WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dine For One But I'm Not Done

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 2>Eating alone at a restaurant isn't necessarily taboo.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it could be really nice alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, A lot of people enjoyed dining by themselves

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<v Speaker 2>because it can be very peaceful, reflective, very fulfilling experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Still have to share.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially it's especially fulfilling if you loudly moan after every

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<v Speaker 2>single bite you take. Oh my god, oh yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you guys tried this X plan? Water?

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<v Speaker 2>Pass my plate over the table there, they need to

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<v Speaker 2>take a bite of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you you may be someone who shouldn't eat a looney.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one of our listeners, Lauren, is also comfortable at

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<v Speaker 2>a table for one, and curiously, that's how she ended

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<v Speaker 2>up meeting a guy the other night. Oh so it

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<v Speaker 2>works out in a whole lot of ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 6>I want to know, Lauren, is it something that you

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<v Speaker 6>do often, going out to eat by yourself?

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<v Speaker 5>Actually? Yes, and I love it because I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 5>have a foodie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm kind of a drinky.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I usually use past tense for that drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever it is comes in liquid form. So you went

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<v Speaker 1>out by yourself the other night to a.

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<v Speaker 5>Restaurant I did. It was this super nice restaurant in

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<v Speaker 5>town that I've been I've really been wanting to try it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and I heard really good things, but it's super hard

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<v Speaker 5>to get a reservation, even for one, even for one.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>Good exactly exactly. I went there the other night by myself,

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<v Speaker 5>hoping that you know, I could do a walk in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, with one person. That's kind of reasonable.

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes you can scope the bar and one person leaves,

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<v Speaker 1>you just slide on it.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly. When I go up to the host stand and

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<v Speaker 5>they told me it was almost a two hour wait

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<v Speaker 5>to get a.

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<v Speaker 6>Table, You're like, I don't take up much room exactly

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<v Speaker 6>like a chair.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll just leave whatever's left at somebody's table once

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<v Speaker 2>they get up.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow did you wait or what did you do?

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<v Speaker 5>So this is what happened. This guy he overheard the

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<v Speaker 5>interaction at the host stand and he walks up to

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<v Speaker 5>me and says, you're only one person. We have a

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<v Speaker 5>reservation for four, but one of our friends couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to join up.

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<v Speaker 1>Wows. You would totally do that for a stranger, right, don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You know them?

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe you're with friends you don't really want to talk to,

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<v Speaker 6>so you add one more person to the mix and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason, it's cool. You got an invite. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you say? So nice?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So at first I was like, you know, no,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to impose, but it was really nice, right,

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<v Speaker 5>And he was like, don't even worry about it, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 5>So I agreed, that's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Same that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, and if he's attractive, you're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>say sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Definitely easy on the eyes for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So who did you end up sitting with? It

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<v Speaker 3>was him and who else?

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<v Speaker 5>It was him and a couple of his friends, which

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<v Speaker 5>were two other women.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I got to know all of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, they work together, they're co workers.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's like if all of us went to lunch. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good look on him. What's his name by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, Adam? His name is Adam. Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>For a minute, I was like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>going to totally do this with my husband next time.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to eat and I'm like, no, it looks weird.

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<v Speaker 6>Couple asks a single perk not the same.

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<v Speaker 2>At this dinner table with Adam and his two female

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<v Speaker 2>co workers. How was that Was that weird or did

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<v Speaker 2>it feel normal?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>It was funny because he kept telling me, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I've been ditched on first dates before.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you correct him? Did you tell him?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, I wasn't ditched.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely. I told him like, I actually came by myself.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have a problem eating among I just love

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<v Speaker 5>eating good food.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they all laughed, like, what a funny joke

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<v Speaker 3>she got.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, they definitely thought I was strange for sure, but okay,

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<v Speaker 5>they still were kind and sweet to me. So and

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<v Speaker 5>the meal was phenomenal. It was absolutely phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, and that makes for easy conversation even with

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<v Speaker 6>strangers when the food's good, because you can talk about

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<v Speaker 6>it all yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're like try this, here comes the airplane stranger.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there sharing that would be weird?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, there was sharing of bottles of wine, for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>We did sit a couple of those.

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<v Speaker 6>Now we're all best friends by the end of the

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<v Speaker 6>And were you feeling a vibe with this guy at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Ever?

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<v Speaker 5>Totally, I was totally feeling a connection with that. And

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<v Speaker 5>I think it would be more fun if it was

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<v Speaker 5>just me and him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, were you able to get out any info like

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<v Speaker 6>if he was single or what his status was?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, But I do think if there's a guy that's

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<v Speaker 2>eating by himself with two female co workers, he's probably

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<v Speaker 2>not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>About my husband just had dinner with two co workers like.

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<v Speaker 2>That, exactly exactly, I'd be checking his phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think if anything, the vibe itself, you could

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<v Speaker 2>always feel some kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes he's in a relationship, he's not going to flirt

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<v Speaker 5>in front of his coworkers with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know, but sometimes people feel safe that way,

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<v Speaker 6>or you misinterpret the flirting.

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<v Speaker 2>He's at least a nice guy who is willing to

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<v Speaker 2>invite a stranger into the group, and that that must

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<v Speaker 2>be absolutely So have you reached out to him since

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<v Speaker 2>that dinner?

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<v Speaker 5>I did. I suggested to him over text because we

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<v Speaker 5>all at some point exchange numbers.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, everyone exchanged Okay, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I suggested to him via text that, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we should hang out again, just me and him, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>And he's been avoiding it, like he'll respond but not

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<v Speaker 5>agree to meet up. So I don't know. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, and it's not like he actually asked for your number.

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<v Speaker 6>It was like a group exchange of numbers, which is

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit different, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And did you make him pay for your food that

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<v Speaker 2>night because that could factor?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, I didn't do That's.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, maybe there's something here. We're gonna come back,

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<v Speaker 2>try and get you a second date update with Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Table for two, one chair. You're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 5>We're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've been thinking worst case scenario. Our listener Lauren

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<v Speaker 2>is eating dinner with three strangers.

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<v Speaker 4>Here.

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<v Speaker 2>She says she's attracted to one, the guy, Adam, But

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<v Speaker 2>what if a different stranger at that table was attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Is that best case scenario?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know that because we've had that happened before

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<v Speaker 2>on this segment.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, like maybe his friend called DIBs on her. Oh

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<v Speaker 6>my god, it just came to me what you were saying.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, I didn't understand, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to know what were the vibes from the

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<v Speaker 2>other two ladies that you ate with that night?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel anything happening from them?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, Actually they were super helpful. They actually helped

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<v Speaker 5>me with a lot of the pictures.

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<v Speaker 4>That I took.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, they were into it, you know, they were

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<v Speaker 5>super into it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always nice to have someone there for lighting the

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<v Speaker 1>light exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>But there was no romantic vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>The only romantic vibe you were getting was from Adam

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<v Speaker 2>or given correct.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, how.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you guys leave it? That's the one thing that

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think we heard.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, we we said goodbye and and went

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<v Speaker 5>our separate ways. And you know, like I mentioned before,

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<v Speaker 5>I had texted him after the fact.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea, yeah, we knew that part. I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 3>there was like a hey, I want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>You again, or like a four way kiss or like

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<v Speaker 1>something or whatever that it was.

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<v Speaker 6>A very friendly though, Yeah, cordial, you know, sure, just

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<v Speaker 6>four lips at once.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that final flavor, whatever it was.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just trying to get Adam to go out with

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<v Speaker 2>you one on one because that's what you're most interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's give him a call right now. You ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready, I'm ready to here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Adam?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he Hey Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you're up for being on the radio this

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<v Speaker 2>morning because you already are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a show Brook and Jeffy Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jeffrey in the morning. That's our show.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys a few times

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<v Speaker 4>before you oh yeah calling me though.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you've heard of us, maybe you know our

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<v Speaker 1>segment second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>I have heard of that, but I haven't been on

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<v Speaker 4>a date, had been months.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, yeah, I guess technically this wasn't a first

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<v Speaker 2>date that you went on.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think in any form was it a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I don't know what to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>There, you were at dinner with a group of women,

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<v Speaker 2>one of whom wants to see you again outside of

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<v Speaker 2>their workplace.

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<v Speaker 1>Her names Lauren.

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<v Speaker 4>Lauren. Oh okay did She told.

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<v Speaker 6>Us about how she was like waiting for a table

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<v Speaker 6>for herself, and then you came in and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>sit with us.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a really nice thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I did see you there. I thought she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to be nice, but I guess no

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<v Speaker 4>good deed goes unpunished.

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<v Speaker 6>I like how you're trying to be nice, but you

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<v Speaker 6>only offered it to her because she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, Did you say no, no, good deed goes OneD?

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<v Speaker 1>You felt punished.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to do something nice. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 4>what was going to unfold? What unfold?

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<v Speaker 3>What unfolded? Didn't you have a nice time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we were all having fun getting to know each

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<v Speaker 4>each other before the actual meal started, and that was

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<v Speaker 4>all fine. It was the actual eating part that happened

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<v Speaker 4>when things took a left turn.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Lauren like a messy eater?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, there was nothing to do with how she ate.

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<v Speaker 4>It was once the meals were presented, we were picking

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<v Speaker 4>up our forks, were excited, and then Lauren stops everything,

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<v Speaker 4>tells everyone wait, wait, wait, stop, and of course everyone

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<v Speaker 4>in the restaurant look that loud, and we were thinking

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<v Speaker 4>why why, why, why would we stop? And so she

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<v Speaker 4>stands up in our booths and she says to me,

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<v Speaker 4>quick quickick, give me your phone. And I'm thinking, what,

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<v Speaker 4>why why do you need my phone? So I hand

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<v Speaker 4>her my phone because I think, okay, okay, give it

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<v Speaker 4>the crazy person what they want. She pulls out her

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<v Speaker 4>phone and starts recording, and then hovering over over the

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<v Speaker 4>meal with both phones, last light blazing. She's waving her

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<v Speaker 4>arms around, zooming in and out on the plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Going why it's okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we n't gotten to what part of the

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<v Speaker 2>meal was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>We did sound upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Still, it sounds to me.

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<v Speaker 4>It was embarrassing to Mike, I was with my toe

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<v Speaker 4>workers and that we were all just trying to be nice,

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<v Speaker 4>like just give her your phone. They gave her to

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<v Speaker 4>three in her hands at one point, but what are

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<v Speaker 4>you doing it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>There was a rule in the foodie world that gets

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<v Speaker 2>some in trouble, and it's the camera eats. First, Lauren

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<v Speaker 2>did mention that you guys helped her take pictures. We

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know it was like a full Academy Award winning production.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly though, even when she mentioned it, it was just

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<v Speaker 6>like a side like it wasn't a big talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Point for her. She had a little bit of light

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<v Speaker 1>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>She thought that you guys were helping.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we were just trying to be nice. And

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<v Speaker 4>when she told us she was a foodie before this happened,

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<v Speaker 4>we thought, oh, that's interesting. But this wasn't just the

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<v Speaker 4>first port. This was the appetizers, this was the main port.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, well that is some information that we did

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<v Speaker 2>not know before we got you on the phone, So

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize for that.

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<v Speaker 4>Some guys want you to know this wasn't just me

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<v Speaker 4>ghosting her, Okay, my friends afterwards that do not date her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, Okay, Now I regret bringing Lauren into the

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<v Speaker 2>conversation at that, Laura.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's okay. Look, I understand why you might be

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<v Speaker 5>skeptical of what I was conducting at the table, But listen,

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<v Speaker 5>what I do is actually pretty legit. I have a

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<v Speaker 5>pretty big following on TikTok, and the camera work is

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<v Speaker 5>part of it. Like going the extra mile is what

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<v Speaker 5>I do. Look, I'm going to send you a link

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<v Speaker 5>right now. I have a lot of followers.

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<v Speaker 6>And would it make a difference if she made money

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<v Speaker 6>doing this, you know, like if it was her bread

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<v Speaker 6>and butter.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I love capitalized Guarantino for all I care. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just it was. It was obnoxious the way you get it. You.

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<v Speaker 5>I did not mean to be obnoxious, okay, And I

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<v Speaker 5>think you might be exaggerating just a little bit. I

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<v Speaker 5>just need to capitalize on what might have been the

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<v Speaker 5>only opportunity for me to eat there, as you could see.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it's hard to get into restaurant. Those videos

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<v Speaker 1>go viral exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, Adam, don't you think that, like, maybe it

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<v Speaker 6>was on you to say something at the table, because

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<v Speaker 6>she obviously did not realize that you guys were uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, clearly from what you guys know of waren you

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<v Speaker 4>gotten to know her better than I at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>She's a very assertive, young young woman. So even if

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<v Speaker 4>I had said anything, I don't think she would have

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<v Speaker 4>stopped me.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have a point, I can see it.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean, so don't even give her a chance? Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>don't Yeah, that's Adam.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you gotten the link yet? I sent you a link?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Okay? Are we gonna do this right now in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the segment? Oh, Adam?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, wouldn't make a difference, ad him if the

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<v Speaker 6>video was really cool?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, if he sees it has a million views,

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<v Speaker 2>just just open it up real quick, Adam, take a

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<v Speaker 2>look and might change your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>If it'll put this to bad, fine, I'll look at

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<v Speaker 4>your TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, this is a first for this segment

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<v Speaker 2>where we're having somebody go on to social media and

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<v Speaker 2>watch videos.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, what we're talking.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean outside of the people in this room. We're

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<v Speaker 2>having the listeners on the phone watch videos on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we can't see it. Can you describe what you're seeing?

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<v Speaker 4>I see the one that was posted from the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait wait, how did you get like a smoke

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<v Speaker 4>effect back there? And it looks like there's a light

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<v Speaker 4>show going there? Weren't lights like that?

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<v Speaker 5>What I do, Adam, this is what I do advertised.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of people TikTok. Adam sounding a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit impressed though by what he's seeing is it.

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<v Speaker 3>Does it look like you want to eat there again? Adam?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would.

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna eat there again anyway. But obviously this

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<v Speaker 4>is a great advertisement. They should hire you. This looks

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<v Speaker 4>really good.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe you're just biased because you already ate there. No, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>don't we just made progress? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Really, what I said, I agree they should hire me.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's why I do this.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, would have made a difference if she had

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<v Speaker 3>given you a hold.

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<v Speaker 4>On, hold on, I'm looking at some other videos here.

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<v Speaker 4>There's Tiger in the back.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, well, this has definitely taken a different twist.

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<v Speaker 2>We started off very angry and agitated when we first

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<v Speaker 2>had Adam on, but now he's sounding very impressed with

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<v Speaker 2>all of her abilities. So I'm not gonna waste any

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<v Speaker 2>more time. I'm just gonna ask Adam, would you like

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<v Speaker 2>to go out on another date with Lauren? No cameras

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<v Speaker 2>this time, he gets you, just do conversation, keep it boring,

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<v Speaker 2>but to you, we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>We can go somewhere I've already been before.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it doesn't need to do a video there.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as we have a gift card for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Adam, what you said, I mean that sounds intriguing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry I flew off the handle, but it's there.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like taking a stray cat and realizing they're a ninja.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't I didn't know what to expect analogy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you guys are weird enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe watch some tiktoks on how to properly compliment.

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<v Speaker 3>It, butktok.

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<v Speaker 6>To all of us, Lauren, we want to say, those

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<v Speaker 6>are some powerful food videos.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, congratulations you two you got a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, Adam, and I forgive you for all the

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<v Speaker 5>main things you said earlier on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't tell your two female co workers that you're going.

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<v Speaker 5>Out with you and then they're gonna be oh, yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jeffrey in the morning. Well, that was definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>first for this segment.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not think it was going to take that turn.

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<v Speaker 3>I really did not think he was going to change

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<v Speaker 3>his mind.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny that we actually had to wait to let

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<v Speaker 2>someone watch TikTok videos while we're in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>Of a segment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, it just happens for right without us waiting,

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<v Speaker 3>But you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what, it worked.

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<v Speaker 2>My question though, is did we miss out on an

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to send him a link to our TikTok page

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<v Speaker 2>at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't we do that during.

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<v Speaker 3>The call because he hung up?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think we should do it from now on.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually good TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm about to ask you if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>go on a second date with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You can say yes or no.

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<v Speaker 2>But before you answer, go check out jose doing the

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<v Speaker 2>cabbage patch dance on our social media at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna wait for your answers, Okay, and why.

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<v Speaker 3>Did we make that video sixty seconds last?

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom line is it worked. We were able to

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<v Speaker 1>get on a second date. Yeah, you can do it

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<v Speaker 1>for you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe if you email the show, we'll call that person

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning