Speaker 1: Second date, up date.
Speaker 2: Eating alone at a restaurant isn't necessarily taboo.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be really nice alone.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, A lot of people enjoyed dining by themselves
Speaker 2: because it can be very peaceful, reflective, very fulfilling experience.
Speaker 3: Still have to share.
Speaker 2: Especially it's especially fulfilling if you loudly moan after every
Speaker 2: single bite you take. Oh my god, oh yeah, oh
Speaker 2: my god.
Speaker 1: Have you guys tried this X plan? Water?
Speaker 2: Pass my plate over the table there, they need to
Speaker 2: take a bite of this.
Speaker 3: Okay, you you may be someone who shouldn't eat a looney.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners, Lauren, is also comfortable at
Speaker 2: a table for one, and curiously, that's how she ended
Speaker 2: up meeting a guy the other night. Oh so it
Speaker 2: works out in a whole lot of ways.
Speaker 1: Lauren. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
Speaker 6: I want to know, Lauren, is it something that you
Speaker 6: do often, going out to eat by yourself?
Speaker 5: Actually? Yes, and I love it because I'm kind of
Speaker 5: have a foodie.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm kind of a drinky.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I usually use past tense for that drunk.
Speaker 1: Whatever it is comes in liquid form. So you went
Speaker 1: out by yourself the other night to a.
Speaker 5: Restaurant I did. It was this super nice restaurant in
Speaker 5: town that I've been I've really been wanting to try it. Yeah,
Speaker 5: and I heard really good things, but it's super hard
Speaker 5: to get a reservation, even for one, even for one.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 5: Good exactly exactly. I went there the other night by myself,
Speaker 5: hoping that you know, I could do a walk in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, with one person. That's kind of reasonable.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you can scope the bar and one person leaves,
Speaker 1: you just slide on it.
Speaker 5: Exactly. When I go up to the host stand and
Speaker 5: they told me it was almost a two hour wait
Speaker 5: to get a.
Speaker 6: Table, You're like, I don't take up much room exactly
Speaker 6: like a chair.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just leave whatever's left at somebody's table once
Speaker 2: they get up.
Speaker 3: Wow did you wait or what did you do?
Speaker 5: So this is what happened. This guy he overheard the
Speaker 5: interaction at the host stand and he walks up to
Speaker 5: me and says, you're only one person. We have a
Speaker 5: reservation for four, but one of our friends couldn't make it.
Speaker 4: I want to join up.
Speaker 1: Wows. You would totally do that for a stranger, right, don't.
Speaker 3: You know them?
Speaker 6: Maybe you're with friends you don't really want to talk to,
Speaker 6: so you add one more person to the mix and whatever.
Speaker 1: The reason, it's cool. You got an invite. What did
Speaker 1: you say? So nice?
Speaker 5: Okay? So at first I was like, you know, no,
Speaker 5: I don't want to impose, but it was really nice, right,
Speaker 5: And he was like, don't even worry about it, it's fine.
Speaker 5: So I agreed, that's a.
Speaker 3: Same that's really cool.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I mean, and if he's attractive, you're not going to
Speaker 3: say sure.
Speaker 5: Definitely easy on the eyes for sure.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Okay, So who did you end up sitting with? It
Speaker 3: was him and who else?
Speaker 5: It was him and a couple of his friends, which
Speaker 5: were two other women.
Speaker 3: Okay, I got to know all of them.
Speaker 5: Yes, they work together, they're co workers.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's like if all of us went to lunch. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: that's a good look on him. What's his name by
Speaker 1: the way, Adam? His name is Adam. Okay.
Speaker 6: For a minute, I was like, oh my god, I'm
Speaker 6: going to totally do this with my husband next time.
Speaker 3: We got to eat and I'm like, no, it looks weird.
Speaker 6: Couple asks a single perk not the same.
Speaker 2: At this dinner table with Adam and his two female
Speaker 2: co workers. How was that Was that weird or did
Speaker 2: it feel normal?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 5: It was funny because he kept telling me, it's okay,
Speaker 5: I've been ditched on first dates before.
Speaker 4: Don't Oh.
Speaker 3: Did you correct him? Did you tell him?
Speaker 4: No? No?
Speaker 3: No, no, I wasn't ditched.
Speaker 5: Absolutely. I told him like, I actually came by myself.
Speaker 5: I don't have a problem eating among I just love
Speaker 5: eating good food.
Speaker 3: And then they all laughed, like, what a funny joke
Speaker 3: she got.
Speaker 5: Okay, they definitely thought I was strange for sure, but okay,
Speaker 5: they still were kind and sweet to me. So and
Speaker 5: the meal was phenomenal. It was absolutely phenomenal.
Speaker 6: I mean, and that makes for easy conversation even with
Speaker 6: strangers when the food's good, because you can talk about
Speaker 6: it all yeah.
Speaker 1: And you're like try this, here comes the airplane stranger.
Speaker 3: Was there sharing that would be weird?
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, there was sharing of bottles of wine, for sure.
Speaker 5: We did sit a couple of those.
Speaker 6: Now we're all best friends by the end of the
Speaker 6: And were you feeling a vibe with this guy at all?
Speaker 3: Ever?
Speaker 5: Totally, I was totally feeling a connection with that. And
Speaker 5: I think it would be more fun if it was
Speaker 5: just me and him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, were you able to get out any info like
Speaker 6: if he was single or what his status was?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: No, But I do think if there's a guy that's
Speaker 2: eating by himself with two female co workers, he's probably
Speaker 2: not in a relationship.
Speaker 6: About my husband just had dinner with two co workers like.
Speaker 2: That, exactly exactly, I'd be checking his phone.
Speaker 4: Just kidding.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think if anything, the vibe itself, you could
Speaker 2: always feel some kind of vibe.
Speaker 5: Sometimes he's in a relationship, he's not going to flirt
Speaker 5: in front of his coworkers with you.
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know, but sometimes people feel safe that way,
Speaker 6: or you misinterpret the flirting.
Speaker 2: He's at least a nice guy who is willing to
Speaker 2: invite a stranger into the group, and that that must
Speaker 2: be absolutely So have you reached out to him since
Speaker 2: that dinner?
Speaker 5: I did. I suggested to him over text because we
Speaker 5: all at some point exchange numbers.
Speaker 6: Okay, everyone exchanged Okay, exactly.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I suggested to him via text that, you know,
Speaker 5: we should hang out again, just me and him, you know, okay,
Speaker 5: And he's been avoiding it, like he'll respond but not
Speaker 5: agree to meet up. So I don't know. What's going on.
Speaker 6: Well, and it's not like he actually asked for your number.
Speaker 6: It was like a group exchange of numbers, which is
Speaker 6: a little bit different, you know.
Speaker 2: And did you make him pay for your food that
Speaker 2: night because that could factor?
Speaker 5: No, no, no, I didn't do That's.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, maybe there's something here. We're gonna come back,
Speaker 2: try and get you a second date update with Adam.
Speaker 1: Table for two, one chair. You're gonna do it.
Speaker 5: We're doing it.
Speaker 1: Second date update.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I've been thinking worst case scenario. Our listener Lauren
Speaker 2: is eating dinner with three strangers.
Speaker 4: Here.
Speaker 2: She says she's attracted to one, the guy, Adam, But
Speaker 2: what if a different stranger at that table was attracted
Speaker 2: to her?
Speaker 3: Oh? Is that best case scenario?
Speaker 2: We don't know that because we've had that happened before
Speaker 2: on this segment.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Oh, like maybe his friend called DIBs on her. Oh
Speaker 6: my god, it just came to me what you were saying.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I didn't understand, Lauren.
Speaker 2: We need to know what were the vibes from the
Speaker 2: other two ladies that you ate with that night?
Speaker 1: Did you feel anything happening from them?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: No, no, Actually they were super helpful. They actually helped
Speaker 5: me with a lot of the pictures.
Speaker 4: That I took.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, they were into it, you know, they were
Speaker 5: super into it.
Speaker 1: It's always nice to have someone there for lighting the
Speaker 1: light exactly.
Speaker 5: But there was no romantic vibe.
Speaker 2: The only romantic vibe you were getting was from Adam
Speaker 2: or given correct.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, how.
Speaker 3: Did you guys leave it? That's the one thing that
Speaker 3: I don't think we heard.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, we we said goodbye and and went
Speaker 5: our separate ways. And you know, like I mentioned before,
Speaker 5: I had texted him after the fact.
Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, we knew that part. I didn't know if
Speaker 3: there was like a hey, I want to see.
Speaker 1: You again, or like a four way kiss or like
Speaker 1: something or whatever that it was.
Speaker 6: A very friendly though, Yeah, cordial, you know, sure, just
Speaker 6: four lips at once.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that final flavor, whatever it was.
Speaker 2: We're just trying to get Adam to go out with
Speaker 2: you one on one because that's what you're most interested in.
Speaker 1: So let's give him a call right now. You ready,
Speaker 1: I'm ready, I'm ready to here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Adam?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he Hey Adam.
Speaker 2: I hope you're up for being on the radio this
Speaker 2: morning because you already are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a show Brook and Jeffy Brook.
Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the morning. That's our show.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys a few times
Speaker 4: before you oh yeah calling me though.
Speaker 1: Well, if you've heard of us, maybe you know our
Speaker 1: segment second date update.
Speaker 4: I have heard of that, but I haven't been on
Speaker 4: a date, had been months.
Speaker 2: Oh well, yeah, I guess technically this wasn't a first
Speaker 2: date that you went on.
Speaker 3: I don't think in any form was it a date.
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know what to call it.
Speaker 2: There, you were at dinner with a group of women,
Speaker 2: one of whom wants to see you again outside of
Speaker 2: their workplace.
Speaker 1: Her names Lauren.
Speaker 4: Lauren. Oh okay did She told.
Speaker 6: Us about how she was like waiting for a table
Speaker 6: for herself, and then you came in and said, hey,
Speaker 6: sit with us.
Speaker 3: I thought that was so cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a really nice thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did see you there. I thought she was attractive.
Speaker 4: I was trying to be nice, but I guess no
Speaker 4: good deed goes unpunished.
Speaker 6: I like how you're trying to be nice, but you
Speaker 6: only offered it to her because she was attractive.
Speaker 1: You said, Did you say no, no, good deed goes OneD?
Speaker 1: You felt punished.
Speaker 4: I was trying to do something nice. I didn't think
Speaker 4: what was going to unfold? What unfold?
Speaker 3: What unfolded? Didn't you have a nice time?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were all having fun getting to know each
Speaker 4: each other before the actual meal started, and that was
Speaker 4: all fine. It was the actual eating part that happened
Speaker 4: when things took a left turn.
Speaker 1: Is Lauren like a messy eater?
Speaker 4: No? No, there was nothing to do with how she ate.
Speaker 4: It was once the meals were presented, we were picking
Speaker 4: up our forks, were excited, and then Lauren stops everything,
Speaker 4: tells everyone wait, wait, wait, stop, and of course everyone
Speaker 4: in the restaurant look that loud, and we were thinking
Speaker 4: why why, why, why would we stop? And so she
Speaker 4: stands up in our booths and she says to me,
Speaker 4: quick quickick, give me your phone. And I'm thinking, what,
Speaker 4: why why do you need my phone? So I hand
Speaker 4: her my phone because I think, okay, okay, give it
Speaker 4: the crazy person what they want. She pulls out her
Speaker 4: phone and starts recording, and then hovering over over the
Speaker 4: meal with both phones, last light blazing. She's waving her
Speaker 4: arms around, zooming in and out on the plate.
Speaker 1: Going why it's okay?
Speaker 2: Okay, So we n't gotten to what part of the
Speaker 2: meal was weird.
Speaker 3: We did sound upset.
Speaker 1: Still, it sounds to me.
Speaker 4: It was embarrassing to Mike, I was with my toe
Speaker 4: workers and that we were all just trying to be nice,
Speaker 4: like just give her your phone. They gave her to
Speaker 4: three in her hands at one point, but what are
Speaker 4: you doing it?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: There was a rule in the foodie world that gets
Speaker 2: some in trouble, and it's the camera eats. First, Lauren
Speaker 2: did mention that you guys helped her take pictures. We
Speaker 2: didn't know it was like a full Academy Award winning production.
Speaker 6: Honestly though, even when she mentioned it, it was just
Speaker 6: like a side like it wasn't a big talking.
Speaker 1: Point for her. She had a little bit of light
Speaker 1: or something.
Speaker 3: She thought that you guys were helping.
Speaker 4: I mean, we were just trying to be nice. And
Speaker 4: when she told us she was a foodie before this happened,
Speaker 4: we thought, oh, that's interesting. But this wasn't just the
Speaker 4: first port. This was the appetizers, this was the main port.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well that is some information that we did
Speaker 2: not know before we got you on the phone, So
Speaker 2: I apologize for that.
Speaker 4: Some guys want you to know this wasn't just me
Speaker 4: ghosting her, Okay, my friends afterwards that do not date her.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Okay, Now I regret bringing Lauren into the
Speaker 2: conversation at that, Laura.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's okay. Look, I understand why you might be
Speaker 5: skeptical of what I was conducting at the table, But listen,
Speaker 5: what I do is actually pretty legit. I have a
Speaker 5: pretty big following on TikTok, and the camera work is
Speaker 5: part of it. Like going the extra mile is what
Speaker 5: I do. Look, I'm going to send you a link
Speaker 5: right now. I have a lot of followers.
Speaker 6: And would it make a difference if she made money
Speaker 6: doing this, you know, like if it was her bread
Speaker 6: and butter.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love capitalized Guarantino for all I care. It's
Speaker 4: just it was. It was obnoxious the way you get it. You.
Speaker 5: I did not mean to be obnoxious, okay, And I
Speaker 5: think you might be exaggerating just a little bit. I
Speaker 5: just need to capitalize on what might have been the
Speaker 5: only opportunity for me to eat there, as you could see.
Speaker 1: And if it's hard to get into restaurant. Those videos
Speaker 1: go viral exactly.
Speaker 6: I mean, Adam, don't you think that, like, maybe it
Speaker 6: was on you to say something at the table, because
Speaker 6: she obviously did not realize that you guys were uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, clearly from what you guys know of waren you
Speaker 4: gotten to know her better than I at this point.
Speaker 4: She's a very assertive, young young woman. So even if
Speaker 4: I had said anything, I don't think she would have
Speaker 4: stopped me.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have a point, I can see it.
Speaker 3: What do you mean, so don't even give her a chance? Okay,
Speaker 3: don't Yeah, that's Adam.
Speaker 5: Have you gotten the link yet? I sent you a link?
Speaker 1: Oh? Okay? Are we gonna do this right now in
Speaker 1: the middle of the segment? Oh, Adam?
Speaker 6: I mean, wouldn't make a difference, ad him if the
Speaker 6: video was really cool?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if he sees it has a million views,
Speaker 2: just just open it up real quick, Adam, take a
Speaker 2: look and might change your mind.
Speaker 4: If it'll put this to bad, fine, I'll look at
Speaker 4: your TikTok.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this is a first for this segment
Speaker 2: where we're having somebody go on to social media and
Speaker 2: watch videos.
Speaker 3: No, no, what we're talking.
Speaker 2: I mean outside of the people in this room. We're
Speaker 2: having the listeners on the phone watch videos on TikTok.
Speaker 3: Because we can't see it. Can you describe what you're seeing?
Speaker 4: I see the one that was posted from the restaurant.
Speaker 4: Wait wait wait, how did you get like a smoke
Speaker 4: effect back there? And it looks like there's a light
Speaker 4: show going there? Weren't lights like that?
Speaker 5: What I do, Adam, this is what I do advertised.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of people TikTok. Adam sounding a little
Speaker 2: bit impressed though by what he's seeing is it.
Speaker 3: Does it look like you want to eat there again? Adam?
Speaker 1: I mean I would.
Speaker 4: I was gonna eat there again anyway. But obviously this
Speaker 4: is a great advertisement. They should hire you. This looks
Speaker 4: really good.
Speaker 1: So maybe you're just biased because you already ate there. No, Jeff,
Speaker 1: don't we just made progress? Okay?
Speaker 5: Really, what I said, I agree they should hire me.
Speaker 5: And that's why I do this.
Speaker 3: I mean, would have made a difference if she had
Speaker 3: given you a hold.
Speaker 4: On, hold on, I'm looking at some other videos here.
Speaker 4: There's Tiger in the back.
Speaker 1: Then, well, this has definitely taken a different twist.
Speaker 2: We started off very angry and agitated when we first
Speaker 2: had Adam on, but now he's sounding very impressed with
Speaker 2: all of her abilities. So I'm not gonna waste any
Speaker 2: more time. I'm just gonna ask Adam, would you like
Speaker 2: to go out on another date with Lauren? No cameras
Speaker 2: this time, he gets you, just do conversation, keep it boring,
Speaker 2: but to you, we'll pay for it.
Speaker 5: We can go somewhere I've already been before.
Speaker 3: Oh, it doesn't need to do a video there.
Speaker 1: As long as we have a gift card for it.
Speaker 4: Adam, what you said, I mean that sounds intriguing. Yes,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry I flew off the handle, but it's there.
Speaker 4: Was like taking a stray cat and realizing they're a ninja.
Speaker 4: I didn't I didn't know what to expect analogy.
Speaker 1: I think you guys are weird enough.
Speaker 2: Maybe watch some tiktoks on how to properly compliment.
Speaker 3: It, butktok.
Speaker 6: To all of us, Lauren, we want to say, those
Speaker 6: are some powerful food videos.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, congratulations you two you got a second date.
Speaker 5: Thank you, Adam, and I forgive you for all the
Speaker 5: main things you said earlier on the.
Speaker 1: Just don't tell your two female co workers that you're going.
Speaker 5: Out with you and then they're gonna be oh, yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning. Well, that was definitely a
Speaker 1: first for this segment.
Speaker 3: I did not think it was going to take that turn.
Speaker 3: I really did not think he was going to change
Speaker 3: his mind.
Speaker 2: It's funny that we actually had to wait to let
Speaker 2: someone watch TikTok videos while we're in the middle.
Speaker 1: Of a segment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it just happens for right without us waiting,
Speaker 3: But you.
Speaker 1: Know what, it worked.
Speaker 2: My question though, is did we miss out on an
Speaker 2: opportunity to send him a link to our TikTok page
Speaker 2: at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Why didn't we do that during.
Speaker 3: The call because he hung up?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we should do it from now on.
Speaker 3: It's actually good TikTok.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm about to ask you if you want to
Speaker 2: go on a second date with her.
Speaker 1: You can say yes or no.
Speaker 2: But before you answer, go check out jose doing the
Speaker 2: cabbage patch dance on our social media at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: We're gonna wait for your answers, Okay, and why.
Speaker 3: Did we make that video sixty seconds last?
Speaker 1: The bottom line is it worked. We were able to
Speaker 1: get on a second date. Yeah, you can do it
Speaker 1: for you too.
Speaker 2: Maybe if you email the show, we'll call that person
Speaker 2: wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning