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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know,

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Speaker 1: it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is drawbavery letter.

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Speaker 1: Thanking if you subject line them up, Line them all up,

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Speaker 1: and I still win. Stephen Shirley, I've been in a

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Speaker 1: relationship for twelve years and my girlfriend confessed that she

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Speaker 1: cheated on me seven years ago. She blurted it out

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Speaker 1: during an argument and it cut like a knife. I

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Speaker 1: have never cheated on her When I could have, I

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Speaker 1: remained faithful. The worst part for me is that she

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Speaker 1: won't tell me who she cheated with. She thinks that

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Speaker 1: clearing her conscience is enough and I should be able

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Speaker 1: to deal with it and move on. But I can't.

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Speaker 1: How can she halfway confess it could be one of

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Speaker 1: my friends, co workers, a guy at the gym, or

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Speaker 1: even a family member. I have been going crazy imagining

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Speaker 1: her with another man, and then trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: if he was taller than me, if he was more

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Speaker 1: he have a beard? I'm driving myself crazy thinking it

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Speaker 1: might be someone in our inner circle. I went to

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Speaker 1: her again this morning and asked her to tell me

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Speaker 1: who it is. She had the audacity to tell me

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Speaker 1: that she didn't have to tell me that she cheated

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Speaker 1: in the first place, so I need to stop asking

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Speaker 1: her who she cheated with. I asked her if it

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Speaker 1: was more than one guy, and she smirked and said maybe.

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Speaker 1: I told her to line them all up, and I

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Speaker 1: still went She said sarcastically, Oh really, So now I'm

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Speaker 1: even more confused. In order for me to move forward

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Speaker 1: in this relationship, I need to know who she slept

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Speaker 1: with and all of the details of her affair. Are

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Speaker 1: these reasonable requests?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: What were you guys arguing about? I mean, you don't say,

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Speaker 1: but it must have been pretty bad for her to

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Speaker 1: let that slip out. I mean, who does that? She

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Speaker 1: did it on purpose? Nobody really slips out with that

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Speaker 1: kind of information. Anyway, You're asking for something you're not

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Speaker 1: going to get who she slept with, how many was

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Speaker 1: it a co work? You're not going to get that.

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Speaker 1: She's taunting you with that information. She's holding onto it.

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Speaker 1: Who knows why she cheated, But since you never knew

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Speaker 1: about it and it was seven years ago, she just

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Speaker 1: shouldn't have blurted it out. It was better when you

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Speaker 1: were clueless. Now you feel betrayed, you feel suspicious of her,

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Speaker 1: you're mad, you're hurt, and I'm sure you feel like

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Speaker 1: a fool. You feel foolish, you don't trust her anymore.

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Speaker 1: And I'm only saying all of that because that's how

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Speaker 1: most people feel when when they've been cheated on, when

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Speaker 1: they find that out. You're no different in that regard.

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Speaker 1: So these answers you want, the answers you say you

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Speaker 1: need to move on, who, where, when, and all that.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna get that. It's just not gonna happen,

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Speaker 1: unless unless you have another big argument, then maybe she'll

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Speaker 1: blurt some more stuff out. But until then, I guess

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Speaker 1: after twelve years, this relationship looks like like it's at

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Speaker 1: a standstill or either it's over because she's not gonna

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Speaker 1: say anything.

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Speaker 3: Steve man Man or man oh Man I ain't never

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Speaker 3: heard this one be fun.

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Speaker 2: Uh Uh, this is a new one to me.

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Speaker 3: Because, Bro, I'm just gonna have to be real with

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Speaker 3: you when I read this letter right here, and I

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Speaker 3: don't know how you're gonna take this, doll, but just this,

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Speaker 3: Uncle Steve, just talking now from a real from a

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Speaker 3: real perspective, man, because I don't I don't even understand

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Speaker 3: the whole thought process behind the letter. And I just

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Speaker 3: want you to, just as a man, look at this thing.

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Speaker 3: Maybe in a way you're not looking at it. I've

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Speaker 3: that she cheated on me seven years ago. Okay, first

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Speaker 3: of all, were all going if y'all been together twelve years?

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Speaker 3: She decided to tell you that she cheated on you

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Speaker 3: seven years ago.

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Speaker 2: Where y'all going?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: Twelve years? Boyfriend and girlfriend?

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Speaker 3: Andy?

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Speaker 2: When this gonna dog?

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Speaker 3: I ain't here no talk of nothing else, marriage, family, nothing,

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Speaker 3: what y'all doing. She blurted it out doing an argument,

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Speaker 3: and it cut like a knife. I'm with Shirley on this.

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Speaker 3: You don't blurt that out. She deliberately said that to

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Speaker 3: cut you, and you said it cut like a knife.

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Speaker 3: I ain't never cheated on her when I could have.

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Speaker 3: I remained favors. Then you say, the worst part for

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Speaker 3: me is she won't tell me who she cheated with.

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Speaker 2: That's the worst part, sir, that's the worst part.

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Speaker 3: Br for real, man, Come on, hold up, man, listen

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Speaker 3: how that's the worst part is she won't tell me

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Speaker 3: who she treated.

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Speaker 2: No, no dog.

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Speaker 3: The worst part was it's two worst parts.

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Speaker 2: The worst part is she cheated.

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Speaker 3: The real worst part was she had the gumption to

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Speaker 3: face and still standing nog. This woman got a lot

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: It ain't a lot of women can look they man

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Speaker 3: and I and tell him that and no, that's gonna go. Well,

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Speaker 3: you have got to expect this to turn out disastrous

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Speaker 3: for you to say this to your man, and you

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Speaker 3: know that. So she ain't accidentally blurted nothing. Now she

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Speaker 3: did that to cut you, and she did. She thinks

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Speaker 3: that clearing her conscious is enough and I should be

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Speaker 3: able to deal with it and move on. But I

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Speaker 3: can't you sure that was to clear her conscidness, bro

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Speaker 3: or something else. Me personally, I think it's something else.

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Speaker 3: I ain't got to clear my country for nothing happing

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Speaker 3: seven years ago. I promise you I been ain't nothing nothing, nothing,

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Speaker 3: nothing whatsoever?

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Speaker 2: Nothing.

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Speaker 3: I need to clear my conscience that then got away

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Speaker 3: for seven years.

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Speaker 2: I'm clear. Now, I'm clear. I'm about the wood, that

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Speaker 2: statue of limitation and everything. I don't know. How can

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Speaker 2: she half wake of family brom? I'm stuck?

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Speaker 3: Oh how she can confess period? You're talking about a

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Speaker 3: half a confession? Bro?

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Man? What difference do that make?

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Speaker 3: It could be one of my friends, co workers, a

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Speaker 3: guy at the gym, or even a family member. I've

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Speaker 3: been going crazy imagining her with another man and trying

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Speaker 2: If he's taller, Well, he probably is. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: Hi is he tall? That came? Did yo? At everything?

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Speaker 1: That's more in shape?

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Speaker 2: And get all right?

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject line them all up and I still win.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is line them all up

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Speaker 1: and I.

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Speaker 2: Still win, Broh.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know where we're going with this relationship.

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Speaker 3: This is a bad letter man. What I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 3: you at the end. I don't think you're gonna do

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Speaker 3: it anyway, But here we go. You and your wife,

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Speaker 3: you and your girlfriend of twelve years had an argument.

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Speaker 3: She told you she cheated on you seven years ago.

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Speaker 3: That stung you because you've never cheated on her, and

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Speaker 3: you said you could. But then you say, the worst

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Speaker 3: part of that is she won't tell you who she

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Speaker 3: cheated with. That's the worst part, No, dog, the worst

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Speaker 3: part was she cheated. The real worst part was she

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Speaker 3: had the guts to say it to you in your

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Speaker 3: faith and be standing at Most women know if you

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Speaker 3: go to your man with that information, you.

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Speaker 2: Pretty much know it's gonna go really, really bad. She

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Speaker 2: didn't care.

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Speaker 3: So she thinks that clearing her conscience is enough and

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Speaker 3: it should be able to deal with it, and I

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Speaker 3: should be able to deal with it and move on.

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Speaker 2: But I can't. How can she half way confess? Halfway?

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Speaker 3: I shot some okay that that ain't enough for you?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Who you see what I'm saying? Boy? We knew

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Speaker 2: what the hell you mean?

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Speaker 3: You shot somebody we knew we right now, we ain't

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Speaker 2: Who will win? What you mean? What happened? Okay? So

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Speaker 2: here we go.

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Speaker 3: It could be one of my friends, co workers, a

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Speaker 3: guy at the gym, or even.

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Speaker 2: A family member.

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Speaker 3: I've been going crazy imagining her with another man and

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Speaker 3: then trying to figure out if he was taller than me,

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Speaker 2: Does he have a beer? Yo?

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Speaker 3: Bro, you got some You got some self esteem that

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Speaker 3: you that you're dealing with, and she know it, and

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Speaker 3: she has played on your low self esteem. And I'm

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Speaker 3: approving in this letter. What do's do it make if

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Speaker 3: if he a most shape? You ain't you supposed to

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Speaker 3: be back on why you cheated on me? See, you

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Speaker 3: ain't found that out yet. You ain't asked one time?

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Speaker 3: Why did you cheat on me? That's your problem, y'all.

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Speaker 3: If you don't address that, this half confession for confession,

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Speaker 3: that don't mean nothing. I went to her again this morning.

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Speaker 3: Lord how mesa.

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Speaker 2: Or I'm well, y'all still together?

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Speaker 3: I went, I'm so this got a tripping me on?

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Speaker 3: I went to her again this morning and asked her

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Speaker 3: to tell me who it is. She had the audacity

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Speaker 3: to tell me she didn't have to tell me she

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Speaker 3: cheated in the first place. What why we're still on him?

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Speaker 3: She told you, wait a minute, I ain't gotta tell

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Speaker 3: you nothing. I ain't even have to tell y'all cheated

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Speaker 3: in the first place. But she did, though, And what

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Speaker 3: get the audacity of her was to tell it to

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Speaker 2: Bro, You got to get to the why she decided

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Speaker 2: why she cheat?

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Speaker 3: So I need to stop asking her. So she said,

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Speaker 3: you need to stop asking her who she cheated with.

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Speaker 3: I asked her if it was more than one guy.

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Speaker 3: She smirked and said, maybe who are you're playing with?

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Speaker 3: You lady, bruh, bruh. Br you ain't couldna slapped either.

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Speaker 3: You're not going to keep slapping me. Maybe, so now

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Speaker 3: you could have been more than one. I told her

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Speaker 3: to line them all up, and I still win. Line

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Speaker 3: them up. It's a lineup dog you. So now she ain't.

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Speaker 2: Just cheat on you?

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Speaker 3: Se you Joe, you think it's more than one and

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Speaker 3: you can line them up and I still win.

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Speaker 2: No, you're not winning, You're not you're winning.

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Speaker 3: What she sarcastically said, Oh, I told him line them

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Speaker 3: up and I still win it. She wouldn't she sarcastically said,

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Speaker 3: oh really, So now I'm even more confused. In order

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Speaker 3: for me to move forward in this relationship, I need

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Speaker 3: to know who she slept with and all the details

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Speaker 3: of her affair.

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Speaker 2: Are these unreasonable requests? Bruh?

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Speaker 3: They stupid request. I'm just gonna be real with you

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Speaker 3: as a man. Man, this woman don't really care about

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Speaker 3: you because every chance she gets to slap you with

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Speaker 3: a zinger?

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Speaker 2: Can she come? I had to have found you seven

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Speaker 2: years ago? Who was it with? I ain't got to

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Speaker 2: tell you none of that? Well? Who is it? I

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Speaker 2: asked her? Was it more than one guy? She said? Maybe? What? What?

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Speaker 3: Bro While we still talking to this chick? Are you

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Speaker 3: out your mind? Why are you fighting for this right here?

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Speaker 3: Because you don't have nothing? Y'all been together twelve years.

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Speaker 3: You ain't mad, you ain't engaged. What y'all got? You

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Speaker 3: ain't got nothing. She don't care how you feel, She

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Speaker 3: ain't trying to protect your feelings, and she don't respect you.

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Speaker 3: This woman is so damn disrespectful. Who wasn't it mortal?

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Speaker 1: It?

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Speaker 2: Maybe man, let me tell you this.

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Speaker 3: We not have this conversation now. I'll take your ragged ass.

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Speaker 3: You can get that line up and go right on

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Speaker 3: back to him or what you not finish? You would

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Speaker 3: sitting in my face and tell me maybe it's.

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Speaker 2: More than one.

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Speaker 3: I ain't got to tell you nothing to deal with it.

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Speaker 3: And you know why she doing this, man, because she

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Speaker 3: know you ain't going nowhere. And you know why she

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Speaker 3: don't think you going nowhere because she know you week.

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Speaker 2: That's all to us.

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Speaker 3: She know you weak, she knows she could slap you around,

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Speaker 3: and you're gonna stay there. You're the perfect Christian. You

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Speaker 3: the person that could get slapped and turn the other

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Speaker 3: checks here talking.

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Speaker 2: Why he want to know who it is like that's

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Speaker 2: gonna make a difference, bru.

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Speaker 3: It's not gonna make a damn bit of difference, man,

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Speaker 3: a matter of fact, it's gonna make it worse. And

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Speaker 3: know her to make it worse, brou But listen to me,

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Speaker 3: it don't get no worse than it is right now.

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Speaker 3: She don't care about you, man. This ain't no reason

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Speaker 3: or something why you begging for this chick right here?

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Speaker 3: You know how many women to do the relationship the

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Speaker 3: right way. You ain love with somebody that they ain't

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Speaker 3: in love with you.

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Speaker 3: Stop pack week man, get your guts and walk.

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