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Speaker 1: Fred Show is on? Is Stay or Go? All right?

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Speaker 1: Madison is here?

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Speaker 2: Bring on Madison, Hello, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you good, How are you doing great? What's

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Speaker 2: going on with your boyfriend? In this case, instay or

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Speaker 2: Goo tell us everything?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I've been dating my boyfriend for six months now,

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Speaker 3: and I really really think we're great together. It's just

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Speaker 3: that I can't get over this fun thing. I went

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Speaker 3: to this party with my friends and I brought him

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Speaker 3: because I wanted him to meet all my friends, and

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Speaker 3: he kind of embarrassed me, and I thought it was fun,

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Speaker 3: but then afterward, like somebody told me this thing, and

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Speaker 3: I was like what.

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Speaker 4: So okay. So one of my friends was pouring me

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Speaker 4: drinks and she pulls me over and she says, you know,

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Speaker 4: your boyfriend just.

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Speaker 3: Told me to cut you off.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, what, my boyfriend told my friend

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Speaker 4: to cut me off.

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Speaker 3: Like he couldn't do it himself. And and I just

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Speaker 3: met her.

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Speaker 4: He had just met her, and I was like, that's

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Speaker 4: kind of a bad impression, you.

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Speaker 5: Know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, did you need to be cut off?

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not trying to be a check ass, but

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Speaker 2: in all honesty, Like sometimes I wish somebody would tell

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Speaker 2: me when enough is enough, or at least in the past.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I'm at my best friend's house.

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Speaker 4: I thought, like, who cares the holidays? Like whatever, let me.

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Speaker 1: Be who I am.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, I'm just like I'm.

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Speaker 4: Kind of weirded out that he couldn't just tell me

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Speaker 4: that himself and he had to.

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Speaker 3: Go through my friend and then embarrassed me like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, if again, Madison, if you're drunk, then

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Speaker 2: that's usually that a conversation when I have with somebody,

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Speaker 2: it's it's usually a good time to try and reason

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Speaker 2: with a person, you know what I mean. And so

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Speaker 2: if she was the one pooring that use, I guess

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Speaker 2: all he was really doing was avoiding that that argument,

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Speaker 2: that altercation.

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Speaker 6: I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you like it?

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Speaker 7: I just I don't think like the night that you

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Speaker 7: meet your girls, all her best friends, I don't think

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Speaker 7: that's a time to be telling a friend secretly to

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Speaker 7: cut her off, especially when it sounds like the friends

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Speaker 7: didn't the friend didn't think she needed to be cut off,

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Speaker 7: and she's with all her best friends and no one

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Speaker 7: else felt that way.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, I don't. I don't like that moment.

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Speaker 2: Then then the friend says, okay, I'm not doing it

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Speaker 2: like I think she's okay, I'll watch her.

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Speaker 6: But I don't like the move on the boyfriends. It's

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Speaker 6: just my opinion. But I don't thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm wondering if I'm going crazy here, because like,

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Speaker 3: they're my best friends, they know me too. They would

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Speaker 3: help me if I was completely fastered and I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I was drunk, but I wasn't like like

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Speaker 2: I guess I can see how this comes off controlling,

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, I've also been on both

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Speaker 2: sides of the conversation if I'm being honest, where it's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know what, like ' let's call it for the

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Speaker 2: night or whatever, and you don't want to and that's

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Speaker 2: not a time to have a No one's reasonable when

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Speaker 2: they're drunk, right, So I don't I guess I don't

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Speaker 2: worried about it, because he's you know, he could go

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Speaker 2: to his girlfriend or maybe or you in this case,

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Speaker 2: and he could say, hey, uh, I don't think you

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Speaker 2: should drink anymore, and then it's going to be a

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Speaker 2: you know, it's possible there's going to be a confrontation

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Speaker 2: or a fight or an argument in front of the friends,

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Speaker 2: which he doesn't want the first time he's meeting them.

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Speaker 6: He's not getting sick, she's not starting fights.

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Speaker 8: So what but to his to the guy's defence, like

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Speaker 8: this was the first time hanging out with her friends.

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Speaker 8: He doesn't know, he doesn't know how she gets, you

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Speaker 8: know what I'm saying, she this might be the first

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Speaker 1: Seeing her like that.

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Speaker 8: So instead of him saying it, he knows that they've

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Speaker 8: been friends for a long time, and he's just like, hey,

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Speaker 8: can you just you know, cut her off because it's the.

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Speaker 6: Friend didn't agree because she went her and said I

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Speaker 6: didn't like this move.

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean he's just he's being protective without starting

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Speaker 8: anything because you don't know how that conversation is going

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Speaker 8: to go, like this is the first time you're hanging out,

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Speaker 8: she's drunk, and just let the friend do it and

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Speaker 8: be like, hey, you know, I think we should cut

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Speaker 1: She looks pretty drunk. Rufio Okalen.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he you know, it's been six months and Madison,

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about you like you're not here. But you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe he knows that you get him a like. Look,

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Speaker 2: I've I've dated people. I have friends who are not

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Speaker 2: good drunks. They're not good drinkers. They get emotional, they

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Speaker 2: get argumentative, they get sloppy, And yeah, her friends might

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Speaker 2: know that, but her friends also aren't the ones who

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Speaker 2: have to deal with that during or after. So again,

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know that he could have had

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Speaker 2: the conversation with her. I don't know who else she

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Speaker 2: he didn't want her to become argumentative potentially or emotional

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Speaker 2: or there might be, because that's the last thing you

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Speaker 2: want is a drunk person to start a fight in

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Speaker 2: front of her friends with you. And then now you're

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Speaker 2: you're in a position where you're being judged not only

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Speaker 2: on who you are and first impressions, but how you're

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Speaker 2: going to manage that when you know, maybe it was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: can we just pump the brakes on this a little bit,

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Speaker 2: because uh, you know, I.

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Speaker 7: Just feel like the friend would like then if she

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Speaker 7: gets emotional, it doesn't sound like she was like if

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Speaker 7: she gets emotional, I think the friend would not then

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Speaker 7: go to her and have an issue with it, like

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Speaker 7: if it was a problem. I don't think that the

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Speaker 7: friends would be upset by that move.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. It just doesn't Are you an emotional drunk?

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Speaker 9: Do you know that?

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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 11: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, no, I'm not, I'm fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, But let me ask you this on the

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Speaker 2: flip side, Let's say this dude just watches this all

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Speaker 2: go down and there's absolutely nothing like I realized she's

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Speaker 2: an adult and she can do whatever she wants. But

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Speaker 2: you know, she just gets completely hammered and he just

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Speaker 2: not like, does this he doesn't care at all?

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Speaker 7: There's a middle ground between that between cutting someone off.

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Speaker 7: It's just making watching out, making sure she drinks water,

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Speaker 7: taking care of her. But if she's truly having fun

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Speaker 7: like she's saying, and she's in a safe place, she's

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Speaker 7: not driving. I don't know if they were staying over

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Speaker 7: just doesn't sound like that's a situation.

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Speaker 8: It's also not fun for him, Like, yeah, he doesn't

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Speaker 8: get to have any fun because he's got.

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Speaker 6: A lie one night and he's meeting all her best friends.

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Speaker 7: I don't know unless she's not self aware, and then yeah,

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Speaker 7: then we don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and you know, Madison again talking about you

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Speaker 2: like you're not here. You might be a self aware

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Speaker 2: of queen. You might also be completely oblivious and that's

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Speaker 2: why you're calling us and acting like you don't know

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Speaker 2: what's going to mean. I don't we don't know you,

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Speaker 2: and so I want to take your side and say, hey, look,

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Speaker 2: maybe the guy overstepped, but I guess I can come

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Speaker 2: up with more reasons why this benefits you. Then it

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Speaker 2: hurts you. I mean, it's not as though it's not

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Speaker 2: as why he went to her friends and said give

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Speaker 2: her more. I mean imagine, well, but then he's a

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Speaker 2: predator and he's a creepy, but he's weird. I'm just

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Speaker 2: saying what he did was he went to her and said, hey,

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Speaker 2: can we slow it down? And again her friend said

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Speaker 2: by the way, we haven't even taken any consideration the

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Speaker 2: the little friends.

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Speaker 7: Was right and it was a weird move, and she

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Speaker 7: didn't think she was too drunk. We don't know, that's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and also thinking too like is she or medicine?

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Speaker 5: Are you like different around your friends versus your man,

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Speaker 5: because I've seen that a lot, right, Like around your friends, Oh,

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Speaker 5: you're the party, but like you said, Fred, you go

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Speaker 5: home and there's fights and next thing you know, you're

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Speaker 5: throwing something across the room. I'm just saying, maybe he

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Speaker 5: doesn't want to deal with that, if that's how she is,

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Speaker 5: and maybe there isn't self awareness.

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Speaker 6: I'm just speaking out loud here.

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Speaker 1: I fear definitely.

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Speaker 2: I definitely have friends and people i've dated who I

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Speaker 2: don't think hold their liquor very well, and all I

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, I've sat there and watched

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Speaker 2: it go down and been like, great, this is going

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Speaker 2: to be the rest of my night. Like I'm going

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Speaker 2: to be, you know, holding the hair, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: not in a fun way, I'm going to be you know,

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is going to become my responsibility and

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Speaker 2: it's and it's not. It's not going to be their responsibility.

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Speaker 2: So it's all fun and game, right, like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: let her drink, letter, drink, have a good time. And

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Speaker 2: at the end of the night, it's like, now here

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Speaker 2: you go, and then you get to sort.

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Speaker 7: Of, well, have you gotten sick with him or have

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Speaker 7: you guys, have you started fights with him?

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Speaker 6: I mean we can ask.

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Speaker 3: Her no, no, definitely not. I'm not confrontational at all.

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Speaker 12: The red flag to me is that he had to

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Speaker 12: go tell your friends, Like why didn't he feel comfortable

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Speaker 12: coming to tell you that?

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Speaker 1: That's strong that's.

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Speaker 12: The red But yeah, so that's the issue for me,

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Speaker 12: even if I'm like ane reated, like you should still

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Speaker 12: feel comfortable to come tell me. I know your girl,

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Speaker 12: don't go talk about me to my friend. That's the

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Speaker 12: issue that I'm kind of having with it. Like, and

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Speaker 12: I don't know if it's something you've done in the

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Speaker 12: past and maybe you don't remember that has made him

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Speaker 12: feel uncomfortable to talk to you that or about it

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Speaker 12: or whatever, But like, that is a big red flag

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Speaker 12: to me. Don't ever feel more comfortable talking to my

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Speaker 12: friends about me, then you feel comfortable coming to me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he did drung. He was asking for help.

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Speaker 8: He said, she's a sloppy drunk cutter off, how drunk

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Speaker 8: for the friends as well too.

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Speaker 12: You don't know that situation either. Well, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's what's going to happen. And so

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Speaker 2: Is all that Rufio and I are saying as people

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Speaker 2: I love how Kiki goes from don't you do that?

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Speaker 12: We need to save this man because I don't know

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't know why we're I don't know

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Speaker 2: I would love for someone to be honest enough to

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Speaker 7: But I'm just saying there's also another side where it

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Speaker 6: That I agree with Keiki, like, try you.

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Speaker 7: We've never gotten to a fight, I've never gotten sick,

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Speaker 6: Talk to me first.

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Speaker 7: If it goes south, then that's a different story next time.

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Speaker 6: We always believe people that call up here, and now

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Speaker 8: Maybe they did have a conmerce, so maybe he was

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Speaker 6: I think it's hard of this liquor involved, right, So that's.

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Speaker 1: What I mean. That's what I mean. And Kiki also

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Speaker 6: And she probably thinks it's cheating too. I don't know

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Speaker 2: Yea, the friend and the friend is trying to blow

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Speaker 1: They you do that?

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Speaker 13: All right?

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Speaker 2: Is it Melyssa? Is that how you say your NAMESA? Yes,

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Speaker 2: Jalisa High. Okay, So you and Kiki and I might

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Speaker 14: Leave just because, like you said, Fred and Kiki that

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Speaker 10: And so yeah, he was just you know, suggesting to

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Speaker 10: at least honestly, we think that she's calling you guys

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Speaker 10: for validation on her end, just to like say that

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Speaker 10: no offense for her. I think he could go.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, And I want to say, for the record, Caitlin,

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Speaker 2: I don't usually agree or believe the people that call

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Usually we're on their side because they're calling with an

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Speaker 2: Because well, no, it's not that I'm not believing her.

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Speaker 2: I'm presenting the idea that and and Paulina said the

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Speaker 2: I just true, think you if this guy had done nothing,

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Speaker 2: I don't exactly know what he was. He wasn't necessarily

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Speaker 2: thank you, have a great day, Thanks for calling.

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Speaker 10: I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Good good Yes, they're coming soon.

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Speaker 1: Yvonne, yvon High good.

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Speaker 11: Morning, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 2: I think alcohol, good morning. Alcohol is the major component here.

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Speaker 2: If this if alcohol weren't involved, if everybody was sober

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Speaker 7: For me, it's the best friends, Like I have best

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Speaker 7: I've been friends with for years. So if my friend

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Speaker 7: my friends will cut me off and they will handle

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Speaker 7: it and they will agree. But they're not coming to

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Speaker 7: me saying your new man is trying to cut you off.

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Speaker 7: This feels weird. If it doesn't feel weird, that's the

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Speaker 7: only reason I'm riding for that, Yvonne.

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Speaker 1: What does you want to say? Welcome? By the way,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you.

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Speaker 11: No, And that's kind of I'm kind of leaning towards

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Speaker 11: This is probably the one time you should let her

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Speaker 11: you're there to take care of her. Now that was

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Speaker 11: let's take it back.

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Speaker 13: But it's this, as her.

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Speaker 11: Friends, this is the one time he should let her come.

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Speaker 11: And that's where if that's where I think it might

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Speaker 2: And now what if what if he'd been like, you

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Speaker 2: know what, cool, you guys are having a great time.

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Speaker 2: You're getting after it. I'm not, And I don't really

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Speaker 2: So I'm out of here and I'll see tomorrow or

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Speaker 2: I'll see another day or whatever. He's an a hole

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Speaker 2: for that too, Like there's no out for this guy,

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Speaker 2: Like there's no By the way, I'm speaking from the

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Speaker 2: I don't I'm just putting myself in his position and

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Speaker 7: I just feel like it's just one night. It's the

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Speaker 7: That's that's all I was saying. But yeah, thank.

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Speaker 11: You, floppy drug. She could be like, Hey, this is

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Speaker 4: You want to see her?

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I guess that's look at it.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could.

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Speaker 2: I could also see them being like, oh, really, you're

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think it's a tough spot. I really do,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Samantha.

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Speaker 9: Hi, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 10: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning?

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Speaker 10: Stay? Or go?

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Speaker 1: What you what do you think I think she should go?

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Speaker 9: I think that while the entire conversation that just happened

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Speaker 1: For something she was taking.

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Speaker 2: She was taking something. She was taking something to get

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Speaker 2: herself through a color. I mean, so, I'm sorry, but

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Speaker 2: this woman you're saying, she's calling up here telling me

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Speaker 5: God, making a little.

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Speaker 8: Yes.

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Speaker 6: I agree, I hear you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That's funny though.

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Speaker 2: It's just if that was if that was in if

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Speaker 2: I love you, thank you for calling. I have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Samantha's like, you're a you're idiot, you're an

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Speaker 2: overs I am an idiot. No, I'm an idiot, but

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Speaker 8: Go?

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Speaker 11: I think she should leave her.

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Speaker 9: I think she's a hot mess.

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Speaker 2: People.

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Speaker 1: Finish your thought, Christy.

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Speaker 2: And then I want to get back to Jason's statement,

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Speaker 2: but what so he should go because mom.

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Speaker 11: And collected she was on the phone call. And I

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Speaker 11: know there's two.

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Speaker 13: Sides to every story, but if this girl has been

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Speaker 13: dating this guy for six months and she had to

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Speaker 13: go as far and go on the radio where this

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Speaker 13: dude can't defend himself for trying to be in her

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Speaker 13: best interest, like why couldn't she just be like, hey,

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Speaker 13: I didn't really appreciate, like what was your reason for

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Speaker 13: doing that? After being together for six months? By girl,

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Speaker 13: like it sounds like this guy was like had her

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Speaker 13: best interest at hert you know, and.

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Speaker 2: Here she the opposite is completely unacceptable, right, the opposite

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Speaker 2: him being like yeah to or let us go, like

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Speaker 2: you can't do that, right, he.

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Speaker 13: Should have been a total douchebag and been like, oh,

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Speaker 13: get so hammered that you don't know what the heck

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Speaker 13: you're doing. But no, he like actually intervened and was like, hey,

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Speaker 13: let's just cut her off a little bit. And it

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Speaker 13: sounds like her friends need to have her best interest

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Speaker 13: at heart as well, because trust me, I've been with

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Speaker 13: friends that didn't care to look. You just keep drinking,

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Speaker 13: keep drinking, keep drinking, you know, and they called her

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Speaker 13: your friend.

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Speaker 1: You know, maybe he's trying to.

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Speaker 13: Christian guy is always going to have to run every

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Speaker 13: decision through her friends because obviously her friend's opinions are

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Speaker 13: more important than you know.

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Speaker 6: Anything else.

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Speaker 1: And Christie, thank you, thanks for calling. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you and everybody who call. And I agree,

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Speaker 2: I agree completely that in nine times out of ten,

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Speaker 2: it's a simple conversation that you have with her and

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Speaker 2: with nobody else except for the fact that she was drunk,

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Speaker 2: which there's no reason.

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Speaker 1: There's no reason going on in those moments.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever tried to have a reasonable conversation with

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Speaker 2: a drunk person, like it's in my experience arguing with

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Speaker 2: drunk people, it's like, how about you go to bed

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Speaker 2: and we'll talk about it tomorrow. You know, I can

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Speaker 2: also see how it could come off controlling, but sorry,

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Speaker 2: you got to blow that.

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Speaker 14: I heard.

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Speaker 10: I was.

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Speaker 2: I was just that was my protein shape. I always

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Speaker 2: I always snorted everything.

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Speaker 1: Don't get