WEBVTT - #181 I Am Addicted To This. Help.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, I have struggled with quitting and I have

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<v Speaker 1>not been able to yet. That's the problem. Hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the podcast. This is episode one and

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<v Speaker 1>eighty one, and I'm just glad you're here. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening and watching wherever you're coming from. The format

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<v Speaker 1>of this podcast, what we do is just sit around

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<v Speaker 1>and talk answering your questions could be about any subject,

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<v Speaker 1>anything in the world. Just just email Grangersmith podcast at

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<v Speaker 1>gmail dot com, and we walk through it like we're

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<v Speaker 1>just two people sitting in the cab of a truck

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<v Speaker 1>driving on a long road trip, got the windows down,

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<v Speaker 1>your elbow out. Hey man, I ask you a question,

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<v Speaker 1>something that's been on my mind lately. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>walked through it like we got all the time in

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<v Speaker 1>the world. And I don't have notes in front of me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have famous quotes, I don't have books. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't even read the questions at all. I'm going completely

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<v Speaker 1>blind off of the email Grangersmith podcast at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get to the first one subject line here says

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<v Speaker 1>Mistakes says, Hey Granger, my name is Duke. I'm from

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<v Speaker 1>southern California. I'm just wondering if you ever make mistakes

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<v Speaker 1>while singing at a concert. I have never been to

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<v Speaker 1>any concert, so I don't even know if that's a

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<v Speaker 1>thing to sometimes mess up. I assume you play a ton,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe it's hard to mess up. I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever gotten a question like that, Duke.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you shout out to Southern Cali and the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I'll mess up a lot, mess up

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I've played thousands of shows in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy to think about, but if you think about

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and fifty shows a year for decades, you

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<v Speaker 1>do that enough. You mess up enough. The thing about

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<v Speaker 1>it is the time no one even knows that I

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<v Speaker 1>mess up, except for maybe the hardcore fans and the band.

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<v Speaker 1>The band will always know. We always know when one

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<v Speaker 1>of us messes up, and so we usually will look

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<v Speaker 1>like Toddle do a note he's never done before on guitar,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll look out of the corner of my eye

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<v Speaker 1>and he's looking back at me because he knows that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at him. We're like brothers, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>brotherly love. It's like, man, you knew I did that,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you. Of course, we speak the same language on

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<v Speaker 1>the stage, me and the band. We know each other

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<v Speaker 1>without saying words. We know everything we do. We know

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<v Speaker 1>what the looks, we know the notes, we know the

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<v Speaker 1>drum beats. Everything. We know if someone is doing something

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<v Speaker 1>different because we've done it so many times. Most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time the fans don't know. Sometimes one mistake from

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<v Speaker 1>one band member leads to another mistake from another band

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<v Speaker 1>member because a muscle memory gets messed up. You're used

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<v Speaker 1>to hearing this pattern of events that happen, and it

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<v Speaker 1>triggers something in your brain. You play this because of

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<v Speaker 1>all these things, and when those things don't happen, you stumble.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very strange how that happens if you do it

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<v Speaker 1>so many times in a row. Sometimes the fans do know,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes you know. Some mistakes are worse than others.

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<v Speaker 1>Most of the time it revolves around me for getting lyrics.

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<v Speaker 1>Every once in a while, you could start the song

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<v Speaker 1>and the wrong key. That's like a once every ten

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<v Speaker 1>year mistake. But there are a lot of things. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of technical problems. Microphones run out of batteries,

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<v Speaker 1>cables go bad, stages break lights, turn off generators, blow

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<v Speaker 1>power goes out, there's all those kind of things. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing about me is We've played so many shows for

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<v Speaker 1>so many years that I've seen every kind of mistake.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a great thing because I could say to myself, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've played bigger shows than this and messed it up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've played bigger shows than this on less sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I've played bigger shows than this and been sicker than

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<v Speaker 1>I am now, you know. So I've kind of done

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<v Speaker 1>all the all the combinations of bad things I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>it happen, and that that gives me a sense of calm, really,

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<v Speaker 1>and that that could be applied to anyone that's listening

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<v Speaker 1>that has done something enough times you can calm yourself

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<v Speaker 1>by saying I've I've messed up in bigger situations than this.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had my foot in my mouth and bigger conversations

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<v Speaker 1>than this. And there's something very freeing about that. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the best thing to do when I make a

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<v Speaker 1>mistake is just own it instead of trying to act

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm better than a mistake. Man, I'm I make

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<v Speaker 1>mistakes all the time, and I just own it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a good question, though, dude, next question, septic line says

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<v Speaker 1>Bible question says, Hey Grander. In a previous email, you

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<v Speaker 1>said that you believed all people that are alive on

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<v Speaker 1>the Earth right now will have a human death before

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus returns. Could you make a clarification on why you

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<v Speaker 1>believe this and why you're certain of that. Secondly, could

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<v Speaker 1>you clarify what clarify why you believe most of what

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<v Speaker 1>John the Revelator describes in the Book of Revelation has

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<v Speaker 1>already happened, as well as what could have, as well

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<v Speaker 1>as what could have the animal symbolism that John uses

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<v Speaker 1>could have occurred in recent history. I read that exactly

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<v Speaker 1>like you wrote it, as well of what could have

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<v Speaker 1>the animal animal symbolism that John uses could have occurred

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<v Speaker 1>in reason Answery regards Anonymous. Okay, Anonymous, Yeah, let's dive

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<v Speaker 1>into this. I'm gonna say one thing off the bat.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I didn't say what I'm uh what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>accused of saying here you said. I heard in a

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<v Speaker 1>previous previous podcast you said that all people that are

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<v Speaker 1>alive on Earth right now will have a human death

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<v Speaker 1>before where Jesus returns. I did not say that because

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<v Speaker 1>it's impossible, and I wouldn't have said something that is

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<v Speaker 1>impossible to know. It's like Napoleon, dynamite Napoleon. How could

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<v Speaker 1>anyone even know that? No one can know that. So

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<v Speaker 1>what I said was probably knowing me. I probably said

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<v Speaker 1>something like most likely ninety nine percent chance or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, most likely all people that are alive on

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<v Speaker 1>Earth right now will not see Jesus return in the

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<v Speaker 1>way that John describes it in the Book of Revelation. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is that so wrong to say that? Is that so

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<v Speaker 1>wrong to say, here's the deal, Jesus. What we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about here is eschatology. Eschatology is one of the most debated,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most confusing things in the entire Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the study of end times. And the thing about

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<v Speaker 1>it is is when Jesus came to Earth, right, God

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<v Speaker 1>had the Abrahamic Covenant, then he had the Mosaic Covenant.

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<v Speaker 1>When Jesus came, when when the word became flesh in

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<v Speaker 1>John won right, the Abrahamic Covenant was fulfilled. Jesus fulfilled

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<v Speaker 1>the covenant. He became the new Covenant. The Mosaic covenant

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<v Speaker 1>was to show people who God is and to give

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<v Speaker 1>them the rules on what was expected of them. When

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus came, he fulfilled the law and fulfilled all the law,

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<v Speaker 1>the prophets, including the Abrahamic Covenant. He became. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>became what people needed to turn to instead of themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Abraham's covenant was based on faith. That's what Jesus fulfilled.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the deal. The people before that, the people

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<v Speaker 1>of God, were based on genealogy, on the bloodline. When

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus came, the definition of God's people changed. It became new.

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<v Speaker 1>God didn't change. The definition of the people became new.

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<v Speaker 1>And the new definition of the people was how do

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<v Speaker 1>you respond to the sun? It was based on your

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<v Speaker 1>response to the Son of God. Okay, so we're moving

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<v Speaker 1>through this. What happened in that time, here's my point, Anonymous,

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<v Speaker 1>What happened in that time when the Word became flesh,

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<v Speaker 1>the end times dawned, the birth of Christ. When the

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<v Speaker 1>Word became flesh, the end of times dawned. That was

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of the end of times. We're still living

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<v Speaker 1>in it. It's been two thousand years. So from that

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<v Speaker 1>day everyone thought, at some point, hey, maybe Jesus is

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<v Speaker 1>coming back today. Maybe he's coming back tomorrow. Maybe He's

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<v Speaker 1>coming back in my lifetime. For two thousand years, people

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<v Speaker 1>have said that and thought that there's technically nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with a hopeful eschatology in that way, reading revelation specifically

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<v Speaker 1>looking to the sky for yourself. It's kind of fun, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But it can become an obsession, and that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a big problem. And I got a feeling, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>got to feeling through your email, the tone of your email,

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<v Speaker 1>that this is a problem for you. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I speak up about this in this podcast because I

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<v Speaker 1>used to fall in like in high school. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to study this stuff and get really into it and

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<v Speaker 1>look at the signs and be really into the signs

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<v Speaker 1>and thinking Jesus is gonna come back. And I did

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<v Speaker 1>it in a way that's not healthy. You see how

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<v Speaker 1>I said that. It's not that it's unhealthy for you

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<v Speaker 1>or anyone else, but I was doing it in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that becomes unhealthy because you start thinking about all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff, and you start adding up these signs and

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<v Speaker 1>these prophecies, and you start putting it aligning it with

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<v Speaker 1>like world events and global leaders and things that are

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<v Speaker 1>going on in the culture, and you start trying to

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<v Speaker 1>add it up and like decipher it. When Jesus says,

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<v Speaker 1>no one knows, no one knows, no one will know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he says. He didn't say no one will

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<v Speaker 1>know except for the smart people that put all the

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<v Speaker 1>puzzle together. He said, no one's gonna know. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>matter if you get the Book of Revelation and the

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<v Speaker 1>Book of Daniel and you put all the prophecies together

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<v Speaker 1>and then line them up with the United States and

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<v Speaker 1>then China and then the new state of Israel in

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen forty six, and you add all this stuff up.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus said, no one's gonna know. Why does he say

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<v Speaker 1>get ready? Why does he say be ready? Not so

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<v Speaker 1>that you could add up to the date, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you could get you yourself ready, you could be aware, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I think you could get lost in eschatology

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<v Speaker 1>and the science of it. If that's a thing, You

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<v Speaker 1>can get lost in that and forget that the whole

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<v Speaker 1>purpose is your response to Jesus through faith in him.

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<v Speaker 1>Because brother, there's a ninety nine point nine percent chance

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<v Speaker 1>you will die on this earth before that happens. How

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<v Speaker 1>do I know that? I don't. But that's just math.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just probability because people have been saying it for

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand years. Oh you say, now's different. Now's different.

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<v Speaker 1>We got COVID, we got AI, we got wars, we

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<v Speaker 1>got earthquakes, we got brother, this has always happened. This

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<v Speaker 1>has been happening for a long time. Don't get caught

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<v Speaker 1>up in it. It can mess you up. It starts,

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<v Speaker 1>it starts deviating you from the truth. Jesus is the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust him. Don't worry about the signs. That's a wicked

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<v Speaker 1>generation that looks after the signs. You'll know in your

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<v Speaker 1>heart because of the fruits that you produce in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll know if you're in right standing then only God

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<v Speaker 1>can do that. Focus on that, focus on loving others,

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<v Speaker 1>serving others, spreading the Great Commission to all the nations.

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<v Speaker 1>Worry about that and not Fox News and seeing in

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<v Speaker 1>and what's happening in Russia. Don't dive into that. It

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<v Speaker 1>becomes unhealthy. I've talked way too much about it. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my point. Appreciate you, brother. Next question here published songwriting.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Granger, my name is Travis. I'm twenty eight years old,

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<v Speaker 1>single with zero dependence. I live in Georgia. Outside of work,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a passion for creating, writing storytelling that I

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<v Speaker 1>believe God has instilled in me. As of a few

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. I've taken a deep interest in writing traditional

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<v Speaker 1>country songs after they started randomly coming up in my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not a performer, but I've enjoyed fleshing out

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<v Speaker 1>the lyrics and practicing singing with them and with my

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<v Speaker 1>acoustic I soon plan on demoing them to blank disc.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not much, but it's what I could do for now.

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<v Speaker 1>Forgive my ignorance and loaded questions, but there's much about

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<v Speaker 1>the Nashville grind and music grow publishing companies that I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't understand as an outsider, and I'm really ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, but here goes. Is it possible for writers

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<v Speaker 1>to submit demos that they've made to publishing companies like

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<v Speaker 1>novelists do, or reach out to them in any way

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<v Speaker 1>without being summoned via recommendation? Or all songwriters under contract

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<v Speaker 1>session writers as well, or do the sum work alone

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<v Speaker 1>and continuously submit their finished work whilst under contract. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't intend to sound wishful or disrespectful in any way

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<v Speaker 1>by asking. The waters are rough and chances are minuscule

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<v Speaker 1>to quote everything that glitters is not gold. There's certain

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<v Speaker 1>things a man just doesn't know. If you decide to

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<v Speaker 1>read this, thank you so much for allowing the unique

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity with your personal time. You're the man, christ Is King.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for everything. Sorry about the link, all right, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you. Man. Travis twenty eight years old. Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>you speak like an older man, like you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>wise soul. To your brother, shout out to Georgia. Love

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<v Speaker 1>that state, and let's dive in here. First thing I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna recommend to you is talking with a performance rights organization.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a pro BMI, ASCAP, seasack. You probably heard of those,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe you've seen the little stickers on a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>or a music venue. Little sticker says BMI or ASCAP

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<v Speaker 1>or sea sack. Talk to them. What they do is

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<v Speaker 1>they represent the songwriters and they get the songwriters paid

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<v Speaker 1>based on how many times that song has performed worldwide

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<v Speaker 1>in all media. That could be at a music venue

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<v Speaker 1>or a restaurant like we just mentioned, could be on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio, could be in a jukebox. It used to

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<v Speaker 1>be a really big thing, and every other way that

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<v Speaker 1>a song can perform and pay the songwriters. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>their whole job. And they're there for the writers and

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<v Speaker 1>so they they are staffed up to handle people like you,

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<v Speaker 1>to answer your questions. They can be the go between

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<v Speaker 1>between a publisher and the writer. They were for me

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<v Speaker 1>a long, long, long time ago. When I first did this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd signed with BMI and doesn't There's no requirement, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no test or audition. Anyone could sign with BMI, ASCAP

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<v Speaker 1>or CEASAC and you're then you're a BMI writer and

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<v Speaker 1>you could use the privileges that you get from being

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<v Speaker 1>with that specific pro So I'll start there. And and

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<v Speaker 1>aside from that, you're twenty eight years old. You love songwriting, man,

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<v Speaker 1>just write a lot and put it on YouTube. It's

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing time to be a songwriter because this is

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<v Speaker 1>something I didn't have when I was twenty eight. You

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<v Speaker 1>could just throw it up on the internet on TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>or Twitter or YouTube whatever, Spotify. You can get every

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<v Speaker 1>song up right now through different different platforms. It's super easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing. You could start getting traction on YouTube right away.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that you have an advantage on every other

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<v Speaker 1>songwriter that lived in the decades past. So I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>worry so much about publishing companies and songwriting contracts. There's

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<v Speaker 1>not much money in that anyway, so I wouldn't think

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<v Speaker 1>about it. What's gonna happen is you get a song

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<v Speaker 1>that goes viral on YouTube because it's just a great song.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have any publishing company in Nashville wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>sign you because of that. So focus on that. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>get the cart in front of the horse. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. If you go sign with random publishing company,

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<v Speaker 1>which is near impossible to do, Jesus will I'm back

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<v Speaker 1>before you go out and just get randomly get a

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<v Speaker 1>publishing contract. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. That's an extreme. I've

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<v Speaker 1>tying the two questions together here, but it's it's just

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<v Speaker 1>the way it is. It's very, very difficult to get

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<v Speaker 1>a publishing contract if no one knows it and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anyone, and you don't even know how to

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<v Speaker 1>get your music on a disc, which, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen anymore. Don't you don't get music on disc anymore? Brother,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't happen. They go they go digital on YouTube sots.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get to let's get to recording. Let's get that

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<v Speaker 1>guitar out. Let's learn a simple recording software like pro Tools,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm literally using right now staring at the screen

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<v Speaker 1>off camera, looking at pro Tools. I've been using this

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<v Speaker 1>since two thousand and two. I got my first pro

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<v Speaker 1>Tools set up in two thousand and two. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>long time ago. It's like twenty one years ago, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So learn something like that recording software on your computer.

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<v Speaker 1>Get a couple of microphones. You don't have to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. Put one on your guitar, one

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<v Speaker 1>on your vocal and record you some songs and get

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<v Speaker 1>them up on social media if one goes viral. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you've got something to talk about. Let's take a break

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<v Speaker 1>If you've got a question from me, email Grangersmith Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>at gmail dot com. I'm happy to add it to

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<v Speaker 1>the queue here and pull up an email. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>So next question. The subject line here on the next

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<v Speaker 1>queue says Christianity and tobacco. Hey, mister Smith, my name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeremy Moss. I wanted to email in regard to

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<v Speaker 1>tobacco use. So I've been dipping for about eight years

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm twenty five years old. Now. I have struggled

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<v Speaker 1>quitting and I still have not been able to yet. However,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to pick your brain on the topic. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you still serve God and follow God wholeheartedly even if

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<v Speaker 1>using tobacco or alcohol? I don't drink anymore, only dip.

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<v Speaker 1>Side note, love your music, especially the album you did

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<v Speaker 1>for your movie. Greatest Hits by you and Matthew West

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<v Speaker 1>is a great song. I've been listening here lately. Please

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<v Speaker 1>keep up the good work you and Amberdoo. Brother Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much, and thanks for the question. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a good question. It's a solid question. Let's dive in here.

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<v Speaker 1>Your question is can you still serve God and follow

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<v Speaker 1>God wholeheartedly even if using tobacco or alcohol? Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>short answer is yes, because we are saved by grace

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<v Speaker 1>through faith. This is not our own doing. It is

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<v Speaker 1>the work of God, so that no man may boast.

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<v Speaker 1>That comes out of Ephesians too. And we are not

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<v Speaker 1>saved by anything that we do or don't do, it

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<v Speaker 1>is the work of God through grace and our faith.

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<v Speaker 1>Right essentially, that's it. You can't add anything or subtract

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<v Speaker 1>anything from that. But you're talking about serving Him. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you are in faith and you're believing, and you're trusting,

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<v Speaker 1>and you see the fruits of the spirit, the fruits

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<v Speaker 1>of serving God, what are those fruits? Jesus says it

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<v Speaker 1>many times. You know, you know it's almost lost these

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<v Speaker 1>days in twenty twenty three, that there are many commandments

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<v Speaker 1>in the New Testament. There are commandments, rules, guidelines in

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<v Speaker 1>the New Testament. Can you believe that? We thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was just in the Old Testament, But it's not. And

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<v Speaker 1>we could see the fruits, the greatest of which is love,

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<v Speaker 1>loving others, serving others, the desire to love others, the

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<v Speaker 1>desire to feed the sheep, and the desire to shepherd

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<v Speaker 1>the flock, the desire to take God's people and bring

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<v Speaker 1>the word to them, and hurt for the lost, and

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<v Speaker 1>need need to be able to serve and help, to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to wash someone else's feet. That's what Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>did and we're supposed to model that. That is serving him.

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<v Speaker 1>And you could do that wholeheartedly and also have an addiction,

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<v Speaker 1>but that is not something you want to stay in.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is sanctification now we're talking about as you

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<v Speaker 1>become a believer and things start to shed away, as

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<v Speaker 1>sin starts to peel off of you, you continue to grow.

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<v Speaker 1>You could serve wholeheartedly at the beginning while you still

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<v Speaker 1>are in different scenarios of problems around you. But as

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<v Speaker 1>those things peel off, which they need to, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a sign that you're being sanctified and you're growing in

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<v Speaker 1>your faith. So, for instance, I wouldn't look back on

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<v Speaker 1>you when you first became a Christian, when you were

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<v Speaker 1>let's see, because now you say, I don't drink anymore, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't look back on you when you became born

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<v Speaker 1>again and you became alive to Christ and you had

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<v Speaker 1>a beer. I wouldn't say you're not serving him wholeheartedly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet I would say, in your current state of sanctification,

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<v Speaker 1>you're serving him wholeheartedly. But there's so much more to

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<v Speaker 1>come for you. You just don't know it yet. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. You are drinking milk, right this little Paul says,

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<v Speaker 1>we start with milk, but we need to start eating

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<v Speaker 1>solid foods soon. What Granger, what are you talking about? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what I'm talking about. I'm diving into your question specifically.

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<v Speaker 1>At the beginning, you said, I have struggled with quitting

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<v Speaker 1>and I have not been able to yet. That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You have an addiction that you cannot shake. That is

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<v Speaker 1>the contradiction you're having right now. That is the stirring

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<v Speaker 1>you're having. That's why you emailed me why. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>you are being sanctified in a way that you might

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<v Speaker 1>not even be able to understand or explain right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But the reason you emailed me is because you know

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<v Speaker 1>there's a problem. You're like, Man, I got something going

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<v Speaker 1>on and I can't shake it. It doesn't mean you're

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<v Speaker 1>not serving God. It just means the spirit is sanctifying you.

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<v Speaker 1>Going time to shed it. I want you to rely

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<v Speaker 1>on me. I want all of you. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>part of you. I don't want a little sliver of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want all of you, and I don't have all

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<v Speaker 1>of you while you're addicted to this, so shake it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you go, oh, why do I feel so convicted?

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<v Speaker 1>That word right? Why do I feel so guilty? We

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<v Speaker 1>could feel that guilt and conviction, and it hurts sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>And this happens with all kinds of things, and it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't necessarily have to be written as a sin. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me give you an example. Last fall, I was sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there watching Texas A and M football. I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I get so nervous before a game. I get all

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<v Speaker 1>stirred up and anxious, and then the game starts and

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<v Speaker 1>I get angry. And then as the game's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>I get joyful and then angry again. And the game's

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<v Speaker 1>over and they lose, and I have a bad night

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm affected by it. And it started hitting me.

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<v Speaker 1>This is last fall, guys started hitting me, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. You love college football too much. You're addicted

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<v Speaker 1>to college football in a way that it is affecting

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<v Speaker 1>your emotions. I'm like, really, I recognize that old sanctification feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>And I told my tour manager Chris. I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I gotta quit college football. He goes, what, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm feeling convicted to quit college football, to

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<v Speaker 1>quit watching it until I could rein it in where

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<v Speaker 1>I could just watch it casually and not be emotionally affected,

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<v Speaker 1>Like where it doesn't just start affecting my daily life.

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<v Speaker 1>And Chris is like, oh you think so, you think

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<v Speaker 1>that I watch college football. So I'm sinning. I'm like, no,

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:38.440
<v Speaker 1>it's not there's nothing to do with you sinning. This

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 1>sanctification is different. Okay, So you see how I'm wrapping

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>this all up. So, buddy, you're addicted to anything, I

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:49.720
<v Speaker 1>don't care if it's caffeine or, in this case, tobacco.

0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 1>This kind of sanctification is up to you. If you're

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:57.280
<v Speaker 1>addicted to caffeine, that's not against the law. But if

0:28:57.280 --> 0:29:00.080
<v Speaker 1>it's if it's controlling you in a way that you

0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 1>you need it you have to function, that's a problem.

0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Then you gotta quit it. Tobacco, it's not illegal. You're

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 1>old enough to have it. You're twenty five years old,

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 1>you're old enough to buy it. It's not illegal. It's

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 1>not a problem unless it becomes a problem. I know

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>this problem personally, and I had to quit. I no

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>longer touch it. I could speak to this personally. I

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:34.920
<v Speaker 1>had the same conviction you're having now, and I had

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>to kick it. You got me. Let's move on. Next question.

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Subject line says talking with girls, Hey Grangeard like to

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:49.480
<v Speaker 1>stay anonymous. I'm a sophomore in high school. I got

0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:51.320
<v Speaker 1>a girl that I've been talking to for a little

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 1>while now. She's extreme. She likes me, and she wants

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:57.800
<v Speaker 1>to date me, but it seems like she's rushing into it.

0:29:57.840 --> 0:30:00.640
<v Speaker 1>All my friends think that she's cool, and she thinks

0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 1>they are cool, and all trying to get me to

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 1>do stuff with her and ask her out. My main

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.720
<v Speaker 1>problem is I have no idea what to talk about

0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 1>with her right now. I don't know if I'm ready

0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 1>to date her or not. I'm assuming very young here.

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming assuming you're talking. We're talking to a teenager here,

0:30:19.480 --> 0:30:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and you're talking. Oh you said it. You said I'm

0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 1>a sophomore in high school. Okay, So what is that

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 1>sophomore in high school? You're sixteen, maybe seventeen. Let me

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>hand it to you, straight, sixteen year old. Straight. There's

0:30:43.400 --> 0:30:47.959
<v Speaker 1>a girl you've been talking to. She likes you, she

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:51.280
<v Speaker 1>wants to date you, she's rushing into it. All your

0:30:51.280 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>friends think you should do it because she's cool. Your

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 1>main problem is you don't know if you're ready or not.

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:05.720
<v Speaker 1>Answer is you're not ready. That's it. It doesn't matter

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>what your friends think is cool. It doesn't matter if

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 1>she likes you a lot. You're not ready. How do

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 1>you know? Because you said it, I don't know if

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm ready or not. That is the answer that you're

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:26.960
<v Speaker 1>not ready. If there's a shadow of a doubt in there,

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:30.640
<v Speaker 1>then you're not ready. Because the essence of being ready

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 1>is there's no doubt you're ready. There is no reason

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:37.400
<v Speaker 1>to wonder if you're ready or not. You just are.

0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 1>You just know it. You go, man, I like her,

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>no red flags. I'm in I want to ask her out.

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to her. It doesn't matter if

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to talk to her about. I'm

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:51.840
<v Speaker 1>just gonna go up and say I like you, and

0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't exactly know how to say it. I don't

0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>really know how to talk. I'm a little embarrassed because

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you're so pretty. But all I do know is that

0:32:02.280 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I like you. I'd like to maybe go on a

0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 1>date with you. But if you're not ready, you don't

0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:13.400
<v Speaker 1>do that. Brother, You don't say that at all. You

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 1>tell your friends I ain't ready. Come on, man, she's cool.

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not ready. Okay, okay, okay, fine, man, we'll lay off.

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 1>You see her in the hallway. She's talking to you.

0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 1>You say, I just want to be up front. If

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:34.320
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking this is going somewhere like dating, I'm not

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 1>ready for that. It's not It's not something that you're

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>doing or not necessarily. I'm just I'm a little young,

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not ready. Maybe one day I will be.

0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>This is a different story, you know, if you're like

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>thirty years old, twenty five years old, but fifteen, sixteen, seventeen,

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 1>this is different. Okay, you're not ready. Let's grab another question.

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Subject line on this next one straight into the queue

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 1>says tough decision. Hey, Grangel, my name is Ethan. I'm

0:33:07.160 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 1>twenty two from Colorado. Moved to Colorado a few years

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>ago because I felt like it was the right place

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:14.479
<v Speaker 1>to be at the right time. My time here has

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 1>taught me a whole lot about myself, and I've grown

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>on my own these last few years. I'm currently trying

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 1>to decide if I should move back to Tennessee or not.

0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't have as much family here and not a

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:32.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of opportunities to go back home and see them. Okay,

0:33:32.280 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have a lot of opportunities to go

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:35.920
<v Speaker 1>back home and see them. Talking about the family like

0:33:35.960 --> 0:33:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was going to be able to I'm

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 1>really struggling right now, and I don't know if this

0:33:40.640 --> 0:33:42.680
<v Speaker 1>is just a season of life or if I'm really

0:33:42.680 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 1>starting to dislike it here. I've been praying about it

0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 1>and still confused on what to do. Ethan, Ethan, thank

0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:57.200
<v Speaker 1>you brother, appreciate the question, and shout out to Colorado

0:33:57.440 --> 0:34:01.960
<v Speaker 1>and Tennessee, two beautiful places. Listen. The first thing you

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 1>got to establish here, Ethan, is that you make sure

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>this isn't just a wondering heart, because twenty two year

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:14.120
<v Speaker 1>olds have it. It's contagious. At twenty two, I remember

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:17.799
<v Speaker 1>having it. And what I'm talking about is just being

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:21.160
<v Speaker 1>in a place where you're just not really content where

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 1>you are. You're searching, and it doesn't matter if it's

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:32.759
<v Speaker 1>Colorado or Tennessee or Hong Kong, it doesn't matter. You

0:34:32.960 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>are not finding your contentment in the place that you're living.

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know from your email exactly why you moved

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:44.920
<v Speaker 1>to Colorado. You just says your email just says it

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 1>felt like it was the right place to be at

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 1>the time. I don't know what that means. I don't

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:55.399
<v Speaker 1>know if that means you had a bad breakup in Tennessee.

0:34:55.560 --> 0:34:59.759
<v Speaker 1>If there was a girl in Colorado you're chasing. I

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know. If have you had a buddy that go

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:05.200
<v Speaker 1>to Colorado and you followed him and now he's not

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:08.200
<v Speaker 1>there anymore. I don't know. But it doesn't I'm not

0:35:08.239 --> 0:35:11.359
<v Speaker 1>getting a clear picture by you just saying I lived

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>in Tennessee and I just moved to Colorado a few

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>years ago because it felt like it was the right

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:19.600
<v Speaker 1>place to be at the time. If we're riding in

0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 1>the truck together, I need to know a little bit

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:27.400
<v Speaker 1>more information, so we'll go by what we have. You

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 1>thought you were going to move to Colorado and be

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:32.280
<v Speaker 1>able to go back and see your family a lot.

0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:37.839
<v Speaker 1>That's what you said. You haven't had those opportunities. You're

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to decide if you should just pack up and

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:45.279
<v Speaker 1>move back to Tennessee. Now, we make these things, these

0:35:45.280 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 1>situations into huge problems when it's really not. As I'm

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:53.040
<v Speaker 1>reading it on the podcast, I'm thinking, this is not

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 1>a huge problem. It is to you because you're in it.

0:35:56.800 --> 0:35:58.520
<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of it. For me on the outside,

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dude, get out of your lease when it ends,

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:06.880
<v Speaker 1>go stay on a couch in Tennessee or at your

0:36:06.880 --> 0:36:10.879
<v Speaker 1>family's house, whatever, and you don't have to do it

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>for ten years. Just go live on a couch for

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 1>a month in Tennessee, get out of your lease in Colorado,

0:36:19.920 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna know you're gonna be back in Tennessee, going, yeah,

0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>this is right. It feels right to be back here.

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I think through your email, you're leaving it doesn't feel

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:39.400
<v Speaker 1>like Colorado has anything to offer you anymore. And you

0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:41.399
<v Speaker 1>are saying, I'm struggling right now. I don't know if

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just a season of life or if I'm really

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:46.560
<v Speaker 1>starting to dislike it. I'm praying, but I still feel

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:50.840
<v Speaker 1>very confused. What are you praying for? I always like

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:53.120
<v Speaker 1>to ask that question. I always like to just at

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:55.520
<v Speaker 1>least prick you a little bit and ask you what

0:36:55.560 --> 0:37:01.040
<v Speaker 1>you're praying for. God, help me to make a decision,

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:04.720
<v Speaker 1>help me to follow my dreams. Like what are you saying?

0:37:07.120 --> 0:37:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Because I would recommend it sounds something like God. You

0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:19.840
<v Speaker 1>are sovereign, you are present, you are aware, you are purposing,

0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 1>you're planning. You know every hair on my head, you

0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>know every star in the sky. I will never question you.

0:37:35.239 --> 0:37:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Got it? I feel lost. I feel like I'm searching,

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 1>and I need to put that focus back on you.

0:37:45.960 --> 0:37:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Draw me to you, let me see you for who

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:53.440
<v Speaker 1>you are. I don't know why I get so confused

0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:56.359
<v Speaker 1>and I get so caught up in this world, and God,

0:37:56.400 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that anymore. I want to

0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:02.360
<v Speaker 1>look to you. Guide me. Let me open my eyes

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:05.600
<v Speaker 1>to see what is out that the doors that are

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:07.759
<v Speaker 1>opened that I could walk through, and the doors that

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:10.480
<v Speaker 1>are closed I need to turn away from. But wherever

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 1>I go, let it be your will, not mine. If

0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>there's someone here in Colorado for me to see and

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 1>talk to, let me find them. It's someone back home

0:38:18.440 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>at Tennessee I need to be with, let me go

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:23.600
<v Speaker 1>to them. But either way, wherever I go, let me

0:38:23.640 --> 0:38:29.760
<v Speaker 1>find contentment in you. Just wondering, Eathan, if it's anything,

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>if I am even in the ballpark of the prayers

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:39.200
<v Speaker 1>that you're praying when you're talking about moving, I don't know.

0:38:42.000 --> 0:38:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I was once your age and I was living in Tennessee.

0:38:46.400 --> 0:38:51.319
<v Speaker 1>I'd moved there from Texas, and after four years I

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:54.920
<v Speaker 1>felt a little wild heart and I felt like I

0:38:54.960 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 1>needed to go back to Texas. I like, you didn't

0:38:59.120 --> 0:39:01.880
<v Speaker 1>get to visit my family that much. I thought I

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:04.040
<v Speaker 1>was gonna get gonna get to see them more, and

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I know what you're going through. I feel this.

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Go back to your home state, that's where you belong.

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:18.359
<v Speaker 1>But pray a prayer of wisdom to God that it's

0:39:18.400 --> 0:39:23.600
<v Speaker 1>not your will, it's his surrender. Give it over to him.

0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Things get better, all right, Love you guys, See you

0:39:29.200 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 1>next Monday. Thanks for joining me on the Grangersmith Podcast.

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