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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: with your principle of becoming successful at whatever level you choose.

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Speaker 1: It can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family.

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Speaker 1: Successes may be considered to you becoming a homeowner. It

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Speaker 1: could be being dead free. Your ideal success could be

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Speaker 1: makes it very clear for us you don't The only

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Speaker 1: thing you need to become successful is already inside of you.

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Speaker 1: It's not an external need. God wouldn't do that to you.

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Speaker 1: It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship

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Speaker 1: when you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset. Now.

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Speaker 1: all you're listening to day? What is this? Y'all? Look,

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Speaker 1: Run that prank back? What you got na Limo driver?

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Speaker 1: One more time? Limo drive for you, Uncle Steve. We're

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Speaker 1: How can I help you. I'm trying to get Cecil

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Speaker 1: Do you have the main number? Man? I keep calling

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Speaker 1: what's your name? Monday? Tony? Okay, listen, Tony, I got

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Speaker 1: the dope form and all you hold the phone. All right, okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you have a good evening. All right, Tony? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Yeah? Now you're saying you called the main

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Speaker 1: trying to get a get a call for the night man? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what you need? Listen, we gotta we got the suv.

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Speaker 1: I guess like a black limits ain't be cruel? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we got that. We got that. What time where I'm

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Speaker 1: picking you up? What time? What it costs? You know,

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Speaker 1: So you're dealing with me? Let me see. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: I'm doing with that fourth place one fifty. I didn't

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Speaker 1: no problem. Then where am I picking you up in? At?

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Speaker 1: What time? All right? I'm at ninety eight Village Dry, No,

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Speaker 1: I need eight Village Dry, okay? When I need twenty?

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Speaker 1: And when am I taking yourself? I'm going downtown on

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Speaker 1: like at eleven forty five to night that would be good.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you something tony right? Um? Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: somebody or something like God, No, no, I ain't dropping nothing, No,

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Speaker 1: but I'm picking something up to see. What I need

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Speaker 1: get side of there. Man. You ask me to run

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Speaker 1: Look here, yo, yo, young brother, Well I how old

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Speaker 1: Look here, man, it sounds like you in some kind

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Speaker 1: of shading. I don't do that, brother's Man, Yo, you're

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Speaker 1: a driver. Dog. Your job is to drive. If you

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Speaker 1: Let me start what I'm telling you here. Man, once

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm driving it working somewhere else driving because

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Speaker 1: trying to hear all this, la. What I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: do is pay you this one. I'm fifty you driving

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Speaker 1: That's what's wrong with you. Jump now, y'all crazy, get

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Speaker 1: hold on, Hold on, man, hold on what you know?

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Speaker 1: because they got a place for you. But let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something. They read my brefer. I ready anything.

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Speaker 1: My mamma told me. They didn't want me to know.

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Speaker 1: They cut it out. Do you feel me? They looked

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Speaker 1: gubbage that I had to eat or die. You ain't

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Speaker 1: ready for that, man, You ain't ready for what. I

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Speaker 1: going on out here. You got it too easy. See

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Speaker 1: now you're talking about going down. They're robbing the bank.

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Speaker 1: You ain't no bank robber. You don't sound like no

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Speaker 1: thud goal real a remo. The way you're going, you

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Speaker 1: way about their paper. You don't understand that. And you

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Speaker 1: show you ready for no jail. Could I say one

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Speaker 1: more thing to you? That? Yeah, what is it? All

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Speaker 1: I want to do is tell you it is that

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Speaker 1: I'm nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show and

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Speaker 1: your boy card. They don't got me the frank phone

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Speaker 1: They're gonna get your hundred years under the jail. Do

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Speaker 1: you trouble to do? Did you just hear what I

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Speaker 1: just said? Though? What you said about my partner? You know?

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Speaker 1: I no, no, no, no, I said, I'm nephew Tommy

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Speaker 1: another driver. Cordell got me the plank. Phone call you

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Speaker 1: this is are you seeing his man? Ain't cecil? Your boy?

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Speaker 1: Cordell got me to pray. Phone call you man. I'm

422
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,479
Speaker 1: gonna get that. I'm gonna get that. When you lit

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Speaker 1: my fire man, I don't know that. I mean my

424
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: fight move fur. He say, be careful, he say, big Cecil,

425
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: he's been he's been down there. He didn't done some time.

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00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: Yn't that ben't that man? Come down, baby, come down man.

427
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: I got one more question to ask you, man, what's

428
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the lad I want the

429
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy, but the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I got you, baby,

430
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: me and your boy. Cordell got you. Yeah. Well, I'm

431
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: gonna get here, he meet you, brother, I owe you

432
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: want to y'all gotta be real though, that's how you

433
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 1: rob a bank in a limo. If you're gonna rob

434
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: a bank, I shouldn't say that. Huh okay, well, no

435
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: giving out criminally, if you're gonna rob a man, you

436
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: should rob it a limo. First of all, what's the

437
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: limo driver find out? Like the one dude in this

438
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: prank that that's put you up to. It's gonna be

439
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: hard getting limo. Oh yeah, all right, Miss Anna's coming

440
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: up next with our National News. You're listening to Steven Show.

441
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: Take this job and shove it all? Heard that before?

442
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: I thought that before. I wanted to do that before.

443
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: Right here, Hello, I'm here. Well, guys, have you ever

444
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: you know, left an attitude? Actions left a job with you? Yeah? Okay,

445
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: let's hear about it. You're taking hell, I'm shitting here here,

446
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: and I got my ask over here right here, mean

447
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: right that, I'm yeah, I'm not throwing shade. I'm building

448
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: a tent. I know you have one set you to

449
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: take this job and shove it. Story. Well, I've worked

450
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: at a place called Lincoln Electric and I hated it.

451
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: I hated with everything in me. I worked a graveyard

452
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: ship twelve to eight in the morning, and man, I

453
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: despised the job because at four o'clock, I don't care

454
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: who you are. You sleepy, Yeah, there is no getting

455
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: used to four am. You're supposed to be sleep And

456
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: lunch was twenty minutes. It was like working. It was.

457
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: It was the hardest job I've ever had. Lunch was

458
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: twenty minutes and you and we had to work on

459
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: a piece system where we had to develop all these

460
00:30:55,000 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: wire coils by pieces. And I hated that job. And

461
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: I had this little dude named Tony. Wasn't my supervisor,

462
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: cooler dude, but I just I didn't like the company.

463
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: And so I went to work one day and I

464
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: just told him. I said, hey, man, I'm not gonna

465
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: be able to continue anymore. I got a huge loan

466
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: came in from Small Business Association to start my own company.

467
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: And all the men was there, Oh wow, really, Steve,

468
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: what you do? Yeah, I'm starting my own carpet cleaning business. Man.

469
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: I got the money, the loan came through, offer me

470
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Speaker 1: to body equipment. So I'm gonna go full time. Oh man,

471
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: good luck to you, Good luck to you. So I

472
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: ended up getting his job as a carpet cleaning com well.

473
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: One of the guys used my company, which partly was true.

474
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: I didn't really get the money from a small business loan.

475
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: I just wanted to quit, okay. And so one dude

476
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: called me and asked me to clean his house because

477
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: he knew my house number. And I went by his house.

478
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: But I had went to pick and play with your

479
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: grocery store, and I rented machines every day and just

480
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: put it in the back seat of my car. And

481
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: I pulled up at his house and unloaded the carpet

482
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: cleaning machine from the back seating my car. Man, I

483
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: thought she was a professional carpet cleaner. You didn't renting

484
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: the machine from that man. I'm gonna tell everybody down

485
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: at the job, okay, So I said, okay, cool, ain't

486
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: no problem right here, that sound like. So I just

487
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: went on and ruined his carpet ruined, now ruined Carbet

488
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: didn't extract the water, just put it in there. Since

489
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna go tell go tell him that too. He

490
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: felt good about this, didn't yeh? Did? Man very comfortable.

491
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: And from that story we go to the one of them.

492
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't a funny story. It wasn't really a just

493
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: so you know, I don't like the company, or now

494
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: I really didn't like you. Tank us to Mith. Anne,

495
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: Steve Trip, thank you very much, everybody. This is Anne

496
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Speaker 1: Trip with the News. President Trump invited leaders from both

497
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: sides of the aisle to the White House yesterday for

498
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 1: what was billed as a briefing on border security. However,

499
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: congressional leaders ended up no closer to an agreement to

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Speaker 1: end the partial government shutdown, which is in its thirteenth

501
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: day today. The President still is demanding of the same

502
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: amount of money for his wall. He says he needs it.

503
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Speaker 1: We're asking for five point six or somebody said two

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00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: point five. No, Look, this is national security we're talking about,

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00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: you know, just like we talked about the military, just

506
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: like we're talking about Syria or Afghanistan. And the Democrats say, well,

507
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: now we'll give you one point three billion for border

508
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Speaker 1: security and that's about it. Hey, speaking of numbers, this

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Speaker 1: is twenty nineteen. Neurologist Lloyd Strahorn tells me this is

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Speaker 1: a three universal year. Those who are born on the

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Speaker 1: third twelve month, they all like me to go very

512
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: very far. Airy they should think big expand their mental horizons.

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00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: For Tauruses, this is a year where they can expect

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00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 1: to close the books on just about anyone or anything

515
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: that's been a waste, toxic or non productive. For geminis,

516
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Speaker 1: just about anything you set your mind to, this is

517
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: going to be a big, big year for you. For

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00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: real cancers, this is a year for them instead to

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00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: be free and flexible, as committed in the things they do. Leos,

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00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 1: this year may find them with a desire to stand

521
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: out more under the radar than above it, in other words,

522
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: avoiding all the spotlights, but underneath that they're likely to

523
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: put together plans of actions in a methodical way. Virgos,

524
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: they happen to be in a physician this year actually

525
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: to get quite a bit done. As for the leaving,

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00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: the sign of beauty and balance include the words both

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00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,959
Speaker 1: in their lexicon. Be for braids over outstand they help

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Speaker 1: a leadership and dep dynamic. For scorpions, taking names and

529
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: things like that is going to be very important and

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00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: it's going to also enhance their good will. Sagittarians, they

531
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: may have to slow it down a bit, but that's

532
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: because they're known as a sign and entertainment. As for

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00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: capital horns, their role is to become a beacon of

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00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: light by showing others a way out of the darkness aquarians,

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00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: the year will bring with them periods of self reflection

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00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: and self inventory for Pisces, and suggests that they'd be

537
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: more fluid able to get around how matters easily without

538
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: the hassholes that they might usually encounter. When you look

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00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: at the four numbers, one is a water number that's

540
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: a two, one is an earth number that's a zero,

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00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: and the other two which is the one in the

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00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 1: nine of fire numbers. And because they're more fire numbers,

543
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: it means that people should be more proactive, in other words,

544
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: getting off the rusty deskie and making things happen. Go

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00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: to Lloyd dash strayhorn dot com. This is an trip

546
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 1: and I have to end unforc with sad news. The

547
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: Captain from the Captain into Nil has died. Darryl Dragon

548
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: died yesterday at renal failure in a hospice in Arizona

549
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 1: at age seventy six, and he and Tony Tanil divorced

550
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: back in twenty fourteen, but apparently they remain close and

551
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: when he felt ill, she came to his bedside and

552
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: she nursed it until he passed. That's right, the captain

553
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: from Tony Channel has passed. Love will keep them together.

554
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: I suppose this is and trip back to the Steve

555
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show, listen, I'm gonna do

556
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: is you know things that that's cold for now are

557
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: things people say and you got to know how to

558
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: read what they're saying because it's really a cold. They

559
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: say one thing, but what it really means is So

560
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call this this segment is called colde cracking. Yeah,

561
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: you've always been a crack crack. Yeah, so Shirley, could

562
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 1: you do me a favor? Yes, you say the first

563
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: line and you'll crack crack. Okay, Like if a person

564
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: says I'm in between jobs, yeah, ain't work because you

565
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:10,919
Speaker 1: heard that, especially take I don't know. Here's another one, Steve,

566
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't really watch TV. Cable got cut that. You

567
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: don't watch football, you watch power all right? I know

568
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: about this one. When you hear a lady say this

569
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: is my favorite person one been there my favorite favorite

570
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: about this one? Steve, We've decided to see other people? Yeah? Yeah,

571
00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 1: he just walked out on he's been seeing you just

572
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: got the memo. We decided he'd been seeing somebody else.

573
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: Oh man, Okay, here goes one. I don't really like

574
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: a lot of company. They stay with their mom and

575
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: exactly what you know. I just tried to take as

576
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: quick as I can. Okay, Um, yeah, I like to

577
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: take walks, you know, because when you take walks, you

578
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: get to see him. He ain't got no damn call.

579
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: How you like to walk downtown? Who the hell likes

580
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: to walk down? Okay? How about this one? Uh, they're

581
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: tripping down at my job again? They tripping down at

582
00:38:55,080 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: my job? You got five? Yeah, all right, you want

583
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 1: to Okay, we gotta go. That was good though, Steve

584
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: that okay, we'll be back. You're listening, all right, it's

585
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: time as promised for All I said was it's very simple.

586
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: But if you if you're in a relationship or been

587
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: in a relationship, there's things that you have said, just

588
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: little statements. Next thing you know, you're in a full

589
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: blown argument, just just out of nowhere. Like all I

590
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 1: said was all I said, Well, what would I do

591
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: with the money if I want a lottery m And

592
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I said this, I say that.

593
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: Then all of a sudden, I'm we're in an argument.

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00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: We have a full argument. Oh make believe money. You

595
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying right now, I'm time. You know

596
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: what I'm tilling. You've been in the junior yeah, been there?

597
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: Still in there something? You know. All I said was,

598
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: you know, if I ever meet Beyonce? Right well, she

599
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 1: knew the rest of the statement, and I meant it.

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean if I met Beyonce. Hey, you

601
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: know she allowed me to date husband. You ain't all

602
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: I see what? You want to know what I said, John,

603
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: All I said, would my girlfriend husband be tripping? That's

604
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: all I said, Jay, my girlfriend husband be tripping? That's

605
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:49,399
Speaker 1: all I see. All Right, I was on the phone

606
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: the other day, just you know, my girlfriend, just talking.

607
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 1: All I said was because it was just the two

608
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: of us. Yeah, I didn't know Nesto was in the house.

609
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: All I said was Morgan Freeman could get it. You know,

610
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: I don't even talk like that with my girls. You

611
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: know we're just talking. Oh man, the argument that has

612
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, woman, you know I don't said so much.

613
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: Just pick one up, you know. All I said one time?

614
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: One you know, she made me something I just said,

615
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: you know, when my mama baked it, she baked it

616
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: is different. Got to do it. Yeah, and when you

617
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: talk about cooking and stuff like that, don't look over

618
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: here at me. Okay, everybody glanced everybody. Whenever it's fool,

619
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 1: we always look at you. I don't know why. I

620
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: mean a little simple things started it, you know, like it.

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Speaker 1: All I said was if we weren't together, x y

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00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: Z one of your girlfriends, who did I get with?

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Speaker 1: You know that's together? Yeah, if we were together, I

624
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: get well, you know you're dead. You hit weren't together,

625
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: you're dead. Man. You can't really say nothing about their body, No,

626
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: you can't. I didn't want I did. I said something

627
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: one time, I said, why her dressed so tight? Like

628
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: he was on my damn right? Okay, okay? All I said,

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Speaker 1: if she pregnant, it's a possibility, you know, I'm just

630
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Speaker 1: if she spragnant? Wow, I can't you want to? Maybe

631
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 1: maybe I had to give my car key. I walked

632
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: in the room one time, she laying down on the

633
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: bed trying to put the pants on. I said, that's

634
00:42:53,080 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: how we got to do it now. Yeah, we walked.

635
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: We walked to this restaurant one time. All I said,

636
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: me and my exes to come here all the time,

637
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: and then it helped it to guess butter Brown you

638
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: back again. I can't, No, nobody, I can't, right, I said,

639
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: I'm talking. I said, so what side you were? Now?

640
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 1: Because I'm going I just say to what side you were? Said?

641
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:54,240
Speaker 1: All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey

642
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

643
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 1: All right, at the top of the hour. Right about

644
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, we'll have today strawberry letter.

645
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 1: But right now, come on, nephew, what is your prank phone?

646
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: Call for it today? You bouncing checks at the church? Wow,

647
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: y'all know who you are that's bouncing checks at your church?

648
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: Is that your Christian voice? Oh? You're a bouncing chick? Okay,

649
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 1: he it is. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a

650
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:38,439
Speaker 1: Monica system. Monica. Please, this is a brother, brother de Seawan.

651
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: I'm calling. Actually, I'm a member at a Greater Commissionary

652
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: Baptist church. How can I help you? That's what I'm

653
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: calling you? Actually about the offering? Now, did you I

654
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: know you paid your ties, but you also Sunday. Okay,

655
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: Now you paid a love offering as well, right, yes,

656
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: I do? Okay, Now this past Sunday, I'm looking at

657
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 1: a check that you left for us with the bank, right, right,

658
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: I sure did. I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now

659
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars. Am

660
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: I correct? Right? Right? I wrote two checks for my

661
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: ties and the love offering. Right, I wrote one for

662
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: two fifty for the love offering. Okay, Now, ma'am, I

663
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: don't I know. First of all, you know I didn't

664
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: ask you. How's your day going? You're doing all right?

665
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 1: My dad is fun? How about yours? I'm like I said,

666
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: I'm blessed now, But what is this call regarding? Why

667
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: are you calling me? Well, what I wanted to tell

668
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: you is that I hate to be a bar of

669
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: bad news. But Joe, your check that you wrote for

670
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 1: two fifty actually has bounced. And wait a minute, you

671
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: said my check bounce for two hundred and fifty dollars.

672
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 1: Your check bounce. So what I'm doing is calling you

673
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: about recouping the two fifty as well as you know

674
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: you you cost us thirty dollars in bank fees. But

675
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 1: wait a minute, now, I wrote two checks. I wrote

676
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: a check for one hundred dollars. Did that one bounce?

677
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: I don't see to it that that that one bounced.

678
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: All I know is the one that the love offering

679
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: has bounced. What did you put them in at the

680
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 1: same time? Because I wrote him at the same time.

681
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now I didn't

682
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: put them in at the same time. I've been putting

683
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 1: them in for the last two or three years. The

684
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: problem is why would people write them? What is your name?

685
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: M brother Deshaun? And you was at it Sunday? I was.

686
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. And when I was there, man,

687
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: the problem is that I didn't put these checks in.

688
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks to

689
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: the track knowing that they're gonna because a lot of

690
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: people write that good well checks? One clear? Why the

691
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: other one didn't clear? Maybe you didn't have enough money

692
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: for both of them to clear? What what did you

693
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: just say? Maybe you didn't have enough money in the

694
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 1: bank for both of them to clear. I don't understand

695
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: why people planning money in the bank at all. My

696
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: checks clear. I don't write no damn rubber checks. Well,

697
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: you wrote one on Sunday, and that's the problem. How

698
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: are you gonna try to give a look? You? Wait

699
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: a minute. I think you got me confused with somebody else.

700
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: I don't write no bad checks. You didn't wrote that

701
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 1: to be nice to you. I'm trying to be nice

702
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: to you. Win. Can we expect the two fifty plus

703
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: the thirty dollars? So thirty dollars? That's the bank feeds

704
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: man for the dog gonna check bouncing. My check didn't bounce.

705
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 1: I don't check my bank. And if my check clear,

706
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna pay me thirty dollars for calling me harassing

707
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: me bout a two hundred and fifty dollar check bounce.

708
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't write no damn Why would you write check? What?

709
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: You want to sit up in the church and write

710
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: these big number checks when you know you ain't got

711
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: it in the bank. What did you say? I said,

712
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: why would you write these checks when the money ain't in? Now,

713
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: let me tell you that's one thing. I don't write

714
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: no bad checks. And you got a lot nerds calling

715
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: me telling me my check bounce. Y'all, check is the

716
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: one that has bounced, and you tell you what you do.

717
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 1: Since my check bounce, you paid them, since you got

718
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: all the money, And don't call me with this again?

719
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: Call her bad cat, call her back hello. Don't you

720
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 1: hang upon me no more? When an're we gonna get

721
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 1: this two fifty and this thirty dollars? Somebody from the

722
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 1: church to my I wrote a bad check? I write,

723
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: you did write a bad check. I didn't write no

724
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 1: bad Yes, you damn it. Why are you calling me?

725
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: Why the treasure? Don't call me at church? The treasure

726
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: is business. I ain't never know the deacon called nobody

727
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: about no bad check. You're fully thank you? You got

728
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: the damn money I ain't got. Who is that in

729
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 1: the background? Who is that for mine? Who it is?

730
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: We're both going to the same church, and you're gonna

731
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 1: call me to my I wrote a bad check. You

732
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: don't you call me no more? And if the check bads,

733
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: you paid? Okay? Keep passed to know you talking like this?

734
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: You pass to? No you calling me? Can you ask

735
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: for that? Look? When are we gonna get this? Two

736
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: fifty two hundred and eighty dollars is what we're looking

737
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: for from you? I wrote a check for two fifty

738
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,280
Speaker 1: and not get two eighty. You put the thirty dollars

739
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: with it. You put two fifty in there, it bounce.

740
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,919
Speaker 1: Thirty dollars cost us on bake fees. That's eighty. Where

741
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: can the church expect their money? Never? Not? No two eighty.

742
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: You will never get to eighty. You're gonna make me

743
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: come by your and my check? Then what did you say?

744
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what You're gonna make me? Come by

745
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,959
Speaker 1: your house and get this money? Bring it own, bring

746
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: it bring you what is the address on this check? Check?

747
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: I got it off the check, bring your own. I

748
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 1: bet you you'll be limping back and I'm watching you.

749
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: You bet not be spending no money nowhere. You bet

750
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: not spend nothing until I get this two fifty plus

751
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: thirty whatever I want to Okay, No, you you know

752
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: where I am. And you don't call me no more

753
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: with this because my check did not bounce. I don't

754
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,959
Speaker 1: see how one check went through and the other bounce.

755
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: Let me say this to you. We cannot accept you

756
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: back into the House of the Lord no more until

757
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: you are not don't you come in the sunday until

758
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 1: we get coming up in the Sunday and I'm gonna

759
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: make sure I find your because you the person I

760
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: want to see you go. And you know what, I'm

761
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: gonna call the pastor right now and ask him because

762
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't believe my check bounce you fully? What? Let

763
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: me say this? Before you called pastor I got no,

764
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: I'm anna called pastor. No, you should have talked with

765
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: pastor before you called me with this information. I got

766
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say. You ain't got

767
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: nothing to say to me. You don't upset me with

768
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: this I'm talking about I bounced a check. You should

769
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: have went to pastor before you called me with you.

770
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: I taught pastor one I got, But I got one

771
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: more thing to say before I leave. But you're listening.

772
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: What are you about to say to me? What do

773
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: you have to say now that you're gonna pay the check?

774
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: This is Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

775
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend? What did you say? Baby?

776
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: This isn't say What did you say? I'd say? This

777
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: is Nephew time me baby brother Steve Harvey Morning. Until

778
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: your girlfriend has pranked you, I'm gonna beat that. She

779
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: just left hid flying out to do in her She didn't.

780
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna, Oh baby, are you serious? I'm serious, baby,

781
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: I'm your check has not bounsed. Go on in the

782
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: church Sunday and let's let's we're gonna. We got a

783
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: lot to pray. And I've been Oh my god, I've

784
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: been cursed. Oh my god. Y'all need to stop this,

785
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:20,919
Speaker 1: y'all get Let me ask you one more thing though, baby,

786
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:25,320
Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land, The

787
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning. Y'all need to stop it now, cut

788
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: that out. Now. You don't bounce checks at the church.

789
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: You know how quick the church check clear? Now? Do

790
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: you know they clear on Sunday? Now? Yea, they be

791
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: in there. You can't card now they know? Oh yeah,

792
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: everything cash on. We had nothing that ch no, we

793
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: had no. You couldn't write a check. Check. We couldn't

794
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: do that. You couldn't write a check cash hash so

795
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 1: embarrassing at the church. And ladyship, do you have another card?

796
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: Just keep it low. You ain't got to see that

797
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: loud and everybody. You haven't another card? No, bless me.

798
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 1: Famous line of our church was, you know the Lord

799
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,879
Speaker 1: said we ain't give enough this go around? Now ain't

800
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: gonna fad to play back around said, yeah, that would

801
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: say Lord said we we ain't give enough. It's five more,

802
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: five more, hundred and hire. Our trade went around three times,

803
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: Well it passed me three damn times. All right, we'll

804
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 1: be back coming up the Strawberry Letter. You're listening, It

805
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

806
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex,

807
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please of your Strawberry Letter to

808
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.

809
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: Tell him Steve, yeah, exact, excuse me, that's exactly what

810
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: I was. I'm so happy you see. Yeah, And we

811
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter just like we're going to

812
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: read this one. You never know. Let's go buggle up,

813
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

814
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. A subject a stepmom that may

815
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: need to step away. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and

816
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: I have been married for eleven years. My husband has

817
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons and

818
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,760
Speaker 1: a daughter. His sons are happily married, but his daughter

819
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 1: is not. My husband's ex wife constantly intrudes in our marriage,

820
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: and in her daughter's marriage, the daughter will not keep

821
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: her mom out of her business and it upsets her husband.

822
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: The ex wife has also made my husband's life miserable,

823
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: but I can deal with that. It's my stepdaughter that

824
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: is the problem. I am not welcome at any of

825
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: the grandchildren's birthday parties or family get togethers because of her.

826
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: I have tried for many years to have a relationship

827
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:11,240
Speaker 1: with my stepdaughter, but she's not interested. I run around

828
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: and buy things for her children and help her father

829
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 1: get gifts for her children, and she will only thank

830
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: my husband. She has never told me thank you. She

831
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,439
Speaker 1: refers to our home as her dad's house. It hurts

832
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: my feelings that she does not respect my marriage to

833
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: her dad. My husband always defends his daughter's actions and

834
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 1: how he treats me. He tries to make it better

835
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 1: by making up lies about how his daughter says to

836
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: tell me Hi when they talk, Steve, How can I

837
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: get my husband to realize that his actions are just

838
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: as bad as his daughter's attitude. I'm not worried about

839
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: the ex wife, but I have to spend time with

840
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: his daughter, so I need to fix this situation. My

841
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,439
Speaker 1: family life is falling apart, and I am the only

842
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: one who seems to notice. What should I do? What

843
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: should you do? You ask? Well, first of all, I

844
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: think you're doing way too much. I think you should

845
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: stop doing everything. Okay, Stop going to places with them.

846
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: They don't want you there anyway, So stop going, Stop

847
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: buying stuff for them, Stop trying to make them like you.

848
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: Stop you know, wanting to thank you from the daughter

849
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 1: and going and helping, you know, buy stuff and get

850
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: gifts and all of that. And please stop letting this

851
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 1: woman disrespect you like this. Okay, you deserve much better.

852
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: You know. It's not about them, it's about you. And

853
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: your husband really needs to grow up here. He needs

854
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:42,240
Speaker 1: to speak up for you on your behalf. You're his wife.

855
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: You should come first. Okay. He shouldn't let anyone. I

856
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 1: don't care who it is. I don't care if it's

857
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 1: this crazy daughter that he has, his meddling ex wife,

858
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: anyone come before you and treat you this way. My

859
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: husband always defends his daughter's actions and how she treats me.

860
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: Why is he defending her? Why isn't he defending you?

861
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: His wife? That's who, and you need to let him

862
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: know what is going on here. I'm your wife. He

863
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 1: knows that, but you haven't spoken up for yourself. You

864
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: need to let your husband know how it's going to

865
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: be from this day forward. He needs to You all

866
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: need to be a unit, present that unit to the

867
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: family and deal with it that way. Okay, maybe the

868
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: daughter will back down once she sees that the husband

869
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,959
Speaker 1: respects you and sticks up for you, but you gotta

870
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: stick up for yourself to your husband first. Steve, Well,

871
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: this is a complete mess. Yeah, Blended families are always difficult.

872
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: I've had my share difficulties with it myself, especially when

873
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: you're dealing with these grown kids because they have their

874
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 1: own ideas of what they think should be. Had I

875
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: listened to our grown kids, Marjorie and I probably wouldn't

876
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:57,479
Speaker 1: have got married because they went bowling and decided since

877
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: we're just informing them that they don't think we should

878
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: get married. I call him a bunch of stupid blankety

879
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: blanks and walked out the room simply because how y'all

880
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: ignorance gonna tell me something? Ain't none of y'all got

881
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: a husband, a wife, or a child. Now you're gonna

882
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: tell me how to behave so I can understand that

883
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: it's gotten way better since then, but that's still friction

884
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: every now and then. Your problem is that the daughter

885
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: has sided with the mother who is his ex wife.

886
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: She's totally taking her side. That's something wrong with his

887
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: ex wife, because if it wasn't, it wouldn't be his

888
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 1: ex wife, it would be his current wife. My husband's

889
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: ex wife constantly intrudes in our marriage and then her

890
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: daughter's marriage. Well I thought you said his sons are

891
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 1: happily married, but his daughter is not. Oh, that means

892
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 1: she's married but not Okay. Well, see, first of all,

893
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: his ex wife doesn't know how to have a successful marriage,

894
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: so any information that she's intruding on with her daughter's

895
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: marriage ain't gonna be helpful to his daughter her daughter

896
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: because she don't know how to have a healthy marriage,

897
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: and spreading dissension is her way. So now the daughter

898
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: can't stand you. Now what your daughters is is you

899
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: are not welcome at any of the grandchildren's birthday parties

900
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: or family get togethers because of her. I've tried for

901
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: many years to have relationship with my stepdaughter, but she's

902
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: not interested. I run around and buy things for her

903
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: children and help her father get gifts for her children.

904
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: She would only thank her husband. She would only think

905
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: my husband the lady. She's never told me thank you.

906
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 1: She refers to our home as her dad's house. It

907
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: hurts my feeling that she does not respect my marriage

908
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: to her dad. And you have every right to be hurt.

909
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: So what do you do? At one point, it takes

910
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: two to tangle if the other person, it takes two

911
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: people to take it takes two people to have a relationship.

912
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 1: Relationship is two people. She don't want a relationship. I

913
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: agree with Shirley. Stop stop buying stuff for the grandkids

914
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: and all this is stop shopping for your husband. Now.

915
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: If you can't get respected, she don't talk to you,

916
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: she don't thank you. Then see, let him go buy

917
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: stuff for the grandkids. Now. He caught between the rock

918
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: and a hard place, and we're gonna get to that

919
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: after the break. But he caught between the hot rock

920
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 1: and harplay. Because I know what he's tried to. He

921
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: tries to make it better by making up lies about

922
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: the highest. Daughter says to tell me high when they talk.

923
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: She already knows that's not you know good wells ain't

924
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: said hi to me. She ain't ever said high to me,

925
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: and I've been right here, So when the hell she

926
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: started sending a message? So you already noticed crazy But

927
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: old dude, he don't want you hurting the guy bad.

928
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: He don't want you to hurt But at one point time,

929
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: a decision's got to be made. His loyalty is to you, period.

930
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: But he's suffering from guilt though. You gotta understand his

931
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: daughter is making him feel guilty over the mom's condition

932
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 1: mental stability. Oh, he polling in, honest man, And so

933
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta understand that. But I'll tell you

934
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: what I think you should do when we come all right, Steve,

935
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 1: So um, when we come back, we'll have part two

936
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: of your response to a step mom that may need

937
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 1: to step away twenty three after the hour. We'll get

938
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: into it right after this you're listening to. All right, Steve,

939
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: we're back with part two of today's Strawberry Letter. A

940
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: stepmom that may need to step away is the subject.

941
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 1: Let's recap, shall we. Well? You know this woman is

942
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: married his husband. They've been married for eleven years. He

943
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,919
Speaker 1: got three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons

944
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: and a daughter. His sons are happily married, but his

945
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: daughter's not. My husband's ex wife constantly intrudes in our

946
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: marriage and then her daughter's marriage. The daughter will not

947
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: keep her mom out of her business, and it upsets

948
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: her husband. The ex wife also made my husband's life miserable.

949
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 1: Oh I know what that is right there, that ex

950
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: wife trying to make your husband's life miserable. Oh Lord,

951
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: been there. Oh I tightened up right there. I got

952
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 1: tight because Lord, I know that that is your ex

953
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: wife make your life miserable. Why won't she goes, sit

954
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 1: her tail down? Some damn will get your ass off

955
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: the internet. Quit selling stories to the QUI Okay, I

956
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: remind you to stop me about me all the damn time. Okay,

957
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 1: this is not about you. I have to, you know,

958
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: remind you of that. Steven. I think now it's a

959
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: good place. Well, but when he said the ex wife

960
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: has also made my husband's life miserable, that was directed.

961
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: You don't see Steve in that sentence. I know I do.

962
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: Two different people. Has nothing to do with you. Objective Steve.

963
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't know what that means. We'll

964
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: take yourself out of it. Take yourself out of it.

965
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: Pick yourself out of it. I wasn't in it until

966
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: she said the ex wife has also made my husband's

967
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: life miserable. Now if that don't sound like she talking

968
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 1: to me? And I see, when God gives you a guilt,

969
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: you got to look at the gift for what it

970
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: is and appreciate it. So now here's what you got

971
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: to do. Step away. You should step away. Ain't no

972
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: neither trying to be kind and keep getting ribuffed. You

973
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: don't have to just have a person keep spitting on

974
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 1: you in your face, stay out their face. That's all

975
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: you got to do. Remove yourself from all this shopping

976
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 1: and buying and trying to go to get togethers and stuff.

977
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: You know, I don't understand that having family events and

978
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: then someone calling you right now, I hear your phone.

979
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: I'm popular somebody calling me when they ain't Are they

980
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: hearing you? I wish that wasn't that who you think? Yeah,

981
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 1: to hear you talking about I got so many blocks

982
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: and stuff. You don't even want to stand up. Okay,

983
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: back to the letter, because you will get to stop. X.

984
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: Don't ask me how I know. I just know Shirley's right.

985
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: I would remove myself from situation. I'm not worried about

986
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: the ex wife, but I have to spend time with

987
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: his daughter, so I need to fix this situation. But

988
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: his daughter don't want to fix the situation. Have you

989
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: ever just said, hey, listen, I love your father, your

990
01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: father loves me. I have nothing to do with your

991
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 1: father's breakup. I'm tired of being blamed for it. I've

992
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: been nothing but kind to you and these grandchildren I

993
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: want us to have Huh. She says that I have

994
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: tried for many years to have a relationship with my stepdaughter. Well,

995
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 1: I just told her what to say. Yeah, okay, well

996
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: just trying to have it. Let's live your life by Yeah,

997
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 1: and don't bring them damn kids over here now last

998
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: Christmas shop at That's right, I'm a stinger, So wait,

999
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: say that one more time. Don't come over here, no more,

1000
01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: and don't bring them damn kids. You can talk about

1001
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: the kids to make them feel bad. No, okay, no, no,

1002
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: they're innocent. Don't I'll tell you what if you want

1003
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 1: the kids to come over here from now, send them

1004
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 1: over here, by your husb. You don't bring your ass

1005
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: over here. But she's miserable in her marriage. She is

1006
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: in an unhappy marriage. So misery loves company. Right. Well,

1007
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: that's why I say sending him over here by the husban,

1008
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 1: because he probably need a break. I'm pretty sure he

1009
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: loved to come over here to be killed wash the

1010
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 1: game with us and everything. Yeah, he loved to come

1011
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: over there by himself, just to get away from your

1012
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 1: ain't love your mind. I just stopped by and sit down.

1013
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: I ain't got I sen the driveway. I just come over.

1014
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: I just swing by Chrispy Kreen. The light was y'all

1015
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 1: wants them? Don't know that? Don't really make her matter. She,

1016
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 1: you know, develops a relationship with the husband and they

1017
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 1: become good friends. Yeah, so it's really no way to

1018
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 1: help people like that. It's no terphone. How long this

1019
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 1: ex white thing can last? Trust me, another damn shot

1020
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: over here? If you want. I forgot what I was

1021
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: gonna ask you. Now he keep going. Yeah, answer this

1022
01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: question was, don't you think the husband should say something?

1023
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: Don't you think the husband he's trying to say something

1024
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 1: what he needs to get them off his wife? You

1025
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: don't think that, you know what? What? He's got a

1026
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: delicate line because he don't want it's his daughter, right,

1027
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to lose a relationship with his daughter.

1028
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 1: He doesn't want the daughter to think he's picking the

1029
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: wife over her, and he don't want the wife to

1030
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: think that he's picking the daughter over her. He's caught

1031
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: between the rock and hard place. It's a really tough

1032
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 1: position to be, especially when company the women and boys

1033
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:14,919
Speaker 1: boys get on with a lot quicker. All right, well, listen, guys,

1034
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: we do have to go email us or instagram us

1035
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter, which was not about Steve. No,

1036
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't. Jay, my son has actually told me Dan,

1037
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: I know my mom, but good to Steve Harvey FM.

1038
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: Or go to my Girls, Shirley at my Girls, Shirley,

1039
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, it is time for something funny. Steve.

1040
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you take it away right here,

1041
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: you and Jay with your reenactmate. Listen. This is for

1042
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 1: all me and listening today. We're going to give you

1043
01:07:55,480 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: how it works when you're trying to end conversation with

1044
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: your wife or girlfriend and you're trying to find a

1045
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: way to end it or not have it at all,

1046
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: or not have this conversation. You're gonna have it, but

1047
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: somehow it just goes on it. You don't want to talk. Basically,

1048
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk because you been at work.

1049
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 1: Oh damn day quiet. You just want to come in

1050
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 1: and not talk to nobody. You don't understand that, every man?

1051
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: How come you don't want to talk? You know what

1052
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Here's hat go? What's wrong with here? How

1053
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 1: it goes? You just walked in the house. Hey baby,

1054
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 1: how are you doing? I'm doing good? How woud your

1055
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: day to day? I'm tired, I'm beat up. Man. It

1056
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: was a rough out there to day back go into it,

1057
01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 1: and I knew it was just a long day, baby,

1058
01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: you know, I get sometimes I just gonna sit down

1059
01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:00,000
Speaker 1: and chiell or get my thoughts or a minute to myself.

1060
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 1: Well what happened? It was just a long day, you know,

1061
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 1: just long long like long like what I mean long

1062
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 1: like how I've been down there all day? No, I

1063
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: just been there all day. If it been that all

1064
01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: day working, I got two jobs and just got home.

1065
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: It's just a long day. I'm just tired, That's all that.

1066
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 1: What happened the first job? Just tell me that ain't

1067
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: ain't nothing in particular happened, you know, it just was

1068
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,040
Speaker 1: So you were that all day and you're telling me

1069
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 1: nothing happened, no particular, No, I ain't no nothing, nothing

1070
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: meaning for happen. So something did happen? No, baby, listen, listen.

1071
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is it just it was just a

1072
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: long day, was just you know, you know, just a

1073
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 1: day to day got in the way and it just

1074
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 1: tired of something happened that you don't want to tell

1075
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 1: me about. I ain't nothing happening that I ain't gonna

1076
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 1: tell you about. I'm just trying to tell you. Ain't

1077
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:58,599
Speaker 1: nothing really happened. But just what I'm just, I'm tired.

1078
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 1: Well you don't. You sound like you're yelling. I mean

1079
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: you all listen to him. Look, I ain't. I ain't

1080
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,639
Speaker 1: trying to. Look, I'm not yelling. If I did, okay,

1081
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 1: then forget just what happened to the second job? What happened? Hey, Look,

1082
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 1: I'm tired. I didn't have a good day. I'm just

1083
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: gonna go on in hell. I'm watching your TV. So

1084
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:25,679
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to that. Basically, what you're saying,

1085
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to me. So I ain't

1086
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: seeing you all day and you come home and now

1087
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 1: I want to talk. You want to talk to me?

1088
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: Is that? Is that basically what you're saying? You don't

1089
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: You've been talking to all other people all day when

1090
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 1: I bows at work, though I'm at work. Oh well,

1091
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: I just want to check. No, baby, I want to

1092
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: work at the house. There's no talking. Well, no, I

1093
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 1: just want to cheer. No, I just want to cheer

1094
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: for a little while. Don't you have a talk show?

1095
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,680
Speaker 1: You have two shows. I just talk and you come

1096
01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: home and just no talking. That's well. I got a

1097
01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 1: radio show too. I did radio show, dinner, do two show,

1098
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 1: and I got a brief in and I do meeting.

1099
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:05,679
Speaker 1: You're talking to meeting. Y'all talking to meeting. You're talking

1100
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, you're talking a radio show. Yeah, but

1101
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: you can't talk home. But I'm trying to talking loud. Okay,

1102
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 1: I ain't getting loud. I see you getting loud now. Yeah,

1103
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 1: well you ain't listening. I'm listening. I'm trying to talk. Now,

1104
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 1: you ain't hearing me. I'm my voice raising because you're

1105
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: not listening. You know what, Forget it, just forget it,

1106
01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 1: just forget the whole thing, for get a ass. Get

1107
01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 1: it all right now, I don't want to talk to

1108
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: no more. Okay, cool, I'm going in here for ever.

1109
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm going I'm not talking to you no more. You

1110
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about me talking to you. When

1111
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:45,639
Speaker 1: you're coming in from now, I will not be talking. Okay.

1112
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 1: See how you like that? You don't want to talking.

1113
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk, baby, No no, no, no

1114
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: no no. I tried to talk, but you didn't want

1115
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:57,000
Speaker 1: to talk. Now you want to talk. We're talking about Listen,

1116
01:11:57,040 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 1: now we can talk, baby, I'm going on in here

1117
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 1: and just sit down the chill because you can't talk

1118
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 1: to me, all right, man, just just look look look

1119
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 1: just whatever you said. I didn't even know are we talking?

1120
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: All I was going to hear you said you want

1121
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: to talk to me? No more? Okay, forget it. Now

1122
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,840
Speaker 1: I want to talk. Okay, let's stop. You don't talk

1123
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: to me, and I won't talk to you. All right,

1124
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: that's good. It works fine for me. Ever talk to you. Now.

1125
01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 1: He walks away under his broil and he so he thinks,

1126
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: and he said answers crazy, And then she follows him

1127
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,600
Speaker 1: in the room. Oh yeah, she says, I just have

1128
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 1: one question. I just I just have one more question,

1129
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: I ask you, why don't you want to talk to me? Yeah?

1130
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: What did I do? Because I didn't do anything to you? Now,

1131
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 1: you ain't did nothing. I just told you I had

1132
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: a long thing, and you said you ain't want to talk.

1133
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 1: I said I'm gonna hear the kill you to follow

1134
01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:05,880
Speaker 1: me and didn't ask me again? Forget it? No, no, no,

1135
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 1: one more thing. I got one more thing to edge Columbo. Yeah,

1136
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: come on. Well okay, so one more time under my breath.

1137
01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 1: And I don't think she can hear this. So I

1138
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 1: said to myself this healthful crazy. Oh I'm crazy. I'm

1139
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 1: crazy now. I'm ready that one crazy. But I'm crazy. No,

1140
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 1: I ain't say he's crazy. I an't say he was crazy.

1141
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm crazy now I'm crazy. No, I said what I'm

1142
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 1: gonna shay you craziest, I'm show crazy. No, I don't

1143
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 1: know what I said. I ain't taking you this crazy now.

1144
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure you know I said this crazy you you

1145
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: want to see it. I'm sure to you what I'm

1146
01:13:54,360 --> 01:14:00,559
Speaker 1: looking at Wait what he's already looking at me? Crazy?

1147
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 1: Every man? Who's winning? Good friend? Lad? When you get

1148
01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 1: at work? Okay, oh my god, that's it right there, nah,

1149
01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: we pretty much covered it. High Yes, good job, Jay, Yeah,

1150
01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:28,599
Speaker 1: played Wifie very well, very well. We are coming up

1151
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 1: all right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey

1152
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Steven Show. Here's

1153
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,719
Speaker 1: a question for something funny, Steve. What's something your parents

1154
01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:45,600
Speaker 1: did when you were a kid that nowadays moms and

1155
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:49,120
Speaker 1: dads could never get away with? Beat me on a

1156
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 1: number eight at the grocer store in front of people.

1157
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: That's why it went dad, that's yeah, yeah, yeah? What

1158
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 1: give her? Damn man? What blow? What's the thing you get?

1159
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 1: You get where you show up? That's where you get

1160
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:11,320
Speaker 1: at the school? Second grade in front of the whole

1161
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 1: clay what right? Got my ass to out? She came

1162
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 1: up there up there? Wow. You know how when they

1163
01:15:18,040 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 1: get off their job? Ye, and come I let you.

1164
01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: But what she doing time she kicked that door open.

1165
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 1: I was cutting up later have been telling her I've

1166
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: been cutting up, right, so she just I get my

1167
01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:29,280
Speaker 1: mama dropped me off and decided not even to go

1168
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: in go to work in and just stood there by

1169
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 1: the door and waited for me to cut Soon as

1170
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: I start it is is right? Mama came up to

1171
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: the school, gave all my particular teachers permission to paddle me,

1172
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,600
Speaker 1: then gave him her house number and called me. So

1173
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 1: when you get home, I can show you how really

1174
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:59,719
Speaker 1: posted though. Whoa double double beatings, double service. The choir singing,

1175
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:05,160
Speaker 1: so they can't hear me. They see what's going on

1176
01:16:05,240 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 1: in that pew back the boy youraising look, yeah, because

1177
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: she's out here weighing me out. He'll show he'll save

1178
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:18,599
Speaker 1: ye don't even know it waits at church care. Yeah,

1179
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:21,880
Speaker 1: it's why the choir sang. That's why they can't hear me.

1180
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: That's where won't he do it started? My mama sent

1181
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 1: me to school one time with the exact same thing

1182
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:36,680
Speaker 1: in my lunch bag for six months. Oh what do

1183
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: you mean, the same lunch the exact same damn thing,

1184
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:50,439
Speaker 1: because I told her I don't eat no tuna everything. Yeah. Yeah,

1185
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 1: I've been in the junior choir and my mama said

1186
01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: something to me, and I mumbled something and she said something,

1187
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 1: and I'm mum on my breath while we're up in

1188
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: the quass, I'm thinking, you know she read them you

1189
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: way over there. Pew number five got hit with a

1190
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:13,559
Speaker 1: hum book on target right in the face. My mama

1191
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: could have actually quarterback for Cleveland. You got the girl

1192
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:22,960
Speaker 1: got scared? What what I was eating? I was eating

1193
01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 1: some candy in church? Yeah, my mama visibly. Yeah, choke

1194
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:38,160
Speaker 1: the candy out of my mom. I'm talking about two hands, wow,

1195
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: until it came out, Get it out, get it out.

1196
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: But shaking me though, But in a pew infront of people.

1197
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:46,960
Speaker 1: You couldn't do that. You can't do none of this.

1198
01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 1: You can't do it. You couldn't. Uh. And parents, we're talking,

1199
01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: that's what we're talking about. Things that parents did when

1200
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 1: we were kids that they could never get away with.

1201
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: Switch pull over and get a switch. You can't do that.

1202
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 1: Make you get yes, tommy, get out, pick it, clean

1203
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 1: it off, bring it here, and I'm gonna beat you

1204
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 1: with it. That's too much work. You know how long

1205
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 1: it takes to get that sweet as whipping with an

1206
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: extension cold all this is abuse now? Yeah? Yeah yeah,

1207
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, classified abuse. Yeah. I watched my sister

1208
01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 1: called call CPS on my mom and they came over that. Yeah,

1209
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,040
Speaker 1: she beat it, She beat her in front of them.

1210
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: There's no problems here. Call the people, Yeah, you want

1211
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:32,600
Speaker 1: to call them people? Oh, y'all gonna get y'all a

1212
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: show hold on that. Ladys Cbs said, well, there's no problems.

1213
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: Here's closed left. Whoa wow, you guys, I can't do that.

1214
01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 1: You can't do it. I mean, these days and kids,

1215
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:51,000
Speaker 1: it's just I think our parenting styles are different too,

1216
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like these kids they

1217
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:55,840
Speaker 1: get away with so much. Tysha came home from school.

1218
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 1: She had a bad day. She slammed her book bad down.

1219
01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. Would have been in

1220
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:06,439
Speaker 1: that book bag? I had done that knocked. Yeah, you're

1221
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:10,599
Speaker 1: slamming book back. You're buying book bag. Yeah, oh you're

1222
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 1: buying book bag? Now you want some book bag? You know?

1223
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 1: Didn't your parents take the door off to him? I

1224
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: slammed that dough so hard. My daddy said, so we're

1225
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 1: slamming dos huh huh. Took the whole dough off the

1226
01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: hen people just people come by a visit, those passing by.

1227
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 1: Why I stayed in my room as a kid. I

1228
01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 1: ain't got no privacy that. Yeah, my dad left that

1229
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:41,880
Speaker 1: dough off about three months. Wow, your lessons fingers now here?

1230
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:45,200
Speaker 1: My daddy was, I'm right, he didn't call me obviously

1231
01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: I took too long getting there. He's standing on the

1232
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 1: side of the house. I ribbed my bike pass to jimney.

1233
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 1: His ass pushed me off, Like how you tore that

1234
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 1: to your I'm talking about pushing me hard. Yeah, nothing

1235
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: was no way I could have kept my bell. We

1236
01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 1: do ain't even wobble, right, he pushed. I went straight down.

1237
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 1: My daddy was strong. He's kids today. Got me out

1238
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:22,720
Speaker 1: here his yard waiting on you. Though I'm riding up

1239
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 1: up the driveway. He's standing behind the chimney. Soon as

1240
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 1: I got by that chimney stuck it, stiffed back and

1241
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: locked my hand straight down. My bike can't even wobble.

1242
01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 1: I went straight to the ground. Cut a little up

1243
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 1: in the thing. You're gonna sit up in here and

1244
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:38,560
Speaker 1: me sitting up in there waiting on you like I

1245
01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:41,719
Speaker 1: got all damn. They get him, get that top bucket

1246
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 1: so we can finish this drive. I was in a

1247
01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 1: car with my daddy. You know how to call. You

1248
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:48,439
Speaker 1: know how to do it? Is not shut all the way.

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01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,400
Speaker 1: You need to kind of opening and shutter. Yeah, so

1250
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:52,120
Speaker 1: it'll be you know, because I'm hearing the jingle a

1251
01:20:52,160 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 1: little bit and I'm ain't a file sick. But I

1252
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 1: didn't see grown people when the door ain't clothed, you know,

1253
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 1: they opened it and clothed right right right, But we

1254
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 1: ran down the street. You're probably going about thirty five.

1255
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:03,360
Speaker 1: I ain't really be fit I open that doing close,

1256
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: you know, like I'm grown pulled over? Hell, you open

1257
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:09,560
Speaker 1: that dough? Fu? I said that it wasn't it was.

1258
01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 1: I got hit every direction you could possibly think of.

1259
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 1: What was he driving, why he was driving? He stopped.

1260
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 1: You wouldn't win seatbells back then, right, so when he stopped,

1261
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 1: he still gave me that all same bell and threw

1262
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 1: my hands back. Man. Man, from that point, I don't

1263
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 1: think I opened the dough No, I got I don't

1264
01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:38,160
Speaker 1: hear side I did already? All right, more of this

1265
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

1266
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:48,560
Speaker 1: you're listening Steven Show. Well, Carla, you just saw a

1267
01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: small lizard or a little geico in your house? Yes, girl,

1268
01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 1: I had a fit. I called. I'm sorry, I said,

1269
01:21:56,479 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: like you gecko, I know what you mean. Yeah, So

1270
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 1: what happened now? It was crawling in the house by

1271
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:12,120
Speaker 1: the fireplace. Girl, I jumped on the couch because you don't.

1272
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 1: You don't like snakes or nake So okay, So Steve,

1273
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Have you ever seen any kind

1274
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 1: of lizard or getto or anything crawling and it frightened

1275
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 1: you in your house or it made you scared? No,

1276
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 1: I've never had lizard anyhow. What happened? Fighter? Now, we've

1277
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 1: been on vacation and we were in Africa. As a

1278
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:41,160
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I've taken the family. And when I

1279
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 1: say lizard, now listen to me. We're in Africa. Don't

1280
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 1: worry about guy called that little green thing that talk

1281
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 1: on the command Yeah, no, that ain't what had got

1282
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: in lloyd bathroom. Oh yeah, this one had a little

1283
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 1: bit more What what you gonna do? This was? This

1284
01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: was the mama, grandma, I'm stump you and then I'm

1285
01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 1: gonna stomp you. It's what I thought that lizard was.

1286
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:09,559
Speaker 1: So Lurid was gonna take a shower. She started running

1287
01:23:09,600 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: the water. I don't know how this big ass thing

1288
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 1: got in the shower, but it's probably about almost a

1289
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 1: foot loan, almost a ruler. Ruler wasn't real big and heavy,

1290
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:25,000
Speaker 1: but it about a foot loan with the tail. So

1291
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:34,559
Speaker 1: let me now, We're in Africa, So now I got

1292
01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:39,160
Speaker 1: I ain't just bust in there. She out with the

1293
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:41,240
Speaker 1: tie around her in the living room in front of

1294
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 1: the whole family. So we got to think before we

1295
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 1: just running in this Africa because this is Africa. This

1296
01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 1: I need it good, because I was thinking rhinoceros or

1297
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:58,640
Speaker 1: something like that. So I said, Lord, what is it?

1298
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: And she just shaking. I God, I got Dad, I

1299
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 1: can't go. I believe's go get it. Well, I'm not

1300
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 1: gonna go in there until I get more information. Now,

1301
01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:10,280
Speaker 1: the people at the lodge day ain't here because we're

1302
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 1: in the villa. Yeah, we probably about maybe fifty yards

1303
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:19,200
Speaker 1: from the main lodge, so you know, I said, right,

1304
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:22,400
Speaker 1: I get her to calm down. She said, I don't

1305
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: know what it is, but it's so big and it's

1306
01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 1: in the shower. I knew the shower was glass. I said,

1307
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 1: was it on the floor? She said, was in the

1308
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 1: middle of the wall. I said, okay, I go in there.

1309
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:38,519
Speaker 1: I see this big ass lizard in the middle of

1310
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 1: the wall. And I said that scared me too. Do

1311
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 1: need something? Daddy? Everybody behind me, So now I'm daddy,

1312
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 1: I gotta do something. So I'm looking so I then

1313
01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:58,719
Speaker 1: I hear, don't kill it, somebody in the go, don't

1314
01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 1: kill it all the kid, don't kill it, Daddy, set

1315
01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 1: it free. I hear you think I'm fin open dough.

1316
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm not opening this damn dough. You know what we're

1317
01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 1: in the jungle. Do I know how to stand? Boy?

1318
01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:20,479
Speaker 1: I walked him out, through him outside and told all

1319
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:23,519
Speaker 1: the kids. I let him out. He gone, So you

1320
01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 1: just out noutled. Okay, last question. You're listening to take

1321
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 1: this job and shove it all? Heard that before. I

1322
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 1: thought that before. I wanted to do that before. Right here, Hello,

1323
01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm here. Well, guys, have you ever you know left

1324
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:51,920
Speaker 1: an attitude actions left a job with? Yeah, okay, let's

1325
01:25:51,960 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: hear about it. But you're taking hell. I'm shopping here here,

1326
01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:04,840
Speaker 1: and I got my ass over here right here, meaning

1327
01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:11,559
Speaker 1: right here. Yeah, I'm not throwing shade. I'm building a tent.

1328
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:19,240
Speaker 1: I know you have one story. You take this job

1329
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 1: and shove it. Story. Well, I worked at a place

1330
01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:29,479
Speaker 1: called Lincoln Electric and I hated it. I hated with

1331
01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:33,200
Speaker 1: everything in me. I worked a graveyard ship twelve to

1332
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:35,840
Speaker 1: eight in the morning because at four o'clock I don't

1333
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:39,120
Speaker 1: care who you are you sleepy? Yeah, there is no

1334
01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 1: getting used to four am. You're supposed to be sleep

1335
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:47,600
Speaker 1: It was the hardest job I've ever had. Lunch was

1336
01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 1: twenty minutes and you and we had to work on

1337
01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:52,519
Speaker 1: a piece system where we had to develop all these

1338
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:57,800
Speaker 1: wire coils by pieces. And I hated that job. And

1339
01:26:57,920 --> 01:26:59,360
Speaker 1: so I went to work one day and I just

1340
01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 1: told him, I said, hey, man, I'm not gonna be

1341
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:05,479
Speaker 1: able to continue anymore. I got a huge loan came

1342
01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:08,879
Speaker 1: in from small Business Association to start my own company.

1343
01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:12,760
Speaker 1: And all the men was the oh wow, really, Steve,

1344
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:15,720
Speaker 1: what you do? Yeah, I'm starting my own carpet cleaning business. Man,

1345
01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:18,560
Speaker 1: I got the money, the loan came through, offered me

1346
01:27:18,680 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 1: the body equipment, So I'm gonna go full time. Oh man,

1347
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:24,640
Speaker 1: good luck to you, Good luck to you. So I

1348
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 1: ended up getting his job as a carpet cleaning company. Well,

1349
01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:32,519
Speaker 1: one of the guys used my company, which partly was true.

1350
01:27:32,640 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 1: I didn't really get the money from a small business loan.

1351
01:27:36,560 --> 01:27:41,360
Speaker 1: I just wanted to quit, okay. And so one dude

1352
01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 1: called me and asked me to clean his house because

1353
01:27:45,320 --> 01:27:47,840
Speaker 1: he knew my house number. And I went by his

1354
01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 1: house but I had went to pick and pay with

1355
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:54,760
Speaker 1: your grocery store, and I rented machines every day, and

1356
01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:56,559
Speaker 1: just put it in the back seat of my car.

1357
01:27:57,280 --> 01:27:59,720
Speaker 1: And I pulled up at his house and unloaded the

1358
01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:03,800
Speaker 1: carpet cleaning machine from back seating my car. Man, I

1359
01:28:03,880 --> 01:28:06,599
Speaker 1: thought you was a professional car for cleaner. You didn't

1360
01:28:06,680 --> 01:28:09,320
Speaker 1: rinding the machine from that. Man, I'm gonna tell everybody

1361
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 1: down at the job, Okay, So I said, Okay, cool,

1362
01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 1: ain't no problem right here. That sound like. So I

1363
01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:24,040
Speaker 1: just went on to ruin his copy ruined Now so

1364
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:30,400
Speaker 1: ruined Carver didn't extract the water, just put it in there.

1365
01:28:32,160 --> 01:28:34,320
Speaker 1: Since you gonna go tell go tell him that too.

1366
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:39,640
Speaker 1: I felt good about this, didn't you very comfortable? And

1367
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 1: from that story we go to, uh, it wasn't a

1368
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 1: funny story. It wasn't really just so you know, I

1369
01:28:49,200 --> 01:28:51,800
Speaker 1: don't like the company, or no, I really didn't like you.

1370
01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:57,160
Speaker 1: All Right, we're coming back with more of the Steve

1371
01:28:57,240 --> 01:28:59,040
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. As a matter of fact, this is

1372
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 1: our last break the day. Steve's closing remarks, you don't

1373
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 1: want to miss it. It's been a good day. We'll

1374
01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:07,679
Speaker 1: be back at forty nine after the hour right after

1375
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 1: this you're listening. Here we are, last break of the day,

1376
01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:16,840
Speaker 1: last break of the day, with just one more thing, Steve,

1377
01:29:16,920 --> 01:29:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm glad for one. I think we all are that

1378
01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 1: your closing remarks are back. You know, I've learned so

1379
01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:24,960
Speaker 1: much over the years. You know, I've had a tough

1380
01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 1: goal of it, as many of you have. Mine, ain't

1381
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 1: my story animal richer, are deeper than nobody else's. So

1382
01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:34,439
Speaker 1: I just try to share the information that I've actually learned,

1383
01:29:35,439 --> 01:29:38,760
Speaker 1: because I've learned a lot. And one of the things

1384
01:29:38,880 --> 01:29:43,280
Speaker 1: that I've learned is about when to start. You know,

1385
01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:46,960
Speaker 1: whenever you come up with an idea or thought or

1386
01:29:47,200 --> 01:29:50,600
Speaker 1: move you want to make, or something comes from your imagination.

1387
01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 1: The thing that I find that stops people oftentimes is

1388
01:29:57,640 --> 01:30:02,799
Speaker 1: when do I start? Now, here's the thing with starting.

1389
01:30:04,640 --> 01:30:09,640
Speaker 1: What people do is they delay the start by overthinking it.

1390
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:14,880
Speaker 1: And if you overthink something, guess what will eventually and

1391
01:30:15,000 --> 01:30:19,560
Speaker 1: you overexplain it to other people Eventually the how it

1392
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:22,800
Speaker 1: won't work, it's going to come up. So you have

1393
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:25,800
Speaker 1: this fabulous idea that you've thought of, right, and then

1394
01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 1: you shared with some people and he said, man, I'm

1395
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:29,639
Speaker 1: gonna go do this and you start talking it over,

1396
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:31,960
Speaker 1: and you start thinking it through, and you share it

1397
01:30:32,000 --> 01:30:34,439
Speaker 1: with more people. The more people you share with, and

1398
01:30:34,560 --> 01:30:36,639
Speaker 1: the more people and the more you think it through,

1399
01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:40,680
Speaker 1: you know what, you keep coming up with the mishaps,

1400
01:30:40,720 --> 01:30:43,120
Speaker 1: the things that can go wrong, and you end up

1401
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:47,280
Speaker 1: delaying the starting. The other thing that happens is people

1402
01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:50,040
Speaker 1: try to line all they ducks up in a row

1403
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:52,320
Speaker 1: before they start so they can just go on and

1404
01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:57,080
Speaker 1: start knocking them down. That's a mistake because that almost

1405
01:30:57,280 --> 01:31:01,679
Speaker 1: never ever happens. I have yet to see any deal

1406
01:31:01,840 --> 01:31:05,800
Speaker 1: I've ever done, any project i've started, go just the

1407
01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:08,439
Speaker 1: way I thought it was gonna go. I have never

1408
01:31:08,560 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 1: seen that. I have yet to close a deal that

1409
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:17,800
Speaker 1: just with smoothly, no wrinkles, no bumps, no nothing. I've

1410
01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 1: never seen that. So when you're waiting to start and

1411
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:27,280
Speaker 1: then the naysayers hit and you're waiting to start to

1412
01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:32,240
Speaker 1: get your ducks lined up in the row, you're delaying

1413
01:31:32,320 --> 01:31:36,439
Speaker 1: the process. You know when the best time to start

1414
01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:44,720
Speaker 1: is right now, because right now alleviates procrastination. If you

1415
01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:46,800
Speaker 1: wait on the ducks to get lined up in the row,

1416
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:51,479
Speaker 1: and you're listening to the naysayers, procrastination has already set

1417
01:31:51,560 --> 01:31:55,680
Speaker 1: in and taken place, and oftentimes it takes hold. So

1418
01:31:55,840 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 1: what I found is when I come up with the idea,

1419
01:31:58,160 --> 01:32:05,680
Speaker 1: I start the process. Now, I start the process. Now, look, man,

1420
01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:09,920
Speaker 1: you can easily do that. It's simple things. What stops

1421
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:12,599
Speaker 1: people is you try to figure out all the way through.

1422
01:32:13,160 --> 01:32:15,439
Speaker 1: You have this goal that you got and you say, okay,

1423
01:32:15,439 --> 01:32:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this. Then if I do that? Then

1424
01:32:17,160 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 1: if I do that, and then you get stuck because

1425
01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:21,640
Speaker 1: you go, well, what happens after that? Because you've never

1426
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:24,519
Speaker 1: been in that area before, you've never gone down that road,

1427
01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:27,599
Speaker 1: so the unknown strikes you. And then because you can't

1428
01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:29,639
Speaker 1: figure out what you do when you get to the unknown,

1429
01:32:30,160 --> 01:32:32,880
Speaker 1: you stop. So now you couldn't line up all your

1430
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:36,439
Speaker 1: ducks in the road, so the process to success is delayed. Again,

1431
01:32:36,960 --> 01:32:40,360
Speaker 1: stop doing that to yourself. In two eighteen, y'all start

1432
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 1: now do it now. What you have to do next

1433
01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 1: will be shown to you. It'll your first step will

1434
01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:55,519
Speaker 1: lead you to the stat second step. Now, sometimes on

1435
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:57,800
Speaker 1: your journey you make a bad turn. You gotta make it.

1436
01:32:57,880 --> 01:32:59,640
Speaker 1: You turn and come back and cross over the other

1437
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:02,559
Speaker 1: bridge instead of going that way. But until you take

1438
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:06,080
Speaker 1: one step, you'll never know where the next turn is.

1439
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 1: If it's a fark in the road, if it's a

1440
01:33:08,840 --> 01:33:10,880
Speaker 1: you turn, if it's a been, if it's a valley,

1441
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:14,040
Speaker 1: if it's a mountain. You got to start today. Stop

1442
01:33:14,120 --> 01:33:16,680
Speaker 1: delaying at everybody. Whatever it is you want to do,

1443
01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:22,840
Speaker 1: start today. You may be surprised that you can actually

1444
01:33:22,880 --> 01:33:27,000
Speaker 1: get yourself further than you thought you could with nobody

1445
01:33:27,080 --> 01:33:30,200
Speaker 1: else's health. Now, in order to be successful, you're gonna

1446
01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:34,839
Speaker 1: need somebody's health. But to start, oftentimes you just need yourself.

1447
01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 1: Start the process. God will show you the way. He

1448
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:47,200
Speaker 1: really will. He always has. I say this often to people,

1449
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:53,040
Speaker 1: God will get you through. For everybody's listening right now,

1450
01:33:53,360 --> 01:33:58,320
Speaker 1: Name one thing that God hasn't gotten you through. And

1451
01:33:58,960 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 1: if He hasn't gotten you through it, he's currently pulling

1452
01:34:02,240 --> 01:34:04,680
Speaker 1: you through it right now. And you know how I

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Speaker 1: know because you're listening to the radio. How you listening

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Speaker 1: to the radio. It's because he's pulling you through something

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Speaker 1: right now. He's gotten you through all the other stuff,

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Speaker 1: but he's pulling you through right now. If you start

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Speaker 1: the process, God will pull you through. But you'll never

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Speaker 1: know until you start. Make twenty eighteen the year starting

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Speaker 1: something great in your life. Start, start something great. Don't

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Speaker 1: participate in no mess this year. Stay out of mess.

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Speaker 1: You know what mess is. Mess looks like it ain't right,

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Speaker 1: it don't feel good, it don't sound good. It's mess.

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Speaker 1: Stay out of mess this year. Remove yourself from messy

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Speaker 1: situations so you can move in the right direction. Start

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Speaker 1: this year, man, make it happen. Okay, start today. That's

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Speaker 1: the best time. Thank y'all for listening. Hope that helps you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you? All right, thank you? Yeah? Like that? All right?

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Speaker 1: Check us home. Well, y'all, have a great weekend. Close

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Speaker 1: your clothes. I'd have yourself a good weekend. We just

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Speaker 1: let him slide on. Yeah close, yeah, yeah, yeah. We

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