It was so dope.

588
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 3: And so you know, I'm listening to her songs. I'm

589
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 3: watching how she performs. And it's what people don't know

590
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 3: is Sabrina is selling sex. I don't care if y'all

591
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 3: think she a poll pocket.

592
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 2: She is sex sexy. She's sexy in a little teddy dress.

593
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 3: She is deep throating that microphone in front. And that's

594
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 3: the problem right now.

595
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: People are having an issue where her like little Juno poses.

596
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 2: They're like, are you doing You're doing too much, sister babe.

597
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 3: She's going, she's coming to the to the concert and

598
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 3: it's like, hey, whatever, I don't know who she used

599
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 3: to be on a Disney channel. She's not doing that

600
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 3: no more. No, ma, you guys got us.

601
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: You gotta leave the Disney Channel. You gotta hi.

602
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm Sabrina Carpenter and you're watching this, you gotta leave

603
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: this behind this she's grown.

604
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 2: She not doing this no more. She's doing this now. Yay,

605
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: she is doing that.

606
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 3: And I think women should be allowed to express themselves,

607
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: how sexually or not, if they want to.

608
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 2: And if they're listening just so happened to be.

609
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 3: Eighteen seventeen fifteen six, because that's who's listening, then hey,

610
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 3: so be it.

611
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 2: This is what people.

612
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 3: Grow up, and this is how they're speaking and how

613
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: they're talking and every and she's a poet too, because

614
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 3: the thing is they'll listen to a song they're like, oh,

615
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 3: she's talking about taking it from the back yard, y'ah.

616
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 2: She just says that. She tries to saying it the

617
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: urban outfitters way.

618
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: She's she just covered it with like this a lot

619
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: of bubble gum because she said the.

620
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: Come and ride on me.

621
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 3: Come on, ride on me, I mean camaraderie. She's being like,

622
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 3: she's got to play on words. She said, come on,

623
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 3: ride on me. That's what she said. Okay, she's reversed

624
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 3: cowgirl on that ass. She's number eleven in the world

625
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 3: on Spotify, So that's amazing.

626
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 2: You can't it's not short or sweet. Okay.

627
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: She it's crazy because like when you a friend of

628
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: ours just want to go see Taylor Swift, and she said,

629
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is very like you guys can do it

630
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: and like yeah, like because she has a lot of

631
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: little kid fans and she got you know, people you

632
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: know that are older, and Sabrina is doing the opposite.

633
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: She has a lot of little kid fans, but she

634
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: is giving you know, mighty when she wouldn't put her

635
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: tongue back in her mouth energy And I think that.

636
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 3: It should However the artist wants to be portrayed, that's

637
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 3: how they should be able to portray. If there's young

638
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: people listening to me, thank you for listening. But I'm

639
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 3: still gonna be me. I'm still an adult. I'm still

640
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 3: you know, how old is Sabrina? She gotta be like,

641
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 3: oh all that okay, she own.

642
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 2: She's grown, h Marie, She's.

643
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,199
Speaker 3: Grown twenty five And I think twenty five is like

644
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 3: the most flirty I had ever been in my life.

645
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 3: Like I was just becoming my you know, getting into

646
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 3: my own I didn't have fake breast yet, but you know,

647
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 3: I was flopping them a little triple A cups everywhere,

648
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 3: and I was in my little American apparels, tiny ass

649
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 3: dresses with no panties on it. And so I feel

650
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 3: like Sabrina's probably an elem you know to rich that. Yeah,

651
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 3: And so when you're feeling yourself and you you know

652
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 3: you can write and you can sing and you can perform,

653
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 3: you're saying whatever, and you should be allowed to And

654
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 3: I forgot what news anchor was saying. You know, oh,

655
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 3: the parents should just be listening to the music, so

656
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 3: that so they didn't know what their kids are listening.

657
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 3: He's like, I'm a parent, I'm doing what parents do.

658
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 3: I don't have time to listen to these songs and

659
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 3: know He's like, it's up to the artists, it's their responsibility.

660
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 3: I said, no, it's not what they only.

661
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: They only do this to female artists, and they do

662
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: it every single year.

663
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: Every year some artists is popping.

664
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: And they're like, well, Rihanna should be a better influence

665
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: to the Rihanna is a grown ass woman smoking weed

666
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: and talking about how sex with herb is so amazing.

667
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: Why did you think your kid was not going to

668
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: hear that or shouldn't hear that?

669
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: Like you don't care about your daughter? You know what

670
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, she gotta kids herself. Now, she's a mother.

671
00:28:58,800 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: She is a mother.

672
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: But like every artist they do that with, but it's women.

673
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,239
Speaker 1: I don't think they do this with men. Men get

674
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: up there and they're talking about I don't even know

675
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: what male artists talk about.

676
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: I don't My ear is just closed. Yeah, but uh.

677
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 3: Talking about I don't know, But I love I would

678
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 3: love to go to her concerts.

679
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: Shelby text mar Marcella Marcia. I know he could get

680
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: his backstage, right.

681
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 3: I love her concert and I love when artists are

682
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 3: on stage and you could tell they're having a good time.

683
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 3: I don't like when people are being performative and they're

684
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 3: not in their bag.

685
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: Dough Chi right now is in you know, panties and.

686
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 3: Ass is flapping and she's wrapping her ass off and

687
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: she's so good, and I like, that's what I want

688
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 3: to see. I don't want to see somebody being like, well,

689
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 3: this is what I think they want me to be.

690
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: It's like ugh, not ugh, but no, yeah.

691
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: Do what you want to do, how you want to

692
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: do it. And if you're having a good time, it's

693
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: a it's fun for everybody involved, now, you know, We've

694
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: seen Mariah Carey live a few times and she pops

695
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: out the holiday, she does a little two months of

696
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: music and then she leaves.

697
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: But you know, the last time we saw her perform,

698
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: I said, did she take an edible? Like? Wait?

699
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: She just so very I mean, and she you know,

700
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: she's not doing choreo. She she don't really sway. But

701
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: it did feel like the last time we saw her perform,

702
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: it was like it was given sedated.

703
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it wasn't given sadated. It's giving legend.

704
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 3: She has worked so many years, decades put in her discography.

705
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: Is it's unmatched. She's worked her, She's did her time.

706
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, she wants to glide and sliding. She wants to

707
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: get her if she wants to get her tresses pressed

708
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: out on stage, she should be able to and she

709
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: she will and she she stands there, she she sings,

710
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: and then the guy comes out and he's like, and

711
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: then I love it. I think these fans are expecting

712
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: too much and they know too much and they're too critical,

713
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know us, she's out there sweating,

714
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: sweating his wig off.

715
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 2: He's in roller skates.

716
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 3: Background there, he's got all this stuff going on, and

717
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: it's like, y'all feel the same way.

718
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 2: Y'all feel the same way about everything. Y'all.

719
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 3: People are never satisfied, you know what I'm saying. So

720
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 3: it's like, at least perform the way you want to

721
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 3: perform and walk out and be like I did what

722
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 3: I wanted to do.

723
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: I just want, if you're going to perform live, just

724
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: make it seem like you're excited to be there. That's

725
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: all I'm saying. I think I think she is.

726
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: She's sipping her lemonade, she got her kids dancing in

727
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: the back.

728
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: She's having a good time. Okay. So also, how old

729
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 2: is she? How old is Mariah carry?

730
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: I want to say fifty eight?

731
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: Oh right? We yay.

732
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 3: I mean I think there should be I think it's

733
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 3: a mess when you expect too much from people who

734
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: have lived a long time.

735
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, I am in my thirties. I'm exhausted.

736
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 3: I can't I being that age and doing everything that

737
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 3: she has done.

738
00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: I can't even imagine. I would not.

739
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 3: I have no time for nothing. I wouldn't want anybody

740
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 3: giving me notes on anything. I'm like, hey, I've been

741
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,239
Speaker 3: fine since right, I've been doing what I need to do.

742
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: But being thirty and regular is different than being I

743
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: heard you being thirty very regular.

744
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: Hold on, let me finish you trying to finish thirty

745
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 2: in regular? Being saw the title. That's also the title bit.

746
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: Being thirty irregular is different than being fifty five and rich,

747
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: because fifty five and rich is basically thirty in regular.

748
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like like you you understand

749
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Yeah, And Mariah Carey.

750
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: Has been rich since she was like twenty, so you

751
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: know it's thirty thirty five years? Is that the math?

752
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: That's it's thirty five years of rich, leisurely, you know,

753
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: face massages and butt massages and risk massages, whatever the

754
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: hell she needs to just get in.

755
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: Oh, you know, it's a mess right now.

756
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 3: People are obsessed with the way Lindsey Lohan Lookssina Aguilera,

757
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 3: all the girls is getting the work done, probably even

758
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 3: Martha Stewart. The girls are popping out. The new surgeon

759
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 3: that's on a block, he's doing his thug dizzle. But

760
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: everyone is commenting on how it's right now. It's weird

761
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 3: because one way you want to be like, oh, these

762
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 3: people look amazing, but they're obviously in the eye of

763
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 3: the people, and they have to get this work done.

764
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 3: But then they're like, you're promoting this is a negative

765
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 3: way to promote what getting older looks like, because that's

766
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: not how people that age looks.

767
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: I don't think it's negative to promote that. I think

768
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: that they look great. Christina Juilera looks like she literally

769
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: turned back the hands of times given Genie in a bottle,

770
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan.

771
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 2: I mean they say it's toxic.

772
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: They say it's toxic because she looks better than she

773
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 3: did when she was younger.

774
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So as a woman, you're not allowed to be ugly.

775
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: You're not allowed to be cute, You're not allowed to

776
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: be big, you're not allowed to be small.

777
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 2: No.

778
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: Now, if you on TikTok bragging about being skinny, people

779
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: are like, that's offensive. Yep, I like being skinny, you say,

780
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: now on the record front the antling people for that.

781
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: They answering people right now, I like being skinny.

782
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: Are you saying that? Wish camera? But I'm not, Okay,

783
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 2: I've tried, you tried to be thick.

784
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 3: My my thing about it one because I've had plastic

785
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 3: surgery and I am thin. I will say this, some

786
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 3: of that stuff is not the answer. If you do

787
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 3: things thinking that it's gonna change your whole you could

788
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,959
Speaker 3: still have your body done, be thin and doing bad.

789
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell you this, I'm saying it in

790
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 3: the camera that be me. Sometimes skinny boobs bad.

791
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: Like it's happening, you.

792
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 2: Know for me.

793
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 3: I was having this conversation with our friend Carolina, and

794
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 3: she was just like, you'll never know what it's like to,

795
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 3: you know, deal with fat phobia and these things. And

796
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: like you saying that, oh, you're skinny and you have issues,

797
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 3: it's not the same. And I was like, I'm not

798
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: saying it's the same, but you can't invalidate how people

799
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 3: feel in their bodies. That's what I'm saying is that

800
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 3: it's obviously fat phobia is real. I don't know if

801
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,720
Speaker 3: skinny phobia is real. But even the way they're talking

802
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: about Ariana Grande and Cynthia Rivo, the discussion is everything

803
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 3: is all weird. It's like people are just getting too

804
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 3: loose with the lips about discussing women's bodies and how

805
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: they look and how they should be.

806
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 2: And nobody's professionals.

807
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 3: You're not a doctor, you don't know what they're doing

808
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: in their day to day to say somebody, oh you're

809
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 3: you have body issues or eating eating disorder or it's

810
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 3: it's none of your fucking business. At my point, like

811
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 3: the way that we want to Lindsey tell us who

812
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 3: did your face? Hey babe, you got to get in

813
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 3: the same tax record as me, and then you'll know

814
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 3: who the who the doctor is.

815
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: You can't get.

816
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: You can't get whoever she got. Y'all who work at

817
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: CVS can't. So why are you asking?

818
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: I heard it was a two hundred thousand dollars facelift? Really,

819
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 2: no way, is that? What is that? What? I see?

820
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 2: What they say? You wt two hundred thousand dollars?

821
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh you know what, since we're talking about money

822
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: and you're listening to this, go ahead and venmoy fifty dollars.

823
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna work our way up to the two hundred thous.

824
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 2: From my facelift, thank you? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

825
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: It's pretty much a GoFundMe and installment. It's gonna take

826
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: two hundred thousand episodes to get there. Yeah, we'll get there. Yeah, No,

827
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: I think that there is. I don't I don't know

828
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: if it's skinny phobic. But you know when people are

829
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,919
Speaker 1: like big and proud to be big, and I don't

830
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: know what the word is here body positive.

831
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: You're allowed to be body positive.

832
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: If you're bigger, but if you're thin and you are

833
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: happy with your weight, then people are not.

834
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: Happy with you.

835
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: And I'm like, is this how white people feel when

836
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: black people be like black black girl magic and black power?

837
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 2: Is this how white people feel? I don't. I don't know. Well,

838
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 2: that's the thing.

839
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 3: They're like, hey, you are you have a privilege by

840
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 3: being thin or beautiful or whatever, So why do you

841
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 3: need to say that you're already living.

842
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 2: Living the life. Not a privilege? But it is.

843
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 3: I disagree, it is. It is a but it is

844
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 3: a we we do have to be on. It's like,

845
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 3: you know, white privilege or what it is? A privilege

846
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 3: being attractive or having a certain body type because people

847
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 3: will treat you differently. It just that's just what it is.

848
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, But everybody that's big is not big because they

849
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: can't help being big. You know, this is everybody don't

850
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 1: have a thyroid problem. This is not my wheelhouse.

851
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 2: I don't know.

852
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: Everybody don't have pcos. I can't everybody it's America. Some

853
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 1: of y'all big because y'all love Chick fil A.

854
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 2: Oh bitch, hey, that's what Marie said. That's not what

855
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 2: I said.

856
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: This is this is Marie's standing on that. I am

857
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 1: not listen, zoom in no zoomen Wow. This is gonna

858
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 1: go viral for sure for all the wrong reasons.

859
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: Girl.

860
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to go for I'm just saying, Oh,

861
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 1: you don't have to try, man, I'm just saying, Okay,

862
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm petite. I got petite parents, but they got big.

863
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: I have big aunts and uncles. You know what I'm saying.

864
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: The way you're saying big, sis, I don't know. I

865
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 2: don't know you should.

866
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 3: Maybe you should be a little bit more like lighter

867
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 3: with it, big big.

868
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: Listen, everybody, everybody in a and I'm speaking specifically about America.

869
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: Everybody that's here is not big because of an accident,

870
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 1: or because of a health issue, or because I don't

871
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: know lymph notes.

872
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: I don't know why people. I don't know why people

873
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 2: be big, but uh yeah, I don't. I can understand

874
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: the privilege of it.

875
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: But like, how you doing that quote because I don't

876
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: really I don't think it's a privilege to be skinny.

877
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: You got some fucking nerves.

878
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: You with your good ass skin, your gabs glasses on,

879
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 1: you can't.

880
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: See that well.

881
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 3: But everything else is working out, friend, everything else is

882
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: working out.

883
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: Listen, one day, when I'm big, maybe I should Maybe

884
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: so when I'm big, I could be like, let me

885
00:38:59,640 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: get my.

886
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 2: Big Yes, girl, you're a mess.

887
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: I will say that as I've gotten older, I've gained

888
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 3: you know. Obviously it's not enough for people to be like,

889
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 3: h but I have things change and I can't wear

890
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 3: the same clothes or I don't feel comfortable, and I'm like,

891
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 3: if I feel like this, I know this is hard

892
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 3: for other people. So I do understand the sensitivity of

893
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 3: just like being kinder to like how women speak about the.

894
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: Outside that the shell it is.

895
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 3: It is a way to talk about things and having

896
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: empathy because I do understand.

897
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: I am not saying that I don't understand.

898
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like, even like somebody will put an

899
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: offit on and people will be in the comments like

900
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,720
Speaker 1: is the outfit cute or is she just skinny?

901
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 2: And it's like, why can't it be both?

902
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: People love dragging a skinny beach because they're like, well,

903
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: her life must be perfect, or she must not have

904
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: no problems, or she must get dick every day. And

905
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: it's like, whoa, my life is a mess?

906
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: Is that? What they say in your comments.

907
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: Is I don't know, not not my comments necessarily, but

908
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying like anytime somebody uh slender or slim does something,

909
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 1: someone in the comments is like she's too skinny or

910
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: why like, oh, she can wear that, but why not

911
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: make this bigger? Like even brands will have people modeling

912
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: things and they'll be like, well, what size does this

913
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: go up to?

914
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: And this is big people of rasure.

915
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: And it's like you know this, you know this simple size,

916
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,959
Speaker 1: Like they only had a couple pieces of fabric together.

917
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: They put this together so you can see what it

918
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: looks like.

919
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: Don't be mad at this brand or this person's body, like,

920
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: you know, let let me be thin in peace.

921
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: Oh thin in peace?

922
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 3: Okay, that's another title, babe, thin.

923
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 2: In pieces wild. That's the name of my memoirs.

924
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 3: I I think for me, I used to say such

925
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: wild things when I was younger, about just a state

926
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 3: of anything everything, and now I'm like, yo, one wrong

927
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 3: move and you might not have it like that, and

928
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 3: so I'm trying to be more like light about things because.

929
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: I remember.

930
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 3: I remember I was in Zara and I'm a name

931
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 3: names and I put on these genes and I just

932
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 3: I just didn't I didn't feel good in it. And

933
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 3: the woman next to me, like I came out and

934
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 3: I was looking. I was like, oh, like, She's like,

935
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 3: you look great, and I was like, I don't.

936
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 2: I don't.

937
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 3: I don't think this does anything for me. She's like,

938
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: I would kill to have that body, and I'm like, okay,

939
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: don't kill me right now, and like what what can

940
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 3: I do? What can I do with that?

941
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 2: That that's how you feel about where you want your

942
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 2: body be. I don't. I don't like this.

943
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 3: So it's kind of like we all need to take

944
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 3: our own personal feelings to think and work on that,

945
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 3: and we can't all just be projecting.

946
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: Because it's hard living in our bodies. Period. It's hard

947
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 2: living in our bodies.

948
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: I think as and I'm gonna you know, I can

949
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: only speak from a woman's perspective, but like you know,

950
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: people have a lot to say about how we look,

951
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: and we internalize things about ourselves, like my body now

952
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: is not the way my body looked ten years ago,

953
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: you know, so it things about my body that I

954
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: don't like, and if I dare say something about it,

955
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: people be like, what could you possibly have to complain about?

956
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 2: And it's like I live.

957
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: Here, I live here, Yeah, I live here, so let

958
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: me live here.

959
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: That's also a good title. I live here. Yes, Okay.

960
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: Let's talk about makeup artists who posts before and after

961
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: or like Durwan you know what I mean, Like, you

962
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: get your hair done now because of TikTok. There's a

963
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,359
Speaker 1: camera with a ring light in your face. You get

964
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: your makeup done now, there's a camera with a ring

965
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: on it in your face. So this makeup artist posted

966
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: the process of putting Glorilla's makeup on, and then Glorilla

967
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: got mad at her.

968
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, she posted it, and uh, you know it definitely

969
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 3: it didn't seem like how a lot of makeup artists

970
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 3: are just doing these time laps videos and it looked

971
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 3: really professional. This feels like, girl, you was in the

972
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 3: back of somebody's room just taking these videos likes yeah, bts,

973
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: But it didn't. It seemed like she did it on

974
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 3: an android, like I'm know, no shade, but it just

975
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 3: didn't seem like properly lit or like some people don't

976
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 3: have the BTS face. Some people you just you need

977
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 3: to post the finished product and that's it. I think

978
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 3: I'm one of those people. I don't like seeing the process.

979
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 3: I just post what happened. I don't, you know, because

980
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: if my hair is not right, or you know, my

981
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: eyebrows not all the way drawing in, I just don't

982
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 3: like that. So I think it's weird that we've become

983
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 3: in this world where everything is freaking content every like, girl.

984
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 2: Just do my nails. Why you setting up the damn tripodter?

985
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 2: Just do my nails right?

986
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: And so Gorilla was like, she's like I thought she

987
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: did a bad job, or not a bad job, but

988
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: she was kind of like dragging the makeup artists and

989
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: she's like, but this is weird.

990
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: I told her I was up and coming, and she

991
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,439
Speaker 3: her friends that I did a good job.

992
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 2: But it's like, you posted this, what did you think?

993
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 1: She was gonna say, Well, I think the makeup artists

994
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: got what they wanted. They went viral, wed viral, and

995
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: now talking about it, and when it's the ending, the

996
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: end result, I think it looks good.

997
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 2: She looks like how we usually see her.

998
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 1: So it's like, I mean, maybe the time laps should

999
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 1: have been a little quicker, we shouldn't really have seen

1000
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: them before that long, because I think that's what people

1001
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: are are upset about.

1002
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: But then there were then it was this discussion where

1003
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: they were like, well, they're saying that it doesn't look

1004
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 3: good because of Gorilla's features, like oh, because of her

1005
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 3: nose or the way like her her jaws is shaped.

1006
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: And it's like whoa, whoa, whoa, Hey, hey, it's none

1007
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 3: of that. It's like, hey, I some of us just

1008
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 3: feel more comfortable when it's already done.

1009
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't love my hands per se.

1010
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 3: Like I hate when I'm getting my nails done and

1011
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 3: they take a picture at the end. I'm like, I

1012
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 3: know you're not gonna post this. My hands look kind

1013
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 3: of kind of elder. I know you're not gonna post older.

1014
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: I know that the hands are giving step bushit me sometimes,

1015
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: so I know that I'm not gonna so stop taking

1016
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:19,959
Speaker 1: pictures that you're not gonna poste.

1017
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: That hurts my feelings too.

1018
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: People take pictures of oh they did my hair, they

1019
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 3: did my makeup, and they don't post it. So why

1020
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 3: did you take this picture for a reference with a

1021
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 3: reference supposed to be online, so you don't like it.

1022
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: I remember I got my my hair done at this place.

1023
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 3: In this place, they literally post like good work or

1024
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 3: best work work that they did that day hair.

1025
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 2: They did my hair and.

1026
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 3: No, it didn't look good, but they took the picture,

1027
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 3: they did the video, and then they didn't post it.

1028
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 3: And I was like, I wonder why. I wonder why

1029
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 3: is that a drag on me or a drag on

1030
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: you because you didn't do a good job. And then

1031
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 3: I went back to that place and they did my

1032
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 3: hair get and I'm waiting.

1033
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 2: I'm waiting. I'm like, are you gonna post what's up?

1034
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 2: You want? With your makeup done and everything? No, you

1035
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 2: went into full beat. I did not go on a

1036
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 2: full beat, but I had a concealer on. I had enough.

1037
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: That's like, I had like a cute little track outfit

1038
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: where they could have did a little video and posted

1039
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 1: it in the stories.

1040
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and they didn't do that. Some of us

1041
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 2: don't want it on.

1042
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 3: But then if you make it a thing where we're

1043
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: posting everybody and then you don't post me, now I

1044
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 3: feel some type of.

1045
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 2: Way everything doesn't need to be content. Everything doesn't need

1046
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 2: to be content.

1047
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I made an appointment to get When

1048
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: I went made an appointment to get my hair done,

1049
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: it was like at the very end, it was like,

1050
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: do you consent to being on video for disappointment?

1051
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: And I said yes.

1052
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: And then when I got there, the camera wasn't set

1053
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: up and I didn't say nothing because I was like,

1054
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 1: actually this, people don't. I showed up looking like Samuel

1055
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: Jackson in Django with the hair right here, and I said, yeah,

1056
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: they didn't need to see that before cause you know,

1057
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: I left my house with no hat, no bandana, no nothing,

1058
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: because I was like, oh, I'm just gonna run in

1059
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: and out. Yeah, I'm gonna run into the car and

1060
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: then I'm ana run out when I get there. I

1061
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: get there, the car drops you off around the corner

1062
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: place it's rainy. He wasn't mighty is shrinking.

1063
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: I looked like a young Michael.

1064
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: Jackson and it was dudes on the you know, it

1065
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 1: was dudes on the corner like looking at me while

1066
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find this thing. My sister called me

1067
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: on WhatsApp and she was like damn. When she picked

1068
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: up and I was like, yeah, I gotta get inside.

1069
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 2: Where is the door?

1070
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: So you know, everything doesn't need to be posted, but

1071
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: also you should be able to sound like a little

1072
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 1: release or a waiver that's like I'm cool, would you

1073
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: posted me? Or I'm not.

1074
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 2: Well.

1075
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,399
Speaker 3: Everybody also is trying to get their workout because now

1076
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 3: everything is like it's all social media based, like, oh,

1077
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 3: you'll probably go to somebody based off like how many

1078
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 3: people were commenting like oh I went here, this was great,

1079
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 3: like or somebody recommended you, and so you know, if

1080
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 3: if the work is.

1081
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 2: Good and you post it, it might make people want

1082
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 2: to go.

1083
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 3: But I remember I went to go see my friend

1084
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 3: to do my hair, and then at the salon somebody

1085
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 3: else was like doing eyebrows, and so she's like, oh,

1086
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 3: I'm gonna you know, I'll get you a hookup. They'll

1087
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 3: do your eyebrows. All you gotta do is tip them,

1088
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 3: and so then they do my eyebrows. I said, did

1089
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 3: you do my eyebrows?

1090
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't.

1091
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: I didn't. Really, it wasn't difference. I didn't.

1092
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 3: It was it was fine, it wasn't terrible, but it

1093
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 3: wasn't like it wasn't it didn't wow me. Right, I've

1094
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 3: gone and got my eyebrows or whatever done before, and

1095
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 3: I was like, damn, bitch, I look like a brand

1096
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:23,760
Speaker 3: new girl.

1097
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,439
Speaker 2: It wasn't given that. So then the friend turns around,

1098
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 2: was like, hey, are you gonna post this person? I said,

1099
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 2: post what what is there to post?

1100
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 3: Like if I post this, I don't know if this

1101
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 3: is going to bring this person any business, you know.

1102
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 3: And so then it was kind of like, oh, well,

1103
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 3: you know they feel some time it was like, well,

1104
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,479
Speaker 3: yes you did, but I gave you a good tip

1105
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 3: or whatever. But it's also like, hey, we're in the

1106
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 3: business of if I pay you, that's that's it.

1107
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 2: That's the pet transaction is over. Yeah, that's it.

1108
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 3: Like I don't I don't have to tag everybody. I

1109
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 3: don't even tag friends of.

1110
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: Mine who.

1111
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, the tagging thing is m m yeah yeah, because

1112
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: like I'm tagging you for is this a sponsored post?

1113
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because we're making money. That's the thing.

1114
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 3: It's like, right now, this is the business of everything

1115
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 3: is could be payment in a way, like if you

1116
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: have followers, if you have people who come to your shows,

1117
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 3: like fans that are that ride or die that if

1118
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 3: you post that they're pulling up. So it's like, yeah,

1119
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 3: I want obviously want people to get business, but also

1120
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, if I paid.

1121
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 2: You, that's the business you got my coins.

1122
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 1: No, but if I'm if I'm paying you for service,

1123
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: then that's And if somebody asked me like where did

1124
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,479
Speaker 1: you get that or what is that, I'll tell them.

1125
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 1: But I'm not making a post for you on the

1126
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: page that says I went here and thank you for

1127
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: like this, like people brands pay for that, people spend

1128
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: money for that, Like you want me to send you

1129
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: my rate card?

1130
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: Oh that was that.

1131
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 3: It's crazy because that's an that's a part of this

1132
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 3: messy or living segment. This guy who is a like

1133
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 3: computer tech or whatever, like fixes computers. He's like, am

1134
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 3: I a bad person because my niece wants me to

1135
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 3: fix the computer for free? And it's like, hey, I

1136
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 3: already I hooked you up before. This is my actual job.

1137
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: You have to pay me.

1138
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: And it's like this is not mess creating a boundary

1139
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 3: with people that's.

1140
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 2: Like, this is my job.

1141
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: You need to give me money, right, maybe not full price,

1142
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: but you need to give me something.

1143
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 4: No.

1144
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 3: I think he was like, hey, I didn't, I didn't

1145
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,800
Speaker 3: hooked you up enough. This is a your whatever happened

1146
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 3: when your computer is way beyond repair, like you really

1147
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 3: need to if you want me to work on it.

1148
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: I need my full fee fee because it's not easy

1149
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 2: to fix a computer. I know I can't fix the computer.

1150
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 2: I'll be hit.

1151
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 3: I'll be leaning on that power button hoping it restarts,

1152
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 3: and I'm like, and it comes back right.

1153
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: I pray you'll be hoping that that little globe doesn't

1154
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: pop up when you restart the laptop.

1155
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 3: When the little time the time thing comes up and

1156
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 3: it's like, oh the hour glass that when that hour

1157
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 3: glass show up, Hey, you might gone to the genius

1158
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 3: bar because your ship is done.

1159
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: I did date a little nerd a little nerdy dude

1160
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 1: for a little while, and anytime I had any type

1161
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: of issue with tech or whatever, I would text him

1162
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 1: and or call him young and what he said, he

1163
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: would do it. He would try, Well, what was you was?

1164
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: You were y'all hook it up?

1165
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was literally I was literally sitting on him.

1166
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah he was fixed.

1167
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 3: Listen, now, if I didn't hit you off with some

1168
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 3: good good you will not be getting a dime for me.

1169
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Oh baby, that is the payment. Hey, can you come

1170
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 2: pick up my laptop? It's not working, miss you.

1171
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: I love that for you. No, I mean it's you know,

1172
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: it's it's dead and gone. But you know, we went,

1173
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: we've been through that. He's no longer my genius bar.

1174
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 2: It's no longer my genius. Part is that's great. Okay.

1175
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 3: So here's another one. This is This is from a

1176
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 3: minute ago. But it was really interesting because I was

1177
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 3: really surprised by this. Actually, Whoopy Goldberg was celebrating her

1178
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 3: birthday and she ordered like these specific like cakes from

1179
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 3: this bakery and it was like her, you know, a

1180
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,399
Speaker 3: big birthday, and she you know, put in the order.

1181
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,240
Speaker 3: I think she even said her name, and the bakery

1182
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 3: was like, oh, we can't do the cakes or blah

1183
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 3: blah blah, like we can't accommodate you or something of

1184
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 3: that sort. And so she, she being probably WHOOPI Gober,

1185
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 3: was like, huh, I wonder why they can't accommodate me.

1186
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: This is weird. So then she got somebody else to

1187
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,839
Speaker 2: do the order through another name, and they was able

1188
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 2: to accommodate her. So then she goes on.

1189
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 3: To view and says what happened, And basically they found

1190
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,959
Speaker 3: out who this bakery was, and all hell broke loose.

1191
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 3: I think the bakery like even is like suing her

1192
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 3: for deformation or whatever.

1193
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 2: But she said their name. She never said their name.

1194
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: She never said her name.

1195
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 3: But I I would like to be like, woop be

1196
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 3: I'm not going around. I know she was trying to

1197
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,240
Speaker 3: be petty, but it's like, oh, you just not getting

1198
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 3: my business.

1199
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 2: Like I was about to hit you off.

1200
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 3: And if you're if your cakes are popping, you could

1201
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 3: get more promo. But she said that she thinks that

1202
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 3: they didn't want to do her cakes. Is they don't

1203
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:28,760
Speaker 3: believe in her political views?

1204
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe you know.

1205
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 2: She does have a pretty loud view on the view.

1206
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: The view is the view she'd be viewing on the

1207
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 2: she got a view on the view. Don't nobody you

1208
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 2: like whoopy views? Whoopy is going to have a view.

1209
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 2: Whoopy has a view. The Whoope view is for real,

1210
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 2: the Whoopie view.

1211
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: Like this, it's an all cap view. I think that we.

1212
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 3: Go to the internet for so many things like if

1213
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 3: somebody do you wrong, if you in a barrelly you're like,

1214
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 3: I'm anna go live, or I'm a post on TikTok

1215
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 3: yah or or I have a TV show, I'm gonna

1216
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 3: talk about it, or we on the podcast we're gonna

1217
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 3: drag them. And it's like, when is there a line

1218
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 3: where you're like, actually, let's not let's not do that.

1219
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: Why should there be a line. We live in a

1220
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: time where everybody's sharing everything about themselves. So what happened

1221
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 1: at your birthday party?

1222
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 2: Like?

1223
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: Show us like what's up and something? And I'll say this, Murray,

1224
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 1: would you like that?

1225
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 3: If somebody comes to I don't know, your comedy show

1226
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 3: and they felt some type of way then they got online,

1227
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 3: was like a you want that?

1228
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 2: Well what they say? What are you talking about? They

1229
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 2: didn't have a good time.

1230
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: She caught me ugly. Well that's the brand, bab. I

1231
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: call everybody at the shows ugly and or poor. So

1232
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 1: you know I've done that in theaters with thousands of

1233
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:48,839
Speaker 1: people in it. I'll be like, hey, ugly and they'd

1234
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 1: be like, we are ugly. So if you come into

1235
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: the show, that's what you're gonna get. But it's we're

1236
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,879
Speaker 1: gonna be entertained. I think a lot of times we're

1237
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: posting stuff on socials and blah blah blah, but we're

1238
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: not naming n but the people who watch dig and

1239
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: then they find the thing or the person that you're

1240
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: talking about, and now it's a problem. But I didn't

1241
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: say your name, you know, like when Resa Tisa was

1242
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: giving us her whole seventy two part thing, she never

1243
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: said Legion's real name. I thought she but she she

1244
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: never said his name.

1245
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 3: She called him, but she just called him Legion. She

1246
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 3: called him Leegion, but that wasn't his real name.

1247
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1248
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 1: And the girl who was dating the guy from the

1249
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: Man from Atlanta, she never said his name. She said,

1250
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: the man from Atlanta gave me this baby and left

1251
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:37,879
Speaker 1: me high and dry, and then he took it upon

1252
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: himself to make a response video. And it's like you

1253
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: could have been anonymous. Like I think Legion came out

1254
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 1: and spoke out.

1255
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:46,280
Speaker 2: About what's her face?

1256
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: That guy who did the Netflix show Baby Reindeer, the

1257
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: woman came out and said that she was assuming him.

1258
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:57,240
Speaker 2: He didn't use her real name. Everybody is watching.

1259
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 1: These things and hearing these things and seeing this stuff

1260
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: go viral, and they're like, well, I want a piece

1261
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 1: of that pie. And it's like you could have just

1262
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: been embarrassed in the shadows, but you wanted to I

1263
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: don't know.

1264
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 3: Embarrassed in the shadows is it's a tough one, embarrassed

1265
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 3: in the embarrassing in the shadows, because you're just like

1266
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 3: I want, I want to clear my name, but you

1267
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 3: don't need to. We don't know who you are until

1268
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 3: you tell us who I know who I am, and

1269
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:24,959
Speaker 3: I need. I can't sleep at night because you didn't

1270
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 3: drag me from Selma and back.

1271
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 1: But now you're embarrassed in the light. Wouldn't you rather

1272
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: be embarrassed in the shadows.

1273
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 2: But the thing is is that you know the people online.

1274
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: They are better private investigators than the private investigators when

1275
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 3: I tell you, they get on their zoom, they find

1276
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 3: out who you're talking about. Okay, if you do a

1277
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 3: little like you do a story time and you post

1278
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 3: like a little corner of a rest, they already know

1279
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 3: the restaurant, they know the coordinates, they know who is

1280
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 3: a chef that night.

1281
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 2: People are wild.

1282
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 3: So it's like you do kind of have to be

1283
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 3: careful with the way you present something because even if

1284
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 3: you don't say their name, we could do context clues.

1285
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: We're not done.

1286
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 3: We live in New York City and I think she

1287
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 3: came on the show and brought the actual case and

1288
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 3: they make the case specifically a certain way, and they

1289
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 3: were like, you bringing your product on our show and

1290
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 3: then saying that we didn't like you because blah blah blah.

1291
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 3: Now I love that. She's like, I have a show,

1292
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 3: How dare you not service me? You're insane? Actually I'm

1293
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 3: not mad at that.

1294
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: Whoopy said, let me eat cake lets of marine antoinette.

1295
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 2: She did what she needed to do. Should we read

1296
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 2: a message?

1297
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: Yes, finally messages, got all messages, Let's do it.

1298
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 2: Woo Okay.

1299
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: The first one is titled Xes and Double Standards BS. Hey, ladies,

1300
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 1: I've got some mess for you and could really use

1301
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: some advice. I've been following you for years and I'm

1302
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 1: so happy for your success and all the positive vibes

1303
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: you put out.

1304
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 2: You say, that's the name positive vibes. So's ugly vibes. No. So,

1305
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 2: here's the thing.

1306
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of mess in my life and

1307
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: I think it's all material for therapy.

1308
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 2: But this one is juicy and I need your insight.

1309
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 4: Now.

1310
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 2: I don't think you're.

1311
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: Supposed to view your life as material for therapy, but all.

1312
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 2: That means you definitely need therapy. If you think your

1313
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: your stuff is material, are you a comedian? Because I

1314
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 2: actually I do like my therapy as materials. Okay.

1315
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: I'm remarried with a baby, and I've been with my

1316
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: husband for almost four years.

1317
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 2: He's also divorced, Okay, adults.

1318
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: He still keeps in touch with his ex, though it's

1319
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: much less frequent now. I think she finally got the

1320
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: hint that he's moved on and needs to get on.

1321
00:58:58,600 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 2: With her life for her content.

1322
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: She's white, okay, though I mentioned this because I do

1323
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: feel like some of this behavior might be cultural.

1324
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 2: Okay, because you know how they do.

1325
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: In the past, she would randomly message him for all

1326
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 1: sorts of reasons, catching up, talking about her pet, complaining

1327
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: about it, hert toe, even needing help with.

1328
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 2: Spotify to access old playlists.

1329
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: I get it, some people can stay friends with their exes,

1330
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: but what really bothers me from an independent feminist perspective

1331
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: is the lack of respect she seems to have. She

1332
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: mentioned how much she misses spending time with him, his family,

1333
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: and their old trips together. Ooh, she wanted an old

1334
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: thing back. If I were in her shoes, I wouldn't

1335
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: be reaching out like that. I have too much pride.

1336
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: If someone divorced me, I want to move on and

1337
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: not keep clinging to the past.

1338
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 2: Honestly, I dropped the last name too.

1339
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: If I was dumped, the last thing I want is

1340
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: a reminder of that relationship. But what really gets me

1341
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: is that if she's okay with staying friends and reaching out,

1342
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: then I should be included in the conversation, especially.

1343
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:57,439
Speaker 2: Not her wanted to be added to a group chat.

1344
00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: She want to be the third god damn, she said,

1345
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: me and coach, especially when she once practically harassed him

1346
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: into staying at her place for wine and cookies.

1347
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 2: He got weirded out by that and stopped engaging.

1348
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: And I think she finally got the message she's trying

1349
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:15,919
Speaker 1: to bang your man. Sis yes, and she's like, girl,

1350
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: you can't tell him trying to bang your man, stop

1351
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: getting in between cookies.

1352
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 2: Woo woo pairs well with chocolate chip? Should lee like, girl? What? Yes?

1353
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: You have a little burlow and a double chocolate little

1354
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 1: sugar cookie and.

1355
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 2: Sugar cookie and Gruner is merch. Now fast forward.

1356
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: He needed to return some of her stuff, and he

1357
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: was surprised by her cold response and that she didn't

1358
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: even want to ask about his new baby. Instead, he

1359
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: goes on to tell me how good and healthy she looks.

1360
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: If I said something like that about my ex, who,

1361
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: by the way, worked out every day, he would totally

1362
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,439
Speaker 1: take offense and get jealous. But when I poke fun

1363
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: of him reacting to his story, I am expected to

1364
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: just NodD along. I've seen her picks from the messages

1365
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: he has shared with me how he has described her.

1366
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: And I know I'm beautiful and tough as concrete, but

1367
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 1: it's the principle and the double standard that bothers me.

1368
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's exhausting having to explain

1369
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:10,920
Speaker 1: this over and over to him anyway, reading it, it's

1370
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 1: under three minutes love you girls. So yeah, sis, she

1371
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: she's trying to hook up with Yobo and why she Wait,

1372
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: he didn't want you to talk about weight. He was

1373
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 1: telling you how good she looks. What's I don't like

1374
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 1: none of this?

1375
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 3: This is mess obviously, And and sister, you know that

1376
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 3: that's why you wrote this to us.

1377
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 2: This is this is all on. This is how you

1378
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 2: can handle this.

1379
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 3: I think as somebody who I famously am cool with

1380
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:47,439
Speaker 3: my exes as a lesbian, but as a person who

1381
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 3: you know, understands boundaries.

1382
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 2: I feel like he knows this is this is his mess.

1383
01:01:58,200 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 2: He needs to fix this.

1384
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 3: He needs to either tell her, Hey, you're close to

1385
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 3: getting blocked.

1386
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 2: My wife doesn't like this. This is not cool.

1387
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 3: You have to contact me during business hours that's ten

1388
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,439
Speaker 3: am to five pm. After that, there's no moss. Hey,

1389
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: what do you need? What are we doing here? Like

1390
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 3: you're just trying to chitchat? Yeah, we can't be chit chat?

1391
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 2: Is it? Like? Is it my birthday? Your birthday? Like?

1392
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: Did your mom die?

1393
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 4: Like?

1394
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 2: What's up?

1395
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 3: Like we're on a need to know basis every six months.

1396
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 3: This can't be a every month week. Why that's your

1397
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 3: toe hurt? She WoT him my toe her because you

1398
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 3: need to be back in my life. That's what she's

1399
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 3: trying to say.

1400
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: You could heal my toe with a little bit of yo. No,

1401
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 2: I'm getting you know, the remedy for our toe that yeah, exactly.

1402
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 3: So this is as much as you're getting upset, this

1403
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 3: is on him. You can't you can't even get mad

1404
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 3: at her because it's not he's not putting his foot down.

1405
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 3: She might not know how weird this is if he's

1406
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 3: not telling her, or if she's not even if he's

1407
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 3: telling her it's weird and she's not respecting that.

1408
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he needs to block you. I don't do they

1409
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 2: They don't have kids together, do they? No?

1410
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: I think so.

1411
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 2: They're just they just used to be. Tell him to

1412
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 2: block her and see and then tell us what then?

1413
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, get back to us on that, because this is

1414
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 3: unacceptable and I'm I'm fully against. If you don't like

1415
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 3: it at all, then he shouldn't love it.

1416
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 2: Oh, he shouldn't. I don't like it. He shouldn't love it. Nope, Okay,

1417
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 2: here's another one. Where is it at? Okay? Looking for advice?

1418
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 2: Hey sid Marie, longtime listener, first time emailer. Here's the deal.

1419
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 3: A few months ago, I found myself in a pretty

1420
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 3: complicated spot. I'm in a relationship that started off amazing,

1421
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 3: but over time it became more and more tangled.

1422
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 2: We'll call him James for the sake of clarity.

1423
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 3: He's a great person and I love him, but we're

1424
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 3: just not clicking like we used to. To make things worse,

1425
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 3: I recently realize that I'm starting to develop feelings for

1426
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 3: someone else, Evan. Evan, you know, I'm not mad at

1427
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 3: men would ease you know. Evan is someone I met

1428
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 3: through work and we became close friends. It wasn't intentional,

1429
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 3: but as time has gone on, my feelings for him

1430
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 3: have only gotten stronger, and it's been confusing. I've tried

1431
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 3: to push it down, tell myself it's just a phase,

1432
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 3: but I can't ignore it anymore.

1433
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 2: Here's where it.

1434
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 3: Gets even messier. I don't want to hurt James, and

1435
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 3: hurt him no, I'm kidding. He's such a kind and

1436
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 3: loving person and I don't want to be the one

1437
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 3: who ends things. But on the other hand, I feel

1438
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 3: like I'm not being fair to him, staying in a

1439
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 3: relationship where I'm not fully invested anymore. And on top

1440
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 3: of that, I feel like I'm betraying him by having

1441
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 3: feelings for someone else. I've talked talking to my friends

1442
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 3: about it, but their advice has been all over the place.

1443
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 2: Okay, you know how your friends are.

1444
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 3: You know when you tell your friends what they gonna

1445
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 3: tell you, it is usually stuff that you can't use.

1446
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 3: Some think I should be honest with James, while others

1447
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 3: tell me I should take a step back and sort

1448
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 3: out my feelings before making any decision. Here's the part

1449
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 3: that has me really stuck. What if I'm just chasing

1450
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 3: something that isn't real? What if this thing with Evan

1451
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 3: is just a distraction or worse, something I'm imagining to

1452
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 3: avoid facing the issues with James.

1453
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 2: I feel so lost.

1454
01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 3: I don't want to hurt anyone, but I can't keep

1455
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 3: going like this either. Ooh the drama girl, you're writing

1456
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 3: this down? Thank you so much. How do I figure

1457
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: out whether I'm truly unhappy in my current relationship or

1458
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 3: if I'm just confused?

1459
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 2: And what do I even do if I decide to

1460
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 2: end things with James?

1461
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 3: How do I even handle that kind of conversation without

1462
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 3: causing irreversible damage? I know I'm not the only one.

1463
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 3: I know I'm not the only one who can make

1464
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 3: the decision, but I'm really struggling with where to go

1465
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 3: from here.

1466
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 2: Any advice would be helpful.

1467
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 1: Love you' so James, But they like Evan, but they

1468
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 1: don't know if Evan likes them.

1469
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 2: Mh they you know.

1470
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 3: It's that thing when you're like, I'm she might be

1471
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 3: getting something from Evan that she's not getting from James,

1472
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 3: so it feels more intense than what it really is.

1473
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 1: Evan could just be like, yo, I'm just I'm just

1474
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: chilling with my homie like I usually do.

1475
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 3: But he's you know, writing back, maybe a little bit quicker,

1476
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 3: or you know, making plans and things of the source.

1477
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 2: So it's making her feel like.

1478
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 3: Oh, we might got something going on, but you probably

1479
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 3: are just it's probably just a distraction.

1480
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 2: But regardless of that, it's like you got it in

1481
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 2: one thing to do something else.

1482
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 3: So it's clear that your heart is not with James,

1483
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 3: so you should move on.

1484
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: Time is time is precious? Well, hold on, hold on,

1485
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 2: don't tell them to move on too quick. Do you

1486
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: live with James?

1487
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: Oh, you're asking James paying the rent?

1488
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 2: What where does Evan work? How do we know Evan?

1489
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: From church? From school? From Does he live in the building? Like,

1490
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: because if you leave James, you moveing in with Evan?

1491
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 2: Like what? What? Oh?

1492
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 1: But it says James is a great person and I

1493
01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: love him, but we're just not clicking like we used to.

1494
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 1: Is it like James has gotten comfortable he not planning

1495
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: date nights?

1496
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 2: No more? Like is that a conversation that can happen

1497
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: and then we can?

1498
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, we get it, James, And you

1499
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 3: look at them at the sad of your eye, you're

1500
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 3: like like that, like if that and that happens, that

1501
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 3: happens where you don't where you fall out of love

1502
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 3: with somebody and you be looking at them like why

1503
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 3: did I even talk to you?

1504
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 2: If you feel like that, that's.

1505
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 3: Gonna be hard to come back from. I'm not even

1506
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 3: gonna lie.

1507
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: No, it is when you got that fucking ich where

1508
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 1: you're like, how how did this start?

1509
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 2: I'm not involved.

1510
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 1: Well, that's how I know when something is over, Like

1511
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: when they start to look ugly to me, I'd be like,

1512
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: oh okay, I'm done it, and.

1513
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 2: Hey, we gotta I think we got to move past this.

1514
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 3: I don't want to hurt nobody. Hey, we grown people. Feelings,

1515
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 3: they gonna get hurt. We we're at the age where

1516
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 3: when just because your feelings hurt is hurt. It doesn't

1517
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 3: mean that what happened didn't need to happen. Listen, feelings

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01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 3: are gonna get hurt. But you know what hurts more

1519
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 3: wasting that person's time.

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01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 2: That is always gonna hurt. The longer you.

1521
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: Take to rip the band aid off, or the longer

1522
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: you take to realize what you want or don't want,

1523
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 1: the more that person is gonna be invested, so you

1524
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 1: gotta let them go.

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01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 3: It seems like, or maybe at least tell James like, hey,

1526
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 3: I'm not feeling X Y and Z.

1527
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 2: Can you work on this?

1528
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 3: Like give James a head out before you head out,

1529
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 3: like a little you know, you say, you're.

1530
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 2: James head out?

1531
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:28,480
Speaker 3: No no, no oh, before you before you head out,

1532
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 3: give James a little you know, performance update.

1533
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 2: Hey a performance review.

1534
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you're you're right now, you're at a seven.

1535
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 3: You're at a seven, more like a six. You're at

1536
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 3: a six. No, you gotta start.

1537
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,520
Speaker 1: It's got to be like a like a like a compliment, sandwich,

1538
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: startup top. Something you love about James, Hey, babe, you

1539
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 1: know I really love that you're kind and loving. You're

1540
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 1: kind and loving and I love you. But you know,

1541
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: sometimes it seems like you take me for granted. You know,

1542
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: I'm in here cooking. You got me making alfredo every

1543
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: day or whatever the hell you're cooking over there. I

1544
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: don't know what you making, friend, you got me cooking,

1545
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 1: and I feel like you're taking you know, I just

1546
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not being appreciated, or I feel like

1547
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: we're not clicking how we used to, you know, is

1548
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 1: that something and then with a little or maybe it's

1549
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 1: just open face. The compliment is at the top and

1550
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: then the sandwiches insults at the butt.

1551
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,639
Speaker 2: I don't know whatever, but should we talk to Evan

1552
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 2: at all?

1553
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 3: Don't tell Evan we talked because I have nothing to

1554
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 3: do with Evan, because it's like, even if you do,

1555
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 3: if you do feel like you should be with Evan

1556
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 3: or even interest in it, you got to finish the

1557
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 3: James thing.

1558
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 2: You gotta finish the James before you can have your Evan.

1559
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 1: Finish the James before you get to your Evan baby.

1560
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 2: It is maybe it's Evan, a message in invisible ink,

1561
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 2: like what's up?

1562
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: Or just the eyes the eye When you send those eyes,

1563
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: they know what's up. They secretly know what's up. You

1564
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: don't have to say much with the eyes. The eyes

1565
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 1: say every way, Heit send the eyes that be like, Wow,

1566
01:09:58,960 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: you did that.

1567
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's another one, but I think we

1568
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 2: need to save it for next week. Yeah we should.

1569
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 3: We need to save these messages. But you know, you

1570
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 3: guys are doing better. I'm proud of you. These were

1571
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:10,479
Speaker 3: good messages. Wow, send us more.

1572
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 2: How about that?

1573
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 1: Is there anything anything we need to hit before we

1574
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: go friend, some things to add.

1575
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:18,839
Speaker 2: To the Yeah, oh yeah, we already.

1576
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: You know.

1577
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,879
Speaker 2: I need an apartment, need more money, need to get organized,

1578
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 2: You need your papers in order, and let's put away.

1579
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 2: I'll put that down.

1580
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1581
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 2: And I want less mess. I want more mess for

1582
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 2: the pod less mess in my life. How about that?

1583
01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:33,879
Speaker 2: Less a mess for sid And I want petty Sydney.

1584
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 3: You want petty Sydney. Yeah, girl, you don't want me

1585
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 3: to be petty? Well, not pity with me, because I

1586
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 3: got I got something right now that I could be

1587
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 3: petty about.

1588
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 2: But I'm not. I don't want to do it on air. Yeah.

1589
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 2: And on that note to be continued.

1590
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 4: Okay, friend, love this for us.

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01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:59,680
Speaker 1: James Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a

1592
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:03,440
Speaker 1: product by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio Podcasts,

1593
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: created and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive

1594
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: produced by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by

1595
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: Becca Ramos, edited and mixed by Brian Jeffries.

1596
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 2: If you would like your messages read on air, please

1597
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 2: email us at messthopodcast at gmail dot com or call

1598
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 2: for your messages to be played at seven six three

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