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Speaker 1: Rooking jew Boles second Dato date Today's second dater, or

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Speaker 1: or she planned a date with somebody who's as good

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Speaker 1: I'm nearing okay, how are you? Pretty good? So you

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Speaker 1: planned a date with a guy named John, but you

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Speaker 1: almost didn't even go out tell us about that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we met through friends and we had texted for a while,

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Speaker 1: and finally, kind of spontaneously one night, he was like,

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, totally, see you there. You know,

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Speaker 1: we set a time and I showed up and he's

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Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm totally getting stood up right now. This

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Speaker 1: him and he's like, where are you? And I was like,

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Speaker 1: but it turned out we had both we'd gone to

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Speaker 1: totally different romeos. I'm like, oh, really opposite side of

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Speaker 1: were getting you guys are getting pizza on different parts

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Speaker 1: getting stood up, you know, totally. So you ended up

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Speaker 1: meeting up with them eventually, Well, he was like, why

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Speaker 1: We got a pizza, We watched me It was really

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Speaker 1: you think that he mixed up the restaurants on purpose?

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Speaker 1: Like he was like, it's a good way to get

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Speaker 1: her back to my house. Just be like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: went to the wrong one. You know what we should do.

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Speaker 1: I should just bring the party back to my house then,

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Speaker 1: kind of weird to make you drive all the way

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Speaker 1: kind of elaborate. I don't know. We wouldn't put it

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Speaker 1: we've heard a lot more elaborate schemes, all these second

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Speaker 1: date updates to get girls in bed. I really hope

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Speaker 1: it's not the case. I mean, I'm mostly worried about

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Speaker 1: something that I did, Like when I was at his house. Well,

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Speaker 1: so what was it like the next day when you

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Speaker 1: I left her work. It was totally just like okay,

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Speaker 1: looking for a serious commitment conversation. All right, well we're

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Speaker 1: brooking Cuba in the morning date. You know what, Angela,

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Speaker 1: But we've had guys like take girls at the plant

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Speaker 1: if that's not true, Angela, then what do you think

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Speaker 1: possibly could have gone wrong? And why is he blowing

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Speaker 1: all right, Well we're gonna call him right now. You're

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Speaker 1: ready to go. Hi. Guess Hello, Hi, got I speak

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Speaker 1: to John please speaking? So man, how are you? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm

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Speaker 1: Moving ninety two point five. How you doing? Sorry? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning on

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Speaker 1: the radio station Moving ninety two point five. We host

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Speaker 1: the morning show. Okay, Um, I'm calling you because one

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Speaker 1: a girl named Angela. Do you remember? Yeah? I do. Well.

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Speaker 1: Angela just has a you know, simple question like why

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Speaker 1: Is there a specific reason? It's just too weird? It

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Speaker 1: I have a theory that because she said when you

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I didn't notice it at first at all,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and say hi to John. Hi. John. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'm really glad to be hearing all this because I've

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Speaker 1: Did they like your ex girlfriend, John? No, because she

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to get around it. Well, all right,

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Speaker 1: how about this, John, Why don't you go out on

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Speaker 1: you go out on a second day with her? John?

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Speaker 1: you do it? John? Will you go out with her again?

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Speaker 1: Come on, Maybe the second time you guys hang out,

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Speaker 1: You got your second date. Thanks, guys, That's so something

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Speaker 1: his ex would have said, right there. Jupil in the

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Speaker 1: morning and the days