1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: There was a problem where taking money. 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 2: All right, here we go. We are doing a virtual 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: two Cool Mom Stevie buckle up goes. Here we go. 4 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, thank you for another episode of Two 5 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 3: Cool Moms. I am your host, Joe Gatto, along with 6 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 3: Via Zoom, my friend, Oh, Steve. 7 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: Burn, Steve Burn, that's you, yes, st that's me. 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you so much for joining my own name. 9 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody, I love that. I appreciate you guys. Stevie. 10 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 3: I appreciate you taking some time to make this happen. 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 3: I know we couldn't get together in the same room. 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 3: We don't like to do this because we hate the 13 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 3: distance between us. 14 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: That's right, yearning for each other. But I am in 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: Pittsburgh right now at the Mario Lemu Fantasy Camp and 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: it's a wonderful The Mario Lemu Foundation, obviously they raise 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: money for cancer. They do these things called Austin's Playroom, 18 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: which are you know, rooms for children that are dealing 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: with cancer. So they I think they have seven or 20 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: eight different locations. A lot of them are primarily in Pittsburgh. 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: But it was a lot of a lot of money 22 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: funded towards cancer research. Et cetera, et cetera. So there 23 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: they have a fantasy camp where normal guys it's like 24 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: pros versus Joe's no more guys like me get to 25 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: come and you get to skate with famous alumni Hall 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: of famers, and it's it's one of the greatest, coolest 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: experiences I've ever had in my life. And the very 28 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: first one I did, Mario Lemieu was still skating and 29 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: I got to skate a shift with Lemieux, and I 30 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: skated a shift against Lemieux, and I came back and 31 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: I said, this is the greatest day of my life. 32 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: And like me, better than our wedding. I'm like, and 33 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: I looked at it and the I go, yeah, absolutely 34 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: better than our wedding. 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 3: The only thing that con made our wedding better was 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 3: if Mario Lemieux walked you down the island. 37 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: That's right, if she walked me down to Mary Mario. Yeah. 38 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: And I mean the guy is just hockey royalty. 39 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 3: And I mean I even know him, which means he's 40 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 3: somebody I know. Most people well, no, yes, Lemieux, most 41 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: people do not know is French French Canadian? 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: Yes, So there you go. Does that look'd bit for 43 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 2: you for all our French listeners. 44 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: Grazi. 45 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 3: Uh so, I wanted to say, so do you on 46 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: the when you're on the ice and you're skating. 47 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: After you get off the ice, how long do you hurt? 48 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: Like? 49 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 2: How sorry? 50 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: Are you okay? So we're so we're we get to 51 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: play in the arena, which you've played the PPG arena. 52 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: Well, let's be clear, I've I've played as a comedy 53 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 3: show on the stage there. 54 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: I haven't say hockey. 55 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: You were That's right, You're not a New York Island 56 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: or a ranger or saber New York State. But but 57 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: the whole thing takes place in there. So we skate 58 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: where the penguins play, and they have this Casamigo's lounge 59 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: and that's where we eat our meals. So so we 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: we've been ah skating, We're gonna go eat lunch. And 61 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: I pull up to the bar and they have all 62 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: these mango smoothies, like fresh whipped, nice smoothie. And I 63 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: go to put my foot on the little step up 64 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: that's maybe four inches up at the bar and as 65 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: I put my foot, I'm. 66 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 4: On ah and two of the camera has heard me 67 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 4: like burn, are you okay? I'm like, they look like, dude, 68 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 4: it's like three inches, Like, what are you complaining about. 69 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 4: But it's just a fun experience and it's the closest 70 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 4: like I'll ever feel to like being a professional athlete. 71 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: They have equipment managers, you're decked out in jerseys, you're 72 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: playing the game like your face is up on the board. 73 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: They do the things where you're like, go like this 74 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: the camera, so you film all this stuff and you 75 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: literally feel like a pro athlete, and your whole day 76 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: is regimented around playing practicing games. And every team has 77 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: two pros with them. So we have Max Talbot and 78 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: Tyler Kennedy, former Penguins, and our team is coached by 79 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: Kevin Stevens, a Hall of Famer, and Pierre LaRouche who 80 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: is a former New York Ranger legend and he played 81 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: for the Penns four while too. But it's just amazing 82 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: and the camaraderie get from hanging out with all these 83 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: so fun, you know, grown men from all over in 84 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: Canada and stuff. It's it's it's cool. 85 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: I had I had a similar experience. 86 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 3: When you're talking about the face being like on the 87 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 3: jumbo tron in front of the huge arena. I took 88 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 3: my kids bowling yesterday and then the bowling alley had 89 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 3: a new feature. He could take a picture and it 90 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 3: would like animate you on a thing when it was 91 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: your turn. 92 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's awesome. 93 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: So I had me of my kids faces up on 94 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: the bowler rama. 95 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: There you go. I'm just curious, what did you bowl? 96 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 2: I got to the elbow was in a rough shape 97 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 2: last night. I only hit like one forty. That was 98 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 2: rough last night. 99 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: That's a bad day for you. 100 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: It's a bad day. Yeah. 101 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we we had fun. The kids were The 102 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 3: kids were great. My daughter got very frustrated and my 103 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 3: son was using the ramp and he was doing like 104 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 3: the one two three every time. 105 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: I was just. 106 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 2: Roll it down. Yeah. We didn't do the bumpers, but 107 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 2: we did the ramp. 108 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: But it was it was fun the fifteen seconds to 109 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 1: see like you're just waiting for it to like slow. 110 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 3: At the last minute, it seems like there's an earthquake 111 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 3: and it just a whole blake shifts and it just 112 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: goes right to the gutta like it's dead on then 113 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: boom right to the gut of the port. 114 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: The most it's the most gratifying strike because it'll topple 115 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: one by one and then it's just the one swirling like. 116 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: There's no speed. There's no speed to the ball. You 117 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 2: might as well like roll a tennis ball at it. 118 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: But yeah, we had fun. So how long it's a fire? 119 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: How many days is this thing? 120 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 1: Five days? So today is like the playoff round and 121 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: then tomorrow's the championship round. We're going to see how 122 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: we do. We're two and oh so far. We have 123 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: a ringer on our team, this guy Yuri, who is 124 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: just like skating through everybody. But then you have guys 125 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: like Pierre Turjehon, who's you know again, another like legend 126 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: in the game, and former Buffalo Saber And I mean, 127 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: the guy's got to be in his late fifties and 128 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: he's just serpentining through everybody and they still have these skills. 129 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: Bernie Nichols is on our team. Former La King legend, 130 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: another Hall of Famer, and he's on our team. 131 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 2: Cousin to Frankie Quarters. Yeah, we don't know that he 132 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: was a he was on the Blackhawks. I believe. 133 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm glad you knew the Blackhawks. 134 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was my team in a NHL when 135 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,679 Speaker 2: I used to play on PlayStation. That's the only reason. 136 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: I dude, I gotta tell you so one story. Okay, 137 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: So we all go out to lunch or dinner last night. Again, 138 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: everything is first class, right, they do a fancy steakhouse. 139 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: Mike Young, another great comedian out of the Comedy Store, 140 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: is with me. So Mike and I sit in a 141 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: booth and there's this great guy named Uh. It's like 142 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: Andrew Ko. He's the only other Asian here. And so 143 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: he go, no, we're not on the same team, but 144 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: I was like another Asian and then Uh. And then 145 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: he and his mom sat down with us. So he 146 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: brought his mom to camp, and she h, I got 147 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: to learn the story he came over from. They came 148 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: over from Shanghai and he was like nine, and they 149 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: moved to Saskatchewan, I think, and they they turned on 150 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: the TV. They had no idea what hockey was coming 151 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: from Shanghai, and she said, who do you like. He said, 152 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: I'll take the white team. She's I'll take the green team. 153 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: And that's how they got into hockey. So they would 154 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: just look and watch it. And then years later his 155 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: favorite player was marl Lemeux. He ends up playing at 156 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: the camp and playing with Lemieux. Anyways, we're sitting at 157 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: the table. There's a guy doing magic and then he 158 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: he's like and it was great, and he's like, you know, 159 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I do some mentalist stuff too, and Mike Young's like, oh, 160 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: can you do one? And the guy goes, what would 161 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: you say if I had a credit card with your 162 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: name on it? And Mike's like, oh my god, that'd 163 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: be amazing, and so he goes, what's your name? He 164 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: goes Mike Young. He goes, Mike Young, I'm going to 165 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: give you a credit card with your name on it. 166 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: So he gives the credit card to Mike Young. It 167 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: says your name. Okay, Mike doesn't have his readers, so 168 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: he's gone, how the fuck did you do that? How 169 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: did you Mike? Mike, it says your name. He's like, 170 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: I know, it says your name. He goes, so if 171 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: it says Steve Byrne, Like, how would you do that? 172 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 2: How would I go? 173 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: It says your name? He goes, I know, it says mine. 174 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: It was like literally, who's on first, right? 175 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? 176 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: And he didn't admit he couldn't read it, and he's like, 177 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: so if it was like her name I'm like, Mike, 178 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: it literally says your name. He goes, I know Steve, 179 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: and so I like. 180 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: I go it says, why oh you are name? 181 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: He goes, oh shit. And so I'm sitting there and 182 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: it's me Keith Coo, missus ko and I go, I go, like, 183 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: you're sitting with three ations like this. 184 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: This white boy so stupid, he's dumb. 185 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: He had dumb white boy. 186 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 2: So missus coop. 187 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: After that, we're going to the ring today and I go, 188 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: missus Coo, how are you? I go look on, but 189 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: she goes, oh, stupid white boy. 190 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 2: Amazing. Oh have a T shirt that says your name 191 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: on it. I should change his jersey to it. 192 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe he wouldn't get over it. It was unbelievable. 193 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: That's so funny. Did he uh? 194 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: Did you you play? You played hockey growing up? When 195 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 3: was the first time you started playing, like on a 196 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 3: team though? 197 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: I was six years old, well five years old. I 198 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: my father played. So we'd go to the rank and 199 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: he just hold his jersey and he'd pull me around. 200 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: And then six I started. That was my first season. 201 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: And seven was the first time I felt like, oh, 202 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: I can skate now, and I think I got the 203 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: hang of this, and I played all through high school. 204 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: I played on two different teams travel high school. And 205 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: I was fortunate enough to grow up during Lemieux's peak era, 206 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: so ninety one ninety two, I was a junior and senior, 207 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: and they won the Cup back to back in those years, 208 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: and it was so great to be in the city 209 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: and again just to just know that, like he knows 210 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: who I am, and you do this contract signing and 211 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: you know, you sit down with him at the table 212 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: and you sign a contract with each other and you 213 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: talk for a second. It was like it's still surreal. 214 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: It's still surreal, Like. 215 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 3: Well, that's why you do that big charity event. We 216 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: do that every year, right, you do the You Foundation, 217 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 3: You do that. 218 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 2: You're doing again this year. 219 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're doing it this year. 220 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 5: Friday, July eighteenth, Mark you count his friend. Save the dates, 221 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 5: Save the dates, Save the date. Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, July eighteenth. 222 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 5: We're doing the Comedy Jam. As you know, it's a 223 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 5: to a comedy show where comedians come out. We do 224 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 5: ten minutes of material and we sing any song we 225 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 5: want with the live band. It becomes a comedy concert 226 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 5: and this year, it's you. 227 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: You have a few friends coming. You is joining Murray, 228 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: is joining Frankie Kees, who's one of my favorites, Lace 229 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: Larabee and josh Adam Meyers in the comedy jam band. 230 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 2: So it's gonna be. 231 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: To be a killer line. 232 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 2: It's always so much fun. I'm really excited. 233 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, and I've been asked about it quite a 234 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: bit since i've been here. People like you. 235 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 3: Well, they're looking for they're looking for the scot all 236 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 3: these people you raise a lot of money for that. 237 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. 238 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, the golden Goose to. 239 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 3: Make sure nobody checks him too hard. 240 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: Look, well, you got a good haircut. I got a 241 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: good little haircut. You gotniced up for the little muse. 242 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 2: Just in case you know. 243 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: I hit a point Joe where I cannot I've always 244 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: been able to lose weight. So two weeks before this, 245 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 1: I know I can put on my so on a suit, 246 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: I'll jump my rope and then and I'll eat right, 247 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 1: and I'll trim it down. This is the first time 248 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: in my life I eat right. I put on the 249 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: saw suit. I'm hydrating, and I just hit a wall. 250 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: For some reason, I cannot get below one ninety. It's 251 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: never happened in my life. Really, it's the first. Yeah, 252 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: I've always I wanted to come in at like one eighty, 253 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: and for some reason I just couldn't. I couldn't drop 254 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: the way. I don't know what it was. 255 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 3: That's what happens when you turn fifty five. All this giving, 256 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 3: when you in your early sixties, all these things shut 257 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 3: down on. 258 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: Wow, we went up, we went up. 259 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: Okay of kidding. 260 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 3: So you hit the five zero and you can't drop 261 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 3: under the one. Azh tough you're at okay, yeah, that's 262 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 3: my goal weight. We're on different pages there. 263 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, yeah, I'm not happy. 264 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: I'm ten right now. I went away. I'm ten. I 265 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: got that always makes me look more trim. I got 266 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: a nice You look fantastic. 267 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: You think it fantastic. The last few years though you lost, 268 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: you lost quite a few LB's. 269 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 2: Yeah I did drop some lbs. Maybe, Uh, I don't know. 270 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: I I think the tanner I get, the fatter I 271 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 3: can be, though, So I've been really hitting the doughnuts. 272 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: Pretty odd now. It's like when you wear up black, 273 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: everybody's like, oh, you look so good. Yeah. I turned 274 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: down No, I put on an Excel black T shirt 275 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 2: and that's that's my diet. 276 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: We were just hanging out with fat people. 277 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 2: Right, that's what I do. I mean, I was the 278 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 2: fact that everybody hung out with. We used to have 279 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: this thing, me and the. 280 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 3: Boys, we had this joke of who's number who was 281 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: number two, who was the second fastest, It didn't matter 282 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 3: who first battest, and it was the number two spot 283 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 3: would always fluctuate between. 284 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 2: Us for a while. Sal held number one for the longest. 285 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 3: Sal was the raining champion and me and Q would 286 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 3: be fighting with another of the two spots. 287 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 2: So like when we were on the road. 288 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: I'd be like, hey, you want to ant Like I 289 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 3: would feed him to fatten them. 290 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 2: Up or whatever. It'd be really funny. The number one 291 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 2: has always been skinny, right, he was always a skinny kid. 292 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, always skinny. But then he got like jet. 293 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 3: No, he got well, he got chat a little bit, 294 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 3: he got he chubbed up a little when he got 295 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 3: when he got hitched, he got a little bit of 296 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 3: a round face, he got a little bit, a little 297 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 3: chunk of dunk. And then because he was like you 298 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 3: could always drop weight. And then he started working at 299 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 3: it and working out with him and his wife and 300 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 3: they put the the gym in the house to really 301 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: hit it home and he has to work at it now. 302 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: It's always weird though, when you're like, I mean Murray 303 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: and I love him, great guy, but he's like a seven, right, 304 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: He's like a seven. So even if you work out 305 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: and you're shredded, like if you're Chris Ham's Worth and 306 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: you're like a nine and then you get jacked, you're 307 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: like a ten, right, But if you're seven and you 308 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 1: get like Murray got in great. 309 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 2: Shape, yeah, he's still a seven, you know what I mean. Like, 310 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: it's just so some people, you know, the Jack I 311 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 2: wouldn't know. 312 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 3: I was always I always had this joke that I 313 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 3: was gonna do and I never got to do it 314 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 3: because I didn't have the discipline. But I was like 315 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 3: in the off season, in between seasons, I was gonna 316 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 3: get in the. 317 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 1: Off season, like, dude, you're not mahomes Well, we. 318 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: Filmed that way. I used to film like nine months 319 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 2: out of the year. I had no life. 320 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 3: I was consumed by this thing, right ten months out 321 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 3: of the year. 322 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, you know what I'm gonna get. 323 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get Jack I'm gonna get abs and everything. 324 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: And I even talked to the production about it. I 325 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 3: was like, listen, there's between seasons six and seven. I 326 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 3: was like, listen, I'm gonna get jacked and I back 327 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 3: and I'm like, take for the funny, they're gonna take 328 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 3: my shirt off of the first challenge. Like I'm gonna 329 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 3: try not to see them in the off season or 330 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 3: as you would say, the downtime, try to avoid. 331 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 2: Them as best I could. 332 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 3: And I was like, three days in, I was like, 333 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 3: it's not. 334 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 2: Worth a joke. Yeah, donuts, It's like forget it. 335 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: Well you could you could? You know, don't you think 336 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: you could? 337 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: Well, I'm doing this thing now. Then I'm trying to 338 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: get a little bit more trim. 339 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 3: I started picking up some of these vitamins and things 340 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 3: like I've never done, like, uh, these probiotic y kind 341 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 3: of things for gut health because I think I think 342 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 3: that's part of my issue is at all my fats 343 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 3: and my belly, and I'm trying to see what I 344 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 3: could do there. So I've been doing some of that 345 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 3: stuff and I have to say I feel better. I 346 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: don't necessarily look any better yet, but I'm starting to 347 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 3: feel better, and I think that. 348 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 2: We talk about out well, I mean, you see me 349 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 2: in the square. We're on zoom right now, buddy, anybody 350 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 2: looks good. 351 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 3: You don't have any glasses on, and I'm two by 352 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 3: four in your window, right, anybody could crush this look. 353 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I don't look bad. I just you know, 354 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm starting to feel better. When I 355 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: feel better, I feel like my body loses. 356 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: The weight a little morning, right right, Yeah, yeah, well 357 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: I I got the chubby cheeks. 358 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 3: Well it's okay, you got you know, you're but you're 359 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 3: out there, You're you're hoofing it on the isis. 360 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: They say, I'm hoofing. I'm playing two games a day. 361 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: I'm sweating my I bought a I bought a travel scale. 362 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: Really so I bring this travel scale, but he put. 363 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: A luggage one by accident, so you just hang. 364 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: Yourself out to give myself a wedgie, I'm like, can 365 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: you send a made up I'm stuck. Yeah no, I 366 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: I finally bought a travel scale. It was it fits 367 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: in your travel you know, your your carry on, and uh, 368 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: it's pretty accurate. It's pretty darn good, and it's not 369 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: giving me the results. I want. So I'm a little 370 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: angrily broken. 371 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 2: But it's broken. 372 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, now I know it's broken. Yeah, it has to 373 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: be right. I'm gonna chuck it off this floor. But uh, 374 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: but should we get into this? 375 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 2: Let's get into it, but something to have. 376 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: Some questions here. This is coming from Debbie. Okay, Debbie says, 377 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm fifty six, my significant other is seventy. We've been 378 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: together for fourteen years. We're not married by choice. I 379 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: don't know what to call him. Boyfriends sounds strange at 380 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: our age? Am I overthinking? What should I call my person? Thanks? 381 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 2: Moms? 382 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 3: Okay, boyfriend does that strage? But the way that you 383 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 3: read that question is even more strange. Because you said 384 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 3: we're not married by choice. It sounded like she. 385 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 2: Was forced into a marriage to me. 386 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 3: When you said that they're not married by her choosing, 387 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 3: she means right, they decided they don't want to get married. 388 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 3: I thought you meant that she had to marry him 389 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 3: by like gunpoint. 390 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: Like wife. 391 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you mean? 392 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: So? 393 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you see boyfriend a seventy year old boyfriend. 394 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been she's fifty six, so he's fourteen years 395 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: older than it, and we've been together for fourteen years 396 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: and are not married by choice. 397 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 2: Yep, yep. 398 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 3: So they just wanted to be So that's that was 399 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 3: my mom. So my mom would just date. She always 400 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 3: said I had my husband, I had my family. I 401 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 3: don't need another husband. So she want to be married. 402 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 3: But she had boyfriends. She always called them her man. 403 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 3: She said, you know, this is this is my man. 404 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 3: When she would introduce people around, you know, she wouldn't 405 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 3: want to say friend, she didn't want to say partner, 406 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 3: she wants to say anything of that, and she would 407 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 3: just say my man, you know, because that that just 408 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 3: brings in you one that you're together, you know. 409 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 2: So I would recommend that. I remember my mom. Everybody 410 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: wanted to marry my mom though. All the guys were 411 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 2: trying to lock it down, and she's like, let this 412 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 2: birdy fly. I was locked in this cage for twenty something, 413 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: twenty eight years or whatever. It's time for me to go. 414 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 3: Baby, got you know, my mom was just flying around 415 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 3: town being a hot mom. 416 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 2: So she didn't you know, she was a silver fox 417 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 2: at fifty. She became a fifty four I think she 418 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: was when she became a widow. So she still had 419 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 2: a lot of life left in her you know. 420 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 3: So she was so she was dating all these guys 421 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 3: and they were always trying to lock her up. Man, 422 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 3: And I remember she was always like my mom was 423 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 3: like a play at at fifty four years old. It 424 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 3: was so weird because me and my mom were both 425 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 3: in the dating scene. I'd be dating, she'd be dating. 426 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 2: You know. 427 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 3: It was we'd connected about that stuff because I was 428 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,639 Speaker 3: in my late twenties, early thirties, you know, so it 429 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 3: was it was really interesting to see to have that perspective. 430 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 3: But I would definitely recommend you know, my man, this 431 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 3: is my man, this is you know. 432 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: But if they if they are married, right, I mean 433 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: they aren't married. 434 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 2: She said, they're not married by choice, meaning they don't 435 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: want to get married. They both have been. They're older enough, 436 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 2: they've already been husbands and wives to other people and 437 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: are not married by choice. Okay, yeah, so my mom. 438 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 3: My mom's stance on that was, you know, you get 439 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 3: married to have a family, and she was like, I 440 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 3: already had my family or I already had my husband. 441 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 3: And she also didn't want to have to deal with 442 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 3: She wanted to get buried with my father, so she 443 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 3: didn't want to. 444 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 2: They bought the double plot. 445 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 3: She was already in. She already spent the shuttle, so 446 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 3: she was like, I'm not gonna double dip on this thing. 447 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: A little uncomfortable with the pearly gates. 448 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 2: It's like, hey, hey, hey husband, this is my man. 449 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: Well that that's It's still great though, that she because 450 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 1: I always think that, boy, that what a what a 451 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: weird conundrum that is, But but that she was still 452 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: respected your father, you know, in that aftermath of never 453 00:18:59,040 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: going there again. 454 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, she would always call out his name during sex, 455 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 2: which I thought was very nice about you don't matter 456 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 2: what the guy's name was. She was yelling Joe very 457 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 2: very boy mother. 458 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 3: It was funny we let you just left because a 459 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 3: bunch of old boyfriend would named Joe. Yeah, And I 460 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 3: was like, that was just out of convenience. You didn't 461 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 3: want to call somebody the wrong name, not. 462 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: Even during that. Just because she was older. He liked 463 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 2: to be like, hey, Joe, what time you picking me up? 464 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 2: That would be okay to say she. 465 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: Isn't it cool though, that she was saying your name 466 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 1: during sex? 467 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was my favorite thought. 468 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: To be honest, you're playing Intendo at eleven thirty're like. 469 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 2: Mom, Oh yeah, Mom, yeah Mo. Like the first one, 470 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: you think she's just calling you, like yeah Mom, what 471 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 2: do you need? 472 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: Like doctor Xavier, I feel her calling me in the 473 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: universe somewhere. 474 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: The boys and I, because I used to live my 475 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 2: mom's basement. 476 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 3: We had one of our first scripts and we actually 477 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 3: filmed this see for a pilot that never made anything. 478 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: It was the end of it is I have the 479 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 3: headphones on in my mom's basement and I'm playing video 480 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 3: games as you hear just sex sounds coming through the vent. 481 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, Usually it's the other way around, right, Yeah, 482 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: I know you worry about that, Joe, turn that down. 483 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ were lying the VHS. 484 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 3: If we have a broad dates home at the same time, 485 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 3: the house would be a rock and don't come a knock. 486 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: And stave you. 487 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Oh my god. 488 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. I would say. Man. I would say, man, 489 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 2: that's my answer, final answer. 490 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: There we go. That's it. Yeah, this is coming to 491 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 1: us from Sherry. Why do men? Why do men use 492 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 1: urinals instead of stalls when in public? They don't have 493 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: urinals at home? I always wondered why, Thanks Moms. 494 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 3: Iry I literally this is interesting. 495 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 2: I mean, you take this one first. I have I 496 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 2: have a perspective though. 497 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: Well it's not it comes down of money, right, it's 498 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: breast text. If I put a toilet down and I 499 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: got to throw the the stanchions up and the wall 500 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,919 Speaker 1: it off and then the door, it's like you just 501 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 1: like quadrupled your costs as opposed to just all those stalls. 502 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,239 Speaker 1: And sometimes you have stalls without the little even like 503 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 1: the little thing you. 504 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 2: Know, so the blocker, yeah, the blocker. 505 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. My thing is anytime you and your buddy go 506 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: at the same time and you have the blockers and 507 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: your buddy goes. I was wait for my buddy go first, 508 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 1: and then I tap him like can you move over please? 509 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 1: Like come on, man. But that's one of my dumb 510 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 1: favorite jokes to do. 511 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 3: I kissed you once when you were paying. Remember I 512 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 3: came in the back of your neck. That's one of 513 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 3: my favorite jokes that do. I let you go in 514 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 3: for vincent. 515 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: Breath, and then. 516 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 2: I think anybody whispered, how's it going the urinal? Would 517 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: you have a urinal at home? 518 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 1: Though? 519 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 2: If you could. 520 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: Just be in the toilet and then yeah, yeah, I. 521 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 3: Think the urinal really for the The thing about the 522 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 3: urinal that it does versus the stole is speed. It's turnover, right, 523 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 3: and if you've got people going through quick. I mean 524 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 3: I find urinals actually kind of really disgusting. Have you 525 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 3: ever like stepped up to urinal it's always it's always 526 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 3: damp on the floor, but like and you notice your 527 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: shoes untied. 528 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 2: That is one of the worst things in the world. Yeah, right, 529 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 2: I hate that. 530 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: But I think the urinals just for convenience of time, 531 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: I think it got built. You used to go into 532 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 3: some of these dive bars, I'm sure you did in 533 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 3: college that they just have a trow. Do you ever 534 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 3: have those that's disgusting, disgusting. 535 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 6: Pee trow where people just line up, wang's out, there's 536 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 6: no diviners, everybody's all wasted that peeing on each other. 537 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 6: It's disgusting because I was my worst part about like 538 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 6: not drinking. 539 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: I would always walk into those situation it's sober. 540 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 3: Okay, and there would be guys back there wasted peeing 541 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 3: from six feet back thinking they're hitting it. 542 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: The only redeeming thing about a trough is is when 543 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: you're there and you get your you're peeing ten eleven 544 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: ten m pm because then you're melting nice. Yeah, and 545 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: that was kind of fun. It's kind of fun to 546 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 1: see like that ice cube slowly just melt from your 547 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: body heat. And I know that was my own sometimes. 548 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 3: Ur That's why I peed in drinks at the bottom, 549 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 3: you know that the urinals sometimes they put that. 550 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 2: Little b there's like a bo. There's like a little 551 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 2: be that you can like a target. It doesn't move, 552 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: doesn't do anything. 553 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: They have targets on some of them. Yeah yeah, well 554 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 1: then you get you get the uh the cool bar 555 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: that has like the big wrap around picture of like 556 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 1: fifteen hot girls looking down. 557 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 2: Like ye to get it. Yeah yeah, yeah. So I 558 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 2: think the urinal just is at a convenience and speed 559 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 2: in public. 560 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 3: But I would if I go into a stall and 561 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 3: p a lot too, you know, if they're if they're 562 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 3: you take a dump. 563 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 2: In a stall, I take a dump in a urinal, 564 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 2: which really and. 565 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: That's what I meant in the urinal for the funnies, 566 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 1: I mean. 567 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 2: And you know it is what it is. You know, judge, 568 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: if you want, but the bathrooms you. 569 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: Gotta go, you goetta go. I knew, uh this girl 570 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: I had dated, she had called me like a year 571 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: after I dated her, and she's like, I got to 572 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: talk to you. And I thought, oh, like is this something? Like, 573 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 1: like what's wrong? She's like, you know, I always appreciated 574 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: that you've been a friend since we broke up, But. 575 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: I think I want to break up with somebody. 576 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, okay, And she's like, but is 577 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: this a dumb reason to break up with somebody? I said, well, 578 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: what is it? She said, well, he peas sitting down, 579 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, a hundred percent. I mean, 580 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: unless it's avoiding you, like I don't. I never understood that. 581 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: I know it's a handful of guys that do that 582 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:40,640 Speaker 1: out there, but I don't understand ping sitting down. 583 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,360 Speaker 3: Listen at three am, p if I'm stumbling and bumbling 584 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 3: to the bathroom, I'll sit down. 585 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you why. 586 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 2: I still Yeah, this is the reason, this is the 587 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 2: reason why I will. I'm lazy. I like to sit. 588 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 3: Also, I'm like slight, sleepy eyed, I got the aim 589 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 3: and everything. It takes away a lot out of the equation. 590 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 3: You know, I'll sit there, but it's it's I don't 591 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 3: do it on the regular. I mean people do it 592 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 3: on the regular as a choice. It seems little lot 593 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 3: to me. 594 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 595 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, And are you uh do you do the night 596 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: time pee getting older? 597 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, I'm pinining. I'm pinining all the time. I 598 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 2: wake up and peel all the time. Yeah. 599 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, I poop standing up. That's a choice. Most people 600 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 3: find that interesting. I mean I do a I do too. 601 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 3: I call it a two footer stand up there, Tim, Yeah, 602 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 3: I think it's more fun. Uh No, I I yeah, 603 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 3: I've been doing that for a while though. I just 604 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 3: get up. I don't sleep much though, you know, I'm 605 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: five hours. Yeah, it's kind of nappy thing. 606 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 1: No, I mean, I'm a little crip keeper. I go 607 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,120 Speaker 1: down for the count and that's it. 608 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 2: So and then you wake up and you pee for 609 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 2: forty five minutes. 610 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: I do the Austin Powers. Yeah, I'm at it well, Sherry, 611 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: I think for me, at least, I think it's a 612 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: Joe says turn and burn I say it's a it's 613 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,919 Speaker 1: a financial issue. So probably both of those are this 614 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: someone knows from Bobby. Bobby says, my girlfriend hasn't left 615 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: her basement apartment since Thanksgiving twenty twenty two. I want 616 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 1: to help her with her anxiety, but nothing seems to work. 617 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: I know some people go through moments of social disconnection, 618 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: but this seems too long. How can I get her 619 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 1: out of her literal comfort zone? 620 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough. 621 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: I mean that's that's two years. I mean technically three, 622 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: but two that's all in that she hasn't even left, Like, 623 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: how do you work? I guess she works at home? 624 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, remotely, I guess. 625 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 1: Or but he didn't say why she's not leaving. 626 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 2: Well, he's anxiety anxiety, social anxiety. 627 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: But I know a lot of folks, like I know 628 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: a lot of people you know, friends with in LA 629 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 1: didn't leave their homes for a good year and a 630 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 1: year and a half from COVID, So I don't know 631 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 1: if there's some anxiety due to that, but there's. 632 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: Definitely a tipping point though. 633 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 3: That seems a long time, and it seems like she 634 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 3: may need help with her mental situation for the anxiety 635 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 3: be so crippling that she won't leave the basement for 636 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 3: almost three year. I think that's too long, you know, 637 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 3: I think it's too long. I think anybody would say that, 638 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 3: any rational person would be like, that's too long to 639 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 3: not leave your home. 640 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 2: Of course, especially you know, health. 641 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 3: Reasons and you know, getting out and about and just 642 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 3: getting some fresh air and whatnot. 643 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's tough. 644 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 3: I would probably seek assistance with this one. I mean 645 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 3: that feels like there needs to be a professional pulled 646 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 3: in right for this one. I mean you can't, like 647 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 3: you could, but you can't like chloroform or drag rat 648 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 3: the house and that she wakes up in a field 649 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 3: and be like. 650 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 2: Got yeah, Like that's probably not the right move. Although 651 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna take it off the table. 652 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 1: You got to pull a mister T on the A team, 653 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: right yea milk. And it's so funny that we're at 654 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 1: a point where like we're here to give advice, but 655 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: we're like, you know what, we can only take you 656 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 1: so Far's time to get a professional here. It's it's 657 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 1: called I do wonder what the source of social anxiety 658 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: is if? If it is social, is it like COVID 659 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 1: is a bird flu? Is it? Like there's a multitude 660 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: of reasons people don't leave their home. So I'd love 661 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: to know more about that because if it's like you know, 662 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: you know, it's like it's also like what you're being filtered, right, 663 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 1: Like what are you watching that's keeping you home? Because 664 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 1: I know some people get news from one source left 665 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 1: and slight, and that dictates a lot of a lot 666 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 1: of how. 667 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 3: They It might be trying to block a stimulus or 668 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 3: something like that. Like I had a couple of friends 669 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 3: who like deleted Twitter for a while and whatnot because 670 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 3: things are they felt like there was too much. 671 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 2: But that might that might be a that's actually a 672 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 2: very it's. 673 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 3: A very very good call there, Stevie's very proud of you, Joe. 674 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 1: I can only take you so far. 675 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 2: Though. 676 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: As good as that is, there are times you got 677 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: to call in the pros. 678 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 2: Yes, I would say that, So either here's your options. 679 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 3: Okay, call a professional, buy some chloroform, delete their Twitter. 680 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 2: That's pretty much what we've gotten you here. 681 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: But I also think it's like you are a good 682 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 1: friend to her. There's got to be something she misses, right, 683 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: Like if you said, hey, right, let's go get a 684 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: deep dish from Pizza Hud and have like a nineties night, 685 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: I'd be like, let's have like a yeah, let's get 686 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: an old fashioned deep dish pizza. Like the one thing 687 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: I would leave the house for. What would that be, 688 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: whether it's a concert. 689 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 2: Or something live. Yeah, for sure, some entertainment right tow. 690 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 2: Steve Burne is in town. 691 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 3: I mean you could go to tickets, you know, punch 692 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 3: Up Live live dot live, and you can search for 693 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 3: Steve burn find out where he is a go to 694 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 3: joke ottofficial dot com and see where I'm at. 695 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I'll take you. Here's something. 696 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 3: If you get the this person to come after the show, 697 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 3: we'll come back. 698 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 2: Let him come back and say hello and realize there 699 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 2: you go. There we go. If that's not tantalizing enough, 700 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: don't tickets? Yes, and you know what, I'll throw a 701 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 2: t shirt. Let's see it says your name on it. 702 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: Welcome back to life. There it is your name. 703 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 1: That's right, all right? 704 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: For one more, let's do one more. Here we go. 705 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: Okay, this is coming to us from Maggie. I'm looking 706 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: at getting professional help from my anxiety, but struggle with 707 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: telling my mom and her reaction. I need advice for 708 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: my cool moms on how to approach my real mom. 709 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: Thank you well. I think it's a healthy thing if 710 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: you feel that you have anxiety and then you're addressing 711 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: it with a professional I don't know a parent in 712 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: the world that wouldn't be supportive of it. I would 713 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: think that that's something that any parent could get behind. 714 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: I mean, certainly if my child, you know, twelve, but 715 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: let's say she got a little older and she said, hey, 716 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: I'd like to seek professional help for X, Y Z. 717 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: Of course, what do you need? And I think it's 718 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: so admirable that you know that you have something troubling 719 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: you and the fact that you want to address it 720 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: and you're willing to take the right steps. I mean, 721 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: that's so much better. What a pendulum swing from the 722 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: other one, right of somebody who has anxiety but won't 723 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: address it, or won't confront it, or won't look for help. 724 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 1: You're actually looking for help. So I think, boy, what 725 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: parent in the world wouldn't be happy for you or supportive? 726 00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 727 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 3: I think a lot of it comes from, uh, you know, 728 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 3: it's just happen to tell your parents. Why don't you 729 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 3: want to tell them? 730 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 1: Right? 731 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:04,479 Speaker 2: Look at that? 732 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 3: First of all, do you feel like you're a disappointment 733 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 3: because you have anxiety, You're not able to handle it yourself, 734 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 3: You're afraid of their reaction? I mean that's all You're 735 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 3: putting that all out there on yourself. You're setting up 736 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 3: barriers for no reason, like you don't know that's the outcome, right, 737 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 3: You're I guarantee like there might be a little bit 738 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 3: of oh, why, what's the matter? What can't why can't 739 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 3: I help you? Or some defensiveness as a parent that 740 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 3: they might be like what what can And then that's 741 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 3: going to immediately dissipate when they realize that it's helping you, 742 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 3: because everybody wants their child helped. 743 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 2: So you just gotta get over that first thing. 744 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 3: And I would say a lot of it's probably self 745 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 3: inflicting barriers that you're giving yourself. So I would say, 746 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 3: you know, get over yourself, check yourself for your wreck yourself. 747 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 3: Then on the ones and twos, talk to mom and 748 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 3: pops and be like, here's the delio. 749 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,479 Speaker 2: And I would use that exact sentence because the mom 750 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 2: and dads wanted another dilio. Yeah, but I think that's 751 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 2: the part of it. I think you need to just 752 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 2: get it. Fire them up here we go. Listen you say, mom, 753 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 2: here's the remix Wicked. I got issues. You know, I'm 754 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 2: dealing with desieties and I need some help. Please, that's 755 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 2: what you're gonna do. You're gonna take it to the 756 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 2: mom and the pop. Maybe you'll have it over a 757 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 2: Deep Dish pizza like we talked about earlier. 758 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 3: You know, Steve didn't have lunch yet, clearly because you 759 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: brought up the Deep Dish twice. 760 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I would. 761 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I wish her all the best and I 762 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: think I don't even think she needs any any good 763 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 1: luck because she's doing exactly what you should do. That 764 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: would be like. 765 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 7: And also bottom line, if my dad, mom or dad 766 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 7: or whoever is upset with you about it that you're 767 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 7: taking care of yourself, they could go scratch and by 768 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 7: that they're asked because you got to take care of yourself. 769 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 2: So go ahead and do it. So there's there's no 770 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 2: there's no problem here, there's no yes, no, there's no loose. 771 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 2: It's all win. So good luck to you. Joseph Sebe, 772 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 2: we did it. 773 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: Can you tell me? I love that It's not me, 774 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 1: This is not me going Quad to quad, this is me. 775 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm not that I know. 776 00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 2: Jean Claude Van dam I thought you were stretching out 777 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 2: the next big game. You're stretching out before the next 778 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 2: big game. But well, I love you. 779 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for taking the time to do 780 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 3: this with us via via zoom. 781 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 2: We all love you and appreciate you. Pow yeah, love 782 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 2: you body. All right. So you know, if you got questions, 783 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,080 Speaker 2: we got answers too. 784 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 3: Cool Moms Pod at gmail dot com, follow us on 785 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 3: Instagram at two Cool Moms and to c Stevie live, 786 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 3: you're gonna go. To Punch Up Live yep, and to 787 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 3: see Me live, You're gonna go. 788 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 2: Joe atoficials dot com. All right, guys, love you, Love you, guys.