1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell Davin. 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you very well? 3 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Devin's got a deep voice. Hig, Devin, Let's hear about 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: this date that you went on with Jackie is her name. 5 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: We got to know kind of all the background, how 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: you met, about the date or dates, and then where 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: you guys stand right now? 8 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I met Jackie actually on a dating app, 9 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: and we decided we're going to go out to dinner. 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: So we had like a dinner date, and I already 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 2: liked her. We have it such a good time or laughing, 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: and I don't know, out of nowhere, she just completely 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: ghosted me. And I'm just kind of confused because we 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: talked about, like during our date, going on another date, 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 2: and she said like she wanted to go. But then 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 2: when I cut out of contact her, so I don't 17 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 2: get any response. 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, I guess some people are forward enough 19 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,319 Speaker 1: to say hey, I'm not interested, and some people might 20 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: kind of dodge it, you know, and say oh yeah, 21 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and then ghost you, which isn't cool, but 22 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: you know, who knows. But you look back on this 23 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 1: date and you feel like it all went great. I mean, 24 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: the communication was good. You know, weird topics. You didn't 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: bring up, like any kind of you know, crazy ass 26 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: political view or some sort of sado masochism that you're into, 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: or like, I mean, just honestly, like you look back 28 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: and you say this was a good date. 29 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: There should be another day. 30 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I those are my best behavior. 31 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: We had such a good time. Like, there's nothing could 32 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: have been wrong. 33 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have a pet snake collection, you don't. 34 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: You didn't lie about your job. I mean, this is 35 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: everything went straightforward and on the up and up. 36 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 37 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: All right, Well let's I'm gonna play one song. We'll 38 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,919 Speaker 1: come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Jackie. 39 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At 40 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jump in, and you know, 41 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: our hope is that we can straighten this out, figure 42 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: out what's going on, set you guys up on another date, 43 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: and pay for that one, which we never have to do. 44 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: So it'll be a very nice date if it happens. 45 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm good. 46 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 3: Can you hang out for a second, going to be 47 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: right back. Okay, let's see what's going on. 48 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 1: Part two of waiting by the phone after the chain 49 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: Smoker's back into minutes. You've got to hear this The 50 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: Fred Show, The Fred Show on the radio, and the 51 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: iHeart app live each morning and catch up anytime. Search 52 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: for The Fred Show on demand. Devin, All right, let's 53 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: call Jackie. You guys met on a dating app. You 54 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: went on a date, you thought it went great, good chemistry. 55 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: You talked about a second date, except she's not responding 56 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: to you. You've reached out to her, called her, texted 57 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: or whatever to plan the state, and she's nowhere to 58 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: be found. 59 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 3: And you want to know why you're being ghosted. Let's 60 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 3: call her right now? Good luck? Hello? 61 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: Hi is this Jackie? Yes, Hi, Hey Jackie, good morning. 62 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: My name is Fred. The whole crew is here from 63 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. I'm sorry to bother you, but I 64 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: do have to tell you that we are on the 65 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: radio right now. I would need your permission to continue 66 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 1: with the call. Is it okay if we talked for 67 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 1: a couple of minutes? 68 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 3: Oh okay. I know it's weird. 69 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard this before, maybe not, 70 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: but we're calling on behalf of a guy named Devin 71 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: who says he met you on a dating app and 72 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: you guys recently went on a date. Devin, Yeah, okay, 73 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: all right, Well, so what happened with this guy? Because 74 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: he called us sounds like a nice enough guy. They 75 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: usually do, but there's always something. Nonetheless, he said that 76 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: he thought the date went great, he likes you, felt 77 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:17,239 Speaker 1: good chemistry. 78 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: He says that you. 79 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: Guys even talked about going out again, and apparently now 80 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: you're not responding to him. 81 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 3: So what's going on? 82 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: Oh that's the story he's going with. 83 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, that's the story. Then that's not all 84 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,839 Speaker 3: of it. No, we did go on a date. 85 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 4: I mean, he was nice and the date went well, 86 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 4: I thought, and I would have been happy to go 87 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 4: out with him again. 88 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: But after our date, what he didn't tell. 89 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 4: You is he texts me and asks me. 90 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: If I would drag him to his colonoscopy. 91 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I mean because they put you under for that, 92 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: you know, so you need someone to to well, you 93 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: need someone to pick you up, I know. Yeah, So 94 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: he's not gonna drive, right, yeah? Okay? 95 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: Wow? 96 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: All right, so you've met him once one date, and 97 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: yet he wants you to go you know, help him 98 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: out with a kolonoscopy. Okay, and you you think that 99 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: you think that's a little intrusive. It's a little too 100 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: too much, too soon. 101 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 4: Not just that he wanted to stay at my house 102 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 4: the night before because his appointment was like early or something, 103 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 4: so he wanted to stay at my house. 104 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 3: Oh wait, but this person that I just met. But 105 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 3: there's the crip. 106 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 4: You offer that work and I can then take him 107 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 4: to his coina. 108 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: Who whoa, whoa, whoa what I'm the chauffeur. 109 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: I've not had one yet, but I from what I kaling, 110 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: you have. From what I understand, you know they got 111 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: you got to clean yourself out before they go looking 112 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: around in there with a camera. So you gotta drink 113 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: some potion or whatever, and then you poop for like 114 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: half a day, right, a long time? 115 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, picking laxatives like NonStop. I don't want someone 116 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 4: some stranger blowing. 117 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: Up my bathroom. 118 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: So it's one thing to ask someone to drive you 119 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: to an appointment. That's one thing. I mean, that's one thing. 120 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: It's a whole different thing to say that you got 121 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: to do the prep and all that stuff. I mean, 122 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: my I think that's alone time. I think I need 123 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: to be on my own for that. Let me bring 124 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: in Devon. I forgot to mention that Devon is here. Dude, 125 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: you were you were comfortable going over to her house 126 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: doing what you got to do to get ready for 127 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: this colonoscopy and then having her drive you. Now one 128 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: part of you is like, this isn't sexy. 129 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: I mean I had to get my medical procedure done. 130 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: I mean I don't understand what the deal is. And 131 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: we have such a good time. I mean, it. 132 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 3: Had so much fun that you wanted to Let me 133 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 3: tell you. 134 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: When I'm when I'm having a great time on a date, 135 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: when I'm thinking, is is this woman gonna let me 136 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: crap at her house? 137 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 3: Right? Like excessively? It's real bad. I don't know if 138 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 3: you've had one before, but it's real bad. 139 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: And I don't do you not have a friend or 140 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: like a like a mom or an aunt or like 141 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: an uncle or something? I hate, Like, I hope you 142 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: do have all those things, but there's nobody else in 143 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: your life who you don't hope to have a romance relationship. 144 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 3: You want to do that for you. 145 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: Nobody lives here in town. So it's like I need 146 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: needed to help and she was very caring, very giving. 147 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: You mean, she said she'd like to help people out. 148 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: It's a stretched maybe somebody would drive you. Maybe that's 149 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: a little weird too, But let me come over the 150 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: day before and do the whole deal. 151 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 3: No, no, no, we. 152 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 2: Have a really really, really good time. 153 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 3: Though, you know, so three time one, thank Kevin. You 154 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 3: want to ruin it. 155 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 4: That was our one date. 156 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 2: Only your moments to fall in love if I just. 157 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 3: Like, uh, and then a few moments to talk to. 158 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 4: Me like a housewife and your mom all in one, Okay. 159 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you don't have anybody else to 160 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: do this for you, but I probably wouldn't ask somebody 161 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: to on the first date, uh or or at least 162 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: for the Hey, for our second date, I'm gonna pooh everywhere, 163 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: and then you're gonna drive me to Michael and askaby 164 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: which which good on you for you know, being responsible 165 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: and checking on your uh your clon health, you know. 166 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: But but that might be something that you do privately. 167 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: But the door would have been closed, I mean, like 168 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: I would have been going to the bathroom, he. 169 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: Would have closed sim it's loud, you're. 170 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: But he would have closed the door and you know, 171 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: I bet he even would have ran the sink. That's thoughtful, 172 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna Oh no, I think it's it's a little 173 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: personal for someone that you don't know that well. And remember, 174 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: you eventually want this person to do other things with you, 175 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: and they don't even know you, and and now they're 176 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: going to be thinking about that. I just I don't know. 177 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: I think that was a misjudgment on your part. But okay, Jackie, 178 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: would you would you consider, you know, maybe give this 179 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: guy another chance? I mean, so it wasn't a good call. 180 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: I guess he thought he was falling in love. You 181 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: could be his soulmate. And if you'd driven him to 182 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: the colonoscopy, that would have confirmed it. I guess which 183 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: it which it probably would have. Yeah, will you give 184 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: him another shot? Though, Jackie? 185 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: Uh No, I don't think so. 186 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: Okay, it was a reach. It was too personal, it 187 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: was too much and okay, made you feel uncomfortable and 188 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: maybe maybe this guy's you know, moving at a different speed. Yeah, Okay. 189 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: Did everything go okay with the kolonoscopy? I hope everything 190 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: went well if it already happened, Yeah, I mean things 191 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: are good? Oh good, good, glad to hear it. 192 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: How was that prep? 193 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 194 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: And by the way, now that you've done the prep, 195 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: can you you really don't think that that were weird 196 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: to do at someone else's house. 197 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 2: I mean, in my opinion, it wasn't that bad. Yeah, 198 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 2: a lot, but there was. 199 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. 200 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: It was a method. 201 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: So okay, guys, look, thank you for your time, and 202 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: I wish you both the best of luck. 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