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Speaker 2: What and two and three and four? And get them?

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Speaker 3: Set us right and duck yo tummy tied and do

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Speaker 2: Good night. I can't, I can't, I can't.

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Speaker 3: It's been a week without me, but I feel a

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Speaker 3: and we're just trying to work it out.

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Speaker 2: We got the breaking down.

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Speaker 2: Right right, like I want you the croon, but in

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Speaker 2: Was it let Me see Them? Niggas had one that song.

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Speaker 1: Seeing Joe not casey Jojo. Joason had one like that too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was that.

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Speaker 1: That was freaked Me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, freak Me was pretty Yeah, that was a pretty

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Speaker 1: What was it what you talked about?

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Speaker 3: I'm about to tell you right, Yeah, it was intro

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Speaker 3: it was coming Side, yes, cause see the radio version

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Speaker 3: if you listen to that ship, the radio version Comingside

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Speaker 2: Yeah you say, the album version is eight minutes and

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Speaker 2: ten seconds. Good. God right, it's got an intro to

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Speaker 2: Keep in mind, you just hit play on coming Side

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Speaker 2: because this is the single on the albums. You're like,

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Speaker 3: It is all right, all right, So that's let me

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Speaker 1: Because I won't you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, just five and a half minutes for the song, y'all.

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Speaker 3: The first time I heard this ship, I was with

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Speaker 2: I was like, play this intro. I liked this album.

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Speaker 3: I liked them because I knew Ribbon in the Sky,

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Speaker 3: which I shameful, shame on me.

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Speaker 2: I was a little kid though, so fuck y'all. But

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that Steven Wonder made that version made

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Speaker 2: this is the greatest song in my life.

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Speaker 3: And then you grow up and you're like, these niggas

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Speaker 3: just made somebody else great song. It's like when you

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Speaker 3: it's like when you get older and then you realize

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Speaker 3: all Puff Daddy good songs is just remixes of the

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Speaker 1: It'll fuck you up because you started hearing it, you'll

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Speaker 1: be like, that's my Wait a minute, this don't sign

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just I'll just be listening, uh to puff

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Speaker 3: that and be like, actually, I just want to listen

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Speaker 2: You know I like him? You to that now, y'all,

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Speaker 2: Just picture my mom and aunt in the getting quieter

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Speaker 1: Right. I didn't know this ship was on the tape, right,

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Speaker 1: because you know you probably only heard the radio version, right.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know this ship was on the tape. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like girl, yes, oh yes, I did.

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Speaker 3: No, wait a minute, and then of course, uh, it

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Speaker 3: became quite obvious that come inside was a euphemism.

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Speaker 2: At this point in my life.

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Speaker 3: I think this is when I grew up and I

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Speaker 1: Don't know what sex is, but apparently this is what

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Speaker 2: Apparently you want to put your winner inside somebody and

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Speaker 2: put something in them.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 2: Don't keep in mind, neame of the song was coming Inside.

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Speaker 3: They just took all the pretests out for three minutes,

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Speaker 3: like no, no, no, they won't understand what we're talking about. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Like we gotta really let them. Like they're gonna listen,

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Speaker 3: they're gonna be like, what is com inside?

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Speaker 2: What the house? You know you wanna come inside and

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Speaker 2: get something to dream?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, guys, we need to let them

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Speaker 3: know we're talking about coming inside her vagina with our

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Speaker 3: penis and leaving some sperm.

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Speaker 2: And like, okay, okay, I know.

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Speaker 1: Your mom and it was like, girl, yes, you know,

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Speaker 1: we going down the road with these kids, you know,

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Speaker 1: and what's happening.

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Speaker 2: I'm just in the background, beat red, like what the

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Speaker 2: fuck is this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're looking like I didn't know this, y'all. Nobody

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Speaker 1: told me.

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Speaker 3: I think it was a tape too, so it wasn't

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Speaker 3: even the tape. So it's like, can we just fast forward?

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Speaker 1: You couldn't skip me. You didn't even have to city

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Speaker 1: where you just skipped the whole track.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to listen to this part.

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Speaker 3: By the way, in my mind, this part took twenty minutes,

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Speaker 3: Like I know, y'all know right now I'm looking at

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Speaker 3: the client the thing taking down and saying like two

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Speaker 2: It felt like fifty to me.

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Speaker 1: I know it did left movie.

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Speaker 2: You're like gonna get this ship.

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Speaker 4: I went because they're not foughting past this. What's happening

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Speaker 4: to them?

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Speaker 1: Just about Oh my, I heard this in forever?

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Speaker 3: Like did you write this part down when you're making

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Speaker 3: this song You're like, here's the script for the breakdown

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Speaker 3: of the sex.

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Speaker 1: Or I don't know you this is the quiet storm bursion.

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Speaker 1: You know you're probably in bed by the time.

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Speaker 3: Well, my question is like, as a songwriter, all these

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Speaker 3: lyrics are do the guy do you write a beautiful

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Speaker 3: song called come Inside? And the next day the guys

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Speaker 3: give it back to you, like we finished, and you go,

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Speaker 3: why is it eight minutes? I gave you a three

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Speaker 3: and a half four minutes song?

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Speaker 2: Tis? What have you done about beautiful songs?

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Speaker 3: Like when we added intro we went into the club,

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Speaker 3: You're like, okay, maybe that counts for forty five seconds.

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Speaker 2: What are the rest of this three minutes? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 2: on the back end, we just added.

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Speaker 1: A porn scene, went out the video we.

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Speaker 3: Just want to ahead, and added in entire Afrocentrix porn

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Speaker 3: scene to the to the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, you right, I mean we think it's dope.

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Speaker 2: You should listen to it, honey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out to Columbia House with the one since CDs?

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Speaker 3: How long was they recording this ship? It was like, guys,

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Speaker 3: that was a good take one on it, but I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna need you all to do it again this time.

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Speaker 1: Can you more mooning? You're not convincing right now.

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Speaker 3: I need you to really like stick some fingers in

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Speaker 3: the pussy, uh to start the warmer up. I feel

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Speaker 3: like you guys got through that too fast. That was

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Speaker 3: only three minutes. I needed to take five minutes and

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Speaker 3: forty six seconds of.

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Speaker 1: Heavy breathing, you know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe stick your fingers in your mouth, get close to

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Speaker 3: the mic, make a make some weird sounds, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: can I get some Can you do this thing with

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Speaker 3: your trying to can't you get all up in the

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Speaker 3: mic and do that?

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Speaker 1: Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Also notice no dick sucking. Come on, guys, this is

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Speaker 2: not an amateur production. We come on. You're trying to

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Speaker 2: get a.

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Speaker 3: Number one hot R and B single, and it's not

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Speaker 3: gonna happen if there's no dick sucking on the on

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Speaker 3: the breakdown, uh near the end of the chorus. So

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Speaker 3: let's get let's get back in there, guys, give it

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Speaker 3: a take two. All right, take two. It's just this audio.

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Speaker 3: There's no video this part.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: They gotta say everything.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm eating that pussy right now, girl, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, you are really sucking on my labiers all.

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Speaker 3: The way to the top, baby, yeah, nipples right, oh.

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Speaker 2: Man, Like no one's ever said that during sex. Right,

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Speaker 2: it's going down anyone? Maybe, I don't know. Maybe see

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Speaker 2: that's we kick on the millennials looking at us like,

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Speaker 2: who's wrong with y'all? I don't know who are the millennials?

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Speaker 1: But the young send me the other day like I said,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't I might be in

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Speaker 2: I might not to like thirty.

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Speaker 3: Eight I think anyway, the young people is looking at

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Speaker 3: us like, but y'all say our music trash. Come on,

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Speaker 3: we don't have five minutes of audio sex at the

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Speaker 3: end of every track to make it sexy right that way?

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Speaker 2: You know what, it would be funny if if that's hilarious,

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Speaker 2: it'll be funny. If the person in the move during.

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Speaker 3: The sex and the sex interlude has never had sex before,

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Speaker 3: he would be so good.

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh you have baby, stick it in your

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Speaker 2: belly button? Huh?

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Speaker 1: Is that not what we know? That's not what we're

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Speaker 1: doing here.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're.

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Speaker 5: Side.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm all up in your ear right now?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: If you let me know, if.

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Speaker 1: You can we get somebody else up up, you're fired.

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Speaker 3: You let me put my dick in your ear, if

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Speaker 3: you let me come inside. No, sir, I know babies

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Speaker 3: come from the p hole. No, No, they don't, baby,

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Speaker 3: what you're doing?

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Speaker 2: They don't from the baby on my end right now?

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Speaker 2: Can you feel me wrong? Hold if you let.

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Speaker 3: Me put it in the wrong hold, if you let

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Speaker 3: me come inside.

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Speaker 2: Oh baby, I already came so.

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Speaker 1: Sex is already an awkward thing anyway.

442
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 2: It's just the end is just I'm so sorry. It's

443
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: my first time. This never happens.

444
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 3: If you let me try to get it back up,

445
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 3: just let me come inside. If I can maybe get

446
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 3: us somewhere in like twenty minutes to rehydrate, then maybe

447
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 3: I can come inside. I just think you need to

448
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,920
Speaker 3: go home, baby, No, baby, I really just need to stay.

449
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 2: I just you got some gatorade. I just need to

450
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 2: get some electro lights in my system. If you let

451
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 2: me get some.

452
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 1: Of that experience you need to beat it, then you can.

453
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: Let me come inside.

454
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: No, she was like, look, I'm too over this.

455
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: All right inside. She told him to turn over. And

456
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 2: now I'm like, what is that was going on?

457
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: A man?

458
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 2: How freaky was this?

459
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 3: What did I miss? I didn't know nothing about sex,

460
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 3: and this time you missed the lights.

461
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: Or inside you.

462
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 2: Know?

463
00:22:56,160 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: And and you know and uh two thousand and eight teen,

464
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 3: that just have it to say it like, turn over,

465
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna eat your ass if you learn over and

466
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: let me eat these grocery reads, come inside inside. I

467
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 3: really feel like this part of the song played all

468
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 3: the way from Charlotte to Atlanta that day.

469
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: It was just like I bet it did in your

470
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: mind the longest and that was like fucking full four

471
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: plums hour drive, but these four hours.

472
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: Like let me pretend to be asleep. I don't know

473
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 2: what this is. Yeah, it was.

474
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 3: I mean, look, that was some that was the times.

475
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: That was just I don't do they even do that

476
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 3: on songs anymore?

477
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm over, I go over the bed

478
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: before the choir storm come on. I don't even know

479
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 1: what the quest storm is still the thing.

480
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about choir storm.

481
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 3: I'm just saying we have more music on our fingertips

482
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 3: than ever correcting a lot of songs. You know, Beyonce

483
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 3: has never had an intro or outro of just like

484
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 3: you know, and this is what it sounds like when

485
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 3: I talked to somebody salad or nothing like.

486
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: Did that just die out? Is my question? You know,

487
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 2: like do we do that anymore? Is there?

488
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 3: You know, it's like Future doing that on his albums.

489
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: You know, I know the different matches have one hundred

490
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 3: interludes of calling women.

491
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: And disrespecting them and voicemails and ship Yeah.

492
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: That that literally used to be a thing, like particularly

493
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 1: rap albums. You couldn't have a rap album without something

494
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: of alude.

495
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I don't know, man, just it's something I

496
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,360
Speaker 2: wonder about.

497
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: Like and it was an art to it too. Basically

498
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: they were.

499
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 2: Good, oh for sure. Like I said, I remember well.

500
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 3: Another egregious one was uh Nori had one about getting

501
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 3: a head. Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying, just

502
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 3: blessed gods.

503
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: Something turn over.

504
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: Yo deep okay, take a whole the whole genre songs

505
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 3: yo oh yo yo ship yo take that yo deep

506
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 3: oh ship yo yo yo God damn fu oh ship yo.

507
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 2: Tell now, I'm just thinking to myself, see, as an

508
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: audio professional.

509
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 3: This nigga went in the booth and had to record this.

510
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 3: He was not getting his dicks up, so you just

511
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 3: had to do, like randomly on Norriy's album, do a

512
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,919
Speaker 3: minute of what does this sound like when you are

513
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 3: getting your dicks up?

514
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 2: Acting? It's his voice acting for no reason.

515
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: That's a lot of hard voice acting.

516
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm not like the song ahead would not be good.

517
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 3: Come on, if we heard what's the song getting head

518
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 3: in the whip but not crashing it like, it's not

519
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 3: like if we heard that song without the end oflew

520
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 3: we'd be like, I just don't understand what the song

521
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 3: is about, getting what kind of head in the whip?

522
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 3: If only there was a minute intro of someone getting

523
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 3: that fake dick sucked in a fake room by a

524
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: fake woman, if only that was happening.

525
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 2: Then using one to love these songs?

526
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 3: Uh, yeah, no, it's just anyway, I don't know how

527
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 3: that's a big tangent anyway, Adamaneve dot com all right.

528
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 1: Before we uh move on, I know we didn't do

529
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: it show yesterday, and yeah.

530
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: It was singing Citizen's Day, guys, International sentence, Senior Citizen's Day.

531
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 3: I was, yeah, it was not just wanting to respect

532
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 3: to senior citizens. I hope everybody took the time out to,

533
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: you know, talk to the people in their life the

534
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 3: senior citizens yesterday.

535
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: You know, just a brief reminder. But what were you

536
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: gonna say?

537
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 1: Well, I felt like a senior citizen because my guns

538
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 1: was irritated. So I was like, I know what, let's

539
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: let's just chill because I was like, I'm going to

540
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: the dentist tomorrow because I had irritation in my gums

541
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: and it been bothered me but the past three days,

542
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: and I didn't wanted to get worse. So I made

543
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: a din. I made appumpment for the dnnists and when

544
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: I went in, Uh, it was like some inflammation. My

545
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: gums were irritated around two of my teeth and I

546
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out, you know, what was happening. And I know,

547
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: I just got my braces out. So I was trying

548
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: to figure out what was happening. And when I sat

549
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 1: down in the chair, she looked at it express and

550
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: things like that.

551
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 2: The band first day she asked me, she.

552
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: Was like, do you eat popcorn? I was like, yes,

553
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: we go to the movies every week because we normally movies. Like, yes,

554
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: I ate popcorn all the time. And she was like, well,

555
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 1: popcorn has like the little hard, little husk inside the popcorn.

556
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: She was saying, tiny pieces periodically get caught in people's gums,

557
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: like up underneath the gums. It wouldn't happen. It irritates

558
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: the gums. And she was saying once it irritates the

559
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: gums she said a lot of times we have to

560
00:27:58,800 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: go and we have to pluck it out. And then

561
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: she also said that people have actually broke and chipped

562
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: their tooth they teeth off of like biting down on kernels.

563
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: I was looking at her, like what, I did not

564
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: know this. She was like, yeah, so they did it.

565
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: And I had actually brushed the little piece that was

566
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: in my gums out, but it was still in flame,

567
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: and that bitch would holler and scream like my mouth

568
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: was like hey, hey, hey, I'm hurt, and hey, you better,

569
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: you better pay me attention like it it didn't matter

570
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: what I did, and I didn't realize I used an

571
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 1: electronic toothbrush, and so the one I had, I never

572
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: paid any attention. But the brustles on it was kind

573
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: of hard, and so she was saying that whenever you

574
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: brush your teeth with electronic toothbrushes, I didn't notice. She said,

575
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: you're actually supposed to let the toothbrush do the brushing.

576
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: You actually just supposed to hold it. But in addition

577
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: to hold it, I run. I actually moved too, and

578
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: she said you could be overbrushing, and she said that

579
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: also irritated your gum. So today I went and I

580
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: upgraded my toothbrush to a Sonic Care and I looked

581
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: at the price. I was like, hmmm, it's kind of

582
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: up there, but I'm glad I did. I think it's

583
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: a good investment and it's one of us a smart

584
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: one because it actually lets you know when the hand

585
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: needs to be changed. It actually does like the two

586
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: full minutes with the quadrants or whatever that.

587
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: Right.

588
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: I bought one to day so because I was like, well,

589
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: if I'm going to upgrade, because I didn't, I don't.

590
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: I didn't want to have a manual toothbrush, but I

591
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: want I didn't want a tooth brush was going to

592
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: irritate my mouth because I actually I don't know. It's

593
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: like riding in the carpet. Leave the seats. I was like, look,

594
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm not going back to the cotton. I like, leave

595
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: the seats. So I was like, I want a nice,

596
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: nice toothbrush. So I bought a Soniccare and I actually

597
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: really like it. I'm actually using it for the first

598
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: time tomorrow and that actually gave me like a mouthwash

599
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: to actually uh uh clear up the irritation in my gums.

600
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: And it actually works the first time I used to

601
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: day and I could Actually it's the detail. It was

602
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: kind of healing it from.

603
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not like a regular mouthwash. They didn't give

604
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,959
Speaker 3: it to you at the dentist. We had to go

605
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: to a farmacy and they didn't even have all the

606
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 3: stuff at like a CVS or whatever. We had to

607
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 3: go like this old timey folks farvacy right to get it.

608
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, it was I don't know what's in it,

609
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 3: but I don't know what's in it, but ash.

610
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: Right, and it was like Duke's formula. I was like, oh,

611
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: y'all done, stole this from uncle Duke somewhere and say

612
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: we're gonna use this for him. That's why an insurance

613
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: don't cover all of it, because they were like, fuck,

614
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: we don't know who Mster Duke is and no, we're

615
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: not covering whatever or be using in here.

616
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

617
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 3: Also, I guess yesterday since we have a shry to

618
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: talk about it, but I woke up in the morning

619
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: there was a snake in our in our bathroom. It's

620
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 3: a little tiny like baby snake like it was like

621
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 3: it was like worm size or something, you know, Like

622
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think, maybe uh, I would say it

623
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 3: was really thin and probably about three to four inches long,

624
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 3: like uh and you know, I was just sitting there,

625
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 3: like I think I I went to use the bathroom.

626
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 3: I was sitting on the toilet. I just looked at

627
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 3: the floor and I was like, this was like a

628
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 3: fucking snake underneath the mat underneath the mat by the sink,

629
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 3: and it was like such a small snake.

630
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I'm pretty sure that it's a

631
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: little tiny ass snake. And I think you had gone to.

632
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 3: Work or whatever, and so I was like, Okay, what

633
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: am I gonna do. I don't know about snakes, how

634
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 3: to catch on, if it poisonous, what kind of snake

635
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: it is. So I made sure to take a picture

636
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 3: of it, because I know a lot of times when

637
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 3: you don't take a picture of it, you don't know

638
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 3: what the kind of snake it was, you know, if

639
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to like and I know like certain

640
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: snakes are more like if it is a poisonous snake,

641
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 3: they're more poisonous when they're tiny. But I didn't expect

642
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 3: it would be poisonous because's very low percentage chance that, uh,

643
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 3: we one, we don't have that many poison snakes in

644
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: North Carolina O.

645
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: The ones we do have, it's.

646
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: Like I think we have, like a copperhead is probably

647
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: the most venomous one, and they are more venomous when

648
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 3: they're small, so you know, I was like, okay, they

649
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 3: gonna make sure it's not that uh. And they look

650
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 3: and snakes look different when their babies than when they

651
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 3: do it's adults, so a lot of talk. Yeah, I

652
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 3: don't know. It looked more like it was a rat

653
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 3: snake to me, which is a more common snake. It

654
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 3: grows up to be like a black snake. Some people

655
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 3: might be familiar with those. Okay, So I took up

656
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: picture of it, and then I went and got a

657
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 3: bucket and a broom to see if I could guide

658
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: it into that. But then before I was I was like, wait, well,

659
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: if the ship gets away, I'm gonna spray this ship

660
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 3: with some was spray because that's why I used to

661
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 3: kill that lizard. And you know, we have a strong

662
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: policy of I don't give a fuck what who you are,

663
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 3: what you are.

664
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 2: If you don't pay rent in here, you gotta go.

665
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: It's a death penalty. Okay, no, you.

666
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: Don't pay if your name now on the leaves you

667
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: got the fucking go.

668
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: So it was it's the death penalty for the snake.

669
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: So I sprayed that ship with the with the wasp

670
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: spray and it was just sitting there in the was spray,

671
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: and I was like, okay.

672
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna try to use the broom to like

673
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 3: maybe sweep it towards the bucket.

674
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: Put it in the bucket, and I'll just take it outside.

675
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 2: So I go to sweep it with the broom.

676
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 3: This ship runs like slides off into a crevice, a

677
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 3: tiny crevice like maybe less than a like a dimes

678
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 3: with not not the face of it, but the side

679
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 3: of it right slides into the wall. Was like the fuck,

680
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 3: Like it just went right between the cabin and the wall.

681
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 3: It's like, what is that? Where the fuck it came from?

682
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: Is that how I got in my house?

683
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 2: You know?

684
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 3: I know it's frayed with that was spray, So it's

685
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 3: gonna die. I made sure to google that shit and

686
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 3: I took a picture of it and put on the end.

687
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 3: Now it was like, what the fuck am I supposed

688
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 3: to do? And I forgot to tell everybody spray or

689
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 3: was spray but whatever, And so you know, first of all,

690
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 3: never ask the Internet, what you're supposed to do about

691
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 3: snaky house, baby snake or not, because the responses from

692
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 3: the Negroes who followed me were burn the house down.

693
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: Come on one, it's an apartment. I can't burn it down.

694
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 2: We just renewed the lease.

695
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: So I'm stuck here for a year and then two.

696
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 3: You know, while that might be funny, you know that's

697
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,439
Speaker 3: not an option.

698
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 2: It's like move.

699
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I'm not doing that either, for a

700
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 3: fucking baby snake. And then and that so that was

701
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 3: bad enough. You know, the people with the same joke

702
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 3: three thousand times I'm talking about my mentions. It was

703
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 3: I muted the whole fucking conversation, the.

704
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 2: Replies to the conversation.

705
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 3: It was and like it was the one time that

706
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, all the famous people who follow

707
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 3: me but never retweet me comment all of a sudden,

708
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 3: It's like Jamel Hill wants to say something, fonteble wont

709
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 3: to say something breaking god Man's won't.

710
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: So it's in that timeline. So so so it brings

711
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: other people.

712
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, like everybody that's black in America knew I

713
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 3: had a baby snake in my.

714
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 2: House in the water somewhere.

715
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 3: And so uh then I was like, all right, all right,

716
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 3: calm down, rid like it's weird.

717
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: I never really painted. I think maybe that's what forty is.

718
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

719
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 3: Like you started getting close to forty, you just like,

720
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 3: it's a fucking baby snake. It's not gonna do anything.

721
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: Oh god, that's what you say.

722
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well it is a fucking baby snake

723
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 3: and it's not gonna do anything.

724
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 1: That's true. But when you say calm down, I don't

725
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: know how I would have respond. But I don't know what.

726
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 2: It was me.

727
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 3: I'm just telling you how I responded. Maybe this is

728
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:13,720
Speaker 3: maybe this is for me, but you know, plus likes anyway.

729
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 3: So it crawled it to the wall. I had already

730
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 3: sprayed it, so I know it's gonna die. It takes

731
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 3: a while for was spray to kill a a small

732
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: uh animal like reptile like that, but it does kill him.

733
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 2: Now, I'm sorry.

734
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 3: The other part people that were just getting my fucking

735
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 3: nerves all the all of a sudden, animals rights activist

736
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 3: niggas that was like, just talk to the snake like

737
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 3: as a person or some shit.

738
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 2: I'll just ask you to leave my house. May fuck you.

739
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 3: Oh well, what I would do is just let it

740
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 3: stay in my house. Nigga, you let snake stay in

741
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 3: your house. I would never come to your crib ever.

742
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 3: Are you serious? Just snakes roaming for in your crib?

743
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: Nasty ass, weird person who does that?

744
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my rat snake over there.

745
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 3: Don't worry about him, he's just sitting over there, watching us,

746
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 3: watching insecure.

747
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 2: No, I won't come there. And if you have a

748
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: house with snakes in it, you better fucking tell me

749
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: before you invite me over, because I will fuck you

750
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: up if I sketch a snake in your house and

751
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: you try to act like that's some normal ass.

752
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 1: Just living past my feet and I'm supposed to be

753
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: cool with it.

754
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 3: Weirdolse, Oh my god, Like snake's molting over your house

755
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 3: and shiit, what's wrong with y'all? Anyway, So people was like, yeah,

756
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: I would just let it stay. I was like, yeah,

757
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 3: because it's not your fucking house. I guarantee none of

758
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 3: your houses have fucking snakes living there. You fucking liars,

759
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 3: You weird fucking liars.

760
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: And if you do, is in some form of a captivity.

761
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: Right, Well, it's more scared of you than you're scared

762
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 2: of it. Well, okay, cool man, can you talk into

763
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,240
Speaker 2: the bucket? You know, the people call animal control.

764
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 3: If I call animal control for a three inch snake,

765
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 3: they're gonna laugh my ass out of the fucking apartment building.

766
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 3: Not to mention the shit is in the wall. Now,

767
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 3: what they're gonna do take apart in my fucking wall.

768
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: They're gonna get there, they're gonna go where's the snake,

769
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 3: gonna say it crawled in the fucking wall.

770
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 2: They'll be like, yeah, well, okay, what the fuck you

771
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 2: want me to do? I like a fucking electrician. Good luck.

772
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 3: So what I did instead was I went and got

773
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 3: some like traps and shit for snakes, like blue traps

774
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 3: and shit, because one I think is dead. But my

775
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 3: thing was what happened was people made me paranoid because

776
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 3: they was like, what if it's a baby snake and

777
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: like the mama laid the nest of snakes in your wall.

778
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 3: I'm like, for real, that could happen, and you know,

779
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 3: everything I looked up was like, no, it can't. But

780
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 3: that was just it was a hive of bad information.

781
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: So I was just like, well, just in fucking case,

782
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know the rules of snakes.

783
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: You know, but snakes aren't really like motherly creatures, Like

784
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 3: they don't take care of their fucking snakes like they

785
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 3: you know, snakes. The snakes are like the bad kids

786
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 3: and minus the society and shit. Ah, like, get your

787
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 3: fucking snakes out the street, you know. So apparently like

788
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: the mom doesn't lay a nest of snakes and then

789
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 3: just watch over them niggas forever. It's like, you better

790
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 3: get out of here, for I each you. I'm kind

791
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 3: of hungry. I just gave birth, you know. They just

792
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 3: had some eggs and fucking like crawl off. They don't

793
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 3: even like sit over their eggs and warm them or nothing.

794
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: They don't have nobody's temperature, right, so.

795
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 3: It's probably just by itself somehow got in through that hole.

796
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: And uh, but that fucking slither.

797
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 3: Of a sliver of a hole between the fucking cabinet

798
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 3: and in the fucking wall. That which makes sense because

799
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 3: sometimes we'll see millipedes in a house, like once, like

800
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 3: once every month or two, I see a millipede.

801
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, how the fuck did you get in my house?

802
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: Right? Because at first I thought I was coming up

803
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: to drain.

804
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, yeah, you're crawling up. But see, millipedes aren't

805
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 3: like they're not like house c and piece. They're not athletic.

806
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 3: They're like they can't jump, they don't move fast. They

807
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 3: like they're like they're whack as fucked dog.

808
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 2: They like that. So I'm like, how what are you doing?

809
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 2: Cause it's like you're obviously crawling in, Like are you

810
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 2: crawling under the door, Like what the fuck are you

811
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: doing to get in my house? You know?

812
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 3: And they just be in the house chilling like whom

813
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 3: the dude? Like, I don't think they bite or anything.

814
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 3: They move slow, they're not poisons, and like I just

815
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 3: always use the fucking dust been paying from the from

816
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 3: the broom and just put it underneath from the crawl

817
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 3: right on top of it, and right I'll dumped ass

818
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 3: right in the trash and be like going outside.

819
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's like, but those motherfuckers, Like I'm like

820
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: how they getting in And I'm wondering if that was

821
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: it like something like that right anyway?

822
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 1: Man?

823
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 3: So then I so I put in a request to

824
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 3: the maintenance people, like yeall niggas need to come fix

825
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,439
Speaker 3: this fucking hole in this wall, what the fuck?

826
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 2: And I put down and then I went.

827
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 3: To to home depot bought some glue traps, put them

828
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:39,959
Speaker 3: down in the house.

829
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 2: Really just more of a peace of mind because I.

830
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 3: Don't expect to catch anything on them, like that snagg

831
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 3: is long gone and dead.

832
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: But I was like, you know, just in case.

833
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: Shit, the most you might catch is my foot for

834
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: me fucking forgetting this down there.

835
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 2: Be careful those things. They'll make your foot go to.

836
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 1: Sleep, right, So I'll be chilling to look down.

837
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because one time I w the first time we

838
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: had that mouse in our house two three years ago,

839
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,720
Speaker 3: and I caught that mouse. I touched on those glue traps,

840
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 3: trying to like just with my finger, trying to like

841
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 3: put it down. I didn't mean to, and then my finger,

842
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 3: my finger was numb for a minute. I was like, shit,

843
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 3: tried to kill my finger. Talking about no insta kill. Okay,

844
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 3: I'm not a rap, but if I land on that shit,

845
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 3: I'm dead. Come on anyway, So I put it down,

846
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 3: you know, And they said leave them in the house

847
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 3: for a few days, the traps, and then move them

848
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 3: around if you don't catch anything.

849
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: Whatever.

850
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 3: I don't expect to catch anything but I just did

851
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 3: it anyway because it's just that that shit was just weird.

852
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 3: But yeah, it didn't freak me out or anything like,

853
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 3: I still use use the same bathroom all that stuff.

854
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 3: I don't think it's gonna happen again. But uh, then

855
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 3: the maintenance people came and they talked over the whole

856
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 3: the day and he was.

857
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,919
Speaker 2: Like, I'm sorry, man. I was like, it's all good,

858
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 2: Like it's not like you did it right.

859
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: How would you know? Nobody would have known that it

860
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 1: could have scored, it could have fit through that.

861
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 2: Now.

862
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 3: I did get super paranoid from I just started googling

863
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 3: everything because anything snake related. I was just like, let

864
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 3: me look this shit up, like what's going on? And

865
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 3: probably the biggest one that was weird to me was

866
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 3: because I also people was just going over snake stories and

867
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 3: shipping my mentions on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter, and

868
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 3: I was like, I should have never told y'all. But

869
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,840
Speaker 3: one person was like, yeah, one time we had a

870
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 3: snake and it was a mama snake and it gave

871
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 3: birth to some snakes. And I went it to my

872
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,240
Speaker 3: closet and I seen it was crawling into.

873
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 2: My boot, just just like.

874
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: Like the mama snake was calling into my boot, so

875
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 3: I put a towel in the boot and like the

876
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 3: trap it in there called my husband told them to

877
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 3: come in and take care of the snake. And I

878
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 3: was like, why would you tell me that? Ah, Like,

879
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 3: I just want you to be prepared a case. I'm like, no,

880
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: there's no way to be prepared for any of what

881
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 3: you just told me. And now I'm like, this is

882
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 3: just like a mama fucking snake living in my shoes.

883
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: Like right, I need gump out my shoes out.

884
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: Now what kind of shit is this?

885
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 1: Man?

886
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 3: Like you know that, like if people are just doing

887
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: shit to make me paranoid and Ship, which is the

888
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 3: biggest assholes on the planet. So it's just a bunch

889
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: of unhelpful ass like people just stressing me out and

890
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 3: making me, uh, you know, paranoid about snakes and Ship

891
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 3: shout out to shout out to all my Twitter followers

892
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 3: and Facebook jokesters and ship. But yeah, so that was

893
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: kind of that was my day, just trapping snakes, trying

894
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 3: trying to get them out of my house and stuff.

895
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 2: So anyway that happened, people was like, what happened with

896
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 2: the snake? And that's it. That's the update.

897
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 3: And then get a mongoose, get a cat, get her

898
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: this I'm like, for what, you know, like one, how

899
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 3: the cat gonna know the fucking snake is in the

900
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 3: bathroom like this.

901
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: Like the cats got fucking six cents. They don't give

902
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: a fuck about that ship. Like get the fuck out

903
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 2: of my face, you know, like like.

904
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: And that's something else.

905
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 3: I gotta take him right and also I gotta clean

906
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 3: up the mongoose fight.

907
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: This is why we don't have no animals, Like.

908
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of here. I will spray that

909
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: ship with a waspray because it kills everything. Ain't neither

910
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 3: you escorted off the premises, homie, come on yourself out

911
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:20,879
Speaker 3: or I will get you out.

912
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:21,720
Speaker 2: Those are the choices.

913
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:23,280
Speaker 1: Neither one of us got a little box.

914
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, by the way, that was spray kills like venomous rattlesnakes.

915
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 2: That's why I looked it up.

916
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 3: And police departments were actually giving their police officers wasp

917
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 3: spray to kill rattlesnakes, so they didn't have to get

918
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 3: right up on the rattlesnake and you know, try to

919
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 3: shoot it or hit it with something, right, So, yeah,

920
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 3: it was it was kind of you know, it was

921
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: it was kind of just a Harrying experience, quote unquote.

922
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 3: But I was proud of myself for staying calm through

923
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 3: the whole prod you do, because, like I said, it

924
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 3: was such a tiny fucking nate And if I would

925
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 3: have known that I could, if I would have felt

926
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,240
Speaker 3: confident that there was a way to get it into

927
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 3: like the bucket or something without because I did try

928
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 3: to get it in that bucket, but if I would

929
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 3: have been confident, like there's a way to get this

930
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 3: shit in this bucket without like harming it, I really

931
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 3: would have tried to be honest, but it's a fucking

932
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 3: snake and it's an animal. It's not you know, this

933
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 3: is not a fucking like person or some shit. Like

934
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 3: I hate how people were talking like, you know, you

935
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 3: could just walk.

936
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: Up to it in animal whisper.

937
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 3: Fucking white people, man, they're just talking like you can

938
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 3: just fucking walk up to it and be like, hey,

939
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 3: hey shaking buddy. Hey, I know we don't know each

940
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 3: other and you're probably scared. You in this big house,

941
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 3: you're not supposed to be here, But if you wouldn't

942
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 3: mind hop in the bucket, I'll transfer you outside. You

943
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 3: go out in the woods and you have some fun,

944
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 3: all right, buddy, Like, that's not how the fuck that

945
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 3: shit was gonna work.

946
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 2: It's a fucking snake dog. And I don't come from

947
00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 2: snake country and I don't hang.

948
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,280
Speaker 3: With snake all right. I don't even like snake people.

949
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 3: Of course, I'm not gonna like a snake snake, you know.

950
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 3: I don't wanna keep a snake pet. Oh now you

951
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 3: got a little pet, why don't you name it? Ha ha

952
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 3: ha pet deeds? Get the fuck out of my mentions. Weirdos,

953
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,439
Speaker 3: fucking weirdos, Oh my god.

954
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,760
Speaker 1: And the ladies said today one of the lady suggests

955
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: about popcorn. She was like, I don't eat pop going,

956
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: you know, because she was like, my daughter don't eat popcorn.

957
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: But you was talking about like a popcorn substitute called

958
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 1: pirate booty, And I was like, okay, I'll try it,

959
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: but you know, it's probably not It probably tastes nothing

960
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: like pop going. All right, Well, I'm just adding that

961
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: in there when you talk aout useless information.

962
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 2: Mm hmm yep. Yeah.

963
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 3: Somebody wrote the show this week and told me I

964
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 3: need to tell you all my random thoughts before we

965
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 3: go on the air, because sometimes you just go off

966
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 3: on tangents and talk about stuff and they feel like

967
00:46:55,920 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: you look stupid because you ruining the random thoughts mm hmm.

968
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 3: They wrote that as a comment into the show, and you.

969
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 2: Know what I gotta say about that.

970
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 3: One, that's the fun of the Random Thoughts is that

971
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck Karen gonna say, and

972
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 3: she don't know what I'm gonna say. Two, I don't

973
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 3: like she's just reacting with the audience. And three karens

974
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 3: wild come so vocal over the course of this podcast,

975
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 3: and I think that's the beauty of the show is

976
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 3: that Karen just does what the fuck she wants. Like

977
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 3: I have plans and stuff in my head to go

978
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 3: one way, but Karen, Like, I like that you're vocal.

979
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 3: I like that you're uh confident in your point of view.

980
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 3: You're confident in your and what's funny to you, you're

981
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 3: confident in your stories. And a lot of times what

982
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 3: people don't realize about the random thoughts thing, the random

983
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 3: thoughts thing is very hard when there's no reaction from

984
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 3: the other person, like you're not just like I like,

985
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 3: I need the feedback I need to bounce off because

986
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,280
Speaker 3: I need to know that this is connecting and making sense.

987
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 3: And a lot of times it's about timing, and you

988
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 3: allow me time to build up the joke. So even

989
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 3: if the joke becomes quote unquote ruined or you beat

990
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 3: the punchline, then that's the new joke. Like this is

991
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 3: all fucking freestyle right here, y'all are listening.

992
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 1: Because my mind is processing the whole time too.

993
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 3: You don't have to explain. I'm saying like this is

994
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 3: there's no need to explain. It should be fucking apparent,

995
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like this is watching you know,

996
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: two people try to throw an alley loop on the

997
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 3: break right.

998
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 2: It's jazz, baby, it's jazz.

999
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 3: And I don't want to do a scripted, ass stoic

1000
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 3: show like so many other shows, or it's stilted and

1001
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 3: you can tell they got like pre responses, responses and

1002
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 3: it's all planned out and I'll.

1003
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: Say this and then you say that, and.

1004
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 3: We're gonna cut out this this airtime in the audio

1005
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 3: and we're gonna do this like nah, man, we just

1006
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 3: you're listening to me and my wife talk about the

1007
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 3: shit that we think about and the shit that we

1008
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 3: read about that that's all you get as a promise.

1009
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 2: And Karen does not look stupid.

1010
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 3: She just doesn't know where I'm going with the joke,

1011
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 3: because nobody knows where I'm going with the fucking joke.

1012
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 3: That's the point, you know, Like, I don't I don't

1013
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 3: want to do somebody else's show. I like this show

1014
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 3: and sometimes it comes together and it's beautiful, and sometimes

1015
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,800
Speaker 3: it comes together and it's awkward, but it's always real

1016
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 3: and even when it's awkward, it's still something beautiful and

1017
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 3: funny about that. So chill the fuck out. I'm sorry

1018
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 3: to jumping in business before we even get to the

1019
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: feedback show, but I was like, who the fuck are

1020
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 3: you talking about?

1021
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: Stupid? That she don't look stupid, Like, stop.

1022
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 3: Putting that shit, Stop putting your perception on the show.

1023
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 3: Like it's a weird thing to say. All right, buddy,

1024
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 3: to watch gotta watch it man anyway.

1025
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:51,240
Speaker 1: And guess what you don't have to Yeah.

1026
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 3: Well the other thing too, is Karen, one of things

1027
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 3: that makes you so funny is that you don't really

1028
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 3: care about certain shit in the way that other people

1029
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 3: care about it, and it kind of people will let

1030
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 3: an ego ruin a joke so fast. Yes, it's like

1031
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 3: I don't want to look this way. I don't want

1032
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 3: to be the I never want to be the butt

1033
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 3: of the joke. I never want to be the straight

1034
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 3: man to a joke. I never want to be the

1035
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 3: person that delivers a punchline that's not funny.

1036
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:17,959
Speaker 2: I never want to deliver a pun.

1037
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 3: It doesn't you know, like puns are this and that,

1038
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 3: and Karens is kind of like I'm with everything. Let's go,

1039
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 3: and that's what makes it fun, you know. And sometimes

1040
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 3: the random thoughts aren't always jokes, you know, so you know,

1041
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 3: it kind of helps that. So yeah, you know, I'm

1042
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 3: not trying to say anything mean to the person, but

1043
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 3: I just wanted to reiterate like that's kind of ridiculous,

1044
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 3: like Karen's here to Karen's here as half of the show,

1045
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 3: and it's not just the same way when she does

1046
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 3: random thoughts. It's just been a while she'll do random

1047
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 3: thoughts sometimes like I'm not gonna be up here stepping

1048
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 3: on them or telling her that, you know, like or

1049
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 3: acting like I know where she's going with it when

1050
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 3: I you know, I don't know.

1051
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 2: We'll see, we'll get that together. You know, that's her thing.

1052
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 2: She'll just jump on up. She'll just jump on on

1053
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 2: the track and do a guitar solo sometimes and I

1054
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 2: and that's and then that's fun too. We just we

1055
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 2: just bounce off of each other, yes and not no,

1056
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 2: but all right, yeah.

1057
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: Because my mind ticks all kind of But like I said,

1058
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: I haven't done that in a while. Periodically should happened.

1059
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: And I'll just jotted down sometimes and come in with serpents. Yeah,

1060
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 1: I haven't done that in a while.

1061
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, my point being like we're here

1062
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 3: to support each other, so you know, and and and

1063
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,320
Speaker 3: it would be kind of corny to do. In my opinion,

1064
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 3: it wouldn't be authentic to the show to start doing

1065
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 3: random thoughts for caring knows, all the jokes and all that.

1066
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: Ship, because then if she laughs.

1067
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 2: Then it's not a genuine moment.

1068
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 3: If she's laughing, I don't know, y'all can't hear when

1069
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 3: when somebody shows fake?

1070
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: Is it just me? I at podcasts when it ain't real?

1071
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 2: And yeah, you can tell when it's.

1072
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,080
Speaker 1: Just like when they don't like each other, you and

1073
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: tell where they don't get along, you can tell.

1074
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 3: Well, you can tell when it's just heavily edited and

1075
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,919
Speaker 3: manufactured to like I say this, you say that, then

1076
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: you say this, and then it's like, well just read

1077
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: the script, niggas. I don't want to hear this. All right,

1078
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 3: let's get into the news. Uh so lovey a JII

1079
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 3: I think that's right A yeah, awesomely lovey. Y'all know her.

1080
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:29,760
Speaker 3: She wrote a whole essay about that whole Twitter dragon

1081
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 3: she experienced. I'm saying that Tavin Campbell basically did not

1082
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 3: have the range.

1083
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 1: Oh no, before you go on, huh, I'm sorry. The

1084
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: more I'm thinking about it, uh well, yeah, you you

1085
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:45,399
Speaker 1: said enough for something else. I'm gonna say on top

1086
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 1: of this dog, just so you know, and you pot

1087
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: to know this, I'm not stupid, right, And the more

1088
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: and more I thought about what you said, I'm not stupid.

1089
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 1: You listen to me, I don't listen to you, And

1090
00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I hate to keep it real like this.

1091
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: Don't you come over here? And like I said before,

1092
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 1: and I missed it, you don't have to listen. It's

1093
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: always optional.

1094
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's such a like I'm trying not to take

1095
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 3: a personal but it's such an insulting turn or phrase

1096
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 3: to even phrase it the way that it was phrase,

1097
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 3: you know, like I can go find the exact comment.

1098
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 3: But it was kind of like nah, like you, it's

1099
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 3: almost like that Dan Levatard thing. You don't get the

1100
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 3: show like that, Like, Okay, Karen doesn't know where I'm

1101
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 3: going with my next comment. That's fine. Sometimes I don't

1102
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 3: know what Karen's going with the things she's saying. That's

1103
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,720
Speaker 3: that's part of the show too. Yeah, it was crazy,

1104
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 3: Broke Negro said, Rod. Because you brief Karen before the show,

1105
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 3: especially before random thoughts, she never understands a joke. It

1106
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 3: makes it and it makes her look stupid out here.

1107
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 3: Don't disrespect our Karen. They try to frame it like

1108
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 3: mm hmm, you know.

1109
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and and in my opinion, it's one of

1110
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: those things to where a lot of a lot of

1111
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: times like these negative comments like this not turning funny,

1112
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: they don't ever be aimed at.

1113
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 3: You, right, well, this one is kind of they trying

1114
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 3: to make it seem like it's aimed at me, like Roger,

1115
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 3: you did this to Karen.

1116
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 2: You didn't put her up on the joke before you told.

1117
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: The joke, and and and the thing is also it

1118
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: was one of them things like as I really sit down,

1119
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: I think I'm thinking about it. It's one of them things.

1120
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: Like I said before, a lot of people like like

1121
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: like this would be somebody that would be like, well,

1122
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm just giving a positive, positive critique. No the fuck

1123
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: you ain't, like, don't nobody asks for that.

1124
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I think they also feel like it was awkward.

1125
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 2: Karen didn't know where this joke was going right away.

1126
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 3: She started talking about something else, and then Rod let

1127
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 3: her talked the whole time, and then he went.

1128
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:48,959
Speaker 2: Back to the joke.

1129
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: You're supposed to control me, right.

1130
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 3: Also, they put themselves in your shoes, Like I would

1131
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 3: feel awkward if I went on the tangent and had

1132
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 3: nothing to do with the joke. Karen doesn't care about

1133
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 3: that shit. So you know, that's the difference, Like, don't

1134
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 3: worry about Karen feeling awkward.

1135
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 2: She don't give a fuck.

1136
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 3: Like as soon as I got back to the joke,

1137
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 3: She's like, oh, that's what you mean, And then we

1138
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 3: laughed at that.

1139
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 2: Like aha, that's what we do, you know.

1140
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 3: But I think it's a lot of projection in that

1141
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 3: kind of stuff, correct, And but yeah, just as a

1142
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 3: general rule, you know, I don't have any animosity towards

1143
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 3: the person, but I would not no, not briefing, caring

1144
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 3: about the articles, formatt and and the shit. She's kind

1145
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 3: of like a stand in for the artist. The thing

1146
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 3: that I hate is explaining the joke or explaining the

1147
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 3: show to people. But it has to happen sometimes because

1148
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 3: you know, maybe it's not the show for them, or

1149
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 3: maybe they just really just liked the moment of the

1150
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,720
Speaker 3: show or something. I don't know, but yeah, it happens.

1151
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 3: You know, you're listening to a couple. We talk every day.

1152
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 3: We do the show three, four or five times a week.

1153
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 3: Not every random thought is gonna be as tight as

1154
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 3: it should be. Not every segment is gonna about perfectly.

1155
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:04,959
Speaker 3: Not every discussion is gonna go like a CNN thing.

1156
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 3: But that's why our show is different. That's what makes

1157
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 3: our show special. So yeah, it just felt like concern

1158
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 3: trolling right right under. It's like trying to say Karen

1159
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 3: looks stupid without and put it on me somehow. But

1160
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 3: it's still another way to kind of just you have

1161
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 3: to look at it from my respective, it's just another

1162
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 3: way to try to like knock down Karen is on

1163
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 3: some like she's stupid shit, you know, right, well she

1164
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 3: looks stupid and which I disagree with on bo accounts obviously.

1165
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: Right, And so you know, it's just one of those

1166
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: things that a lot of people do this where they

1167
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: talk to you and interact with you and to almost

1168
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: get a response out of you by quote unquote attacking

1169
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: the weak girl. Linkuage is me, you know, but it's

1170
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: one of those things where we've been doing this long enough.

1171
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm not new to this, so you ain't the first

1172
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 1: person and you won't be the last person to come

1173
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: my way with some foodishness. And I guarante fucking to you,

1174
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: this is not something that you would say to my

1175
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: goddamn face. You know, keep that rear with that. You know,

1176
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: it's real cute to do it like this, but you

1177
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,240
Speaker 1: would not say that to my face.

1178
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also like this, And we've had this with

1179
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 3: multiple people that have kind of critiqued the show and

1180
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 3: it's in a different manner, but they always try to

1181
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 3: like that's speaking for everybody, but they're just speaking for them.

1182
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 2: This is your hang up. Everybody didn't write the show.

1183
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 3: Everybody didn't hit us on Twitter or whatever, like you know,

1184
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 3: they recognize a live show. You're watching us freestyle and

1185
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 3: experiment and improv a lot of this stuff, and you know,

1186
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 3: sometimes it's gonna pop off and sometimes it's not, you know.

1187
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 2: But go ahead.

1188
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's also one of those things too. Like,

1189
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: like I said before, and I will continue to say this,

1190
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: this show ain't for everybody. It ain't for everybody. And

1191
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: just as quick as you hit play, you can hit

1192
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: stop and go on somewhere else. It's plenty of people

1193
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: that because we've been doing this for years. It's plenty

1194
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: of people who found homes of the places, and I

1195
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: just want you to find a home. It might not

1196
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: be here.

1197
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so hupefully it is just an awkward moment.

1198
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 3: And that person can understand how it looks from our

1199
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 3: perspective since they did write in and they wanted to

1200
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 3: be heard. But even the phrasing of that man like

1201
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 3: even it just wasn't even I don't know, it just was.

1202
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 3: It just felt I don't know if they how they

1203
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 3: meant it, but it feels like an insult towards Karen.

1204
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 3: Frame like it's trying to guide me towards something, but

1205
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 3: it feels more like it's about well, Karen didn't get

1206
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,440
Speaker 3: this joke. Okay, it's one joke out of the fucking

1207
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 3: to our show.

1208
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: It's a lot of jokes out of get and truth

1209
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: be told. I personally think a lot of people that

1210
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: kind of critique certain ways, particularly like this a lot

1211
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: of times at that controlling thing. How dare you not

1212
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: you know, control the woman on the show? How because

1213
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 1: it bothers a lot of people that you just kind

1214
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: of let me freestyle and free range and do what

1215
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: I want to do and say what I want to

1216
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: say without quote unquote wrangling me back in. You know

1217
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: that bothers people to an extent? How dare you let

1218
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: a woman be free?

1219
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1220
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 3: I mean it's it's not and then yeah, anyway, I

1221
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 3: just found that to be kind of you know, when

1222
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 3: we talk about feedback, we talk about response and stuff

1223
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 3: like you know, this is the kind of stuff like

1224
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 3: I want people to consider, like before you even send

1225
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 3: it in, just think about it, because you know, we've

1226
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 3: I've had other stuff, you know, and this I don't

1227
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 3: even think this was just this is very short. This

1228
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 3: isn't even the harshest thing anyone's ever saying. Nope, you know,

1229
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm not I've had I've read this two or three

1230
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 3: days ago, and I just it's been in my mind

1231
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 3: ever since they wrote it, and I just been like,

1232
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 3: this does not sit.

1233
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 2: Well with me, but I don't want to.

1234
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 3: I didn't want to like get angry at them custom

1235
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:55,439
Speaker 3: out to get defensive and insecure about it, like, nah,

1236
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 3: you know, I'm fine with the show. You know, sometimes

1237
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 3: random thoughts are gonna be random, and sometimes they're not

1238
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 3: even funny, so you know, Karen doesn't know it's a

1239
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 3: joke or not.

1240
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 2: To be honest, some of my fun jokes and some

1241
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: of them are just serious, but uh, and.

1242
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 1: Some of them make serious because I don't get it

1243
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: as a joke right.

1244
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 3: And and also a lot of times anything I joke

1245
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 3: about there's a tangent seriousness to it, So there's a

1246
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 3: discussion to be had in many cases even though I'm joking,

1247
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 3: you know so, and I want us to have the

1248
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 3: show that can do that.

1249
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 2: You know that we can. We can stop in the

1250
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 2: middle of a joke and be like, hold up, this.

1251
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 3: Is more important than the joke, come on, or you know, well,

1252
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 3: this is Karen's contribution, This is her tangent to the joke.

1253
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 2: And I do it to Karen too.

1254
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 3: It's just been a while because the most important thing

1255
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 3: is we're both contributing, you know.

1256
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: Uh, anyway, all that stuff to.

1257
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: Say, Yeah, I didn't mean to interrupt, but that that

1258
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: that crossed my mind, like you was reading, I was like,

1259
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: let me catch it now while it's on my mind.

1260
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: Nah.

1261
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: I mean it really made me think about something when

1262
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 3: they wrote that comment, which is how much you've excelled

1263
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 3: and taken to the show and really making it yours. Like, yeah,

1264
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: you know, it used to be a time where somebody

1265
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 3: would have wrote something in like that one. I would

1266
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 3: have felt angered on your behalf to like try to

1267
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 3: take them to task, and I probably would have been

1268
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 3: cussing and mad and went on the rant, which you

1269
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 3: know kind of talks about my own insecurity around it

1270
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 3: or my own like defensiveness around it. I guess the

1271
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 3: best place to put it because this is our baby.

1272
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 3: You know, we both care about it. We both talk

1273
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 3: speak about this all the time, we both work on it.

1274
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 3: But it's ours, you know, it's not everybody else's ours.

1275
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 3: So we care about it a lot. And you know,

1276
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 3: if people feel a certain way and they critique it,

1277
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 3: that's gonna happen, you know, people are gonna feel, you know,

1278
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 3: not everything's gonna pass, you know, every everybody's whatever. But

1279
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 3: what I was thinking was like, you know, sometimes during

1280
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 3: the show, you'll kind of like run rough shot over like.

1281
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:07,919
Speaker 2: A point to make your point.

1282
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 3: And I think a lot of people because and I

1283
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: don't think they do it consciously.

1284
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 2: I think it's subconsciously.

1285
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 3: A lot of people are very uncomfortable with the idea

1286
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 3: of a woman would just be like, I'm gonna talk

1287
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 3: about what the fuck I want to talk about right now,

1288
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 3: Like what you said reminded me of something else, and

1289
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 3: now I'm about to.

1290
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 2: Spend the next five to ten minutes talking about that

1291
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: and me and we do it all the time. You

1292
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 2: do constantly.

1293
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 3: You know, it's not even a thing Like I've never

1294
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 3: had anyone really complain about it too much. Some people,

1295
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 3: you know, they do it to an extreme and they

1296
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 3: try to like take over everything, make everything about them,

1297
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 3: and obviously that can be annoying. Karen doesn't do that.

1298
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,919
Speaker 3: But even with that, we had guests that do that.

1299
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 3: That's their specialty. And we think it's funny or we'll

1300
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 3: just laugh at all or whatever and keep it moving,

1301
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 3: but we won't really get letters about them or no

1302
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 3: one writes in to say I hate it when you

1303
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 3: had this guest on why they keep derailing all the

1304
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 3: jokes while they keep doing this or whatever, you know,

1305
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 3: like if it's a dude, we never get those. If

1306
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 3: it's a woman, almost every time we get you know,

1307
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 3: so and so was saying this, so she made this

1308
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 3: joke and it wasn't that, and you know, it's like

1309
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 3: people get more comfortable critique and women.

1310
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 2: But I'm very like proud of your growth via the show.

1311
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 3: I'm very proud of how vocal you are, and I

1312
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 3: like that you come in and you're just like, I

1313
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 3: have this point to say, because I don't want to

1314
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 3: be a person that's just monopolizing the mic, speaking.

1315
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 2: Over you, cutting you off.

1316
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 3: When you bring up a point, just being like uh whatever.

1317
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 3: I was already speaking like I was saying da da da,

1318
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to be that person, you know

1319
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 3: what I mean? And I do want to listen to

1320
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,600
Speaker 3: you and add on like it's something I work on

1321
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 3: to try to get better at. Cause I still have

1322
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 3: my times where I'm like, Okay, I don't know where

1323
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 3: Karen's going with this. What the fuck toothbrush pops on.

1324
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 3: We didn't talk about any of this before the show, no, not,

1325
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 3: you know, and then I'm like, okay, all right, well

1326
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 3: that that's what Karen wanted to talk about. But it's

1327
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 3: her show too, you know, so that's kind of That's

1328
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 3: kind of something that I thought about, was, you know,

1329
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 3: even though I felt the comment was a little haphazardly worded,

1330
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 3: I hope, you know, at best, you know, maybe passive

1331
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 3: aggressive at worst, I guess, but.

1332
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 2: You know, trying to you know, trying to.

1333
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 3: Consider give people benefit of doubt, considered the good, you know,

1334
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 3: rather than just the bad of like you know, so

1335
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 3: I'm looking at it that way. I'm like, well, maybe

1336
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 3: they just they gave me an opportunity to reflect on

1337
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 3: just your growth as a person that the show's named

1338
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 3: the Blackoutips because you weren't sure you wanted to be.

1339
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:48,959
Speaker 2: On the show.

1340
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I'd be a producer.

1341
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were quick to be out.

1342
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 3: If you want to get a new host, I'm not

1343
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 3: going to be good at this, and you've really blossomed

1344
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 3: into this. So so you know what it made me

1345
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 3: think about all the progress and all the confidence and

1346
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 3: the puns and the jokes you make, the fact that

1347
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 3: you know you're not well, you're not you have something

1348
01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 3: that I don't have, which is a lot of times

1349
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 3: you're willing to be like, well, if this thing fails

1350
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 3: and I tried, oh well at least I tried correct

1351
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 3: And I like to try to be good at everything

1352
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 3: before I attempt it, which is which a lot of

1353
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 3: times keeps me from taking chances on things that might

1354
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 3: turn out to be great.

1355
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 2: Right, because this is a life thing. This isn't just

1356
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 2: a podcast thing.

1357
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 3: So anyway, all that to say, like those are the

1358
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 3: qualities that you bring to the show, that it's just

1359
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 3: a different perspective, and the show wouldn't be the same

1360
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 3: without that perspective. It wouldn't be the same without you

1361
01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 3: being willing to try and fail. It wouldn't be the

1362
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 3: same without you being willing to add a point of

1363
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,440
Speaker 3: your own volition to the things that I'm saying, because

1364
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 3: we don't have the same perspective on everything, and we

1365
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 3: don't bring the same life experience to everything.

1366
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 2: And that is.

1367
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 3: What that building that people are hearing when people say,

1368
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 3: I listen to y'all show, and y'all don't argue like

1369
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 3: other shows. Y'all don't do that's because we're constantly trying

1370
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 3: to build up the conversation for each other, right, rather

1371
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 3: tear each other down or push each other out, or

1372
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 3: let me say my point. But I don't want to

1373
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 3: hear your point. I gotta have my point. I'm the

1374
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 3: one that's right, you're the one that's wrong. Like, we're

1375
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 3: trying to make something different, and sometimes it's gonna sound

1376
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 3: awkward because it's not gonna sound like anything else you're

1377
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 3: hearing anywhere else, right, And it's also one of those things,

1378
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 3: you know, it's funny how a lot of times people,

1379
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 3: you know, we've heard people say, y'all always agree.

1380
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 1: That's not so. We disagree on a lot of stuff,

1381
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: but we don't yell and scream and cuse each other

1382
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 1: out and call each other us names. But it's a

1383
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 1: lot of shit if you actually listen to us, we

1384
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: don't see our eye own some things.

1385
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like I said, it's to me, it's

1386
01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:56,919
Speaker 3: not even about seeing eye to eye disagreeing all this shit.

1387
01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:58,439
Speaker 2: I think that's some other people shit.

1388
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 3: It's more about trying to if I can understand where

1389
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 3: somebody's coming from and they're a reasonable person, I respect them.

1390
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 3: Ninety nine point nine percent in a time like, well, yeah,

1391
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 3: I see how you got there, you know what I mean,

1392
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 3: And that's all I care about. I don't really this

1393
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 3: this shit where it's like I beat you in an argument.

1394
01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 2: That shit is for the fucking birds.

1395
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 3: That's for seeing INN and MSNBC with their panel discussions

1396
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 3: like that is not how I see life, you know

1397
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 3: what I mean. And maybe other people see life that way,

1398
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 3: and you know, good luck to them. But I'm not

1399
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 3: one of those people like I would when we talked

1400
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 3: about the blurred shit.

1401
01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 2: I didn't go carrying you wrong change. I'm like, where

1402
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 2: are you coming from?

1403
01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 3: Where is this coming from? How did you get to

1404
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 3: this point? What's your what is your interactions with this? Hey,

1405
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 3: I used to feel this way, so maybe this is

1406
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 3: a thing where I'm gonna end up feeling this way again.

1407
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 3: Maybe I was right to feel this way in the

1408
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:51,680
Speaker 3: first place. Maybe you'll come to my side and be like,

1409
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 3: I don't feel this way anymore. You know, we both

1410
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 3: kind of you know, it's more about gaining an understanding

1411
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 3: for perspective. Right, That's different than this other fun ship

1412
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 3: that people are doing. Whereas let's let's both having debate

1413
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 3: and the winner will take.

1414
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 2: There's no winner in the debate. You know, this isn't

1415
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 2: a fucking no one's scoring this.

1416
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 1: You don't get a trophy.

1417
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just end up being angry at your wife

1418
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 2: the rest of the week, Like what the fuck is

1419
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:19,520
Speaker 2: this ship? Anyway? All Right? So Lovey.

1420
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 3: Wrote about her dragging on Twitter, where she got drug

1421
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 3: for saying that Tevin Campbell Deny had arranged to essentially.

1422
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: To uh singh a tribute for Retha Franklin, And.

1423
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 3: To be honest, it felt like it could have should

1424
01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 3: have probably ended there, you know what I mean, Like.

1425
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 2: People probably could have said, you.

1426
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 3: Know, hey, I disagree uh with Lovey on this and

1427
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:01,040
Speaker 3: just having six days ago at this point, hey, I

1428
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 3: disagree with her the end.

1429
01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:08,759
Speaker 2: But you know, Levy's not this. This is a trend

1430
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: with her over the years at this point.

1431
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:14,560
Speaker 3: She don't back down, like she basically doubles down on

1432
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 3: her shit right away. This happened with that light skinned

1433
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:21,720
Speaker 3: activist shit, you know, like she doubles down and then

1434
01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 3: people go, this is kind of fucked up, and then

1435
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 3: you know, the activist shit until like a week for

1436
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 3: her to like write an apology. And we talked about

1437
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 3: it on the short At the time, I was like,

1438
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 3: I mean, just you sound like you had a problem

1439
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 3: with some specific people. You talked about a big ass

1440
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,679
Speaker 3: group of people and lumped everybody in when you probably

1441
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 3: could have just said whoever's name it was, you don't

1442
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:43,760
Speaker 3: fuck with, and people would have been more understanding, like, oh,

1443
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 3: you don't.

1444
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 2: Like her, because guess what, there's a lot of people that.

1445
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 3: Don't like activists, like pick one. I guarantee you activists

1446
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 3: get drug on the daily, you know, like it, no

1447
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 3: matter who they are, you just pick one, and it's

1448
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,719
Speaker 3: gonna be somebody out there like I can't say that, motherfucker.

1449
01:09:57,760 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 3: Let me tell you about you know anyway. But it

1450
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 3: was the double down on that. People was like, yo,

1451
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 3: what you road was kind of fucked up? Da da da,

1452
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:09,759
Speaker 3: And then it was the double down. And then it's like, okay, well,

1453
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 3: now motherfuckers are mad because you're not listening to him,

1454
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 3: and you double them down and you stepping back at him.

1455
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 3: And then a week later it's like, I'm sorry, I

1456
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 3: shouldn't have said it that way, blah blah blah, you

1457
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:24,719
Speaker 3: know whatever. But yeah, so she said, someone suggested Tevin

1458
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:29,040
Speaker 3: Campbell to saing Aretha tribute under what rock did they

1459
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 3: pull that name from, to which people.

1460
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,719
Speaker 2: Are like, uh, what are you doing?

1461
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 3: Like Tevin Campbell's is the man and beloved, and everybody

1462
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 3: started coming to his defense and people famous people, everybody

1463
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 3: like no slander for this, that or other. She tried

1464
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 3: to explain that it wasn't shade that she was throwing,

1465
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 3: but that she was saying that she just didn't know

1466
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 3: what he had been up to, so that's why they said,

1467
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 3: like it wasn't men, it's disrespect to Tavin Campbell. I

1468
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 3: don't know how you can look at that.

1469
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: It's not disrespecting him. She put Tavin Campbell's trending.

1470
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 3: Lord, I know he can blow, but I haven't heard

1471
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 3: his name in a while. People took my tweet acting

1472
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 3: like I called his mama center. I ain't say he

1473
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 3: can't say. Folks added all this stuff to that one tweet.

1474
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 2: Shee saus. I don't know what that means, but yeah, so,

1475
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 2: and like the ratio on these tweets is hard.

1476
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 3: It's like seventy nine retweets two hundred and sixty replies,

1477
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 3: because it's just people being like, what the folk would

1478
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 3: you not gonna do?

1479
01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:43,560
Speaker 2: Clap Angelmoji.

1480
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 3: But yeah, so she wrote a whole like long ass

1481
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 3: essay about it on her thing and it's it's like

1482
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:03,920
Speaker 3: deflective shit man, Like, it's honestly, like, it's so weird

1483
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 3: because this could have all been solved with my bad y'all,

1484
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,719
Speaker 3: you know, especially because her brand is kind.

1485
01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 2: Of being judgy. I think her book is called I'm

1486
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 2: Judging You, you know.

1487
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:18,480
Speaker 3: You know, she kind of rose a lot of acclaim

1488
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 3: from like making fun of people who had typos and

1489
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:27,520
Speaker 3: faux pas on Twitter and shit, and you know, collecting

1490
01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 3: those and being like, ha ha, I look at this

1491
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 3: stupid person, you know, and by the way, rose to

1492
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 3: a claim on the on the same with the support

1493
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 3: of a lot of people that drag her now, but

1494
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 3: a lot of those drag culture type people were like

1495
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,479
Speaker 3: elevating her back when it you know, in two thousand

1496
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:46,799
Speaker 3: and eight, two thousand and nine or whatever.

1497
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,479
Speaker 2: That's kind of how she became lovey.

1498
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 3: Like people was out here supported her, a lot of

1499
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 3: black people that were American, a lot of black Twitter

1500
01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 3: black people in phase quote unquote, and she just branded

1501
01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 3: that and took it to the next level. Now she's

1502
01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 3: you know, a hustler like podcast or author for all

1503
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 3: this shit. Right. The thing is a lot of people

1504
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 3: don't like her place in the culture at this point

1505
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 3: because she's African and people feel like she shouldn't get

1506
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:20,400
Speaker 3: to speak for Black American people in our culture because

1507
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 3: she doesn't always understand it, and she's had more than.

1508
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:26,720
Speaker 2: A few like things that she said that people have.

1509
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 3: Been like, Yo, this is not the black experience. Why

1510
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 3: do you get to talk about this? You know, why

1511
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 3: do you get to get to Oh, why are you

1512
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 3: getting attention from the NAACP for essay about reparations? You

1513
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 3: don't know anything about this and you're talking about black

1514
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 3: people shouldn't get them allegedly. I've no one's seen this

1515
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 3: has been scrubbed for that, and I've never seen this essay,

1516
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:49,479
Speaker 3: but that's what people accused are of.

1517
01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 2: Also, stuff like.

1518
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 3: You know, you know this kind of shit like you

1519
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 3: fuck up some slang or some pop culture type shit

1520
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 3: that black people would in America in our culture, we like, nah,

1521
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 3: you don't say that, you know, or if you did

1522
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 3: say it, and everybody was like, the fuck you talking

1523
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 3: about you just be like, oh, my bad, y'all, my bad?

1524
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 3: You right, Tevika Blow, I'm tripping I'm tripping, uh, and

1525
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 3: you just move on, you know. And so she wrote

1526
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 3: this long thing that ended up turning into like what

1527
01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:19,480
Speaker 3: is blackness?

1528
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 2: Who is and isn't black? Are y'all y'all black? Checking

1529
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 2: me y'all saying Africans aren't black?

1530
01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 3: And like one is all over the place and kind

1531
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 3: of feel with some faulty what about is logic? But

1532
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:38,839
Speaker 3: most importantly like that's not what the fucking why couldn't

1533
01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 3: you just be like my bad? I don't understand, Like

1534
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:46,559
Speaker 3: if I really feel like the double down makes it worse,

1535
01:14:46,560 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 3: because if you don't understand how it's shady to say

1536
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 3: what rock did y'all pull that name from under? And

1537
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 3: Tevin Campbell's like Aretha Franklin's like friend and real life

1538
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 3: and shit, if you don't understand why that's offensive, then

1539
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:00,599
Speaker 3: what are you doing?

1540
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 2: Why that shady? Why can you? How can you speak

1541
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 2: for our culture? You know what I mean?

1542
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 3: Like, how can you like the average person's like, yeah,

1543
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:12,559
Speaker 3: I was being shady, y'all caught me. I didn't even

1544
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 3: think about that one, you know, But yeah, she wrote

1545
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 3: this thing, what is blackness? Is it based on where

1546
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 3: you're from? Is it based on your skin tone, Is

1547
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 3: it based on your heritage? Is it lived experience? What

1548
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:26,759
Speaker 3: is blackness? And caps as someone who's blackness is questioned

1549
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 3: loudly because a question I asked about a black American musician,

1550
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 3: I must ask it, by the way, the question being

1551
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 3: what rock did y'all.

1552
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:37,839
Speaker 2: Pull that name from? Under? Okay?

1553
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 3: It brought to the surface whether I was qualified to

1554
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 3: speak on Black American culture, and it also had some

1555
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 3: folks wondering if my blackness was enough chisos.

1556
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:48,200
Speaker 2: Like I said, I don't know what.

1557
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:52,759
Speaker 3: That means on some miss maybe some uh something uh

1558
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 3: to her African culture that I don't know about. In

1559
01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 3: the words of R and B songstress Deborah, how did

1560
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 3: you get here?

1561
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 2: Nobody supposed to be here.

1562
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 3: I'm Nigerian, born in American bread, havn't been here since

1563
01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:07,879
Speaker 3: I was nine years old. I'm now thirty three. At nine,

1564
01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 3: I knew nothing. I didn't even know how. I didn't

1565
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,200
Speaker 3: even know to define myself as black because I was

1566
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:15,320
Speaker 3: from a country where black is the default, so there's

1567
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:17,680
Speaker 3: no need to define it. It's like going to a

1568
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:19,680
Speaker 3: Catholic church. No one needs to say that Catholic. So

1569
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 3: coming to the US was my first time having to

1570
01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 3: deal with race. I had never heard about the Transatlantic

1571
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 3: slave trade because the schools in Nigeria we were learning

1572
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 3: about the Bia Friend War and how the country got

1573
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 3: colonized by the British and just got its independence in

1574
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 3: nineteen sixty.

1575
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 2: Well, I mean that is your black experience.

1576
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 3: That does not mean that black and African American or

1577
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 3: Black American culturally is the same shit it I mean,

1578
01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 3: it is what it is. You had a different experience,

1579
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 3: just like men and women have a different experience of blackness.

1580
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,639
Speaker 3: It's not to say one is necessarily better than the other,

1581
01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:03,639
Speaker 3: but you may be less connected to the culture despite

1582
01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 3: having grown up here for twenty four years as opposed

1583
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:11,840
Speaker 3: to someone who was born here. There's no disrespecting that.

1584
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 3: The disrespect, I feel like comes in with the double

1585
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 3: down and in this case, the reflection because we only

1586
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:22,960
Speaker 3: got to should you be the spokesperson by the fact

1587
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 3: that you weren't willing to listen to a bunch of

1588
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 3: black people. It wasn't like this shit just came up

1589
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:33,040
Speaker 3: out of nowhere. Although there are people that just don't

1590
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 3: fuck with her and can't wait for anything she says

1591
01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 3: so they can.

1592
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:38,040
Speaker 2: Hop on it. I'm not even really getting into those people.

1593
01:17:38,080 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 3: That's a whole nother fucking discussion, but just the general like,

1594
01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 3: because for dragging like this, it ain't just them ten

1595
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:46,600
Speaker 3: to twelve people that can't wait to.

1596
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 2: Drag your ass every day. There's a ton of people

1597
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 2: that are like, girl, what you're doing? You know what

1598
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:53,479
Speaker 2: I mean? It's a ton of those people.

1599
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: So, and there's a lot of people go I like

1600
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 1: Tyra Banks, I was rooting for you.

1601
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:01,840
Speaker 3: Right Moving to Chicago, place I visited once when I

1602
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,200
Speaker 3: was too little to remember much was jarring because it

1603
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:06,519
Speaker 3: was also my introduction to racial politics. Even so, the

1604
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 3: subject of slavery was barely taught in elementary and high schools.

1605
01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 2: I went to.

1606
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 3: You know, we talked about Harry Tubman, who was a

1607
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 3: matron saint of freedom but also a crutch for folks

1608
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:15,720
Speaker 3: to gloss over the depth of the heart she was

1609
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 3: fighting against. Of course, every Black History Month we had

1610
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:20,679
Speaker 3: to recite doctor Martin Luther King's I had a dream speech.

1611
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 3: It wasn't until I got to college at the University

1612
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:25,599
Speaker 3: of Illinois that I really got to explore deeply research

1613
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:29,520
Speaker 3: slavery and this impact on this country. My major was psychology,

1614
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 3: but I ended up having sociology minor cause I elected

1615
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:34,640
Speaker 3: to take so many classes around race and ethnicity in

1616
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 3: the United States. I wanted to know so much more.

1617
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 3: College was where I took a Black Women in the

1618
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,560
Speaker 3: US class. On the first day, the professor, who was

1619
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:44,200
Speaker 3: also now my mentor, kicked it off by saying, I

1620
01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:46,719
Speaker 3: know you're wondering why this Latino woman is teaching his class.

1621
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 2: I'm black.

1622
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 3: I'm just white with freckles. And also we're having to

1623
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 3: test on Valentine's Day because I'm single. Gosh, I love

1624
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 3: that class so much. Shout out to doctor Milwerd. College

1625
01:18:56,040 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 3: was where I first read a Cider Shakoras biography and

1626
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 3: left it indelible. Mark College was where I got trained

1627
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 3: to be a counseling center a para professional, and had

1628
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:07,800
Speaker 3: to spend the first semester of the program it swoing

1629
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:10,759
Speaker 3: all parts of my identity and identify my privilege. Before

1630
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 3: we could be peer counselors. We needed to be clear

1631
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 3: on who we were in the space we would take

1632
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 3: up in the world. This is a going a long

1633
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 3: way for my bad guys didn't realize this.

1634
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 2: Tevin Kempell, shit was that deep.

1635
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:26,839
Speaker 3: College is also where I reclaimed my priducts in Nigeria.

1636
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 3: Being an immigrant in the United States as a young girl,

1637
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 3: it's difficult coming here with a strong accent, strange name,

1638
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 3: and shock of being a new girl for the first time.

1639
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:36,760
Speaker 3: I was extra other. I, like many others, heard the

1640
01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 3: African bootiess gotch your insults. When you're young, being different

1641
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 3: is not a badge of honor, you celebrate. I lost

1642
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 3: most of my accent by the time I started college

1643
01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 3: by mimicking the way my classmates folks, and I tucked

1644
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:51,959
Speaker 3: away my first name to protect it from those.

1645
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:52,679
Speaker 2: Who made it ugly.

1646
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:55,760
Speaker 3: When I got to undergrad and saw West Africans being

1647
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:58,719
Speaker 3: unapologetically themselves, it inspired me to do the same.

1648
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:02,679
Speaker 2: I ended up as vice president of the African Cultural Association. Now, see,

1649
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 2: this is kind.

1650
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 3: Of something we talk about the time, like the new

1651
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 3: Black shit, but it's just from the immigrant perspective, whereas

1652
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 3: like you run from the shit, you run from the shit,

1653
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,719
Speaker 3: you run from the shit, and then you get somewhere

1654
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:14,160
Speaker 3: where you can kind of flourish and you don't just

1655
01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 3: like take to it on some regular shit. It's like

1656
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 3: I gotta make up a lost time. I got to

1657
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 3: be the president of the blacks, you know what I

1658
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 3: mean as opposed to like, you know, let me, you know,

1659
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 3: kind of ease into this. But I understand it can

1660
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:29,479
Speaker 3: relate to that idea because a lot of black people

1661
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 3: go through that shit. You know, people always mock those people.

1662
01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 3: But I don't know, you get to it. When you

1663
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:35,760
Speaker 3: get to it, what the fuck right?

1664
01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 2: You know?

1665
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:41,360
Speaker 3: Like anyway, college expanding my world, solidifire, my politics and

1666
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:43,120
Speaker 3: deep my love of black people in blackness, and I

1667
01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 3: was varieties and leaves. I am black, I'm Nigerian, I'm Yoruba,

1668
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 3: I am Chicago, and I'm Nigerian America American.

1669
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 2: I am Black American. So when is our blackness enough? Now? See?

1670
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 3: I think in that part right there, there's gonna there's

1671
01:20:56,479 --> 01:21:00,160
Speaker 3: people that are like, but you're not Black American in

1672
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:02,680
Speaker 3: the way that people born here and whose families come

1673
01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:07,080
Speaker 3: from slavery are black. You have a different Black American experience.

1674
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:10,080
Speaker 3: I don't really care about the label of it. Call

1675
01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 3: yourself whatever, But when you position yourself to speak about

1676
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 3: us culturally and speak for us culturally, and you're putting

1677
01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:24,479
Speaker 3: yourself in that seat, you have to also be aware

1678
01:21:24,479 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 3: of how many people you don't represent and how many

1679
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 3: people are gonna take issue with what you're saying. You know,

1680
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:35,360
Speaker 3: it's anybody. This is not just an immigrant thing. This

1681
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 3: is everything. When I talk, I'm an atheist. I don't

1682
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:39,559
Speaker 3: speak for all black.

1683
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 2: People, you know what I mean?

1684
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 3: Like, I have my shit, and I'm sure there's a

1685
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:45,760
Speaker 3: ton of black people that be like, man, fuck that shit,

1686
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,880
Speaker 3: like Jesus gonna fix this, you know, like you know,

1687
01:21:48,920 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 3: it's just different, you know, I know I have certain

1688
01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 3: shit that just is not aligned with everybody. I can't

1689
01:21:55,040 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 3: speak to everyone's experience like that, unfortunately, because it's almost

1690
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:01,559
Speaker 3: like the Tannazi Coast shit.

1691
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 2: Because whiteness is very much it can be one. You

1692
01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 2: gonna get put.

1693
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 3: In some spaces where it's like you're speaking for everybody,

1694
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:14,000
Speaker 3: but you're not. You know, but it feels, at least

1695
01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 3: to me, like to some ways Lovey kind of buys

1696
01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:19,439
Speaker 3: into the hype that she is speaking for everybody. It's like, no,

1697
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 3: but you're not, though, you know, like these people calling

1698
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 3: you out should be like a little chin check on

1699
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 3: something like Okay, all right, well I'm way out of

1700
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 3: line on this one.

1701
01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:31,040
Speaker 2: As opposed to y'all don't think I'm black enough.

1702
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 3: But I say that once again, it's easier to say

1703
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 3: from me because my mentions weren't on fire. And I'm

1704
01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:40,080
Speaker 3: sure there were people questioning her blackness and coming for

1705
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 3: her neck and in a ways that human beings react

1706
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:47,960
Speaker 3: to defensively, and that part always gets left out of

1707
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 3: their equation when people talk about these things correct, it's

1708
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 3: like whichever side I agree with is the right side,

1709
01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:54,480
Speaker 3: and they can talk to you however they want.

1710
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 1: No.

1711
01:22:55,479 --> 01:22:58,599
Speaker 3: A lot of times the conversations are not fruitful because

1712
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 3: people don't know how to talk to each other. And you know,

1713
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:06,240
Speaker 3: Love's a hard case to make because Lovey has made

1714
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:08,240
Speaker 3: a living off of talking to people harshly or judging

1715
01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 3: people and mocking.

1716
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,360
Speaker 2: People and being very funny and all this shit.

1717
01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 3: So like it's not like she's necessarily having open discussions

1718
01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 3: that are very.

1719
01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 2: Transparent and nice or on Twitter's.

1720
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,719
Speaker 3: It's kind of like I say my shit, I double

1721
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:26,640
Speaker 3: down on my shit. Then I just dip for a

1722
01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 3: few days and don't talk to y'all, or I just

1723
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 3: ignore whatever y'all are saying to me. And I'm sure

1724
01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:36,599
Speaker 3: that that doesn't foster a lot of positive discussion either way,

1725
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 3: you know, not that I think Twitter is a good

1726
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,559
Speaker 3: venue for those kind of discussions. Either way, Is my

1727
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:44,759
Speaker 3: blackness exempt because I wasn't born in the United States?

1728
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 3: Is that exclude me from being able to say I'm

1729
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 3: a black American with my formative years have been in

1730
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 3: this country. Because if that is the case, then it

1731
01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:54,760
Speaker 3: is saying that I have to opt out of an

1732
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 3: entire culture that I've been a part of for most

1733
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,080
Speaker 3: of my life. It is saying no one's asking me

1734
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:01,200
Speaker 3: to opt out, though I don't think that's what people

1735
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:05,640
Speaker 3: are saying. It's just your opinion, doesn't isn't the fucking prevailing.

1736
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:06,320
Speaker 2: Opinion over everything?

1737
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 1: You know?

1738
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,639
Speaker 2: Like this, man, it's.

1739
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:13,080
Speaker 3: Getting to that point where it's sounded kind of like

1740
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 3: how white people feel when they get criticized and they

1741
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 3: do the like, I'm just gonna stop doing y'all a

1742
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 3: favor of you talking about y'all shit, It's like, the fuck,

1743
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:23,880
Speaker 3: we wasn't asking you to do us no favors. We

1744
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 3: can talk for ourselves. We can just as easily saying

1745
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:30,760
Speaker 3: it that dass and speak and get that check and

1746
01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 3: get that.

1747
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 2: Check for talking about that shit.

1748
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 3: The same way you can don't act like there's no

1749
01:24:36,720 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 3: that this is some altruistic shit. You make your living

1750
01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:42,760
Speaker 3: doing this. You get these checks for a reason. I

1751
01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 3: ain't jealous of your check. But let's keep it real.

1752
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:49,559
Speaker 3: This ain't no fucking charity case, all right. So yeah,

1753
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:52,840
Speaker 3: it's not about opting now. It's just if you part

1754
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:54,640
Speaker 3: of the culture and the culture speaks back to you,

1755
01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:56,280
Speaker 3: then I don't understand how you get to be like

1756
01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:59,360
Speaker 3: y'all want me to not be in the culture. It's like, no,

1757
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:01,360
Speaker 3: we're telling you you gotta get back in line. This

1758
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 3: ship is what you're saying, and not representative of the

1759
01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 3: majority of the way we feel.

1760
01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1761
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 3: She goes on to say, it is saying that I'm

1762
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,559
Speaker 3: not truly home even though I hold my past, hold

1763
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,280
Speaker 3: the passport. It says that even though it is something

1764
01:25:17,280 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 3: I'm proud of, I cannot claim it because simply simply

1765
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:22,080
Speaker 3: because when I came into this world, my ancestors were

1766
01:25:22,120 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 3: not in slave.

1767
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1768
01:25:25,360 --> 01:25:30,320
Speaker 3: I don't know about the framing of this, Yeah I don't.

1769
01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 3: The framing of that is that's pretty bad.

1770
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:38,000
Speaker 2: Hm. The double consciousness that W B.

1771
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:43,719
Speaker 3: Du boy Uh Dubois spoke u uh spoke of also

1772
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 3: speaks to a lot of us or our first generation

1773
01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:50,320
Speaker 3: Africans or Caribbean folks are just and just immigrants in general.

1774
01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 3: We have one foot on each place, and we're told

1775
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:56,760
Speaker 3: we ought enough of either thing. We claim some of

1776
01:25:56,840 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 3: us aren't African enough, but then we're told we're all

1777
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 3: or not American enough because we happen to not be

1778
01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:03,599
Speaker 3: born here.

1779
01:26:03,640 --> 01:26:10,320
Speaker 2: Why is that? Yeah, I don't.

1780
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:17,439
Speaker 3: Know that that is what double consciousness meant from WB.

1781
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:26,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess you can try to adjust it

1782
01:26:26,439 --> 01:26:31,200
Speaker 3: to how the immigrant story, but it was a very

1783
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:32,280
Speaker 3: specific Black.

1784
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:36,519
Speaker 2: American story he talked about, you know, if anything man like.

1785
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:40,559
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not an immigrant man, but to a

1786
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 3: certain extent, it's a bit different because, like he's talking about,

1787
01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:48,120
Speaker 3: you can never see your side outside, see yourself outside

1788
01:26:48,160 --> 01:26:53,360
Speaker 3: the view of whiteness, and judge yourself for exceeding in

1789
01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 3: the view of whiteness and for failing if you're coming

1790
01:26:59,240 --> 01:27:01,920
Speaker 3: here from another culture where you're like, I didn't even

1791
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:03,880
Speaker 3: know slavery was a fucking thing.

1792
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 2: You you you? Then you you're not. That's not what

1793
01:27:08,680 --> 01:27:09,439
Speaker 2: he's talking about.

1794
01:27:09,640 --> 01:27:13,120
Speaker 3: And I don't really see how it feels like such

1795
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 3: a stretch to try to like say that that applies

1796
01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:20,000
Speaker 3: to this situation.

1797
01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 2: In my opinion, I think that's it's just I don't know,

1798
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:26,600
Speaker 2: this kind of this.

1799
01:27:26,760 --> 01:27:28,559
Speaker 3: Just feels like it's confirming all those people that are

1800
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:30,000
Speaker 3: like you don't have to range to be talking about

1801
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:32,160
Speaker 3: this shit, you know, And I don't mean that in

1802
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:36,400
Speaker 3: a mean way, but that that that is so irrelevant

1803
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 3: to the discussion about this because, if anything, you're bringing

1804
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:48,920
Speaker 3: a level of privilege over here with you that many

1805
01:27:49,040 --> 01:27:51,680
Speaker 3: black kids would have loved to have nine years of

1806
01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:56,599
Speaker 3: knowing black people could be anything. We would have loved

1807
01:27:56,600 --> 01:28:01,679
Speaker 3: to have nine years of black poli titians, black drivers,

1808
01:28:01,800 --> 01:28:08,120
Speaker 3: black car, black house Butler's, black presidents.

1809
01:28:08,240 --> 01:28:10,519
Speaker 2: We would love to have that, you know.

1810
01:28:11,920 --> 01:28:15,639
Speaker 3: And that's something you bring with you, and it's something

1811
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:19,200
Speaker 3: that you kind of learn about our experienced third party,

1812
01:28:19,240 --> 01:28:21,880
Speaker 3: because once you get here, it's, hey.

1813
01:28:22,160 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 2: You're you look like these people.

1814
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 3: You don't like you're like here in America, we don't

1815
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:28,479
Speaker 3: give a fuck that you're not.

1816
01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:30,360
Speaker 2: Like these people. You look like these people.

1817
01:28:30,760 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 3: So you kind of don't have a choice but to

1818
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:36,160
Speaker 3: get grouped into it. But it's not really the same

1819
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 3: as you know, the double consciousness of being born into

1820
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:43,040
Speaker 3: this shit and that you know, that's it just feels

1821
01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:50,280
Speaker 3: like a stretch anyway, So she goes on, Uh, so

1822
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 3: we are only supposed to opt into certain parts of it,

1823
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:56,320
Speaker 3: but not all. At the end, at the other end

1824
01:28:56,360 --> 01:28:59,639
Speaker 3: of a police officer's gun, my africanness does me no good.

1825
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:03,519
Speaker 3: I'm black to the white when I'm I'm gonna do

1826
01:29:03,600 --> 01:29:06,120
Speaker 3: the Y'allo was shot at, killed and by.

1827
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:06,840
Speaker 2: New York City cops.

1828
01:29:06,880 --> 01:29:10,280
Speaker 3: His native tomb, motherland of heritage did nothing to save him. Sure,

1829
01:29:10,320 --> 01:29:12,280
Speaker 3: we can talk about privilege of having the anchor of

1830
01:29:12,320 --> 01:29:15,920
Speaker 3: a place where you know you are from, but that

1831
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:18,080
Speaker 3: privilege does not protect us from the racist structure that

1832
01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 3: wants us all to fail strictly because of our dasparic

1833
01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:22,559
Speaker 3: relation and our skin.

1834
01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1835
01:29:24,120 --> 01:29:26,519
Speaker 3: I don't think anybody was presuming that. I don't think

1836
01:29:26,560 --> 01:29:30,639
Speaker 3: anybody is being informed by this. No one's saying you

1837
01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:35,760
Speaker 3: live a white experience. They're just saying, culturally, you might

1838
01:29:35,840 --> 01:29:38,400
Speaker 3: not be a person that should be a spokesperson for

1839
01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:41,919
Speaker 3: Black Americans who were born in America.

1840
01:29:42,760 --> 01:29:44,080
Speaker 2: It's a very different experience.

1841
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,000
Speaker 3: Apparently, the fact that you can't grasp it is kind

1842
01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:50,640
Speaker 3: of like confirmation that people are like, yeah, you might

1843
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:54,479
Speaker 3: shouldn't be talking about this, and then she put a

1844
01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:56,599
Speaker 3: link to Black Lives Matter post.

1845
01:29:57,640 --> 01:29:58,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1846
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:01,960
Speaker 3: We can talk about how police brutalized black people, but

1847
01:30:02,080 --> 01:30:04,639
Speaker 3: we cannot have a voice to talk about Black American

1848
01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:06,479
Speaker 3: music because that isn't our culture.

1849
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:08,120
Speaker 2: I think it is absurd.

1850
01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:10,160
Speaker 3: We can speak up loudly about how black people are

1851
01:30:10,200 --> 01:30:13,000
Speaker 3: discriminating against, but we should shut up about black celebrities

1852
01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:15,400
Speaker 3: since we should have no claim to them that they

1853
01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:17,960
Speaker 3: are somehow in a glass case we have no access to.

1854
01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:25,120
Speaker 3: Oh okay, that is literally not what that that's that

1855
01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:27,280
Speaker 3: is not the problem. People don't have a problem because

1856
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:29,920
Speaker 3: you had an opinion on Tevin Campbell. People disagree with

1857
01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:34,479
Speaker 3: your opinion. And then because of your double down and

1858
01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 3: because of your past, and because the shit keeps coming up,

1859
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:39,679
Speaker 3: then it gets into why the fuck are you even

1860
01:30:39,680 --> 01:30:40,280
Speaker 3: talking about this?

1861
01:30:40,840 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 2: That's what keeps happening.

1862
01:30:42,840 --> 01:30:45,280
Speaker 3: And it's because, like I said, I swear to God

1863
01:30:45,640 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 3: this next week, would it would have been oh shit,

1864
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:50,760
Speaker 3: my bad, I ain't hey, I was tripping. Tevin is

1865
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:54,240
Speaker 3: the man, no hate for my blood, and move the

1866
01:30:54,240 --> 01:30:57,080
Speaker 3: fucker on. Everybody will be like all right, cool. Instead,

1867
01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:59,880
Speaker 3: it's just like a denial that like a weird denalog

1868
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:00,960
Speaker 3: it wasn't even Shade.

1869
01:31:01,120 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 2: Yes, it was what Nama y'all for that rock from

1870
01:31:05,280 --> 01:31:06,920
Speaker 2: underwe rock like come on man.

1871
01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:12,479
Speaker 3: More importantly, let's see I listened to nineties R and

1872
01:31:12,560 --> 01:31:14,440
Speaker 3: B and hip hop as much as I listened to afrobeats.

1873
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 3: But me not liking Mumbo rappers not a commentary on

1874
01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 3: the state of Black America. It is audation just to

1875
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:21,280
Speaker 3: think that the moment we express opinions that aren't favorable

1876
01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:24,640
Speaker 3: is because we are anti Black American. Once again, you

1877
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:26,960
Speaker 3: can't divorce this from the history that people have with you.

1878
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:29,480
Speaker 2: It is what it is. You can't.

1879
01:31:30,360 --> 01:31:32,960
Speaker 3: These folks didn't come out of nowhere for nothing. It's

1880
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:35,200
Speaker 3: like me telling someone who says they don't like Fella

1881
01:31:35,280 --> 01:31:38,040
Speaker 3: cool Ties music that they hate Africans. We have to

1882
01:31:38,080 --> 01:31:40,800
Speaker 3: elevate our conversation beyond using the countries of our birth

1883
01:31:40,840 --> 01:31:43,960
Speaker 3: as basis for the opinions we form on each other. Yeah,

1884
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:47,120
Speaker 3: it's not the same because one you claimed there was

1885
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:50,719
Speaker 3: no Shade, but now you just brought up It's like saying, now, anyway,

1886
01:31:50,800 --> 01:31:53,600
Speaker 3: don't like another artist, But if I did try to

1887
01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:56,439
Speaker 3: speak on his place in South in fucking African culture

1888
01:31:57,000 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 3: and what his music meant to afrobeating shit, I don't

1889
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:03,760
Speaker 3: know what the fuck that means, and I'm not as

1890
01:32:03,840 --> 01:32:07,439
Speaker 3: versed in it, so yeah, my fucking opinion might get

1891
01:32:07,479 --> 01:32:09,599
Speaker 3: me custs the fuck out from the people that actually

1892
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:12,960
Speaker 3: live that experience. How is that that is not an

1893
01:32:13,000 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 3: African thing, a black thing or whatever thing that's a

1894
01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:20,559
Speaker 3: human being thing? Like why is that so hard to grasp?

1895
01:32:20,720 --> 01:32:24,880
Speaker 3: That's not a mean like that could happen to anybody.

1896
01:32:24,960 --> 01:32:25,639
Speaker 2: You know, like.

1897
01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:30,400
Speaker 3: Some knowing your lane is so fucking crucial and it'll

1898
01:32:30,439 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 3: keep you out of so many fucking conflicts cause you

1899
01:32:32,920 --> 01:32:34,920
Speaker 3: could just be like, dog, this ain't even my ministry,

1900
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:37,160
Speaker 3: all right, y'all. We just talked about it with that

1901
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:41,439
Speaker 3: crazy rich aation shit. The appropriation shit is not my ministry.

1902
01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,599
Speaker 3: We've been saying this shit for eight years on the show.

1903
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 3: So when it comes up and a discussion is a

1904
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,840
Speaker 3: is this too much, I'm always like, I don't fucking know,

1905
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:50,000
Speaker 3: because I don't keep up with that.

1906
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:53,360
Speaker 2: If y'all think it's too much, go in feel free.

1907
01:32:53,400 --> 01:32:55,559
Speaker 3: It ain't for me to say, because I've been on

1908
01:32:55,600 --> 01:32:58,400
Speaker 3: the other side of that shit, laughing or joking about

1909
01:32:58,439 --> 01:33:01,760
Speaker 3: something that might have been at another culture, and I

1910
01:33:01,800 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 3: don't know if it is or not, but I know

1911
01:33:04,200 --> 01:33:07,040
Speaker 3: enough to know I don't know that shit is.

1912
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:11,880
Speaker 2: A major key to all this public commentary. Shit oh man.

1913
01:33:14,240 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, if somebody didn't like like some African artists,

1914
01:33:17,160 --> 01:33:19,280
Speaker 3: I mean, it's why don't they like them? What do

1915
01:33:19,360 --> 01:33:21,720
Speaker 3: they think about their place in that culture? Who are

1916
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:23,519
Speaker 3: they as an authority to be able to say that?

1917
01:33:24,400 --> 01:33:24,600
Speaker 2: You know?

1918
01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:29,080
Speaker 3: More importantly, my pride in my nigeriousness does not insult

1919
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:31,559
Speaker 3: my Black Americans. I could say Naja no dead, Carrie

1920
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:35,719
Speaker 3: Last as I raised my green, white green, my green,

1921
01:33:35,760 --> 01:33:38,640
Speaker 3: white green flag, also probably yell black lives matter as

1922
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:41,520
Speaker 3: I wave my red black green one. Joelf is delicious,

1923
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:47,760
Speaker 3: but John Beala is sweet too. That okay, don't feel

1924
01:33:47,760 --> 01:33:52,760
Speaker 3: like random thoughts, nobody saying you okay when told to

1925
01:33:52,760 --> 01:33:54,800
Speaker 3: go back to Africa. It is another reminder that you

1926
01:33:54,880 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 3: can be other than called somewhere, call somewhere home would

1927
01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:00,599
Speaker 3: still be told you don't belong in it by people

1928
01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 3: who look like you.

1929
01:34:01,760 --> 01:34:03,480
Speaker 2: Where is home? Then?

1930
01:34:06,840 --> 01:34:10,920
Speaker 1: But this all started off with tweet week Campbell.

1931
01:34:10,200 --> 01:34:12,479
Speaker 2: Right, how do we get here?

1932
01:34:13,680 --> 01:34:17,280
Speaker 3: Indeed, back to the first line, So who's the authority

1933
01:34:17,320 --> 01:34:17,839
Speaker 3: on blackness?

1934
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:18,519
Speaker 2: And black culture.

1935
01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:20,800
Speaker 3: Black American coulture is so deep and has such breath

1936
01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:23,439
Speaker 3: and impact that it that it's markers are often part

1937
01:34:23,439 --> 01:34:24,479
Speaker 3: of the global conversation.

1938
01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:27,080
Speaker 2: I was watching a different world from my living room

1939
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 2: in Nigeria because we had a satellite dish.

1940
01:34:29,479 --> 01:34:31,320
Speaker 3: When I was seven, Me and my cousins put on

1941
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:33,639
Speaker 3: the talent show that we charged our parents to come

1942
01:34:33,680 --> 01:34:36,400
Speaker 3: watching the living room when we wore our clothes backwards.

1943
01:34:36,520 --> 01:34:38,719
Speaker 3: And since we love, since we love Chris Cross, Black

1944
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:41,640
Speaker 3: Coach is global. Because I identified with those things, not

1945
01:34:41,720 --> 01:34:44,200
Speaker 3: because they are American, but because they were black. I

1946
01:34:44,240 --> 01:34:46,559
Speaker 3: will not opt out of it. I cannot opt I

1947
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:50,200
Speaker 3: cannot opt out. I'm staying like Fie White. I do

1948
01:34:50,320 --> 01:34:53,240
Speaker 3: not call myself an expert. I'm a forever student. But

1949
01:34:53,320 --> 01:34:54,280
Speaker 3: you refuse to learn.

1950
01:34:54,360 --> 01:34:56,840
Speaker 2: But who does not? You not? You don't never learn?

1951
01:34:57,960 --> 01:35:00,799
Speaker 3: How you a student when you just dicked take to everybody,

1952
01:35:00,840 --> 01:35:02,559
Speaker 3: what the fuck we supposed to think about?

1953
01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:07,880
Speaker 2: What you say? How's that a student? You know? Like this?

1954
01:35:08,240 --> 01:35:10,360
Speaker 3: Do you speak as if you're an authority and when

1955
01:35:10,400 --> 01:35:13,000
Speaker 3: you're challenged you double down on your authority of it

1956
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:15,840
Speaker 3: and then make yourself the victim. I mean that is

1957
01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:19,040
Speaker 3: this is a pattern at this point. You know what's

1958
01:35:19,080 --> 01:35:22,880
Speaker 3: being learned here. Some people believe that those of us

1959
01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:24,840
Speaker 3: who aren't born from a legacy of slavery have no

1960
01:35:24,880 --> 01:35:27,080
Speaker 3: place in the conversation because we aren't directly tied to

1961
01:35:27,080 --> 01:35:29,880
Speaker 3: that particular type of struggle. So it's blackness earned through

1962
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:32,240
Speaker 3: some sort of pain, but I need to suffer in

1963
01:35:32,240 --> 01:35:36,519
Speaker 3: a specific way before laying claim to it. Black culture

1964
01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:40,640
Speaker 3: in America is yes, absolutely, But you're not gonna like

1965
01:35:40,680 --> 01:35:44,880
Speaker 3: that answer, right, You're not gonna like that answer. That's

1966
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:46,760
Speaker 3: the fucking truth. It doesn't matter if you're a rich

1967
01:35:46,800 --> 01:35:49,679
Speaker 3: black person in America. If you come from a lineage

1968
01:35:49,720 --> 01:35:53,960
Speaker 3: where your people is enslave, yes, you are black in

1969
01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:56,639
Speaker 3: a way that is different than somebody coming over here

1970
01:35:57,120 --> 01:35:59,720
Speaker 3: from somewhere else and then claiming blackness later.

1971
01:35:59,840 --> 01:36:06,360
Speaker 1: Like it is a difference, yeah, because you probably can

1972
01:36:06,439 --> 01:36:09,800
Speaker 1: trade your lineage back to the beginning, Like if you

1973
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 1: tracked it back, you actually know your native tongue.

1974
01:36:14,240 --> 01:36:16,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, or not just that, I mean, you might not

1975
01:36:16,080 --> 01:36:19,000
Speaker 3: know your native tongue. It's not even that. I'm just saying, like,

1976
01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:21,639
Speaker 3: you know, she does, but I'm saying I'm not even

1977
01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:22,200
Speaker 3: talking about that.

1978
01:36:22,240 --> 01:36:26,400
Speaker 2: I'm just saying just the general idea of is there

1979
01:36:26,680 --> 01:36:32,000
Speaker 2: a blackness that needs to be respected simply because that

1980
01:36:32,120 --> 01:36:36,600
Speaker 2: blackness is from the heritage of slavery in America? You

1981
01:36:36,760 --> 01:36:40,799
Speaker 2: god damn right, it is, yes, and it does take precedent.

1982
01:36:42,120 --> 01:36:44,160
Speaker 2: And no, you don't get to fucking tell us that

1983
01:36:44,200 --> 01:36:48,040
Speaker 2: we don't do that, like it is insulting, you know

1984
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:48,559
Speaker 2: what I mean.

1985
01:36:49,200 --> 01:36:52,040
Speaker 3: No one says you can't be black boo. Nobody is

1986
01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:54,479
Speaker 3: kicking you out of blackness. No, you know, maybe there's

1987
01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:56,200
Speaker 3: some niggas that happened that is against you and they

1988
01:36:56,360 --> 01:36:59,120
Speaker 3: finally it chipped away and it got to you in

1989
01:36:59,160 --> 01:37:01,880
Speaker 3: your head or whatever. But you have a platform of

1990
01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:03,880
Speaker 3: a lot of people at this point, a lot of

1991
01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:04,760
Speaker 3: supporters as.

1992
01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:06,920
Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people actually rooting for you.

1993
01:37:07,040 --> 01:37:08,439
Speaker 2: A lot of people are rooting for you.

1994
01:37:08,520 --> 01:37:12,120
Speaker 3: To be honest, even despite all this shit, I'm still

1995
01:37:12,200 --> 01:37:15,240
Speaker 3: rooting for I don't have no problem with Lovey. But

1996
01:37:15,400 --> 01:37:19,360
Speaker 3: this shit is like played, man, It's over and over

1997
01:37:19,400 --> 01:37:22,800
Speaker 3: and over again, man, with the same shit, you know

1998
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, come on, dog, what is this?

1999
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 2: You know?

2000
01:37:26,720 --> 01:37:30,760
Speaker 3: Like maybe this is an undercurrent of some insecurity you're

2001
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:35,400
Speaker 3: dealing with because you have I mean, because she has,

2002
01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:39,519
Speaker 3: you know, these gigs that people consider Black American gigs,

2003
01:37:39,520 --> 01:37:42,560
Speaker 3: and she gets these gigs in there, and she's speaking

2004
01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 3: with a lot of like black culturals speak. But people

2005
01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:48,519
Speaker 3: are like, why didn't this just go to a black

2006
01:37:48,520 --> 01:37:49,240
Speaker 3: person from here?

2007
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:52,200
Speaker 2: You know? And I understand, because that's fucked up? What

2008
01:37:52,200 --> 01:37:53,519
Speaker 2: am I gonna do? Not take the check?

2009
01:37:53,640 --> 01:37:58,200
Speaker 3: Like I understand how in her position, I'd be like, yeah, well,

2010
01:37:58,320 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 3: you know, but you just got to live with it,

2011
01:38:01,120 --> 01:38:04,400
Speaker 3: Like you made the choice, you took the check. You're

2012
01:38:04,400 --> 01:38:08,400
Speaker 3: getting made. Like you gotta understand when you're speaking on Scandal,

2013
01:38:08,400 --> 01:38:13,200
Speaker 3: when you're speaking on Insecure as the voice of Black culture,

2014
01:38:13,200 --> 01:38:16,639
Speaker 3: reviewing this shit the officially, you know, like, there's gonna

2015
01:38:16,680 --> 01:38:19,560
Speaker 3: be some people that one just have plain old jealousy.

2016
01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:21,160
Speaker 2: Or resentment, but there's gonna be a ton.

2017
01:38:21,040 --> 01:38:23,800
Speaker 3: Of people that are like, but why what makes you

2018
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:26,320
Speaker 3: the cultural authority that gets to speak for all of us?

2019
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:29,160
Speaker 3: And when that is challenged, if your first thing is

2020
01:38:29,200 --> 01:38:33,519
Speaker 3: to be like poor me, y'all making me feel bad

2021
01:38:33,680 --> 01:38:38,840
Speaker 3: for having this African privilege, like then you already you're

2022
01:38:38,880 --> 01:38:42,040
Speaker 3: already divorcing. You're making the delineation in the culture. Like

2023
01:38:42,160 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 3: right there, you know anyway, It's just like, and like

2024
01:38:47,479 --> 01:38:50,720
Speaker 3: I said, I really do want to be understanding empathetic here.

2025
01:38:51,160 --> 01:38:53,840
Speaker 3: I can relate to this idea. Even though I'm not

2026
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:56,400
Speaker 3: from Avaga. She probably deals with a lot of shit.

2027
01:38:56,960 --> 01:38:59,640
Speaker 3: M Like, I'm not like it's easy for me to

2028
01:38:59,720 --> 01:39:03,679
Speaker 3: say as this third party observer of her life, who

2029
01:39:03,960 --> 01:39:05,840
Speaker 3: you know, I don't read these comments to her that

2030
01:39:05,920 --> 01:39:10,599
Speaker 3: probably are just fucking mean, scathing, you know, just people

2031
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:12,960
Speaker 3: that are built up years of animosity, and every time

2032
01:39:13,040 --> 01:39:15,680
Speaker 3: she makes any misstep, they can't wait to pull out

2033
01:39:15,680 --> 01:39:18,799
Speaker 3: the entire thing because despite all the shit, I still

2034
01:39:18,920 --> 01:39:22,080
Speaker 3: don't think whatever she said was bad enough for the

2035
01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:24,679
Speaker 3: four to five day dragon that occurred on Twitter.

2036
01:39:25,720 --> 01:39:28,599
Speaker 2: But it's an accumulative effect.

2037
01:39:29,040 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 3: And then then you say stuff like this, and it's like, oh,

2038
01:39:32,160 --> 01:39:36,519
Speaker 3: here's why it's cumulative. This is why it acclimates, because

2039
01:39:36,800 --> 01:39:38,960
Speaker 3: this is because you do double down and you do

2040
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:41,760
Speaker 3: go back at these people or try to turn them

2041
01:39:41,800 --> 01:39:46,599
Speaker 3: into the bad guys. If you were always middle class

2042
01:39:46,640 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 3: or up, are you less black? Not if you're from

2043
01:39:50,400 --> 01:39:53,080
Speaker 3: America and your family can't with slavery. No, if you

2044
01:39:53,080 --> 01:39:55,080
Speaker 3: are light skin and haven't had issues related to dark

2045
01:39:55,120 --> 01:39:56,719
Speaker 3: skin discrimination, are you less black?

2046
01:39:57,360 --> 01:39:59,799
Speaker 2: No, but you have light skin privileges. That's called colorism.

2047
01:40:00,200 --> 01:40:02,519
Speaker 3: If you're Afro Latino was born in Puerto Rico, are

2048
01:40:02,520 --> 01:40:06,320
Speaker 3: you less black? No, not necessarily, but you also have

2049
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:10,120
Speaker 3: some privilege, you know, especially if you're passing or light

2050
01:40:10,360 --> 01:40:15,560
Speaker 3: you know. And not to mention there's issues within the

2051
01:40:15,800 --> 01:40:19,599
Speaker 3: anti black issues within the Latin e sphere. I mean,

2052
01:40:21,360 --> 01:40:23,479
Speaker 3: why don't you know to answer these questions. You're asking

2053
01:40:23,479 --> 01:40:26,160
Speaker 3: these questions like there's not like, there's not answers. If

2054
01:40:26,160 --> 01:40:26,840
Speaker 3: you do have.

2055
01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:30,040
Speaker 2: Ancestors who are who are ever enslaved? Are you? If

2056
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:31,880
Speaker 2: you do not have answers who are never enslaved? Are

2057
01:40:31,880 --> 01:40:35,080
Speaker 2: you less black? No?

2058
01:40:35,080 --> 01:40:37,200
Speaker 3: You're not less black, but you might not be qualified

2059
01:40:37,240 --> 01:40:41,280
Speaker 3: to speak on every experience. We often say that black

2060
01:40:41,320 --> 01:40:43,840
Speaker 3: is not a monelipt, but when we question blackness that

2061
01:40:43,920 --> 01:40:46,080
Speaker 3: doesn't look like ours, we wonder if the person who

2062
01:40:46,120 --> 01:40:48,960
Speaker 3: grew up differently than us loves black people especially isn't

2063
01:40:49,360 --> 01:40:57,240
Speaker 3: everyone isn't Amorrosa states dads just because they have been privileged. Yeah,

2064
01:40:57,280 --> 01:41:02,599
Speaker 3: I mean, I agree that everybody's not Stacey Dash, But

2065
01:41:02,640 --> 01:41:05,880
Speaker 3: then to then say like the privilege has no effect

2066
01:41:05,920 --> 01:41:10,559
Speaker 3: on their point of view, it's bullshit, like because basically

2067
01:41:10,560 --> 01:41:12,599
Speaker 3: what you're telling me is, look, privilege has not affected

2068
01:41:12,640 --> 01:41:14,960
Speaker 3: me in any way. So these faux pas and these

2069
01:41:15,200 --> 01:41:18,280
Speaker 3: like consistent like once or twice a year fuck ups

2070
01:41:18,280 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 3: that I'm having has nothing.

2071
01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:21,600
Speaker 2: To do with my privilege. You it's you, guys. You

2072
01:41:21,640 --> 01:41:24,439
Speaker 2: guys are the problem. It's very white feminism TM of

2073
01:41:24,520 --> 01:41:27,559
Speaker 2: you to then hit everybody else over the head with

2074
01:41:27,600 --> 01:41:30,360
Speaker 2: the it's the monolift that's the problem, not me, you know,

2075
01:41:30,960 --> 01:41:33,519
Speaker 2: it's y'all black people. I'm just surprised you don't have

2076
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:34,200
Speaker 2: people on her corner.

2077
01:41:34,200 --> 01:41:36,120
Speaker 3: It's like, don't do this, all right, let me go

2078
01:41:36,160 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 3: to the next session real quick, okay, But yeah, it's

2079
01:41:40,920 --> 01:41:44,960
Speaker 3: like nobody in your in your circle was like just

2080
01:41:45,000 --> 01:41:49,640
Speaker 3: don't say nothing, you know, like not because you're not

2081
01:41:49,720 --> 01:41:52,360
Speaker 3: authority on blackness, but because this shit will pass if

2082
01:41:52,360 --> 01:41:53,040
Speaker 3: you just let it.

2083
01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:58,599
Speaker 2: It will. Like you're making this dragon take longer than

2084
01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:02,080
Speaker 2: it needed to take. I am adding you back to

2085
01:42:02,120 --> 01:42:02,519
Speaker 2: the screen.

2086
01:42:09,560 --> 01:42:14,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, if we are, if we are couching our

2087
01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:16,479
Speaker 3: blackness in the struggle, then what are we working for.

2088
01:42:16,600 --> 01:42:18,799
Speaker 3: If the purpose of our rocky rolls isn't to smooth

2089
01:42:18,840 --> 01:42:21,120
Speaker 3: out the path of those who come after us.

2090
01:42:21,360 --> 01:42:23,400
Speaker 2: What is the win? When are we enough?

2091
01:42:23,680 --> 01:42:25,880
Speaker 3: When can we rest in our blackness without having to

2092
01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:28,439
Speaker 3: justify defending the people who want to act like we're

2093
01:42:28,439 --> 01:42:31,479
Speaker 3: in the s competition for the authentic black experience? Is

2094
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:36,240
Speaker 3: our blackness ever enough? Well, here's the thing. You are

2095
01:42:36,280 --> 01:42:41,080
Speaker 3: in the competition, whether you accept it or not. I

2096
01:42:41,120 --> 01:42:41,760
Speaker 3: then this is a.

2097
01:42:41,720 --> 01:42:43,600
Speaker 2: News wake up call to you.

2098
01:42:43,600 --> 01:42:46,400
Speaker 3: You are competing when you're getting these checks, when you're

2099
01:42:46,400 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 3: getting these gigs, when you're getting these speaking things, when

2100
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:50,880
Speaker 3: you all these things where you get to speak on

2101
01:42:50,920 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 3: the culture.

2102
01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:53,000
Speaker 2: It is a competition.

2103
01:42:53,520 --> 01:42:56,600
Speaker 3: It's not fair, it's a competition, but it's absolutely a

2104
01:42:56,640 --> 01:42:59,439
Speaker 3: competition when you're in the go to rolodex for some

2105
01:42:59,479 --> 01:43:02,800
Speaker 3: of these inner and some of these jobs. It has

2106
01:43:02,840 --> 01:43:06,600
Speaker 3: become a competition. Whether you recognize it or not. Everybody's

2107
01:43:06,600 --> 01:43:08,640
Speaker 3: not rooting for you. Some people are rooting against you.

2108
01:43:08,680 --> 01:43:12,680
Speaker 3: Some people are rooting for themselves. You know, it is

2109
01:43:12,720 --> 01:43:15,759
Speaker 3: what it is. But it definitely is a competition because

2110
01:43:15,760 --> 01:43:18,880
Speaker 3: people believe in scarcity and they feel like every opportunity

2111
01:43:18,920 --> 01:43:21,240
Speaker 3: you get is an opportunity in some black American person

2112
01:43:21,280 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 3: who was born in America, whose family did experience certain

2113
01:43:24,320 --> 01:43:28,600
Speaker 3: things American culturally from birth. They feel like it's an

2114
01:43:28,600 --> 01:43:32,559
Speaker 3: opportunity that person should have gotten, not you. It's not fair,

2115
01:43:32,880 --> 01:43:35,439
Speaker 3: but that's true, and that's why a lot of this

2116
01:43:35,560 --> 01:43:39,439
Speaker 3: backlash you know, kind of comes from is why you,

2117
01:43:40,320 --> 01:43:43,679
Speaker 3: and you're gonna constantly have to deal with the idea

2118
01:43:43,720 --> 01:43:45,839
Speaker 3: of why you even if you was black.

2119
01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:47,400
Speaker 2: And American, you still will be dealing with it from

2120
01:43:47,400 --> 01:43:48,200
Speaker 2: a different perspective.

2121
01:43:49,080 --> 01:43:52,559
Speaker 3: You know, look at these activists, dog, it's these I mean,

2122
01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:55,720
Speaker 3: you were just talking about life scared activist yourself. You

2123
01:43:55,760 --> 01:43:58,000
Speaker 3: were just talking about them not being able to talk

2124
01:43:58,040 --> 01:44:02,840
Speaker 3: for black people, just doing that, saying they just turned

2125
01:44:02,840 --> 01:44:03,439
Speaker 3: black and shit.

2126
01:44:03,479 --> 01:44:06,599
Speaker 2: You were just doing that like a year ago or whatever.

2127
01:44:07,400 --> 01:44:09,000
Speaker 2: Like you know, because you've done it.

2128
01:44:10,560 --> 01:44:12,679
Speaker 3: You know, you make a living off of being the judge.

2129
01:44:12,720 --> 01:44:14,920
Speaker 3: But to be the judge of people means you put

2130
01:44:14,960 --> 01:44:19,080
Speaker 3: yourself above the people. That's what happens. It's not you

2131
01:44:19,120 --> 01:44:23,000
Speaker 3: know anyway, So how do we heal? Four years ago

2132
01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:25,439
Speaker 3: I talked about how fortunate I feel that I got

2133
01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:27,200
Speaker 3: to the United States when I did at such a

2134
01:44:27,200 --> 01:44:29,439
Speaker 3: young age. Read my post call about the relationship between

2135
01:44:29,479 --> 01:44:32,360
Speaker 3: Africans and African Americans. I was about I was able

2136
01:44:32,360 --> 01:44:34,120
Speaker 3: to be in spaces that allowed me to explore what

2137
01:44:34,160 --> 01:44:36,280
Speaker 3: blackness meant, and it was a growing point. I was

2138
01:44:36,320 --> 01:44:38,360
Speaker 3: also able to see how Africans who are older get

2139
01:44:38,400 --> 01:44:41,120
Speaker 3: to be fed bullshit about African Americans. I talked about

2140
01:44:41,120 --> 01:44:43,200
Speaker 3: the word of kada and why I don't use it

2141
01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:46,200
Speaker 3: because it was it has derogatory origins. It is a

2142
01:44:46,240 --> 01:44:49,000
Speaker 3: word that means wild animal, but many people who use

2143
01:44:49,040 --> 01:44:51,439
Speaker 3: it don't realize it, participating it to humanize the skin

2144
01:44:51,479 --> 01:44:54,040
Speaker 3: folk without realizing it. They need us to the need

2145
01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:56,360
Speaker 3: for us to heal is real. Well, let me add

2146
01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:57,920
Speaker 3: you to this. You know why you was in those

2147
01:44:57,920 --> 01:44:59,880
Speaker 3: spaces because we are welcoming.

2148
01:45:02,560 --> 01:45:04,600
Speaker 2: All the way. Karen has not said anything during this

2149
01:45:04,680 --> 01:45:06,000
Speaker 2: out saving but she just keeps.

2150
01:45:05,760 --> 01:45:08,800
Speaker 3: Making eyes for y'all not in the chat, keep making

2151
01:45:08,840 --> 01:45:13,160
Speaker 3: eyes off here like, but without saying anything. Feel free

2152
01:45:13,200 --> 01:45:15,599
Speaker 3: chiming if you are. You know, I know you look

2153
01:45:15,640 --> 01:45:17,519
Speaker 3: stupid every day on here, but I'm just trying to

2154
01:45:17,520 --> 01:45:24,360
Speaker 3: help you out. But yeah, the thing is, you're in

2155
01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:26,800
Speaker 3: those spaces because we're not the people that you're saying

2156
01:45:26,840 --> 01:45:29,000
Speaker 3: we are, correct, How are you in those spaces if

2157
01:45:29,000 --> 01:45:31,880
Speaker 3: we're the people that are like you, ain't black? Enough

2158
01:45:31,920 --> 01:45:35,080
Speaker 3: get away from us. You know, how are we like?

2159
01:45:35,120 --> 01:45:37,360
Speaker 3: I don't understand how both of those things exist at

2160
01:45:37,400 --> 01:45:40,080
Speaker 3: the same time, because you wouldn't know our culture if

2161
01:45:40,080 --> 01:45:43,679
Speaker 3: we didn't let you in, So you can't. You can't

2162
01:45:43,720 --> 01:45:46,759
Speaker 3: have it both ways of y'all mean black people always

2163
01:45:46,800 --> 01:45:49,360
Speaker 3: doing this to people, and it's like, but we but

2164
01:45:49,520 --> 01:45:52,920
Speaker 3: then you how'd you learn? You learn from the inside

2165
01:45:52,920 --> 01:45:55,599
Speaker 3: because we said that's cool, we don't get down with

2166
01:45:55,640 --> 01:45:58,840
Speaker 3: the with that ship come through. You know, is there

2167
01:45:58,840 --> 01:46:02,719
Speaker 3: gonna be some people that are assholes? Yep, and every

2168
01:46:02,720 --> 01:46:05,640
Speaker 3: fucking groups group, just like there's Africans that call us

2169
01:46:05,640 --> 01:46:08,599
Speaker 3: a collar, there's fucking black people that pick on Africans

2170
01:46:08,640 --> 01:46:09,160
Speaker 3: and shit too.

2171
01:46:09,240 --> 01:46:09,800
Speaker 2: I've been there.

2172
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:11,920
Speaker 3: I've seen it, and I didn't even grow up around

2173
01:46:11,960 --> 01:46:14,360
Speaker 3: African people, and I still seen people that had shit

2174
01:46:14,439 --> 01:46:19,040
Speaker 3: to talk about Africans that were black people in America. Yeah,

2175
01:46:19,080 --> 01:46:21,960
Speaker 3: so it's not so it's not that far into a concept.

2176
01:46:22,920 --> 01:46:26,519
Speaker 3: But I would never let that shit define I would

2177
01:46:26,520 --> 01:46:30,400
Speaker 3: not let the African people that have talked shit about

2178
01:46:30,520 --> 01:46:34,040
Speaker 3: me to find my entire relationship with the dash Bora.

2179
01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:37,880
Speaker 3: You know, I wouldn't, but I would accept that that's

2180
01:46:37,920 --> 01:46:40,960
Speaker 3: gonna be a thing you know. Anyway, there's an advantage

2181
01:46:40,960 --> 01:46:42,439
Speaker 3: in youth because a lot of folks in the older

2182
01:46:42,479 --> 01:46:44,479
Speaker 3: generation of Afagans never had a chance to unlearn whatever

2183
01:46:44,520 --> 01:46:45,599
Speaker 3: stereotypes they had.

2184
01:46:45,479 --> 01:46:47,240
Speaker 2: Heard about African Americans.

2185
01:46:47,240 --> 01:46:49,280
Speaker 3: Maybe we need to help our parents by sending them

2186
01:46:49,280 --> 01:46:51,599
Speaker 3: to WhatsApp threads, because you know that is where all

2187
01:46:51,600 --> 01:46:54,360
Speaker 3: the African aunts and uncles park themselves day.

2188
01:46:54,200 --> 01:46:54,920
Speaker 2: In the day out.

2189
01:46:55,240 --> 01:46:57,200
Speaker 3: If I get one more mass prayer that has floor

2190
01:46:57,240 --> 01:46:59,599
Speaker 3: background from them, I might need to block them. Anyway,

2191
01:47:00,040 --> 01:47:01,880
Speaker 3: what I see as a job of those who are

2192
01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:04,240
Speaker 3: the bridge because we are living in both worlds, is

2193
01:47:04,280 --> 01:47:07,200
Speaker 3: to educate. Had a conversation about our tensions. We need

2194
01:47:07,240 --> 01:47:11,680
Speaker 3: to get to a place that true go. Yeah, here's

2195
01:47:11,720 --> 01:47:16,920
Speaker 3: what I will add to that, though, seeing yourself as

2196
01:47:16,920 --> 01:47:19,400
Speaker 3: the bridge and the person that's supposed to educate means

2197
01:47:19,400 --> 01:47:23,400
Speaker 3: that you have to listen. You can't dictate to both sides.

2198
01:47:23,479 --> 01:47:26,680
Speaker 3: You got to listen to something, you know, and I

2199
01:47:26,720 --> 01:47:29,880
Speaker 3: think I don't know. Lovey's been in some situations where

2200
01:47:29,880 --> 01:47:32,800
Speaker 3: she just don't listen. She don't really care what Black

2201
01:47:32,800 --> 01:47:34,800
Speaker 3: people have to say back to her. They think she's wrong.

2202
01:47:35,520 --> 01:47:38,080
Speaker 3: So Wakanda, whenever black panther came out and we were

2203
01:47:38,120 --> 01:47:39,280
Speaker 3: all inspired at coming together.

2204
01:47:39,360 --> 01:47:42,440
Speaker 2: We were carrying Wakanda passports.

2205
01:47:43,439 --> 01:47:46,559
Speaker 3: But it's clear that we haven't really absorbed some of

2206
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:48,160
Speaker 3: what I consider.

2207
01:47:47,800 --> 01:47:48,920
Speaker 2: Its best lessons.

2208
01:47:50,880 --> 01:47:53,000
Speaker 3: I do wish we could go back to Wakanda that

2209
01:47:53,160 --> 01:47:57,080
Speaker 3: time and blackness was cool, But yeah, it's whata kanda

2210
01:47:58,520 --> 01:48:03,120
Speaker 3: for sometimes everybody knows that we need to heal Wakanda.

2211
01:48:03,240 --> 01:48:06,240
Speaker 3: Unlike most Africa, escape colonization, which is why so UTOLDI

2212
01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:08,000
Speaker 3: we all want to live in. But most of Africa,

2213
01:48:08,040 --> 01:48:10,160
Speaker 3: and like Wakanda, has been pilfored of its natural resources

2214
01:48:10,240 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 3: by the colonizers and.

2215
01:48:11,520 --> 01:48:12,840
Speaker 2: Doesn't have the capacity to help.

2216
01:48:13,200 --> 01:48:15,599
Speaker 3: So when Africans come to the United States and excel,

2217
01:48:15,960 --> 01:48:18,040
Speaker 3: we got to know it's not just from our own doing.

2218
01:48:18,720 --> 01:48:21,240
Speaker 3: We didn't pull ourselves up our bootstraps. Who do we

2219
01:48:21,280 --> 01:48:24,240
Speaker 3: think made these those boots? The African Americans who have

2220
01:48:24,320 --> 01:48:27,040
Speaker 3: been here for four hundred years being chained up and denigrated.

2221
01:48:27,080 --> 01:48:29,680
Speaker 3: Their legacy allows us to then across the ocean on

2222
01:48:29,680 --> 01:48:31,800
Speaker 3: our own volition and do well. We are standing on

2223
01:48:31,800 --> 01:48:35,080
Speaker 3: the shoulders on their shoulders, and we must not forget that. Similarly,

2224
01:48:35,160 --> 01:48:37,920
Speaker 3: Africans cannot feel like we are always one step away

2225
01:48:37,920 --> 01:48:40,040
Speaker 3: from being told that we need to go back to Africa,

2226
01:48:40,240 --> 01:48:42,960
Speaker 3: especially not from our own We already get that language

2227
01:48:42,960 --> 01:48:45,599
Speaker 3: from white people. We can all wear in Carr and

2228
01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:48,600
Speaker 3: Kenta for a film premiere, but we cannot return to

2229
01:48:48,600 --> 01:48:50,040
Speaker 3: fighting each other based.

2230
01:48:49,760 --> 01:48:52,240
Speaker 2: On where we are, where we are from right after

2231
01:48:54,000 --> 01:48:58,320
Speaker 2: how did we get here? Yeah? My thing is like one,

2232
01:48:58,400 --> 01:49:01,240
Speaker 2: this is a ton of words I've been reading forever. Two.

2233
01:49:02,960 --> 01:49:04,679
Speaker 2: You hopped on the Summer and Jam screen.

2234
01:49:05,920 --> 01:49:08,280
Speaker 3: It keeps like it's just this thing where people It's

2235
01:49:08,320 --> 01:49:11,320
Speaker 3: like I just got outed for no reason. It's like, dog,

2236
01:49:11,439 --> 01:49:13,800
Speaker 3: this is like your fifth time on the Summer Damn screen.

2237
01:49:13,800 --> 01:49:16,600
Speaker 2: It's you. It's gotta be you at some point. You

2238
01:49:16,640 --> 01:49:18,479
Speaker 2: take no responsibility for none of this shit.

2239
01:49:18,600 --> 01:49:22,120
Speaker 3: It's just black people just be tripping huh anytimes. Okay,

2240
01:49:22,760 --> 01:49:24,840
Speaker 3: we could talk about with condor forever every day, but

2241
01:49:24,880 --> 01:49:27,479
Speaker 3: it doesn't ring true. We continue to fight, to continue

2242
01:49:27,520 --> 01:49:30,519
Speaker 3: to other each other. I keep thinking about what T'Challa

2243
01:49:30,600 --> 01:49:32,840
Speaker 3: said when he went to the United Nations fools bill barriers,

2244
01:49:32,880 --> 01:49:35,320
Speaker 3: the wives, bill bridges. I don't care where you were born.

2245
01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:37,599
Speaker 3: The melanie means we're camp folk, even if it's far

2246
01:49:37,640 --> 01:49:40,439
Speaker 3: down the line. But we're We've let the world tell

2247
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:42,519
Speaker 3: us who we are. We've called each other names, we

2248
01:49:42,680 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 3: let the world tell us that we're on different teams,

2249
01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:47,400
Speaker 3: and we've let each other down by not fighting for

2250
01:49:47,439 --> 01:49:50,160
Speaker 3: each other. For the conversation to be productive and for

2251
01:49:50,200 --> 01:49:52,040
Speaker 3: the healing to happen, both sides have to be willing

2252
01:49:52,040 --> 01:49:55,280
Speaker 3: to get uncomfortable, own our roles, apologize for them, to.

2253
01:49:55,200 --> 01:49:58,120
Speaker 2: Make amends to each other. Where's your apology?

2254
01:49:58,360 --> 01:50:01,280
Speaker 3: Where are your amends? Where's your ownership of your role?

2255
01:50:01,360 --> 01:50:03,640
Speaker 3: This has been a long ass. It's y'all, not me.

2256
01:50:04,880 --> 01:50:08,559
Speaker 3: Where is Where is that? I haven't seen not one?

2257
01:50:08,640 --> 01:50:09,880
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, not one.

2258
01:50:10,439 --> 01:50:13,200
Speaker 2: The Okay, let me tell y'all how I fucked up? Nothing.

2259
01:50:14,200 --> 01:50:15,280
Speaker 2: This is everybody but you.

2260
01:50:16,240 --> 01:50:18,360
Speaker 3: We need to learn each other's histories because life ain't

2261
01:50:18,360 --> 01:50:20,760
Speaker 3: been no Chrystal stuff for either side. The legacy of

2262
01:50:20,800 --> 01:50:24,240
Speaker 3: colonization still ravages the homes of those whose assetsors were

2263
01:50:24,280 --> 01:50:25,320
Speaker 3: not chained in the ships.

2264
01:50:25,600 --> 01:50:28,160
Speaker 2: We're victims of white supremacy, and that is what we

2265
01:50:28,240 --> 01:50:29,960
Speaker 2: need to defeat. We need to love.

2266
01:50:30,160 --> 01:50:32,360
Speaker 3: This is why white people that were like vote for

2267
01:50:32,400 --> 01:50:36,600
Speaker 3: Bernie turned on me and was like you being divisive? Huh,

2268
01:50:36,920 --> 01:50:38,599
Speaker 3: I'm like nah, I pointed out that you said something

2269
01:50:38,640 --> 01:50:41,040
Speaker 3: fucked up. See, we need to stop fighting and come together.

2270
01:50:41,240 --> 01:50:43,120
Speaker 3: I'm not coming together with you to your knowledge. You

2271
01:50:43,120 --> 01:50:44,720
Speaker 3: said it was fucked up and apologized.

2272
01:50:45,240 --> 01:50:47,479
Speaker 2: Uh. I mean, look water under the bridge. See this

2273
01:50:47,520 --> 01:50:50,400
Speaker 2: is the problem, y'all. You can't get over things. I'm like,

2274
01:50:51,240 --> 01:50:54,400
Speaker 2: where's the part where you apologize for what you said? Though?

2275
01:50:54,640 --> 01:50:55,880
Speaker 1: He munts Malkane.

2276
01:50:56,520 --> 01:50:58,680
Speaker 2: We need to love up, hold each other and make

2277
01:50:58,680 --> 01:51:01,400
Speaker 2: white folks uncomfortable because they know how unstoppable we will

2278
01:51:01,439 --> 01:51:03,880
Speaker 2: be when we when we know we go together.

2279
01:51:04,240 --> 01:51:07,280
Speaker 3: Questioning each other's rights to blackness is hustling backwards.

2280
01:51:07,880 --> 01:51:10,880
Speaker 2: We gotta do better. You literally did this shit with

2281
01:51:10,920 --> 01:51:16,639
Speaker 2: those activists, dog, you did this? What are you even

2282
01:51:16,680 --> 01:51:17,479
Speaker 2: the same person?

2283
01:51:19,320 --> 01:51:21,840
Speaker 3: Like hip hop icon of Blue Eyes's Daddy jay Z said,

2284
01:51:22,360 --> 01:51:25,080
Speaker 3: nobody wins with the family fuse and a bunch of

2285
01:51:25,360 --> 01:51:26,920
Speaker 3: black chiff emojis all throughout this.

2286
01:51:28,240 --> 01:51:29,640
Speaker 2: What do you think about it, Karen.

2287
01:51:30,160 --> 01:51:35,640
Speaker 1: It's a lot, the whole lot of nothing because I

2288
01:51:35,800 --> 01:51:37,120
Speaker 1: just has nothing to do with Tavid Campbell.

2289
01:51:39,880 --> 01:51:45,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point, honestly, man.

2290
01:51:45,680 --> 01:51:47,839
Speaker 3: It just sounds like she didn't learn shit. It sounds

2291
01:51:47,880 --> 01:51:52,880
Speaker 3: like everything was everybody else's fault, you know, some of.

2292
01:51:52,840 --> 01:51:55,160
Speaker 2: The languages and stuff she choose to use. You know,

2293
01:51:55,760 --> 01:51:56,240
Speaker 2: I get it.

2294
01:51:56,280 --> 01:51:58,120
Speaker 3: But at the same time, like I just want to

2295
01:51:58,160 --> 01:52:01,120
Speaker 3: point out, I'm not very upset with her because I

2296
01:52:01,160 --> 01:52:02,560
Speaker 3: honestly think.

2297
01:52:03,680 --> 01:52:06,479
Speaker 2: She's just one person. It's just her fucking opinion.

2298
01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:11,839
Speaker 3: People were having the time of morning over Aretha Franklin,

2299
01:52:11,840 --> 01:52:13,799
Speaker 3: and I'm sure a lot of black people feeling sensitive

2300
01:52:13,800 --> 01:52:15,599
Speaker 3: and shit, But.

2301
01:52:15,479 --> 01:52:18,439
Speaker 2: That's not her responsibility for that either.

2302
01:52:19,200 --> 01:52:22,400
Speaker 3: I've seen hotter takes come off too soon from other

2303
01:52:22,439 --> 01:52:27,760
Speaker 3: people and that did not get this reaction. I think

2304
01:52:27,800 --> 01:52:31,960
Speaker 3: this is about a series of fucking incidents that people

2305
01:52:31,960 --> 01:52:34,439
Speaker 3: are upset with her about, and it's coming to a head.

2306
01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:36,600
Speaker 3: There's a lot of people that have never seen it

2307
01:52:36,640 --> 01:52:40,519
Speaker 3: for her, and shit goes back a long way, and

2308
01:52:41,920 --> 01:52:45,559
Speaker 3: they just don't like her showing up and they were

2309
01:52:45,560 --> 01:52:47,559
Speaker 3: waiting for her to have a miss step of some

2310
01:52:47,680 --> 01:52:50,120
Speaker 3: kind and they were ready to go in and you know,

2311
01:52:50,800 --> 01:52:52,519
Speaker 3: but this response.

2312
01:52:52,280 --> 01:52:56,360
Speaker 2: Was not helpful. Some people were buy into it.

2313
01:52:56,600 --> 01:53:00,000
Speaker 3: But I think this really does lean into the eye

2314
01:53:00,040 --> 01:53:04,479
Speaker 3: idea of like Africans are being victimized by Black Americans here.

2315
01:53:05,439 --> 01:53:08,679
Speaker 3: That's how that's how it reads to me. Like the ultimate, because,

2316
01:53:08,720 --> 01:53:10,320
Speaker 3: like I said, for all this, we need to hear,

2317
01:53:10,360 --> 01:53:12,320
Speaker 3: we need to apologize, we need to see where we

2318
01:53:12,360 --> 01:53:15,679
Speaker 3: make amends. None of that happened in this entire, long

2319
01:53:15,720 --> 01:53:16,559
Speaker 3: gass twenty five.

2320
01:53:16,520 --> 01:53:18,360
Speaker 2: Hundred words that I read.

2321
01:53:19,160 --> 01:53:27,960
Speaker 3: So I can't. I can't any good consciousness say that that. Uh,

2322
01:53:28,400 --> 01:53:30,479
Speaker 3: I can't say that this was written in good faith.

2323
01:53:30,680 --> 01:53:32,519
Speaker 2: You know, I would like to, but I'm.

2324
01:53:32,400 --> 01:53:35,519
Speaker 1: Glad you read it, because I wasn't going to read

2325
01:53:35,560 --> 01:53:38,559
Speaker 1: it as a lot of words to say nothing.

2326
01:53:39,280 --> 01:53:41,920
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

2327
01:53:42,000 --> 01:53:46,200
Speaker 5: I feel what you just said is one of the

2328
01:53:46,200 --> 01:53:50,240
Speaker 5: most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no

2329
01:53:50,400 --> 01:53:55,599
Speaker 5: point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close

2330
01:53:55,680 --> 01:54:00,400
Speaker 5: to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone

2331
01:54:00,520 --> 01:54:03,880
Speaker 5: in this room is now dumber for having listened to it.

2332
01:54:04,920 --> 01:54:08,360
Speaker 5: I award you no points, and may God have mercy

2333
01:54:08,400 --> 01:54:08,960
Speaker 5: on your soul.

2334
01:54:10,800 --> 01:54:14,000
Speaker 2: I just don't know why. The next tweek was it, Hey, my.

2335
01:54:13,920 --> 01:54:16,760
Speaker 1: Bad job, Sorry about that, and that could have ended everything.

2336
01:54:17,120 --> 01:54:20,080
Speaker 2: You know, No, I don't. I don't know why.

2337
01:54:20,120 --> 01:54:23,360
Speaker 3: It wasn't just that, you know the other part was

2338
01:54:23,400 --> 01:54:26,880
Speaker 3: just some unfortunate time. And Nicki Minaj saw tweets about

2339
01:54:26,920 --> 01:54:29,400
Speaker 3: Lovey's tweet, but didn't see Lovey's tweet, not Nicki Minaj,

2340
01:54:30,320 --> 01:54:34,360
Speaker 3: Missy Elliott, and it sounded like Missy was shading Lovey

2341
01:54:34,560 --> 01:54:36,600
Speaker 3: when she later went on to be like, I didn't

2342
01:54:36,600 --> 01:54:39,000
Speaker 3: even see that tweet, y'all, And I don't have problem

2343
01:54:39,040 --> 01:54:43,520
Speaker 3: with Lovey my bad, you know, but uh yeah, man,

2344
01:54:43,560 --> 01:54:47,240
Speaker 3: its just it is what it is, man, all right,

2345
01:54:47,280 --> 01:54:48,680
Speaker 3: we talked about that for a long time.

2346
01:54:48,800 --> 01:54:49,680
Speaker 2: I didn't plan on it.

2347
01:54:50,320 --> 01:54:54,880
Speaker 1: And also my thing too, is that the foundation of

2348
01:54:54,920 --> 01:54:58,480
Speaker 1: a lot of what she was saying is basically, if

2349
01:54:58,520 --> 01:55:03,800
Speaker 1: you're African America and your descendants with slavery slaves, almost

2350
01:55:03,880 --> 01:55:06,280
Speaker 1: like y'all are the only people that quote unquote have

2351
01:55:06,320 --> 01:55:08,840
Speaker 1: a right to consider yourself African American, nuther Blacks that

2352
01:55:08,960 --> 01:55:13,000
Speaker 1: join don't really have a right to consider themselves African Americans,

2353
01:55:13,000 --> 01:55:14,560
Speaker 1: you know, because you keept harping on that slip, But

2354
01:55:14,560 --> 01:55:17,960
Speaker 1: that slavery shit matter. You can't erase that. You can't

2355
01:55:18,000 --> 01:55:21,520
Speaker 1: separate that like that is a fact. We said, you

2356
01:55:21,560 --> 01:55:23,040
Speaker 1: can come on, you can be black, and I'm about

2357
01:55:23,080 --> 01:55:24,720
Speaker 1: try to keep you out of blackness, but that is

2358
01:55:24,760 --> 01:55:27,160
Speaker 1: something that fucking matters to us, and you can't act

2359
01:55:27,240 --> 01:55:28,320
Speaker 1: like it doesn't yeah, you can't.

2360
01:55:28,400 --> 01:55:29,480
Speaker 2: YadA YadA, YadA that shit.

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Speaker 3: And I've made a joke on this show several times,

2362
01:55:32,080 --> 01:55:34,400
Speaker 3: and I mean it's half in jest, but it's half serious.

2363
01:55:34,440 --> 01:55:37,200
Speaker 3: But it's like when white people tell black people who

2364
01:55:37,240 --> 01:55:39,920
Speaker 3: are from America go back to Africa, which we've never

2365
01:55:39,960 --> 01:55:43,920
Speaker 3: been to, and when black people who are paying Africanness

2366
01:55:44,200 --> 01:55:46,760
Speaker 3: who are like, we just gonna go to Africa, and

2367
01:55:46,800 --> 01:55:49,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're not from fucking Africa.

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01:55:50,000 --> 01:55:51,480
Speaker 2: What do you think you just gonna get over there?

2369
01:55:51,760 --> 01:55:54,200
Speaker 2: Bring your American.

2370
01:55:54,200 --> 01:55:56,760
Speaker 3: Stereotypes of what Africa is like, you think it's all

2371
01:55:56,840 --> 01:56:01,520
Speaker 3: one fucking place, and you're just gonna show up and ask, hey, guys,

2372
01:56:01,640 --> 01:56:02,879
Speaker 3: can you show me a village?

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01:56:02,880 --> 01:56:04,880
Speaker 2: Where's my hut? And then they're gonna look at you

2374
01:56:04,920 --> 01:56:07,600
Speaker 2: and be like, motherfucker, what century do you.

2375
01:56:07,520 --> 01:56:09,360
Speaker 3: Think you come from? And where the fuck you think

2376
01:56:09,400 --> 01:56:11,879
Speaker 3: you are? Because we're not from there.

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01:56:11,960 --> 01:56:14,280
Speaker 1: Right, we'll go over that time about the country of Africa.

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01:56:14,440 --> 01:56:17,680
Speaker 2: Right, Oh can you guys? Can y'all show me to

2379
01:56:18,240 --> 01:56:20,600
Speaker 2: my village? And people gonna be like, you don't own

2380
01:56:20,680 --> 01:56:21,480
Speaker 2: shit from here?

2381
01:56:21,600 --> 01:56:22,400
Speaker 1: Right, you don't.

2382
01:56:22,720 --> 01:56:25,320
Speaker 3: None of this is yours. You come you don't speak

2383
01:56:25,320 --> 01:56:27,520
Speaker 3: any of our language. You come over here with your

2384
01:56:27,560 --> 01:56:31,320
Speaker 3: fucking like stupid ass attitudes and calling the third world

2385
01:56:31,440 --> 01:56:33,480
Speaker 3: and backwards and all this shit that you learn from

2386
01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:35,560
Speaker 3: white folks, and you come over.

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01:56:35,360 --> 01:56:37,440
Speaker 2: Here and just I'm sure they deal with it too.

2388
01:56:37,800 --> 01:56:40,200
Speaker 3: And you and I have never been to Africa, and

2389
01:56:40,280 --> 01:56:42,800
Speaker 3: I know that this has to happen there because I'm

2390
01:56:42,840 --> 01:56:45,360
Speaker 3: black in America and it happens here. So I know that,

2391
01:56:45,560 --> 01:56:48,400
Speaker 3: and I know how we feel and what we are

2392
01:56:48,440 --> 01:56:51,320
Speaker 3: taught and how insufficient it is. And no amount of

2393
01:56:51,320 --> 01:56:54,360
Speaker 3: time I spend over in Africa is ever going to

2394
01:56:54,480 --> 01:56:57,160
Speaker 3: make me the same as a person who was born there.

2395
01:56:57,400 --> 01:56:59,320
Speaker 2: It is never gonna happen. It doesn't matter that.

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01:56:59,280 --> 01:57:01,720
Speaker 3: We're both black, it doesn't I'm not getting kicked out

2397
01:57:01,720 --> 01:57:04,000
Speaker 3: of blackness because they tell me their experience is different

2398
01:57:04,040 --> 01:57:06,560
Speaker 3: than mine. And you weren't kicked out of blackness because

2399
01:57:06,640 --> 01:57:09,560
Speaker 3: someone told you the black American experience is different than

2400
01:57:09,560 --> 01:57:13,320
Speaker 3: the one you had. You still had some either advantages

2401
01:57:13,560 --> 01:57:17,680
Speaker 3: or just simply some differences. Either way, you have cop

2402
01:57:17,760 --> 01:57:20,920
Speaker 3: to these differences. But did you truly understand or is

2403
01:57:20,960 --> 01:57:24,240
Speaker 3: it just this thing of I want to have the

2404
01:57:24,280 --> 01:57:26,680
Speaker 3: top spot in things that I talk about, and I

2405
01:57:26,720 --> 01:57:29,720
Speaker 3: wanted to be unchallenged, so therefore I'm gonna make it

2406
01:57:29,760 --> 01:57:32,440
Speaker 3: seem like y'all bullied me, when the truth of the

2407
01:57:32,480 --> 01:57:35,240
Speaker 3: matter is I've stepped in it a few times and

2408
01:57:35,320 --> 01:57:37,160
Speaker 3: I don't want to ever admit that I stepped down it.

2409
01:57:37,640 --> 01:57:42,560
Speaker 3: And nothing feels more like a reminder of the fact

2410
01:57:42,600 --> 01:57:45,760
Speaker 3: that you're not from here than you telling people who

2411
01:57:45,840 --> 01:57:48,400
Speaker 3: are in mass from here telling you we disagree with

2412
01:57:48,440 --> 01:57:50,680
Speaker 3: you and what you said was kind of offensive. No

2413
01:57:50,840 --> 01:57:54,080
Speaker 3: it wasn't, And you guys are offending me. That's what happened,

2414
01:57:55,120 --> 01:57:57,880
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. I say that with compassionate empathy, because,

2415
01:57:57,920 --> 01:58:02,160
Speaker 3: like I said, I am fucking sure from her perspective,

2416
01:58:02,640 --> 01:58:06,320
Speaker 3: this shit just always feels like it's coming out of

2417
01:58:06,360 --> 01:58:09,760
Speaker 3: nowhere and it's super mean and people don't give a fuck,

2418
01:58:09,920 --> 01:58:13,560
Speaker 3: And like I guarantee you, that's a huge part of it.

2419
01:58:13,640 --> 01:58:16,320
Speaker 3: And I ain't even knocking her for that. That part

2420
01:58:16,360 --> 01:58:18,160
Speaker 3: of it is the part that never gets talked about

2421
01:58:18,200 --> 01:58:20,840
Speaker 3: when we talk about people as if their brands and

2422
01:58:20,920 --> 01:58:24,440
Speaker 3: celebrities and shit, they're human beings with emotions too, and

2423
01:58:24,680 --> 01:58:26,320
Speaker 3: they were going you know, she was going back and

2424
01:58:26,400 --> 01:58:29,320
Speaker 3: forth with prominent people and on Twitter that they might

2425
01:58:29,360 --> 01:58:31,560
Speaker 3: not be friends, but I'm sure they know of each other.

2426
01:58:32,000 --> 01:58:33,600
Speaker 2: And she also got found, you.

2427
01:58:33,520 --> 01:58:35,440
Speaker 3: Know, because it's Twitter, you're gonna find out some people

2428
01:58:35,440 --> 01:58:37,040
Speaker 3: that don't fuck with you and don't like you that's

2429
01:58:37,040 --> 01:58:40,320
Speaker 3: been waiting to tell your ass, and that ain't you know,

2430
01:58:40,560 --> 01:58:42,480
Speaker 3: that's harsh and that sucks too. And I'm sure she

2431
01:58:42,520 --> 01:58:46,600
Speaker 3: got feelings behind all that shit. But like you, was

2432
01:58:46,680 --> 01:58:50,840
Speaker 3: just wrong. It's possible to be wrong. And part of

2433
01:58:50,840 --> 01:58:52,720
Speaker 3: the reason you're wrong is because you're not from here,

2434
01:58:53,280 --> 01:58:55,760
Speaker 3: or you don't respect the culture like that, you don't

2435
01:58:55,880 --> 01:59:02,080
Speaker 3: understand necessarily the cultural significance or certain people that are icons.

2436
01:59:01,840 --> 01:59:04,760
Speaker 2: In to us and only to us.

2437
01:59:05,320 --> 01:59:08,560
Speaker 3: And that's okay, that's where the learning is supposed to

2438
01:59:08,600 --> 01:59:11,600
Speaker 3: come from. This was a moment where you go, I

2439
01:59:11,680 --> 01:59:16,040
Speaker 3: learned something. Tavin Campbell apparently is motherfucking black Jesus.

2440
01:59:16,040 --> 01:59:17,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know. I didn't not know. You can't talk

2441
01:59:17,920 --> 01:59:20,640
Speaker 2: shit about Tavin Campbell. Don't nobodys talk shit about Tavin

2442
01:59:20,680 --> 01:59:22,080
Speaker 2: Campll like I now I know.

2443
01:59:22,800 --> 01:59:25,640
Speaker 3: My bad would have been the end of it for

2444
01:59:25,680 --> 01:59:27,920
Speaker 3: the vast majority of people, the people that don't like you.

2445
01:59:27,960 --> 01:59:30,040
Speaker 3: Of course they're gonna harp on it right, But they

2446
01:59:30,080 --> 01:59:31,640
Speaker 3: were gonna harp on you say, and I just had

2447
01:59:31,640 --> 01:59:33,000
Speaker 3: some cheerios this morning, They will be like.

2448
01:59:33,040 --> 01:59:36,760
Speaker 2: You, motherfucker cheerios, go back to Averaga. They were gonna

2449
01:59:36,760 --> 01:59:36,960
Speaker 2: do that.

2450
01:59:37,440 --> 01:59:40,640
Speaker 3: But for the vast majority of us that weren't offended by,

2451
01:59:41,000 --> 01:59:43,200
Speaker 3: you know, a lot of the shit, that weren't really

2452
01:59:43,280 --> 01:59:46,560
Speaker 3: up in arms over it until it becomes a fucking thing,

2453
01:59:46,600 --> 01:59:48,760
Speaker 3: which you're doubling down and then writing to tell us

2454
01:59:48,800 --> 01:59:51,480
Speaker 3: this long ass shit about black people aren't mean.

2455
01:59:52,680 --> 01:59:55,800
Speaker 2: Now it's the thing for everybody. It didn't have to be,

2456
01:59:55,840 --> 01:59:58,960
Speaker 2: but now it is. So yeah. I you know, like

2457
01:59:59,000 --> 02:00:02,960
Speaker 2: I said, man, that that whole thing was whack.

2458
02:00:04,440 --> 02:00:09,200
Speaker 1: A hundred same yeah, So yeah, we don't play the games.

2459
02:00:10,560 --> 02:00:12,160
Speaker 3: All right, man, Like I said, I didn't know this

2460
02:00:12,160 --> 02:00:13,840
Speaker 3: episode was gonna go so long for like we didn't

2461
02:00:13,840 --> 02:00:21,040
Speaker 3: talk about ship, uh talking about no article, but uh yeah,

2462
02:00:21,280 --> 02:00:27,720
Speaker 3: this is in a long, unfunny, angry episode. But yeah,

2463
02:00:27,760 --> 02:00:33,200
Speaker 3: shout out to shout out to all the people listening podcast.

2464
02:00:33,280 --> 02:00:37,600
Speaker 2: Man, we do appreciate y'all. Shout out to snakes obviously,

2465
02:00:38,200 --> 02:00:39,800
Speaker 2: shout the popcorn, you.

2466
02:00:39,760 --> 02:00:42,600
Speaker 1: Know, shout popcorn, Shout out the sonic too.

2467
02:00:42,640 --> 02:00:45,560
Speaker 2: Brushes you know what I'm saying, like, shout out to everybody.

2468
02:00:46,000 --> 02:00:49,240
Speaker 3: We'll be back soon. If everything goes as playing me

2469
02:00:49,520 --> 02:00:56,680
Speaker 3: and BOSSI should be reviewing this, uh this Insecure on

2470
02:00:56,880 --> 02:01:01,200
Speaker 3: Friday morning tomorrow morning to be bossy sports for me

2471
02:01:01,240 --> 02:01:04,920
Speaker 3: and justin so and and and you know someone wrote

2472
02:01:05,000 --> 02:01:06,960
Speaker 3: me about like, hey, I can see an episode in

2473
02:01:07,000 --> 02:01:10,320
Speaker 3: the queue this morning. Are y'all taking is it? Four

2474
02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:12,920
Speaker 3: episodes a week from now on? And I said, I

2475
02:01:12,960 --> 02:01:14,600
Speaker 3: don't know. I just was tired.

2476
02:01:15,320 --> 02:01:18,440
Speaker 2: And the thing is now I'll say it again. We

2477
02:01:18,480 --> 02:01:19,720
Speaker 2: work for ourselves.

2478
02:01:21,840 --> 02:01:23,880
Speaker 3: I Am not gonna become a victim of the grind

2479
02:01:23,960 --> 02:01:27,840
Speaker 3: economy and grind myself to a nub. When I feel tired,

2480
02:01:28,000 --> 02:01:30,760
Speaker 3: when I need some time, I'm taking it. I don't

2481
02:01:30,760 --> 02:01:33,640
Speaker 3: got no boss other than me and Karen. And if

2482
02:01:33,760 --> 02:01:36,200
Speaker 3: we clear with each other, then some days it might

2483
02:01:36,240 --> 02:01:38,960
Speaker 3: not be a show. We do a lot of work,

2484
02:01:39,120 --> 02:01:41,880
Speaker 3: especially for our premium people who actually who.

2485
02:01:41,840 --> 02:01:44,560
Speaker 2: Actually do pay for for this stuff.

2486
02:01:46,040 --> 02:01:48,520
Speaker 3: Does yeah, like, we do a lot of work, man,

2487
02:01:49,160 --> 02:01:51,600
Speaker 3: And if you're not premium, then you probably don't understand

2488
02:01:53,080 --> 02:01:55,680
Speaker 3: the amount of work that we do because it's not

2489
02:01:55,840 --> 02:01:56,520
Speaker 3: so five.

2490
02:01:56,280 --> 02:01:59,840
Speaker 1: Shows for that a week. In addition to the other shows.

2491
02:02:00,120 --> 02:02:04,440
Speaker 3: Right, Like, we're guest on podcasts often, especially like I

2492
02:02:04,600 --> 02:02:05,120
Speaker 3: was on.

2493
02:02:06,680 --> 02:02:11,280
Speaker 2: The Dominion recap, on Movie Trader reviews. We both are

2494
02:02:11,320 --> 02:02:15,400
Speaker 2: on music Ate My Brains podcasts about problematic songs.

2495
02:02:16,120 --> 02:02:18,440
Speaker 3: Those are Saturday afternoons we're giving up. In addition to

2496
02:02:18,480 --> 02:02:22,080
Speaker 3: the shows were doing the weekend then you have, you know,

2497
02:02:22,120 --> 02:02:25,600
Speaker 3: we're doing movie reviews. We did Crazy Rich Asians, then

2498
02:02:25,720 --> 02:02:28,840
Speaker 3: later on that night we did Field to Walking Dair recap.

2499
02:02:28,840 --> 02:02:31,919
Speaker 2: Like we've seen. There was two movies this week, yes.

2500
02:02:31,840 --> 02:02:34,560
Speaker 3: And we did Maul twenty two on Thursday. My point being,

2501
02:02:34,720 --> 02:02:37,200
Speaker 3: we're always working, whether y'all see it or not. Correct

2502
02:02:37,520 --> 02:02:39,480
Speaker 3: If you're not premium and you probably don't see it

2503
02:02:39,760 --> 02:02:42,320
Speaker 3: if you are. If you are premium, you definitely see it.

2504
02:02:42,360 --> 02:02:44,320
Speaker 3: And there's no way you're keeping up with all of it.

2505
02:02:44,440 --> 02:02:47,240
Speaker 3: More than likely nobody's probably listening to every episode and

2506
02:02:47,320 --> 02:02:48,440
Speaker 3: every premium show.

2507
02:02:48,960 --> 02:02:51,640
Speaker 2: Which is fine. I prefer it to be that way.

2508
02:02:51,680 --> 02:02:56,480
Speaker 3: But uh yeah, some days, you know, we gotta take

2509
02:02:56,480 --> 02:03:00,280
Speaker 3: a day off, and like I said, said this week,

2510
02:03:00,840 --> 02:03:05,760
Speaker 3: I'll be working Thursday and Friday anyway, you know, if

2511
02:03:05,800 --> 02:03:08,480
Speaker 3: everything goes according to plan, so you know, and then

2512
02:03:08,560 --> 02:03:11,960
Speaker 3: back to ground Saturday Sunday, you know, like so some

2513
02:03:12,120 --> 02:03:14,720
Speaker 3: days it might be a Monday and I'm just like, yo,

2514
02:03:14,840 --> 02:03:15,760
Speaker 3: I can't do it.

2515
02:03:16,160 --> 02:03:17,840
Speaker 2: You know. I need to take this nap, you know.

2516
02:03:18,480 --> 02:03:20,800
Speaker 2: So anyway, that's what you guys are hearing. All right

2517
02:03:20,920 --> 02:03:24,720
Speaker 2: until Saturday for the regular folks.

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Speaker 1: I love you, I love