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Speaker 1: It is time for us to ask the CLO. This

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Speaker 1: is from Monette and Lincoln. Money writes. I'm thirty and

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Speaker 1: I live with my ex boyfriend because he has nowhere

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Speaker 1: else to go. We don't talk at all, but he

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Speaker 1: cooks daily and offers me food. I cheated on him,

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Speaker 1: so I'm afraid to eat it. Why is he being nice?

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Speaker 1: Is he trying to kill me? Or work on our relationship?

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Speaker 2: How did sound to you? I said, it sounds to

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Speaker 2: me like he tried to kill you, and you know it.

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Speaker 2: And you know it. Y'all listen to me. You cheated

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Speaker 2: on him. He don't talk to you. He cooks daily.

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Speaker 2: Is he trying to work on our relationship?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Better doing that much? Cook it? No, the trust is gone, definitely.

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Speaker 2: He don't trust you and you don't trust him. Y'all

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Speaker 2: live together, but he ain't got nowhere to go. He

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Speaker 2: got somewhere to go, get out in them.

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Speaker 4: Streets, so she should put him out.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean, look, I'm not saying. Look, something's going

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Speaker 2: on where they still living together, so it must be

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Speaker 2: her place.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like it.

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Speaker 1: Well, she says, I live with my ex boyfriend because

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Speaker 1: he has nowhere else to go.

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Speaker 4: So yes, it's certainly.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh he mad, I say he can't leave? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, uh, that's what happened when you don't take care

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Speaker 2: of your business.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm, somebody else's business to take care of you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: Moving on to Big Joe in the Bronx.

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Speaker 3: I cheated. You ain't got no money where you're going?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, ain't on a budget?

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Speaker 3: What you have?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's okay, I'll stay here. You want to try

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Speaker 2: this tangy tomato soup?

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Speaker 1: I madegy keyword tangy?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: Moving on to Big Joe in the Bronx.

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Speaker 1: Big Joe writes, idea and have sex with whoever I want,

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Speaker 1: And I'm honest with women. They say they're fine with it,

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Speaker 1: but they end up popping up at my house or

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Speaker 1: calling me all night to try to disturb me. Why

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Speaker 1: can't these women appreciate my honesty?

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Speaker 3: They still want what they want? What's her name?

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Speaker 4: Big Joe, Big Joe out of the Bronx.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you know they appreciate your honesty. Okay, what

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Speaker 2: bro These are women? But don't you have no answer

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Speaker 2: for this?

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Speaker 3: And what is it?

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Speaker 2: Once again, here we go on? What has that gotten you?

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Speaker 2: All this honesty.

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Speaker 3: That's what I was waiting for.

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Speaker 2: Why now what m hmm, Well yeah, you know it

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Speaker 2: works for me if they don't appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it works for Neil. Ain't keep working relationship.

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Speaker 2: I feel sorry for the girls of Neil's relationship, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because they bought into absolutely nothing. And it's cool, Neil.

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Speaker 2: You can do like you want to do, man, but

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Speaker 2: you know, since you making the public, it kind of

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Speaker 2: opens it up for judgment. And so you know, once

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Speaker 2: you do stuff publicly, Hey, I'm cool with it. What

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Speaker 2: y'all tripping for? Well, you showing it to us? And

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Speaker 2: the reason we tripping it is because it don't look normal.

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Speaker 2: And now I don't think the girls is happy, and

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Speaker 2: if they are, they need to reevaluate themselves.

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Speaker 3: Really, you need some self esteem? Yeah, good point, good point.

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Speaker 4: Or maybe Neo's all that and we just don't know.

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Speaker 2: No, no, shouldn't sure, shouldn't listen to me, listen to me.

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Speaker 2: Somebody is a favorite. It's no way. You don't have

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Speaker 2: a favorite, There's no way. Just like Big Joe and

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Speaker 2: the Bronx. Yeah yeah, and eventually one of them favorites

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Speaker 2: is going win. They always do.

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Speaker 3: But the ladies have to have low self esteem for

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Speaker 3: this to work. In order for this to work, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they have to have it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it, all right, this is what I heard.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry that what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Moving on, It's hard enough to take care of one woman.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Lisa and Chattanooga, Lisa writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: is from the hood, so he thinks our son needs

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Speaker 1: to experience that. He takes our twelve year old to

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Speaker 1: his brother's house where they gamble, drink and smoke cigarettes,

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Speaker 1: and we my son hates going over there. How do

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Speaker 1: I stop this?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Power is the boy?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Twelve year olds old? Twelve years old.

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Speaker 3: Need to take little bushy old over that. I don't

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Speaker 3: care what he's doing like.

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Speaker 4: These streets.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to know for.

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Speaker 2: Real, man, But you need to know what's happening, you

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Speaker 2: see cause because the day to learn it ain't the

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Speaker 2: day to show up. You need to have seen some

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Speaker 2: of it before. I understand what your husband is trying

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Speaker 2: to do. Smart because one day you're gonna need it.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna need it. It happens to everybody.

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Speaker 1: The gamble, drink, smokes cigarettes and weed over there.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I got your son don't like it?

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Speaker 2: Because it's hard because of my other twelve year olds.

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Speaker 3: What nay only Yeah, he'dne probably got shook down a

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Speaker 3: couple of times. All that, you know, he little nerved

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Speaker 3: rack right now?

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Speaker 1: All right, last one, Steve, This is from decel And

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Speaker 1: Saint Louis Decelle says, I'm sixty two years old and

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Speaker 1: finally divorced. I was married for thirty years and it's

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Speaker 1: time for me to switch things up. I plan to

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Speaker 1: move to Hawaii, but my grown kids are being selfish

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Speaker 1: and saying I can't leave them. Do I have to

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Speaker 1: consider my children's feelings?

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Speaker 3: Hm? Hmm, Well you don't have to. But what you're

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Speaker 3: gonna do in Hawaii? Though?

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Speaker 4: These are her plans?

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Speaker 3: You think it's hard to find a man down south Hawaii?

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Speaker 3: That sound.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that sound good. It's expensive living in Hawaii. It

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Speaker 2: is expensive to live there, and when it's time to

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Speaker 2: go home, it's expensive there and.

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Speaker 3: It costs too much money to come see you.

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Speaker 4: Well, but she wants to live in paradise. Her plan.

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Speaker 3: That's paradise is heaven. Ain't No, we don't have paradise.

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Speaker 4: Here on earth.

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Speaker 3: No, it ain't.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: Are you went heavy?

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about it yeah, I know, why are

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Speaker 2: you in? You better carry your old tail down to

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Speaker 2: Pensacola and lock it.

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Speaker 1: In Florida and locked in so you.

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Speaker 2: Can get up on that tea and it's sixty five

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Speaker 2: and get yourself to some black people, get yourself on help.

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Speaker 3: That's got you better. You got to go there, Paul.

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Speaker 4: So she shouldn't consider her children's feel.

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Speaker 3: Though, and she need to consider her own self.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how much money you got, but you

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Speaker 2: need a lot of money living in Hawaii and you

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Speaker 2: and then when it's time to get out where you're going,

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Speaker 2: you have not only able to drive.

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Speaker 4: Off all right, Hawaii. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.