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Speaker 1: Rooking jewels, second Dato date. A lot of romances start

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Speaker 1: in the office. I know. For me, I've had a

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Speaker 1: year long fling with my desktop computer here at work.

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Speaker 1: We've become very close. At first, it was a little

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Speaker 1: hesitant to search all the things that I wanted it

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Speaker 1: all hours of the night hanging out with my desktop

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Speaker 1: computer that is company property. Sir. I love that thing,

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Speaker 1: and it loves me. I bet it loves you too.

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Speaker 1: And Oscar is on the phone today to do a

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Speaker 1: but unfortunately his office romance isn't as successful as mine

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Speaker 1: What's up, Oscar? Hey, how's it going? Guys? Pretty good? Man?

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Speaker 1: Do you work in the same office every day with

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Speaker 1: this girl? Well? Yeah, we're squeam across the hall, you know.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's awkward. And you guys went out

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Speaker 1: on a date together. Yeah, she started like a few

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Speaker 1: she's just super cute, you know, and she just got

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Speaker 1: this like awesome laugh and it sounds stereotypical, but like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just kind of felt her. And uh, okay, wait

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Speaker 1: before we get too far into this, how does your

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Speaker 1: It sounds like to me every time I've ever worked

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Speaker 1: at a restaurant, everybody's dating everybody. Okay, so how did

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Speaker 1: you finally ask this girl out? Well, ever since she started, like,

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Speaker 1: And the next day you showed up at work with

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Speaker 1: in ice skating at all. That's strange. I just I

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Speaker 1: low key way of doing it. It was close. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So what'd you do? Interrupt her conversation with another coworker

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Speaker 1: and said, I'll take you ice skating. So I played

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Speaker 1: you know, what, do you want to go with me?

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Speaker 1: And she actually said yes, nice, okay, yeah, yeah, are

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Speaker 1: you into ice skating? You know it's not my like

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Speaker 1: I've done ice skating, you know, but I know how

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Speaker 1: did it go? So we ended up going that weekend,

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Speaker 1: and you know, she felt a couple times I helped

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Speaker 1: there were there were moments, you know, it just seemed

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Speaker 1: It was nice. Okay, but she's she's not she's not

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Speaker 1: But what was the end of your date, Like, did

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you must have done something bad then.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I did. I really need to

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Speaker 1: at least I can find out. But what's wrong with

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Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, cool, thanks so much? All right, man,

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Speaker 1: hang on king jubil in the morning's right in the

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Speaker 1: middle of a second date update. And if you're just

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Speaker 1: wants to call a girl named Rachel. Their first date

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Speaker 1: but they went ice skating together and at one point

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Speaker 1: So he doesn't think that's the reason that she's not

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Speaker 1: wrong on their date. You're about ready to go, Oscar, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I just really want to know what's going on, you know,

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Speaker 1: is the best office drama ever. Why doesn't this stuff

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Speaker 1: Hi is Rachel there, Ah, This is Raael, Hey Rachel,

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Speaker 1: how are you. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a morning radio show. Um, I

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Speaker 1: don't I'm not familiar. Do you own a radio? Yes,

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Speaker 1: in my car? I do. Cool. Well, sometimes we're on

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Speaker 1: that thing. One of our listeners actually emailed us asking

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Speaker 1: His name is Oscar? Oh my god, you're so excited

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Speaker 1: leading up to it, and Uh, Oscar told us about

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Speaker 1: sarcasm there. Yeah, this is a weird situation. Do you

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Speaker 1: So what was the bad thing? Then? Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: my gosh, shut up, you heard office gossip about him?

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Speaker 1: I did. I did. From who was it someone that

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Speaker 1: you think would be jealous that you guys went out. No,

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Speaker 1: So what was the office gossip? I don't want to

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Speaker 1: to tell him. That doesn't make it super strange. Plus,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is. That's true. That's true. Um, So you know,

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Speaker 1: So of course when I came back, my one friend's like,

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Speaker 1: how did it go? And I was just telling her

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Speaker 1: Yeah and uh. And then she of course started asking

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Speaker 1: more detailed questions, and she said, did he do the thing?

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Speaker 1: Did he do the thing? Well, sounds like he's got

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Speaker 1: quite a reputation. I don't know about Oscar. When Oscar

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Speaker 1: what's his thing? Then? Well, I kept asking her and

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Speaker 1: she said, well, did he do the hot coco thing?

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Speaker 1: This is sounding even worse and worse in my mind,

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Speaker 1: I mean it goes with the date. Um. So I'm like, oh, no,

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Speaker 1: did he bring the us? And so apparently, oh my gosh,

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