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Speaker 1: Sometimes we don't really have a lot of time to

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that, Chris. So I was like Okay, this

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Speaker 1: are two reasons. One, they treat me better, they're more appreciative.

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Speaker 1: because you find them not very attractive. Like that? Would?

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Speaker 1: I think that's a really nice thing of you to do.

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Speaker 1: What thank you? Yeah? I want to kind of help

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Speaker 1: good about themselves. I see. So basically you're the Mother

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Speaker 1: Mother Teresa, and you just call her empty from now?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, empty? Okay, Jill, So does that kind of

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Speaker 1: But I'm just wondering how Chris feels about that. Well,

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Speaker 1: Chris has actually been on the other line listening this

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Speaker 1: entire time. That is so uncool. You guys, Hey, Joe, hey, sweetie,

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Speaker 1: how are you so condescending Joel. I mean, what happened

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Speaker 1: all you in the room being like, no, it's for

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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, and I get the logic

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Speaker 1: have so much potential. Like you definitely are actually cuter

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Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, I think you have something and it's

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Speaker 1: so cute, Like you make like soap, you know, like

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Speaker 1: soap harver. Okay, all right, well you know whatever it's,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Jill, Jill, if you want to be

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Speaker 1: like people can hire you for help. Nobody wants your

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Speaker 1: Chris doesn't want your help. Where are you mad? She's

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Speaker 1: being nice? No, she's not. She's like disregarding his like

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Speaker 1: don't Jill, I don't understand. I thought that you said

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Speaker 1: this is so ridiculous. You're the kickstarter for ugly guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I think the only one with an insecurity

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Speaker 1: problem is you, Jill, Like, you're obviously not looking for

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Speaker 1: What that's an interesting attitude. I mean maybe you don't

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Speaker 1: good in bed. Oh oh you're you're halfway there. This

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Speaker 1: me up. Oh great me. Remember Broke and Jeffrey in

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