WEBVTT - Let's Get Real About the 'Roaring '20s'

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, Hey, we're back where black book book bread

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<v Speaker 1>and ambition, ambition, ambition. Hey, Andrea, how you a little girl?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were going to put like a little

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<v Speaker 2>Elvis flavor on it by coming Vegas like my little transition. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I do. What even are you there for?

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<v Speaker 1>So if I haven't budget means to the Vegas I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I know right, I'm in Vegas for my

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<v Speaker 1>besties fiftieth birthday. Happy birthday to you, Cabrown. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's brother doesn't get fifty, but I mean, we're here.

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<v Speaker 1>I always heard that black one crack unless you do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he doesn't. So he looks great. Good for him,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you know, like some people, this is not me,

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<v Speaker 1>but some people are really good like friend people. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not like a bad friend, but literally, he has like

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen twenty people here who flew from all around the

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<v Speaker 1>country to come to Vegas for him for like four days.

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<v Speaker 1>And there are people here, Oh, this is my friend

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<v Speaker 1>group from high school. I'm like, I don't I think

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<v Speaker 1>I know two people from high school for all walks

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<v Speaker 1>of life. Cabrel is somebody who I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>how he keeps up with people. He's such a good

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<v Speaker 1>friend that we all just dropped our busy lives and

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<v Speaker 1>came to Vegas to get down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's probably done that for y'all, right, Yeah, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I remember remember we went to go see Usher.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember that time my sisters and I went to

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<v Speaker 2>Vegas to go see Usher. Cabral was like, oh, because

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<v Speaker 2>his grandmother lives here at the time, and he goes

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<v Speaker 2>he likes a little gamble gamble that he had some

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<v Speaker 2>cops rooms and so he's like, oh, you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for a hotel, my comp rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, oh, So I'm thinking, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll just go and say hey, Cabrel, but no, he

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<v Speaker 1>had to come and check us in. And I remember

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<v Speaker 1>he came and I was like, oh, do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to come to the concert with us? Where you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>you know how long gonn be Here're gonna visit your grandmother.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, oh, no, I'm just going home. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. You flew from Jersey to Vegas to

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<v Speaker 1>check us in to go home. That's Cabra.

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<v Speaker 2>When he says he's one of those points people in

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<v Speaker 2>he I mean, but.

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<v Speaker 1>What he says, I'm having a birthday party. You show

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<v Speaker 1>up and so it's been great. You went to the sphere.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard of the spear Like it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>global Yeah it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I have like YouTube performed there. Yes, sometime in

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<v Speaker 2>was it New Year's Eve or the Grammys or somethings,

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<v Speaker 2>But what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, I guess it's like you could say

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<v Speaker 1>it's a stadium if you will, but it's literally the

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<v Speaker 1>shape of a spear circle and you're in it. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the the it's a multi media experience. The chair moves,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's scent, there's wind, there is all around you.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not just visually in front of you the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 1>Besides everything, you are immersed in the experience. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big Youtwo fan. I mean I think

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<v Speaker 1>they're great or whatever, but maybe I can know one

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<v Speaker 1>song I don't know. So instead we did something called

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<v Speaker 1>Postcard from Earth, which is kind of like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>this love letter to Earth. So you go through the

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<v Speaker 1>African savannah like this, like I remember, like an elephant

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<v Speaker 1>walked over us and you could feel the ground moving

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<v Speaker 1>as the elephant approached you, and you see its lego

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<v Speaker 1>over your head and you're like, oh my.

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<v Speaker 2>God, it's like a four D or like five experience.

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<v Speaker 1>So they like took us into a church and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, bro, did you get sick? Did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like carsick? Some people said it, but I took a

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<v Speaker 1>drama beforeand because I don't play with my most sickness,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, Nami, So I took a drama in

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like weird, Like they took us into

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<v Speaker 1>a church and you're like you feel like you're in it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I smelled incense and I was like, in my

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<v Speaker 1>bugget or do I smell incense? Like it'sid I do?

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<v Speaker 1>And so it was just like it was really amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I mean the tickets are not to I

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<v Speaker 1>think they started like, you know, ninety nine dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>go up to like I don't even know. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>but it was, you know, to me, it's a thing

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<v Speaker 1>to see. And so yeah, I mean, I'm glad to

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<v Speaker 1>be here. My sister Tracy's here with me, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I come back before our big lab.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of like show Girls Live, should we prepare a

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<v Speaker 2>little like should we do like a little choreo, like

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<v Speaker 2>a little.

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<v Speaker 1>We should we already do what be doing a snake?

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<v Speaker 2>Should I bring my like that belly dancing skirt that

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<v Speaker 2>I bought in Turkey eleven years ago and I still

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<v Speaker 2>haven't worn, but I carry it from house to house

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<v Speaker 2>town one year.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really have good rhythm. I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>have better for me. I'd be like, oh lord, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>We would choreo to your It would be like when

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<v Speaker 2>I choreographed when we had our wedding dance done for

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<v Speaker 2>me and Enrique. It was choreographed at his skill level,

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<v Speaker 2>not to his skill got rid of me, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when he was okay, we were all okay, Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really excited. It's sold out, we got the wait list

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<v Speaker 2>is also packed for the so I'm excited. We need

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<v Speaker 2>to squeeze. I might try to trick you into doing

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<v Speaker 2>one bow gain one more live event before.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm just like people are coming. No, I'm very,

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<v Speaker 2>very excited for our live show. You guys will be

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<v Speaker 2>able to You'll be able to tune in even if

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<v Speaker 2>you can't make the show live. We will be posting

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<v Speaker 2>it as an episode at some point in the near future.

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<v Speaker 2>But first we have to get through it, I'm nervous

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<v Speaker 2>and speaking of friends who are traveling cross country for you,

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<v Speaker 2>my friend Chris from Popcorn Finance, he is literally coming

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<v Speaker 2>from California to New York because he is such a

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<v Speaker 2>tech nerd, and I took advantage of his like obsession

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, wouldn't it be fun if you

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<v Speaker 2>figured out how to help us record a live episode?

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<v Speaker 2>And of course you know these techie guys like my

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<v Speaker 2>husband and him, I just knew. I was like, before

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<v Speaker 2>this is all done, he's going to upgrade his entire kit.

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<v Speaker 2>He's going to get like a new lens all and

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<v Speaker 2>yes he has, but Chris is, yes, so generous to

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<v Speaker 2>be doing that for us, And I'm just I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>excited to get to Squeeze and ba fam in person

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<v Speaker 2>and they can give me their hugs, you know, for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>take pictures, Come get these cool stickers that I ordered

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<v Speaker 2>I saw. Yes, No, It's going to be a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it's very apt that you're in Vegas

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<v Speaker 2>right now because I feel like our conversation, especially from

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<v Speaker 2>last week's show, the response to last week's show, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel a little bit of a vulnerability hangover or

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<v Speaker 2>I'll talk about we viral, But if y'all have been

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<v Speaker 2>listening to the show, I haven't not said that it's

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<v Speaker 2>been a difficult time. I've been saying it without saying it.

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<v Speaker 2>But last week, just for some reason, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is going to strike a chord. So

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<v Speaker 2>I I shared that clip of me talking about my

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<v Speaker 2>property taxes and whoa, whoa whoa on TikTok and ig,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't know, I guess it's you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of those times where you when you're vulnerable, you

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<v Speaker 2>talk about your finances, but you're not necessarily someone who

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<v Speaker 2>fits the description of someone who's you know, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>never going to qualify for any sort of income assistance

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<v Speaker 2>or housing, you know, all that kind of thing, and

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<v Speaker 2>I have beautiful children in a home, and like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so privileged in many ways. Sometimes people don't give you

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<v Speaker 2>any kind of grace to struggle, and so I was

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<v Speaker 2>really like, yeah, I was really warmly surprised by the

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<v Speaker 2>response and also sadly just also terrified by the response,

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<v Speaker 2>because it is it is rampant, like the number of

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<v Speaker 2>homeowners especially and people who are earning two income households

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<v Speaker 2>who are just struggling to make and can you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you recap for people who are like, what's you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So last week on the show, we how do

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<v Speaker 2>we even get off on that? So we were talking

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<v Speaker 2>about credit card debt? Right, there was like some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of statistic that came out talking about how American homeowners

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<v Speaker 2>are on the edge and you can tell because they're

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<v Speaker 2>putting groceries and other household essentials on credit cards. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, people, I'm people, I'm me.

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<v Speaker 1>And not.

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<v Speaker 2>And one of the biggest drivers of that is that

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<v Speaker 2>our the cost of housing even for us as you

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<v Speaker 2>think as a homeowner, you purchase a house and you

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<v Speaker 2>get it within your budget, right, you get approved for

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<v Speaker 2>the mortgage and all of that, but you don't think about, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what happens when the property assessment, like the value of

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<v Speaker 2>your home goes up in your town's eyes or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>like whoever's in charge of determining your property value. And

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<v Speaker 2>that is directly tied to taxes and homeowners insurance, and

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<v Speaker 2>it has dramatically increased our cost of housing, especially in

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<v Speaker 2>the last couple of years. So I posted that clip

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<v Speaker 2>on social and there's a lot of people out there

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<v Speaker 2>doing like struggling in the exact same way as an accent.

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<v Speaker 1>And people were shocked. So one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>shocked me because I'm so used to living in the

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<v Speaker 1>expensive behind East Coast that I wasn't shocked by because

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<v Speaker 1>my property taxes when I got my house in Yirk

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<v Speaker 1>was seventy five thousand, and I want to say, seventy

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<v Speaker 1>five thousand. Job I would built that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, we're Mary J.

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<v Speaker 1>Blige, Chris, We're seventy five hundred, right, seven thousand, five

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<v Speaker 1>hundred for the year. And now I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pushing eleven thousand. I bought the house five years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pushing like eleven thousand, maybe even eleven thousand, five hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>That's significant. So when you share that your property taxes

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<v Speaker 1>you know were because how much were they when you

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<v Speaker 1>first moved in? Do you remember how much it was

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<v Speaker 1>monthly or annual?

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<v Speaker 2>Life? You know, I was trying to find our very

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<v Speaker 2>first mortgage statement and I forgot to finish that project.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know our mortgage was twenty five. It was

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five. I have one hundred. I feel like total,

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<v Speaker 2>not the mortgage, but like the total house payment, which

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<v Speaker 2>included property taxes. So I remember the time, I think

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<v Speaker 2>they were around eleven or twelve thousand dollars. Now they

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<v Speaker 2>are certainly above that now it is I haven't figured out.

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<v Speaker 2>So a couple of questions that commenters had about my

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<v Speaker 2>property tax stories, I said, my housing costs is right.

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<v Speaker 2>Costs right now are up to nearly four thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>from so when I met hundred a month from twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five hundred. Yeah. So, and what I meant by that

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<v Speaker 2>was my total housing my total mortgage payment, which includes

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<v Speaker 2>my property tax. So a lot of us homeowners we

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<v Speaker 2>do pay like like I pay a monthly property tax payment,

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<v Speaker 2>but it goes and escrow and then my mortgage lender

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<v Speaker 2>holds that money and then they pay the town once

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<v Speaker 2>a year or whenever it is. So I'm always paying

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<v Speaker 2>toward that, my husband and I so, and that also

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<v Speaker 2>includes homeowners insurance, Okay, I know for sure, up, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and it doesn't include things like my elect bill and

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<v Speaker 2>heating and all that jazz. But yeah, so that's about

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<v Speaker 2>four thousand a month, and then of that about twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five hundred or so is that additional cost on top

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<v Speaker 2>of my mortgage payment. And it's just wild because I

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<v Speaker 2>purchased a house that was well under five hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars at the time, and yes, we did put about

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred thousand dollars of work into it. But the

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<v Speaker 2>property value has just like I said in that last week,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's gone up like fifty or sixty percent,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is out of our control because the town

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<v Speaker 2>or whoever assesses the properties is like, hmm, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there's such a shortage of homes right now in my area,

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<v Speaker 2>and with the pandemic rates were really low. People were like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, moving out of the city, moving in up here,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to create rental properties, like take advantage of this

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<v Speaker 2>short housing market this week out or this really like

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<v Speaker 2>tight housing market. And because of that, not because we've

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<v Speaker 2>added anything to the hop was like the price of

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<v Speaker 2>our house has just gone up. So I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 2>afford this house now if I tried to buy it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm paying taxes on it, you know, Like why

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<v Speaker 2>am I paying taxes on a house that's seven hundred

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<v Speaker 2>thousand when I bought it for less than five hundred,

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<v Speaker 2>And like it's very frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy because in general, like on paper, it would

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<v Speaker 1>say Mandy it's wealthier because your house is worth more.

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<v Speaker 1>Her asset have appreciated, which means it's kind of in value.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like girl Wealthi're weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, and do you And to take advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of that equity, you can take a home equity loan,

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<v Speaker 2>like we talked about, which we might do just to

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<v Speaker 2>like get get rid of some credit card debt.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, yeah, that is an asset. It definitely is

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<v Speaker 1>an asset. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I could end up borrowing up to like seventy percent

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<v Speaker 2>of my equity if I wanted to, But like that's

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<v Speaker 2>another loan. And I guess you could say you could

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<v Speaker 2>take a home you can do a cash out REFI

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<v Speaker 2>we or not a cash out refy. We could do

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<v Speaker 2>a home equity loan and then use that money to

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<v Speaker 2>for as a down payment for another house. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna end up in the same situation, being in

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<v Speaker 2>more house than I can afford. You know, it's crazy to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be richer, but broker at the same time, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>wild and I'm talking like cash poor, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't want people shout out to my friend Baron,

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<v Speaker 2>who's who's living a little some something in my Venmo.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Baron, if you don't start, and he

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<v Speaker 1>did you the grandmother fold into your hand, like when

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<v Speaker 1>you go to yourriba's house, give you a little ten.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, And I the way I kept it though,

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<v Speaker 2>and Rikae's like, maybe give that money back, like he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't need it. I always joke, Baron's my cabro. He's

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<v Speaker 2>he's like single, living his best life. He's the only

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<v Speaker 2>he is the only community of America. Like the only

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<v Speaker 2>people of America that are thriving right now are single,

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<v Speaker 2>uh single, like higher hours right now, childless. He is

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<v Speaker 2>living the dream, you know. And he's gay, so like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they just like then, I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 2>like they split everything. Even when he goes on, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just better. It's just better if only I could

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<v Speaker 2>have been.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, this was life as a gay black man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. It's like a couple of house

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<v Speaker 1>friends are fabby, let's get bro open my I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>oh you also see what I mean, doctor lawyer. Yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, is it a prerequisite? All y'all gotta be

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<v Speaker 1>fine and successful and money go in the gym? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the way I was like, I don't even drink.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I did, girl wouldn't have to touch a bill.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so yeah, I'm keeping your money apparently should I'll

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<v Speaker 2>use it on your birthday dinner and then I still.

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<v Speaker 3>State firm agents are small business owners too, so they

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<v Speaker 3>know how to help you choose personalized policies that fit

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<v Speaker 3>your needs, like a good neighbor. State farm is there?

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<v Speaker 3>Talk to your local agent today.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious, what are your property taxes are in Middle America?

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<v Speaker 1>In Missouri. I was shocked at how many people were

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<v Speaker 1>so shocked by how much your you know, taxes cost

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<v Speaker 1>you monthly because I didn't. I remember distinctly because I'm nosy.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my friends, Rachel, Hey, Rachel, Rachel Wages. She

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<v Speaker 1>purchased like it was like all over black enterprise and

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<v Speaker 1>essence whatever. She had purchased its beautiful ranch and it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the Carolinas.

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<v Speaker 2>Right North Carolina.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so she purchased its beautiful ranch. And I remember

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<v Speaker 1>it was multiple, multiple acres. It wasn't like two or

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<v Speaker 1>three from what I remember, it was at least ten,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe twenty, I don't even know, but it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was land, I mean money. It was her forty acres

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<v Speaker 1>and a mule okay, and so I just remember because

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<v Speaker 1>I was nosy, I want to learn more about the property.

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<v Speaker 1>It looked so beautiful. And I remember vaguely like I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember how the property cost, maybe in the realm

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<v Speaker 1>of like two million dollars something like that. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember looking at the property taxes Mandy and being like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>month at the way they were it was well unt

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<v Speaker 1>to ten thousand. I remember, I was like, it was

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, under ten thousand. Yes, I couldn't. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this can't be this can't be true. How does this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff get figured out? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know someone who's I need The person who commented

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<v Speaker 2>and said I work for a property assessment office somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I need to understand the mess, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and to see some people. They asked me like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that question I got. Or the advice is you should

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<v Speaker 2>appeal it. Well. On the show, I have talked about

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<v Speaker 2>how we have appealed it and been denied twice. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm I would love like if y'all could explain

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<v Speaker 2>how the math works it is left up and also

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<v Speaker 2>where's it going? Because my roads have potholes all over

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<v Speaker 2>the place, and you know, we I'm sure it goes

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<v Speaker 2>into all kinds of services and all of that, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's really tough out here. And to the point back

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<v Speaker 2>to how I originally segued into this, you're in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that was very apt given the whole like

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<v Speaker 2>Roaring twenties element at all, because you should this report

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<v Speaker 2>that's come out, right, so talk about talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit, so and get my flopper heels ready.

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<v Speaker 1>So first of all, I don't I'm not really familiar

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<v Speaker 1>with UBS. What is UBS Camford?

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a huge investment bank, Okay, And these investment

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<v Speaker 2>banks put out you know, they put out reports sometimes monthly, quarterly, annually,

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<v Speaker 2>but Wall Street watches them. So they have economists who

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<v Speaker 2>are like trying to predict the future all the time. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes these reports make headlines like this one has.

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<v Speaker 1>So it basically says that they believe that the US

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<v Speaker 1>economy is heading into what's called the Roaring twenties. So

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<v Speaker 1>the Roaring twenties were like this booming economic time in

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<v Speaker 1>the United States, and they were swiftly and quickly followed

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<v Speaker 1>by the Great Depression. So I don't know, they try

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<v Speaker 1>to say we up and we down, but basically that

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like we're entering into this booming economic time.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I told Mandy was like, I hear you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been hearing about the economy is doing so great,

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<v Speaker 1>but everyday people I've never had my inbox more full

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<v Speaker 1>with people who are literally like the first opening line,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm desperate, Hi, Tiffany, I'm desperate. I'm so scared and afraid.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a nurse, my husband's mechanic. I'm working, but I

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<v Speaker 1>am not making ends meet. I think we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>lose our house. I don't know where we're going to stay.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so I mean, I've never seen it like

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<v Speaker 1>this before, this, even during the pandemic, this visceral kind

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<v Speaker 1>of reaction. And I was like on YouTube the other

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<v Speaker 1>day and I was flooded with all these like a collection.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there's like loud majority of TikTokers who are making

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<v Speaker 1>they're calling it broken tire, this trend where they are

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<v Speaker 1>talking about how they are working, they're not buying excessive things,

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<v Speaker 1>and they are broke and they are tired, and they

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<v Speaker 1>are working two and three and four jobs and still

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<v Speaker 1>can't make ends meet. So I'm like, what, Remember we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this months and months ago. Remember I was like, Mandy,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't me or doesn't seem to be like a disconnect

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<v Speaker 1>between the economy saying it's so strong and the market

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<v Speaker 1>is up and yet every day people never sounded broken.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know why the economy is up and up

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<v Speaker 2>and all that kind of shit? It's because corporations are

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<v Speaker 2>doing great because for whatever reason you can blame. I've

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<v Speaker 2>read things. I think that it's easy for us to

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<v Speaker 2>say that companies are being greedy and raising prices because

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<v Speaker 2>they can all of that that was somewhat going on,

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<v Speaker 2>But it's actually just like a bunch of different factors.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything is more expensive and there are there is a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of money to be made off the back of

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<v Speaker 2>consumers right now. But these reports often don't consider the

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<v Speaker 2>like the average consumer. I think they only consider they

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<v Speaker 2>only care about what happens to American dollars in terms

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<v Speaker 2>of like are we going to be spending and where

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<v Speaker 2>are we going to be spending? And if we're not spending,

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<v Speaker 2>like they love that we're relying on credit cards because

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<v Speaker 2>we're still spending. You know, let's not think about the

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<v Speaker 2>thirty percent interest rate that we're paying on that credit

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<v Speaker 2>card debt, or the fact that you know it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to take us years, if not never, going to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to pay that debt down because we'll have to

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<v Speaker 2>go file bankruptcy and.

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<v Speaker 1>All of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the point is that Americans are still feeling what

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<v Speaker 2>like confident enough that we'll be able to pay off

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<v Speaker 2>our debt that we're using credit cards. And that's where

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<v Speaker 2>I start to get kind of pissed off because one

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<v Speaker 2>of the things I shared last week was that my

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<v Speaker 2>own family has benefited off the backs of this housing

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<v Speaker 2>shortage and they have gotten into this very lucrative business

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<v Speaker 2>as property managers and just like had this huge tail

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<v Speaker 2>for the last decade and are like wealthier than they've

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<v Speaker 2>ever been. And these companies that have bought up these

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<v Speaker 2>homes and are flipping them and renting them to people

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<v Speaker 2>and raising the rent like there's a lot of money

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<v Speaker 2>to be made, but like it's it's only gonna I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like the bows will break when the American consumer

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<v Speaker 2>finally stops, like we have to say no more. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm worried about that because I'm also like I went

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<v Speaker 2>to the grocery store twice this week, each time, it

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<v Speaker 2>was three hundred dollars one trip to Trader Joe's. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even know you could spend three hundred dollars in

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<v Speaker 2>Trader Joe's. Oh my god. And then I went to

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<v Speaker 2>BJ's because there's some stuff you can't get. Another three

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<v Speaker 2>hundred dollars. Okay, fine. One of those was a fifty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars spider that I had to have for my front yard.

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<v Speaker 2>But the point is, like, this credit card spending is

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<v Speaker 2>still happening, and I wonder almost like are we are

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<v Speaker 2>we just just is this Roaring twenties thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it willful?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it like optimism? But is it like delusional optimism?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the least optimistic because I'm looking like, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>so the Roaring twenties is I'm on Britannica. Remember the

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<v Speaker 1>Encyclopedias you might be to you, yeah, oh yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>girl we had the book Encyclopedia. Encyclopedia used to come

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<v Speaker 1>to the house and you would literally they would tell

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<v Speaker 1>you a set child. That's what forty five looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>But we we based mind, We had compidence, and Britannica

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<v Speaker 1>was like if you was gotten a little bit of money,

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<v Speaker 1>with a little fancy then we had to go or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So apparently they're online now because don't nobody buy books.

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<v Speaker 1>So the Roaring twenties is a term for the nineteen twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>especially within the United States and other Western countries, where

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<v Speaker 1>the deck that was characterized by economic prosperity, rapid social

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<v Speaker 1>and cultural change, and the mood of exuberant optimism. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, maybe there's economic prosperity to your point, not

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<v Speaker 1>for the average person but for the for these corporations,

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<v Speaker 1>but there is not a mood of exuberant optimism. That

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<v Speaker 1>part is largely gone. And it's like so the question

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<v Speaker 1>I also asked this like this is also from Britannical, like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>how did the Roaring twenties kind of like lead to

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<v Speaker 1>the Great Depression? And so one of the things is

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<v Speaker 1>that there was the stock market crash, of that huge

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<v Speaker 1>stock market crash where you hear about people jumping from

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<v Speaker 1>the windows killing themselves in nineteen twenty nine. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was like literally the Roaring twenties was one decade and

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<v Speaker 1>that I guess what worries me is that were one where.

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<v Speaker 3>The triggered that crash?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it the fact that American consumers couldn't afford anything anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see it said. Uh So, from nineteen twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nine to nineteen thirty nine, the United States experienced one

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<v Speaker 1>of the harshest economic downturns in the history of the country,

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<v Speaker 1>initiated by the stock market craft, a decade that was

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<v Speaker 1>marked by high unemployment rates, bank failures. Workers lost jobs

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<v Speaker 1>along with their homes and possessions. It was honestly, the

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<v Speaker 1>value of currency declined, the agricultural market declined. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really sure. And I remember so this is

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<v Speaker 1>when Franklin the down Nor Roosevelt was president, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever ever heard of the New Deal, it was

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<v Speaker 1>this legislation, this large use piece of legislation that he

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<v Speaker 1>passed to promote recovery and relief. So I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>was the stock market that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the beginning of like social security and welfare?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So there was also like this stock market, like

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people doing like risky stock trades, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>buying stocks on margin, not being able to afford it,

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<v Speaker 2>not being able to afford but they had purchased and

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<v Speaker 2>having so much debt.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested, I was spending a lot. It looks like

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<v Speaker 1>consumer spending in the twenties had reached an all time

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<v Speaker 1>high in the United States. American companies were mass producing

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<v Speaker 1>goods and consumers were buying technology. Like so it was

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<v Speaker 1>like this and we've seen this, like I think the pandemic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everybody had all this money because we were

0:24:20.920 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>flushed with money people like literally the government gave us money.

0:24:23.880 --> 0:24:25.400
<v Speaker 1>And then we didn't have to spend as much because

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<v Speaker 1>we're not driving, you not have to get your hair done.

0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:30.520
<v Speaker 1>And so people were and I don't know if you saw,

0:24:30.640 --> 0:24:32.879
<v Speaker 1>there was this big, huge time of like everybody was

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<v Speaker 1>doing these halls, like you know, all the influencer Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see it merely as much like look at

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<v Speaker 1>all the stuff I've bought. Honestly, the luxury markets skyrocketed.

0:24:42.560 --> 0:24:44.360
<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm like obsessed with watching like people buy

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<v Speaker 1>or mis bag for like thirty thousand dollars and be

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<v Speaker 1>like I did not know that. Yeah, I had this

0:24:48.520 --> 0:24:51.879
<v Speaker 1>weird obsession on YouTube. My sister's like why, I like,

0:24:51.960 --> 0:24:54.280
<v Speaker 1>you can watch them buy them? No, No, I like

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<v Speaker 1>to watch I guess, like these many documentaries on luxury.

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<v Speaker 1>So because I'm trying to wrap my mind around what

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<v Speaker 1>gets someone to buy a bag for ten twenty thirty

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<v Speaker 1>forty one hundred thousand dollars, and there was this huge

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<v Speaker 1>uptick of regular average people. I'm talking about nurses, not

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:14.159
<v Speaker 1>the woman who's making a million dollars a year, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>buying her mess bag, but like a nurse, a teacher

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<v Speaker 1>with a ten twenty thirty thousand dollars bag. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I just like to watch these many documentaries. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was that mental shift? And people were flushed with

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<v Speaker 1>money during the pandemic, they had the excess, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're online and then you're seeing all the influence showing

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<v Speaker 1>off their luxury goods, and even the luxury market is

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<v Speaker 1>is really in a steep decline because people don't have it.

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 1>So there was this over consumption post pandemic that we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing a steep decline. Remember the girls were quitting and

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 1>they could we couldn't figure out where they were working.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, remember there was like that quid economy

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<v Speaker 1>at one point wherever we were sitting there, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, but where are they're going to work?

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 1>Because don't they have to work? And now everyone's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of back like.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, hey, well you had the stimulus truck. You had,

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<v Speaker 2>the stimulus trucks, you had, you there was just there

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<v Speaker 2>was this. I think, well, yeah, for sure, I'm sure

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:08.280
<v Speaker 2>that the data will show that like the little cash reserves,

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:10.920
<v Speaker 2>the cash reserves we were able to build up during

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:15.320
<v Speaker 2>the pandemic years have dwindled and gone. And I'm at

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<v Speaker 2>the point where I'm like, Okay, I don't want to

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 2>be tamped into my investments. Cash money is what we need, honey.

0:26:22.640 --> 0:26:24.439
<v Speaker 2>But this whole Roaring twenties, I just find it very

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<v Speaker 2>chilling because I mean, from what I'm reading, like deflation

0:26:28.560 --> 0:26:30.680
<v Speaker 2>was another cause of that, which is when prices go down,

0:26:30.800 --> 0:26:33.480
<v Speaker 2>which is like, aren't we trying to actively create deflation

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:38.680
<v Speaker 2>right now by the Fed lowering rates? I saw, you

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<v Speaker 2>know one thing that we need to talk about really quick,

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<v Speaker 2>which is my biggest pet peeve. In addition to property

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<v Speaker 2>tax inflation, shrink flation. I know we've talked about it

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:51.439
<v Speaker 2>before because when I two, you or shrink flanc stion.

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 2>So shrink flation is I literally a trader Joe's Remember

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<v Speaker 2>I told you about my three hundred dollars bill. I

0:26:56.320 --> 0:26:59.320
<v Speaker 2>was just gobsmacked. I bought these like little apple sauce

0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 2>pouches for the and there used to be I swear

0:27:02.359 --> 0:27:04.440
<v Speaker 2>to god, they were five in a box before for

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:07.159
<v Speaker 2>like three bucks. Now there's four, and I'm like, this

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:11.119
<v Speaker 2>is way more expense. I mean that makes a big difference. Yes, Actually,

0:27:11.119 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 2>at the rate these kids are eating apple sauce, I'm like,

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:15.680
<v Speaker 2>I need to fucking plant an apple tree. And like

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 2>certain matching this up myself. But like the you know,

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 2>everything is smaller and smaller packaging, but the price is

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<v Speaker 2>gone up. And this is not a new phenomenon. But

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:27.520
<v Speaker 2>something that I saw is that Senator A Lizzie Warren,

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<v Speaker 2>who we love, the godmother of the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau.

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:37.240
<v Speaker 2>I would say conservatives like biggest enemy, maybe after AOC

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:41.639
<v Speaker 2>and the other queens, but Elizabeth Warren, uh, she is

0:27:41.760 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 2>right now creating legislation that is gonna hopefully stop the

0:27:46.280 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 2>biggest food and beverage companies from engaging in shrink flation.

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 2>So they have accused General Mills, Coca Cola, Pepsi Coo

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<v Speaker 2>of profiteering through shrinkflation and by dodging taxes. So General

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:02.920
<v Speaker 2>Mills and didn't get their ship because they were reducing

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<v Speaker 2>the size of cereal boxes, you know, but still charging

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<v Speaker 2>the same price, and co has do on the same thing,

0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 2>all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>You opened up a bag of chips. I remember when

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:16.639
<v Speaker 1>I did the when I went to the State of

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:20.359
<v Speaker 1>the Union. That was something that the President Biden mentioned

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 1>about strengthfulation. Because you opened up a bag of chips,

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 1>you're like, I don't remember being I remember being ten chips.

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:29.879
<v Speaker 1>Now it's five. But also a lot of these corporations

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<v Speaker 1>there's a level of corporate greed that is unimaginable. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just saw, uh, there was a financial infos for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like. I forget her name, but she shared

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 1>how there's now a class action suit that you can

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 1>like apply to get money for if in the last

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:50.120
<v Speaker 1>seventeen years you have been charged atm fees by like

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 1>let's just say, you know, you banked with I don't

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:54.080
<v Speaker 1>know Wells Fargo and you went to Bank of America

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.080
<v Speaker 1>or whatever because there was not one nearby, and you

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>got you know, you got charged the fees, but you

0:28:58.040 --> 0:29:00.840
<v Speaker 1>know you get double feed. Basically America says, we don't

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:02.840
<v Speaker 1>know your girl, here's your three dollar fee, and then

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Wells Fargo said, you went to somebody else, here's your

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 1>other fee. And basically they they found that banks were

0:29:09.280 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>colluding to keep those fees high, which is it breaks

0:29:12.600 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 1>those antitrust laws that you're not allowed to do that.

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>And so as a result, you know, they basically saying

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:20.520
<v Speaker 1>they owe you these fees back and you can, you know,

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>join this class action to do your googles to find

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>out like where to apply. But I thought the level

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 1>of corporate greed it's just unmatched. And what's happening, which

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm guessing, I wonder, is the collapse of civilization?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that your aim?

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<v Speaker 1>Because so what happened, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 2>That far ahead to quarter? That's that's what they care about,

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 2>from what can we do to maximize profits in this

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:49.080
<v Speaker 2>quarter so that Wall Street will still love us, our

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 2>stock price will stay high, and our CEOs can get

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:53.280
<v Speaker 2>multimillion dollar windfalls.

0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:56.120
<v Speaker 1>And then some people are literally out on the street

0:29:56.240 --> 0:30:00.360
<v Speaker 1>like that is that we have seen civilizations collapse again

0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 1>and again and again, because it's like you don't, I mean,

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I understand the making of money, but unfettered greed is

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>pushing everyday people to the very edge and there would

0:30:12.200 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>be nobody left to buy your bullshit? Then what then?

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 1>What it's just really it's a scary time that we're

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:22.000
<v Speaker 1>living in. Because I am hearing the chorus in a

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 1>way that I've not heard before. I was just like,

0:30:25.280 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 1>it started with my friends, you know, just regular every

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 1>day friends who have good jobs, like just saying things

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 1>like oh girl, that's a little tough, and you're like, oh,

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>she never said that before. Then a friend who never

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:35.320
<v Speaker 1>asked me to borrow money and I've known since middle

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.960
<v Speaker 1>school not a quarter at lunchtime asked for like rent money,

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, that's odd. She doesn't like you know.

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>Of course I gave it to her because this is

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>not someone She's not financially responsible, and I thought, huh,

0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.360
<v Speaker 1>that's odd. And then you share and I'm like, hm, hm,

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:52.240
<v Speaker 1>that's odd. And then all of a sudden, my inbox

0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 1>every day, I'm like, there's there is mark my words.

0:30:57.200 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>We are and less and I mean they're not gonna

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>shift it, but we are reading toward a very dangerous

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 1>path of yes, that there is more money now than ever.

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 1>And on paper, it might look like you have more

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 1>money because maybe the things you own are worth more,

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:12.960
<v Speaker 1>but they're all still costing you more.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to do a brand ambition survey forget the

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 2>investment banks. I want to know what BA fam is

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 2>going through and the comments on IG I just it

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 2>just won't do. So when this episode airs, there's going

0:31:24.760 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 2>to be a survey up at Brandambisson podcast dot com.

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 2>It'll be like three to five questions, and we want

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:32.440
<v Speaker 2>to know what's happening because I don't think that I

0:31:32.480 --> 0:31:34.760
<v Speaker 2>don't think for a second that Wall Street really cares

0:31:34.800 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 2>what's happening for people of color in general, even though

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:40.480
<v Speaker 2>we make such a huge component of the you know,

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 2>of the economy, and we contribute so much spending to

0:31:45.000 --> 0:31:47.000
<v Speaker 2>all these different industries. But like, I want to know

0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 2>what BA fam is going through and what you guys want.

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm really excited to have later this month, we're going

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.040
<v Speaker 2>to have on two incredible guests. So one of them

0:31:54.120 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 2>is Dasha Broke, Black Girl, Dasha Kennedy, and she's working

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 2>with what is a Debt dot org on exactly this issue.

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:03.480
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like I.

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:05.880
<v Speaker 2>Can't wait to ask. I'm like, what advice do y'all have?

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 2>Like what instead of like, I think the best things

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:10.880
<v Speaker 2>that we need right now are just like, how can

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 2>we help people, you know, like get through their debt sooner?

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 2>Rather than later, and like tackle it. I'm not just

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying I want to be y'all's guinea pig

0:32:22.640 --> 0:32:24.800
<v Speaker 2>quite yet. I don't know about all of that, but

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 2>I do feel like some more transparency, Like let's start

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 2>saying it out loud, Like we are in a lot

0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:33.960
<v Speaker 2>of debt. It is very stressful. We are also, you know,

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 2>trying to create families, businesses, have a you know, still

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 2>be good citizens and like vote and be good daughters

0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:44.120
<v Speaker 2>and husbands and wives and sisters and friends and neighbors.

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:46.160
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, oh my god, tell me why I

0:32:46.240 --> 0:32:47.920
<v Speaker 2>became the class parent of my son's class.

0:32:48.240 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking so much. I just sound like, is this

0:32:54.920 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>the struggle? I don't even have like these all five babies? Yeah,

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I just got one one grown baby.

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:06.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I'm checking now. So we have we have

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Dasha's schedule to come on on November fourth, which is

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 2>election week. Okay, so election week, come to the podcast

0:33:14.600 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 2>that Wednesday. We're gonna air that episode with Dasha on

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 2>like what is happening in the United States of debt

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:22.280
<v Speaker 2>and how we can start getting out of it before

0:33:23.000 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 2>before like the ship hits a fan like you said,

0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 2>kareening toward whatever great expression you use. That was very colorful.

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:34.120
<v Speaker 2>We're kreening somewhere. Kareening is never good. I've never heard

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:35.959
<v Speaker 2>the word kreening used in a positive light.

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:39.040
<v Speaker 1>No, we're not. I can feel there's an underswell of

0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>we are not. The number one thing that I saw,

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 1>like under the you know, our viral post of Mandy's

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 1>being so vulnerable, is that people were saying, we are

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>not okay, and maybe that's the name of the podcast.

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 1>We are not okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and let's stop pretending like we are, because pretending

0:33:54.680 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 2>like I mean, it's just a classic thing. If we

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 2>put our head in the sand and we ignore what's

0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:01.880
<v Speaker 2>happening to get by, like in a way, we're just

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 2>burying ourselves even deeper. And there's no way we're going

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 2>to get out of this pickle unless we start talking

0:34:08.160 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 2>about it. So stay tuned. I might be sharing my

0:34:11.680 --> 0:34:15.399
<v Speaker 2>home equity loan line of credit journey because I think

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:17.640
<v Speaker 2>we've reached that point. I think we're pretty okay with

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 2>this home equity lineup credit. I'm nervous about it, but

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:25.040
<v Speaker 2>also I'm happy to have the option and I will

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 2>be Yeah, we'll see, I'll see if husband's down for me.

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Just listen. If you wanted to stop me, maybe he.

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Should listen to the Shaws. But well he'd just if

0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 2>y'all don't tell him what I'm talking about, maybe he

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<v Speaker 2>won't and it'll be fine, and I'll share my cash

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 2>app just in case.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I never will do that. I will never

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:50.400
<v Speaker 1>do that. Okay, should we take a break, Yes, we

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.319
<v Speaker 1>should take a break. I pay some damn bill suit

0:34:56.640 --> 0:35:04.440
<v Speaker 1>a minute, and now it's time to boost and break

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:07.840
<v Speaker 1>and boost up and break, boost up? Break? Is you

0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 1>go on?

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Boost?

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Is you going break? What you're gonna do, what you're

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:20.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna say? La, I'm gonna actually break. So I don't

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 1>know if you have something cute, So if you want

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:24.919
<v Speaker 1>to get last, you're gonna boost, so maybe you should

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 1>go last. Like sometimes I don't like to end on

0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>a break because I'm like, look, sorry saying you out

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 1>into the world with darkness by so whatever, I'm going

0:35:32.200 --> 0:35:35.759
<v Speaker 1>to the slots. BI, No, I don't even place.

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 2>You know me?

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>If anybody knows me, you know, I'm not giving not

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 1>one red set to these people downstairs. So I am

0:35:42.160 --> 0:35:45.759
<v Speaker 1>going to do a brown break, which I haven't done

0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 1>in a while. So yesterday I told myself, you know whatself,

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 1>you haven't taken like a deep walk in a while,

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 1>go ahead and take a walk. And so we're right

0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:55.640
<v Speaker 1>on the strip. I'm staying at I'll be gone by

0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:57.640
<v Speaker 1>the time. You know, guys, I'm saying, like La Fountain Blue,

0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 1>it's a new it's only one year old hotel. Yeah,

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 1>so I don't know, I've.

0:36:02.760 --> 0:36:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Heard Yeah, maybe that location is new.

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I feel like it's in Miami too. I feel

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 1>like I've heard about it on my knee. And so

0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm gonna take a walk on the Strip

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:16.440
<v Speaker 1>and I turned right instead of left. Left is like

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:18.160
<v Speaker 1>the you know, like the part of the strip that

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I guess you would know and like Las Vegas is

0:36:21.080 --> 0:36:26.080
<v Speaker 1>known for its homeless and unhoused population. And it took

0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:27.840
<v Speaker 1>me a minute for my new works Bidy sentence to

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 1>pick up. I was like, Molly, you and danger girl.

0:36:31.440 --> 0:36:34.759
<v Speaker 1>So I'm walking with my headphones and then I had

0:36:34.800 --> 0:36:37.239
<v Speaker 1>to tack down the headphone and then I you know,

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 1>so before I left the house, I'm pretty I would

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:42.320
<v Speaker 1>have to say I have pretty strong intuition. Before I

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>left the the the hotel, some things said bring cash

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 1>with you. And I was like why, and it was like,

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 1>just bring cash, and I said okay. So I brought

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:54.239
<v Speaker 1>my room key, I put cash in one pocket, zipped

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 1>it up because I have like these sorts of haad

0:36:55.760 --> 0:36:58.480
<v Speaker 1>zips on them are zippers. And so I went for

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 1>a walk and I started walking, walk and walking, and

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>then like my spoty sensus, you know, be like, I

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:05.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know, half a mile a mile in I was like,

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should turn back. And I knew

0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 1>I should because there was a black woman rumen behind me,

0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:11.319
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't hear her. And when she got close,

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:12.959
<v Speaker 1>I jumped and she's a girl. It's gonna be okay.

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.719
<v Speaker 1>You might want to spin it around. And I was

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 1>like thanks this and so I okay, yes, And I

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:21.359
<v Speaker 1>saw a number of you know, unhoused folks that also

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't look well. They looked like mentally unwell as well.

0:37:25.120 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh she was telling you like, this is not where

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you want to be going back it up and so

0:37:30.040 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I just said okay, and I just you know, like,

0:37:35.400 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>so I took my headphones off altogether. Not I mean not.

0:37:37.760 --> 0:37:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I live in New York, so unhoused people it's not

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:41.880
<v Speaker 1>new but I don't know. For some reason, it just

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 1>really struck me. There was an older woman in particular,

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>she looked maybe sixties, early seventies, and she was tacking

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 1>through the trash in a way that broke my heart

0:37:50.600 --> 0:37:53.320
<v Speaker 1>because she was taking like leftover drinks and making a

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:59.959
<v Speaker 1>combined drink. And I just thought to myself, what it seem?

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 1>So literally I brought tears to my eyes because I thought,

0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:08.040
<v Speaker 1>this woman is drinking god knows what, you know, like

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>and she was digging through the trees, and I didn't

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:12.160
<v Speaker 1>want to like scare her, so I just, you know,

0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I walked up to her gingerly, and I realized why

0:38:14.680 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 1>the intuition said bring money, and I said excuse me,

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:18.959
<v Speaker 1>and she kind of jumped and I said, I'm so sorry,

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 1>but can I give you something? And she said sure.

0:38:21.440 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>And so it was like, I have a fifty dollar

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:25.000
<v Speaker 1>bill with me and I gave a tour. She didn't

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 1>really look at it at first, and she just said

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:28.200
<v Speaker 1>thank you, kind of not looking at me in the eye.

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>And I think as I started to walk away, I

0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 1>think I guess she looked down and she said, oh

0:38:31.200 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 1>my goodness, and she kind of came up to me

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:34.839
<v Speaker 1>and said thank you so much, thank you so much,

0:38:34.920 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>And I said, no problem, girl, because everyone knows I'm

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:40.160
<v Speaker 1>a baby. It was a five steps in and I'm

0:38:40.320 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>burst into tears because I felt so and I literally so,

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like whatever higher power y'all believe in,

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:51.920
<v Speaker 1>but formally I call it God. Informally I call it love. Right.

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:53.839
<v Speaker 1>That's why if I think of like what higher power

0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:56.600
<v Speaker 1>means to me, it's just this feeling of love. Right.

0:38:56.719 --> 0:39:01.400
<v Speaker 1>And so I was like talking to the internal external

0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 1>higher power, was like, literally, I said, why would you

0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 1>allow her to have so little when someone like me

0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 1>has so much? This is what I asked of the

0:39:08.800 --> 0:39:11.560
<v Speaker 1>higher power. And you know what the higher power said

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 1>back to me, because God be talking back to me.

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 1>It said, why would you? And I said, oh, not

0:39:17.560 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 1>reading me for filth, because the sense was, girl, I

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:26.440
<v Speaker 1>have given enough, y'all hoarding it, because why does that

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:31.880
<v Speaker 1>lady not have enough? You know? And I thought it's true,

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:35.480
<v Speaker 1>like I certainly like I'm you know, I would call

0:39:35.520 --> 0:39:39.879
<v Speaker 1>myself a generous person, I guess. But I thought there's

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>more that I could do because how many unhoused people

0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>live right in Newark where I live? And am I

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:50.319
<v Speaker 1>doing anything like systematically to help. You know, there are

0:39:50.320 --> 0:39:52.440
<v Speaker 1>other organizations I give to and I don'nate here and

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.640
<v Speaker 1>did like you know, I'm always clearing like teachers be

0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 1>hitting me in my inbox. They have their Amazon lists

0:39:56.560 --> 0:39:58.279
<v Speaker 1>for the classroom or I'm the queen the clearing all

0:39:58.320 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>account so that I'm not new to the you know,

0:40:00.440 --> 0:40:03.439
<v Speaker 1>I like, but I was just like Tiffany, what would

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:06.400
<v Speaker 1>a thousand or fifteen hundred dollars do a month in

0:40:06.560 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>your city? If you I mean, I know three restaurant

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.279
<v Speaker 1>tours personally that I can say, hey, girl, if I

0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 1>gave you fifteen hundred dollars once a month, how many

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>people could you feed? You know, when you're closed, you know,

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 1>like how much food could I buy at cost? And

0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:22.280
<v Speaker 1>you you know, we it's like, oh, every first Tuesday,

0:40:22.320 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>people know they can come here, like I know one

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:26.840
<v Speaker 1>restaurant tour in particular. Her name is Adena. She is

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:30.800
<v Speaker 1>a child of like War. She came to the United States.

0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:33.160
<v Speaker 1>She owns the ie Hop, which is I think it's

0:40:33.239 --> 0:40:35.360
<v Speaker 1>like the number one most successful I hop in the

0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:38.760
<v Speaker 1>Eastern Seaboard. She also owns this place called like Beijon

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 1>or Vegan Newark or whatever. She owns like that. I

0:40:41.760 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 1>think two ie hops anyway, very successful young and I

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:48.919
<v Speaker 1>know for a fact that Adida does like free food

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:51.239
<v Speaker 1>for kids. I know that she has like times where

0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:54.359
<v Speaker 1>she feeds on house. What would it take if I said, girl,

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.239
<v Speaker 1>here's an extra fifteen hundred two thousand dollars from me

0:40:57.680 --> 0:40:59.880
<v Speaker 1>to like how many additional people? And what if I

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:01.759
<v Speaker 1>went through? So I just started thinking about it. What

0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:03.880
<v Speaker 1>if I went through the United Way and said if

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I gave it through you and then allow you know,

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:11.160
<v Speaker 1>and asking that My only ask is that at least

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:13.440
<v Speaker 1>ninety percent of it went directly to the restaurant to

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:15.879
<v Speaker 1>do the good work, because then it will allow maybe

0:41:16.000 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>corporate entities because credentials in Newark, Panasonic is in Newark,

0:41:19.880 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 1>to then also give in a way that like you

0:41:23.600 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 1>know that they're gonna want to give, which is through

0:41:25.200 --> 0:41:28.319
<v Speaker 1>like a nonprofit entity but like you know, and making

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:30.400
<v Speaker 1>it a thing. And I call my friend Denise, and

0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Denise's like, oh, if it's if it's like you know,

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>every first Sunday, I can bring clothes that day. And

0:41:36.120 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, women in shelters often don't have sanitary for

0:41:39.320 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 1>their mental cycles. Like so even if you don't have

0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:43.600
<v Speaker 1>money to give, You're like I can drop off pads,

0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I can drop off socks, I can things that people

0:41:45.680 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 1>don't normally have access to. And so I just thought,

0:41:48.000 --> 0:41:50.160
<v Speaker 1>because if I'm being honest, the place where I am

0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:53.359
<v Speaker 1>now fifteen hundred dollars a month, would it's not going

0:41:53.440 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>to break anything that's happening here, you know. And so

0:41:56.680 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like instead of saying like why would you allow

0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>this thing to happen, it's like tivity, why would you?

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:02.520
<v Speaker 1>And so I just committed to that that, Like I

0:42:02.640 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm going to start off at like fifteen

0:42:04.160 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars a month, and I'm just simple and soon

0:42:07.320 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying not to overthink it. You know, certainly get great.

0:42:10.160 --> 0:42:14.479
<v Speaker 2>The food bank, the there's like food banks are great

0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:16.720
<v Speaker 2>because I think there's also been a rise in people

0:42:16.880 --> 0:42:20.719
<v Speaker 2>just going to food banks, and there's a there's We

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:23.800
<v Speaker 2>have an organization is called Feeding Westchester that I do

0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:28.560
<v Speaker 2>my monthly tithe contribution to. Okay, and you'll see them

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:31.160
<v Speaker 2>set up and the lines are always wrapped around the block. Okay.

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:34.640
<v Speaker 2>So that's yeah, I think that's wonderful and I think

0:42:34.680 --> 0:42:36.640
<v Speaker 2>that's all we really that's one of the things that

0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:39.000
<v Speaker 2>you can do. I think that there's there's so many

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:42.080
<v Speaker 2>different levels of attack when it comes to these like

0:42:42.200 --> 0:42:47.879
<v Speaker 2>systemic chronic issues, yeah, poverty, hunger, you know, you could

0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:51.440
<v Speaker 2>also tie in the opioid crisis with that to the

0:42:51.719 --> 0:42:54.600
<v Speaker 2>rising cost of housing. It's like all of these issues

0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:58.960
<v Speaker 2>are interconnected and they require such a multi pronged approach

0:42:59.040 --> 0:43:02.040
<v Speaker 2>to and it's like taking off the pressure from yourself

0:43:02.120 --> 0:43:05.160
<v Speaker 2>to be the one to fix it and just standing yeah,

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.640
<v Speaker 2>just understanding that we all have a role to play,

0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 2>voting like the officials legislations saying, you know.

0:43:11.800 --> 0:43:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Just be like, you know what, I'm going to carry

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:15.759
<v Speaker 1>pats with me. And then because sometimes you know, you

0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:18.120
<v Speaker 1>feel so overwhelmedcause you're like what about and then and

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 1>then it's like, okay, okay, I cannot fix all the

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:24.319
<v Speaker 1>world's ills, but I could, to your point, I could

0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:26.800
<v Speaker 1>donate fifteen hundred dollars to the food bank, you know,

0:43:27.000 --> 0:43:29.719
<v Speaker 1>and then I could make it something where I'm just like,

0:43:29.800 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 1>cause one of the things I used to do stuff

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 1>like this all the time that I would like, you know,

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:37.320
<v Speaker 1>if somebody needed help or if there was an organization forgiving,

0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:40.319
<v Speaker 1>I would post about it regularly. Because what I found

0:43:40.400 --> 0:43:42.359
<v Speaker 1>is that people actually want to do good works. They

0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:43.840
<v Speaker 1>just don't want to do the work to find the

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:45.640
<v Speaker 1>good works because they're like, I don't have time to

0:43:45.680 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 1>figure out what's legitimate. And so if there's good works

0:43:48.480 --> 0:43:51.319
<v Speaker 1>that I know where it actually helps people, I can say, hey,

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:54.279
<v Speaker 1>so you know, I'm doing my monthly donation, and I

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:56.880
<v Speaker 1>see for myself because I go there physically that this

0:43:57.120 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 1>is the benefit of that. If you're looking for a place,

0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:02.840
<v Speaker 1>here's a legitimate one. Sometimes just even sharing that. So

0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:04.720
<v Speaker 1>I just because when I tell you it took everything,

0:44:04.760 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, timany, why are you crying? You had

0:44:06.120 --> 0:44:07.840
<v Speaker 1>to get do the grass. I'm just but I was

0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.759
<v Speaker 1>just like I had to really like get yourself together

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 1>because it just felt sough. It just nobody should live

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:16.600
<v Speaker 1>like that. You know, we're not animals. I mean we are,

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:19.080
<v Speaker 1>but you know what I mean, like you know that,

0:44:19.280 --> 0:44:22.200
<v Speaker 1>like this is someone's daughter at the end of the day.

0:44:23.040 --> 0:44:25.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, she might even be somebody's mother, she might

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:27.600
<v Speaker 1>be somebody's aunt. I think about it. I used to

0:44:27.640 --> 0:44:28.920
<v Speaker 1>think about it all the time when I used to

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:32.279
<v Speaker 1>walk my babies when I taught preschool, because they lived

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 1>in a neighborhood where that was quite common to see afflicted,

0:44:36.040 --> 0:44:39.600
<v Speaker 1>drug addicted unhoused. And I used to think to myself

0:44:39.600 --> 0:44:41.400
<v Speaker 1>as I was walking my babies, like I pray this,

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:43.640
<v Speaker 1>this is never going to be their future because at

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:46.920
<v Speaker 1>some point they were somebody's babies, you know, they were

0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:49.719
<v Speaker 1>somebody's three year old, maybe in preschool. How does it

0:44:49.800 --> 0:44:52.120
<v Speaker 1>turn into this? I don't know, As I used to

0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:53.320
<v Speaker 1>just it just may used to make me want to

0:44:53.360 --> 0:44:56.480
<v Speaker 1>love them, on them as much as possible, to hopefully

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.920
<v Speaker 1>see them through, you know, like whatever life might bring.

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.560
<v Speaker 1>And so I just said, Okay, you can't fix everything,

0:45:02.640 --> 0:45:04.440
<v Speaker 1>but this is what you can do, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to get analysis paralysis and so yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you are listening to this and you're like, oh, actually, Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, here's a you know, maybe here's someone who

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<v Speaker 1>works for food bank or somebody who I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that at least ninety percent of like

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<v Speaker 1>what I give goes directly to be of service. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've just wanted to make sure. And to me, the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that's pushing me is like helping people have access

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<v Speaker 1>to food. So I don't know, so if there's like

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<v Speaker 1>an even better way. I'm open to it, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't you know, I'm not stuck in one particular way.

0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 1>This is just what came to mind. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure that I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to give fifteen hundred and five hundred goals. It's like no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to give fifteen hundred. I get sometimes there's

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<v Speaker 1>an administrative things or maybe you have to buy containers

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<v Speaker 1>or play to nat in on them.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that in that website Charity Navigator, because it'll

0:45:52.520 --> 0:45:55.880
<v Speaker 2>it crades charities based on how much overhead, like how

0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:59.360
<v Speaker 2>much money contributions go toward, yeah, the cause and how

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<v Speaker 2>much towards overhead costs and stuff. But okay, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I guess it's my break, but just for

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:09.080
<v Speaker 2>the sadness of it all. But also sometimes I guess

0:46:09.120 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 2>we need to be shaken up and shaken out of

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<v Speaker 2>our comfort zone.

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:13.000
<v Speaker 1>We need to look.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to be confronted sometimes. Yeah, and it's it

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<v Speaker 2>could be really easy for you to go left instead

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<v Speaker 2>of right, you know what I mean? Yeah, I know, so.

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<v Speaker 1>This is abody want to end on this. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>left that and not the break. Let's something a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little more let me just haul this eighteen wheeler of sadness.

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<v Speaker 1>The other.

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<v Speaker 2>We're creating.

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<v Speaker 1>Not as having matching hairstyles today.

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<v Speaker 2>All the pineapple. Yeah it looks so rangedy.

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<v Speaker 1>But always poping.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, YM's like, I'm not really popping today. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>so tired of the age we have to see ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>all the time and room we had our and there

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<v Speaker 2>was no video.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, I be on here looking you want to use

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<v Speaker 1>to do video? And I was like, but Mandy, was

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<v Speaker 1>that my idea? Yeah? I was so like, but do

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<v Speaker 1>you understand how I show up, girl, I'd be having

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 1>one sock one I'll be having like no, just but no,

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:20.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm over here now, and then added it.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the time, I was like, this is my

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<v Speaker 1>place to look crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no longer that it's okay. Anyway, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>do a shout out to the New York Liberty because

0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 2>they're going to the playoffs. And I know that because

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:40.879
<v Speaker 2>my friend texts me and she's a very good sports fan,

0:47:41.120 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 2>and I am not a very good sports fan because

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<v Speaker 2>I already use a lot of my executive I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how this woman has time to like pay attention

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<v Speaker 2>to game times and buy tickets in advance. I really

0:47:52.600 --> 0:47:54.719
<v Speaker 2>do want to be a sports fan. I want to

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 2>be a fan of the New York Liberty. I want

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:59.279
<v Speaker 2>to go to games and stuff like that. I told

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<v Speaker 2>her next year's going to be the year, even though

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<v Speaker 2>last year I said I was really going to devote

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<v Speaker 2>myself to the Georgia Bulldogs and SEC and I just

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<v Speaker 2>like lost, I lost track. But shout out to them,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's all it's a woman, it's a w n

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<v Speaker 2>B A and they are killing it.

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<v Speaker 1>And is that Ellie?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that that they have that elephant? Nice? And I

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<v Speaker 2>know I was looking at ticket prices. I just can't

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<v Speaker 2>do it. But yeah, I can't do it this year.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to make better decisions on the money, as

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<v Speaker 2>I have stated previously. Not y'all see, everyone's gonna be

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:38.279
<v Speaker 2>judging me now, didn't you say? I was thinking that,

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<v Speaker 2>like not, Yeah, it's accountability. It's accountability. You're right. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to be spending money. We got food, we

0:48:46.520 --> 0:48:53.120
<v Speaker 2>have sports out sports home. But yeah, shout out to

0:48:53.160 --> 0:48:55.560
<v Speaker 2>them and to w NBA fans, and I just love

0:48:55.640 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 2>how exciting this is. And I can't wait to make

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:04.239
<v Speaker 2>my boys w NBA fans and all of that. And

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:06.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't think Caitlin Clark is on that team, but

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<v Speaker 2>like shout out to her. And I almost said, Shakari Richardson,

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<v Speaker 2>that is not a folk about. Let me stop all

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<v Speaker 2>in my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like sports sports and sports sports, all the sport girlies.

0:49:18.760 --> 0:49:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm like sports. I want to be I want to know.

0:49:24.160 --> 0:49:25.879
<v Speaker 2>But like the thing is, I'm either like one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent in or I'm like not even like when I

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<v Speaker 2>get invested, I will know I want to be invested,

0:49:31.760 --> 0:49:34.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, but we'll see next year. There's always next year.

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<v Speaker 2>But good lick, good luck in the playoffs. I hope

0:49:36.640 --> 0:49:39.359
<v Speaker 2>we win. And Ellie the Elephant, I'll be looking at

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<v Speaker 2>your clips online because you are that girl whoever's inside.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's all.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for listening to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, do real quick, do you have any new you know?

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<v Speaker 1>It's always nice to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have any new new reviews? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>While man is looking. You know, we love a review,

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<v Speaker 4>I no pressure, A little bit of pressure is fine.

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<v Speaker 4>So and we might weave review on the show, So

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<v Speaker 4>do it all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Listener Moi Ray says, I literally just shared your show

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<v Speaker 2>just love your energy. You're so fun to listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking forward to many more listens, Yes, Moi, or maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it's Moi Ray, I don't know. Are you ongoing? Moy

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