Speaker 1: Second date, up date. We report on these all the
Speaker 1: time on our show, but I don't think anyone in
Speaker 1: this room has ever actually been to one, or at
Speaker 1: least not allowed inside due to the restraining orders. But
Speaker 1: I'm talking about pop up restaurants and bars. They have
Speaker 1: like a cool, unique theme.
Speaker 2: Alexis and I were just talking about one this morning.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, neither of us have been, like you said, but
Speaker 2: it looks awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't invite me for some reason to this
Speaker 1: thing you want to do.
Speaker 3: We wanted have fun, Jeff, Okay, well do something.
Speaker 1: Else then without you. But one of our listeners says
Speaker 1: he went to a pop up thing for a date,
Speaker 1: So let's talk to him about it.
Speaker 4: Nick.
Speaker 1: First of all, welcome to the show, and kudos on
Speaker 1: having no active restraining orders.
Speaker 5: Good for you, Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, was it a pop up restaurant or bar?
Speaker 5: I would classify more as a restaurant because we were
Speaker 5: set down, we had some food, but if we had
Speaker 5: like really cool drinks, I mean.
Speaker 3: Because they're all like so inam friendly, like you know,
Speaker 3: they want you to take cool pictures and share them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we should just like skip the date altogether
Speaker 1: and just talk about the bar only for the next
Speaker 1: six minutes.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm interested what the drinks look like?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What there?
Speaker 1: But can we ask, like, what's this woman that you
Speaker 1: took there? What's her name?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, sure, so her name's Elizabeth.
Speaker 1: Okay, I up about Elizabeth. Now let's get back to
Speaker 1: the good stuff.
Speaker 3: So I want to know it was Elizabeth as excited as
Speaker 3: we were about this pop up thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah. No, we had a blast. Actually, I would I
Speaker 5: highly recommend anyone going to the one we went to.
Speaker 1: Okay, what did you go to?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Which one was it?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 5: This one was like toy themeed and it was like
Speaker 5: different toys from different generations.
Speaker 2: And wow, whoa, it's like your childhood. But you're kind
Speaker 2: of buzzed, you know. Do you play with the toys
Speaker 2: or they just like decoration?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean they had some some elements of playing.
Speaker 5: A lot of it was decorations. The menu was all
Speaker 5: like toys themed as well. So they had like one
Speaker 5: of the fun things we got where martini that were
Speaker 5: called etches sketch Martini's which are shaken not stirred.
Speaker 1: I love it, Okay.
Speaker 5: Challenge at their tables to certain toys. So like there
Speaker 5: was a Rubik's Cube on our table and on the next,
Speaker 5: and so we challenged the table to see who could
Speaker 5: finish hers.
Speaker 3: Oh I could do it.
Speaker 2: Can you do it? Jeff? Can you do the Rubi's Cube?
Speaker 1: I try to look cool, so no, okay, I cube
Speaker 1: it all color on purpose. How did the Rubik's Cube
Speaker 1: gaming go for you and Elizabeth?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: We got destroyed.
Speaker 1: Together? Yeah, they go.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the bonding experience.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know we're talking a lot, specifically about
Speaker 1: toys and stuff. Can you give us like the mood
Speaker 1: of the whole date, Like, how was the connection between
Speaker 1: you two?
Speaker 5: Honestly? I thought it was great. We were having lots
Speaker 5: of fun and we actually got to know each other
Speaker 5: as well. And I learned more about like her family
Speaker 5: because of like the toys that she played with, like
Speaker 5: her her sister and things like that, and uh, so,
Speaker 5: you know, we got to actually get to a deeper
Speaker 5: level than usually think of on like the first state.
Speaker 3: Yeah, was there anything like uncomfy or I mean maybe
Speaker 3: you got too deep?
Speaker 5: I mean I don't think so, nothing too much though
Speaker 5: apparently she like cut her sister's Barbara Doll's hair off
Speaker 5: once without honor. Classic like okay, and.
Speaker 1: Then glued the hair to herself and was like, I'm
Speaker 1: your Barbie now.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's every little sister ever though, you know that.
Speaker 1: Did that not happen with Elizabeth and her sister?
Speaker 5: Oh no, no, I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe she is a cool, normal girl. Then that
Speaker 1: sounds fun, sounds different than you and yours. Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is why I did not want to tell you about
Speaker 1: my childhood anyway. So how did it end between you two?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean I think that also ended fairly well
Speaker 5: at first at least. But we were like walking back
Speaker 5: to your car, We've been there for a few hours,
Speaker 5: and it's like, you know, feels natural. I'm going for
Speaker 5: the kiss, okay, oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean you guys are vibing. Yeah, and what happened?
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she kissed me back.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 5: It was the most romantic first kiss, like when you
Speaker 5: used to like kiss dolls back in the day and practice.
Speaker 2: You see, I did some weird stuff with dolls. I apologize,
Speaker 2: No weird the dolls kiss each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, that's not weird.
Speaker 2: My dolls did all sorts of fun stuff, but I
Speaker 2: didn't do.
Speaker 1: Nick is regretting calling into the show.
Speaker 5: But I never never kissed any dolls growing up myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, was that you and I are the weird ones.
Speaker 1: So but you said the kiss wasn't quite what you
Speaker 1: were hoping for.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't like fireworks, I guess. And then she
Speaker 5: was like, actually, I want to talk about something, and uh,
Speaker 5: it's like I want to be transparent. I'm finally in
Speaker 5: this place where I feel really good about myself and
Speaker 5: I want to start like kind of dating multiple people
Speaker 5: right now. I want to like explore the dating world.
Speaker 1: She said that after you kissed her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is after we kiss Oh, b it's not good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you got you gotta think like maybe she
Speaker 3: could just finally tell how into her he was, and
Speaker 3: she just wanted.
Speaker 2: To be honest. Were you okay with that? Or are
Speaker 2: you not okay with that?
Speaker 5: Well? I mean I told her I was. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I know me too.
Speaker 2: What I was going to say, oh my.
Speaker 1: God, I have a date after this right now.
Speaker 5: Actually, but when we did text, we've been text or
Speaker 5: we're texting for a while afterwards and talking about hanging
Speaker 5: out again. But then I guess I haven't heard from
Speaker 5: her for a while now, and I'm wondering if maybe
Speaker 5: she just she did find someone else she wants to
Speaker 5: date all the time.
Speaker 3: Okay, so this is more of like you want to
Speaker 3: find answers if she's even single still?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and definitely offer to redo the kiss over
Speaker 1: again better this next time?
Speaker 2: Can you rewind to kiss?
Speaker 3: Can you do that?
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what he should have done right there, Like,
Speaker 1: I promise you I could do better than Yeah. That
Speaker 1: may have been the move that you miss.
Speaker 2: You're saying if there was more fireworks, she wouldn't have
Speaker 2: said that.
Speaker 1: Maybe, But let's call her and see what she has
Speaker 1: to say. We're gonna come back. We'll ring Elizabeth for you.
Speaker 1: I can't believe I said ring Elizabeth. God, who's old. Anyway,
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it with your second date update. Next
Speaker 1: second date update. Playing with Tonka trucks while drinking Etches
Speaker 1: Sketch Martinis and challenging the people next to you to
Speaker 1: a drunk Rubik's Cube off. Yes, it's not a playdate
Speaker 1: with Brooks children. That was a real date that one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Nick went on because he took a
Speaker 1: woman named Elizabeth to a pop up restaurant bar that
Speaker 1: had an old school toy theme to it. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: it actually went pretty well from what we heard till
Speaker 1: the very and when they had a short kiss, and
Speaker 1: then immediately afterwards she told him, Oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: I am going to be dating other people and you
Speaker 1: should know that upfront, which sounds bad, but that is
Speaker 1: what Brooke whispered to her husband after they said. I
Speaker 1: do want the I think there's hope for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, we got you, Nick, don't worry.
Speaker 2: I mean, the thing is, it is pretty brutal when
Speaker 2: you recap it, like she could have maybe waited for
Speaker 2: like the next date to say that a text message
Speaker 2: or something, or.
Speaker 1: Just ghost him like a normal person does.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the timing was brutal. You're right, though, maybe she
Speaker 2: was telling you because she still wanted to see you.
Speaker 2: She just her calendar is busy with other dates.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean maybe when you put it like that down,
Speaker 5: isn't it.
Speaker 2: There's as much hope as I could muster.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Broke, you're not going to get much. So that's
Speaker 1: why I'm going to lead the conversation at least at
Speaker 1: the start when we call her oh wow, and the
Speaker 1: rest of the rest of them can chime in. If
Speaker 1: it stays, stay on. If it's bad, we'll just toss you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there we go. All right, you're ready to do this, Nick.
Speaker 5: I guess, so let's do it.
Speaker 2: I was kidding. By the way, Nick, you're in good hands. Okay,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's the worst all state commercial level. I know you're
Speaker 1: in good hands. I don't know. Here we call her
Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Elizabeth.
Speaker 4: This is her speaking perfect.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is Jeffrey speaking from a radio show called
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, just like and hi.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay if you're underwhelmed. But we're doing a
Speaker 1: segment on our show that we'd like to bring you
Speaker 1: in on. It's called a second Date update.
Speaker 2: Have you heard those before?
Speaker 4: No? I don't think I have. Sorry, this is really
Speaker 4: weird to me.
Speaker 5: Sorry, Yeah, that's all right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 1: that you went out on a date with recently named Nick.
Speaker 1: You guys went to like a toy themed pop up
Speaker 1: restaurant bar thing.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, oh god, he reached out to you about that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he wanted to see you again, And it
Speaker 3: sounds like maybe you're not giving him a firm yes
Speaker 3: or no on that.
Speaker 1: And we're just trying to help him figure stuff out,
Speaker 1: like wanting to know exactly what was your takeaway from
Speaker 1: the date?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so okay, So Nick is a super nice guy
Speaker 4: and he's really sweet. I had a nice date with him,
Speaker 4: But I did tell him at the end of the date,
Speaker 4: I'm just not in a place emotionally right now where
Speaker 4: I want to date just one person. I want to
Speaker 4: date multiple people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you tell us that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't think he's like I don't think he's trying
Speaker 3: to argue like you should only date him.
Speaker 2: I think he just wants to see you again.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: He wants to be one of those people.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing. He supports the lifestyle that you
Speaker 1: want to live. It sounds like you're trying to say
Speaker 1: something but you don't want to like say it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a little awkward. I think it's so.
Speaker 4: I think I might have found somebody that's a better
Speaker 4: fit with me than Nick.
Speaker 2: But I thought you were dating multiple people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've only gone on one date with Nick. Why
Speaker 1: not just go on another one just to see how
Speaker 1: your connection is.
Speaker 4: I don't know there's this one person that I've been
Speaker 4: on accomplidation with and I feel like we're moving towards something,
Speaker 4: and I just I don't see there really being a
Speaker 4: possibility with Nick anymore, at least until I investigate this
Speaker 4: other things first.
Speaker 2: So there's nothing he can do to change your mind
Speaker 2: on that.
Speaker 4: I mean, here's the situation. I've been out on like
Speaker 4: seven or eight dates, and I would I would say, Nick,
Speaker 4: he's not in.
Speaker 5: The top two.
Speaker 4: I mean, he's like maybe number three, but I want
Speaker 4: to stick with the top two right now. And he's
Speaker 4: a really great thing to.
Speaker 5: Numbers top three.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, Elizabeth. I'm not sure if you heard, but
Speaker 1: Nick kind of jumped in there. Yeah, he's been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little competitive.
Speaker 5: Well, I just think I think three is a little
Speaker 5: low at all. I just I think, you know, ranking
Speaker 5: at least being the top two, I would assume based
Speaker 5: on a day, it was pretty good day.
Speaker 1: Have you seen the other guys?
Speaker 4: What is going on? Did you set this whole thing
Speaker 4: up on the radio?
Speaker 3: I mean maybe that moves him up, yeah, but the
Speaker 3: other two guys wouldn't have reached out to a radio
Speaker 3: show just to get a hold of you.
Speaker 5: He's got drive exactly. No, No, they're right, it is.
Speaker 4: I just I don't I don't know what to say.
Speaker 4: I'm kind of weirded out by this whole thing. Honestly,
Speaker 4: look what you did?
Speaker 1: You weirded out this?
Speaker 3: You could say it as a romantic right, do you
Speaker 3: want somebody romantic? You want somebody who will go the
Speaker 3: extra mile for you, you know, next your guy.
Speaker 2: And the thing is is, like, man.
Speaker 3: Can you imagine being told right after you kiss somebody that, like, hey,
Speaker 3: by the way, I'm going to see other people?
Speaker 2: Like that would be a big blow.
Speaker 3: And you know what, Nick has enough confidence to be like,
Speaker 3: you know what, that's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.
Speaker 4: I would have told him earlier, but I just didn't
Speaker 4: know how to tell him or what to tell him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you should just like include it on your
Speaker 2: dating app.
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you want to do here, buddy?
Speaker 5: You want to Well, first, I just want to say that, like,
Speaker 5: I'm someone who pays attention. One of the things we
Speaker 5: talked about on our date was love languages, right, and
Speaker 5: I remember her saying that her love languages were words
Speaker 5: of affirmation and physical touch right, and so I just
Speaker 5: want you to know I'm going to do with someone.
Speaker 5: You're so smart and so pretty and just an all
Speaker 5: around wonderful human being. And you know what I want
Speaker 5: you to do. I want you to imagine I'm o.
Speaker 1: Yourself. Do you know the other two guys pretend to
Speaker 1: hug you through the phone, Elizabeth will giving you compliments?
Speaker 1: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Ah, well, I don't know if those guys are as
Speaker 4: weird as she is, but.
Speaker 1: You're right that I think the word you were going
Speaker 1: for was sweet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, weird can be good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wouldn't make you feel better if maybe Jeff and
Speaker 1: I hugged for you. That's just Jose really desperate for
Speaker 1: like I haven't had in a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, language, we just want to help.
Speaker 1: Come on, you guys should go out.
Speaker 2: Again one more time, see if you can move up
Speaker 2: to number two.
Speaker 1: Yeah I bet, I bet Nick would be a really
Speaker 1: good boyfriend again.
Speaker 2: She doesn't want that a.
Speaker 1: Really good guy to date.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I don't think so.
Speaker 5: Sorry, if it's about like not knowing if I'm good enough,
Speaker 5: you're talking about, you know, dating other people, I've dated
Speaker 5: other people. I give you references with my accident.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, don't do references, bro, Actually I would like that. No,
Speaker 1: let's do that. Let's call it. Let's call some of
Speaker 1: Nick's x's on the line right now and have them
Speaker 1: sing nixed praises.
Speaker 5: I'm down.
Speaker 2: I don't think you want to know what your exes
Speaker 2: are really going to say about you.
Speaker 4: Nick, you don't need to do that. You don't need
Speaker 4: to do anymore.
Speaker 5: I don't want to. I don't want to give up.
Speaker 5: I don't I don't like what is your like?
Speaker 1: How was it?
Speaker 5: How would I send you something? What's your address?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 5: An edible arrangement dress?
Speaker 2: Nobody wants edible fruit as a flower arranged?
Speaker 5: Right? Wait? Look, I just need to know are you
Speaker 5: allergic in your fruit? You know? And it'll be a
Speaker 5: perfect arrangement.
Speaker 2: Oh boy, Nick, I think you're falling down the list.
Speaker 2: Sound of desperate.
Speaker 1: Look at the effort that he's willing to go just
Speaker 1: to get one more date with you.
Speaker 4: Yes, all the fruits, Nick, I wish you the best.
Speaker 4: You're a really great guy. But like I said, I
Speaker 4: just need to focus on the other two right now.
Speaker 4: But good luck out there. You're gonna make someone really happy.
Speaker 1: And often you hear that one rookie in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that second date didn't quite work out, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it should be proof to all the ladies listening out
Speaker 1: there that good guys do still exist. They're playing with
Speaker 1: hot wheels and nurse blasters and giving you hugs through
Speaker 1: the phone and sending big baskets of fruit to where
Speaker 1: you live.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels like he just couldn't get the hint,
Speaker 3: and she was pretty direct.
Speaker 2: You know, the nice guy's still finished last Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, even there's.
Speaker 1: Like she's like, I'm willing to have multiple boyfriends and
Speaker 1: you're still at the most.
Speaker 2: It proves what you think it proves. Jeffrey, I think
Speaker 2: the girls it was a good try.
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna come back twelve, thirteen, fifteen years
Speaker 1: from now and be like I should have said yes
Speaker 1: to guy number three.
Speaker 2: I don't think she'll probably ever remember.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll be on her like fourth.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you want to have a phone call
Speaker 1: that you want to instantly forget, you know, the show, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll call the person who isn't calling you back.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning