Speaker 1: Talk Talk Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women
Speaker 1: with an opinion to talk back. What's up y'all?
Speaker 2: Thank you for turning there for a new episode and
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Speaker 1: Love it. What's up y'all?
Speaker 2: Sh your co host, AJ Holiday, your graade a day,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 1: Team? Hey, y'all, it's be damn man. I love y'all.
Speaker 1: I love you too, AJ, I love you more. I'm
Speaker 1: dead meat. You're not, y'all. I got scammed. I got
Speaker 1: scammed out my money. Man, y'all, pray for me. Niggas
Speaker 1: looking for me?
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody looking for you? You better be looking for niggas
Speaker 2: because you know I'm a whole pet detective bitch down
Speaker 2: found a nigga whole track record.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, we're gonna have to hunt this nigga down. Listen.
Speaker 2: I am not somebody that can and be easily scammed
Speaker 2: the way I be looking up shit and trying to
Speaker 2: figure shit out about people like I need to know
Speaker 2: all the shit, especially depending on how much we talking.
Speaker 1: Money for me to be too lax with it. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it's just because of who it was going through. I
Speaker 1: just thought it was like legitimate, yeah, because we've had
Speaker 1: so much successful business together that this time I just
Speaker 1: assumed it was more of the same. Baby they they
Speaker 1: done took me out of house at home. If y'all
Speaker 1: love me, send me a couple of dollars to my
Speaker 1: cash out the money sign TAM's vanity. You better say
Speaker 1: that clip, bitch, money signed TAM's vanity. No, I feel
Speaker 1: like smoky, y'all. I feel like big worm.
Speaker 2: Coming times is hard, like everybody fucking struggling. So you
Speaker 2: gotta be careful because I think even regular people out
Speaker 2: here doing some shit.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't normally do.
Speaker 2: A lot of bitches is taking forty dollars around this time.
Speaker 2: Christmas coming up, bitch.
Speaker 1: If I get dealt with, I get dealt with. No man,
Speaker 1: how is your weekend? Anyway? The weekend was lived. The
Speaker 1: weekend was live.
Speaker 2: Mom was partially let y'all y'all know, I don't be
Speaker 2: outside for real, and anybody who listens to this show, no,
Speaker 2: I'd be in the house.
Speaker 1: Me and AJ was supposed to have a fun, fielled weekend.
Speaker 1: Starting with Friday night, we hosted the return of Main
Speaker 1: Event party hosted by us. It was produced by Peanut
Speaker 1: and Stretch Me Short. But baby, we had fun at night.
Speaker 1: We was in there cutting up on Miles Friday, Friday night.
Speaker 1: I ain't see aj no more than just now.
Speaker 2: No, bitch, you saw me on Sunday.
Speaker 1: We did a photo shoot on Sunday. I saw her
Speaker 1: Sunday for the hour and she came in like I
Speaker 1: still seek.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to blame Sam because he bought us
Speaker 2: some big ass cups of fucking costumegos. And I've learned
Speaker 2: my lesson. I can't do that shit, and I cannot
Speaker 2: do patrol, like if it's not Don Julio or like
Speaker 2: some I can do.
Speaker 1: What about I never had that? You should try that one?
Speaker 1: That one I never had that. I can't drink it,
Speaker 1: like I can't have a bow movement on these liquors.
Speaker 2: So now it's just sitting in my fucking stomach off
Speaker 2: fucking weekend, I'm eating drink off Friday night. Tammy like,
Speaker 2: let's take a shot. I'm like, bitch, this is a
Speaker 2: shot on top of that. No, it's not a shot.
Speaker 2: If it got ice in it, it is still a
Speaker 2: shot to me. Like we had just gotten a cup
Speaker 2: and he was like, let's take a shot on top
Speaker 2: of the shot.
Speaker 1: I got one big shot, the shot with this cup
Speaker 1: of icy liquor. No, she trying to chase a shot
Speaker 1: with a cup of liquor. What are we doing.
Speaker 2: I'll put a little taple juice and see. I know
Speaker 2: my body do on process? Look it the same way anymore?
Speaker 2: So I be getting like really fucked up, like and
Speaker 2: I can't, I couldn't function. Did you go on Saturday?
Speaker 1: Did y'all go to the strip club? No? We did.
Speaker 1: We did. That's a real strip club. You know, what's
Speaker 1: the name of it? For Roads Gold? Y'all?
Speaker 2: We went the Roads Gold. They don't get bucket naked
Speaker 2: in there. But I was trying to get the cute
Speaker 2: bitches in the section we was in.
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, just wait, I'm try to get
Speaker 1: y'all because they had some fucking rats up there. There's
Speaker 1: always a few, Like the.
Speaker 2: Cute girls is like sitting at the step wanting to
Speaker 2: get up here, like I want them up here, not
Speaker 2: these fucking hood rats.
Speaker 1: But they probably got the better bodies, yes they did.
Speaker 2: No, not that the girls that was in the section
Speaker 2: did not have the better bodies.
Speaker 1: The cute girls they was hustling. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Apparently one of the girls it was her birthday, so
Speaker 2: she rented out one of the sections.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the niggas had to bring the other girls
Speaker 2: up there if they wanted them up there.
Speaker 1: Y'all. I went to another bar. I went to a
Speaker 1: bar after that, and then next morning I got up,
Speaker 1: I had breakfas and got dressed and went to the game.
Speaker 1: Had so much fun at the game, got to see
Speaker 1: all the people. Everybody was like, we're AJ, We're AJ.
Speaker 1: She on the way, We're AJ. Oh, she on the way.
Speaker 1: We're aged. She said, she on the way. Like, I
Speaker 1: just told everybody that you were on the way. But
Speaker 1: that's you lying to people, because the bitch telling motherfuckers
Speaker 1: I'm on the way and you ain't talk to me.
Speaker 1: I just assumed you was on the way. I was
Speaker 1: on the way to sleep. When I tell you, I
Speaker 1: probably slept.
Speaker 2: I did get up, I did get up, and I
Speaker 2: probably went back into bed like four o'clock some from
Speaker 2: by four to four to eight. I was realized sleeping
Speaker 2: until end of tailgating for y'all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got to tailgate at two and I left
Speaker 1: there like eight. Then I went home, ate some ate
Speaker 1: some my plate, took a shower, changed clothes back outside.
Speaker 1: I didn't do it, and I stayed out till like
Speaker 1: I regretted three because I haven't I haven't been to
Speaker 1: homecoming since twenty sixteen, and I really wanted to go
Speaker 1: out there and tailgate. I know, cause it was probably
Speaker 1: one hundred different little cookouts. Yeah, it was like one
Speaker 1: hundred little cookouts that everybody giving you food right and dancing.
Speaker 1: It was just such a good time. I peek between
Speaker 1: two trucks, like, I, yo, what I had to do
Speaker 1: this Sunday. I got up. We did a photo shoot.
Speaker 1: Those pictures will be out too, y'all. They're gonna be
Speaker 1: so cute. Then I went by the State Fair, but
Speaker 1: I couldn't get in because the line was just too long. Oh.
Speaker 2: We did try to go to the fair on Saturday night.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. We tried to go, but you had to
Speaker 1: be there before nine to fifteen. It was open until
Speaker 1: midnight that you had to like get in, yeah, before
Speaker 1: nine to fifteen. Then I drove back to Charlotte and
Speaker 1: then got dressed, did another photo shoot for a car
Speaker 1: company out here, then went to stk then went to
Speaker 1: a bar alone because my friends didn't show up, so
Speaker 1: I was pissed off at them. Shame. So my weekend
Speaker 1: was completely jam packed, fun filled.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I gotta be mentally prepared to go outside,
Speaker 2: and a lot of times I'm.
Speaker 1: Just not like I did the one thing. I came
Speaker 1: to Colombia to do the one thing. You did the
Speaker 1: two because you did the photo shoot.
Speaker 2: All right, yeah, yeah, the very important things. Not saying
Speaker 2: homecoming isn't important. But y'all listen, I'm not a real alumni.
Speaker 2: Ive been in a college because I do not have
Speaker 2: my degree. But should I got enough student loans that
Speaker 2: says I got a degree? Okay, but yeah that's my
Speaker 2: school too. But anyway, let's get into stupid inner net news.
Speaker 1: Let's get to it. Did you see this fool, Brian McKnight,
Speaker 1: Brian mcfucking fool, last nigga so mad Brian McNugget, Why
Speaker 1: is he doing his kids like this?
Speaker 2: So the Internet is currently slamming Brian mckknife for legally
Speaker 2: changing his name to match his newborn's son name, despite
Speaker 2: having uh Brian McKnight already, So now his son. You know,
Speaker 2: the sun took the high road. I don't think I
Speaker 2: would have, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. So I guess he raised or
Speaker 1: whoever raised the kids did a pretty good job.
Speaker 2: Because he is trying to erase his past as far
Speaker 2: as one last cry before I leave you all, he
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck you love his kids behind like that.
Speaker 1: Wow yeah wow.
Speaker 2: So he goes to Instagram and he says he's so
Speaker 2: proud to introduce his son, Brian Keyoah mccoa Junior sounds
Speaker 2: awaiian right yeah. The back at one singer fifty four
Speaker 2: captioned a snap of the infant's face on Instagram Friday
Speaker 2: to the world with the release of my new album
Speaker 2: Loving Lovingly created for him Junior. Because I am also
Speaker 2: proud to officially announce that I have legally changed my
Speaker 2: name to exactly match my legacies. So he's calling this
Speaker 2: new child his legacy. But he has adult children. So
Speaker 2: the original Brian McKnight Junior posted to his story saying
Speaker 2: I'm ashamed. Excuse me, He says, I'm not ashamed of
Speaker 2: the name my ancestors had. I'll never change the name
Speaker 2: my own son now has. So now he has a
Speaker 2: third right, we are witnessing an obscene level of self
Speaker 2: hate that has reached mental illness status. At this point,
Speaker 2: all we can do is pray for that man and
Speaker 2: my new little brother who will who we will all
Speaker 2: welcome with open arms one day once he realizes who
Speaker 2: his real family is. Legacy isn't in the name, it's
Speaker 2: in the character.
Speaker 1: Of the people. It will all be quite clear soon.
Speaker 2: Just who's on the right side of all of this,
Speaker 2: because there's no escaping what's coming whatever's coming up.
Speaker 1: That's why they named that baby.
Speaker 2: If he's no worries, you know that that is definitely
Speaker 2: taking the high road. I feel bad for his other children,
Speaker 2: Like nigga, what you know, the love for children, and
Speaker 2: I've said this before, it is transferable for the love
Speaker 2: that man has for the woman.
Speaker 1: Do you hate your ex wife, ex girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Babyman, I don't know if they were married whatever the
Speaker 2: kids I'm assuming we're married. Do you hate her that
Speaker 2: much to where you don't fuck with the kids that
Speaker 2: you go create a whole new legacy and you you
Speaker 2: literally name yourself after the new baby.
Speaker 1: Right, Like, I can't call him junior, so I'll just
Speaker 1: change my name so he can be a junior. Is nuts?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. About Brian McKnight. He's one of
Speaker 2: my favorite R and B singers. But that nigga is
Speaker 2: definitely wow. He's a devo also. But I do think
Speaker 2: it is a mental illness.
Speaker 1: I just hope. I just pray to God that I
Speaker 1: don't get fifty and start getting retarded, because there's a
Speaker 1: lot of that going on. Man. I don't know, Man,
Speaker 1: I don't know. M Paul sle Brony Knight Right, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm doing the next one.
Speaker 2: Yes, bitch, I'm waiting, looking at she looking at me.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at her like, bitch, what's today? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like you see, look, Tanny got this fucking mug, white
Speaker 2: little dog of hers whining while we're trying to record.
Speaker 1: It's so needy. I can't wait to go back to
Speaker 1: the studio. Listen.
Speaker 2: I do not know why people like French cheese. They
Speaker 2: are not cute. Now the dog is cute because it's
Speaker 2: a dog. I love animals.
Speaker 1: Cute. No, close your ears, bell. I put her in
Speaker 1: the mirror and she like really was scrumming and get
Speaker 1: the fuck out of her. She didn't like it, eything.
Speaker 1: She just scared.
Speaker 2: She's not just scared, she's be harassing you and she
Speaker 2: like flies at you.
Speaker 1: So moving on because we're not gonna talk about my
Speaker 1: child Fri. It's from Love and Hip Hop. Miami revealed
Speaker 1: his alleged short lived fling with Laurie Harvey. So the
Speaker 1: brother is saying that him and Laurie Harvey had a
Speaker 1: thing and it wasn't a long thing, but they did,
Speaker 1: and it's his truth to tell and y'all can't drag
Speaker 1: him because of his truth. But it's like, why are
Speaker 1: you name drama name dropping women? Yeah, he is fine.
Speaker 1: He said he said she was thick Lori Harvey when
Speaker 1: he was sucking with her. Laur Harvey obviously a real
Speaker 1: nigga because.
Speaker 2: They really be out here, like how people do go Guys, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like I used to fuck with him. They're like I
Speaker 1: used to fuck with her, Like all love them, any
Speaker 1: one of them. They're ready. And she says nothing, nothing,
Speaker 1: zero energy. Never I pay you in dust period. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry to this. I'm sorry to this man. I do
Speaker 1: not know this man. That's the real m v P
Speaker 1: Her Mama, Marjorie Harvey. That's what we need a book
Speaker 1: from exactly, not fuck Steve. But I mean his book
Speaker 1: was cool, but we want to think like Marjorie.
Speaker 2: Harvey exactly okay, because her fucking daughter be out here
Speaker 2: icing these niggas like they ain't ship, y'all can learn
Speaker 2: the thing too, and maybe they being their feelings about
Speaker 2: her for real, like future he's still be rapping by
Speaker 2: her ass, like the fuck and did y'all even smash?
Speaker 1: Did they even get the Floord said I'm sorry to
Speaker 1: this man. I do not know this man period.
Speaker 2: So jay Z is suggusting that you niggas take that
Speaker 2: fine hundred okay, because this motherfucker said he is nothing
Speaker 2: extra to tell y'all that's not already in the music
Speaker 2: for ten ninety nine.
Speaker 1: Okay, why would you not.
Speaker 2: Take a half a m as opposed to having a
Speaker 2: whole sit down with jay Z. He's saying take the money,
Speaker 2: like dum, I don't want to sit down with nobody
Speaker 2: that fucking bad. I don't want dinner that bad. Listen
Speaker 2: for all I'm missing is the money. I really got
Speaker 2: all the fucking ideas, all I.
Speaker 1: Need is the money. Yeah, I'm glad jay Z came
Speaker 1: out and said that because your niggas is dumb enough
Speaker 1: to really be like, I'm gonna talk to jay Z
Speaker 1: instead of getting paid five hundred thousand, right, because he
Speaker 1: gonna have knowledge that would get me to find no,
Speaker 1: sit down there five hundred thousand worth of game in
Speaker 1: a dinner. Yeah, y'all was definitely bugging.
Speaker 2: If anybody who said they want the money, I mean,
Speaker 2: who want Anybody who said they wanted the dinner as
Speaker 2: opposed to getting the money might have some.
Speaker 1: Type of mental illness, yes, for sure, or already rich.
Speaker 1: Even if I was already take the five hundred.
Speaker 2: Yes, give me the five hundred k. You can do
Speaker 2: a lot with that, even with already having you know, ms.
Speaker 1: But if you were a billionaire, and then I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll sit down with jay Z for dinner on my boat. Right,
Speaker 1: But listen, this is what I want to talk about.
Speaker 1: And this is alleged, but Dwight Howard has reportedly admitted
Speaker 1: to meeting with a man who accused him of sexual
Speaker 1: assault on social media to meet up for a threesome.
Speaker 1: And when the when old boy got there, it was
Speaker 1: another man who was dressed as a woman named Kitty Child. Right,
Speaker 1: and they want and Dwight wanted a sexual experience with
Speaker 1: all of them, and he was with it and it
Speaker 1: turned into an assault situation where he felt like he
Speaker 1: was telling against his will and made to do things
Speaker 1: that he did not, and he said Dwight Howard went
Speaker 1: down on him. Yeah, but you know, we've been hearing
Speaker 1: this stuff about Dwight for a long time. My grandma said,
Speaker 1: if somebody say you smoke crack for twenty years, you
Speaker 1: spoke you crack. So if everybody's say the same thing
Speaker 1: for twenty years, it's probably true.
Speaker 2: What's his baby mama named Royce? Yeah, Royce Reed, And
Speaker 2: you know she has a son with him. Now, this
Speaker 2: son has some issues. He can be labeled as a
Speaker 2: sexual dtian, you know. And some of this stuff is
Speaker 2: a genetics. Is it genetics? Because this is not the
Speaker 2: first time somebody has come out and said, and I'm
Speaker 2: pretty sure he might have not paid some money in court,
Speaker 2: that's not the first time.
Speaker 1: I don't think.
Speaker 2: I feel like I've heard something like this before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've heard it before too, That's what I'm saying. Well,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm all about, people exploring sexually and
Speaker 1: doing what makes them happy, but just don't assault nobody
Speaker 1: in the midst of it. Yeah, that's wild as fuck.
Speaker 2: That nigga is wild y'all, let's get to this fucking
Speaker 2: list that's been floating around social media, and you know,
Speaker 2: I feel like.
Speaker 1: This was created by man.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think some group of women, because this
Speaker 2: is what the thing says, a group of ladies make
Speaker 2: a list of places men shouldn't take them on for
Speaker 2: a first date. I'd like to know the original source
Speaker 2: of this. It says, here's a list of places women
Speaker 2: absolutely refused to go on a first date too. And
Speaker 2: thank you to the ladies who reached out to me
Speaker 2: to help me put the list together. I don't know
Speaker 2: who their original sources, but let's go down this list
Speaker 2: right quick. To me, Cheesecake Factory.
Speaker 1: I like Cheesecake Factory, especially like happy Hour. The stigma
Speaker 1: Daria is my favorite shit to get. Appetizers are half
Speaker 1: off their a happy Hour. I love a mind tie
Speaker 1: from Cheesecake Factory. I would never turn down a Cheesecake
Speaker 1: Factory meet up me neither. It just depends on like
Speaker 1: who the person is. Honestly, it's not about even the
Speaker 1: place really with any nigga.
Speaker 2: Now, second on the list's Nasty Bees. I'm not going
Speaker 2: to apple Bee's with nobody.
Speaker 1: Nasty Bees, saying I ain't never been there before. What's
Speaker 1: that nasty Bees? I have not been to Applebee's in
Speaker 1: a very, very very long time, and I think it
Speaker 1: would be weird if a guy was like, let meet
Speaker 1: me at Applebee's. Yeah, I don't know if I'm going
Speaker 1: there either. I know they got the dollar the Marcarita's
Speaker 1: on Tuesday. I know they got a blondie. That's the
Speaker 1: only thing I like from apple Bear. I used to
Speaker 1: work at Applebe's. I see how that shit is prepared.
Speaker 1: We could just marc away some shit over here, baby
Speaker 1: like so Chili's.
Speaker 2: I haven't ate at Chili's in years. That would not
Speaker 2: be a place I would.
Speaker 1: Actually need it. I don't. I don't subscribe to that.
Speaker 2: Uh can you hear Chipotle?
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going there either. I'm not going there
Speaker 1: by myself Olive Garden. No, the movies. I don't like
Speaker 1: that for a first date me either, because we can't
Speaker 1: get to know each other. I knew a girl who
Speaker 1: went on the first day to the movies with a
Speaker 1: girl a guy, and it would end up being a
Speaker 1: girl what it was a whole stud Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't suggest movies for first days because how do
Speaker 2: you you can't. Haven't really have a conversation with somebody.
Speaker 2: I got to sit in silence for damn near two hours. Like,
Speaker 2: that's not a good first date movie. I think movies
Speaker 2: is for people who are in established relationships, right, mm
Speaker 2: hmm your house. I wouldn't suggest that for a first
Speaker 2: day either, unless it's just a fucking sneaky link up right,
Speaker 2: you know what you're getting into.
Speaker 1: That's not a date. Okay.
Speaker 2: Any fast food chain, I agree, Yeah, that's not for dates.
Speaker 2: Uh Buffalo Wild.
Speaker 1: Wings, No, I don't eat there. Uh Wingstop. No Red
Speaker 1: lobsterm y'all like the Chinnarbaby biscuits, but I ain't really
Speaker 1: going there either.
Speaker 2: I literally only eat the biscuits and a virgin peanut
Speaker 2: colata from Red Lopster. I'll go to the bar just
Speaker 2: for that and leave.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing I'm not gonna say, Like I
Speaker 1: can't go with you to this place. I'm not going
Speaker 1: there alone. So you know, it's not just like I
Speaker 1: want to just spin up your money and I eat
Speaker 1: apple Bee's every week, but you can't take me to
Speaker 1: opther Bee's. Like, no, it's not I think whoever, some
Speaker 1: people will be like that. Some of these women. They
Speaker 1: ain't going places good play, nice laces by themselves.
Speaker 2: And this is the niggas be complaining about, like y'all
Speaker 2: not even eating that nice places by yourself. And then
Speaker 2: y'all got this whole list of places you can't be
Speaker 2: taken to right now.
Speaker 1: See that's crazy, that's wold.
Speaker 2: But I don't eat half this shit for real. A buffet,
Speaker 2: I hop Dennis the gym. I'll go to the gym
Speaker 2: first day too.
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that.
Speaker 2: Just gonna be pushing me to fucking hard in here
Speaker 2: because it might not be a second date. Like, don't
Speaker 2: be coming trying to be a drill sergeant.
Speaker 1: I don't mind either. Church. I ain't going. You're going.
Speaker 1: You're going to church on the first day. I can't talk.
Speaker 2: I used to date this nigga who went to church
Speaker 2: right and would always want me to go to church
Speaker 2: with him. But he wouldn't take me to his church.
Speaker 2: He wanted to take me to another church. Talk about
Speaker 2: you know, his him and his ex girlfriend. He used
Speaker 2: to bring his ex girlfriend to the other church. He
Speaker 2: just didn't want people looking at him. Funny, nah, nigga,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to church with you, then, why I
Speaker 2: can't go to your church. Don't take me to no
Speaker 2: random ass church Crosstown.
Speaker 1: You you're cheating on your church, right, Uh?
Speaker 2: Starbucks, I'll do Starbucks.
Speaker 1: You do a quick little meet up coffee date?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Starbucks coffee dates, ice cream dates. I like ice cream.
Speaker 1: Ice cream.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been on an ice cream date before.
Speaker 1: I think that's really cute. Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: Family functions why not?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: If somebody be like, man, we having a cookout?
Speaker 1: No? Really? Why? I don't know you. I be liking
Speaker 1: family house. Oh I would go to your family function,
Speaker 1: but you can't come to mind.
Speaker 2: But this is Yeah, so he's inviting you on a
Speaker 2: first date, so it would be.
Speaker 1: Too Okay, I'm still weird about that. I ain't trying
Speaker 1: to meet your family why? Because I barely know. I
Speaker 1: don't be caring. Bit I'm in there. Let's slow down, baby,
Speaker 1: movie night, Netflix and chill, Hulu and et cetera. No,
Speaker 1: that's the same thing as your house somewhere that requires
Speaker 1: a long drive.
Speaker 2: What what if he wanted to take your eyes to
Speaker 2: a vineyard or something like that for the first date.
Speaker 1: I had a first date. Long drive go bad and
Speaker 1: I had to take a greyhound back home. So I'm
Speaker 1: with them, But.
Speaker 2: You got too many stories like that he was mad,
Speaker 2: he was mad and bowl.
Speaker 1: I don't like bowling. I always pop my fingernails, but
Speaker 1: I love bowling, So I would go on that. I don't.
Speaker 2: I mean, I would not not go on the first
Speaker 2: date bowling. That might could be like one of I think, like,
Speaker 2: you can do mini golf bowling, like all that stuff
Speaker 2: is cute, but I'd be breaking my damn fingernails.
Speaker 1: Just don't put your fingernail in the whole nightclubs. I
Speaker 1: don't think that's a good first date. No, that's not
Speaker 1: a date. Hookah bars why not? Yeah? Like that? I
Speaker 1: go quiet, a little dark plant space.
Speaker 2: Absolutely a bar for just drinks.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: I don't like when a nigga be like, meet me
Speaker 2: off for drinks, Like what are we going to eat first?
Speaker 1: Oh? I assume they know that that comes. I'm not picking.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to a bar that don't have food, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm getting drinks in Tapas waffle house?
Speaker 2: What the fuck going on a waffle house first date? Mano,
Speaker 2: men made this A man made this list? And then
Speaker 2: sports events?
Speaker 1: I love why the funk not? Yeah? I love sporting events.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going to see football game first day.
Speaker 1: Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I got dumbed one time because I made a nigga
Speaker 2: miskickoff for a football game.
Speaker 1: Damn yep.
Speaker 2: We was late getting up here to Charlotte to go
Speaker 2: to a game, and that nigga was mad dog.
Speaker 1: He would not talk to me the whole time. I
Speaker 1: remember I was in Vegas and he started losing and
Speaker 1: he said it was my fault. What yeah, like you
Speaker 1: bad luck?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he had an attitude with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, ruined the whole trip. That's wild. Niggas is retarded.
Speaker 1: You need any reason to blame somebody why you lost
Speaker 1: all your money. It just might not be your day, Like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck do with me? But I put two
Speaker 1: dollars in the slot? Made it five? Bitch. I don't
Speaker 1: understand how you did. How you not here.
Speaker 2: I have went on a first day to Whole Foods
Speaker 2: before to help a nigga grocery shop because he was
Speaker 2: trying to have a better diet, and he know, I'm like,
Speaker 2: that's a day. I mean, we went out to eat afterwards,
Speaker 2: but that's that's when he picked me up, like, hey,
Speaker 2: can you go with me to Whole foods. That was
Speaker 2: our first first time hanging out.
Speaker 1: I don't care. The day started when y'all went to
Speaker 1: the restaurant. Possibly, I don't know. Anyway, I don't have
Speaker 1: a problem with some.
Speaker 2: Of his stuff in the list, just for these fast food,
Speaker 2: little quick spots. Now I'm not eating there anyway. I
Speaker 2: don't even need chicken for some Buffalo wild wings. But
Speaker 2: a nigga came up with this list and they put
Speaker 2: it online to start another woman versus man bullshit.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah, save it say the bullshit.
Speaker 1: Y'all were gonna be right back after this break I
Speaker 1: saw that.
Speaker 2: Tyresee's ex wife, Samantha Gibson, I don't know what her made,
Speaker 2: her name is, but she was on a podcast recently
Speaker 2: and she admits that she's willing to rekindle a relationship
Speaker 2: with Tyrese. Now, you know, Tyresee was recently on the
Speaker 2: Breakfast Club and pouring out his heart about how hard
Speaker 2: the breakup was, you know, because he never got married
Speaker 2: to get divorced. He wanted, you know, not you want
Speaker 2: to to be with his child. All these things, and
Speaker 2: I remember Jesse Larius even played some audio from his
Speaker 2: ex wife. She was talking maybe on her own podcast.
Speaker 2: I think she has a podcast as well, but she
Speaker 2: was talking about like, you know, men and vulnerability and
Speaker 2: stuff like that, and Tyresee was like, you know, if
Speaker 2: she knows all this, why didn't she practice that in
Speaker 2: a relationship so we know it. He probably wasn't perfect,
Speaker 2: She wasn't perfect. And this is what she was also
Speaker 2: saying on this podcast she was on recently. But it
Speaker 2: almost made me feel like I was thinking to myself, like.
Speaker 1: Damn, are women more toxic?
Speaker 2: Because this nigga literally is struggling in public because of
Speaker 2: his breakup. And now you could just casually say, mind you,
Speaker 2: he got a whole girlfriend. You know, he wants to
Speaker 2: you know, he would have preferred to have stayed married.
Speaker 2: But you know sometimes they say like the time apart,
Speaker 2: the breakup, the absence make the heart gross fonder and
Speaker 2: all this stuff like that put him through the court. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you don't put him through the courts for the child support,
Speaker 2: all the shit still in the courts, and you talking
Speaker 2: about you would rekindle a relationship. You know, everybody be
Speaker 2: calling Tyrese a n arc?
Speaker 1: Is she the narc? Are women more toxic? Yeah?
Speaker 2: That's one of the questions I have. Do you think
Speaker 2: that women were toxic that men? I know, we do
Speaker 2: a lot of manipulative shit to get a man to
Speaker 2: do what we want them to do.
Speaker 1: I think we definitely have the capability to be more toxic.
Speaker 1: But men have their ways, for sure. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think Tarice was a saint in all of it,
Speaker 1: for sure. So but in that, in that moment, she
Speaker 1: does definitely seems like, girl, what why you came on
Speaker 1: a podcast? You should call that there.
Speaker 2: You should call your fucking ex husband, You should call
Speaker 2: the father of your child and say these things, right,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. You you sending messages to
Speaker 2: him via a podcast in the world, and imagine him
Speaker 2: seeing that like that could be confused and he talked
Speaker 2: about how he was on anti psychotics and all this shit,
Speaker 2: like that shit caused him a mental breakdown. And now
Speaker 2: you can casually just say, you know, I might be
Speaker 2: open to that. Maybe they already been talking about it.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. It seemed like both of
Speaker 1: them kind of fool up and they need each other.
Speaker 1: So shit, I don't know. I know I can be toxic.
Speaker 1: We talked about some shit last week.
Speaker 2: I know I could do some toxic things, and in
Speaker 2: my mind, a lot of my toxic behavior is response
Speaker 2: to toxicity as opposed to just walking away. I'll just equal,
Speaker 2: I just wan up the toxic shit, But I'm not
Speaker 2: initiating toxic shit, man, because I like to feel. I
Speaker 2: like shitting with shit is copoesthetic. I know some people
Speaker 2: really fucking excel in toxicity.
Speaker 1: I don't. I have been, you know, in some environments,
Speaker 1: in situations issues where I might have initiated some toxic
Speaker 1: behavior for a dick. Yeah, but it wasn't. I mean,
Speaker 1: it wasn't. I used to pick fights with my boyfriend
Speaker 1: so we can have angry sex, just asking to be aggressive,
Speaker 1: but he just was more aggressive, Like the aggressiveness was
Speaker 1: just more authentic when he was like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I never liked that.
Speaker 2: Like if if I'm mad, my pussy is dry, I
Speaker 2: cannot have sex unhappy. So like I'll have a fight
Speaker 2: with a nigga, and now you want to have sex,
Speaker 2: I'm disgusted.
Speaker 1: Don't touch me. Like you see that tumbleweed roll past
Speaker 1: the bad nigga. It's a prairie dog sitting right next
Speaker 1: to the edge of the couch. Yeah, don't touch me
Speaker 1: like nigga No. And then I have.
Speaker 2: Had sex and you know, I've had sex with somebody
Speaker 2: like my ex. And after fucking argument and the nigga goes,
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, were good now because we don't have sex.
Speaker 1: No. Immediately after he comes, I'm like, wait, what, I
Speaker 1: don't don't sleep by no?
Speaker 2: Like, how you getting? How you so mad after that
Speaker 2: I made you come? Are you still angry? I'm confused
Speaker 2: because it's.
Speaker 1: I forgot. I think she dead as wrong.
Speaker 2: Leave that fucking man alone, especially because he's in a
Speaker 2: public relationship with somebody and hear you on the fucking
Speaker 2: podcast and you know, I don't know. Hopefully Tyres wouldn't
Speaker 2: doesn't feed into it. I saw he's getting sued after
Speaker 2: that damn last episode on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what for or who he's meaning super.
Speaker 1: I just hope that the two of them can find
Speaker 1: a way because they have a kid right to co parent.
Speaker 2: They've obviously been co parenting. He pays child support. I
Speaker 2: think she was trying to get an increase, but.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine that they co parent in a healthy
Speaker 1: right now. They don't even seems like they don't communicate.
Speaker 2: Right if she's talking on the podcast. Right, But this,
Speaker 2: like this conversation wasn't really about them. I just was
Speaker 2: trying to use that as an example of the type
Speaker 2: of toxic shit that.
Speaker 1: Women may do. You know what I'm saying, Like, we
Speaker 1: know how to hurt our men, we know what makes
Speaker 1: them fucking we know what button's depressed. Right, Remember Megae
Speaker 1: Stallion had them T shirts on. It's a T shirt
Speaker 1: that I make boys cry.
Speaker 2: Like I really need that T shirt because I definitely
Speaker 2: make a nigga cry.
Speaker 1: I made a nigga cry too. It's oh yeah, that's bad.
Speaker 1: Just leave man, Stop stop playing the toxic games with
Speaker 1: these men, because see, everybody can't hand remember being like
Speaker 1: very hurtful. I hope I've already received my karma for
Speaker 1: some of that ship that I did. Looking back, I
Speaker 1: was young, you know, and I remember like I won't
Speaker 1: say wish nigga, but he cried, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he do love me? Like why nigga need to cry
Speaker 1: from him? You are a real boy. I used to be. No,
Speaker 1: I used to be.
Speaker 2: That's I feel like men don't think you love them
Speaker 2: until you cry. I really think you have to give
Speaker 2: your whole fucking soul up to these niggas for them
Speaker 2: to really think you love and care about them.
Speaker 1: So you mean to tell me you made a nigga cry, like,
Speaker 1: oh he do love me? Yeah? I remember feeling no,
Speaker 1: put some shit.
Speaker 2: In your name for me. That's how I know you
Speaker 2: love me.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh damn, he do fuck with me
Speaker 1: for real? Huh yo? You I was in my twenties, child,
Speaker 1: I will never I do like to see men cry,
Speaker 1: but not like, like, not in a hurtful way. Why
Speaker 1: do you want to see them crying? I just like
Speaker 1: when a man can be vulnerable enough to cry around me. Now.
Speaker 1: It's not like I want you to cry from pain
Speaker 1: because it's something I called. You might be crying from
Speaker 1: pain you know somebody else, Yeah, but just vulnerable enough
Speaker 1: to cry in my space.
Speaker 2: I like that sometimes. I don't know men, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I've never been with somebody who didn't cry in front
Speaker 2: of me, So I know I'm a fucking safe space.
Speaker 2: Now when I'm done with your ass, I ain't safe, nigga,
Speaker 2: don't do shit.
Speaker 1: Around me safe.
Speaker 2: It ain't fucking safe.
Speaker 1: Dog.
Speaker 2: When I'm ready to lead that relationship. Look, shit, ain't safe.
Speaker 2: I'm really trying to hurt you, so I could be toxic,
Speaker 2: but that's not my normal setting. Nigga, you created that environment.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You want a loving woman,
Speaker 2: you gotta talk to them nice. You have to be
Speaker 2: nice to women. The Bible says man is to love
Speaker 2: his wife as Christ love the church, and don't say
Speaker 2: nothing about women.
Speaker 1: Loving men.
Speaker 2: Be nice to us and we don't get toxicity. But
Speaker 2: I know some bitches, you know, aside from you, I.
Speaker 1: Used to be used to be like that. I'm not
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: I have some friends that I know they be doing
Speaker 2: shit today today, today'sficant other and I'm like, nah, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'm never the type of person to sit sit around.
Speaker 2: You can't come tell me you did some wild shit
Speaker 2: to somebody, and I'm not gonna do check you about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not one of them friends like, bitch, what
Speaker 1: are you doing? That's terrific, that's not okay, that's terrible.
Speaker 2: I remember one of my ex friends she had called
Speaker 2: DSS on her people's ex wife, And I'm like, you know,
Speaker 2: if it's a real pertinent situation, it's like real serious
Speaker 2: and yes, but to get a you're not even you're
Speaker 2: not even just fucking with this woman at this point.
Speaker 2: You're fucking with the child and once, and you don't
Speaker 2: have a child of your own at the time. She didn't, right,
Speaker 2: You're you don't know what that system is like for children.
Speaker 2: It's deplorable. So now this girl got to go through
Speaker 2: all types of shit because you don't got her name
Speaker 2: in a database involving her children, and then she got
Speaker 2: other kids aside from this one kid. That's fucked up, bitch.
Speaker 2: I'm never agreen with that. I'm never co signing no
Speaker 2: fucking nasty shit like that.
Speaker 1: That's like, you got too much time on your hands
Speaker 1: very far to be mean to somebody else, especially a baby.
Speaker 1: I ain't with it. I ain't with it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we know, bitches is toxic. We know.
Speaker 2: I mean, we been new all everybody more toxic than men, though.
Speaker 1: I think it's equal. I think it's like we're all
Speaker 1: human and it's just some people are more toxic than others,
Speaker 1: And it don't matter your gender.
Speaker 2: Do you think that sometimes men just get a bad
Speaker 2: rep you know what I'm saying, Like, because you on
Speaker 2: this show.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think we equal op. I
Speaker 1: do not be hard on niggas. Y'all tell you why
Speaker 1: I comment is aj hard on these niggas. No, I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm hard on men. But I have noticed
Speaker 1: that my guy friends, they always send me clips of
Speaker 1: women doing fucked up shit. They always give me it.
Speaker 1: They want me to disparage women.
Speaker 2: I'm a woman first and foremost, I'm a black woman,
Speaker 2: So you keep sending me shit. I can sing you
Speaker 2: one hundred things to the one thing you send me
Speaker 2: a black woman. Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like, I get those two girls, It's like, why you
Speaker 1: keep sending me this? Right, I choose not to pick sides.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I'm not saying.
Speaker 2: Women are worse, men are worse on this for the
Speaker 2: sake of this particular episode, because of this shit with
Speaker 2: Tyree's ex wife, I was thinking that liked and this
Speaker 2: is kind of fucked up because I don't think reading
Speaker 2: the comments online, I don't think anybody else saw it
Speaker 2: in that way, but I thought it was really fucked up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I thought it was really fucked up.
Speaker 1: But normally I try to stand in the middle, because
Speaker 1: you got fucked up women and you got fucked up men.
Speaker 1: Like but you see a lot of times when people
Speaker 1: getting married twice, you ain't seen that they get divorced. Absolutely, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so niggas be spending the block, yeah, on their wife,
Speaker 1: her own, their husband. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So maybe just the little break y'all needed it, you know,
Speaker 2: But then what do you do with these other people
Speaker 2: you already got? It sounds to me she hasn't moved on.
Speaker 2: Tyresee has a girl, right, ain't no way she has
Speaker 2: a nigger in her life and she's on a podcast
Speaker 2: talking about her ex husband. Right, So she hasn't been
Speaker 2: able to move on.
Speaker 1: Or I saw other comments saying all that money looking funny.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. She don't get to go to
Speaker 1: no more premieres, nothing, all the fun shit. Fast twenty
Speaker 1: you ain't invited. You know what I'm saying, You're not
Speaker 1: Fast twenty. They got a lot of them, damn movies.
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was that many of them. I
Speaker 1: think I only seen like the first three. Child I've
Speaker 1: seen the first two. I was like the last one
Speaker 1: I saw Bow I was in, they was like two.
Speaker 1: I was like, damn it's been that long. We should
Speaker 1: have a weekend where we just binge watched all the fast.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm cool, I'm good. I don't care what
Speaker 1: I do about myself. I'm good on that. How got
Speaker 1: it all right, y'all? So where that all right? Something else?
Speaker 2: I started recently tam so, doe you call men daddy?
Speaker 2: I know you'd be saying zaddy. But you know, because
Speaker 2: you can, you can pick your You can't pick your father,
Speaker 2: but you can choose your daddy, your daddy.
Speaker 1: Do you call men daddy? I don't think that I do.
Speaker 1: I can't recall the time where I was just like
Speaker 1: come here, daddy, or maybe if it was like a
Speaker 1: sexual experience, it might have came out. But I'm not
Speaker 1: just like daddy passed me to remote. Like, No, it's weird.
Speaker 1: I have definitely been calling men and daddy just like
Speaker 1: random conversation. No people who.
Speaker 2: I'm in relationships with.
Speaker 1: How you say it?
Speaker 2: Maybe not usually it comes out during sex, which is
Speaker 2: weird as fuck when you think about it. But I
Speaker 2: don't call my actual father daddy. I probably started calling
Speaker 2: him daddy like in my.
Speaker 1: Late twenty dad, yeah, dad or daddy. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I call my dad by his first name my whole
Speaker 2: life basically, but the older I got.
Speaker 1: Nigga, not this nigga. Yeah, my daddy name is room.
Speaker 1: Like if he was calling a nigga room, Yes, name
Speaker 1: dad or daddy, that's it. But I don't have.
Speaker 2: Daddy issues per se. Why I would call a man daddy.
Speaker 2: But I've definitely called a man daddy during sex. Okay,
Speaker 2: So Monique explains, uh, why she calls her husband daddy.
Speaker 2: She said, my husband, my best friend, my brother, He's
Speaker 2: had all these hats, and a lot of black women
Speaker 2: would say, why do you call him daddy? Because he's
Speaker 2: raising me. He's raising me, The fifty five year old
Speaker 2: comedian said about her hobby Sidney Hicks, during a podcast
Speaker 2: appearance with Denise McCall, the daughter of the lady comedian
Speaker 2: Bernie mack her ace Showbiz whatever that is. Meanwhile, fans
Speaker 2: pointed out that Monique has.
Speaker 1: Classic daddy issues.
Speaker 2: I don't think I have daddy issues.
Speaker 1: While I would call a man daddy. Well, if you're
Speaker 1: fifty years old and still getting raised, you might have
Speaker 1: some daddy issues. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't think I call a man daddy because I
Speaker 2: need someone to raise me. It's just like a dominant figure.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I.
Speaker 1: Just call him bee. I do bae too.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying, it's not like I do it
Speaker 2: all the time, but I have done it. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like I for sure would call my
Speaker 2: ex daddy.
Speaker 1: Anytime I call him nigga daddy. Is I'm being condescending,
Speaker 1: like telling me what to do? Thanks dad, Thank you Dad?
Speaker 1: So you don't be like, oh daddy during sex? No,
Speaker 1: oh oh daddy? Mm hmm. What's the psychology behind it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know because I think if
Speaker 1: I start saying, I start thinking about my dad. See that.
Speaker 1: But like I said, I didn't usually even call my
Speaker 1: daddy daddy, my actual daddy daddy growing up.
Speaker 2: So I have a daddy. I have a daddy, But
Speaker 2: I wasn't calling another man a grown man daddy until
Speaker 2: I started having You know, Yeah, that's wow to me.
Speaker 2: I think it's empowering to the man. No, Like, I
Speaker 2: don't know why. Maybe I do it because a man
Speaker 2: likes it.
Speaker 1: Do men even like that? I think? So y'all tell
Speaker 1: us I don't have somebody tell me to come on, dad,
Speaker 1: get out of here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but bitch, I don't need to be raised by
Speaker 2: nan nigga like you're my husband, you're not my dad,
Speaker 2: Like I'm not being raised by a man that I'm
Speaker 2: intimate with, So the connotation behind dad is different.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's not I'm not calling him like my father might
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 1: No, come on, my father's dick. Shit. No, my stomach current.
Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like to me. Don't do it,
Speaker 1: don't say that.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll try to refrain, but it's almost like trying
Speaker 2: to stop saying nigga. Like it's hard because it's not
Speaker 2: like something I do often. But I definitely be doing it,
Speaker 2: like I was definitely doing it this weekend. Why I
Speaker 2: couldn't come tell gate that tailgate?
Speaker 1: Because she was like, dare hollered at your daddy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's moving on before I lose?
Speaker 2: Like, Okay, this is some other relationship ship which I
Speaker 2: know I'm guilty of not doing. Do you take time
Speaker 2: in between relationships for yourself?
Speaker 1: I take too much time. This is seven years, so yes,
Speaker 1: But do situationships count? Is that that's not a relationship
Speaker 1: to me?
Speaker 2: If you consistently seeing somebody like Okay, you stop sucking
Speaker 2: with this person today, and then now you're consistently seeing
Speaker 2: somebody else.
Speaker 1: I don't be consistent with nobody, so I can't say that.
Speaker 1: But do you be having sex? Nope, this bitch, your
Speaker 1: fucking liar, not no more. I stopped that in twenty
Speaker 1: right before the pandemic. I ain't seen the penises COVID,
Speaker 1: so there, bitch, So tell do I do I what
Speaker 1: like serial monogamous with someone? H No, you know that
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I don't take long enough breaks. And
Speaker 1: it's not that I'm talking. If you will have a
Speaker 1: daddy real quick, a new daddy real quick, you know,
Speaker 1: I all out with them, be going to bringing them
Speaker 1: to the things, I'd be like, okay, so this is
Speaker 1: why not? Why not?
Speaker 2: Boys, I do a real Gemini, bitch, and I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do this ship probably until the day I die.
Speaker 1: I'm a Gemini. You be locked in, and it's not
Speaker 1: really locked in. It's just like, why not, bitch? I
Speaker 1: have I have chosen the wrong relationships too many times, right,
Speaker 1: and you stay there for too long? Why not hop
Speaker 1: around to until it works? I will hop around, but
Speaker 1: I don't just I don't. I don't move around with
Speaker 1: them though, Mmm, not like that, nigga, you is my
Speaker 1: homie until further notice.
Speaker 2: Well, I guess I could take a little breaking break
Speaker 2: the longest, the longest time I've ever actually refrained from
Speaker 2: having sex, because that's really what I feel like.
Speaker 1: A break is not fucking okay, is one year that's good.
Speaker 2: Like other than that, I've never just refrained from having sex,
Speaker 2: like on my own personal recognitance, just not fucking.
Speaker 1: Just once and let's not do it for the rest
Speaker 1: of the year.
Speaker 2: Well, I had said that, you know a couple of
Speaker 2: months ago that I was done for the year for
Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, me.
Speaker 1: Too, and I had a good run. But then I
Speaker 1: kind of slipped on ba and landed on dick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the same oh dick from before that I had left.
Speaker 2: See that's the thing. I don't really be having new dick. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'd be recycling the same niggas. Like I feel like
Speaker 2: maybe I've been with these niggas in another life.
Speaker 1: No, you, some new ones shut up sprinkling, and some
Speaker 1: new ones little raffle dazzled on solu shit every now
Speaker 1: and then. I ain't gonna lie who this nigga I
Speaker 1: be trying man shut r off out here. The new
Speaker 1: ones don't never last, though, and then you go back
Speaker 1: and trying to make it work with some old shit.
Speaker 1: I'm about to be by myself though, me too, watch
Speaker 1: me too, I am. I'm gonna try real hard to
Speaker 1: be alone, get my downtime in between breakups.
Speaker 2: I guess I don't consider like, stop talking to a
Speaker 2: new nigga.
Speaker 1: I don't consider that a breakup though, Like it's not
Speaker 1: a breakup until it's like, yeah, some years you've been
Speaker 1: fucking with somebody and y'all break up. Anything else is
Speaker 1: just like we stopped talking, Like, am I wrong at?
Speaker 1: I didn't went to st K full time, sister bitch
Speaker 1: open the sharp because everybody wanted to take the bitch. No,
Speaker 1: that's just dating, man, That's that's what dating is.
Speaker 2: The surface.
Speaker 1: And the waitress has been looking at me like, damn, bitch,
Speaker 1: like you're here, like now this is where his nigga's
Speaker 1: gonna go. Y'all just open. Oh, I didn't.
Speaker 2: Realize there was not an STK in Charlotte.
Speaker 1: No, it's just opened when like two weeks everybody don't
Speaker 1: want State forty eight now just probably till Christmas I've
Speaker 1: never even been to State forty eight. Oh yeah, y'all
Speaker 1: should go. It's really really good. Take myself there TK.
Speaker 1: When I went with the girls I ordered, I was
Speaker 1: like around on me and it was just me and Janey.
Speaker 1: It's one hundred dollars, so what how many rounds? We
Speaker 1: had two drinks? We had two cocktails each, four drinks
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars at STK. No, I need a nigga
Speaker 1: to go. Yeah, that's I'm not a man. I glad
Speaker 1: I'm not a man, bitch like you really got to
Speaker 1: always have money as a man. Yeah, it's hard for y'all. Brothers,
Speaker 1: We love y'all. We appreciate y'all. Yeah, man, keep getting
Speaker 1: that check. Bitches come with it right. You never you'll
Speaker 1: never lose. You can lose a lot of money chasing bitches,
Speaker 1: but you'll never lose bitches chasing money. Absolutely, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: I gotta stop calling those bitches women. Some of y'all
Speaker 1: be bitches.
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, you're raised by bitches. Some of y'all are
Speaker 2: literally sons of bitches. Bitches is out here, so we
Speaker 2: think about titles.
Speaker 1: I'm scared of them all my committed relationships, I gotta
Speaker 1: ultimatum to be in them. You're really the boy. I
Speaker 1: be the boy a lot of time. Hmm, I'll be
Speaker 1: scared a nigga be like, what are we like? If
Speaker 1: you don't want to be serious, then we just got
Speaker 1: an end.
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn the last person I asked that too,
Speaker 2: I said, you want to be my boyfriend and he.
Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, you know what I'm saying, like I
Speaker 1: am dating, I'm dating for marriage or whatever.
Speaker 2: Like you know, we had a whole episode on dating
Speaker 2: with purpose and what that even exactly means whatever, But uh,
Speaker 2: he was like, yeah, but he wants to court me more.
Speaker 2: And my idea of courting multiple men can court me
Speaker 2: at the same time. You can't think that you you're
Speaker 2: just courting me and I'm not date because courting and
Speaker 2: dating is.
Speaker 1: The same thing. No, I thought courting was like dating exclusively.
Speaker 2: But no, if I say you want to if I
Speaker 2: ask you if you want to be my boyfriend, or
Speaker 2: if you ask me, hey, I want you to be
Speaker 2: my girl, I want to lock in, that is dating exclusively.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I thought that came before boyfriend.
Speaker 2: And see, we don't even I don't even fucking know
Speaker 2: no more and I feel like, listen, I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: forty years old next year. I don't want no fucking
Speaker 2: boyfriend at forty.
Speaker 1: Where'd you want to go from dating to engage? Yes, nigga, like,
Speaker 1: why are we? Let me tell you? I feel like
Speaker 1: when you in your twenties early thirties, like you may
Speaker 1: fluctuate and start changing.
Speaker 2: We already who the fuck were going to be. So
Speaker 2: if you meet me, this is me and it's probably
Speaker 2: gonna be me for the next twenty thirty years.
Speaker 1: Why not just do the thing and see the fucking work.
Speaker 1: If it don't, we just break up now.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying like getting into marriage, but we can
Speaker 2: get into a committed situation because single AJ and committed
Speaker 2: AJ is two different people.
Speaker 1: What's the difference this one day? That's the only difference.
Speaker 2: Yes, but I am also entertaining other people. I'm not
Speaker 2: just talking. I might just be having sex with you
Speaker 2: one person, right, but I'm still actively dating. I'm still
Speaker 2: hanging out with other men. I'm lying to you though
Speaker 2: i'ma be honest on the show and say you have
Speaker 2: to lie to these niggas, Like men get turned off
Speaker 2: thinking you're talking to other people. But if you don't
Speaker 2: want to lock in with me, if I ask you.
Speaker 1: I'm right, I mean, I have to. I feel like
Speaker 1: lying is so exhausting. So I just got to the
Speaker 1: point where I just be honest, like Nigga trying to
Speaker 1: see me. I'm like, oh, I got plans tonight.
Speaker 2: No, that right, But I'm the person you having sex with.
Speaker 2: You can't always tell them that, hey, I'm dating other people,
Speaker 2: but you should assume that if you ain't trying to
Speaker 2: be in a relationship with me, if you just you
Speaker 2: think you.
Speaker 1: Just want to court me some more? What the fuck
Speaker 1: is that? Right?
Speaker 2: That says single? That says I'm free to move about
Speaker 2: the country. So when I start acting in that way,
Speaker 2: don't trip?
Speaker 1: I agree? I agree.
Speaker 2: So at this age, I don't want a fucking boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I do. I don't want a boy I'm ready. I
Speaker 1: don't want to being outside, come get me. I want
Speaker 1: a husband. I don't want to want to go from
Speaker 1: single to dating to boyfriend to husband. That's so that's
Speaker 1: the way I wanted to go. And I wanted to
Speaker 1: happen fast within a year, right, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: need maybe two years because I need a year to
Speaker 1: plan my engagement. I want to have a big ass
Speaker 1: shin dig all y'all invited. If you listening to this episode,
Speaker 1: you my plus three thousand folks thousands. That's like this
Speaker 1: girl I know and I used to work with her,
Speaker 1: the company I used to work with. I know you've
Speaker 1: probably seen this video when her and her husband got married.
Speaker 1: She bought that nigga yacht. Did you see that? It
Speaker 1: went viral? No, she bought him a oh yeah yeah
Speaker 1: yeah all that. I was like, Yo, this a lot.
Speaker 2: I want to be there, Yeah, absolutely, because what do
Speaker 2: you get a man who has everything? You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Just like I'm gonna get my nigga boat.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just like financing a home.
Speaker 1: Yeah. People think this stuff.
Speaker 2: Is unattainable, but it's just another bill.
Speaker 1: Y'all got the income, right, I'm gonna buy my husband
Speaker 1: a boat if that's what I don't think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: buy it.
Speaker 2: I do want to ban Dutch yacht, but not like
Speaker 2: a big this is a big dumb ass yacht million
Speaker 2: dollars easy. I want that the maintenance on something like that,
Speaker 2: like the gas to have some money charter it you.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be she did what she needed to
Speaker 2: do go viral. I wonder they still got the yacht.
Speaker 1: It's ours till Friday, Baby.
Speaker 2: Dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch
Speaker 2: at least.
Speaker 1: It once or twice.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, So we're back and we do have
Speaker 2: a dumb bitch story today, Tam.
Speaker 1: And it's a juicy one chat. I read it. It's iffy,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: So this is from one of our Instagram friends. It says, Hey,
Speaker 2: AJ and Tam, I've officially been married, dumb bitch for
Speaker 2: two years now. My supposed husband has been sleeping with
Speaker 2: the mother of his two kids the entire time I've
Speaker 2: known him. I wish I could say I didn't know
Speaker 2: prior to marrying him, but I did. He and I
Speaker 2: have been together now for a total of three almost
Speaker 2: four years, but I was basically pregnant most of year one. Okay,
Speaker 2: so it sounds like she got pregnant immediately. I had
Speaker 2: caught him cheating with her in the beginning, but I
Speaker 2: didn't leave, especially after we got pregnant. Now he's blatantly
Speaker 2: with both of us, and I feel like I was
Speaker 2: forced into a poly situation.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 2: I love him so much, and he does take really
Speaker 2: good care of me and his other family, but this
Speaker 2: was never the life I wanted for myself, and it
Speaker 2: causes me lots of mental anguish. I felt like I
Speaker 2: had one up on her because he actually married me,
Speaker 2: But as of lately, he's been spending more time away
Speaker 2: from his family, away from excuse me, he's been spending
Speaker 2: more time away from this family, and I'm disgusted with myself,
Speaker 2: but I feel like I can't leave because I am
Speaker 2: financially dependent on him.
Speaker 1: At this point.
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed to tell my family what I've been going
Speaker 2: through because if I do leave, I will need help.
Speaker 2: What do y'all think I should do?
Speaker 1: Damn, that's a hard one.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: Eggs is eight dollars out here, bitch. If you ain't
Speaker 1: had to buy him, you'll know shit. Kind of rough,
Speaker 1: kind of sketchy. Exactly.
Speaker 2: Do you have a supplemental nigga?
Speaker 1: Not a supplemental nigga? I don't. I you know, because
Speaker 1: they're married.
Speaker 2: They're married. She could get alimony if she divorced him.
Speaker 1: I really like telling women to leave their husbands. But
Speaker 1: if you said it's causing you great mental anguish, you
Speaker 1: need to be mentally stable to take good care of
Speaker 1: your child, so you know, you got to figure out
Speaker 1: what that looks like for you. Now. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: say just run out on the bag right now, because
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to take a pebble, put a pebble aside,
Speaker 1: put a pebble aside until you can't really afford to
Speaker 1: get out of here, because right now, this economy is
Speaker 1: not set up for you to just jump with a kid,
Speaker 1: right with a kid like that?
Speaker 2: Mm So, I mean I be questioning, like what bitches
Speaker 2: really mean being taken care of? Because a lot of
Speaker 2: motherfuckers be, these niggas be having these women in some
Speaker 2: sketchy ass situations and it's probably better than what they
Speaker 2: could have done on their own, so they feel like
Speaker 2: it's like being taken care of. But girl, like, I.
Speaker 1: Need to know. I need some pictures? Right how well
Speaker 1: are you?
Speaker 2: But her page private so I'm trying to add her
Speaker 2: as a friend to see but I want to see
Speaker 2: what she living, like, Like I want to see.
Speaker 1: Is there a boat, there's a boat?
Speaker 2: Is there a pair right for your And then yeah,
Speaker 2: like maybe you can get some time off to where
Speaker 2: you can clear your head and maybe come up with
Speaker 2: some type of pants, some type of plan.
Speaker 1: Strategically, uh, to leave if possible. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean we talk about open Polly all that should
Speaker 2: on this show all the time, and it's like, the
Speaker 2: pick is a slim, right, the pick is a slim
Speaker 2: out here is nasty single?
Speaker 1: All right? You might leave and get with someone who
Speaker 1: cheat on you and.
Speaker 2: Can't take care of you exactly.
Speaker 1: I don't know, girl, I don't got no good answer
Speaker 1: for that one. Me. It's rough the way, this is
Speaker 1: the rent and I just got scam bitch? Can I
Speaker 1: come and live with y'all? Like, is your nigga looking
Speaker 1: for a new wife? I'll be all open, so I
Speaker 1: don't know. All I will say is, don't just jump
Speaker 1: ship fast. Make a very strategic decision about how you're
Speaker 1: gonna move if you are gonna move.
Speaker 2: Because I wonder if she got access to the money too,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like some dudes they'll take
Speaker 2: care of you, but they give you exactly what you need.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I said take the pebble, put it
Speaker 1: to the side, putting your pimples to the side. Baby.
Speaker 1: I don't know, mmm. Because you don't want to be
Speaker 1: out here like me giving your cashaf on the podcast because.
Speaker 2: She don't get we talked back caught up in your bullshit?
Speaker 1: Bitch? Is this is what entertainment purposes only? Bitch, don't
Speaker 1: look psych Damn, I don't know, man.
Speaker 2: I definitely don't be telling people to leave their people
Speaker 2: because I know I have dealt with some ship from men, okay,
Speaker 2: like having babies, all.
Speaker 1: Type of shit.
Speaker 2: Man, all the relationship is and how much you can
Speaker 2: deal with from somebody else. But you do not want
Speaker 2: to lose yourself to anyone, right and you have somebody
Speaker 2: else aside from yourself to think about. Is he a
Speaker 2: good father? You might have to consider that too, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So right now it sounds like she's lonely and her
Speaker 2: brain has more time to wonder because he's not around, right.
Speaker 2: He's with this other woman that who never went anywhere.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing. If she gets her a side
Speaker 1: guy and she gets caught, he might get rid of
Speaker 1: her all together.
Speaker 2: This is not fair, It's not bitch. You gotta get
Speaker 2: your check up. That's the only way to get out
Speaker 2: of a lot of situations. You gotta get your money up.
Speaker 2: You gotta get some fuck your money and shit you
Speaker 2: have in your own might make him start acting right
Speaker 2: because right now he knows he has your ass and
Speaker 2: a Jammie's own, and you ain't going to where.
Speaker 1: She said that he was cheating on her before.
Speaker 2: You know, But I wonder what made him marry her
Speaker 2: in particular and not the other woman.
Speaker 1: But now you're over there, we want some more details.
Speaker 2: I know, bitch, come in the show, right, but we
Speaker 2: got five hours for you.
Speaker 1: Get away fun. I ain't got ship for you right now. Baby,
Speaker 1: I add you to my go for me if I
Speaker 1: do one, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Relationships are hard, man, Relationships are so so fucking hard.
Speaker 2: It's so hard to deal with people outside of yourself.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's hard to deal with That's all I was
Speaker 2: about to say. Man, you gotta make sure you could
Speaker 2: do it yourself first. That's that might be the gist
Speaker 2: of this whole episode.
Speaker 1: No, THEI just to this episode is y'all feel something
Speaker 1: my cast like coming for me? Come? It's stupid. No,
Speaker 1: for real, Like, bitch, you need some goddamn self awareness,
Speaker 1: because why the fuck you ain't doing your damn due
Speaker 1: diligence before sending somebody that type of money. This was
Speaker 1: it went through someone that I trusted, that I've done
Speaker 1: successful business with several times before. That is the that
Speaker 1: is the only reason why I wouldn't just go for
Speaker 1: this had I not had this experience with this person
Speaker 1: several times before.
Speaker 2: I was just telling somebody that over the weekend, like
Speaker 2: people literally have scam bibles. They stay abrisk on the
Speaker 2: newest scams, and they actually compile this data and they
Speaker 2: sell it to scammers. It's like a real thing, you know,
Speaker 2: because the more people scam, the more like technology they
Speaker 2: come up with things to counter the scams. So you gotta, like,
Speaker 2: you gotta continue to continue in education on scamming.
Speaker 1: They got sometimes a lot of if it's too good
Speaker 1: to be true, Sometimes it is it is to be true,
Speaker 1: too good to be true.
Speaker 2: He said, a pack of Noodle's friend, I got you, man,
Speaker 2: I got lunch.
Speaker 1: So she can't give you five dollars. I need y'all
Speaker 1: laugh about it, but I'm really feeling the way I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie mmmmmmm. So that cash happies TAM's vand
Speaker 1: and with the money starting in the front. Yo.
Speaker 2: Anyway, y'all if y'all won't help this bitch, Please hit
Speaker 2: her up. Okay, just just know that it's outside of
Speaker 2: this podcast. This is not motherfucking gofund me on over here.
Speaker 1: It is shame. Shame, shame, shame. But listen.
Speaker 2: If you enjoyed this episode, tune in every Thursday on
Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app whoever the fuck you get your podcast at,
Speaker 2: just your co host a j holiday, y'all, follow me down.
Speaker 2: If you won't get home kicking tam, they already got
Speaker 2: your fucking cash out.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it no more, y'all. I love y'all,
Speaker 1: and if anything happened to be shit, just know that
Speaker 1: my love was real for y'all. Okay, y'all, remember to
Speaker 1: speak now and never hold your peace or your money.
Speaker 1: It's sending it in a bye bye, y'all,