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Speaker 1: Yeah, In which he was kicked out by our parents

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Speaker 2: He looked for.

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Speaker 1: Any way he could possibly in his own head to

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Speaker 1: He finally finally came to his senses. I'm happy that

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Speaker 3: Path, you know, this path to destruction we think Op

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Op, Like he just attracts just insane people and then

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Speaker 2: Dude, go Op, go o pee, come on, Op? WHOA. Now?

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Speaker 1: As for Grandma's estate, well, her will was surprisingly fair.

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Speaker 2: My goodness.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they hit everything that was a wedding in there.

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Speaker 2: Dude, what a story.

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Speaker 1: All of the story genres okop fans love crammed into

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm voting this one for best of the year.

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Speaker 3: The grandma stuff got a little dark, but other than that, yeah,

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Speaker 3: It was good to see the brother like figure his

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this story, I would say, like, we do not

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Speaker 1: I do like how they low key just became real

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Op is still the a hole through all of this.

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Speaker 1: I think you know a lot of times the Ops

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Speaker 1: It was a foreshadow of exactly.

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Speaker 2: What was to come. That is true. That is true. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I was currently in Atlanta at the world's largest like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. It was ridiculous. Damn dude.

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Speaker 1: It was just his backpack that I just put on him.

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Speaker 3: for John. If you made it this far and you're here,

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Speaker 1: love to hear your crazy New Year's stories. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: see those. Ladies and gentlemen, Thank you again for joining

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Speaker 1: I hope you told our boys Sam you loved him

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Speaker 1: We love you all. See you on the next one.

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Speaker 1: My husband's mistress neglected my baby, so I exposed her.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 5: I mean it's a mistress, so like, you know, neglecting

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Speaker 5: I think that is worthy of exposing. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 5: like one, you're you know, you're you're hooking up with

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I'm so sorry for telling you to

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Speaker 2: Horrendous things you're doing.

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Speaker 1: So I have Female thirty three found out that my

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Speaker 1: ex husband, male thirty seven was cheating on me when

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Speaker 1: I was seven months pregnant with our son.

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Speaker 5: I think there's like not a worse time to cheat.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't get worse. Yeah, like you're like pregnant, Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Well maybe the worst time is like cheating wall giving

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Speaker 5: birth to your son. That's that's worth, that's word, that's king. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Like imagine finding out that your husband cheated as you're

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Speaker 5: giving birth. Somebody's done it. Someone's done someone's done it.

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Speaker 5: Someone send us a story like please, please please say

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Speaker 5: to this so we can be.

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Speaker 2: Had sex with my sister I was giving birth.

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Speaker 5: Husband had sex with my doctor I was giving birth.

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Speaker 2: It's out there.

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Speaker 5: I didn't read a story where apparently the doctor was

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Speaker 5: flirting with the patient. Not that far of a stretch.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: My ex husband's girlfriend tried to get involved in my

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Speaker 1: parenting several times. She even commented on my son's name,

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Speaker 1: implying that we should agree on a name that we

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Speaker 1: all want not just what I want, but gall of

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Speaker 1: the freaking mistress away and on the baby name.

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Speaker 2: Steal my husband. Now you're trying to steal my baby's name.

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Speaker 5: Like, keep your baby's name out of your fucking mouth.

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Speaker 2: Get out of here with that.

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Speaker 1: And she tried to dictate what he should and shouldn't have,

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Speaker 1: and as a result, she started throwing his stuff away

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Speaker 1: that I paid for myself.

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Speaker 5: Dude, this mistress is like the worst.

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Speaker 2: Who knew that a mistress could be so bold? I mean,

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Speaker 2: so point of.

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Speaker 5: A mistress is to like keep the background, keep quiet,

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Speaker 5: bro be like be a background character. You are not

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Speaker 5: the main character. You are literally the side. Ho go

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Speaker 5: to the side. Huh to the side.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, it's frustrating because I'm barely getting by with

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Speaker 1: the money I have and I cannot afford to buy

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Speaker 1: replacements for all of the stuff she throws away.

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Speaker 2: But my ex.

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Speaker 1: Husband says it's her house and she gets to decide

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Speaker 1: what can and can't enter.

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Speaker 5: Yo Oh, he is so accommodating. Not only is she

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Speaker 5: like okay with the mistress being around, but she's like

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Speaker 5: already making compromises.

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Speaker 1: It's it's so bad. It's just the when everyone else

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Speaker 1: is a maniac except op. It's just it's just too much.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I made a crochet blanket for my son with his

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Speaker 1: name on it.

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Speaker 5: Cute, very, very adorable.

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Speaker 1: This blanket is special to me, and the tools I

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Speaker 1: used to be able to make it cost me money,

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Speaker 1: not to mention the time and effort it took to

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Speaker 1: actually make it. Makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: I sent my son to stay with his dad days ago,

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Speaker 1: and he wanted to take the blanket with him to

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Speaker 1: be able to sleep with it. I don't know exactly

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Speaker 1: what happened, but when I came to pick him up,

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Speaker 1: he told me his dad's girlfriend took it away from

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Speaker 1: him and threw it out, leaving him with no blanket

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Speaker 1: to sleep with. You think that's bad, You think it's bad.

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Speaker 1: I do think that that is bad.

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Speaker 5: That is bad.

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Speaker 1: She did this as a punishment for him not accepting

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Speaker 1: the blanket that she offered him.

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Speaker 5: What what kind of freaking punishment is that? Like the

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Speaker 5: minimum is you know, clothes, food, shelter, and you're taking

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Speaker 5: shelter away.

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Speaker 1: Like it zero logic, zero logic whatever? Like a child,

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Speaker 1: three year old, three year old, you're gonna take a

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Speaker 1: blanket away from a three year old. You're an evil

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Speaker 1: step mother, step mistress, evil mistress, evils evil mistress. Gee,

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Speaker 1: that's a Disney story, I want to say, the evil mistress.

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Speaker 5: That's the off uh off color, the off color.

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Speaker 2: You get take my apple. Now. When I heard this,

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Speaker 2: I was furious.

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Speaker 5: Dude, who wouldn't be?

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Speaker 2: Who wouldn't be?

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Speaker 1: I called his dad, but he hung up on me,

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Speaker 1: and I sent him a text explaining the situation, but

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Speaker 1: he texted back telling me that they should stop spreading

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Speaker 1: all the drama and go look for a job. If

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Speaker 1: I have so much free time on my hand to

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Speaker 1: be picking on his girlfriend. Wow, Wow, dude, twisting the knife.

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Speaker 5: Not only did he cheat on you when you were

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Speaker 5: sick seven months pregnant, but now he's like, why are

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Speaker 5: you story?

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Speaker 2: So what's drama? Dude?

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Speaker 5: You were the ones starting drama. Maybe stick to your

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Speaker 5: your your d and your own lady said some other lady.

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Speaker 5: And this is his son, like exactly.

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Speaker 2: You should be mad too, like it?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, headache. I felt frustrated, and I visitustrated.

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Speaker 5: As an understatement of the century. Frustrated, bro.

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Speaker 1: Fucking frust opis too kind, Truly, I felt frustrated, and

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Speaker 1: I visited his family, who are good to me, and

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Speaker 1: I told them what their son's girlfriend did. Now, it's

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Speaker 1: worth mentioning that she's been working hard for their approval

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Speaker 1: and to get on.

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Speaker 2: Their good side. I suspect because she was the mistress. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: broke up the family.

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Speaker 5: You're kind of uh, you're kind of playing at a

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Speaker 5: at a handicap when you're the mistress in terms of

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Speaker 5: family dynamics. Seriously, Hey, it can't be done. I'm just

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Speaker 5: saying it carry done. But yeah, and I'm not sure

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Speaker 5: getting points from taking away the blanket from the baby.

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Speaker 1: They were shocked to know about what she did, and

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Speaker 1: they all flipped out on her and started calling her out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, call it, thank you, dude. She's terrible.

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Speaker 1: My sister in law took it further by putting it

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Speaker 1: on social media, which made other family members see what

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Speaker 1: she did.

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Speaker 5: So, wow, she's got put blasted. She's getting ass blasted,

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Speaker 5: as is being blasted.

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Speaker 2: Mistress's ass gets blasted.

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Speaker 5: On social media.

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Speaker 1: My ex husband called me yelling about my pathetic attempt

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Speaker 1: to turn his family against his girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Like when a pathetic is uh is everything you are? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: good sir, that far and and two like, it's not

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Speaker 5: that hard to put your mistress in a bad light

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Speaker 5: because she sucks. Yeah, that's not like you don't have

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Speaker 5: to try. Yeah, it just happens.

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Speaker 1: I could hear her freaking out in the background while

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Speaker 1: he was lashing out at me, saying I ruined every

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Speaker 1: chance she had at a good relationship with her future

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Speaker 1: in laws.

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Speaker 5: Yikes.

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Speaker 2: I hung up and felt absolutely horrible.

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Speaker 5: Oh, oh, Pop, don't you deserve better?

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Speaker 1: No, don't feel horrible, even though I was just venting

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Speaker 1: to his family about what happened. And because I felt

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Speaker 1: so frustrated, maybe I shouldn't have gone and told them.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure anymore.

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Speaker 1: Since the whole family isn't speaking to her, so that

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Speaker 1: might have a lasting effect on.

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Speaker 2: Their relationship with her.

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Speaker 5: Good, yes, good. Let them seems to be like abandoned

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Speaker 5: and ostracized and banished.

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Speaker 1: Because like they're gonnais they're gonna share the kid. Clearly

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Speaker 1: they are right now. So it's like every time you

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Speaker 1: go over, you're sending it over to this, to this

581
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Speaker 1: hostile witch woman.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dang no, no, Please know this person needs to

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Speaker 5: be decapitated.

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Speaker 2: Ruined her life, ruin her life