Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Megan is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: She thinks that her boyfriend of a year and a
Speaker 2: half named Caleb might be cheating on her, So we're
Speaker 2: going to see if we can catch him and if
Speaker 2: he is. Megan, thank you for coming on the show.
Speaker 2: Thank you for your email and agreeing to do this.
Speaker 2: Tell us a little bit about your situation. What's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you said we've been seeing each other for
Speaker 3: about a year and a half. Now we do live together,
Speaker 3: so things have just seemed to change recently, and I'm
Speaker 3: kind of getting a little suspect about what's going on
Speaker 3: because there's just a few sketchy happenings and I can't really,
Speaker 3: you know, figure out why or what's going on. Some
Speaker 3: of the like clues that have led me to believe
Speaker 3: that something else is happening is, you know, it leaves
Speaker 3: work a little bit earlier in the morning. There's days
Speaker 3: that he's been coming homely with not really much to
Speaker 3: go on as far as why. I've stopped by a
Speaker 3: surprise him for lunch, to go out get lunch with him.
Speaker 3: A couple of times and he hasn't been there, and
Speaker 3: his coworker says that he goes out for lunch all
Speaker 3: the time now. So when I told him, Oh, I
Speaker 3: had stopped by to surprise you and you weren't there,
Speaker 3: he was like, Oh, I'm sorry. I just found this
Speaker 3: new Greek place and it's really good and I've just
Speaker 3: been going to get their amazing Greek salads and kind
Speaker 3: of just some downtime during the day, you know, during
Speaker 3: my work day. I don't know. It just seems like
Speaker 3: a little suspicious that he's coming home late, he's leaving early.
Speaker 3: He's not at work for lunch anymore, like ever, But
Speaker 3: you know, how good can Greek salads really be?
Speaker 1: That get to wherever it is?
Speaker 4: First question? Did you put a tracker on his car?
Speaker 1: Yet?
Speaker 4: Where are you going?
Speaker 3: He's had an option, isn't it always?
Speaker 5: And I'm single, so anyway, but is he acting different
Speaker 5: around you?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 3: He's just beenly quiet lately. Usually he has so much
Speaker 3: to ex about his workday or this or that or
Speaker 3: the other, but he's just kind of been shut down
Speaker 3: ish kind of. You know, we watch a lot more
Speaker 3: TV and kind of just do quieter things that we're
Speaker 3: not you know, kind of just sitting and talking and
Speaker 3: just he's distant and I can't really figure it out. So,
Speaker 3: I mean that's kind of where I'm at. I's thinking,
Speaker 3: is there something going on that he's being so quiet
Speaker 3: and then he's coming home late, and you know, like
Speaker 3: like what's up with all of that stuff? It's kind
Speaker 3: of new and that's not kind of what we've been
Speaker 3: doing for the last year and a half. So I'm
Speaker 3: very confused right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that doesn't feel good. That's not my favorite place
Speaker 4: to be. Now.
Speaker 5: Did you just straight up ask him, like, by any
Speaker 5: chance were you like where are you going and what
Speaker 5: are you doing?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: I mean I've asked him like in the instances where
Speaker 3: he's arrived late at home from work or whatever, or
Speaker 3: like I said, when I asked him about surprising him
Speaker 3: at work, he just you know, said he was at
Speaker 3: the Greek restaurant, or sometimes he just says that he
Speaker 3: had some more work to catch up on, or that
Speaker 3: he stopped and got you know, some food on the
Speaker 3: way home because he was starving and he didn't want
Speaker 3: to wait or whatever. So it's just like each time
Speaker 3: there's been an instance, I've asked, but I haven't kind
Speaker 3: of sat down and said, Okay, what's up with this
Speaker 3: whole picture?
Speaker 5: Yeah, and he's been consistent, so there's no lying per se.
Speaker 5: There's just he's just disappearing at odd times, right.
Speaker 3: I mean he's you know, usually would work through his
Speaker 3: lunch break so.
Speaker 1: That he could be done and then come home and.
Speaker 3: We would enjoy hanging out and he would look forward
Speaker 3: to being there to see me, and so I just
Speaker 3: it feels like something's changed and I can't figure out what.
Speaker 3: Of course, Yeah, I just like whatever my partner's going through,
Speaker 3: I want to be there for him. So if he's
Speaker 3: you know, extra stressed at work or got something going on,
Speaker 3: or you know, if like you know, he's having problems
Speaker 3: with his mom again, like you know that would like
Speaker 3: I've you know, helped with those times before, with those
Speaker 3: types of things. We talked about it and dealt with it.
Speaker 3: So there's don't know what's going on?
Speaker 2: Okay, And you said you didn't want to call and
Speaker 2: try to catch him the way we'd normally do it,
Speaker 2: like call from a grocery store. You had another way
Speaker 2: you thought would work.
Speaker 1: What is it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, he like again this Greek restaurant. It's his new
Speaker 3: favorite thing, and he's there all the time. So I thought,
Speaker 3: you know, maybe there'd be some kind of bonus for
Speaker 3: being a great customer or something. Okay, maybe that would
Speaker 3: work from the restaurant that he's yet all time.
Speaker 4: That's a great ight. Sure, let's try it.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song, come back, and you'll get
Speaker 2: your to ketch a theater next if you're just joining
Speaker 2: us for to ketch a cheater And Megan is on
Speaker 2: the phone she thinks that her boyfriend of two and
Speaker 2: a half years named Caleb might be cheating. And Megan,
Speaker 2: I'll let you refresh everybody's memory. Why do you think
Speaker 2: that he might be messing around?
Speaker 3: He's just he's been leading early home late, not at
Speaker 3: work during his lunch break. I've tried to stop there
Speaker 3: and he doesn't really have any good reasons and of
Speaker 3: being late, and he's just really distant lately, like there's
Speaker 3: something else going on and he's not talking about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, And you wanted us to call from this restaurant
Speaker 2: that he goes to all the time.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, he keeps talking about this is my favorite
Speaker 3: place to go for lunch. That's why he's not at work.
Speaker 3: During lunch break anymore.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll call from there and say that we appreciate
Speaker 2: him being a loyal customer so much. We're going to
Speaker 2: offer him free flowers to be delivered to anybody that
Speaker 2: he wants, and an invitation to join him there for
Speaker 2: dinner sometime in our special booth. We'll call him and
Speaker 2: see if he gives us your name or somebody else.
Speaker 4: Is okay? You ready?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: All right? Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey, may I speak to Caleb? Please?
Speaker 1: This sim Who's this Caleb? This is Jorbyan from Oh Okay.
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm doing pretty well? How'd you guys give my number?
Speaker 2: Because you're in here all the time and we keep
Speaker 2: track of our best customers. And the reason I'm calling
Speaker 2: today though, is to say thank you very much for
Speaker 2: coming in and being such a loyal customer. We actually
Speaker 2: wanted to say thank you by offering you free dinner
Speaker 2: for two one evening in our special booth. I don't
Speaker 2: even know if you know where the special booth is.
Speaker 2: It's in the back and you can invite that person
Speaker 2: by sending them flowers delivered from us.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 6: Thank you, Yeah, sure, that'd be great. Do you need
Speaker 6: anything for me, Like, well, we'll or something like that.
Speaker 3: Okink.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can line up the date. We probably need
Speaker 2: to be a few weeks out because that booth is
Speaker 2: booked up. But like I said, totally free. And then
Speaker 2: for the flowers to be delivered to whoever you want
Speaker 2: to take with you. If you know the person's information,
Speaker 2: I can take all that right now, and then I
Speaker 2: will reach out and give you a confirmation that we've
Speaker 2: sent those out.
Speaker 6: Okay, cool, I think I think I yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 6: think I have somebody who I might want to send
Speaker 6: the flowers to.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, you've got their name. We'll start with the
Speaker 2: name first and last.
Speaker 6: The first name is Rachelle.
Speaker 2: Is there anything we can put like a little card
Speaker 2: with it?
Speaker 1: Just I'm here for you, and I.
Speaker 2: Will, like I said, I'll let you know that this
Speaker 2: is not actually the restaurant at all.
Speaker 4: Wait what this is actually the Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show and we do a segment where
Speaker 2: we try to catch people cheating on their significant other.
Speaker 2: And your girlfriend, Megan actually emailed us and suspected you
Speaker 2: might be seeing someone else. And she's on the phone
Speaker 2: and been listening to this whole thing.
Speaker 1: Whoa who.
Speaker 3: I'm kind of wondering the same thing too, Caleb.
Speaker 6: Hey, uh, are we really on the radio right now?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we definitely are, And I hope Rachelle is listening.
Speaker 1: Can man, this is not good?
Speaker 6: Can we can we talk about this off off air?
Speaker 6: Because this is I promise you there's more to this story.
Speaker 4: You're sounding a little guilty though right now? Are you serious?
Speaker 6: Well, it's a very serious sort of situation and it's
Speaker 6: kind of complex and it requires like a conversation and
Speaker 6: this is not the way that I wanted this to
Speaker 6: come out.
Speaker 3: Uh no, Caleb, you can tell me right now. We're here,
Speaker 3: we're both here right now. Kind of feel like that
Speaker 3: we need to just let the cat out of the bag.
Speaker 3: What's going on with Rochelle?
Speaker 1: So Rochelle is my ex?
Speaker 3: So that's the Rochelle that you're sending flowers to now?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I yes, But it's not like that. We haven't seen
Speaker 6: each other like that, Mike over three years.
Speaker 1: We're broken up.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, but what's going on now? With what we're
Speaker 3: going coming home from work and now you're sending flowers
Speaker 3: and having intimate dinners?
Speaker 6: It's not an intimate dinner Okay. She recently, she contacted
Speaker 6: me again recently, and she said.
Speaker 1: That she has a kid, a three year old, and
Speaker 1: that it's mine and I have I've been trying to
Speaker 1: find a.
Speaker 6: Way to tell you this whole thing, and I didn't
Speaker 6: want it to come out over the over the radio
Speaker 6: like this. This is just not the way that I
Speaker 6: wanted it to happen. And this is why I've been
Speaker 6: whatever recently. And you know, I just I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 6: really sorry.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's something that you should have
Speaker 3: told me kind of shortly after you found out about it.
Speaker 3: You tried.
Speaker 1: I just didn't know how to say it.
Speaker 6: I didn't know how to tell you, and I didn't
Speaker 6: like I was.
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure things.
Speaker 3: Out for myself that you've been acting weird weeks now.
Speaker 1: I know, I didn't know she needs my help.
Speaker 6: There's this three year old kid that is I'm I'm
Speaker 6: the father of like what, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know how to react in that situation.
Speaker 6: I've never gone through this sort of thing before.
Speaker 4: Caleb.
Speaker 5: You're clearly very emotional right now, but it kind of
Speaker 5: sounds like you're yelling at Megan.
Speaker 1: In them and I'm sorry you're right.
Speaker 5: Also getting this information for the first time, and she's
Speaker 5: in a relationship with you. This is just kind of
Speaker 5: a lot for everybody to process, I understand. But because
Speaker 5: I feel like there's love here, it's got to be
Speaker 5: a nicer way to exchange your concerns.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you're right. You're right. I don't want to
Speaker 1: fight about this, you know, I don't, so I have
Speaker 1: to keep my mind.
Speaker 2: I mean, I would be freaking out if I was
Speaker 2: you too, But you're not even going to be heard
Speaker 2: at all if you're shouting like that, you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean freaking out as well.
Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like I'm also kind of being
Speaker 6: cornered right now.
Speaker 1: You know, I got, like, you know.
Speaker 5: A radio sho you were, But good news, you're not cheating,
Speaker 5: So now we're on your side.
Speaker 1: I appreciate. I appreciate that. I appreciate that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, shocking news all around for all of us. But
Speaker 3: it's kind of something that we both need to deal with,
Speaker 3: don't you agree.
Speaker 1: Yes, make me talk about it.
Speaker 2: Do you understand kind of why it was so hard
Speaker 2: to tell you this. I mean, I know you probably
Speaker 2: wish that he would come to you right away, but
Speaker 2: that's a lot.
Speaker 3: Absolutely well. If I hadn't done this today, how long would.
Speaker 6: It have been until I knew?
Speaker 1: Are you just more upset about.
Speaker 6: Me not communicating with you?
Speaker 1: Are like?
Speaker 6: Are you upset that I have a kid? And like,
Speaker 6: I just I don't want you.
Speaker 1: To break up with me. Are we still okay? Are
Speaker 1: we going to be okay?
Speaker 3: I'm not upset that you have a kid. I mean,
Speaker 3: it is shocking news to have a three year old
Speaker 3: plopped into your life, agreed, And I understand where you're.
Speaker 6: Coming from with that.
Speaker 3: I'm more upset that I got lied to for the
Speaker 3: past couple of weeks and that I'm left in the
Speaker 3: dark and have no idea what's going on with my
Speaker 3: boyfriend and where he's been and what's going on in
Speaker 3: his head because he won't talk to me.
Speaker 6: I should have done it sooner, and I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: I definitely do not deal well with being lied to.
Speaker 4: But Caleb, I mean, bright side, congratulations, you have a kids.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: I met him a couple of times too.
Speaker 6: He's really sweet, it's actually really exciting.
Speaker 1: It's just you know, right and about you.
Speaker 5: Megan wants to share all of that with you. I guess, Okay,
Speaker 5: see okay.
Speaker 1: Together.
Speaker 2: You know that he's not cheat. Obviously, you guys have
Speaker 2: a lot to process.
Speaker 5: And I think, Caleb, you should take Megan to the
Speaker 5: Greek Spot just so she knows how good those salads
Speaker 5: really are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, absolutely we should go there tonight.
Speaker 2: Maybe you could take her with you to talk to
Speaker 2: your ex. Might not be trust my relationship advice.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Maybe at a future date we can meet up
Speaker 3: with her, But right now I think the two of
Speaker 3: us need to talk about some terrible advice.
Speaker 4: Good luck to you guys. Let us know what happens.
Speaker 3: Yeah, good luck, Thank you.
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