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<v Speaker 1>and gentlemen, Welcome to another episode of Nightcap.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm your favorite UNC, Shannon Sharp.

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<v Speaker 1>He's your favorite number eighty five route Runner, Extraordinary Bengals legend,

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<v Speaker 1>ring or Famer, three time three time All Pro, six

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know what it is. Please please make sure y'all like,

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<v Speaker 1>a nine hundred and sixty five thousand subs. We're thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five thousand away from that magic number. We gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>on the ball, oyo, oh Joe. We got to get

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<v Speaker 1>on the ball because the goal is to have it

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<v Speaker 1>by Thursday before we go line right.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've been thinking to myself, I said, I tweeted

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<v Speaker 3>earlier today or might it might have been yesterday? Who

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<v Speaker 3>can I hit or who can I call? I had

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<v Speaker 3>people in mind to give us a serge, to give

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<v Speaker 3>us a push, the push we need to be at

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<v Speaker 3>one meeting before the live show. Everybody told me, listen

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<v Speaker 3>at the rate, y'all going. You don't need to call nobody.

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<v Speaker 3>You will get there by Thursday's live show. So I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of held off on it. At where were at

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<v Speaker 3>nine nine sixty five? If we at nine sixty five

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<v Speaker 3>right now with the where we're going, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 3>make a call. I'm gonna wait and see what happened

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<v Speaker 3>to see if we get there at some point. But

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<v Speaker 3>we hit Wednesday, we hit Wednesday, I'm gonna make that call.

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<v Speaker 3>Make that call.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, bro, I need you to do me a solid.

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<v Speaker 3>I never ask you for nothing, but just get us

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<v Speaker 3>to a me and suck because I need to understand

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<v Speaker 3>what the fuss is about about Kanyac. So I want

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<v Speaker 3>to be able to taste alcohol for the first time.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, people in the chat, I don't I've never had

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<v Speaker 3>alcohol before, so that will be my first time. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hoping we hit a million so I can give

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<v Speaker 3>my own honest take and.

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<v Speaker 2>Keith Lee Fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>Keith Lee Fashion on what that cognac tastes like by

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<v Speaker 3>alcohol in general.

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<v Speaker 1>party is a week away. You got Valentine's Day, you

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<v Speaker 1>the voting on the website is a little bit difficult,

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<v Speaker 1>and have a bunch of extra steps. So Jordan will

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<v Speaker 1>be dropping a step by step to toyo video tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Lord have mercy. I don't know bad, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how this is gonna turn out, But tomorrow Jordan will

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<v Speaker 1>be dropping a step by step totorial video. Lord help us.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't no jailer. He might be voting for the presidency

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<v Speaker 1>and that is myself eight months away. Hey, don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what georgrab you to do. Oh yo, the Chiefs

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<v Speaker 1>are the underdog for the third straight game. There are

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<v Speaker 1>now a two point underdogs according to Draft Kings sportsbook.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh chore Mahomes and Andy Reid being disrespected. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>they continue to do this? Why do they continuously poke

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<v Speaker 1>the bear? Why do they continuously poke the bear.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm not really sure how they come up with

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<v Speaker 3>the scenarios on why there the underdogs. Is the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that there are so many Pro Bowlers, so many great

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<v Speaker 3>players offensively, I mean and defensively for the forty nine ers,

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<v Speaker 3>based on what the Chiefs have been able to do.

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<v Speaker 2>In the postseason.

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<v Speaker 3>Why I think this is what maybe the second or

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<v Speaker 3>third game they've been underdogs, underdog.

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<v Speaker 1>Being tied player with the exception of the first game.

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<v Speaker 1>They weren't underdogs against Miami, but they were underdogs against Buffalo,

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<v Speaker 1>uh Buffalo, Buffalo, and Baltimore in Baltimore and now the

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<v Speaker 1>forty nine ers.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure if someone has something against Andy Reid.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure if somebody has something against Patrick Mahomes

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<v Speaker 3>and just the Chiefs in general. I understand they played

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<v Speaker 3>bad during in the middle of the season, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>from an officers standpoint, as a statistical standpoint, as far

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<v Speaker 3>as the receiver goal they led the NFL in drops.

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<v Speaker 3>As a corps themselves, yeah that as well. But to

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<v Speaker 3>say that they are underdogs and betting against Patrick Mahomes

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<v Speaker 3>is asinine and I think it's an angle that might

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<v Speaker 3>have something to do with gambling and having people put

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<v Speaker 3>more money on the forty nine ers to.

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<v Speaker 2>Win, as opposed that people really believe in.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoever came with this scenario that they're the underdogs, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it had that might be the angle they're going

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<v Speaker 3>to get people to lose money on betting with the

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<v Speaker 3>forty nine ers.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what happens is, though, Joe, you notice is that

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<v Speaker 2>they said the line.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm not mistaken, the original line was minus one, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so in order for it to move the minus two,

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<v Speaker 1>that means a lot of bad came in on the

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<v Speaker 1>Chiefs because we got to open the line up and

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<v Speaker 1>we want people to bet on the forty nine ers also,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's seemingly why they opened the line up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 3>That that gives me a better better understanding because logically,

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<v Speaker 3>a two time Super Bowl champ, there's no way I'm

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<v Speaker 3>being against that. As good as Rock Purty played last week,

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<v Speaker 3>as good as that offense looked, you know, coming back

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<v Speaker 3>from the deferences they were able to do come back from.

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<v Speaker 2>But I still just so with you explaining to me

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<v Speaker 2>like that. I knew it had to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone numbers and money, you know, because I I don't

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<v Speaker 3>understand that. I don't understand that part.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, go back, what was the original line? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>see someone say one and a half two and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one and a half. The original line was one

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<v Speaker 1>and a half, right, So it moved a half a point.

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<v Speaker 1>So that means a lot of people been laying money

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<v Speaker 1>on the on the on the chiefs.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, that that that makes sense, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people betting money, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>betting money on the forty nine ers. They just dropped it,

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<v Speaker 1>right because they don't want to. They don't they don't

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<v Speaker 1>really want to get one side too heavy, one sided

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<v Speaker 1>either way.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, But uh so they so basically what they're doing

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<v Speaker 3>is they line to the people like some damn politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>Well what happened they started just just just to sway

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<v Speaker 1>where the money need to go. Yeah, because what happened

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<v Speaker 1>is started at one and a half now said two.

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<v Speaker 1>That means a lot of money for it to move.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of money has having him been coming in

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<v Speaker 1>on Kansas City. So we'll see, we'll see how it plays.

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<v Speaker 1>Because at the end of the day, oh Joe, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a neutral site game. It's not like they're playing

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<v Speaker 1>in the forty nine ers building. It's not like they're

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<v Speaker 1>playing in Arrowhead. Obviously, this is as legit a neutral

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<v Speaker 1>site game as you're gonna get. I think both fan

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<v Speaker 1>bases will be in full effect. It's gonna be part

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<v Speaker 1>to tell who's who comes. Both teams were read.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a problem. I got a question now.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to stop you right there when you say

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<v Speaker 3>both teams fans will be in full effect. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>seen the ticket prices for the Super Bowl? And when

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<v Speaker 3>I think about it, I think the hard earned, blue

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<v Speaker 3>collar fans of these teams, the people that show up

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<v Speaker 3>to every home game, the eight game that they do

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<v Speaker 3>have throughout this not for them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not for them.

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<v Speaker 3>They are priced out. They're priced out. I think it's unfair. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>we understand what the end goal is, and the bottom

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<v Speaker 3>line goal is for the NFL, especially an event of

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<v Speaker 3>this magnitude, it's about money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's always been the end goal. This is for the wealthy.

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<v Speaker 3>This is for the rich to come together and have

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<v Speaker 3>some fun and enjoy the last game of the season.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not for the true, authentic fans that work hard

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<v Speaker 3>in this goddamn economy to support their team eight weeks

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<v Speaker 3>out the season at home.

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<v Speaker 2>They're priced out. They are priced out based on the prices.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw, I got it and ain't no damn wigh

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<v Speaker 3>in hell, I'm paying sep eight thousand.

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<v Speaker 2>Dollars for a goddamn ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>What average ticket price now is twelve thousand dollars. Because

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing the NFL. I remember when we went

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<v Speaker 1>to the Pro Bowl, if I'm not the Pro Bow,

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<v Speaker 1>the Super Bowl, I think the highest ticket was one

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars. But if you turn around, yes, one thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you scalt the tickets, people was willing to

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<v Speaker 1>pay you seven or eight thousand. So the NFL said,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, y'all willing to pay seven eight thousand dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll just go ahead and put the ticket at seven

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<v Speaker 1>to eight thousand dollars since you want to pay that.

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<v Speaker 1>But what has happened is that you take all the

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<v Speaker 1>all the advertising and sponsors. That's where the tickets go.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh chill, you need to tell me for a billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>For two billion dollars, I can't get.

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<v Speaker 2>No tickets right right, right, right? Come on, It's crazy. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>This is Super Bowl is a corporate event.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Super Bowl is a corporate event, and there needs

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<v Speaker 3>to be some type of structure or something done for

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<v Speaker 3>the hardcore fans, the fans that put on the costumes,

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<v Speaker 3>the fans that paint their faces, the fans that been

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<v Speaker 3>at Arrowhead Weeke in and week out when they played home,

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<v Speaker 3>and the fans that better goddamn Levi Stadium week in

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<v Speaker 3>and week out. They are priced out because in this

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<v Speaker 3>is a goddamn economy, nobody can afford a goddamn ticket

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<v Speaker 3>for twelve thousand, damn dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you got some people. You got some people

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<v Speaker 2>that are gonna get scammed. They're gonna be sold fake tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>They have they have to find some happy medium for

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<v Speaker 3>the people that are part of the median households that

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<v Speaker 3>have been going to games year in and year out,

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<v Speaker 3>and all of a sudden they make it, their team

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<v Speaker 3>makes it to the biggest game of them all.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're gonna have people digging in.

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<v Speaker 3>Their life savings, watch watching digging and they goddamn life savings.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch it on TV. I mean, come on, we.

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<v Speaker 1>Got the one thing that we're gonna be on this

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast is honest and they probably when the

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<v Speaker 1>tickets started. When you got tickets starting out in six thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>what average fan is going to be able to pay

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<v Speaker 1>six thousand dollars?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's for the ticket. Well, the hotels you got

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<v Speaker 2>a three night minimum.

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<v Speaker 1>Three nights right, So that so even if you come

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<v Speaker 1>in and say, oh, well I just want I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come in for the game.

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<v Speaker 2>What you're gonna sleep in your car? That's that's that's

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<v Speaker 2>something that's something that that that would be a choice

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<v Speaker 2>of mind without Are you going to eat? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna eat? They have fast food? They have fast food

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<v Speaker 2>and uh in in Vegas, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Think you will get a normal price as a normal

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<v Speaker 1>price that you would normally be if you was in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, Vegas got Bahama Breeze. If you want to go fancy,

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<v Speaker 3>now that's dinner? Are you going to bring it down

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<v Speaker 3>a notch? Vegas has in and Out, Vegas has Burger King,

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<v Speaker 3>Vegas has McDonald's. They have a Poyo Loco. You don't

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<v Speaker 3>have to go fancy. We talk about based on if

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<v Speaker 3>you're on a structured income budget because you paid ya

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<v Speaker 3>on a budget and you paid a lot the Let's

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<v Speaker 3>say you took some of your life savings. You want

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<v Speaker 3>to go to Super Bowl, sleep in your car heat.

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<v Speaker 3>That what I consider some of the lower tier restaurants.

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<v Speaker 3>I consider them high tier. Other people consider them low tier.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's what I would do. I would see,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have no problem set with my car, and

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<v Speaker 3>I got to use the bathroom. I go to a

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<v Speaker 3>twenty four hour seventy eleven twenty four our eye hop.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that my bathroom. And you ain't buying no

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<v Speaker 2>potator to gyms with no gas or no soda, no,

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<v Speaker 2>or they don't have a choice. They they do have

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<v Speaker 2>a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a that's a private entity. You just can't go

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<v Speaker 1>use the bathroom where you ad you think you have

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<v Speaker 1>a recreation.

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<v Speaker 2>Center by a stake of gum, buy a stake of gun.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to buy something. What have you ever know?

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<v Speaker 1>People at home win an event, Grammy's, Emmy's obster, some

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<v Speaker 1>type of event that's coming over.

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<v Speaker 2>You see what happened when the gas price is what

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<v Speaker 2>they do with the gas prices? They jack?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, then so they got they got in a bit

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<v Speaker 1>coming to Vegas. Tell me what you think they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do with food prices?

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<v Speaker 2>But they gonna hang it up a little bit, a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. They can only do it so much, so much.

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<v Speaker 3>You still listen, You still want to you still want

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<v Speaker 3>to attract not only business, but you still want to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to make money if you price yourself out. Listen,

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<v Speaker 3>nobody go to establishment. They already go to the establishment.

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<v Speaker 3>They are already coming. They are already coming. We already

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<v Speaker 3>know we're gonna get an influx a million, two million people, right,

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<v Speaker 3>so listen, there's an influx of a one million, two

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<v Speaker 3>million people. You think those people wanna find somewhere else

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<v Speaker 3>to eat? If your prices are outrageous from ridiculous, what's

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<v Speaker 3>the likelihood of the people that's that's coming. And they

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<v Speaker 3>got hotel rooms for a three night minimum? What you say,

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<v Speaker 3>That's the part of the thing is they're gonna stop

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<v Speaker 3>by your establishment anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good one. Hey, that's a good one. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean they got combanas going for one hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>to see twelve people, one hundred thousand companda will at

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<v Speaker 1>the clubs at the clubs one hundred dollars a quarter

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<v Speaker 1>of a meal and see, and you wonder why, and

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<v Speaker 1>you wonder why I've never parted in life because it

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<v Speaker 1>makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you getting for a hundred thousand that you

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<v Speaker 3>can't get it home? Turning your radio real, real, goddamn loud,

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<v Speaker 3>invite all your friends over boom, same concept, same energy,

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<v Speaker 3>same vibe. But you're paying one hundred or two hundred

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<v Speaker 3>and fifty thousand dollars or whatever it may be to

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<v Speaker 3>go to do what?

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<v Speaker 2>Just to show? Look, I got money. Okay, that's cool,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fine. It ain't how much you make, how much

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<v Speaker 2>you keep.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you're talking like me, I like where you're going.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we have something that we have something else to

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<v Speaker 3>address based on that comment right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Later, I'm just said, look, when you and Ocho to

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<v Speaker 1>think like I said, I believe that that what the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL saw is that and what you see any time

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody willing to pay for it, if they willing

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<v Speaker 1>to pay, y'all scap of the NFL's like, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>We sell sold all these tickets and the players can

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<v Speaker 1>only get thirty fifteen tickets. You get thirteen tickets. You

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<v Speaker 1>get too free. Now, it used to be team it

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<v Speaker 1>was at the team discretion. Teams could give you twenty ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, twenty thirty tickets, or whatever the case may be,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was there was a discrepancy. Many years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>one team gave a team thirty tickets and the other

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<v Speaker 1>team gave So the NFL said, you know what we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna take it over.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be able to give them two free comp tickets,

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<v Speaker 1>just like you get at home, and they can buy

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen and.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess what, and guess what, guess we'll play. Sometimes players

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<v Speaker 2>did with them thirteen tickets. Oh do you follow them? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean your mom, you're close close mom, you know dad?

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<v Speaker 1>If you got if you gotta if you got a

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<v Speaker 1>significant other or wife, obviously you got kids.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, you know how, you know how players think?

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<v Speaker 2>Now we ain't ween.

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<v Speaker 3>Can my family, no kid? If I ain't playing, no

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<v Speaker 3>goddamn super Bowl? I don't care nobody going?

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<v Speaker 2>Should we? Finna made this money? O Jo?

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<v Speaker 1>You got the families came in on Thursday. So Thursday night,

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<v Speaker 1>Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night. That's fortnight. Now, I

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<v Speaker 1>got a mom, I got a sister, I got girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>I got kids. Right, that's four rooms and that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>bare minimum for a room, possibly fifth.

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<v Speaker 2>And who do you think feeding them? Who you think

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<v Speaker 2>you entertained them? Who you think flew?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I could have flew. I could have flew now

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<v Speaker 1>my family. This was pre nine to eleven, so this

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<v Speaker 1>was pre the tickets was high as giraffe. Huh. But

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<v Speaker 1>so ojo, I gotta bring my mom from Chicago. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta bring my sister and at that time, my cousin

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<v Speaker 1>mud she flew with her. I gotta bring them from

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<v Speaker 1>Georgia to San Diego. My kids, okay, the kids. My

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<v Speaker 1>sister picked up the kids, brought them from Georgia. And

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<v Speaker 1>now my girlfriend was on the charter, and so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>cool charter. I was like, I could have got my

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<v Speaker 1>But what since does it mean to fly my family

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<v Speaker 1>from Georgia's Chicago to Denver to get on the charter

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<v Speaker 1>and then get now get on the charter. Now they

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<v Speaker 1>gotta fly back from San Diego to Denver or from Miami,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, we flew in them we played in Miami,

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<v Speaker 1>or when I was in Baltimore, we flew to Tampa.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just like, okay, I mean I think I've

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<v Speaker 1>been like fifteen grand just in flights.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you better than me, because my family would understood.

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<v Speaker 1>No, none of those souper Oh mom my sister, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>they got to go to kids, they got to go

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<v Speaker 1>to that the super Bowl. Now, there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people that have never seen Shannon Shape player a

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<v Speaker 1>football game, not a preseason game, not a regular season game,

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<v Speaker 1>not a playoff game.

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<v Speaker 2>You mean in per in person persons.

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<v Speaker 1>But they wanted to go to the Super Bowl, right, please,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all you have to tell it. Please.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, my homeboy, I had one homeboy, Bucket that it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Bucket names, so goddamn much. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's my dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Then now him and Burns. But the team, so they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be in Vegas? No, hell no, hell nona.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know I had a ticket. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>ticket for one of my homeboys. But something came up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something would discuss in the later day time. He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't able ten and so I had two tickets. I said, brother, Bucket,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a ticket for you and my other homeboy.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I ain't got nothing for your wife. Hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>had to let it know. No no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no no no no no, you ain't getting thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you get you, you and you and my other homeboy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my other homeboy wasn't able to come. Something came up.

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<v Speaker 2>He hit me up.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, man, such and such and not gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>able to come. Can I use the other ticket for

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<v Speaker 1>my wife? I said, hell, yeah, okay, But as long

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<v Speaker 1>long as it was free, long as it was free.

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<v Speaker 1>Anytime it was close right Jacksonville, he would come to Jacksonville,

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<v Speaker 1>he would drive close by.

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<v Speaker 2>He ain't got a whole lot at the time, he

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<v Speaker 2>was a police officer.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he laid to work for ATF so he ain't

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<v Speaker 1>like he making a hard ton of money to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to put himself up and come.

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<v Speaker 2>So I always took care of me.

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<v Speaker 1>But but in a situation like that, oh Joe, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, the super Bowl, that's a special occasion.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom come to everyone. And at the time my

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<v Speaker 1>step pops Pops came with my mom. So I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>fly him. But I'm feeding everybody every day. I'm playing

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<v Speaker 1>for entertainment every day. And the hotel room and the flight.

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<v Speaker 1>So like I said, I spent probably I probably spent

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<v Speaker 1>like thirty grand for the entirety of the trip.

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<v Speaker 2>But everybody and we won all of them, so everybody

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<v Speaker 2>had a really good time, right, And you know it's funny,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sitting here talking. I'm not even realizing.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was with the Patriots we made the Super Bowl. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even realizing. And obviously, you know what little

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<v Speaker 3>CJ was there, My daughter was there, the mom, Grandma,

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<v Speaker 3>no g Grandma, grandma, grandma, Yeah she was.

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<v Speaker 2>She wasn't able to travel at that point. No mom.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, me and Mom, we didn't see. We weren't

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<v Speaker 3>seeing eyed eye during that time. You know, her and

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<v Speaker 3>I have a whole Listen. There's a reason we call

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<v Speaker 3>a hurricane, Paula. You know, that's the reason we call

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<v Speaker 3>it that. So we weren't seeing eyed eye during during

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<v Speaker 3>that time. And you know, it wasn't much.

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<v Speaker 2>Your kids was there? Two? Three? Maybe maybe three? No, two,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was CJ and G.

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<v Speaker 1>But you had to have somebody to take care of them,

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<v Speaker 1>because hell you couldn't. Yeah, because I had who I

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<v Speaker 1>was seeing, got a practice, you gotta do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it during that time. Your girlfriend at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I didn't. I ain't spend nothing close to

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<v Speaker 3>what you did. Nothing, nothing close.

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously you have to think you get one, so

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<v Speaker 1>you probably had one hotel room probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably that was it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you have to also think, like why is

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<v Speaker 3>everybody flying? And you understand I wasn't the same Chad

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<v Speaker 3>that we used to seeing. So it ain't like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>forna come out here and be god there, maybe have

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<v Speaker 3>an opportunity to win goddamn m VP of this damn

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<v Speaker 3>super like. So let' let's slow down a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>talk about what I'm coming to watch you play? Well, ship,

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't do nothing do in the regular seats. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure you're expecting this one goddamn game. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it kind of didn't make sense, you know, full effect,

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<v Speaker 3>and when I look at it in ninsight, so I

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<v Speaker 3>mean it was cool, but I ain't spend nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And so the thing was, oh Joe, I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up like for the flight because I didn't have all like,

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<v Speaker 1>I only used one one seat on the plane, so

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. Well, I had a friend my name was

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<v Speaker 1>Sharing and she did everything for me. She cleaned the house,

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<v Speaker 1>she did all the shopping, she did all the washing,

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<v Speaker 1>and rest her soul. That was my dog Sharon. I

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<v Speaker 1>could come. She was like my aunt and she had

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<v Speaker 1>her face, was her credentials. He could go anywhere in

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<v Speaker 1>the stadium and they had to show no ID. They

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<v Speaker 1>let her in the stadium.

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<v Speaker 2>They knew were good.

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<v Speaker 1>She's sharing people. She good, her and her daughter. I

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<v Speaker 1>got them on the plane. I got them. I got

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<v Speaker 1>them tickets. So but other than that, and then for

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, I ended up giving my seats away.

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<v Speaker 1>Go hey, bro, you need he I got you know

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<v Speaker 1>you got X amount of seats. Hey, go ahead, bro,

0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:42.080
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got nobody. I ain't flying my family, my

0:21:42.200 --> 0:21:44.320
<v Speaker 1>family flying straight to the game. I ain't flying my

0:21:44.359 --> 0:21:46.359
<v Speaker 1>family here to put them on some plane because when

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<v Speaker 1>they leave San Diego, I already know my sister and

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<v Speaker 1>my mom gonna want to go straight home. They're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna want to go to Denver, and they're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to know. So I flew them straight home. But

0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:58.480
<v Speaker 1>it was a great experience. We won all three games.

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<v Speaker 1>That made it even sweeter. You know, Uh, the kids

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<v Speaker 1>had to go, you know, they their mom. The kids

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<v Speaker 1>was down for a little while because you know, we

0:22:08.359 --> 0:22:09.960
<v Speaker 1>had a party. Obviously, when you win the game, you

0:22:10.040 --> 0:22:12.280
<v Speaker 1>have a party afterwards, right, you know, you have a

0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:14.680
<v Speaker 1>little party. Then obviously. You know, my mom tell the

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<v Speaker 1>kids upstairs. Me and my sister stayed down a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>Then me and you know, hey, you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey, super Bowl, I want we got to

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<v Speaker 1>take the covers.

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<v Speaker 3>Dog wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

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<v Speaker 3>now let's let's let's rewind a little bit. I need

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<v Speaker 3>better context on who you're shaking the covers with during

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<v Speaker 3>this time. Is there somebody specially like a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, the girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, because wait a minute, wait wait wait wait,

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<v Speaker 3>stay with me, now, you one you want?

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<v Speaker 2>You got three super Bowl rings? I got three super

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<v Speaker 2>Bowl ring. So did you have a different girlfriend for

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<v Speaker 2>the super Bowl?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the second super Bowl, I didn't have eight girl,

0:22:48.840 --> 0:22:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have anybody, but you had somebody come in though.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I didn't, No no, I didn't. No, okay, okay,

0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:56.240
<v Speaker 2>no I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So you first to have a girlfriend, and the and

0:22:59.520 --> 0:23:02.360
<v Speaker 1>the last I had a girlfriend, and and the first

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<v Speaker 1>super Bowl my girlfriend at the time, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>amazing and and I got high respect. We're still cool

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:11.159
<v Speaker 1>today because she was up front. Women say, shann and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to move on. I want to go see

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hell no, she ain't trying my dog like that. Yeah,

0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:21.320
<v Speaker 2>he had the audac What do you mean? What you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean how many times if you told a girl

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<v Speaker 2>you not you want to move on? Never?

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody left me, everybody left you. That's besides the point.

0:23:31.840 --> 0:23:38.480
<v Speaker 3>You women need to understand, Shannon Shaw. I'm not a woman, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Even I can see the vision of where you're going. No,

0:23:41.560 --> 0:23:42.520
<v Speaker 2>even I can see the vision.

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 3>When I can see the vision when you was headed,

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:46.399
<v Speaker 3>you don't want to leave that because look what you

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<v Speaker 3>got Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hell to deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna sit here and I'm not going to

0:23:51.080 --> 0:23:53.960
<v Speaker 1>sit here and tell somebody. Yeah, I mean everything that

0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:56.240
<v Speaker 1>looks good. And you see how diligent I am and

0:23:56.320 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>hard hot, hard working I am. But I'm not easy

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<v Speaker 1>to get along with.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I wouldn't tell nobody that life.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, even even if you're not easy to deal with, right,

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:09.280
<v Speaker 3>everybody come with baggage. You know, it's all about finding

0:24:09.320 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 3>that one person based on the life you want to live,

0:24:13.119 --> 0:24:17.199
<v Speaker 3>the willingness to unpack that baggage, unpack that baggage at

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:20.960
<v Speaker 3>the time. Listen, you're a dog and I ain't. I'm

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:23.000
<v Speaker 3>just saying hype of things. If I was a woman,

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:25.359
<v Speaker 3>there's some ship that I don't like about you, but

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna have to just do it.

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:27.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, no no.

0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:30.959
<v Speaker 1>You just to baggage, Jojo. I came with more baggage

0:24:30.960 --> 0:24:32.520
<v Speaker 1>than the dew To airline you could be.

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:35.040
<v Speaker 3>That's all right, that's all right, that's all right, because

0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:36.840
<v Speaker 3>there's a woman out there that is willing to unpack

0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:41.200
<v Speaker 3>because you Oh sh my bad, I'm bad.

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:43.680
<v Speaker 2>But you're a good dude. A you're good dude.

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:48.200
<v Speaker 3>Listen, you mean well, I have well because when when

0:24:48.280 --> 0:24:50.920
<v Speaker 3>somebody needs you, based on the stories, you're gonna always

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:51.640
<v Speaker 3>be there for sure.

0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:55.520
<v Speaker 2>If you can always no no, no, no, that's not everybody.

0:24:56.000 --> 0:24:57.520
<v Speaker 2>You need to be cool. You need to be cool

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<v Speaker 2>with me.

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<v Speaker 3>That that's what I'm talking about. But but you got

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:02.840
<v Speaker 3>to we come about people you are intimate with. You understand,

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:05.960
<v Speaker 3>if you cool with me, we're gonna always be cool.

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 3>Because my number one thing is protect the brand.

0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:11.440
<v Speaker 1>I said, because as the brand goes away, Shannon's gonna

0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:13.600
<v Speaker 1>go away, and I can't do what you asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to do for you.

0:25:14.840 --> 0:25:17.280
<v Speaker 2>So that's number one. You've got to protect the brand.

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:20.680
<v Speaker 1>And so if you cool with me. And like I said,

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:24.399
<v Speaker 1>when them kids came, my mom came. They came on

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 1>a Thursday. My mom, my sister came over. She brought

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<v Speaker 1>the kid, They brought the kids. Oh we want to

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<v Speaker 1>because that was the last time I was gonna see

0:25:33.040 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the kids until after the game.

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:36.119
<v Speaker 2>They weren't gonna be running, they weren't gonna be.

0:25:36.160 --> 0:25:37.879
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna be coming over to the hotel and

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>hanging out and doing all that stuff and splashing in

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:40.680
<v Speaker 1>the pool.

0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 2>I the festivities and all that other stuff that's for families.

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:45.640
<v Speaker 2>I came down.

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<v Speaker 1>My event was gonna happen at six thirty on Sunday night,

0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:52.920
<v Speaker 1>and everybody understood that. And her job, my girlfriend job,

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 1>was to make it as easy as possible on my

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.680
<v Speaker 1>mom and my sister. So when the kids wanted to

0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:01.080
<v Speaker 1>go to a sea world to see share move, don't

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Sandy gonna do? Don't she got me gone, no hesitation.

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:09.200
<v Speaker 1>My mom m doing whatever they want to do. Hey,

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 1>you got the keyids right. And so when it came

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 1>time for us to go our separate ways, she came

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<v Speaker 1>to me like a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good with that. On Joe, I'm good with that.

0:26:21.880 --> 0:26:22.720
<v Speaker 2>I see, let me tell you.

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:24.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling I'm trying to explain to you why I'm

0:26:24.680 --> 0:26:27.120
<v Speaker 3>not good with it because as women, I think women

0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:29.399
<v Speaker 3>at times they think that I would be able to

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<v Speaker 3>find what it is I have right now or better

0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 3>if I move on, and I think they don't understand

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:40.320
<v Speaker 3>it's very difficult to find someone like yourself that you

0:26:40.400 --> 0:26:42.639
<v Speaker 3>can always count on. Now, there might be some things

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:45.080
<v Speaker 3>that you don't like that we can work through and

0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 3>get by, but always having someone you can count on

0:26:48.119 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 3>twenty four to seven, come hillo high water. It's very

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:54.680
<v Speaker 3>difficult to find someone that's loyal. Yeah, a good person.

0:26:54.960 --> 0:26:56.639
<v Speaker 2>They're gonna be some issues, you know, we all have

0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 2>our issues.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I'm telling you, man, it's it's dangerous, ot

0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:01.920
<v Speaker 3>dare and it's real thin.

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 2>It's real thin.

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 3>I just think the mindset of women at times is like,

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:07.920
<v Speaker 3>you know what, I can find this again because look

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:09.639
<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty, or look at me, I got a shape,

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 3>or look at me I got asked.

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 2>You know if I've done that. It's quantity.

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 3>It's quantity, but quality of what you're looking for is

0:27:17.520 --> 0:27:20.200
<v Speaker 3>very difficult to find. And it sometimes women have to

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:21.959
<v Speaker 3>learn the hard way because they hard headed. For they

0:27:22.000 --> 0:27:26.760
<v Speaker 3>thing based on aesthetics and the visual. I'll be able

0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 3>to find it again. But what comes with that is

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:32.160
<v Speaker 3>the games that women have to deal with women. You're

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 3>you're a straight shooter. Yeah, o Jo, it's good to

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:37.240
<v Speaker 3>have a straight shooter. What do you like a Magnum

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 3>three fifty seven?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how many women I look over because

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I saw something more aesthetically pleasing and I left the

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:49.720
<v Speaker 1>best woman that I had just because I saw something

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:50.879
<v Speaker 1>more aesthetically pleasing.

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Now you can't do that.

0:27:53.440 --> 0:27:55.880
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I don't get upset when a woman

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:58.399
<v Speaker 1>comes to me and tell me she wants to go on.

0:27:59.520 --> 0:28:01.480
<v Speaker 2>I like the where you put that, not not that

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:02.120
<v Speaker 2>give down.

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I feel a little better now because you done

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:06.440
<v Speaker 3>made the same mistake too. You know what, I feel

0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:11.919
<v Speaker 3>a little better, Oh Joe, you I'm just honestly speaking.

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:14.200
<v Speaker 3>You are you made that mistake leaving a leaving a

0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 3>good woman for something.

0:28:15.160 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 2>That looks better aesthetically and plead. Okay, y okay, okay, okay.

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 1>And so I told I told my girlfriend. I said

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:29.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not happy. I said I'm miserable in my own home.

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:32.840
<v Speaker 1>I said, I have a headache all the time, always

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 1>do it argue. I said, I want to be with

0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>somebody else, and I'm gonna go find them.

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 2>It ain't not there.

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you, man, well you know through experience, I

0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:45.160
<v Speaker 3>ain't got to tell you nothing. I wasn't gonna I

0:28:45.280 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 3>was gonna sit here in priest to you just you know.

0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:50.480
<v Speaker 3>I know it's Sunday, but I don't already know. Oh boy,

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:53.080
<v Speaker 3>come on now, come on now.

0:28:53.400 --> 0:28:58.680
<v Speaker 1>And so like I said, I I've made the mistake, oacho,

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not perfect, and I don't sit here and

0:29:00.920 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>proclaim to be perfect. And I don't say, you know,

0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:05.720
<v Speaker 1>oh all shit, no no, no, no, no, Shanna didn't

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 1>leave everybody. Women have left Shannon Sharp. And that's okay,

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 1>that's that is perfectly okay, right because they made they

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>made me better, and they made me look internal at

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 1>some of the blow and I fixed some of them, right, well,

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:21.560
<v Speaker 1>we got some more to work on. I fixed some

0:29:21.720 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>of them, but like the most dilapidated the buildings, I'm

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:26.400
<v Speaker 1>still under repair.

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 2>And I'm okay with that. Hey that was nice. That

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:34.800
<v Speaker 2>was a bar right there. That was nasty.

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:38.160
<v Speaker 3>Hey, I've been watching this. I've been watching battle rap man.

0:29:38.400 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 3>I've gotten the battle rap, real real, real heavy, and

0:29:41.160 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 3>that was a bar.

0:29:42.760 --> 0:29:44.479
<v Speaker 2>I was a bar that was filthy.

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I like that, you know, back of my day when

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 1>I used to write, when I used to write love letters,

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 1>O Joe, you know your boy, back of the day.

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Without the high school you know, high school, early in college. Yeah, yeah,

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 2>junior high you used to write love letters.

0:29:58.040 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 1>Hot like college, uh college and uh like late like

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 1>like late high school, early college.

0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:07.040
<v Speaker 3>It's how I know you're a good dude. You know,

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:08.600
<v Speaker 3>you know what it takes for a man to be

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 3>able to sit down and to put thought in a

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 3>sum on paper and.

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 2>Use the pen. That is that that's that genuine, that's that.

0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 3>Notebook type of I'm really I'm really feeling you, and

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to express my feelings and my thoughts through

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 3>paper instead of communicating it.

0:30:29.520 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes because sometimes I could, I could, I could write

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:35.160
<v Speaker 1>down what I couldn't say to the young lady in person.

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>It makes it that much easier because now everybody, everybody's

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 3>not equipped to be able to say or communicate some

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 3>of the things they're feeling and being able to express

0:30:43.680 --> 0:30:47.280
<v Speaker 3>it verbally. It's very difficult at times, especially if it's

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:50.080
<v Speaker 3>someone you just met, you know, you. You kind of

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 3>don't want to open up like that and be a

0:30:52.560 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 3>little bit too vulnerable too soon until you understand that

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 3>the reciprocation is there.

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, start that thing off.

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, time and opportunity presents itself that I take

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 1>this time that I tell you just how special you

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 1>are to me.

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 2>You know, I'll tell you what I told you. Hey, bro,

0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:18.040
<v Speaker 2>I like that. I like that.

0:31:18.880 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm gonna put that in. I'm gonna

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:23.360
<v Speaker 1>put that in my bowl. That's how I'm start my

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 1>vow that my wedding. Yes, so I like that, don't Joe,

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 1>you boy back in the day, oh your band? You know, Hey,

0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>you and that boy. That's that's why I still can't.

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I can't figure out where they left.

0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:33.959
<v Speaker 3>Now.

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Guarantee listen, I guarantee this.

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:39.880
<v Speaker 3>I guarantee this, and it's a non but it's not

0:31:40.000 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 3>really disrespect those in your past. I said, I bet

0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 3>if they look at the review mill, they'll put that

0:31:44.600 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 3>motherfucker in reverse.

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 2>I bet that.

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 3>I bet if those that left you, if they look

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 3>in the review mill, I guarantee you, they put.

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.719
<v Speaker 2>That motherfucker car reverse right now. Well, you know what, Joe,

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I had an.

0:31:55.360 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Ex today and we had and we hadn't been together

0:32:01.360 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>in twenty five thirty years, and I was just straight

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 1>up with her. And you know, from time to time

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>she hit me up. In time to time I hit

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 1>her up to check on us, to make sure everything's okay.

0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:15.560
<v Speaker 1>And I said, I said, w how did that start

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 1>it up? I think I said something about I've.

0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Known you.

0:32:20.080 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Thirty five, nineteen eighty seven, thirty seven years. Yes, sir,

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you you've been different places. I've been different places, I

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:36.320
<v Speaker 1>have different different situations. You've been married. I said, this

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 1>is what I know for one hundred certainty, for categorically,

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>for certainty.

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I said, other men's might have had your body, but

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:51.280
<v Speaker 2>I've always had your heart. Come on, give me the bars.

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Still their text back, saying, as much as I wanted

0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:58.120
<v Speaker 1>to hate you, and I've tried for.

0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:02.440
<v Speaker 2>So long, always have my heart. Well I got to

0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 2>stand up on it.

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 1>But she wasn't telling me anything that I didn't already know.

0:33:07.200 --> 0:33:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I know so much, Vitrio. I knew why she put

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 1>so much vitriof towards me and did the things that

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:16.040
<v Speaker 1>she did because you loved me.

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I see, Remember I said this in the show

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 3>not too long ago. Remember I said this in the

0:33:21.400 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 3>show not too long ago, Phyllis, you're always dealing with somebody,

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 3>You always dealing thet woman. She You might have her physically,

0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 3>but there's a guy from her past. There's a guy

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:34.440
<v Speaker 3>from her past that will always have access. I have

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:37.680
<v Speaker 3>half her mentally up here, no matter what, no matter,

0:33:38.040 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 3>no matter how happy she is.

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Remember I told you that.

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:43.600
<v Speaker 3>I told you that, and you just explained the situation

0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:48.120
<v Speaker 3>right there. Well, yeah, I'm a wake her ass up

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 3>because everybody, everybody got one. Everybody got one. If you're

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 3>in the chat women, if you're listening and you just

0:33:56.280 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 3>heard the explanation that just told tell me, I lie,

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 3>there's always somebody, even even if they don't reach out

0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 3>to you, there's always somebody.

0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, I remember the first time a woman

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.919
<v Speaker 1>actually took me on vacation. It was her. I said,

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:14.759
<v Speaker 1>I said, I ain't took you. Yes, let that go

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:18.279
<v Speaker 1>Saint the Virgin Isle of Saint Thomas. I said, baby,

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got I said, baby, I ain't got no money.

0:34:20.280 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 1>I said, I ain't got no money. She said, I

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>got this hotel, food, I ain't pay for nothing. That's

0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the one all all I was was a plumber for

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:43.400
<v Speaker 1>the whole weekend. Hey, young, that's all I was that

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:47.279
<v Speaker 1>when you playing quart a five dollar hour, Yeah, that's

0:34:47.320 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 1>all you playing for plumbing service on THEO because you know,

0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:55.360
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. I ain't hadn't been. I

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:58.120
<v Speaker 1>hadn't been out of the country. I mean I don't

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Thomas is theoretically side of the continental. But anyway, I

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:02.840
<v Speaker 1>hadn't been nowhere.

0:35:02.880 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 2>Old Choe. Yeah, she put it on.

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 3>Hey, it ain't too many like that, now hold on,

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 3>let me let me, let me let so you can

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 3>see my head. Now, ye ain't too many like that.

0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:15.200
<v Speaker 3>That's gonna pay for you. That really got you because

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.280
<v Speaker 3>you know women they looking for provider.

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 2>We know what that means. We know that's cold far Yeah,

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:22.799
<v Speaker 2>I say, but like.

0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I said, look, I've been in situations and and seemingly

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 1>what I had wasn't enough, and and I think the

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:37.839
<v Speaker 1>thing is now is being able to accept enough, right right,

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:40.879
<v Speaker 1>so at least appreciating what you gotta have. But back

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:43.240
<v Speaker 1>but you know, oh, show you back then. I'm nineteen

0:35:43.360 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty two. Yeah, yeah, yeah, YEAHA man, please you.

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 3>Listen when you're young is one of the things that

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 3>that that is going to get the younger generation as well.

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.440
<v Speaker 3>It's always thinking that I can always get better and

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:58.080
<v Speaker 3>I could always attain better. And you know what, all

0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:01.960
<v Speaker 3>that goal or all that glitters ain't going because the

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.360
<v Speaker 3>higher up you go, and women love to say this

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 3>is well, women love to say, oh, I'm gonna get

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 3>a man with a bigger bag, or I'm gonna get

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:09.719
<v Speaker 3>a man that's richer than you. I'm gonna get somebody

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 3>that looks better than you. But always understand what comes

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:13.239
<v Speaker 3>with that. There's always pros and.

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 2>Cons to everything.

0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:16.800
<v Speaker 3>As you continue to want to climb the ladder and

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 3>whatever it is that you do or whatever it is

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:21.759
<v Speaker 3>you're trying to attain, there's always a con and a

0:36:21.840 --> 0:36:25.759
<v Speaker 3>bad side to it. Yes, outside of the pleasing aesthetics

0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:28.200
<v Speaker 3>that we're used to seeing. And the question is we

0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 3>don't we were stuck in the now. We don't think

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 3>long term? But nothing, Yeah, we don't think long term?

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:34.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:36:34.480 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>I bet, like I said, don't you I look back

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>and I said, man, what was I I mean, I

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>have my moments because I spend a lot of time

0:36:42.000 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 1>alone just men and the dogs, and I'm all alone

0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:45.879
<v Speaker 1>in my thoughts and I go back and I'm paying

0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 1>over the course of thirty five forty years of my.

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 2>Life and saying.

0:36:51.840 --> 0:36:54.719
<v Speaker 1>That was that there they have been, Like, honestly, I

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 1>can honestly say there have been free free mm hmm,

0:36:59.520 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 1>that I should that that no question should have been

0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:04.759
<v Speaker 1>miss mister Sharp, no question.

0:37:05.560 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 3>We all got the Okay, well you So if you

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 3>were someone that asked you the question, do you have

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:13.359
<v Speaker 3>somebody in your life?

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:14.400
<v Speaker 2>You know what?

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:16.080
<v Speaker 3>Damn she was the one that got away. So you

0:37:16.160 --> 0:37:19.680
<v Speaker 3>got three of those? Yeah, you got three of them? Okay, okay,

0:37:19.920 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 3>and that you know, that's that's dope. That you could

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 3>be honest about that too.

0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:25.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh for sure. That's that's real dope because a.

0:37:25.000 --> 0:37:27.680
<v Speaker 3>Lot a lot of people would be like, ah, nah,

0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't need nobody from my past. They are ex

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.359
<v Speaker 3>for they are ex for a reason. But there are

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 3>there are some good people that we have lost we

0:37:34.880 --> 0:37:39.000
<v Speaker 3>left behind. Yeah, the due the circumstance, whether it be pride,

0:37:39.040 --> 0:37:40.839
<v Speaker 3>whether it be ego, or feeling that we could find

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:41.440
<v Speaker 3>better than that.

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:45.440
<v Speaker 2>And most of the time we're not successful in doing so.

0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I and and and actually one of them

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 1>was the one that played that Michelle and dego Cello song, Oh, okay, okay,

0:37:55.040 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 1>But I remember she told me this early in our relationship,

0:37:57.760 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 1>and she said, Shannon, and I remember her and I

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>was having a conversation. She said, says, Shannon, You're the

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:07.600
<v Speaker 1>worst thing that's ever happened to me. And I'm looking,

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what y'am? She says, Shanna, I'm never going

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:13.359
<v Speaker 1>to meet a man like you. I'm not gonna meet

0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:18.240
<v Speaker 1>somebody as disciplined, as hard working, as funny, as driven,

0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:23.000
<v Speaker 1>as motivated. She says, I'm not gonna meet that. She says,

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:25.719
<v Speaker 1>I know, she says, Shannon, I know that. She says,

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:30.919
<v Speaker 1>I know you was a lifetime man. But she says,

0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I also know you're not ready for what I'm ready for.

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.680
<v Speaker 1>She says, I I will take it. I will take

0:38:38.719 --> 0:38:42.440
<v Speaker 1>it for what it's worth. I'm gonna have, I'm gonna have,

0:38:43.040 --> 0:38:46.320
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have as much fun. But she says, I

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 1>know it's gonna stop. She said, because you're not ready

0:38:49.400 --> 0:38:50.160
<v Speaker 1>for what I'm ready for.

0:38:50.680 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 3>Now, say you know what when you when you when

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:54.240
<v Speaker 3>you talk like that, and based on what you're saying,

0:38:54.800 --> 0:38:57.479
<v Speaker 3>I notice is the older woman, This is a seasoned woman.

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:04.359
<v Speaker 2>This was someone that was that type of maturity. Yes, yes,

0:39:05.320 --> 0:39:08.759
<v Speaker 2>oh Joe, Now you talk about look here talking like that.

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh she was. I mean when I think.

0:39:13.040 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 3>Everything, everything you just said sounds like a season vet

0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:17.839
<v Speaker 3>that don't want to play no more games.

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>That was done with the game. I'm not sticking around

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:23.600
<v Speaker 2>for him to change.

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:27.239
<v Speaker 1>Where I was in my life. Yeah, and what I

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 1>had going on, Yeah, it was just I wasn't ready

0:39:31.800 --> 0:39:34.360
<v Speaker 1>for what she could offer, and she was. When I

0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:36.759
<v Speaker 1>say she, look I'm talking about said, there's only been

0:39:36.760 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>a hand I've had women that I can have conversation

0:39:41.000 --> 0:39:43.759
<v Speaker 1>with and we laugh and we talk. And there's one

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:47.080
<v Speaker 1>right now that's that's that's really special. And I've really

0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>never had the chemistry with her with with someone else

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:54.240
<v Speaker 1>like I've had with her. But she's in a different situation.

0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 1>She's in her situation and I'm happy for and I

0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:01.200
<v Speaker 1>wish them the best of love. But this situation that

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about old Joe right right right, I'm talking about.

0:40:05.320 --> 0:40:08.360
<v Speaker 2>Laughing and talking and just carrying on.

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, get on the phone and we could talk

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.640
<v Speaker 1>hours and all we do is talk about and it's nothing.

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, we're cracking jokes, we're making fun uh. We

0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 1>go to a restaurant and I asked her that we

0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:22.239
<v Speaker 1>go in there. It's like okay, And I was like,

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:25.840
<v Speaker 1>excuse me, will you guys let me bring my horse in?

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 1>And I point to her and she just and she

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 1>just busts out laughing, right right, right, right right. And

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:35.320
<v Speaker 1>so we start to order, and she was like, I

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 1>noticed you don't have any oats and apples on the menu.

0:40:38.280 --> 0:40:40.919
<v Speaker 1>And she points and they look at it like, yeah,

0:40:41.000 --> 0:40:43.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, I got my horse sitting over here, and

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:49.480
<v Speaker 1>he likes olds and apples, So yeah, is fun. Yeah, yeah,

0:40:49.520 --> 0:40:52.360
<v Speaker 1>it's fun. She said, she's sending me a text and

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:56.280
<v Speaker 1>said the Kentucky Derby said that your entry was denied

0:40:56.320 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and you're not.

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:58.360
<v Speaker 2>Gonna be able to run this year, you know, stuff

0:40:58.400 --> 0:41:03.320
<v Speaker 2>like that. Old Joe so right, Oh I wasn't ready oyo.

0:41:03.560 --> 0:41:07.399
<v Speaker 3>I was, yeah, well, I'm based on what you're telling me, listen,

0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 3>it sounds like the perfect story.

0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:12.359
<v Speaker 2>But I guarantee you during this time, you were still

0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:13.479
<v Speaker 2>playing oh.

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I had just I had just started, yeah,

0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 1>to get into my own now all of a sudden, know, yo,

0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm a this was I'm a two time, three time

0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 1>first team All Pro I've gone to like three consecutive

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Pro Bowls thousand yard seasons. Now I'm John elway'sgo two guys.

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm now I'm really very good about myself, right.

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I know what you I know what you mean. I

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:41.719
<v Speaker 2>know what you mean.

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 1>So you know, hey, if she think I look good,

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure somebody else think that too. And that's the

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:48.879
<v Speaker 1>mistake I made. That was just mistake I made.

0:41:49.400 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 3>God, as you know, I could see the chat. Somebody

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 3>just somebody just said I'm dressed like beetlejuice. And this

0:41:59.239 --> 0:42:01.320
<v Speaker 3>is this is this is somebody said, I'm just like

0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:06.040
<v Speaker 3>beetlejuice and really not understanding of who I'm wearing. Tell me,

0:42:06.080 --> 0:42:06.879
<v Speaker 3>tell me, do me a favor.

0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 1>What's the name on the back of this, just for

0:42:08.840 --> 0:42:13.200
<v Speaker 1>the people in check get it better understanding on culture swines.

0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 2>That's that's Naymark Jr. The great Brazilian. Yeah.

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:24.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is the Club Santos where he played at

0:42:24.719 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 3>in Brazil before he made it to I like.

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:29.759
<v Speaker 2>To call the big leagues. This guy here, it's about it,

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:32.799
<v Speaker 2>dressed like beetlejuice. O Cho.

0:42:33.040 --> 0:42:35.640
<v Speaker 1>We got some news and that's gonna probably take over.

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:37.880
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure Patrick Mahomes is gonna be asked about it.

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:41.359
<v Speaker 1>Patrick Mahoons Senor was addressed and charged with his third

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:44.560
<v Speaker 1>d w I, third or more dw I. Mahomes Senior

0:42:44.680 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>was arrested on DWI charges multiple times over the last

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:52.520
<v Speaker 1>twelve years twenty twelve, twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, and a

0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:56.320
<v Speaker 1>recent rest over the weekend. Mahomes was arrested for his

0:42:56.400 --> 0:43:00.319
<v Speaker 1>second driver while intoxicated charge in twenty eighteen. Sir forty

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:03.239
<v Speaker 1>days sentence and he served those over the weekends. The

0:43:03.360 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 1>news come a week before his son takes the field

0:43:06.160 --> 0:43:10.279
<v Speaker 1>in Super Bowl fifty eight. How do you expect young

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Patrick to handle this distraction?

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:17.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean, this is this is this is this is

0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 3>not a distraction. This is not a distraction. It's something

0:43:19.760 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 3>that's he's dealt with before. His father has had two

0:43:22.719 --> 0:43:25.280
<v Speaker 3>other issues and it hasn't affected his play on the field.

0:43:25.600 --> 0:43:29.480
<v Speaker 2>And when it comes to they're going to ask him,

0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:32.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, media day, Oh.

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:33.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but he know he ain't paying that no mind.

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:35.319
<v Speaker 3>You know, ain't paying that no mind even if they

0:43:35.400 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 3>do ask him. We talk about a two time Super

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 3>Bowl champ, one that will never be rattled, that's been

0:43:40.560 --> 0:43:42.480
<v Speaker 3>in the highest of situations.

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:45.799
<v Speaker 2>He'll be fine. He'll be fine again.

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:49.640
<v Speaker 3>It's unfortunate, especially for your father, to to not learn

0:43:49.719 --> 0:43:53.239
<v Speaker 3>from the past two times. That's what mistakes make, and

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:56.279
<v Speaker 3>as a father, I would think you would at this point.

0:43:56.360 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 3>You want to get an uber. You want to get

0:43:58.280 --> 0:44:00.040
<v Speaker 3>uber if you're inee braated, if you're drinking, if you

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:03.000
<v Speaker 3>assume an alcohol, if you're out somewhere, don't even drive yourself.

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:03.839
<v Speaker 2>Have a driver.

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:06.880
<v Speaker 3>Obviously, you have a son that we already know that

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:10.320
<v Speaker 3>is completely well off. Talk to your son, Pat, have

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:13.080
<v Speaker 3>a talk with dad. Listen, Pops. If you want to

0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:14.600
<v Speaker 3>go out, if you want to have fun, let me

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 3>get a car service for you, let me get a

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:18.680
<v Speaker 3>driver for you. That's really nothing, you know. To make

0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:21.960
<v Speaker 3>sure issues of this extent don't happen again. I think

0:44:22.000 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 3>that's something that they should do going forward so they

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:26.319
<v Speaker 3>don't have to deal with this again, because obviously it's

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:30.359
<v Speaker 3>sustained on the family and it's going to affect It's

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 3>not going to affect Pat on the field, but off

0:44:33.120 --> 0:44:35.160
<v Speaker 3>the field, having to deal with the media, having to

0:44:35.200 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 3>deal with the scrutiny, having to deal with everyone in

0:44:37.320 --> 0:44:38.640
<v Speaker 3>their personal family business.

0:44:39.400 --> 0:44:43.400
<v Speaker 1>It's a bad Look, any time someone in the family

0:44:43.520 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>becomes more prominent, high profile, everybody have to move differently,

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:51.720
<v Speaker 1>Patrick Mahoone Senor your son is Patrick Mahomes Junior.

0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:56.320
<v Speaker 2>You can't move the same way you once could. You

0:44:56.560 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 2>just can't.

0:44:57.400 --> 0:45:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh yo, I understood that my brother now was Erling

0:45:00.239 --> 0:45:02.279
<v Speaker 1>Sharp and he's the seventh pick in the NFL draft

0:45:02.440 --> 0:45:03.480
<v Speaker 1>of the Green Bay Praca.

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:06.040
<v Speaker 2>All that strifle and stuff that I wanted.

0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:08.800
<v Speaker 1>To do, oh that I was doing before, I couldn't

0:45:08.840 --> 0:45:13.799
<v Speaker 1>do it anymore because they're gonna say the younger brother

0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:18.000
<v Speaker 1>of All Pro packer receiver Sterling Shark, Shannon Shark, was

0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>arrested or come home, Patrick mahone Senior. Yeah, yeah, I

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 1>mean clearly he has an issue. I mean there's no

0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 1>other way around it. And I hope he hopefully he

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:33.280
<v Speaker 1>gets that resolved and not not put himself because he lucky.

0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Because remember Andy Reed's son had a dw I three

0:45:37.000 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>days before the Super Bowl fifty five crashing his crashing

0:45:40.200 --> 0:45:42.440
<v Speaker 1>into a broken down car on the roadside and the

0:45:42.520 --> 0:45:44.959
<v Speaker 1>crash left a five year girl in a carlla for ten.

0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:52.400
<v Speaker 2>Days and he was permanently disabled. My goodness, And.

0:45:52.520 --> 0:45:55.200
<v Speaker 1>So you you like I said a lot of times

0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:57.200
<v Speaker 1>people think, well, oh, it just it was just the

0:45:57.280 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 1>d nobody was hurt, right, But I mean the times

0:46:00.440 --> 0:46:05.120
<v Speaker 1>have we heard situations where people was hurt. Henry Ruggs alcohol,

0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:07.680
<v Speaker 1>driving at a high rate of speed, slams into a

0:46:07.760 --> 0:46:10.080
<v Speaker 1>car doing over one hundred and twenty miles an hour.

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 1>She's dead, his NFL career, he's in jail. Yeah, let

0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:22.240
<v Speaker 1>her little involuntary manslaughter, ram ram Let little Yes from Florida,

0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:28.520
<v Speaker 1>from Florida. Yes, I made alahamicide. Dante did Dante Stalwart.

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:36.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I forgot. I don't even remember these situations.

0:46:37.800 --> 0:46:38.320
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

0:46:38.960 --> 0:46:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I just had that put himself in that situation. He

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:43.320
<v Speaker 1>put himself in it. He put himself in that situation.

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:45.839
<v Speaker 1>And like you said, oh show. But here's the thing,

0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:48.520
<v Speaker 1>oh Joe, you and I you and his dad was

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:51.320
<v Speaker 1>a professional athlete. The one thing about athletes is that

0:46:51.440 --> 0:46:56.120
<v Speaker 1>we don't think it's gonna happen to us what has

0:46:56.120 --> 0:46:57.960
<v Speaker 1>already happened twice. So you can't you can't be thinking

0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:00.200
<v Speaker 1>like that it's already happened twice. Yes, you think you're

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:02.880
<v Speaker 1>thinking invincible based on the situation and the circumstance that

0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 1>you're in now, Pat Mahomes, where if I am if

0:47:06.719 --> 0:47:09.000
<v Speaker 1>someone does stop me, you know what if you're slapped

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:09.399
<v Speaker 1>on the wrist.

0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Listen, mister Mahomes Senior. You can be out here driving

0:47:12.000 --> 0:47:15.000
<v Speaker 2>like that. Okay, they let you go. You can get it.

0:47:15.120 --> 0:47:16.520
<v Speaker 3>You can get away with a lot of things based

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:18.920
<v Speaker 3>on who your son is right now, But you're run

0:47:18.960 --> 0:47:22.319
<v Speaker 3>into that one officer, right that one officer who wants

0:47:22.400 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 3>that credit. He wants to be you know, the talk,

0:47:25.040 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 3>the talk of the town in the department. But were

0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:31.239
<v Speaker 3>you the one that they're looking for that? But again,

0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:33.440
<v Speaker 3>there's a problem that he might have. But there's a

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:34.400
<v Speaker 3>there's a solution to it.

0:47:35.040 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hey, yeah, hey, look if my and my dad,

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:48.440
<v Speaker 1>my dad was a was an alcoholic, but had he

0:47:48.560 --> 0:47:51.839
<v Speaker 1>been alive, yeah, to see me and my brother play,

0:47:52.600 --> 0:47:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you could have tried to get him out.

0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:57.000
<v Speaker 2>But if he couldn't, Hey, hey, dad, they're a car.

0:47:57.360 --> 0:47:58.000
<v Speaker 2>You don't drive?

0:47:58.440 --> 0:48:01.400
<v Speaker 1>You got a car, but don't you Because I'm a

0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 1>spitting image of my dad. I looked just I looked

0:48:03.840 --> 0:48:06.800
<v Speaker 1>just like my dad. But and I'm gonna have somebody

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:09.759
<v Speaker 1>with it now. I'm gonna fire your ass if you

0:48:09.880 --> 0:48:13.200
<v Speaker 1>let my daddy get behind the wheel real. Yeah, yeah,

0:48:13.520 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 1>your responsibility is to make sure he gets too in

0:48:16.040 --> 0:48:17.640
<v Speaker 1>front you driving.

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:21.279
<v Speaker 3>M But listen, the funny thing is, I have a

0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:23.880
<v Speaker 3>little experience when it comes to having a parent that

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:27.040
<v Speaker 3>that love, that likes to drink, that loves to drink. Obviously,

0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:29.960
<v Speaker 3>on my end, you know, it wasn't she didn't like

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:32.200
<v Speaker 3>to drink and drive at the same time, but she

0:48:32.280 --> 0:48:34.239
<v Speaker 3>would drink and it would affect our relationships.

0:48:34.280 --> 0:48:35.360
<v Speaker 2>So you know you asked me earlier.

0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:37.399
<v Speaker 3>You know, with your mom at the super Bowl, for hell,

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 3>it was hard to deal with her and be around

0:48:40.000 --> 0:48:43.560
<v Speaker 3>her more than goddamn two or three goddamn hours because

0:48:43.600 --> 0:48:45.880
<v Speaker 3>of her consumption of alcohol.

0:48:46.120 --> 0:48:47.840
<v Speaker 2>And for those that don't know, we did.

0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:50.480
<v Speaker 3>Matter of fact, just to give a small a small

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:52.960
<v Speaker 3>glimpse of you never met my mama. I think the

0:48:53.040 --> 0:48:54.600
<v Speaker 3>world got a chance to see who she was and

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:56.800
<v Speaker 3>see what I had to deal with my mom and I.

0:48:57.640 --> 0:49:00.920
<v Speaker 3>She was an alcoholic. She drunk a lot, drunk a lot,

0:49:01.080 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 3>you know, to the point where my grandma is. You know,

0:49:03.280 --> 0:49:06.719
<v Speaker 3>my grandma raised me for that specific reason. Obviously, I

0:49:06.760 --> 0:49:08.960
<v Speaker 3>can tell y'all because we're all family. The drug use,

0:49:09.360 --> 0:49:12.040
<v Speaker 3>the alcohol and abuse in it, so my grandma was like, listen,

0:49:12.280 --> 0:49:14.360
<v Speaker 3>you leaving this little boy here with me and you

0:49:14.440 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 3>can go ahead, and my mom moved off to La.

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 3>That's how I ended up at Centemonic, right, Okay, back

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:24.359
<v Speaker 3>to the story. So dealing with her is she would

0:49:24.400 --> 0:49:26.160
<v Speaker 3>always consume alcohol, and this might be one of the

0:49:26.160 --> 0:49:28.360
<v Speaker 3>reasons why I never drink. She would always consume alcohol,

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:30.520
<v Speaker 3>and then she would become someone I didn't even know. Right,

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:32.320
<v Speaker 3>she would become someone I didn't even know, and I

0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:35.360
<v Speaker 3>couldn't quite understand why you're always angry. You can't be

0:49:35.440 --> 0:49:37.440
<v Speaker 3>angry at me because I didn't do anything wrong. But

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 3>then my grandma always having to explain to me, baby,

0:49:40.160 --> 0:49:43.000
<v Speaker 3>this is what happens when she drinks boom along with

0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:46.960
<v Speaker 3>other things. So I kind of empathize in a sense

0:49:47.239 --> 0:49:49.920
<v Speaker 3>with pat because I was still able to play regardless

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 3>what was going on in my personal life and dealing

0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 3>with her.

0:49:53.040 --> 0:49:55.280
<v Speaker 2>Right, So it's like it's.

0:49:55.280 --> 0:49:57.719
<v Speaker 3>Crazy and one of the reasons she got the name

0:49:58.200 --> 0:50:02.239
<v Speaker 3>Hurricane Paula because when she does alcohol, she becomes just that.

0:50:02.680 --> 0:50:05.440
<v Speaker 2>It's a hurricane, right, It's a hurricane.

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:08.320
<v Speaker 3>And we had we had a funny, funny thing with

0:50:08.480 --> 0:50:10.840
<v Speaker 3>friends of mine throughout the years, you're really not a

0:50:10.920 --> 0:50:13.799
<v Speaker 3>friend of mine, or you ain't been around long enough.

0:50:13.840 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 3>If you haven't been cursed out by my mama, if

0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 3>you ain't been cursed out by mama, you aren't really

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 3>a friend of mine because you ain't been around long enough.

0:50:21.360 --> 0:50:23.040
<v Speaker 2>My kids got it. I got it.

0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 3>Anybody I dated got it, my coaches got it, my

0:50:27.080 --> 0:50:31.480
<v Speaker 3>friends got it, everybody, my teachers got it, everybody. And

0:50:31.600 --> 0:50:34.480
<v Speaker 3>it was hard to even have her around important events

0:50:34.760 --> 0:50:41.000
<v Speaker 3>because I boy listen my mama, and I wanted to

0:50:41.040 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 3>help my mama the same way I'm sure Pat wants

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:45.440
<v Speaker 3>to help his dad. So I say, you know what,

0:50:45.680 --> 0:50:47.759
<v Speaker 3>the opportunity to present itself. Well, not only we can

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:49.080
<v Speaker 3>we can make a little money. I can get you

0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:51.400
<v Speaker 3>some change, but we're gonna go on the show with

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:55.080
<v Speaker 3>some doctors. We did marriage boot Camp and chat. If

0:50:55.120 --> 0:50:57.960
<v Speaker 3>you haven't seen Marriage boot Camp. Family addition, between me

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:00.360
<v Speaker 3>and my mom watched that. When you get some and

0:51:00.480 --> 0:51:03.600
<v Speaker 3>you'll understand who she really was, because you know, most

0:51:03.640 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 3>of the time you had FEL members going camera and

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:07.840
<v Speaker 3>they put on and be someone that they're not.

0:51:08.440 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 2>They put on their representative because the world is watching.

0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Me and my mom went on that show.

0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:15.920
<v Speaker 3>The whole point was to try to mend our relationship

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:18.800
<v Speaker 3>and find a way to make things work because and

0:51:18.880 --> 0:51:22.320
<v Speaker 3>figure out what's wrong with her past. They offered places

0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:26.360
<v Speaker 3>she can go, They offered the rehab. Every morning she

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:28.120
<v Speaker 3>woke up, what's the first thing you think she would

0:51:28.160 --> 0:51:32.520
<v Speaker 3>have gotten to drink? Something to drink, and they purposely

0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:36.640
<v Speaker 3>allowed her to drink and drink and drink, and un man,

0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:40.279
<v Speaker 3>that woman stole the show. That woman stole the show.

0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:42.920
<v Speaker 3>And obviously I let people that want to go back

0:51:42.960 --> 0:51:46.359
<v Speaker 3>and watch it and see who Hurricane Paula was. Cust

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:49.520
<v Speaker 3>everybody out on the show, cust out the producers, cust

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:52.280
<v Speaker 3>out the cast mates, and we didn't end up finishing

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:55.240
<v Speaker 3>the show because she cussed everybody out. She cussed everybody

0:51:55.280 --> 0:51:59.319
<v Speaker 3>out and left the show before it ended. And from

0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:01.600
<v Speaker 3>that point on, with me trying to help, there was

0:52:01.640 --> 0:52:03.560
<v Speaker 3>really nothing I could do because she wasn't even trying

0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:06.719
<v Speaker 3>to help herself. And maybe my mama passed. She just

0:52:06.840 --> 0:52:09.799
<v Speaker 3>passed in twenty twenty one, which you think she died from.

0:52:09.960 --> 0:52:15.960
<v Speaker 1>M probably scoliosis, hard soorrosis, not scoliosis sorosis.

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:20.640
<v Speaker 3>Alcohol poisonous YEP, alcohol poisoning and so that's that's just

0:52:21.400 --> 0:52:24.279
<v Speaker 3>the story with pat and it kind of resonated to

0:52:24.320 --> 0:52:26.160
<v Speaker 3>me in a sense, not to the sense of her

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:29.359
<v Speaker 3>getting in trouble and arrested, but dealing with someone who

0:52:29.640 --> 0:52:31.800
<v Speaker 3>liked to consume alcohol and there's really no way to

0:52:31.880 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 3>control it. Even when you try to get him help them,

0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:35.319
<v Speaker 3>they just they just won't listen.

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:52:35.560 --> 0:52:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why people like giving up control like that, Ojoe.

0:52:38.880 --> 0:52:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think I think for us, especially like me,

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:45.680
<v Speaker 1>I gotta be in control. I don't like you knows.

0:52:46.120 --> 0:52:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I can only say There's been one time that I

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of lost control, but I was able to regain it,

0:52:51.120 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 1>and that was the Lakers situation at that game. But

0:52:53.680 --> 0:52:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't like being out of control, Lojo, right, are you.

0:52:56.160 --> 0:52:58.239
<v Speaker 2>You think you think you was? I was like, nah, yeah,

0:52:58.480 --> 0:53:02.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad drink. No, I wouldn't drink hell now, So

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:04.680
<v Speaker 2>you were good? Yeah I was a hood Yeah yeah,

0:53:04.760 --> 0:53:06.040
<v Speaker 2>no I wasn't. No, no, no, no no.

0:53:06.160 --> 0:53:08.399
<v Speaker 1>That's that's one of the reasons, you know, I think

0:53:08.480 --> 0:53:11.399
<v Speaker 1>because my father was an alcoholic also, and he ended

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:14.400
<v Speaker 1>up he ended up having both jawbones removed, ended up

0:53:14.440 --> 0:53:17.080
<v Speaker 1>having a he ended up dying at when I was

0:53:17.120 --> 0:53:20.759
<v Speaker 1>thirteen years of age, and uh, I saw him once

0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:23.399
<v Speaker 1>to actually know who I was looking at. I saw

0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:25.520
<v Speaker 1>him when I was in I think the first the kindergarten,

0:53:25.760 --> 0:53:28.960
<v Speaker 1>first grade. I saw him in first grade. And the

0:53:29.040 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 1>next time I saw him, he didn't know I was

0:53:30.719 --> 0:53:32.520
<v Speaker 1>looking at him. His face was like a looking glass.

0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I was just looking down and staring at him, and

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:36.920
<v Speaker 1>he didn't. He didn't look nothing like the man that

0:53:37.000 --> 0:53:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I remember seeing all those years ago. But that's what

0:53:40.960 --> 0:53:44.800
<v Speaker 1>the drinking had done to him. That's what the surgery

0:53:44.920 --> 0:53:47.719
<v Speaker 1>of having both of his jaw bones removed, and why

0:53:47.800 --> 0:53:50.560
<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to come because he said told my grandma,

0:53:50.600 --> 0:53:53.000
<v Speaker 1>grandma child, that he didn't want his kids to see

0:53:53.040 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 1>him in this kind of condition. Okay, okay, but what

0:53:55.480 --> 0:53:57.759
<v Speaker 1>he didn't realize. I just wanted to see my father.

0:53:57.960 --> 0:54:00.840
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't the conditions. It was the that I wanted

0:54:00.880 --> 0:54:05.600
<v Speaker 1>to see and what I would give to have if

0:54:05.640 --> 0:54:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I could just have him and my grandfather, Barney Porta,

0:54:09.560 --> 0:54:12.600
<v Speaker 1>the one that raised me and him, just just to

0:54:12.640 --> 0:54:15.960
<v Speaker 1>see see what me and my brother became, just for

0:54:16.080 --> 0:54:19.000
<v Speaker 1>one day right now that it Yeah, I would love

0:54:19.080 --> 0:54:22.600
<v Speaker 1>to see years and years, but just for one day. Yeah,

0:54:22.880 --> 0:54:27.959
<v Speaker 1>to see what me and my brother became. That would

0:54:27.960 --> 0:54:31.760
<v Speaker 1>probably be that would top any day, any.

0:54:31.640 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Day Pro Bowl, Hall of Fame.

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>This for them to see that, because I remember my

0:54:39.600 --> 0:54:41.880
<v Speaker 1>grandfather and my grandmother was because remember I told you,

0:54:41.960 --> 0:54:44.040
<v Speaker 1>o Joe, my grandfather and grandmother didn't see sleep in

0:54:44.080 --> 0:54:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the same bed. My grandfather and my brother slept over here,

0:54:47.360 --> 0:54:49.400
<v Speaker 1>and me and my grandmother slept over there, and they

0:54:49.440 --> 0:54:52.200
<v Speaker 1>were having a conversation, and they they thought we were

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<v Speaker 1>all out of sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>This had to be about two o'clock in the morning.

0:54:55.920 --> 0:54:57.160
<v Speaker 1>We didn't have a clock in the room, so I

0:54:57.160 --> 0:54:59.879
<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell you, but I'm assuming it's probably around two

0:55:00.000 --> 0:55:02.600
<v Speaker 1>oclock in the morning. And I remember him saying so vividly.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Mary, he said, I might be dead and gone,

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<v Speaker 1>but them boys gonna make something. He said, They're so smart,

0:55:11.640 --> 0:55:14.399
<v Speaker 1>they so attentive. They don't give us.

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:16.080
<v Speaker 2>No back talk. They don't talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking to myself, man, do you understand the punishment

0:55:19.440 --> 0:55:21.520
<v Speaker 1>and the rap that would rain down? And we were

0:55:21.560 --> 0:55:24.960
<v Speaker 1>afraid to talk back. But he said, he said, and

0:55:25.040 --> 0:55:28.640
<v Speaker 1>he said that young one, he said, Mary, that boy

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<v Speaker 1>remember everything. He because we were we we was our

0:55:34.480 --> 0:55:37.440
<v Speaker 1>dad's were our grandfather's no path because you know, back then,

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<v Speaker 1>oh chi, I ain't nobody had no say, had no

0:55:39.080 --> 0:55:41.360
<v Speaker 1>cell phone. So somebody told you their number. You just

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:44.960
<v Speaker 1>had to remember it. My grandfather, somebody would tell my

0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:46.840
<v Speaker 1>grandfather get oh, hey, BARTI you know, I got a

0:55:46.880 --> 0:55:48.359
<v Speaker 1>new number, or I got a fuck got a phone

0:55:48.360 --> 0:55:50.720
<v Speaker 1>because there by the time didn't have phones. Hey bartiy

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I got it, I got a number, I got a

0:55:52.040 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 1>new phone, I got a phone. Hey, telling to them boys.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was my me and my brother's job to

0:55:57.120 --> 0:55:59.640
<v Speaker 1>remember the phone number. And I just remember that, and

0:55:59.719 --> 0:56:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that's up with me. Here I am five six years

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<v Speaker 1>of age, and he could project into the future thirty year,

0:56:07.320 --> 0:56:10.839
<v Speaker 1>twenty five years later that them two boys gonna make something.

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<v Speaker 2>Man. That made me so That made me so proud

0:56:14.239 --> 0:56:15.080
<v Speaker 2>to hear him say that.

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<v Speaker 1>As I'm going, as I'm playing in high school, as

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm playing in college, and I'm playing in the NFL,

0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:24.000
<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking back, my grandfather saw this, and so

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:27.719
<v Speaker 1>to have my dad, my actual dad, and my grandfather,

0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:32.000
<v Speaker 1>if only for one day, to see what I became,

0:56:33.560 --> 0:56:36.080
<v Speaker 1>even if they don't see me play football, but just

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<v Speaker 1>see the man that I became because I named my son.

0:56:39.239 --> 0:56:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I named my son after my dad. But man o jo,

0:56:45.120 --> 0:56:48.399
<v Speaker 1>that was I mean my grandparents and my grandparents didn't.

0:56:48.920 --> 0:56:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I remember my grandfather got stopped by the state trooper.

0:56:51.760 --> 0:56:55.400
<v Speaker 1>My grandfather was probably driving one hundred and twenty so

0:56:57.239 --> 0:57:02.160
<v Speaker 1>got said licensed registration insurance. My grandfather reached in the

0:57:02.200 --> 0:57:05.719
<v Speaker 1>glove box, handed it to it. He said, uh, mister

0:57:05.800 --> 0:57:10.680
<v Speaker 1>porter said yeah. He said yeah. He said, uh, you've

0:57:10.719 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 1>been drinking. My grandfather said yeah, about forty years ago. Boy,

0:57:16.680 --> 0:57:19.960
<v Speaker 1>that's before your time, right, He said, yeah, it was,

0:57:20.040 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 1>mister porter. He said, okay, now I'm gonna need you

0:57:22.600 --> 0:57:27.040
<v Speaker 1>to slow it down. He said, okay, but I think

0:57:27.120 --> 0:57:29.400
<v Speaker 1>my grandmother said that's why, you know, they started having

0:57:29.520 --> 0:57:32.960
<v Speaker 1>kids and they stopped drinking. And I never obviously did

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:35.640
<v Speaker 1>drank communion, but we never had an alcohol in the house.

0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:38.320
<v Speaker 1>But just to just to I just would want my

0:57:38.400 --> 0:57:40.600
<v Speaker 1>grandfather and my dad to see what me and my

0:57:40.680 --> 0:57:41.240
<v Speaker 1>brother became.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's it, you know what that that that's that's dope.

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<v Speaker 3>And I always I've never thought about it like that

0:57:48.840 --> 0:57:50.960
<v Speaker 3>because my mom, my mom was around to see, to

0:57:51.040 --> 0:57:54.080
<v Speaker 3>see all of my success. I would love for to

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:58.280
<v Speaker 3>see how far I've come after falling, you know, uh

0:57:58.920 --> 0:58:04.240
<v Speaker 3>off that mountaintop and the climb that I'm making to

0:58:04.360 --> 0:58:07.800
<v Speaker 3>get back to where I fell from. But I would

0:58:07.880 --> 0:58:10.880
<v Speaker 3>love to see would have been like what our relationship

0:58:10.880 --> 0:58:14.880
<v Speaker 3>would have been like if she hadn't alcohol. I would

0:58:14.920 --> 0:58:17.000
<v Speaker 3>love I would love you to be at every event

0:58:17.280 --> 0:58:18.880
<v Speaker 3>I had. I would love you to be at games.

0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:20.959
<v Speaker 3>I would love you to be at Red Carper stuff.

0:58:20.960 --> 0:58:22.240
<v Speaker 3>I would love for you to travel. I would love

0:58:22.280 --> 0:58:24.200
<v Speaker 3>for you to go to Pro Bowl, listen to games

0:58:24.240 --> 0:58:28.000
<v Speaker 3>she did go to. She got into it with people

0:58:28.800 --> 0:58:32.400
<v Speaker 3>and embarrass me. You know, the Red Carper stuff that

0:58:32.440 --> 0:58:34.400
<v Speaker 3>I did take her to. You know, I got to

0:58:34.440 --> 0:58:36.040
<v Speaker 3>get this drink before I put my clothes on.

0:58:37.280 --> 0:58:39.760
<v Speaker 2>She embarrassed me. You know. So every time I will

0:58:39.800 --> 0:58:40.120
<v Speaker 2>try to.

0:58:40.120 --> 0:58:43.440
<v Speaker 3>Bring around those those events where your mother's supposed to

0:58:43.480 --> 0:58:47.280
<v Speaker 3>be present as a reason on why you here as

0:58:47.320 --> 0:58:51.000
<v Speaker 3>an example of you know, listen, I'd have made you proud.

0:58:51.080 --> 0:58:55.160
<v Speaker 2>I need you front center, and all those instances, what

0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:55.680
<v Speaker 2>does she do?

0:58:56.040 --> 0:58:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Cut somebody out, put a hands on somebody, and these

0:58:59.520 --> 0:59:02.840
<v Speaker 3>are times, well, these were suable offenses that she's done,

0:59:03.000 --> 0:59:06.640
<v Speaker 3>and people kind of understood based on Okay, you know what,

0:59:06.720 --> 0:59:08.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's really her. I think the fact

0:59:08.520 --> 0:59:10.720
<v Speaker 3>that she is consumed alcohol because you can spell it

0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:12.600
<v Speaker 3>along with other things.

0:59:12.640 --> 0:59:14.360
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not gonna I'm not I'm not gonna go there.

0:59:14.360 --> 0:59:15.200
<v Speaker 2>There's no point for that.

0:59:15.680 --> 0:59:18.240
<v Speaker 3>But you know, I got off a lot, and I

0:59:18.280 --> 0:59:20.479
<v Speaker 3>think that's probably why I've never had alcohol before.

0:59:20.480 --> 0:59:21.680
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of people don't believe me. A lot

0:59:21.720 --> 0:59:27.800
<v Speaker 2>of people perception when you see the person oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:59:27.840 --> 0:59:30.080
<v Speaker 2>yeah yeah.

0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:32.720
<v Speaker 3>No, people think I'm wild. They think I club because

0:59:32.720 --> 0:59:35.400
<v Speaker 3>they let that on field persona that I put on.

0:59:35.800 --> 0:59:38.360
<v Speaker 3>But that want but a character I'll feel. I'm nothing

0:59:38.440 --> 0:59:41.720
<v Speaker 3>like that, nothing like that. But that's enough for that far.

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<v Speaker 3>I started crying like a little girl