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Speaker 1: Before we get to your brand new second Date update. Today,

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Speaker 1: it's Brook and Jeffrey and you did find the Second

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Speaker 1: Date Update podcast. We gotta go back because we asked

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Speaker 1: y'all on Wednesday for the weirdest, most ridiculous question you've

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Speaker 1: ever been asked on a.

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Speaker 2: First day, and I love some of the responses. Yes,

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Speaker 2: what's one that we got?

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Speaker 1: All right, I gotta read Matthews, who said, y'all asked,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to answer it.

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Speaker 2: They asked which toe is your favorite? I'm cringing while

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Speaker 2: typing this.

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Speaker 3: I've never even thought of a favorite.

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Speaker 2: I mean, isn't it obvious that it's a pinky?

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Speaker 3: Help your balance?

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Speaker 2: My pinkies are a little weird from running, so I

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Speaker 2: might have.

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Speaker 4: My sister has a weird that she's flipping you off.

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Speaker 3: It's longer than the other one.

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Speaker 1: I think we lost our gained listeners. Maybe we'll do

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Speaker 1: that again next week, Thanks Matthew. Basically, we just normalized

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Speaker 1: your weird question. Time to start your Friday with a

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Speaker 1: brand new second Date update, and this one definitely has

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Speaker 1: a new method for dating that hopefully can eliminate all

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Speaker 1: the swiping in the endless chats. So we'll see if

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Speaker 1: it works starts right now.

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Speaker 3: The second date updated.

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Speaker 5: If you ask me and Brook, you'll probably agree with this.

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Speaker 5: The dating world needs more ultimatums.

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Speaker 2: No, Jack, Yes, No, are not ever good.

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Speaker 5: Ever, I think maybe we need them because the more

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Speaker 5: listeners we talk to, everybody seems so indecisive, so wishy washy, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: maybe i'll date her, or maybe that other hot girl,

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Speaker 5: or maybe I'll just stick with my wife.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know what.

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Speaker 6: Here.

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Speaker 5: Ultimatum suddenly sounding good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they stick to your wife? Like, what is happening?

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Speaker 3: Ultimating?

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Speaker 5: That's why I appreciate somebody who's actually willing to lay

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Speaker 5: all their cards down on the table and say this

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Speaker 5: is it?

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Speaker 3: Take it or leave it?

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Speaker 5: Apparently that's how our listener, Dustin rolls ultimatum style. Well

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Speaker 5: that's the vibe I got from his email, Dustin.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 7: Hey, how's it going, guys?

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Speaker 1: Hey you sound like such a nice guy for being

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Speaker 1: such a badasshole's amat a maker?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, tell me if I was wrong, But it sounds

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Speaker 5: like you like to play the dating game a little

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Speaker 5: bit more straightforward.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, totally, let's go, man, I mean I don't have

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Speaker 6: that much time left. I'm not going to sit down

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Speaker 6: and text all day.

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Speaker 3: Oh I want to do?

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Speaker 5: You do this?

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Speaker 7: Here's my new role.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 7: When I talk to people, it's like, if I don't

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Speaker 7: meet up with them right away, it pretty much just

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean I can see how that could happen.

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Speaker 5: If you don't do that, you'll get strung along for

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Speaker 2: What is right away to you? What does that mean?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I think like forty eight to seventy two hours, we

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Speaker 6: should at least have like some kind of plan to

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Speaker 6: hang out. But like if that plan's not established, and

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Speaker 6: it's probably never gonna work out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's actually.

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Speaker 8: Kind of a rule.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that rule, like it's respecting everybody's time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dating runs on deadlines, and so that's good. Jes

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Speaker 5: you gave Jessica the dating deadline.

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Speaker 7: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: She I ended up just getting her number and then

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's an important step because otherwise the app,

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Speaker 2: I don't check this.

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Speaker 5: So once it got off of the apps, how did

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Speaker 5: you and Jessica vibe?

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Speaker 6: She's really really funny, So she pretty much was just

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Did you turn it into an in person date pretty quickly?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: We went out for pizza. I love pizza. Oh you

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Speaker 6: want to know the crazy part about that?

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's the only part I want to know.

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Speaker 3: We'll start with the crazy part first. Start there.

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Speaker 6: She looked really different from the photos that one on

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Speaker 7: Different, not like a cat fish.

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Speaker 1: Okay again, no, do you mean like she colored her

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Speaker 4: Color, maybe a full face tattoo that wasn't there before.

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Speaker 7: No, nothing like that, but that would have been like

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Speaker 7: totally cool.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Overall though you liked what you saw in person.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she was cute. It was just different than what

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Speaker 6: I expected. But could this be my perspective? A lot

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Speaker 6: of the photos she had she was wearing sunglasses, so

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, sunglasses now cover like seventy percent of the

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Speaker 5: face they are, so now that we've covered the crazy eye.

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Speaker 2: That was a crazy part.

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Speaker 3: Now that we've.

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Speaker 5: Covered all the crazy parts of the date, bring us

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Speaker 5: to the boring, you know, mushy stuff.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. Jose wants to know

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Speaker 3: how the rest of the date went.

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Speaker 6: Everything normal about the day, but then there was like

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Speaker 3: Weird, going back to crazy again.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't like super crazy, but it was just like

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Speaker 2: Okay, what happened.

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Speaker 6: Well, on her profile, like she talks about like pilates,

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Speaker 6: and a bunch of like pilates stuff is on her

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Speaker 6: that was kind of cool about her. But every time

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Speaker 2: Huh weird.

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Speaker 1: So it's either like you no, it feels like she

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Speaker 1: either lied on her bio or you're talking to a

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Speaker 2: That's what I means.

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Speaker 5: About alexis you put stuff in your profile that you

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Speaker 3: It's more of like a I love sports.

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Speaker 1: I do. Like she was a collegiate athlete, she's more

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Speaker 5: Jack, But she also says that she enjoys baseball even

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Speaker 5: though she thinks it has a half time.

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Speaker 4: In enjoy half times the game, not halftime, after stretch

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Speaker 4: the second inning.

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Speaker 5: Jack, I'm just saying maybe she isn't fully into pilates

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Speaker 5: as much as she claims.

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Speaker 2: On easier prop to put on there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I.

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Speaker 1: Will say there is there is a phenomenon right now

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Speaker 1: that if you aren't a die hard fan of something,

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Speaker 5: You know, how long has it been since you last

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Speaker 5: spoke to Jessica.

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Speaker 7: It's been like six days.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, which is a long time.

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Speaker 1: When you were moving so quick, you know, you had

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Speaker 7: I don't understand because we both had such a great time.

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Speaker 7: She said she had a great time. I had a

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Speaker 3: You know, let's try and keep the great times going.

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Speaker 5: Come and we give this girl another ultimatum, saying, I

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Speaker 5: am it's either go out with Dustin now or lose

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Speaker 5: him forever.

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Speaker 4: That's always the old.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just yeah, it just sounds more scary if

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Speaker 5: you say ultimatum, We're gonna come back and do it

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Speaker 5: with your second date right after this.

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Speaker 3: So hold on.

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Speaker 5: Today's second date update begs the question can you fully

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Speaker 5: trust what you see in someone's dating profile, because our

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Speaker 5: listener Dustin met up with a woman from Bumble who

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Speaker 5: looked a little different than her picture.

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Speaker 2: Bad though, just different, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Like a good, good, different.

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Speaker 5: And even though her bio talked about pilates a lot,

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Speaker 5: she didn't really want to discuss it much on their date,

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Speaker 5: which is.

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Speaker 3: Kind of strange.

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Speaker 5: But to be fair, my old dating profile said I'm Jewish,

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Speaker 5: but any woman who met up with me would discover

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Speaker 5: I'm not kosher and not good with money, so probably

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Speaker 2: That's a really good point.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you can't trust it fully from the

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Speaker 5: dating profile. The good news is Dustin, despite the differences,

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Speaker 5: really had a good time with her. It felt like

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Speaker 5: they vibed in ways he hasn't in the two years

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Speaker 5: that he has spent on this happ before.

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Speaker 1: God, I really want this to work out for you,

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Speaker 1: justin just because you have put in the time and

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Speaker 1: the effort and you seem like a good guy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks a lot, Brooke, I really do appreciate that

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh, you appreciate that she compliments you well her

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Speaker 5: her fingers are crossed right now, and she said that, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you wanted to tell everybody everything.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I feel like there is some part of Brook

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Speaker 5: that really is rooting for you today, justin yes.

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Speaker 1: I am. I think this is going to be a

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Speaker 1: simple like miscommunication or something, you know, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean, yeah, possibly, I mean, I don't know. As long

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Speaker 6: as you guys get me another date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, all right, Well, let's style Jessica right now.

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Speaker 5: We'll see if she picks up and hopefully has a

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Speaker 5: simple explanation for why she hasn't hit you back colin

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Speaker 5: her right now, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Huo, hey is this Jessica? Yeah, Hey, Jill.

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Speaker 2: She's so cute.

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Speaker 7: I know.

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Speaker 5: It's so nice to talk to someone who's like positive

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Speaker 5: and perky when we're talking to them. Because we're doing

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Speaker 5: a second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: Most of our listeners are like, who is this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry?

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Speaker 6: What? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, threw a lot at you. We're a radio show

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Speaker 5: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, which you're on

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Speaker 5: right now. Congratulations, Hi, okay, hi, and this segment is

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Speaker 5: called second Date Update. I don't know if you've heard

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Speaker 5: it before. But it's a thing where if somebody blows

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Speaker 5: you off and you're not sure why, we can try

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Speaker 5: to call that person for you to maybe figure out

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Speaker 5: if there's a reason for it.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I didn't blow anyone off.

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Speaker 2: What Yeah, I mean, I guess I'm talking. She said sick.

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Speaker 1: I mean he said six days. So maybe that's not

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Speaker 1: blowing someone off to you. Maybe that's not enough time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because six days ago you went out with a

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Speaker 3: His name is Dustin.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I forgot about that one. Huh.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 8: I'm not trying to blow him off. I just don't

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Speaker 2: Oh Okay, I think it's pretty simple. You should text

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 8: I mean, like, I don't know how much she told

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Speaker 1: A year and a half he said that you guys

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Speaker 8: And that you Yeah. So when I got a text

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: He said that you made a joke that you were

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Speaker 8: It wasn't a joke. It really was a lot time.

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Speaker 3: Oh my wait, I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: So you hadn't talked to Dustin in a year and

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Speaker 8: Right, it was just a year and a half ago.

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Speaker 8: You never replied to one of my texts, ok, And

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Speaker 2: And then you guys went to pizza, right, You didn't

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 8: We got pizza, and I was kind of like, I

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Speaker 8: I was just like, yeah, sure, let's get pizza.

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Speaker 2: And is he in a coma for a year and

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Speaker 2: a half? Told us you went from the app to that, Yes.

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Speaker 5: He met a year and a half, And that seems

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Speaker 3: What about that?

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Speaker 2: It has to be the same person. It's the same.

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Speaker 8: He kept talking about Pilates and how like you kept

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Speaker 8: asking about it, and I was like, plat He's like,

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Speaker 8: I don't have that in my bioen.

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Speaker 3: That's the other girl. Ye oh no.

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Speaker 8: But then I was like, oh, my gosh, Jessica is

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Speaker 5: You think that he went out with the wrong Jessica

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Speaker 5: or texted the wrong Jessica in his fum.

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Speaker 8: I mean it could have been another Jessica from Bumble.

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Speaker 6: Wait.

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Speaker 4: Wait, then you have him as Dustin Bumble. He probably

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Speaker 4: has multiple Jessica Bumbles.

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Speaker 3: That makes so much sense.

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Speaker 2: Did you have fun with them? I did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: No, I had a lot of fun with him.

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Speaker 5: Even though you had to keep dodging his questions about pilates.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I mean, honestly, I didn't know what to say. I

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Speaker 5: So this makes sense why Dustin told us that she

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Speaker 3: Couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Wait he said that, yeah, but he added that you

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Speaker 1: I think that's important to know.

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Speaker 4: I also say you're both in the same spot, because

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Speaker 4: he's like, I don't know where to go from here,

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Speaker 4: and she just said I don't know where to go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bold and limbo, this is kind of perfect. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I guess that's it. Sorry, No, she tell her.

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Speaker 2: Jeff tell her. She doesn't know how to tell him,

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Speaker 5: I guess the other option is, if you are interested.

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Speaker 5: Dustin has been listening to this call on the other

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Speaker 5: phone line.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he knows everything.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, if he hasn't fainted already, Dustin you there.

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Speaker 7: Holy I can't believe this happened. I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 2: I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 7: You guys were talking about it. I was looking through

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Speaker 8: How many Jessica even.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm embarrassed, though, I mean, I'm I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, when you cut springing up Pilates, I was like,

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Speaker 8: what why did he bringing this up?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 8: Did you want to see a move?

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Speaker 7: I don't know what you're talking about, but I know

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Speaker 5: He was only asking because he thought that you were

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Speaker 1: I mean now you need to maybe tell him what

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Speaker 8: I actually love soccer and I love hiking, and I

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Speaker 7: Think I remember that from a year and a half.

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Speaker 5: Ago, or was that the other Jessica Bumble Like Jessica

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Speaker 5: Bumble number four.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's right.

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Speaker 1: You could have saved so much time and headache in

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Speaker 6: Broke You're so right again, I'm just such an idiot.

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Speaker 5: Women do like hearing that, So that's a good thing

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Speaker 5: for you to start saying. So, now that we've cleared

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Speaker 5: up the big misunderstanding and you realize who each other are,

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Speaker 5: you like each other at least it seems that way

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Speaker 5: from our perspective. We'd like to offer to send you

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Speaker 5: it if you say yes.

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Speaker 7: Maybe this could be like a mistake that was meant

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Speaker 6: Oh well, see that.

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Speaker 2: I need to turn it around. Come on, Dustin.

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Speaker 8: I want to hear something from Dustin, and depending on

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Speaker 8: what he says, maybe I'll say yes, Oh, what is it?

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Speaker 8: Out of all this Jessica's, which one do you like best?

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Speaker 3: If you tough an answer here, He's like Jessica.

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Speaker 7: Eighteen, Well, to be honest, Look to be honest, Jessica,

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Speaker 7: You're the only Jessica I had a real connection with

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Speaker 7: all the other Jessica's I never even hung out with.

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Speaker 2: Look at that, you're the.

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Speaker 3: You're the only one that would talk to me.

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Speaker 4: He's too honest.

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Speaker 3: Did that answer your question, Jessica?

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Speaker 8: It did.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll go out again.

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Speaker 2: I think they're so cute.

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Speaker 5: Well, congratulations you two. You're going out again, and it's

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Speaker 5: probably a good lesson for you.

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Speaker 3: Dustin.

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Speaker 5: You gotta put the year that you matched with the

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Speaker 4: I'm always like day.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping after this he doesn't have any more matches

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Speaker 1: like this is it?

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Speaker 7: I think after this, I'm not going to use the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, after two years, bro, you need a.

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Speaker 7: Break, ye.

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: See, that's why we do the second date updates, Jessica

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Speaker 5: said she didn't.

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Speaker 3: Know what to do.

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Speaker 5: She was caught middy with a guy who thought that

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Speaker 2: God that is so it's my worst nightmare.

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Speaker 5: It would be a turnoff obviously, but it was like

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Speaker 3: The thing is that she wasn't a total stranger.

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Speaker 5: They'd matched eighteen months before then, and like we heard,

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Speaker 5: they seemed to be actually pretty cute together.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sometimes it's all about timing, you know. Maybe

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Speaker 1: Ago he would have thought, oh, I just got on

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Speaker 1: the dating apps, It's going to be awesome, and then

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Speaker 1: now he's too year's in He's like, wait, it's not.

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Speaker 5: Is there a part of me that thinks Dustin is

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Speaker 5: ghosted a week ago?

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Speaker 2: How dare you even bring that up?

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Speaker 5: On's remember, he is a guy and we're addicted to

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Speaker 5: the chase. Hey, hopefully he can just focus on the

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Speaker 5: current Jessica and the good thing that they have going.

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Speaker 2: Why would you even put that in his head? If

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Speaker 2: he's listening, if you're.

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Speaker 4: Listening, change the other Jessica's to do not text yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or just delete their number. That's even easier.

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Speaker 5: You know, never say never yeah, but remember you can

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Speaker 5: listen to all of our Second Date updates on Spotify, Apple,

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Speaker 5: or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 3: A Brook and Jeffrey