1
00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,480
Speaker 1: I am not salty, okay, I am single and sweet.

2
00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,440
Speaker 1: You should listen just to see what's gonna happen now,

3
00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,080
Speaker 1: French show is I. I was humbled. Maybe a year

4
00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,080
Speaker 1: or two ago, I tried to get into a pizza restaurant.

5
00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,560
Speaker 1: I may have been drinking and it was a two

6
00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,560
Speaker 1: hour wait, and I didn't feel like it, and I

7
00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:21,520
Speaker 1: was hungry. Really was more had nothing to do with anything.

8
00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,720
Speaker 1: I was just hungry. I thought, oh, you know what,

9
00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it. I'm gonna DM maybe someone listens,

10
00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,120
Speaker 1: and maybe they'll just do something nice. I'm not special,

11
00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm not important. I didn't say that I was. I'm

12
00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:35,160
Speaker 1: just like, maybe maybe, maybe just somehow they got a table.

13
00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,559
Speaker 1: Maybe you know what I mean, they rolled me back.

14
00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,239
Speaker 1: You can wait a line like everybody else. I mean,

15
00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,120
Speaker 1: in a nicer way, in a nice have you considered takeout?

16
00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,599
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, that defeats well, that defeats the purpose. Okay, right,

17
00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,559
Speaker 1: and no one needs to do anything special for me.

18
00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,040
Speaker 1: But I happened to know that. I'm I've said this

19
00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,160
Speaker 1: place a million times on the radio, so I thought, well,

20
00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm paying and everything, but maybe I don't know, throw

21
00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,760
Speaker 1: me a bone and I'm sorry, and I've been drinking

22
00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,640
Speaker 1: and I may may have stumbled on an edible too,

23
00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,480
Speaker 1: but anyway, it doesn't matter. This place is like they

24
00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:07,640
Speaker 1: really guess themselves up. Though.

25
00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,119
Speaker 2: I called yesterday after the Cubs game the restaurant, yeah,

26
00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,800
Speaker 2: or like I guess during the Cubs games. I left early,

27
00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,840
Speaker 2: but I called and it was a three hour wait.

28
00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:15,319
Speaker 2: I don't believe you for a second.

29
00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:15,839
Speaker 3: I think you're.

30
00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,600
Speaker 1: I do believe in that place is not good. You

31
00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:23,680
Speaker 1: guys are crazy. It's good, but we're trying to go there.

32
00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,679
Speaker 1: Tell me it's not good. You were trying to go there.

33
00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,720
Speaker 1: I was trying to go I couldn't get in, so

34
00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:33,319
Speaker 1: it sucked.

35
00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,280
Speaker 4: It sounds like one of the guy's hitting on you

36
00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,000
Speaker 4: and he's like, ugly.

37
00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,360
Speaker 1: Well, we were talking about this off the air, but

38
00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,520
Speaker 1: like whenever I go to like a new restaurant or something,

39
00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,960
Speaker 1: and if maybe I know, because you know, you live

40
00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,240
Speaker 1: in a place long enough, you get to know some

41
00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,880
Speaker 1: of the people that run these places, or you know

42
00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:50,560
Speaker 1: whose concepts that are. And you go in there and

43
00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,600
Speaker 1: the first thing I hear is about the list of

44
00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,520
Speaker 1: people who thought that they should get in and why,

45
00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,200
Speaker 1: and then their expectations of free food and free this

46
00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:59,760
Speaker 1: and free that, and they're telling me all this, and

47
00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:01,440
Speaker 1: I'm you know, these other people, there are other people

48
00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,600
Speaker 1: like in media or celebrities or whatever, and I'm just going,

49
00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,960
Speaker 1: I never want to be on this list, like I

50
00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,160
Speaker 1: never want I never ever want to go someplace and

51
00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,680
Speaker 1: have and be like, oh, you know to the other person, like, oh,

52
00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,680
Speaker 1: you're not gonna believe it. That's why I overtip.

53
00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,280
Speaker 4: I'm overly kind, like I don't ever want anyone.

54
00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't ask for nothing. I don't ask for nothing.

55
00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,640
Speaker 1: I don't And then you don't owe anybody anything too.

56
00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,799
Speaker 1: That's another thing. You know, even you start to get stuff,

57
00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,880
Speaker 1: if you're these people that get free stuff, they're not

58
00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,080
Speaker 1: just giving it to you. They want you to do

59
00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,360
Speaker 1: something for them for sure. And there are certain people

60
00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,480
Speaker 1: in town that if you I've learned the hard way

61
00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,960
Speaker 1: that if they like hook you up, then the next

62
00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,800
Speaker 1: morning it's oh, and by the way, can I have

63
00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,280
Speaker 1: tickets to meat Taylor Swift backstage? And then sit in

64
00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,760
Speaker 1: their lab and you're going like, wait a minute, you

65
00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,240
Speaker 1: gave me a free appetizer, bro, Like I'll give you

66
00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,720
Speaker 1: twelve dollars. I would have paid for the cheese, right exactly,

67
00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,639
Speaker 1: Like no, you can't. And it's like, what do you mean,

68
00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,440
Speaker 1: Like you know remember that one time? Like no, I

69
00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:51,560
Speaker 1: don't remember that one time.

70
00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,560
Speaker 4: Not only will I pay, I'll pay like a resort fee,

71
00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,359
Speaker 4: I'll clean the bathrooms like I don't care.

72
00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go in there. You use the Frend Show,

73
00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,720
Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio. On

74
00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,200
Speaker 1: the iHeart app Live in Anytime, search for a Fred

75
00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,320
Speaker 1: show on de Man. So I have a couple of stories.

76
00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:11,080
Speaker 1: But the first one, you know, where, at which point

77
00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,120
Speaker 1: did we go wrong? Here? At what point in the

78
00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,799
Speaker 1: story are you would you say hmmm hm? Things that

79
00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,680
Speaker 1: make you go hmmm. A woman has revealed how she

80
00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,839
Speaker 1: met another man on her This is from the Daily Mail.

81
00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,639
Speaker 1: So they call it a hen night, but a bachelortt party. Oh,

82
00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,840
Speaker 1: I call it a hand knight, and invited him to

83
00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:34,600
Speaker 1: her wedding before eventually divorcing her husband and marrying him instead.

84
00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,640
Speaker 1: Now that's just one sentence, But like, at what point

85
00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,800
Speaker 1: do we say hmm? Like, for example, I would say

86
00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,840
Speaker 1: which within the first ten words? A woman has revealed

87
00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:49,720
Speaker 1: how she met another man? Okay, all right? That never

88
00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,080
Speaker 1: never again, never again. You should you should never? Okay,

89
00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,400
Speaker 1: all right? On her bachelorette party. So you met a

90
00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,560
Speaker 1: man on your bachelorette party. Okay, that's concerning to me.

91
00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,000
Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. Period. But and then

92
00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,920
Speaker 1: this could be a second sentence. And then she invited

93
00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,200
Speaker 1: him to her wedding. Period, bigger problem. Why is this

94
00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,240
Speaker 1: random man from your hen party, your hen night attending

95
00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:19,080
Speaker 1: your wedding? I could see a situation where you eventually

96
00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,400
Speaker 1: divorce your husband and marry the guy who you met

97
00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,240
Speaker 1: on your bachelorette party and invited to your wedding. This

98
00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,760
Speaker 1: woman's name is Charlie, which is the name. I've not

99
00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,560
Speaker 1: heard it before. She's from Virginia. She met her now husband, Julio,

100
00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,880
Speaker 1: while on her bachelorette trip in September of twenty nineteen.

101
00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:34,520
Speaker 1: Who is Julio?

102
00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:34,600
Speaker 5: Is?

103
00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,560
Speaker 1: Who do you like? The dancer on the hen night?

104
00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,320
Speaker 1: Was he like the Hey? Was he doing what I

105
00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:40,760
Speaker 1: did back in college to make money?

106
00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:45,520
Speaker 4: Mnl Skit to espresso where she goes out and.

107
00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,360
Speaker 1: She makes another Oh what's his name? Marcel hern?

108
00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's literally the whole song.

109
00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:57,240
Speaker 1: Yes, So his name is Julio and apparently it invited

110
00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:01,760
Speaker 1: him and his two friends to her wedding reception. Why

111
00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,200
Speaker 1: which is I mean, this is random, Like you met

112
00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,320
Speaker 1: these people and they're like, come to my wedding house party,

113
00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,320
Speaker 1: it's your wedding. And the twenty seven year old says

114
00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,880
Speaker 1: that she and Julio barely spoke and she was shocked

115
00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,280
Speaker 1: when he actually turned up as a guest at her

116
00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,839
Speaker 1: wedding reception a month later. So I would have a

117
00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,640
Speaker 1: lot of questions as as the guy, as the husband,

118
00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,000
Speaker 1: I'd be like, wait a minute, So you met these

119
00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,040
Speaker 1: random people. I have a lot of questions, why did

120
00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,080
Speaker 1: you invite them to our wedding? And then if you

121
00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,400
Speaker 1: barely talk to them, then why did they show up?

122
00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,800
Speaker 1: This is something I have his friends. It's not like

123
00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,839
Speaker 1: we all met together, like we all you know, I

124
00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,920
Speaker 1: don't know Fyance and bride. We go on a trip

125
00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,320
Speaker 1: together and we meet these other this other fun couple

126
00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,640
Speaker 1: and we're like, you guys are great, and hey, you

127
00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:44,359
Speaker 1: know we're getting married. You guys should come, you know,

128
00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:50,800
Speaker 1: we had whatever. No, So they after already having informed

129
00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,840
Speaker 1: the other wedding guests about the funny story of how

130
00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,880
Speaker 1: they met the trio, when Julio entered the wedding reception,

131
00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,640
Speaker 1: he was treated like a celebrity. So Charlie and Julio,

132
00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,599
Speaker 1: who now shared two sons, had a photo together and

133
00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,440
Speaker 1: exchanged small talk, and the thirty three year old was

134
00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,919
Speaker 1: so popular at the wedding that he even danced with

135
00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:14,560
Speaker 1: her mother and grandmother. The bride, Domingo is Domingoes So. Then,

136
00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,160
Speaker 1: six weeks after tying the nood in December of twenty nineteen,

137
00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,680
Speaker 1: Charlie and her first husband decided to call it quits,

138
00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,880
Speaker 1: six weeks after their two year long relationship just happened

139
00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,800
Speaker 1: to fizzle out, But it had nothing to do with

140
00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,040
Speaker 1: this Julio man who came and danced with the mother

141
00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,719
Speaker 1: and the grandmother of the bride. A week later, Julio

142
00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,480
Speaker 1: then happened to show up in her snapshat story and

143
00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,880
Speaker 1: the pair hit it off over messages, realizing that they

144
00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,880
Speaker 1: had a lot in common. Yeah, I'm sure, my god,

145
00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,480
Speaker 1: So this guy shows up upstages of the groom at

146
00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,760
Speaker 1: his own wedding. We've never even seen this man before.

147
00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:52,920
Speaker 1: Supposedly you didn't even talk to him. Now he's dancing

148
00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,920
Speaker 1: with your mom. They've all chosen his side. He's a

149
00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:01,120
Speaker 1: commercial fisherman he took. I can't go over her name.

150
00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,440
Speaker 1: So I've never met a Charlie on their first date

151
00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:08,520
Speaker 1: and they've been a pair ever since. So the wedding

152
00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,000
Speaker 1: was in I'm trying to get the timeline here exactly.

153
00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,720
Speaker 1: I want to say it. Would I say September they

154
00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,320
Speaker 1: was a bachelorette party and by December they're together.

155
00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, something tells me he hit it at the tea

156
00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,000
Speaker 6: party or whatever you call it. Night.

157
00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, the hem night. I just want to be such

158
00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,520
Speaker 1: a two year relationship with a boyfriend. She goes on

159
00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,720
Speaker 1: a bachelorette party in September and by December she's married, divorced,

160
00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,000
Speaker 1: six weeks married, divorced, and now with this guy. Yeah,

161
00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:40,480
Speaker 1: it's giving Lacha, it's yeah. The couple, who now have

162
00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,240
Speaker 1: two children, got engaged in December of twenty twenty and

163
00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,480
Speaker 1: got married in April of twenty twenty one. Charlie admits

164
00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,600
Speaker 1: that she had cold feet about her first wedding, but

165
00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,120
Speaker 1: believes that if she called off the big day, then

166
00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,840
Speaker 1: she and Julio never would have spoken. So thank god

167
00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,120
Speaker 1: she got married the first time. But because without that,

168
00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,600
Speaker 1: without him being an attendee at the weddings right then,

169
00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,360
Speaker 1: they never would have been able to cheat. Oh, Charley

170
00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,800
Speaker 1: is a Jezebel. This is crazy, But hey, Charlie's saying that,

171
00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,640
Speaker 1: you know, she didn't cheat. She didn't even talk to

172
00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,720
Speaker 1: the guy. It just so happens that this guy she

173
00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,880
Speaker 1: met in her bachelorette party, who she invited to her wedding,

174
00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,480
Speaker 1: she never even spoke to the guy, and then they

175
00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,560
Speaker 1: didn't even speak until after she got divorced.

176
00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,640
Speaker 4: I want to see how all of her friends who

177
00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:21,280
Speaker 4: are on the hen night like reacted to him too,

178
00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,400
Speaker 4: Because if I'm the husband and all the girls are like, yo,

179
00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,600
Speaker 4: Julia was good or like whatever, you.

180
00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,000
Speaker 1: Know, I'd be so pissed. Yeah, I'd be like, wait.

181
00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,880
Speaker 4: You guys were all together on the Hen night and

182
00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,000
Speaker 4: I wasn't there, and now.

183
00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,040
Speaker 1: He's here with my mom. They're making it out in

184
00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,320
Speaker 1: the corner right, I'm like, way, is this guy so

185
00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,360
Speaker 1: popular is my wedding? Who is this guy?

186
00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,960
Speaker 2: I'd be so he's outshining everybody.

187
00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,120
Speaker 1: Oh, Charlie says, we went on to North Carolina for

188
00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,880
Speaker 1: my bachelorette trip. Oh no, if I'm old boy Julio,

189
00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,520
Speaker 1: there is no bachelorette you're not going on a bachelorette trip.

190
00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,960
Speaker 1: No more hen nights for you? Wait, we had enough

191
00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:51,440
Speaker 1: hen nights.

192
00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:55,040
Speaker 4: She's from Virginia, went to North Carolina, but she's having

193
00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:55,640
Speaker 4: a hen night?

194
00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,520
Speaker 1: Is she just born in the UK? No, this is

195
00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,960
Speaker 1: just cover by you. Has nothing to do with Okay,

196
00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,760
Speaker 1: I got it. No, the Daily Mail wrote it, so

197
00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:08,480
Speaker 1: it's written by a British person, so they're using their vernacular. No,

198
00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:13,000
Speaker 1: but I again, I think if I'm Julio, I'm thinking, no,

199
00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,320
Speaker 1: we're all set with the Bachelor red party. We don't

200
00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,280
Speaker 1: we don't need to have one of those. Remember what

201
00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:24,120
Speaker 1: happened last time. Yeah. I don't even know what else

202
00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,200
Speaker 1: to say about this. What's meant for you will always

203
00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,680
Speaker 1: find you. Stop that. So you think it's got that

204
00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:29,360
Speaker 1: right now?

205
00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:29,839
Speaker 7: You know?

206
00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,280
Speaker 2: I mean, as long as she didn't cheat, Like this

207
00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,160
Speaker 2: is kind of a story. This is this is going

208
00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,360
Speaker 2: in the books because if like wait, if Julio.

209
00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:37,000
Speaker 1: You know, was a great time.

210
00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,920
Speaker 2: Let's just say he was like the bartender at the

211
00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,080
Speaker 2: at the hen Nights party and he's like, you know,

212
00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:41,800
Speaker 2: doing this or.

213
00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,560
Speaker 1: That, and it's a great time. Maybe he was a server.

214
00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,679
Speaker 1: I don't know what his role was in hen night.

215
00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,880
Speaker 2: But if he wasn't, he was a good time.

216
00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:51,880
Speaker 1: And I was like coming to my wedding to be funny.

217
00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,800
Speaker 2: And then he shows up and he's dancing with my

218
00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,280
Speaker 2: my bapcha and my mom and my nana.

219
00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,520
Speaker 1: Like that's that's fun. You have a fun time.

220
00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,679
Speaker 6: You're right, he might be the love of her life.

221
00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,360
Speaker 1: I just I don't I mean, I don't trust the

222
00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:08,600
Speaker 1: timing here. It just so happens that this guy shows

223
00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,960
Speaker 1: up to the wedding six weeks later, the marriage fails,

224
00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,520
Speaker 1: and he just happens to pop in to your snapchat

225
00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:18,240
Speaker 1: or something just right around that time. And but you'd

226
00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:23,280
Speaker 1: never really spoken before. Uh, it's giving like that, you know,

227
00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,920
Speaker 1: it's giving. It's giving that that everyone you got married.

228
00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,560
Speaker 1: The next day, everybody was like, Julio's great, you should

229
00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,920
Speaker 1: have married him kind of thing, like what we love Julio,

230
00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,600
Speaker 1: that's what he's giving your mother. I'm sorry, but if

231
00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,000
Speaker 1: i'm if I'm the groom and I look over and

232
00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,480
Speaker 1: the mother and the mother of the bride is getting

233
00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,840
Speaker 1: down with old boy Julio, and everyone's treating him like

234
00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,160
Speaker 1: a celebrity, like and he's the greatest thing that ever happened.

235
00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,720
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I think we have a problem on our hands.

236
00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,800
Speaker 1: On the morning of the wedding, he hadn't We hadn't

237
00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,200
Speaker 1: heard any updates. I thought that maybe they just agreed

238
00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:54,880
Speaker 1: to come, but they weren't planning to do it. Then

239
00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,880
Speaker 1: my friend was on Instagram and saw that they posted

240
00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,800
Speaker 1: a picture golfing at the local country club, and we're like, oh, wow,

241
00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,280
Speaker 1: they're coming. They wanted in about an hour after the

242
00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,800
Speaker 1: wedding reception started. Oh so he even made a scene.

243
00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,280
Speaker 1: He waited to make an appearance, this guy did. They

244
00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,040
Speaker 1: were like celebrities. We'd already told people that we'd invited

245
00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,360
Speaker 1: these people that we met, and we just thought that

246
00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,280
Speaker 1: it was such a funny story. Julio danced with my

247
00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:19,000
Speaker 1: grandmother and then my mother and we all immediately ran

248
00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:23,079
Speaker 1: up to take pictures with him. Tarlie He says that

249
00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,120
Speaker 1: she and Julio exchanged small talk at the wedding, but

250
00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,720
Speaker 1: it wasn't until her first marriage ended at the start

251
00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,520
Speaker 1: of December they began messaging on Snapchat. Me and Julio

252
00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,719
Speaker 1: hadn't really spoken when that picture was taken. Besides, oh

253
00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,280
Speaker 1: my god, I can't believe you guys are here. I

254
00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,199
Speaker 1: went on my honeymoon after that. About a month and

255
00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,960
Speaker 1: a half later, me and my husband at the time

256
00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,200
Speaker 1: decided that the wedding was a mistake. We were no

257
00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,640
Speaker 1: longer into each other anymore. Yeah, because you met Julio,

258
00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,120
Speaker 1: you met the man that met the legend, the most

259
00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,640
Speaker 1: interesting man in the world wide. I want to meet Julio.

260
00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,840
Speaker 1: How can you possibly turn that down? Oh? No, Shane

261
00:11:54,880 --> 00:12:01,000
Speaker 1: doesn't want you to meet Julio. A week later, Julio

262
00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,800
Speaker 1: replied to a Snapchat story of mine about a can

263
00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,600
Speaker 1: of ginger ale. I don't think Julio thought I was

264
00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,080
Speaker 1: still happily married when he messaged me, because we were

265
00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,240
Speaker 1: friends on Snapchat. When you break up with someone on

266
00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,120
Speaker 1: your story, you kind of make it obvious. I don't

267
00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,360
Speaker 1: think he thought I was still married. I think it

268
00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,839
Speaker 1: was pretty clear that I wasn't.

269
00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:27,080
Speaker 8: Via your snapchat story. I don't know, man, Charlie. Yeah,

270
00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,040
Speaker 8: it's just I don't buy it. I'm sorry, Charlie.

271
00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,400
Speaker 1: You know you marry. Look, I know people get married

272
00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,800
Speaker 1: all the time that probably shouldn't get married. I know

273
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,600
Speaker 1: it does happen where it's like, oh, we're doing it.

274
00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,000
Speaker 1: You know, we committed to this like it's a play.

275
00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,720
Speaker 1: I know, I actually faced. I personally know someone who

276
00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,640
Speaker 1: got married knowing they didn't want to do it, but

277
00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:48,880
Speaker 1: they didn't want to let everybody down.

278
00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:50,880
Speaker 4: I know a bunch of people who knew walking down

279
00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,480
Speaker 4: the aisle that like it wasn't right.

280
00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,480
Speaker 1: They're so sad, and they did it anyway because it

281
00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,960
Speaker 1: was like, well, my parents invested in this, and maybe

282
00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,160
Speaker 1: it's just cold feet, and you know, maybe I'm just

283
00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,679
Speaker 1: feeling the pressure it but like we've got we've gotten

284
00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,360
Speaker 1: this far. You know, perhaps we'll get married. It will

285
00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,800
Speaker 1: work out. I'm not saying that doesn't happen, but the

286
00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:12,080
Speaker 1: timeline here's a little tight. Oh, Julio and Tarlie. Looking back,

287
00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,120
Speaker 1: I've had thoughts about whether I should have called off

288
00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,120
Speaker 1: my wedding when I had cold feed. But that's my thing.

289
00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,320
Speaker 1: When did the cold feed begin? After you met the man?

290
00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,880
Speaker 1: That myth, the legend Julio, after you met superstar Julio

291
00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,160
Speaker 1: the commercial fisherman, is that when the cold feet began.

292
00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:28,760
Speaker 1: Julio put it down.

293
00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, and our cold feat just like I don't want

294
00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,080
Speaker 4: to do this because I feel like she knew she

295
00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:33,920
Speaker 4: didn't want to do this.

296
00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:38,360
Speaker 1: You know, calling cold feet anything these days, Even if

297
00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,080
Speaker 1: we did meet on that bach or att trip, we

298
00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,839
Speaker 1: didn't really speak or communicate. So even if the wedding

299
00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,280
Speaker 1: got called off after that and there was never a

300
00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,280
Speaker 1: wedding for him to show up as a guest to,

301
00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,720
Speaker 1: then we wouldn't have spoken either. I don't think.

302
00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,280
Speaker 9: Well, when did you get his snapchat? Because I'd like

303
00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,559
Speaker 9: to know him? Right, you didn't talk to him? Is

304
00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,280
Speaker 9: that the technicality? We didn't talk? Great, and you invited

305
00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,960
Speaker 9: him to your wedding. Don't you have to talk to

306
00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,520
Speaker 9: do that? But you see, if we're snapchatting, is that

307
00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:03,160
Speaker 9: in that talking?

308
00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,319
Speaker 1: I don't know. And by the way, why are you schanding?

309
00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,360
Speaker 1: Everyone knows what the adults you snapchat for?

310
00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,199
Speaker 4: Okay, right, Like she better not have exchanged at her wedding,

311
00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,360
Speaker 4: which means she exchanged on the Bachelor att on the

312
00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:12,839
Speaker 4: hen night.

313
00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,040
Speaker 1: I figured this whole thing out. Yeah, I'm sorry, guys,

314
00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm glad it works out. You look happy in these pictures,

315
00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,600
Speaker 1: you know, Tarleye and Julio forever. But yeah, of course,

316
00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,000
Speaker 1: come on over come. Look at our friends. They got

317
00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,160
Speaker 1: a couple of kids. Now, look at that. Look at

318
00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,080
Speaker 1: how happy they look. Look at look at this guy

319
00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,360
Speaker 1: then Hojli'll just look like the lave of the party. Yes,

320
00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh when was there baby born? Is

321
00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,480
Speaker 1: it Cohen? I'd like to know the math on that too.

322
00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,760
Speaker 1: If they know each other for three years and the

323
00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,080
Speaker 1: kids three and then we have an issue on our hands,

324
00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,080
Speaker 1: that's a very good question. And the kids, I don't know.

325
00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,480
Speaker 1: I just this whole thing is sus to me. I

326
00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,960
Speaker 1: think that. But that's why I read the first sentence

327
00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,080
Speaker 1: to you, and I'm like, at which part of the

328
00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,840
Speaker 1: first sentence would you be concerned? It didn't take me

329
00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:59,920
Speaker 1: very many words before. I have a lot of questions

330
00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,880
Speaker 1: as the as the groom, I'm sorry what you hung

331
00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:05,680
Speaker 1: out with a bunch of dudes at your vet Att

332
00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,480
Speaker 1: party and now they're coming to the wedding?

333
00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,040
Speaker 6: You know?

334
00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,600
Speaker 1: I don't Yeah, anyway, I just wanted to start you

335
00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,840
Speaker 1: guys out with a nice fairy tale, a fable.

336
00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:14,520
Speaker 10: You know.

337
00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,360
Speaker 1: It isn't that beautiful though, it's a beautiful story. I mean,

338
00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,480
Speaker 1: if they're in love, then I guess they better be right.

339
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:26,280
Speaker 1: People make mistakes, and sometimes you know those mistakes. I'm

340
00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,880
Speaker 1: sure there's some sort of you know, line about it,

341
00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:32,520
Speaker 1: but you know, the mistake leads you in the direction

342
00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:33,320
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to go.

343
00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,720
Speaker 6: You know who knows you never let your husband stop

344
00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,640
Speaker 6: you from meeting your love of your life.

345
00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:39,880
Speaker 1: Right right is how it goes. That's how it goes.

346
00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,000
Speaker 1: That's how That's how it goes. Good morning. Thanks for

347
00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,240
Speaker 1: having us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live

348
00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,560
Speaker 1: and anytime. Search for The Fresh Show on demand. So

349
00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:50,680
Speaker 1: a thirty four year old woman is demanding compensation from

350
00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:54,480
Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend who's thirty eight, for what she says

351
00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,240
Speaker 1: is stealing or I guess did steal. He did steal

352
00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:03,280
Speaker 1: her child bearing years. This is from Fox and I'm

353
00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,440
Speaker 1: not Fox News, So don't worry. I think this is it.

354
00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:08,840
Speaker 1: You don't have to stop listening for him. Not that

355
00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:10,400
Speaker 1: I would have anything to do with anything, but it's like,

356
00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:11,880
Speaker 1: as soon as I say Fox, I think people are like,

357
00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,120
Speaker 1: oh no, Fox Local.

358
00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:15,240
Speaker 11: Thirty four year.

359
00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,320
Speaker 12: Old woman is demanding her ex boyfriend pay compensation, claiming

360
00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,680
Speaker 12: he stole her child bearing years after nearly a decade together.

361
00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,880
Speaker 12: She says her thirty eight year old X into things

362
00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,000
Speaker 12: just as she was ready to start a family. She

363
00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,120
Speaker 12: said she put her career and her goals on hold,

364
00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,720
Speaker 12: believing they'd have kids, and now wants them to cover

365
00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:34,200
Speaker 12: fertility treatments like egg freezing or IVF. The story from

366
00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,760
Speaker 12: The New York Post has gone viral, sparking a debate.

367
00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,280
Speaker 12: Some call it justified, others say it's absurd to blame

368
00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,920
Speaker 12: an ex Legal experts say her case wouldn't hold up

369
00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,480
Speaker 12: in court, but it is raising some questions about love

370
00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:49,400
Speaker 12: timing and who really pays the price when relationships.

371
00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,920
Speaker 1: In So, what do you think? Does she have a point? Okay,

372
00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:52,640
Speaker 1: so this is my question because this is kind of

373
00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:57,280
Speaker 1: my demographic. Like I'm in my I guess mid forties. Now.

374
00:16:58,040 --> 00:16:59,800
Speaker 1: I love how to and I say this every time,

375
00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:04,160
Speaker 1: but was supplying makeup. I'm sorry, distracted me? I'm sorry.

376
00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I just didn't want to get away. Should

377
00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,560
Speaker 1: I look over and there's just mascara? And I was, oh, well,

378
00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,439
Speaker 1: this is very very distracting to me. Is that not

379
00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,720
Speaker 1: mess scara? No, but I'll put it. What is it?

380
00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,360
Speaker 1: It's eyebrow? Joe? Oh yeah, I don't know. Yeah, pass

381
00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:24,320
Speaker 1: it over here. Okay, I got none. I guess me too.

382
00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:26,239
Speaker 1: Then I guess I feel now I feel left out.

383
00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,880
Speaker 1: I need some eyebrow over because I can't move my arms,

384
00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:34,560
Speaker 1: so I get you somewhere help me. Every time I

385
00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:36,719
Speaker 1: say that, management's like, you know, you shouldn't say how

386
00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,160
Speaker 1: old you are, Like, well, I've been here for sixteen years,

387
00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,320
Speaker 1: so like, I don't know. I feel like people can

388
00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,119
Speaker 1: do the math I was. I wasn't twelve when I

389
00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:48,399
Speaker 1: got here, but whatever, So, you know, mid thirties is

390
00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,120
Speaker 1: sort of it seems to be that the appropriate age.

391
00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,760
Speaker 1: I think for me. Maybe people would say, and I

392
00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,920
Speaker 1: think that when I meet people who are in their

393
00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,480
Speaker 1: mid thirties if they want to have kids, they're very

394
00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:05,360
Speaker 1: understand andly I wouldn't say, well, in various states of eagerness,

395
00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,680
Speaker 1: I'll put it, but I understand why. You know, it's

396
00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,399
Speaker 1: like people kind of want to know, hey, where's this

397
00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,240
Speaker 1: going pretty quickly if they want to have kids and

398
00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,960
Speaker 1: don't have any. And it used to kind of annoy me,

399
00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,639
Speaker 1: but then I really sat back and was like, well, no,

400
00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,800
Speaker 1: I understand, like you there's only so much time, and yes,

401
00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,600
Speaker 1: you can freeze your eggs, there's other things, but like

402
00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,800
Speaker 1: just generally speaking, and yes, people are going to text me, oh,

403
00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:27,760
Speaker 1: well you can have a kid when you're fifty. Yes,

404
00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:29,919
Speaker 1: I know, and people are gonna text me, well this

405
00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,280
Speaker 1: and that. I'm not talking about the exceptions. I'm just

406
00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:37,040
Speaker 1: saying generally speaking, you know, early mid thirties or before

407
00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,239
Speaker 1: people like to have kids, I guess. And so if

408
00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,440
Speaker 1: you're not sure, then that could be a problem, because

409
00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,320
Speaker 1: what if you date somebody for two or three years,

410
00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,160
Speaker 1: four or five years even, and maybe you didn't freeze

411
00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:49,640
Speaker 1: your eggs, then you get to a certain point where

412
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,240
Speaker 1: you're at an age where it would be more difficult

413
00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,720
Speaker 1: to have kids safely. And then I mean, whose fault

414
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,919
Speaker 1: is that. I don't think you can't blame it on

415
00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,320
Speaker 1: in this case, the guy. But I also think that

416
00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,920
Speaker 1: a guy should be thoughtful about the fact that if

417
00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:08,040
Speaker 1: that's something that you were absolutely wanting to do, and

418
00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,800
Speaker 1: and and the dude if he knows in his mind

419
00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,280
Speaker 1: he absolutely doesn't want to do it, and he's not

420
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,240
Speaker 1: telling you that because he doesn't want you to go anywhere.

421
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,119
Speaker 1: That's wildly selfish. Now, should I have to pay for

422
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,720
Speaker 1: your fertility? No? But like, let's say that this person

423
00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,320
Speaker 1: brought up over the course of that relationship, I want

424
00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 1: I want to have I want to freeze my eggs

425
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,520
Speaker 1: and he's like, Nah, no, you don't have to do that. Well,

426
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:31,359
Speaker 1: that's messed up too, because like that might be the

427
00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 1: only way, that might be one of the only ways

428
00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,280
Speaker 1: that you could have a natural child. And and maybe

429
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:37,919
Speaker 1: I don't want the expense or I don't want to

430
00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 1: deal with the you know, the process, because I know

431
00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,879
Speaker 1: even though it's the woman who who endures most of

432
00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 1: that process. I mean, a guy can help. But it's

433
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:47,680
Speaker 1: like as far as all the different things that come

434
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,720
Speaker 1: with that, there's a dude, a dude who says, don't

435
00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:53,239
Speaker 1: don't freeze your eggs because you don't want to deal

436
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 1: with it as the ultimate level of selfishness in my opinion.

437
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 1: But I mean, does a guy Does a man hold

438
00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 1: any level responsibility eight five, five, five, nine one oh

439
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: three five If he's dating a woman who wants to

440
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:09,400
Speaker 1: have kids in a certain demographic and it's not extremely

441
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 1: vocal or extremely communicative about his intentions, does the guy

442
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:17,120
Speaker 1: hold any responsibility? Perhaps not financially, but morally or ethically.

443
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: You're saying no.

444
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:26,400
Speaker 2: I almost want to say yes, only because a man

445
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,200
Speaker 2: will waste your time if you let him.

446
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: And I'm big on that, and I know a woman, Yeah, No,

447
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:31,800
Speaker 1: it's very true. It's very true.

448
00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 2: But if you're a woman and you know you want

449
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,640
Speaker 2: kids or you know you want this, I do think,

450
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:39,479
Speaker 2: like in your heart, like you have to decide if

451
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,119
Speaker 2: this is something that you're gonna pursue or how long

452
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:42,520
Speaker 2: you're gonna stay in this. You don't have to like

453
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 2: tell the world like you have tail years, but you

454
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 2: can't say, like, I do want children, and like if

455
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 2: that's not something you want or like we can do

456
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: by a certain time, then like then this might not

457
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,919
Speaker 2: be for me, this relationship, just because I don't know.

458
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like already, like I'm a mom, right,

459
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 2: I'm thirty three, I'm a mom of a one and

460
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 2: a half year old, and I personally like don't want

461
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 2: children later. I only want one. But I also don't

462
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 2: want kids later in life because this is so hard already.

463
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: I feel like a tea mom some days and other

464
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: days I feel like a nan on because it's just

465
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 2: like it's the hardest, most exhausting thing ever. So for me,

466
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: if hobby was like over here, like well, I don't know,

467
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna let a man anybody waste my time.

468
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, for me, it's more nuanced than just like a

469
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 4: blanket yes or no. However, if I do think of

470
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 4: a dude as like constantly telling you that's what he

471
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 4: wants and that's what the plan is, then yes, the

472
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 4: same way that he would want me to respect him

473
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 4: in that relationship, I would demand or I ask for,

474
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 4: at least that respect in return of the second you

475
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 4: know you don't want to do this with me, You know,

476
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,159
Speaker 4: you have to be transparent about it. Now, if a

477
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 4: guy is never sure if he wants kids, then it's

478
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 4: on the woman.

479
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: You're entering that at your own risk. You know what

480
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 1: I mean. I agree with that, interrupt her. I don't

481
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 1: mean to say to you. I hate the counter argument.

482
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 1: You know, guys do this, we'll so do girls. I

483
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: hate that argument, but it is true. I mean, I've

484
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: been in different types of situations where women are biding

485
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 1: time dealing with things, but they don't want me to

486
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: go anywhere. So it's like, yes, so people do waste

487
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 1: each other's time, and they do it in dating, and

488
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: they do it on the dating apps, and they do

489
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: it in all forms relationships, marriage otherwise. So you know,

490
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: but in this particular case, if a dude knows that

491
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to have kids, or in this case,

492
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 1: apparently he said to her. This guy to his girlfriend,

493
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: He tells me he feels at thirty eight as though

494
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: he still has a decade of enjoying his lifestyle and

495
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 1: powering through with his career and is not ready for

496
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 1: marriage and children. But he knows that it's become a

497
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: priority for me, So he's off. So he broke up

498
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 1: with her as a result of it. I guess, And

499
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 1: now now you know she wants I guess, compensation or

500
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: something for this, which I have to be honest, based

501
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 1: on that quote, it doesn't sound like he misled her.

502
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: It just sounds it sounds like she always knew that

503
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: and hoped that he would change his mind and headed

504
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 1: her bets and now she's had a position where it's

505
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 1: going to be a little bit more challenging and she's

506
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: mad about it. That's kind of what it sounds like.

507
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if a dude is like, yep,

508
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 1: I want to do it. I want kids, I want kids.

509
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,159
Speaker 1: I want kids. I want kids, and then you know,

510
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: four or five years later, now I don't want kids.

511
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: That's his right, but I think you would have every

512
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 1: right to be really upset about it. Now do you

513
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: get financial damages for that? I don't know. I wish

514
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: you should, right like you should.

515
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of women waste their time

516
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 6: in relationships and men may not understand how important it

517
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 6: is that time window, Like you have your your child

518
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 6: bearing years and you waste them with a guy who's

519
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 6: just leading you on. But it doesn't seem like this

520
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 6: guy was leading her on. It seems like he was

521
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 6: clear about what he does want and what he doesn't want.

522
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 6: You can't stick around hoping somebody's going to change their mind.

523
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: That's on you. Well, then you can say, well, guys,

524
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 1: had you know you can. You can be Mick Jagger.

525
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: You can have kids until you're eighty years old. You can.

526
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: But I suppose the same And here I go flipping

527
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: the argument again, which I really don't like that as

528
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 1: an argument tactic. But I mean, I could date someone

529
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: for five years and then wind up being five years older.

530
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: Then I wanted to be having kids, and then it

531
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: turns out we don't have kids and break up and

532
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: now I have to start over, which means a couple

533
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 1: more years maybe to meet someone else, and then get

534
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: to the point where so now I'm five six, seven, eight,

535
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: ten years older than I wanted to be having kids.

536
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: Now I'm a really old dad. I mean, so I

537
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: it's not physiologically impossible for a man, but I still

538
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: run the risk of it not lining up with how

539
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: I wanted my life to be. And I can't sue

540
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: for that, you know what I mean? I mean on

541
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, let's just bostys and each other time,

542
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: so that Eric, well it's not Eric.

543
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 6: Hey.

544
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: Yeah we doing Hey, man, So what do you if

545
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 1: a woman dates a guy in her mid thirties wants

546
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 1: to have kids, and after years, you know, he decides,

547
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want kids, and uh, even

548
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,239
Speaker 1: if he said he wanted kids previously and then they

549
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: break up, I mean, does he have any kind of

550
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: moral or ethical or financial obligation? I mean, I know

551
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: this is kind of a ridiculous question, but on the

552
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: financial front, but like I mean, is he responsible in

553
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: some ways for the position that she f and yourself

554
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: in late thirties and no kids.

555
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 13: No, I don't think he old or anything financially, but

556
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 13: you definitely morally, if someone wants kids and you don't,

557
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 13: you definitely should let them know up front. If it's

558
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 13: a situation where the two just split and she feels

559
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 13: that she wasted her time, then it's her choice to

560
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 13: stay in that relationship. She definitely could have frozen her eggs.

561
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 13: I think a woman has the right to do that

562
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 13: without acting a guy, so she still had played.

563
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 1: A part in it as well. Yeah, that's interesting. I

564
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: guess she very easily could have just gone ahead with that.

565
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: And yeah, she didn't need him to say one way

566
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: or the other weather she should or shouldn't do it,

567
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 1: unless she was expecting him to pay for it for

568
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: some reason. But yeah, I mean I've dated people who

569
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: are in the process of freezing their eggs who did before,

570
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: did right after. We I mean, that's something you don't

571
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 1: need me for that, You don't need my certainly don't

572
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 1: need my permission for that either.

573
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 13: Exactly exactly, so, so he definitely should just go ahead

574
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 13: and do that if you want to. But at the

575
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 13: same time, though, I don't think he owed her anything financially.

576
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 13: But definitely, guys don't hold up women.

577
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you know you want to have kids, just

578
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: go for it and do it, all right, Eric, thank you,

579
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you guys that love you

580
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: to I've walked from a lot of early situations that

581
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: I never saw develop because it seemed that the she

582
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: wanted kids so badly and I was unsure that I

583
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: thought it was unfair, and so it's possible I could

584
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: have changed my mind. But again, you know, I'm respectful

585
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: of the fact and aware of the fact that it

586
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: only would become more difficult depending on your age. So

587
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: like I'm holding you up in some ways. Yeah, and

588
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: that's not fair to her, No, But is it worth

589
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 1: ending a relationship that could have been I mean, was

590
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,479
Speaker 1: I a little maybe over sensitive to it on your

591
00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: behalf or was I a little reactive to it in

592
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: some strang And I'm not saying I'm a hero by

593
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: any means, but I just mean, you know, did I

594
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: wind up? Did we wind up not pursuing something that

595
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: could have been great? And it could have led to

596
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: that because I was concerned with you not meeting your

597
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: needs and being resentful to me for it. Hey, Jessica, Yes, Hi,

598
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: good morning. Final, say what do you want to say?

599
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 11: I definitely think that there's some sort of case for

600
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 11: holding them financially responsible. This happened to my sister. She

601
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 11: was with a guy for eleven years from twenty four

602
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 11: to thirty six, and he just up and left her.

603
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 11: But the whole time they had talked about it, like

604
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 11: she wanted multiple kids. He wasn't really into multiple kids.

605
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 11: But yeah, we'll have at least one kid.

606
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, let's have kids.

607
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 11: She's like, well, she had some health issues. Maybe I

608
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 11: should freeze my eggs, do like that sort of thing. No, No, well,

609
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 11: you know we're gonna we'll get into that. We'll get

610
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 11: into that over and over and over again for years,

611
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 11: and then just up and left her. And here she

612
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 11: is now, like thirty seven years old, trying to start

613
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 11: over again. She still wants kids, but now you have

614
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 11: to start over, you have to find a partner that

615
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 11: you trust and like and all of these things. And now,

616
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 11: because of the self that she is, is she going

617
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 11: to be able to have kids in what is now

618
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 11: after thirty five considered a geriatric pregnancy. So it is

619
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 11: really a hard situation.

620
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: But it is hard. J.

621
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 7: You definitely need to take that into consideration.

622
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: Because Mary, he genuinely was on the fence and didn't

623
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: want to. I mean, and I'm not defending him, I

624
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 1: don't know him, but maybe he was genuinely on the fence,

625
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: didn't want to lose her, and then you find yourself

626
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: at a point of no return, where it's now you

627
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: look like a jacka but like you genuinely. Maybe he

628
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: really didn't know, or maybe he hoped that he would

629
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: come around to the idea. I think we all take

630
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: risks in dating and in relationships and on the dating

631
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: apps and everything else, and I think, you know, unfortunately,

632
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: this is a place that you can find yourself. But

633
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: I think that the key is, you know, and I'm

634
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: not saying your sister did anything wrong, but maybe she

635
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: should have just proceeded with some of these backup plans

636
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: on her own and and did not and not wait

637
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: for him to decide what she should or shouldn't do,

638
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: or you know. It's almost like creating a backup plan

639
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: ahead of time by freezing your eggs, right.

640
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 11: But some people, I think misconstrue that backup plan as

641
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 11: like disloyalty or you know, or not having faith in

642
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 11: that relationship. And I think that's probably which is not

643
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 11: right at all. But that's probably what he would have thought,

644
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 11: and why he pressured her not also much to not

645
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,239
Speaker 11: do those things, because then he thought, well, then why

646
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 11: are you making a backup plan for not being with me.

647
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: It's complicated, Jessica. Thanks, you have a good day yet

648
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: a date multiple what so that you wind up having

649
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: a kid going on Maury.

650
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 6: You don't know whose kid it is. You know who

651
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 6: kid it is the one who wanted to have one,

652
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 6: but you probably would, you know, I want to give

653
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 6: it to somebody else.

654
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: You know what I was about to say, here we

655
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: are not solving the world's problems, and then Kiki says,

656
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: so we're definitely not solving the world problems. No way,

657
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: Well go up in the city. My last damn retiring boy.

658
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: You don't stop that, boy, I'm lock wed to God. Yeah, honestly,

659
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: I've had enough Sabrina Corporator with that single espresso. But Kiki,

660
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: you got what double express that baby o. The Freads

661
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: show is on. This has turned on to look good

662
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: in a bowl? I don't know. But my question is

663
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: I was wondering this all night. How do you pee?

664
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: Because the ball, like some of them were form fitting

665
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 1: all the way to the ground and so like there

666
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: was a zipper in the back, I assume, but you're

667
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: not on zipping that do you like? Go to some

668
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: random woman in the bathroom and say um zipping. Yes.

669
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 4: Sometimes yeah. I mean for wedding dresses, they have a

670
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 4: little contraption literally that you like. It pulls the whole

671
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 4: dress up so you can pee before. But it's not easy.

672
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: Sometimes you need help. Like you said, sometimes we go

673
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: down with it, sometimes we go up with it. It's

674
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: a it's not easy. I just don't pee the whole night.

675
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. I was thinking there are

676
00:30:56,120 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: probably more people who don't pee than pee, because I

677
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: would think it would be too much of it. Because

678
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: I know, if you wear like a shorter dress, you

679
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: just can. You can just lift it up right and

680
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: then pee and then pull it down.

681
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 6: But if you have on spanks, you have on stockings,

682
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 6: or when the girls call them hiking, you know, it's

683
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 6: it's hard to like and listen and none do when

684
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 6: Like for me, I mean, maybe I got stuff all

685
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 6: in different places at that point, so I'm not undoing

686
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 6: all that.

687
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: I'll just hold it. Spanks are hard, yes, they get

688
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: the rolling down. All I was thinking about the whole night.

689
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I wonder how I'm gonna go pee,

690
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: and I'm going, okay that idea. I'm like, how how

691
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: do you get the show is on? It's stay or go?

692
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: All right? People were emailing over the weekend. How would

693
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: I tell you my stay or go story? Well, just

694
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: like that, if you emailed us, then you can tell

695
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: us right there. That's fine. French radio dot com. You

696
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: can d m us on all the different socials. It's

697
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: the French Sho'll find us there. Hey Claudia, good morning,

698
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: welcome morning. Oh hi, oh hi, hi, how you doing?

699
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 6: So?

700
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: You know I had an obvious place. Oh boy, someone's

701
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: upset that. Someone's very upset about your scenario, your situation here. Yes,

702
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm babysitting. That's all good.

703
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 7: So you.

704
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: You were recently proposed to and that's very exciting. Congratulations,

705
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: But there's there's trouble in the water, isn't there There's

706
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: trouble in the water.

707
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 14: I was.

708
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 15: I was super excited to get proposed to, and I

709
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 15: said yes, but I my friends kind of held an

710
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 15: intervention with me after it happened.

711
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 5: I told them and I really wanted them to be

712
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 5: excited for me, but they told me not to go

713
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 5: through with it.

714
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: I said it was going to be a mistake. Well

715
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: that's always inspiring, you know, you get proposed to. It's like,

716
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: you know, one of the best moments of your life

717
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: and then only for everyone to tell you not to

718
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: do it. Now, why would your friends not want your

719
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: little friend? Why would the peanut gallery not want you

720
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: to do this? I got to think if they all

721
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: came together, that there's yea a danger. I guess I'm

722
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: not surprised because I did tell them.

723
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 5: I told them about six months ago that I was

724
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 5: thinking about bringing up with them.

725
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: Because I got him cheating on me.

726
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 5: So they yeah, they they but it was only text messages,

727
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 5: like he didn't like go anywhere, but I just caught

728
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 5: him like texting someone and so anyway, it wasn't good,

729
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 5: but it wasn't.

730
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: Like horrible horrible, And I don't know.

731
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 5: I just he proposed and I really want to get married,

732
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 5: and I'm really I was really excited, and I don't know.

733
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: What to do. Well, who was he texting? Like if

734
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: he didn't if he didn't go anywhere, like it was

735
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: someone who's somebody knew obviously he was.

736
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 16: He was texting someone from work who I just I've

737
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 16: been a little suspicious about before. Just the way that

738
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 16: he's mentioned her was kind of it's kind of been suspicious,

739
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 16: and then I saw that he was texting her and

740
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 16: it was just kind of like crossing a line, like

741
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 16: just a little inappropriate, a little inappropriate.

742
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out sort of the depth

743
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: of this year. I mean, he he violated your trust,

744
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: which is, you know, sort of I don't know if

745
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: there's a level to that he was doing something he

746
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing, but I mean, we're certain that he

747
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: it was just some little flirty texting or something like.

748
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: We're certain it didn't go any further. I mean, not

749
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: sure if it matters, but I'm pretty certain.

750
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 16: And the only thing is like they went on this

751
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 16: office retreat for a weekend.

752
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:47,720
Speaker 1: Caused me a little bit suspicious. Yeah, anyone else retreat

753
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: was just it wasn't just the two of them, apparently

754
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: it was.

755
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 17: The whole office, right, But I did want that they

756
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 17: were texting a lot after that, and so and your friends,

757
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 17: I'm assuming are just like he's not trustworthy or do

758
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 17: they have any other issues with him or what's the deal?

759
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 17: They just are like, if he's not trustworthy and if

760
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 17: he's already kind of doing they think that he's just doing.

761
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 17: So I confronted him about that, and he was pretty apologetic,

762
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 17: like he knew he crossed a line.

763
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: And so they think that he's just proposing to me

764
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: so that I don't break up with him. What was

765
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: the nature of the text messages? Was it like you're

766
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: cute you know on this office retreat? Or was it

767
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: like I want to do you? You know? It wasn't

768
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: full on that.

769
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 18: It was like she said something about like she had

770
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 18: she was getting a wax, and she yeah, she decided

771
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 18: to tell him about it.

772
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: Why does get a vote in the no and I

773
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: get a wax?

774
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 7: Why not?

775
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: I mean Calyn does group chatts like you know what,

776
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: you know, how should I? That was one time you

777
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: guys asked me times it's like a heart or you know,

778
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: how should I do it? But no, that's that's no,

779
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: that's wildly inappropriate. That's not like that's why is she

780
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: asking him about grooming or if it's not something that

781
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: he has any any jurisdiction over, like if he's not

782
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: going like or even if he's not doing that, she

783
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: wants him thinking about that. And that's not appropriate. Like,

784
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: that's not flirty, that's like flat out that's now let

785
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: me ask you this, Well, I guess he responded to it. So,

786
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: I mean, because people can't control the messages they get.

787
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: But if someone is that, don't smile me. Like we're

788
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: both making the same look. Look, if I'm sitting, if

789
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm in my desk and you text me something, the

790
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: only choice I have is how I'm going to respond

791
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: to it. That being said, now let me finish my thought.

792
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: If you text me something like that, then that means

793
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: that we have a level of comfort between us to

794
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: where you think you can text me something like that. Absolutely,

795
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: But so I'm trying. I'm not even giving this guy

796
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt. I mean, I'm telling you

797
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: it's inappropriate, but that's beyond. That's not just flirty. That's sexual.

798
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: Baby is like get out, mom, get out because it's

799
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: your babysitting. So say you were ready to forgive him

800
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: and get married. I mean, it's definitely something that has

801
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: bothered me.

802
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 18: But he he apologized for it, and he told me

803
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 18: like what the extent of it, which was it was

804
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 18: just like some inappropriate text messages, Like he was. She

805
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 18: was kind of like leading him on, like trying to

806
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 18: get him to talk about this sexual stuff.

807
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: Were you talking about marriage before?

808
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 6: This.

809
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I he saw my Pinterest board, didn't that Like,

810
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: he didn't seem to expertite things when he thought maybe

811
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: you'd leave him over this. Okay, So eight five, five, five,

812
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: nine one one three five is the number you can

813
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: call him. Text the same number, you guys. I'd love

814
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: to hear from everybody listening. This woman, Claudia caught her

815
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend texting with a co worker. They went on a

816
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: trip together, an office retreat, and now she's asking about

817
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: certain sort of waxen yeah, intimate type questions, and he

818
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: apparently gets a vote in that kind of thing, which

819
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: the only time I've ever gotten to vote in that

820
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: kind of thing is what I'm experiencing that kind of thing.

821
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: So I don't know otherwise why anybody would be talking

822
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: to me about that, or they were trying to get

823
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: me to go to that kind of.

824
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 4: Thing, or maybe the retreat was somewhere tropical and she

825
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 4: just wanted to get her bikini line ready.

826
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: Or tropical even worse. Yeah, that is not a normal

827
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: coworker interaction, and especially if this is a woman that

828
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: you don't know, and there's no context, and I don't

829
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: like any part of this, and I don't. But then again,

830
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: I mean, people cheat, Okay, people do stupid things. People

831
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: they realize their mistakes, they do ask for forgiveness, and

832
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: some people are able to change their behavior and realize

833
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: what they did was wrong and hurtful. I mean again,

834
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm playing the other side of this. I don't think

835
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: I could get old for me personally, but I'm also

836
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: a relatively unforgiving person and I hold grudges forever, my

837
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: whole life, forever. I'll never forget, and that's not healthy.

838
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: So I mean, is there any way in which he

839
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: can have redeemed himself over the last six months and

840
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: into the future and then they can work this out?

841
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 5: Is it?

842
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely he's got to go? Is there zero forgiveness? Is

843
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: there zero room for error here? We're not forgiving? Okay, yeah,

844
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: we're not. You guys know that I have a very

845
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: hard time with that. Again, that's my experience what I

846
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: would do.

847
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 2: But I do feel like he is trying to marry you,

848
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry, Claudia, because he's afraid that you're going

849
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 2: to leave or wake up and realize that this company retreats,

850
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 2: not which thought it was.

851
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: They were retreating, all right, Claudia, I'm gonna take some

852
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: phone calls and go through these texts here, but I

853
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: have the radio one and I wish you the very

854
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: best idea. Beck you, MiGs, thank you guys. Sorry, I

855
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: have a good game. Yeah, I don't like it. I

856
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: don't like it. I don't know how you recover from this.

857
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: You don't you leave? But again, I mean there's there's

858
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: people do screw up and people do forgive and move forward.

859
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 1: It's possible.

860
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 19: I think it's just you have to decide if that's

861
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 19: what you want to do, and if that's what you

862
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 19: want to do, then you need to commit to that,

863
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 19: and you need to actually forgive instead of just holding

864
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 19: it against them.

865
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: For the rest of your life. But none of her

866
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: friends want her to do this. They all came together

867
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: and in fairness, I mean, you can call up here

868
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: about anything you want. But she's calling us for validation.

869
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: She's hoping. I think that people are going to tell

870
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: her one way or the other what to do. So

871
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 1: I don't think she's sure about this either, because if

872
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: she were, then she would just say, look, the guy

873
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: screwed up. You know, there's more context here that you know,

874
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 1: the ups and downs of relationships. He wasn't feeling. Whatever

875
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: his excuse is doesn't make it right. But it's up

876
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: to her to decide if she's going to forgive him.

877
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: It's not up to the friend group, it's not up

878
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: to us. But she's still looking for someone to tell.

879
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 6: Her to do it.

880
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: But did he that tells you every hers?

881
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 6: Did he go to HR about the wax text, like,

882
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 6: you know, like he needs to leave his job or something.

883
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: If he's so serious about this, because now you're still

884
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: going on the retreat, I think I think you're right.

885
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: I do think some drastic change would be Like if

886
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: you want me to commit to you for life, then

887
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: I think we're going to have to do something. We're

888
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: the exposure to this person who apparently doesn't matter. I

889
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 1: do think something and that sounds drastic, but I do

890
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: think something like that would be necessary.

891
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 2: Yes, Also, if you think, like all your friends coming

892
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 2: together again. I know there's always that one little hater

893
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: friend or whatever, But if all your friends come together,

894
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 2: people who truly love you and are telling you on

895
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 2: the same page, they're on the same you know whatever,

896
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 2: being like this isn't the right relationship for you, Like,

897
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 2: don't get married to this man.

898
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 10: Do not do it?

899
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: Everybody? Are everybody? Everybody? Hey Telly, Hey, what's up?

900
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 11: Good morning?

901
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: How you doing? Stay or go?

902
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 4: Go?

903
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: Definitely you're not liking this office retreat, are you? I

904
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: want to know who else was retreating right and where

905
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: it was? There was an office retreat exactly, and I

906
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: mean there are there is such a thing. I have

907
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: heard it happening.

908
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 11: Well yeah, I mean I've heard of couple's retreat, but

909
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 11: office retreat.

910
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: I mean, was he saying in a hedonism in Jamaica

911
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: or something like I want to know where you win?

912
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: It was this, I want to know where you win? No,

913
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: it does exist. There are like off sites and things

914
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: where big companies go and do trainings and things like that,

915
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: or they'll do like team building. It does happen. Now,

916
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: we don't have the budget for anything like that. I mean,

917
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: that would never happen here.

918
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 20: We heard of like trainings, you know, but an office retreat.

919
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: Like, come on, they were really retreating themselves. I mean

920
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: and again like I don't know, but like the comfort

921
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: to be asking about that kind of thing that that

922
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: really says that there's more here to this story. Thank you, Telly,

923
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: have a good day. We are all very close around here,

924
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: and we know a lot of things about each other,

925
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: but I don't those those kinds of text messages don't fly.

926
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: I mean, Kiki's always asking me. But other than that,

927
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 1: that's different. Though, Hey Ariel, yes, Hey, good morning? Stay

928
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: or go?

929
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 21: What do you think she believe she should start by

930
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 21: leaving him as she can't even convince herself that it

931
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 21: didn't happen. And on top of that, stop sharing your

932
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 21: relationship drama with other people that aren't a licensed therapist.

933
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 21: When you do that, you then invite and taint their

934
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 21: views of the relationship. And you're not in a relationship

935
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 21: with your friends, So don't share your relationship issues if

936
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 21: you don't want them to be tainted.

937
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm always I'm mixed on that. Like I'm mixed because

938
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: I do agree with you about like when you get

939
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: in a fight with like a trivial fight with someone

940
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: you're taking, and then you go and you tell your

941
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: friends about this trivial fight, and you're bound to tell

942
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: your side of the story. It's probably not a balanced

943
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: story because that's why you go to your friends. It's

944
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: I mean, for advice. But let's face it, most of

945
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: the time when we're recounting a fight. We're recounting our

946
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: version of events, not the new neutral version of events.

947
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 1: And then your friends, they their opinion of this person

948
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: is becomes clouded because they're hearing what you tell them.

949
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: They love you, probably more than the other person. Whatever.

950
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: So but this is more than trivial, Like, this is

951
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 1: fundamentally bad. So I mean, this is wrong.

952
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 21: She can't convince herself that it's not wrong.

953
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: She needs to leave. Yeah, well she works more than that.

954
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 11: I don't care who she is, she's worked more than that.

955
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: There you go, Ariel, thank you have a good day. No,

956
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: Like if I if you get in little fights with

957
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: people and then you run and tell your friends you

958
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 1: know this stuff, then that's going to cloud your friend's

959
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: opinions of this person. That's not fair because then you know,

960
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: you may you may have told a more drastic version

961
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: of events, and then you get over it and forgive them,

962
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: and then your friends don't because they're they're more invested

963
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: in you, or his friends don't because they're more invested

964
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: in him, And now everyone's got this tainted opinion. So

965
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: I agree that, Like, if you're gonna you can go

966
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: to your friends whatever you want. But you have to

967
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: realize that when you're telling them things, they're going to

968
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: remember and hold on to them. Yep. I've held on

969
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: to things that my friends have let go of, and

970
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm still bitter about it, and I don't know that

971
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: I have a right to be. But but at the time,

972
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: the way the story was told to me, my friend

973
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: was violated, you know. But then they forget, and then

974
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to just forget about it, you know what

975
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: I mean. But like in a case like cheating, or

976
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: in a case where everybody's coming together and being like, hey,

977
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 1: this is bad for you, I think you have to

978
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: trust that. So that's where I'm in the middle on

979
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: like how much you share with people, because you may

980
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: choose to move on your friends may not. You have

981
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: to know who you can go to, Like there are

982
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: there are friends that will not judge you. I mean,

983
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: I'd like to think I'm one of those friends.

984
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 4: I would not be able to survive without my group

985
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 4: of girlfriends to lean on for support.

986
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: So I have to disagree, But you can't tell the

987
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: judge person. Yeah, I think it can be I think

988
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: it depends on the situation. It can be hard.

989
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:41,280
Speaker 18: I will.

990
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: Hey, Linda, Hi, Linda, Linda, there's only Okay, I gotta

991
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: there's only one Linda. Mom. Yeah, like, we got a

992
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: special number for you, Linda Jason's mom. So it's say

993
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: her going and this woman's calling because six months ago

994
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 1: her boyfriend she caught him in some very inappropriate text

995
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: message conversations with someone, and now he's proposing wants to

996
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 1: get married. All of her friends are saying, do not

997
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: do this. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Hi, say her go. I'm

998
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: gonna give you the final word.

999
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 7: What do you think I think she should go?

1000
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: Okay? Why?

1001
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 7: Well, when she was telling this her situation, right, she

1002
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 7: mentioned that she just wanted to get married. She didn't

1003
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 7: emphasize so she wants to get married to him, which

1004
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 7: tells me she's settling for whoever's going to propose to her.

1005
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: That is interesting. That is true. She did say she

1006
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: just wants to be married, So maybe she's in that

1007
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: phase where she's invested enough in this person and it's like,

1008
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to start over and write.

1009
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 1: So maybe she's settling and she's accepting this poor behavior.

1010
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,439
Speaker 7: The issue is, though she has friends that are looking

1011
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 7: out for her, it's better to get out now than

1012
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 7: to be stuck in a marriage where this person could

1013
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 7: potentially do this thing simply just to say that he's

1014
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 7: her husband, Like.

1015
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 1: Why get married now?

1016
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,439
Speaker 4: Like, even if you want to see together and work

1017
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 4: on it, what's the rush to get married?

1018
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 1: In my opinion? You know, well, he's trying to say, look, see,

1019
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm totally committed. See so, like I mean you no,

1020
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: look see, but you're like, it's almost like you're throwing

1021
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: gas in the fire here if you don't work through it,

1022
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: because it's just gonna compound everything and make everything seem

1023
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: more intense. It's like when people have a baby when

1024
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 1: they're fighting, like, I'm gonna let's have a baby, Like, dude,

1025
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: doesn't fix it, right, that'll fix us? Like, no, yes,

1026
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: he needs to change right. Yeah, he needs to get

1027
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: a cd in. Yeah, Jessica, I don't know. I think

1028
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: Jessica's having two conversations. I gotta go Jessica. She's a

1029
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: very talented person. She can talk to her coworkers to

1030
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: talk to us. A CDL that'll solve things. Yes, he

1031
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: need to go figure out something. Nobody on the CDL

1032
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: school nobody does that. No, I'm just saying he needs

1033
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: to change careers.

1034
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 6: If he's so serious about, you know, moving on and

1035
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 6: moving to their future, don't marry me.

1036
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 1: Go figure out your next career path and make sure

1037
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,959
Speaker 1: you don't see in that one. I think trip servis wax.

1038
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: That's I mean, that's that's what I hear. Yeah, Hirt,

1039
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 1: it's the Fred Show, our next Fred Show flyaway, Jonas

1040
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 1: Brothers in Las Vegas, Dobe Life Park, MGM, shout out

1041
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: to Live Nation, it's the whole trip, the tickets. The

1042
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,959
Speaker 1: keyword today is mango. So jump on the iHeartRadio app,

1043
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: tune into the station where you listen to us. There's

1044
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: a little microphone there. You can leave a voice not

1045
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: we called a talkback message and mango is the word.

1046
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: So leave that word in a talkback message and you

1047
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: can enter as many times as you want every day.

1048
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: The more entries, the better chance you have to win

1049
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: the trip. Today's word for the talkback message on the

1050
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: iHeart Radio app is mango. To see the Jonahs Brothers

1051
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: in Las Vegas from the Fred Show. Good Luck. So

1052
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: there's a billionaire who has a pickup line that he

1053
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: wants everybody to know about. And I want to know

1054
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: if this would work. What I really want to know

1055
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: is is what what would work in twenty twenty five

1056
00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 1: as it pertains to I guess this could be online,

1057
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: but you know, I suppose you could DM this to somebody,

1058
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 1: but you know, maybe in person. But this guy's name

1059
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: is Bill Ackman. He's a hedge fund guy. Now I

1060
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: don't know how I get all the money. Maybe it

1061
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: was from hedge funds. But his pickup line that he

1062
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 1: claims works is or did work. I'm not sure if

1063
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: the guy's married. He's a older guy. May I meet you?

1064
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: May may I meet you?

1065
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 5: Thank you?

1066
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 1: So he got mocked online after sharing dating advice for

1067
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: young men on social media. He's always fifty nine, you know,

1068
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: yeah's giving. I thought he was older, actually, but he's

1069
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: fifty nine. And he suggested using the pickup line may

1070
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: I meet you before starting a conversation with women. Say

1071
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: that you almost never got to know when he was younger.

1072
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: So this was a post on X I guess I've

1073
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: been viewed twenty six million times and prompted thousands of

1074
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 1: comments and mocking memes. People called him out of touch

1075
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: and joke that trying the line and getting to we'll

1076
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: get the police called on them. One person said that

1077
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: women only said yes to him because he's a billionaire

1078
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: finance here, but he replied that he didn't have money

1079
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: back when he was using that line, May I meet you?

1080
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: What is James mad about? James says, uh, I'm just

1081
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: stop throwing shade at you. I mean apparently I don't know. Yeah,

1082
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm not sure there was no shade. Yeah, I know,

1083
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just I'm confused. Anyway, I was confused. Man,

1084
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: I'll do that again. What does stop?

1085
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 15: Right?

1086
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: You know she knows he can throw some shade. I'll

1087
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: throw some shade. Not not our James. This was a text.

1088
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 14: I know.

1089
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: This is not our boss, James. Our boss James did

1090
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: not ask me. She actually like he would like more shaded,

1091
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: more drama, if anything. James, Yeah, yeah, Man, I meet you,

1092
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: May meet you absolutely not only in the dark.

1093
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 2: I guess I think that sounds like one of those

1094
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 2: like African prince princess, like you know what I'm talking about, Like, man,

1095
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,879
Speaker 2: I meet you, like said send you money, like that's

1096
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:57,439
Speaker 2: what it's giving.

1097
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,800
Speaker 1: Oh, he's talking about bellehemine. By the way, cavities. She

1098
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 1: has five cavities.

1099
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 4: She told us that well she had six, but she

1100
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 4: gets to take two out with her wisdom teams.

1101
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: I thought all of them had cavity. I thought she'd

1102
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: have all they all had cavit. I thought you had

1103
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: ten total or something. Was it two of the wisdom teeths?

1104
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: It's four and four and two wisdom so there were eight? Wow?

1105
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 1: Or six? Anyway? Man meet you? A man meet you? No, No,

1106
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: you cannot meet me. I don't like that at all.

1107
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 22: And he meet anyone and I literally the bars on

1108
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 22: the floor, and that would still freak me out.

1109
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: I would feel like you're trying to, like, you know,

1110
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 1: keep me in a trunk or something. If you said,

1111
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: if I got a thing a DM that said may

1112
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: I meet you, I would think it was like a scammer.

1113
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: That's because there's such an old timey way to talk

1114
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,439
Speaker 1: that I would think that it was somebody who didn't

1115
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: maybe have a mastery of current you know, sort of phraseology, yeah,

1116
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: or lived in different country. That's what I would truly think, Yeah,

1117
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: because that's just not the way people talk, and it's

1118
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: very polite and proper and whatever else.

1119
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,359
Speaker 4: Someone asked if I was spoken for the other day

1120
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 4: in my DMS, and I was like, wow, I haven't

1121
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 4: heard that since the is not gonna like it?

1122
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 13: You spoken for right?

1123
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 20: Right?

1124
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: Do you have a dowry?

1125
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 6: Yeah? Well do you?

1126
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 1: I'd like to know what your dad's willing to pay due? Well? Yeah,

1127
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: trade me out to get you to get you off

1128
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: the payroll. May I meet you? M Yeah? But what

1129
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: here's the better question? Though? Eight five, five, five, nine

1130
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: one one three five you can call and text the

1131
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: same number. What what would work?

1132
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 21: Like?

1133
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: What do you want to hear from men approaching you?

1134
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 20: Thing?

1135
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: Is that because you have a boyfriend, because you just

1136
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 1: don't want people that you don't want to hear from

1137
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 1: men to talk to you at all? But like, here's

1138
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 1: the thing, real period. I know you're kidding kind of,

1139
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 1: but you're not. You have a boyfriend, so you're probably

1140
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: not kidding. But like all I should say I should wear.

1141
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 2: A sweatsuit that says I have a boyfriend in the

1142
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 2: top and bottom.

1143
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 1: You know, well no, And I guess this person couldn't

1144
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: read because I think I could see it every single day.

1145
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess this person can take the time

1146
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 1: to when he asked if you're spoken for him? Haven't

1147
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: you seen her outfit today? And every day? But I

1148
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: you know, you hear a lot, whether it's social media

1149
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 1: or whatever, you hear people say that they women saying

1150
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: that they want men to approach them in the wild.

1151
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: The problem is out of you know, you all. You

1152
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 1: also hear a lot of people saying they don't want

1153
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,399
Speaker 1: to be approached in the wild, or they make fun

1154
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: of the guys who approach them in the wild, and

1155
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: so you can't have it both ways. Or you get

1156
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: on some app and you make fun of guys, or

1157
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: you trash guys that that you know did there. And

1158
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about the guys who said like disgusting

1159
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 1: things or very clever things like I'm going to break

1160
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: every chair in the room so that you don't have

1161
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 1: any place to sit, like one guy said to you. Now,

1162
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: that is well highly inappropriate. That is that is that

1163
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,880
Speaker 1: is creative. Sometimes I take a step back and I go,

1164
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not even mad, like I got it.

1165
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, I'm not I'm not going to

1166
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,400
Speaker 1: enter a room and where are no chairs? But like

1167
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: I also okay, point, you know, yeah, every now and again,

1168
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: I think you could you could say something like that

1169
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 1: to the right person and they might think, like, you know,

1170
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 1: if they have a little bit of an off sense

1171
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 1: of humor like we do. They might they might step

1172
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: back and be like, okay, but but nine times out

1173
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: of ten that's not going to work. Nine times out

1174
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: of ten you're gonna wind up getting made fun of.

1175
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 1: But so that's my thing is do you want to

1176
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 1: be approached And if you do, what's actually going to work? Now?

1177
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: Of course you want them to be respectful and and

1178
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 1: not you know, be gross and and whatever. But like,

1179
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 1: the key to this is you want to be approached.

1180
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: If I'm guessing you want to be approached by the

1181
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: guys that you want to be approached by. And and

1182
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: we as men don't know whether we're the guy you

1183
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: want to be approached by or not, so we don't

1184
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: approach out of fear of all these other things. So

1185
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: I guess if that's the case, if you want to

1186
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: be approached by men or whatever, I think we have

1187
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: to get to a place where we can kindly brush

1188
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 1: people off as a standard in society. And then, by

1189
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 1: the way, once you're kindly brushed off, you need to

1190
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: step off. Yeah, you need to. You need to leave,

1191
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 1: You need to, you need to leave. She doesn't want

1192
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: to meet you, bro and then and then you need

1193
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: to leave. You need to not respond. If it's in

1194
00:54:57,600 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: a DM, you don't need to have some smart comeback

1195
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: because you were rejected. You don't have to project, you

1196
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:05,280
Speaker 1: don't have to say something. I don't want you anyway,

1197
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 1: which is what everybody. There's so much of this stuff.

1198
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: That's my favorite that people do. It's you you want

1199
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: to go out with me? No, well, you know you

1200
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 1: think you're hot stuff. Dude, you asked me a question,

1201
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 1: I gave you an answer. Now you need to walk

1202
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: away now. So there's that. So this isn't all on women.

1203
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: This is on men too, because men have a tendency

1204
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: to act like idiots. I'm a fan of the like

1205
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: for both of both parties involved.

1206
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 4: The like don't make it feel like you're hitting on

1207
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 4: me situations, so like, come up, talk about something different,

1208
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 4: make a joke, point something out at the bar, then

1209
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,359
Speaker 4: feel my energy. If I'm engaging, or if I'm like, oh,

1210
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 4: my friends waving across the bar, then we can both

1211
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 4: leave the situation either not embarrassed, or you proceed hitting

1212
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 4: on me like I don't make me feel like you're

1213
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 4: hitting on me. Don't be like, hello, ma'am you know,

1214
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 4: I'd like to dance with you, you know, just let's

1215
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 4: let's just talk talk about the bar.

1216
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 1: Is it crowded?

1217
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 4: You know?

1218
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 1: Do I have a drink?

1219
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 4: YadA YadA, Okay, And so no one gets embarrassed either way,

1220
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 4: because then you could feel if I'm like, I gotta

1221
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 4: go to the bathroom.

1222
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. Take a hint, like, you know,

1223
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: is it conversation flowing organically or are you forcing it?

1224
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: If you're forcing it, walk away, Yep, it's over, and

1225
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: then you're not embarrasseding neither of money. Kick how you know? Well?

1226
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: What why are you rolling your eye? You're technically single

1227
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 1: but engaged because you're not married, But when you were

1228
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: actually actually single? Yes, how did you want to know?

1229
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: He is what I'm talking about. That's why I rolled

1230
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: my mind. I don't even know the rules anymore. But

1231
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: how did you want to be approached?

1232
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 6: So I want you to approach me? And then just

1233
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 6: if I call the police on you, doesn't mean I

1234
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 6: don't want you. And then if I don't's.

1235
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: A good sign. In my experience, that's been a good sign.

1236
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 6: If I don't call the police, we good, you know, Like,

1237
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 6: keep talking, that's the alternative. Yeah, because I am one

1238
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 6: of those women who I would hype me in up,

1239
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 6: like you gotta approach women, man, you gotta go out

1240
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 6: there in a while, you gotta shoot your shot, man,

1241
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 6: And then the moment you shoot your shot at me,

1242
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 6: if you're not the man, I won't, I'm like, please

1243
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 6: get them.

1244
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: So this is kind of what I'm talking about, right

1245
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: because like as a guy like guilty, I don't know,

1246
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I you know, it's like I

1247
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: don't want to wind it. If I walk up to

1248
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: the right girl at the right time and I'm the

1249
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: guy she wants to talk to, and then I talked

1250
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 1: to her, then that's what she wanted and that goes well.

1251
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: But if I'm not, and then a lot of different

1252
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: things could happen. And so yes, I guess I'm a

1253
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: little insecure about it. But but then but then you say,

1254
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: that's what you want? But are you you know, are

1255
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 1: as a society, are we receiving that as well as

1256
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: we possibly could? You know what I mean?

1257
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 6: Like, it's hard, it's hard being a man, because I

1258
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 6: don't think it's hard, don't I know, I don't think

1259
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 6: it's hard to be a man in this.

1260
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: One regard. This is tricky. Yeah, a man, I wouldn't

1261
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: know what to do. This is tricky. It is not

1262
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: hard to be a man at all. But this is

1263
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 1: a little tricky because it's like different age demographics are

1264
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: looking for different things. And sometimes you can be really forward,

1265
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: and sometimes you can and then sometimes you're not forward enough.

1266
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: You know, if you're may I meet you, then that

1267
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna get made fun of. But if you're like,

1268
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: you know, can I can I you know, get up

1269
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: in the right right, that's also that's that's usually not

1270
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: gonna go well, but sometimes it does, depending on who

1271
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: you're talking to and when and where.

1272
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 4: I think it's the millennial girls that are like, ill

1273
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 4: walk away from like I don't see that. Like my

1274
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 4: friends and I like, we all like we want to

1275
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,439
Speaker 4: meet new people, regardless of if people have husband whatever,

1276
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 4: you know, we want to chat. I've heard from the

1277
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 4: younger generation because I don't think they want to talk

1278
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 4: at all.

1279
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: They want to look at screens, like they don't want

1280
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: to talk to you.

1281
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 4: They're scared of they won't call a reservations.

1282
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: Hey, Ashley, Hi, so this is great. A guy walked

1283
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: up to you and he said what.

1284
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 14: So I was working, and I was working at a

1285
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 14: bar and I saw someone order something that I liked,

1286
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 14: and I stopped next to him.

1287
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 20: I was like, oh, you got our It.

1288
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 11: Was a buffalo chicken salad, and he just looks at

1289
00:58:58,600 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 11: me stopped.

1290
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 20: He goes, I want to wear your skin on.

1291
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 23: My face, and I just kind of stared at him,

1292
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 23: and he stared at me, and the bartender staired and

1293
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 23: it was almost like that Homer Sympson.

1294
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: Meme where you like back away slowly, Yeah, and I

1295
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: just like backed away into.

1296
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 4: The kitchen, and then the bartender kicked him out and

1297
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 4: grabbed a bouncer and he was not allowed back at

1298
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 4: that facility.

1299
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: Well, that's why we're scared. Actually, everybody knows. The mistake

1300
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 1: that was made here was it's it's may I wear

1301
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: your skin on my face? That's if only he had

1302
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: been more proper about it. That that's that was the issue.

1303
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: So I understand.

1304
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 21: And it was like the consistent eye contact after and

1305
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 21: I'm like, oh no, I don't know what to do

1306
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 21: right now.

1307
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 1: It was very scary. I'm kind of funny though, but

1308
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: it is my uh craziest line.

1309
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 11: I hope no one ever tops it.

1310
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Anyway, how long you guys been married? But yeah,

1311
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: very married?

1312
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1313
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 20: Didn't that work for me though?

1314
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, actually, thank you, have a good day. He took

1315
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Uh, Stephanie, how are you doing? Good morning? Hi,

1316
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: good morning. So this is an example of a guy

1317
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 1: objectifying you and it worked.

1318
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 21: Yeah, we're engaged.

1319
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: Oh do you? But what did he say?

1320
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 13: Well?

1321
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 21: I mean I just literally walked past him, told him

1322
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 21: he had nice tand.

1323
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 2: Smooth legs, and just left.

1324
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 4: And then the next time that I saw him.

1325
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 10: At the store, I looked at him.

1326
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 11: I was like, so did you go home and look

1327
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 11: at your legs?

1328
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: And she was like, I mean I go wait a minute,

1329
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 1: so you legs? You objectified him?

1330
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 13: I shared it.

1331
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: Does he shave? Why he's so smooth?

1332
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 16: Yeah?

1333
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 1: Oh huh, he has hairless legs. He used to be

1334
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: like an MMA fighter, so he really didn't have Okay,

1335
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: I kind of like the hair on his legs from

1336
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: grampling and stuff.

1337
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 21: So they were really tanned, they were really smooth, and

1338
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 21: I was like.

1339
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: Shoot, shat, let's go okay. Now, now, honestly, if he

1340
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: now this is a guy that you're with, but like

1341
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: if he had said something about your legs. How would

1342
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 1: that have gone over?

1343
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 3: Well, it would have been really weird because I didn't

1344
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 3: have any like shorts or anything on.

1345
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: So by a chance he was lad at that point

1346
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: in time.

1347
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 13: I mean, yeah, how would you know?

1348
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: Okay, but nine times out of ten, that's not gonna work, right, Like,

1349
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: we accept that? Correct? Okay, correct? So this is a

1350
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: perfect example of it worked for you, guys, but you

1351
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: got it. And if you're gonna if you're gonna make

1352
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 1: that up, if you're going to say something like that,

1353
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: then I think you have to know in your mind

1354
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: nine times out of ten you're gonna get rejected. But

1355
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: maybe one time it will work. But I don't know.

1356
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: Like it worked for her, it did work for you,

1357
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, you're good for you, Stephanie. All right,

1358
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yea destiny, Yes, destiny? What happened?

1359
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 1: This is a pickup line. First of all, did it

1360
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: work or it did not work?

1361
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 14: Oh?

1362
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 7: It worked enough for a first day?

1363
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: Okay? What happened?

1364
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 14: I was dancing in the middle of a bar and

1365
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,479
Speaker 14: someone randomly comes up to me shows me his phone.

1366
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 14: I don't know if you know the game trivia Crack.

1367
01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: It's just.

1368
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 7: A game that asked questions and he's like, hey, you look.

1369
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 14: Smart, can you answer this question?

1370
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 13: Three?

1371
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,439
Speaker 14: So we ended up playing trivia crack in the middle

1372
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 14: of the bar. It turns out he ends up getting

1373
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 14: my number and then went on a first date and

1374
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 14: he ended up telling me, He's like, just to let

1375
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 14: you know I seen you, and like, I had no

1376
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 14: other way of thinking about talking to you. So I

1377
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 14: downloaded the app and I went up to you, and

1378
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 14: we ended up playing That's cute, okay.

1379
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 1: But only one day.

1380
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 14: It didn't get I mean, it didn't get any farther,

1381
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 14: but it caught my attention, and I thought the confidence

1382
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 14: was was cute.

1383
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, all right, thank you, Destiny, have a

1384
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 1: good day.

1385
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 14: You're welcome too.

1386
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: I think we also need to get past the thing

1387
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: where we're we're I mentioned I alluded to this earlier.

1388
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: I mentioned it, but like we're proud of rejecting people too,

1389
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 1: like or we're proud of dating fails. Like again, if

1390
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: a guy is gross or predatory or dangerous or a

1391
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 1: cheater or steam from you, then let's expose those people,

1392
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: right like we always should have. But like the thing

1393
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: where we go on a date and we both took

1394
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 1: risk in going on the date, and the date didn't

1395
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: go the way we wanted it to. Like that's how

1396
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: that's dating. And I think it's even more risky when

1397
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 1: you're on dating apps because because again the days of

1398
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: the only option that we had was to talk to

1399
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: each other and then gauge the vibe and the chemistry

1400
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:26,919
Speaker 1: before we went out. That's over. So now the first

1401
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 1: time I'm getting any vibe from you whatsoever really in person,

1402
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: is when I first meet you, and maybe it goes

1403
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: well and maybe it doesn't. But again, I mean, it's

1404
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: not just in this era where you go on a

1405
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: date with someone and they may not call you for

1406
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: a second date, you know what I mean, Like, this

1407
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 1: is nothing new. The only thing that's different now is

1408
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: that you can go blast those people publicly and get

1409
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: mad at them. But again, it's since the dawn of time,

1410
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: like men have been rejected. Women have not gotten second dates.

1411
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: Men have not gotten second dates. Like it is what

1412
01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 1: it is, right, So so short of you being a

1413
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: terrible person who's actually like a like, because what happens

1414
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: then is like maybe you're maybe that person wasn't for you,

1415
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: but they're for the next person. But now the next

1416
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 1: person's not interested because they heard about some perspective from

1417
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: an anonymous other. You know what I mean. It's like,

1418
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: I think technology all around is screwing this up, the

1419
01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: dating apps, the message boards, all the rest of the stuff,

1420
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: because it's like, look, maybe maybe you, maybe I could

1421
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: meet two people at the same time on the same

1422
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 1: day and you're not for me, but the other one is,

1423
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: and it is what it is, and the same goes

1424
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: for you. Like when I go on dates with people

1425
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:30,439
Speaker 1: from dating apps, I assume they're talking to five other people.

1426
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: That's the game, and so that if I don't get

1427
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: a second date, I can be disappointed, but like or

1428
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 1: if they goes to me, I can be disappointed. But

1429
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: I think it kind of comes with the territory, right

1430
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah, may I go out with you?

1431
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: You got a thousand dollars? Okay, so that's that's it, right,

1432
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 1: I got a thousand dollars? May I go out with you?

1433
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1434
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 1: You can't see that's okay. He left that part out

1435
01:04:55,720 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: and he's a billionaire, so they're more Freadshew. Next, what

1436
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 1: is how does your urban Dictionary name go? Again? One

1437
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 1: of the most attractive people of all time standards and

1438
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: good taste, always high standards. I'm one of the hottest

1439
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 1: people of all time, wasn't it a Yeah, that's what

1440
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 1: Urban Dictionary says about Fred. Fred's show is on.

1441
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 2: Okay, my mom has a photo signed allegedly supposedly don't

1442
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 2: tell anymore her stuff. Well, you know, just one is

1443
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 2: coming to me and I do want to take it

1444
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 2: from my house. It's Pope John Paul the Second and

1445
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 2: it's signed.

1446
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: Now is it real? Get Camason? I don't tell the

1447
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 1: Pope's signature? Yeah?

1448
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 3: What my kids guys go to college? Like, how are

1449
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 3: we gonna pay for that? First of all, I don't

1450
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 3: know if that's worth anything? And second of all, I'm

1451
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 3: not profiting off the Pope's signature.

1452
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 1: No, I mean this is like really specials. It means

1453
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 1: I love apparently because you're going to take it to

1454
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 1: a pawn shop. I think this is what he would

1455
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: want me to do, so special to do this ever

1456
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: been left waiting the phone. It's the Fred Show.

1457
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 18: Eight in.

1458
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you hey,

1459
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 1: Good morning guys? How you doing doing all right?

1460
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 20: Man?

1461
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman? Mariah? You know we're

1462
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: trying to help you out here all waiting by the phone.

1463
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: You think maybe you've been ghosted after a date, So

1464
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,439
Speaker 1: we need the backstory. How did you meet? Any dates

1465
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: you've been all? We got to know about those and

1466
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: then kind of where things are now? All right? Cool?

1467
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 10: So you know we matched on one of the apps.

1468
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 10: Uh and uh, you know, it was cool and I

1469
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 10: normally if I'm with somebody on the app, I'm just

1470
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 10: like whatever, We'll just see how this goes. But talked

1471
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 10: like for a while and it felt pretty good. We

1472
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 10: exchanged numbers and then we agreed to meet up in

1473
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 10: person and we went out on a gate and you know,

1474
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 10: we booked a little tipsy and that was pretty cool.

1475
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: I really like her.

1476
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 10: I mean, I want to see her again. But you know,

1477
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 10: I texted her a couple of times and she's kind

1478
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 10: of answered it back, and I'm.

1479
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 1: Like, I know, I didn't do anything stupid, you know,

1480
01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I know, ye are we sure about that?

1481
01:06:58,880 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 1: Or yeah?

1482
01:06:59,920 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 10: I do my best to key track, you know.

1483
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: Okay? All right, Well, so really you're you're truly puzzled,

1484
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 1: like you you don't know what happened you you you

1485
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: really look back on this date and to your recollection,

1486
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: everything went well, everything flowed well, good conversation, good chemistry.

1487
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: Why is this woman not responding to me to set

1488
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 1: up another date? You're truly puzzled.

1489
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 10: Yeah, Like I talked to my best s Frand about it.

1490
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 10: He's like, did you do this?

1491
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 18: Do this?

1492
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 10: I'm like, God, I didn't do that. I didn't do that,

1493
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 10: you know, I mean like I went went over in

1494
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 10: my head like I wrote. I mean, I'm like I

1495
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 10: went around like writing writing down the dumb stuff that

1496
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 10: I that I would say that I didn't say, you know,

1497
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 10: like I can't think of it.

1498
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call uh Mariah and I'm gonna play

1499
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: a song comeback. We'll call her. You'll be on the phone.

1500
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything right at first.

1501
01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna try and figure out what's going on. And

1502
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 1: you know, what we're always hoping for is that we

1503
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: could straighten things out. Maybe maybe not to and then

1504
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: they'll set you guys one another day before aiden. Hey, guys,

1505
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 1: all right, let's call Mariah. You guys met you in

1506
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: in a date recent you felt like it went really well,

1507
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: and I know that you know, dating on the apps

1508
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 1: can be it's hard to gauge the chemistry, and not

1509
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: every date goes great, but this one did and you

1510
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 1: were excited to see her again. But you have not

1511
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 1: heard from Mariah since the date and you really don't

1512
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 1: know why.

1513
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 10: Yeah, I have no idea why.

1514
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: Like it went really really well, really well, Well, let's

1515
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: see if she thinks so too. We're gonna call her

1516
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: right now. Good luck?

1517
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 7: All right?

1518
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 1: He Hi? Is this Mariah? Hey Mariah, good morning. This

1519
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning

1520
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 1: radio Show. The whole crew is here, and I have

1521
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right

1522
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,519
Speaker 1: now and I would need your permission to continue with

1523
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 1: the call. Can we chat for just a second. You

1524
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: can hang up anytime if you'd like.

1525
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 23: Yeah, sure, that's cool.

1526
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for your time. We're calling

1527
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 1: on behalf of a dude named Aiden who reached out

1528
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: to us and we just talked to him a second ago.

1529
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: He described what he thought was a really great date

1530
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: with you after meeting you on one of the dating apps.

1531
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:01,479
Speaker 1: But he says he can't get a hold of you,

1532
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: sends to date and he's very confused. So what happened?

1533
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 23: Yeah, Yeah, we did meet on a dating app and

1534
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:13,799
Speaker 23: went on a date. Yes, it was going well with Aiden,

1535
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 23: and then he asked me if he could ask me something,

1536
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 23: and I was like that's never a good sign, but

1537
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 23: I was like sure, and then he basically asked me,

1538
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 23: not basically he did, he said, are you trans? And

1539
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,560
Speaker 23: then I asked him if she meant like transgendered, and

1540
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 23: then he told me that he did, and I thought

1541
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 23: that I wasn't and like that there's there's nothing wrong

1542
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 23: with that obviously, but like that that question kind of

1543
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 23: came out of nowhere.

1544
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 10: And then I don't know, but like he wouldn't take my.

1545
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,560
Speaker 23: Word for it, so like he just kept kind of

1546
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:57,440
Speaker 23: asking me and then like asking to see baby.

1547
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 11: Pictures of Meal.

1548
01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I know was he asking because I

1549
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: want to be clear, I understand this. Was he asking

1550
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: because that's what he's interested in, or was he asking

1551
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: because he was skeptical on the day.

1552
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 23: I think he was skeptical because I mean, like I

1553
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 23: definitely have some like mass young teachers, but I'm not Tranan.

1554
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 23: There's nothing wrong with that, but like, yeah, like I

1555
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 23: just I'm not and I don't, like I didn't really

1556
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 23: understand why kept asking me. I guess like I guess, yeah,

1557
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 23: he just it just needed more proof.

1558
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:35,759
Speaker 1: But I that's it. Yeah, I mean, hmm, well, Aidan

1559
01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: is here. I forgot to mention that Aiden is here.

1560
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:40,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, So Aiden, you forgot to tell us about

1561
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:44,680
Speaker 1: the part where you were asking her that like's not

1562
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: like that like you didn't believe what she was who

1563
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: she said she was or as advertised. It wasn't that

1564
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 1: I didn't believe it.

1565
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 10: It was just it was okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1566
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 10: So here's the thing.

1567
01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: He's the thing, so I don't Yeah, what's the thing?

1568
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:02,680
Speaker 1: Tell me that is?

1569
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:04,560
Speaker 10: That happened a small part of the date. And the

1570
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 10: only reason I really started asking now is because when

1571
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 10: she took my hand, her hand was kind of like

1572
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 10: as big as brind and I was like, okay, she

1573
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 10: got a big hands.

1574
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: And then or maybe you.

1575
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:18,680
Speaker 10: No, maybe I do, but that's that's a question I

1576
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 10: can ask. And then I was watching her when she

1577
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 10: crossed your legs and she had kind of a long foot,

1578
01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:27,600
Speaker 10: you know, like like like too long, and.

1579
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure she had a wild that was too long, right,

1580
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 1: So then we immediately jumped to that.

1581
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,759
Speaker 20: No, no, no, no, no, okay, but there was other things.

1582
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 10: There was other things.

1583
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: I mean, she's beautiful, she's beautiful.

1584
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 10: But she got she got like a like a big jaw.

1585
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 20: And I mean, you know, I mean I'm in I mean,

1586
01:11:45,360 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 20: I mean I'm not. I'm not saying I'm not saying

1587
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 20: that I'm not. I'm not like down with whatever. But

1588
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 20: I mean, you understand why I would ask He was

1589
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 20: saying no.

1590
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:56,560
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no no, I wouldn't test that.

1591
01:11:56,680 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I I yeah, I might, I might

1592
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: not within the first forty five minutes or hour of

1593
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: meeting someone asked them questions like that, No, I wouldn't

1594
01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:08,640
Speaker 1: at some point. I'm sure that's information you need to have,

1595
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't know that you need to

1596
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: have it right away, and certainly not based on your

1597
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:16,680
Speaker 1: Sherlock Holmes assessment of she had a kind of a

1598
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,240
Speaker 1: big jaw and a long foot. So let's really bring

1599
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:20,560
Speaker 1: to that.

1600
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 10: I mean, I'm not trying to be offensive. I'm just

1601
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 10: saying it's like, I mean, you understand why I would

1602
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:26,559
Speaker 10: do that. I mean it makes sense.

1603
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 20: I mean.

1604
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 10: I asked if she has she has kind of big

1605
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 10: and it was after the first hour. It was within

1606
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 10: the first forty five minutes, so I was really trying

1607
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 10: to be respectful, And when I noticed it, I figured

1608
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 10: I should ask just to see if she has baby pictures,

1609
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 10: because any way you can tell what people of the

1610
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 10: baby's address like, because you could tell.

1611
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's okay. I think I don't

1612
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 1: know that. I think it's unfair to ask that question

1613
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: at some point, at some I guess at some point,

1614
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:56,719
Speaker 1: but then then whatever the answer is is the answer,

1615
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 1: and I don't think that then prying with let me

1616
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 1: see baby pictures? Is can I see your birth certificate?

1617
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:04,559
Speaker 1: Like I need you to prove it to me, like, yeah,

1618
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 1: your feet look a little too long for me, Like

1619
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 1: I don't. I guess, I guess. I guess we would

1620
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: have just left it there. But I'm also not really

1621
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:15,040
Speaker 1: sure if that's a question. I don't I don't know

1622
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: that your assessment and the reasons for you're asking that

1623
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:18,479
Speaker 1: question are valid.

1624
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 10: I wasn't trying to respect her, them them, I wasn't

1625
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 10: herr she you you.

1626
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 1: This, You've invented this.

1627
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 20: No, I'm just being I'm being I'm being I'm being sensitive.

1628
01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:32,599
Speaker 1: That's the whole is going to be Okay, I don't

1629
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 1: need to be with her. She so so, Mariah, I

1630
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 1: mean you answered, you you weren't necessarily offended by the question.

1631
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 1: You were offended by the sort of the fact that

1632
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 1: he wouldn't take an answer. Yeah.

1633
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 23: Well, I also just thought it was weird to ask

1634
01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 23: anyone that, like you were saying within twenty minutes. But

1635
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 23: but yeah, yeah, crying of.

1636
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:56,280
Speaker 10: It and then the baby photo was just like, okay, now, yeah,

1637
01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 10: if we go on another date, I want to ask

1638
01:13:59,040 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 10: a promise.

1639
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 1: We already asked, so here, Yeah, I think I know

1640
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: how this is going to end. Actually, I know the

1641
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 1: I hate to spoil the ending for you, but I

1642
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: know already. Thank yeah, okay, look I will ask just

1643
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:15,720
Speaker 1: so we can be certain. Mariah, would you like to

1644
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 1: go out with Aiden again? We'll pay for it? Thank

1645
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 1: you though, Okay, all right, look, Aiden, I don't I'm

1646
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 1: I'm speechless. I'm kind of speechless. I don't know what

1647
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,280
Speaker 1: to say really about this. But you know, you asked,

1648
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 1: she answered, that's the kind of it. And but we

1649
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 1: we didn't leave it there, so and this whole thing

1650
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 1: was weird. So Mariah, thank you for your time. Aidan's

1651
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: a good luck out there next French Show Flyaway, Jonas

1652
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 1: Brothers in Las Vegas. Don't be Live Park MGM, shout

1653
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 1: out to Live Nation. It's the whole trip, the tickets.

1654
01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:51,760
Speaker 1: The keyword today is mango. So jump on the iHeartRadio app,

1655
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: tune into the station where you listen to us. There's

1656
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:56,479
Speaker 1: a little microphone there. You can leave a voice no.

1657
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 1: We called a talkback message and mango is the words.

1658
01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: Le that word in a talkback message and you can

1659
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: enter as many times as you want every day. The

1660
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 1: more entries, the better chance you have to win the trip.

1661
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:11,679
Speaker 1: Today's word for the talkback message on the iHeartRadio app

1662
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 1: is mango. To see the Jonas Brothers in Las Vegas

1663
01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 1: from the French show, Good luck guys. I'm a TikToker.

1664
01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know that I'm a TikToker.

1665
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 1: I did made two in a row. I made two

1666
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: tiktoks in a row, two consecutive days. I was in

1667
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:26,639
Speaker 1: the exact same spot both times. At least this time

1668
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: I was wearing a different shirt. Do you guys want here?

1669
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 1: They're a multi I should probably like organize my thoughts

1670
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 1: this morning, But do you guys have house clothes. Yes,

1671
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: So I have clothes that pretty much only get worn

1672
01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 1: in the house. Maybe if I'm going to get mail

1673
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:43,880
Speaker 1: or something. But like like a shirt that's been washed

1674
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: eighty four thousand times, there are holes in certain spots

1675
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: of it, that's a house shirt. I have some other

1676
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,639
Speaker 1: house shirts. I don't iron house shirts. Do you iron

1677
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,840
Speaker 1: a house shirt now? Because the shirt I was wearing

1678
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:59,679
Speaker 1: in my TikTok yesterday was very wrinkly, and I pointed

1679
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 1: it out, But then of course in the comments people

1680
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: had to point it out too, that's a wrinkley shirt.

1681
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:05,439
Speaker 1: Why he said that? Okay, I'm aware that it's a

1682
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: wrinkley shirt. I'm not going to iron my shirt to

1683
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: make a TikTok, I'm not. It was a house shirt

1684
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:11,960
Speaker 1: that was in a house. Should I have to do

1685
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 1: I need wardrobe now for these things? No, I don't

1686
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,600
Speaker 1: think so, No way. But I was talking in yesterday

1687
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 1: or two days ago. It was about if you run

1688
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 1: a marathon. These are my deep thoughts. If you run

1689
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: a marathon and you get that metal, I think you

1690
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 1: can wear the medal as long as you want, within reason,

1691
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: But I think you could, like you can certainly wear

1692
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:35,800
Speaker 1: it around town. The weekend of the race. I saw

1693
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: a lot of that. You know, people like they just

1694
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 1: got it. They're walking away from the race, shirts around

1695
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: their neck, and then later they took a shower, went

1696
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 1: to dinner, different outfit. Metal still on. You ran twenty

1697
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:48,400
Speaker 1: six point two miles, right, yeah, you trained for a while.

1698
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: It's not an easy feed. Go right ahead where your

1699
01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 1: I don't care, wear your metal and then like people

1700
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: wore it to work yesterday. You know, from all over

1701
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 1: the country they ran a Chicago marathon, for example, New

1702
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,880
Speaker 1: York is coming up, and then they got their metal

1703
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 1: and they wore it to work because they wore there.

1704
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of like the gear that you

1705
01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:07,120
Speaker 1: can buy. I guess when you're part of the Chicago

1706
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 1: marathon you can buy Like I thought it was not

1707
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:11,680
Speaker 1: that great looking this year, but you know every now

1708
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 1: and some years they have good looking Chicago. It was

1709
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 1: very rainbow ye and like, uh, it was very bright okay,

1710
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 1: but again you could wear that for a week if

1711
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 1: you want to. Like, if people should be able to

1712
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 1: walk up to you and say, did you run? You

1713
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 1: run a marathon? Yes? I did. Now the bumper sticker

1714
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 1: this is twenty six point two in the back of

1715
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:32,479
Speaker 1: your car. You know how I feel about bumper stickers.

1716
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: I don't know why we're doing that, but you know,

1717
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:39,799
Speaker 1: the metal fine. And then yesterday, what is my TikTok

1718
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 1: Fred Show Radio? I'm Fred Show Radio because because I

1719
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:45,519
Speaker 1: took it before anyone else did, because someone else took

1720
01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 1: Fred on air. And then the show is the Fred

1721
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: Show TikTok so Fred Show Radio's me I says that

1722
01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:54,960
Speaker 1: there and then the frend Show tikbok that that was

1723
01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 1: an executive decision by our social media team Akakiky and

1724
01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 1: Paulina to just start from scratch. Paulina's yeah, she started

1725
01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:02,800
Speaker 1: that she gave us.

1726
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:04,720
Speaker 2: I'm still waiting for the Fred on air guy to

1727
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:06,559
Speaker 2: give me his handle because I want it back.

1728
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 1: Was he active? No, And that's why I'm like, well,

1729
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 1: if you're not active, whorings just someone being Yeah, but they.

1730
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:13,439
Speaker 2: Had it for a while.

1731
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know they'd be lying. But yesterday was

1732
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 1: ai because I went to dinner with a friend over

1733
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: the weekend and he was telling me that he has

1734
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 1: a two hundred dollars he has Apparently there is a

1735
01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:27,360
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars per month membership or subscription to Chad Shept,

1736
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have found it. There is there's free which

1737
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 1: I guess gives you. Like someone explained this to me

1738
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: and my DMS yesterday, one of the third team. It's

1739
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 1: like you get five inquarries a day and then it

1740
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:41,639
Speaker 1: won't do everything. It just kind of it just kind

1741
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 1: of like just a tip is what that is. And

1742
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 1: then for fifteen dollars you get a pro account. Oh

1743
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:47,760
Speaker 1: yes you do, which gives you a little more now

1744
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 1: I don't know how much more. And then for two

1745
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,920
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, I guess this thing is like you straight up,

1746
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 1: this is your companion. So my buddy, he's very successful guy,

1747
01:18:57,400 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: is sitting there telling me that like he's been and grooming.

1748
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 1: He has a name for her, he has he picked

1749
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 1: her voice, he has a name for her. She interacts

1750
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 1: with him like she's a human being because he's been

1751
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:13,160
Speaker 1: training her and she now knows to do things for him,

1752
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: like from a business standpoint, just on her own. She

1753
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 1: just started doing stuff. He didn't have to tell her

1754
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: anymore to do. But he refers to it as her

1755
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:24,760
Speaker 1: by her name, and he's like, dude, you're missing it,

1756
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: like you're missing it. If this makes my life so

1757
01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 1: much better in all these ways. I'm saving all this money.

1758
01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:32,439
Speaker 1: I don't have to hire, you know, I can do

1759
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 1: like rudimentary law work with this thing, like all this

1760
01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:38,560
Speaker 1: different stuff, and I'm going, dude, I am obviously missing this.

1761
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 6: Paulina been trying to tell you this for that it

1762
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:42,800
Speaker 6: wasn't his DMS last night. Yeah, I had a full

1763
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:43,320
Speaker 6: on conversation.

1764
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 1: Oh no, if you had a conversation with you, because

1765
01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 1: it was like eight paragraphs and no, it's very interesting.

1766
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,680
Speaker 1: She's been telling us. I don't know what I'm supposed like,

1767
01:19:51,120 --> 01:19:55,000
Speaker 1: maybe this conversation may not age well because I'm the

1768
01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:57,760
Speaker 1: same guy that fifteen years ago or sixteen seventeen years

1769
01:19:57,760 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 1: ago it was on the radio talking about how iPad

1770
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:02,639
Speaker 1: were stupid and it's just a big iPhone and it's

1771
01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: dumb and why the hell would I ever need that?

1772
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 1: And I have several of them now, so like like right,

1773
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: I do too. There's one in my bedroom, my old

1774
01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: ones in my living room. I use one of the airplane.

1775
01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 1: I mean I have three of them. Yeah, and all

1776
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 1: times updated ready to go. I'm loving the iPad, honestly,

1777
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:21,600
Speaker 1: great product. I wish that they would make more advancements

1778
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:23,640
Speaker 1: in all of their products, Like I don't know why

1779
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:25,519
Speaker 1: we're buying the same basically the same phone over and

1780
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:27,320
Speaker 1: over again, the same any way, it's a whole different rant.

1781
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:31,600
Speaker 1: But clearly I'm the one missing it, like I should be.

1782
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: AI could be doing all these things for me. My

1783
01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: problem is I don't think I even know where to begin.

1784
01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 1: Like I got the fifteen dollars month subscription right, so

1785
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:41,360
Speaker 1: then I'm just sitting there in front of this app

1786
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 1: like now now one day, like what now?

1787
01:20:46,560 --> 01:20:46,600
Speaker 5: What?

1788
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:46,960
Speaker 16: So?

1789
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:49,400
Speaker 1: Then I said to it like okay, you plan a

1790
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,920
Speaker 1: radio show for this target. Oh no, it was terrible.

1791
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,880
Speaker 1: I am a rookie. Spit me back a bunch. He's like,

1792
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:02,560
Speaker 1: well it should be top and I know that, Like no,

1793
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 1: like doing my job for me, lady. You could probably

1794
01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 1: tell it b for it and it will works.

1795
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 6: I just had the very scary encounter with AI where

1796
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 6: somebody needed me to write a script in my voice

1797
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 6: and they had AI write it and said write it

1798
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 6: like ki key. And when I tell you this word

1799
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:21,639
Speaker 6: for words sounded like something I would write.

1800
01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:22,600
Speaker 7: It was.

1801
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 6: It's terrifying, okay, but it didn't sound like you. Oh no,

1802
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 6: it was everything that I would say, and.

1803
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 1: Your like it sounded like you were saying it right now.

1804
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 6: No, no, no, I had to read the script, but

1805
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 6: it wrote it as if it was me with noah,

1806
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:35,960
Speaker 6: no assist from me.

1807
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 1: Wow wow No No, it's not.

1808
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:45,080
Speaker 4: Like two percent away from Pandora's box being completely open

1809
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 4: and this being really bad.

1810
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:50,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, it's but like I don't know, Okay,

1811
01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 1: So I spent hours and hours and hundreds of hours whatever,

1812
01:21:53,160 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: like teaching this thing how to think like me, and

1813
01:21:56,040 --> 01:21:58,600
Speaker 1: then I don't what's happening with that? Like where's that

1814
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,840
Speaker 1: information going? It's but this guy's like, yeah, you know,

1815
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:05,040
Speaker 1: he looks at legal documents and I've got a scheduling

1816
01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: meetings and it does this, and then it just does

1817
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:09,760
Speaker 1: it automatically, like she just knows to do stuff. Now

1818
01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:12,720
Speaker 1: she does these reports and all this stuff. And I'm going, bro,

1819
01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:17,080
Speaker 1: like I'm obviously missing it, okay, but I don't know.

1820
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. Even this morning I try to type

1821
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 1: something into it, I'm like, this isn't helpful. And then

1822
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 1: he's like, well, you're not doing it right. You need

1823
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:25,839
Speaker 1: to ask AI. You need to work through your problem

1824
01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: with AI, Like you need to say to AI, like,

1825
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,519
Speaker 1: how should I ask you these questions to get the

1826
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 1: best results? And then you sit there talking to your

1827
01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:36,000
Speaker 1: computer for an hour training it on how to think

1828
01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: like you. Look, in ten years, we're going to run

1829
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 1: this audio and it's very well, AI is going to

1830
01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 1: run this audio. Yeah, exactly, sounding like me. And then

1831
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 1: I don't know where I'll be working, you know, at

1832
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: target or something, which is fine. It'll probably be a

1833
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 1: lot more less stressful than this. I didn't tell you

1834
01:22:53,960 --> 01:22:55,360
Speaker 1: that I was gonna wor at Target. No, you've been

1835
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 1: saying that every day for years, every morning, every morning

1836
01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: when I walk in, You're like, not yet, huh, an answers,

1837
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:02,800
Speaker 1: because they haven't called me back. That's why. It's the

1838
01:23:02,840 --> 01:23:08,280
Speaker 1: only reason why they haven't called me back. But I'm

1839
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:10,000
Speaker 1: not here to I'm not here to pooh pooh it.

1840
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 1: But I am here to say I don't I don't

1841
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: know how to do it, and I don't know, and

1842
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how much I want to teach it,

1843
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 1: because then it's like, what do you need me for? Yeah,

1844
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:21,760
Speaker 1: you gotta feed it, you gotta let it get to

1845
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 1: know you. That is correct. I'm surprised I knew a

1846
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 1: lot about Kiki, but honestly too.

1847
01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 2: It pulls a lot from the Internet and a lot

1848
01:23:27,120 --> 01:23:28,920
Speaker 2: from our social and I think you have out there.

1849
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 1: It'll do that, but you need to like go in

1850
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 1: with with a reason a purpose, like you.

1851
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 2: Can't speak well, I'm gonna open shagy bet and.

1852
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:36,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at it like, no, like, what do

1853
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: you what would you like to do today? Do you

1854
01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:39,599
Speaker 1: do you want to write a book?

1855
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 22: Do you use it as as that's what I really yeah, like,

1856
01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 22: just use it as a resource if you need help

1857
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 22: with something like or an idea, like it'll help me.

1858
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've turned the corner. I said, okay, so what

1859
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 1: is it, like, give me the last example of how

1860
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:54,240
Speaker 1: I'm not creative?

1861
01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:54,680
Speaker 4: Right?

1862
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:56,679
Speaker 22: So like, if you like come up with a cool

1863
01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 22: title for something, right, Like I that's not my strong suit.

1864
01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 1: So I went in and I was like, hey, can

1865
01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:02,680
Speaker 1: give me that.

1866
01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:04,560
Speaker 22: I explained what I'm looking for a title for with

1867
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 22: something to do with an event that we had, you know,

1868
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 22: spit out some titles. So it started giving me like

1869
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:11,519
Speaker 22: a list. I was like, no, these suck. I need

1870
01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 22: something more like fun sounding. So it gave me another

1871
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 22: list of stuff and I was like, okay, that's in

1872
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 22: a starting point, but I wanted to sound more cool,

1873
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,040
Speaker 22: and so then it gave me like another like it

1874
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 22: like starts the creative.

1875
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 1: And using whatever came up with. Yeah, okay hmm. And

1876
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 1: what is your last use like recipe you said last night? Yes,

1877
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:31,040
Speaker 1: so I was looking on recipes because I'm trying to

1878
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 1: be a better cook. It's a whole thing.

1879
01:24:32,760 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 2: If Jason won't send me one, AI will give me one,

1880
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:37,799
Speaker 2: and she'll tell you exactly how much to like purchase.

1881
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:41,240
Speaker 2: I'm not overspending on like my groceries too, because I'm good.

1882
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:43,400
Speaker 2: I'll throw food away all the time, like I don't

1883
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 2: use it, it goes in the garbage. I'm planning a

1884
01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 2: trip for my friend to Vietnam. Gave me I don't know,

1885
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,759
Speaker 2: I think my Vietnam. I keep hearing that one story.

1886
01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:54,040
Speaker 2: I keep hearing that one have chat GPT plan your vacation.

1887
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:56,160
Speaker 2: I keep hearing that tell it where you're going, and

1888
01:24:56,200 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 2: it will tell you like where to go. But it

1889
01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 2: doesn't Google do that. TikTok does that for me.

1890
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:03,800
Speaker 4: I've never planned better trips than with TikTok, found better restaurants,

1891
01:25:04,360 --> 01:25:05,440
Speaker 4: better itineraries.

1892
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 2: But this you could be specific too, like we put

1893
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 2: in here, like hey, my boyfriend's friend went here and

1894
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:10,960
Speaker 2: stayed at this hotel.

1895
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: We want to be near this beach with TikTok. I

1896
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:16,639
Speaker 1: put it on this year. I mean this that versus

1897
01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:18,560
Speaker 1: this is like three seconds. But I'd rather see like

1898
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:20,680
Speaker 1: a video of someone actually being there. So I does

1899
01:25:20,800 --> 01:25:22,120
Speaker 1: like my plan, My plan be my step.

1900
01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:24,920
Speaker 2: His next step is I'll go to TikTok ONCEGPTI is

1901
01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 2: the recommendations. I want to go to the TikTok's starting Yes,

1902
01:25:27,920 --> 01:25:29,799
Speaker 2: my starting point is Ai than TikTok.

1903
01:25:29,840 --> 01:25:32,280
Speaker 1: So it's just one more step now. Yeah, I don't

1904
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: say I didn't tell you. For the environment, so bad

1905
01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:42,240
Speaker 1: for the environment Environment Fread Show. Next, The Fread Show

1906
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:44,639
Speaker 1: is on Fread's Fun Fact.

1907
01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:46,160
Speaker 13: Fred Fund.

1908
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:55,960
Speaker 1: So bad. We're gonna learn so much. And we've been

1909
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:57,720
Speaker 1: doing this little fun tac thing long enough now that

1910
01:25:57,720 --> 01:25:59,320
Speaker 1: I don't even remember which ones I have done and

1911
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: which ones I have not done. So just if you

1912
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 1: hear what I've done again, just we pretend like I've

1913
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 1: done it. I've never done it before, like it's brand

1914
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:07,640
Speaker 1: new information for you. I got you back, uh, And

1915
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 1: this whole thing where we did just to make fun

1916
01:26:09,240 --> 01:26:11,799
Speaker 1: of someone and then or you know, more than someone

1917
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:15,760
Speaker 1: someone's and then it's become like the if I don't

1918
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:18,200
Speaker 1: do it for some reason, we have a serious problem. Yes,

1919
01:26:18,520 --> 01:26:22,479
Speaker 1: so here we go. Did you know did you know

1920
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:28,559
Speaker 1: that Minnie Mouse her name is not Mini? What Mini

1921
01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:35,280
Speaker 1: Mouse's name is not Minni? It's Minerva. Minerva? Yeah, that control? Yes,

1922
01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:40,479
Speaker 1: it sounds like maderna. I got the MODERNA? Is it covid?

1923
01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 1: Oh it is? You don't even know what you've got.

1924
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:46,920
Speaker 1: If you think, what do you think is stopping pregnancy?

1925
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 1: Got a vaccine? Covid vaccine? Is I don't know? You

1926
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:53,920
Speaker 1: better be sure.

1927
01:26:55,360 --> 01:27:00,320
Speaker 4: Marina, It's Marina, Okaydva.

1928
01:27:01,120 --> 01:27:03,040
Speaker 1: Minnie Mouse is the nickname that was given to the

1929
01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:06,320
Speaker 1: character by Walt Disney. Minnie's actual name is rarely used,

1930
01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:10,160
Speaker 1: but her name is Minerva, and it will not stop pregnancy.

1931
01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:13,840
Speaker 1: For the record, More Fred Show next right here.