1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: H buckle up, hold on tight, we got it four 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: year hibbertes the Strawberry Letta. We can be reading yours 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: just like we're reading this one subject. You can't hide 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: a beautiful body. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a thirty 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: year old single woman without any children, and I've been 6 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: dating a forty one year old man that has three 7 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: young daughters. We've been together for five months, and all 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: of a sudden, he does not approve of how I dress. 9 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: He told me that I dress as if I want 10 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: attention from other men, and not like a wholesome woman. 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: I am a full time legal assistant at a popular 12 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: law firm, and I take law classes at night. At work, 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: I'm in heels and pencil skirts, and on the weekend, 14 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: I dress for whatever the occasion is, and it's my 15 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: own personal style. I have a beautiful curvy body, and 16 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: at my age, I don't see the problem with me 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: wearing a top that shows a little stomach or a 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: dress that shows off my curve. He didn't have a 19 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: problem with how I dress when he met me, but 20 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: now he has been talking about it NonStop. I recently 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: met his daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans 22 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: and a sweatshirt. He still said that I need to 23 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: do a better I need to do better at presenting 24 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 1: myself in a more wholesome manner when he met. When 25 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: he and I met, it was not wholesome. So why 26 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: does he want me to seem wholesome now? I never 27 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 1: intended to be a role model for his children. He 28 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: says he wants me to be more like his friend's wife. 29 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: And that's all fine and good if I were an older, 30 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: stay at home mom, but I'm not. Why is he 31 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: bringing this up now and trying to change me. I'm 32 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: at the point where I want to settle down and 33 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: he could be the one, but obviously I'm not the 34 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: woman he really wants. Could this be a deal breaker? 35 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Please advise? Well, you know what, It depends on how 36 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: you look at it. It could be a deal breaker 37 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: if he's like this controlling dude you know that wants 38 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: to tell you how to dress and you know, compare 39 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: you to other women like he's doing in this letter 40 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: all of that. It could be that, or it could 41 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: be he's considering you for a little more serious role 42 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: in his life. Because I don't understand why he would 43 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: even be concerned about how you're dressing. If you're not 44 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: dressing like, you know, a stripper or something in front 45 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: of his friends and daughters. Dressing for him in private 46 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 1: is one thing, but there is something to be said 47 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: about appropriate dress in front of others, especially young impressionable girls. 48 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 1: I'll give him that. Although you said you were dressed 49 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: properly when you met his daughters in jeans and a sweatshirt, 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: you didn't say that your tummy was out. You didn't 51 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: say any of that. I mean, this guy does sound 52 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: control and he does sound bossy after only five months in. 53 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: And remember what he's doing now, how he's talking to you. Now, 54 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: you guys haven't even made the six month mark. That's 55 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: how it's going to be in a relationship and into 56 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: a marriage. So you're gonna have to decide if that's 57 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: what you want. I mean, you have your own personal style, 58 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: and you said you don't see any thing wrong. I 59 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: mean that's what's fashionable. Crop tops are fashionable, Uh, you know, 60 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: as long as you're surely had on one in the 61 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: dr at all at all. I mean, you could do 62 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: things tastefully. But we were at the beach. Can we 63 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: just say that, Steve, we were we were. It was 64 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: a swim party and everything. We weren't had no beach. 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: We was on the inside in the auditorium. But when 66 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,119 Speaker 1: I saw you, I don't know where you came from 67 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: from the beach, didn't look like didn't have on that anyway, 68 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: back to the letter, you can't hide a beautiful body 69 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: as the subject. So you know, even though you never 70 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: intended to be a role model for his children, sometimes 71 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: we're thrust in those positions. You know, you're dating this 72 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: guy and he does have daughters, so you have to 73 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: consider that when you are around them, you're you're You're 74 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: not there um their mom or anything, but they are. 75 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: If you're around their dead, they are looking to you 76 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: for certain things. So you know, I'm not telling you 77 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: to cover up and dress like a nun from head 78 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: to tour or anything like that, but be mindful, especially 79 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: around the daughters, of how you're presenting yourself. You know, 80 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: just do that for their sake. Okay, come out of 81 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: yourself for a little bit and just do that for 82 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: their sake. As far as you and this guy goes, 83 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: time will only tell. If he continues to be controlling. 84 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: He sounds like a nagger and all that already. But 85 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 1: you got to decide if you want to deal with that, 86 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: because it's not gonna get any better. And yeah, when 87 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: you're fine and beautiful, you can't hide it, you cannot 88 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: steve let it out. Well, this is a real simple 89 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: fix right here. Appreciate everything you said, Sherley. Here's the 90 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: other side of the coin. Thank you. See the way 91 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: you dress, that's how you got him. The way you look, 92 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: that's how you got him. See he liked all that 93 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: when he saw you. That's what got his attention. You 94 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: had what he wanted. That's why y'all together Now, the 95 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: little pencil skirts, the tight fit, the crop tops to 96 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: cleave it showing, the wrap skirts, the fitted sweater, y'all 97 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: go out on weekends, you dress how you want. Bam, 98 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: that's what got it. But now he want to change you. Well, 99 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: see the problem he got now is he probably need 100 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: a nun. He needed to date somebody that's a little 101 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,559 Speaker 1: bit different than you. And I'm gonna tell you why. 102 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: Here's I'm first I'm gonna get into this right here. 103 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: You thirty and he forty one. That's eleven years. That's 104 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: a gap. That's a gap, and it's a real gap. 105 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: When it's more than an eleven year distance. Eleven year difference, 106 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: it's probably more because he's probably an older forty one, 107 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: if you know what I mean, he probably an old 108 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: stuck up forty one. Then you might just be a 109 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: little bit younger thirty. But you're a lawyer, you work 110 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: at a law firm, you got a career. You gotta 111 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: go to work appropriate. You can't go in there looking 112 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: like anything like like like like you know, you can't 113 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: go to work looking like you a case. So I 114 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:40,559 Speaker 1: think you and you're okay right there. I think what's 115 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: really happening here is this eleven year age difference is 116 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,559 Speaker 1: bigger than eleven years because in his mind he wants 117 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,919 Speaker 1: something else. He wants something else from you now and 118 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: now he trying to shape you like that because he 119 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: turned around and said it. He wants you to dress 120 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: like his friend's wife. And you said that, bene if 121 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: he was a forty some years stay at home mother. 122 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: But you ain't got no kids, don't. I don't know 123 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: what he wants, but you all have to decide it's 124 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: what you want from hire worth giving him what he 125 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: wants from you. All right, We'll come back with part 126 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:24,679 Speaker 1: two of your response, you can't hide a beautiful body. Well, 127 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: this thirty year old lady married his old as forty 128 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: one year old man with these three damned daughters that 129 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: she ain't got no kids. They've been together five months 130 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: and he don't approve now how she dressed. You know, 131 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: he says you dressed like he want attention from other men. 132 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: See that's crazy, because see you dressed got attention from him. 133 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: Now that he got you, he don't want nobody else 134 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: paying attention to you. This is the beginning of something greater. Now, 135 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: I really do believe that this dressing is the beginning 136 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: of something greater. And like Shirley said, he could be 137 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: very controlled. Next thing, you know, you can't whear it is. 138 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: Next thing, you know why you're going over there, And 139 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: next thing, you know why you're spending that. Next thing, 140 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: you know, I don't want you driving that car no more. 141 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: Next thing you know you ain't gonna hand no friends. 142 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: I don't see a problem with me man or top 143 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: to show a little stomach, or a dress that shows 144 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: off my courage. He didn't have a problem with you 145 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: dress how he met me. You don't gonna write it didn't. 146 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: But now I've been talking about a NonStop that's called 147 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: some of his damn friends is looking at you. See now, 148 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 1: he's starting to notice some of the other men looking 149 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: at you. Now. He's feeling sort of inadequate. You know, 150 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: I don't want you to do this. I don't want 151 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: you to He's feeling some little little bit of insecurity too. 152 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: I think I recently met his daughters, and I was 153 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: dressed appropriately in jeans and a sweatshirt. He still said, 154 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: I need to do a better presenting myself in a 155 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: more wholesome matter. What the helling wholesome? That's what I'm saying, 156 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: covered up from head to tell. So why you want 157 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: me to seem soome? Now? I never tend to be 158 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: a role model for his children. Okay, now let me 159 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: explain some You can't say that. I can't say that 160 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: to him, man, I ain't trying to be no damn 161 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: role model for your damn kids. I can't say that. 162 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 1: I don't say that, lady. He ain't gonna handle that good, 163 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: all right? He says he wants me to be more 164 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: like his friend's wife, and that's all finally, good, Well, 165 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: he should marry his friend's wife. He should just go 166 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: dates one of his one, have his friend's wife introduce 167 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: him to some of her friends. They all three kids, 168 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: stay at home, mom, Yeah, drive a minute van. It all, 169 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: it's all good. Ain't nothing wrong with that. But you're 170 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: gonna get out, this little fan says, call you guy, 171 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: You're gonna get yourself a minute van. Get down here 172 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: to this day. I'm save a lot and get you 173 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: damn groceries. Wow, that's what you're gonna do. Why is 174 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: he bringing us up now and trying to change me. 175 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,439 Speaker 1: I'm at the point why I want to settle down 176 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: and he could be the one, but obviously I'm not 177 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: the woman he really wants. Well, now, hold on, let's 178 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: just take these last two statements. I'm at the point 179 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: where I'm ready to settle down and he could be 180 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: the one, could be the one, and but obviously I'm 181 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: not the woman he really wants. Okay, he could be 182 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: the one, but obviously I'm not the woman he really wants. 183 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: Could this be a deal breaker? It could be a 184 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: deal breaker. I think what you should do, though, is 185 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: wait a little while and just see how it goes, 186 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: you know, don't make a commitment, Just stay in this 187 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: relationship and see how I go, see how heavy he 188 00:10:56,400 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: gets with what he want. You know, you know some 189 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 1: of the little changes you can make in your dress 190 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: might be good for you, but then some of it 191 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: might not be what you want to do. You can't 192 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 1: just totally flip the script for this man and he 193 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: ain't flipping the script for you. I will flip the 194 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: script for a woman if she flipped the script for me. 195 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: This As long as I get flipped, that's all. Flip me, stupid, 196 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: got to get flipped. Yeah, you don't when they want 197 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: my woman flipping you. That's what j J J. The 198 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: woman he used to date big slid. It ain't gonna 199 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: go like you playing no no, no, no no no j 200 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: that's how he liked it. You ain't been flipped, boy, No, 201 00:11:51,720 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: I don't either. I can't how come out facing the head. Boy, 202 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 1: that's not a good feeling. I don't know what you're 203 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 1: doing when you flip me. First thing coming out? What 204 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: is going? WHOA? What were you doing here? Calling? Calling 205 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: sexual time out? It's too hard. Can't flip me because 206 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: usually when you getting flipped, it's followed by shut up. 207 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, we mean about say soon as your respect 208 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: is taken? No, man, you're not gonna talk to me 209 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: like that. No, no, no, no. If you keep getting flipped, 210 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: it follows up with a slap. Oh man, this is 211 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: this is scary. Yeah, you know now that you look 212 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: at it, Tommy. As I was doing light flipping, this 213 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: is aggressive flipping. Also, once you get flipped, Once you 214 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: get flipped, you get this baby, fix my plate, fix 215 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: your damn I don't place, I can't get a sandwich. 216 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: I can't get the sandwich. You're gonna lead the covers 217 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: off me like that? This right? Yeah, yeah, you get flipped. Yeah, 218 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: take your flip back, Tommy, m yeah. Yeah. But Steve, 219 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: it seems like he's getting progressively worse though they've only 220 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: been together for five months, and he keeps bugging her 221 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: and nagging her about this. I mean, you know it's 222 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: the beginning of something. Yeah, yeah, and it's happening now. 223 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: Controlling is not fun m hm. And this is five 224 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: just five months. If yeah, they're in a full fledged relationship, 225 00:13:54,640 --> 00:14:00,200 Speaker 1: and this is how he is. If he's controlled and 226 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 1: you have nothing to say, it's just gonna just remember 227 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: this old saying right here, ain't no fun. When the 228 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:16,559 Speaker 1: rabbit got the gun. M h. A dear. All right, look, 229 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: we gotta go. Email us or Instagram us guys. Uh, 230 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: your your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 231 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: f M. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.