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This 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.920 motherfucking um stomach sleeve. Okay, some ship here we go. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:00.160 Listen for real. I'm going to get these curt in 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.600 check and drop about a solid founds on because I 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:06.960 got insurance. It's covered. Hey, cheaper than spending five grand 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.600 out of my pocket for d R. We'll do it 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:12.440 with you for fun. I hate Walcot horrible decisions. Guys. 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:21.840 This is episode bank fetos is. Um, this is your girl. 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:25.720 Um Mandy B A K. A full core pumps a 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:29.080 k A. Apparently the bitch that talks over everyone. So 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:31.919 there's there. There's my spin. This is the quiet when 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:39.120 the reformed slat wheezy Hi. Um So today, guys, it's 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.960 just us. I don't know if you miss it being 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:44.119 just us. Please let us know that. Do you love 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.280 our guests? Do you not like our guests? Do you 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:48.359 want us more? Do you like it when we have 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.120 a threesome? Do you like it when we're a twesome? 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.280 Tell us? Do you want us to have a foesome like? 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:54.960 Let us know? Um? I guess how we wanted to 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:58.120 start the show this week because we have had so 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:03.080 many guests. We we actually acquired such a lot of 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:07.680 new listeners. Shout out Sam White, out our last guests. 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:11.799 Everybody fucking loves him. Some girl wrote me, bitch, I 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.320 don't even tell you that. I was like, um, you 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:16.720 always thirst in for white niggas? Why you ain't talking 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.679 to him because he half black? First of all? Bit no, 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.160 he didn't think he was half black because he was 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:26.040 a capital I'm telling you, like, he got me. Did 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:29.560 you hear us? He was? He definitely was. Yeah, we 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.000 wanted to come in the studio today and kind of 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.760 just introduce ourselves, and we're gonna try to do it 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.840 every few episodes again so that you guys know what 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:38.040 we're about, who we are, what we stand for, things 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:42.280 like that. Um, I think the Missing Condom episode, Uh, 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:45.720 details are well enough, but here we go. You want 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.880 to start, Yeah, I guess we can start. I guess 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.760 what I want to start off is kind of the 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.440 mission of our show, because that's kind of something we 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:55.360 didn't quite say clear enough in our first because we 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:57.560 didn't really know what we wanted at of what we 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:01.400 wanted at all, um, and so we just know we sucked, Dick, 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:03.800 And I was like, you know what I said, Dick, 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.120 you said, Dick, we both have condoms in us. Let's 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:08.640 do this first episode and talk about how we got 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:12.760 to come at a more perfect time with the missing condom. Um. 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.720 But basically the reason we started this show essentially, of course, 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:19.520 Wheezy brought the idea to me, and I was just like, 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:22.479 oh my god, this is exactly what I would have 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.760 in mind because of everything that we talked about being 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:28.680 so taboo. It's it's a platform that I wanted to 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:33.160 express all of these sexual things, dating, sex, relationships from 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:37.120 two corporate women. Um, we're not in the sex industry. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.520 And I feel like a lot of people assume that 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:44.919 a free code gotta be a porn stars. If you 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:50.080 listen to all episodes, you would know she is um 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.840 and so yeah, that's why we we we brought on, 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:56.599 you know, guests with herpes. Um, we brought on a 0:04:56.720 --> 0:05:00.560 by couple. I'm just saying we were trying let over phrase. 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:02.960 You said, free coast, that's how we brought a girl 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:04.560 with her And He's like, no, we want to educate, 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.120 we want to entertain. We want you guys to know 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.480 the shitty things about sex, the fun parts of sex, 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:12.760 teach you about things you don't know, learn things that 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.080 we don't know, which is why we love to have 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.320 guests on all the time ship. Before we started the podcast, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.960 I would have never appeared on someone. Yeah, and now 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.840 have you since then? Are we talking about a bit? Oh? Okay, 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:27.480 because I can't squirt, so it's just like kisses um. 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.839 And then another thing that's been coming up, um, which 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.800 I guess we should clear the air now. For the record, 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.640 once again, me and Weathy have never had sex, nor 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:41.960 are we sisters. Yes, Oh my god, there. They are 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.880 there in my d m s and they're I'm looking 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:47.320 at our picture right now because like I mean, even 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:51.279 though I'm not gonna know, you got better hair, Yeah 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:55.480 I did get I did get my wife when I 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:58.440 got interrupted. I'm walking in my neighborhood. Eli. Yes, I've 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:00.680 lived my orchard in Riminton. So I'm like four am. 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:03.560 Everybody's sucked up. This dude is walking standing on the 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:07.880 like against the wall I'm walking by. He takes his hand, 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.640 puts his fingers through my hand, goes yeah, she makes 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.719 yeah does this? Does his hands get stuck? The first 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.640 a little bit? And then I made an insta story 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:17.599 about it in some bigger role? Is that that ship 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:20.760 do look? Kind of course? Oh my god. But let 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.040 me just tell you guys, uh a little bit about me, 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.280 and let's talk about each other separately. I feel like 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.920 you guys know that we're just skanky, um. But yeah, 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.320 we're gonna we're gonna talk about maybe our differences just 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:32.800 a little bit to kind of get you guys um 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.359 a little bit caught up on maybe who we are personally, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.560 where we come from, and where we want to go. Right. So, 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:42.120 I am mid twenties. I work in a tech industry 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:47.840 with data pretty fucking geeky. Um yeah, I think I'm 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.080 the only girl in the office with like their tips 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:51.960 out every day, but you know they enjoy it and 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.800 that's how I make my money. Um yeah, my dating 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:58.840 status is kind of single, kind of not. Um. I 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.480 think that something to describe me. I'm a passionate person. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.680 I'm a giving person. I try to make sure that 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.760 every day I either spread a compliment or love somewhere, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.400 whether it's a homeless dude or someone random and needs it. 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.360 I try to put really good energy in the world 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.360 so I get it back. Um. And so with this podcast, 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:19.160 I've always hoped to even take my moments in life 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.400 that are shitty and put it out there so to 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:23.560 make someone feel good. I hope that every episode, you 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:26.400 guys hear, you laugh, you smile, you take a break 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.480 from things. UM shout out. By the way, we have 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.920 a listener. I don't want to say your name, but 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.200 that is really going through a tough time with her health. 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.560 Remember she wrote me when I was in Europe and 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.360 um actually let me read her text. She Um, she's 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:42.920 been struggling with um like seizures and having strokes. Early 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:45.080 and UM, it's been really hard on her, and she 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:47.600 sent this email. Um, she said, I woke up this 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.680 morning super early, just downloaded your podcast to see and 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.280 I listened to it and it's amazing. I laughed so hard, 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:56.400 learned a few things, ignored my kids for an hour, 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.280 and I had the best morning you and your home 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:01.720 croller bomb. Thank you so much. And that ship made 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:04.240 me feel so fucking good because just to think that 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:10.080 us sucking dick could lead you know, a girl farting 0:08:10.120 --> 0:08:12.800 on Mandy's face that was episode six, me pissing in 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:16.240 a treehouse episode four, would fucking make you guys feel 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:18.760 this way. And I just I love that that's happening. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.360 And um, thank you guys for listening every fucking week. 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:27.720 Um yeah, Mandy, And UM, I guess a little bit 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.880 about me because as much as I assume everyone who 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.800 listens knows me, I I am seeing that I'm getting 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:37.480 new followers and there's new people, and there's people that 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.760 don't know me, and there's people that you know, have 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:42.679 been followers of Wheezy who are now being introduced to me. Um, 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:44.599 so I guess I want to explain kind of what 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:50.920 I do. I am also a mid twenties, six years old. 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:53.640 No kids. UM, I don't know why I said that. 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:55.280 I guess that's kind of what I'm used to saying 0:08:55.280 --> 0:09:01.120 with dating, UM, I sex, location, p gotta put a 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:05.480 pick gottas in a pick. Um. But I currently am 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:09.000 entering my last semester of school. I am obtaining my 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.959 BS and accounting with a minor in business, and I 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:16.000 currently work part time at one of the largest private 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:20.959 UM investment banks UM and so I am there until 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:23.120 I complete my degree, in which I will be pursuing 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:26.880 my c P a UM And on the weekends I 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.679 like to get pulled out and get fucked. I mean 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:33.319 that's kind of I'm currently leaving a life that I 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:37.280 once lived UM so prior to me getting back into 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:41.599 school and now being in finance, I know what I 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:45.800 do like all of that, UM, you know. UM. But 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.959 I was a model and then for most people know, 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:51.840 I ran a sports blog for about five years, wrote 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:55.160 a book, did another podcast with Lamar Woodley who used 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.800 to play for the Steelers, and just a kind of 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:00.839 a lot of dipped and dabbed in on crepreneurship and 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:03.719 now you know, trying to get set on my career path. 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.400 Um currently I wanted to talk about it because I 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:11.480 brought it up last show. Um, I'm currently abstinent dud. Okay, guys, 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:16.280 dog abstin O knocks on your door today with his 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:22.920 dick in his hand. You're gonna suck him right now. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:26.480 That's how I feel. That's the thing abstinence is like, 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.559 because you have Okay, I want to fuck And so 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:37.160 seven seven did hit my phone right now and be 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.000 like w y D, Because that's how we know we're 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.120 about to get We're gonna suck each other, Like, bitch, 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.320 what you're doing? Because whatever you're doing, you gotta stop 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.439 and you need to come suck this dick. That's all 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.439 he has to say text to me is w y D. 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.280 It doesn't mean how is my day? What am I doing? Actually, 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:53.480 it means, bitch, are you free to come sit on 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:55.959 this dick? And honestly, if he were to hit me 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:59.640 right now where I'm at emotionally and mentally, I probably 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:02.719 would I go. And it's because we've been sucking out 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:05.240 for three years. I know what that relationship is. And 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.040 right now I want to focus on finding someone who 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:12.520 can stimulate more of my mind conversation and meet me 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:16.720 on an intellectual level other than the sexual level, because 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:18.800 I told you I just had too much mediocre dick 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:21.880 to continue trying to get. You're not absent, you just 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:24.760 ain't sucking because because I genuinely want to find someone 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:30.959 who I like, and that's becoming fucking hard as fuck. Um. 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:33.080 I was on Bumble last night for ships and Giggles. 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:35.120 He's bringing this up because I want to talk about 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.520 how much we've talked about dating apps. I want to 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:41.559 discuss the trashness. It's like, I just I had a 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.240 guy that I was like, oh my god, he's super 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:45.120 cute and interesting and just for the record, you know, 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:47.559 lovegay and O are dating, and he would probably kill 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.800 me even I'm on Bubble, but you know, no titles yet, 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:52.520 so I'm free to do it. I won't, So I'm 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:55.120 talking to him to fine a ship works for like 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.280 Morgan Stanley, which is like down the street from me, 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.640 and you know, as far as work goes, and I'm like, 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:01.520 you know, should meet for a drink after work sometime 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.559 and he's like absolutely, He's like I'm so intrigued by you. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.719 I said, really, what about me? And he goes the 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:11.720 black In Israeli part that bothered me because my profile 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:13.520 is detailed about a lot of things that I like 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:15.920 and a lot of things I enjoyed doing. You had 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.520 to just pick the Nike apart. Huh, That's what it was. 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:22.160 And it's just like why, I don't know why it 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.240 bothered me. Maybe I'll get tell me. Maybe I'm tripping. 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.840 But I just always feel like sometimes like ethnicities are 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:29.560 feticized and it just drives me. You kind of said 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:32.600 anything else. I told three embarrassing truths about myself. One 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:34.920 of them is that I'm a spelling bee champ. Okay, 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:36.760 do you think I fucking want to say that? Ship? No, 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.000 But it's like a conversation starter, right, know what I mean? 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:42.360 You could have pulled out game of drawls. Bro. You're 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:46.320 just like I like you, and you're black your blackness. Yeah, 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:51.200 And I just had actually kind of I wasn't as upset. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.240 I kind of was. Actually so I just recently matched 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:58.199 with um. He was twenty four long, I know, kind 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.040 of young but still kind of close to my but 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:04.400 he's in law school at Columbia University. So I was like, oh, Columbia. 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:06.280 Anytime I see Columbia. But my pussy get wet, like, 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:08.520 I love to know that you're that smart to be 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:13.560 accepted into Columbia. He's very handsome looking poley, about six one, 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.200 which is a little short for my liking. But I'm willing. 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:16.920 I'm willing to settle at this point. I'm proud of 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:23.360 you six just really handsome. Bro. His first what was he? Brown? 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:27.240 Black guy? Clearly his which you know also turned me on. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:32.880 His first his first message to me was do you 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:36.680 want to come over and smoke this bowl and watch Netflix? 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.679 What his? And I'm just like, you're at Columbia and 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.640 that's your first and so it's just like, I feel 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.320 like dating apps right now are turning it to where 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:47.720 it's actually taking away from the date. Like my nigga, 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:49.640 you don't know me and you're straight inviting me to 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.360 your house to watch Netflix off of a dating app. 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:59.920 Brod bitches Robin niggas bro not not cool? Like I mean, 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.120 I know, I just said I just explored Southeast Asia, 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:03.880 so maybe you don't. Maybe I need to put that 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.599 I was in Africa or that I was in the 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.640 Middle East because maybe we'll scare people a little bit more. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.000 You know, Southeast Asia, I guess sounds too innocent. They 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:14.040 don't think I'm out there hustling. I just really don't 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.679 have another, um place to shout this out. But like, 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:20.520 if any of you have been visiting Japan recently, Kyoto, Toyokyo, Tokyo, 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:23.280 I'm going for Halloween for a few weeks, and I 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.040 just wanted you guys to send me some places, even 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:29.680 they're awesome. That's it. Um. Anyway, I guess another thing 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.880 about us just really quick. UM, So if you are 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:36.120 a new listener, um, we have known each other since 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:43.680 we were kids teenagers. That's pretty anyway. So we took 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.880 a little break, I had a high a friendship hiatus, 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:48.600 and we reconnected back in New York. And the reason 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.200 I came to Mandy about this podcast idea is because 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:53.640 I felt like we kind of jumped right back into 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.360 our friendship, just kind of like we're right where we're 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.400 left off and right back into talking about dicks. But 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:01.080 the amazing part is that we were just like all 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:06.040 grown up, and I just really appreciated that most people 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:09.200 I know have kind of evolved out of their whole 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:13.040 phase or I don't know, or just like being free 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.440 with talking about sex or not having any any like 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.160 you know inhibitions with Hey, I wanted to fund this 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:20.600 guy went to his house and I left it. I'm 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:21.920 in the cab and I still smell like Dick and 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.280 at sexy. You know, people feel like they're too old 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:28.880 for that, and you know, I've I'm past that, never 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:33.240 too old, and I just and I think the the 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.880 amazing part about this now is and I don't know 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:38.040 if you guys follow us on Instagram. If you don't, 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:42.040 the Instagram is horrible, underscore decisions. Make sure you follow 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.240 us and d m us and you know, engage with us. 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.160 But I think the amazing part is right now that 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:49.840 we were so close back then, and it's just we 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.480 we took a five year break and right now we're 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.880 literally getting to know each other all over again. Yeah, 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.600 this is like it's like the same it's like the 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.960 same person, but it's not. And so you're learning everything. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:03.240 Like five years, people grow, Minty. We stopped being friends 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:06.800 at twenty one. That's at like the bulk of your exploring. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.720 You need to be fair with our experiences with each other. 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.600 We're from fift so we knew each other for a 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:17.480 long time before, you know, so the way that we 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.560 talked to each other is different. The things that piss 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:22.400 us off are different. Um, you know, they get under skin, 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.000 and so it's all taking time. Like, I guess I'll 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.240 share this because we thought last night that's what she 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:31.680 wanted to say. I am said maybe we shouldn't do 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.920 it no more. I'm not gonna lie. She was sitting 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:35.640 here trying to get a guest on today because I 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.200 know she ain't just want to talk to me. She 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.880 she sat here last night. She thought I knew what 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:41.600 she was doing, but I knew, but she wanted a 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:43.000 guest because she really didn't want to sit here and 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:44.960 talk to me. She wanted to talk to somebody else. 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.760 And then she was like, um, can you see what 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.480 we can record on Friday? Because that was to give 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:53.400 her two days? Did knew it? I was like, no, bitch, tomorrow, 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:56.280 you know what. I'm coming to Brooklyn on Friday. It 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.920 is I just I need a lot of space, which 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:01.360 is um, it's funny because you told me you gave 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:03.440 me too much space in our friendship. Space to me 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:05.359 is like the healer of everything, and it's funny. So 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.120 we we've sat here and there's just so many things 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:10.800 that we disagree with. So there's there's a topic that 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:13.480 we're gonna wait till I bring on some actual guests 0:17:13.560 --> 0:17:15.800 to you know, talk about it with. But something that 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:20.200 I found completely funny with us is we were sitting 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:23.040 here discussing what's fun to us. And I think this 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:27.240 is something that is interesting because we're during that five 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:30.440 year span, we clearly surrounded ourselves with completely different types 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:33.080 of people, and people do shift you and change you 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:35.640 and mold you. Um. And so we were talking about 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:38.320 going out, and I straighte told Wheezy, I said, listen, 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:41.879 I think our definitions of what is fun. You've had 0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:44.560 fun with me when I've taken you bar hopping, Um, 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:48.080 it was cool. But it's not. I go out because 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:49.480 I ain't got shut up to do. But if I 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:51.879 had a nigger in town who was like, I got 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:54.639 a table here, come here, I'm feeding you here, I 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:56.240 probably would have gone out. But I just wanted to 0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:58.200 get out of the house. So this is the difference. 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:00.280 And I'll sit here and explain to me, like, so 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:04.080 I'm friends with a lot of UM, I guess I 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:06.320 would sit here and call them influential, Like I'm friends 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:11.560 I'm friends with celebrities, with athletes, rappers, models, um socialites. 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:13.720 I'm in that mix and in that crowd, and so 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.920 I've grown accustomed to when I go out, I don't 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:19.760 really pay for ship. I'm eating at the best restaurants 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:21.880 in whatever city I'm in. I'm going to a club, 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.600 and when my feet motherfucking hurt, I have a table 0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:26.560 to sit at. So the reason this came up is 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:31.800 because Mandy made a comment, um something about like we 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:34.760 were talking about like a perfect birthday. Oh, that is right, 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.360 that is right, And that was at the club. Yeah. 0:18:37.440 --> 0:18:39.280 She was like, I'm not just gonna be like getting 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.359 a massage and a pettycare on my birthday and chilling 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:42.960 bay to pool if I'm out of town. No funk 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:44.760 that I'd be doing this, that that would be turning up. 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:48.080 Let's see my dog a blissful bird. I would love 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:51.440 to get petty Mandy, And that's cool. But my birthday 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:54.119 I was also we were it was mostly the nightlife too, 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:57.440 and I was just like, bro, I understood why. They 0:18:57.600 --> 0:19:00.560 also didn't want to just stand in line at a club. 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:03.359 They didn't want to pay to get in somewhere, to 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:05.479 stand at a bar. And the one night they did 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:09.520 that in Atlanta, it was like this. The security kept 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:11.000 moving them out the way because if there ain't no 0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:13.240 fan of room. See this is the thing, I think. 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:15.159 The reason I think I don't have these experiences when 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:16.800 I'm going to the club because I told Mandy, like, 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:18.680 I don't like going to the club off of a 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:21.280 dude space. I don't I don't like hanging around at 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:23.280 a duce table. I don't like having to stick with them. 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:25.560 I don't like that ship. I'd rather know that I'm 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:28.200 gonna spend a hundred dollars on drinking by myself tonight, 0:19:28.640 --> 0:19:31.480 then get that money for then keep that hundred dollars, 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:33.720 but have to stick with somebody else. But see, that's 0:19:33.920 --> 0:19:36.880 that's that's where you're You're wrong real quick. These guys 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:38.840 I go out with this day my friend and I'm 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:40.399 wait for it. They got he had a lack of 0:19:40.480 --> 0:19:43.639 See here happened. They're like, you gotta be I don't know. Like, 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:45.280 I just like to know that I'm not going to 0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:47.479 one off and then I can show by the bar 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:49.600 with my girls within twenty minutes somebody's gonna come to 0:19:49.600 --> 0:19:51.359 hop And then if I really want to go to 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:53.159 a duce table, if I'm filling him. I will, but 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:55.840 I want to have my own. I don't know, and 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:58.000 I'm gonna tell you what that is. The only that 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.119 is one thing that changed with me and you got 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:03.040 older once I fucking made enough money that I knew 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.119 I could do it. See, And that's the thing. I 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:06.639 don't think it's a money thing for you at all. 0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:08.280