WEBVTT - Karen Drijanski & Eduardo Plaschinski

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 1>In two thousand and eighteen, I found myself living in

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<v Speaker 1>Mexico City for four months. My regular world of London work,

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<v Speaker 1>family and friends became irregular as I was unexpectedly thrust

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<v Speaker 1>into a city with new people, new language, and definitely

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<v Speaker 1>new food. Then one day someone suggested we meet at Nido,

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<v Speaker 1>a small restaurant recently opened by Karen Dujonsky and her

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<v Speaker 1>son Eduardo Pleshinsky. From that morning everything changed. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to Niedo almost every day, always to be greeted with

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<v Speaker 1>a strong embrace from Karen, who would then go back

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<v Speaker 1>to her kitchen and cook me the best Mexican food,

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<v Speaker 1>eggs Mexicana and cettos, tortillas, fresh breads, oatmeal, cheese, omelets, avocado.

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<v Speaker 1>Months later, when it was finally time for me to

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<v Speaker 1>return to London, it had switched around. Karen and Nido

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<v Speaker 1>had become my regular world and it was painful to

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<v Speaker 1>leave them. We emailed and sometimes phoned, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>only two days ago that I returned to Nido and

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<v Speaker 1>Karen for breakfast. In four years, so here we are

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<v Speaker 1>today in a studio. Two good friends back in the

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<v Speaker 1>most beautiful city I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Ruthie, thank you so much. Would you like to read? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And isn't it good to be together? It is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>You always bring tears to my eyes never So you've

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<v Speaker 1>chosen the recipe.

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<v Speaker 2>I've chosen that tlalini with sparagus. So oh, we need

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<v Speaker 2>these five hundred grums of chopped sparagus, four garly clothes, peeled,

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<v Speaker 2>four tablespoons chop mix fresh herbs, one hundred million liters

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<v Speaker 2>of double cream, five hundred grams of unsalted butter, two

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<v Speaker 2>hundred grams of taglarini, one hundred and twenty grams of parmesan.

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<v Speaker 2>Please grate it and this is how you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do it. Trim and finally chop the sparagus. Bring the

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<v Speaker 2>cream to a boil in a saucepan with a garlic,

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<v Speaker 2>and simmer until the clothes are soft. Hiat the olive

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<v Speaker 2>oil and butter in the saucepan and fry half of

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<v Speaker 2>the chopped sparagus. Add the rest of the cream. Bring

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<v Speaker 2>to the boil, then reduce the heat and simmer until

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<v Speaker 2>the cream begins to thicken. Cook the pasta. Add the

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<v Speaker 2>sauce half of the parmesan and tossed together, serve with

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<v Speaker 2>remaining parmesan and a lot of love and a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of love.

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<v Speaker 1>A good recipe. And why did you choose it? All

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<v Speaker 1>the recipes in all our books that I asked you

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<v Speaker 1>to choose, why did you choose this one?

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<v Speaker 2>Care I love sparagus, I love herbs. I like when

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<v Speaker 2>pastas are treated simply, and I adore cream and butter.

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<v Speaker 2>So I thought anyone can do it because you can

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<v Speaker 2>find the ingredients everywhere, and it's something that I do

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<v Speaker 2>very often. From your book.

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<v Speaker 1>In England, we have a very short asparagus season. It

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<v Speaker 1>goes from probably mid May till end of July. What

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<v Speaker 1>is there a season in Mexico?

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<v Speaker 2>Apaus, we can find sparagus throughout the year. Yes, usually

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes they come from here and sometimes they come from California,

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<v Speaker 2>So we find that's you know, it's easy because I

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<v Speaker 2>can find sparagus all the year, and also fresh herbs

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<v Speaker 2>in the parmer market that I go every Sunday. They're amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>They come from Bay.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start at the very beginning, perhaps, which would

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<v Speaker 1>go back to how did your family come to Mexico?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know, it's a very compelling story. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>your grandmother or your great grandmother?

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<v Speaker 2>My grandmother?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me about your grandmother.

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<v Speaker 2>So my Austrian grandmother came from Austria escaping the Second

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<v Speaker 2>World War, and my other grandmother came from Poland way

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<v Speaker 2>before the Second World War. So I had two very

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<v Speaker 2>different upbringings, two very different kitchens, and two very different

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<v Speaker 2>environments for cooking. The Viennese one, the Austrian, was super

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<v Speaker 2>sophisticated because she could purchase and she knew about a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of ingredients. So there was dark, but something very interesting. Ruthie,

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<v Speaker 2>the cook at my grandma's, was an amazing Mexican cook.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I was five and six, as soon as

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<v Speaker 2>I went into her house, I ran into the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't go to the garden. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>go play with the dogs in the garden or with

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<v Speaker 2>the dolls. I wanted to cook my own eggs. Had

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<v Speaker 2>six years at six, so they had a little wooden

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<v Speaker 2>stool for me to go up, and they would say

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<v Speaker 2>can I cook for you the eggs? And said no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll make my own. And since then I do scrumble

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<v Speaker 2>eggs like I did for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day. When you talk about your grandmother who escaped

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<v Speaker 1>to come to Mexico, what was her story.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a very hard and painful story. She lived

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<v Speaker 2>in a very close town to Vienna, who was taken.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they came to get them and kill them all.

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<v Speaker 1>They were a Jewish family.

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<v Speaker 2>He was young. I'm Jewish and my family is Jewish,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm very proud of our traditions like anybody else

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<v Speaker 2>with their own traditions. So we are a Jewish family.

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<v Speaker 2>And her mom saw a diamond inside a hat and

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<v Speaker 2>she explained to my grandma, when they come together us

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<v Speaker 2>and if they kill all, wear the hat and run away.

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<v Speaker 2>They came. They killed everyone except my grandma and my

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<v Speaker 2>grandma's sister. In fact, my grandma saved the sister from

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<v Speaker 2>a camp. So it was an amazing story because my

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<v Speaker 2>grandma was very hard working, and I take the hard

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<v Speaker 2>working part from her since I was very young. She said,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to work, you need to learn how to

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<v Speaker 2>make a living, because that's the experience that she learned,

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<v Speaker 2>and she wanted to pass it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Go back to the story of the diamond and the hat.

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<v Speaker 1>But she saw her family being killed.

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<v Speaker 2>She was spared she quickly went and got the hat.

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<v Speaker 2>She got the hat she wore, and she was how

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<v Speaker 2>old she was? Fifteen? She run away into the.

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<v Speaker 1>Woods with the hat and the diamond.

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<v Speaker 2>Because by with the diamond she could save her life

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<v Speaker 2>and get a ticket to go to America.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was coming not to Mexico, but to a marria.

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<v Speaker 2>She went to New York. Yeah, a family member took

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<v Speaker 2>her while she was trying to make a living, and

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<v Speaker 2>she lived in a garbage bin in New York. In

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<v Speaker 2>New York, in a garbage bin for more than six

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<v Speaker 2>months until she could make it, wadering doing housework, anything

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<v Speaker 2>that would give her a living while finding her sister.

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<v Speaker 2>She did find. You know, it's very interesting, Ruthie, because

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<v Speaker 2>my grandma name was Carlotta Charlotte and her sister was Annie,

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<v Speaker 2>and Annie and my grandma taught me how to cook.

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<v Speaker 2>So once they went to New York, they saw an

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to come to Mexico. And Mexico has been always

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<v Speaker 2>always an amazing place of opportunities. If you work hard

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<v Speaker 2>and you're passionate, there's always opportunities in Mexico. So they

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<v Speaker 2>came to make how old were they then? Okay? So

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<v Speaker 2>my grandma was nineteen or twenty. She was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>find her sister. She didn't save her from the camp,

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<v Speaker 2>from the Holocaust camp, and they came to Mexico and

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<v Speaker 2>the sister started to cook and started to have a

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<v Speaker 2>little restaurant in a Capulco. And my dad had a

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<v Speaker 2>jewelry store and my grandma had a jewelry store in

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<v Speaker 2>a Capulco in the in the coast line of the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>So I worked in the jewelry and in the restaurant

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<v Speaker 2>since I was twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>And your own so that was your grandmother. Your parents

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<v Speaker 1>then were born in Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>The first generation born in Mexico. I'm the second and

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<v Speaker 2>my children are the third. Yes, so yeah, it's an

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<v Speaker 2>amazing story because on the other side, the Polish side, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't suffer the Holocaust. They just came before to find.

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<v Speaker 1>They decided to camp. Why did they chanse Mexico?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think there was a good Jewish community and

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of opportunities. So from Poland to Mexico it

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<v Speaker 2>was a great opportunity. So they came to Mexico, the

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<v Speaker 2>Polish and the Austrian and then mom and dad they

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<v Speaker 2>met here. They were born here and my mom Susanna

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<v Speaker 2>and my dad Muses they met here, they married and eating.

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<v Speaker 1>What did they do? Mom?

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<v Speaker 2>An amazing art dealer? Oh yes, amazing art dealer. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was very lucky to get to know Medida in

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<v Speaker 2>Suynia and Toledo. So they sat at a table always.

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<v Speaker 2>So there was always cooking, an art, cooking and culture,

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<v Speaker 2>cooking and music, cooking and love.

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<v Speaker 1>And where were your grandmothers did they did they live

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<v Speaker 1>near your house?

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<v Speaker 2>Very close? Polanco and Polanca, both in Polanco and I

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<v Speaker 2>could work and the Vienna's grandma. When I was very little,

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<v Speaker 2>I put a little food store outside the house with

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<v Speaker 2>little soapasitos and the supositos were one sent So since

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<v Speaker 2>very young I was cooking and feeding people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, were you ever trained or did you just know?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not supernatural? Like when I was very young, I

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<v Speaker 2>could smell and know what I wanted to put into

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<v Speaker 2>the dishes. I love spices and herbs and products and

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<v Speaker 2>markets and the people who do it, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>very passionate about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And who taught what? Was it your grandparents and the

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<v Speaker 1>Mexican chef that you had cooking for you. The Mexican

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<v Speaker 1>cook that you had in the kitchen, who actually Corney,

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<v Speaker 1>who was Corny Corney, was a very important.

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<v Speaker 2>Figure in my life because my grandma taught her cook

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<v Speaker 2>while she worked. She was a silversmith, so while she

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<v Speaker 2>work a lot, the cook cook a lot, and she

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<v Speaker 2>was taught by my grandma. Was very tough and she

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<v Speaker 2>and Connie was very soft, and she was very sweet,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was an amazing cook. So she was very

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<v Speaker 2>patient with me because she took care of my mom

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<v Speaker 2>when she was pregnant in me when I was born.

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<v Speaker 1>When I interviewed Alfonso Couran, the other Mexican that I

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<v Speaker 1>had on the podcast, he talked very much, and of

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<v Speaker 1>course he made a movie Roma about the role of

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<v Speaker 1>the domestic help in Mexican families, and it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>unique role I think that you had. He said a

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<v Speaker 1>very interesting thing. He said, when Americans made money and

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<v Speaker 1>had greater wealth, they would buy bigger things. They would

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<v Speaker 1>have a bigger kitchen, they would have a bigger car,

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<v Speaker 1>they would have a bigger house, they would have maybe

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<v Speaker 1>two cars. In Mexico and also I think perhaps in Italy,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe in Spain. His opinion was that when people had

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<v Speaker 1>greater wealth. They kept the house the same, the kitchen

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Is very simple. That they had more domestic staff,

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<v Speaker 1>They had more people to work for them, and those

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<v Speaker 1>people became very, very important in the family.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you agree they become your family, They become your

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<v Speaker 2>chosen family. In fact, I have somebody that helps me

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<v Speaker 2>at home and my children for over thirty years, Ruthie.

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<v Speaker 2>So the same with Connie. So Connie became my mom's

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<v Speaker 2>mom because my mom's mom was always working, and Connie

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<v Speaker 2>was the one feeding the kids and taking care of

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<v Speaker 2>their calls and their temperature and their you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>she became almost like my grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was always in Cornie's kitchen and then on

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<v Speaker 2>my Bobber's kitchen. My Jewish Yewish, you know, very interesting Jewish,

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<v Speaker 2>but very different.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you had the Mexican food when your family.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me about life in your household. Your mother was working,

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<v Speaker 1>your father was working, and you had one sister. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the four girls? Four girls? Okay, so we four and

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<v Speaker 1>so what would you'd go to school? And what was

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<v Speaker 1>life like at home? So mum worked and ground my work.

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<v Speaker 2>So at home you would wake up in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>go to school, come back and have an amazing Mexican meal.

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>It was lunchtime. It was two thirty two three, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So dinner in Mexico was light. Lunch is heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>When I lived here, that was one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>I learned, really was that you had well, we had

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<v Speaker 1>big breakfast at Niedo. Then we would have I would

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<v Speaker 1>be in the hospital with my husband, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>would meet for lunch at about four or possibly five,

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<v Speaker 1>have a delicious whatever it was called lunch or early dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that was it. You'd have a piece of

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<v Speaker 1>fruit at ten o'clock or a glass of mescal or

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<v Speaker 1>tequila and then go to bed. So I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful way to eat if you could do

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<v Speaker 1>that and work.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I like because you go to bed very light.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a slice of papaya or watermelon or melon.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very light. But since we have a Mexican food,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you know, Ruthie, you know the rice and

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<v Speaker 2>the fideo and the moorland and chiladas, and that's what

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<v Speaker 2>we ate at home. And then a little bit of baking,

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<v Speaker 2>which was Austrian or.

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<v Speaker 1>Polish, and so you sit down to dinner, everybody ate together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so they would come from work and at three

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<v Speaker 2>everybody was sitting at the table. We had an amazing

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<v Speaker 2>Mexican during the week, and then Sunday was a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit more sophisticated and for Shabba, dinner was always at

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<v Speaker 2>my Polish Grandma, and at sha dinner was very Jewish.

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<v Speaker 2>They filled the fish, mudzables, you know, roasted chicken all that.

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<v Speaker 2>And on Sunday we had a very delicious, amazing lunch

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<v Speaker 2>at my Viennese Grandma, which was dark and then potato

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<v Speaker 2>dumplings filled with apricot in sach and linzert and butter cookies.

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<v Speaker 2>It was all about butter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and better easy to get in Mexico is amazing butter, yeah, interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>amazing butter.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I buy it from a special very small ranch,

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<v Speaker 2>or sometimes I get it from where it comes to bit,

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<v Speaker 2>which is France or Denmark, but produce in Mexico, if

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<v Speaker 2>you know where, we're very lucky. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that there's such an incredible food awareness in

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<v Speaker 1>Mexico City, and I think it can be anything from

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<v Speaker 1>your own restaurants to what you're doing to contram Mar,

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<v Speaker 1>which we went to today, which has probably two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and fifty people in one room and having wonderful you know,

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<v Speaker 1>fish brought to you by waiters who just say yes

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<v Speaker 1>to everything. You know, there's just a wonderful atmosphere to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar that I went to the first night I

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<v Speaker 1>got here, and you had to open what looked like

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of refrigerator door to get downstairs to have

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. It was like prohivision. But it feels on fire.

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<v Speaker 1>The Mexican food scene without being with you know, not

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<v Speaker 1>being fashionable. There's a culture of food here that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so amazed by and moved by.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so important for us. It is so important

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<v Speaker 2>as family together, as friends together, as couples together. So

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<v Speaker 2>fort is a huge part for where are you going

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<v Speaker 2>for breakfast? What are you doing for lunch? Where are

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<v Speaker 2>you having dinner? It's part of our life. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's big because I find that you stop your day

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<v Speaker 2>for those moments and you connect with people in those moments.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you go to restaurants with your family or

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<v Speaker 1>so you did, so you'd have those danielsynth thing and

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<v Speaker 1>then you'd go Friday night Shabad, And then when would.

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<v Speaker 2>You go to Saturday when we're young on Saturday? Have

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<v Speaker 2>you been to that movie. Now it's a very typical

0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:05.520
<v Speaker 2>fish Spanish restaurant in the city center. You have to go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a classic, okay, So from lobster to big shrimp

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<v Speaker 2>to little clams, and it's a very old, beautiful dining room.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll take you next, Nubio. We went to the Nubio,

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<v Speaker 2>We went to La Lanna, We went to Chamselice, which

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<v Speaker 2>was like an amazing restaurant. Food was an eaties a

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<v Speaker 2>huge part of our lives. I have four sisters, So

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<v Speaker 2>wherefore we cook big time?

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<v Speaker 1>And is it regional? I know it is regional, so

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<v Speaker 1>I know the answer to that question. So if you're

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<v Speaker 1>in the Yucutan, you'll be eating something very different than

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<v Speaker 1>you would have perhaps in you know, on the Pacific coast.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're on the Pacific coast, you'll have something

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<v Speaker 1>that's quite different from you know, Mexico City or then

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<v Speaker 1>the Boa, California, Wahaka. So the regionality of food is

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<v Speaker 1>very important in Mexico, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Such a It is because who is from Wahaca is

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<v Speaker 2>very proud from their products and the way they cook

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<v Speaker 2>their chillis. If you go to Puebla, you have a

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<v Speaker 2>certain kind of molley, But if you go to Wahaka,

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<v Speaker 2>you have another morley. Tell me about the two Malays,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they're so different, So listen. In Puebla sweeter.

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<v Speaker 2>In Wahaca is hotter, spicier. And I was just in

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<v Speaker 2>Merida in Casasquila doing an amazing pop up, and I

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<v Speaker 2>went to these amazing markets, Ruthie, I cannot even tell

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<v Speaker 2>you what I found, Like a La masorca.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the corn cob.

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<v Speaker 2>It's burned inside the ground and it's burnt and it's

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<v Speaker 2>brown and it's smoky. And I did pick of thee

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<v Speaker 2>with it, and mal is with it, and you can

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<v Speaker 2>do pastory with it. Then it's very regional.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just tell everyone what malay is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, moley. It's a very thick sauce made with chili nuts,

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<v Speaker 2>tons of spices from cinnamon to chocolate.

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<v Speaker 1>Does all malet have chocolate and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not in Wahaca. Yes, a ton in Pevla. Less in Pevla,

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<v Speaker 2>more sugar, in Wahaca, more chocolate. And then in Wohaca

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<v Speaker 2>you can find more than twenty thirty forty kinds of moley,

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<v Speaker 2>like colorado mariito nero for for pork, for chicken for

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<v Speaker 2>Waholote molay. It's a huge thing. Yeah, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>You love it? And do you cook a certain type?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you make all different Puebla? Yeah, I like it

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<v Speaker 1>mole sweeter.

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<v Speaker 2>And I went to Puebla like two three months ago

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<v Speaker 2>and I got some beautiful pastes from it and I

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<v Speaker 2>just seas in it. And I do it with chicken

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<v Speaker 2>and white rice and tortillas for my kids, with an

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<v Speaker 2>amazing avocado and tomato salad with a cilantro dressing, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so interesting because as an American, my vision of

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<v Speaker 1>what Mexican food was it was so different from the reality.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so refined, it's so subtle and light and about

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<v Speaker 1>the ingredients. The markets have the markets changed in the

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<v Speaker 1>last many years.

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<v Speaker 2>No, there real ones. No, you know, if I go

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<v Speaker 2>to El Mercado in Wohaka and Elmergo Central and Ohaga

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<v Speaker 2>La Central de Bastos, Ruthie, it's the same. It's beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>because it has we make sure we keep it the same.

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<v Speaker 2>So if we go to the old markets and the

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<v Speaker 2>original markets. Yes, if you go to the neighborhoods, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>they come and they want to paint a little bit

0:20:49.359 --> 0:20:51.800
<v Speaker 2>and they take the charm of it. But I was

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<v Speaker 2>in Meridia and I went to three markets, and I

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<v Speaker 2>went to the original market and these one market was

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<v Speaker 2>It took me back one hundred and fifty years ago

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<v Speaker 2>in what way, the way that people dress, the way

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<v Speaker 2>that people talk, the ingredients they had, the way they

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<v Speaker 2>display it, the freshness. It was the same ass one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred years ago. So we keep them. We want to

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<v Speaker 2>keep the tradition. We want to keep We want to

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<v Speaker 2>keep it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know the River Cafe has a shop. It's

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<v Speaker 1>full of our favorite foods and designs. We have cookbooks,

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<v Speaker 1>linen napkins, kitchen were toat bags with our signatures, glasses

0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:44.880
<v Speaker 1>from Venice, chocolates from Turin. You can find us right

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<v Speaker 1>next door to the River Cafe in London or online

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<v Speaker 1>at shop Therivercafe dot co dot uk. We grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in this family that loved food, love to eat to other,

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<v Speaker 1>loved art, loved culture, obviously loved you. What age were

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<v Speaker 1>you when you actually left home this beautiful home.

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<v Speaker 2>Life twenty to get married.

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<v Speaker 1>You were married at age twenty, very.

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<v Speaker 2>Young, super young. I was very in love with love. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I married super young and I cooked that home,

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<v Speaker 2>but I never thought I was going to have a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you have children very soon?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, at twenty five, I had Michelle, then Carlos and

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<v Speaker 2>then and you cooked for them every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have help at doing that?

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<v Speaker 2>In Mexico?

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<v Speaker 1>It's and again you cooked Italian and Mexican, Mexican food

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<v Speaker 1>and the food of the Jewish culture a lot lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a job did you have as a

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<v Speaker 1>graphic designer?

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<v Speaker 2>I started graphic design and I always wanted to work

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. I was like a carrier woman, a

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<v Speaker 2>professional woman. So I said, I have three kids, going

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<v Speaker 2>to have a restaurant. I want to be a full

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<v Speaker 2>time mom. So I had a very big kitchen with

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<v Speaker 2>a big range and a big oven, and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I can have supper clubs. So on Tuesdays I gave

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<v Speaker 2>classes in the morning for twenty people and they were

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<v Speaker 2>always very liked because it was about comfort food with

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<v Speaker 2>a twist. And then at night I had supper clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>We moved to Vancouver. I lived in Vancouver for twelve

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<v Speaker 2>years with three children. With three children, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>huge to work from six o'clock in the morning to

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<v Speaker 2>three when I picked them up and then prepare for

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<v Speaker 2>supper clubs on Thursdays.

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<v Speaker 1>So you came back from Vancouver to Mexico yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>I came back with Eduardo and I started to work

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<v Speaker 2>for a guy that had twelve restaurants and he needed

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that he can really rely on. And then one

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<v Speaker 2>day my kids sat with me and I said, Mom, enough,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you need to do your restaurant. And I

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<v Speaker 2>said what And I said, Mom, do your dream die

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<v Speaker 2>without your dream? And I said no.

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<v Speaker 1>So you started with did you have an investment? How

0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:06.760
<v Speaker 1>did you start?

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<v Speaker 2>I started by partnering with the door of my son,

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<v Speaker 2>because we share the same passion in a very deep, deep,

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<v Speaker 2>deep level. And then from day one I put my intention.

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<v Speaker 2>I found that beautiful old building that bottom part of

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<v Speaker 2>the street tree Line street off reforma between a lane.

0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:34.320
<v Speaker 2>I was, this is precious. And then Carlos invested my son,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we saved a lot of money. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I started coming in at three thirty in the morning

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<v Speaker 2>to prep because I thought it was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>a big supper club.

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<v Speaker 1>Rue it's a very hard business to start because when

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<v Speaker 1>we started, you asked about the River Cafe, and when

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<v Speaker 1>we began, we had accountants for my husband's office. We

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<v Speaker 1>had Rosa worked in a restaurant in New York, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had never worked in a restaurant. And you can

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<v Speaker 1>fail so easily, you know, the dream of having a

0:25:08.640 --> 0:25:11.760
<v Speaker 1>small restaurant, We've seen them, you know, come and go

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:14.720
<v Speaker 1>because you know you don't charge for that cup of coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>You throw away a box of funnel, you forget to

0:25:18.240 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 1>turn over the fridge on. There's so many ways you

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 1>treat your friends to dinners, and so it takes a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of brigger and a lot of business. And did

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<v Speaker 1>you have doubts whether times when in the beginning you

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<v Speaker 1>thought it might not work to do never think that was.

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<v Speaker 2>A very interesting thing. And I knew from the start

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<v Speaker 2>it was going to be amazing. I knew it was

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<v Speaker 2>going to be successful, but successful because what I was

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 2>offering nobody else did. In Mexico. They brought chains, only

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:49.920
<v Speaker 2>chains from the States. They never did their own thing.

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.440
<v Speaker 2>And I was doing my own thing with my son.

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<v Speaker 2>And the story was beautiful. It was a mom with

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<v Speaker 2>a son cooking. But I never thought it was going

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<v Speaker 2>to be as hard as when the veggiets are going

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<v Speaker 2>to arrive and they don't arrive when the gas is off,

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 2>because you didn't think about it was one day going

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<v Speaker 2>to be off. When the water doesn't come in, when

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:14.520
<v Speaker 2>the water doesn't come in, when your help gets sick,

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:18.120
<v Speaker 2>and then you you know. I remember, for the first

0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:21.679
<v Speaker 2>three years I went in a for the first two years,

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:23.840
<v Speaker 2>I went in at four o'clock in the morning. But

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:26.399
<v Speaker 2>I woke up so sure that I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>my dream come true. I never saw the hour or

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<v Speaker 2>the time. I just went to bed, went to take

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<v Speaker 2>a shower, put on my apron, and went to needles.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was really hard, but at the same time

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<v Speaker 2>really rewarding because I was doing what I loved in

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<v Speaker 2>a more professional way. I really want to tell people

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<v Speaker 2>to never ever leave their dreams on the back burner,

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<v Speaker 2>and that sometimes it's hard, but it pays off in

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<v Speaker 2>the in the realization of your passion and just keep

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<v Speaker 2>on doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me what it's like to be a

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<v Speaker 1>partner with your son, Well, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>The most interesting question. This is an amazing question me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you can come and join us if you

0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 1>want to, EDWARDA, Why don't you come on?

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:15.359
<v Speaker 2>Come on? Just come?

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<v Speaker 1>I think in many in many fields of work. You

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:25.080
<v Speaker 1>hear about husbands and wives being partners of working together.

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:29.080
<v Speaker 1>You hear about brothers working together. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>know how is it working together as a team with

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<v Speaker 1>mother and son.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I started front of house and I was

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<v Speaker 3>pretty much waitering tables and seeing people and lots of

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<v Speaker 3>different types of things.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do before? Was this your first restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>you ever worked in?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I worked with who's the chef of Maximo Bistro in

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<v Speaker 3>Mexico City, and I think that pretty much was like

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<v Speaker 3>my PhD in learning how our restaurant works. I had

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely no restaurant experience elsewhere. I went to school for

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<v Speaker 3>hospitality here in Mexico City, but I actually dropped out

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<v Speaker 3>halfway because school was never something for me. So I

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<v Speaker 3>decided to quit my job at Maximo, and together we

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<v Speaker 3>opened the first restaurant, which is the original one in

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<v Speaker 3>the corner. I mean together. We've opened all of them,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's been that first one was really intense because

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<v Speaker 3>we had very little restaurant experience, and so we learned

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<v Speaker 3>day by day. We learned how to manage a team.

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<v Speaker 3>Day by day, you learn how to create an internal culture.

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<v Speaker 3>You learn how to make your processes more efficient. You

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<v Speaker 3>learn how to optimize the business part to it, which

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<v Speaker 3>is fundamental, because if you don't have a good business,

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<v Speaker 3>then you don't have anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how many do you have now?

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<v Speaker 3>Right now we have two cafes and two restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone listening to this coming from New York or

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<v Speaker 1>Paris or you know, Moscow, who knows, what would you

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<v Speaker 1>recommend them to? How would they come to find you

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<v Speaker 1>in Mexico City? Which one would you?

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<v Speaker 3>Which one? It's if you feel like breakfast or lunch,

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<v Speaker 3>I would say go to the original, which is the

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<v Speaker 3>corner on Dres.

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<v Speaker 1>Street where yesterday yes and I would like to describe

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. And I recommend anybody who's listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>that they must come there on their first trip to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if going to the market teaches you about the culture,

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<v Speaker 1>going to Nito teaches you about culture. And these beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>shelves with beautiful objects of Mexico on them and a

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<v Speaker 1>mirror on the ceiling, which reflects being inside or outside.

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<v Speaker 1>You try and think where do I want to sit

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<v Speaker 1>outside on the street with their friends walking past, or

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<v Speaker 1>inside where you feel cozier, but always that sense of

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<v Speaker 1>warmth and delicious, delicious food. You can't just have warmth

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<v Speaker 1>and haveiness, you need to have the rigor of having

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<v Speaker 1>delicious food.

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<v Speaker 2>If you like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very impressed with the younger generation of people here

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<v Speaker 1>in your city. When I was here four years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>there were young people really exploring how to make tequila again,

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<v Speaker 1>how to make mescal again, how to make tamali's again.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, going back with from the the parents maybe

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<v Speaker 1>had the farms, the parents maybe had the alcohol. But

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<v Speaker 1>the younger generation were interested in organic They were interested

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<v Speaker 1>in means of production, they were interested in the ethics

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<v Speaker 1>of the workers. And I thought there was very definitely

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<v Speaker 1>a younger generation who are challenging and excited about what

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<v Speaker 1>incredible ingredients you have and land you have in this

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<v Speaker 1>country to produce great food.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Mexico has everything. We have everything, and people here

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<v Speaker 3>are very creative and very driven. I think, so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>there's opportunity. I always I have a lot of friends

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<v Speaker 3>that live outside of Mexico. And I always say that

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<v Speaker 3>Mexico is the perfect place to be an entrepreneur and

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<v Speaker 3>to start a business and to create, which is what

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<v Speaker 3>you're saying, because it's a lot easier. People are very nice,

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<v Speaker 3>people help you a lot. You're just like in an

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<v Speaker 3>environment where it's easy to flourish, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And did you find any difficulty in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>the male dominated yes, profession and.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially I have to say Mexico it's a very much

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<v Speaker 2>a driven country. That it's a male driven places where

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<v Speaker 2>where women are your wishes are second or not a priority,

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<v Speaker 2>or your passion or your work is not a priority.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, it's a very alpha, male dominated world and

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<v Speaker 2>you find it everywhere. So I learned that Mexico sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>is stuff that way. In business. I have to say

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<v Speaker 2>the comfort food that we offer because the other night

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<v Speaker 2>we created the concept, we created the family meals that

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<v Speaker 2>we had since my kids were born is the menu.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was competing with no one really, but it

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<v Speaker 2>is an alpha dominated country.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And how did you expand? So you have one?

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<v Speaker 1>You had one needle and twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we opened another one and then the Pandemica

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<v Speaker 2>came and I couldn't stop cooking because number one, I

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<v Speaker 2>need to be creating and creative all the time. And

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<v Speaker 2>I knew that people would need to go out at

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<v Speaker 2>least two breathe and get a little, a little treat.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you know our famous butter milk pancakes. They

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<v Speaker 2>saved us. And that not only saved us, but it

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<v Speaker 2>helped us expand. So we expanded into desserts because baking,

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<v Speaker 2>it's my cooking, it's for sure my passion. But ending

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<v Speaker 2>with a nice dessert routine for me, you cannot have

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<v Speaker 2>a meal without good bread, good butter, good olive bail,

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<v Speaker 2>and good dessert. You agree like it is a tip,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's a cherry on top. So we opened the

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<v Speaker 2>first needle. Then we opened a needle cafe, which is

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<v Speaker 2>all my recipes, my heritage from my tribe, my grandma's,

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<v Speaker 2>my aunts and my sisters, my kids, my loves. And

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<v Speaker 2>then we open another middle because we started to have

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<v Speaker 2>our wedding list, and the wedding list wasn't an hour,

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<v Speaker 2>it was two and there was three hours wait, and

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<v Speaker 2>then we had an opportunity to go around the block.

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<v Speaker 2>And I went to a retreat because I love meditation

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<v Speaker 2>and said mom, this place opened up, shall we take it?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, okay, let's go for it. And now we

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<v Speaker 2>open in Polanco. The fourth one, how do you keep

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<v Speaker 2>the control of holiday? Like? They all are very, very

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<v Speaker 2>good like you. I'm there every day. What did it

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<v Speaker 2>Dodo tell you when we pick you up? Tell my

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<v Speaker 2>mom to rest a little bit?

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I mean, she said that you're my mentors.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you have to say about it? Because

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<v Speaker 2>my passion is to go there, so I try.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have the best job in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I always say that, you know, and I say that

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<v Speaker 1>if you you know. Steve Job said, if you, if you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you love your job, you'll never have to work again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't worry. So it don't work, you know, we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you talk and meet with other chefs, other

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<v Speaker 1>people who are doing what you're doing or is it quite?

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<v Speaker 2>It is interesting that question. I'm not a celebrity chef,

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<v Speaker 2>the you know, I'm just a cook. I'm not a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 2>I never wanted to be a celebrity chef. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>a simple cook that there to do my dream and

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<v Speaker 2>open up a restaurant and became very successful because of

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<v Speaker 2>the comfort of the food and also the price of

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 2>the food. You know it has to do also, you

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<v Speaker 2>know you can go to Mido many times.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you talk about your restaurant or other people's restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>or your grandmother or your you know, your parents, or

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down meals or the people that you've learned from,

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<v Speaker 1>the word comfort comes up a lot. And I always

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<v Speaker 1>end the podcast by asking people because it's important to me. No,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's quite revealing that if we eat

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<v Speaker 1>for hunger, we eat because we're hungry, don't we We

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 1>eat because we want to share with other people. We

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 1>eat because we want to sit down at a table

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<v Speaker 1>with our children, we eat because we want to cook,

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<v Speaker 1>but very often we eat because we need comfort. And

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<v Speaker 1>so if I were to ask you in terms of comfort,

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<v Speaker 1>is there a food that you would turn to?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And what with that?

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<v Speaker 2>A good mutsiple soup, good maths a good And what

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<v Speaker 2>is this pasola? Borsola? I love? I do it with

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<v Speaker 2>chicken and very big corn that I forget in English

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<v Speaker 2>how it's called. But it's a soup with my kids

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<v Speaker 2>love it and it's a lot of chicken and this

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<v Speaker 2>big corn. Then I put radish and cilantro and lemon

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<v Speaker 2>chillis and they prepare it and it's comforting.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many chilis and Mexican food. Tell me about chilis.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I love passia. What is that? The chili passia.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a dried chile that is very sweet. The chipotlet

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<v Speaker 2>that is very smoky. My favorite is the morita, and

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<v Speaker 2>the morita is very small. It's very tasty, but it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't burn your tongue, so it makes you just enjoy

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:31.320
<v Speaker 2>the meal and you eat that fresh or dry dry fresh,

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<v Speaker 2>calapagno and serrano and the rest, which are so many.

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<v Speaker 2>Ruthie Dry.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's incredible culture to Mexico. I I when

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<v Speaker 1>I was here in twenty eighteen for those four months.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, culture can be you know, going to the

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<v Speaker 1>Anthropological Museum or going to Tomao to the folk museum.

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<v Speaker 1>But it also can be the way you make a bed.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be the way you drive a taxi and

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<v Speaker 1>the cleanliness of your car. It can be the kindness

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<v Speaker 1>to a stranger. It can be showing somebody if they're lost,

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<v Speaker 1>how to walk down the street. I think it's an

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly beautiful culture and the other day when I was

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<v Speaker 1>with some friends and they said I'm going I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to Mexico for my Christmas holiday. And one

0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 1>of them said, well when are you coming back? And

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<v Speaker 1>one of my children said, maybe never.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm surprised. I'm surprised you're not living here. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you for listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Ruthie's Table for in partnership with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 3>Ruthie's Table four is produced by Atamei Studios for iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hosted by Ruthie Rogers, and it's produced by William Lensky.

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<v Speaker 3>This episode was edited by Julia Johnson and mixed by

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<v Speaker 3>Nigel Appleton. Our executive producers are Fay Stewart and Zad Rogers.

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