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Speaker 1: We've done this podcast for two years. It's been an

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Speaker 1: amazing two years and exciting two years. We've met some

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Speaker 1: but surprise, surprise, America's Sweethearts in studio Tyler Ce, Welcome

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Speaker 1: to co host the Almost Fas podcast Oh my gosh, Um,

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Speaker 1: Tyler I. According to social media, if you go by

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Speaker 1: It just happens. But there's nothing There's nothing fulfilling about

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Speaker 1: It's pretty amazing. Ben makes a good friend every couple

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Speaker 1: Tyler Cameron. I think everybody knows that amazing feeling that

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Speaker 1: in bed even better. Sleep is better, right, just that

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Speaker 1: that feeling that you get to look forward to is better.

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Speaker 1: Adding these products to our wedding registry with Create and

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Speaker 1: Barrel was super easy and fun to pick out because

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Speaker 1: you know you're in the store and you just scan

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Speaker 1: it right on your phone. Or if you'd forget to

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Speaker 1: you need extra time to think about what you want

435
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Speaker 1: to choose. Jared, I just got our flannels, which you

436
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Speaker 1: know we're gonna say for coal their season. But you

437
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Speaker 1: get to go back and add those things on the

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Speaker 1: app as well, so you don't have to register for

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Speaker 1: everything in the store. You can think about some things.

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Speaker 1: I really like that about the Cretan Barrel app and

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Speaker 1: registering with Crate and Barrel. So if you want a

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Speaker 1: bed like ours and it's a good one, I'll tell

443
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Speaker 1: you that's a really really good one. It's so comfy

444
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Speaker 1: with all of our new sheets and pillows and comforters,

445
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Speaker 1: and it looks so good. It looks adult and it's timeless.

446
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Speaker 1: Like everything at Creating Barrel, it's classic. It's going to

447
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Speaker 1: be stylish and look great for so many years to come.

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Speaker 1: Start your Crate and Barrel Registry at Creating Barrel dot

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Speaker 1: com slash Wedding dash Registry. Actually, we've got big news

450
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Speaker 1: in your world. I know that your wedding is coming up.

451
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: We've talked about your wedding a lot, and for whatever reason,

452
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 1: you're very hesitant to continue to talk about it. Um,

453
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's overkill. I feel bad for

454
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: our listeners. Yes, no, it's all good. But hey, I

455
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 1: know you're pumped about the possibility of Jade still making

456
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Speaker 1: it to the wedding. But we've got big news. Jaden

457
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 1: Tanner just had their second baby in a closet. Especially

458
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: on the last podcast, you talked about some salad that

459
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Speaker 1: you brought her. What's going on? Can you break this

460
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: whole thing down for us now that it's happened in

461
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: the baby's healthy. Yes, it's so crazy because when I

462
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 1: was talking to you last it was just about forty

463
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Speaker 1: eight hours ago, and I was like, well, she doesn't

464
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Speaker 1: have the baby in like forty eight hours, she probably

465
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Speaker 1: can't come to the wedding. Because Jade kind of said

466
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Speaker 1: that August first was her cut off for traveling. She

467
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 1: didn't want to, well, she couldn't travel. It was her

468
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: cut off for like being comfortable bringing a baby on

469
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Speaker 1: a plane. Um, so you know, I was kind of

470
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Speaker 1: trying to cope with the fact that Jade probably wouldn't

471
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Speaker 1: be there. But as a kind of a joke and

472
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Speaker 1: you know, a fun experiment when we went down to

473
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Speaker 1: have a little adult sleepover, which sounds really weird when

474
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Speaker 1: I say adult sleepover, but like just a sleep over

475
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Speaker 1: at Jade Tanner's in Orange County on Friday night. I

476
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Speaker 1: brought her this salad that has totally as a reputation

477
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Speaker 1: for inducing labor. A lot of celebrities use it. I'm

478
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Speaker 1: not sure if I said this on the podcast, but

479
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Speaker 1: Carson Daly's wife went into labor twice after eating the salad,

480
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 1: or at least drinking the salad dressing, which she did.

481
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Speaker 1: She actually drank it from the bottle. And then Hillary

482
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Speaker 1: Duff was also spotted like nine months ago before her

483
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: last child was born, going to get the salad, and

484
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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this will be fun and like

485
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Speaker 1: it will be something for like everybody to kind of

486
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Speaker 1: laugh at. And Um. When she was eating the salad

487
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Speaker 1: on Saturday morning, we were kind of just deciding how

488
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Speaker 1: long we were how long we were going to give

489
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Speaker 1: the salad credit if she did go into labor right like,

490
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Speaker 1: so we came to the conclusion that we would give

491
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Speaker 1: the salad the credit for inducing her labor if she

492
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Speaker 1: went in to labor within forty eight hours of eating it.

493
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Speaker 1: So she went into labor fifty five hours after eating it.

494
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Speaker 1: So you guys tell us that Ben and ashleytt iHeart

495
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Speaker 1: media dot com if that means that you think that

496
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: she went into labor because of the salad or just

497
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: because the baby wanted to come. I know, just because

498
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Speaker 1: the baby wanted to come. Right, she still was early.

499
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Speaker 1: She was decently early. Um, but it's so crazy. It's

500
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: very crazy. So when her water broke on Monday night,

501
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 1: it was like nine something here on the Pacific coast,

502
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: and they texted us. Tanner was like it's go time,

503
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 1: and we're like yeah, and they can't think you sent

504
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Speaker 1: a video of like her in the background saying like

505
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: the water broke, and so we were very excited because

506
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Speaker 1: she had made it within that time. From that we

507
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 1: needed her to start delivering in but uh, then under

508
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Speaker 1: an hour and a half later, we got a text

509
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: from Tanner that said, Wow, that was wild. That was it?

510
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: Like cryptic? And I'm like with both Jared, I were like,

511
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: was it a false alarm? Like is everything okay? And

512
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: he's like, everything, everything's okay. He's here. I'm like, wait,

513
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Speaker 1: you're telling me that her water broke and she delivered

514
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: the baby within two hours and that was the case.

515
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: So then, um, they face timed us a little bit

516
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: after and she was in the hospital room feeding the

517
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Speaker 1: baby and everybody was happy and healthy, and it was

518
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Speaker 1: just very traumatic for her because what happened was she

519
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 1: her water broke. She thought that she'd have like, you know,

520
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Speaker 1: at least seven hours. I think Emmy took about seven

521
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Speaker 1: or eight hours, which is still pretty short for your

522
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Speaker 1: first pregnancy, but for your second pregnancy to deliver within

523
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Speaker 1: two hours is just insane. That's like something you hear

524
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: from people who have had like eight children. Um, so

525
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: she was she took a shower, and she went to

526
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Speaker 1: go pack up her stuff, and while in the closet

527
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Speaker 1: getting her stuff, she was like, Tanner, I can't move

528
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Speaker 1: And then she was like, though, the baby is like

529
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Speaker 1: on his way out right now, and it was his mom,

530
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: her mom, and that was it, and they basically almost

531
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Speaker 1: delivered the baby. The head was out by the time

532
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Speaker 1: the paramedics came, and then the paramedics, like, the paramedics

533
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 1: came and like pulled the body out and that was it. Insane.

534
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: Emmy was sleeping the entire time. Emmy's Emmy's brother was

535
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: being born in the closet and she was just just sleeping.

536
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 1: How crazy is this? That's what you'd hope. I mean, Okay,

537
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: so tell you hear stories like this. You know, babies

538
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: are being born from the Bachelor franchise. I don't know

539
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: how many of the people from Bachelor franchises that you've

540
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: gotten to meet. But does this excite you for what

541
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: the future could hold? Um? Yeah, I mean I would

542
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: love to have a huge family one day. I would

543
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: love to have my own little basketball team. So uh,

544
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: just kind of you know that, doesn't it's exciting? So yeah,

545
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: it's really scared me too at the same time. So

546
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: it's always going to be scary until it actually happens too,

547
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: and then it's just wonderful. Right. But I also just

548
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: want to say I still don't want to put any

549
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 1: pressure for Jade to have to come to the wedding,

550
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: you know. I mean I didn't even I didn't talk

551
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: to her about that at all. I don't want you

552
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: guys to be like, oh, she's definitely going to come now.

553
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm no. I mean, I'm not even I'll

554
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: be super stoked to see her there if she's there,

555
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 1: but it's still very close to when the baby was born,

556
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: and it's whatever she feels comfortable with. Oh, Ashley, you're

557
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: so sweet. No, I mean, like I do. I don't

558
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: want people like din My Throat being like you're gonna

559
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: make a a woman get on a plane now. No,

560
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm not. This is it's all Jade's decision and I'm

561
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: not putting any pressure on her. You're here, Ashley right now.

562
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: I mean she has been she has involved herself in

563
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: this franchise for years. She's invested a ton of time

564
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 1: and effort. She talk to me for two years on

565
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: this podcast. She still gets so hyped to meet people

566
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: like Tyler. And get to know them and support them well.

567
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: And because of a few negative comments, now Ashley is

568
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: so nervous. Let's everything that comes out of your mouth.

569
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: This is this week's deal. I want you to go

570
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 1: on Twitter and hashtag almost Famous podcast and tag Ashley

571
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: I can eddie in it. Then go to all of

572
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: her Instagram photos and say something nice that you love

573
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: about Ashley because we're gonna get her through this. She's

574
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: gonna realize that the criticism will fade and we're gonna

575
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: love on her hard this week. Can we do that?

576
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: It's leading up to her wedding week. She deserves it.

577
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: I want it for her. She would never ask for herself.

578
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: And so everybody out there listening spread the news. This

579
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: is love on Ashley I weeks. Well, that's very sweet.

580
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: I definitely don't need it, but I I appreciate it,

581
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: and I do just want to say that Jade may

582
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: have made that plan before the baby came, but of

583
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: course it would make sense if she wanted to change

584
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: her mind afterwards. That's all. I'm just not a crazy friend.

585
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: I don't want people to be a crazy friend. Uh.

586
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: Tyler Demi Levado was at the finale. What do you

587
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: know about that. Uh, I just saw her on Peter's

588
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,239
Speaker 1: finale that I didn't see her at all when I

589
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: was there. She was there last night and the audience

590
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: next to Demi not Lovado. Yeah, big fan of Demi

591
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: not Levado as well. She's I just met her actually

592
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: prior to coming here, and she's amazing. Yeah, she's super sweet,

593
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: she's so sweet, so beautiful. That she was she was awesome.

594
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: So you have I mean, did you get to meet

595
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: Demi Levado? That's a Bigvado. I did not ask. I missed.

596
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: I missed that. On that one. Demi wants to date Mike.

597
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: Apparently they've been going back and forth in the d M.

598
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: I see that. Go for a Mike, see what happens.

599
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: Speaking of the d M, I know that you have

600
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: a drink to have with Hannah. But Gigi did did

601
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: follow you, and then you followed her back. And I

602
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: don't want to make this seem like you know, you

603
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: guys are going to date or anything, but are you

604
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: going to date? You definitely talked, we just follow each other.

605
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: You haven't d M at all? No, No, I've been

606
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: busy with the show and everything. Okay, Well, you're not

607
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: a liar, I know you're not Ali. Are you kidding me? Tyler?

608
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't knows is one of the many models that

609
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure it is after Tyler, who's your celebrity crush?

610
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: We love this question here on the Almost Famous podcast,

611
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: tells you a lot about somebody. The biggest crush ever

612
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: was Jessica Alba from Into the Blue. Jessica Alba commented

613
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: under Jade's picture yesterday. So she may watch The Bachelor,

614
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: and she may have watched you, but she is married

615
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: with three kids. Yeah, but Jessica Alba into the biggest

616
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Speaker 1: crush ever. Very good, very good crush choice. M that's

617
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: a good one. I like that. I just like that

618
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: brings back good memories. Thanks. Thanks for in that form. Hey, Tyler,

619
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Speaker 1: we have a couple of things to talk to you about,

620
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,479
Speaker 1: but I want to hear your thoughts. Uh, put on

621
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: your host cap for a second. We've seen the previews

622
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: now to Bachelor in Paradise, your buddies have been there,

623
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: and some of the women that you know and you've

624
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: met along the way. What is your thoughts because Ashley

625
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: and I don't really know much about it, and so

626
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: let's spend a couple of minutes now and talk about

627
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: what we can see happening in Bachelor in Paradise. I

628
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: want to start asking you, after looking at the promo,

629
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: what's your first reaction. My first reaction is Dylan, John,

630
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: Paul Jones, and Demi are going to own the beach.

631
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: It's it's their beach, because well, no one got to

632
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: really see Dylan's personality on the bachel right this season.

633
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: And he's incredibly funny, he's whitty, he's fun to be around,

634
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: like he's just gonna absolutely crush it. All right, we'll

635
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: watch out for him. He was in the promo a

636
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: good amount. Yeah, who was was? He wasn't the one though,

637
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: And what's your thoughts about, because again, you don't have

638
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: any idea for certain who it was. There's the promost.

639
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 1: Continue to excite me because there's a fight on the beach.

640
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: Who do you think that fight was between? To be honest,

641
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know people's names besides the guys on

642
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: my cast, so I can't tell you who it was.

643
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: You never watched the show before I saw, Yeah, that's it.

644
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: So I mean I've seen I saw a little bit

645
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: of JoJo's season when I was dating my ex and

646
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: like we watched it with their family a couple of times,

647
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: and like that was the extent of my Bachelor experience.

648
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: So who signed you up for the show? Uh? Did

649
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: you did? Okay? So finally yeah, um somebody else who

650
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: signed themselves up? Because I signed myself up. But I

651
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: feel like everybody's like I was nominated. I was nominated,

652
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: Like they were like, we're we're cool. Do you want yes?

653
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: You know. I was just like I just got done

654
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: with football and I got hurt. I was like finishing

655
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: on my NBA. So just studying being a broke jock.

656
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: But you have an m B A. Y, you have

657
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: an m B A No way, where are you? Where'd

658
00:32:54,840 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: you come from? That's awesome? That planet? Okay? But uh no,

659
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: I Um. I was just like I was like in

660
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: the middle of like taking a break from studying, and

661
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: I saw something for it. I was like, why the

662
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: hell not like the boisl thing? This is funny and

663
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: it just kind of snowball from there and I'm here

664
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 1: hanging with you guys. Oh that's amazing. I like feel

665
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: bad that I even said who signed you up? Because

666
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: I'm so used to being like, well, so and so

667
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: I sign me up, but I'm so glad I found where.

668
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just you know, beat up, broke

669
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: jock trying to get my m B A. I was like,

670
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: you know what, this could be fun, and you know

671
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: it was turned out to be so much more than

672
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: I ever expected. Where do you want to go now?

673
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: I mean, you have all this stuff in your favor, say,

674
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: let's take the following aside. Because the phone's gonna bring

675
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: you an income and you're gonna do some things in entertainment.

676
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's gonna be opportunities for you, either on

677
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: the franchise or outside the franchise to make money in entertainment.

678
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: But if all that were to go away, what what

679
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: is the next like few years of your life? What

680
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: is your dream job? Kind of where do you want

681
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: to go? Yeah? I know the next steps for me

682
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: is uh, I'm filing from my g C license, So

683
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: I've passed those exams for that in December, but my

684
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: dad got six. I kind of put that on the

685
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: wayside and kind of help taking care of him and

686
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 1: all that. So I want to get my own construction

687
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: company started and get that rolling. I got a partner

688
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: that I'm trying to team up with and so he

689
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: could be like the eyes and be down there and

690
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: I can bounce around do I need to do? And uh,

691
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: but also you know, put a lot of energy and

692
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: focus into ABC Food Tours, the thing that me and

693
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: my one of my best friends run in New York

694
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: City and tell us about that. So ABC Food Tours is, uh.

695
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 1: What we do is we take underprivileged kids in our

696
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: area and we bring them on fitness and food discursions

697
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: and we basically just surrounded by people from different career

698
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: paths and kind of show them what there is in

699
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: their own city and what they have access to. And

700
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: it's just about getting them out of the neighborhood and

701
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 1: seeing what there is and and exploring new career opportunities.

702
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: Because a lot of these kids, we asked them, what

703
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: do you want to be? When the girl up, they say,

704
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: I want to be a fool player, I want to

705
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,919
Speaker 1: be a basketblayer, want to be a rapper, which is great,

706
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to be too. But there's so

707
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: much more to also know about and learn about. And

708
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,240
Speaker 1: so that's what we ryan do and we're trying to

709
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: put the curriculum for them, and we want to you know,

710
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: get him in with you know tech building, you know

711
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: tech companies and finance companies and and and other chefs

712
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: and just fitness companies just to see what there is

713
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: for them. That's incredible. That's a great idea. Yeah, it's

714
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: and it's so much fun to work with kids, Like

715
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: it's the most rewarding, you know feeling. And I mean

716
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: the other day we were we just did it. We

717
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 1: just got done, uh eating pizza and we just finished

718
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: the chacous slide in Talpson Square Park and the Lower

719
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 1: east Side and I'm sitting there with one of the

720
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: kids eating pizza and he was like, this is the

721
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: best day I've ever had. And I'm just like, Holy God,

722
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: Like I've have no idea what kind of you know,

723
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: the impact we're having on these kids. So, you know,

724
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 1: everyone's been super supportive and like helping out and sponsoring

725
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: more kids tours and we've been able to reach out.

726
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: We just did another one in Brooklyn and uh so

727
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: we just we gained access to twenty more schools in Brooklyn,

728
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: twenty seven more schools. So we're gonna be working with

729
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: them and we got another food tour coming up with

730
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: the kids in Brooklyn. And the next week. So it's

731
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: through the schools that you kind of recruit kids to

732
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: go out on these field trips. Like the schools will

733
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: kind of set us up with the kids. So we

734
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,879
Speaker 1: were play fourth and fifth graders mainly. Right now, what's

735
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: the best way for people to help, Like, you know,

736
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how it's set up, but obviously watching

737
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: the tour probably helpful, or or donate the tour, but

738
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,240
Speaker 1: can you give us a quick rundown? And if somebody's

739
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: listening to go I want to get involved in something

740
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: like this, how they can help? Yeah, I know a

741
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: lot of people who have you know, asked us how

742
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: they want to help. We tell them to uh be

743
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: basically d M ABC food tours and and and tell

744
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: us how they want to help. You know, a lot

745
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: of people give an ideas of what they want to

746
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: do and how do they want to help us. And

747
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: we truly believe if you want to help out, tell

748
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: us what you want to do, and if we can

749
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 1: make it work, you'll be more willing to do something

750
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: for us. If it's something that you want to do,

751
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: that's something we tell you to do. But then also

752
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: people who can help out by spatshoring kids tours by

753
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: going on to our website and doing that and whatnot. Awesome, man,

754
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: good for you, dude, that's gonna be awesome. If I

755
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: can ever help you, please let Ashley and I know

756
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 1: the podcast would love to back you. It's one of

757
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: the coolest things. So hey, Tyler, A part of this

758
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: whole uh adventure includes a lot of really fun things,

759
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: and one of the most fun we have as a

760
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: Bachelor family every year is going to the I Heart

761
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: Music Fest. Uh. It's something that we've done, I think

762
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: Ashley right now for for at least three years. This

763
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: will probably our fourth, I'm assuming. Every year it brings

764
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: about new stories, new people, we meet some of the

765
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: coolest of artists. Uh. This year's line up is gonna

766
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: be Alicia Keys, Backstreet Boys, kg el Fant, Camilla Cabello,

767
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 1: Death Leopard, French Montana, Tanna Halsey, Her Hooting, the Blowfish, Marshmallow,

768
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus, Mumford and Son, Stevie Okey, Tim McGraw and

769
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: the Zach Brown Band and many many more. Tyler, I

770
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: want to invite you if you're not the Bachelor, of course,

771
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: because that's still out there and still in the open.

772
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: We don't know, but if you're not the Batchel, I

773
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: want to invite you to Las Vegas, Nevada um to

774
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: celebrate the r Heart Music Fest two thousand nineteen with us.

775
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm there. Her will give me my feelings a little bit,

776
00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 1: so I gotta be alone while I'm watching her perform it. Yeah,

777
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm there. Okay, Well, I hope you're the bachelor at

778
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: that point, but you know you have my support. Appreciate it. Yes,

779
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm voting. Let out there listening. No tickets around sale now?

780
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,959
Speaker 1: Uh so, Ashley, can you get us the website where

781
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: people can go and purchase these tickets. It's a XS

782
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: dot com, a x S dot com. Sweet Hey, we

783
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: hope to see you all there, and Tyler, I hope

784
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: to be able to spend some time with you. It

785
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: is it is. Honestly, I think ash and I could

786
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: both valued. It is one of the coolest times a

787
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: year because we get to beat meet so many people

788
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: who have been on the show and who kind of

789
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: just starting this experiment, and uh, it's it's a blast.

790
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: So please come hang out, enjoy yourself. It's super super cool. Yeah,

791
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm there, I mean here, I am being careful about

792
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I would support either you as bachelor

793
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 1: or with Hannah. I've been traumatized lately. It's all good,

794
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: all right. I have a couple questions for you there.

795
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: They're a little out of order. They're kind of things

796
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 1: that we haven't touched on yet that I think everybody

797
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: wants to know about. So I'm going to go through

798
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: those for the next couple of minutes. Are you already

799
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 1: what did you think about learning that Hannah well, actually

800
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: not not slept with Peter in the in the windmill.

801
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: You've already pretty much to explain your feelings about that,

802
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:24,240
Speaker 1: but I want to know if you thought she really

803
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: needed to say that they had slept together four times

804
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 1: during after the final rows. Um, I think you know

805
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: she's I had no problem with that. You know, she's

806
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: she's powerful. She's empowering women to be free to speak

807
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: about their sex life. I think that's important. Um. I

808
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,919
Speaker 1: think you know I'm no one to judge Harry because

809
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: I have a past too, So go for it, you know,

810
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: because you want, And I had no problem with it

811
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: at all. If you were engaged to her, you sure,

812
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: what though? No? Because because I told her to when

813
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: we were when we were having a fantasy sweet date,

814
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: I was like, look, I need you to figure out

815
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,439
Speaker 1: everything you to figure out in these fancies. I don't

816
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: care what you do because I've had to pass and

817
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: so have you. So who am I to judge you?

818
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: And there's like a song that Chris Brown sings and says,

819
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 1: please don't judge me, because if you judge me and

820
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: get ugly before it gets beautiful. And so I just

821
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: think there's no room for me to judge her on

822
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: what she's doing because she needs it. Because if she

823
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,720
Speaker 1: was going to pick me at the end, I wanted

824
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: her to make sure there was no second guessing, and

825
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 1: she did everything she needed to do to figure out

826
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: where she wanted to be. I guess if you were

827
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: engaged to her, and then she said to America while

828
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: you were engaged that she didn't have sex twice, she

829
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: actually had sex four times. That would kind of rep

830
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: be the wrong way. I think she was totally fine

831
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: saying that because she's single, but I think it was

832
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: definitely a cue to the audience that she was single. Yeah, no,

833
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: I you know, I don't know. I don't I've never

834
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: I was in that situation. But I think that's something

835
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: that if she were engaged, we probably would have already

836
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: discussed before. And I don't I mean, like I said,

837
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think i'd really take it that

838
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: bad because I'm not I want to judge her for

839
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: any of her actions because I have a passed two.

840
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: I think that's the key right there for all of

841
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: us listening and watching. Um we've talked about it too

842
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: great extence on this podcast, but so I'm not going

843
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: to get into you know, who can talk about sex, when, where, how,

844
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 1: But the biggest thing is when you are engaged. I

845
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: do think there is in my mom, this is part

846
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: of the conversation my mom and I had, there is

847
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: a responsibility if the if your partner wants to know,

848
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: they don't have to, but if they want to know,

849
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: you should be as honest with them as they want,

850
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: you know, and and in the freedom of your relationship

851
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 1: to know that there's no judgment. But for whatever reason,

852
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: it's gonna make that relationship stronger. At least you're gonna

853
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: know where each other stands. So I do think that,

854
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 1: as Tyler just said, if she was I didn't see

855
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: it as necessarily by her saying it she was automatically single,

856
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: because I do think I'm with Tyler on well, if

857
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: I was her fiance, we probably would have already talked

858
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: about it. Not that I would have loved hearing it again,

859
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: but it would have been yeah, and untell in the public,

860
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: I think there would have been been that. The part

861
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: that I thought was the weird, just about this whole

862
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: sex thing, even outside of luke P's comments that still

863
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: disrupt me to this day and disturb every ounce of

864
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: my being. Um, because he's just doubling down. I don't

865
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: get it anyways. Uh. The thing that still makes me

866
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: the most confused. The biggest issue I've had with all

867
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 1: the sex talk is the fact that this is said

868
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: in front of Peter's parents but the same room, and

869
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: they're like, it's so weird, right am I alone on

870
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: that her laugh like took over the whole audio, racking

871
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: up like it was just like a screech, like it

872
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: was hilarious. I guess you know that doesn't really matter.

873
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: It was four times. I was just thinking that, what's one?

874
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: What's the difference between one and four? Yeah, I mean

875
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: that's just no matter what, that's weird. I remember kissing

876
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: on this show and Ashton I've talked about it and

877
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: having the family watch and that you can hear it

878
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 1: like that was a mic drop for sure. Anyways, that's

879
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: the weirdest part for me from this whole thing, because

880
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: the thing I had the biggest issue with is that

881
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: her we had to like sit there and watch the

882
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: parents like laugh and awkwardly like sh real as this

883
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: was being discussed eleven weeks ago, it was about eleven

884
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: weeks ago that you were dumped by Hannah. How long

885
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: did it take you to recover from that heartbreak and

886
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: did you really fully think you did? Um? I think

887
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: it's something that's still kind of ongoing. The more you

888
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: see Harry kind of you know, it still brings out

889
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: those yeah your heart drop when you saw her come

890
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 1: out last night or you came out. I was super

891
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 1: excited to see here there was you know, I wasn't

892
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: it was. I was just stacked to see and be

893
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: around it because she she brings so much great energy

894
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: and I that's one thing I was so tried to

895
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 1: was I'm more of a low key, laid back kind

896
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: of person and she's such a fireball. Yeah, it's a

897
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: nice balance. Yeah, it makes it a lot of fun.

898
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: And uh, but what was your question? It was how

899
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: long did it take to recover from your heartbreak? Do

900
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: you think that you actually did? I don't think. It's

901
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,240
Speaker 1: still something that's you know, ongoing, and I'm I'm learning

902
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: from you know, it's I don't know, it's how long

903
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 1: did it take to recover? I don't know. I don't know,

904
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: it's something that's still I've you know, I see her,

905
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: I still feel certain ways and and but I'm definitely

906
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: put it this way. I almost lost my dad and

907
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: I've known him for twenty six years. You know, I

908
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: knew Hannah for the duration I was on the show,

909
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: you know, almost losing my dad. I knew I was

910
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: gonna be able to get over this and get over

911
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: this hump, you know it was. It was definitely a

912
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,399
Speaker 1: hump to get over, but definitely like you know, think

913
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: the world would feel so much for this girl. So

914
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: so it really put things into perspective. Yeah, Tyler with

915
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: two things. We can talk offline about this too. But

916
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: I think it was a week before I started The Bachelor,

917
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 1: my dad had a triple bypassed unexpectedly, and I wanted

918
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: the show thinking he was you know, he wasn't gonna

919
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: make it because he had had some issues in the past. Uh,

920
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: And we talked about it a few weeks ago on

921
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: this show of how kind of hard that was, but

922
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 1: yet why I decided to still do the show and

923
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: and and kind of how actually great it all ended

924
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: up being for me as a distraction from some tough stuff.

925
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: So if you ever want to chat, get my number

926
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: after the podcast, I'd love to talk through how how

927
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: you how I managed all that and what I saw

928
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: was good and bad and ugly about it. No, definitely

929
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: I a truly appreciate that. That's that's amazing. How's your

930
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: dad today? He's doing much better. He's he's a fighter,

931
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: so's he's killing it. So your parents were divorced, but

932
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: I felt like they seem like to have a good

933
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: relationship on hometowns. So, you know, so much came out

934
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: of my dad being sick, and it's truly you know,

935
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: it was a tough thing for him to go through,

936
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,399
Speaker 1: and he's still having his complications and he's fighting, but

937
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: it's been such a blessing in disguise, you know, kind

938
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: of got him on the straight narrow path and get

939
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: doing the right thing. But it also brought our families

940
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: so much more closer together, and my mom and dad

941
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,720
Speaker 1: were able to really put a lot of differences aside,

942
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: and it's so amazing to see, like they do dinners

943
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: together all the time. They do so much stuff together,

944
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: and they help each other out with work. My mom's

945
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 1: a real estate age and my dad's a general contractor perfect,

946
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: so it's like they're able to help each other out

947
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 1: work together, and it's really it's really amazing to see,

948
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: you know, just how how everything's kind of come full

949
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 1: circle and how they can have a great relationship still.

950
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 1: And I think it showed on the show. I mean

951
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: definitely did. I didn't think they were divorced. Yeah, No,

952
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: that hometown was so special and I'm so grateful and

953
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: there for that because that's something I can always have

954
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: documented and save with my pops. You know, I've always

955
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: I had a professor in college who told me you

956
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: shouldn't you should sit down with your folks and you

957
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: should interview them and ask them tough questions and about

958
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: you know, their life and how growing up and something

959
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to do. And the show kind of

960
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: gave me an opportunity to do that. So that's so nice.

961
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: I hear that hometowns like those conversations that get cut

962
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: down so so much that you really have like an

963
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: hour conversation with each parent. Is that true? Yeah, it was.

964
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: It was a pretty long talk with him, and uh,

965
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: it was one of the best talks I've ever had

966
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: with him. And I owe a lot of that to

967
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: hand because she I've always been someone that doesn't really

968
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: open up at all, kind of just you know, my

969
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 1: it's always been very guarded and protect myself and don't

970
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: really show emotion there a lot of people, and uh,

971
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: Hannah really pulled a lot of that out of me

972
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: and really forced me to to be vulnerable and to

973
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: open up. And that allowed me to have such great

974
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: talks with my mom and my dad during that during

975
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: that time, and I literally had probably one of the

976
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 1: best conversations I ever had my pops at night. Isn't

977
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: it wild how that happens? Kind of? I mean during

978
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: this whole show, is you feel I do feel like

979
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: it brings out a whole new side of you when

980
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:29,919
Speaker 1: it I mean, I've had a great lest by parents

981
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: my whole life, and it was the show that I

982
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: think really allowed us as friends and as a family

983
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: to get to know each other even better because they

984
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: had they had it was forced for them to to

985
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: be in these romantic moments with me and to be

986
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: my counsel and my guide and and Tyler, I think

987
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: for you, we saw that during your hometown when your

988
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: dad told you though, and I want to hear what

989
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: your perspective is on this. Now that Hannah was your wife,

990
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: he goes, that's your wife. And now that this is

991
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,240
Speaker 1: all kind of coming full circle, what is his thoughts

992
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 1: on you guys know, at least giving it a shot. Yeah,

993
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: you know, I think you know, like I said earlier,

994
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: there's we don't need to set too many high expectations

995
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: on what we're going through. We just need to have

996
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: a drink and see where it goes from there. I

997
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: think we need to take it like a normal person

998
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: takes on a first date, you know, and just see

999
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: what happens and and go from there. And and that's

1000
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: kind of all the pressure I want to put on it.

1001
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: I don't think she needs pressure. I don't think I

1002
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: need pressure. I think we just need to kind of

1003
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: take it easy and and then just enjoy each other's companies.

1004
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: See what happens. Yeah, that makes sense, as so as

1005
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: your dad had any you know, how's your family had

1006
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: any kind of direct advice for you here in the

1007
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: last few days at least about like Hannah. I mean,

1008
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: all this happening and Hannah and everything going on. No,

1009
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: I mean, they're all just super proud of me and

1010
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,800
Speaker 1: how I've conducted myself. And but I mean it's all

1011
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 1: a testament to them and how they've raised me and

1012
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: my two little brothers. You know, I'm super thankful and

1013
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 1: grateful for them. And my dad's always been a very humbling,

1014
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: you know person for me. He's always knows how to

1015
00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: how to put me in my place and make sure,

1016
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: you know, I take care of other people and stuff

1017
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 1: like that. So he just, you know, he always says,

1018
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: you know, make sure you take your time out of

1019
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: your data to be good everyone who comes by you

1020
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: and sees you and and just be humble. Good for you. Man,

1021
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Actually, I'll keep I'll let you go keep going.

1022
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure we we poured in

1023
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 1: a little bit because I think that's such a cool

1024
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: thing he brought up, is how close this experience experience

1025
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: actually brings you to your family or how it can

1026
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: bring you so close to your family. I have just

1027
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: a couple more and I know we have to wrap up,

1028
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: but I'm going to get into Jed after this break. Okay, Tyler, So,

1029
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: Jed was one of your better friends on the show.

1030
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: What's your friendship with? Like with him? Now? Did you

1031
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: saw him for the first time since the season yesterday?

1032
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,479
Speaker 1: He didn't see him last night. Um, you know, we've

1033
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: we've touched face a little bit, you know, but there

1034
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: hasn't been much said between each other. And you know,

1035
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: he's kind of I think he just needs his space,

1036
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 1: and I think he just needs his space and his

1037
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: time right out. And there's a time that we'll talk

1038
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: and you know, kind of talk about what happened and

1039
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: what's going on, and you know, he's got, you know,

1040
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 1: some things he needs to figure out and take care

1041
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: of on his end. So, being that you haven't talked

1042
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: to him very much, I'm assuming you don't know what

1043
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: it meant when Hannah said four four four in the

1044
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: text message, no idea. Okay, that's a mystery that none

1045
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: of us will know, but it seems to be a

1046
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: secret code for something for Jed. When it comes to

1047
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: girls that he's dating, and then did you think that, like,

1048
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: just let's be honest here, did you cringe a little

1049
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 1: bit when he brought the guitar out for the proposal?

1050
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 1: Hell and laughs all around? Um, yeah, it was. Yeah,

1051
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: you know, I think there's you know, that time right

1052
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: there he could have spent just focusing on him and her. Yeah,

1053
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: and I think he did. I think I think music

1054
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: just his way of expressing himself the best. Yeah, you know,

1055
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 1: maybe that's how he feels about it, and I don't know,

1056
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: to reach his own How do you feel about John

1057
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: Baer would never pull that stunt. I'm just saying it there,

1058
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: and he's he's got a lot going for That was weird.

1059
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: That was weird. Yeah. What do you think about him

1060
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: referring to just saying that he had won the show

1061
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: instead of the fact that he was engaged when he

1062
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: was talking with his friends in Nashville. Um, I think

1063
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: that's you know, that's a very tough, you know, a

1064
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: tough way to put how the show ended for you.

1065
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: I think it kind of puts it in the context

1066
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: of being a competition when it shouldn't be. It should

1067
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: be you know, about building a relationship with somebody. I

1068
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 1: truly believe that's how a lot of people took this,

1069
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: and um, like, for instance, Luke saying I loved you

1070
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: after knowing Hannah for twelve minutes, Like, I think that

1071
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 1: was just all competition based. And I think there's an

1072
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 1: element of the show because obviously, you know, dirty guys

1073
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 1: competing for one girl. You know, there is a competition

1074
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: based to it. But it should be about building a relationship.

1075
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 1: And uh so, yeah, saying you one is it's definitely

1076
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: not the best way to go about saying, how you

1077
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: just got engaged to Hannah. You're you're one of the

1078
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: biggest heart throbs in the country now and you seem

1079
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: to be wanting to get married. You still want to

1080
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: get married right now? Yeah, I mean if right now,

1081
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: my dad always says, it'll slap you in the face,

1082
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: you know, and you'll know. And so if it happens,

1083
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: you know, if it comes tomorrow, great, if it comes

1084
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: a few years from now, you know, so'll be. So

1085
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, taking it. I take every day

1086
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: day by day because uh, you never know what's gonna happen.

1087
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: It's gonna walk into your life or where it goes

1088
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: from here. So there's so many guys your age on

1089
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: social media apps or like dating apps, and they're saying,

1090
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: brother to get off tender. Yeah, why Ryan, if you listening,

1091
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: stay off that thing just because you don't need it. Like, like,

1092
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: I believe in the building organic relationships, although the Beschlard

1093
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: is not the most organic relationship. But I was like,

1094
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: you don't need to be doing that. You need to

1095
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: go be a regular kid to go meet you know,

1096
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: girls in your college to college and and and and

1097
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: date the right way. You don't need to be on

1098
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: these apps dating people. And it just I don't think

1099
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 1: it's a good look or a good thing to be doing.

1100
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 1: My friend, I bring it up because my friend there

1101
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: are some sex stories from Oh, there's so many. I

1102
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: don't think we can, you know, crap on dating apps here.

1103
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: But I do like the way that you're trying to

1104
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: promote people just like talking and communicating in real life

1105
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: and not having to rely on the back and forth

1106
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: via text message. I think that's kind of what you're saying, right. Um,

1107
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: but there's so many guys out there that my friends,

1108
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: my single friends will go on dates with, will be

1109
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: on the apps. It seems like they're looking for somebody

1110
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: to date, and then in real life they'll say I'm

1111
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: not looking for anything serious, and they'll tell them this

1112
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: on the first date, and I'm just glad that you're

1113
00:53:56,239 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: not one of them. I think those apps, like a

1114
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: lot of it has to do with the instant gratification.

1115
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: You can swipe right and you like somebody, and if

1116
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: they match, he's like, oh cool, someone likes me, you know,

1117
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: And I think that's has to do a lot with it.

1118
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: Ego stroking. Yeah, ego stroking. It's a good way to

1119
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: put it. My last question, and then Ben, I'll have

1120
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: you give your last questions. I don't think you're gonna

1121
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: like mine because you're too humble for this. But do

1122
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:27,760
Speaker 1: you feel like Hannah asking you out last night hinges

1123
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:30,919
Speaker 1: on your chance of being the Bachelor, because now people

1124
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:32,720
Speaker 1: are gonna want to see you end up with Hannah

1125
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: more and have her get her happy ending than you

1126
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: be the bachelor. I don't know. I haven't really put

1127
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 1: too much thoughts into being the Bachelor. I need to

1128
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 1: sit down and think about all this. I mean, it's

1129
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: everything has been a firestorm since last night. So yeah,

1130
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I just kind of taken a

1131
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 1: day by day and seeing what happens, and we'll have

1132
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 1: our drink and we'll see where it goes. But you know,

1133
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,720
Speaker 1: if this, if that's what deters me from being the Bachelor,

1134
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 1: then it's not meant to be. It's it's whatever happens happens,

1135
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: and its supposed to happen, why it's supposed to so,

1136
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: and no end with this. What planet are you from? Jupiter?

1137
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: Then the teller, I don't have a lot of questions

1138
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: to follow up with you. We like to give every

1139
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: uh kind of fan favorite at the end of the

1140
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 1: season this opportunity because you know, with the hundreds of

1141
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 1: thousands of people that listen to the podcast, we we

1142
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: do have a platform to speak on um and we

1143
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: don't take that lightly. I want to give you the chance,

1144
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: Tyler to who to answer this question and then we'll

1145
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: say goodbye to you. Teller. Who is the man that

1146
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: you want to be? Who's the man that I want

1147
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: to be? Yeah? Who do you want to become? Who? What?

1148
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: What do you want your legacy to be? Would maybe

1149
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: a better way of asking it? Uh, just one that

1150
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: is able to take care of his family and generations

1151
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: to be and it's one to you know, spread love

1152
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: and show what you know how great love can be.

1153
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just just be a good example,

1154
00:55:56,320 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: lead by example. And I don't know that's the man

1155
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: I want to be is. I think it's undefined right now.

1156
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: The thing I'm just writing itself as I go. And

1157
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: so I don't mean two years from two years ago.

1158
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: I never thought i'd be doing this today. I mean

1159
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: the man I am today and two years from now

1160
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: may be completely different than the man I want to

1161
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: be now. So it's all unwritten and I'm just enjoying

1162
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: the ride and seeing where it goes. Well, man, you

1163
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: definitely have a brand new platform to explore all of

1164
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: this with, as we talked about earlier, don't take that lightly.

1165
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 1: I encourage you to start the process who you want

1166
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: to become, where you want this to go, what you

1167
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: want this to do, and what decisions will be made

1168
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: here Really the next you know, month or so, that

1169
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: could completely change your future forever. But until then, Tyler,

1170
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: you're a good dude. Thanks for coming on the podcast,

1171
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: Thanks for sharing your heart with us, um, thanks for

1172
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: being extremely good looking so that my phone can buzz

1173
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: all night last night, and uh, but most importantly, man,

1174
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm wishing you the absolute best. Please do not hesitate

1175
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: to reach out or chat with Ashley and I about

1176
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: anything with that. Ladies and gentlemen, That was Tyler Cameron

1177
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 1: on the Almost Famous podcast. Yeah, what a podcast, this

1178
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: has been. What a season, this has been. Until next time,

1179
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna be sitting here talking in the off season. Well,

1180
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: I guess we don't really have an off season. Bachelor

1181
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: in Paradise is coming up soon. Make sure you continue

1182
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 1: to tune into the Almost Famous podcast. Get all the updates,

1183
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, exclusives, and interviews with the current contestants

1184
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: right here, right here at the Almost Famous Podcast. Hannah,

1185
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: you did great. We're sorry you didn't end in love

1186
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: with that. Uh. We just hope the best for you

1187
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: in the future, if that's with Tyler on this little

1188
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 1: drink day, or if that's with any of these guys,

1189
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: or if it's with a guy that you don't quite

1190
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: know yet, just know the Almost Famous Podcast fully is

1191
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 1: behind you. I want to think my co host Ashley,

1192
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: I can Eddie who who convinced me, quite honestly that

1193
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: Hannah was gonna be a great bachelor. I was right.

1194
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 1: I have got good people reading skills. You really do. Actually,

1195
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: I think this is a great season of The Bachelorette. Uh.

1196
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: It was fantastic, so great. I'm all in support of

1197
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: Hannah being the Bachelor. I feel like most of America

1198
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: would be with me on that. But I guess we'll

1199
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: have to see who is on the next season of

1200
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 1: The Bachelor and if anyone could possibly be more rootable

1201
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: and lovable as rubal and lovable as Hannah. I want

1202
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: to ask you, Ashley before we head out here. I

1203
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: think all of the storyline surrounding this season has kind

1204
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: of overshadowed how this season actually ended, and listeners, I

1205
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: want your opinion as well, because I want to give

1206
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: you some some honest feedback for me, I don't I'm not.

1207
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and I watched last night

1208
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: not feeling that sad for Hannah for whatever reason, even

1209
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: though the ending of the season was incredibly sad, But

1210
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: I didn't feel as sad for Hannah as I probably

1211
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: should have because there's so many other storylines that I

1212
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: felt I was trying to process. Do you feel the

1213
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: same way, um, I think Hannah has been so strong

1214
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: throughout this process that we just think she can take

1215
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,479
Speaker 1: another blow. You know. We we're like, oh, she's gonna

1216
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: handle herself. She's so kick ass. We don't have to

1217
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: worry about Hannah. And it's actually really sad she went

1218
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 1: through all of this. She became the bachelorette, she got

1219
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 1: that opportunity, and she didn't end up with anyone in

1220
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: the end. So yeah, I feel I do feel bad.

1221
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that she's gonna find her person

1222
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: and it's going to work out the way it's supposed to.

1223
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: But I mean as as an ending, and for somebody

1224
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: we've just rooted on so much and who wanted to

1225
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,959
Speaker 1: be loved fiercely, it is kind of sad to see

1226
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: that didn't happen. M I think it's a good, good

1227
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: lesson for all of us. So listeners, let's take a second, um,

1228
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 1: because actually brings up a great point is you probably

1229
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: have people in your own life who have just shown

1230
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: incredible strength that they don't let any emotion and they

1231
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 1: don't let their their issues kind of fall on anybody else.

1232
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: They kind of take it all in themselves and they

1233
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: move through it. We know people like that. It's in

1234
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: all of our lives, and this time take a little second, um,

1235
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: think about who this people are and wrap your arms

1236
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 1: around them, because it's unfair to them that we don't

1237
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 1: show them the support. Even when you lead with a

1238
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 1: humble courage and a humble strength and a humble confidence,

1239
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: we still need support. And it's oftentimes the squeaky people

1240
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: who are begging for attention that get the most attention.

1241
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: And the Hannah Browns of the world who just got

1242
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: told that her fiance want somebody that she cared about,

1243
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: had a girlfriend for the most part throughout the show.

1244
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: She's now sitting there today once this is all done,

1245
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 1: processing it all, and I guarantee she needs a love

1246
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: and support that that we all deserve in moments like this.

1247
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 1: So reach out to Hannah Brown, reach out to Ashley

1248
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 1: can Eddie. On Ashley I Can Eddie's Love Week, We're

1249
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: gonna show her so much support and so much love.

1250
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: But Hannah Brown, thank you for a great season. You've

1251
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: been great. Also, I want to give a thank you

1252
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: to Dunkin Donuts. Shout out the Dunkin Donuts from making

1253
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: our morning a little sweeter. Uh. You guys know that

1254
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm the huge just Duncan fan. Me and Jared truly

1255
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: run on Duncan, and I want to thank them for

1256
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: teasing me with bagels and doughnuts in front of me

1257
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,919
Speaker 1: this entire podcast, when I really shouldn't be eating them

1258
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: because my wedding is really coming up close. But let's

1259
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: face it, not only do they have the best doughnuts,

1260
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: but they also serve well the best coffee. It is

1261
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: the best coffee in the world, hands down coffee incomparable,

1262
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: no except for generous. Yes, darnet, Why do I always

1263
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,919
Speaker 1: do this to you? Ben? It's very awkward because I'm

1264
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: such a Duncan fan and there's a chance that they

1265
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: might be doing a little something for our wedding because

1266
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: Jared and I have been so outspoken about them. But

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Speaker 1: I love generous. I love generous. Yeah, well, hey, we

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Speaker 1: can be fans of both. There's a lot of coffee

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Speaker 1: to be spreading this world. We're all drinking it. Or Duncan,

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Speaker 1: I'm a fan of you as well. Um to say

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Speaker 1: it's the best coffee, well, I'll have to let that

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Speaker 1: be decided by the asta Can eddies of the world.

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Speaker 1: But until then, visit your local Dunkin Donuts today. It's

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Speaker 1: worth it, and we have one more thank you thank

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Speaker 1: you to Bennett the executive producer on The Bachelor. UM,

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Speaker 1: he is the best. He helps with this show a

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Speaker 1: lot and b I p looks awesome. Congrats to our

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Speaker 1: producer friend Louis Louis for taking over over there in Mexico.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Yeah, we we do. We every time. We

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Speaker 1: want to pause at the end of the season and

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Speaker 1: say thanks to to everybody that works on this show

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Speaker 1: that helps us out to get the episodes early, to

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Speaker 1: get the behind the scenes exclusives. UM. Also thank you

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Speaker 1: the people at I Heart UM, the Easton's and Marks

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Speaker 1: and Amy's and Danielle and tories of the world for

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Speaker 1: helping us continue this podcast in a fashion that is

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Speaker 1: successful and fun. UM. I want to also give a

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Speaker 1: time to say thanks to my co host Ashley con

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Speaker 1: Eddie for dealing with me for another season, for breaking

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Speaker 1: down this season, for taking all of this on in

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Speaker 1: the midst of planning a beautiful wedding. So please don't

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Speaker 1: forget to love on her this week. Uh, what a

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Speaker 1: podcast it's been, What a season it's been. We look

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Speaker 1: forward to talking to you soon about Bachelor in Paradise,

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Speaker 1: one of our favorite times of the year. With that

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Speaker 1: I've been been, Hey Ben, what planet do you come from?

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Speaker 1: Were Sandy in it Warsaw? That sounds like a planet,

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Speaker 1: not really, okay, but you come from the same planet

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Speaker 1: that that Tyler does. I've been Ashley Got five guys? YEA.

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Speaker 1: Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on

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