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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: You're what a dude? Baby. Welcome to another episode of

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. If you have not heard us before, welcome.

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Speaker 1: Also make sure to subscribe, rate, and review wherever you

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Speaker 1: listen to us or watch U because yes, we is

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Speaker 1: on the YouTube. What's up? I'm your girl, Mandy b

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Speaker 1: A k at s A k A debt bitch a

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Speaker 1: k A tripod mommy? What it do? What's tripod? Mommy?

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Speaker 1: I have a tree podcast? Was like taking you got

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Speaker 1: I'm not like taking a picture, but it's like tree pod.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm tri hi, guys, I'm weazy, I'm

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Speaker 1: just stay sinking. Oh no, I'm a double your you're

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Speaker 1: die patriation. I'm a deep here or baby. And we

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Speaker 1: are joined today by Oh okay, well that too. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna play some porty name that's a very like

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Speaker 1: kinky name. I could do Dallas, right, okay, alright, like

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Speaker 1: the city, yes there? So where do you get the

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Speaker 1: Dallas Playhouse? As I just told Benson, um my dad

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Speaker 1: was like a huge Cowboys fan and I'm a star.

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Speaker 1: All right. So the funny thing about this is y'all.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, you know what, we need to

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Speaker 1: get some people on the pot. So I threw a

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Speaker 1: tweet out there, Uh, Dallas hit me up. But what's

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Speaker 1: even crazier is after we don't communicate it for a

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Speaker 1: little bit, she's like, so you know we met, right,

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Speaker 1: And I was like we did, and she's like, I

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Speaker 1: get it. Y'all meet a lot of people. I meet

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Speaker 1: a lot of people. Y'all was late. I'd be feeling

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Speaker 1: really bad. But but when when I think it's not

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Speaker 1: just like meeting, I feel like I remember someone coming

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Speaker 1: up to me more than I do an arena like that.

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Speaker 1: I met a guy at a bar the other day.

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Speaker 1: He was like, are you easy. I'm like, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking he listened to the podcast. He's like, I've been

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Speaker 1: on set with you before. My name is Jesse, and

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Speaker 1: I'm still like okay. He did were lighting and ship

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Speaker 1: for the Horrible Decisions movie, and let me tell you,

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Speaker 1: we were there for eight nights, all day the outset.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I said, maybe it's the mask.

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Speaker 1: He said, well, I'm not wearing one now and I

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Speaker 1: wasn't wearing one. No my mask and let me explain.

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Speaker 1: Am I the only person I know? This sounds dumb?

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Speaker 1: Whose mask fox up their vision? The girl I feel

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Speaker 1: like mine is just because of my glasses, Like they

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Speaker 1: just always get foggy. Okay, we'll see. I like my

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Speaker 1: wearing my personality glasses and I wear them all the

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Speaker 1: time and when I wear the mask, it fogs them up,

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Speaker 1: you know. So I ain't gonna hold you. He could

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Speaker 1: walk through this door right now and I won't know that. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't remember the guy so bad. Man.

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Speaker 1: So he's Dennis's assistant and he's been on calls with

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Speaker 1: me that I've had with Dennis for producing ship, which

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Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't know. The more that

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Speaker 1: he kept talking, he was like saying stuff you know

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Speaker 1: when people trying to give you the hint, and he

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Speaker 1: was like right out there. I was like all right,

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Speaker 1: and he was, you don't even remember you ordered that

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Speaker 1: man sushi where you over remember a ship Broder. We

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Speaker 1: had a whole platter. It's when you have to like

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Speaker 1: create the set vibes, you know what I'm saying. So Saturday,

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Speaker 1: I just did another set and I remember thinking like

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Speaker 1: because it started night, I was like, does anyone know

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Speaker 1: what they want to eat there, like we're not hungry,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, this is a lot cheaper for me. Great,

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Speaker 1: I'll just do jonuhs. They're gonna do jonats, But like

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Speaker 1: when you go to real ship, and I don't want

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Speaker 1: people to think that I'm gonna do sh it cheap,

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Speaker 1: even though I will when you go to real ship.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, maybe having the waters out,

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Speaker 1: asking if you want anything. So I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: nice to treat people that way, but what would have

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Speaker 1: his favor So what I did was just trying to

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Speaker 1: be like, what do you want to drink? Like, all,

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Speaker 1: let's talk. Yes, what are you working on? Now? Do

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Speaker 1: not talking about out with that girl about Rody. I

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Speaker 1: wasn't going to talk about how you made out with her.

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Speaker 1: I was really, were you there when I was making

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Speaker 1: And we just was like she makes up what everyone's funny?

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Speaker 1: You Maybe I don't know if I says she means,

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Speaker 1: I probably said this is that I can see that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll be making out with bitches. You were like only

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Speaker 1: pretty muches. Yeah you know what I mean? And Mandy

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Speaker 1: used me is so extra because Shorty and one of

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Speaker 1: our friends was playing and she was like, fucking bit

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Speaker 1: Wait what did I remember she playing? She was playing

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Speaker 1: fuck you? Then you kept dancing to other people because

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Speaker 1: I do feel like, because wait, one of my friends

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Speaker 1: what what? What? What world? That she didn't give me

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Speaker 1: a pussy on phone? That was probably one of the

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Speaker 1: that was good. That was it? My friend name give

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Speaker 1: mutual friend? Oh got you her reasons I brought up

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Speaker 1: being sucked up because that's say night someone else I

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Speaker 1: me she's been a patron for a while and she's

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Speaker 1: like beginning and so she said she had some molly water,

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Speaker 1: and she was like, do you want someone? I was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: um no, she was like girl, So I listened to you.

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Speaker 1: She basically was like, I know you don't know nobody

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Speaker 1: you'd be taking that ship from. So I was like, girl, No.

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Speaker 1: So after a while people bought we were drinking bottle

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Speaker 1: what we've ordered bottles, but they were all gone, and

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Speaker 1: so I was like, there's nothing really left. So tuned her.

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Speaker 1: But wait, it was fine. I was alive right now.

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Speaker 1: But no, she's a member of the horror You think's

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Speaker 1: gonna stear me wrong? Maybe, I mean, I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: hold you real quick. Shout out to the hor Hive too,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know how we come across. But bitch,

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Speaker 1: almost every city there was fans that brought us bloods

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Speaker 1: and they did every fucking since. I'm gonna brot me

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Speaker 1: a tab of acid, like people be looking now, Wait,

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Speaker 1: to you? It was a Boston She knew not to

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Speaker 1: give it. She gave you animals. And she whispered to me,

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Speaker 1: it is so funny how certain drugs we fund a hierarchy.

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Speaker 1: She she was like Mandy this is for you, and

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Speaker 1: then I made a joke like damn bit and she's

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Speaker 1: because at the Boston show I shared how the edible

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Speaker 1: I had to be thrown into a bathtobe because my

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Speaker 1: nigga and so I share my same I share my

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Speaker 1: edible story and she was like, I brought you the

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Speaker 1: So after the Molly Water Ship, fast forward, it's quarantine time,

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Speaker 1: I'm hanging around the l Yes. This girl comes up

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Speaker 1: a picture and she was like, do you remember what else?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like like, I'm really looking like and she

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Speaker 1: was just like we had a moment. I'm like, and

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Speaker 1: I do remember crying with this one girl shut up

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I know, we didn't do that, and

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Speaker 1: the Muse for Dash with UM with if you guys

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Speaker 1: came to Our Lives show, we had live kinksters and

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Speaker 1: in DC specifically, we had Sir Dashington, who did a

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Speaker 1: live rendition of Bondage, which is crazy because that is

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Speaker 1: what this week's episode is about. And we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: to talking to Dallas. And I thought the Muse was

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Speaker 1: about that for the horrible the girl who does my hair. Um,

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Speaker 1: Dash and he's one of my domsa playing in that rope.

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Speaker 1: been in this dungeon um that was not a customer.

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Speaker 1: Because at these dungeons, it's the way that it works

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Speaker 1: legally is they're called I think I just talked to

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Speaker 1: you and mention about this. Maybe their studios filming studios

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Speaker 1: right where the women are actresses that role play. So

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Speaker 1: Dash actually went in there to help them do this

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Speaker 1: ship safely because a lot of them just be time,

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Speaker 1: a rope muse, you also are in the I want

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Speaker 1: to say media kinspank. What is the two every day? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait girls look looking at with these faith

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Speaker 1: this is some stars and moons type ship. What is this?

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Speaker 1: What is gratefulness? Our or time? Personally it's not a thing,

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Speaker 1: like to me, Actually, I guess that's where it comes from.

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00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 1: I feel like we take a lot of compliments as

425
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: being uncomfortable sometimes maybe because we're not all the way

426
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,719
Speaker 1: comfortable with because I don't want you to even when

427
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 1: I laid the bad I talked about this with who

428
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,399
Speaker 1: would Ashley, I don't like when they grab your girls.

429
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:36,199
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd be like, stop that ship. I mean, so,

430
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 1: I guess it's that weird. It's weird because I ever

431
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: feel fetishize er. I mean, I know I can't relate

432
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 1: all the way, but what I can say that I

433
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 1: would assume is why you don't like someone grabbing you

434
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: girls is because normally if someone's grabbing it because they're

435
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 1: saying something bad about it, if you like hold them,

436
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: like if we're if we're cutting in and you like,

437
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 1: just put your arm around me and hold it, but

438
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,120
Speaker 1: don't jig. But I think that's the association because I've

439
00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 1: seen like my family do it to someone, Oh you

440
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: in this and they pull at you like that they do.

441
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 1: I think that's where its wrong. So you probably feel

442
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 1: like the man that you're with is doing the same

443
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 1: thing and never grabs the skin on your stomach. It's

444
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 1: not normally because they're worshiping. It's because they're trying to

445
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:16,959
Speaker 1: remind you that it ain't how supposed to be. Oh, valid, valid.

446
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: That's the way we're gonna get into our motherfucker whole

447
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 1: facts today. And this is actually guys. You know, I

448
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: don't want to keep bringing up my boyfriend anything, but

449
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: when I read this, I said, I have to share

450
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 1: this um on the podcast because this is very much

451
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: probably why I'm experiencing sex the way I am right now.

452
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: So don't don't say the L word. But it's true, somebody,

453
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,360
Speaker 1: this is why the sex is better. It's because it's

454
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 1: a fact. It's a whole fact. It's a sex fact.

455
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: I found it, y'all. So the whole fact for this

456
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: week is talking about sex improves your sex life. Now, valid,

457
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: we do this, but let me explain, let me get

458
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: to it. Let me get to it. So, whether it's

459
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: pillow talk or candid middle of the day convo with

460
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: your partner, talking about sex can lead to a more

461
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 1: fulfilling life of sex. Relationship coach Kyle Benson says that

462
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,479
Speaker 1: it's also important for couples to be specific and direct

463
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 1: when discussing sex and intimacy. So when partners talk to

464
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: each other about their sexual needs, their conversations are often indirect, vague,

465
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: and left unresolved. This can oftentimes leave both parties frustrated,

466
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: so Benson says that instead couples should focus on what's

467
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 1: positive about their sexual encounters. For example, instead of saying

468
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: something like you never touch my body, try it feels

469
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: so amazing when you touch me here. Few people respond

470
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: well to criticism, especially when it's something as personal as sex. Also,

471
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: sharing your positive needs will open up new ways of

472
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: loving each other. And then I just would like to

473
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Speaker 1: cross reference with an article that discusses when you're in

474
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: love how this Oh my God, and what it says

475
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: is when you explore your sexuality through consensual encounters, it's

476
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: immensely empowering, especially because you're actively discussing intensive boundaries and

477
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: there's no holds barred in love making you know that

478
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,239
Speaker 1: person isn't going anywhere, as well as the fact that

479
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: the motivation is different. It's not just to get off

480
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: and have an orgasm anymore. When making love, climaxing is

481
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: important mutually because you're connecting on an emotional level with

482
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: the well. When I read this automatically actually fuck you

483
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: with this ill word, because I ain't said it yet,

484
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 1: I just tell him I appreciate you. Haven't kind of

485
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: like you being like e spirit, I love doing how

486
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: I feel and we know your horror, but we're like

487
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: you are not because we recently had more than six

488
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: and he like has been really really like intimate and

489
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 1: just really calm with me lately. But I think it's

490
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: because it's so weird because my period has been coming

491
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: on early the last two months. And he was like,

492
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 1: being a man, he was like, it's not cause I'm

493
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: pounding you too hard. In myself, he's thinking he just

494
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 1: knocking the ship on, but he was niggas you niggers,

495
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: I must be out that period and be knocking a

496
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: period on early. But now someone was like, no, that

497
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: said it. So anyways, we go to have this morning

498
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 1: sex and he'd be so extra in the morning. He'd

499
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: be wanting to bring out the toys. Do ain't know

500
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: and all this ship So he goes to put his

501
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: finger in my ass and I'm like, oh no, no no,

502
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: and mind you, my ass was clinching because I really

503
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: didn't want it, and then he got into my ear

504
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 1: and whispered. He was like na. He was like, so

505
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: you don't trust me with this body anymore? What if

506
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: you said I don't trust me? What you like? Not

507
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: ther boodo? But no, like the way he was like

508
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: when he said that to me, literally, really, bitch that

509
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: the boot is just like let the thing that just

510
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: go in there like a duke allact like I ain't

511
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: got hold you, bitch, Like I literally just ease up.

512
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, okay, yeah now

513
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: that feels good. But it was all it was me

514
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: just knowing I didn't want it, but him just talking

515
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: to me and like so like I know he makes

516
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: me feel good and everyone when when he had I was,

517
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: so did you not want it? Because you want an

518
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 1: sit in the morning? We don't exceed it our time

519
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: part quarters. First of all, mandydn't love That's why your

520
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: ass opened up. Oh my god, my ape you how

521
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: my pussy got wider? And this is also because I'm

522
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: made during some really sweet talk, right, I'm sucking. This

523
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: nigg is looking at me and he was a little drunk,

524
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: but he was looking at me like in my eyes

525
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: were making out and he's like got his hands in

526
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: my hair and he's like, I love the way your

527
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: hair feels like witch. My hair was like, you know,

528
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: I don't really like have my friend like that. He

529
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: was telling me how sucking beautiful. I was just like

530
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: staring at me and it was like super deep. And

531
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 1: when we started sucking, I was like, I'm taking the

532
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: entire dick in my stomach now, like it reached a

533
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: new part. But he was because he spoke and said

534
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: informations during sex, well, let's keep it up, fellas if

535
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: you just say to me, you know what beautiful you're

536
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: You're important, you're special. And I was like, literally, I

537
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: think also to what both of us, what all three

538
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: of us even just saying well, well, not only basically

539
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: when they say I'm pretty much as my pussy sally no,

540
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: but the fact that too we related all of the

541
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: compliments to be something other than our pussy. I think

542
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: in sects a lot of men be like really did

543
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: not think about that, And so the idea that your person, yeah,

544
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: and when you're in my pussy. The fact that you

545
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 1: can like appreciate other part to me. So those words

546
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: of affirmation outside goods, there's a waiting list for the

547
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 1: emao Ho club that I'm a party, but you guys

548
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: are welcome to kids. But I mean from why you've said,

549
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: don't do this? Why I enjoy what he's saying. How

550
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: How am I emotional? Because I enjoyed my nigga. Everybody

551
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: shows their emotions in a different way. Looks like you

552
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: show it through gifts food. Let me do other niggas

553
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: speaking of gifts, this is how you know I really

554
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: liked this nigga. So I followed this page on Twitter

555
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: called fat Kid Deals, which I gotta yeah, I gotta

556
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: get off of it. They do some great you don't need.

557
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, I don't speaking of that. I literally

558
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: bought um just lights and apparently they change colors and

559
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: ship to go around the TV so that the wall.

560
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: We don't need ship. I don't eat. So anyway, I'm

561
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: scrolling Twitter because I love Twitter, and bitch is a

562
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: beard kid and I'm like, look, let me get this

563
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: beer kid. I was like, what type of dick is

564
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: this man? Giving moisturized bit worshiping day. I really just

565
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: bought this nigga a beer kid because normally if I

566
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: buy him something, it's something that I can use too,

567
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: because I'm just one of them type of people. Yeah,

568
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: I did get old bay of water pick. A water pick.

569
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't know. You never heard of it,

570
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: so instead of flossing, you could do both. And I

571
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: just said, a water pit pick pitch. So it's basically

572
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: this long tube and the water like shoots out fast

573
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 1: and it goes through your teeth and I ain't going

574
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: in front. I wanted one. It was like a hundred

575
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: fifty dollars and I was like, I'm not gonna buy

576
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 1: this for myself. I was like me, like, I'm being

577
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: a good person, you know what I'm saying, because you'd

578
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: be flossing a lot. And I was like, babe, I

579
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: got your water pig. And he thought it was the

580
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: sweetest thing I had ever done in my life. And

581
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: damn shure every night, I was like, you wanted to Okay,

582
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: so we are going to get into our hord dert

583
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: and for this I am leaving it up to you,

584
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: man hor Dirt. For those of you listening to us,

585
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: possibly for the first time is our tip in the bedroom, um,

586
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: and you have a lot of different experience. We talked

587
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: about the electrodes that electro play. UM, can you give

588
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: us maybe a tip on introducing electro play with your partner.

589
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: I think the best way to introduce it is just

590
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: to talk about it honestly, before you ever pull any

591
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: toys out, before you bring any toys, because the stuff

592
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: that you might got, your partner may not want to

593
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: use because I don't know if the generator in the bedroom, Yeah, okay,

594
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: it's like hold on, you know when you have us

595
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: jump the car batterally kick'd be like, let me start

596
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: to okay, okay, so talk skirt nipple claims, screw me

597
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:55,239
Speaker 1: a little bit? Yes, yes, it's a nervous and you

598
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: are you are busy sort of talk about it. You

599
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: in is definitely definitely the first thing. And then you know, like, uh,

600
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: I think alive showing up because I'm watching the video,

601
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be able to really like for me

602
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: research anything. You're just gonna be like, okay, well, I

603
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: don't know how how you got it live showing where

604
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: would someone see that You're not like a show, but like, yeah,

605
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: I go to a sex club or a party, a

606
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: play party, I ain't gonna hold you. I haven't been

607
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: to a few. I ain't never seen no no electro plate.

608
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: That is ridiculous. How I don't know. I've never seen

609
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: that either. Clubs. I've seen a city machine like where

610
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: people get on top of it. I've seen people getting flogged.

611
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: I've seen spankings. I've seen some I've seen rope tying

612
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: at the wish Andrew's gross. Thank you that I've seen that.

613
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: But I've never seen electro. I didn't gonna tell you

614
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: why because because when I go to sex parties, it

615
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: never says WPS here White people should because I've never

616
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: and maybe they do it in their own and now

617
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: that I think about it, it maybe was some WPS

618
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: when I first saw it. Really it was a white

619
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: people party and they're were like, we just love You're

620
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: so exotic and herb. But like at your blue hair, listen,

621
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,239
Speaker 1: I felt like I was born with blue hair and

622
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: like somebody died in black at the hospital. How long

623
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: have you had it? Promise you? Um like own and

624
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: off throughout the year, I just like die, I might

625
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: I may die in my real hair like when y'all

626
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: met me, or I'll just you know, even people get

627
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: very weird about blue hair. When I used to manage

628
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: the store, one of the rules we had was no

629
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: unnatural hair colors. That's it. You incorporate, you have however

630
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: you want it. And I had to tell this girl

631
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm like look and she was white. I was like,

632
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be a bit like you know,

633
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,239
Speaker 1: I'm cool, but like, you can't be having another hair.

634
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: She was like no, like it is my people know

635
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: people call me blue, Like either I fucking do this

636
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: or I don't make I had a job interview like

637
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: when when I was working for other people, and uh

638
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: like I had pink hair, like I had just dyed

639
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: my hair like hot magenta pink the day before. But

640
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:05,959
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm still gonna go to this interview.

641
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 1: And the guy loved me and he was like, I

642
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: need you to do something with it. I can't, So

643
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: I went. I got a rent and it only made

644
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,239
Speaker 1: it purple, like it didn't do anything. But you know

645
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: what's crazy. I know, and I know we're relating this

646
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: to corporate setting, but I remember a friend of mine

647
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: had short blonde hair like this and she was looking

648
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: to dance, and so she went into an all white

649
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: strip club here in New York actually in the city,

650
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: and they loved her, but was like, if you're gonna

651
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,719
Speaker 1: dance here, we need you to have long hair. So

652
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: they didn't even want her to have her natural just

653
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: short hair as as a black girl like, they were like,

654
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna need you to throw on either a wig

655
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: or get something long. Yeah, the crazy thing is really

656
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: a thing. Even outside of corporate it's also like I

657
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: get the color thing, but length and I only get

658
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: the color thing. I don't know where you applied to work,

659
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: but this was front facing a little more professed. I

660
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: understand it, and I don't think the color thing is crazy.

661
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: What I do find crazy is when you're telling me

662
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: I can't style on my hair a certain way, especially

663
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: protective style and length. I agree that my friends. It

664
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: was a dancer. She had locks, and they were like,

665
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna hire you because we really like

666
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 1: your look, but you need to go buy a wig.

667
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, they will determine, like I'm you're allowed to

668
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: be like it. I guess they can. Giving them your

669
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: social They're like they want to you, what do you want.

670
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what really made me like kind

671
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: of chill about the appearance in retail was at the

672
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: Apple Store, like they'd never give a fun about how

673
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: people look. I don't know, I just really like color hair.

674
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,919
Speaker 1: I think colored hair is fun, and I think that

675
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: what's really made it easy to digest as the years

676
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: go on. And it's not like I'm trying to give

677
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: her credit, but I think white people can accept it

678
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: now is because Kylie does it. Now they're like, oh,

679
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: the Kardashians. But it's just really because black girl has

680
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: been colored in their hair like that for a long

681
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: fucking time. And now whenever I saw in my mind

682
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: when white people color their hair like that, it was

683
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: some goth, weird old ship, you know what I mean,

684
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: or like you're super punk or whatever ship Venus used

685
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: to do that like ten fifteen years ago, green hair.

686
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: And now that Kylie has done it, suddenly you can

687
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: have colored hair and it could be tasteful, it's awful,

688
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: it's it's weird as fun to me. I love how

689
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: people pretend like they don't want to look at you,

690
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 1: Like I realized that my hair is blue, you can

691
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: look it's okay, And like in public, people will just

692
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: be like and they know that everybody's already even talk

693
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: about it and like how cute it is, or like

694
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: have tacos last night. This girl was sitting at her

695
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: table when she was like after like the third time,

696
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: I was just like, yes, do you need something. That's

697
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: how it was. That's how it wasn't Asia. You just

698
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: gotta say how when you notice people's serranis, you just

699
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: gotta be like and make them feel like you know,

700
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: I just make them feel uncomfortable. I don't speak when

701
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: like dudes be staring at me, I don't be speaking back,

702
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: no fat because I feel like if you're staring at

703
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: me from across the room, like get up and come

704
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: talk to you. Well, actually, no, that is that. I'm

705
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. That is a lot to me. I

706
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,240
Speaker 1: got on the train um recently and bit a nigger

707
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: had his phone like this, and I saw that he

708
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: took a picture of me, and like I noticed it

709
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: because I'm just like, why else is your phone? Like

710
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: do you do? So? I like looked at him like

711
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: as like I saw you, like you didn't very discreetly

712
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 1: he just kind of smiled at me. Was like, oh,

713
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: I thought you were hi, I'm not your friend. He

714
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: made it seem like he thought he knew me from somewhere.

715
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm don't take a picture of me on the train

716
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: and apologize, and then I to take a picture with me.

717
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: Because her home girl listen to horrible decisions. He was like,

718
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: why are you bothering wheezy. But she also then said

719
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 1: after which I found very funny. She was like, can

720
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:57,439
Speaker 1: I be real with you, I only got your leg

721
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: show to elaborate is because she listens at a nursing home.

722
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: And she said that one of the patients that she

723
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: doesn't speak, and she was like, sometimes I wonder if

724
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: she'd be listening back about how nasty this is. But

725
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: she she's a caretaker. She watches her all day, but

726
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: she plays it on the side. This was a while ago,

727
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: this happened too. Yeah, she just mentioned that she plays it,

728
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 1: so I wonder if she listens. But yeah, oh my god,

729
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,479
Speaker 1: but we are going to get into our horrible decision um.

730
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: And I'm excited because this is kind of your expertise.

731
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: And I do also want to ask if it's genetic

732
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: at this point, knowing that your sister was on stage

733
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: as a muse so go ahead before we even dive

734
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,439
Speaker 1: into it. What is a rope muse? Um? A rope

735
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: muse is literally just someone who inspires like creativity of

736
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: a rigor and allows them to do whatever artistic masterpiece

737
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: on your body with the rope that they wanted to. Okay,

738
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: and how do you find these people that are into

739
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 1: I guess bondage? Like so like dash okay, So like

740
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: I feel like it kind of found me. It's a

741
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: really it's a funny story. So it found me. What

742
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: are you talking about it? No? So I was like

743
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: waiting on some random date. I was like at a bar,

744
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: waiting on this dude. I end up seeing this like

745
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: beautiful chocolate woman sitting next to me. I'm trying to

746
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: order my drink and she kind of like rushed me.

747
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: She was like, you've been looking at the bottles for

748
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: a long time. Are you gonna get it? And then

749
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: like we kind of start like complimented each other and talking.

750
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 1: Our partners come over because the dude finally shows up

751
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: for the day and they know each other and she's like, oh,

752
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: you've never been to such and such and I'm like, no,

753
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: what is that? And she's like you should take her.

754
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: Fast forward to that Saturday. She calls me on her

755
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: own and she's like, no, we're going I'm gonna pick

756
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: you up where something sexy. And I'm like, did you

757
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 1: know what type of place this was? Did she give you?

758
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: She explained it at the bar. She's like, you know,

759
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,439
Speaker 1: it's a party that they have um every other week

760
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 1: where they have it every week, but they have like

761
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: an LGBT on and off week, so you know they

762
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: have it every week, you know, if you want to come.

763
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: And I told the guy, I'm like, oh, you should

764
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: take me, but like he wasn't working with it. Ironically,

765
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: he ends up being there that night, but whatever. So

766
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 1: we go and I see this guy tying this girl

767
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 1: up and these pretty bright ropes and I'm like, oh,

768
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: that's dope. I think I'm too big for that. So

769
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 1: that's I honestly, without asking that offensively, I was going

770
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: to ask you that because I went to a sex

771
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: dungeon recently with um King Noir and one of his slaves,

772
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: and the slave was literally half of my size, but

773
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: he was getting lessons on how to I feel like,

774
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: it's not like an outfit, like you can make it

775
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: whatever you want. Well, sometimes they suspend you, and you

776
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: got to make sure that the person who is suspending

777
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: you can also handle adjusting your weight and being able

778
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: to catch you if something goes wrong, if you move

779
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 1: the wrong rope. So that's why I'm like, it has

780
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: to be somebody I trust. So the guys trying to

781
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: grow up. I go outside to smoke and it's the

782
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,479
Speaker 1: darkest and he comes outside and he's like six ten

783
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, you have colored hair. I like that.

784
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like you six ten. I like that. I'm

785
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: so glad we have coming interest in. I'm like, okay, hey,

786
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: and um the guys that I was supposed to go

787
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: on to day was is his friend and he's like, yeah,

788
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 1: don't be bothered with her. But he tells the girl

789
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: that brought me like, nah, send her my number, da

790
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: da da. We end up like talking and he's like,

791
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: I want to tie you up, and I'm like I

792
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: want to get tied up. Let's do it. So we

793
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: did like a private session the first time, and UM,

794
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of rigors who will do

795
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: suspension their first time tying you because it's so dangerous. Um,

796
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: we did a session at my house and ironically. Um,

797
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: he like put an antal hook in my ask now, ironic,

798
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: what is that wrong? Because I thought it was a

799
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 1: fucking ice cube and I was with the ships either way, Well,

800
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: it was what it was antal hook. You've never seen that.

801
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: I've never where you pull it out. Yeah, but I'm

802
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: like with the with the circle. I just never thought

803
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: that it was something I could Oh it was cold

804
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: and you couldn't see it. Oh no, bitch, this is

805
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: not what you were talking about. She seen no, No,

806
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: so okay, just pull Oh wait, so all of them

807
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: have two balls on them. Some of them is like

808
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: one big ball. Okay, it's actually like a fisherman. How

809
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: are we still learning ship? Four years? I've seen it.

810
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 1: I've never seen that. Lit seen it at the store.

811
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: But it's a lot of those pictures you are do

812
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 1: have it tied to some something else though that look

813
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: Do you know what this looks like? You guys, if

814
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: anyone is listening at home, I'm gonna tell you exactly

815
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: what this looks like. Some of some of you have

816
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: it in your house in your bathroom behind the door

817
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,879
Speaker 1: when you pitch your rope or you're tying on there.

818
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: You can also double and put that in your ass

819
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: what it looks like? Why why I can't do it?

820
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: Because this is exactly what it looks like. You would

821
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: like a little bit of a cheaper thing if you

822
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: don't have a sliding shower dour and you have a

823
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 1: shower curtain, that hook generally has a ball on the

824
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: end so that the shower sea. Okay, you know what,

825
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: maybe the enemy didn't give you a promo code for

826
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: this episode. You're welcome. D I y sex choice with bro.

827
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: That is insane. Okay, that's sane. I ain't shaming. Okay,

828
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,879
Speaker 1: so he put this in your So can I ask

829
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: you real quick at any point during this did you

830
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: ask is that brand new? Come out the package? Like

831
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: when I watched him clean it, I just think he

832
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: was I didn't think he was gonna use it with me,

833
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: Like you know, you like you don't you get a

834
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: parent thing? And they and they show you they like,

835
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: are you a pedicure? And maybe showing you how to

836
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 1: take it outside the can't he bring beside? What are

837
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: you cleaning with cleaner? Okay? Yeah that's what I happened. Okay, boy,

838
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: it's not like it was. Yeah, so tied me up

839
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay. So every time he liked he

840
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: would hit it with stuff it like vibrates and it

841
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: was an experience and I'm like, this is kind of

842
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: like sounded like yeah, like if you were to like

843
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: hit this and you know how like it's making the noise,

844
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: but because it's in your fill it every time, it's like,

845
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, I went in a subspace, so like

846
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: I kind of just felt like I was what is

847
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: that word that that girl used, not a sub kiki

848
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: kings kiki, a sub there's a word that she you

849
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. She talked about how she

850
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: a regression. No, I'm sorry, Benson, I don't know what

851
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: kind of production you're trying to Bensonish was trying to

852
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,959
Speaker 1: show us to ask like attached to one's sucking head

853
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: and his head is like oh no, look she she's like, wait,

854
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: let me show you what I did this too, subtly

855
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: like a picture that looks like that one. Look hold on, wait,

856
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: oh this is funny. She said. You just said like

857
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 1: you just put anybody home. So here's my question then,

858
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: because this guy is someone that you had just met,

859
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: right and though you booked a session with him what

860
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: allows you to trust him? So watched him tie up

861
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,760
Speaker 1: multiple people that night. I watched him do wax play

862
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: and like you do knife play and cut the wax

863
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: off the girl's back. So we saw enough. If y'all

864
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,479
Speaker 1: cannot see behind this camera, but he's holding his phone

865
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: nut every few minute to show him. And here's another ass,

866
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: and here's another one spread open, another one and another one.

867
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So how many times after once you

868
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: realize you enjoyed it? Is this something that you just

869
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: started craving to ask for? So the next party, I

870
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well we've had a private session, and

871
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to know if you could do

872
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: some suspension on me and he was just like I

873
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: would love to because he loves like, let's do it.

874
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: That man turned me into a pinata. And you were

875
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: like I was, I was, you know, suspended? Um? And

876
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: was he Mexican as well? She said she only deal

877
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: with the black Kings. I just said, she said it

878
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 1: means yeah, oh wow, you were like off the floor.

879
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: Can we share share this picture with listeners? Yeah? So okay,

880
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: we can't really see your fit? Wow you can see Yeah,

881
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: did you feel like you had to throw up, But

882
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: did he did he bring um any certain type of

883
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,399
Speaker 1: ropes specifically for you? Because so I say that because

884
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: when I went to the dungeon, the ropes that were

885
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: being used for the slave, they were like, yeah, no,

886
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 1: so I actually ended up being put into let are

887
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: harnesses to be pulled up and the leather harnesses just

888
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: fit my thighs real comfortably. But yeah, like how were

889
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: the ropes? Were the ropes different time? And he doesn't

890
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: have a certain type of rope, he won't suspend me

891
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: because some ropes are literally just to be pretty. Now

892
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: can you imagine if you was like right in between

893
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: let's say you're good, I don't know, let's say skinnies

894
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: one twenty. This was between. It's like, let's between is

895
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: like I was on sixty and they were like, these

896
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: ropes that are being used for her, we can't so

897
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: they literally use leather harnesses because they were like, these

898
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: ropes couldn't be for you, and we don't have your

899
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: ropes pulled out. There are different there's definitely ropes that

900
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: would not be able to suspend me. And I was told, no, girl,

901
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: we're gonna get the like I was told by the

902
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: app it's the They call them carabineers. So the thing

903
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: that holds the rope and connects to the beam in

904
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: the wall to make sure you have strong carabean Yes

905
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: and no, they come with bungee courts, but you don't

906
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 1: really want a bungee cord if you're gonna be done,

907
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: because you don't want to rope to bounce up and down.

908
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: But so when he was actually doing the session that

909
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: I just showed you guys, one of the carabineers bent

910
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: and I could like feel it, and I'm like, okay, um, yeah,

911
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: but like on a bigger scale. All right, that's what

912
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: else do you what do you use for using for keys?

913
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: You could put them on your water bottles, clip them this,

914
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: but this is what will hold you up. Yes, but

915
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: like way bigger, ray sturdier. Um. And whenever I wasn't

916
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: necessarily with him, I actually like ordered one of those

917
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: what do they call him yoga yoga swings. Okay, call

918
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,280
Speaker 1: them sex queens all the time, but the yoga swings

919
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: concario yoga. That's when I threw up first episode you

920
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,240
Speaker 1: did you did mention that? But they thought I was pregnant.

921
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 1: What didn't matter? Yeah, So like I would like practice

922
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: being upside down sometimes at home so I can make

923
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: sure I wasn't dizzy during the session. But any time

924
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: that you you feel like you're about to blackout or

925
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: you need to stop, you can always just say, you know,

926
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: well that's the thing to you. Can you stand up? Sorry?

927
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: If you had to? Could you stand up? Could your

928
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: feet are tied? Okay, wait because I have one more question.

929
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 1: I have one more question. Because you've done this with

930
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:22,280
Speaker 1: you know, a professional, You've done this in a party setting,

931
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 1: how would you introduce this to someone that you're really

932
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: dating that may not have ever done bondage before. Is

933
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: this something that you can introduce to them? I mean

934
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 1: everybody has been at some point in their life. I

935
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: believe so. Um she said, girl, everybody did you know

936
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: they ain't working with me? And like, damn, it's not

937
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: like that. It's it's like I don't immediately meet guys

938
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, you like beating ass? I like

939
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: being my ass? Beat you like time people up, kidnap me.

940
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 1: I don't do that. So you gotta be like, you

941
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 1: know s have you ever you know, uh been here

942
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: or looked up that? Do you have a fat life?

943
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: My friend into a b d s M camp somewhere

944
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: in the Hamptons or some ship they do have summer

945
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: can and yeah, she said it was so fun. She

946
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 1: she's engaged. She said, her like fiance is kind of whack.

947
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:10,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know her like that. She told

948
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: me about it, and yeah, she took him to the

949
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: camp and basically like a bunch of people did stuff

950
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: with her, and she said it was really safe and fun,

951
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: like just like I'm a b DSM hohs school, I

952
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: was on fete and I found this like my fet life.

953
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: She's talking about all black group of professional kinksters and

954
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: not professional, like they're professionals, but like you know, they

955
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: don't have a degree, but like they have a degree,

956
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: but just not in It's crazy because a lot of

957
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 1: people often ask us, how do we find people that

958
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 1: are into this type of stuff x y Z, And

959
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: it's literally like outside of Google, which I advised people

960
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 1: to do, to these apps, you literally can narrow it

961
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: down to the area that you're in and find people.

962
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: So basically you're telling me, I could type in attorney

963
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: enjoy head up if I tried to stand up, it

964
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: would you know, Look, okay, we gotta feature some of

965
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: these pictures you can because it explaining, Yeah, you can

966
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: kind of see there she is a little bit just

967
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 1: a little you like, Now does that ever, Like I

968
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: don't know, like is that something that turns you on? Though?

969
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: Like being restricted like that? Because I'm claustrophobics, so this

970
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:26,919
Speaker 1: is um you know, like I think that I don't

971
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: feel claustrophobic. Wrote, but I don't like like gags or

972
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: like my mouth being covered like I've done. Yeah, I

973
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,720
Speaker 1: don't really like breath plate like that, like I've done

974
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: um momification by Serran wrap and like some people will

975
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: wrap their whole heads. I'm not into that. You can

976
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: wrap my entire body. Just don't I need to breathe.

977
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: It's like the clear shoes. Would it just be like

978
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 1: just be foggy the guys before we got out here.

979
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:58,439
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our homemal and please feel free

980
00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: to give you a little tit bit of advice and

981
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: is too It says, uh, this one is advice before

982
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: making a horrible decision. I mean, go ahead and make assist.

983
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: But anyway, it says, have you ever had sex with

984
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: someone that you don't want anyone to know about? Yes?

985
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 1: I know right well, that's how it starts. I'm gonna

986
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: be getting too Does that make me a bad person?

987
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 1: I have been celibate for about four years due to

988
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 1: a mix of choices, personal guilt, morals, and lack of confidence.

989
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 1: I feel so out of practice being intimate with another person.

990
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: I also have had significant weight gain, as well as

991
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: parting from a very dysfunctional relationship within the last three years.

992
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: All of those things have me feeling less than desirable.

993
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: There is someone that has talked to me on the

994
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 1: low for over ten years, first his friends, then as more.

995
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: I want to have sex with him to get back

996
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: to my old self, but I have my doubts. I

997
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 1: am not truly attracted to anything but his penis. I

998
00:51:56,440 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: can't stand his voice, his personality, any of it is girl,

999
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: I already feel horrible, and she's felt it, of course,

1000
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: like what like horrible that I have used him to

1001
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: make myself feel better with conversation and flirting. I've been

1002
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: very clear with him that I do not want a relationship.

1003
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: He says it's okay with him, but I am scared

1004
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 1: it will be a problem once we start this new

1005
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: friends with benefits situation. Help me out ladies. I don't

1006
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 1: know what I should do. Just keep sucking him, girl,

1007
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: what the funk? Like he's getting your pussy for free,

1008
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: hasn't had sex for four years, they had sex before,

1009
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: and she's coming back. He's gonna be four years and

1010
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 1: now you can keep it. I mean, I guess that's

1011
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 1: good advice because my good dick is everywhere says maybe

1012
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: maybe she feels safer obviously, but like you hate him

1013
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: like I don't, But it's just maybe that'll be great

1014
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: because she won't get her feelings. I think that that's

1015
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: good and I'm not gonna lie. And it's funny because

1016
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 1: she's on here maybe assuming that there's gonna be a problem,

1017
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 1: but you've already told him you don't want a relationship

1018
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: if it's only just sucking. You know, get you get

1019
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: your nut. Office just called the woman to just be like,

1020
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: just need to bust this nuts. So both have I mean,

1021
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: we know you funked the ugly guy before we talked

1022
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 1: about it on recently. I was like, damn, have you

1023
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: like ever like the ugly guy? Just because Nick? Sorry

1024
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: you actually liked the ugly guy. I'm telling if you know,

1025
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: if you never know, it's like she was thinking, we

1026
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: know you have anyway, there was context, it's in a

1027
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: previous episode, but we know you actually like that ugly nigga.

1028
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: Have you ever just suf Have you ever just unked

1029
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,439
Speaker 1: the ugly nigga because you wanted dick? This is really

1030
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: really vain and I'm gonna say this, but I kind

1031
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: of don't care because I'm so ugly nigga. Not for

1032
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: money exactly, but he had some talents in his wallet,

1033
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: and I just you know, he was whatever. I kind

1034
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: of used to get turned on into the fact that

1035
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: like I knew he had to suck me because like

1036
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 1: he was ugly. No, no, he had to pay because

1037
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: he was ugly, and like I like, no one else

1038
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 1: sucking his ugly ask because he couldn't. Like he was

1039
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: just like so he would always call me pretty, and

1040
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, I'm cute, but like I'm not

1041
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: a ten, which is fine, the same story bitch the ugly,

1042
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: but they want to be cute. And that's the thing

1043
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 1: you could turn me on. That was bomb. He just

1044
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: not attractive. It wasn't even that great. Real quick, how

1045
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: do you get to know one an ugly nigger has

1046
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: a good dick? And be ugly. I don't know that now.

1047
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 1: He told me. He was just like, you just trusted

1048
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 1: the ugly nig gonna have a big you're telling me

1049
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: wait pause, okay, re seats relaxed. It wasn't like his words.

1050
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: He was just like, no, he showed you a whole

1051
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 1: fax and he was like, Yo, you could ask anyone.

1052
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: You could ask you. You could. You could ask my

1053
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend work. First of all, I said, call her

1054
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: on three way because I don't believe you, and I

1055
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: ain't calling that bitch. But she asked girlfriend and girlfriend

1056
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: people that love me when you That's what I'm saying

1057
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: when you actually said, Elly, we literally broke up because

1058
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: I moved to Washington State and he lives there and

1059
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: he's not willing to fly back and forth, even though

1060
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 1: he can clearly afford to. So that's why we're not together.

1061
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: You have a very trusting Okay. For example, when you're

1062
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: buying a car and it's ugly, I ain't going about no,

1063
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: but this is the thing. You know that the car

1064
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: salesman is going to make commissions. They have a reason

1065
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: to sell you in the car. Okay, you believed the

1066
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: man that wanted your pussy had good dick because he

1067
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:34,280
Speaker 1: told you and then she told me, so it's someone

1068
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 1: and I said, well, now, if I was buying a car,

1069
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: and they pulled over a coworker that they've worked for

1070
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: a long time, and they then said, hey, isn't this

1071
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: a great car? And the person was like, yeah, it's

1072
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: a good car. So basically, you're telling me that this

1073
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: nigga that wanted to funk. You said, please ask my

1074
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend, and of course I'm cooling if I have

1075
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: good dick, and you were like yeah. I said sure,

1076
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:02,919
Speaker 1: because I didn't really think he was gonna call her.

1077
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't think she was gonna answer. It was honestly,

1078
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 1: was it her face, Tiger? Yes. I just want to say,

1079
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 1: this is how you know that there's not that much

1080
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: good dick around because you were willing to oh uglass

1081
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: nigga just to get some good day. I mean, he

1082
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: ain't even gotta be just an ugly. He was just ugly,

1083
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: like on a scale from one to tend ugly. Now

1084
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: he was a solid foreigner. Dallas. I just want to

1085
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: tell you if you ever recommend to us ever a

1086
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 1: restaurant or something like that, you know I'm not because

1087
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: I never I don't y know, this place is popping

1088
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: her friend you Yeah, yeah, your friend home club. We're

1089
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: not gonna get in today anyways, Dallas, thank you for

1090
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: joining us today. I want to thank you, and I

1091
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 1: still because I'm so claustrophobic. The rope play is one

1092
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,359
Speaker 1: thing I have yet to talk about. Actually wait, it's

1093
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: not rope play, but I am trying. Uh And I

1094
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: post it onto the Horrible Decisions Instagram page. The what's

1095
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: it called where it's my ankles my ankles to my

1096
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 1: wrists or something the bar I don't know. Yeah, um,

1097
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 1: extension cord coord thing where ties and it's just supposed

1098
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: to like leave it open in the Yeah, so I'm

1099
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: gonna try that. Um, but being the tied up like

1100
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: you do. But because she's just like she's don't be

1101
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: able to relate like silk ties. Oh I didn't think

1102
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: of that. I forgot that There are different types of

1103
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: things that you could use it. Your tastes don't like

1104
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: the friction of the rope, so you could use a tie.

1105
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: You could use the rope the middle of your robe.

1106
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: Oh wait, and they got litt little sex tape to

1107
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: The sex tape is my favorite because the more you

1108
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: move it loosens Okay from that? Yeah, yeah, So you

1109
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: want to get or do you want to get a

1110
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: little looser? You can do it yourself. It's fine. Oh

1111
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: Mike Pepill do a little sex tape. All right? Well, um,

1112
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: can you go ahead and let our audience know where

1113
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,959
Speaker 1: they can find you? I know you active on this Twitter.

1114
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,439
Speaker 1: You can find me on Twitter and there every date,

1115
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: every day, Dallas Playhouse on Twitter, on Instagram is underscore

1116
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: Dallas Playhouse on mostly everything. It's Dallas Playhouse because that's

1117
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: my name. There you go, and um, do you have

1118
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 1: videos or other things where people can see the electro um?

1119
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: I will put some stuff up. I'm actually like working

1120
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 1: on a website on the side that is literally just

1121
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: like b D s M sessions, like just my road play,

1122
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: just election only fanship Actually yes, but like I'm tired

1123
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: of giving them money. No, no, I'm saying right, like

1124
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: we all just create another platform, right. A lot of

1125
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: people are like, I really want to see your content,

1126
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: but I really do want to tell you guys something

1127
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: interesting I learned. You guys know, I'm any day fiance

1128
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: fan and Larissa just got fired because of cam Soda.

1129
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: But with Cam Soda apparently because I was like, this

1130
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 1: can't be because so many people have only fans. Cam

1131
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: Soda makes you exclusive to them, so they pay you

1132
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: out of certain amount of money to use you. And

1133
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 1: TLC has something in their contract that says you have

1134
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: exclusivity with them for anything, and so only Fans is independent.

1135
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: You're making money independently, So that makes sense. It makes sense,

1136
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: it does. It does make sense that, Yeah, are you

1137
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: looking like a mermaid. Yes, I'm going to see my work.

1138
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: We're going to post some of these on Patreon as

1139
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: well and reference them so that I know. We talked

1140
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 1: a lot about like pictures and you're probably not sure

1141
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: what they look like, but we're gonna share. Yeah you will.

1142
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, if you want some more horrible decisions, join

1143
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: us on our Patreon. We talked about it all the

1144
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: time and it's a really fun platform. Mandy and I

1145
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: are giving you the most up to date content on.

1146
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: There are catch ups things like that, if we may

1147
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: be about current events. If you all want Mandy's boyfriend,

1148
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: I mean I was talking about it's called Patreon, ye shore, Yeah, anyway,

1149
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: I am about to actually gonna meet him. He's like, hey,

1150
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: let me know what he does anyway. Also, yes, make

1151
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: sure you subscribe. And again, if you are all caught

1152
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: up with Horrible Decisions and you want more content, try

1153
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: Pop Mommy. You can listen to me again right after

1154
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: this show on Perioces or tomorrow on See the Thing

1155
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 1: is Binge all of our stuff check out for facts sake,

1156
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: Eddie and I are doing some fun ship. I think

1157
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 1: we just did like the most haunted places I couldn't

1158
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: sleep Disney Racist. That's a fact that you can find

1159
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: out on for facts sake, And thank you guys for

1160
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: tuning into Yeah, another episode of Horror Decisions. Fact I

1161
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: want to get real quick. We're gonna get into the

1162
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: whole facts real quick. It's a random one. I'm just

1163
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: gonna say quick. So whole fact for this week is

1164
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: the after fingers and vibrators. Candles are actually the phallic

1165
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: objects used most often by female masturbators. Um, I assume

1166
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: it's like the candles, like you know, the stick ones,

1167
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: the stick candles, because I wouldn't assume the ones that

1168
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:57,919
Speaker 1: I get from marshals that come in a glass jar

1169
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 1: are the ones women are masturbating with. Just say that.

1170
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: I think it's just because women don't buy like like

1171
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: anything to masturbate with, so they'll use like like the

1172
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 1: cucumber thing, you know, like this household ship. So for

1173
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: the horrible decision guys, um, and we made it here.

1174
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: We got some time to get through it. Hopefully we

1175
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: has a has a cool story. Um, I have one

1176
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: that's exciting that I don't I'm not sure if I've shared,

1177
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 1: but um, we are about to go to Moca Fest

1178
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: in Mexico. And again it's kind of like a free

1179
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: for all, it is an adult only resort. So my

1180
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: idea for the horrible decision for this episode was to

1181
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: talk about a sex craze weekend that we both have

1182
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 1: experienced at any point of our lives. Um, I think

1183
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: we've both been on vacation, we both like went to festivals,

1184
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: We've both you know, done just getaway where maybe it

1185
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: turned into the sex craze weekend. So we wanted to

1186
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: know when you saw this, did any particular weekend come

1187
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: to mind? And then if we have time, UM, I

1188
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: have a what if. We'll probably not do the wholemail,

1189
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: but instead we'll play a game at the end about

1190
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: what if, so we can kind of make some predictions

1191
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 1: for our Mexico trip. I think the only sex crazy

1192
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: weekend I had. It was like when I used to

1193
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: go to Ultra, How like, do you did you have

1194
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 1: sex with multiple partners? Did you find yourself falling in

1195
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: love with one guy on day one and that one

1196
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: guy was Night? It was with a girl when Night

1197
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: was the guy, and then like I was making out

1198
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: with a lot of people at Ultra, it was bad.

1199
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know how to get mono, but that

1200
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: sounds like that. Come into you did come into the

1201
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: studio a couple of times A little sick bitch might

1202
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: have been mono bitch. Not I wasn't raining since we've

1203
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: been I would have. I would have said it mono

1204
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: is insane. I've had it before when I was like,

1205
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 1: did like easy like, but I didn't do I haven't

1206
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: done it since we've been podcasting. Oh if I've done it,

1207
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: I've done like some Euroship. But I have a book

1208
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: in my house of that dub made me of all

1209
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: our raving pictures. And I just watched that This is

1210
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: Paris documentary. Y'all gotta watch it. You would love it.

1211
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: Paris Hilton is so much more deep than we think.

1212
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: I can't even believe it. It's crazy. I'm she is

1213
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 1: definitely like one of those I'm sure she's brilliant and

1214
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: has she made a million dollars per g Like are

1215
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 1: you kidding? It's disgusting. And then she was like I

1216
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: don't even know my real voice anymore, like yeah, but

1217
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 1: I mean no, like, and when I was watching, I

1218
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: was like, damn, bro, like I used to do that

1219
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: ship heavy, Like oh my god, nigga, I've lived for

1220
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: a raid. Like if my boss told me I couldn't

1221
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: go away for a weekend, I was like, I'll fucking quit. Dude,

1222
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: do you think you're gonna keep me from going? All

1223
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: nig I was wild then, like, I think what also

1224
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: amplified the sex is wait quick, come to think about it.

1225
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking of all the stories you've told. Didn't

1226
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: the tree house story come about from a race? No? No,

1227
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: I went to a bar in Brooklyn babies all right, um,

1228
01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: and it was crazy like it was a snow rom

1229
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 1: That's why I stayed his house. But anyway, but I

1230
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: mean it came from Molly, which the same ship. Uh. No.

1231
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: I think the sex is so amplified because I really

1232
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: never got to do anything, and like I didn't have

1233
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,919
Speaker 1: that much money and I spent all of that money.

1234
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:18,439
Speaker 1: It's very expensive to go to raves, ultras, like five

1235
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: for the weekend. Then you got to get hotels for

1236
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:23,439
Speaker 1: ultra and it's a bunch of people sleeping in the house.

1237
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: Me and Minnie used to be stuck in these little

1238
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 1: tiny beds together because we were splitting with eight people.

1239
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: Then you have to buy drugs. You know, expensive drugs

1240
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: are I don't but you've shared the costs with me

1241
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: a couple of times and I was like, oh, yeah,

1242
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: this is like there for people's expensive and I don't

1243
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: know how I afforded it, but I think it's just

1244
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: your weekend to go fucking ham And so all of

1245
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: that sexual like energy, that tension, like I didn't care,

1246
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 1: Like it was just so freeing. And I think today, like,

1247
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: you know, we were talking about going to a rave

1248
01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: and uh, what what was it? What was that country?

1249
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: And you thought it was a canda soda? What was it?

1250
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: Malta Malta carst off. Malta is a canda, So it

1251
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 1: is a mall. It's a malt drink. It's a malt drink,

1252
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 1: but it's called Malta. Yeah, yea, yeah, the country is Malta,

1253
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 1: of it. I didn't know there's a Malta drink. It's

1254
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: but it's nasty. It tastes like it tastes like burnt syrup.

1255
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 1: That ship Nasty Malta, Goya Malta anyway, nasty is anyway. No,

1256
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 1: I had a fucking a bunch of sex craze weekend.

1257
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 1: And also I was always single when I went to

1258
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 1: those things, so I feel like I never had it

1259
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: in the background mind, so I couldn't. No guilty