WEBVTT - Ep193: Ropes, a Muse and Electro-Play (Ft. Dallas playhouse) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:08.480 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.840 You're what a dude? Baby. Welcome to another episode of 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:15.080 Horrible Decisions. If you have not heard us before, welcome. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:18.400 Also make sure to subscribe, rate, and review wherever you 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.200 listen to us or watch U because yes, we is 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.400 on the YouTube. What's up? I'm your girl, Mandy b 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:24.800 A k at s A k A debt bitch a 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:27.800 k A tripod mommy? What it do? What's tripod? Mommy? 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:33.000 I have a tree podcast? Was like taking you got 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.520 I'm not like taking a picture, but it's like tree pod. 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:42.480 I was like, I'm tri hi, guys, I'm weazy, I'm 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:45.120 just stay sinking. Oh no, I'm a double your you're 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:51.960 die patriation. I'm a deep here or baby. And we 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:56.920 are joined today by Oh okay, well that too. So 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.800 we're gonna play some porty name that's a very like 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:06.360 kinky name. I could do Dallas, right, okay, alright, like 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.600 the city, yes there? So where do you get the 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:15.240 Dallas Playhouse? As I just told Benson, um my dad 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:17.039 was like a huge Cowboys fan and I'm a star. 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:23.720 All right. So the funny thing about this is y'all. 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:26.280 So I was like, you know what, we need to 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.240 get some people on the pot. So I threw a 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:31.200 tweet out there, Uh, Dallas hit me up. But what's 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.720 even crazier is after we don't communicate it for a 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.080 little bit, she's like, so you know we met, right, 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.880 And I was like we did, and she's like, I 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:40.360 get it. Y'all meet a lot of people. I meet 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:42.279 a lot of people. Y'all was late. I'd be feeling 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:44.880 really bad. But but when when I think it's not 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:47.240 just like meeting, I feel like I remember someone coming 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:49.200 up to me more than I do an arena like that. 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:51.080 I met a guy at a bar the other day. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.760 He was like, are you easy. I'm like, yeah, I'm 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.000 thinking he listened to the podcast. He's like, I've been 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:56.760 on set with you before. My name is Jesse, and 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:01.120 I'm still like okay. He did were lighting and ship 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:03.160 for the Horrible Decisions movie, and let me tell you, 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:08.440 we were there for eight nights, all day the outset. 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.600 I ain't gonna hold you. I said, maybe it's the mask. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.160 He said, well, I'm not wearing one now and I 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.639 wasn't wearing one. No my mask and let me explain. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.480 Am I the only person I know? This sounds dumb? 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:22.040 Whose mask fox up their vision? The girl I feel 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:24.040 like mine is just because of my glasses, Like they 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.560 just always get foggy. Okay, we'll see. I like my 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:29.720 wearing my personality glasses and I wear them all the 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:31.840 time and when I wear the mask, it fogs them up, 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:34.960 you know. So I ain't gonna hold you. He could 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.440 walk through this door right now and I won't know that. Man, 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:42.160 I'm sorry, I don't remember the guy so bad. Man. 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.400 So he's Dennis's assistant and he's been on calls with 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:49.280 me that I've had with Dennis for producing ship, which 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:51.160 I was just like, I don't know. The more that 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.280 he kept talking, he was like saying stuff you know 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:55.360 when people trying to give you the hint, and he 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:56.640 was like right out there. I was like all right, 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:58.120 and he was, you don't even remember you ordered that 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:01.880 man sushi where you over remember a ship Broder. We 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:06.040 had a whole platter. It's when you have to like 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.440 create the set vibes, you know what I'm saying. So Saturday, 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.360 I just did another set and I remember thinking like 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:13.160 because it started night, I was like, does anyone know 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:14.360 what they want to eat there, like we're not hungry, 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:16.320 And I was like, this is a lot cheaper for me. Great, 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:19.959 I'll just do jonuhs. They're gonna do jonats, But like 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:21.760 when you go to real ship, and I don't want 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:23.119 people to think that I'm gonna do sh it cheap, 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.320 even though I will when you go to real ship. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.000 You know what I'm saying, maybe having the waters out, 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.120 asking if you want anything. So I feel like it's 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:30.840 nice to treat people that way, but what would have 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.040 been nicer as if I knew his sucking name or 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:35.480 his favor So what I did was just trying to 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:37.800 be like, what do you want to drink? Like, all, 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.680 let's talk. Yes, what are you working on? Now? Do 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:42.600 you want to alcohol? Okay, we'll see. And speaking of alcohol, 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.440 that's that's what I responded her. I was like, girl, 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:48.600 you know I'll be drunk. I'll really be partying and 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:50.720 be out with people and don't know who they are. 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.680 And she's like, well, yeah, we've partied with listeners in 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.120 d C. Don't do this are you gonna do? I'm 0:03:56.160 --> 0:04:00.920 not talking about out with that girl about Rody. I 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:02.680 wasn't going to talk about how you made out with her. 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.280 I was really, were you there when I was making 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.880 out where her? Were you was there? Did you see that? 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.440 And we just was like she makes up what everyone's funny? 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.160 You Maybe I don't know if I says she means, 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:18.479 I probably said this is that I can see that. Yeah, 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:20.599 I'll be making out with bitches. You were like only 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:23.200 pretty muches. Yeah you know what I mean? And Mandy 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.359 used me is so extra because Shorty and one of 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:29.400 our friends was playing and she was like, fucking bit 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:34.679 Wait what did I remember she playing? She was playing 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.359 fuck you? Then you kept dancing to other people because 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.239 I do feel like, because wait, one of my friends 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:42.440 what what? What? What world? That she didn't give me 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.560 a pussy on phone? That was probably one of the 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.440 not for sure it might have been it. And I was, yeah, 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.080 that was good. That was it? My friend name give 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.440 me a pussy? Song man? Your friend she was giving 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:58.160 mutual friend? Oh got you her reasons I brought up 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:00.760 being sucked up because that's say night someone else I 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.919 didn't recognize there was a girl. It comes up to 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.360 me she's been a patron for a while and she's 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:08.960 like beginning and so she said she had some molly water, 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.359 and she was like, do you want someone? I was like, girl, 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:16.200 um no, she was like girl, So I listened to you. 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.840 She basically was like, I know you don't know nobody 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:21.480 you'd be taking that ship from. So I was like, girl, No. 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:25.920 So after a while people bought we were drinking bottle 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.640 what we've ordered bottles, but they were all gone, and 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:32.440 so I was like, there's nothing really left. So tuned her. 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:36.880 But wait, it was fine. I was alive right now. 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.200 But no, she's a member of the horror You think's 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:42.240 gonna stear me wrong? Maybe, I mean, I ain't gonna 0:05:42.279 --> 0:05:44.360 hold you real quick. Shout out to the hor Hive too, 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.920 because I don't know how we come across. But bitch, 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:49.400 almost every city there was fans that brought us bloods 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:52.880 and they did every fucking since. I'm gonna brot me 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:54.719 a tab of acid, like people be looking now, Wait, 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:56.919 you got a tab of what aid she give it 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:58.520 to you? It was a Boston She knew not to 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.560 give it. She gave you animals. And she whispered to me, 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.960 it is so funny how certain drugs we fund a hierarchy. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:05.800 She she was like Mandy this is for you, and 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.640 then I made a joke like damn bit and she's 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:10.719 like she didn't even want to give me the edible 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.800 because at the Boston show I shared how the edible 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.520 I had to be thrown into a bathtobe because my 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.240 nigga and so I share my same I share my 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:22.040 edible story and she was like, I brought you the 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.920 edible and I was like, well, but she'll still taking 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:28.880 So after the Molly Water Ship, fast forward, it's quarantine time, 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:30.760 I'm hanging around the l Yes. This girl comes up 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:32.840 to me and she's like, oh you I came to 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.200 hear a d C show, so we hope we take 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:36.560 a picture and she was like, do you remember what else? 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:41.200 And I'm like like, I'm really looking like and she 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:43.039 was just like we had a moment. I'm like, and 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.200 I do remember crying with this one girl shut up 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:48.200 at the DC Club in DC. She just made me 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:49.360 a tear up, you know what I mean. She was like, 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.320 oh my god, I can your first show and I 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.880 just started car and then she told me she was 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.279 like we were in the bathroom together and I'm like, okay, 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:59.680 but I don't know what she was talking about. You 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:02.760 and I'm like, I know, we didn't do that, and 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:04.680 she was like her, bitch, we took some money hoard together. 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:06.919 I'm like, oh my god, but you didn't even know 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:10.560 who I was, Like, well, we wearing masks now. I 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:14.040 can't easy part about Dallas is she It's not like 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:16.000 she was just a fan that was in line. She 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:19.680 was pretty much backstage with us because her sister was 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:24.120 the Muse for Dash with UM with if you guys 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.760 came to Our Lives show, we had live kinksters and 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:30.840 in DC specifically, we had Sir Dashington, who did a 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.160 live rendition of Bondage, which is crazy because that is 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:36.320 what this week's episode is about. And we're gonna get 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:45.000 to talking to Dallas. And I thought the Muse was 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:47.840 different in every city. The Muse was different than every city. 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:49.680 But that's what we're gonna be talking about UM And 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:53.080 I'm really excited because every time we kind of I 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.040 think by the second time Dash was there, we didn't 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.440 really even have questions for him. We wanted to understand, 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:01.400 as a woman, you being tied it up, what arousal 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:02.880 you get out of that? And so we're gonna talk 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:05.840 about that for the horrible the girl who does my hair. Um, 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:07.800 not my braids, but the girl who does my hair. 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.720 She tells me all the time she'll have sessions and 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:12.440 stuff like that. And I'd be like, because I know 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.680 she used to work in a dungeon. I'm like, oh, 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.920 you'd beating legs up. She'd be like, no, like Dash, 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:23.680 Dash gives me sessions. Look a look at the right. 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:29.080 I found craigslist. Right, this is a long time about 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:31.480 when I first moved to New York and I know 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:32.679 what's to do and I was like Winter's time and 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:34.360 I was like, fuck this. I found her on Craigslist. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:37.480 And years later, right, So she's like, you know what, 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:39.600 you don't want to tell somebody who you are. So 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:41.520 she starts telling me a little bit about b DSM, 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:43.040 a little stuff, and then she's like, I know you 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:45.200 got a podcast. I'll be sitting there for hours. I'm like, 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.200 oh you doing And she's like, yep, And I know 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:52.680 Dash and he's one of my domsa playing in that rope. 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:57.040 I'm gonna just say that she said that Dash was 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:58.640 one of the only men. I don't know if I 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.080 can name the dungeon, I won't that she has ever 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:05.199 been in this dungeon um that was not a customer. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.240 The only men ever who was teaching some of the 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.600 women there how to handle people and do it safely. 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.440 Because at these dungeons, it's the way that it works 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.240 legally is they're called I think I just talked to 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:18.640 you and mention about this. Maybe their studios filming studios 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:20.960 right where the women are actresses that role play. So 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.679 Dash actually went in there to help them do this 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.240 ship safely because a lot of them just be time, 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:30.440 just do it right. And we're talking. We're gonna talk 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:34.240 about that for sure. Also, uh, Dallas, outside of being 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:38.760 a rope muse, you also are in the I want 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:46.800 to say media kinspank. What is the two every day? Yeah? 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:49.280 Wait wait wait girls look looking at with these faith 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:51.559 this is some stars and moons type ship. What is this? 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.959 What is gratefulness? Our or time? Personally it's not a thing, 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.400 but just for me, like every day it's two when 0:09:58.400 --> 0:09:59.920 the alarm goes off, I just you know thin, because 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:06.320 what about uh be here with like no I've recorded 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:07.880 like a snap with us party and in the club 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:09.559 and I remember looking at it the very next day 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:11.319 like Okay, I'm gonna delete this. But I'm gonna keep 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.920 it though, but I'm not gonna leave it up because 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.880 I look crazy. But I know we all look crazy 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:21.360 that night. But so come into the club. Here was 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.360 you know, straightened out, left out the club with a 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:26.720 whole effort. It's fine. So what else, um do you 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:30.720 do in this kink space outside of rope musing? Um? 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:34.280 I really love impact. I've done a little bit of 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:36.440 some electro play. I'm I'm a little pussy gonna come 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:40.080 to that. I'm not gonna electro play. Yes, electro play. 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:43.640 You could either use like the tens where they put 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:46.480 like these pads on you and it kind of makes 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:50.080 you like a conductor. So you can use anything on 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:53.200 your body like it could be metal clause, it could 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:56.800 be um like a brush, it could be anything and 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:59.120 it'll like, you know, kind of shock you a little bit. 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:03.560 But it's not like I'm already like do you get 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:08.920 wet from that? But it's the shock Like, no, it's 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:13.360 not like somebody's trying to electrical. You use the metal 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:17.599 from something else, and you where do you put the 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:20.880 sticky thing? The sticky things just go on your body somewhere, 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.320 Like where do you like I like to put mine 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:25.440 like kind of like up here because I know that 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.360 you know, you might touch my arms or touch can 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:30.439 you get like electrocuted like too far? Like can the 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.760 voltage just like you can? Definitely it can be up 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:34.360 too hot and you might not like that, and you 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:36.719 can ask them to turn it down. Yes, there's a 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:40.240 whole voltage machine. Yeah, which is why you gotta play 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.520 safely and talk to people who know what they're doing. Holy, 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:46.079 we're very wrong. Well, if you find black people to 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:50.200 do it or not? Yeah, absolutely, I don't play that 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.240 electro plate. Wait, what do you mean? You don't play that? 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:56.360 So you don't do you not prefer to deal with 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.720 black kinkstairs. But also I build relationships with the people 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.520 that I do play sessions with, so I'm never like 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:06.400 just just because the kinks that I'm into are so 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:10.000 like it can go real wrong, real fast. Okay, and 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.680 and and so is it because you trust black men 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:17.800 more than you trust women and black women more. Okay? Okay, 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:20.440 I've been tied up and I've I've done a electro 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:24.160 play with um with a white kinkster at like a 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.000 play party or whatever, and it was cool, but like 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:30.360 towards the end, he kind of like the voltage was 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:31.680 up a little too high and I was like, all right, 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:35.880 I'm done, red, We're finished, okay. So basically it's like 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:39.920 the sticky things that you would put on like for heart, yeah, 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.320 like when you go okay. They also have one that 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:45.800 looks like what do you call it? Um an ace bandage? 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:50.520 And I see that right here bottom of your arm 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.640 and it does the same thing. So she has them 0:12:53.840 --> 0:13:03.720 on her chest. No, you could go to the storm 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:06.719 by a violet one and they have attachments. I want 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:12.280 to see, bro that I ain't gonna hold You's a 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.400 that's a lot. So also the setup for that is 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:20.920 a lot, Like it looks like it's not WPS for you. So, yeah, 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:24.880 I'm not black people do this. I'm not. I just 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:27.160 feel like black people wouldn't put any electrical stuff, Like 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:29.440 if you're gonna get wet, maybe we shouldn't electrocute you. 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.400 You know what I'm saying. That don't sound like a combination. 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.640 Uh I actually it should be. On the way. I 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:39.480 just ordered um this toy from cal Exotics that it's 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:42.880 an Easter m toy and it like does the same 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:45.240 thing that the tens do, but like it's a dido 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.000 and you can use it inside you pussy and supposedly 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:52.640 it tell your muscles, but like that did pelvic floor therapy. 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:55.600 I talked about it. I had vaginous smiths like years ago, 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.400 and so basically they used to put this device inside 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.520 of me. It didn't turn me on because I was 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:03.760 clenching so badly and they had to like help me 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:05.559 like loosen up because it was a lot of trauma 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:08.280 and nerves. So you could use it for either or 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:11.199 you could use it to tighten or loosen. It's so weird, 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.800 that's crazy, and it does these like fluttery things, and 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.199 it's interesting because she would tell me, I didn't even 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:19.160 realize that that kind of was a electro plate in 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:21.320 a way. So basically I would sit there and I 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.680 did a session a week and it looked like a dildo. 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.520 She put it inside of me, and she'd asked me 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.320 if I felt anything, and she would have it pretty 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.960 low and then it would increase. And basically it was 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.760 stimulating the muscles so that I could start controlling them myself, 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:37.000 because what was happening was my body was automatically tightening 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.280 during sex. Because I just had a lot of bad 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:42.960 memories with sex, and so it was teaching me how 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:47.080 to feel the muscle because I couldn't feel anything, like, 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.440 I couldn't relax myself. So they basically would stimulate that 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:51.840 so you could like bring it back kind of like 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:57.120 physical therapy. And this is what you're buying. But I'm 0:14:57.120 --> 0:15:00.240 saying they could win to call exotics too. She hit 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:03.280 and charged a bit hundred dollars. We are going to 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.800 get into the Vanilla ship for this week, and I 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:08.360 love it because it deals with a little bit of 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:14.080 body positivity. UM, but also how your sex life affects 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:19.840 your butt size. UM. According to rampant speculation online, hormones 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:24.320 released during sex can actually change the shape of your body. Um. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:27.720 They asked an expert to look into it, and it does, 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:33.000 basically say one moment, Uh, let me find what they say. UM. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:36.840 Basically that when our hormones going to overdrive during sex, 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:40.760 if our partner's hormones potentially also affect our bodies, it 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:45.720 happens kind of consistently within having sex. UM. Also, I 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:55.080 know with anal sex particularly and I think that from 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.680 the back from the bag, it's supposed to make you 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.480 squats or something like that. Wait, wait and squats. I 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:03.320 ain't squat Oh wait, technically you do squatting. Oh in sex, 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:10.320 you do? When I mean, I do you feel like 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:12.640 your booty got big after you started having sex? No, 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.480 it's from squatting. It's from squatting. I don't know. I 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.920 don't feel like it's a like consistent thing, like oh, 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:20.800 I'm sucking my but look a little around today. But 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:24.240 like I feel like it's crazy to me because I'll 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:27.720 be honest, I make you more shapely right well, And 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.600 that's what's crazy because when I was growing up, I mean, 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:32.480 I feel like I have my thighs and hips and 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:35.280 curves for as long as I could remember. But I 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:42.600 remember that not only teachers well, because I had hips, 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:45.280 they assumed that I was sexually active way before I 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.280 was sexually active because and then even now, which I 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:55.000 also don't like, my hips have been referred to as baby, baby, baby, 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:57.920 And I'm like, I don't have a kid though mybody 0:16:57.920 --> 0:16:59.640 said you look like you need to have some kids, 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:03.760 and I was like, no, I don't wait. Someone said, yes, 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:06.520 like you look like you like I should put a baby, 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.760 and you like you're ready for checks grown because another 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:14.679 shirt I wonder like for men. I don't know, because 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:18.119 I was seeing this guy who like swore up and down. 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.640 He was like very animalistic or whatever. And he's like, oh, like, 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:24.359 you know, I think like an animal, Like my body 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.960 reacts like an animal. And he was telling me like 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.080 when I see certain type of women in certain body shapes, 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:31.800 like it activates all of those things and me and 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:34.679 makes me want to fuck because the child bearing hips 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:36.919 or the smell of a woman or pheromones, and like 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:38.960 it sounded like bullshit. He was like kind of like 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:43.479 earth and wind and fire, nigked. But he swore that 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:46.439 the reason that I was attracted to him was his height, 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:49.680 his shoulders, his build and everything about him and his hair. 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:52.040 He was like, which is valid, right he's but he's like, 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:54.239 because we're animals. You know you want someone like too 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:57.760 for you. Let me explain to you. I'm an animal. 0:17:57.800 --> 0:17:59.879 You animal. When you look at me, you see protect 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:02.479 When I look at you, I see womanly. Look at 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:04.200 your TVs. I'm like, they ain't real, so you see 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:07.920 in books. But he like swore that this ship was real. 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.880 And he was talking about how he had a girlfriend 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.119 at the time that um, I think she said he 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:16.080 had a she had a kid, and he was like, 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.560 when she would get super maternal, was when like I 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:21.359 was the most attracted or wanted her the most. And 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.399 he's like, all of those things are very attractive. But 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:25.760 to his point, I think women see that sometimes, like 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:29.280 when we see someone be a daddy. I love that, okay, 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:31.679 And it is attractive when you see somebody be a 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:34.359 good father. Though no, that death is attractive, I would 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:37.719 say definitely. Though physically I will say, actually, there are 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:40.000 certain parts of a man that when I do look 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.000 at it, i'd be like, and I guess I guess 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.320 it's not because because if we're gonna sit here and say, oh, 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:47.680 nigga's girls, we've been saying some pretty sub stuff too 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:50.639 about niggas, Like I love a man's Adam's apple. I 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:53.479 was gonna say next, but it's not like the Adam's 0:18:53.520 --> 0:18:56.879 apple for me. It's it's like like this area, but 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:02.440 is that what it's called? And of course abs that's 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:05.359 the thing, and height is a thing I likes, but 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:11.280 my mind's beard. We we we sexualized men's bodies often, 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.320 and it's that gross when we do it, right, I mean, 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:15.480 do you walk down the street like, damn baby, look 0:19:15.520 --> 0:19:17.280 at them, Look at them, ebbs. I know what the 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:21.080 shirt it's just uh no, you know, I will tell 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:23.920 you this one dude. Okay, this is really nasty. Man. 0:19:24.200 --> 0:19:25.840 Here we go. I just you should turn me on. 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.480 I only sucked him one time. We were cool. We 0:19:28.600 --> 0:19:30.199 just like tried not to fund because we lived in 0:19:30.200 --> 0:19:32.640 the same neighborhood, but we ended up sing. But anyway, 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:35.680 he uh, he would come around me all the time 0:19:35.720 --> 0:19:37.359 and like kiss me and be really close to me 0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:39.720 and shipped like that. And he when he kissed me 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:42.040 on the neck, he would put his hand up here. 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:43.919 And he told me one time that he knew I 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:46.959 was obvulating because of my body temperature. And he was like, 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:49.760 he was like, oh, I know you're pussy. What his 0:19:49.760 --> 0:19:51.280 ship right now? I was like, how do you know that? 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.439 Mine was like two am? But it was. And he 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:55.480 was like, yo, I just know when you obvulate, you 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:57.600 and titties look map full. And he was like, you 0:19:57.640 --> 0:20:00.119 smell different, Like I could I could tell that not 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:03.840 a that is a hole lass nigga. That nigga gotta 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:05.760 deal with a whole lot of grew up with a 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:08.120 whole I took my pussy and I threw it right 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:10.359 at him as well, and he did good. He did 0:20:10.400 --> 0:20:12.239 a good job. He was really good. He called it. 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.679 He moved to l A. But I think about it 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:17.720