WEBVTT - Second Date Update: That Name Seems Familiar 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.519 Before we get to your brand new second Date update. Today, 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:04.280 it's Brook and Jeffrey and you did find the Second 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.160 Date Update podcast. We gotta go back because we asked 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.840 y'all on Wednesday for the weirdest, most ridiculous question you've 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:11.800 ever been asked on a. 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:14.640 First day, and I love some of the responses. Yes, 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:15.840 what's one that we got? 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:18.840 All right, I gotta read Matthews, who said, y'all asked, 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:19.840 and I'm going to answer it. 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.799 They asked which toe is your favorite? I'm cringing while 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:24.319 typing this. 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:27.720 I've never even thought of a favorite. 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:30.440 I mean, isn't it obvious that it's a pinky? 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:33.479 Help your balance? 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.280 My pinkies are a little weird from running, so I 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:35.560 might have. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.480 My sister has a weird that she's flipping you off. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.240 It's longer than the other one. 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:49.120 I think we lost our gained listeners. Maybe we'll do 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:55.200 that again next week, Thanks Matthew. Basically, we just normalized 0:00:55.200 --> 0:01:01.240 your weird question. Time to start your Friday with a 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:04.319 brand new second Date update, and this one definitely has 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:07.679 a new method for dating that hopefully can eliminate all 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.440 the swiping in the endless chats. So we'll see if 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.320 it works starts right now. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.720 The second date updated. 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:18.720 If you ask me and Brook, you'll probably agree with this. 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.080 The dating world needs more ultimatums. 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:26.480 No, Jack, Yes, No, are not ever good. 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.399 Ever, I think maybe we need them because the more 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:35.800 listeners we talk to, everybody seems so indecisive, so wishy washy, like, oh, 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:39.080 maybe i'll date her, or maybe that other hot girl, 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:41.120 or maybe I'll just stick with my wife. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:42.360 I don't really know what. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:44.200 Here. 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:46.600 Ultimatum suddenly sounding good? 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.680 Yeah, they stick to your wife? Like, what is happening? 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:51.760 Ultimating? 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:55.360 That's why I appreciate somebody who's actually willing to lay 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.800 all their cards down on the table and say this 0:01:58.000 --> 0:01:58.280 is it? 0:01:58.680 --> 0:01:59.600 Take it or leave it? 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:06.800 Apparently that's how our listener, Dustin rolls ultimatum style. Well 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:08.840 that's the vibe I got from his email, Dustin. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:09.800 Welcome to the show. 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:11.640 Hey, how's it going, guys? 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.679 Hey you sound like such a nice guy for being 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:16.680 such a badasshole's amat a maker? 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:19.280 Yeah, tell me if I was wrong, But it sounds 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:21.000 like you like to play the dating game a little 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:22.000 bit more straightforward. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.079 Yeah, totally, let's go, man, I mean I don't have 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:26.960 that much time left. I'm not going to sit down 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:27.840 and text all day. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.600 Oh I want to do? 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:32.120 You do this? 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:33.200 Here's my new role. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:33.440 Now. 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:35.519 When I talk to people, it's like, if I don't 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.600 meet up with them right away, it pretty much just 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:38.639 kind of sizzles out. 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:41.359 Okay, I mean I can see how that could happen. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:44.360 If you don't do that, you'll get strung along for 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.400 weeks and months and maybe never even person. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:49.679 What is right away to you? What does that mean? 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:50.560 Yeah? 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:53.000 I think like forty eight to seventy two hours, we 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.920 should at least have like some kind of plan to 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.440 hang out. But like if that plan's not established, and 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:58.880 it's probably never gonna work out. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:00.320 Okay, that's actually. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:00.639 Kind of a rule. 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:04.720 I kind of like that rule, like it's respecting everybody's time. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.760 Yeah, dating runs on deadlines, and so that's good. Jes 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:10.399 you gave Jessica the dating deadline. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:11.600 Well, I don't know. 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:14.000 She I ended up just getting her number and then 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.360 I pretty much like kind of took the conversation elsewhere 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.880 off the app and then started texting from there. 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.200 I feel like that's an important step because otherwise the app, 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:23.919 you don't open it, you know, you don't reply. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:25.359 I don't check this. 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.200 So once it got off of the apps, how did 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:30.400 you and Jessica vibe? 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:33.480 She's really really funny, So she pretty much was just 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.960 saying like, hey, one time, no chat. 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:38.400 Okay, okay. 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:41.080 Did you turn it into an in person date pretty quickly? 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:41.800 Yeah? 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:46.640 We went out for pizza. I love pizza. Oh you 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:48.440 want to know the crazy part about that? 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.360 Yes, that's the only part I want to know. 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.240 We'll start with the crazy part first. Start there. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.840 She looked really different from the photos that one on 0:03:58.880 --> 0:03:59.400 the profile. 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:04.360 Different, not like a cat fish. 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:07.280 I mean she was still like super cute, like for sure, 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.840 but like different different, like different. 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:15.880 Okay again, no, do you mean like she colored her 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:17.000 hair a different. 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:19.719 Color, maybe a full face tattoo that wasn't there before. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:22.359 No, nothing like that, but that would have been like 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:23.159 totally cool. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:26.480 Okay. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:29.960 Overall though you liked what you saw in person. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.160 Yeah, she was cute. It was just different than what 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:36.840 I expected. But could this be my perspective? A lot 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.680 of the photos she had she was wearing sunglasses, so 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.240 you could be misjudged through that. 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:45.039 Oh yeah, sunglasses now cover like seventy percent of the 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:49.800 face they are, so now that we've covered the crazy eye. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:51.360 That was a crazy part. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:52.120 Now that we've. 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.080 Covered all the crazy parts of the date, bring us 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:55.719 to the boring, you know, mushy stuff. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:58.120 Oh yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. Jose wants to know 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.200 how the rest of the date went. 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.760 Everything normal about the day, but then there was like 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:03.960 this one part that was really. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:06.200 Weird, going back to crazy again. 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.040 It wasn't like super crazy, but it was just like 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.120 one of those another different things than I thought. 0:05:12.400 --> 0:05:14.000 Okay, what happened. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:18.400 Well, on her profile, like she talks about like pilates, 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.760 and a bunch of like pilates stuff is on her 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.840 profile a right, so I was kind of I thought 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.159 that was kind of cool about her. But every time 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.800 I would talk to her about pilates, I swear she 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:33.520 would just kept redirecting the conversation into something else. 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.360 Huh weird. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.080 So it's either like you no, it feels like she 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.840 either lied on her bio or you're talking to a 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:42.800 different person than what you're thinking. 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:48.520 That's what I means. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.599 About alexis you put stuff in your profile that you 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.279 don't actually care much about. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:54.359 It's more of like a I love sports. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:06:00.440 I do. Like she was a collegiate athlete, she's more 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:01.480 athletic than you. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.440 Jack, But she also says that she enjoys baseball even 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.120 though she thinks it has a half time. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:11.520 In enjoy half times the game, not halftime, after stretch 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:12.200 the second inning. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:17.600 Jack, I'm just saying maybe she isn't fully into pilates 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:19.279 as much as she claims. 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:21.200 On easier prop to put on there. 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:22.240 Yeah, and I. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.800 Will say there is there is a phenomenon right now 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.159 that if you aren't a die hard fan of something, 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:28.680 you're not allowed to say that you like it. 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.640 You know, how long has it been since you last 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:33.560 spoke to Jessica. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:35.600 It's been like six days. 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:37.680 Oh no, which is a long time. 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.320 When you were moving so quick, you know, you had 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.840 a pacing going, and it's dead. 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:44.640 I don't understand because we both had such a great time. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:46.400 She said she had a great time. I had a 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:46.920 great time. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.960 You know, let's try and keep the great times going. 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:56.480 Come and we give this girl another ultimatum, saying, I 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:59.240 am it's either go out with Dustin now or lose 0:06:59.320 --> 0:06:59.800 him forever. 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:01.200 That's always the old. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:06.359 Yeah, that's just yeah, it just sounds more scary if 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:09.640 you say ultimatum, We're gonna come back and do it 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.040 with your second date right after this. 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:11.520 So hold on. 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.400 Today's second date update begs the question can you fully 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:23.400 trust what you see in someone's dating profile, because our 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.800 listener Dustin met up with a woman from Bumble who 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:28.000 looked a little different than her picture. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.560 Bad though, just different, Yeah. 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:31.800 Like a good, good, different. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.760 And even though her bio talked about pilates a lot, 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.480 she didn't really want to discuss it much on their date, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:38.400 which is. 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:39.240 Kind of strange. 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:43.120 But to be fair, my old dating profile said I'm Jewish, 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.640 but any woman who met up with me would discover 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:49.800 I'm not kosher and not good with money, so probably 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:51.440 equally confusing. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.600 That's a really good point. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.800 Yeah, I mean you can't trust it fully from the 0:07:56.880 --> 0:08:00.720 dating profile. The good news is Dustin, despite the differences, 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.360 really had a good time with her. It felt like 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:06.040 they vibed in ways he hasn't in the two years 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.840 that he has spent on this happ before. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.640 God, I really want this to work out for you, 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:12.400 justin just because you have put in the time and 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.480 the effort and you seem like a good guy. 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.240 Yeah, thanks a lot, Brooke, I really do appreciate that 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:17.680 about you. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.920 Yeah, Oh, you appreciate that she compliments you well her 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.960 her fingers are crossed right now, and she said that, so. 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:26.960 Yeah, you wanted to tell everybody everything. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.800 Okay, I feel like there is some part of Brook 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:31.960 that really is rooting for you today, justin yes. 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:33.599 I am. I think this is going to be a 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.920 simple like miscommunication or something, you know, I. 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:39.080 Mean, yeah, possibly, I mean, I don't know. As long 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:40.520 as you guys get me another date. 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:43.199 Yeah, all right, all right, Well, let's style Jessica right now. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:45.480 We'll see if she picks up and hopefully has a 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:48.520 simple explanation for why she hasn't hit you back colin 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:49.280 her right now, here we go. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:03.640 Huo, hey is this Jessica? Yeah, Hey, Jill. 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:05.440 She's so cute. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:05.720 I know. 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.920 It's so nice to talk to someone who's like positive 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.439 and perky when we're talking to them. Because we're doing 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:12.720 a second Date Update. 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:14.160 Most of our listeners are like, who is this? 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:17.400 Yeah, I'm sorry? 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:19.800 What? Yeah? 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.240 Sorry, threw a lot at you. We're a radio show 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.320 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, which you're on 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:30.439 right now. Congratulations, Hi, okay, hi, and this segment is 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.800 called second Date Update. I don't know if you've heard 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:34.880 it before. But it's a thing where if somebody blows 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:38.160 you off and you're not sure why, we can try 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:41.160 to call that person for you to maybe figure out 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:42.280 if there's a reason for it. 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:47.600 Okay, I didn't blow anyone off. 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:52.199 What Yeah, I mean, I guess I'm talking. She said sick. 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.360 I mean he said six days. So maybe that's not 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:56.760 blowing someone off to you. Maybe that's not enough time. 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:59.400 Yeah, because six days ago you went out with a 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:02.240 guy who, at least according to him, felt like you 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.400 had a really good connection. Afterwards, he feels like you've 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:06.679 been pulling away a little bit. 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:07.760 His name is Dustin. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:15.280 Oh my gosh, I forgot about that one. Huh. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:18.040 Oh my gosh. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:20.440 I'm not trying to blow him off. I just don't 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:21.120 know what to do. 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.480 Oh Okay, I think it's pretty simple. You should text 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:25.839 him and go out with him again. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:26.280 No. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.319 I mean, like, I don't know how much she told 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:32.840 you or what you know, But I actually matched with 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:34.480 Dustin a year and a half ago. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:38.000 A year and a half he said that you guys 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:39.679 just met on the app. 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:42.160 And that you Yeah. So when I got a text 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:45.040 from him like a week ago, I was kind of 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.480 confused because it was like, wait, this is weird, just 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.200 kind of out of the blue. But I was just 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:51.520 like whatever, and I was just like, long time, no chat. 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:52.600 Oh yeah. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:54.920 He said that you made a joke that you were 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.320 joking because you had just been chatting with him. 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.400 It wasn't a joke. It really was a lot time. 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.720 Oh my wait, I'm confused. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:06.719 So you hadn't talked to Dustin in a year and 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:09.480 a half on an app at all, is what you're saying. 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:11.920 Right, it was just a year and a half ago. 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:14.640 You never replied to one of my texts, ok, And 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:16.680 then all of a sudden, Yeah, I get a text 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:17.080 from him. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.600 And then you guys went to pizza, right, You didn't 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:19.960 meet up? 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:20.440 Right? 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.720 We got pizza, and I was kind of like, I 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:25.000 wonder why all of a sudden he wants to talk 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:26.760 to me now. But I was like, I remember he 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.720 and I got along really well on Bumble, and so 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.040 I was just like, yeah, sure, let's get pizza. 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:34.520 And is he in a coma for a year and 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:38.320 a half? Told us you went from the app to that, Yes. 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:39.480 He met a year and a half, And that seems 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:40.720 like a big miscommunication. 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:41.520 What about that? 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:43.280 It has to be the same person. It's the same. 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:47.240 He kept talking about Pilates and how like you kept 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.280 asking about it, and I was like, plat He's like, 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:51.760 I don't have that in my bioen. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:54.760 That's the other girl. Ye oh no. 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:57.679 But then I was like, oh, my gosh, Jessica is 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:03.200 a really common name and my god thinking about it, 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.559 and I was like, oh, shoot. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:08.280 You think that he went out with the wrong Jessica 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:10.840 or texted the wrong Jessica in his fum. 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:14.880 I mean it could have been another Jessica from Bumble. 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:15.600 Wait. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:18.240 Wait, then you have him as Dustin Bumble. He probably 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:19.720 has multiple Jessica Bumbles. 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:20.880 That makes so much sense. 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.400 Did you have fun with them? I did? 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:23.959 Yeah. 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.040 No, I had a lot of fun with him. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:29.600 Even though you had to keep dodging his questions about pilates. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:30.080 Yeah. 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:32.640 I mean, honestly, I didn't know what to say. I 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:37.520 was kind of embarrassed, but like, we were really enjoying ourselves. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:40.160 So this makes sense why Dustin told us that she 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:42.520 didn't look like the pictures from the girl that he 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:43.120 matched with a. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:43.960 Couple of weeks ago. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.560 Wait he said that, yeah, but he added that you 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.439 were super cute. Oh, it's not like it was a disappointment. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:51.600 I think that's important to know. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.920 I also say you're both in the same spot, because 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:57.000 he's like, I don't know where to go from here, 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.000 and she just said I don't know where to go 0:12:59.040 --> 0:12:59.440 from here. 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:02.560 Yeah, bold and limbo, this is kind of perfect. Well, yeah, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:07.080 I guess that's it. Sorry, No, she tell her. 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:09.079 Jeff tell her. She doesn't know how to tell him, 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.319 and now she doesn't even have to. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:13.440 I guess the other option is, if you are interested. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:15.400 Dustin has been listening to this call on the other 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:16.000 phone line. 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:17.520 Yeah, he knows everything. 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:24.720 Oh my gosh, if he hasn't fainted already, Dustin you there. 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:28.480 Holy I can't believe this happened. I'm such an idiot. 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:29.880 I'm such an idiot. 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.360 You guys were talking about it. I was looking through 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:39.560 my phone and I saw all the different Jessica bumbles. 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.680 How many Jessica even. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.760 Talking to I don't know. 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:51.120 I mean, I'm embarrassed, though, I mean, I'm I'm so sorry. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.800 Yeah, when you cut springing up Pilates, I was like, 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:56.480 what why did he bringing this up? 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:56.600 Like? 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:58.160 Did you want to see a move? 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.120 I don't know what you're talking about, but I know 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.439 I know now. I just I thought it was very 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.040 interesting at the time, that's all. 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:10.000 He was only asking because he thought that you were 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:13.480 super interested in it. But that was a different Jessica Bumble. 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.720 I mean now you need to maybe tell him what 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:18.880 are your hobbies in interest because he has no idea. 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:24.920 I actually love soccer and I love hiking, and I 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.280 speak a little French, and yeah, I. 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:29.400 Think I remember that from a year and a half. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:33.200 Ago, or was that the other Jessica Bumble Like Jessica 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:34.040 Bumble number four. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.600 Oh, that's right. 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:40.040 You could have saved so much time and headache in 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:41.960 your life if you would have just gone out a 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:43.200 year and a half ago. 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:49.000 Broke You're so right again, I'm just such an idiot. 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:52.080 Women do like hearing that, So that's a good thing 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.880 for you to start saying. So, now that we've cleared 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:59.360 up the big misunderstanding and you realize who each other are, 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.440 you like each other at least it seems that way 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.680 from our perspective. We'd like to offer to send you 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:06.400 out on another date, Jessica, and we would pay for 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:07.320 it if you say yes. 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:10.560 Maybe this could be like a mistake that was meant 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:10.800 to be. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:12.200 Oh well, see that. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.760 I need to turn it around. Come on, Dustin. 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:19.680 I want to hear something from Dustin, and depending on 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:24.080 what he says, maybe I'll say yes, Oh, what is it? 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:28.440 Out of all this Jessica's, which one do you like best? 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:32.720 If you tough an answer here, He's like Jessica. 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.200 Eighteen, Well, to be honest, Look to be honest, Jessica, 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:37.360 You're the only Jessica I had a real connection with 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:40.040 all the other Jessica's I never even hung out with. 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:41.280 Look at that, you're the. 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:45.360 You're the only one that would talk to me. 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:47.880 He's too honest. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:50.840 Did that answer your question, Jessica? 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:52.000 It did. 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:53.920 Yeah, I'll go out again. 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:57.800 I think they're so cute. 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:01.720 Well, congratulations you two. You're going out again, and it's 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:03.160 probably a good lesson for you. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:03.560 Dustin. 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:05.560 You gotta put the year that you matched with the 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.360 person next to their names in your contacts. 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:09.480 I'm always like day. 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:12.360 I'm hoping after this he doesn't have any more matches 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.240 like this is it? 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:15.360 I think after this, I'm not going to use the 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:16.680 dating apps for a while. 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:19.760 Yeah, after two years, bro, you need a. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:20.280 Break, ye. 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:24.000 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:27.680 See, that's why we do the second date updates, Jessica 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:28.800 said she didn't. 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:29.520 Know what to do. 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.840 She was caught middy with a guy who thought that 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:34.000 she was somebody else. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.680 God that is so it's my worst nightmare. 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:40.640 It would be a turnoff obviously, but it was like 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:43.040 super awkward, Like how do you even bring that up? 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:45.560 The thing is that she wasn't a total stranger. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.440 They'd matched eighteen months before then, and like we heard, 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.240 they seemed to be actually pretty cute together. 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.800 I mean, sometimes it's all about timing, you know. Maybe 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:55.560 maybe eighteen months. 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:57.120 Ago he would have thought, oh, I just got on 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.240 the dating apps, It's going to be awesome, and then 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:01.400 now he's too year's in He's like, wait, it's not. 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:05.199 Is there a part of me that thinks Dustin is 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:08.119 texting the other Jessica right now, the one that he 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:09.120 ghosted a week ago? 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:10.639