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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to let my

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Speaker 2: Weird choice of words.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this comes from low professional eighty to forty four,

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Speaker 1: who says my daughter has been friends with the daughter

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Speaker 1: of a coworker of mine since pre nursery.

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Speaker 2: Fine, as long as the other kid is around the

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Speaker 2: same age not forty five, that is correct.

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Speaker 1: They were in the same playgroup, same nursery, and are

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Speaker 1: now in the same primary school.

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Speaker 2: Okay, same age kid.

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Speaker 1: This girl has developmental issues and can't interact with others

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Speaker 1: her eight. She clings to my daughter and won't let

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Speaker 1: her play with other children. He has bitten and throw

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Speaker 1: things at my daughter in the past when she doesn't

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Speaker 1: get her full attention. The school is trying to set

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Speaker 1: up a plan for her, but in the meantime she

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Speaker 1: My coworker lives on the same street as me and

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Speaker 1: is in a senior role, which is why I have

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Speaker 1: gently tried to make excuses for her daughter to not

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Speaker 2: Because she's a bier, because she's a bit or she's

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Speaker 2: throwing thing. We got a bier, got a bite her.

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Speaker 1: I have outright lied on a few occasions saying that

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Speaker 2: And I found out yesterday that she has kept a log.

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Speaker 1: Of all of the times I refuse to have her

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Speaker 2: That's crazy that it reminds me of like that log

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Speaker 2: that one guy kept him every time his wife rejected

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Speaker 2: him for Oh I forgot, I forgot about that. Yeah, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: that this is feels like same same energy.

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Speaker 1: Also, it sucks because this isn't just a neighbor. This

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Speaker 1: is a senior ranking official at your company. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I will fire you.

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Speaker 2: Dude. You if you don't hang out with my daughter, your.

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Speaker 1: Career is potentially on the line. Bro, Like for real.

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Speaker 2: When this daughter grows up, it's like like and the

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Speaker 2: truth comes out, It's like, goat, we only hang out

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Speaker 2: with you because your dad pays my dad out.

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Speaker 1: Which you know, teenage girl years that could be setting

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Speaker 1: up for a world hurt. That could be getting a

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Speaker 1: world of hurt. So she came by knocking on my

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Speaker 1: she had heard from her daughter that my daughter was

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Speaker 2: Bro, and you're not invited. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I tried to nicely deny that, telling her my daughter

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Speaker 1: she knew which girl, which girls had entered my home

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Speaker 1: and to let her daughter in. I was mad, that's

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Speaker 1: an absolutely insane violation.

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Speaker 2: I feel that could potentially well, maybe it's not fireble,

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Speaker 2: but it's weird. Yeah. Do you do you report this

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Speaker 2: to HR? Yeah? That feeling too. I don't know too much,

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Speaker 2: much too much. Yeah, get out of my face. Let's see.

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Speaker 1: Let's see maybe there, maybe there's even more like line

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Speaker 1: crossings that we can use here. I was mad at her,

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Speaker 1: that due to pass incidents, I thought it was no

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Speaker 1: I would let the school know that I was not

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Speaker 1: okay with them always pairing them up on projects, as

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Speaker 1: my daughter has always been the nice girl and done

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Speaker 2: I guess primary school, so in like early elementary school. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Also the neighbor's daughter is like having her do her

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Speaker 2: Like because we know that the neighbor's daughter has had

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Speaker 1: And basically it's like a big burden on Opie's daughter.

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Speaker 2: OPI is like, I kind of, but hey, if you're

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Speaker 2: those ladies years you make. You make a point hard argue. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you make a point hard argument. It's like running with samdbags.

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Speaker 2: You're so fast when you take those things off. That

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Speaker 1: I understand that she was angry and perhaps exhausted. Career

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Speaker 1: highly unfair. My coworker has two adult children that live

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Speaker 1: Why can't she arrange between them or find her a

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Speaker 1: support group? To this, she made a masked threat that

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Speaker 1: she is good friends with my senior manager.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna speak to your manager.

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Speaker 1: She's like, like, fret, work friends because they work at

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Speaker 2: So I mean, go speak to the manager. See what happens. Ghost.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, oh, he should speak to the manager.

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Speaker 1: I think now we have both like the the the

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Speaker 2: And get some get some, read receipts, get some, get

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Speaker 2: be like, I don't like what's happening here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would go like get the door camera, like,

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Speaker 1: get a door camera to report it, capture it, and

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Speaker 2: The manager in and read all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: I do regret it a little, as this girl has

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Speaker 1: That's the part that sucks here is it's like this

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Speaker 1: and but Opie is like, after years of.

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Speaker 2: The burden kind of being placed on us. It's not our.

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Speaker 1: Responsibility, which years years, which I do think is ultimately true.

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Speaker 1: It's just kind of like it's it sucks for everyone.

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Speaker 2: I think it sucks even more after it honestly sucks

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Speaker 2: more that OPI was the nice guy initially because now

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Speaker 1: And he's been he's been taking They took advantage of

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Speaker 2: It is a weird situation to be in.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, we have a flurry of relevant comments

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Speaker 1: to read, but before we do that, Sam, we've kind

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Speaker 1: of already hinted of this. But I'm curious what you

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Speaker 2: Who op is a A? Yes, A is OPI the

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Speaker 2: ahle And to your suggestion, as of right now, my

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Speaker 2: first question is, has the daughter expressed that she's uncomfortable

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Speaker 2: with the friendship that's a good question because if they're

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Speaker 2: this kid isn't just an occasional biter, like maybe for

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Speaker 2: some people getting bitten isn't a big thing. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe some people even like biting.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a great point that he should sit

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Speaker 1: how is the play date and kind of just try

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Speaker 2: It could be she's too nice, or it could be

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Speaker 2: maybe she genuinely likes hanging out with this person, and

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Speaker 2: OPE is like taking that away, taking that away. That

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Speaker 2: is such a great point because we I don't think

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Speaker 1: And I think that the OPE needs to like sit

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Speaker 2: But it is whack for the hit the work friend

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Speaker 1: Time Yeah, they are doing way too much, and they

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Speaker 1: they're probably desperate because it's like no one else will

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Speaker 2: I think, uh, the other parent is the a hole

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Speaker 2: And I think neither of the daughter is the a

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Speaker 1: Honestly, like, depending on the sit we don't know the

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Speaker 2: When is it okay to bite another person when they ask?

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Speaker 2: That's true? Thank you, Riley, we got some real mcdonmit's.

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Speaker 1: You dirty dogs. Let's get into it. Comment her number one.

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Speaker 1: Document everything that happened, how she's keeping a log, what

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Speaker 1: the f she is off the rails, her threat, and

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Speaker 1: send it to HR to cover your ass. Make sure

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Speaker 1: you include everything you can think of, keeping it black

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Speaker 1: and white and professional aka not emotional.

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Speaker 2: Great advice.

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Speaker 1: As for the school, call them and tell them exactly

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Speaker 1: what you told her. That's that's also a great point.

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Speaker 1: It's the school involved. It's not fair to your daughter

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Speaker 1: that she's been bullied into the this position at all.

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Speaker 1: She must be dreading seeing this girl at this point,

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Speaker 1: Opie responds, the two main teachers they have in her

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Speaker 1: as I think it's about time she gets her own

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Speaker 2: Agreed, agreed, especially if there's developmental issues. Yes, totally, totally,

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Speaker 1: I was your daughter that was forced to partner up

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Speaker 1: and play with a kid for a year before I

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Speaker 1: finally broke down to my mom about how miserable I was.

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Speaker 1: The teachers didn't tell my mom I was being used

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Speaker 1: as an emotional support toy.

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Speaker 2: My god, that's one way to describe it for.

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Speaker 1: That kid and pushed back while my mom put an

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Speaker 1: end to it. It was hell for me. Please do

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Speaker 1: advocate for your daughter with her school. You're doing the

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, especially once they realized they acted and you can

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Speaker 2: Yes, is there anything that we read in the beginning?

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Speaker 1: My daughter cried last night in my arms and told

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Speaker 2: Your kid is sick a lot. That's true. Take better

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I'm concerned that you're concerned your kids are

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Speaker 2: Well, it's not bullying if someone doesn't want to hang

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Speaker 2: out with you. Yeah. I call the social hierarchy used

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Speaker 2: just get used to eating.

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Speaker 1: I think this is the school schlepping all of the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't want to we don't wanna give any

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Speaker 2: don't want to get labeled as bull so let's just

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Speaker 2: get unpaid child labor. Yes, yes, yes, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: That's what it is.

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Speaker 1: And like this poor girl's like education, like maybe her

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, dude, balance it, balance it? Oh man,

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Speaker 1: Dude, Sam, Sam's Sam's into the into the uh real

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Speaker 2: My dad was won ten. You think after four the

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Speaker 2: That's true. It's kids raising kids raising kids. If you

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Speaker 1: Trickle down a parenting autonomous children, autonomous children, Dude.

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Speaker 3: My brothers do know how to play instruments.

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Speaker 2: Don't know how to play instruments.

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Speaker 3: Do know how to play instruments because of you, not

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Speaker 3: because of me, but my parenting trickled down what exactly

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Speaker 2: No, what do you It did make sense, but.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to apply in my life, but it

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Speaker 2: Did did your parents teach you something that you taught

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Speaker 3: Sure you go, Okay, I used a bad example.

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Speaker 2: That was all right, I'm gonna stop the play and

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Speaker 1: They thought it would be bullying if she refused to

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Speaker 1: work with her, saying that they rather my daughter does

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Speaker 2: In activities at school and then gets free time from

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Speaker 2: she's gonna go. Your time is your own after ye

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Speaker 2: You punch in, you punch out. Oh.

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Speaker 1: In other words, I didn't even catch the But in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you put her on the clock after school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, we we let her go. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: Her go You made her go over to her time overtime.

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Speaker 2: They tried to.

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Speaker 1: Praise her for her effort to include and guide this

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Speaker 1: another plan for this girl. Yes, they need to hire

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Speaker 1: this other person. Honestly, that's when they need to prioritize.

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Speaker 2: Before leaving paid child labor. Here we go, that's even better.

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Speaker 1: Before leaving, I told them that my solicitor would send

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Speaker 1: Opie does want to fire this girl, OPI. Opie wants

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Speaker 1: He would prefer that she is out of the classroom

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Speaker 1: quote unquote caretaker.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, duh quoteunquote assistance. Yeah, she doesn't care

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Speaker 4: I answered like, yeah, duh, you're freaking idiots. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: What's happening die to you? I was saying to this

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Speaker 3: Give me the hog now apologize.

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, hey, you just gotta to get a freaking

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, throw this on the ground. I rebuke

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Speaker 4: your candy gift. I repuke it.

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Speaker 2: You're meaning candy? It was for you?

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Speaker 1: Fu No, no, He literally reades down right for next me,

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Speaker 1: hands it to me a pizza offer it. I rebuke

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Speaker 1: your candy, sir, Pi, I reew you no.

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Speaker 2: No, yeah right, dude, that was so for you. Why

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Speaker 4: Because you picked it up on your way you and

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Speaker 2: Turn I pick up flowers for my girlfriend on my

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Speaker 2: way to see her. No, is that the worst thing

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Speaker 2: for him? This is is that for me? I am

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Speaker 2: being so gas lamps right now? Insanity? A flower Riley. Riley,

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Speaker 2: tell me I'm not crazy flowers, and you just threw

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of in the middle. But what did you guys?

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Speaker 2: I literally went down pick up candy and said for you.

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Speaker 3: It was a little selfish, but then he called you

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Speaker 3: out on it. Then you said for.

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Speaker 2: You because I didn't have time to give it to him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm up in the air.

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Speaker 3: It's up in the air. What do you got to see?

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Speaker 3: What did you guys see? Put a bowl in the.

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Speaker 1: Chat makes for a great moment, though I don't even

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Speaker 2: For, Riley. How many times have you been seeing him

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Speaker 3: You haven't it a few times after before?

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Speaker 2: Totally? I agree after it before.

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Speaker 3: I've seen three today, which makes sense.

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Speaker 2: They're great candies. This is for you. I will take

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Speaker 2: it only because I like the cads and I knew that,

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Speaker 2: which is why, on my way to give you a hug,

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Speaker 2: I did a second nice thing a second night. I

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Speaker 2: stacked my nicenessnessness anyway, I can pick it up right here.

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Speaker 2: I forgive you again, if anything, I forgive you. Oh well,

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Speaker 2: now they're moved now.

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Speaker 1: Actually, now, we have no way of knowing whether or

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Speaker 2: How I tore it and pick it up in the

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Speaker 2: first place. How do you think I d God, how

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Speaker 2: do you think I picked it up? I do because

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Speaker 2: they were in rage.

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Speaker 1: I think they were. Yeah, I think they were in

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Speaker 1: the same place. They were in the bed, not right now, obviously.

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Speaker 2: So all right, what you're saying, what you're saying, This

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Speaker 1: As you were standing up, you're like, oh, I should

443
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: get one of these. Immediately you grab it and you're like,

444
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 1: damn it. Why did I grab it now instead of

445
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:00,440
Speaker 1: grabbing it later?

446
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 2: I could have grabbed it anytime.

447
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 1: Then you were like, I'll use it as a peace offering. Boom,

448
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 1: here you go, piece, Peace be upon you, piece, We'll

449
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 1: go to you. I think that's all happened.

450
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 2: You are bastardizing a moment of pure beauty, a moment

451
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 2: we could have shared.

452
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 3: Now you're eating the candy.

453
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, I am eating the candy. I was

454
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: eating it while we were finishing our great banter moment.

455
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 2: Take another, Oh I watch.

456
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 3: I won't take another anyways.

457
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: Anyways, I much rather they move this girl out of

458
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Speaker 1: the class than my daughter, as she made a few

459
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Speaker 1: friends in this class. I also told them that I

460
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 1: was taking this issue to HR as it was a

461
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: combined issue in both the public and private sphere.

462
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 2: Oh that's every sphere, dude, get hitting all the spheres

463
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:55,479
Speaker 2: spears like dude, spheres. These little candies no sponsors. I

464
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: texted her mother and she texted me back. She stupidly

465
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 2: confirmed a lot and other things, including wanting to encourage

466
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 2: my daughter to hang with hers. Oh, caught in four

467
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 2: K red hair.

468
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: It should be smooth sailing with HR.

469
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 2: Here we go.

470
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 1: Solicitor was contacted before I went to the school. Solicitor

471
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: advised to write a letter to the school, as someone

472
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: else had advised in terms of my child being bullied

473
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 1: into being a carrier. A letter was drafted for HR

474
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: two in the conversation I had over text with her

475
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: mother for evidence. I will be giving it to HR Monday.

476
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Speaker 2: Morning, dude.

477
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Speaker 1: This is open shutcase, open and shut and clubs and

478
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: shut boom. I also sent my senior manager a heads

479
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: up about what was happening in case she tried to

480
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Speaker 1: shield for her friend, because she could go to the

481
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Speaker 1: senior manager and be like, Oh, oh.

482
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 2: He's so terrible and blah blah blah blah lah, she's

483
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 2: about to tell you a lie.

484
00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: Mentioned solicitor and how the case was going to progres

485
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: with the school admin. She seemed to come across supportive.

486
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: I have told my daughter to let the teacher know

487
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: loud and clear that she won't work with this girl

488
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,479
Speaker 1: if they pair her up, and to report back to

489
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: me every time they try to do it. We will

490
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,959
Speaker 1: see what comes of it now and if the school

491
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Speaker 1: will keep up their end of the bargain.

492
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 2: I have a conspiracy theory. What is your conspiracy theory?

493
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 2: Is it that a simple pierced offering was used as

494
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: a means of self a grandizement and pleasure. No, I

495
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: think that. Let me I'll use a physical example.

496
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Speaker 1: A line was crossed not only in the private sphere,

497
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Speaker 1: but also in the public sphere.

498
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Speaker 2: Two spheres that has been crossed. But what about the

499
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 2: public private sphere. I forgot about that, the privately public sphere.

500
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 2: That is one that I did not consider. Okay, it

501
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 2: probably it doesn't matter, so we should just get rid

502
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Speaker 2: of it.

503
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Speaker 1: I think that the neighbor is going to get fired

504
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: from the job and take out revenge on Ope and

505
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: try to make Op's life a living hell. How though,

506
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: I think I hypothesize maybe they start going to like

507
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: the ho way, or like parking their car in front

508
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 1: of their driveway, or or rolling their trash in at

509
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: night after they roll it out, I don't know, like

510
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: some means of like advanced torture, and then they're like advance.

511
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 2: Torture, advanced torture. This is what they use in Guantanamo

512
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 2: Bay exactly got the trash cans going in and out again,

513
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 2: and they tell Ope.

514
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: They tell Ope, right, if you will, if you ever

515
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: want your trash cans to be left at peace again,

516
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: you march into that school, in that office and you

517
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: tell them I was running a fake campaign against my neighbor.

518
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 2: And you should have the daughter back.

519
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 1: You should hire the neighbor back and bring everything back

520
00:25:59,480 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: as it.

521
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 2: I honestly have a solution for the problem. Daughter and

522
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 2: the parent hire just pay an actor to be your

523
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 2: daughter's friend. Or here we go, Here we go, the

524
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: family that needs the most money in the class pay

525
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 2: their family to be your daughter's friend. Then you're helping

526
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: a family and your daughter gets a friend. Win win.

527
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: I might be able to get behind this idea offer.

528
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: The problem is if the daughter finds out that the

529
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: kid was literally paid to be their friend.

530
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Speaker 2: But this is maybe a bad question. Yes, how challenged

531
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Speaker 2: is this daughter? Because we don't know. Depending on the

532
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 2: amount of challenge, maybe it would not be a thing

533
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 2: that would be understood.

534
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: This girl has developed the develop mental issues and can't

535
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: interact with others her age. She clings to my daughter

536
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: and won't let her play with other children. She has

537
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: bitten and thrown things at my daughter in the past

538
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: when she doesn't get her full attention.

539
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: So all right, let me ask you this. Yes, I'm

540
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: afraid of school. You're in middle school? Yes, right? How

541
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: much would someone have to pay you god to be

542
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 2: friends with someone that bit you like once a week? Yeah,

543
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: that wouldn't be very fun anywhere except your private parts. Uh,

544
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 2: it doesn't draw blood but leaves the mark.

545
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: If we're talking, can we make this scenario they just

546
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: bite me, and that's it.

547
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: They bite you at once a week. Yeah yeah, and

548
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 2: you're not cool, you're weird. Well now I'm now I'm

549
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 2: thrilled I do have to pay him? Yeah right, yeah,

550
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: well jeez, what a neil? Okay, so all right, the

551
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: weird does kid in school? Yeah, they bite you once

552
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 2: a week? How much and you're in middle school? How much?

553
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 2: How much? I don't want to do this exercise? How

554
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: much would you? How much would you? How much would

555
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 2: you want? I don't know if I take the deal,

556
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. You're telling me, young entrepreneurial John wearing suits?

557
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 2: Yeah in middle school? Would well, you wore suitsan high

558
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 2: school school? Fair enough? Your point proven, point taking. But

559
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: you're saying you would not take a amount of money, dude,

560
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 2: when I actually so, here's what happened.

561
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: At first, when you suggested your idea, I was like,

562
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: oh that actually.

563
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: Like maybe maybe just could work.

564
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: But then when I put myself in the scenario, I'm like, dude,

565
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: this poor kid is literally and then and then there's

566
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: a kid being paid to hang out with him.

567
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: Granted, I think okay, but but the other option is

568
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: no one hangs out with him, or no one hangs

569
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 2: out with her. A paid for is better than no friends.

570
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: I think they just need they just need to get

571
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: the uh the new assistant.

572
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 2: How much do you take to you use? How much?

573
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: No deal? No deal? No deal. You're saying I'm not

574
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: taking one thousand dollars a week in middle school? You're

575
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 2: saying you would not take a thousand dollars no deal?

576
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: What's a week? They bite?

577
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: Once a week? Yeah, I take that right now. Foot

578
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 2: the heck.

579
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 3: You know what you could do with that kind of money?

580
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 3: Another revenue You can create, another revenue stream.

581
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you invests. Come on, dude, twos you could

582
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: grow that. You put that in the S and P

583
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: seven percent easy and also you started investing in the

584
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: S and P in middle school? When can you?

585
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 3: Can you tell me how long does this last?

586
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: I don't know as long as the kid bites, which

587
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:57,479
Speaker 2: could be forever.

588
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 3: Oh kids, seven years, seven years? Money time out, time out.

589
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,239
Speaker 2: All right?

590
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: Time seven dude, three hundred sixty four K for seven dude,

591
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 3: seven years.

592
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: I don't know where those numbers are, but I trust

593
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: them blindly.

594
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 3: Oh no, every week?

595
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: Wait, does he have weeks off?

596
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 3: No weeks off?

597
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 1: Right?

598
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 2: Fifty? You wouldn't take I would take a thousand dollars.

599
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 3: That's how much you would get a year. That's a

600
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 3: full fucking that's a full job for getting bit one

601
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 3: middle school?

602
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: Dude, you know what?

603
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 1: Come on, dude, now I'm getting bullied John John again,

604
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: get some fucking morals.

605
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

606
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: It's just a I would rather take a job in

607
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 2: a garage than help a poor child that needs friends.

608
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: They need to hire another professional for this job. You

609
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 2: could be that professional. I'm a child. I'm a child.

610
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 2: How does someone start being a professional. They start early,

611
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: they start young. Justin Bieber became a professional at like

612
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 2: what fifteen?

613
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, dude, Okay, animal control gets paid less

614
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 3: than you will stop animal control? You by human Come on,

615
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 3: and then.

616
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 2: Not even draw a blood of week? A thousand bucks

617
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 2: a week? Deal? No deal. You're a liar, You're a

618
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: lie stupid in middle school. You're not taking a thousand

619
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: bucks a week? Oh my god, how many chuck e

620
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 2: cheese coins you can get with that? A lot?

621
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: Only Lego said you could get, dude, so many.

622
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't making the Legos much chuck and cheese. You

623
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: got me, Becky jeez, you got me?

624
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 3: You do it? Sam?

625
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: Fuck you? Yeah? In middle school?

626
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but what about that means.

627
00:31:51,720 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: I would have one friend? So uh more similar stories

628
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: from parents. This is exactly what they said. They said

629
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: she is kind and praised for being understanding and putting.

630
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 2: Up with her.

631
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: They also praised her for helping her to learn to read.

632
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: I know that girl has made progress with reading in

633
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: math because her mother mentioned it too. Yet the teachers,

634
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: the people more qualified and paid to teach her.

635
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: Are avoiding this girl.

636
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: She has been violent on more than one occasion, and

637
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: even though we are living in the Greater London area,

638
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: my solicitor said we can move on that issue as

639
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: she is being put in danger. Does solicitor mean like

640
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: lawyer in the UK? I'm guessing that's why I think

641
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: so something like that right. Responding to the question why

642
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: no assistant, they had an assistant for her, but she

643
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: left the job. That is what affected my daughter more.

644
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: I mentioned this in the original post. The principle did

645
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: mention that they would look for other avenues, but their

646
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: budget is bursting. I know because in the past few

647
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: years this.

648
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 2: School has suffered a bit.

649
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: The teaching assistant was paid less than what a qualified

650
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: sen would have been, but she left verification on timeline.

651
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: Op clarifies that the event itself happened the week before.

652
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm writing it on Friday and got distracted and then

653
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: uh and finished it then posted it.

654
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: The language used we are in the UK called it baby.

655
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 2: We don't have we don't have elementary schools. We call

656
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 2: it primary schools.

657
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: And lawyers are solicitors haha or barristers, barristers, barristers, thank you,

658
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: depending on what she used them for and their qualifications.

659
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: We have some clarifications right in the UK. It seems

660
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: like they had a person, but now they're trying to

661
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: find someone. The budget is you know, it sounds like

662
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of things that all sum up in sounds

663
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: like it's not my problem.

664
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: Sounds like it's not my problem. You either pay my

665
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 2: kid one thousand dollars a week or we're not budget.

666
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: There you go, bring up the budget or we're not budget.

667
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 2: Bring up the budget or we're not budget. I think so.

668
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 1: But but there's a final update to this song. Let's

669
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 1: get into it, let's do it, let's talk about it.

670
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: Yesterday I had a meeting with HR and the mother

671
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: of the child was called in. We both had the

672
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: option to have someone else sit on the meeting for

673
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: support or a rep, but we both declined. Dude, raw

674
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 1: dog in the HR meeting risky business, risky move. My manager,

675
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: on the other hand, was made to sit in. I

676
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: don't think she was very happy about it due to

677
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: her workload. HR tried to make it comfortable for all,

678
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: but getting a solicitor was the best thing I could

679
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: have done. HR made notes and put it on official

680
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 1: record that despite this taking place outside of work, they

681
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: could and would deal with her at work if she

682
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: tried to leverage her if she tried to leverage her

683
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: friendship over my job security, which w move for the company,

684
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 1: I would say. My manager said she isn't very friendly

685
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: with her outside work, but that she would like to

686
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: keep a good professional relationship with her going forward if

687
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: she remains she backtracked on the map, asked threat and

688
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: try to emotionally manipulate the room by bringing up her

689
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: daughter's struggles.

690
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: HR stated that.

691
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: Part of it had nothing to do with me or

692
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: the company, and they expected her to stay professional at work.

693
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 1: They advised her to put pressure on the right school

694
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: to provide her and to write to provide her with

695
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: the right tools to make it through. They offered her

696
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: one week unpaid damn to spend time with her daughter

697
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: if she needed it, and encourage her to use that

698
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: week take her daughter to various clubs for children with

699
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,240
Speaker 1: special needs so she could form bonds with children similar

700
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: to her What one week unpaid?

701
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 2: What does that do?

702
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 3: Just give?

703
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: Just give the one week paid, like, yeah, your big

704
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: company has HR, Come on, come on, come on. I

705
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: was not given an apology by HR, but they made

706
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: her give me a written apology and a verbal one,

707
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: which honestly.

708
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: Kind of used, in my opinion, an apology.

709
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: No if someone if someone's forced to apologize, it might

710
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,959
Speaker 1: as well. I would also that they Yeah, it's totally

711
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: I would rather you not. Yeah. My manager said she

712
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: was happy with my work and would continue to support

713
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: me in her capacity as a manager.

714
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: I had a phone call from the school this morning.

715
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: There was a small incident between this girl and my daughter,

716
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: but they dealt with it and they and didn't want

717
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: me to pick up my daughter so the other girl

718
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: could see changes happening.

719
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 2: For now, that.

720
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: Girl won't be in class for the rest of the

721
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 1: day and at break time, the dinner ladies were making

722
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: sure they were not playing together.

723
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: The dinner ladies. I may take a lunch ladies, but

724
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: the UK version very true. Good point. My heart hurts

725
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: for this girl because she is basically alone now. But

726
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: I have to think of my daughter first. If only

727
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: someone would step up, if they were being paid a

728
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 2: hefty sum of one thousand dollars a week.

729
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: Listen, if they went offer that fair game, so you

730
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: would take it. I'm it's fair game.

731
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 2: Why would you take it?

732
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 3: Is it a thousand too little for you?

733
00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, richie ridd No, no oh.

734
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 3: Oh, how about some silver coins with that help.

735
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 4: Gold the blue nardul Now, now you're talking. That might

736
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 4: get me out of the cool mines. I can breathe

737
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 4: my lungs again.

738
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: The school has scheduled my husband and I and her

739
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: parents for a meeting together with the principal, my solicitor,

740
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: the lawyer, their teachers, and a school reference.

741
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 3: So you know what, I just love about this what

742
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 3: Unlike you, this joke never gets.

743
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 2: Sold, you know what? Okay, I'll give respect for respect

744
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 2: to new That was good. That was good. Oh god, dude.

745
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: The day the day Riley turns twenty seven, I am

746
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: reigning hell down on it.

747
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: But you'll be like one hundred and three years life.

748
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: His life will be torture. His life will be torture, dude,

749
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,760
Speaker 1: his life will be terrible.

750
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: Just you wait, buddy, we.

751
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,479
Speaker 1: Will see how quickly things change as their technical still

752
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: in the same class. Thank you to all that shared

753
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 1: your own similar experiences and helping and helping me navigate this.

754
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 2: I'm a hovel that things will be better going forward. Dude.

755
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: Once you guys get in a laughing fit. Oh and

756
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: final relevant comedy closes out. Thank god, someone shares their

757
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: own experience. This is how she felt too. She was

758
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: forced to ship. She was forced to sit with this

759
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: girl at lunch in additional lessons, she had very few friends.

760
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,760
Speaker 1: In the last few months, some of the other girls

761
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: reached out to her, and she is approaching the preaching

762
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: years fast, so it's important for her to socialize with peers.

763
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: I am so sorry you here, you had it goes.

764
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 2: What do you think boys? What are you thinking? Right? Right? Right?

765
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 2: I think it washed out as it should.

766
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 3: He shouldn't have to like I put that on him,

767
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 3: and it's really really said that, like going through all

768
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 3: the necessary steps to keep his daughter safe and protected.

769
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 3: He still feels that way.

770
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, But you know what

771
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 2: I agree with what me reading this next story? Let's

772
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: do it. Am I the a hole for telling my

773
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 2: daughter she needs to move out after she had an

774
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 2: affair with our married neighbor ouch and this comes from

775
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,240
Speaker 2: stressed out dad three, I can understand why you're stressed accurate.

776
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: Last week, I caught my daughter twenty one, leaving our

777
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 2: neighbor's house early in the morning. I was getting a

778
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: drink around three in the morning and watched her leave

779
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: their house, and she snuck across the yard whoa, and

780
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 2: went through our basement door. Our neighbor is married and

781
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: probably thirty. I assume his wife was gone for the night,

782
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: as her car wasn't there. The next morning, I went

783
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 2: down to my daughter's room and confronted her. At first

784
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 2: he denied it, but then she eventually said that she

785
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 2: had been sleeping with him for a couple of months.

786
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 2: O thirty with a twenty one year old big eches.

787
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 2: I lost it at that point. He yelled at her,

788
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 2: telling her he is married and she is helping ruin

789
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: a marriage. I told her that she needs to tell

790
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 2: the wife or she needs to move out. Honestly, not

791
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 2: a bad not a bad ultimatum. Yeah, not a bad ultimatum.

792
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: I like that ultimatum. Good adult parenting. Yeah, she is

793
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 2: clearly upset and thinks I'm overreacting. My wife is also

794
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 2: thinking I'm going too far.

795
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 3: What wife?

796
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,760
Speaker 2: Your wife is probably cheating on you. Oka, the wife

797
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 2: is also sleeping with the guy. No, no, no, no, no,

798
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: no no no. The apple doesn't far from the tree.

799
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 3: Hot conspiracy theory. All right, Uh, it wasn't the It

800
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 3: wasn't the thirty year old that she's cheating on. Why

801
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: was the thirty year old's wife gone open marriage because

802
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 3: he was with the wife the Opie's wife.

803
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: Oh, you're saying, you're saying Opie's wife is cheating with

804
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: the wife of the neighbor guy.

805
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: Opie's is here to say.

806
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 3: Why was he up at three o'clock in the morning?

807
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 2: Yeah?

808
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: Also, was he getting a drink of water or like

809
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: a like a drink drink, like a glug like gatorade?

810
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: Af After we talked about what drink means, it's probably

811
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 3: a drink drink.

812
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 2: Anyway. Maybe I get that the neighbor is the main issue,

813
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: but I'm really disappointed my daughter. She knows his wife

814
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: and has even babysat for them. The class dude, classical

815
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 2: babysitter is telling her to confess or move out too far.

816
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: I mean, she's twenty one. She's twenty one, she is

817
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 2: in college.

818
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me think about this. I do think it's

819
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: very important that she The right thing to do is

820
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: tell the wife. Absolutely the right thing to just tell

821
00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: the wife. And it's like, what leverage quote unquote do

822
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: you have?

823
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe it's not like I don't think I

824
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 2: would kick my daughter out. Yeah, she wasn't ready even

825
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 2: though she did a bad thing. Yeah. Yeah, but it's

826
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 2: also like make adult decisions, have adult consequences. What if

827
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: it's like we don't know if she has a car

828
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 2: paid for a provide. What if you're like her job

829
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 2: or she's still in school. She probably maybe has one

830
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 2: where your school left.

831
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I was gonna say take the car away,

832
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: but like that's on. It's one thing to take the

833
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: car away for like a high school. It's like, oh,

834
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: take the bus to school, but it's like.

835
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: She can just walk to the cheating it's across the street.

836
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: You're so right, I was I was saying, as just

837
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,479
Speaker 1: a general punishment of like, okay, you can't drive around

838
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: to see your friends, and.

839
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 2: Like, I mean yeah, like even if she's just if

840
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 2: she's grounded, just sneak out, like she can escape from

841
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:59,439
Speaker 2: the basement door. She's she's free. Yeah, this is tricky, dude,

842
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: This is really I would love to know what y'all

843
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: would do. Put your answers to the comments. What if? Okay,

844
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 2: what if? What if?

845
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: What if the husband says tell him or I will,

846
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: And honestly, you could totally be bluffing.

847
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 2: At first, or tell her or I will tell the wife.

848
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry, yeah, tell tell the wife or I will. Yeah,

849
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 1: and then you you don't even have to be serio.

850
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 1: You could be bluffing at first.

851
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 2: That's better. Yeah, that's probably better. Better at least the

852
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 2: information gets out. Because what if what if tell the

853
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: wife or I will. Yeah, what if she.

854
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: Uh, she gets on the streets, and then she's got

855
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 1: to start only fans make a living?

856
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: And then where are we at?

857
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 3: There are other ways to make a living. There's not Yeah, sexist,

858
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 3: Yes there is no.

859
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 2: Ay, I made an only fans too, Okay, where's the link?

860
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: Just kidding? I was exactly I was totally lying. Also,

861
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: I mean, if she's on only fans doing it right,

862
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 2: She's not on the streets like people. People aren't. We're

863
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 2: watching a video this only fans creator like thirty five

864
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: million dollar networth? Insane? Insane, absolutely insane. How'd you find

865
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 2: her on YouTube to a finance video? It's true, there

866
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: is an edit. Wow, thank you all for responding. I'm

867
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 2: sorry I couldn't respond to more of you. Some context

868
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 2: I failed to put in here. My wife is very upset.

869
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 2: She isn't siding with the affair. In fact, she was

870
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 2: cheated on by an X. She understands is better than

871
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 2: I do. I think that is. I think that is

872
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: a big part of why I'm so angry. My wife

873
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: is also a better person than I am. She is

874
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: the only reason I am the man I am today.

875
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 4: You.

876
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 2: I have too much respect to let people, even anonymously,

877
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: insinuate that she is a problem here. I should have

878
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: done a better job in explaining her side. Any comment

879
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: saying anything bad about my wife will be met with

880
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 2: an fu A. Writing all this out and reading the

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Speaker 2: comments has been incredibly helpful. I haven't changed my mind,

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Speaker 2: but it's made me think about the situation. More, especially

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Speaker 2: looking at the future and my relationship with my daughter.

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Speaker 2: I just shot a text to my daughter and apologize

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Speaker 2: for my anger and asked her to go get a

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Speaker 2: drink with me tonight and talk. I told her I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry I didn't ask her how she was feeling. I

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Speaker 2: need to get my composure back before my next work

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Speaker 2: call here in a few minutes. But we'll continue to

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Speaker 2: read and reply to comments as I have time to

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Speaker 2: day edit too. Just going to put my thoughts here

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Speaker 2: instead of commenting. Wow, so many comments. While yes, I

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Speaker 2: may be seeming to backtrack a bit with reaching out

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Speaker 2: to my daughter, I don't see how that is bad.

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Speaker 2: She is my daughter and I love her so much.

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Speaker 2: For those who think she would stop talking to us

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Speaker 2: if we kicked her out, I raised her to be

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Speaker 2: independent and accept consequences and accept consequences for actions. It's

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Speaker 2: hard to explain a relationship, but I know she wouldn't

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Speaker 2: stop talking to us if we did force her to move.

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Speaker 2: She also would figure it out, as she is a

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Speaker 2: smart woman. She would love out. She would love out

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Speaker 2: of our house, not our life. I'm always her dad.

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Speaker 2: On that note, this is the dad writing, not the mom,

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Speaker 2: As some of you a thought. Also not worried about

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Speaker 2: violence from the neighbor's wife. Unfortunately, she is a very

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Speaker 2: sweet women, which makes everything worse. But I wouldn't put

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Speaker 2: my daughter in danger. I confirm my daughter hasn't told

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Speaker 2: the husband we know. I will be watching his behavior

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Speaker 2: as I'm not sure how he will react. Last thing,

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Speaker 2: as I find it funny, I was drinking water, not

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Speaker 2: alcohol when I saw her. I woke up and went

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Speaker 2: to the kitchen and saw from the window. But I

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Speaker 2: appreciate the links to AA. I really should have made

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Speaker 2: my original post longer. Sorry for all the edits. I'll

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Speaker 2: update after I talk with my daughter. There is no update.

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Speaker 2: There is no other There is no update. He's ever

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Speaker 2: talk with the daughter. We will never know. Maybe we'll

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Speaker 2: never know unless there's an update. Maybe. But I like

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Speaker 2: our solution better. I think our solution is is like

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Speaker 2: a happy medium.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so, I think yeah, Like, after thinking

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Speaker 1: about it for a second, it's like, okay, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: not like threatening to kick out the daughter. It's too

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Speaker 1: extreme and kind of like maybe the daughter is who.

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Speaker 2: Knows what's going on? She looking for validation? Is Yeah,

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Speaker 2: why did she feel the need to go to this neighbor.

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Speaker 1: And I think that is a good thing if you're

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Speaker 1: able to like sit down with your child, like what's

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Speaker 1: going on, what's going on, like, let me hear you.

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Speaker 2: I'm your friend.

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Speaker 1: You know I'm a baby. So I liked I really

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Speaker 1: liked Opie's pivot and adjustment there from like like walking

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Speaker 1: it back from being like out of my house. And

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Speaker 1: this does not at all in any way, in any

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Speaker 1: shape or form. Excuse this because she should know better.

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Speaker 1: But she is twenty one making stupid young people mistakes.

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Speaker 1: And so it's like, all right, let me, let me

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Speaker 1: help guide you as your parents through this.

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Speaker 2: But are very curious what all of you would do.

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Speaker 2: I would love to know your answers in the comments below,

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Speaker 2: But if you love us, make sure to subscribe We

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