1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: I think I just found a missing baby, but I 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: don't know. If I want to find out, what should 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: I do? This is okay op where we beat the 4 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: craziest true stories on Earth. I'm John and good Riley. 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: If you found a scenario, some sort of scenario we're 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: about to get into with a potentially possible missing baby, 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: would you just be like nah? 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: I mean, if it got it there, if it got 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: itself there, it should get itself out. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: If this baby can crawl its way to this place, 11 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: it can crawl back home. 12 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: Okay, what happens Whenever a baby deer is born? What happens? 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: It pops out and it's like yo, I'm baby. 14 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 2: Yep, And what does it do after that? 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 3: Bro? 16 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: It looks cute. 17 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: Okay, it walks away. 18 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: It walks away like like I'm done. 19 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 2: No, no, do your baby deers could walk like after 20 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: it's born. 21 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: They just pop out and they're just skating. 22 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: So how did the baby get there? It should get it, 23 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: get it get itself out. 24 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: I feel like Riley was was just like laying down 25 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: some sort of like deep Southern metaphor, like if you 26 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: got four gophers and a barrel, then then your gold 27 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: is as good as gold or something like that. And 28 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: I am just like his wisdom. Just I'm just not 29 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: catching it. Yeah, catch off from this, but the baby, 30 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: But the deer walks so the baby can find its 31 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: way home. It's it's the instincts, yeah in there. 32 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: You don't have to read that deep into it. But yeah, 33 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 2: that's what I'm trying to get at. 34 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: Well, there's only one way to find it out. Spill 35 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: that tea. And this comes from Husky Girl eighty six 36 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: and this was from December first, twenty twenty three. I 37 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: found an abandoned nineteen ninety nine Honda Civic in a 38 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,559 Speaker 1: forest on the Nevada California border, on the California side, 39 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: not too far away from us. Normally I wouldn't think 40 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: much of an abandoned car, but this just looked like 41 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: something bad had happened. The trunk was popped open and 42 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: items were still inside. These items were a box of diapers, 43 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: a sunshade for a pram, an infant sized winter jacket, 44 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: a plush toy for an infant, and an open envelope 45 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: for a paycheck from a business in Reno, Nevada. The 46 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: envelope has a name and a dress and an employee 47 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: ID number on it. There was a baby carrier in 48 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: the backseat, which luckily only had some trash in it 49 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: and not a baby, thank god. The other things in 50 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: the car was just some food and drinks and trash 51 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: and a sock that was baby sized. All of the 52 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: baby stuff was pink and girly, so I'm assuming the 53 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: baby was a little girl as well. The name on 54 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: the envelope was female as well. The car had a 55 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: license plate removed. The lights and the radio were removed, 56 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: as well as the back tires. Man, this thing is 57 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: just a little worse for wear. Outside the car was 58 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 1: an empty box of diapers, a high heel hanging from 59 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: a tree with the soul torn up and the matching 60 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: one across the clearing on the ground, and a mound 61 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: of fresh dirt between the shoe tree and the Oh, 62 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: this is so detailed. This is like I feel like 63 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: it's giving true crime vibes. Unfortunately, that's like the area seems. 64 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: To be well written, author Ope. 65 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: I took photos of everything and wrote down the VIN 66 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: and the name and address on the envelope. I wandered 67 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: around the surrounding area of the forest a bit more, 68 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: and I found a pile of women's clothing strewn across 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: the ground, maybe one hundred feet into the tree line. Man, 70 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: this person really is like a forensic reporter or like 71 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: novelist over here. These clothes weren't winter appropriate. They looked 72 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: like underwear abroad some shorts. Seeing the clothes started to 73 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: give me some worry for what the situation with this 74 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: car if it's connected. I ran the VIN number through 75 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: an online search and the number doesn't come back as 76 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: reported stolen. The other thing that unerved me was that 77 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: everything was dry and mostly clean compared to the surroundings. 78 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: We've had consistent rainfall and the ground was muddy, yet 79 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: the diaper box on the ground was dry. The cardboard 80 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: didn't seem to have been rained on or anything even 81 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: absorbed much water from the mud. The contents of the 82 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: trunk were also dry and fairly clean, which seemed wrong 83 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: given the fresh mud and consistent rain. The exposed metal 84 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: from where the tires were removed also hadn't rusted, yet 85 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: the car was neatly parked in the clearing and not 86 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: on the road like it got stuck in the mud 87 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: or the snow or something like that. So I called 88 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: all of this into the police. 89 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 2: Nice. 90 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 1: I gave them photos in a GPS location in the 91 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: forest service road number, but I've gotten nothing back yet. 92 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: Not a great sign, just kind of all negative signs 93 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: so far. Unfortunately, the county this forest sits in is 94 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: pretty small, so I didn't even know if the police 95 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 1: have the resources to even go this far to check 96 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: the car out. Given that the car seemed to be 97 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: freshly left there and there's a child involved, I want 98 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: to get some closure that whoever this is belonged to 99 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: is okay and this is just a stolen car that 100 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: was left in the woods. Does anyone have advice on 101 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: what I can do to get more information on what happened. 102 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: I will admit this forest has always given me u 103 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: nerving vibes, so maybe I'm reading too deep into this, 104 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: but I want to make sure nothing worse happened to 105 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: whoever owned the car and the baby. We have a 106 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: juicy update coming away. 107 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: What do you think is happening? Put on your head, 108 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: put on your hat, give me something. 109 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, Most of these stories don't end 110 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: so great. Yeah, so I do have a bit of 111 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: an unnerving suspicion that there is at a bare minimum. 112 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: Not a happy ending on to this. I am slightly 113 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: afraid of the worst, to be honest. 114 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very detailed and it looks it doesn't look good. 115 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, this like forensic. This rogue FBI agent who's just 116 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: taking to Reddit to just spill the case files is 117 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: really just like it laying it out for us today. 118 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: It's just it's just it's just not giving me good vibes. 119 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: But I need to do the thing that we do 120 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: that to find out, and that is read the juicy 121 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: update onto the update the next day, December second. Ooh, 122 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: I hope I'm updating this correct. I have good news, y'all. Okay, 123 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 1: so this is better than what we thought. This was 124 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: luckily the best case scenario, and my update is mundane. 125 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: With the help of other users with far better detective 126 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: skills than me, we were able to track down the 127 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: individual's Facebook page. This, Yeah, we got the Facebook. Good job, boys. 128 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: This has been confirmed to be the individual who owned 129 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: the car. She is safe and her child is safe 130 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: as well. Oh good god, Wow, thank god, thank god, 131 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: thank god. She's active on Facebook and I contacted her 132 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: with information on where her car is. She had posted 133 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: about it getting stolen. In early September, and no one 134 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: else had stumbled upon it and told her until I did. 135 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: Oh that checks out so much. 136 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: It really, honestly all makes sense. Like someone stole the stuff. 137 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: All the crap is everywhere. It's it's all lining up. 138 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: The lines are lining up. Thank you to everyone who 139 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: helped guide me to help find her and to help 140 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: her find her car. I'm very happy this is just 141 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: a creepy find and nothing more nice theft. Yeah, this 142 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: could have been a drastically different scenario, and I'm glad 143 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: that that is truly all that it was. But I 144 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: think it kind of begs the question to everyone watching 145 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: and to you, big protein. You're driving you, yeah, you're 146 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: on a road trip. 147 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 2: I'm on a road trip. 148 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: You're driving along, you're crossing the Nevada California border. You 149 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: see this abandoned car, You see all of the different 150 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: things strown about. Not only what are you going to do? 151 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: I'm more so curious what's going through your mind at 152 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: this point? Thank you for the method acting. 153 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 2: Yes, what's going on through my mind is what's going 154 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 2: on here? I probably look for like a wallet or 155 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: something some like identification, maybe like a glove department like 156 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: you have the uh, your license and registration, the registration. 157 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: That's very smart. 158 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: That's what I would be looking for first. And also, sorry, 159 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 2: I know this sounds kind of weird. I would also 160 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: be looking for like blood around it if it looks 161 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: kind of creepy, because I would hunt and you can 162 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: like track, dear, so you would look for little things 163 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 2: like that and kind of make sure that there isn't 164 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 2: any sign of foul play. Right, But yeah, I think, 165 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 2: I mean, op, you did the right thing. And it 166 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 2: seemed like they took a lot of pictures. Yeah, so 167 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: that's probably why they were so detailed, because they were like, 168 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: I actually need help. This is what everything looks like. 169 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, that's what I would do, just to like 170 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: make sure everything was good. What about you? Did you 171 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 2: keep driving? 172 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: I actually, I actually literally just changed my answer in 173 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: the split second right before I was going to do it, 174 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: because how like you kind of see abandoned car like 175 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: cars do be abandoned and sometimes yeah, am I wrong? 176 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm driving, like there would have 177 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: to be something really really significant to notice, and I'll 178 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: and I'll look back at the beginning of the story 179 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: to see if there's anything in particular that stand out, 180 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: but like this on this one just looked like something 181 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: bad had happened. I'll be I'll be honest, I don't know, 182 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: not out of a like you know, malicious intent or 183 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: like a not caring intent. I don't know if it 184 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 1: would would even break my radar, to be completely honest, 185 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: it's a fair point because like you're driving along, especially 186 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 1: if you're on like a road trip or something. We 187 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: don't know exactly where OP was going, but if you're 188 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: driving by the forest at the Nevada California border, this 189 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: is probably not your like daily commute. This is probably 190 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: like some form of longer drive. It could be like 191 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: people go to like Tahoe and Reno and stuff like that. 192 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 1: It totally could be accumute. They could like work in 193 00:09:55,480 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: Tahoe or something like that. But yeah, I I you know, honesty, 194 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: I don't think I would stop because they literally wouldn't 195 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: even give it a second thought. 196 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 2: You just know it's a bandoned car. But if I 197 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: but if I. 198 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: Did stop, in all honesty, like, I probably would be 199 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: like I don't know if my brain would think clearly, 200 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: if I thought that there was some sort of foul play, 201 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: I would probably immediately call the police, low key and 202 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: honestly probably kind of let them handle a lot of it. 203 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, i'd probably like read the license plates 204 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: and things, just get the ball rolling, maybe maybe wait 205 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: there to make sure they get there. I guess it 206 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: would probably kind of depend on like what's going on, 207 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: like if I was if I was like like on 208 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: the way to like in a rush, like if I 209 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: was going to I don't know, like if I'm best 210 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: friend's wedding, if I'm in top best friend's best friend wedding, perfect, 211 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: like that's like a thing that would happen to Tahoe. 212 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't stick around. I'll be totally honest. I'm 213 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: honestly wondering if I would even think. I really truly 214 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: think that I wouldn't even make wise enough to think 215 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: about it. But you know what, I am wise in 216 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: augh to do, Riley, what's that? Read this next story? 217 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: I was thinking about leaving my wife after she opened 218 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: up to me. What should I do? And that is 219 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: the question, Riley. What should they do? 220 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: Depends on what she's telling you. That's really that's really 221 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: the kicker, right, how you respond? 222 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: If she you should respond by using words after she 223 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: used words to you. 224 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: What do you think she told them? 225 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: I mean, it's got to be draft if it makes 226 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 1: it on this show, on this show. Is this a 227 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: Sophia story by the way, that she found Yeah? No, 228 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: oh okay, but yeah, I think that. Uh, I'm gonna 229 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: guess it's horrible, horrible and like like that horrible, like 230 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, why like like it's cheating or something, 231 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: and she's betrayed the trust. They've betrayed the trust, and yeah, 232 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: this is worth leaving the relationship. Yeah, it's my guess. 233 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: It's my guess. It's giving tax fraud for me tax fraud. Wow, 234 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: that's I like that. That is a That is a 235 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: conspiracy theory. Take right there. But there's only one way 236 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: to find out. 237 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 3: Let's spill spell Let's three you know what, Let's spill 238 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 3: that tea. This is comical. 239 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: I like this, Okay, so Arsenist firefighter says about a 240 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: month ago, my wife and I had a long talk. Yeah, 241 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 1: you know, a long talk is not a good doc. 242 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: She explained to me that she no longer knew if 243 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: she loved me as a man anymore, or if she 244 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 1: ever loved me truly. 245 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 2: Ah, those are the worst dogs all. 246 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: This started when we married a year and a half ago. 247 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: Sex got less and less frequent, and I started complaining 248 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: about it, but it never changed. After a while, she 249 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: got distant and stopped saying she loved me, doing things 250 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: with me, posting things on social media, et cetera, et cetera. 251 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: Babe, why are you're not pegging me anymore? It makes 252 00:12:59,320 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: me sad? 253 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: I want it, Hey, Riley, Yeah, you know what to do. 254 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, pick up. 255 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 1: The sign and point out your own freaking face. Pick 256 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: up the sign and point out your freaking face. That's right. 257 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: That makes me satisfied. We had a few conversations about 258 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: how I was feeling left out and how could we improve, 259 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: but it never did. Then she started doing therapy. In 260 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: about three to four sessions, she and her therapist came 261 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: to the conclusion that she no longer knew if she 262 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: was in love with me. Ouch. We sat down and talked. 263 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: We decided to work things out and to do our 264 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: best not to divorce. 265 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: Nice. 266 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: The thing is, I am the only one trying. Of 267 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,359 Speaker 1: all the things I said I wanted in this relationship, 268 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: she never made any effort to actually do any of 269 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 1: them in this last month, I'm getting quite frustrated with 270 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: the situation because I don't even know if she wants 271 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: to get better or it just wants me to finish 272 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,959 Speaker 1: this relationship so she doesn't get to be the one 273 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: that ended it. A pretty good theory, I would say. 274 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: This month, I have been thinking about restarting my life, 275 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: focusing on my plans and wishes, and eventually finding someone 276 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: who truly loves me the way I know I deserve 277 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: to be loved. Do deserve that? Op. But on the 278 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: other hand, I don't want to let this relationship die. 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: It's been so long, We've been through so much together, 280 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: and I fear that eventually both of us will regret 281 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: it if we part ways. I like some input, Hey, 282 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: you came to the right place. Yeah, your boys are 283 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: here to help you. I like some input on people 284 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: that have been in the same situation. Did you work 285 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: it out? Did you divorce? I am quite lost here. Ps. 286 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: We have been together for about seven and a half years. 287 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: We work quite happy before marriage, and never once did 288 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: I think of doubting her love for me until she 289 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: said it loud and clear. We have some relevant comments 290 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: that we are going to read, but big protein I 291 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: think we have been asked to dispense some advice on 292 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: this situation. 293 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: Looking good, buddy. 294 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know if this is necessarily advice, 295 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: But one kind of question I have is do you 296 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: kind of ask her if she wants to end it, 297 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: like like if you're kind of like getting that feeling 298 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: of like I'm just waiting for them to like break 299 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: it off or vice versa, like the partner is like, 300 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: let me just drag this out until the other partner 301 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: breaks it off. Do you just go outright and be like, hey, 302 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: you know, all honesty, like do you not want to 303 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: be in this relation. 304 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: Because it sounds like like she's bored of the relationship 305 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 2: and have course, for you, John, as a man who 306 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 2: has been with his girlfriend for a few years now, indeed, 307 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 2: how do you keep like just imagine you guys like 308 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: longer for like eight years. How are you guys keeping 309 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 2: it more interesting? Because they're bored? They seem bored? 310 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think. I mean the other thing too, is 311 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: like it's not just keeping things interesting, but also life 312 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: circumstances change, you know, so for like for us, for instance, 313 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: she my partner was flying to I mean like Miami 314 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: instant bul has been New York, like going to all 315 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: these places Denver, like going to all these places, doing 316 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: all these very exciting things. Now she's kind of settling 317 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: down and not exactly equivalent, but we have this new 318 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: house and we're like doing lots of things and I'm 319 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: like doing more of my music. So there's you kind 320 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: of go through these different like phases in life, like 321 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: these like different eras I feel like, and sometimes it's 322 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: good and it balances things out. Sometimes it's bad. Maybe 323 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: the wife is like for whatever reason, like afraid of 324 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: the marriage, like just just the thought of like, oh 325 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:41,479 Speaker 1: now I'm like in it, you know, I'm I've dedicated. 326 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: This just kind of like mentally freaks her out. Wars 327 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: before it was like day to day like oh like 328 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: I'm not you know, I'm not worried about it. I 329 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: would take a look at that, honestly. I think that's 330 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: something to look at and see if there was any 331 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: misalignments there or anything like that, or maybe it's just stuff. 332 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes relationships after years, just like Fissileiz work for whatever reason. 333 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: So but we do in addition to our saucy comments, 334 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: we have some other relevant comments. Oh reasonable Cookie ninety 335 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: three sixty nine says, look into the sunken cost fallacy 336 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 1: your own therapist and make an exit plan. Op I 337 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: will thank you enthusiastic, right, yeah, thanks for the exit plan, 338 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: Glinda the Witch says, tell her that she is free 339 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: to go. It's clear she isn't interested in making the 340 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: marriage work. Let her do the work of packing and leaving. 341 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 1: She needs to understand she either needs to make the 342 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: effort or leave. But you won't wait around until she decides. 343 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: Op I am definitely not waiting. Thanks. So he's taking 344 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: this advice. I got you, right, Yep, we'll do Bucker Rooney. 345 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 2: He's like he's like got a happy face, but behind 346 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: you a happy mask face. 347 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,360 Speaker 1: Behind he's like crying, crying under dude, was how poetic? 348 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 1: How poetic? Suck a dicta Oh you ate one two 349 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: oh God says, seems like a classic example of her 350 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: sticking it out until you come to the same conclusion 351 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: as she already has. Opie says, that's what's been in 352 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: my heart this whole time. So, I mean, it feels 353 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: like Opie's kind of made up his mind at this point, 354 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: like I'm going to look into all these things and 355 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: my exist strategy and my own therapist, and et cetera, 356 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. That's what this feels like. But 357 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: we have a juicy update. Well it's been a while 358 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 1: and I can say for sure that going through these 359 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: couple of months has been the hardest thing I have 360 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 1: done in my life. But good news, we did not 361 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: divorce and we are doing well. 362 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 2: Oh that is. 363 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: A big plot twist to me. 364 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 2: What do you what changed? 365 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: I was not expecting that at all. Well, let's let's 366 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: find out. Since my original post, we have talked, fought, cried. 367 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: But early this week I spent a few days in 368 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: my parents' house and she went to hers, this time alone, 369 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: which was crucial to understand that we were not ready 370 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 1: to give up our marriage, even though I was ninety 371 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: percent sure that I was. For a while, we were apart, 372 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: and I talked to some friends and I had an 373 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 1: amazing talk to my mom and my dad. They were 374 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: great and gave me some good advice. Yesterday, Hey God, yeah, 375 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: you know what plus for that? That's awesome? 376 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 2: Wow? 377 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, we brought you into this world, we 378 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,199 Speaker 1: raised you in this world. We can keep raising you 379 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 1: in this world. Quote from my brain yesterday I went 380 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: back home and my wife and I had probably the 381 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: most open hearted conversation we have ever had in almost 382 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 1: eight years of relationship. She exposed, She exposed some things 383 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: to me that she did not like, and I finally 384 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 1: understood the reason behind the I do not love you 385 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: as a man anymore. Oh wow, I am. There's definitely 386 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 1: some tea in this iceberg. You see. The way I 387 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 1: behaved in some areas of life was not ideal, and 388 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: I could have been a much better husband in those 389 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: one and a half years of marriage, but I was 390 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: blind to it all. It's not one hundred percent my fault, 391 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: but I could have prevented a lot of the things 392 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: that started the strain on our relationship. I wonder if 393 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: we get to find out what those are. I apologized 394 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 1: and promised her I was going to be a better 395 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: man and husband, and she forgave me nice again. What 396 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: are they tell? Please tell me? I'm turning into Sam 397 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 1: who always wants to know the details. We talked a 398 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: lot and I explained to her my point of view 399 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: and she did the same. We cried, we hugged, we cuddled, 400 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: we kissed, and that day I realized we were meant 401 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: to go through this thing in order to make a 402 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 1: relationship stronger. 403 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 2: Nice. 404 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: Now we have unlocked the ability to have a proper 405 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 1: conversation and I and I feel like our marriage starts now. 406 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: I've never doubted for a second she was the love 407 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: of my life. Having her by my side is all 408 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: I need, and I feel I can face everything the 409 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: world has thrown at us now that she is with me. 410 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: Thanks to all of you for your advice and shared stories. 411 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: It has helped me out a lot. And we have 412 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: some more relevant updates after this. 413 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 2: Dude, that's so wholesome. 414 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 1: Wow, what a what a wholesome, wholesome, wholesome update and unexpected. Honestly, yeah, 415 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 1: that was big. I guess we are reading some wholesome 416 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: stories today. But yeah, I honestly was not expecting that. 417 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 2: What do you think like some of the reasons why 418 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: she didn't love him as a man, like some like 419 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 2: surface all this stuff. We don't want to get super deep, 420 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 2: but yeah, what do you think, like what it caused her? 421 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: Let's let's talk about that, because come on, you can't 422 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: give us nothing on that. 423 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 2: Come on, we'll assume here. 424 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: I feel like probably maybe something along the lines of 425 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 1: like uh not talking about her like that was your day, 426 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,479 Speaker 1: kind of ignoring her, not taking her feelings into account, 427 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: kind of just like generally being like unaware. Yeah, I 428 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: would guess I. 429 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 2: Would say, like not leading, like when it comes to 430 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 2: like planning a day or like yeah, that's a household 431 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 2: is into the relationships, just like letting her kind of lead. 432 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 2: And yeah, I feel like it's important for him to 433 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 2: speak up in ways like that totally. 434 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a great one. But yeah, probably just 435 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: like I feel like it does get kind of easy 436 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 1: to you know, once you're in a relationship, it is 437 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 1: kind of easy to go an autopilot a little bit, 438 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 1: especially like I mean, like, hey, the weekends here, what 439 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: about a little movie night. We order some food, we 440 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: drink some wine, which there's nothing wrong with that. I 441 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: do that all the time. 442 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 2: He does it good though. 443 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: I tried. I try, but me and my partner started. 444 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: We went to a little rooftop restaurant in downtown, which 445 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,479 Speaker 1: was really nice on Friday night. But uh really just 446 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 1: we're just dissecting my love life on Today's On. 447 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 2: Today's I have nothing to give here. 448 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: So fair enough. But yeah, I think it's probably I 449 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: would assume, Yeah, assume, assume, assume, But I would think 450 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: that that is probably something along what it is. But 451 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 1: we have some relevant comments, maybe we'll get some freaking information, 452 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: okay from them. Intelligent buyer fives one six. I'm glad 453 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: everything worked out fairl cat, despite the hundreds of reddits 454 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 1: that told him to lawyer up and head out and 455 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 1: kick her to the curb laughing emoji. Omie rasbatast thru 456 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 1: the nine says, take your parents out to dinner. Looks 457 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: like they really helped, OPI will do. Looks like they 458 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: to help a lot. Krickie Southerner says, glad to hear 459 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: that you were happier. Not sure why you got married 460 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: before figuring out how to have a real conversation. Ouch, 461 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, but I'm glad you got there eventually. Ope, God, 462 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: that's that's kind of crazy, Opie. I've always tried to 463 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: have proper conversations, but it was quite hard for her 464 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: to talk without crying. She simply could not, So it 465 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: was ninety percent a monologue of me trying. But now 466 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: I think we can do better. 467 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: Also to note, some of the other relevant comments had 468 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 2: to do with his gaming in Runeskate, where he logged 469 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 2: like like thousands of hours, So I think that might 470 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 2: have been a big part of the whole I don't 471 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 2: love you as a man. 472 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: Thing, dude. Yeah yeah that Wow, Well there you go. Okay, 473 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think we've still I still feel like 474 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: we're missing a lot of details on like what it was. 475 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: And I think Op is like intentionally omitting. 476 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 2: That from us because he's like I was prioritizing her 477 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 2: in these ways, and. 478 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of sounds like he was the one 479 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: effing up. And I think probably the wife was kind 480 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: of like, I don't know if this is gonna change, 481 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: you know, which, you know, after I mean, how many years. 482 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: Kind of hard to blame her, you know, But it 483 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: looks like it's probably back on the right track. We 484 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: had a nice, sweet, wholesome ending on this one. Don't 485 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: get don't do no divorce, no divorce, So don't do 486 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: it and let's get into another wholesome story. My cat 487 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 1: will not let me sleep in? Should I kick it 488 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: to the streets? Riley? Do you enjoy baking animals into orphans? 489 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 3: Go? 490 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 2: When it's well deserved, it's well deserved. 491 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: What would an animal have to do to you to 492 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 1: deserve orphans bite bite by a kid. You know, it's 493 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: so unfortunate to a dog biting a kid, and a 494 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: hue and an adult is like almost the same. It's like, 495 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:42,479 Speaker 1: I'm just biting you, but like, actually it's bad. Guys, 496 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 1: you are joining in on a late night recording session. 497 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: We are uh, you know, I'm feeling like on fire, 498 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,919 Speaker 1: but now listening to my own commentary, I'm like, you 499 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 1: know what, maybe put down the comments below? Is our commentary? Good? 500 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 1: Right now? Are we are? We just floating in an 501 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: ether mostly mine? Mostly mine? 502 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 2: I think Key sounds great. 503 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 1: Riley has been contributing one hundred and ten percent, just 504 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:11,199 Speaker 1: proteining everywhere. But guys, it's a late nice It's it's 505 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 1: a late nine episode. Where can I say? Okop after dark? 506 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,400 Speaker 1: But you know there's only one way to find out, 507 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: and there's only one way to find out what happens 508 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 1: to the story. Riley spill that I'm also doing it 509 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 1: quieter so we don't wake up or bother Sofia too much. Wait, 510 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 1: she's sleep I don't know so being so goblin, Modding 511 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 1: says genuinely, I get up every morning and feed my 512 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 1: cat breakfast at six am. She eats, kunnels up to 513 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: me and then we both go back to sleep. Sounds 514 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: like a vibe, right, does sound like a vibe? I 515 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: would actually no, that does not sound like a vibe. 516 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: I have a cat, and if my cat woke me 517 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: up every day when I didn't want to be woken up, 518 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: I would not be happy. 519 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 2: Wait, but they didn't sweet afterwards, They didn't one afterwards. 520 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 2: It's sweet to you afterwards. 521 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 1: You know what's sweet? Riley sleep, sleep is sweet to me. 522 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: My cat already parks in between our legs, so when 523 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: we turn over, we almost crush her very small and 524 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: frail body and also make me sleep like like this. 525 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,199 Speaker 2: Oh but that's the most comfortable position. 526 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: And dang me, I have to freaking put my my 527 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: foot behind my head to get some some dang sleep. 528 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: So I feel YOPI Now the weekend comes, then ten 529 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: thirty hits every time we get here, without fail, she 530 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: wakes me up. Wow, she man the cat understands the weekend. 531 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: Dang smart kitty party cat starts as just staring at 532 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: me until I wake up because of her unsettling presence. 533 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 1: If that doesn't work, it usually does, she taps me. Great, 534 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 1: I'm awake but it's not enough. Never enough. She starts 535 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: pulling my hair. Next if I don't get out of 536 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 1: my bed immediately loll, I tell her no, Then she 537 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: backs off. I turn my head and she's biting my 538 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 1: hair again to get my at It's not food. She 539 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: doesn't want me to pet her. She won't play with me. 540 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: I've tried all her toys. I've tried chasing her, I've 541 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: tried letting her bite my hand like she always does, 542 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 1: which obviously I don't just let her do. And as 543 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: soon as I get up, she goes and stares out 544 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 1: of the window, or lays down where I am laying, 545 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: or just starts running laps around the bed. Y'all, I 546 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 1: don't get it. I have no clue what she wants 547 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 1: me to do other than let her have my spot. Now, 548 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: we do have an update in this cat saga. 549 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 2: Does your caut do this? What's like the craziest thing you're. 550 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: Getting my cat? My cat is kind of crazy. When 551 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: we literally the first time we brought her from New 552 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: York to California, she literally some god knows how, but 553 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: she we had like a cabinet with like three, you know, 554 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: three or four shelves high right. She somehow opened the 555 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: door and climbed up all of the shelves to be 556 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 1: at the top of the cabinet. Literally four days days 557 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 1: she was up there. So I had to like get 558 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: her food in her water and like put it there 559 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: and like slowly coax her out. 560 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 2: Oh my dog did something somewhere like that when she 561 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 2: only stood underneath the kitchen table for like a few days. 562 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: I think, I think, you know, it could could be 563 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: many things. My girlfriend has had her since she was 564 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: like a little kitten, like probably a few months old, 565 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: a few weeks old. Oh yeah, but I think maybe 566 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: it was like like flying, you know, getting in the 567 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: cat carrier, and. 568 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 2: I I environmental change. 569 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: I don't think she's had ever in her life been 570 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 1: through something like that. So it's like you're put in 571 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 1: this carriage, you're flown for hours, you know, across the country. 572 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm trying to remember she flew out or 573 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: she drove with her there. I can't one hundred percent recall, 574 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 1: but I think she flew, but yeah, she was. She 575 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: was not doing so hot. Dang, she does weird things. 576 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: She started chasing her tail and my shoulder jump in 577 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: the air like a foot high when she catches it. 578 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: I if I can explain the logic of this this animal, 579 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 1: I would be so happy. I have no idea. But 580 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 1: let's get into Opie's cat update. Long story short, my 581 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: cat kept waking me up randomly at night and not 582 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: letting me sleep, and then letting me sleep in on 583 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: days that I could, even after feeding her. I have 584 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: a smart watch, and among other things like being a watch, 585 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: it also tracks my oxygen levels and my heart rate 586 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: and stuff at night. Put I see you in the 587 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 1: comments if you see what's about to go down? I think, 588 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: I think, Riley, are you? Are you find to do anything? 589 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 2: I'm seeing what. 590 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: I'm seeing, I'm seeing something. She woke me up again 591 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: this morning at around four point thirty and very violently 592 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: would not let me go back to sleep. I sat 593 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: up and noticed I felt pretty winded, and so I 594 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: opened up my watch and my oxygen levels had dropped 595 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: from ninety five to eighty nine, which is, I mean bad. 596 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,959 Speaker 1: So if your oxygen levels go to I think below eighty, 597 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: you need like a machine to be alive, like for 598 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: extended periods of time. 599 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 2: And she's like kind of creeping on that number. 600 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, like ninety five is not good. Then I saw 601 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: it did the same thing yesterday, right before she woke 602 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: me up. This is incredible. Then I went back and 603 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: started checking, and almost every time she's just randomly woken 604 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 1: me up has correlated with my oxygen dropping below normal. 605 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if I was breathing funny or if 606 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: she just knew something was up. And I know correlation 607 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: doesn't equal causation, but the pattern is way too obvious. 608 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,959 Speaker 1: And I already know I have breathing struggles while I'm awake, 609 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: so I guess I'm going to get a sleep study done. Cats. Man, 610 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: she's sleeping by my feet now, completely content now that 611 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: it's back to normal. I don't know if she knows 612 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: how how smart and awesome she is, but man, I 613 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: love her so much. She can be a bully sometimes, 614 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: but it's always out of love and quick edit. Sometimes 615 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: cats are just jerks. This doesn't always mean something is wrong. 616 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 1: Always consult with a medical professional when you suspect something 617 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 1: might be going on. Smiley face. In my case, I 618 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: have had these symptoms for years and never explored sleep 619 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 1: apnea as a diagnosis, and wouldn't have thought to do 620 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: so until now after noticing this pattern thanks to bast Cat, 621 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: tax shall be added. Wow, I've never heard of some well, 622 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: I think like dogs, like like I think for if 623 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: you have like a seizure, oilempathic episodes, and like other 624 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 1: things like dogs can be trained to do that. I 625 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: think the crazy like how do they know innately? That 626 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 1: is the thing that just absolutely blows my mind. 627 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 2: Because sometimes we do things to our animals that may 628 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 2: seem like it's hurting them. I give him shots or 629 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: like taking to the bed. Why and then they're doing 630 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 2: this to us and it's like sort of the same thing, 631 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 2: like they don't really understand why we're doing that to 632 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 2: protect them, and then they're doing that to us and 633 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 2: we don't really understand that. That's kind of insane. 634 00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 1: That you're blowing my mind on this Tuesday night. I 635 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 1: don't know if I can I can handle this much. 636 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 1: Just awe inspiring epiphany blowing into my brain hole this 637 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: evening two way streak. Wow, but another another incredible, wholesome ending, Riley, 638 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: I love it. 639 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 2: I had another one. Wait, but Riley, we do dude, 640 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:35,479 Speaker 2: please tell me to me. 641 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: Let's read it.