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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday? Everyone coming in hot there? Cheez? Um sorry

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Speaker 1: if I hurt your ears? Tuesday, Uh it is Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: and um boy, we're supposed to have an F Boy

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Speaker 1: Island centric show for you today. That's gonna happen tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Andrew had some flight issues. Happens, No worries, We're very listen,

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Speaker 1: everything can wait. Everything's F Boy Island. Can you imagine

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Speaker 1: I've booked Garrett. Like, listen, everyone, it's not you know,

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Speaker 1: This isn't life or death. You know. This isn't trying

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Speaker 1: to get on a fucking plane in Kabul. You know

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Speaker 1: That's that's what we should all be like stressed about.

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Speaker 1: Andrew came in today from his like horrid flight journey, apologizing,

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Speaker 1: I just don't care, Like not that I don't care

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Speaker 1: and he misses her so much. So do I Brenda?

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Speaker 1: We miss you so much. Um, but like let's let's

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Speaker 1: And when I go Andrew and I don't know where

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Speaker 1: the last time? Like, have you told me about it?

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Speaker 1: got like a twenty four hour virus because my family

426
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 1: had it too. They were shooting somewhere else, I don't know.

427
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 1: They dropped me off and I We're all like hanging

428
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 1: out and like smoking like a token the weed, you know,

429
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:43,400
Speaker 1: ye kid, And I went, you know, when you start

430
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,000
Speaker 1: to feel that sick, that's when he like that comes on,

431
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: like it. And I was laying in bed shivering in

432
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 1: my friends the cool kids bed, and I went to

433
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: Sharp in his bed and I it's funny if you

434
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: had planned to show art and you go, but it

435
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 1: was it was just ship. I mean it's I was

436
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: meaning the shark, but I ship. Yeah, I went way

437
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: bigger than I think in the bed. Did everyone know

438
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:19,120
Speaker 1: how old are you? Oh boy, that is maybe the

439
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 1: worst year of your life. Oh my god, maybe just

440
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: actually freshman year would be the worst, but sophomore it's

441
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: pretty bad. It's pretty close between yes, and so I

442
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 1: end up I end up sneaking off into the bathroom

443
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,159
Speaker 1: because I have shipped all in me, all my pants

444
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to be cool about it. And then

445
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: I just hear through the door. I just hear a

446
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 1: guy go, dude, you fucking smell that, dude. I mean,

447
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 1: it's so wro how much ship smells when it's outside

448
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: your body. Why does it smell so bad so fast?

449
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, but the guy was a game of

450
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 1: hot or cold. But with my ship, they were like

451
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: getting closer and I was like, oh my god, my

452
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: you're like hiding in the bathroom like one of the

453
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 1: kids in the kitchen on Jurassic Park. And they're just

454
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: getting closer. And yeah, the raptors are like, it's in

455
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: and you oh, and you're just cleaning it up. And

456
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: I'm sure they would ran on toilet papers. It's just

457
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 1: like I was in the shower. I was. They go,

458
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 1: oh my god, dude, it smells like ship. And then

459
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: they finally found it. They go, well, if you're in

460
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: the shower, because that's kind of obvious, or you're just

461
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: going to like you pretending you're going to pee. Wait

462
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: was this in the morning at night? So the showers

463
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: the dead give a right yea, and they go they go,

464
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 1: I think, calling ship your bed. And then I heard

465
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: him like like putting all the friends. Yeah, okay, so

466
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: they're good enough that you could trust them not to

467
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: tell you, No, you can't. I mean your friends are

468
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 1: a different they're different breed, they are they're not good.

469
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: So they come to the door and they go calling,

470
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: did you ship my bed? And I was like, don't

471
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: come in, kid, That's what I remember saying. I was like.

472
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: And then they made me just sleep. I slept on

473
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: like the windows sill like this, like not the sail,

474
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: but like there was like yeah a little and it

475
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: was freezing for some reason in Florida. I was done

476
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: no blanket and I didn't have other clothes. I know,

477
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: it's very mean there. I'm sure I blame Rusty. So

478
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: then but real quick the next week some kids ship

479
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,360
Speaker 1: his pants worse and then your story was buried. That's

480
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: how great his story was. And when someone else the best, yes,

481
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 1: where it just well I know the stuff, but yeah, no,

482
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: I I can't really recall of a time where it

483
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: was like, oh, something worse happened, so they covered it up.

484
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: But you know there's been no no and you know,

485
00:24:54,400 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 1: shooting my pants. Um, it's just so amazing. How now

486
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: that is so much a part of my life, dealing

487
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 1: with poop and like being okay with it because of

488
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: my sex life right now and like with the occurrence

489
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: of it. I will say, yesterday I finally received my

490
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 1: kit in the mail that is going to make my

491
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: life so great. I don't know what took me get

492
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: the kid to next. It's just like, um, yeah, I'll

493
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: get it. I'll get it when we do. I don't

494
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: know a final thought. Um yeah I got this like

495
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: thing Amazon, baby, yeah you got and I got I

496
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 1: got another thing for me Amazon. I should show you guys,

497
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 1: because I got some good stuff. I'm building my like

498
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: you know apparati that I used for my sex life.

499
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: But also I just don't want to come anymore because

500
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: of those books. So I'm like conflicted because I read

501
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: the book about not coming. No, Andrew, I think you're

502
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: actually suffering because I come because I get in a

503
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 1: bad mood after it affects. It affects you maybe more

504
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: than you're thinking. Let's go to the news. Wait, what

505
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: do you type in for this kid, I gotta know

506
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: you here first. You just type in anal douche. Oh

507
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 1: you pretty simple, straightforward. Amazon has a lot of things

508
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 1: everything everything. Is it like next day delivery? I mean yeah,

509
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: you can get it prime, You can get it shipped

510
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: right into your asshole. You just have been a little

511
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: code and a little locker pops a little robot man there, yeah,

512
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: with gloves on. Yeah, it's actually in there right now,

513
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: so I gotta take it out for the next secon. Yeah,

514
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: what's the first story? Oh wait, I hope you're having

515
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: all the swell Jesus Christ, Holy shit, I hope you're

516
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: having all this was having a great time out there. Okay,

517
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 1: that was bad. Okay. A stranger reached out to a

518
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 1: woman on TikTok after overhearing a group of her friends

519
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: dividing a plan to intentionally exclude her from a birthday party. Now,

520
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: she organizes a giant knicks for lonely Internet users who

521
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: want to make real life pals. Random person heard a

522
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: group of friends talking shit about how they weren't gonna

523
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: invite a girl to a party, and so he reached

524
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: out to her. How did he know? But he looked

525
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: at her phone. It's our handle or something. It was

526
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: I'm trying to via Instagram or something on TikTok. It

527
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: was on t yeah, yeah yeah, and was like, hey,

528
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,719
Speaker 1: is this your name? Maybe they were like looking at her, like, honestly,

529
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: I don't think i'd want to know. Sometimes people it's

530
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: like I don't want to hear when my friends talk

531
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: about me. But I'm like that this girl spun it

532
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: into something good. How old is this girl? She's probably

533
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: in her twenties, three years old. Does she look like

534
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: someone you wanted the party? Are you kind of like

535
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: on her friend's side? Here? She has kind of you'd

536
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: make her sleep on the windows the bed. I'll tell you, well,

537
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: here's the thing. We all have that one friend that, like,

538
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to invite to the party. She she

539
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: might she might suck, you know what I mean, Like,

540
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: so don't be friends with her. But she did spin

541
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,479
Speaker 1: it into a way where a bunch of people that

542
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: suck can get together. I guess, Oh that's so sweet.

543
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: How did she How did she get all these lonely

544
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: people together? Wait, that does not make sense. She Okay,

545
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at a selfie of her with all

546
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: of these like hundred lonely people behind her, and they

547
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: all look like party animals. I mean, those girls are

548
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: all hot. No one's not inviting those girls anywhere. I

549
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: I how did she solicit for lonely people? I guess

550
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: she put out a TikTok herself. Yeah, I'm sure, yeah,

551
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: and it went viral and then everyone was like, well,

552
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: come to Boston. People relating to it and just cheer her,

553
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: like cheer her on and stuff, and she's like, you

554
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: know what, why don't we all just meet up? And

555
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: it started in New York and now she has like

556
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: the lonely that it's it's on the thing, hold on,

557
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: I can't see it. But where like all across the

558
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: no more lonely friends. Yeah, and they get together and

559
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: have picnics and meet each other. And she said the

560
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: rain like the ages ranged from like twenties. She had

561
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: a seventy year old person there who was looking for

562
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: a friend. It was very sweet, my god cute. I

563
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: really feel for those people. And I look back on

564
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: my group of friends in high school, which was really

565
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: you know, we I didn't really have an identity outside

566
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: of my friends. It was like all I had. I

567
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: didn't have boyfriends or anything. So like I was obsessed

568
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: with my friends, some might say in love with them.

569
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: And we each of our middle names, we took the

570
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: initial and made like we made it was called Greek

571
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: Renee Ingrid, Elizabeth Kimball, and we all made like shorts

572
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: that said riek on the butt, and like and and

573
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: and there were other girls that wanted to be in

574
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: our group, that were in our group like would hang

575
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: out with us, but like that was so excluding to them,

576
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: and they never we made it so honestly, they could

577
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: never even get in. We didn't even offer, like let's

578
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: add your name. It was always like, it just sucks

579
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: to think back that, like I could have made people

580
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: feel that way, and I know that I did because

581
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: some of these people sucked, and like we didn't want

582
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: them around, but one of our friends a friends with them,

583
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: so we like tolerated and I never did anything to

584
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: purposely make them feel I would honestly go out of

585
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: my way to sometimes hang out with these people to

586
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: make them feel better. But it's you know what, it's

587
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: it sucks. And and I just actually met a girl

588
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: over the weekend who I instantly loved and was like, oh,

589
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: my god, please be one of my best friends. It

590
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: was Spade's assistant, and I couldn't have loved her more.

591
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: Instantly she like got off this elevator. I was just like,

592
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: oh my god. I was so nervous to meet her

593
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: because I hear so much about her from David and

594
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: she was just amazing. And then we got to talking

595
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: and she was saying that like she never really felt

596
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: she never had like really good girlfriends. I mean, I'm paraphrasing,

597
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: but she just never she went through life without like

598
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: finding a good group of girlfriends. And I have a

599
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: couple of girlfriends like that that just never found the

600
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: type of support I found so early on. And Uh,

601
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: if you're one of those people, it's not because you

602
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: weren't cool and and because cool people would want to

603
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: be friends with you. It really is like luck, you know,

604
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: Like I got lucky in fourth grade that I was

605
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: I got to switch desks and sit next to Kirsten

606
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: Forlorman because I didn't have any friends until her, and

607
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: that was my first real friend. And and I was

608
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: thinking back on it because Kirsten heard me talk crying

609
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: the other day about how I wanted to kill myself

610
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: when I was in third grade, and how sad that was,

611
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: and how if I didn't meet her, I don't know

612
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: what would have happened, Honestly I don't because she no,

613
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't talk to anyone the way I talked to Kursten,

614
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: and like we shared things that I still don't share

615
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: with people. I couldn't tell my parents, things I couldn't

616
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: tell my sister. So I just got lucky. I truly

617
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: got lucky meeting that person in it. And I always

618
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: thought it was like, oh, it's me, I'm just so

619
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: cool that I like naturally got all these friends. No,

620
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: it was just luck that there were these three awesome

621
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,239
Speaker 1: women that I got to be close to, and so

622
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: many people go to if I went to a different

623
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: high school, it wouldn't been the same or different grade level.

624
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: There were no other girls at grade levels that I

625
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: would have been that close with. I knew them all,

626
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: and there was no one. So it just it's all luck.

627
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you get if you could get just

628
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: one great friend, and then it could kind of, you know,

629
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: dribble down, like the other kids wanted to be cool

630
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: with me because I was best friends with the starting

631
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: quarterback who happened to be the coolest kid in school

632
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: for some reason took me in and because of that,

633
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: because I was a Jewish kid in all Christian school

634
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: and I was very small, and this big, like meathead

635
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: Italian guy took me into this and like me because

636
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: I was funny, and then that kind of steam. If

637
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: there's a people in our room and one of them

638
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: is a big Italian man and likes you, that one

639
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: person could be your Bradley Cooper. Um No, It's like

640
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: it's so true, and I just and that's why I

641
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: like this podcast so much, because I know that when

642
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: people write and say they listen every day and feel

643
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: like there are friends, I know that there's so many

644
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: people out there that just like work with a bunch

645
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: of losers, or you went to high school and all

646
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: your friends just like suck now and you maybe didn't

647
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: have good friends high school. You just haven't had a

648
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: chance to meet cool people. And if you feel like

649
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 1: you could be friends with me, I bet you would,

650
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: and I would be your friend. You just happen to

651
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: not be lucky enough to meet those not lucky, but

652
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: like it's just chance, you know, and you've got to

653
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: expose yourself obviously to new groups of people and and

654
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: force yourself to do things out of your comfort zone.

655
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: But some people have social anxiety. And thank God for

656
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: the Internet and being able to develop friends that way

657
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: and and this podcast. I hope people feel less alone

658
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: because of this. Next story, all right, during a video

659
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: visitation with her jailed boyfriend, a woman exposed her breasts

660
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: and masturbated. Cops later showed up at her home. Yeah,

661
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: what else would you do in a video call with

662
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: your boyfriend who's in jail, I know exactly. And they

663
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: arrested her though for exposure of a sexual organ which

664
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: in a public place. I mean, who are these cops?

665
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: Are they watching the video? You can't? For The funny

666
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: thing is so if you get into the details of it, Andrew, So,

667
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: she was okay, okay, she was the visitors building, so

668
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: she wasn't at home or anything, but there is something

669
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: so it was like, okay, well and then all this

670
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: stuff you want to read a hand Yeah, yeah, yeah,

671
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: So the visitation occurred via internet feed. The woman was

672
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: in the video visitation building. Okay, I thought she was

673
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: at home too, so I didn't realize she was. He

674
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: was like on campus. But the point where they canceled

675
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: the visit, like everything that happened before is like okay.

676
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: So during their visit, they were speaking of sexual activities.

677
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: The women frequently flaunted and rubbed her breasts, showing and

678
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: revealing her outfit that she was wearing, calling her outfit naughty.

679
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: After the boyfriend asked if he could come for her,

680
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: she began to rock back and forth in her chair,

681
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: appearing to have an orgasm. I like, how they go.

682
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: We don't know. We we cannot confirm or deny that

683
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 1: she actually had one. But she appeared to have one.

684
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: But wasn't I mean maybe they were re enacting went

685
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: back in the day, what was that thing or whatever? Yeah,

686
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: but that happens in like a trailer alone. Yeah, but

687
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: that would they have to clean up and everything? This

688
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: is on their own. I wouldn't. I wonder if she

689
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: was like like with there were other people with an earshot,

690
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: like they were all in there had was she in

691
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: a single room if she had orgasms like I did,

692
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: No one would have caught her. It would have been

693
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: like I thought, you're allowed. No. No, I'm like like

694
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: I'd make like squeally noises and I cover my eyes

695
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: and I'm just like like people like having a like.

696
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: I got likely like and then sometimes I laugh. I

697
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 1: got like, like I make such weird toises your in

698
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: the pillow. Yeah, yeah, that's a fun one. But I mean,

699
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: do you think this girls should be a I mean

700
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: she got arrested. I mean, what else are you gonna

701
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: be doing in there having a conversation about North They

702
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: canceled the visit. Not when she was rocking back and forth,

703
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: like having the orgasm or whatever. It's when she pulled

704
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: up her shirt and exposed her boobs. They're like, Okay,

705
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: this visit is over. Yeah, I mean this woman, yes,

706
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: she should be arrested. I mean, this is like a lewd,

707
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,720
Speaker 1: indecent behavior. It's just like you know, like I don't

708
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: really think anyone should be arrested. I mean she should

709
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: just be told to the wrist and and then he's

710
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: gonna go visit her, and then it's gonna just perpetuate

711
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: the cycle. He's going to take out his dick. Um.

712
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 1: I wonder if a man could show his nipples and

713
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: take off his shirt during a visit and then it

714
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: would be okay, or maybe it's like a seven eleven

715
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: no shirt now joose no Um, what's your I mean,

716
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: I always go coke mixed with cherry or not. I

717
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm guessing that it's your. Yeah, go

718
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: to you dip a Snickers in it. I almost got

719
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: you some stinkers yesterday at snooks, Like I was gonna

720
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: get you some stinkers that shooks, but then I was like,

721
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 1: you know what, I'll just get him some Himalaya salt popcorn.

722
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,800
Speaker 1: That's to your heart. I bought a bunch of EVAs

723
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: right before I left. I know you did remind me

724
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 1: of it forever and ever you Let's get some more

725
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 1: in here. New new research shows a moral byrus You're

726
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: gonna love the favor and beautiful people and things. I

727
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: did say bias incorrectly. I know he's a buyers and

728
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: I had a buyer's remorse on hiring you as my

729
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: co host. I had a moral buyers were born. It

730
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: sounds like len bias is what Wait, so there's a

731
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: moral there's a bias for people that are more attractive. True,

732
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: okay um. Researchers found that external characteristics played key role

733
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: in how we judge morality. They also found that an

734
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: animals beauty also with animals beauty predicts if people will

735
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: think it deserves compassion. Of course, that's why I sent

736
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: Garrett a picture. Garrett and I were d m NG

737
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: this morning or like texting about the time switch for

738
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: f Boy Island Garrett from f Boy Island, and uh,

739
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: he was. I was asking him about like him and

740
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: Casey are living together yet, and he was talking about

741
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: how you know, uh, Casey needs to like they need

742
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: to like, uh, they might do a go fund me

743
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: to get Casey to move there, and they might like

744
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: don't Garrett like might match whatever go fund me is

745
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: raised for Casey to make the move. He might match

746
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: it and donate it to animal like an animal charity.

747
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, they'd be funny if he

748
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: did like a parody video with Casey where it's like

749
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: in the arms of enough Boy and it's like show's

750
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 1: Casey like sad and like shaking and then and then

751
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: you make a video. And I was like, because you

752
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: guys are funny, like capitalize on you guys are both

753
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 1: have good comedic timing and uh and he was, and

754
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: I go, that's cool that you would, you know, do

755
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: it for the animals. He's like, yeah, I love I'm

756
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: like so obsessed with animals. I love them so much.

757
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,280
Speaker 1: And I go, are you Vegan goes No, I like fish.

758
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 1: And then I set him an article that said fish

759
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: have feelings and he's like, I know, I know him

760
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: cutting back, Um, fish and women have feeling Scarrett, I

761
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: sent him an article about that too. Um no, but yeah,

762
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: that's true. Well, I don't know he last night I

763
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: was I'm like, I binge F Boy last night. I

764
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: didn't finish the episodes, thank god, because I woke up

765
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: this morning and realized that we get to push it

766
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: until tomorrow. But um oh my god, F Boy Island

767
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:31,439
Speaker 1: is so good, and I just say, it's like, it's

768
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: the best reality show. And I know that I know,

769
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: like you know, you know that if you're watching it,

770
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: it's so good. I enjoyed myself so much. Um Ah,

771
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 1: that was so hot. Oh wait, no, and I have

772
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: a question, Yes we do, Andrew, you want to ask

773
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: it because okay, let me just say that we're we're

774
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: referencing a picture of Garrett that I took on my

775
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: story where he's making out with Sarah and he grabs

776
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: her neck and it just was like so hot. And

777
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: Noah and I and Andrew were all in this chat

778
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: together and we were talking about f boy and Noah.

779
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: Since the picture it is like, holy sh it, this

780
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: is hot, and I was like, it's the hottest thing

781
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life. We were going off

782
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: about it, and then separately I wrote to no Uh,

783
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: and I said, I guarantee you Andrew is going to

784
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:26,280
Speaker 1: try this on Brenna. No, but I bet you anything.

785
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: You you you intentionally did it this time around? Can

786
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: a thousand percent honest? The picture did not download on

787
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: my phone. I never saw the photo there. But I'm

788
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: a big choker. I'm a big choker little hands, so

789
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: I need to use both of them. Um, yeah, that

790
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: was really hot and like, I don't know. I everyone's going,

791
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: how could Sarah choose him? How could she? And I'm

792
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: I'm told I love Josh too, like, but Josh again

793
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: is nine years older than Sarah and Garrett like is

794
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: he grabbed her fucking nack and listen, don't do that

795
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: unless a girl's consenting. And Sarah was very into it

796
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: and like like, at least from what I can tell,

797
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't speak for her, but um, it was so

798
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 1: hot and uh, and I don't know, I feel I

799
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: did a call with The New York Times that I

800
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: feel like Garrett will never speak to me again after

801
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: the things I said. But I was just saying that,

802
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: like I, I like, I'm attracted to people like Garrett

803
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: despite myself too, and I and I understand I you know,

804
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: I I advised Sarah that I think she should choose

805
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: Garrett and trust him, and that he was gonna pick her.

806
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: I like I really thought he would. And um, you'll

807
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: see what happens. But it's you know, it's already out there,

808
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: but it's like you got you gotta guys, watch up

809
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: Way Island and if you want to catch up for

810
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: our show tomorrow, I really recommend just like zipping through

811
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: on the app, and you can do kind of you

812
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: can jump through to get to the end be us

813
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: where we're really going to get spicy is seven eight

814
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: nine ten. I wouldn't skip it if you don't have to.

815
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:06,959
Speaker 1: But if you want to be able to like watch

816
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: our show, listen to our show tomorrow with all the

817
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: content things, people should give their jobs early, like turn

818
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,959
Speaker 1: off the phones and just watch the whole thing because

819
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: it's so good. I mean, everyone I've been talking to

820
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: is saying I've watched it all in twenty four hours,

821
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: like I cannot stop, and I got so invested yesterday

822
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: I was laughing at my own jokes. I was laughing

823
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: at jokes from Sarah's really funny. She's been making me

824
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: laugh a lot, like Uh, Chris gets eliminated. Like Chris,

825
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: I would have Chris on the show too, and ask

826
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: him why he was always sweating and um, because he

827
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 1: was the mole, you know. And uh, I have random

828
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: people writing me like were you what's going on with

829
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: And it's like people that I did not think would

830
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: be watching. People are obseted. It's everyone's going to this

831
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: is the best trash TV. It's like, no, it's not trash.

832
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 1: It's really well done and it's hilarious and it's are

833
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: you self aware? And it's um god, there were so

834
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 1: many moments yesterday that I had a lot of fun.

835
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: I did a cover of the f Way with theme song,

836
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: because once you watch ten episodes, you start to learn

837
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: the theme song. That's I like them boys. I like

838
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: them boys. That's that's all I love. It was so good.

839
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: I like them boys, I like them bos. I love

840
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: when you first hear a theme song and you go,

841
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,240
Speaker 1: I don't really like this, and then by the fifth listen,

842
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: you just go, I do like them boys. I like

843
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 1: them boys. And Casey coming Casey coming back after being

844
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 1: in Limbro. I did not know how that was going

845
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: to look on the show, because when it was I

846
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: was like, is this gonna be like it's so funny good?

847
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: It's really good? Now is it? Does it come off

848
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 1: real or it comes off like it's aware like we didn't.

849
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: We didn't let Casey just like hitch Red a bride,

850
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: but Casey wanted to escape and we facilitated it on

851
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: the show. I mean, that's everyone needs to watch this,

852
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: especially things in Limbro. In the Limbro is a scenario

853
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: that was built to generate comedy. So I hope that

854
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 1: you suspend your disbelief when you watch Lie sleeping outside

855
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: without shelter. They're working out with wood. You know what,

856
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: Before we get to why do I Care, let's take

857
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: a short break. Let's get to why do I Care?

858
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 1: Why do I Care? Phoebe O, Phoebe and Pete broke up.

859
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: Yea the yep. I saw that yeah five months okay,

860
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: well when we only saw them one time, I think

861
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: they were spotted at like the US Open. Yeah, tennis game,

862
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: tennis match, long distance relations to Uh it was, Oh,

863
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: it was long distance. You know. Someone was saying on

864
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: Reddit last night that he loved bombs women, which is

865
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: a thing that gets you know, from he loved bombs women.

866
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: Oh he loved I'm sorry, I thought bomb like a

867
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: bombs woman. Oh he loves bombs woman, bombs women bias. Um, yeah,

868
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: I mean I I care because, uh, you know, we

869
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: all remember him in Ariana Grande and how hot and

870
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: heavy that was, and I I I love it, you know,

871
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: I want that kind of passion. I love it, and

872
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm reading about it right now in this book I'm

873
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: reading called the Human Magnet Syndrome, which is like narcissists

874
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: and codependence get together. And there's a thing called limerins,

875
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 1: which is the thing I love more than anything I've

876
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 1: I've I've been very outspoken about how I want that

877
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: kind of love that's like so like so intense, obsessed

878
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: with each other, you know, blood and viols around each

879
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: other's necks, um fucking on the way to the Oscars

880
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: in the car. I'm talking about Billy, Bob Thornton and

881
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 1: Angelina and also Angelina and her brother at one point

882
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: Um did that on the way the Red Carpet. But like,

883
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: it's called limberance, and it was I think it was

884
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: coined in the nineties seventies by a scientist that was

885
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 1: studying human behavior when when people fall in love and

886
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 1: there is you know, there's a oxytose and gets shot

887
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: off like crazy when two people meet, especially to people

888
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: at opposite ends ends of like narcissism and codependent. If

889
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 1: you get a narcissist that's a five on the scale

890
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: of one to five, and you get a codependent that's

891
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: a negative five on a scale of negative five to

892
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: zero in terms of like doesn't like themselves, you get

893
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: the perfect match for a limberance that will last. And

894
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: it lasts up to two years, but generally much shorter

895
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: than that, and it can't it will not sustain. And

896
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: so when you see these people, limerance is like, I

897
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: don't even care that the it doesn't last and that

898
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: it can't last, and that it will be devastating once

899
00:46:54,280 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: it goes away. And I love love that obsessive, like

900
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: only want to each other all the time and each

901
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: other love bombing is just like I don't think Pete Davidson.

902
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: Love bombs. People like to toss that around, but that's

903
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: when a guy knowingly has intent to seduce a woman

904
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 1: and make him fall in love with her, make her

905
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: fall in love with him so that he can control

906
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: her and use her, and then has no intention of

907
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: actually like sticking it through men intentionally. A lot of

908
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: times it gets said to guys that are just like

909
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: suffering through limrins and like having that oxytocin, telling this

910
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: girl all these things that they actually feel in the moment,

911
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,439
Speaker 1: but then they can't actually live up to because their

912
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: body chemistry changes. They have orgasms that make them want

913
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: to run and fund something new, and they can't help it.

914
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: So love bombing is a thing that is It's very

915
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: rare that someone is sociopathic enough to go, I'm gonna

916
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: lie to this woman and tell her all the things

917
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: she wants to hear so that I can get whatever

918
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: I mean. It literally could just be there long distance.

919
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: It's hard to travel right now, it doesn't make sense.

920
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: Let's revisit it. Maybe the other time we put these

921
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: like huge things on these celebrities. We love to use

922
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: these like things that are in the d s M

923
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: that people that there are not as many sociopaths as

924
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: girls would like to have you believe based on their

925
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: ex boyfriends, There just aren't. It's not a there, you know,

926
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: it's statistically not that frequent for someone they could have

927
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: sociopathic tendencies or like, some of the same traits as

928
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: a sociopath, but being a true sociopath, let's hope there

929
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 1: aren't as many as as women accused their boyfriends of being.

930
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: And I guess like the result couldn't seem like like

931
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: the The end result can be the same result that

932
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: a sociopath would get to if he was planning it.

933
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: That can go unplanned. Of a guy that just like

934
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: isn't interested in me anymore, but he doesn't. Yeah, it's interesting.

935
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,359
Speaker 1: I've I've had so many times where that spark just

936
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: falls away and I don't know what to do, and

937
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: I feel so bad that I don't like this person anymore.

938
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: And so I do have a lot of empathy for

939
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: the guys in my past that have suddenly just the

940
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 1: switch turners, not premeditated, it's just up and I go, oh,

941
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: you knew you shouldn't have said, and yet, to be honest,

942
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,879
Speaker 1: you shouldn't promise things that you really aren't that are

943
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 1: it's too early to say that stuff. I hope those

944
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: guys learn from that and don't maybe say that knowing

945
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: that it could go away. So now when I feel

946
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: strongly about someone, I really do proceed with so much

947
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: more caution because I know that that can go away

948
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: really soon. Want you, I'm just saying, like, why are

949
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: you doing? Why are you? But are you love bombing

950
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: to get them to love you back? Or do you

951
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: actually really love them? Like? Why are you doing it?

952
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: The problem with narcissists, And let me just say this,

953
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: if you're dealing with a narcissist, narcissists cannot ever look

954
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: at themselves and know that they need to change because

955
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: they think they're perfect. That's that's the catch with narcissists.

956
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: It's an untreatable illness, especially people with you know, there's

957
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: narcissistic people, but being an actual nars assists, like diagnosed narcissists,

958
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: it's almost uh. And the same with sociopaths. They don't

959
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: want to change because they think they're perfect. Donald Trump

960
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: will never want to do the work. Uh. Well, it

961
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: comes from deep down insecurity and feeling like not that

962
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: that you're not good enough. But narcissists will never admit

963
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 1: that or be able to look inside. But that is

964
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: where it comes from. Let's get to reddit dump. Yeah.

965
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: I learned a lot in this book, The Human Magnet Syndrome.

966
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: Check it out. Um, all right, let's get to the

967
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: reddit dump. Uh. You guys know that I go on

968
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: redd at every single route and on my life. I

969
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: look forward to it. I save it till the end

970
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: of the day. Okay, this was from Too Afraid to Ask.

971
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: It's the subreddit too Afraid to Ask. Uh. This person

972
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: asked what are the differences between sex and porn? And

973
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: in real life my friends often talk about how the

974
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: two things are very different. As someone who has only

975
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: seen such things on screen, I wonder what the differences are.

976
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: And um, I just wanted to read some of the

977
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: top comments because I thought they were funny. Someone said,

978
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: I can't confirm this is true for all women, but

979
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: a lot of women aren't going to suck your dick

980
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: for forty five minutes. I thought that was a great one.

981
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,760
Speaker 1: And and you know what, it made me so sad

982
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: to read that. A girl wrote in response to this, Um, uh,

983
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: my X would make me do that? Longer. Actually, we'd

984
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: make it through almost an entire two hour movie. My

985
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: neck would hurt for days. After that, I started hating oral.

986
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: It wasn't fun anymore. Girls, if you're out there doing

987
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: anything you don't want to do for even a minute,

988
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: about nilasecond just try to try to you know, if

989
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: you're doing it because you're like, oh, I want to

990
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: play this person. It's not my favorite, but I love

991
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 1: him so much, like I want him to feel good,

992
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 1: and it makes me feel good that he feels good.

993
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: That's different. If you're really not enjoying it and you're

994
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 1: like resenting it, please try to get the self esteem

995
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: to stop it. It's so hard to do though. I've

996
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: been in I've been in those shoes. I've been on

997
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: those knees. Yeah, watch don't do like saw shank or

998
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: like those are well those are very sad. Yeah, just anyways,

999
00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:00,479
Speaker 1: but I like to suck dick to TikTok's ago. Let's

1000
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: let's let's watch this TikTok together. Uh. In porn, the

1001
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: women tend to be okay with pretty much anything the

1002
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: guy wants to do. Stick it in rock, go for it,

1003
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: stick it in the back door. Sure, shove a fist up.

1004
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: There no problem. People have already said it, but communication

1005
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: is important. Different women like different things, and you have

1006
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: to figure out and refigure out each partner as the

1007
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: individual they are. Okay that that goes without saying I think,

1008
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 1: um uh, this one was I felt going back to that. Yeah, please.

1009
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: When do you talk about that though? Do you talk

1010
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: about it while in the moment or do you talk

1011
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: about it before that, like over lunch or something, you know.

1012
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 1: I liked Garrett's approach on f Boy Island of asking

1013
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 1: Sarah what she's into and what she prefers, what her

1014
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: favorite for play is. I think those are important conversations

1015
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: to have before that stuff starts, because you shouldn't be

1016
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: doing it. If you know that's too uncomfortable to talk

1017
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: about before we're doing it, well, you should be able to.

1018
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 1: You shouldn't be sleeping with someone you can't talk honestly

1019
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: about sex with. How about that's the litmus for like,

1020
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: let's now it together and take your clothes off, but

1021
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: you know, let's be honest, those things often happen. Let's

1022
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: clothes start coming off and making out happens, and all

1023
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: that stuff sooner than you think. The The problem is,

1024
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: and I just I want every woman out there to

1025
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: know that, like and every man to know that just

1026
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: because a woman's making out with you in a room

1027
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 1: alone does not mean that she wants to do anything else.

1028
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: And women, that's okay if you don't want to do

1029
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 1: anything else, if you just want to make out that

1030
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: like they and they take out their dick. I've had

1031
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: so many guys take out their dick while we're making out,

1032
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, and a lot of times I've

1033
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 1: just sucked it because I'm like, you know, this was

1034
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: in my act, but I just didn't want to make

1035
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: him feel bad, you know, and or embarrassed. And now

1036
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: I just go, put no, not not yet. You don't

1037
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: deserve that yet. Let's let hang out a little bit more.

1038
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable doing that, and that's okay. It's hard, though,

1039
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: it's hard to do. The last one I'll read is, um,

1040
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: women don't really want their cervix smashed. And then that

1041
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: that that line reminded me that, um, then that's the problem.

1042
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's like I when you get I like getting

1043
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: pounded sometimes, but sometimes it starts to hurt and I go,

1044
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: what is that? What's going on? And this isn't someone

1045
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: with like a giant, giant dick. I mean, it's like

1046
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: an average penis in my past, and it just is

1047
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,320
Speaker 1: like what is it hitting? And it hurts and sometimes

1048
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, ah no, and I guess it's my cervix.

1049
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you learned something. I feel like

1050
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: there's a difference when you're like doing like dog you

1051
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 1: style and like you've seen in a porn where it's

1052
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, you're gonna take this bitch, and it's like,

1053
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: you know, there's like actual tears or like and it's like, no,

1054
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: that's not romantic to just hammer. They might have to

1055
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: just ship like you did with the tears, or they

1056
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: just might be questioning their career choice. Uh. The one

1057
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,879
Speaker 1: that I want to actually have this is also into

1058
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: afraid to ask this said, I like, I thought of

1059
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 1: you for this one. People who have sucked their own dick, which,

1060
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: by the way, there's a lot of people Apparently if

1061
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 1: I suck my own dick, will I feel the dick

1062
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: in my mouth more? Or will I feel my dick

1063
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: getting sucked more? And let me just tell you everyone

1064
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: in this comment who said that they've sucked their own

1065
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: Dick says, it's it's definitely you feel like you're sucking

1066
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 1: a dick more than you're getting your dick sucked, because

1067
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 1: it's such a You've had your dick suck before, probably

1068
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: and touched in that way with like something wet, but

1069
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,879
Speaker 1: you've never had a dick in your mouth, and that

1070
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,359
Speaker 1: is a different feeling. And and then someone said something

1071
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: about sixty nine ng when you're sixty nine, like you

1072
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: can't really enjoy it as much because you're focused on

1073
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: what you're doing. So it's almost like your sixty nine

1074
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 1: in yourself. But I think if you sucked your dick

1075
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: but every day, once every three days or practice, I

1076
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: would start it would start changing practice. Well, my point

1077
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 1: being is like you jerk off, you don't feel your

1078
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: own dick. You eventually just feel the feeling that your

1079
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: hand gives your dick. You see what I'm saying. Yes, yes,

1080
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: So eventually, if you keep putting your dick right, you're

1081
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: not you're going to start yeah, when you're okay, that

1082
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 1: makes sense? Um. And then this one was really fun.

1083
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: It's from ask Reddit, and I thought this actually takes

1084
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: us back to your story a little bit. What's the

1085
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: weirdest thing you've seen happen at a friend's house that

1086
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: they thought was normal. And this is like, this was

1087
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: a wild thread to read. Um there was a story

1088
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: of uh, and this kind of happened to me. There

1089
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: was one person that said that they ate dinner with

1090
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 1: a family and everyone was quiet the entire dinner and

1091
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: didn't talk, And that happened to me once. I remember

1092
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 1: my family. My mom always made like five different like

1093
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 1: she would always get all the food groups for every dinner,

1094
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: which I just assumed everyone got. And I went to

1095
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 1: go to a girl's house that was like I had

1096
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: a lovely family, and all they had was spaghetti that

1097
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: they didn't have a salad with it or bread. It

1098
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: was just because And I remember just being like mom,

1099
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:49,240
Speaker 1: like they only at eight. I was just so weird. Um,

1100
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: someone said, not really weird, I guess. But the first

1101
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: time in my husband's parents house, I got to see

1102
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: what a horder house looked like. It wasn't even a

1103
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,720
Speaker 1: well known term back then, so it really just shocked

1104
00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: me seeing the giant mounds of stuff everywhere. I think

1105
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: that's a very common one that people will see hoarder stuff. Uh. Yeah,

1106
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: another another hoarder. Have you ever seen anything, Andrew? I

1107
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: mean like the dinner things. I I would go to

1108
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: a friend's house and they would like all sit down

1109
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: and they'd each have their three plates and their four

1110
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: like everything was set up. And that was nothing like

1111
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: my house. My house, my mom would you know, microwave

1112
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: cream on the corn and I'd eat alone. You know,

1113
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: we weren't a big eating together as a family, right

1114
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: you know. But so yeah, but I'm trying to think,

1115
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: like what was you know, some houses, like the cool

1116
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: parents that would party with the kids and let their

1117
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: kids drink like it was normal. And then I've told

1118
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: you this before. I tried to bring beer home to

1119
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 1: my dad as a god, and you would trying to

1120
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: be the cool kid. Yeah, and he's like, no, you're

1121
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 1: not gonna fucking bring bud light here. That's not gonna happen.

1122
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: Like you're not bringing beer. But there are a lot

1123
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: of the cool dad, the cool mom. Can you just

1124
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 1: give me an eggs an impression of you in front

1125
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: of your friends, like my dad's will let us like,

1126
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: let me just like ask. My dad would be cool

1127
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: about it. Just you know, I drink on a cruise,

1128
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: so he lets me drink on a cruise, so I'm

1129
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: sure it won't be a big deal. We'll just drink

1130
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: up in my room. So I'll just let me talk

1131
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: to my dad real quick. Your dad yeah, so um,

1132
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 1: I mean it's not a call that you've died. So

1133
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm busy eating ones. That's a long cob. So Dad, yeah,

1134
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: call me. Jordan's and uh and Danny. We just I mean,

1135
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: I know it's not gonna be a big deal or anything,

1136
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: but we're thinking about grabbing some beers, you know, like

1137
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: a case or something, just drinking upstairs, just like you're

1138
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:48,439
Speaker 1: not no, but we're just gonna I'm leaving your mother,

1139
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: fuck you by you already left mom, Dad, Yeah, like

1140
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: for a few years now you're remarried. Like I just

1141
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: like being so cool. It's so dude. It was the word.

1142
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: It was so embarrassing. Final thought. Uh. I once was

1143
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 1: in a car with a girl in second grade and

1144
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: we were with her family. I remember we went to Aldi.

1145
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: Her family is kind of like poor, and that's fine,

1146
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: and I remember our car got hit by a baby

1147
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: gun like a gun like something hit the car. They

1148
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: didn't have to wear seat belts, which I was shocked

1149
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 1: by and also, um, the parents got into a huge

1150
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: argument on the way back from Aldi, and um, the

1151
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: dad hit the mom what I just now remember hit

1152
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: hit her and I like, like, I think in the face.

1153
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: And obviously that had never happened in my house. My

1154
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 1: dad would always just like kick my mom. So it

1155
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, I had never seen someone like striking,

1156
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: but yeah, I remember that and was just like, oh, ship,

1157
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: this happens. And I also remember that I had a

1158
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: really good friend who's uh. I remember just being so

1159
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: sad for her because her dad never said I love

1160
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: you like her dad was very like cold and like

1161
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: just not like and she would tell me. I would

1162
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: be like, your dad like doesn't ever hug you or

1163
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: like say I love you, And she's like, no, he

1164
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,200
Speaker 1: just doesn't really do that. He just and my dad

1165
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: is like the opposite of that. I mean he says

1166
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: vava va boom when I walk into a room, like

1167
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: my dad's very He kissed me on the lips and

1168
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: I was twenty six, but um, and then you got

1169
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: a little too heavy for him. Oh god, yeah, he

1170
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: just didn't like uh when I Yeah, when I was

1171
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: twenty six, I put on five pounds and my dad

1172
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:39,959
Speaker 1: refused to um. But I just remember being so sad

1173
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: for my friend that her dad didn't say I love

1174
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: you ever and and like hug her and and kiss

1175
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: her and and like love on her. And then I

1176
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: got older and I realized that my mom never did that.

1177
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: I was like, so like, how could your dad not

1178
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 1: love you? And it's like and it's just it's not

1179
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: because my mom didn't love me. My mom just it

1180
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: wasn't good. It's saying I love her. Love language is

1181
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: ignoring your lovely Like we're just putting away dishes angrily,

1182
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: and that's what is your love language? Have we talked

1183
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: about this mine? Yeah? Either acts of service. I like

1184
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 1: presents that are thoughtful as service service. You like presents

1185
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: like gifts? Yeah? And I like a little bit of

1186
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 1: physical touch but not crazy, not crazy? What about you? Noah?

1187
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: My number one is physical touch okay, quality but not

1188
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: behind the knee, don't touch. And then you said a service,

1189
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: no no, no quality time is the second okay? And

1190
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: then let me just ask you, is AVI does his

1191
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: match yours or does he have to kind of did

1192
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: you guys have to communicate them and be like he

1193
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: thought his was physical touch but it's actually uh wait,

1194
01:01:53,720 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 1: what is it called. It's it's quality time and then um, well,

1195
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: whatever it is, I hope it's not remembering things that

1196
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: are important to me. Um, that's so funny. No, but

1197
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: it's it's best in a relationship if you're if you're

1198
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: love language. Oh that's good. Yeah. You guys do a

1199
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 1: lot of stuff together and it's always very sweet. Um

1200
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: mine is compliments and physical touch compliments, Yeah, what is it?

1201
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: Words of a yea yeah, yeah, yeah, Because the other day,

1202
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: this guy that I'm kind of seeing was just saying, like, God,

1203
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: that picture of you was stunning, like oh my, like

1204
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: sending me pictures that he took him was like, Jesus Christ,

1205
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: you're so like just always commenting on how beautiful I

1206
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: am and and and I'm always just and I always

1207
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 1: give it back. But it's like I don't want to

1208
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: just give it back because he's like it sometimes feels

1209
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: like I'm just saying it, but I do feel that way,

1210
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 1: so sometimes I'm just like thank you. And he kind

1211
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: of had a moment where he was like does this

1212
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: does this get like should I not be doing this?

1213
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: Because he heard me say that I don't like my

1214
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: girlfriends to comment on my looks, and I don't like

1215
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: to be just don't comment on my looks because when

1216
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 1: you don't comment on my looks and I think I'm ugly,

1217
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: and he goes, should I not be doing this? Like

1218
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to trigger you as very sweet asset,

1219
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, no, no from you. That's

1220
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: all I fucking want. I want to hear how desirable

1221
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: I am. I just want to like, I want to

1222
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: feel like so perfect in your eyes and I loved

1223
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: I go any time you ever feel compelled to tell

1224
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 1: me I'm beautiful, please let me know. And uh so, yeah,

1225
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: it's definitely that. And but but touch, though, that's a

1226
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: harder thing to get from guys, especially once they don't

1227
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: want to don't like it themselves. Again, it comes back

1228
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: to the sucking your own dick. If give if you

1229
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: if you don't like physical touch for yourself, is touching

1230
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: someone going to not feel as good? I feel like

1231
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: it would feel less. It sound like I'm asking you

1232
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: to touch me with your um, like your stomach, physical touch.

1233
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: And she likes to give me facials, which you know,

1234
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: and so you like to give her racials. But no,

1235
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: but she likes to give me like five step facials,

1236
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: which I love it, and I think she really loves

1237
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 1: just touching my face and helping and like, I don't know,

1238
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: just service and almost quality time and a gift all

1239
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 1: in dude, if you're a girl and you give your

1240
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: guy like a four or five step facial, he might

1241
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 1: act like a tough Yeah, I don't need whatever. They

1242
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 1: love it. I love giving massages. I'm up. I love

1243
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: it more than getting massages. I love it. And the

1244
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: guy that I'm seeing kind of now does not like

1245
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: to be massage. But man, I just want to like

1246
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: rub up. I love like you know, like pushing on

1247
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: a muscle and like making I just love it. But

1248
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 1: do you love it for you or for the feeling

1249
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: that the person is getting. I want to give the

1250
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: person a feeling that I feel like massage is steel

1251
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: good yea. And I like to touch them and make

1252
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: them feel good and like just feel like I can

1253
01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: feel the tension and they're like emotions women. I mean,

1254
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: they'll do three minutes and literally they'll start like in

1255
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 1: the past, so I feel bad. I know. That's why

1256
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: I don't like getting them either. Always feel bad. But

1257
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: that's why when I was dating this one guy and

1258
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: I go, you don't do this. He goes, I'm I

1259
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: want to. I don't. I wouldn't be doing I'll stop

1260
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: when I don't want to. You don't have to stop me.

1261
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, for real? Read them all right? Guys,

1262
01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening to the podcast. Tomorrow

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01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 1: is our F Boys Special podcast, So make sure you

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Speaker 1: binge that tonight catch up and even if you haven't

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Speaker 1: watched F Boy, you're gonna like tomorrow. You know, we'll

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Speaker 1: have fun. You'll get to meet some characters that if

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Speaker 1: you haven't seen the show, you'll it'll be. It'll make

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Speaker 1: you more excited to even watch it. So I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for that. See you tomorrow. Don't be kid and

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