WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Cups of Love

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels, second Dato date. A lot of romances start

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<v Speaker 1>in the office. I know. For me, I've had a

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<v Speaker 1>year long fling with my desktop computer here at work.

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<v Speaker 1>We've become very close. At first, it was a little

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<v Speaker 1>hesitant to search all the things that I wanted it

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<v Speaker 1>to search, but after a while it was finding everything

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<v Speaker 1>that I needed at full speed. And now I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>all hours of the night hanging out with my desktop

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<v Speaker 1>computer that is company property. Sir. I love that thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it loves me. I bet it loves you too.

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<v Speaker 1>And Oscar is on the phone today to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, and apparently he also has an office romance,

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<v Speaker 1>but unfortunately his office romance isn't as successful as mine

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<v Speaker 1>and my computers because his office romance isn't calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Oscar? Hey, how's it going? Guys? Pretty good? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you work in the same office every day with

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<v Speaker 1>this girl? Well? Yeah, we're squeam across the hall, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that's awkward. And you guys went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date together. Yeah, she started like a few

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<v Speaker 1>months ago, you know. Okay, so she's new there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just super cute, you know, and she just got

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<v Speaker 1>this like awesome laugh and it sounds stereotypical, but like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of felt her. And uh, okay, wait

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<v Speaker 1>before we get too far into this, how does your

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<v Speaker 1>company feel about in her office romance? Like, are you

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<v Speaker 1>going to get in trouble? It's a pretty loose office,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean there are a couple of people right

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<v Speaker 1>now who are dating each other. So I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like you work at a restaurant where everybody everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like to me every time I've ever worked

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant, everybody's dating everybody. Okay, so how did

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<v Speaker 1>you finally ask this girl out? Well, ever since she started, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been one moment after the other, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find a way to ask her out, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there would always be something in the way, like she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be talking to a co worker or something. And finally

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<v Speaker 1>I was just minding my own business and the break

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<v Speaker 1>room and she was talking to another worker about she

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to go ice skating but she's never gone.

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<v Speaker 1>And the next day you showed up at work with

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<v Speaker 1>ice skating gear on. Weird. I didn't know you were

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<v Speaker 1>in ice skating at all. That's strange. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>wear this stuff sometimes because you never know when an

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<v Speaker 1>ice skating rink is gonna just break out somewhere, very

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<v Speaker 1>low key way of doing it. It was close. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So what'd you do? Interrupt her conversation with another coworker

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<v Speaker 1>and said, I'll take you ice skating. So I played

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<v Speaker 1>it cool, and later in the day I did find

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<v Speaker 1>some time when she was by herself and I went

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<v Speaker 1>up to her and it was just like, look, I

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<v Speaker 1>overheard you that you wanted to go ice skating, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what, do you want to go with me?

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<v Speaker 1>I can skating? I mean it will be a fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>And she actually said yes, nice, okay, yeah, yeah, are

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<v Speaker 1>you into ice skating? You know it's not my like

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<v Speaker 1>I've done ice skating, you know, but I know how

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<v Speaker 1>to skate, okay. You know, I think it's a great

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<v Speaker 1>first state. I totally agree anytime you can do an

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<v Speaker 1>activity with somebody, it's always a good time. And how

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<v Speaker 1>did it go? So we ended up going that weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, she felt a couple times I helped

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<v Speaker 1>her and was so romantic, you know, it was it was, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there were there were moments, you know, it just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like a really good time and it just felt like romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nice. Okay, but she's she's not she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, right, Yeah, she's calling me back, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's not talking to me at work, so I know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so clearly you did something wrong if you won't even

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you at the office. Yeah, I U and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm racking my head. I mean, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there's like maybe one thing that could have happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. That's the only thing. I feel like, what

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<v Speaker 1>was it? What was the one thing? So I have

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<v Speaker 1>skated a lot, but I'm not the best skater, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was skating. She was keeping her balance

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<v Speaker 1>and I started to fall down and I accidentally grabbed

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<v Speaker 1>her hair and we both fell down together pretty snatch

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<v Speaker 1>her by the hair and threw her to the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>An accident. It was an accident. What did she say?

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<v Speaker 1>Was she like? I mean, she was hurting and as

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<v Speaker 1>was I, but by the end we were laughing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't think that. You just were like skating behind

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<v Speaker 1>her and were like, screw this. You know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>never did have my chance to play hockey. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>a little rough right now. She knew she knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was an accident. Okay, I feel relieved. I'm glad like

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't extended awkward that that doesn't seem like a

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<v Speaker 1>reason not to call somebody back. It's actually pretty funny. Yeah, no, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't agree with you more. I mean, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the only weird moment that I can think

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<v Speaker 1>of that could have been, you know, a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 1>But what was the end of your date, Like, did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys kiss? Did you make more plans? So at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night, took her back to her

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<v Speaker 1>place and at the door, good night, kiss on the cheek. Kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that's still a positive, definitely. Yeah. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>you said that she's not even talking to you at work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's uh, the last few days have been kind of weird. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>There was actually this one time I walked into the

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<v Speaker 1>break room and she straight up turned around and walked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, so you must have done something bad then.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I did. I really need to

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<v Speaker 1>know what I did. I did. You need to repair

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<v Speaker 1>this for a lot of reasons, not just a second

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<v Speaker 1>date reason. Yeah, I mean, I just want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure things are okay and so even if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>get another date out of this, at least you hope

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<v Speaker 1>that we can like make things cool between you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can still work in the same building. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at least I can find out. But what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>me If there's a big deal, I don't know. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, cool, thanks so much? All right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on king jubil in the morning's right in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update. And if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, Oscar is on the phone and today he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call a girl named Rachel. Their first date

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<v Speaker 1>included everything laughing, good conversation. Penalty for unnecessary roughness when

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<v Speaker 1>he threw her to the ground sounds worse without the context,

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<v Speaker 1>but they went ice skating together and at one point

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<v Speaker 1>he was falling and accidentally grabbed her hair and pulled

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<v Speaker 1>her down by her hair. He says, they laughed about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she realized that it wasn't anything he did on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>So he doesn't think that's the reason that she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back, but it's the only thing that he

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<v Speaker 1>can think of. And remember, they did meet at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Their co workers, and ever since their date, she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him on text, phone anything. And actually she

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<v Speaker 1>saw him in the break room the other day and

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<v Speaker 1>turned around and walked out. So we're about to get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and find out what he did

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on their date. You're about ready to go, Oscar, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I just really want to know what's going on, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I nobody seems to know, or they're they're acting

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<v Speaker 1>like they don't know. Okay, So you've asked co workers like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>have you heard anything? Yeah, just like you know, is

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<v Speaker 1>she cool? Like, what's what's going on? And like they

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. So either she hasn't said anything to anybody

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<v Speaker 1>or they're all keeping a big secret from you. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the best office drama ever. Why doesn't this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>happen in our work? All right? Come on, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>probably don't want that. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar

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<v Speaker 1>phone number right now and see if we can get

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is Rachel there, Ah, This is Raael, Hey Rachel,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's a morning radio show. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I'm not familiar. Do you own a radio? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>in my car? I do. Cool. Well, sometimes we're on

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<v Speaker 1>that thing. One of our listeners actually emailed us asking

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<v Speaker 1>if we could call you. Oh, okay, who is that?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Oscar? Oh my god, you're so excited

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<v Speaker 1>leading up to it, and Uh, Oscar told us about

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<v Speaker 1>how he finally got up the nerve to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>on a date the other day. Yeah, and he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date and he thought everything went great.

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<v Speaker 1>But now apparently you're not calling him or texting him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and also you're avoiding him at work. So he asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get you on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 1>out if he did something wrong. Cool, I said, the

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<v Speaker 1>sarcasm there. Yeah, this is a weird situation. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>mind telling us what went wrong so that we can

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<v Speaker 1>let Oscar know and maybe at least make things a

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<v Speaker 1>little less awkward at work. Oh? I just I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to say to him, you know. I well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say. If you say it to us,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we can say it to him in a way

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<v Speaker 1>that won't hurt his feelings. Uh, all right, what did

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<v Speaker 1>he do? The date? So it's super sweet? The ice skating. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I had a great time on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't necessarily a date that was the bad thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was the bad thing? Then? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we work in the same office, so I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of found out some information about him that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>freaked me out a little bit. To be honest, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, shut up, you heard office gossip about him?

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I did. From who was it someone that

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<v Speaker 1>you consider like a friend or was it someone who

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<v Speaker 1>you think would be jealous that you guys went out. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's my friend and she's happily married, so I believe her.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was the office gossip? I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, guys, because I don't want to embarrass him

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<v Speaker 1>if it's not true. You know, like I said, if

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us, maybe we can find a creative way

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him. That doesn't make it super strange. Plus,

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<v Speaker 1>if there was something going around about you at the office,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd want to know, so at least you could clarify

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. That's true. That's true. Um, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all of our co workers knew we were going out,

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<v Speaker 1>So of course when I came back, my one friend's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it go? And I was just telling her

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<v Speaker 1>it was good, it was it was a nice date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah and uh. And then she of course started asking

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<v Speaker 1>more detailed questions, and she said, did he do the thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he do the thing? Well, sounds like he's got

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<v Speaker 1>quite a reputation. I don't know about Oscar. When Oscar

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<v Speaker 1>takes ladies out, he does this thing. Did he do

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<v Speaker 1>it to you? He's done it to all of us

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<v Speaker 1>in the office. No, No, it wasn't like that. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's his thing? Then? Well, I kept asking her and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, well, did he do the hot coco thing?

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<v Speaker 1>This is sounding even worse and worse in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>better and better depended on what you like. That's true,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it goes with the date. Um. So I'm like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have any hot coco, and she goes, no,

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<v Speaker 1>did he bring the us? And so apparently, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to tell this. Um, Apparently he has

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<v Speaker 1>been collecting you know those plastic cups when in the

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<v Speaker 1>breakroom where you get coffee and stuff. Yeah, he's been

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<v Speaker 1>collecting the ones that I'm drinking out of, like when

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have a nice conversation at work, and writing the

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<v Speaker 1>date on the Yeah, weird, he's been collecting your coffee cups. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what was Okay, so what was the hot coco thing?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's weird already, but yeah, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna like serve us hot coco out of the

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<v Speaker 1>cups that he collected and like weird and unsanitary. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. So wait what was she not freaked out

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<v Speaker 1>by this? She thought it was going to be something cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she thought it was cute. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>also thinks he's like sweet Teddy Bear Oscar. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a friends with him. Okay, so in her mind,

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<v Speaker 1>he can't do anything creepy, right, She's like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>showing his affection. But to me, I'm like, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird. Yeah, it's basically like taking locks of your

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<v Speaker 1>hair exactly. It's like taking Maybe he's trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>a new un a peach redition his apartment somewhere. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's the gossip going around. If you backed up

0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.679
<v Speaker 1>and you took her criticism of who he is. He's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously a nice guy. It sounds nice, but at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, he's literally going into the trash

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<v Speaker 1>can and collecting the coffee cups I drink out of. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm trying to spin it for him, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that I can. I don't think anybody can.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if Oscar can even save himself and Rachel.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to let you know that you did

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<v Speaker 1>actually say it to Oscar because he's on the other line.

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<v Speaker 1>Listener wants to talk to you. No, you guy, Yeah, Oscar,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Yeah? Yeah, what's up with the cups? Man? Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>don't make it worse. I can't believe they told you

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I mean they were They ruined everything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they ruined the surprise. I mean it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>weird anyway. It's like, either way, it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>kind of creepy. I feel like if you've just seen it,

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't have been as creepy like hearing it from

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<v Speaker 1>someone else. Yeah, I get it, it might it might

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<v Speaker 1>come off creepy, but it was gonna be a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna, you know, lay the cups in a

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<v Speaker 1>certain way and a presentation. There were gonna be candles.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be super romantic, and it was like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a literal trip down memory length. But we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that many memories, not that you know of, Rachel,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounds like Oscar has a lot of great memories.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my point, Like we have memories. Each cup is

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<v Speaker 1>a memory, and every every cup has I wrote down

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<v Speaker 1>what we talked about, and then that's that's it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So how how many of the cups do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's not that many. I mean, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>like twelve. Well did you say twelve? Twelve? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even remember having twelve comments, like we don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>each other that well. I mean that's I like, I

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<v Speaker 1>get how it can be sweet, but you also kind

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<v Speaker 1>of see my point of view. Yeah, I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>totally understand. I realized that it would be weird, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why, you know, I was just taking my time.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to show you in a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days time. I mean, that's that's that was a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't even think that's like enough time to

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<v Speaker 1>show me something like that, Like it's just creepy. Yeah, Oscar,

0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:40.840
<v Speaker 1>you only show somebody when they're two years in and

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<v Speaker 1>they're already so invested that they can't leave because they're

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<v Speaker 1>a weirdo who collectible cup? You guys, you guys just

0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.280
<v Speaker 1>don't get it, Okay, I mean I still think it's

0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.960
<v Speaker 1>a very romantic gesture. I think that it shows like

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<v Speaker 1>an attention to detail, that someone really, you know, cares

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<v Speaker 1>about you and and like it isn't just like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do like a light casual thing and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little misguided, but he did, like for months months,

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<v Speaker 1>think that you were awesome and try so hard to

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<v Speaker 1>find his end to even ask you out. And for me,

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<v Speaker 1>like each cup, it's not just a piece of plastic,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a memory, you know, that we shared and

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<v Speaker 1>that we we talked about stuff. You know. Somehow, Oscar,

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<v Speaker 1>this is beginning to be romantic for me, Like you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's morphed from being really creepy into like, okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sweet. He's tried. At least he's tried. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you agree with that, Rachel? I mean, Oscar, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>great guy. I wouldn't have agreed to go out, But

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<v Speaker 1>isn't there like another way you could have done it

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<v Speaker 1>then digging my dirty cups out of the trash? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have you know, collected your staples or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just feel like a cup has an

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<v Speaker 1>energy to it, something that you know, just signifies that

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<v Speaker 1>you know that it's a moment, you know. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gone from creepy to sweet back to being weird. Yeah, Rachel,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Oscar for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? We will pay for it. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that he's like a weird, creepy dude. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>he's just a little misguided in the romance delment. As

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<v Speaker 1>long as the cups are the only thing you're collecting

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<v Speaker 1>for real though, long Yeah, that's true. If you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't bring any mementos, like I feel like I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>open to kind of a normal like dinner date or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if it's a second day with you, I will

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<v Speaker 1>let go of the cups. Wow, that's a big commitment,

0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Rachel's Oscar will throw out his creepy stalker cups if

0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:44.920
<v Speaker 1>you'll go out with him again. I will burn those

0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:49.160
<v Speaker 1>cups right now. That sounds creepy to me for some reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he's gonna be thinking about when you met and

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<v Speaker 1>just burning it. Rachel. Yeah, that's kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>weird day on But you know, I've already made my decision.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool with it all right. Well, congratulations you got

0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:07.840
<v Speaker 1>a second date Oscar. Yes, and Rachel, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your time. Thank you, and start bringing your own coffee

0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:16.760
<v Speaker 1>mug to work. I'm really surprised, but there is a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of support on the text message board. At seven

0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:21.080
<v Speaker 1>eight five nine two for the guy from today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, somebody texted in said, I mean, it's weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also charming. I get the meaning. Every cup

0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.000
<v Speaker 1>of coffee you share with someone is a little conversation

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to me. It makes sense if you

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<v Speaker 1>missed the second date update. Oscar wanted to call a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Rachel. They worked together and they went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. She wasn't calling him back. He found

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<v Speaker 1>out the reason she wasn't calling back was after that date,

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<v Speaker 1>one of her co workers, a friend of Oscars as well,

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<v Speaker 1>let her know that Oscar has been saving every single

0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:50.800
<v Speaker 1>coffee cup that they've shared together in the break room,

0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:53.520
<v Speaker 1>not his coffee cup hers. He grabs Hi out of

0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:56.400
<v Speaker 1>the trash can saves him, wrote down what they talked about,

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<v Speaker 1>and his big plan was to present them to her

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<v Speaker 1>on their first state, but he didn't do it. Thank God.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she found out from a coworker, was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's creepy, but once he explained it, she found it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of romantic. I think it sort of is it

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<v Speaker 1>made the transition. I'm in support of him, But then

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<v Speaker 1>when I look at my own history, the more romantic

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<v Speaker 1>the man, the crazier he turns out being. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think we all know Oscar's crazy, but yeah, I hopeless romantic. Nonetheless,

0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:24.600
<v Speaker 1>they did agree to go out on a Seconday. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back fast

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<v Speaker 1>and wh