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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode that We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: you dreamers and chases, niggas and hosts. This is your

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Speaker 1: co host AJ Holiday.

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Speaker 2: What's up, tam Bam, y'all, It's official, tam maam.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all so much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yea, yeah, you're all get How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: My weekend?

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Speaker 2: I'm just ready to walk again. I put a little

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Speaker 2: pressure on the foot this week so and I was

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Speaker 2: able to stand on my head.

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Speaker 1: So that was good. That was exciting.

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Speaker 2: That's the gist of my life right now. Just baby steps. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I ain't do shit. I want to go to the

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Speaker 2: fair the South Carolina State there.

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Speaker 1: Is now.

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Speaker 2: It's going on right now, and I want to go today.

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Speaker 2: I need to get me an elephant ear?

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Speaker 1: Is it there in Colombia now?

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Speaker 2: Hm?

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Speaker 1: Till Sunday, I hadn't seen any advertise. The one thing

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Speaker 1: I saw about the fair in Charleston was help keep

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Speaker 1: the fair, like as if they didn't have the money

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Speaker 1: to bring the fair hair or something.

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Speaker 2: Damn, I want to go. I want to give me

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Speaker 2: an elephant ear. I want to get me a turkey leg,

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Speaker 2: and I want a polar sausage. That's see, and then

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Speaker 2: I can go home. I can't get on. You think

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Speaker 2: they'll let me on the ride with a broken foot?

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Speaker 1: Probably not, they should, Okay, So they are having a

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Speaker 1: fair this year starts October thirty on Halloween, actually October

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Speaker 1: thirty first. Ours is called Coastal Carolina. Is that Jolls?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. It's the state fair that happens in Columbia. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought, like the same fair

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Speaker 1: travels throughout the city.

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Speaker 2: Mm hm, it's different.

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Speaker 1: I mean throughout the city. State Yeah, throughout the state.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I am into the fair in a long time, Like

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Speaker 1: not the Charleston Fair. I might go this year. I

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Speaker 1: might be sure. You should go.

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Speaker 2: That'll be funny dress up, as I was about to say,

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Speaker 2: dress up as a witch. But you're supposed to go

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Speaker 2: as something you ate all year long.

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what I would do. I probably,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I might go as beetle juice or something. Look,

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Speaker 1: I might dress the cat up as a witch. What

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Speaker 1: did you do over the weekend? I do Oh, I

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Speaker 1: did do something. My mom had like a gathering for

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Speaker 1: like the small kids at her house. Just pizza and

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Speaker 1: hot dogs and shit like that. That was all the

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Speaker 1: kids can hang out together, everybody's small kids.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I've been weirded out by my mom lately. Man. You know,

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Speaker 1: there was a whole family reunion last month that she

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Speaker 1: didn't tell any of us about. And she was there,

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Speaker 1: so I think, like even her telling me about the

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Speaker 1: shit at her house this weekend, it's almost like she

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Speaker 1: was hesitating. And when I got there, my oldest sister

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Speaker 1: was there from out of town. I'm like, damn, I

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Speaker 1: even know Londa was coming. She was like, I told

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Speaker 1: you that, No you did not. Did not tell me, girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell is on my bad

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Speaker 1: not inviting you to the family and she ain't tell

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Speaker 1: none of us. She was sitting there a front row

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Speaker 1: with a picture. That's how I found out about it. It

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Speaker 1: was like Labor Day weekend at that and it was

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Speaker 1: like Monday. When I seen her like sitting up on

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Speaker 1: a picture. I'm like, yo, what is happening? But anyway,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I practiced detachment, so I can't.

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Speaker 1: Like I just I just can't be overly concerned what

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Speaker 1: other adult people want to do. I just can't. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because it gets to a certain point.

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Speaker 1: It's just I love my mom and to death man

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Speaker 1: that used to be my best teacher. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what the fucking.

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Speaker 2: Y'all will get back to being besties, no worries.

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Speaker 1: People be listen, people be who they gonna be. We

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Speaker 1: just had this episode about daddy issues and shit and

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Speaker 1: spoke about our parents a little bit, and they just

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Speaker 1: be who they gonna be. So I guess you almost

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Speaker 1: got to realize, Okay, let me be a little bit

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Speaker 1: different so we can have a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but y'all would get back to being besties. Don't

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Speaker 2: worry about I watch what I.

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Speaker 1: Have for me. That's tough anyway. So yeah, she had

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Speaker 1: like a little thing at her house for the little

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Speaker 1: kids and they run around. Everybody was musty okay, sound

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Speaker 1: like you know, smell like straight onion, and girl, I

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Speaker 1: love those kids. So I know nobody name all like

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Speaker 1: my little cousins like their children. I don't know none

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Speaker 1: of these kids' names. Baby, I'm like, oh baby, that is.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of musty. I've been trying to find like a

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Speaker 2: aluminum free deodorant that's gonna do the job.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, no them do it.

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Speaker 2: Like I just have to like carry wipes with me

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Speaker 2: and the deodorant because I'm gonna have to, like after

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Speaker 2: a few hours, I'm gonna have to freshen back up.

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Speaker 1: There's no way around it. So I use the I

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Speaker 1: use the arm and hammer natural deorderant. And I mean

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Speaker 1: so with natural deorderance is not going to completely block

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Speaker 1: the smell and it's not gonna block the sweat because

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Speaker 1: what the aluminum deorderans do is clogs your your glandor yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I'm okay with knowing that I'm going

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Speaker 2: to sweat, right, but I don't want to stink.

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Speaker 1: Ever, you got again, something that's gonna be like a

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Speaker 1: super smell good type thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so used to my arm is smelling like powder,

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Speaker 2: you know. So now it's just I'm using the schmidts Schmidt.

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Speaker 2: It's magnesium and something. It's just it's not it's not

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Speaker 2: giving what I needed to give.

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Speaker 1: Girl my cousin mom.

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Speaker 2: And it's not hot outside. I'm thinking, like, if this

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Speaker 2: is what it's doing right now, I'm.

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Speaker 1: I'm used to it. Bitch. Let me tell you. I

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Speaker 1: be singing like because I've been wearing I've been wearing

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Speaker 1: natural disorder for at least ten years now, Bitch, listen,

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Speaker 1: it's just a possibility. And I was singing with regular deordering.

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Speaker 1: I just have high body order. Like when I go

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Speaker 1: to the gym, bitch, it's smelled like a nigga for real.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I washed so much. But also exfoliating

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Speaker 1: underneath your arm, so I use those like African they

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Speaker 1: and it actually helps because you exfoliating and getting some

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Speaker 1: of that bacteria. Yeah, you were moving a little bit

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Speaker 1: more of the bacteria from underneath the from those little crevices.

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Speaker 1: So it's not as bad as it used to be

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Speaker 1: because I exfoliate under my arm really good. But girl,

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Speaker 1: baby girl, at least I'm consciously aware. Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 2: I carry wipes in the older, and I carried.

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Speaker 1: Those little mini two brushes with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready for everything when it comes to my body, older,

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Speaker 2: my cleanliness.

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Speaker 1: I never want nobody like.

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Speaker 2: Hey, did you smell tear me? God damn, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I don't never want nobody to be

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Speaker 2: able to say that about it.

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Speaker 1: It's stupid shit. Let's get this sends, y'all. Did you

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Speaker 1: see this? This this sixty four year old woman pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I was excited for her. I don't know

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Speaker 2: why her being pregnant gave me hope that I could

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Speaker 2: be pregnant.

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Speaker 1: It always give me hope to see an old bitch pregnant.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like me too, my time is coming.

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Speaker 2: But sixty four is just like how much time are

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Speaker 2: you gonna have with your kid?

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Speaker 1: You know that? Mean the kid could be a blessing

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Speaker 1: for somebody else. She might know a younger woman who

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Speaker 1: needs a child, and she can make that person the

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Speaker 1: god god mom.

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Speaker 2: Something like that.

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Speaker 1: I would be fucking devastated, y'all. So it's just a

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Speaker 1: video on Instagram, the sixty four year old woman sitting

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Speaker 1: up in the obgyn just finding out she's pregnant. Twelve

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Speaker 1: weeks pregnant, and she's sitting in the car now at

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Speaker 1: this point, and she calls the eighty something year old

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Speaker 1: man named Rufus. It's Regina, not Regina, what's her? Nah, Judy,

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Speaker 1: it's Judy and Rufus having a baby. She's sixty four,

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Speaker 1: Rufus and his day damn eighties. Rufus don't understand what

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Speaker 1: the hell is coming out of her fucking mouth. How

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Speaker 1: is this even possible that baby's gonna be so old

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Speaker 1: to coming out right old fashioned gonna be that baby's

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Speaker 1: gonna be like sixty coming out the womb.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy that I've never heard of a woman that

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Speaker 2: age being able to conceive.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sixty now. I know some like forty six,

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Speaker 1: Like I know some people now who are adults who

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Speaker 1: parents had them really.

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Speaker 2: Old, right, But yes, not no, sixty nothing.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we can find some cases in other

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Speaker 1: cases of people getting That means she's healthy, That means

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Speaker 1: she's really I mean, she's very healthy. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: mean she might need to get some chromosomal chromosonal tests

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Speaker 1: done just to get her her baby has like you know, you.

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Speaker 2: Know it is those serious and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: What if she has twins? Because they say the older

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Speaker 1: you get, the bigger the babies be, and it's a

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Speaker 1: chance of having more than one at a time.

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Speaker 2: Damn crazy twins is nuts. I would give them up

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Speaker 2: for adoption at sixty four years old.

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Speaker 1: That's wow. So Rufus was on the phone like being disrespectful, okay,

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Speaker 1: And it's kind of triggering for me because I have

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Speaker 1: been a pregnant woman calling a man telling them, hey, man, look,

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Speaker 1: you gotta be pregnant. But imagine being that old and

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Speaker 1: this old ass man still playing with you on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe he thinks this is a joke, but she

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Speaker 1: didn't sound like she was playing at all. And he

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Speaker 1: was like, that ain't my baby. She was like, well,

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Speaker 1: we'll go down and take the DNA test and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put you on child support.

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Speaker 2: Imagine being eighty four on child support is crazy.

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Speaker 1: So h one of our mutual friends, our mutual this

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Speaker 1: your friend, I met his ass through you. He sent

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Speaker 1: the post and all I said was my god, I

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Speaker 1: would be devastated. And he said, look how nasty she

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Speaker 1: got when she had some power. I would never want

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Speaker 1: to get a woman pregnant ever again in life. Just disgusting.

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Speaker 1: I just want to let men know that women do

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Speaker 1: have an innate power and inherent power that y'all can

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Speaker 1: ever have, and that's why a lot of y'all be

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Speaker 1: fucking mad. So it is a sense of power. Just

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Speaker 1: deal with it, Okay, It's just one of those things.

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Speaker 2: So I or or get a aseectomy if you don't

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Speaker 2: want to reallyquish your power when it comes to these

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Speaker 2: type of situations, you don't have to. You can use condoms,

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Speaker 2: you can get a sect. To me, there are all

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Speaker 2: kinds of ways which doesn't work often that don't work

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Speaker 2: a lot of us here, A lot of y'all listening

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Speaker 2: is here because of pull out, but.

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Speaker 1: They don't want to do that. They just want to

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Speaker 1: keep putting our bodies through the bullshit, the abortion, abortion pill,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm about to stop using condoms.

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Speaker 1: Boy, listen, I remember those days at my younger age,

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Speaker 1: Waiting on an HIV test for anxiety. And you know,

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Speaker 2: Man, So uh if y'all saw this over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: What else was there was something else that was juicy

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Speaker 2: It, right, don't trust your eyes, trust me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And she goes on to say, if you're married

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Speaker 1: out as the producer asked, didn't you have an affair

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Speaker 2: What I mean, how unfair is that she just said

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Speaker 1: It then went on to say, and you find out

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Speaker 1: never know and he never misses the beat, he's the

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Speaker 1: perfect husband. All you could act is respect. It's so

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like cheating is a deal breaker?

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Speaker 1: They talk about that all the time, and I don't.

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Speaker 1: because my current relationship, boy, if I fight on any

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're forty now, especially like I be feeling

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Speaker 2: But the desire for a whole bunch of different pussy

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I would think, you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: it should be like you're not willing to risk your home,

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Speaker 1: be alone. You They be in a relationship in some capacity. Right.

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Speaker 1: It's not until a woman try to check them for

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Speaker 1: we wasn't in a relationship, right, But we've been doing

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Speaker 1: all the things, having raw sex, sleeping at each other

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Speaker 2: With my family, you meet.

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Speaker 1: My kids, you exactly, But now I'm crazy when I

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Speaker 1: try to tell you about playing with me. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: with you like this.

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Speaker 2: Look at rufus.

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Speaker 1: That ain't my baby Judy ship. Hey, look I'm a

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Speaker 1: calling that you got rufous, but you got rufous man. Y'all?

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Speaker 1: Did y'all? Did you see Droe and t I on

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? This is such a weird exchange, Like,

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Speaker 1: hardest when he mentioned his daughter. So Joe turned around

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Speaker 1: was like, man, I'll slap you. I thought they were.

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Speaker 3: Playing like but you know, you know it was more

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Speaker 3: than that. It was actually overdose. You feel what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: He's a mechanic, mechanics always laughing.

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Speaker 1: There's a dastardly individual almost overdose, yo, I did you

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Speaker 3: And all the all of these things happened, the overdose.

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Speaker 3: My daughter was on drugs, and you know, career wise,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't what's up with you?

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Speaker 3: Are you? Finnah? Get slapped? I mean, we're cool, but

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Speaker 3: I slapped you by laughing. Man, I'm just I'm just

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Speaker 3: telling you we're cool.

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Speaker 1: Slapping.

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Speaker 3: What you want to do, what you want to do?

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Speaker 1: Him take you out of sober drove.

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Speaker 3: He listen, Hey, listen, hey, both of y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, everybody came in and mother with me. Hey look,

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Speaker 1: everybody came in the motherfucker with me. Hey look, everybody

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Speaker 1: came in the motheruck with me.

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Speaker 2: Hey.

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Speaker 1: Look remember who you came and remember what we do

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Speaker 1: with him? Man, come on, man, they get the ship together, bro,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 2: I think the friend, the guy in the back, was

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Speaker 2: just enjoying the attention because he's not he's not a star.

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Speaker 2: You know, he wasn't the star. He wasn't asked to

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Speaker 2: and Charlamagne was giving him some attention and he was

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Speaker 2: trying to keep that energy going because there's no way possible.

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Speaker 2: He thought any of that was funny.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. They need to get him from around them immediately,

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Speaker 1: that was just some chase. Yeah, that ain't your friend

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Speaker 1: because he don't even know how to play his part. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's a big, grown ass man. And Drop was like,

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Speaker 1: he's just a mechanic. Why if he's just a mechanic,

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Speaker 1: why y'all.

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Speaker 2: Got bad for all the mechanics out there, because I

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Speaker 2: know some really you know, good mechanics, Like, damn, why

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Speaker 2: I gotta be just a mechanic. I went laughing at

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Speaker 1: Edit you, but you need this.

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Speaker 2: Mechanics are essential, Yes they are. I keep shout out

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Speaker 2: to all the mechanics out there.

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Speaker 1: One thing about I'm gonna keep me a mechanic.

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Speaker 2: Bitch me too.

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Speaker 1: If I can't do it myself, I know somebody who can.

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Speaker 2: Goodness.

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Speaker 1: But speaking of addiction, that's what we want to talk

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Speaker 1: about today, y'all. What are you addicted to. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: have to just be drugs, because there's always there's like

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Speaker 1: physical addiction, behavioral type addictions. So let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back.

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Speaker 2: I got a couple. What are you addicted to?

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Speaker 1: Aj all type of shit? Okay, relationships is one, Like

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm addicted to people. I can get

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Speaker 1: I don't funk with you no more. So it's like

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Speaker 2: If you can just wake up and not do it

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Speaker 2: no more?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it might take me three four years to

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Speaker 1: that I've been addicted to this thing and now I'm not.

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Speaker 1: So it might take me a while to get over

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Speaker 1: the addiction, but I can m hm. I like, I

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Speaker 1: think I like shrooms on Friday. That's my first one.

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Speaker 1: On Fridays. It's very specific, you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: or as an adult, you guys something to do every

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Speaker 1: fucking day. Because you probably got some shit you don't

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Speaker 1: put off throughout the week that you got to do

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Speaker 1: the life just feels different on Fridays.

435
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: I mean, you know what, not me coming from I've

436
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 2: always done here. Saturday is just a busy work day

437
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: for me. So it's Friday. Don't feel like the weekend

438
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 2: for me like everybody else. It never has, you know,

439
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: Saturday night is my Friday night. But I still don't

440
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 2: do trooms. I tried them. I tried shrooms twice in life,

441
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 2: and one time it was bad because the person I

442
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: tried it with was not a good person.

443
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: To be around and got them.

444
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 2: And then the other time was pretty cool. I like

445
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 2: was listening to classical music and like zooming in on paintings,

446
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 2: like I was zooming deep in on paintings on my phone,

447
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,719
Speaker 2: and like it was. It was trippy, for sure, But

448
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: that's the only time I've ever done shrooms. It's nothing

449
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,199
Speaker 2: that I've ever like.

450
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: I prefer weed.

451
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 2: That's why I'm addicted to weed. But I don't even

452
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: know if I'm addicted to it because the dude I

453
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 2: used to get my weed from used to be my boo.

454
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: So it was free. And now that he not my

455
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 2: boot and I have to pay for weed. I haven't

456
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 2: been smoking at all. But was I really addicted or

457
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 2: was it just free?

458
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm addicted to free weed. I got to pay for it, bitch.

459
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: The addition is gone.

460
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: It's gone. It's just like that crazy And then love.

461
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 1: I love love?

462
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 2: How long my whole life. I've always loved love. I've

463
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 2: been I feel like I got set up with all

464
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: the fairy tale books from a little girl, and it

465
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: made me fall in love with love as a little girl.

466
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 2: And I just been loving love ever since.

467
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: I know you though, like, what do you mean by that?

468
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 2: I just love the feeling of love. I love to

469
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: be loved. I love to love others. I just love love.

470
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: So you're you're in love with the idea of love.

471
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 1: But what happens when it? Like, I think your love

472
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: be fleeting. That's what I'm getting to.

473
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: Because when I love you, I be loving you down

474
00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 2: for life forever.

475
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: We happened to the weed man.

476
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 2: I still love him, but he just loving him was

477
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 2: killing me. So I had to go. You know what

478
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, But.

479
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you think your love is conditional? Though.

480
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not God, so yeah, I ain't your

481
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 2: mama either. I can't. I can't say my love is

482
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 2: not without conditions because if my weed man came over

483
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: here and harm my sister, you know, and did something

484
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 2: to harm her, and that love would change, right, you know.

485
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: So I can't just say it's not without condition because

486
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 2: I ain't your mom or God. So yeah, but I can,

487
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 2: like I can like still love someone who has broken

488
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 2: my heart, you know.

489
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like if I ever told somebody I

490
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 1: loved them like I meant it, and I still love them.

491
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: I may not be in life with them, but I

492
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: still care about their well being.

493
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 2: I mean, right, I don't want nothing bad to have

494
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 2: it too.

495
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I take them into consideration like I did

496
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: when I was in love with them, but I do

497
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: care about, you know, how they're doing. I want to

498
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: still see them doing well, even some motherfuckers that I

499
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: send my hate, because it's a very thin line between

500
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 1: love and hate. But I never want to see like

501
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: you doing bad in any capacity.

502
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: I don't even think I have nobody that I like

503
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 2: for real hate, you know, Like it's some people that

504
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 2: I despise, like George Zimmerman.

505
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: Isn't that like a synonym for hate to despise? Hate

506
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: is stronger than despise, right, I don't know. I think

507
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: it's just the word like, I don't know.

508
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm hate is just such a powerful world where it's

509
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: just as strong as love. To me, you know, we're

510
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 2: just equal and opposite end of the spectrum. And I

511
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: just don't feel like I really carry hate in me,

512
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: like real hate.

513
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 1: I have a disdain, yeah.

514
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 2: For a lot of people. What are your other addictions?

515
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

516
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: I see your list sugar?

517
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, how you giving my list? Bitch? That's both,

518
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: that's both are sugar. I didn't even realize this is shared.

519
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: How did that happen? Don't you send it to me?

520
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: I ain't never sent that to you? You did you

521
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: sent me something?

522
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 3: No?

523
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 2: You sent me this shit? Bitch? How I'm your list?

524
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm talking about sugar. It's that the only thing on

525
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: your list that applies to me. It's sugar.

526
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: You didn't send me a request or something. Oh bitch,

527
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: I ain't sending you nothing. How did that happen? Because

528
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: something popped up on my screen at the top, and

529
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: then I hit the button, thinking you were sending me

530
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: something anyway.

531
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, sugar, you told me, you told me I needed

532
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: to dodo and then this list came this morning.

533
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: What yep, my phone is I had to put this apple. No,

534
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: for real, listen, I didn't do that. That's weird. I

535
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: didn't do that anyway. Yeah, sugar, okay, I really be

536
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: consciously trying not to consume. As my shirt.

537
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: I love chocolate, me too.

538
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: I love ice cream on a like, who the fuck

539
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: really be having waffle cones in their house?

540
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 3: You.

541
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: I didn't start loving sugar until I got older, too,

542
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 2: which is crazy to me. As a kid, I did

543
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: not fuck with sugar like that when we would when

544
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 2: we would be at the like kids' birthday parties back then,

545
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: it'd be like a Hamburger hot dog, little hugs in

546
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,959
Speaker 2: a cave with the hardy food. Yeah, give me another

547
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 2: hot dog. I don't want no cake. I want another

548
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: hot dog.

549
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: Well, what's I got? Growled all of a sudden. I

550
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: love sugar so much. I think it could be inherited too,

551
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: because my daddy is like that. My daddy loved like

552
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: baked goods and shit like that, like, and that's how

553
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: I am.

554
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: Like.

555
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't like packaged sugar, though, I like like for

556
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: real fresh baked goods. Bitch, like a good muffin from

557
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: a bakery, good breads from a bakery. Food addiction, Okay,

558
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: not just sugar. I got a food addiction too, let's

559
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: just be honest.

560
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 2: I guess yeah, me too. I like good hej used

561
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: to come over my house with these little football I

562
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: that's a Asian market, and I wish I could as shit.

563
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 2: I ain't never seen this pastry a day in my life.

564
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: Next time you and Charlotte, you need to get me

565
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: something mail I get.

566
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to that tomorrow, so I'll go get your football.

567
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: Because I miss those pastries. Man. But they so far,

568
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: even when I'm in Charlotte, I never make it to

569
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: that grocery store. I am describing forty five minutes to

570
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: get to them to get them football.

571
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: That's crazy, that's next level.

572
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: I will drive like so. I do have a food addiction, right,

573
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: but it's for good food. I can't just eat anything.

574
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm very particular about what I put in my body.

575
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: What I eat, it gotta be like some real good

576
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: shit I don't want to eat. Otherwise, I will travel

577
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: to multiple places because I know exactly where I what

578
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: I want and where I need it from. I will

579
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: drive to a bunch of different grocery stores to get

580
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: the exact things.

581
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I tried, just because you know, marketing has been

582
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 2: good lately for McDonald's that fileal fish. Everybody act like

583
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: it's so good. I wouldn't try it. It's not. It's

584
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: not given. What is it is that?

585
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: Even? What is that cod?

586
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 2: I don't know. I tried it twice just because I

587
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 2: was like, maybe it was bad the first time. No,

588
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 2: it's still not given.

589
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: Why don't you just make your own? I had a

590
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 1: fish sandwich last night, Like I buy like the frozen

591
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: cord filets piled out with tomatoes. I make my own

592
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: my own. Yeah, I'm sure better. Everybody put it on

593
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: a Hawaiian bun. Bitch the Kings Hawaiian bun.

594
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 2: Slide right quick. Social media addiction is next level.

595
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had that digital detox episode and I still

596
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: have yet to be able to just straight disconnect on

597
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: social media.

598
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll find myself watching them. Do y'all watch those

599
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 2: rug cleaning videos?

600
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: No?

601
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: What I've been watching like the dirty ass rugs? Like

602
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: how did the rug get that dirty? You know? Like

603
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: it'd be like covered in mud and the shampoot. I'll

604
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: be in the rabbit hole hours pimple popping videos.

605
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. Yeah, me too?

606
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: What is it about that? Why do we want to

607
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: just see a us it burst?

608
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: I mean even when they're doing the bikini area, I'm

609
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: watching that on YouTube. I want to see. Yeah, I

610
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: want to see. And I like when like a lot

611
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: of stuff come out like youtobe. Why I'm so fisty

612
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: like that? Why is it? Yeah?

613
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: That makes me happy? I don't know that's the just

614
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: but and I like.

615
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: I like the bus bumps too, me too.

616
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: If like that's how you know I like you? If

617
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: I start popping pimples on your face? Oh we locked

618
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 2: in you mom in egrown hairs, I'm all about it.

619
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: So y'all, I might have a slight gambling addiction, So

620
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 1: I mean one can one may say, like even trading

621
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: options is like a form of an addiction because it

622
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: is essentially gambling, you.

623
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

624
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: But a bitch like me can go to chuck e

625
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: Cheese and run.

626
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: Out Chucky Cheese, Chucky.

627
00:33:55,680 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: Daven. You can't have a Chucky Trees. That is stupid.

628
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: And you know you ain't getting like the most tickets

629
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: for these things. But I'm like, I don't know. It's

630
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 1: not gambling, bitch.

631
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 2: I thought she was about to say, like sportsmen, and

632
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,720
Speaker 2: its been said, check E Cheese.

633
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: That is gambling. Like going to the fair and playing

634
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: all those games and all that shit like that is gambling.

635
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: Like it does feed something in you that that needs

636
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: to win, Like I'm addicted to winning.

637
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: Maybe say I'm addicted to winning, not gambling, because Checkie Cheese,

638
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 2: you and your tokens, you're gonna get what you're gonna get.

639
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: A little basketball. I want a basketball face.

640
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 1: But I can't stop though, you know what I'm saying.

641
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: Once I get in. I haven't been in a I

642
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: don't go places that I have an addiction to, so

643
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: I haven't been in a long time. But if I like, okay, no,

644
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: I have been to Frankies this year. I have been

645
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: to Frankies this year. And it's like a challenge to

646
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: not play the game. It's a challenge.

647
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 2: I swear to God, che we gonna have an intervention.

648
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: I gamblers.

649
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: I'm in there eating a whole piece of that good as.

650
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: It used to be good or when we just little

651
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: we just didn't know if it was good or not.

652
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: I think it's still good. I haven't been in a while,

653
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: but I.

654
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 2: Believe it's good.

655
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: So what's some other things you're addicted to?

656
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 2: I think we hit all my weed, social media, food

657
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 2: and love. Oh I'm also addicted to beauty products me too.

658
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: Oh yes, man, I will buy it if you can. Like,

659
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: all you gotta do is make a video about some

660
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: ship and I'm gonna go buy it.

661
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: TikTok shop not I'm not addicket to that, but I

662
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: think a lot of people are addicted to TikTok shop.

663
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 2: It's so easy. One button's on the way. I just

664
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,439
Speaker 2: ordered some lavender oil because the girl was like, oh

665
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: my skin is so beautiful from using lavender oil.

666
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: I was like, stay, no mortgage, and I bought it,

667
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: Like I just for sure.

668
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: It's hard for me to throw them away. It's a

669
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: bad addiction. Bad Like I used to work at Saphoria

670
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: and we would get gradest shout out to all the

671
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 2: Sephoria girlies. And I still got gradest. What is in

672
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 2: my house? I need to throw that shit out. It's

673
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: like where they give you free products, okay to you

674
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 2: so you get a big bag of free products. You

675
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 2: know that probably good stuff. Oh yeah, that shit is

676
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 2: no good, But I still got it just in case

677
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: there isn't apocalypse that we run down the beauty supplies,

678
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: I will be still beautiful.

679
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: I have like bens of products. I shadow palate.

680
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 2: There's no reason I got this many ice shadow pals,

681
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 2: and bitch be using the same palate, use the same one,

682
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: use the same Jubus place palette every time. But meanwhile,

683
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: I got thirty thousand ice shallow palettes. So beauty products, skincare, makeup,

684
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: I still got old ass Mac look gloss. That shit

685
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 2: probably mean too.

686
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: Remember they used to take back the containers back to Mac.

687
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: They don't do that anymore. But I have, like, yes,

688
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: I have a bunch of containers that I the whole way.

689
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: I just won't throw away.

690
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 2: Oh I also hoard bundles me too. I'm not throwing

691
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 2: out my hair.

692
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: I just see the posts like, uh, do y'all be

693
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: having bags and weave.

694
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,479
Speaker 2: Absolutely every Yeah.

695
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: Yes, And I can bring hair back to life, so

696
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: it could be some five ten year old hair. I

697
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: can make that ship look brand brand. I'm definitely holding mine.

698
00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 2: Need to start a service right back to new and

699
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: just be refurbishing. Bitch is bundled.

700
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I do hoard weave for years.

701
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:08,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

702
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: Is that an addiction though?

703
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: Good? Yeah, I don't know if you addicted the weave.

704
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: You addicted the weave, huh? How you addicted the wigs?

705
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 1: No, I'm not. I just don't feel like doing sowings

706
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 1: no more. What's the difference? Yeah, but you don't switch

707
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: it up. Oh Ill. Even when I had sewns like,

708
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: I would have the same style. It wasn't like I've

709
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 1: never been that versatile.

710
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: But I remember, like maybe five or six years ago,

711
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 2: you had braids. That's the last time I seen you.

712
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: And I've only had braids like three times in life,

713
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 1: three or four times in life. Like No, I know

714
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 1: when I was younger, like middle school, high school, I

715
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: would get braids, But as an adult, I've only had

716
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: like braids like three four times. So braids just isn't

717
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: my thing. But I don't think I'm addicted to weaves

718
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: and wigs anymore. Any of the black women the fuck

719
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: we all did exactly exactly. I've been wearing lashes too. Then,

720
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: since our freshman year in college, I've been wearing lashes

721
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: before everybody else. Like I said earlier, it's two different

722
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: types of addiction. You got behavioral addictions and then like

723
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: physical addictions. Physical would be like your drugs. You're you're

724
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: the weed you're addicted to and the shrooms that I

725
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: like to take. The thing is I I remember I

726
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: was addicted to Viking for two weeks, and once the

727
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: prescription ran out, I don't know, I no longer needed it.

728
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,720
Speaker 1: So is that that's not really an addiction. I enjoyed

729
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: it while I hadn't. It's nothing for me to like

730
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: get off of some shit. So I don't really have

731
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: an addictive personality per se mm hmm, because if I

732
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: don't have access to it, it is just okay, it's over.

733
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: I'm not about to go sell some pussy for some

734
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: pain medicine. I just enjoy it while I got it,

735
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: and I know that it's going to come.

736
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,280
Speaker 2: To an end. What will you sell pussy for money?

737
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: That's another addiction, depend depending on how much. So this

738
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: this is a new choice and treatment center. This is

739
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 1: anybody who actually has, like a a real addiction, get help.

740
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: The addiction can either be physical or behavioral, and often

741
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: they go hand in hand. Though alcohol and tobacco are

742
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: commonly recognized types of addiction. There are actually hundreds of

743
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: types of medically and scientifically recognized addictions. Cravings, compulsions and

744
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: ability to stop, and lifestyle lifestyle dysfunction all point to

745
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: the existence of some type of addiction. Social media is

746
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: definitely one of my biggest addictions right now. I gotta

747
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: get the fuck because it's not like we be on

748
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: their doing. We talk backshit so much that I have

749
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: to be on their most of the time I'm on

750
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: social media. I'm not posting shit. I'm just strolling me

751
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: to scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling for hours. I even have

752
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: a two hour limit set and I will hit the

753
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: thing to stop it, to stop the lock of the app.

754
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: There's another app that will delete the apps and then

755
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: bring them back when your new time comes in. But

756
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: that is just too extreme.

757
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the next level.

758
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: It says the person can be addicted to behaviors just

759
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: as seriously as one can be addicted to substance such

760
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:50,280
Speaker 1: as alcohol or hard drugs. The addiction behaviors that result

761
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: from both types of addiction can have serious negative consequences.

762
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: Though from all that, from all that comes with a

763
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: substance use disorder, to the perils of a gambling addiction,

764
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: or even compulsive shopping and sexual behavior to an unhealthy degree.

765
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: Addiction is a complex disease. The type of addiction this

766
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: excuse me, The type of addiction doesn't really matter as

767
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: much as the underlying issue causing the patient to chase,

768
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: chase this pleasurable feeling while incuring adverse consequences. I think,

769
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: like crack, for instance, that shit was magic. It was

770
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: created to make you addicted. So are you really addicted

771
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 1: to it? And when this thing is altering your mind

772
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: your body so much to where you can't do without it?

773
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 2: Right? But I would have loved to know what the

774
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: first crack, how I felt.

775
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: Like you can still find out.

776
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to shut up because I don't want

777
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 2: because I see what it does. But imagine something that

778
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 2: feels that good that you running behind it, like risk,

779
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 2: Like that's.

780
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: What I didn't really feel that good? Or just the

781
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: chemical compound of this thing physically changed your DNA. Do

782
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying.

783
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

784
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: That's why addiction like the way they the way they

785
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: describe or the definition for addiction. But if something like

786
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: was intentionally created to make you addicted to it, it's

787
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: just different, you see what I'm saying, Like, I feel

788
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: like we like Instagram, was created for you to be

789
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: addicted to it.

790
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

791
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: The stuff that they put in some of the foods

792
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 1: like McDonald's, they put things in there to make you

793
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: addicted to it. If that thing wasn't in there, would

794
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: you actually be addicted to it? So are they creating addiction?

795
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: Is what I'm saying. Oh?

796
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely, What are they put in that McDonald's sprite Because

797
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: they're putting something it's different than the regular spry, right,

798
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: that's just I.

799
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: Haven't had McDonald's in a very long time. Nothing from there.

800
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: Even the ice creams started to taste like dishwashing detergent

801
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: to me. So I don't even get that shit. And

802
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 1: half the time the machine be broke anyway because they

803
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: don't want to clean it and should be full of mold.

804
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: And if you look up under them ice machines mold.

805
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: So your physical addictions are the ones that are generally

806
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: better known. These are addictions to substances that are ingested

807
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: or otherwise put into a person's body. See otherwise put

808
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: into a person's body. So I feel like it, especially

809
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: in America, they are creating addiction. It's not that you're

810
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: just addicted to this thing. It was intentional for you

811
00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: to be addicted.

812
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 2: Social media.

813
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: So some common physical addictions include alcohol, tobacco, opioids, prescription drugs, cocaine, marijuana, amphetamines,

814
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: hallucinogens Inhaling's and PC What the fuck is the whoopies?

815
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: Whoopies whoopies? Unlike the Pink Star be lying. But it's like,

816
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 2: you know, like a canna, oxygen cream, wood cream and

817
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: the O two or whatever it is that comes out

818
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 2: of the can inhaling that shit.

819
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, people, nuts, How did you even know that got

820
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: you high?

821
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 2: Though? That's what I'm saying. But you can buy it

822
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 2: now where it's just like the can with the air

823
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 2: in it and the kids are doing it.

824
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: What's the dude? You all Santana was doing it in

825
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: the middle of an interview, like.

826
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: Wow, how it's interesting.

827
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: Physical addictions can generally be grouped into three categories, alcohol,

828
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: ulicit drugs, and prescription drugs. Alcohol addiction is arguably among

829
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: the most common. It manifests in form of alcohol dependency,

830
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: binge drinking, or regular heavy drinking. So most addictions are

831
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: masking other problems, mental health, shit, trauma. Self is yourself

832
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: medicating essentially. Yeah, so our little addictions at that serious.

833
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, I mean, they can't become serious.

834
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: If we allow shrooms every Friday, could be shreams every morning.

835
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: I don't really do it every Friday though, because I

836
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: haven't done it in the last month, but I like

837
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: it on Fridays. It may not be an.

838
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 2: Addiction, but our sugar addiction could really be turned into

839
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 2: something bad for us diabetes, health issues and all that stuff.

840
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,800
Speaker 2: Food addiction is definitely the number one killer in America

841
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 2: is food, you know. Hm, So, I mean that's pretty serious.

842
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 2: But when it comes to have you ever, do you

843
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: know somebody who has to get up and drink first

844
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 2: thing in the morning when they wake up.

845
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: Yes, I do.

846
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 2: It's the saddest thing to see the witness you know,

847
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 2: someone who just addicted to like alcohol.

848
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: And it's so weird that alcoholics they get drunk so

849
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: quick because their body never really rid of the alcohol,

850
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: So one low drop of alcohol they re drunk all

851
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: over again. So early in the morning, could do one drink,

852
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: but you never, like your body never got ready to

853
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: alcohol from yesterday. And I always think.

854
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 2: Because you smell it coming out of their body, out

855
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 2: the pores. Yes, it's so bad, I know.

856
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 1: Like, and people say alcoholism is thereditary as well, like

857
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: I think it is in my family.

858
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, mine too, most families. Shit, but that's just never

859
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 2: been my I'm grateful because I know I could have

860
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: very well easily been an alcoholics, just because how many

861
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 2: I know in my family. But I'm never like, liquors

862
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 2: sit in my house, whatever, just be sitting there. I

863
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 2: don't care.

864
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: Now's a week. You've never been the type of like,

865
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: I gotta I'll have a bottle and it's gonna be

866
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: there for a long time. There'll be a lot of

867
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: time to even drink wine at home. I'm really a

868
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 1: real life social drinker. And even now I don't be

869
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: wanting to drink.

870
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Speaker 2: Because if I just how you feel the next day

871
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 2: and the day after that is just awful because I'll

872
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,280
Speaker 2: never really drink. If I'm drinking, I'm trying to get drunk.

873
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 2: I don't drink like, oh, I just want to say, no,

874
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 2: what's the point nothing?

875
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

876
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

877
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: So, behavioral addictions is classified as any time that one

878
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: loses control of their actions in order to engage in

879
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 1: behaviors that result in brief feelings of happiness. That person

880
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: becomes dependent on the pleasurable feelings that come as a

881
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 1: result of certain behaviors and begin to compulsively act on

882
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 1: that behavior. And so this is some of the common

883
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: behavioral addictions. Food addiction, I got that one, sex addiction,

884
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: internet addiction, pornography addiction using computers and or cell phones.

885
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: Do you watch porn? I used to not ass not

886
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: as much as I was, And I don't even I

887
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't even say it was. It was still wasn't every day,

888
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,959
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. At least once a week

889
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: I would be watching porn. But I don't even know. Yeah,

890
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 1: I don't. It's just it's nasty.

891
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 2: I probably could count on my hands how many times

892
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 2: I've watched porn in my life.

893
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 1: Really yeah, oh well, and it wasn't even a porn.

894
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: It's like I probably was masturbating.

895
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 2: It's just I don't know. I can't get into it.

896
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 1: I need a plot. It gotta be like a movie

897
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: or something. Many haven't like that type of porn, Like

898
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: you want to see a bitch meeting nigga at the

899
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: grocery store. I have like a whole little storyline. I

900
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 1: don't even know why these people are having said instead

901
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: of a nasty horn music in that, it just start fucking.

902
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 2: No, it needs to be romantic or something. I don't know,

903
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 2: because this is just dirty. Why are y'all having sex? Right?

904
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 2: You don't even know him.

905
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: She do know him from another set like they probably

906
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Speaker 1: sashed before.

907
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 2: No, see, I need I need a backstory. I need

908
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 2: to know are y'all in love?

909
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 3: Girl? Right?

910
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 1: Video game addiction work addiction. I'm never going to have

911
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: that addiction. I wish I had it, though, Shit, I

912
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 1: wish I had this addiction to exercise addiction. Oh yeah,

913
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: but occasionally I won't get into that. I need to

914
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: get there right the fuck now. Like yesterday, I.

915
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 2: Can't wait to get back on my feet so I

916
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: can go back to spend class.

917
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: I really was enjoying spiritual obsession, not to be confused

918
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: with religious devotion. I don't that one is weird to me.

919
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: Why would spiritual be an addiction, but religious devotion isn't

920
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: isn't It's literally the same thing. So I feel like

921
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 1: they making a spiritual thing like negative, right, that's weird uh,

922
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: seeking pain. I guess those like people who do like

923
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: cutting andy be cutting themselves.

924
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's wow. Oh cutting is.

925
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: The next thing. Yeah, so seeking pain and then cutting.

926
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: Shopping addiction exercise.

927
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 2: Oh I got that one. Shopping addiction A bitual in

928
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: a shop. I love Amazon, dude, but I.

929
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: Don't always buy something like I like looking like I'm

930
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 1: a buy. Yeah, I'm a hurry up and buy. No problem, baby,

931
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: because I'm about to. I don't really have a shopping addiction.

932
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: I do like it feels good to buy stuff, though.

933
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: For sure. I like spending money. I love spending money.

934
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: Oh if it's somebody else mon, Oh, such a high.

935
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: All right. So it says if you have an impulsive

936
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: control disorder, you are especially susceptible to compulsive behavior that

937
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: could lead to a severe addiction. Similarly, mental health issues

938
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: or mental disorders can exacerbate the risk of both a

939
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: substance use disorder and behavioral addiction. Physical and behavioral addictions

940
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: are often linked. Over half of those suffering from addiction

941
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: to one substance are also using other substances. Additionally, those

942
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:57,959
Speaker 1: battling substance abuse disorders often suffer from behavioral addiction. As well.

943
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 1: So a lot of this stuff go hand in hand.

944
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: I just would like to say, if anybody out there

945
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: is listening to the show and you guys, are you

946
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: think you might have an addiction of some sort, see

947
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: help today. There's a lot of different resources out there.

948
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: I might. One of my homegirls she is about to

949
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: open up she's a psychologist, so she's about to open

950
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 1: up a clinic, and she after Scissa recently not Siss

951
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: Jesus christ. Ari Lennox recently was on social media saying

952
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: how she is slowly weaning herself off of social media

953
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: because it is an addiction, right, So to say I'm

954
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: not going to get on at all, it's kind of

955
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: unreasonable a lot of times, like you just kind of

956
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: mean yourself off like a drug. But my homegirls, like, damn,

957
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: I need to offer that as a service.

958
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 2: What helping people remove themselves from social media? Yeah, yep,

959
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to go So there's that.

960
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: You say, you don't want to.

961
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 2: Go noh, like completely from social media?

962
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 1: Yeah?

963
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:08,959
Speaker 2: Their benefits. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to completely be gone,

964
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: but I don't want to be on there as much

965
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 2: as I am unless it's productive, right, Yeah, And there

966
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 2: is a There is a hot line that you, guys,

967
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,280
Speaker 2: if you feel like you have an addiction to something

968
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 2: and you need some help, there is a hot line

969
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 2: you can call and you can down nine eight eight

970
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 2: and you will be connected to someone who can assist

971
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: you with some support, you know.

972
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: Twenty four hours today. You can also text nine to

973
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: eighty eight and chat with someone. Mm hmm, yeah, chat

974
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: because it's serious, especially when you're fentanyl that's out here.

975
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: Like Koch used to be okay, but now you don't

976
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: know what you're getting. Not saying that you're ever okay

977
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: for real, right, But people weren't dying like they are

978
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: now because it's not pure anymore. It's being mixed with

979
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: other things. Even on a weed child, you gotta be careful.

980
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: You gotta know your source. Right.

981
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 2: So I just recently got one hundred cases of narkn

982
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 2: to pass out. I'm going to like go out in

983
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,879
Speaker 2: Charlotte once I can walk. You know, I don't want

984
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 2: to do it right now because it's just physically not capable.

985
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 2: But before the like maybe around Thanksgiving, I'm definitely gonna

986
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 2: get outside and set up a table. There. There's a

987
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 2: place in downtown Charlotte where they set up tables for

988
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 2: food for the homeless and pass out food. And I

989
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 2: guess I might set up a table out there and

990
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: pass out this nar can maybe do fifty here and

991
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 2: fifty in Charlotte. It's not that much, but I mean,

992
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 2: that's one hundred potential lives that could be saved just

993
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: by a little narkyn Because how many people do you know?

994
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 2: They have died A lot, a lot.

995
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 1: If they didn't die, they got hospitalized, like, yeah, a lot.

996
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: So when it started hitting home, that's when you know

997
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:01,879
Speaker 1: it's a problem because you know some things like you

998
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: know of someone you know, these are family members I've

999
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: had die in the last year.

1000
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:10,959
Speaker 2: Me too, me too, friends, family members real close to home.

1001
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: And then when I when I try to like ask people, hey,

1002
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 2: you want to take some Narkian with you, they get

1003
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 2: offended and I'm like, I don't do no drugs. I'm like, well,

1004
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 2: it don't have to be for you. It could be

1005
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 2: for somebody that you know. It could be if you're

1006
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: somewhere and some what just happens to drop, you know

1007
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 2: you can and then if they inhale this narcian, even

1008
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 2: if they didn't do drugs, it won't harm them, you know,

1009
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 2: it won't do anything to them. So it's just good

1010
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 2: to have just to have one on hand somewhere around you,

1011
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 2: your your your neighbor, could be like an older elderly

1012
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 2: person who has because fanol isn't drugs.

1013
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: Is a drug, it's a prescription drug. Yeah yeah, but

1014
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying I have synthetic stuff out here as well.

1015
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it could be a part of someone's prescription

1016
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 2: and they might take for god that they already medicated

1017
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 2: and take it again and I can't can help with that.

1018
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 2: You know, it doesn't have to necessarily be something that's recreational.

1019
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 2: So I just you know, encourage everyone to have something

1020
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 2: in their emergency kid in their home. Yeah I don't

1021
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 2: have at this point. Well, I can't send you some.

1022
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: It's unfortunate, man, it's unfortunate.

1023
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 2: Hopefully not me sending you nark and your football biscuits

1024
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 2: at the same time.

1025
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: Like this is cokeon this, uh on, that's what it's

1026
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: gonna look like with that cream in the middle. Shame anyway,

1027
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: I think we pretty much hard to give our last

1028
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: last on this. Y'all were in the dumb bitch stories like.

1029
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 2: Hello, Yeah, y'all, y'all be in the dams time. I

1030
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 2: got a story to tell.

1031
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: I think business.

1032
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 2: Don't be wanting the text stay story. We need to

1033
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 2: start letting them call back in is our calling number?

1034
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 1: Yes, actors active, hold on, let me look, let me

1035
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: get it because I don't know if by heart for

1036
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 1: real not yet anyway. Matter of fact, I'm gonna put

1037
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: it on a poster right on my laptop screen. Okay,

1038
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: So if you have any dumbitch stories or look, you

1039
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Speaker 1: got some questions for us, y'all can hit us up

1040
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1041
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1042
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,680
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1043
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1044
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 1: car back and say your name at the beginning.

1045
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 2: And it don't even have to like be a dumbitch story.

1046
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 2: Or you just want to if you have an opinion

1047
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 2: or a suggestion, or if you have anything you want

1048
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1049
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,160
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00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:47,480
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1051
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Speaker 1: the suggestions, leave all the hate suggestion. It might be

1052
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Speaker 1: something good. Or y'all can email us at We Talked

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1054
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Speaker 1: November fifth, right, yep, it's right around the corner. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do your civil dease.

1063
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Speaker 2: All right, y'all. It's official Tam Bam.

1064
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Speaker 1: I love y'all.

1065
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Speaker 2: I'm addicted to.

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Speaker 1: It's your co host aj Holiday.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead.

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Speaker 1: That's on Instagram. Go ahead, Tam. It's official Tam Bill.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all so much. I'm addicted to loving this

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Speaker 2: high school God. Remember speak now girl, hold I Love

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Speaker 2: Bye Deuces.

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