WEBVTT - Rosebud Baker Was Accosted by a Medium 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:12.600 What's that at the bed spooky? Hey juky, I'm really 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:17.400 sure it's dead. He's coming this way. Wait a minute, 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:29.000 I said, I los Nandas. Please Hey boo, it's me 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:37.160 Roz and welcome to Bostood by Roz Hernandez, the podcast 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:41.440 where I talk to people that I like about the paranormal. 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:47.840 I got to talk to rosebud Baker, who is such 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:52.080 a hilarious comedian. She is a writer on SNL and 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:57.280 she has a new Netflix special coming out called mother Load. 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:00.600 Look out for that. She is such a good comedian 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:04.280 and she has some stories. Oh my god, this is 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:08.080 like perfect episode, I really think. So it's a great 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.000 one because we got some good stories, we get a 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:15.039 little real and we laugh. What Morgage ask for? Oh, 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:19.520 speaking of laughter, something that I love to make people do. 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:28.200 And you know, constantly I'm doing comedy whether you realize 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:32.160 it or not. I am working on a lot of 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:36.040 dates right now, and I'm trying. I'm trying to get everywhere. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.840 I want to go to all fifty states in America, 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:43.120 and trust me, I want to go beyond America to 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:48.080 trust me, I wouldn't mind a little break. So I'm 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:49.880 working on dates. So make sure you're paying attention to 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:55.280 my social media. Everything's on Instagram at ros Hernandez. Also, 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:01.200 speaking of being a comedian, I am nominated for a 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:08.400 queert Award, which is a great honor. It's a great 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:14.560 LGBTQ publication called the Queer Teas and you are allowed 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.360 to vote for it every single day, and that voting 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:23.360 is open until February twenty fifth on Queer Tea's website. 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.240 If you're unsure how to spell it or whatever, just 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.560 go to my link tree, which we'll have a link 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.399 to it there so I can say I'm an award 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:38.440 winning comedian and the people I'm up against, oh my god, 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.560 some of my biggest enemies. Actually, I think a couple 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.320 of people that have been on the show, probably I 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:47.160 don't know, vote for me, We're vote for them, They're 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:54.360 all great whatever, whatever, Just you know, vote, very very important. Okay. 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:56.799 Let me give you a story real quick. This one 0:02:56.880 --> 0:03:02.400 comes from a listener named Emma Emirates. A few years ago, 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.919 my boyfriend and I moved into a house in the 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:09.880 historic district of a mountain town in Colorado. Built in 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:13.919 nineteen ten, the house came with its own piece of history, 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:19.280 a hauntingly beautiful photo of the original owner's three sons, 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:23.280 which still hangs in our hallway. At first we thought 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:27.160 it was a quirky keepsake, but when we decided to 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:33.560 put the photo away, the house seemed to retaliate. It 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:39.440 started subtly. Fire alarms blared when we stood underneath them 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:44.600 without cause. We called a maintenance professional to check them out, 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:49.120 but they couldn't find anything wrong. Then came the voices 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:57.040 and whistles. Whispers and faint whistling would float up from downstairs. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:00.240 We'd go to check it out, but no one was 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:05.320 ever there. Friends began to notice strange things too. One 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:09.840 of them watched our storm door open and close repeatedly, 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:15.000 as if an unseen hand was testing it. She stepped 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:18.839 outside to check for wind, but the air was completely still. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:22.440 The most unsettling moment happened while I was sitting on 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:27.080 the porch reading. I heard the unmistakable sound of footsteps 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.480 stomping through the living room. Thinking it was our dog. 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:34.159 Because I was the only one home, I went to check, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:38.560 only to find him asleep at my feet. Safe to say, 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:42.800 I ran outside to collect myself for a few minutes. 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:48.040 Then there was the furnace. Every summer, we'd turn off 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:52.520 the heat for the season as fall approached. One October, 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.719 our maintenance guy came to switch it back on. A 0:04:55.800 --> 0:05:00.960 Few mornings later, I woke up to a bone shilling house. 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:05.479 It was barely fifty degrees inside. We called him back 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:09.520 and he was visibly annoyed. He says, who keeps turning 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:13.800 the furdus off? My boyfriend and I just stared at 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:17.080 each other. Neither of us even knew how to access 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:21.479 the switch. It was always handled by the landlord. He 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:24.480 told us this was the second time someone had physically 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:28.120 flipped the lever to the off position. It's not easy 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:32.200 to do, he said, it takes some effort. In the end, 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:35.599 he had to padlock the switch to keep it from 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:40.280 being tampered with. Strange occurrences continued until I decided to 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:44.000 follow some advice I heard on Living for the Dead. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.760 Oh my god, I was on that show. One night. 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:53.000 I stood in the living room, sage in hand, fed 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:57.200 up as fuck, and I said, I see you. I 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:00.600 respect your space, but I am not okay okay with this. 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.560 I'm here to take care of your home, and I 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:07.520 need you to leave us alone. That same night, I 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:10.280 also agreed to put the photo of the boys back 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:14.680 on display as long as they left us alone. Since then, 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:19.080 the house has been quiet, eerily so, and every now 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:22.200 and then I catch myself glancing at that old photo 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:29.160 completely weirded out. Thank you, Emma God. I love a 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:34.680 good ghost story. All right, let's talk to the hilarious 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:52.120 rosebud Baker and with the show. Rosebud Roz, thanks for 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:52.720 being here. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:53.839 Thank you for having me. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:55.359 You're a New Yorker. 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:56.239 I am. 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.640 Hang on a second, you work at us at all? 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:03.080 I was just watching that documentary and I saw you 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:03.440 in it. 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.160 I was running from the cameras. 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:09.600 Did you see me running that Peacock documentary? Which was great? 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.240 You know? I put it on and I was like, 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.200 are they gonna like go from the beginning? 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:15.080 Yeah, but no, like. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.720 Focuses on, like there's an episode just about the writers, 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.560 and that's where I saw you. 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:20.040 Yes. 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:23.560 I spent the entire year last year hiding from that 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:26.559 camera crew. I was like, I'm not answering questions about 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:29.600 my job that I currently have on camera. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.880 It seems stressful. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.680 I was like, I'm not doing this. This feels like 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:34.200 a trap. 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:34.800 Yeah. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:35.600 I couldn't do it. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.400 You know, every time I have an SNL person here, 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:42.400 I asked them if thirty Rock is haunted, they always say, no, 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:45.520 what's your experience. 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:51.400 I would say haunted, Uh, by my own personal demons, 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:55.160 I would say. I would say people's personal demons are enough. 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.480 I think if a ghost walked into thirty Rock, they'd 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.000 be like, it feels a little crowded. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:03.360 Yeah, They're like, take me to a farmhouse in the 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:04.920 middle of nowhere so I can possess it. 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:06.240 I can really make an impact. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:10.600 Yes, yes, this is too much. Too many personalities, too 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:11.360 much conversation. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.200 Yeah, there's too many internal conversations happening. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:19.000 Yeah, you know that's why I wonder when it's completely quiet, 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:22.560 there's nobody there. I bet you a security guard has 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:26.080 got a story. Oh yeah, you know, somebody like that. 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:28.080 Not the people that are like, shit, well I got 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.440 a deadline, I gotta. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:32.199 Right, yeah, somebody. I mean, I wonder if thirty Rock 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:37.120 has ever been completely quiet, To be honest, that's really 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:41.600 the question, because I've never seen that building quiet, right, 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:43.640 and I'm there until early morning. 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:47.079 Wow. You know I have so much respect for people 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:52.319 that are you're you're doing this season right? Yes? Yes, good. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:55.640 It's fun. It's fun. I think honestly, I think part 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.440 of why it's so good is that I'm no longer 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.920 writing on the sketch side. Okay, I moved over to 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:05.400 weekend updates love it, which I God bless the sketch writers. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.679 They are so good to what they do. I spent 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:11.400 three years in the sketch writing, and I still have 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.960 no idea how it works. Like I had sketches on 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.160 and I was like, I don't know what I'm doing, 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.840 and I don't know what I'm doing here, and then 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.720 over the summer I reached out and I was like, 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.720 I don't there's no real reason for me to be 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.559 on the sketch side. I write single jokes. 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.840 Right right right. That's that's how I feel, too, Like 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:35.520 I like a joke, yes, and I feel like there's 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:39.560 some good ones these days on that show. Congratulations, good job, 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:45.240 thank you. Gee pushes the envelope, which I appreciate in 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:48.480 a way that's not like the gross way, you know, 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:51.480 like it's like still fun walk in that line. 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:54.360 Yeah, it feels fun and funny and it's not it's 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:57.079 not just like That's what I love about it is 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:01.520 it's not Edgy just for Edgy's sake, you know, Yeah, yeah. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.679 Good job, thank you. Hey, what about ghosts? 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:06.200 What about ghosts? 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:09.240 Are you Okay? Here's the annoying thing I say almost 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.680 every single damn episode. We never hear New York ghost 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.400 stories ever. Oh from my guests. 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.319 Well, New York is a very haunted city. 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:20.040 I don't know why these people they come on my show, 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:23.000 they never have a ghost Like I'll have people that 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:25.640 live in New York or spend time in New York, 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:29.600 but their stories will not be from actual New York City, right, 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.400 every once in a while, but not enough. 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:36.439 Yeah for my liking, I have some very intense I mean, 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:46.120 most of my experience with like the metaphysical is through mediums. 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.480 Hell yeah, mediums who have literally accosted me on the 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:53.160 street where like apparently I'm dripping with corpses. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:57.120 Yeah, so they just come up to you and they go, 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:58.920 I'm so sorry, I have to tell you something. 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.800 They literally will be like, I'm I'm so sorry about 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:05.160 what happened to your friend, or they'll literally say exactly 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.640 different people that I know who have died. 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:09.320 How many times does this happen? 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:14.640 Oh? Millions? Are you kidding me? I are you serious. Yeah, 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.439 I mean, I don't know what it is. Maybe it's 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.400 just part of my life. But death has been a 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:20.520 major theme. 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:21.240 Huh. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:26.440 So I lost my sister years years ago, twenty years ago. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.920 Now I've heard you talk about yeah. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.520 And then I have, and then i'm I'm a recovering alcoholic. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:32.600 So I have any ton of friends? 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.640 Oh my god, yeah in two days, ten years. 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:40.000 Oh my god, congratulations, that's amazing. Yeah. So you know, 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.920 we know a lot of people who die. Yeah, sadly, 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.640 but tons of my friends gone gone with the wind. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:50.959 And I'm comics, so those comics they die, Yeah, they 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.160 die young. And so yeah, I'm just I just really 0:11:54.160 --> 0:12:00.000 am riddled with dead bodies. Apparently they're just following me around. 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:01.120 They like. 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:04.240 You know, what's funny that I always say, my dead 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:08.040 people not interested? So it's a compliment. 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.120 What do you mean they're not They're not around like 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:10.480 you don't. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:13.040 You've talked to mediums and they they say goodbye, and 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:16.480 that's the end of the story. I go, no further comments, 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:22.120 that's it, weird, no comment. I go to psychics. I 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.280 accost psychics. I'm the opposite. I go up to them 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:27.440 and say, is there a dead body around me and 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.040 they say, I'm sorry, babe. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.920 Yeah, no right, and you're like, can you make one up. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:37.960 Exactly, just say something. Did you have a grandma that 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:42.000 does just say something? Just make it up? 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:42.400 Yeah? 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:45.160 Actually I have had them where they're like, oh, I'm 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:48.400 seeing some like they start describing someone. I'm like, that's 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.280 not I never Yeah, I don't talk to people that 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:57.520 look like that. Right, Okay, So give me an example 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:59.600 of one of these stories. Somebody comes up to you. 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:03.200 So there was one time I was at a comedy club. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:05.440 It was a New York comedy club, and there was 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:09.280 a girl that was working there who came up and 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:14.160 was like like immediately I saw her and I thought, 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.120 oh my god, is this someone that I met while 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:19.040 I was drinking? Who I like, did something terrible to 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:20.720 you know what I mean? Because the way that she 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:24.640 reacted to me was like she remembered something that I 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:25.480 couldn't remember. 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.240 She was in the audience, and you really. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:29.640 She came back in the green room. I'd never seen 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:31.320 her in the club before. She comes back in the 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:33.560 green room to bring somebody a drink, and she saw 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.480 me and she went like like she had like a 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:41.480 visceral physical reaction to me, and I was like, oh no, 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:43.920 And I thought, okay, well, I'll introduce myself to her 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:48.240 and maybe i'll like remember something. You know, when you 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:51.800 drink a lot, you're like maybe I blacked out, and 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:54.840 I really like said something horrible or did something terrible, 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:56.559 you know, I had that feeling of like, oh no. 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.360 So I was like, let me just introduce myself and 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:01.760 see if I can put the pieces together here. And 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:05.320 she shook my hand, but she like didn't want to 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.480 touch me, and I was like, I was like, I'm 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.240 so sorry. I was like, are you okay? Because she 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:14.040 just seemed fucked up, and so I asked if she 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.920 was all right and she was like, I I'm so sorry. 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.160 I just I need a second. She like left, and 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:22.080 then she came back and she was like, I have 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.600 to tell you this. I'm I'm so sorry about what 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:28.480 happened to your sister. And I was like, oh, did 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.480 you have did you have a family member where it 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:33.200 happened to them as well or something, you know what 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.560 I mean? And she was like, no, we've never met before. 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:39.240 I don't I don't know you, but I you know, 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:43.120 I'm so sorry about what happened to your sister. And 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:46.160 I'm a medium and I've just kind of started to 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:49.480 open myself up to this. And at this point I'm going, Ah, 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.160 she's kind of like, it's giving scam artist. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.240 I've heard it on podcasts. I've heard you talk about it. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:15:00.640 Yeah you have, I have. Oh you're saying that she 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:03.480 she listened to That's what I was thinking, right, But 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:06.720 then she started to describe things about it that no 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:07.680 one had heard and. 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.040 No one knew that's that's how you do it. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:13.400 And I was like, oh, this is fucked. Like she 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:18.000 knew her middle name, she knew how this had happened 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.240 to her, like the details of it and how she 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:23.800 had gotten to the hospital, and how like the way 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:26.600 that my mom had told me and stuff. And then 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:30.200 she started talking about like things that she wanted to 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.840 say and how she always she was like, she's always 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:35.800 on your right arm. And it's so funny that she 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.120 because she mentioned that. But I had always had these 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.840 moments where I was like waiting for the subway, or 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:44.240 I was like falling or something, and I felt like 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:48.080 something from my right hand like bring me back, really 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.000 in a way that I had never mentioned out loud. 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:53.920 Because it made me feel insane, right, And that was 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:58.160 when I went, Okay, this feels like legit, you know, 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.480 this feels like she knows what she's talking about. The 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:05.520 weird thing then, was that I never saw her at 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:09.080 the club again, Like she wasn't real. Other people were there, 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.280 they saw this conversation happen, but I never saw her 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:16.400 again at the club. So I was like, this feels 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:19.480 like a weird uh. I mean, maybe she had a 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.120 psychotic break. I have no idea, but she wasn't just 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:24.920 like a messenger. So yeah, it felt like a messenger. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:28.680 And it felt like like I had an explanation for 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:33.040 why I always felt this feeling, this weird feeling, like 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:35.440 as if I was holding someone's hand while I was 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.880 like waiting for the subway or waiting for a bus, 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:41.040 or like I would just feel sometimes at night, I 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.520 would feel like someone was holding my hand while I 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:45.640 was going to sleep, you know what I mean. Like, 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:49.360 so that kind of felt like, oh, this feels like 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.840 a message, yeah someone else. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.160 You know, when she told you this, were you like 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:57.480 tell me more or were you just like okay? And 0:16:57.520 --> 0:16:59.880 then like, how did it get to the point where. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:03.000 She I just kind of going, well, I just kind 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.520 of I'm sure. I was like, wait, how do you 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:08.280 I was like, did you hear me say this? On 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:09.760 a pot? I would ask questions, you know, I was 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:11.440 asking questions and stuff like that. And this happened a 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:12.879 long time ago now, so it's hard for me to 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:18.080 really remember how the conversation went specifically, but I remember 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:23.600 being skeptical for a good portion of the conversation until 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:27.760 she said that thing about my right handoo, and then 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:31.560 I was like, Okay, this is now spooky, you know. 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.159 And then once she said something that really landed with me, 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:36.679 I kind of didn't want to talk anymore, which is 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:40.320 so odd because it's like you're so curious, you know, 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.119 and you sort of want to test their knowledge a 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:44.879 little bit, of course, but then once they say something 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:48.400 that's like for real, you're like, you know. 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:50.800 Like, did you have to go on stage after that? 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:53.800 Yeah? Oh god, Yeah. 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.399 That's probably why she got fired. She kept going up 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.119 to comedians. 0:17:57.720 --> 0:17:59.960 And sorry about what happened to your dad. 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:02.399 People are crying, and then they have to go up 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:03.399 on stage. 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:06.640 I don't think. I honestly don't know if she got 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.080 fired or if she left, but I know I never 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:09.680 saw her again. 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:10.720 That's a good one. 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.439 That's a pretty fun one. Yeah. 0:18:13.480 --> 0:18:15.800 Wait, so does it happen other times? Though? 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:16.600 Yeah? 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:18.640 Oh my god, can you tell us all of them? 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:19.640 I'm obsessed. 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:22.760 So okay, it's been so long since I thought about 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:23.159 any of this. 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:27.240 That's what I'm here for, is to bring out these memories. 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:30.360 I'm like, okay, So I know that at one point 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:34.240 I I contacted a medium on my own to speak 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:36.920 to them, right. I think it was after I met 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:40.240 this girl, right, because I had never thought about reaching 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.040 out to a medium before that, but I reached out 0:18:43.080 --> 0:18:45.119 to a medium and I was like, I want to 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.480 hear what else is out there, what else they've got? 0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:53.199 And it was really a nothing burger call, Like I 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:56.119 remember calling this medium and she started talking about how 0:18:56.840 --> 0:19:04.080 my sister was and almost compulsive right where like and 0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:06.119 on the other side in the spirit world, she wanted 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:09.920 to experience things that we were experiencing because she died 0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:14.680 so young. So she was like, I'm I'm I'm hearing 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:18.160 something about chocolate chip cookies. And I was like, yeah, 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:19.800 I got nothing for you. I don't know what you're 0:19:19.880 --> 0:19:23.040 talking about. But she was like, something about chocolate chip cookies. 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:26.359 And wanting to eat like a whole thing of chocolate 0:19:26.400 --> 0:19:31.480 chip cookies. And I was like, okay, well yeah, cool, 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:34.120 I'll make note of that. And then we hung up 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:37.439 and I was like that sucked and I just wasted 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:39.359 my money whatever, and. 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:41.560 In there, I mean I've done. 0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:43.320 I put in a lot of time with these people, 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:43.679 you know. 0:19:44.320 --> 0:19:44.919 Yeah. 0:19:45.119 --> 0:19:49.640 But I called my sister like the next day her 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:53.440 twin to be like, oh, I you know, I contacted 0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:55.399 a medium to see if I could talk to Graham. 0:19:56.359 --> 0:19:59.000 And before I could mention any of this to her, 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:02.600 my sister like uugh. She like picked up someone and 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:06.000 was like oh and I was like what and she goes, nothing, 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:07.800 I just had a shitty night last night. She's like, 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:09.639 I came home from this party and I just like 0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:11.960 She's like, I was there, it was great, but I 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:13.600 left the party early and I came home and I 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:16.800 just ate a full batch, like a vat of chocolate 0:20:16.880 --> 0:20:20.560 chip cookies by myself, like before I could even like 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:22.360 think about it. And now I woke up and I'm 0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:25.480 all puffy and I feel like shittah. And I was like, 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:27.680 what do you talk? I was like, okay, I gotta 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:30.760 pause you right there, because I literally spoke to a 0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:36.960 medium yesterday who was saying that Graham sometimes will like 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:42.040 enter your body basically, and if you're ever overeating, it's 0:20:42.119 --> 0:20:47.080 because she wants to like experience like physical life again 0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:49.000 in some way. And I was like, and I don't know, 0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:51.840 I'm so sorry you didn't ask to hear this, but 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:55.640 she did bring up a vat of chocolate chip cookies. 0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:57.399 Oh my god. 0:20:57.960 --> 0:20:59.600 And that was the first time I ever really scared 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:04.000 my family with this stuff, you know, where I like 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:07.119 specifically where I brought like metaphysical stuff to my family 0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:08.760 and they were like, please don't do that. 0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:10.959 What kind of like religion or beliefs. 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:14.920 So we grew up like Episcopalian, which is like Catholicism 0:21:15.000 --> 0:21:19.439 light right, Okay, but I never I mean, like we 0:21:19.480 --> 0:21:23.840 stopped going to church when I was like nine, okay 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:27.000 around then, and I just I don't really I wasn't 0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:27.960 like into church. 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:28.439 You know. 0:21:28.560 --> 0:21:31.959 I'm very into like God and the concept of God 0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:35.000 and spirituality, and I kind of like take a little 0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:38.960 bit from everything. But we're not like a super religious family. 0:21:39.080 --> 0:21:43.040 Okay. Yeah, But when it comes to like paranormal stuff, 0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:46.520 was that ever believed or talked about in the house. 0:21:48.359 --> 0:21:51.880 Well, my mom got sober when I was like seventeen, 0:21:52.720 --> 0:21:55.959 and I remember her getting kind of freaky with it, 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:58.560 what do you mean, Like I remember her getting kind 0:21:58.600 --> 0:22:06.080 of like just into spirituality and into different like paranormal things. 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:08.200 And then after my sister died, it was like really 0:22:09.119 --> 0:22:14.159 like she felt like her spirit everywhere and she felt 0:22:14.160 --> 0:22:17.960 like she would have these moments where like at the funeral, 0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:20.359 like a butterfly landed on my mom's hand and just 0:22:20.400 --> 0:22:24.040 stayed there the entire funeral, you know. So like that 0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:27.160