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Speaker 1: on the YouTube. What's up? I'm your girl, Mandy b
Speaker 1: A k at s A k A debt bitch a
Speaker 1: k A tripod mommy? What it do? What's tripod? Mommy?
Speaker 1: I have a tree podcast? Was like taking you got
Speaker 1: I'm not like taking a picture, but it's like tree pod.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm tri hi, guys, I'm weazy, I'm
Speaker 1: just stay sinking. Oh no, I'm a double your you're
Speaker 1: die patriation. I'm a deep here or baby. And we
Speaker 1: are joined today by Oh okay, well that too. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna play some porty name that's a very like
Speaker 1: kinky name. I could do Dallas, right, okay, alright, like
Speaker 1: the city, yes there? So where do you get the
Speaker 1: Dallas Playhouse? As I just told Benson, um my dad
Speaker 1: was like a huge Cowboys fan and I'm a star.
Speaker 1: All right. So the funny thing about this is y'all.
Speaker 1: So I was like, you know what, we need to
Speaker 1: get some people on the pot. So I threw a
Speaker 1: tweet out there, Uh, Dallas hit me up. But what's
Speaker 1: even crazier is after we don't communicate it for a
Speaker 1: little bit, she's like, so you know we met, right,
Speaker 1: And I was like we did, and she's like, I
Speaker 1: get it. Y'all meet a lot of people. I meet
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Y'all was late. I'd be feeling
Speaker 1: really bad. But but when when I think it's not
Speaker 1: just like meeting, I feel like I remember someone coming
Speaker 1: up to me more than I do an arena like that.
Speaker 1: I met a guy at a bar the other day.
Speaker 1: He was like, are you easy. I'm like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: thinking he listened to the podcast. He's like, I've been
Speaker 1: on set with you before. My name is Jesse, and
Speaker 1: I'm still like okay. He did were lighting and ship
Speaker 1: for the Horrible Decisions movie, and let me tell you,
Speaker 1: we were there for eight nights, all day the outset.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I said, maybe it's the mask.
Speaker 1: He said, well, I'm not wearing one now and I
Speaker 1: wasn't wearing one. No my mask and let me explain.
Speaker 1: Am I the only person I know? This sounds dumb?
Speaker 1: Whose mask fox up their vision? The girl I feel
Speaker 1: like mine is just because of my glasses, Like they
Speaker 1: just always get foggy. Okay, we'll see. I like my
Speaker 1: wearing my personality glasses and I wear them all the
Speaker 1: time and when I wear the mask, it fogs them up,
Speaker 1: you know. So I ain't gonna hold you. He could
Speaker 1: walk through this door right now and I won't know that. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't remember the guy so bad. Man.
Speaker 1: So he's Dennis's assistant and he's been on calls with
Speaker 1: me that I've had with Dennis for producing ship, which
Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't know. The more that
Speaker 1: he kept talking, he was like saying stuff you know
Speaker 1: when people trying to give you the hint, and he
Speaker 1: was like right out there. I was like all right,
Speaker 1: and he was, you don't even remember you ordered that
Speaker 1: man sushi where you over remember a ship Broder. We
Speaker 1: had a whole platter. It's when you have to like
Speaker 1: create the set vibes, you know what I'm saying. So Saturday,
Speaker 1: I just did another set and I remember thinking like
Speaker 1: because it started night, I was like, does anyone know
Speaker 1: what they want to eat there, like we're not hungry,
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is a lot cheaper for me. Great,
Speaker 1: I'll just do jonuhs. They're gonna do jonats, But like
Speaker 1: when you go to real ship, and I don't want
Speaker 1: people to think that I'm gonna do sh it cheap,
Speaker 1: even though I will when you go to real ship.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, maybe having the waters out,
Speaker 1: asking if you want anything. So I feel like it's
Speaker 1: nice to treat people that way, but what would have
Speaker 1: been nicer as if I knew his sucking name or
Speaker 1: his favor So what I did was just trying to
Speaker 1: be like, what do you want to drink? Like, all,
Speaker 1: let's talk. Yes, what are you working on? Now? Do
Speaker 1: you want to alcohol? Okay, we'll see. And speaking of alcohol,
Speaker 1: that's that's what I responded her. I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: you know I'll be drunk. I'll really be partying and
Speaker 1: be out with people and don't know who they are.
Speaker 1: And she's like, well, yeah, we've partied with listeners in
Speaker 1: d C. Don't do this are you gonna do? I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about out with that girl about Rody. I
Speaker 1: wasn't going to talk about how you made out with her.
Speaker 1: I was really, were you there when I was making
Speaker 1: out where her? Were you was there? Did you see that?
Speaker 1: And we just was like she makes up what everyone's funny?
Speaker 1: You Maybe I don't know if I says she means,
Speaker 1: I probably said this is that I can see that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll be making out with bitches. You were like only
Speaker 1: pretty muches. Yeah you know what I mean? And Mandy
Speaker 1: used me is so extra because Shorty and one of
Speaker 1: our friends was playing and she was like, fucking bit
Speaker 1: Wait what did I remember she playing? She was playing
Speaker 1: fuck you? Then you kept dancing to other people because
Speaker 1: I do feel like, because wait, one of my friends
Speaker 1: what what? What? What world? That she didn't give me
Speaker 1: a pussy on phone? That was probably one of the
Speaker 1: not for sure it might have been it. And I was, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was good. That was it? My friend name give
Speaker 1: me a pussy? Song man? Your friend she was giving
Speaker 1: mutual friend? Oh got you her reasons I brought up
Speaker 1: being sucked up because that's say night someone else I
Speaker 1: didn't recognize there was a girl. It comes up to
Speaker 1: me she's been a patron for a while and she's
Speaker 1: like beginning and so she said she had some molly water,
Speaker 1: and she was like, do you want someone? I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: um no, she was like girl, So I listened to you.
Speaker 1: She basically was like, I know you don't know nobody
Speaker 1: you'd be taking that ship from. So I was like, girl, No.
Speaker 1: So after a while people bought we were drinking bottle
Speaker 1: what we've ordered bottles, but they were all gone, and
Speaker 1: so I was like, there's nothing really left. So tuned her.
Speaker 1: But wait, it was fine. I was alive right now.
Speaker 1: But no, she's a member of the horror You think's
Speaker 1: gonna stear me wrong? Maybe, I mean, I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you real quick. Shout out to the hor Hive too,
Speaker 1: because I don't know how we come across. But bitch,
Speaker 1: almost every city there was fans that brought us bloods
Speaker 1: and they did every fucking since. I'm gonna brot me
Speaker 1: a tab of acid, like people be looking now, Wait,
Speaker 1: you got a tab of what aid she give it
Speaker 1: to you? It was a Boston She knew not to
Speaker 1: give it. She gave you animals. And she whispered to me,
Speaker 1: it is so funny how certain drugs we fund a hierarchy.
Speaker 1: She she was like Mandy this is for you, and
Speaker 1: then I made a joke like damn bit and she's
Speaker 1: like she didn't even want to give me the edible
Speaker 1: because at the Boston show I shared how the edible
Speaker 1: I had to be thrown into a bathtobe because my
Speaker 1: nigga and so I share my same I share my
Speaker 1: edible story and she was like, I brought you the
Speaker 1: edible and I was like, well, but she'll still taking
Speaker 1: So after the Molly Water Ship, fast forward, it's quarantine time,
Speaker 1: I'm hanging around the l Yes. This girl comes up
Speaker 1: to me and she's like, oh you I came to
Speaker 1: hear a d C show, so we hope we take
Speaker 1: a picture and she was like, do you remember what else?
Speaker 1: And I'm like like, I'm really looking like and she
Speaker 1: was just like we had a moment. I'm like, and
Speaker 1: I do remember crying with this one girl shut up
Speaker 1: at the DC Club in DC. She just made me
Speaker 1: a tear up, you know what I mean. She was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can your first show and I
Speaker 1: just started car and then she told me she was
Speaker 1: like we were in the bathroom together and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: but I don't know what she was talking about. You
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I know, we didn't do that, and
Speaker 1: she was like her, bitch, we took some money hoard together.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, but you didn't even know
Speaker 1: who I was, Like, well, we wearing masks now. I
Speaker 1: can't easy part about Dallas is she It's not like
Speaker 1: she was just a fan that was in line. She
Speaker 1: was pretty much backstage with us because her sister was
Speaker 1: the Muse for Dash with UM with if you guys
Speaker 1: came to Our Lives show, we had live kinksters and
Speaker 1: in DC specifically, we had Sir Dashington, who did a
Speaker 1: live rendition of Bondage, which is crazy because that is
Speaker 1: what this week's episode is about. And we're gonna get
Speaker 1: to talking to Dallas. And I thought the Muse was
Speaker 1: different in every city. The Muse was different than every city.
Speaker 1: But that's what we're gonna be talking about UM And
Speaker 1: I'm really excited because every time we kind of I
Speaker 1: think by the second time Dash was there, we didn't
Speaker 1: really even have questions for him. We wanted to understand,
Speaker 1: as a woman, you being tied it up, what arousal
Speaker 1: you get out of that? And so we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about that for the horrible the girl who does my hair. Um,
Speaker 1: not my braids, but the girl who does my hair.
Speaker 1: She tells me all the time she'll have sessions and
Speaker 1: stuff like that. And I'd be like, because I know
Speaker 1: she used to work in a dungeon. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: you'd beating legs up. She'd be like, no, like Dash,
Speaker 1: Dash gives me sessions. Look a look at the right.
Speaker 1: I found craigslist. Right, this is a long time about
Speaker 1: when I first moved to New York and I know
Speaker 1: what's to do and I was like Winter's time and
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck this. I found her on Craigslist.
Speaker 1: And years later, right, So she's like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you don't want to tell somebody who you are. So
Speaker 1: she starts telling me a little bit about b DSM,
Speaker 1: a little stuff, and then she's like, I know you
Speaker 1: got a podcast. I'll be sitting there for hours. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh you doing And she's like, yep, And I know
Speaker 1: Dash and he's one of my domsa playing in that rope.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say that she said that Dash was
Speaker 1: one of the only men. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: can name the dungeon, I won't that she has ever
Speaker 1: been in this dungeon um that was not a customer.
Speaker 1: The only men ever who was teaching some of the
Speaker 1: women there how to handle people and do it safely.
Speaker 1: Because at these dungeons, it's the way that it works
Speaker 1: legally is they're called I think I just talked to
Speaker 1: you and mention about this. Maybe their studios filming studios
Speaker 1: right where the women are actresses that role play. So
Speaker 1: Dash actually went in there to help them do this
Speaker 1: ship safely because a lot of them just be time,
Speaker 1: just do it right. And we're talking. We're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about that for sure. Also, uh, Dallas, outside of being
Speaker 1: a rope muse, you also are in the I want
Speaker 1: to say media kinspank. What is the two every day? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait girls look looking at with these faith
Speaker 1: this is some stars and moons type ship. What is this?
Speaker 1: What is gratefulness? Our or time? Personally it's not a thing,
Speaker 1: but just for me, like every day it's two when
Speaker 1: the alarm goes off, I just you know thin, because
Speaker 1: what about uh be here with like no I've recorded
Speaker 1: like a snap with us party and in the club
Speaker 1: and I remember looking at it the very next day
Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm gonna delete this. But I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: it though, but I'm not gonna leave it up because
Speaker 1: I look crazy. But I know we all look crazy
Speaker 1: that night. But so come into the club. Here was
Speaker 1: you know, straightened out, left out the club with a
Speaker 1: whole effort. It's fine. So what else, um do you
Speaker 1: do in this kink space outside of rope musing? Um?
Speaker 1: I really love impact. I've done a little bit of
Speaker 1: some electro play. I'm I'm a little pussy gonna come
Speaker 1: to that. I'm not gonna electro play. Yes, electro play.
Speaker 1: You could either use like the tens where they put
Speaker 1: like these pads on you and it kind of makes
Speaker 1: you like a conductor. So you can use anything on
Speaker 1: your body like it could be metal clause, it could
Speaker 1: be um like a brush, it could be anything and
Speaker 1: it'll like, you know, kind of shock you a little bit.
Speaker 1: But it's not like I'm already like do you get
Speaker 1: wet from that? But it's the shock Like, no, it's
Speaker 1: not like somebody's trying to electrical. You use the metal
Speaker 1: from something else, and you where do you put the
Speaker 1: sticky thing? The sticky things just go on your body somewhere,
Speaker 1: Like where do you like I like to put mine
Speaker 1: like kind of like up here because I know that
Speaker 1: you know, you might touch my arms or touch can
Speaker 1: you get like electrocuted like too far? Like can the
Speaker 1: voltage just like you can? Definitely it can be up
Speaker 1: too hot and you might not like that, and you
Speaker 1: can ask them to turn it down. Yes, there's a
Speaker 1: whole voltage machine. Yeah, which is why you gotta play
Speaker 1: safely and talk to people who know what they're doing. Holy,
Speaker 1: we're very wrong. Well, if you find black people to
Speaker 1: do it or not? Yeah, absolutely, I don't play that
Speaker 1: electro plate. Wait, what do you mean? You don't play that?
Speaker 1: So you don't do you not prefer to deal with
Speaker 1: black kinkstairs. But also I build relationships with the people
Speaker 1: that I do play sessions with, so I'm never like
Speaker 1: just just because the kinks that I'm into are so
Speaker 1: like it can go real wrong, real fast. Okay, and
Speaker 1: and and so is it because you trust black men
Speaker 1: more than you trust women and black women more. Okay? Okay,
Speaker 1: I've been tied up and I've I've done a electro
Speaker 1: play with um with a white kinkster at like a
Speaker 1: play party or whatever, and it was cool, but like
Speaker 1: towards the end, he kind of like the voltage was
Speaker 1: up a little too high and I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm done, red, We're finished, okay. So basically it's like
Speaker 1: the sticky things that you would put on like for heart, yeah,
Speaker 1: like when you go okay. They also have one that
Speaker 1: looks like what do you call it? Um an ace bandage?
Speaker 1: And I see that right here bottom of your arm
Speaker 1: and it does the same thing. So she has them
Speaker 1: on her chest. No, you could go to the storm
Speaker 1: by a violet one and they have attachments. I want
Speaker 1: to see, bro that I ain't gonna hold You's a
Speaker 1: that's a lot. So also the setup for that is
Speaker 1: a lot, Like it looks like it's not WPS for you. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not black people do this. I'm not. I just
Speaker 1: feel like black people wouldn't put any electrical stuff, Like
Speaker 1: if you're gonna get wet, maybe we shouldn't electrocute you.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That don't sound like a combination.
Speaker 1: Uh I actually it should be. On the way. I
Speaker 1: just ordered um this toy from cal Exotics that it's
Speaker 1: an Easter m toy and it like does the same
Speaker 1: thing that the tens do, but like it's a dido
Speaker 1: and you can use it inside you pussy and supposedly
Speaker 1: it tell your muscles, but like that did pelvic floor therapy.
Speaker 1: I talked about it. I had vaginous smiths like years ago,
Speaker 1: and so basically they used to put this device inside
Speaker 1: of me. It didn't turn me on because I was
Speaker 1: clenching so badly and they had to like help me
Speaker 1: like loosen up because it was a lot of trauma
Speaker 1: and nerves. So you could use it for either or
Speaker 1: you could use it to tighten or loosen. It's so weird,
Speaker 1: that's crazy, and it does these like fluttery things, and
Speaker 1: it's interesting because she would tell me, I didn't even
Speaker 1: realize that that kind of was a electro plate in
Speaker 1: a way. So basically I would sit there and I
Speaker 1: did a session a week and it looked like a dildo.
Speaker 1: She put it inside of me, and she'd asked me
Speaker 1: if I felt anything, and she would have it pretty
Speaker 1: low and then it would increase. And basically it was
Speaker 1: stimulating the muscles so that I could start controlling them myself,
Speaker 1: because what was happening was my body was automatically tightening
Speaker 1: during sex. Because I just had a lot of bad
Speaker 1: memories with sex, and so it was teaching me how
Speaker 1: to feel the muscle because I couldn't feel anything, like,
Speaker 1: I couldn't relax myself. So they basically would stimulate that
Speaker 1: so you could like bring it back kind of like
Speaker 1: physical therapy. And this is what you're buying. But I'm
Speaker 1: saying they could win to call exotics too. She hit
Speaker 1: and charged a bit hundred dollars. We are going to
Speaker 1: get into the Vanilla ship for this week, and I
Speaker 1: love it because it deals with a little bit of
Speaker 1: body positivity. UM, but also how your sex life affects
Speaker 1: your butt size. UM. According to rampant speculation online, hormones
Speaker 1: released during sex can actually change the shape of your body. Um.
Speaker 1: They asked an expert to look into it, and it does,
Speaker 1: basically say one moment, Uh, let me find what they say. UM.
Speaker 1: Basically that when our hormones going to overdrive during sex,
Speaker 1: if our partner's hormones potentially also affect our bodies, it
Speaker 1: happens kind of consistently within having sex. UM. Also, I
Speaker 1: know with anal sex particularly and I think that from
Speaker 1: the back from the bag, it's supposed to make you
Speaker 1: squats or something like that. Wait, wait and squats. I
Speaker 1: ain't squat Oh wait, technically you do squatting. Oh in sex,
Speaker 1: you do? When I mean, I do you feel like
Speaker 1: your booty got big after you started having sex? No,
Speaker 1: it's from squatting. It's from squatting. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like it's a like consistent thing, like oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sucking my but look a little around today. But
Speaker 1: like I feel like it's crazy to me because I'll
Speaker 1: be honest, I make you more shapely right well, And
Speaker 1: that's what's crazy because when I was growing up, I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like I have my thighs and hips and
Speaker 1: curves for as long as I could remember. But I
Speaker 1: remember that not only teachers well, because I had hips,
Speaker 1: they assumed that I was sexually active way before I
Speaker 1: was sexually active because and then even now, which I
Speaker 1: also don't like, my hips have been referred to as baby, baby, baby,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't have a kid though mybody
Speaker 1: said you look like you need to have some kids,
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I don't wait. Someone said, yes,
Speaker 1: like you look like you like I should put a baby,
Speaker 1: and you like you're ready for checks grown because another
Speaker 1: shirt I wonder like for men. I don't know, because
Speaker 1: I was seeing this guy who like swore up and down.
Speaker 1: He was like very animalistic or whatever. And he's like, oh, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I think like an animal, Like my body
Speaker 1: reacts like an animal. And he was telling me like
Speaker 1: when I see certain type of women in certain body shapes,
Speaker 1: like it activates all of those things and me and
Speaker 1: makes me want to fuck because the child bearing hips
Speaker 1: or the smell of a woman or pheromones, and like
Speaker 1: it sounded like bullshit. He was like kind of like
Speaker 1: earth and wind and fire, nigked. But he swore that
Speaker 1: the reason that I was attracted to him was his height,
Speaker 1: his shoulders, his build and everything about him and his hair.
Speaker 1: He was like, which is valid, right he's but he's like,
Speaker 1: because we're animals. You know you want someone like too
Speaker 1: for you. Let me explain to you. I'm an animal.
Speaker 1: You animal. When you look at me, you see protect
Speaker 1: When I look at you, I see womanly. Look at
Speaker 1: your TVs. I'm like, they ain't real, so you see
Speaker 1: in books. But he like swore that this ship was real.
Speaker 1: And he was talking about how he had a girlfriend
Speaker 1: at the time that um, I think she said he
Speaker 1: had a she had a kid, and he was like,
Speaker 1: when she would get super maternal, was when like I
Speaker 1: was the most attracted or wanted her the most. And
Speaker 1: he's like, all of those things are very attractive. But
Speaker 1: to his point, I think women see that sometimes, like
Speaker 1: when we see someone be a daddy. I love that, okay,
Speaker 1: And it is attractive when you see somebody be a
Speaker 1: good father. Though no, that death is attractive, I would
Speaker 1: say definitely. Though physically I will say, actually, there are
Speaker 1: certain parts of a man that when I do look
Speaker 1: at it, i'd be like, and I guess I guess
Speaker 1: it's not because because if we're gonna sit here and say, oh,
Speaker 1: nigga's girls, we've been saying some pretty sub stuff too
Speaker 1: about niggas, Like I love a man's Adam's apple. I
Speaker 1: was gonna say next, but it's not like the Adam's
Speaker 1: apple for me. It's it's like like this area, but
Speaker 1: is that what it's called? And of course abs that's
Speaker 1: the thing, and height is a thing I likes, but
Speaker 1: my mind's beard. We we we sexualized men's bodies often,
Speaker 1: and it's that gross when we do it, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: do you walk down the street like, damn baby, look
Speaker 1: at them, Look at them, ebbs. I know what the
Speaker 1: shirt it's just uh no, you know, I will tell
Speaker 1: you this one dude. Okay, this is really nasty. Man.
Speaker 1: Here we go. I just you should turn me on.
Speaker 1: I only sucked him one time. We were cool. We
Speaker 1: just like tried not to fund because we lived in
Speaker 1: the same neighborhood, but we ended up sing. But anyway,
Speaker 1: he uh, he would come around me all the time
Speaker 1: and like kiss me and be really close to me
Speaker 1: and shipped like that. And he when he kissed me
Speaker 1: on the neck, he would put his hand up here.
Speaker 1: And he told me one time that he knew I
Speaker 1: was obvulating because of my body temperature. And he was like,
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, I know you're pussy. What his
Speaker 1: ship right now? I was like, how do you know that?
Speaker 1: Mine was like two am? But it was. And he
Speaker 1: was like, yo, I just know when you obvulate, you
Speaker 1: and titties look map full. And he was like, you
Speaker 1: smell different, Like I could I could tell that not
Speaker 1: a that is a hole lass nigga. That nigga gotta
Speaker 1: deal with a whole lot of grew up with a
Speaker 1: whole I took my pussy and I threw it right
Speaker 1: at him as well, and he did good. He did
Speaker 1: a good job. He was really good. He called it.
Speaker 1: He moved to l A. But I think about it
Speaker 1: all the time, like that ship. It was. I don't
Speaker 1: know why I got me Horney as fucked niffles her.
Speaker 1: They are very you're talking about they started sharing in
Speaker 1: the story when he told me that ship. But we
Speaker 1: make jokes and talk about it later. And he says
Speaker 1: that he went to nursing school for a little bit.
Speaker 1: Right now he works in music, But he said, when
Speaker 1: I got out of college, I worked in nursing, And
Speaker 1: he said, and I learned so much about women's bodies
Speaker 1: and the way that they changed. Right, it could have
Speaker 1: been fool because I was menstruating. But and then I remember,
Speaker 1: like when he was like touching my pussy. He went
Speaker 1: down on me, but specifically when he put his fingers
Speaker 1: in my pussy, he like looked at him like he
Speaker 1: knew it. When I was like this whole, I don't
Speaker 1: ask you them for a man to say that. Do
Speaker 1: you ever feel like the compliments are from fetishism or something?
Speaker 1: I mean, I talked about it too, because like even
Speaker 1: before I like lost weight and Nigga was like, oh,
Speaker 1: let me funk you before you lose weight. But even
Speaker 1: the idea of someone wanting to say they want to
Speaker 1: put a baby in me or my child bearing hips
Speaker 1: like to me, Actually, I guess that's where it comes from.
Speaker 1: I feel like we take a lot of compliments as
Speaker 1: being uncomfortable sometimes maybe because we're not all the way
Speaker 1: comfortable with because I don't want you to even when
Speaker 1: I laid the bad I talked about this with who
Speaker 1: would Ashley, I don't like when they grab your girls.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd be like, stop that ship. I mean, so,
Speaker 1: I guess it's that weird. It's weird because I ever
Speaker 1: feel fetishize er. I mean, I know I can't relate
Speaker 1: all the way, but what I can say that I
Speaker 1: would assume is why you don't like someone grabbing you
Speaker 1: girls is because normally if someone's grabbing it because they're
Speaker 1: saying something bad about it, if you like hold them,
Speaker 1: like if we're if we're cutting in and you like,
Speaker 1: just put your arm around me and hold it, but
Speaker 1: don't jig. But I think that's the association because I've
Speaker 1: seen like my family do it to someone, Oh you
Speaker 1: in this and they pull at you like that they do.
Speaker 1: I think that's where its wrong. So you probably feel
Speaker 1: like the man that you're with is doing the same
Speaker 1: thing and never grabs the skin on your stomach. It's
Speaker 1: not normally because they're worshiping. It's because they're trying to
Speaker 1: remind you that it ain't how supposed to be. Oh, valid, valid.
Speaker 1: That's the way we're gonna get into our motherfucker whole
Speaker 1: facts today. And this is actually guys. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to keep bringing up my boyfriend anything, but
Speaker 1: when I read this, I said, I have to share
Speaker 1: this um on the podcast because this is very much
Speaker 1: probably why I'm experiencing sex the way I am right now.
Speaker 1: So don't don't say the L word. But it's true, somebody,
Speaker 1: this is why the sex is better. It's because it's
Speaker 1: a fact. It's a whole fact. It's a sex fact.
Speaker 1: I found it, y'all. So the whole fact for this
Speaker 1: week is talking about sex improves your sex life. Now, valid,
Speaker 1: we do this, but let me explain, let me get
Speaker 1: to it. Let me get to it. So, whether it's
Speaker 1: pillow talk or candid middle of the day convo with
Speaker 1: your partner, talking about sex can lead to a more
Speaker 1: fulfilling life of sex. Relationship coach Kyle Benson says that
Speaker 1: it's also important for couples to be specific and direct
Speaker 1: when discussing sex and intimacy. So when partners talk to
Speaker 1: each other about their sexual needs, their conversations are often indirect, vague,
Speaker 1: and left unresolved. This can oftentimes leave both parties frustrated,
Speaker 1: so Benson says that instead couples should focus on what's
Speaker 1: positive about their sexual encounters. For example, instead of saying
Speaker 1: something like you never touch my body, try it feels
Speaker 1: so amazing when you touch me here. Few people respond
Speaker 1: well to criticism, especially when it's something as personal as sex. Also,
Speaker 1: sharing your positive needs will open up new ways of
Speaker 1: loving each other. And then I just would like to
Speaker 1: cross reference with an article that discusses when you're in
Speaker 1: love how this Oh my God, and what it says
Speaker 1: is when you explore your sexuality through consensual encounters, it's
Speaker 1: immensely empowering, especially because you're actively discussing intensive boundaries and
Speaker 1: there's no holds barred in love making you know that
Speaker 1: person isn't going anywhere, as well as the fact that
Speaker 1: the motivation is different. It's not just to get off
Speaker 1: and have an orgasm anymore. When making love, climaxing is
Speaker 1: important mutually because you're connecting on an emotional level with
Speaker 1: the well. When I read this automatically actually fuck you
Speaker 1: with this ill word, because I ain't said it yet,
Speaker 1: I just tell him I appreciate you. Haven't kind of
Speaker 1: like you being like e spirit, I love doing how
Speaker 1: I feel and we know your horror, but we're like
Speaker 1: you are not because we recently had more than six
Speaker 1: and he like has been really really like intimate and
Speaker 1: just really calm with me lately. But I think it's
Speaker 1: because it's so weird because my period has been coming
Speaker 1: on early the last two months. And he was like,
Speaker 1: being a man, he was like, it's not cause I'm
Speaker 1: pounding you too hard. In myself, he's thinking he just
Speaker 1: knocking the ship on, but he was niggas you niggers,
Speaker 1: I must be out that period and be knocking a
Speaker 1: period on early. But now someone was like, no, that
Speaker 1: said it. So anyways, we go to have this morning
Speaker 1: sex and he'd be so extra in the morning. He'd
Speaker 1: be wanting to bring out the toys. Do ain't know
Speaker 1: and all this ship So he goes to put his
Speaker 1: finger in my ass and I'm like, oh no, no no,
Speaker 1: and mind you, my ass was clinching because I really
Speaker 1: didn't want it, and then he got into my ear
Speaker 1: and whispered. He was like na. He was like, so
Speaker 1: you don't trust me with this body anymore? What if
Speaker 1: you said I don't trust me? What you like? Not
Speaker 1: ther boodo? But no, like the way he was like
Speaker 1: when he said that to me, literally, really, bitch that
Speaker 1: the boot is just like let the thing that just
Speaker 1: go in there like a duke allact like I ain't
Speaker 1: got hold you, bitch, Like I literally just ease up.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, okay, yeah now
Speaker 1: that feels good. But it was all it was me
Speaker 1: just knowing I didn't want it, but him just talking
Speaker 1: to me and like so like I know he makes
Speaker 1: me feel good and everyone when when he had I was,
Speaker 1: so did you not want it? Because you want an
Speaker 1: sit in the morning? We don't exceed it our time
Speaker 1: part quarters. First of all, mandydn't love That's why your
Speaker 1: ass opened up. Oh my god, my ape you how
Speaker 1: my pussy got wider? And this is also because I'm
Speaker 1: made during some really sweet talk, right, I'm sucking. This
Speaker 1: nigg is looking at me and he was a little drunk,
Speaker 1: but he was looking at me like in my eyes
Speaker 1: were making out and he's like got his hands in
Speaker 1: my hair and he's like, I love the way your
Speaker 1: hair feels like witch. My hair was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't really like have my friend like that. He
Speaker 1: was telling me how sucking beautiful. I was just like
Speaker 1: staring at me and it was like super deep. And
Speaker 1: when we started sucking, I was like, I'm taking the
Speaker 1: entire dick in my stomach now, like it reached a
Speaker 1: new part. But he was because he spoke and said
Speaker 1: informations during sex, well, let's keep it up, fellas if
Speaker 1: you just say to me, you know what beautiful you're
Speaker 1: You're important, you're special. And I was like, literally, I
Speaker 1: think also to what both of us, what all three
Speaker 1: of us even just saying well, well, not only basically
Speaker 1: when they say I'm pretty much as my pussy sally no,
Speaker 1: but the fact that too we related all of the
Speaker 1: compliments to be something other than our pussy. I think
Speaker 1: in sects a lot of men be like really did
Speaker 1: not think about that, And so the idea that your person, yeah,
Speaker 1: and when you're in my pussy. The fact that you
Speaker 1: can like appreciate other part to me. So those words
Speaker 1: of affirmation outside goods, there's a waiting list for the
Speaker 1: emao Ho club that I'm a party, but you guys
Speaker 1: are welcome to kids. But I mean from why you've said,
Speaker 1: don't do this? Why I enjoy what he's saying. How
Speaker 1: How am I emotional? Because I enjoyed my nigga. Everybody
Speaker 1: shows their emotions in a different way. Looks like you
Speaker 1: show it through gifts food. Let me do other niggas
Speaker 1: speaking of gifts, this is how you know I really
Speaker 1: liked this nigga. So I followed this page on Twitter
Speaker 1: called fat Kid Deals, which I gotta yeah, I gotta
Speaker 1: get off of it. They do some great you don't need.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, I don't speaking of that. I literally
Speaker 1: bought um just lights and apparently they change colors and
Speaker 1: ship to go around the TV so that the wall.
Speaker 1: We don't need ship. I don't eat. So anyway, I'm
Speaker 1: scrolling Twitter because I love Twitter, and bitch is a
Speaker 1: beard kid and I'm like, look, let me get this
Speaker 1: beer kid. I was like, what type of dick is
Speaker 1: this man? Giving moisturized bit worshiping day. I really just
Speaker 1: bought this nigga a beer kid because normally if I
Speaker 1: buy him something, it's something that I can use too,
Speaker 1: because I'm just one of them type of people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did get old bay of water pick. A water pick.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't know. You never heard of it,
Speaker 1: so instead of flossing, you could do both. And I
Speaker 1: just said, a water pit pick pitch. So it's basically
Speaker 1: this long tube and the water like shoots out fast
Speaker 1: and it goes through your teeth and I ain't going
Speaker 1: in front. I wanted one. It was like a hundred
Speaker 1: fifty dollars and I was like, I'm not gonna buy
Speaker 1: this for myself. I was like me, like, I'm being
Speaker 1: a good person, you know what I'm saying, because you'd
Speaker 1: be flossing a lot. And I was like, babe, I
Speaker 1: got your water pig. And he thought it was the
Speaker 1: sweetest thing I had ever done in my life. And
Speaker 1: damn shure every night, I was like, you wanted to Okay,
Speaker 1: so we are going to get into our hord dert
Speaker 1: and for this I am leaving it up to you,
Speaker 1: man hor Dirt. For those of you listening to us,
Speaker 1: possibly for the first time is our tip in the bedroom, um,
Speaker 1: and you have a lot of different experience. We talked
Speaker 1: about the electrodes that electro play. UM, can you give
Speaker 1: us maybe a tip on introducing electro play with your partner.
Speaker 1: I think the best way to introduce it is just
Speaker 1: to talk about it honestly, before you ever pull any
Speaker 1: toys out, before you bring any toys, because the stuff
Speaker 1: that you might got, your partner may not want to
Speaker 1: use because I don't know if the generator in the bedroom, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: it's like hold on, you know when you have us
Speaker 1: jump the car batterally kick'd be like, let me start
Speaker 1: to okay, okay, so talk skirt nipple claims, screw me
Speaker 1: a little bit? Yes, yes, it's a nervous and you
Speaker 1: are you are busy sort of talk about it. You
Speaker 1: in is definitely definitely the first thing. And then you know, like, uh,
Speaker 1: I think alive showing up because I'm watching the video,
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be able to really like for me
Speaker 1: research anything. You're just gonna be like, okay, well, I
Speaker 1: don't know how how you got it live showing where
Speaker 1: would someone see that You're not like a show, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I go to a sex club or a party, a
Speaker 1: play party, I ain't gonna hold you. I haven't been
Speaker 1: to a few. I ain't never seen no no electro plate.
Speaker 1: That is ridiculous. How I don't know. I've never seen
Speaker 1: that either. Clubs. I've seen a city machine like where
Speaker 1: people get on top of it. I've seen people getting flogged.
Speaker 1: I've seen spankings. I've seen some I've seen rope tying
Speaker 1: at the wish Andrew's gross. Thank you that I've seen that.
Speaker 1: But I've never seen electro. I didn't gonna tell you
Speaker 1: why because because when I go to sex parties, it
Speaker 1: never says WPS here White people should because I've never
Speaker 1: and maybe they do it in their own and now
Speaker 1: that I think about it, it maybe was some WPS
Speaker 1: when I first saw it. Really it was a white
Speaker 1: people party and they're were like, we just love You're
Speaker 1: so exotic and herb. But like at your blue hair, listen,
Speaker 1: I felt like I was born with blue hair and
Speaker 1: like somebody died in black at the hospital. How long
Speaker 1: have you had it? Promise you? Um like own and
Speaker 1: off throughout the year, I just like die, I might
Speaker 1: I may die in my real hair like when y'all
Speaker 1: met me, or I'll just you know, even people get
Speaker 1: very weird about blue hair. When I used to manage
Speaker 1: the store, one of the rules we had was no
Speaker 1: unnatural hair colors. That's it. You incorporate, you have however
Speaker 1: you want it. And I had to tell this girl
Speaker 1: I'm like look and she was white. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be a bit like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm cool, but like, you can't be having another hair.
Speaker 1: She was like no, like it is my people know
Speaker 1: people call me blue, Like either I fucking do this
Speaker 1: or I don't make I had a job interview like
Speaker 1: when when I was working for other people, and uh
Speaker 1: like I had pink hair, like I had just dyed
Speaker 1: my hair like hot magenta pink the day before. But
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm still gonna go to this interview.
Speaker 1: And the guy loved me and he was like, I
Speaker 1: need you to do something with it. I can't, So
Speaker 1: I went. I got a rent and it only made
Speaker 1: it purple, like it didn't do anything. But you know
Speaker 1: what's crazy. I know, and I know we're relating this
Speaker 1: to corporate setting, but I remember a friend of mine
Speaker 1: had short blonde hair like this and she was looking
Speaker 1: to dance, and so she went into an all white
Speaker 1: strip club here in New York actually in the city,
Speaker 1: and they loved her, but was like, if you're gonna
Speaker 1: dance here, we need you to have long hair. So
Speaker 1: they didn't even want her to have her natural just
Speaker 1: short hair as as a black girl like, they were like,
Speaker 1: we're gonna need you to throw on either a wig
Speaker 1: or get something long. Yeah, the crazy thing is really
Speaker 1: a thing. Even outside of corporate it's also like I
Speaker 1: get the color thing, but length and I only get
Speaker 1: the color thing. I don't know where you applied to work,
Speaker 1: but this was front facing a little more professed. I
Speaker 1: understand it, and I don't think the color thing is crazy.
Speaker 1: What I do find crazy is when you're telling me
Speaker 1: I can't style on my hair a certain way, especially
Speaker 1: protective style and length. I agree that my friends. It
Speaker 1: was a dancer. She had locks, and they were like,
Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna hire you because we really like
Speaker 1: your look, but you need to go buy a wig.
Speaker 1: So yeah, they will determine, like I'm you're allowed to
Speaker 1: be like it. I guess they can. Giving them your
Speaker 1: social They're like they want to you, what do you want.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what really made me like kind
Speaker 1: of chill about the appearance in retail was at the
Speaker 1: Apple Store, like they'd never give a fun about how
Speaker 1: people look. I don't know, I just really like color hair.
Speaker 1: I think colored hair is fun, and I think that
Speaker 1: what's really made it easy to digest as the years
Speaker 1: go on. And it's not like I'm trying to give
Speaker 1: her credit, but I think white people can accept it
Speaker 1: now is because Kylie does it. Now they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: the Kardashians. But it's just really because black girl has
Speaker 1: been colored in their hair like that for a long
Speaker 1: fucking time. And now whenever I saw in my mind
Speaker 1: when white people color their hair like that, it was
Speaker 1: some goth, weird old ship, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: or like you're super punk or whatever ship Venus used
Speaker 1: to do that like ten fifteen years ago, green hair.
Speaker 1: And now that Kylie has done it, suddenly you can
Speaker 1: have colored hair and it could be tasteful, it's awful,
Speaker 1: it's it's weird as fun to me. I love how
Speaker 1: people pretend like they don't want to look at you,
Speaker 1: Like I realized that my hair is blue, you can
Speaker 1: look it's okay, And like in public, people will just
Speaker 1: be like and they know that everybody's already even talk
Speaker 1: about it and like how cute it is, or like
Speaker 1: have tacos last night. This girl was sitting at her
Speaker 1: table when she was like after like the third time,
Speaker 1: I was just like, yes, do you need something. That's
Speaker 1: how it was. That's how it wasn't Asia. You just
Speaker 1: gotta say how when you notice people's serranis, you just
Speaker 1: gotta be like and make them feel like you know,
Speaker 1: I just make them feel uncomfortable. I don't speak when
Speaker 1: like dudes be staring at me, I don't be speaking back,
Speaker 1: no fat because I feel like if you're staring at
Speaker 1: me from across the room, like get up and come
Speaker 1: talk to you. Well, actually, no, that is that. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. That is a lot to me. I
Speaker 1: got on the train um recently and bit a nigger
Speaker 1: had his phone like this, and I saw that he
Speaker 1: took a picture of me, and like I noticed it
Speaker 1: because I'm just like, why else is your phone? Like
Speaker 1: do you do? So? I like looked at him like
Speaker 1: as like I saw you, like you didn't very discreetly
Speaker 1: he just kind of smiled at me. Was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I thought you were hi, I'm not your friend. He
Speaker 1: made it seem like he thought he knew me from somewhere.
Speaker 1: I'm don't take a picture of me on the train
Speaker 1: and apologize, and then I to take a picture with me.
Speaker 1: Because her home girl listen to horrible decisions. He was like,
Speaker 1: why are you bothering wheezy. But she also then said
Speaker 1: after which I found very funny. She was like, can
Speaker 1: I be real with you, I only got your leg
Speaker 1: show to elaborate is because she listens at a nursing home.
Speaker 1: And she said that one of the patients that she
Speaker 1: doesn't speak, and she was like, sometimes I wonder if
Speaker 1: she'd be listening back about how nasty this is. But
Speaker 1: she she's a caretaker. She watches her all day, but
Speaker 1: she plays it on the side. This was a while ago,
Speaker 1: this happened too. Yeah, she just mentioned that she plays it,
Speaker 1: so I wonder if she listens. But yeah, oh my god,
Speaker 1: but we are going to get into our horrible decision um.
Speaker 1: And I'm excited because this is kind of your expertise.
Speaker 1: And I do also want to ask if it's genetic
Speaker 1: at this point, knowing that your sister was on stage
Speaker 1: as a muse so go ahead before we even dive
Speaker 1: into it. What is a rope muse? Um? A rope
Speaker 1: muse is literally just someone who inspires like creativity of
Speaker 1: a rigor and allows them to do whatever artistic masterpiece
Speaker 1: on your body with the rope that they wanted to. Okay,
Speaker 1: and how do you find these people that are into
Speaker 1: I guess bondage? Like so like dash okay, So like
Speaker 1: I feel like it kind of found me. It's a
Speaker 1: really it's a funny story. So it found me. What
Speaker 1: are you talking about it? No? So I was like
Speaker 1: waiting on some random date. I was like at a bar,
Speaker 1: waiting on this dude. I end up seeing this like
Speaker 1: beautiful chocolate woman sitting next to me. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: order my drink and she kind of like rushed me.
Speaker 1: She was like, you've been looking at the bottles for
Speaker 1: a long time. Are you gonna get it? And then
Speaker 1: like we kind of start like complimented each other and talking.
Speaker 1: Our partners come over because the dude finally shows up
Speaker 1: for the day and they know each other and she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you've never been to such and such and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: what is that? And she's like you should take her.
Speaker 1: Fast forward to that Saturday. She calls me on her
Speaker 1: own and she's like, no, we're going I'm gonna pick
Speaker 1: you up where something sexy. And I'm like, did you
Speaker 1: know what type of place this was? Did she give you?
Speaker 1: She explained it at the bar. She's like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's a party that they have um every other week
Speaker 1: where they have it every week, but they have like
Speaker 1: an LGBT on and off week, so you know they
Speaker 1: have it every week, you know, if you want to come.
Speaker 1: And I told the guy, I'm like, oh, you should
Speaker 1: take me, but like he wasn't working with it. Ironically,
Speaker 1: he ends up being there that night, but whatever. So
Speaker 1: we go and I see this guy tying this girl
Speaker 1: up and these pretty bright ropes and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's dope. I think I'm too big for that. So
Speaker 1: that's I honestly, without asking that offensively, I was going
Speaker 1: to ask you that because I went to a sex
Speaker 1: dungeon recently with um King Noir and one of his slaves,
Speaker 1: and the slave was literally half of my size, but
Speaker 1: he was getting lessons on how to I feel like,
Speaker 1: it's not like an outfit, like you can make it
Speaker 1: whatever you want. Well, sometimes they suspend you, and you
Speaker 1: got to make sure that the person who is suspending
Speaker 1: you can also handle adjusting your weight and being able
Speaker 1: to catch you if something goes wrong, if you move
Speaker 1: the wrong rope. So that's why I'm like, it has
Speaker 1: to be somebody I trust. So the guys trying to
Speaker 1: grow up. I go outside to smoke and it's the
Speaker 1: darkest and he comes outside and he's like six ten
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, you have colored hair. I like that.
Speaker 1: And I'm like you six ten. I like that. I'm
Speaker 1: so glad we have coming interest in. I'm like, okay, hey,
Speaker 1: and um the guys that I was supposed to go
Speaker 1: on to day was is his friend and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: don't be bothered with her. But he tells the girl
Speaker 1: that brought me like, nah, send her my number, da
Speaker 1: da da. We end up like talking and he's like,
Speaker 1: I want to tie you up, and I'm like I
Speaker 1: want to get tied up. Let's do it. So we
Speaker 1: did like a private session the first time, and UM,
Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of rigors who will do
Speaker 1: suspension their first time tying you because it's so dangerous. Um,
Speaker 1: we did a session at my house and ironically. Um,
Speaker 1: he like put an antal hook in my ask now, ironic,
Speaker 1: what is that wrong? Because I thought it was a
Speaker 1: fucking ice cube and I was with the ships either way, Well,
Speaker 1: it was what it was antal hook. You've never seen that.
Speaker 1: I've never where you pull it out. Yeah, but I'm
Speaker 1: like with the with the circle. I just never thought
Speaker 1: that it was something I could Oh it was cold
Speaker 1: and you couldn't see it. Oh no, bitch, this is
Speaker 1: not what you were talking about. She seen no, No,
Speaker 1: so okay, just pull Oh wait, so all of them
Speaker 1: have two balls on them. Some of them is like
Speaker 1: one big ball. Okay, it's actually like a fisherman. How
Speaker 1: are we still learning ship? Four years? I've seen it.
Speaker 1: I've never seen that. Lit seen it at the store.
Speaker 1: But it's a lot of those pictures you are do
Speaker 1: have it tied to some something else though that look
Speaker 1: Do you know what this looks like? You guys, if
Speaker 1: anyone is listening at home, I'm gonna tell you exactly
Speaker 1: what this looks like. Some of some of you have
Speaker 1: it in your house in your bathroom behind the door
Speaker 1: when you pitch your rope or you're tying on there.
Speaker 1: You can also double and put that in your ass
Speaker 1: what it looks like? Why why I can't do it?
Speaker 1: Because this is exactly what it looks like. You would
Speaker 1: like a little bit of a cheaper thing if you
Speaker 1: don't have a sliding shower dour and you have a
Speaker 1: shower curtain, that hook generally has a ball on the
Speaker 1: end so that the shower sea. Okay, you know what,
Speaker 1: maybe the enemy didn't give you a promo code for
Speaker 1: this episode. You're welcome. D I y sex choice with bro.
Speaker 1: That is insane. Okay, that's sane. I ain't shaming. Okay,
Speaker 1: so he put this in your So can I ask
Speaker 1: you real quick at any point during this did you
Speaker 1: ask is that brand new? Come out the package? Like
Speaker 1: when I watched him clean it, I just think he
Speaker 1: was I didn't think he was gonna use it with me,
Speaker 1: Like you know, you like you don't you get a
Speaker 1: parent thing? And they and they show you they like,
Speaker 1: are you a pedicure? And maybe showing you how to
Speaker 1: take it outside the can't he bring beside? What are
Speaker 1: you cleaning with cleaner? Okay? Yeah that's what I happened. Okay, boy,
Speaker 1: it's not like it was. Yeah, so tied me up
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay. So every time he liked he
Speaker 1: would hit it with stuff it like vibrates and it
Speaker 1: was an experience and I'm like, this is kind of
Speaker 1: like sounded like yeah, like if you were to like
Speaker 1: hit this and you know how like it's making the noise,
Speaker 1: but because it's in your fill it every time, it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I went in a subspace, so like
Speaker 1: I kind of just felt like I was what is
Speaker 1: that word that that girl used, not a sub kiki
Speaker 1: kings kiki, a sub there's a word that she you
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. She talked about how she
Speaker 1: a regression. No, I'm sorry, Benson, I don't know what
Speaker 1: kind of production you're trying to Bensonish was trying to
Speaker 1: show us to ask like attached to one's sucking head
Speaker 1: and his head is like oh no, look she she's like, wait,
Speaker 1: let me show you what I did this too, subtly
Speaker 1: like a picture that looks like that one. Look hold on, wait,
Speaker 1: oh this is funny. She said. You just said like
Speaker 1: you just put anybody home. So here's my question then,
Speaker 1: because this guy is someone that you had just met,
Speaker 1: right and though you booked a session with him what
Speaker 1: allows you to trust him? So watched him tie up
Speaker 1: multiple people that night. I watched him do wax play
Speaker 1: and like you do knife play and cut the wax
Speaker 1: off the girl's back. So we saw enough. If y'all
Speaker 1: cannot see behind this camera, but he's holding his phone
Speaker 1: nut every few minute to show him. And here's another ass,
Speaker 1: and here's another one spread open, another one and another one.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So how many times after once you
Speaker 1: realize you enjoyed it? Is this something that you just
Speaker 1: started craving to ask for? So the next party, I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well we've had a private session, and
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to know if you could do
Speaker 1: some suspension on me and he was just like I
Speaker 1: would love to because he loves like, let's do it.
Speaker 1: That man turned me into a pinata. And you were
Speaker 1: like I was, I was, you know, suspended? Um? And
Speaker 1: was he Mexican as well? She said she only deal
Speaker 1: with the black Kings. I just said, she said it
Speaker 1: means yeah, oh wow, you were like off the floor.
Speaker 1: Can we share share this picture with listeners? Yeah? So okay,
Speaker 1: we can't really see your fit? Wow you can see Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you feel like you had to throw up, But
Speaker 1: did he did he bring um any certain type of
Speaker 1: ropes specifically for you? Because so I say that because
Speaker 1: when I went to the dungeon, the ropes that were
Speaker 1: being used for the slave, they were like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: so I actually ended up being put into let are
Speaker 1: harnesses to be pulled up and the leather harnesses just
Speaker 1: fit my thighs real comfortably. But yeah, like how were
Speaker 1: the ropes? Were the ropes different time? And he doesn't
Speaker 1: have a certain type of rope, he won't suspend me
Speaker 1: because some ropes are literally just to be pretty. Now
Speaker 1: can you imagine if you was like right in between
Speaker 1: let's say you're good, I don't know, let's say skinnies
Speaker 1: one twenty. This was between. It's like, let's between is
Speaker 1: like I was on sixty and they were like, these
Speaker 1: ropes that are being used for her, we can't so
Speaker 1: they literally use leather harnesses because they were like, these
Speaker 1: ropes couldn't be for you, and we don't have your
Speaker 1: ropes pulled out. There are different there's definitely ropes that
Speaker 1: would not be able to suspend me. And I was told, no, girl,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get the like I was told by the
Speaker 1: app it's the They call them carabineers. So the thing
Speaker 1: that holds the rope and connects to the beam in
Speaker 1: the wall to make sure you have strong carabean Yes
Speaker 1: and no, they come with bungee courts, but you don't
Speaker 1: really want a bungee cord if you're gonna be done,
Speaker 1: because you don't want to rope to bounce up and down.
Speaker 1: But so when he was actually doing the session that
Speaker 1: I just showed you guys, one of the carabineers bent
Speaker 1: and I could like feel it, and I'm like, okay, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: but like on a bigger scale. All right, that's what
Speaker 1: else do you what do you use for using for keys?
Speaker 1: You could put them on your water bottles, clip them this,
Speaker 1: but this is what will hold you up. Yes, but
Speaker 1: like way bigger, ray sturdier. Um. And whenever I wasn't
Speaker 1: necessarily with him, I actually like ordered one of those
Speaker 1: what do they call him yoga yoga swings. Okay, call
Speaker 1: them sex queens all the time, but the yoga swings
Speaker 1: concario yoga. That's when I threw up first episode you
Speaker 1: did you did mention that? But they thought I was pregnant.
Speaker 1: What didn't matter? Yeah, So like I would like practice
Speaker 1: being upside down sometimes at home so I can make
Speaker 1: sure I wasn't dizzy during the session. But any time
Speaker 1: that you you feel like you're about to blackout or
Speaker 1: you need to stop, you can always just say, you know,
Speaker 1: well that's the thing to you. Can you stand up? Sorry?
Speaker 1: If you had to? Could you stand up? Could your
Speaker 1: feet are tied? Okay, wait because I have one more question.
Speaker 1: I have one more question. Because you've done this with
Speaker 1: you know, a professional, You've done this in a party setting,
Speaker 1: how would you introduce this to someone that you're really
Speaker 1: dating that may not have ever done bondage before. Is
Speaker 1: this something that you can introduce to them? I mean
Speaker 1: everybody has been at some point in their life. I
Speaker 1: believe so. Um she said, girl, everybody did you know
Speaker 1: they ain't working with me? And like, damn, it's not
Speaker 1: like that. It's it's like I don't immediately meet guys
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, you like beating ass? I like
Speaker 1: being my ass? Beat you like time people up, kidnap me.
Speaker 1: I don't do that. So you gotta be like, you
Speaker 1: know s have you ever you know, uh been here
Speaker 1: or looked up that? Do you have a fat life?
Speaker 1: My friend into a b d s M camp somewhere
Speaker 1: in the Hamptons or some ship they do have summer
Speaker 1: can and yeah, she said it was so fun. She
Speaker 1: she's engaged. She said, her like fiance is kind of whack.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know her like that. She told
Speaker 1: me about it, and yeah, she took him to the
Speaker 1: camp and basically like a bunch of people did stuff
Speaker 1: with her, and she said it was really safe and fun,
Speaker 1: like just like I'm a b DSM hohs school, I
Speaker 1: was on fete and I found this like my fet life.
Speaker 1: She's talking about all black group of professional kinksters and
Speaker 1: not professional, like they're professionals, but like you know, they
Speaker 1: don't have a degree, but like they have a degree,
Speaker 1: but just not in It's crazy because a lot of
Speaker 1: people often ask us, how do we find people that
Speaker 1: are into this type of stuff x y Z, And
Speaker 1: it's literally like outside of Google, which I advised people
Speaker 1: to do, to these apps, you literally can narrow it
Speaker 1: down to the area that you're in and find people.
Speaker 1: So basically you're telling me, I could type in attorney
Speaker 1: enjoy head up if I tried to stand up, it
Speaker 1: would you know, Look, okay, we gotta feature some of
Speaker 1: these pictures you can because it explaining, Yeah, you can
Speaker 1: kind of see there she is a little bit just
Speaker 1: a little you like, Now does that ever, Like I
Speaker 1: don't know, like is that something that turns you on? Though?
Speaker 1: Like being restricted like that? Because I'm claustrophobics, so this
Speaker 1: is um you know, like I think that I don't
Speaker 1: feel claustrophobic. Wrote, but I don't like like gags or
Speaker 1: like my mouth being covered like I've done. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't really like breath plate like that, like I've done
Speaker 1: um momification by Serran wrap and like some people will
Speaker 1: wrap their whole heads. I'm not into that. You can
Speaker 1: wrap my entire body. Just don't I need to breathe.
Speaker 1: It's like the clear shoes. Would it just be like
Speaker 1: just be foggy the guys before we got out here.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our homemal and please feel free
Speaker 1: to give you a little tit bit of advice and
Speaker 1: is too It says, uh, this one is advice before
Speaker 1: making a horrible decision. I mean, go ahead and make assist.
Speaker 1: But anyway, it says, have you ever had sex with
Speaker 1: someone that you don't want anyone to know about? Yes?
Speaker 1: I know right well, that's how it starts. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be getting too Does that make me a bad person?
Speaker 1: I have been celibate for about four years due to
Speaker 1: a mix of choices, personal guilt, morals, and lack of confidence.
Speaker 1: I feel so out of practice being intimate with another person.
Speaker 1: I also have had significant weight gain, as well as
Speaker 1: parting from a very dysfunctional relationship within the last three years.
Speaker 1: All of those things have me feeling less than desirable.
Speaker 1: There is someone that has talked to me on the
Speaker 1: low for over ten years, first his friends, then as more.
Speaker 1: I want to have sex with him to get back
Speaker 1: to my old self, but I have my doubts. I
Speaker 1: am not truly attracted to anything but his penis. I
Speaker 1: can't stand his voice, his personality, any of it is girl,
Speaker 1: I already feel horrible, and she's felt it, of course,
Speaker 1: like what like horrible that I have used him to
Speaker 1: make myself feel better with conversation and flirting. I've been
Speaker 1: very clear with him that I do not want a relationship.
Speaker 1: He says it's okay with him, but I am scared
Speaker 1: it will be a problem once we start this new
Speaker 1: friends with benefits situation. Help me out ladies. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I should do. Just keep sucking him, girl,
Speaker 1: what the funk? Like he's getting your pussy for free,
Speaker 1: hasn't had sex for four years, they had sex before,
Speaker 1: and she's coming back. He's gonna be four years and
Speaker 1: now you can keep it. I mean, I guess that's
Speaker 1: good advice because my good dick is everywhere says maybe
Speaker 1: maybe she feels safer obviously, but like you hate him
Speaker 1: like I don't, But it's just maybe that'll be great
Speaker 1: because she won't get her feelings. I think that that's
Speaker 1: good and I'm not gonna lie. And it's funny because
Speaker 1: she's on here maybe assuming that there's gonna be a problem,
Speaker 1: but you've already told him you don't want a relationship
Speaker 1: if it's only just sucking. You know, get you get
Speaker 1: your nut. Office just called the woman to just be like,
Speaker 1: just need to bust this nuts. So both have I mean,
Speaker 1: we know you funked the ugly guy before we talked
Speaker 1: about it on recently. I was like, damn, have you
Speaker 1: like ever like the ugly guy? Just because Nick? Sorry
Speaker 1: you actually liked the ugly guy. I'm telling if you know,
Speaker 1: if you never know, it's like she was thinking, we
Speaker 1: know you have anyway, there was context, it's in a
Speaker 1: previous episode, but we know you actually like that ugly nigga.
Speaker 1: Have you ever just suf Have you ever just unked
Speaker 1: the ugly nigga because you wanted dick? This is really
Speaker 1: really vain and I'm gonna say this, but I kind
Speaker 1: of don't care because I'm so ugly nigga. Not for
Speaker 1: money exactly, but he had some talents in his wallet,
Speaker 1: and I just you know, he was whatever. I kind
Speaker 1: of used to get turned on into the fact that
Speaker 1: like I knew he had to suck me because like
Speaker 1: he was ugly. No, no, he had to pay because
Speaker 1: he was ugly, and like I like, no one else
Speaker 1: sucking his ugly ask because he couldn't. Like he was
Speaker 1: just like so he would always call me pretty, and
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, I'm cute, but like I'm not
Speaker 1: a ten, which is fine, the same story bitch the ugly,
Speaker 1: but they want to be cute. And that's the thing
Speaker 1: you could turn me on. That was bomb. He just
Speaker 1: not attractive. It wasn't even that great. Real quick, how
Speaker 1: do you get to know one an ugly nigger has
Speaker 1: a good dick? And be ugly. I don't know that now.
Speaker 1: He told me. He was just like, you just trusted
Speaker 1: the ugly nig gonna have a big you're telling me
Speaker 1: wait pause, okay, re seats relaxed. It wasn't like his words.
Speaker 1: He was just like, no, he showed you a whole
Speaker 1: fax and he was like, Yo, you could ask anyone.
Speaker 1: You could ask you. You could. You could ask my
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend work. First of all, I said, call her
Speaker 1: on three way because I don't believe you, and I
Speaker 1: ain't calling that bitch. But she asked girlfriend and girlfriend
Speaker 1: people that love me when you That's what I'm saying
Speaker 1: when you actually said, Elly, we literally broke up because
Speaker 1: I moved to Washington State and he lives there and
Speaker 1: he's not willing to fly back and forth, even though
Speaker 1: he can clearly afford to. So that's why we're not together.
Speaker 1: You have a very trusting Okay. For example, when you're
Speaker 1: buying a car and it's ugly, I ain't going about no,
Speaker 1: but this is the thing. You know that the car
Speaker 1: salesman is going to make commissions. They have a reason
Speaker 1: to sell you in the car. Okay, you believed the
Speaker 1: man that wanted your pussy had good dick because he
Speaker 1: told you and then she told me, so it's someone
Speaker 1: and I said, well, now, if I was buying a car,
Speaker 1: and they pulled over a coworker that they've worked for
Speaker 1: a long time, and they then said, hey, isn't this
Speaker 1: a great car? And the person was like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a good car. So basically, you're telling me that this
Speaker 1: nigga that wanted to funk. You said, please ask my
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend, and of course I'm cooling if I have
Speaker 1: good dick, and you were like yeah. I said sure,
Speaker 1: because I didn't really think he was gonna call her.
Speaker 1: I don't think she was gonna answer. It was honestly,
Speaker 1: was it her face, Tiger? Yes. I just want to say,
Speaker 1: this is how you know that there's not that much
Speaker 1: good dick around because you were willing to oh uglass
Speaker 1: nigga just to get some good day. I mean, he
Speaker 1: ain't even gotta be just an ugly. He was just ugly,
Speaker 1: like on a scale from one to tend ugly. Now
Speaker 1: he was a solid foreigner. Dallas. I just want to
Speaker 1: tell you if you ever recommend to us ever a
Speaker 1: restaurant or something like that, you know I'm not because
Speaker 1: I never I don't y know, this place is popping
Speaker 1: her friend you Yeah, yeah, your friend home club. We're
Speaker 1: not gonna get in today anyways, Dallas, thank you for
Speaker 1: joining us today. I want to thank you, and I
Speaker 1: still because I'm so claustrophobic. The rope play is one
Speaker 1: thing I have yet to talk about. Actually wait, it's
Speaker 1: not rope play, but I am trying. Uh And I
Speaker 1: post it onto the Horrible Decisions Instagram page. The what's
Speaker 1: it called where it's my ankles my ankles to my
Speaker 1: wrists or something the bar I don't know. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: extension cord coord thing where ties and it's just supposed
Speaker 1: to like leave it open in the Yeah, so I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try that. Um, but being the tied up like
Speaker 1: you do. But because she's just like she's don't be
Speaker 1: able to relate like silk ties. Oh I didn't think
Speaker 1: of that. I forgot that There are different types of
Speaker 1: things that you could use it. Your tastes don't like
Speaker 1: the friction of the rope, so you could use a tie.
Speaker 1: You could use the rope the middle of your robe.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, and they got litt little sex tape to
Speaker 1: The sex tape is my favorite because the more you
Speaker 1: move it loosens Okay from that? Yeah, yeah, So you
Speaker 1: want to get or do you want to get a
Speaker 1: little looser? You can do it yourself. It's fine. Oh
Speaker 1: Mike Pepill do a little sex tape. All right? Well, um,
Speaker 1: can you go ahead and let our audience know where
Speaker 1: they can find you? I know you active on this Twitter.
Speaker 1: You can find me on Twitter and there every date,
Speaker 1: every day, Dallas Playhouse on Twitter, on Instagram is underscore
Speaker 1: Dallas Playhouse on mostly everything. It's Dallas Playhouse because that's
Speaker 1: my name. There you go, and um, do you have
Speaker 1: videos or other things where people can see the electro um?
Speaker 1: I will put some stuff up. I'm actually like working
Speaker 1: on a website on the side that is literally just
Speaker 1: like b D s M sessions, like just my road play,
Speaker 1: just election only fanship Actually yes, but like I'm tired
Speaker 1: of giving them money. No, no, I'm saying right, like
Speaker 1: we all just create another platform, right. A lot of
Speaker 1: people are like, I really want to see your content,
Speaker 1: but I really do want to tell you guys something
Speaker 1: interesting I learned. You guys know, I'm any day fiance
Speaker 1: fan and Larissa just got fired because of cam Soda.
Speaker 1: But with Cam Soda apparently because I was like, this
Speaker 1: can't be because so many people have only fans. Cam
Speaker 1: Soda makes you exclusive to them, so they pay you
Speaker 1: out of certain amount of money to use you. And
Speaker 1: TLC has something in their contract that says you have
Speaker 1: exclusivity with them for anything, and so only Fans is independent.
Speaker 1: You're making money independently, So that makes sense. It makes sense,
Speaker 1: it does. It does make sense that, Yeah, are you
Speaker 1: looking like a mermaid. Yes, I'm going to see my work.
Speaker 1: We're going to post some of these on Patreon as
Speaker 1: well and reference them so that I know. We talked
Speaker 1: a lot about like pictures and you're probably not sure
Speaker 1: what they look like, but we're gonna share. Yeah you will.
Speaker 1: But yeah, if you want some more horrible decisions, join
Speaker 1: us on our Patreon. We talked about it all the
Speaker 1: time and it's a really fun platform. Mandy and I
Speaker 1: are giving you the most up to date content on.
Speaker 1: There are catch ups things like that, if we may
Speaker 1: be about current events. If you all want Mandy's boyfriend,
Speaker 1: I mean I was talking about it's called Patreon, ye shore, Yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: I am about to actually gonna meet him. He's like, hey,
Speaker 1: let me know what he does anyway. Also, yes, make
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Speaker 1: tuning into Yeah, another episode of Horror Decisions. Fact I
Speaker 1: want to get real quick. We're gonna get into the
Speaker 1: whole facts real quick. It's a random one. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna say quick. So whole fact for this week is
Speaker 1: the after fingers and vibrators. Candles are actually the phallic
Speaker 1: objects used most often by female masturbators. Um, I assume
Speaker 1: it's like the candles, like you know, the stick ones,
Speaker 1: the stick candles, because I wouldn't assume the ones that
Speaker 1: I get from marshals that come in a glass jar
Speaker 1: are the ones women are masturbating with. Just say that.
Speaker 1: I think it's just because women don't buy like like
Speaker 1: anything to masturbate with, so they'll use like like the
Speaker 1: cucumber thing, you know, like this household ship. So for
Speaker 1: the horrible decision guys, um, and we made it here.
Speaker 1: We got some time to get through it. Hopefully we
Speaker 1: has a has a cool story. Um, I have one
Speaker 1: that's exciting that I don't I'm not sure if I've shared,
Speaker 1: but um, we are about to go to Moca Fest
Speaker 1: in Mexico. And again it's kind of like a free
Speaker 1: for all, it is an adult only resort. So my
Speaker 1: idea for the horrible decision for this episode was to
Speaker 1: talk about a sex craze weekend that we both have
Speaker 1: experienced at any point of our lives. Um, I think
Speaker 1: we've both been on vacation, we both like went to festivals,
Speaker 1: We've both you know, done just getaway where maybe it
Speaker 1: turned into the sex craze weekend. So we wanted to
Speaker 1: know when you saw this, did any particular weekend come
Speaker 1: to mind? And then if we have time, UM, I
Speaker 1: have a what if. We'll probably not do the wholemail,
Speaker 1: but instead we'll play a game at the end about
Speaker 1: what if, so we can kind of make some predictions
Speaker 1: for our Mexico trip. I think the only sex crazy
Speaker 1: weekend I had. It was like when I used to
Speaker 1: go to Ultra, How like, do you did you have
Speaker 1: sex with multiple partners? Did you find yourself falling in
Speaker 1: love with one guy on day one and that one
Speaker 1: guy was Night? It was with a girl when Night
Speaker 1: was the guy, and then like I was making out
Speaker 1: with a lot of people at Ultra, it was bad.
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know how to get mono, but that
Speaker 1: sounds like that. Come into you did come into the
Speaker 1: studio a couple of times A little sick bitch might
Speaker 1: have been mono bitch. Not I wasn't raining since we've
Speaker 1: been I would have. I would have said it mono
Speaker 1: is insane. I've had it before when I was like,
Speaker 1: did like easy like, but I didn't do I haven't
Speaker 1: done it since we've been podcasting. Oh if I've done it,
Speaker 1: I've done like some Euroship. But I have a book
Speaker 1: in my house of that dub made me of all
Speaker 1: our raving pictures. And I just watched that This is
Speaker 1: Paris documentary. Y'all gotta watch it. You would love it.
Speaker 1: Paris Hilton is so much more deep than we think.
Speaker 1: I can't even believe it. It's crazy. I'm she is
Speaker 1: definitely like one of those I'm sure she's brilliant and
Speaker 1: has she made a million dollars per g Like are
Speaker 1: you kidding? It's disgusting. And then she was like I
Speaker 1: don't even know my real voice anymore, like yeah, but
Speaker 1: I mean no, like, and when I was watching, I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, bro, like I used to do that
Speaker 1: ship heavy, Like oh my god, nigga, I've lived for
Speaker 1: a raid. Like if my boss told me I couldn't
Speaker 1: go away for a weekend, I was like, I'll fucking quit. Dude,
Speaker 1: do you think you're gonna keep me from going? All
Speaker 1: nig I was wild then, like, I think what also
Speaker 1: amplified the sex is wait quick, come to think about it.
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking of all the stories you've told. Didn't
Speaker 1: the tree house story come about from a race? No? No,
Speaker 1: I went to a bar in Brooklyn babies all right, um,
Speaker 1: and it was crazy like it was a snow rom
Speaker 1: That's why I stayed his house. But anyway, but I
Speaker 1: mean it came from Molly, which the same ship. Uh. No.
Speaker 1: I think the sex is so amplified because I really
Speaker 1: never got to do anything, and like I didn't have
Speaker 1: that much money and I spent all of that money.
Speaker 1: It's very expensive to go to raves, ultras, like five
Speaker 1: for the weekend. Then you got to get hotels for
Speaker 1: ultra and it's a bunch of people sleeping in the house.
Speaker 1: Me and Minnie used to be stuck in these little
Speaker 1: tiny beds together because we were splitting with eight people.
Speaker 1: Then you have to buy drugs. You know, expensive drugs
Speaker 1: are I don't but you've shared the costs with me
Speaker 1: a couple of times and I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is like there for people's expensive and I don't
Speaker 1: know how I afforded it, but I think it's just
Speaker 1: your weekend to go fucking ham And so all of
Speaker 1: that sexual like energy, that tension, like I didn't care,
Speaker 1: Like it was just so freeing. And I think today, like,
Speaker 1: you know, we were talking about going to a rave
Speaker 1: and uh, what what was it? What was that country?
Speaker 1: And you thought it was a canda soda? What was it?
Speaker 1: Malta Malta carst off. Malta is a canda, So it
Speaker 1: is a mall. It's a malt drink. It's a malt drink,
Speaker 1: but it's called Malta. Yeah, yea, yeah, the country is Malta,
Speaker 1: of it. I didn't know there's a Malta drink. It's
Speaker 1: but it's nasty. It tastes like it tastes like burnt syrup.
Speaker 1: That ship Nasty Malta, Goya Malta anyway, nasty is anyway. No,
Speaker 1: I had a fucking a bunch of sex craze weekend.
Speaker 1: And also I was always single when I went to
Speaker 1: those things, so I feel like I never had it
Speaker 1: in the background mind, so I couldn't. No guilty