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Hello, ladies 9 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Welcome to another episode of Nightcap. 10 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: I'm your favorite UNC, Shannon Sharp. 11 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: He's your favorite number eighty five route Runner, Extraordinary Bengals legend, 12 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: ring or Famer, three time three time All Pro, six 13 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: time Pro bowler, Chad O Chosenko Johnson, mister Liberty City himself. 14 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Y'all know what it is. Please please make sure y'all like, 15 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: make sure you hit that subscribe button. Oh Jo, we're 16 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: a nine hundred and sixty five thousand subs. We're thirty 17 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: five thousand away from that magic number. We gotta get 18 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: on the ball, oyo, oh Joe. We got to get 19 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: on the ball because the goal is to have it 20 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: by Thursday before we go line right. 21 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 3: So I've been thinking to myself, I said, I tweeted 22 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 3: earlier today or might it might have been yesterday? Who 23 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 3: can I hit or who can I call? I had 24 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 3: people in mind to give us a serge, to give 25 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: us a push, the push we need to be at 26 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 3: one meeting before the live show. Everybody told me, listen 27 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 3: at the rate, y'all going. You don't need to call nobody. 28 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 3: You will get there by Thursday's live show. So I 29 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 3: kind of held off on it. At where were at 30 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 3: nine nine sixty five? If we at nine sixty five 31 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: right now with the where we're going, I'm not gonna 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 3: make a call. I'm gonna wait and see what happened 33 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 3: to see if we get there at some point. But 34 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 3: we hit Wednesday, we hit Wednesday, I'm gonna make that call. 35 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 3: Make that call. 36 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: Man. 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: Listen, bro, I need you to do me a solid. 38 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: I never ask you for nothing, but just get us 39 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: to a me and suck because I need to understand 40 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 3: what the fuss is about about Kanyac. So I want 41 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 3: to be able to taste alcohol for the first time. 42 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 2: Ever in my life. 43 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 3: Yes, people in the chat, I don't I've never had 44 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: alcohol before, so that will be my first time. So 45 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 3: I'm hoping we hit a million so I can give 46 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 3: my own honest take and. 47 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: Keith Lee Fashion. 48 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 3: Keith Lee Fashion on what that cognac tastes like by 49 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 3: alcohol in general. 50 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: All right, please make sure y'all subscribe to the Nightcap 51 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: podcast feed. You can get it through Club Shay Shape, 52 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: but Nightcap has its own fee. Please make sure you 53 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: subscribe through the Nightcap podcast feed. We've also pincheved by 54 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: Laportier at the top of the chat. Hey, super Bowl 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: party is a week away. You got Valentine's Day, you 56 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: got Saint Patrick's Day, and I'm sure there's a birthday 57 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: somewhere along in between those days and Saint Patty's Day. 58 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: Please go out and get yourself a bottle for you 59 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: or someone special. Ladies, go get your man a Battle 60 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: of Shae by la Portier and he'll thank you and 61 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: you'll thank me later. So please make sure you go 62 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: out and get a bottle of Shave by Lapotier. 63 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: Oh Choe. 64 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: This week we were nominated for NAACP Image Award for 65 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: the Art, Sports and Entertainment Outstanding Podcast. 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So Jordan will 75 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: be dropping a step by step to toyo video tomorrow. 76 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. I don't know bad, I don't know 77 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: how this is gonna turn out, But tomorrow Jordan will 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: be dropping a step by step totorial video. Lord help us. 79 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: Ain't no jailer. He might be voting for the presidency 80 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: and that is myself eight months away. Hey, don't tell 81 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: you what georgrab you to do. Oh yo, the Chiefs 82 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: are the underdog for the third straight game. There are 83 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: now a two point underdogs according to Draft Kings sportsbook. 84 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: Oh chore Mahomes and Andy Reid being disrespected. Why do 85 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: they continue to do this? Why do they continuously poke 86 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: the bear? Why do they continuously poke the bear. 87 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 3: I'm I'm not really sure how they come up with 88 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: the scenarios on why there the underdogs. Is the fact 89 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: that there are so many Pro Bowlers, so many great 90 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: players offensively, I mean and defensively for the forty nine ers, 91 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 3: based on what the Chiefs have been able to do. 92 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: In the postseason. 93 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 3: Why I think this is what maybe the second or 94 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 3: third game they've been underdogs, underdog. 95 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: Being tied player with the exception of the first game. 96 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: They weren't underdogs against Miami, but they were underdogs against Buffalo, 97 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: uh Buffalo, Buffalo, and Baltimore in Baltimore and now the 98 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: forty nine ers. 99 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: I'm not sure if someone has something against Andy Reid. 100 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm not sure if somebody has something against Patrick Mahomes 101 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 3: and just the Chiefs in general. I understand they played 102 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 3: bad during in the middle of the season, you know, 103 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 3: from an officers standpoint, as a statistical standpoint, as far 104 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 3: as the receiver goal they led the NFL in drops. 105 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 3: As a corps themselves, yeah that as well. But to 106 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 3: say that they are underdogs and betting against Patrick Mahomes 107 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 3: is asinine and I think it's an angle that might 108 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 3: have something to do with gambling and having people put 109 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 3: more money on the forty nine ers to. 110 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: Win, as opposed that people really believe in. 111 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 3: Whoever came with this scenario that they're the underdogs, I 112 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 3: think it had that might be the angle they're going 113 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: to get people to lose money on betting with the 114 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 3: forty nine ers. 115 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: Well, what happens is, though, Joe, you notice is that 116 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 2: they said the line. 117 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: If I'm not mistaken, the original line was minus one, right, 118 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: and so in order for it to move the minus two, 119 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: that means a lot of bad came in on the 120 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: Chiefs because we got to open the line up and 121 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: we want people to bet on the forty nine ers also, 122 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: so that's seemingly why they opened the line up. 123 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: Okay, all right? 124 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: That that gives me a better better understanding because logically, 125 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: a two time Super Bowl champ, there's no way I'm 126 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: being against that. As good as Rock Purty played last week, 127 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 3: as good as that offense looked, you know, coming back 128 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 3: from the deferences they were able to do come back from. 129 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: But I still just so with you explaining to me 130 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: like that. I knew it had to do. 131 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 3: Someone numbers and money, you know, because I I don't 132 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 3: understand that. I don't understand that part. 133 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: Well, go back, what was the original line? Because I 134 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: see someone say one and a half two and a half. 135 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: It's one and a half. The original line was one 136 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: and a half, right, So it moved a half a point. 137 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: So that means a lot of people been laying money 138 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: on the on the on the chiefs. 139 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, that that that makes sense, And that's 140 00:06:59,320 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: one thing. 141 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: A lot of people betting money, a lot of people 142 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: betting money on the forty nine ers. They just dropped it, 143 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: right because they don't want to. They don't they don't 144 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: really want to get one side too heavy, one sided 145 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: either way. 146 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 3: Right, But uh so they so basically what they're doing 147 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 3: is they line to the people like some damn politicians. 148 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: Well what happened they started just just just to sway 149 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: where the money need to go. Yeah, because what happened 150 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: is started at one and a half now said two. 151 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: That means a lot of money for it to move. 152 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: A lot of money has having him been coming in 153 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: on Kansas City. So we'll see, we'll see how it plays. 154 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: Because at the end of the day, oh Joe, this 155 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: is a neutral site game. It's not like they're playing 156 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: in the forty nine ers building. It's not like they're 157 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: playing in Arrowhead. Obviously, this is as legit a neutral 158 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: site game as you're gonna get. I think both fan 159 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: bases will be in full effect. It's gonna be part 160 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: to tell who's who comes. Both teams were read. 161 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: I have a problem. I got a question now. 162 00:07:58,440 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 3: I got to stop you right there when you say 163 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 3: both teams fans will be in full effect. Have you 164 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 3: seen the ticket prices for the Super Bowl? And when 165 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: I think about it, I think the hard earned, blue 166 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 3: collar fans of these teams, the people that show up 167 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: to every home game, the eight game that they do 168 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 3: have throughout this not for them. 169 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 2: It's not for them. 170 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 3: They are priced out. They're priced out. I think it's unfair. Obviously, 171 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 3: we understand what the end goal is, and the bottom 172 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 3: line goal is for the NFL, especially an event of 173 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 3: this magnitude, it's about money. 174 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 2: That's always been the end goal. This is for the wealthy. 175 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 3: This is for the rich to come together and have 176 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 3: some fun and enjoy the last game of the season. 177 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 3: It's not for the true, authentic fans that work hard 178 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 3: in this goddamn economy to support their team eight weeks 179 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 3: out the season at home. 180 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: They're priced out. They are priced out based on the prices. 181 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: I saw, I got it and ain't no damn wigh 182 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 3: in hell, I'm paying sep eight thousand. 183 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: Dollars for a goddamn ticket. 184 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: What average ticket price now is twelve thousand dollars. Because 185 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: here's the thing the NFL. I remember when we went 186 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: to the Pro Bowl, if I'm not the Pro Bow, 187 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: the Super Bowl, I think the highest ticket was one 188 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. But if you turn around, yes, one thousand dollars. 189 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: But if you scalt the tickets, people was willing to 190 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: pay you seven or eight thousand. So the NFL said, 191 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: hold on, y'all willing to pay seven eight thousand dollars, 192 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: We'll just go ahead and put the ticket at seven 193 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: to eight thousand dollars since you want to pay that. 194 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: But what has happened is that you take all the 195 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: all the advertising and sponsors. That's where the tickets go. 196 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: Oh chill, you need to tell me for a billion dollars, 197 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: For two billion dollars, I can't get. 198 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: No tickets right right, right, right? Come on, It's crazy. Listen. 199 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 2: This is Super Bowl is a corporate event. 200 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 3: Yes, Super Bowl is a corporate event, and there needs 201 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 3: to be some type of structure or something done for 202 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 3: the hardcore fans, the fans that put on the costumes, 203 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 3: the fans that paint their faces, the fans that been 204 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 3: at Arrowhead Weeke in and week out when they played home, 205 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 3: and the fans that better goddamn Levi Stadium week in 206 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 3: and week out. They are priced out because in this 207 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 3: is a goddamn economy, nobody can afford a goddamn ticket 208 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: for twelve thousand, damn dollars. 209 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 2: And then you got some people. You got some people 210 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: that are gonna get scammed. They're gonna be sold fake tickets. 211 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: You know. 212 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: They have they have to find some happy medium for 213 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 3: the people that are part of the median households that 214 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 3: have been going to games year in and year out, 215 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 3: and all of a sudden they make it, their team 216 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 3: makes it to the biggest game of them all. 217 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 2: Now you're gonna have people digging in. 218 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: Their life savings, watch watching digging and they goddamn life savings. 219 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: Watch it on TV. I mean, come on, we. 220 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: Got the one thing that we're gonna be on this 221 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 1: on this podcast is honest and they probably when the 222 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: tickets started. When you got tickets starting out in six thousand, 223 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: what average fan is going to be able to pay 224 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: six thousand dollars? 225 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 2: Okay, that's for the ticket. Well, the hotels you got 226 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: a three night minimum. 227 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: Three nights right, So that so even if you come 228 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: in and say, oh, well I just want I'm just 229 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: gonna come in for the game. 230 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 2: What you're gonna sleep in your car? That's that's that's 231 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 2: something that's something that that that would be a choice 232 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 2: of mind without Are you going to eat? Are you 233 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: gonna eat? They have fast food? They have fast food 234 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 2: and uh in in Vegas, you. 235 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: Think you will get a normal price as a normal 236 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: price that you would normally be if you was in Vegas. 237 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: Listen, Vegas got Bahama Breeze. If you want to go fancy, 238 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 3: now that's dinner? Are you going to bring it down 239 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: a notch? Vegas has in and Out, Vegas has Burger King, 240 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 3: Vegas has McDonald's. They have a Poyo Loco. You don't 241 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 3: have to go fancy. We talk about based on if 242 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 3: you're on a structured income budget because you paid ya 243 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: on a budget and you paid a lot the Let's 244 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 3: say you took some of your life savings. You want 245 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 3: to go to Super Bowl, sleep in your car heat. 246 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 3: That what I consider some of the lower tier restaurants. 247 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 3: I consider them high tier. Other people consider them low tier. 248 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 3: I mean that's what I would do. I would see, 249 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 3: I don't have no problem set with my car, and 250 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 3: I got to use the bathroom. I go to a 251 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 3: twenty four hour seventy eleven twenty four our eye hop. 252 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 2: You know that my bathroom. And you ain't buying no 253 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 2: potator to gyms with no gas or no soda, no, 254 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 2: or they don't have a choice. They they do have 255 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 2: a choice. 256 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 1: That's a that's a private entity. You just can't go 257 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: use the bathroom where you ad you think you have 258 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: a recreation. 259 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 2: Center by a stake of gum, buy a stake of gun. 260 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: You got to buy something. What have you ever know? 261 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: People at home win an event, Grammy's, Emmy's obster, some 262 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: type of event that's coming over. 263 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: You see what happened when the gas price is what 264 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: they do with the gas prices? They jack? 265 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: Okay, then so they got they got in a bit 266 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: coming to Vegas. Tell me what you think they're gonna 267 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: do with food prices? 268 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: But they gonna hang it up a little bit, a 269 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 2: little bit. They can only do it so much, so much. 270 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 3: You still listen, You still want to you still want 271 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 3: to attract not only business, but you still want to 272 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 3: be able to make money if you price yourself out. Listen, 273 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 3: nobody go to establishment. They already go to the establishment. 274 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 3: They are already coming. They are already coming. We already 275 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 3: know we're gonna get an influx a million, two million people, right, 276 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 3: so listen, there's an influx of a one million, two 277 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 3: million people. You think those people wanna find somewhere else 278 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 3: to eat? If your prices are outrageous from ridiculous, what's 279 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 3: the likelihood of the people that's that's coming. And they 280 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 3: got hotel rooms for a three night minimum? What you say, 281 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 3: That's the part of the thing is they're gonna stop 282 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 3: by your establishment anyway. 283 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: That's a good one. Hey, that's a good one. I 284 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: mean a good one. 285 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: I mean they got combanas going for one hundred thousand 286 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: to see twelve people, one hundred thousand companda will at 287 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 1: the clubs at the clubs one hundred dollars a quarter 288 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: of a meal and see, and you wonder why, and 289 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: you wonder why I've never parted in life because it 290 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: makes no sense. 291 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 3: What are you getting for a hundred thousand that you 292 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 3: can't get it home? Turning your radio real, real, goddamn loud, 293 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 3: invite all your friends over boom, same concept, same energy, 294 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: same vibe. But you're paying one hundred or two hundred 295 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 3: and fifty thousand dollars or whatever it may be to 296 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 3: go to do what? 297 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 2: Just to show? Look, I got money. Okay, that's cool, 298 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: that's fine. It ain't how much you make, how much 299 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 2: you keep. 300 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 3: Now you're talking like me, I like where you're going. 301 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 3: Now we have something that we have something else to 302 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 3: address based on that comment right there. 303 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: Later, I'm just said, look, when you and Ocho to 304 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: think like I said, I believe that that what the 305 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: NFL saw is that and what you see any time 306 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: if somebody willing to pay for it, if they willing 307 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: to pay, y'all scap of the NFL's like, hold on, 308 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: We sell sold all these tickets and the players can 309 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: only get thirty fifteen tickets. You get thirteen tickets. You 310 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: get too free. Now, it used to be team it 311 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: was at the team discretion. Teams could give you twenty ticket. 312 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: You know, twenty thirty tickets, or whatever the case may be, 313 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: but there was there was a discrepancy. Many years ago, 314 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: one team gave a team thirty tickets and the other 315 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: team gave So the NFL said, you know what we're 316 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: gonna do. 317 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 2: We're gonna take it over. 318 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: You're gonna be able to give them two free comp tickets, 319 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: just like you get at home, and they can buy 320 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: thirteen and. 321 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 2: Guess what, and guess what, guess we'll play. Sometimes players 322 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 2: did with them thirteen tickets. Oh do you follow them? Well, 323 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 324 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: I mean your mom, you're close close mom, you know dad? 325 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: If you got if you gotta if you got a 326 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: significant other or wife, obviously you got kids. 327 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: But listen, you know how, you know how players think? 328 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 2: Now we ain't ween. 329 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 3: Can my family, no kid? If I ain't playing, no 330 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 3: goddamn super Bowl? I don't care nobody going? 331 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: Should we? Finna made this money? O Jo? 332 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: You got the families came in on Thursday. So Thursday night, 333 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night. That's fortnight. Now, I 334 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: got a mom, I got a sister, I got girlfriend, 335 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: I got kids. Right, that's four rooms and that's that's 336 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: bare minimum for a room, possibly fifth. 337 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: And who do you think feeding them? Who you think 338 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 2: you entertained them? Who you think flew? 339 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 1: Now I could have flew. I could have flew now 340 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 1: my family. This was pre nine to eleven, so this 341 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: was pre the tickets was high as giraffe. Huh. But 342 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: so ojo, I gotta bring my mom from Chicago. I 343 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: gotta bring my sister and at that time, my cousin 344 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: mud she flew with her. I gotta bring them from 345 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: Georgia to San Diego. My kids, okay, the kids. My 346 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: sister picked up the kids, brought them from Georgia. And 347 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: now my girlfriend was on the charter, and so okay, 348 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: cool charter. I was like, I could have got my 349 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: But what since does it mean to fly my family 350 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: from Georgia's Chicago to Denver to get on the charter 351 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: and then get now get on the charter. Now they 352 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: gotta fly back from San Diego to Denver or from Miami, 353 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: because you know, we flew in them we played in Miami, 354 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: or when I was in Baltimore, we flew to Tampa. 355 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: So I just like, okay, I mean I think I've 356 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: been like fifteen grand just in flights. 357 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 2: Well, you better than me, because my family would understood. 358 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: No, none of those souper Oh mom my sister, Oh 359 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: they got to go to kids, they got to go 360 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,199 Speaker 1: to that the super Bowl. Now, there are a lot 361 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: of people that have never seen Shannon Shape player a 362 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: football game, not a preseason game, not a regular season game, 363 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 1: not a playoff game. 364 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 2: You mean in per in person persons. 365 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: But they wanted to go to the Super Bowl, right, please, 366 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 1: that's all. 367 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 2: That's all you have to tell it. Please. 368 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: Now, my homeboy, I had one homeboy, Bucket that it was. 369 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: I heard Bucket names, so goddamn much. I feel like 370 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 1: I know that's my dog. 371 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: Then now him and Burns. But the team, so they're 372 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: gonna be in Vegas? No, hell no, hell nona. 373 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: So you know I had a ticket. I had a 374 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: ticket for one of my homeboys. But something came up. 375 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 1: That's something would discuss in the later day time. He 376 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: wasn't able ten and so I had two tickets. I said, brother, Bucket, 377 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 1: I got a ticket for you and my other homeboy. 378 00:17:56,000 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 1: Now I ain't got nothing for your wife. Hey, you 379 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: had to let it know. No no, no, no, no, no, 380 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: no no no no no no, you ain't getting thought, 381 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 1: you get you, you and you and my other homeboy. Well, 382 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: my other homeboy wasn't able to come. Something came up. 383 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 2: He hit me up. 384 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: He said, man, such and such and not gonna be 385 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: able to come. Can I use the other ticket for 386 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: my wife? I said, hell, yeah, okay, But as long 387 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: long as it was free, long as it was free. 388 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: Anytime it was close right Jacksonville, he would come to Jacksonville, 389 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: he would drive close by. 390 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: He ain't got a whole lot at the time, he 391 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 2: was a police officer. 392 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: Then he laid to work for ATF so he ain't 393 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: like he making a hard ton of money to be 394 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: able to put himself up and come. 395 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 2: So I always took care of me. 396 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: But but in a situation like that, oh Joe, you know, 397 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: like I said, the super Bowl, that's a special occasion. 398 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 1: My mom come to everyone. And at the time my 399 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: step pops Pops came with my mom. So I gotta 400 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: fly him. But I'm feeding everybody every day. I'm playing 401 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: for entertainment every day. And the hotel room and the flight. 402 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: So like I said, I spent probably I probably spent 403 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: like thirty grand for the entirety of the trip. 404 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 2: But everybody and we won all of them, so everybody 405 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 2: had a really good time, right, And you know it's funny, 406 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: I'm sitting here talking. I'm not even realizing. 407 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 3: When I was with the Patriots we made the Super Bowl. Yeah, 408 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 3: I'm not even realizing. And obviously, you know what little 409 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 3: CJ was there, My daughter was there, the mom, Grandma, 410 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 3: no g Grandma, grandma, grandma, Yeah she was. 411 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 2: She wasn't able to travel at that point. No mom. 412 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 3: You know, me and Mom, we didn't see. We weren't 413 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 3: seeing eyed eye during that time. You know, her and 414 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 3: I have a whole Listen. There's a reason we call 415 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 3: a hurricane, Paula. You know, that's the reason we call 416 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 3: it that. So we weren't seeing eyed eye during during 417 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 3: that time. And you know, it wasn't much. 418 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 2: Your kids was there? Two? Three? Maybe maybe three? No, two, 419 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 2: I think it was CJ and G. 420 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: But you had to have somebody to take care of them, 421 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: because hell you couldn't. Yeah, because I had who I 422 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: was seeing, got a practice, you gotta do it. 423 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it during that time. Your girlfriend at the time. 424 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't. I ain't spend nothing close to 425 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 3: what you did. Nothing, nothing close. 426 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: And obviously you have to think you get one, so 427 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: you probably had one hotel room probably. 428 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: Probably that was it. 429 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 3: And then you have to also think, like why is 430 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 3: everybody flying? And you understand I wasn't the same Chad 431 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 3: that we used to seeing. So it ain't like I'm 432 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: forna come out here and be god there, maybe have 433 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 3: an opportunity to win goddamn m VP of this damn 434 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 3: super like. So let' let's slow down a little bit, 435 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 3: talk about what I'm coming to watch you play? Well, ship, 436 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 3: I ain't do nothing do in the regular seats. I'm 437 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 3: not sure you're expecting this one goddamn game. So yeah, 438 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 3: it kind of didn't make sense, you know, full effect, 439 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 3: and when I look at it in ninsight, so I 440 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 3: mean it was cool, but I ain't spend nothing like that. 441 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:52,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, And so the thing was, oh Joe, I ended 442 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 1: up like for the flight because I didn't have all like, 443 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: I only used one one seat on the plane, so 444 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: I didn't. Well, I had a friend my name was 445 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: Sharing and she did everything for me. She cleaned the house, 446 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: she did all the shopping, she did all the washing, 447 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 1: and rest her soul. That was my dog Sharon. I 448 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: could come. She was like my aunt and she had 449 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 1: her face, was her credentials. He could go anywhere in 450 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: the stadium and they had to show no ID. They 451 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: let her in the stadium. 452 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 2: They knew were good. 453 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: She's sharing people. She good, her and her daughter. I 454 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: got them on the plane. I got them. I got 455 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: them tickets. So but other than that, and then for 456 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: the most part, I ended up giving my seats away. 457 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: Go hey, bro, you need he I got you know 458 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: you got X amount of seats. Hey, go ahead, bro, 459 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: I ain't got nobody. I ain't flying my family, my 460 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: family flying straight to the game. I ain't flying my 461 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 1: family here to put them on some plane because when 462 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: they leave San Diego, I already know my sister and 463 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: my mom gonna want to go straight home. They're not 464 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: gonna want to go to Denver, and they're not gonna 465 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: have to know. So I flew them straight home. But 466 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 1: it was a great experience. We won all three games. 467 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: That made it even sweeter. You know, Uh, the kids 468 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: had to go, you know, they their mom. The kids 469 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: was down for a little while because you know, we 470 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: had a party. Obviously, when you win the game, you 471 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: have a party afterwards, right, you know, you have a 472 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 1: little party. Then obviously. You know, my mom tell the 473 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: kids upstairs. Me and my sister stayed down a little while. 474 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 1: Then me and you know, hey, you know, I had 475 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 1: to say, hey, super Bowl, I want we got to 476 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: take the covers. 477 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 3: Dog wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait 478 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 3: now let's let's let's rewind a little bit. I need 479 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 3: better context on who you're shaking the covers with during 480 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 3: this time. Is there somebody specially like a girlfriend? 481 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the girl? 482 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, because wait a minute, wait wait wait wait, 483 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 3: stay with me, now, you one you want? 484 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 2: You got three super Bowl rings? I got three super 485 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 2: Bowl ring. So did you have a different girlfriend for 486 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,160 Speaker 2: the super Bowl? 487 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: Well, the second super Bowl, I didn't have eight girl, 488 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: I didn't have anybody, but you had somebody come in though. 489 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I didn't, No no, I didn't. No, okay, okay, 490 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: no I didn't. 491 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: So you first to have a girlfriend, and the and 492 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: the last I had a girlfriend, and and the first 493 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: super Bowl my girlfriend at the time, and she was 494 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: amazing and and I got high respect. We're still cool 495 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: today because she was up front. Women say, shann and 496 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,360 Speaker 1: I want to move on. I want to go see 497 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: somebody else. 498 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 2: Oh hell no, she ain't trying my dog like that. Yeah, 499 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 2: he had the audac What do you mean? What you mean? 500 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 2: I mean how many times if you told a girl 501 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 2: you not you want to move on? Never? 502 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 3: Everybody left me, everybody left you. That's besides the point. 503 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 3: You women need to understand, Shannon Shaw. I'm not a woman, but. 504 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 2: Even I can see the vision of where you're going. No, 505 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 2: even I can see the vision. 506 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: When I can see the vision when you was headed, 507 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 3: you don't want to leave that because look what you 508 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: got Now. 509 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: I'm hell to deal with. 510 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and I'm not going to 511 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: sit here and tell somebody. Yeah, I mean everything that 512 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: looks good. And you see how diligent I am and 513 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: hard hot, hard working I am. But I'm not easy 514 00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: to get along with. 515 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 2: I'm not. I wouldn't tell nobody that life. 516 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: Listen, even even if you're not easy to deal with, right, 517 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 3: everybody come with baggage. You know, it's all about finding 518 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 3: that one person based on the life you want to live, 519 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 3: the willingness to unpack that baggage, unpack that baggage at 520 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 3: the time. Listen, you're a dog and I ain't. I'm 521 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 3: just saying hype of things. If I was a woman, 522 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 3: there's some ship that I don't like about you, but 523 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to just do it. 524 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no no. 525 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 1: You just to baggage, Jojo. I came with more baggage 526 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: than the dew To airline you could be. 527 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 3: That's all right, that's all right, that's all right, because 528 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 3: there's a woman out there that is willing to unpack 529 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: because you Oh sh my bad, I'm bad. 530 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 2: But you're a good dude. A you're good dude. 531 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 3: Listen, you mean well, I have well because when when 532 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 3: somebody needs you, based on the stories, you're gonna always 533 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 3: be there for sure. 534 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 2: If you can always no no, no, no, that's not everybody. 535 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 2: You need to be cool. You need to be cool 536 00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 2: with me. 537 00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 3: That that's what I'm talking about. But but you got 538 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 3: to we come about people you are intimate with. You understand, 539 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 3: if you cool with me, we're gonna always be cool. 540 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 3: Because my number one thing is protect the brand. 541 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 1: I said, because as the brand goes away, Shannon's gonna 542 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 1: go away, and I can't do what you asked me 543 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: to do for you. 544 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 2: So that's number one. You've got to protect the brand. 545 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 1: And so if you cool with me. And like I said, 546 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 1: when them kids came, my mom came. They came on 547 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: a Thursday. My mom, my sister came over. She brought 548 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 1: the kid, They brought the kids. Oh we want to 549 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 1: because that was the last time I was gonna see 550 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: the kids until after the game. 551 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 2: They weren't gonna be running, they weren't gonna be. 552 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna be coming over to the hotel and 553 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: hanging out and doing all that stuff and splashing in 554 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: the pool. 555 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 2: I the festivities and all that other stuff that's for families. 556 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 2: I came down. 557 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 1: My event was gonna happen at six thirty on Sunday night, 558 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: and everybody understood that. And her job, my girlfriend job, 559 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: was to make it as easy as possible on my 560 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: mom and my sister. So when the kids wanted to 561 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: go to a sea world to see share move, don't 562 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: Sandy gonna do? Don't she got me gone, no hesitation. 563 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 1: My mom m doing whatever they want to do. Hey, 564 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 1: you got the keyids right. And so when it came 565 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 1: time for us to go our separate ways, she came 566 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 1: to me like a woman. 567 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 2: I'm good with that. On Joe, I'm good with that. 568 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 2: I see, let me tell you. 569 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 3: I'm telling I'm trying to explain to you why I'm 570 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 3: not good with it because as women, I think women 571 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 3: at times they think that I would be able to 572 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 3: find what it is I have right now or better 573 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 3: if I move on, and I think they don't understand 574 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 3: it's very difficult to find someone like yourself that you 575 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 3: can always count on. Now, there might be some things 576 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 3: that you don't like that we can work through and 577 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: get by, but always having someone you can count on 578 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 3: twenty four to seven, come hillo high water. It's very 579 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 3: difficult to find someone that's loyal. Yeah, a good person. 580 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 2: They're gonna be some issues, you know, we all have 581 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 2: our issues. 582 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm telling you, man, it's it's dangerous, ot 583 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 3: dare and it's real thin. 584 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 2: It's real thin. 585 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 3: I just think the mindset of women at times is like, 586 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 3: you know what, I can find this again because look 587 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 3: I'm pretty, or look at me, I got a shape, 588 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 3: or look at me I got asked. 589 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 2: You know if I've done that. It's quantity. 590 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 3: It's quantity, but quality of what you're looking for is 591 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 3: very difficult to find. And it sometimes women have to 592 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,959 Speaker 3: learn the hard way because they hard headed. For they 593 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 3: thing based on aesthetics and the visual. I'll be able 594 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 3: to find it again. But what comes with that is 595 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 3: the games that women have to deal with women. You're 596 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 3: you're a straight shooter. Yeah, o Jo, it's good to 597 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 3: have a straight shooter. What do you like a Magnum 598 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 3: three fifty seven? 599 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: Do you know how many women I look over because 600 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: I saw something more aesthetically pleasing and I left the 601 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 1: best woman that I had just because I saw something 602 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 1: more aesthetically pleasing. 603 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 2: Now you can't do that. 604 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 1: So that's why I don't get upset when a woman 605 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: comes to me and tell me she wants to go on. 606 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 2: I like the where you put that, not not that 607 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 2: give down. 608 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 3: Okay, I feel a little better now because you done 609 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 3: made the same mistake too. You know what, I feel 610 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:11,919 Speaker 3: a little better, Oh Joe, you I'm just honestly speaking. 611 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 3: You are you made that mistake leaving a leaving a 612 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 3: good woman for something. 613 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 2: That looks better aesthetically and plead. Okay, y okay, okay, okay. 614 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: And so I told I told my girlfriend. I said 615 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 1: I'm not happy. I said I'm miserable in my own home. 616 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: I said, I have a headache all the time, always 617 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 1: do it argue. I said, I want to be with 618 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: somebody else, and I'm gonna go find them. 619 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 2: It ain't not there. 620 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, man, well you know through experience, I 621 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 3: ain't got to tell you nothing. I wasn't gonna I 622 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 3: was gonna sit here in priest to you just you know. 623 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 3: I know it's Sunday, but I don't already know. Oh boy, 624 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 3: come on now, come on now. 625 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: And so like I said, I I've made the mistake, oacho, 626 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: And I'm not perfect, and I don't sit here and 627 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: proclaim to be perfect. And I don't say, you know, 628 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 1: oh all shit, no no, no, no, no, Shanna didn't 629 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: leave everybody. Women have left Shannon Sharp. And that's okay, 630 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: that's that is perfectly okay, right because they made they 631 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: made me better, and they made me look internal at 632 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: some of the blow and I fixed some of them, right, well, 633 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: we got some more to work on. I fixed some 634 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: of them, but like the most dilapidated the buildings, I'm 635 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: still under repair. 636 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 2: And I'm okay with that. Hey that was nice. That 637 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 2: was a bar right there. That was nasty. 638 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 3: Hey, I've been watching this. I've been watching battle rap man. 639 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 3: I've gotten the battle rap, real real, real heavy, and 640 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 3: that was a bar. 641 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,479 Speaker 2: I was a bar that was filthy. 642 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 1: I like that, you know, back of my day when 643 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: I used to write, when I used to write love letters, 644 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 1: O Joe, you know your boy, back of the day. 645 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 2: Without the high school you know, high school, early in college. Yeah, yeah, 646 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 2: junior high you used to write love letters. 647 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 1: Hot like college, uh college and uh like late like 648 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 1: like late high school, early college. 649 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 3: It's how I know you're a good dude. You know, 650 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 3: you know what it takes for a man to be 651 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 3: able to sit down and to put thought in a 652 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 3: sum on paper and. 653 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 2: Use the pen. That is that that's that genuine, that's that. 654 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 3: Notebook type of I'm really I'm really feeling you, and 655 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: I'm going to express my feelings and my thoughts through 656 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 3: paper instead of communicating it. 657 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes because sometimes I could, I could, I could write 658 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: down what I couldn't say to the young lady in person. 659 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 3: It makes it that much easier because now everybody, everybody's 660 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 3: not equipped to be able to say or communicate some 661 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 3: of the things they're feeling and being able to express 662 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: it verbally. It's very difficult at times, especially if it's 663 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 3: someone you just met, you know, you. You kind of 664 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 3: don't want to open up like that and be a 665 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 3: little bit too vulnerable too soon until you understand that 666 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 3: the reciprocation is there. 667 00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, start that thing off. 668 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: You know, time and opportunity presents itself that I take 669 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: this time that I tell you just how special you 670 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: are to me. 671 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 2: You know, I'll tell you what I told you. Hey, bro, 672 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: I like that. I like that. 673 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna put that in. I'm gonna 674 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: put that in my bowl. That's how I'm start my 675 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: vow that my wedding. Yes, so I like that, don't Joe, 676 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: you boy back in the day, oh your band? You know, Hey, 677 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: you and that boy. That's that's why I still can't. 678 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: I can't figure out where they left. 679 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:33,959 Speaker 3: Now. 680 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 2: Guarantee listen, I guarantee this. 681 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 3: I guarantee this, and it's a non but it's not 682 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 3: really disrespect those in your past. I said, I bet 683 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 3: if they look at the review mill, they'll put that 684 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 3: motherfucker in reverse. 685 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 2: I bet that. 686 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 3: I bet if those that left you, if they look 687 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 3: in the review mill, I guarantee you, they put. 688 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,719 Speaker 2: That motherfucker car reverse right now. Well, you know what, Joe, 689 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 2: I had an. 690 00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: Ex today and we had and we hadn't been together 691 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: in twenty five thirty years, and I was just straight 692 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: up with her. And you know, from time to time 693 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: she hit me up. In time to time I hit 694 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 1: her up to check on us, to make sure everything's okay. 695 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: And I said, I said, w how did that start 696 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: it up? I think I said something about I've. 697 00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 2: Known you. 698 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: Thirty five, nineteen eighty seven, thirty seven years. Yes, sir, 699 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: you you've been different places. I've been different places, I 700 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: have different different situations. You've been married. I said, this 701 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: is what I know for one hundred certainty, for categorically, 702 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: for certainty. 703 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 2: I said, other men's might have had your body, but 704 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 2: I've always had your heart. Come on, give me the bars. 705 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 1: Still their text back, saying, as much as I wanted 706 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: to hate you, and I've tried for. 707 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 2: So long, always have my heart. Well I got to 708 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 2: stand up on it. 709 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: But she wasn't telling me anything that I didn't already know. 710 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 1: I know so much, Vitrio. I knew why she put 711 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: so much vitriof towards me and did the things that 712 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 1: she did because you loved me. 713 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I see, Remember I said this in the show 714 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 3: not too long ago. Remember I said this in the 715 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 3: show not too long ago, Phyllis, you're always dealing with somebody, 716 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 3: You always dealing thet woman. She You might have her physically, 717 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 3: but there's a guy from her past. There's a guy 718 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 3: from her past that will always have access. I have 719 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 3: half her mentally up here, no matter what, no matter, 720 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 3: no matter how happy she is. 721 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 2: Remember I told you that. 722 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 3: I told you that, and you just explained the situation 723 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 3: right there. Well, yeah, I'm a wake her ass up 724 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 3: because everybody, everybody got one. Everybody got one. If you're 725 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 3: in the chat women, if you're listening and you just 726 00:33:56,280 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 3: heard the explanation that just told tell me, I lie, 727 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,240 Speaker 3: there's always somebody, even even if they don't reach out 728 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 3: to you, there's always somebody. 729 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I remember the first time a woman 730 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,919 Speaker 1: actually took me on vacation. It was her. I said, 731 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: I said, I ain't took you. Yes, let that go 732 00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: Saint the Virgin Isle of Saint Thomas. I said, baby, 733 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: I ain't got I said, baby, I ain't got no money. 734 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 1: I said, I ain't got no money. She said, I 735 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: got this hotel, food, I ain't pay for nothing. That's 736 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: the one all all I was was a plumber for 737 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: the whole weekend. Hey, young, that's all I was that 738 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: when you playing quart a five dollar hour, Yeah, that's 739 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 1: all you playing for plumbing service on THEO because you know, 740 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I ain't hadn't been. I 741 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: hadn't been out of the country. I mean I don't 742 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 1: Thomas is theoretically side of the continental. But anyway, I 743 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 1: hadn't been nowhere. 744 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 2: Old Choe. Yeah, she put it on. 745 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,400 Speaker 3: Hey, it ain't too many like that, now hold on, 746 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 3: let me let me, let me let so you can 747 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 3: see my head. Now, ye ain't too many like that. 748 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 3: That's gonna pay for you. That really got you because 749 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 3: you know women they looking for provider. 750 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 2: We know what that means. We know that's cold far Yeah, 751 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 2: I say, but like. 752 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: I said, look, I've been in situations and and seemingly 753 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 1: what I had wasn't enough, and and I think the 754 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 1: thing is now is being able to accept enough, right right, 755 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,879 Speaker 1: so at least appreciating what you gotta have. But back 756 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,240 Speaker 1: but you know, oh, show you back then. I'm nineteen 757 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Yeah, yeah, yeah, YEAHA man, please you. 758 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 3: Listen when you're young is one of the things that 759 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 3: that that is going to get the younger generation as well. 760 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 3: It's always thinking that I can always get better and 761 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 3: I could always attain better. And you know what, all 762 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 3: that goal or all that glitters ain't going because the 763 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 3: higher up you go, and women love to say this 764 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 3: is well, women love to say, oh, I'm gonna get 765 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 3: a man with a bigger bag, or I'm gonna get 766 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 3: a man that's richer than you. I'm gonna get somebody 767 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 3: that looks better than you. But always understand what comes 768 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 3: with that. There's always pros and. 769 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 2: Cons to everything. 770 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 3: As you continue to want to climb the ladder and 771 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 3: whatever it is that you do or whatever it is 772 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 3: you're trying to attain, there's always a con and a 773 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 3: bad side to it. Yes, outside of the pleasing aesthetics 774 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 3: that we're used to seeing. And the question is we 775 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 3: don't we were stuck in the now. We don't think 776 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 3: long term? But nothing, Yeah, we don't think long term? 777 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 778 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: I bet, like I said, don't you I look back 779 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 1: and I said, man, what was I I mean, I 780 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: have my moments because I spend a lot of time 781 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 1: alone just men and the dogs, and I'm all alone 782 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,879 Speaker 1: in my thoughts and I go back and I'm paying 783 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 1: over the course of thirty five forty years of my. 784 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 2: Life and saying. 785 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,719 Speaker 1: That was that there they have been, Like, honestly, I 786 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: can honestly say there have been free free mm hmm, 787 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 1: that I should that that no question should have been 788 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: miss mister Sharp, no question. 789 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 3: We all got the Okay, well you So if you 790 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 3: were someone that asked you the question, do you have 791 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,359 Speaker 3: somebody in your life? 792 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 2: You know what? 793 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 3: Damn she was the one that got away. So you 794 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 3: got three of those? Yeah, you got three of them? Okay, okay, 795 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 3: and that you know, that's that's dope. That you could 796 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 3: be honest about that too. 797 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 2: Oh for sure. That's that's real dope because a. 798 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 3: Lot a lot of people would be like, ah, nah, 799 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 3: I don't need nobody from my past. They are ex 800 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 3: for they are ex for a reason. But there are 801 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 3: there are some good people that we have lost we 802 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 3: left behind. Yeah, the due the circumstance, whether it be pride, 803 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,839 Speaker 3: whether it be ego, or feeling that we could find 804 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 3: better than that. 805 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 2: And most of the time we're not successful in doing so. 806 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I and and and actually one of them 807 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:54,799 Speaker 1: was the one that played that Michelle and dego Cello song, Oh, okay, okay, 808 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: But I remember she told me this early in our relationship, 809 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 1: and she said, Shannon, and I remember her and I 810 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: was having a conversation. She said, says, Shannon, You're the 811 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: worst thing that's ever happened to me. And I'm looking, 812 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, what y'am? She says, Shanna, I'm never going 813 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: to meet a man like you. I'm not gonna meet 814 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:18,240 Speaker 1: somebody as disciplined, as hard working, as funny, as driven, 815 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: as motivated. She says, I'm not gonna meet that. She says, 816 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: I know, she says, Shannon, I know that. She says, 817 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:30,919 Speaker 1: I know you was a lifetime man. But she says, 818 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 1: I also know you're not ready for what I'm ready for. 819 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 1: She says, I I will take it. I will take 820 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 1: it for what it's worth. I'm gonna have, I'm gonna have, 821 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna have as much fun. But she says, I 822 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 1: know it's gonna stop. She said, because you're not ready 823 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: for what I'm ready for. 824 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 3: Now, say you know what when you when you when 825 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,240 Speaker 3: you talk like that, and based on what you're saying, 826 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,479 Speaker 3: I notice is the older woman, This is a seasoned woman. 827 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 2: This was someone that was that type of maturity. Yes, yes, 828 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 2: oh Joe, Now you talk about look here talking like that. 829 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 2: Oh she was. I mean when I think. 830 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 3: Everything, everything you just said sounds like a season vet 831 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 3: that don't want to play no more games. 832 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 2: That was done with the game. I'm not sticking around 833 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 2: for him to change. 834 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 1: Where I was in my life. Yeah, and what I 835 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 1: had going on, Yeah, it was just I wasn't ready 836 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 1: for what she could offer, and she was. When I 837 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,759 Speaker 1: say she, look I'm talking about said, there's only been 838 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 1: a hand I've had women that I can have conversation 839 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 1: with and we laugh and we talk. And there's one 840 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: right now that's that's that's really special. And I've really 841 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 1: never had the chemistry with her with with someone else 842 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,240 Speaker 1: like I've had with her. But she's in a different situation. 843 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 1: She's in her situation and I'm happy for and I 844 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: wish them the best of love. But this situation that 845 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking about old Joe right right right, I'm talking about. 846 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 2: Laughing and talking and just carrying on. 847 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 1: I mean, get on the phone and we could talk 848 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: hours and all we do is talk about and it's nothing. 849 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 1: You know, we're cracking jokes, we're making fun uh. We 850 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 1: go to a restaurant and I asked her that we 851 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 1: go in there. It's like okay, And I was like, 852 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,840 Speaker 1: excuse me, will you guys let me bring my horse in? 853 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: And I point to her and she just and she 854 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: just busts out laughing, right right, right, right right. And 855 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 1: so we start to order, and she was like, I 856 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: noticed you don't have any oats and apples on the menu. 857 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 1: And she points and they look at it like, yeah, 858 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: you know, I got my horse sitting over here, and 859 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 1: he likes olds and apples, So yeah, is fun. Yeah, yeah, 860 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 1: it's fun. She said, she's sending me a text and 861 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,280 Speaker 1: said the Kentucky Derby said that your entry was denied 862 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: and you're not. 863 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,360 Speaker 2: Gonna be able to run this year, you know, stuff 864 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:03,320 Speaker 2: like that. Old Joe so right, Oh I wasn't ready oyo. 865 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,399 Speaker 3: I was, yeah, well, I'm based on what you're telling me, listen, 866 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 3: it sounds like the perfect story. 867 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,359 Speaker 2: But I guarantee you during this time, you were still 868 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,479 Speaker 2: playing oh. 869 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I had just I had just started, yeah, 870 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 1: to get into my own now all of a sudden, know, yo, 871 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: I'm a this was I'm a two time, three time 872 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: first team All Pro I've gone to like three consecutive 873 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 1: Pro Bowls thousand yard seasons. Now I'm John elway'sgo two guys. 874 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:39,759 Speaker 1: I'm now I'm really very good about myself, right. 875 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 2: I know what you I know what you mean. I 876 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:41,719 Speaker 2: know what you mean. 877 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 1: So you know, hey, if she think I look good, 878 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody else think that too. And that's the 879 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,879 Speaker 1: mistake I made. That was just mistake I made. 880 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 881 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 3: God, as you know, I could see the chat. Somebody 882 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,880 Speaker 3: just somebody just said I'm dressed like beetlejuice. And this 883 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,320 Speaker 3: is this is this is somebody said, I'm just like 884 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 3: beetlejuice and really not understanding of who I'm wearing. Tell me, 885 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:06,879 Speaker 3: tell me, do me a favor. 886 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 1: What's the name on the back of this, just for 887 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 1: the people in check get it better understanding on culture swines. 888 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: That's that's Naymark Jr. The great Brazilian. Yeah. 889 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is the Club Santos where he played at 890 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 3: in Brazil before he made it to I like. 891 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 2: To call the big leagues. This guy here, it's about it, 892 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,799 Speaker 2: dressed like beetlejuice. O Cho. 893 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 1: We got some news and that's gonna probably take over. 894 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: And I'm sure Patrick Mahomes is gonna be asked about it. 895 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,359 Speaker 1: Patrick Mahoons Senor was addressed and charged with his third 896 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: d w I, third or more dw I. Mahomes Senior 897 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: was arrested on DWI charges multiple times over the last 898 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: twelve years twenty twelve, twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, and a 899 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: recent rest over the weekend. Mahomes was arrested for his 900 00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 1: second driver while intoxicated charge in twenty eighteen. Sir forty 901 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: days sentence and he served those over the weekends. The 902 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: news come a week before his son takes the field 903 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 1: in Super Bowl fifty eight. How do you expect young 904 00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 1: Patrick to handle this distraction? 905 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 3: I mean, this is this is this is this is 906 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 3: not a distraction. This is not a distraction. It's something 907 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,640 Speaker 3: that's he's dealt with before. His father has had two 908 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,280 Speaker 3: other issues and it hasn't affected his play on the field. 909 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:29,480 Speaker 2: And when it comes to they're going to ask him, 910 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 2: you know, media day, Oh. 911 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he know he ain't paying that no mind. 912 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 3: You know, ain't paying that no mind even if they 913 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 3: do ask him. We talk about a two time Super 914 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 3: Bowl champ, one that will never be rattled, that's been 915 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:42,480 Speaker 3: in the highest of situations. 916 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 2: He'll be fine. He'll be fine again. 917 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 3: It's unfortunate, especially for your father, to to not learn 918 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 3: from the past two times. That's what mistakes make, and 919 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,279 Speaker 3: as a father, I would think you would at this point. 920 00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 3: You want to get an uber. You want to get 921 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,040 Speaker 3: uber if you're inee braated, if you're drinking, if you 922 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 3: assume an alcohol, if you're out somewhere, don't even drive yourself. 923 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 2: Have a driver. 924 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 3: Obviously, you have a son that we already know that 925 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 3: is completely well off. Talk to your son, Pat, have 926 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 3: a talk with dad. Listen, Pops. If you want to 927 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 3: go out, if you want to have fun, let me 928 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 3: get a car service for you, let me get a 929 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 3: driver for you. That's really nothing, you know. To make 930 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 3: sure issues of this extent don't happen again. I think 931 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 3: that's something that they should do going forward so they 932 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 3: don't have to deal with this again, because obviously it's 933 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 3: sustained on the family and it's going to affect It's 934 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 3: not going to affect Pat on the field, but off 935 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 3: the field, having to deal with the media, having to 936 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 3: deal with the scrutiny, having to deal with everyone in 937 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 3: their personal family business. 938 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:43,400 Speaker 1: It's a bad Look, any time someone in the family 939 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: becomes more prominent, high profile, everybody have to move differently, 940 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,720 Speaker 1: Patrick Mahoone Senor your son is Patrick Mahomes Junior. 941 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,320 Speaker 2: You can't move the same way you once could. You 942 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 2: just can't. 943 00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,200 Speaker 1: Oh yo, I understood that my brother now was Erling 944 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,279 Speaker 1: Sharp and he's the seventh pick in the NFL draft 945 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 1: of the Green Bay Praca. 946 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 2: All that strifle and stuff that I wanted. 947 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: To do, oh that I was doing before, I couldn't 948 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:13,799 Speaker 1: do it anymore because they're gonna say the younger brother 949 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 1: of All Pro packer receiver Sterling Shark, Shannon Shark, was 950 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 1: arrested or come home, Patrick mahone Senior. Yeah, yeah, I 951 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,560 Speaker 1: mean clearly he has an issue. I mean there's no 952 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 1: other way around it. And I hope he hopefully he 953 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:33,280 Speaker 1: gets that resolved and not not put himself because he lucky. 954 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: Because remember Andy Reed's son had a dw I three 955 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: days before the Super Bowl fifty five crashing his crashing 956 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: into a broken down car on the roadside and the 957 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,959 Speaker 1: crash left a five year girl in a carlla for ten. 958 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 2: Days and he was permanently disabled. My goodness, And. 959 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 1: So you you like I said a lot of times 960 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 1: people think, well, oh, it just it was just the 961 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,399 Speaker 1: d nobody was hurt, right, But I mean the times 962 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 1: have we heard situations where people was hurt. Henry Ruggs alcohol, 963 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: driving at a high rate of speed, slams into a 964 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: car doing over one hundred and twenty miles an hour. 965 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:17,000 Speaker 1: She's dead, his NFL career, he's in jail. Yeah, let 966 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:22,240 Speaker 1: her little involuntary manslaughter, ram ram Let little Yes from Florida, 967 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 1: from Florida. Yes, I made alahamicide. Dante did Dante Stalwart. 968 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 2: I mean, I forgot. I don't even remember these situations. 969 00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 970 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,400 Speaker 1: I just had that put himself in that situation. He 971 00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,320 Speaker 1: put himself in it. He put himself in that situation. 972 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,839 Speaker 1: And like you said, oh show. But here's the thing, 973 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: oh Joe, you and I you and his dad was 974 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 1: a professional athlete. The one thing about athletes is that 975 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 1: we don't think it's gonna happen to us what has 976 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:57,960 Speaker 1: already happened twice. So you can't you can't be thinking 977 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: like that it's already happened twice. Yes, you think you're 978 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 1: thinking invincible based on the situation and the circumstance that 979 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: you're in now, Pat Mahomes, where if I am if 980 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 1: someone does stop me, you know what if you're slapped 981 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:09,399 Speaker 1: on the wrist. 982 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,920 Speaker 2: Listen, mister Mahomes Senior. You can be out here driving 983 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 2: like that. Okay, they let you go. You can get it. 984 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 3: You can get away with a lot of things based 985 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 3: on who your son is right now, But you're run 986 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,319 Speaker 3: into that one officer, right that one officer who wants 987 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 3: that credit. He wants to be you know, the talk, 988 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,920 Speaker 3: the talk of the town in the department. But were 989 00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 3: you the one that they're looking for that? But again, 990 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,440 Speaker 3: there's a problem that he might have. But there's a 991 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 3: there's a solution to it. 992 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, yeah, hey, look if my and my dad, 993 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: my dad was a was an alcoholic, but had he 994 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: been alive, yeah, to see me and my brother play, 995 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 1: you could have tried to get him out. 996 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 2: But if he couldn't, Hey, hey, dad, they're a car. 997 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 2: You don't drive? 998 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,400 Speaker 1: You got a car, but don't you Because I'm a 999 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: spitting image of my dad. I looked just I looked 1000 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,800 Speaker 1: just like my dad. But and I'm gonna have somebody 1001 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,759 Speaker 1: with it now. I'm gonna fire your ass if you 1002 00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,200 Speaker 1: let my daddy get behind the wheel real. Yeah, yeah, 1003 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 1: your responsibility is to make sure he gets too in 1004 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 1: front you driving. 1005 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,279 Speaker 3: M But listen, the funny thing is, I have a 1006 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 3: little experience when it comes to having a parent that 1007 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 3: that love, that likes to drink, that loves to drink. Obviously, 1008 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 3: on my end, you know, it wasn't she didn't like 1009 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,200 Speaker 3: to drink and drive at the same time, but she 1010 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,239 Speaker 3: would drink and it would affect our relationships. 1011 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:35,360 Speaker 2: So you know you asked me earlier. 1012 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,399 Speaker 3: You know, with your mom at the super Bowl, for hell, 1013 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 3: it was hard to deal with her and be around 1014 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 3: her more than goddamn two or three goddamn hours because 1015 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,880 Speaker 3: of her consumption of alcohol. 1016 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,840 Speaker 2: And for those that don't know, we did. 1017 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 3: Matter of fact, just to give a small a small 1018 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 3: glimpse of you never met my mama. I think the 1019 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 3: world got a chance to see who she was and 1020 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,800 Speaker 3: see what I had to deal with my mom and I. 1021 00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,920 Speaker 3: She was an alcoholic. She drunk a lot, drunk a lot, 1022 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 3: you know, to the point where my grandma is. You know, 1023 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,719 Speaker 3: my grandma raised me for that specific reason. Obviously, I 1024 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 3: can tell y'all because we're all family. The drug use, 1025 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 3: the alcohol and abuse in it, so my grandma was like, listen, 1026 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 3: you leaving this little boy here with me and you 1027 00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 3: can go ahead, and my mom moved off to La. 1028 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,920 Speaker 3: That's how I ended up at Centemonic, right, Okay, back 1029 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:24,359 Speaker 3: to the story. So dealing with her is she would 1030 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 3: always consume alcohol, and this might be one of the 1031 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,360 Speaker 3: reasons why I never drink. She would always consume alcohol, 1032 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 3: and then she would become someone I didn't even know. Right, 1033 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,320 Speaker 3: she would become someone I didn't even know, and I 1034 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,360 Speaker 3: couldn't quite understand why you're always angry. You can't be 1035 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,440 Speaker 3: angry at me because I didn't do anything wrong. But 1036 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 3: then my grandma always having to explain to me, baby, 1037 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 3: this is what happens when she drinks boom along with 1038 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 3: other things. So I kind of empathize in a sense 1039 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,920 Speaker 3: with pat because I was still able to play regardless 1040 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 3: what was going on in my personal life and dealing 1041 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 3: with her. 1042 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,280 Speaker 2: Right, So it's like it's. 1043 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 3: Crazy and one of the reasons she got the name 1044 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 3: Hurricane Paula because when she does alcohol, she becomes just that. 1045 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 2: It's a hurricane, right, It's a hurricane. 1046 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,320 Speaker 3: And we had we had a funny, funny thing with 1047 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 3: friends of mine throughout the years, you're really not a 1048 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,799 Speaker 3: friend of mine, or you ain't been around long enough. 1049 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,279 Speaker 3: If you haven't been cursed out by my mama, if 1050 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 3: you ain't been cursed out by mama, you aren't really 1051 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 3: a friend of mine because you ain't been around long enough. 1052 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 2: My kids got it. I got it. 1053 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 3: Anybody I dated got it, my coaches got it, my 1054 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,480 Speaker 3: friends got it, everybody, my teachers got it, everybody. And 1055 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 3: it was hard to even have her around important events 1056 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:41,000 Speaker 3: because I boy listen my mama, and I wanted to 1057 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,560 Speaker 3: help my mama the same way I'm sure Pat wants 1058 00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 3: to help his dad. So I say, you know what, 1059 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 3: the opportunity to present itself. Well, not only we can 1060 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 3: we can make a little money. I can get you 1061 00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,400 Speaker 3: some change, but we're gonna go on the show with 1062 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 3: some doctors. We did marriage boot Camp and chat. If 1063 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 3: you haven't seen Marriage boot Camp. Family addition, between me 1064 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,360 Speaker 3: and my mom watched that. When you get some and 1065 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 3: you'll understand who she really was, because you know, most 1066 00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 3: of the time you had FEL members going camera and 1067 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 3: they put on and be someone that they're not. 1068 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,840 Speaker 2: They put on their representative because the world is watching. 1069 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 2: Me and my mom went on that show. 1070 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 3: The whole point was to try to mend our relationship 1071 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,800 Speaker 3: and find a way to make things work because and 1072 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,320 Speaker 3: figure out what's wrong with her past. They offered places 1073 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 3: she can go, They offered the rehab. Every morning she 1074 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 3: woke up, what's the first thing you think she would 1075 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 3: have gotten to drink? Something to drink, and they purposely 1076 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 3: allowed her to drink and drink and drink, and un man, 1077 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 3: that woman stole the show. That woman stole the show. 1078 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 3: And obviously I let people that want to go back 1079 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,359 Speaker 3: and watch it and see who Hurricane Paula was. Cust 1080 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 3: everybody out on the show, cust out the producers, cust 1081 00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,280 Speaker 3: out the cast mates, and we didn't end up finishing 1082 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,240 Speaker 3: the show because she cussed everybody out. She cussed everybody 1083 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:59,319 Speaker 3: out and left the show before it ended. And from 1084 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 3: that point on, with me trying to help, there was 1085 00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 3: really nothing I could do because she wasn't even trying 1086 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,719 Speaker 3: to help herself. And maybe my mama passed. She just 1087 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 3: passed in twenty twenty one, which you think she died from. 1088 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 1: M probably scoliosis, hard soorrosis, not scoliosis sorosis. 1089 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 3: Alcohol poisonous YEP, alcohol poisoning and so that's that's just 1090 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 3: the story with pat and it kind of resonated to 1091 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 3: me in a sense, not to the sense of her 1092 00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,359 Speaker 3: getting in trouble and arrested, but dealing with someone who 1093 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,800 Speaker 3: liked to consume alcohol and there's really no way to 1094 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 3: control it. Even when you try to get him help them, 1095 00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:35,319 Speaker 3: they just they just won't listen. 1096 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1097 00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: I don't understand why people like giving up control like that, Ojoe. 1098 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think for us, especially like me, 1099 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 1: I gotta be in control. I don't like you knows. 1100 00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,840 Speaker 1: I can only say There's been one time that I 1101 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: kind of lost control, but I was able to regain it, 1102 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: and that was the Lakers situation at that game. But 1103 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 1: I don't like being out of control, Lojo, right, are you. 1104 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 2: You think you think you was? I was like, nah, yeah, 1105 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:02,759 Speaker 2: I'm glad drink. No, I wouldn't drink hell now, So 1106 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 2: you were good? Yeah I was a hood Yeah yeah, 1107 00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,040 Speaker 2: no I wasn't. No, no, no, no no. 1108 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,399 Speaker 1: That's that's one of the reasons, you know, I think 1109 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,399 Speaker 1: because my father was an alcoholic also, and he ended 1110 00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 1: up he ended up having both jawbones removed, ended up 1111 00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: having a he ended up dying at when I was 1112 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 1: thirteen years of age, and uh, I saw him once 1113 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,399 Speaker 1: to actually know who I was looking at. I saw 1114 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: him when I was in I think the first the kindergarten, 1115 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 1: first grade. I saw him in first grade. And the 1116 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 1: next time I saw him, he didn't know I was 1117 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 1: looking at him. His face was like a looking glass. 1118 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,600 Speaker 1: I was just looking down and staring at him, and 1119 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,920 Speaker 1: he didn't. He didn't look nothing like the man that 1120 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,800 Speaker 1: I remember seeing all those years ago. But that's what 1121 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:44,800 Speaker 1: the drinking had done to him. That's what the surgery 1122 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,719 Speaker 1: of having both of his jaw bones removed, and why 1123 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: he didn't want to come because he said told my grandma, 1124 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 1: grandma child, that he didn't want his kids to see 1125 00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,400 Speaker 1: him in this kind of condition. Okay, okay, but what 1126 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 1: he didn't realize. I just wanted to see my father. 1127 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 1: It wasn't the conditions. It was the that I wanted 1128 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 1: to see and what I would give to have if 1129 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 1: I could just have him and my grandfather, Barney Porta, 1130 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,600 Speaker 1: the one that raised me and him, just just to 1131 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 1: see see what me and my brother became, just for 1132 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 1: one day right now that it Yeah, I would love 1133 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: to see years and years, but just for one day. Yeah, 1134 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:27,959 Speaker 1: to see what me and my brother became. That would 1135 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,760 Speaker 1: probably be that would top any day, any. 1136 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,000 Speaker 2: Day Pro Bowl, Hall of Fame. 1137 00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:39,560 Speaker 1: This for them to see that, because I remember my 1138 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,880 Speaker 1: grandfather and my grandmother was because remember I told you, 1139 00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 1: o Joe, my grandfather and grandmother didn't see sleep in 1140 00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,279 Speaker 1: the same bed. My grandfather and my brother slept over here, 1141 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 1: and me and my grandmother slept over there, and they 1142 00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: were having a conversation, and they they thought we were 1143 00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: all out of sleep. 1144 00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 2: I wasn't. 1145 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:55,879 Speaker 1: This had to be about two o'clock in the morning. 1146 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 1: We didn't have a clock in the room, so I 1147 00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,879 Speaker 1: couldn't tell you, but I'm assuming it's probably around two 1148 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: oclock in the morning. And I remember him saying so vividly. 1149 00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: He said, Mary, he said, I might be dead and gone, 1150 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:11,240 Speaker 1: but them boys gonna make something. He said, They're so smart, 1151 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,399 Speaker 1: they so attentive. They don't give us. 1152 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 2: No back talk. They don't talk back. 1153 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, man, do you understand the punishment 1154 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,520 Speaker 1: and the rap that would rain down? And we were 1155 00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 1: afraid to talk back. But he said, he said, and 1156 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 1: he said that young one, he said, Mary, that boy 1157 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:34,400 Speaker 1: remember everything. He because we were we we was our 1158 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,440 Speaker 1: dad's were our grandfather's no path because you know, back then, 1159 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:38,960 Speaker 1: oh chi, I ain't nobody had no say, had no 1160 00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 1: cell phone. So somebody told you their number. You just 1161 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 1: had to remember it. My grandfather, somebody would tell my 1162 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:46,840 Speaker 1: grandfather get oh, hey, BARTI you know, I got a 1163 00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,359 Speaker 1: new number, or I got a fuck got a phone 1164 00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,720 Speaker 1: because there by the time didn't have phones. Hey bartiy 1165 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,000 Speaker 1: I got it, I got a number, I got a 1166 00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 1: new phone, I got a phone. Hey, telling to them boys. 1167 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 1: So it was my me and my brother's job to 1168 00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 1: remember the phone number. And I just remember that, and 1169 00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:03,239 Speaker 1: that's up with me. Here I am five six years 1170 00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 1: of age, and he could project into the future thirty year, 1171 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,839 Speaker 1: twenty five years later that them two boys gonna make something. 1172 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 2: Man. That made me so That made me so proud 1173 00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:15,080 Speaker 2: to hear him say that. 1174 00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 1: As I'm going, as I'm playing in high school, as 1175 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 1: I'm playing in college, and I'm playing in the NFL, 1176 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,000 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking back, my grandfather saw this, and so 1177 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:27,719 Speaker 1: to have my dad, my actual dad, and my grandfather, 1178 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 1: if only for one day, to see what I became, 1179 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: even if they don't see me play football, but just 1180 00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 1: see the man that I became because I named my son. 1181 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 1: I named my son after my dad. But man o jo, 1182 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,399 Speaker 1: that was I mean my grandparents and my grandparents didn't. 1183 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,280 Speaker 1: I remember my grandfather got stopped by the state trooper. 1184 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,400 Speaker 1: My grandfather was probably driving one hundred and twenty so 1185 00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:02,160 Speaker 1: got said licensed registration insurance. My grandfather reached in the 1186 00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:05,719 Speaker 1: glove box, handed it to it. He said, uh, mister 1187 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:10,680 Speaker 1: porter said yeah. He said yeah. He said, uh, you've 1188 00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 1: been drinking. My grandfather said yeah, about forty years ago. Boy, 1189 00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,960 Speaker 1: that's before your time, right, He said, yeah, it was, 1190 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 1: mister porter. He said, okay, now I'm gonna need you 1191 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 1: to slow it down. He said, okay, but I think 1192 00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 1: my grandmother said that's why, you know, they started having 1193 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 1: kids and they stopped drinking. And I never obviously did 1194 00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 1: drank communion, but we never had an alcohol in the house. 1195 00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,320 Speaker 1: But just to just to I just would want my 1196 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: grandfather and my dad to see what me and my 1197 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:41,240 Speaker 1: brother became. 1198 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it, you know what that that that's that's dope. 1199 00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,120 Speaker 3: And I always I've never thought about it like that 1200 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 3: because my mom, my mom was around to see, to 1201 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,080 Speaker 3: see all of my success. I would love for to 1202 00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:58,280 Speaker 3: see how far I've come after falling, you know, uh 1203 00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 3: off that mountaintop and the climb that I'm making to 1204 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:07,800 Speaker 3: get back to where I fell from. But I would 1205 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 3: love to see would have been like what our relationship 1206 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,880 Speaker 3: would have been like if she hadn't alcohol. I would 1207 00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 3: love I would love you to be at every event 1208 00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:18,880 Speaker 3: I had. I would love you to be at games. 1209 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:20,959 Speaker 3: I would love you to be at Red Carper stuff. 1210 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:22,240 Speaker 3: I would love for you to travel. I would love 1211 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,200 Speaker 3: for you to go to Pro Bowl, listen to games 1212 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:28,000 Speaker 3: she did go to. She got into it with people 1213 00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 3: and embarrass me. You know, the Red Carper stuff that 1214 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,400 Speaker 3: I did take her to. You know, I got to 1215 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 3: get this drink before I put my clothes on. 1216 00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 2: She embarrassed me. You know. So every time I will 1217 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 2: try to. 1218 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,440 Speaker 3: Bring around those those events where your mother's supposed to 1219 00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 3: be present as a reason on why you here as 1220 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:51,000 Speaker 3: an example of you know, listen, I'd have made you proud. 1221 00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:55,160 Speaker 2: I need you front center, and all those instances, what 1222 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 2: does she do? 1223 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 3: Cut somebody out, put a hands on somebody, and these 1224 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 3: are times, well, these were suable offenses that she's done, 1225 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 3: and people kind of understood based on Okay, you know what, 1226 00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 3: I don't think that's really her. I think the fact 1227 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:10,720 Speaker 3: that she is consumed alcohol because you can spell it 1228 00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:12,600 Speaker 3: along with other things. 1229 00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,360 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna I'm not I'm not gonna go there. 1230 00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 2: There's no point for that. 1231 00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,240 Speaker 3: But you know, I got off a lot, and I 1232 00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,479 Speaker 3: think that's probably why I've never had alcohol before. 1233 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:21,680 Speaker 2: And a lot of people don't believe me. A lot 1234 00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 2: of people perception when you see the person oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 1235 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 2: yeah yeah. 1236 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,720 Speaker 3: No, people think I'm wild. They think I club because 1237 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 3: they let that on field persona that I put on. 1238 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,360 Speaker 3: But that want but a character I'll feel. I'm nothing 1239 00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 3: like that, nothing like that. But that's enough for that far. 1240 00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:42,960 Speaker 3: I started crying like a little girl