WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Slumming With A Soap Carver

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. You know, we need so many different

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<v Speaker 1>types of people on these second date updates. Yeah, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we don't really have a lot of time to

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<v Speaker 1>go into what they do for a living, That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>We never actually asked him that, but I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>time today. Okay, it doesn't seem really relevant to someone's date, well,

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<v Speaker 1>because Chris is on the phone and he puts something

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<v Speaker 1>in his email to us, and I'm going to need

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<v Speaker 1>an explanation for Okay, So, Chris, you said you already

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<v Speaker 1>talked to your date about this, so I'm not blowing

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<v Speaker 1>it for you. But apparently in your spare time, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a soap carver. Yea, So what does that mean? Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you take a standard bar soap and you take specific

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<v Speaker 1>tools for that and you'll carve it into different works

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<v Speaker 1>of art or different shapes. Okay, so yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>take like Irish spring and turn it into the Mona

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa pretty much? Yeah. Yeah, interesting. I've seen a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of prison movies over the weekend, and soap carving a

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<v Speaker 1>lot different than what you just describe. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the expert, so that's another way to carm So yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So does this have anything to do with your date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you start with who you met? What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the girl? Jill? Jill? How did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 1>So we met on one of those dating sites where

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<v Speaker 1>the girl has to choose you. And it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird because I'm gonna be honest, like most of the

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<v Speaker 1>girls that choose me are a little different from this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>This girl's a lot more attractive. Oh, I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>only that's a nicely of putting it. Um. I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little surprised, kind of like, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>she's real kind of thing, really hot. You thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was maybe like a bot or somebody catfishing you or yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this was just kind of like, oh okay. I did

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<v Speaker 1>literally look and make sure she wasn't from Russia. So

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<v Speaker 1>I love them birth So instead of being excited about it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, yeah, right, yea one, this must be a state.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you mean to swipe left? I hate the Internet? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. It's just kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know where you you are, so I know where

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<v Speaker 1>I stand. I know where I stand in the pack.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that, Chris. So I was like Okay, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a little weird, but I I'm a messenger or

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<v Speaker 1>we She messaged me, and so we started talking and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, I want to set up a

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<v Speaker 1>date with her. At this point, at this point, were

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<v Speaker 1>you trusting her or did you still not believe she

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<v Speaker 1>was who she said she was? He'll didn't believe No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. Once again, I'm I'm batting out of my league.

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<v Speaker 1>So something's a little weird. So I could have a

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<v Speaker 1>golf date where there's something that's just, you know, not boring,

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<v Speaker 1>like you sit at a dinner table and stared at

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<v Speaker 1>each other for an hour, like I hate that. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this a mini golf course or a real golf course? No,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a real golf course, like a full golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah at a country club. Well not a country club, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a public golf course. Yeah okay, Well if you've ever been,

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<v Speaker 1>you know there's a difference. I've only been to public.

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<v Speaker 1>Just wait, Brook, mine's gonna be blunt, but sorry, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>keep going. What was the golf date? Like? So I

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<v Speaker 1>got there and I started walking and I realized I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find my glasses. So basically I was like whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I just don't have them. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>out in the parking lot and I saw her and

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<v Speaker 1>I started waving at her and like both hands and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>like just make sure she saw me because we've never

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<v Speaker 1>met and everything, and it sounds like you're signaling a play,

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<v Speaker 1>not actually waving at anyone. Yeah, I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure she saw me because my visions a little off.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kept waving at her, and then I got

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<v Speaker 1>a little closer and this girl was like can I

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<v Speaker 1>help you? And I was like Jill. She was like no.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, it was just some random lady.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was embarrassing, super embarrassing. I'm like, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>what have Jill's in the parking I've probably seen this

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<v Speaker 1>like look like an idiot. Well, back to my car.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had extra pair glasses and churn up. My glasses

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<v Speaker 1>had fallen in that little craft between the seat and

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<v Speaker 1>the console, so golf would have not gone well for you.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no no. So got my glasses and

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm like ten minutes late and ended up meeting

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<v Speaker 1>Jill and shure enough, she's really hot in person, so

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<v Speaker 1>like wait, she she actually was that hot? She's real. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's real. What were to be honest? I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty excited all over. Oh oh yeah, that's an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting way to phrase it. Gonna lie. My five iron

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<v Speaker 1>went to a six iron, So I surprised you went

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<v Speaker 1>with iron on that one. But yeah, yeah, she decided

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<v Speaker 1>to play with me to spite my handicap. So again,

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<v Speaker 1>there's too many euphemisms happening. Did she notice, Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>knew I wanted to get a home on now. Um yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think she could tell. It's a little

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<v Speaker 1>nervous and everything incided. So anyway, we went out and

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<v Speaker 1>we played golf and just kind of talked about our

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<v Speaker 1>hobbies and she asked me fad the hobbies and I

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<v Speaker 1>told her I carved ship sculptures. This is where the

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<v Speaker 1>soap comes in. Now it makes me Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she'd be a little bit weird it out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already late and I'm a little nervous, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know I carved solcier, So I'm like, yeah, this is

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<v Speaker 1>probably a little different date from her on golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>But she thought that was pretty cool, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>really enjoyed the day, got to know her and like

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to the parking lot. At the end,

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<v Speaker 1>she kissed me. It was att surprised there and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really Yeah, it wasn't like it like a passionate

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<v Speaker 1>kiss or a makeout, but she did kiss me. That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awesome. So good. Yeah, And so basically I've been

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<v Speaker 1>texting her and haven't heard back from her since then.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't responded in any way. No, I've sent a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of texts now. It was just like, you know, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a lot of fun, you know, let's hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again. And then nothing and then another text. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like, oh, hey, I hope you're having

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<v Speaker 1>a good week. Anyway, I'd like to try to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again. And didn't get anything back from that. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know if she's still up on the dating website? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I got back on there and noticed that she was

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<v Speaker 1>on there. So maybe she's just playing the field. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Well, that would be weird after one date

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<v Speaker 1>to take your entire dating profile down Like that's like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a third or fourth date type of situation. I

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<v Speaker 1>would have done that for her. She's that hot. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what we're gonna do. Chris we're gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>Come back. I'm gonna go to the bathroom and carve

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<v Speaker 1>some soap. But then when we come back, I don't. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>guys again, get stop. We'll come back and then we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Jill and get you your second date update. Okay, okay, perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on if you're just tuning in for

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update, we've been talking to Chris. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>and Chris is just your stereotypical golf playing soap carven

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy. Yeah, basically he puts the men in

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<v Speaker 1>Dove Men's Care or maybe the lay and oil of Olay. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>get a little. Anyway, Chris met a woman named Jill online,

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<v Speaker 1>who he described as being out of his league. Those

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<v Speaker 1>are his words. So he's definitely nervous going into the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying he'd have to dial it up? Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you signed up for lots of soap puns,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't worry, they'll all be clean. Maybe we shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even call Jill. Let's just do soap puns all day

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<v Speaker 1>for the next fifteen minutes. I'd really like to watch

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<v Speaker 1>this phone call away. Here we go. Anyway, Chris took

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<v Speaker 1>Jill out for a round of golf. Things went well.

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<v Speaker 1>He even got a kiss at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>but ever since he's not been able to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of her. Yeah, and that's pretty accurate, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>chrisy sounds so chill almost where you're like, not even

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<v Speaker 1>that invested in this. I can't get a read on

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<v Speaker 1>how you're feeling about it. Yeah, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>did anything wrong, per se. I think maybe she's a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird now by the fact that I do soap sculpture,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't I mean, maybe she thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>really nerdy or something. I don't know. Yeah, women actually

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<v Speaker 1>like guys to nerd out on something. It doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>what it is, like, have an interest, have a hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really attractive. Okay, bo I'm just so Yeah. But

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<v Speaker 1>then you see a hot guye with muscles, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to talk, and you're like, oh my god. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't want to date him. You just want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a night with him, you know what I'm saying. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll send you to the mathlete convention and we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>how that goes. But Chris, let's call Jill right now

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<v Speaker 1>and find out how she really feels Okay, yeah, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>call her and just so you know, she even sounds hot,

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<v Speaker 1>so just wow, gosh, so we don't get too like,

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<v Speaker 1>what works up. I appreciate the heads up there. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can tell she's hot just by listening to her.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get a moist towel at ready, and

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<v Speaker 1>let's down the numbers right now here we go? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Hey, is Jill there? Yeah? Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jill. Who's this? My name's Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. You have

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<v Speaker 1>a moment to talk to us. I'm sorry, who are

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<v Speaker 1>you again? I'm Jeffrey. Okay, Brooke is over here, Hi, Jill?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hi, Jose is also here. We have a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something with you called a second date update. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where if you go out with someone and afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not calling them back, they can reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to us and we'll call them try and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why. Okay. Wow, um, it's interesting. So someone

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<v Speaker 1>wrote us about you really yeah yeah, okay, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know who it is? I literally have no idea. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to feel really happy when he hears that.

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<v Speaker 1>But his name is Chris. Oh, I think I know

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<v Speaker 1>who that is. Thank you. You went golfing with him, right,

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<v Speaker 1>the soap guy? Yeah, did you forget your date? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>I go on a lot of dates, so it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hard sometimes. Yeah. Well, maybe to help refresh your memory.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us a little bit about what happened. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>he took your golfing, and he was running a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit late because he lost his glasses. But you guys

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<v Speaker 1>played around together, and he told you about his soap carving.

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<v Speaker 1>And it even ended with you giving him a kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>a little kiss. It was on the cheek. Okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to know why aren't you answering him now?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's trying to get a hold of you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm just gonna be honest with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want you to judge me, So please don't

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<v Speaker 1>judge me. Oh it's always bad when people start sings

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But we will try. We will try, Jill. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to come across as someone

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<v Speaker 1>who sort of like thinks a lot of themselves. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see them sort of conceited or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would like to date down. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about? What do you mean you like

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<v Speaker 1>to date down? Okay, I don't know if that's exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the way to say it, but um, I know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>good looking. I know I'm attractive. That's okay to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that's fine. It's something I've known

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<v Speaker 1>my whole life. So I like to date guys bet

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<v Speaker 1>are less attractive than I am. Why I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>purposely go out and look for unattractive men? Okay? There

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<v Speaker 1>are two reasons. One, they treat me better, they're more appreciative.

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<v Speaker 1>And the second thing is a lot of these guys

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<v Speaker 1>have a low self esteem. They've never really dated an

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<v Speaker 1>attractive girl. And I just I feel like, in a way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of like I'm helping them because I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. I'm making them feel good about themselves. Wait, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that nice. You're pity dating dudes and you think that

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<v Speaker 1>that is the only thing that's lifting their self confidence

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<v Speaker 1>because you find them not very attractive. Like that? Would?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a really nice thing of you to do.

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<v Speaker 1>What thank you? Yeah? I want to kind of help

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<v Speaker 1>build them up, so you know, going forward, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they should be going into new relationships just feeling

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<v Speaker 1>good about themselves. I see. So basically you're the Mother

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<v Speaker 1>Teresa of ages. You're there for them. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying they're ugly, it's just like another sort of

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<v Speaker 1>level of attractiveness. I mean, you know their levels, and

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't have the looks, if they can build

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<v Speaker 1>up their confidence, they can become more attractive. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>agree with any of this. Well, I appreciate that breakdown,

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<v Speaker 1>Mother Teresa, and you just call her empty from now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, empty? Okay, Jill, So does that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>answer your question or I mean it does answer my question,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just wondering how Chris feels about that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully he won't know, and you know, you can tell

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<v Speaker 1>him something else, but I'm just being honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, maybe you can tell him, Okay I got

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<v Speaker 1>back together with my ex boyfriend. Well, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you now and let you know that

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<v Speaker 1>Chris has actually been on the other line listening this

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. That is so uncool. You guys, Hey, Joe, hey, sweetie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you so condescending Joel. I mean, what happened

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<v Speaker 1>all you in the room being like, no, it's for

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<v Speaker 1>a great cause. Any guy would love this. Brook. You

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<v Speaker 1>promise not to judge. I never promise that. I I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I see what you're saying, and I get the logic

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, But you know, I don't think that you're

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<v Speaker 1>helping anybody out by doing that. I just think you

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<v Speaker 1>have so much potential. Like you definitely are actually cuter

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<v Speaker 1>than you give yourself credit for. You're not like really,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in my league, but you're definitely in your

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<v Speaker 1>own league. And I think a lot of women would

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<v Speaker 1>be attracted to you. Oh god, um, thank you so welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, seriously, I think you have something and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so cute, Like you make like soap, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>molds or whatever. It's actually called soap carving. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>soap harver. Okay, all right, well you know whatever it's,

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<v Speaker 1>it's I think it's really fun. And I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>someone you can meet that would be into something sort

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<v Speaker 1>of creative and you could like do art two things together.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Jill, Jill, if you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a dating expert, just go get a job and

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<v Speaker 1>like people can hire you for help. Nobody wants your

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<v Speaker 1>Chris doesn't want your help. Where are you mad? She's

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<v Speaker 1>being nice? No, she's not. She's like disregarding his like

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<v Speaker 1>art as like some like cuty little thing he does

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<v Speaker 1>on the side. If she's it's sweet, it's like what

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<v Speaker 1>man makes soap harving. Oh my god. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate what you're saying there and everything, but what you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying is you don't want to date me because I

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<v Speaker 1>really look, I just don't think you're outside is particularly beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're inside is seriously beautiful, and that's okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't Jill, I don't understand. I thought that you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you like guys that are less attractive. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily it's someone I've been a long term relationship with,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm enjoy spending time with. Yeah, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so ridiculous. You're the kickstarter for ugly guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I think the only one with an insecurity

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<v Speaker 1>problem is you, Jill, Like, you're obviously not looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, and you're you're using this as an excuse

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<v Speaker 1>because you're too scared yourself to like date people who

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<v Speaker 1>you find attractive for some reason, A lot of judgment

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<v Speaker 1>coming from Brook today on a beautiful another beautiful girl

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<v Speaker 1>comes on the phone, and then the clause come out

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<v Speaker 1>from doing it right? Man like you? People like you

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm saying either, just don't waste anybody's time. You're

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<v Speaker 1>wasting people's time. I've heard otherwise. I've seen guys that

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<v Speaker 1>have gone on beat on to find great relationships. And Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>did you waste your time? It is what it is? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>What that's an interesting attitude. I mean maybe you don't

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<v Speaker 1>deserve a date. Oh last thing, I just started to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know before we go. I am actually really

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<v Speaker 1>good in bed. Oh oh you're you're halfway there. This

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<v Speaker 1>is great. That was like a little path on the head,

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<v Speaker 1>was Chris. I wish you all the best. I think

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<v Speaker 1>your fantastic. Chris doesn't need your good wishes, Jill. He's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be fine carbon soap all on his own. I

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<v Speaker 1>can carve a girl friend prettier than you anyway. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're still single, I am told you just use build

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<v Speaker 1>me up. Oh great me. Remember Broke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.