WEBVTT - Harry Styles Fan Fiction 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.920 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:11.639 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:13.520 Scrub a dub dub. 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:14.760 It's opposite day. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:20.040 I feel so like I can't even I feel so 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:22.560 out of whack. I also realize I don't have my 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:25.599 aura ring on right now, so that yeah, I don't. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:28.240 I like, I didn't close out all my apps before 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:31.120 we started. My light didn't wasn't on. 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:32.600 What does the app thing mean? 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:35.000 I just usually close out all my apps before we 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.880 start the podcast. It's just like a weird tick. I 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:39.360 guess it's a weird tick that I do. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.519 Interesting. Yeah, are you afraid it's like drain your battery? 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.080 Or like I'm scared that my uh, like my iTunes 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:46.640 is gonna start singing or something. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:48.000 Oh my god, what will. 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.560 We do with this professional podcast we have if something 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:51.080 popped up? 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.080 It's just one of those. Yeah, it's like a thing. 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:55.880 It's like one of my just a habit. Yeah, it's 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.480 a habit. And I feel very thrown off. Becca was 0:00:58.600 --> 0:00:59.800 here before me today. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.920 I really don't think in seven years of doing the 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:04.280 show this has ever happened. 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:06.759 No, never, And I'm like very thrown off. 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:08.640 But like sometimes I'll walk in and you'll be in 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.080 the bathroom or something, but you're already. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:12.440 It's about being settled. 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:15.520 She came in with all her stuff today, which means 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:16.840 I beat her. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.840 I had stuff I don't even know. I feel like 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:23.600 I'm missing something around me. But it's fine. I'm totally fine. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:26.920 No, you're very calm. Yeah, not frantic at all. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.120 No, no, no, But you do have your engagement ring on, 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.920 which I think is more important than the ORR ring. 0:01:31.120 --> 0:01:34.240 Yeah I did. I did not forget that. But my 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:36.800 or ring is charging, so I think that's why I 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:40.440 forgot it. A charger up charger charge it so they 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:42.479 say you can charge it once a week. I charge 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.000 it like every four days. I think she really like 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:46.679 gets a lot of work with me. 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:50.840 Yeah, I can see that's worked, underpaid, overworked paid. 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:53.280 So I charge it like every four of four days. 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:55.520 I was gonna hate. Okay. 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:57.280 I didn't talk about this, but when I went to 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:01.040 Canada last on the last time I went, Hayley's like, 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:02.320 I got something for you, and. 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:03.880 It was an or ring. 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.320 No, but it was this little It was a. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:08.880 Ring and it's a silver ring made by a local 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.960 artist where she was in Canada and it had like 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.440 a little dangling heart and she had a matching one. 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:17.840 And you don't understand, like, I love that stuff. I 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.760 love wearing like her initial. I would be like if 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.520 she wore my initial, I'm like, I try to get her. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.400 A lot of bees and did she wear them? 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:30.640 Not really, But so same way, It's always been a 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.240 thing where I'm like, I love that kind of like 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:37.440 matching thing with her. And so the fact that she 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:39.919 got me a matching ring, the fact that she got 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:41.360 me a ring was so sweet. But then the fact 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:43.320 that she got me a matching ring, I. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:47.640 Was like, a ring is a ring? No, I mean 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.240 it's a big gesture, I think. No, No, I. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.280 Mean it's not like a it's not like a diamond ring. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.040 I know that, but like a ring is a ring. 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.600 But it wasn't like a promise ring. It was a 0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.520 piece of jewelry. We always get each other jewelry. 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:03.720 Oh okay, it's a girl thing, okay wlw yes, woman 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:08.280 loving women. Yeah that's right. Wait are you wearing the ring? 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:10.799 Oh my gosh. 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:13.240 Well, I put lotion on and then I took it 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.320 off to put the lotional because like when lotion gets 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:16.880 in the ring and I was like rushing out and. 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:17.640 I forgot to put it on. 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:18.919 That was my whole thing. 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:19.959 I was gonna show my ring. 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:21.600 Oh my gosh, you're gonna have to put in the 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:23.640 fifth picture of it the Facebook group later. Yeah, I 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.480 put it on Instagram so she's wearing it. 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.680 Yeah, I know, it's so cute. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:34.880 I actually want to do like matching tattoos. Oh, very 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.320 permanent our wedding. 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:37.440 No taking that off. 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.120 Robbie says, there's like a jinx to it. So he's 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.880 like kind of anti and I'm like, I think Robbie is. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.080 Just like, how can I get on that one? 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:45.240 No? 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:48.000 No, he was like he's kind of into the idea. 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:49.720 He doesn't want matching. He doesn't want to have like 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:50.880 the same exact thing. 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:53.120 But something that like compliments the other one. Correct. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:54.119 Yeah, yeah, I like that. 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:55.800 What would it be? Where would it be? 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:56.320 Yeah? Where? 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:56.640 Well? 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:58.360 For me, I was thinking about putting it on my 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:02.560 ring finger. Ben Higgins dons a Jason Kennedy also has 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:05.280 Low's name right there, something kind of like that for me. 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.200 And then I'll suggest like his initial or something, yeah, 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:14.160 like an R an R or like a YAD. I 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.160 guess then no, that's weird. I mean, I haven't really 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:20.800 thought it through, but where would content. That's a stamp 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:23.160 for him to decide. But I was like, it'd be 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.200 really cool if you got my my name in like 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:28.880 Serbian block letters. WHOA, Yeah right, I. 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:31.320 Don't know what that looks like, but sounds cool, thoughtful. 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:34.000 The T and the A are basically the same everything, 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:35.560 the t's and the a's are the same, so it's 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.119 just the n Y that's gonna look a little. 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:41.920 That's cool. Yeah, it's like it's like kind of Russian. 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:42.960 Yeah, exactly. 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:44.160 Oh interesting. 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:44.560 Yeah. 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.960 Yeah, you get like the property of Tanya, like on 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:48.640 his like lower abdomen or something. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:49.840 I would love that. 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:52.480 Property. 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:54.760 Oh yeah, I didn't realize it was a thing that 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.320 you get her all these bs and she just doesn't 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:56.760 wear them. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.800 I don't get I just like I will get them, 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:02.480 so I'll get an H and then if it's if 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:03.080 it's something cute. 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:04.800 Look at that bubble letter I had. I love that 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:05.320 bubble letter. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.520 I didn't get the BEE because she doesn't wear them. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.920 I'll get the H and wear that one, right, and 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:15.080 so but yeah, like people have sent us like little 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:16.560 initial necklaces and. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:17.479 Just doesn't wear it. 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:19.440 She wills like she's not. 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.919 She's not like intentionally not doing it. It's just not 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:24.840 part of her thing, you know. So it just meant 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.440 a lot that she made the move and bought as 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:29.479 matching rings. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:30.120 I get it. 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:32.840 Let me tell you that we stumbled into a Barbie 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:36.440 convention over the weekend and they we were there to 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:38.360 ride a boat in the lobby of this hotel and 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.320 there at a Barbie convention going on, but they're selling 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.000 a Barbie hat. It was like corduroy and had a 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.080 big pink bee on it, and I was like, that'd 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.600 be so cute for Haley to wear, wouldn't that So she. 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:47.280 Would love that. 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.240 Okay, like a hat or something, she would totally be 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:51.400 down interesting. 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:53.640 She draws the line at a charm. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.240 I get it. 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:59.920 But you know, before we were ever out, like for years, 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.640 I wore a little stud h in my ear, and 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:06.520 I know people who were like sleuths who were onto us. 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:07.440 They got it. 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:10.640 They were like, what is h h has to be 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.359 for Haley? And then some people were like, it's for 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:13.320 her sister. 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.760 Henk, Yeah, I just warned for one of my one 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:17.360 four siblings. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.679 Wow, it's for Higgins. They were meant to be all along. 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.719 Look at Becca doing her little Taylor Swift easter egging. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:25.400 I wasn't easter egging. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:29.440 I was just like but maybe subconsciously mm hmmmm, I 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:32.000 just wanted to wear it. I saw, actually Taylor Swift 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.599 had to cancel her shows in Vienna because there was 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:38.919 like a terrorist threat. Yeah, that's so scary, very scary 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:43.320 and also devastating for so many people who traveled and 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:44.960 planned all year for that. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:45.479 Yeah. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:47.640 I saw these comments from people like from la and 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.720 from America that were over there and like. 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.239 Ready to feel like that when anybody cancels any show, 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:55.440 because like people, a lot of people travel to these 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:58.840 shows and like, yeah, I don't know. Sometimes I feel like, 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.200 obviously that was war inten and it should have been canceled, 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.480 But I feel like sometimes artists are a little flippant 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:03.880 about it. 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:07.000 Yeah, what was the one? Was it? Morgan Wallin? Someone 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:10.040 canceled because they were like sick or something, and everyone 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.600 was like you should refund us for the hotel and 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.160 the and stuff. 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:17.160 Yeah, like, if someone was sick, I wouldn't mean mad 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.920 if they like had recorded audio and just like danced. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:25.000 Really what I mean yeah, I don't think I feel Oh. 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:26.320 Really, well, you had to think. 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:31.120 You have backstage access to some of the biggest artists 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:32.760 and most of the biggest artists in the world. A 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.080 lot of these people save up forever to just see 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.160 this person play live. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:38.640 No, I know, but like a lot of people don't 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.080 necessarily even play live and you don't even realize. 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:41.920 Yeah, but the. 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.160 Energy of being in a live show, I'm saying, I 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:45.560 think it's very different than watching. 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:48.560 It's like, just watch the aerostour on your team. 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:49.440 No, no, no. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.640 What I'm saying is like a lot of artists will 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:55.120 like sing live, but it's like to a track, right, 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.480 so they could still do that, do you know what 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:57.960 I'm saying? 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.800 But where like would they ounce it though, or were 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:01.440 they No. 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:04.520 You wouldn't say like I'm sick anything the show goes on. 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.120 Oh you're saying they're sick. 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:07.440 Yes, yeah, oh my gosh. 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.480 But if you have like the flu, even just getting 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:11.920 up and walking is painful. 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:14.000 That's true. That's true. 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.640 Like think about your cold that you had recently and 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.160 how you were dand and imagine performing a three hour 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:20.440 show lip syncing. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:22.120 Well, I kind of did. 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:25.840 And actually Taylor performs all the time. When she's sick, you'll. 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.880 See hers in the rain, blowing her nose in the 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.760 rain and like all these crazy conditions. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.560 Yeah, and she probably has like Ivy's set up to 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:36.360 get her back in no time. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.360 Yeah, she has the best medical care, I'm assuming. 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:43.439 Anyways, I was singing, God, that sucks, Like what happens? 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.240 Do they were funded? Redo the show? 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:47.439 What do they dobody? 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:47.679 Oh? 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.560 Really, she's just not going to come back and do it. 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:50.920 I don't think she's ever going to go back to 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:53.800 Vienna ever. Again, that's not true, but I don't. I 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:57.679 think there they did refund everybody via It's in Austria. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.600 Austria. I knew that has. 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.520 She ever performed there? Because I saw that she performed 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:04.160 in Poland and she had never performed there. 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.120 So that's so sus Taylor's if knowledge is be on 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:07.600 my pig. 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:08.000 Wow. 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:09.320 Wow. 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:17.600 Anyways, Hayley's home, she's home. How he's arrived. It's so 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:19.160 good having her home. 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.319 You know what? I realized what when she moved in 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:25.479 she left very shortly. 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:26.920 Thereafter I left shortly there. 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:30.560 I mean, like you guys haven't really like lived lived together. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:31.160 Right, Yeah? 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:36.200 So yeah, it's so nice though, Like I was thinking 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:39.520 about that that we're just at home where it's not like, oh, 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:42.080 we need to go to her place or I have 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:42.760 to pack up. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:46.559 Just she's home. We're home, and she keeps saying like, 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:48.080 should we have people over to your place? 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:51.800 And I'm like, our place so nice. I always had 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.520 to correct Robbie and he'd be like, let's do it 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:54.839 at my house. I'm like our house. 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.640 Yeah, I'm doing the opposite where she's saying it, and I'm. 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:04.520 But I will say, it is so much harder to 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.240 get out of bed when your person is like there 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.400 with you. Like when I was by myself, my alarm 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:11.000 would go off. I'd kind of lay there and be 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.560 like whatever, I gotta get up. But when your person's there, 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:14.800 it's like I don't work. 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:16.080 Yeah, it's the worst. 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.960 I like week days when I doesn't sound so silly 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.760 because like it's just a part of life. You get 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:22.320 up and you go to work. But like when he's 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.520 just and I can't even takeodbye to him because he's 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:25.920 just like comatose. 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:26.079 It's brutal. 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:30.120 Yeah, like just bye. He looks so sweet in there, 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:31.720 see it tonight? 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.240 Do you don't if he's just asleep. You don't wake 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:35.080 him up to say goodbye. 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:36.760 I never do. That's why I do the notes. 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.360 That's good because Alison tells me like, I would like 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:41.400 you to wake me up to say yeah, and I 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.559 feel bad I don't. I still like I sneak out 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.440 and I love you goodbye. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:47.120 Yeah. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:50.880 I always give like I get up, do my thing, 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:53.240 get ready, and then I go back in and say goodbye. 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:56.640 The problem is I feel bad because he gets up 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.280 maybe like an hour to like an hour and a 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.240 half after me. So it's like if I were to 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:03.760 wake him up, he would maybe miss out on that 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:05.280 rens precious. 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.560 If I don't ask for it, I want to know. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:14.640 About it. Yeah. Actually he's like, please don't wake me 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:15.960 up at four o'clock in the morning. 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:18.920 Yeah. I mean that's very different waking up at four 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:20.760 o'clock than like nine o'clock. 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:24.120 Yes, correct, But yeah, it's so great to have her home. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.079 We went to in and out yesterday, you know, had 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:31.040 to do the official La return winter. Her parents had dinner, 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:32.560 so it was really nice. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:37.160 Are you guys gonna like somebody's gonna make dinner, somebody's 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.800 gonna do the dishes? Have you like dimmed up house chores. 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.840 No, not officially, but I think it'll just be like 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.240 how it was before. Well no, because how it was 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.120 before was kind of like I did everything at my 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:49.800 place and she. 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:50.800 Did everything in her place. 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.840 So now there will be that like but we're pretty 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.520 you know, I'll just be like, hey, will you just 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.240 will you do the dishes, and she'll be like, yeah, orry, 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.239 we do the you help me do the laundry. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:04.319 He was like, yeah, of course, right right, But yeah. 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:07.280 It's it's it's been so nice having her home and 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:09.480 us being together, getting to live together. 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.679 It's the best thing in the world. Like sometimes I 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:13.320 still don't even believe it's real. 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.400 Well, yeah, a true testament to love. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:19.559 I think living with someone is so fun, and I 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.840 don't think I realized how much I like, I always 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:26.560 lived with people through college after college, and then like 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.160 the only time I really lived alone was when I 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:30.319 was in Studio City, but that was for a long time. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:31.800 I was there for like three and a half years, 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.080 and I really like learned how to live alone, and 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.719 I did love that. But then when I I don't know, 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.160 I love living with him even more. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.920 Yeah, I mean I think if it's I really can't 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:46.240 imagine loving living with anyone that wasn't Haley right at 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:49.600 this point in life. So like, I've never been someone. 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.080 I had fun living with my sisters that their family, 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:54.319 like I grew up living with them, so that wasn't 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:59.040 like that roommate adjustment. But I've never like loved the 0:12:59.120 --> 0:12:59.719 roommate thing. 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:00.959 Oh my god, I loved it. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:05.559 Yeah, well you oh yeah, what's that? 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:11.080 I never told you about those? In my sorty No, 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.200 A lot of the sorties at U of A had 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.960 sleeping porches. But basically there's like forty rooms and in 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.760 your rooms you have closets and desks. There's no beds 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.560 in there, or there might be one bed in there. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:22.800 But I lived in like the rooms with like three girls, 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:24.920 four girls, five girls. I lived always in the rooms 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.800 with many girls. And so there's one day bed and 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:30.280 that's like for napping and stuff. And then there's rooms 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:32.800 that are filled with bunk beds in them, and it's 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.720 always dark, you know, turn on the lights. It's always cold. 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:38.360 The air is like freezing in there, and that's where 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:41.480 you go to sleep at night. You would have loved 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.160 the Bachelor. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.320 Here's the thing you either would have loved The Bachelor 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.600 or absolutely hated being on The Bachelor. 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:50.560 I think I would have loved certain aspects of it, 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.680 and I think I would have hated other aspects of it. 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.800 Yeah, like there's no in between. Yeah, there would have 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:57.680 been like very highs and very low. 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:59.800 I like the living with the people. I love this, 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.640 but oh my gosh, I loved that I had the 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.560 best sleeps ever in the sleeping porch because it's always dark, 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.800 quiet and cold, and that's just where you go to sleep. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:12.520 But dating the same man, I think would have been 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:13.960 a massive challenge. 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:16.559 Yeah, I would. I would. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.760 You would have been like, if someone turned on the 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:23.120 lights in the sleeping porch, you would have been eyeing 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:26.320 down whoever was getting more attention from him. They would 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.160 have turned on the light and you would have had 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:33.360 laser beams going towards store, for sure. So it's a 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:35.560 good thing that it never got went in that direction. 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:37.960 I was close to like I was getting to the 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.800 point where I thought it was time, it's time to 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.360 get a Donya on a reality dating show. 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.920 I think we had that same thought around the same time. 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:49.480 And it was like when Robbie and I first started 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:52.480 dating and he was himming and hawing on like being exclusive, 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.720 do you remember? And I was like, yeah, then let's 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.240 go on the Bachelor. Let's do the Bachelor. 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:00.560 This is a PG podcast. 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:08.400 Sorry, I came on an nowhere. Well it felt so natural. Yeah, 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:09.120 I felt good. 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:11.120 Actually, there was a point where I was going on 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:12.680 the Bachelor read it a lot because they were like 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.360 talking about the podcast I worked on, and uh, there 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:18.040 was a lot of threads about you going on the Bachelor. 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.440 I was like, you know, it would be great, Tanya 0:15:20.520 --> 0:15:22.920 rad Becketilly's co host, she'd be great on the Bachelor, 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:27.920 like and uh, that would have been exciting. But everything 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:29.080 led to where it needed to be. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.400 Yeah, I can't remember who the Bachelor was that at 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:36.280 that point. It was end of twenty nineteen early twenty twenty. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:37.480 Wasn't Was that not Colton? 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.040 I don't know, I can't remember, but that's the I 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:44.240 remember specifically, Like that was like the window or Ari? 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:45.200 Where is the Ari? 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:48.480 Colton was the Bachelor in the beginning of twenty nineteen. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:49.720 No, so it wasn't him. 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:52.840 It would have been a standby. It would have been 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:57.320 a season twenty four oh pilot Pete Peter Webber. 0:15:57.920 --> 0:15:59.760 But you ended up loving him on Traders. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:00.760 That's true. 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:02.359 Could have been a mass. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.600 Yeah, really could have been a match. But I remember 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:07.040 that as like when we really like, you were like 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.120 you should do the bathroo, and I was like, you 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.560 know what, if this guy's not this this joke, Sto's 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.600 not going to commit to me, then not gonna go 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:13.160 do my thing. 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:17.000 But instead he went on a date with another man. Correct, 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.080 And that really got the ball rolling. 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:23.000 Robbie really got really rebbed Robbie's engine. 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:28.440 Yeah, he said, shoot, I got either dive in or board. 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:33.280 Yeah, let someone else go yep. Yeah, luckily he dove in. 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:34.360