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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>you dreamers and chases, niggas and hosts. This is your

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<v Speaker 1>co host AJ Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, tam Bam, y'all, It's official, tam maam.

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<v Speaker 1>I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yea, yeah, you're all get How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>My weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just ready to walk again. I put a little

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<v Speaker 2>pressure on the foot this week so and I was

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<v Speaker 2>able to stand on my head.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was good. That was exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the gist of my life right now. Just baby steps. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't do shit. I want to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>fair the South Carolina State there.

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<v Speaker 1>Is now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going on right now, and I want to go today.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to get me an elephant ear?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it there in Colombia now?

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<v Speaker 2>Hm?

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<v Speaker 1>Till Sunday, I hadn't seen any advertise. The one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I saw about the fair in Charleston was help keep

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<v Speaker 1>the fair, like as if they didn't have the money

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<v Speaker 1>to bring the fair hair or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, I want to go. I want to give me

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<v Speaker 2>an elephant ear. I want to get me a turkey leg,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want a polar sausage. That's see, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I can go home. I can't get on. You think

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<v Speaker 2>they'll let me on the ride with a broken foot?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not, they should, Okay, So they are having a

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<v Speaker 1>fair this year starts October thirty on Halloween, actually October

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<v Speaker 1>thirty first. Ours is called Coastal Carolina. Is that Jolls?

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. It's the state fair that happens in Columbia. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I thought, like the same fair

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<v Speaker 1>travels throughout the city.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hm, it's different.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean throughout the city. State Yeah, throughout the state.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I am into the fair in a long time, Like

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<v Speaker 1>not the Charleston Fair. I might go this year. I

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<v Speaker 1>might be sure. You should go.

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<v Speaker 2>That'll be funny dress up, as I was about to say,

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<v Speaker 2>dress up as a witch. But you're supposed to go

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<v Speaker 2>as something you ate all year long.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't know what I would do. I probably,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I might go as beetle juice or something. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I might dress the cat up as a witch. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you do over the weekend? I do Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>did do something. My mom had like a gathering for

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<v Speaker 1>like the small kids at her house. Just pizza and

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<v Speaker 1>hot dogs and shit like that. That was all the

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<v Speaker 1>kids can hang out together, everybody's small kids.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been weirded out by my mom lately. Man. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a whole family reunion last month that she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell any of us about. And she was there,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think, like even her telling me about the

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<v Speaker 1>shit at her house this weekend, it's almost like she

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<v Speaker 1>was hesitating. And when I got there, my oldest sister

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<v Speaker 1>was there from out of town. I'm like, damn, I

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<v Speaker 1>even know Londa was coming. She was like, I told

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<v Speaker 1>you that, No you did not. Did not tell me, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the hell is on my bad

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<v Speaker 1>not inviting you to the family and she ain't tell

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<v Speaker 1>none of us. She was sitting there a front row

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<v Speaker 1>with a picture. That's how I found out about it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like Labor Day weekend at that and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like Monday. When I seen her like sitting up on

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<v Speaker 1>a picture. I'm like, yo, what is happening? But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, y'all. I practiced detachment, so I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just I just can't be overly concerned what

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<v Speaker 1>other adult people want to do. I just can't. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, because it gets to a certain point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I love my mom and to death man

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<v Speaker 1>that used to be my best teacher. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all will get back to being besties, no worries.

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<v Speaker 1>People be listen, people be who they gonna be. We

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<v Speaker 1>just had this episode about daddy issues and shit and

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about our parents a little bit, and they just

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<v Speaker 1>be who they gonna be. So I guess you almost

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<v Speaker 1>got to realize, Okay, let me be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>different so we can have a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but y'all would get back to being besties. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>worry about I watch what I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have for me. That's tough anyway. So yeah, she had

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<v Speaker 1>like a little thing at her house for the little

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<v Speaker 1>kids and they run around. Everybody was musty okay, sound

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, smell like straight onion, and girl, I

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<v Speaker 1>love those kids. So I know nobody name all like

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<v Speaker 1>my little cousins like their children. I don't know none

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<v Speaker 1>of these kids' names. Baby, I'm like, oh baby, that is.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of musty. I've been trying to find like a

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<v Speaker 2>aluminum free deodorant that's gonna do the job.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know, no them do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I just have to like carry wipes with me

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<v Speaker 2>and the deodorant because I'm gonna have to, like after

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<v Speaker 2>a few hours, I'm gonna have to freshen back up.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no way around it. So I use the I

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<v Speaker 1>use the arm and hammer natural deorderant. And I mean

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<v Speaker 1>so with natural deorderance is not going to completely block

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<v Speaker 1>the smell and it's not gonna block the sweat because

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<v Speaker 1>what the aluminum deorderans do is clogs your your glandor yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that's I'm okay with knowing that I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to sweat, right, but I don't want to stink.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever, you got again, something that's gonna be like a

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<v Speaker 1>super smell good type thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm so used to my arm is smelling like powder,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So now it's just I'm using the schmidts Schmidt.

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<v Speaker 2>It's magnesium and something. It's just it's not it's not

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<v Speaker 2>giving what I needed to give.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl my cousin mom.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not hot outside. I'm thinking, like, if this

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<v Speaker 2>is what it's doing right now, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm used to it. Bitch. Let me tell you. I

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<v Speaker 1>be singing like because I've been wearing I've been wearing

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<v Speaker 1>natural disorder for at least ten years now, Bitch, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a possibility. And I was singing with regular deordering.

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<v Speaker 1>I just have high body order. Like when I go

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<v Speaker 1>to the gym, bitch, it's smelled like a nigga for real.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why I washed so much. But also exfoliating

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<v Speaker 1>underneath your arm, so I use those like African they

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<v Speaker 1>call it African sponge, but it's essentially like just imagine

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<v Speaker 1>a loofah but like taking apart. Yeah yeah, I use that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it actually helps because you exfoliating and getting some

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<v Speaker 1>of that bacteria. Yeah, you were moving a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more of the bacteria from underneath the from those little crevices.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not as bad as it used to be

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<v Speaker 1>because I exfoliate under my arm really good. But girl,

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<v Speaker 1>baby girl, at least I'm consciously aware. Yeah, me too.

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<v Speaker 2>I carry wipes in the older, and I carried.

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<v Speaker 1>Those little mini two brushes with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready for everything when it comes to my body, older,

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<v Speaker 2>my cleanliness.

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<v Speaker 1>I never want nobody like.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, did you smell tear me? God damn, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. I don't never want nobody to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to say that about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's stupid shit. Let's get this sends, y'all. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>see this? This this sixty four year old woman pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and I was excited for her. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>why her being pregnant gave me hope that I could

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<v Speaker 2>be pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>It always give me hope to see an old bitch pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like me too, my time is coming.

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<v Speaker 2>But sixty four is just like how much time are

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<v Speaker 2>you gonna have with your kid?

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<v Speaker 1>You know that? Mean the kid could be a blessing

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody else. She might know a younger woman who

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<v Speaker 1>needs a child, and she can make that person the

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<v Speaker 1>god god mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be fucking devastated, y'all. So it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>video on Instagram, the sixty four year old woman sitting

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<v Speaker 1>up in the obgyn just finding out she's pregnant. Twelve

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<v Speaker 1>weeks pregnant, and she's sitting in the car now at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, and she calls the eighty something year old

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<v Speaker 1>man named Rufus. It's Regina, not Regina, what's her? Nah, Judy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Judy and Rufus having a baby. She's sixty four,

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<v Speaker 1>Rufus and his day damn eighties. Rufus don't understand what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell is coming out of her fucking mouth. How

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<v Speaker 1>is this even possible that baby's gonna be so old

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<v Speaker 1>to coming out right old fashioned gonna be that baby's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be like sixty coming out the womb.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy that I've never heard of a woman that

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<v Speaker 2>age being able to conceive.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sixty now. I know some like forty six,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know some people now who are adults who

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<v Speaker 1>parents had them really.

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<v Speaker 2>Old, right, But yes, not no, sixty nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure we can find some cases in other

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<v Speaker 1>cases of people getting That means she's healthy, That means

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<v Speaker 1>she's really I mean, she's very healthy. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she might need to get some chromosomal chromosonal tests

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<v Speaker 1>done just to get her her baby has like you know, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know it is those serious and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>What if she has twins? Because they say the older

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<v Speaker 1>you get, the bigger the babies be, and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>chance of having more than one at a time.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn crazy twins is nuts. I would give them up

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<v Speaker 2>for adoption at sixty four years old.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wow. So Rufus was on the phone like being disrespectful, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's kind of triggering for me because I have

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<v Speaker 1>been a pregnant woman calling a man telling them, hey, man, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be pregnant. But imagine being that old and

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<v Speaker 1>this old ass man still playing with you on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe he thinks this is a joke, but she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't sound like she was playing at all. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that ain't my baby. She was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll go down and take the DNA test and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you on child support.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine being eighty four on child support is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So h one of our mutual friends, our mutual this

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<v Speaker 1>your friend, I met his ass through you. He sent

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<v Speaker 1>the post and all I said was my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>would be devastated. And he said, look how nasty she

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<v Speaker 1>got when she had some power. I would never want

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<v Speaker 1>to get a woman pregnant ever again in life. Just disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to let men know that women do

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<v Speaker 1>have an innate power and inherent power that y'all can

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<v Speaker 1>ever have, and that's why a lot of y'all be

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<v Speaker 1>fucking mad. So it is a sense of power. Just

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<v Speaker 1>deal with it, Okay, It's just one of those things.

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<v Speaker 2>So I or or get a aseectomy if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to reallyquish your power when it comes to these

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<v Speaker 2>type of situations, you don't have to. You can use condoms,

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<v Speaker 2>you can get a sect. To me, there are all

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of ways which doesn't work often that don't work

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of us here, A lot of y'all listening

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<v Speaker 2>is here because of pull out, but.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to do that. They just want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep putting our bodies through the bullshit, the abortion, abortion pill,

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<v Speaker 1>every you know what I'm saying, Like they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to have to go through and have any procedures. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why, like women's health is always like

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<v Speaker 1>on the forefront and shit like this is the abortion

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<v Speaker 1>election as far as I'm because this shit is weird

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<v Speaker 1>to me. But I said, I responded to him, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's not how I perceived a convo.

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<v Speaker 1>She felt played. He basically was saying it's not his child.

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<v Speaker 1>If he responded differently, differently, so would she have A

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<v Speaker 1>woman can't be happy about bringing life if the man isn't, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you be happy about like having this baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the man controls that part of.

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<v Speaker 2>It, right. Oftentimes, some women don't give a fuck whether

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<v Speaker 2>the man is a happy participant or not. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>some people just happy to be pregnant and don't care

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<v Speaker 2>if the nigga care or not. I mean the man,

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<v Speaker 2>because it ain't always a nigga, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but if you ain't, if you acting like

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<v Speaker 1>this ain't my child, I don't want the baby. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a niggah.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not across the board.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not against the DNA testing and all that shit, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that could be that should be automatic,

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<v Speaker 1>because women do be out here doing some really dirty

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<v Speaker 1>shit that men don't find out about until it's too late.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I'm about to stop using condoms.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, you are you even having sex? No?

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<v Speaker 2>But when I do, I ain't. I'm doing it right,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bitch, do that ship. I can't be talking about

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<v Speaker 1>I want a baby and always using the condoms, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and bitches be on birth control at this big age girl,

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<v Speaker 1>Just get out have fun. Why are you even so

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<v Speaker 1>fucking with somebody that you got to use a condom with? Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>these niggas are scary. Okay, Yeah, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like sleeping.

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<v Speaker 2>Anytime I've ever had sex without a condom, I don't sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>God, if you let me get it through, get through

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<v Speaker 1>this one time, God, please negative.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I've been in the bed and the dark, eyes

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<v Speaker 2>wide open, scared as hell.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy, listen, I remember those days at my younger age,

0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:15.480
<v Speaker 1>man be down, wild out living Levita Loca. Now you

0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:19.400
<v Speaker 1>go to pray before the appointments, right, lot, But y'all

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<v Speaker 1>started painting. That's how I started painting back in the day,

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<v Speaker 1>on my early twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>I started painting.

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<v Speaker 1>Waiting on an HIV test for anxiety. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>back then, that shit took two weeks to get the

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<v Speaker 1>results down there, bitch, I didn't leave my house for

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks almost, and that street I was just going

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<v Speaker 1>to work and come to fuck home, not talking to nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasressed out. Not Picasso, Pocasso. Y'all go get tested today.

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<v Speaker 1>It's scary at him.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, So uh if y'all saw this over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Martha Stewart has a miss for the ladies. Don't let

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<v Speaker 2>your man cheat, but she if you want. Martha is

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<v Speaker 2>finally opening up about the secrets of her personal life,

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<v Speaker 2>and her revelations are as bold as her public persona.

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<v Speaker 2>The eighty three year old ex con is at the

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<v Speaker 2>center of the Netflix documentary Martha, directed by R. J.

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<v Speaker 2>Cutler Okay, where she candidly addresses her past mistakes, including

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<v Speaker 2>infidelity and a striking moment from the trailer, Stewart and

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<v Speaker 2>missed that she cheated on her first husband, Andrew Stewart,

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<v Speaker 2>early in their marriage, and the fact that has long

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<v Speaker 2>been kept under wraps. It goes on to say that

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<v Speaker 2>martha The only marriage was to Andrew Stewart, whom she

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<v Speaker 2>married in nineteen sixty one. Despite her flourishing career, their

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<v Speaker 2>marriage was plagued by issues and they divorced in nineteen ninety.

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<v Speaker 2>What else was there was something else that was juicy

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<v Speaker 2>about this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? She basically was like, like, he never knew about that,

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<v Speaker 1>So why y'all even asking me about that shit? Like

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know it didn't happen, right, No, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like it doesn't it didn't happen, Like, as long as

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<v Speaker 1>your man doesn't know it didn't happen, and vice versa. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how nigga's really real. And when men you

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<v Speaker 1>literally have to have a transcript of the session for

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<v Speaker 1>them to tell you the truth about.

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<v Speaker 2>It, right, don't trust your eyes, trust me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And she goes on to say, if you're married

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<v Speaker 1>and your husband starts to cheat on you, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of shit. Get out that marriage. The cameraman zooms

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<v Speaker 1>out as the producer asked, didn't you have an affair

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<v Speaker 1>earlier on without missing a beat? Stewart responds, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think Andy ever knew about that.

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<v Speaker 2>What I mean, how unfair is that she just said

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<v Speaker 2>your husband is a piece of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>It then went on to say, and you find out

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<v Speaker 1>he's a piece of shit if he cheats and you

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<v Speaker 1>never know and he never misses the beat, he's the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect husband. All you could act is respect. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>much pussy out here.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you feel like cheating is a deal breaker?

0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:10.080
<v Speaker 1>They talk about that all the time, and I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting the older I get, I'm leaning closer to yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because my current relationship, boy, if I fight on any

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<v Speaker 1>fucking thing. I'm like, you don't got no more room

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<v Speaker 1>for nothing, So I don't know, I'm kind of leaning

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<v Speaker 1>towards like we're just self control.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you're forty now, especially like I be feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like they did start working real good after they start

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<v Speaker 2>hitting forty, you know, like you're not you're not your stammaa.

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<v Speaker 2>But the desire for a whole bunch of different pussy

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<v Speaker 2>kind of wanes.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, I would think, you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that man who just out here is still waking up

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<v Speaker 1>every day to chase pussy. You were supposed to do

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<v Speaker 1>that in your twenties and thirties, Yeah, Like now like

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<v Speaker 1>it should be like you're not willing to risk your home,

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<v Speaker 1>your marriage, your relationship for somebody who really don't matter

0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:10.720
<v Speaker 1>if they if she matters that much, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead over there, right, just don't be with nobody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>be single. But the thing is these men swear they

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<v Speaker 1>be single, and the truth is half of them can't

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<v Speaker 1>be alone. You They be in a relationship in some capacity. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not until a woman try to check them for

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<v Speaker 1>something that they are doing that they say, oh, weed together,

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<v Speaker 1>we wasn't in a relationship, right, But we've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>all the things, having raw sex, sleeping at each other

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<v Speaker 1>house for days, cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>With my family, you meet.

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<v Speaker 1>My kids, you exactly, But now I'm crazy when I

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<v Speaker 1>try to tell you about playing with me. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>ain't need like that. And obviously this happens until they're

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<v Speaker 1>eighty or dead. Obviously men going to always be playing

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<v Speaker 1>with you like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at rufus.

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<v Speaker 1>That ain't my baby Judy ship. Hey, look I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>calling that you got rufous, but you got rufous man. Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Did y'all? Did you see Droe and t I on

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club? This is such a weird exchange, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>who was that guy? So there was a Droe was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about addiction on the Breakfast Club and how he

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<v Speaker 1>was on drugs for many years, even his daughter, and

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<v Speaker 1>that that part really pissed me off. When the guy

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<v Speaker 1>was snickering in the back about he like snickered the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest when he mentioned his daughter. So Joe turned around

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<v Speaker 1>was like, man, I'll slap you. I thought they were.

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<v Speaker 3>Playing like but you know, you know it was more

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<v Speaker 3>than that. It was actually overdose. You feel what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 3>and I used the I used this platform with the

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<v Speaker 3>with the Thank god.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a mechanic, mechanics always laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a dastardly individual almost overdose, yo, I did you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>And all the all of these things happened, the overdose.

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<v Speaker 3>My daughter was on drugs, and you know, career wise,

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't aware.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't what's up with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you? Finnah? Get slapped? I mean, we're cool, but

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<v Speaker 3>I slapped you by laughing. Man, I'm just I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>telling you we're cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Slapping.

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<v Speaker 3>What you want to do, what you want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Him take you out of sober drove.

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<v Speaker 3>He listen, Hey, listen, hey, both of y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all, everybody came in and mother with me. Hey look,

0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:57.680
<v Speaker 1>everybody came in the motherfucker with me. Hey look, everybody

0:20:57.680 --> 0:20:58.560
<v Speaker 1>came in the motheruck with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Look remember who you came and remember what we do

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<v Speaker 1>with him? Man, come on, man, they get the ship together, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the friend, the guy in the back, was

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<v Speaker 2>happy to be getting some airtime. I think he was

0:21:13.400 --> 0:21:17.119
<v Speaker 2>just enjoying the attention because he's not he's not a star.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he wasn't the star. He wasn't asked to

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<v Speaker 2>sit at the desk. He was just in the background

0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:26.040
<v Speaker 2>and Charlamagne was giving him some attention and he was

0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:29.280
<v Speaker 2>trying to keep that energy going because there's no way possible.

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<v Speaker 2>He thought any of that was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird. They need to get him from around them immediately,

0:21:35.480 --> 0:21:38.840
<v Speaker 1>that was just some chase. Yeah, that ain't your friend

0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:41.400
<v Speaker 1>because he don't even know how to play his part. Man,

0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:43.280
<v Speaker 1>that's a big, grown ass man. And Drop was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just a mechanic. Why if he's just a mechanic,

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<v Speaker 1>why y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Got bad for all the mechanics out there, because I

0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:54.680
<v Speaker 2>know some really you know, good mechanics, Like, damn, why

0:21:54.720 --> 0:21:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I gotta be just a mechanic. I went laughing at

0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:57.640
<v Speaker 2>your baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Edit you, but you need this.

0:22:02.480 --> 0:22:06.640
<v Speaker 2>Mechanics are essential, Yes they are. I keep shout out

0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:08.200
<v Speaker 2>to all the mechanics out there.

0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:10.680
<v Speaker 1>One thing about I'm gonna keep me a mechanic.

0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:12.000
<v Speaker 2>Bitch me too.

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<v Speaker 1>If I can't do it myself, I know somebody who can.

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<v Speaker 2>Goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>But speaking of addiction, that's what we want to talk

0:22:25.240 --> 0:22:28.080
<v Speaker 1>about today, y'all. What are you addicted to. It doesn't

0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:30.240
<v Speaker 1>have to just be drugs, because there's always there's like

0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:38.000
<v Speaker 1>physical addiction, behavioral type addictions. So let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be back.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a couple. What are you addicted to?

0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:53.719
<v Speaker 1>Aj all type of shit? Okay, relationships is one, Like

0:22:53.760 --> 0:22:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm addicted to people. I can get

0:22:56.680 --> 0:22:58.679
<v Speaker 1>addicted to people. I'll wake up one day and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't funk with you no more. So it's like

0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:06.399
<v Speaker 1>wavering a little bit. Can you call it that?

0:23:06.480 --> 0:23:08.359
<v Speaker 2>If you can just wake up and not do it

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<v Speaker 2>no more?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it might take me three four years to

0:23:10.920 --> 0:23:14.920
<v Speaker 1>kick it. Okay, Yeah, that's an extended period of time

0:23:14.960 --> 0:23:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that I've been addicted to this thing and now I'm not.

0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:21.040
<v Speaker 1>So it might take me a while to get over

0:23:21.080 --> 0:23:25.399
<v Speaker 1>the addiction, but I can m hm. I like, I

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:27.800
<v Speaker 1>think I like shrooms on Friday. That's my first one.

0:23:30.680 --> 0:23:33.760
<v Speaker 1>On Fridays. It's very specific, you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why Fridays have always just felt so good to me,

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<v Speaker 1>even since I was a kid. Like Friday's just all

0:23:40.160 --> 0:23:42.320
<v Speaker 1>like knowing you don't have to do shit the next day,

0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 1>or as an adult, you guys something to do every

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:46.720
<v Speaker 1>fucking day. Because you probably got some shit you don't

0:23:46.760 --> 0:23:48.480
<v Speaker 1>put off throughout the week that you got to do

0:23:48.520 --> 0:23:51.959
<v Speaker 1>on Saturday. But I don't know, Saturday is like the

0:23:51.960 --> 0:23:54.680
<v Speaker 1>the life just feels different on Fridays.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know what, not me coming from I've

0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:01.679
<v Speaker 2>always done here. Saturday is just a busy work day

0:24:01.760 --> 0:24:04.600
<v Speaker 2>for me. So it's Friday. Don't feel like the weekend

0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:07.000
<v Speaker 2>for me like everybody else. It never has, you know,

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Saturday night is my Friday night. But I still don't

0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:21.040
<v Speaker 2>do trooms. I tried them. I tried shrooms twice in life,

0:24:21.080 --> 0:24:23.399
<v Speaker 2>and one time it was bad because the person I

0:24:23.440 --> 0:24:25.960
<v Speaker 2>tried it with was not a good person.

0:24:25.680 --> 0:24:27.280
<v Speaker 1>To be around and got them.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the other time was pretty cool. I like

0:24:31.480 --> 0:24:36.840
<v Speaker 2>was listening to classical music and like zooming in on paintings,

0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 2>like I was zooming deep in on paintings on my phone,

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:42.719
<v Speaker 2>and like it was. It was trippy, for sure, But

0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:45.760
<v Speaker 2>that's the only time I've ever done shrooms. It's nothing

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:47.199
<v Speaker 2>that I've ever like.

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I prefer weed.

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:51.159
<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm addicted to weed. But I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know if I'm addicted to it because the dude I

0:24:55.280 --> 0:24:57.480
<v Speaker 2>used to get my weed from used to be my boo.

0:24:58.080 --> 0:25:00.399
<v Speaker 2>So it was free. And now that he not my

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:02.280
<v Speaker 2>boot and I have to pay for weed. I haven't

0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:05.439
<v Speaker 2>been smoking at all. But was I really addicted or

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:06.720
<v Speaker 2>was it just free?

0:25:06.840 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm addicted to free weed. I got to pay for it, bitch.

0:25:11.560 --> 0:25:12.760
<v Speaker 1>The addition is gone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gone. It's just like that crazy And then love.

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<v Speaker 1>I love love?

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<v Speaker 2>How long my whole life. I've always loved love. I've

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<v Speaker 2>been I feel like I got set up with all

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 2>the fairy tale books from a little girl, and it

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:33.920
<v Speaker 2>made me fall in love with love as a little girl.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just been loving love ever since.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you though, like, what do you mean by that?

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:42.639
<v Speaker 2>I just love the feeling of love. I love to

0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:46.280
<v Speaker 2>be loved. I love to love others. I just love love.

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:49.760
<v Speaker 2>So you're you're in love with the idea of love.

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:53.680
<v Speaker 1>But what happens when it? Like, I think your love

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<v Speaker 1>be fleeting. That's what I'm getting to.

0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 2>Because when I love you, I be loving you down

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<v Speaker 2>for life forever.

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<v Speaker 1>We happened to the weed man.

0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I still love him, but he just loving him was

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:10.960
<v Speaker 2>killing me. So I had to go. You know what

0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:12.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, But.

0:26:14.720 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you think your love is conditional? Though.

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm not God, so yeah, I ain't your

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 2>mama either. I can't. I can't say my love is

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<v Speaker 2>not without conditions because if my weed man came over

0:26:31.240 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 2>here and harm my sister, you know, and did something

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:38.199
<v Speaker 2>to harm her, and that love would change, right, you know.

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:41.080
<v Speaker 2>So I can't just say it's not without condition because

0:26:43.040 --> 0:26:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I ain't your mom or God. So yeah, but I can,

0:26:49.520 --> 0:26:53.439
<v Speaker 2>like I can like still love someone who has broken

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:54.119
<v Speaker 2>my heart, you know.

0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:57.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I feel like if I ever told somebody I

0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:59.160
<v Speaker 1>loved them like I meant it, and I still love them.

0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:01.359
<v Speaker 1>I may not be in life with them, but I

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 1>still care about their well being.

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:04.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, right, I don't want nothing bad to have

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:05.359
<v Speaker 2>it too.

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I take them into consideration like I did

0:27:08.200 --> 0:27:10.960
<v Speaker 1>when I was in love with them, but I do

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 1>care about, you know, how they're doing. I want to

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.919
<v Speaker 1>still see them doing well, even some motherfuckers that I

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:22.120
<v Speaker 1>send my hate, because it's a very thin line between

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:24.439
<v Speaker 1>love and hate. But I never want to see like

0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:26.440
<v Speaker 1>you doing bad in any capacity.

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:29.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't even think I have nobody that I like

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:33.239
<v Speaker 2>for real hate, you know, Like it's some people that

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:36.200
<v Speaker 2>I despise, like George Zimmerman.

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that like a synonym for hate to despise? Hate

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>is stronger than despise, right, I don't know. I think

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:47.879
<v Speaker 1>it's just the word like, I don't know.

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm hate is just such a powerful world where it's

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:55.680
<v Speaker 2>just as strong as love. To me, you know, we're

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:59.280
<v Speaker 2>just equal and opposite end of the spectrum. And I

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.800
<v Speaker 2>just don't feel like I really carry hate in me,

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:03.960
<v Speaker 2>like real hate.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a disdain, yeah.

0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:10.879
<v Speaker 2>For a lot of people. What are your other addictions?

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 2>I see your list sugar?

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, how you giving my list? Bitch? That's both,

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:23.200
<v Speaker 1>that's both are sugar. I didn't even realize this is shared.

0:28:23.240 --> 0:28:25.600
<v Speaker 1>How did that happen? Don't you send it to me?

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I ain't never sent that to you? You did you

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 1>sent me something?

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:30.879
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:33.400
<v Speaker 2>You sent me this shit? Bitch? How I'm your list?

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about sugar. It's that the only thing on

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 2>your list that applies to me. It's sugar.

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:44.680
<v Speaker 1>You didn't send me a request or something. Oh bitch,

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I ain't sending you nothing. How did that happen? Because

0:28:47.440 --> 0:28:49.200
<v Speaker 1>something popped up on my screen at the top, and

0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>then I hit the button, thinking you were sending me

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 1>something anyway.

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:55.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sugar, you told me, you told me I needed

0:28:55.280 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 2>to dodo and then this list came this morning.

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 1>What yep, my phone is I had to put this apple. No,

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:11.120
<v Speaker 1>for real, listen, I didn't do that. That's weird. I

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:17.400
<v Speaker 1>didn't do that anyway. Yeah, sugar, okay, I really be

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>consciously trying not to consume. As my shirt.

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 2>I love chocolate, me too.

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>I love ice cream on a like, who the fuck

0:29:26.000 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>really be having waffle cones in their house?

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:30.360
<v Speaker 3>You.

0:29:32.560 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 2>I didn't start loving sugar until I got older, too,

0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:39.480
<v Speaker 2>which is crazy to me. As a kid, I did

0:29:39.520 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 2>not fuck with sugar like that when we would when

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 2>we would be at the like kids' birthday parties back then,

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:48.000
<v Speaker 2>it'd be like a Hamburger hot dog, little hugs in

0:29:48.040 --> 0:29:50.959
<v Speaker 2>a cave with the hardy food. Yeah, give me another

0:29:51.040 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 2>hot dog. I don't want no cake. I want another

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 2>hot dog.

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 1>Well, what's I got? Growled all of a sudden. I

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:06.200
<v Speaker 1>love sugar so much. I think it could be inherited too,

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:09.000
<v Speaker 1>because my daddy is like that. My daddy loved like

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:13.080
<v Speaker 1>baked goods and shit like that, like, and that's how

0:30:13.080 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I am.

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 3>Like.

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't like packaged sugar, though, I like like for

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:19.960
<v Speaker 1>real fresh baked goods. Bitch, like a good muffin from

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 1>a bakery, good breads from a bakery. Food addiction, Okay,

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:27.160
<v Speaker 1>not just sugar. I got a food addiction too, let's

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 1>just be honest.

0:30:28.280 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 2>I guess yeah, me too. I like good hej used

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:35.480
<v Speaker 2>to come over my house with these little football I

0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 2>that's a Asian market, and I wish I could as shit.

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 2>I ain't never seen this pastry a day in my life.

0:30:42.240 --> 0:30:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Next time you and Charlotte, you need to get me

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:46.320
<v Speaker 1>something mail I get.

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to that tomorrow, so I'll go get your football.

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:53.560
<v Speaker 1>Because I miss those pastries. Man. But they so far,

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>even when I'm in Charlotte, I never make it to

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:58.560
<v Speaker 1>that grocery store. I am describing forty five minutes to

0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>get to them to get them football.

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy, that's next level.

0:31:04.840 --> 0:31:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I will drive like so. I do have a food addiction, right,

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 1>but it's for good food. I can't just eat anything.

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm very particular about what I put in my body.

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:17.520
<v Speaker 1>What I eat, it gotta be like some real good

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 1>shit I don't want to eat. Otherwise, I will travel

0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>to multiple places because I know exactly where I what

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I want and where I need it from. I will

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>drive to a bunch of different grocery stores to get

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>the exact things.

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 2>Meanwhile, I tried, just because you know, marketing has been

0:31:35.840 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 2>good lately for McDonald's that fileal fish. Everybody act like

0:31:39.040 --> 0:31:42.080
<v Speaker 2>it's so good. I wouldn't try it. It's not. It's

0:31:42.120 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 2>not given. What is it is that?

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Even? What is that cod?

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I tried it twice just because I

0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 2>was like, maybe it was bad the first time. No,

0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 2>it's still not given.

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:52.600
<v Speaker 1>Why don't you just make your own? I had a

0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 1>fish sandwich last night, Like I buy like the frozen

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>cord filets piled out with tomatoes. I make my own

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 1>my own. Yeah, I'm sure better. Everybody put it on

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 1>a Hawaiian bun. Bitch the Kings Hawaiian bun.

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 2>Slide right quick. Social media addiction is next level.

0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we had that digital detox episode and I still

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:28.360
<v Speaker 1>have yet to be able to just straight disconnect on

0:32:28.440 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 1>social media.

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll find myself watching them. Do y'all watch those

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:33.720
<v Speaker 2>rug cleaning videos?

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 2>What I've been watching like the dirty ass rugs? Like

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:40.400
<v Speaker 2>how did the rug get that dirty? You know? Like

0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 2>it'd be like covered in mud and the shampoot. I'll

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:54.960
<v Speaker 2>be in the rabbit hole hours pimple popping videos.

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I love that. Yeah, me too?

0:32:57.640 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 2>What is it about that? Why do we want to

0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:00.880
<v Speaker 2>just see a us it burst?

0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean even when they're doing the bikini area, I'm

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 1>watching that on YouTube. I want to see. Yeah, I

0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>want to see. And I like when like a lot

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:11.800
<v Speaker 1>of stuff come out like youtobe. Why I'm so fisty

0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:13.680
<v Speaker 1>like that? Why is it? Yeah?

0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 2>That makes me happy? I don't know that's the just

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 2>but and I like.

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 1>I like the bus bumps too, me too.

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 2>If like that's how you know I like you? If

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 2>I start popping pimples on your face? Oh we locked

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 2>in you mom in egrown hairs, I'm all about it.

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 1>So y'all, I might have a slight gambling addiction, So

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:41.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean one can one may say, like even trading

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>options is like a form of an addiction because it

0:33:43.880 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>is essentially gambling, you.

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Know what I'm saying.

0:33:47.680 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 1>But a bitch like me can go to chuck e

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Cheese and run.

0:33:50.520 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 2>Out Chucky Cheese, Chucky.

0:33:55.680 --> 0:34:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Daven. You can't have a Chucky Trees. That is stupid.

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>And you know you ain't getting like the most tickets

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 1>for these things. But I'm like, I don't know. It's

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:10.879
<v Speaker 1>not gambling, bitch.

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:12.799
<v Speaker 2>I thought she was about to say, like sportsmen, and

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:14.720
<v Speaker 2>its been said, check E Cheese.

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:18.200
<v Speaker 1>That is gambling. Like going to the fair and playing

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 1>all those games and all that shit like that is gambling.

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Like it does feed something in you that that needs

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 1>to win, Like I'm addicted to winning.

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Maybe say I'm addicted to winning, not gambling, because Checkie Cheese,

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:37.799
<v Speaker 2>you and your tokens, you're gonna get what you're gonna get.

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:40.600
<v Speaker 2>A little basketball. I want a basketball face.

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>But I can't stop though, you know what I'm saying.

0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Once I get in. I haven't been in a I

0:34:47.440 --> 0:34:50.880
<v Speaker 1>don't go places that I have an addiction to, so

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I haven't been in a long time. But if I like, okay, no,

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:56.799
<v Speaker 1>I have been to Frankies this year. I have been

0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 1>to Frankies this year. And it's like a challenge to

0:34:58.920 --> 0:35:02.640
<v Speaker 1>not play the game. It's a challenge.

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:09.440
<v Speaker 2>I swear to God, che we gonna have an intervention.

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I gamblers.

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:17.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm in there eating a whole piece of that good as.

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:20.440
<v Speaker 1>It used to be good or when we just little

0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>we just didn't know if it was good or not.

0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I think it's still good. I haven't been in a while,

0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 1>but I.

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:28.320
<v Speaker 2>Believe it's good.

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>So what's some other things you're addicted to?

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:38.440
<v Speaker 2>I think we hit all my weed, social media, food

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:46.799
<v Speaker 2>and love. Oh I'm also addicted to beauty products me too.

0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, man, I will buy it if you can. Like,

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 2>all you gotta do is make a video about some

0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:58.319
<v Speaker 2>ship and I'm gonna go buy it.

0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 1>TikTok shop not I'm not addicket to that, but I

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:03.400
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people are addicted to TikTok shop.

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:07.880
<v Speaker 2>It's so easy. One button's on the way. I just

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:10.439
<v Speaker 2>ordered some lavender oil because the girl was like, oh

0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 2>my skin is so beautiful from using lavender oil.

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:16.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like, stay, no mortgage, and I bought it,

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I just for sure.

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 2>It's hard for me to throw them away. It's a

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 2>bad addiction. Bad Like I used to work at Saphoria

0:36:27.160 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 2>and we would get gradest shout out to all the

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:33.920
<v Speaker 2>Sephoria girlies. And I still got gradest. What is in

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:35.759
<v Speaker 2>my house? I need to throw that shit out. It's

0:36:35.760 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 2>like where they give you free products, okay to you

0:36:39.239 --> 0:36:41.560
<v Speaker 2>so you get a big bag of free products. You

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 2>know that probably good stuff. Oh yeah, that shit is

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 2>no good, But I still got it just in case

0:36:48.160 --> 0:36:50.560
<v Speaker 2>there isn't apocalypse that we run down the beauty supplies,

0:36:50.600 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I will be still beautiful.

0:36:54.600 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I have like bens of products. I shadow palate.

0:37:00.800 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 2>There's no reason I got this many ice shadow pals,

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:06.359
<v Speaker 2>and bitch be using the same palate, use the same one,

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 2>use the same Jubus place palette every time. But meanwhile,

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 2>I got thirty thousand ice shallow palettes. So beauty products, skincare, makeup,

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I still got old ass Mac look gloss. That shit

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:20.560
<v Speaker 2>probably mean too.

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:24.319
<v Speaker 1>Remember they used to take back the containers back to Mac.

0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:27.360
<v Speaker 1>They don't do that anymore. But I have, like, yes,

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I have a bunch of containers that I the whole way.

0:37:33.680 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I just won't throw away.

0:37:36.040 --> 0:37:40.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh I also hoard bundles me too. I'm not throwing

0:37:40.440 --> 0:37:40.839
<v Speaker 2>out my hair.

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I just see the posts like, uh, do y'all be

0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>having bags and weave.

0:37:44.400 --> 0:37:46.479
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely every Yeah.

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I can bring hair back to life, so

0:37:50.120 --> 0:37:52.000
<v Speaker 1>it could be some five ten year old hair. I

0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:55.680
<v Speaker 1>can make that ship look brand brand. I'm definitely holding mine.

0:37:55.760 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 2>Need to start a service right back to new and

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:03.200
<v Speaker 2>just be refurbishing. Bitch is bundled.

0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like I do hoard weave for years.

0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:08.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me too.

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:10.000
<v Speaker 1>Is that an addiction though?

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Good? Yeah, I don't know if you addicted the weave.

0:38:17.200 --> 0:38:21.560
<v Speaker 2>You addicted the weave, huh? How you addicted the wigs?

0:38:22.280 --> 0:38:24.280
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not. I just don't feel like doing sowings

0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:27.880
<v Speaker 1>no more. What's the difference? Yeah, but you don't switch

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:30.680
<v Speaker 1>it up. Oh Ill. Even when I had sewns like,

0:38:30.680 --> 0:38:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I would have the same style. It wasn't like I've

0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:34.320
<v Speaker 1>never been that versatile.

0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 2>But I remember, like maybe five or six years ago,

0:38:38.600 --> 0:38:40.360
<v Speaker 2>you had braids. That's the last time I seen you.

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>And I've only had braids like three times in life,

0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:45.920
<v Speaker 1>three or four times in life. Like No, I know

0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:48.800
<v Speaker 1>when I was younger, like middle school, high school, I

0:38:48.800 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 1>would get braids, But as an adult, I've only had

0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>like braids like three four times. So braids just isn't

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:58.920
<v Speaker 1>my thing. But I don't think I'm addicted to weaves

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:02.120
<v Speaker 1>and wigs anymore. Any of the black women the fuck

0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>we all did exactly exactly. I've been wearing lashes too. Then,

0:39:12.239 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 1>since our freshman year in college, I've been wearing lashes

0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:23.600
<v Speaker 1>before everybody else. Like I said earlier, it's two different

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 1>types of addiction. You got behavioral addictions and then like

0:39:26.680 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 1>physical addictions. Physical would be like your drugs. You're you're

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:35.400
<v Speaker 1>the weed you're addicted to and the shrooms that I

0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 1>like to take. The thing is I I remember I

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:43.200
<v Speaker 1>was addicted to Viking for two weeks, and once the

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:46.319
<v Speaker 1>prescription ran out, I don't know, I no longer needed it.

0:39:46.360 --> 0:39:48.720
<v Speaker 1>So is that that's not really an addiction. I enjoyed

0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 1>it while I hadn't. It's nothing for me to like

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 1>get off of some shit. So I don't really have

0:39:53.200 --> 0:39:59.000
<v Speaker 1>an addictive personality per se mm hmm, because if I

0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:01.680
<v Speaker 1>don't have access to it, it is just okay, it's over.

0:40:01.760 --> 0:40:04.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm not about to go sell some pussy for some

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:07.960
<v Speaker 1>pain medicine. I just enjoy it while I got it,

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:09.359
<v Speaker 1>and I know that it's going to come.

0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:13.280
<v Speaker 2>To an end. What will you sell pussy for money?

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:23.480
<v Speaker 1>That's another addiction, depend depending on how much. So this

0:40:23.480 --> 0:40:25.960
<v Speaker 1>this is a new choice and treatment center. This is

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:31.879
<v Speaker 1>anybody who actually has, like a a real addiction, get help.

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:35.440
<v Speaker 1>The addiction can either be physical or behavioral, and often

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 1>they go hand in hand. Though alcohol and tobacco are

0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 1>commonly recognized types of addiction. There are actually hundreds of

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>types of medically and scientifically recognized addictions. Cravings, compulsions and

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:53.799
<v Speaker 1>ability to stop, and lifestyle lifestyle dysfunction all point to

0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 1>the existence of some type of addiction. Social media is

0:40:57.520 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 1>definitely one of my biggest addictions right now. I gotta

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 1>get the fuck because it's not like we be on

0:41:03.760 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 1>their doing. We talk backshit so much that I have

0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 1>to be on their most of the time I'm on

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 1>social media. I'm not posting shit. I'm just strolling me

0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 1>to scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling for hours. I even have

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:22.839
<v Speaker 1>a two hour limit set and I will hit the

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:27.840
<v Speaker 1>thing to stop it, to stop the lock of the app.

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:31.719
<v Speaker 1>There's another app that will delete the apps and then

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:36.560
<v Speaker 1>bring them back when your new time comes in. But

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:37.920
<v Speaker 1>that is just too extreme.

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:40.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the next level.

0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:43.160
<v Speaker 1>It says the person can be addicted to behaviors just

0:41:43.239 --> 0:41:46.080
<v Speaker 1>as seriously as one can be addicted to substance such

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:50.280
<v Speaker 1>as alcohol or hard drugs. The addiction behaviors that result

0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:53.480
<v Speaker 1>from both types of addiction can have serious negative consequences.

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Though from all that, from all that comes with a

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:02.080
<v Speaker 1>substance use disorder, to the perils of a gambling addiction,

0:42:02.640 --> 0:42:08.480
<v Speaker 1>or even compulsive shopping and sexual behavior to an unhealthy degree.

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Addiction is a complex disease. The type of addiction this

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>excuse me, The type of addiction doesn't really matter as

0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 1>much as the underlying issue causing the patient to chase,

0:42:22.840 --> 0:42:29.759
<v Speaker 1>chase this pleasurable feeling while incuring adverse consequences. I think,

0:42:29.800 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 1>like crack, for instance, that shit was magic. It was

0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:38.440
<v Speaker 1>created to make you addicted. So are you really addicted

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:42.240
<v Speaker 1>to it? And when this thing is altering your mind

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:44.960
<v Speaker 1>your body so much to where you can't do without it?

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Right? But I would have loved to know what the

0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 2>first crack, how I felt.

0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:56.239
<v Speaker 1>Like you can still find out.

0:42:57.200 --> 0:43:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to shut up because I don't want

0:43:00.520 --> 0:43:03.880
<v Speaker 2>because I see what it does. But imagine something that

0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 2>feels that good that you running behind it, like risk,

0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Like that's.

0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 1>What I didn't really feel that good? Or just the

0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 1>chemical compound of this thing physically changed your DNA. Do

0:43:18.520 --> 0:43:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you see what I'm saying.

0:43:19.880 --> 0:43:21.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

0:43:21.120 --> 0:43:24.080
<v Speaker 1>That's why addiction like the way they the way they

0:43:24.120 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 1>describe or the definition for addiction. But if something like

0:43:29.120 --> 0:43:36.319
<v Speaker 1>was intentionally created to make you addicted to it, it's

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 1>just different, you see what I'm saying, Like, I feel

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like we like Instagram, was created for you to be

0:43:41.600 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 1>addicted to it.

0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

0:43:44.960 --> 0:43:47.080
<v Speaker 1>The stuff that they put in some of the foods

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.799
<v Speaker 1>like McDonald's, they put things in there to make you

0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:55.799
<v Speaker 1>addicted to it. If that thing wasn't in there, would

0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you actually be addicted to it? So are they creating addiction?

0:43:59.200 --> 0:44:00.879
<v Speaker 1>Is what I'm saying. Oh?

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:04.440
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, What are they put in that McDonald's sprite Because

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:10.000
<v Speaker 2>they're putting something it's different than the regular spry, right,

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 2>that's just I.

0:44:11.400 --> 0:44:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Haven't had McDonald's in a very long time. Nothing from there.

0:44:14.560 --> 0:44:17.160
<v Speaker 1>Even the ice creams started to taste like dishwashing detergent

0:44:17.239 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to me. So I don't even get that shit. And

0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.799
<v Speaker 1>half the time the machine be broke anyway because they

0:44:23.800 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 1>don't want to clean it and should be full of mold.

0:44:26.280 --> 0:44:32.160
<v Speaker 1>And if you look up under them ice machines mold.

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:36.600
<v Speaker 1>So your physical addictions are the ones that are generally

0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:40.840
<v Speaker 1>better known. These are addictions to substances that are ingested

0:44:40.920 --> 0:44:43.799
<v Speaker 1>or otherwise put into a person's body. See otherwise put

0:44:43.840 --> 0:44:50.160
<v Speaker 1>into a person's body. So I feel like it, especially

0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:53.759
<v Speaker 1>in America, they are creating addiction. It's not that you're

0:44:53.840 --> 0:44:57.920
<v Speaker 1>just addicted to this thing. It was intentional for you

0:44:58.000 --> 0:44:59.120
<v Speaker 1>to be addicted.

0:45:00.960 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Social media.

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:11.640
<v Speaker 1>So some common physical addictions include alcohol, tobacco, opioids, prescription drugs, cocaine, marijuana, amphetamines,

0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 1>hallucinogens Inhaling's and PC What the fuck is the whoopies?

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:22.160
<v Speaker 2>Whoopies whoopies? Unlike the Pink Star be lying. But it's like,

0:45:23.560 --> 0:45:27.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, like a canna, oxygen cream, wood cream and

0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:30.440
<v Speaker 2>the O two or whatever it is that comes out

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:33.000
<v Speaker 2>of the can inhaling that shit.

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, people, nuts, How did you even know that got

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you high?

0:45:38.040 --> 0:45:41.359
<v Speaker 2>Though? That's what I'm saying. But you can buy it

0:45:41.400 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 2>now where it's just like the can with the air

0:45:44.120 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 2>in it and the kids are doing it.

0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:49.840
<v Speaker 1>What's the dude? You all Santana was doing it in

0:45:49.880 --> 0:45:53.600
<v Speaker 1>the middle of an interview, like.

0:45:54.000 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Wow, how it's interesting.

0:45:57.280 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Physical addictions can generally be grouped into three categories, alcohol,

0:46:01.120 --> 0:46:05.560
<v Speaker 1>ulicit drugs, and prescription drugs. Alcohol addiction is arguably among

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>the most common. It manifests in form of alcohol dependency,

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:13.080
<v Speaker 1>binge drinking, or regular heavy drinking. So most addictions are

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:19.680
<v Speaker 1>masking other problems, mental health, shit, trauma. Self is yourself

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:26.080
<v Speaker 1>medicating essentially. Yeah, so our little addictions at that serious.

0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:30.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, like, I mean, they can't become serious.

0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:33.440
<v Speaker 2>If we allow shrooms every Friday, could be shreams every morning.

0:46:33.480 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't really do it every Friday though, because I

0:46:35.600 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>haven't done it in the last month, but I like

0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:40.040
<v Speaker 1>it on Fridays. It may not be an.

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:43.879
<v Speaker 2>Addiction, but our sugar addiction could really be turned into

0:46:43.960 --> 0:46:47.000
<v Speaker 2>something bad for us diabetes, health issues and all that stuff.

0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:50.800
<v Speaker 2>Food addiction is definitely the number one killer in America

0:46:50.880 --> 0:46:55.279
<v Speaker 2>is food, you know. Hm, So, I mean that's pretty serious.

0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:57.719
<v Speaker 2>But when it comes to have you ever, do you

0:46:57.760 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 2>know somebody who has to get up and drink first

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:01.279
<v Speaker 2>thing in the morning when they wake up.

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:01.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I do.

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:05.719
<v Speaker 2>It's the saddest thing to see the witness you know,

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:10.279
<v Speaker 2>someone who just addicted to like alcohol.

0:47:11.680 --> 0:47:14.239
<v Speaker 1>And it's so weird that alcoholics they get drunk so

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:18.120
<v Speaker 1>quick because their body never really rid of the alcohol,

0:47:18.280 --> 0:47:21.680
<v Speaker 1>So one low drop of alcohol they re drunk all

0:47:21.719 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 1>over again. So early in the morning, could do one drink,

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 1>but you never, like your body never got ready to

0:47:28.239 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 1>alcohol from yesterday. And I always think.

0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:34.759
<v Speaker 2>Because you smell it coming out of their body, out

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:37.839
<v Speaker 2>the pores. Yes, it's so bad, I know.

0:47:38.000 --> 0:47:41.319
<v Speaker 1>Like, and people say alcoholism is thereditary as well, like

0:47:41.640 --> 0:47:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I think it is in my family.

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, mine too, most families. Shit, but that's just never

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:52.160
<v Speaker 2>been my I'm grateful because I know I could have

0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:55.279
<v Speaker 2>very well easily been an alcoholics, just because how many

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:58.720
<v Speaker 2>I know in my family. But I'm never like, liquors

0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:00.719
<v Speaker 2>sit in my house, whatever, just be sitting there. I

0:48:00.760 --> 0:48:01.200
<v Speaker 2>don't care.

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:08.359
<v Speaker 1>Now's a week. You've never been the type of like,

0:48:08.400 --> 0:48:10.319
<v Speaker 1>I gotta I'll have a bottle and it's gonna be

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:12.920
<v Speaker 1>there for a long time. There'll be a lot of

0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:16.040
<v Speaker 1>time to even drink wine at home. I'm really a

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:19.879
<v Speaker 1>real life social drinker. And even now I don't be

0:48:20.000 --> 0:48:20.920
<v Speaker 1>wanting to drink.

0:48:21.520 --> 0:48:24.439
<v Speaker 2>Because if I just how you feel the next day

0:48:24.440 --> 0:48:27.839
<v Speaker 2>and the day after that is just awful because I'll

0:48:27.880 --> 0:48:30.280
<v Speaker 2>never really drink. If I'm drinking, I'm trying to get drunk.

0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't drink like, oh, I just want to say, no,

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:34.680
<v Speaker 2>what's the point nothing?

0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:35.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:37.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:42.279
<v Speaker 1>So, behavioral addictions is classified as any time that one

0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:45.040
<v Speaker 1>loses control of their actions in order to engage in

0:48:45.120 --> 0:48:48.840
<v Speaker 1>behaviors that result in brief feelings of happiness. That person

0:48:48.880 --> 0:48:52.400
<v Speaker 1>becomes dependent on the pleasurable feelings that come as a

0:48:52.440 --> 0:48:56.160
<v Speaker 1>result of certain behaviors and begin to compulsively act on

0:48:56.280 --> 0:48:58.320
<v Speaker 1>that behavior. And so this is some of the common

0:48:58.360 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 1>behavioral addictions. Food addiction, I got that one, sex addiction,

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 1>internet addiction, pornography addiction using computers and or cell phones.

0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you watch porn? I used to not ass not

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:17.160
<v Speaker 1>as much as I was, And I don't even I

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:20.200
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't even say it was. It was still wasn't every day,

0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:21.959
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. At least once a week

0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:24.399
<v Speaker 1>I would be watching porn. But I don't even know. Yeah,

0:49:25.280 --> 0:49:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't. It's just it's nasty.

0:49:27.640 --> 0:49:29.719
<v Speaker 2>I probably could count on my hands how many times

0:49:29.760 --> 0:49:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I've watched porn in my life.

0:49:30.920 --> 0:49:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, oh well, and it wasn't even a porn.

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:39.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like I probably was masturbating.

0:49:40.719 --> 0:49:42.600
<v Speaker 2>It's just I don't know. I can't get into it.

0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:44.879
<v Speaker 1>I need a plot. It gotta be like a movie

0:49:45.000 --> 0:49:47.640
<v Speaker 1>or something. Many haven't like that type of porn, Like

0:49:47.880 --> 0:49:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you want to see a bitch meeting nigga at the

0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:53.799
<v Speaker 1>grocery store. I have like a whole little storyline. I

0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:59.240
<v Speaker 1>don't even know why these people are having said instead

0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:01.880
<v Speaker 1>of a nasty horn music in that, it just start fucking.

0:50:02.320 --> 0:50:05.640
<v Speaker 2>No, it needs to be romantic or something. I don't know,

0:50:08.000 --> 0:50:12.120
<v Speaker 2>because this is just dirty. Why are y'all having sex? Right?

0:50:12.719 --> 0:50:13.719
<v Speaker 2>You don't even know him.

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:20.040
<v Speaker 1>She do know him from another set like they probably

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:21.000
<v Speaker 1>sashed before.

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:23.920
<v Speaker 2>No, see, I need I need a backstory. I need

0:50:23.960 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 2>to know are y'all in love?

0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:27.000
<v Speaker 3>Girl? Right?

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:33.399
<v Speaker 1>Video game addiction work addiction. I'm never going to have

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 1>that addiction. I wish I had it, though, Shit, I

0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:42.280
<v Speaker 1>wish I had this addiction to exercise addiction. Oh yeah,

0:50:42.320 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 1>but occasionally I won't get into that. I need to

0:50:46.200 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>get there right the fuck now. Like yesterday, I.

0:50:49.560 --> 0:50:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Can't wait to get back on my feet so I

0:50:51.360 --> 0:50:52.640
<v Speaker 2>can go back to spend class.

0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I really was enjoying spiritual obsession, not to be confused

0:50:59.800 --> 0:51:02.840
<v Speaker 1>with religious devotion. I don't that one is weird to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would spiritual be an addiction, but religious devotion isn't

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<v Speaker 1>isn't It's literally the same thing. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>they making a spiritual thing like negative, right, that's weird uh,

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:26.279
<v Speaker 1>seeking pain. I guess those like people who do like

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<v Speaker 1>cutting andy be cutting themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's wow. Oh cutting is.

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<v Speaker 1>The next thing. Yeah, so seeking pain and then cutting.

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<v Speaker 1>Shopping addiction exercise.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I got that one. Shopping addiction A bitual in

0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:50.000
<v Speaker 2>a shop. I love Amazon, dude, but I.

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Don't always buy something like I like looking like I'm

0:51:54.880 --> 0:51:58.240
<v Speaker 1>a buy. Yeah, I'm a hurry up and buy. No problem, baby,

0:51:58.239 --> 0:52:04.680
<v Speaker 1>because I'm about to. I don't really have a shopping addiction.

0:52:04.880 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I do like it feels good to buy stuff, though.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure. I like spending money. I love spending money.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh if it's somebody else mon, Oh, such a high.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. So it says if you have an impulsive

0:52:25.760 --> 0:52:31.000
<v Speaker 1>control disorder, you are especially susceptible to compulsive behavior that

0:52:31.040 --> 0:52:35.320
<v Speaker 1>could lead to a severe addiction. Similarly, mental health issues

0:52:35.440 --> 0:52:39.400
<v Speaker 1>or mental disorders can exacerbate the risk of both a

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<v Speaker 1>substance use disorder and behavioral addiction. Physical and behavioral addictions

0:52:44.640 --> 0:52:48.880
<v Speaker 1>are often linked. Over half of those suffering from addiction

0:52:49.000 --> 0:52:53.600
<v Speaker 1>to one substance are also using other substances. Additionally, those

0:52:53.680 --> 0:52:57.959
<v Speaker 1>battling substance abuse disorders often suffer from behavioral addiction. As well.

0:52:58.880 --> 0:53:00.399
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of this stuff go hand in hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I just would like to say, if anybody out there

0:53:05.000 --> 0:53:07.120
<v Speaker 1>is listening to the show and you guys, are you

0:53:07.200 --> 0:53:10.000
<v Speaker 1>think you might have an addiction of some sort, see

0:53:10.080 --> 0:53:13.960
<v Speaker 1>help today. There's a lot of different resources out there.

0:53:14.480 --> 0:53:17.640
<v Speaker 1>I might. One of my homegirls she is about to

0:53:17.680 --> 0:53:22.560
<v Speaker 1>open up she's a psychologist, so she's about to open

0:53:22.640 --> 0:53:26.280
<v Speaker 1>up a clinic, and she after Scissa recently not Siss

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:31.120
<v Speaker 1>Jesus christ. Ari Lennox recently was on social media saying

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:34.520
<v Speaker 1>how she is slowly weaning herself off of social media

0:53:35.400 --> 0:53:38.560
<v Speaker 1>because it is an addiction, right, So to say I'm

0:53:38.560 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 1>not going to get on at all, it's kind of

0:53:41.400 --> 0:53:43.600
<v Speaker 1>unreasonable a lot of times, like you just kind of

0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:47.040
<v Speaker 1>mean yourself off like a drug. But my homegirls, like, damn,

0:53:47.080 --> 0:53:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I need to offer that as a service.

0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:55.919
<v Speaker 2>What helping people remove themselves from social media? Yeah, yep,

0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:58.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to go So there's that.

0:53:58.200 --> 0:53:59.080
<v Speaker 1>You say, you don't want to.

0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Go noh, like completely from social media?

0:54:03.160 --> 0:54:03.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:54:03.880 --> 0:54:08.959
<v Speaker 2>Their benefits. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to completely be gone,

0:54:09.040 --> 0:54:11.440
<v Speaker 2>but I don't want to be on there as much

0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:15.319
<v Speaker 2>as I am unless it's productive, right, Yeah, And there

0:54:15.400 --> 0:54:17.960
<v Speaker 2>is a There is a hot line that you, guys,

0:54:18.000 --> 0:54:20.280
<v Speaker 2>if you feel like you have an addiction to something

0:54:20.760 --> 0:54:22.359
<v Speaker 2>and you need some help, there is a hot line

0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:24.799
<v Speaker 2>you can call and you can down nine eight eight

0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:28.440
<v Speaker 2>and you will be connected to someone who can assist

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:30.000
<v Speaker 2>you with some support, you know.

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Twenty four hours today. You can also text nine to

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:38.279
<v Speaker 1>eighty eight and chat with someone. Mm hmm, yeah, chat

0:54:38.960 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>because it's serious, especially when you're fentanyl that's out here.

0:54:43.200 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Like Koch used to be okay, but now you don't

0:54:46.480 --> 0:54:48.800
<v Speaker 1>know what you're getting. Not saying that you're ever okay

0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:53.160
<v Speaker 1>for real, right, But people weren't dying like they are

0:54:53.200 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>now because it's not pure anymore. It's being mixed with

0:54:58.120 --> 0:55:02.360
<v Speaker 1>other things. Even on a weed child, you gotta be careful.

0:55:02.360 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>You gotta know your source. Right.

0:55:04.800 --> 0:55:08.800
<v Speaker 2>So I just recently got one hundred cases of narkn

0:55:09.960 --> 0:55:12.719
<v Speaker 2>to pass out. I'm going to like go out in

0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:14.879
<v Speaker 2>Charlotte once I can walk. You know, I don't want

0:55:14.920 --> 0:55:18.080
<v Speaker 2>to do it right now because it's just physically not capable.

0:55:18.160 --> 0:55:23.400
<v Speaker 2>But before the like maybe around Thanksgiving, I'm definitely gonna

0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:26.759
<v Speaker 2>get outside and set up a table. There. There's a

0:55:26.800 --> 0:55:29.439
<v Speaker 2>place in downtown Charlotte where they set up tables for

0:55:29.960 --> 0:55:32.719
<v Speaker 2>food for the homeless and pass out food. And I

0:55:32.719 --> 0:55:34.400
<v Speaker 2>guess I might set up a table out there and

0:55:34.440 --> 0:55:38.160
<v Speaker 2>pass out this nar can maybe do fifty here and

0:55:38.200 --> 0:55:41.239
<v Speaker 2>fifty in Charlotte. It's not that much, but I mean,

0:55:42.200 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 2>that's one hundred potential lives that could be saved just

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 2>by a little narkyn Because how many people do you know?

0:55:50.320 --> 0:55:52.920
<v Speaker 2>They have died A lot, a lot.

0:55:53.120 --> 0:55:57.280
<v Speaker 1>If they didn't die, they got hospitalized, like, yeah, a lot.

0:55:57.480 --> 0:55:59.640
<v Speaker 1>So when it started hitting home, that's when you know

0:55:59.640 --> 0:56:01.879
<v Speaker 1>it's a problem because you know some things like you

0:56:01.960 --> 0:56:05.120
<v Speaker 1>know of someone you know, these are family members I've

0:56:05.160 --> 0:56:06.279
<v Speaker 1>had die in the last year.

0:56:06.360 --> 0:56:10.959
<v Speaker 2>Me too, me too, friends, family members real close to home.

0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:13.680
<v Speaker 2>And then when I when I try to like ask people, hey,

0:56:13.880 --> 0:56:16.000
<v Speaker 2>you want to take some Narkian with you, they get

0:56:16.000 --> 0:56:19.759
<v Speaker 2>offended and I'm like, I don't do no drugs. I'm like, well,

0:56:19.800 --> 0:56:21.880
<v Speaker 2>it don't have to be for you. It could be

0:56:21.920 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 2>for somebody that you know. It could be if you're

0:56:24.080 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 2>somewhere and some what just happens to drop, you know

0:56:27.280 --> 0:56:31.520
<v Speaker 2>you can and then if they inhale this narcian, even

0:56:31.560 --> 0:56:34.200
<v Speaker 2>if they didn't do drugs, it won't harm them, you know,

0:56:34.480 --> 0:56:37.200
<v Speaker 2>it won't do anything to them. So it's just good

0:56:37.239 --> 0:56:41.520
<v Speaker 2>to have just to have one on hand somewhere around you,

0:56:41.200 --> 0:56:44.800
<v Speaker 2>your your your neighbor, could be like an older elderly

0:56:44.880 --> 0:56:47.040
<v Speaker 2>person who has because fanol isn't drugs.

0:56:47.960 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Is a drug, it's a prescription drug. Yeah yeah, but

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:54.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying I have synthetic stuff out here as well.

0:56:55.400 --> 0:56:57.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it could be a part of someone's prescription

0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:01.239
<v Speaker 2>and they might take for god that they already medicated

0:57:01.280 --> 0:57:04.759
<v Speaker 2>and take it again and I can't can help with that.

0:57:04.880 --> 0:57:08.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, it doesn't have to necessarily be something that's recreational.

0:57:08.719 --> 0:57:12.120
<v Speaker 2>So I just you know, encourage everyone to have something

0:57:12.160 --> 0:57:14.359
<v Speaker 2>in their emergency kid in their home. Yeah I don't

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:17.040
<v Speaker 2>have at this point. Well, I can't send you some.

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:22.440
<v Speaker 1>It's unfortunate, man, it's unfortunate.

0:57:22.520 --> 0:57:27.840
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully not me sending you nark and your football biscuits

0:57:27.880 --> 0:57:28.640
<v Speaker 2>at the same time.

0:57:30.160 --> 0:57:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Like this is cokeon this, uh on, that's what it's

0:57:34.680 --> 0:57:39.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna look like with that cream in the middle. Shame anyway,

0:57:39.480 --> 0:57:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I think we pretty much hard to give our last

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:44.440
<v Speaker 1>last on this. Y'all were in the dumb bitch stories like.

0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:49.880
<v Speaker 2>Hello, Yeah, y'all, y'all be in the dams time. I

0:57:49.920 --> 0:57:52.440
<v Speaker 2>got a story to tell.

0:57:52.840 --> 0:57:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I think business.

0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:55.800
<v Speaker 2>Don't be wanting the text stay story. We need to

0:57:55.920 --> 0:57:58.920
<v Speaker 2>start letting them call back in is our calling number?

0:57:59.040 --> 0:58:01.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, actors active, hold on, let me look, let me

0:58:01.920 --> 0:58:03.480
<v Speaker 1>get it because I don't know if by heart for

0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:05.960
<v Speaker 1>real not yet anyway. Matter of fact, I'm gonna put

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:09.360
<v Speaker 1>it on a poster right on my laptop screen. Okay,

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:13.160
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