1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: If some morning to show you anywhere? So you're friend 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: right now? How top that the world's most stagers want 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: to shout the camera? Don't agree? It still is the 4 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: City South with DJ Harry, the captain of this speech. 5 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: Get to pick up the mother mother phone and don 6 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: this is your time to get it off your chat. 7 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 1: Your man will pass you want to get from you 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: on the breakfast club, so you better have the same energy. Hey, Jasmine, 9 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: I'm actually kind of man at you or why are 10 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: you mad at me? What I do? Um? So you 11 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: ain't gear shouting me out on your podcast? Okay? UM. 12 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: As far as trying to get me some information, I'm 13 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: still kind of waiting for that information. DJ Enervy, don't 14 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking about. I don't know 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: what you talking about? What inform? All right? So I 16 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: wrote you about my mom and the incident that happened 17 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: to me when I was seven to fourteen, and you 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: said that you were going to try and get me 19 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: some information to speak the young women. Okay, yeah, you 20 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: know what my wife has on the information DMA. All right, 21 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: DMA now, and I'll make sure she goes to her 22 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: DM and answer that. All right, Thank you so much. 23 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry about that. Hello, who's this me? 24 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: What's up? Bro? What you blessing? You mad this morning? Bro? No, 25 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all I'm blessed man because it's another beautiful 26 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: day above ground. Get to go to this job that 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: I love you elaggerate me. And Charlomagne is the new 28 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: black doctor, SEUs man, get doctor talking about Charlomagne here 29 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: like a book, any books. Let's get a brother some 30 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: prop pool this little kids book man, Hey, sharlomaie let 31 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: him go. I'll give you a pop kids book and 32 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: not coloring books for the culture man. The coaches out 33 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: here buying books. We got people buying lining up to 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: buy books like they're buying Jordan's and yeasys man we are. 35 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: They're trying to empower and enlighten people. Okay, line now, 36 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: what up yo? What you say? Heavy? Now? I want 37 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: your ak a bro, start pretty toes, st are pretty toes. Okay, 38 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: okay about I didn't know girls was into that. I 39 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: got a lot of guilts into that. You actually laughed 40 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: at my name when I came to your book son 41 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: in la oh, I do remember you start pretty toads. 42 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: I had to sign your books start. Pretty told you right, 43 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: and you said, yeah, listen, he bought a copy of 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: my book, Black Privilege. I can care less what his 45 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: name was. Why why that's? Why? Is that why you mad? 46 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: This morning? He made fund of your name? Yeah, I 47 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: ask him? Mad? Is that I've been calling for a while. 48 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,239 Speaker 1: I could never get through, but I actually want to 49 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: call a friend. Get some bars. So you took did 50 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: Did you enjoy the book? Sir? Oh, I'm reading through it. No, 51 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: I'm on the chapter say up your dream there you go, 52 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: so listen. I want you to get works. God wants 53 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: you to read this chapter right now. The name of 54 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: that chapter is After your Dreams. Therefore, we don't want 55 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: to hear you wrap this morning. I have a blessed day, sir, Pretty, 56 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: hurry up? All right, let's say all right, I'm sir 57 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: pretty toes. Pretty toes were pretty on those on those balls. Listen. 58 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 1: The whole principle in my book After Your Dreams is 59 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: about after your dreams. I say, not your dreams, okay, 60 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: And that don't sound like rap should be your dreaming. Hi, 61 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: my fame is pretty toes. Get it off your chests. 62 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one. 63 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: If you're upsets you need to vent, you can hear 64 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: us up or if you feel blessed, call us up 65 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 66 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: Wake up, wake up, You're time to get it off 67 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: your chest. Bless We want to hear from you on 68 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Angela, good morning, Good morning Aunty. How do 69 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: you join and antil me and and Charlomne the guard 70 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: I've been trying to contact you for the longest, for 71 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: the longest, Okay, I need you to put it out 72 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: there is un Google police department murdering my husband on 73 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: Mayor Levens. I've been trying up you know, Charlo men 74 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: the guards for they could give him the donkey of 75 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: the day because they don't want to um they haven't, 76 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: I said, the police who did it. They haven't still 77 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: working there. If you google him, his name is Andrew 78 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: A and d R. E. W. Last name very stay. 79 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: Denied him medical treatment when he said that he couldn't 80 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: breathe and he's so busy. The officers took it upon 81 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: themselves to deny him this. They were his judge, his 82 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: jury and his executioner. And I do not have my 83 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: husband no more. This is really sad. I'm looking it 84 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: up right now. This is awful. Yes, yes it is. 85 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I am from the Bronx. He is 86 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: from the Bronx. He was visiting a friend and they 87 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: denied him medical treatment. Please Searlemaigne the God. I need 88 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: you to get some lunky of the day. I need 89 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: you to help me get justice for him. I need 90 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: you to find the answers. But I'm looking for because 91 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: me and my children and everybody, we do not know 92 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: what happened to him. It's been over a month and 93 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: we still they don't know. The officers they're still working. 94 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: Let's get information, some homework and we'll look it up 95 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 1: and the right information about to tell you about Listen 96 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: and you and you're writing the books. You're right in 97 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: the Brook, You're right in the Bronx, and we can 98 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: have you come up to the show. Baby, Yes, oh 99 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: my god, please tell me. I've been emailing you. I've 100 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: been going on my on my Facebook, shouting you out 101 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: on Twitter everything. No, I've been Life wants you so 102 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: much too. We got you, but we got you. Hold 103 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: on hit her information. Wow, this is what we use 104 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: the platform for. Right here. We got we got her. 105 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna, we gonna, We're gonna, We're gonna let her 106 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: tell her story at the end of the day. All right, man, 107 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: that's what that's what we're here for, to be a 108 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: voice for the voiceless. Absolutely, let's let's makes ima give him. 109 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a number. Let's let her hang up, 110 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: all right, get it off your chest eight on drew 111 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: five A five one on five. We got an Infamn, 112 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: we get an info right now. Book that book, that interview. 113 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: We don't need to even talk about it. We're gonna 114 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: bring her up here and let it tell us a story. Absolutely, 115 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Eight on drew five eight 116 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: five one on five one. If you're upset you need 117 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: to vent, you could call us, or if you feel blessed, 118 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: hit us up. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the 119 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Wow, we are the Breakfast Club. And we 120 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building with us this morning, Charlomagne, 121 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: the God, Oh God, welcome Charlomagne. Nobody cleared this. I 122 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: have the View this morning, I have the Elvis Durant Show, 123 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: I have the Late Show with Stephen Corbett, The Breakfast 124 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: Club is not on my schus. Now. You might know 125 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: Charlotta Maginne from his hit show The Breakfast Club, Right. 126 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: You also might know him from his podcast Brilliant Idiot 127 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: So from Uncommon Sensor show that he has on MTV 128 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: Talk Show right, and now he's here with us. He 129 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: has a book out. Today's Charlomagne the God's a Black 130 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,119 Speaker 1: Privilege opportunity comes to those who created our first book 131 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: to tell us about this book for people who why 132 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: black privilege? Because I feel like it's a privilege to 133 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: be black, and I feel like when you're talking about 134 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: black privilege, you're talking about something spiritual. When you're talking 135 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: about white privilege, you're talking about something systemic. And I 136 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: feel like that. I feel like we have access to 137 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: a divine system that helps us to prosper in this 138 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: country in spite of all the obstacles we have faced. 139 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: Do you think you alienate the white people, or Asian 140 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: people or any other body that purchase the book? No, 141 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: absolutely not. For two reasons. Number One, I feel like 142 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: we all have to access our own individual privileges. I 143 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: feel like everybody has their own individual privileges. And I 144 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: also feel that, you know, I grew up reading things 145 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: that didn't pertain to me. That's one of the greatest 146 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: pieces of advice. My mom never gave me. Read things 147 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,239 Speaker 1: that don't pertain to you. I used to read Judie 148 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: Bloom and Beverly Clearly, and I didn't know nothing about 149 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: them little white girls and White boys that was in 150 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: that book. But I used to read all of those 151 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: books as well. Yes, Now, okay, you've been you've been 152 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: fired so many times? What gay to drive to keep 153 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: up going and not say, you know what, I'm going 154 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: to quit and go back to South Carolina. Oh I 155 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: did that one point, But why it's in the book. 156 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: I absolutely did Quitna to a low point. He was 157 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: living in the projects in Brooklyn. It wasn't the projects 158 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. I mean it was my no read the book. 159 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: Do you make things sounds so bad? You know, Arne? 160 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: Can we get a little juicy here? Okay, we're just 161 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: trying to help. And then you had to go back home. 162 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: You got evicted. Actually I did get a victed I 163 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: got when I got fired from Philadelphia. Um I was 164 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: I just couldn't afford to live there because it was 165 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: just my wife's salary. My wife's income was my girlfriend 166 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: at the time, and we had I think my daughter 167 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: was like maybe two or three at the time. We 168 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: were on welfare. No, we weren't on welfare. I just 169 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: was too proud to go and get them unemployment checks 170 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 1: I got him went over to South Carolina, though I 171 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: went back. I was way too proud at first when 172 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: I got fired from Philly to go collect that unemployment. 173 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: So we packed up and I went back to live 174 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: with my mom. That's Charla Mayne. I gotta ask you this. 175 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: You know, you discussed a lot of things that happened 176 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: in your past. You talk about interviewing Passie and unfortunate 177 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: time for her. A lot of things had happened that week. 178 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: Are there any regrets that you have and how you've 179 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: perhaps done interviews or maybe been a bit harsh. My 180 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: only regret that I have two regrets, uh, the Little 181 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 1: Mama situation, only because that was set up bad from 182 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 1: the beginning, even though I did tell Angelie the day before. 183 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: Don't blame me, but de Floyd may was an audio 184 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 1: that was bad. And the reason I felt like that 185 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: was bad is because, like everybody in this room told 186 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: me not to play it, and I was really doing 187 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: it for the wrong reasons, Like I just wanted to 188 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: do it because I knew that it would gone her attention. 189 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: And I never moved like that. Come on, be honest, guys, 190 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: Am I ever malicious? Like be for real? And I 191 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: was there if somebody's malicious. But other than that, NA 192 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: not really. But in that situation, I was really just 193 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: like you know what Jimmy Kimma says he wants me. 194 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: It was on the show. We got the audio right here, 195 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: we played it and everybody in this room told me 196 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 1: not to and I didn't get no trouble for it. 197 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: I just my spirit just didn't agree with it. Now, 198 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. What made you give 199 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: up your rap career when your name was Dizzy Van Winkle. 200 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: What made you say, you know what rapping is not 201 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: for me? Well, I got a principle in my book 202 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: called f your Dreams. Anybody that listened to the Breakfast 203 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: Club or listen to the podcast knows I love to 204 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: tell people after their dreams, and it's f your dreams 205 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 1: when it's not your dream A lot of times, when 206 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: we're young African Americans and we see people that are 207 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 1: successful who look like us, they're usually in entertainment and athletics. 208 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: So we chase those fields and go towards those fields. 209 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: But that's not really our dream. We just see it 210 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: working for somebody else. So for me, I wanted to rap. 211 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 1: And then when I got into radio, I saw what 212 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: Ludacris was doing and he went from radio to rapping. 213 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm gonna do that. But I 214 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: had a great mentor named doctor Robert Evans. Swoop to 215 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: doctor Robert Evans, Rosalie Queens dropped on the clues bomb 216 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: from him. He told me I suck at rapping. Well 217 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 1: told me, I suck at rapping, and I need to 218 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: focus on radio. And that's exactly what I did. But 219 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: let's take kid calls. If you got questions for Charlomagne 220 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 1: eight hundred five eighty five, one oh five one, and 221 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 1: you know the breakfast club we do at homework. And 222 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,599 Speaker 1: one more thing, I just want to say, success is subjective. 223 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: I know it's easy for people to look at us 224 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: and say, hey, you know, it's easy for y'all to 225 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: say these things because of the positions that y'all are in. 226 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: But you always to dude. Right now, in Charlotte, North Carolina, 227 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: that's making forty thousand dollars a year. He got him 228 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: a nice little place to stay, he got him a call, 229 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: his family good, his girl good, his kid good, and 230 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: he's happy. That's right. That's success at say money is yeah, 231 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: money subjected? What is making money? Absolutely being happy because 232 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: if we based success off you know that, if we 233 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: base happiness off success, guess what it's always people are 234 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: hit more happy than everybody's sitting in this room right now. 235 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: Absolutely well, all right, club, we do our homework and 236 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: we were able to find a dizzy Vin Winkle song 237 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: if you don't know who did Charlemagne, and let's get 238 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: this song on. It's called and it fits so well. 239 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: This is such a lot. It's called pink tea. That's 240 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: hurt this by the way, we don't have to do this. 241 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: I don't have to turn it up and I don't 242 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: have to turn it up in my pig teeth, don't yeah, 243 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: in my pink teeth, white in my pink tea, huh 244 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: in my pink tea. Yeah, and my paint tee white 245 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: in my pink teeth, in my pink I look fruty 246 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: in my pink teeth, weird in my pink teeth. People 247 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: think that I go both ways in my pink. I 248 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: was sweet in my pink teeth, funny in my pink. 249 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: He's out of gun with my all out of hand. 250 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: Girls with pink looked blaming my pink teeth. Get it 251 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: up to you, man, like, get a man with my 252 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: pink tea. I look frudy in my pink teeth, weird 253 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: in my wait wait, wait, by the way, by the way, 254 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: this is all of girl. I need a man in 255 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: my pink. This was no we got the part playing 256 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: song when I was crowning everybody that was laring pink 257 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: and wearing pink tea. Ben Wink its man. This was 258 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: his first single. All right, let's play. Let's put this 259 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: in the next This is out of contact. I'm definitely 260 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: playing in the pink. It's harder in my pinks. What 261 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: in my pig teeth? In my page, Yeah, in my page. 262 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: In the Breakfast Club morning, everybody is DJ N v Angela. Ye, 263 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemagne's book 264 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: is in stores right now and we're interviewing him. We 265 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: have a special guest in the building and we're gonna 266 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: take your calls eight hundred and five A five one 267 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: oh five one. Hello, who's this what's happening? My name 268 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: is bay Are from Uba City, California, thirty minutes north Circlement. 269 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: They all, good morning. Charlomagne's book is in stores right now. 270 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: He's joined us this morning. Do you have a question 271 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: for Charlemagne? Yes? I do, Dad, Okay, Uh, you know, 272 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 1: he says, create opportunity for you know, for yourself or whatever, 273 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: like an other words, don't make excuses while being black. 274 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: That's how I'm taking it. No, you should read the book. 275 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna read the most books. Okay, but that's 276 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: just when I'm basing it off of the title and 277 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: other words, kind of taking that route. Okay. So my 278 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: question is, okay, I'm a medical assist the right. So 279 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: I've been working since the age of sixteen or whatever, 280 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 1: and I live in this whole town or whatever. No 281 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: matter how hard I was going to seem my Caul 282 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 1: was always being told them. So being with that fact, 283 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: what I started doing for myself is I would google 284 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: names of recruiters for Kaiser Permanente, for example, and then 285 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: what I would do when I would find these recruiters, 286 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 1: whether it be through Facebook or LinkedIn. I would go, 287 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: you know, message them like, hey, you know, I'm a 288 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: medical assistant or whatever. I'm trying my hardest. I know 289 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: this is awkward, et cetera, et cetera, expressed myself to them. 290 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say all of them right back, but 291 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: the ones that would it was more or less likely. 292 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, good luck. You know, I don't know if 293 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: we'll be able to necessarily help you. So the question is, 294 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: and you feel discouraged because people tell you know, how 295 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: did that feel discouraged? The book exactly well. In the 296 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: book Black Privilege, opportunity comes to those who created I 297 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: talk about how all you really need is one yes. 298 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: I mean, anybody in this room envy. You know, I'm 299 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: probably not answer because it's her first radio job. But 300 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: you know, many at checks I sent out over my career, 301 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: from the time I was doing radio in Charleston, South Carolina, 302 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: to Columbia to whatever, I sent out at least twenty 303 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: thirty at checks to program directors all across the country. 304 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: Guess how many replied zero? Okay? Period Only one replied 305 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: in Columbius I Calina. That was Mike Love. And that's 306 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: when I got high. So all you need is one. Yes, 307 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: you might get a hundred, knows all you need is 308 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: one yet to change everything? Hello, who's a hey? Alsa? 309 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: What's your question for Charlemagne? Okay, So I'm in college 310 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: and my major is radio PEV broadcasting, and I just 311 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: wanted to know what's the best mindset to have to 312 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: overcome obstacles that may come for us? And you know 313 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: how to get through it? Man? You said, we just 314 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: gotta have faith. Like yo, you just gotta push through 315 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: like it's gonna be obstacles in any career field that 316 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: you're in period. But you gotta ask yourself, especially if 317 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: it's really your passion, are you willing to go through 318 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: those obstacles to get the way you want to be? Aby? 319 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: Was it easy for you on your way up? No? No, 320 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: bust of my ass every day, Like I ain't got nothing. 321 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: I told people all the time I've been doing. This 322 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: would be my nineteenth year in radio. I started off 323 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: as an intern in nineteen ninety eight. You know, you 324 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: know when I really started making real money in radio 325 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: the past four years. I told Hi about it that 326 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: the same thing the past four year. So do you 327 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: really love what you're doing. If you do, guess what 328 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 1: you're will You're willing to fight through those obstacles. Hello, 329 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: who's as the Miami? Hey, what's the question for Charlomagne? 330 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: I want to know did he add any of his 331 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: little gay episode did it book? He did, actually, and 332 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: it actually had to do with um my show A 333 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: serious Yeah, I did. What happened telling I got a 334 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: nice little gay episode in there. If if that's what 335 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: makes you go buy the book, I was the gay 336 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: episode there, y're gonna tell me? Yeah, it was a 337 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: guy that Charlemagne used to go visit on the bus. Yeah, 338 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: allegedly that was his story, and he's sticking to it. 339 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: I wanted me to stick to it. Okay, all right, 340 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: Well Charlemagne's book is out right now, make sure you 341 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: go get it. Yes, it's eight principles that I learned 342 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: in my life that I'm sharing with the people. It's 343 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 1: called black privilege. Opportunity comes to those who created And 344 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: I just want to say, man, now, y'all see that 345 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: for the mart the story go ahead, Well, but that's it. Yeah, 346 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: Oh well, I just want to say that now it's 347 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: the greatest time to create your own opportunity. We didn't 348 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: have none of these tricks of the trade, none of 349 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: these tools that you kids got. If you want to 350 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: get in the radio, broadcast and you can just start 351 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: you on podcast. If you want to be a writer, 352 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 1: you can just write a blog. If you want to 353 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: be on TV, you can record yourself on YouTube. If 354 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: you are entrepreneur, you can take your your product, can 355 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: put it up on social media and Instagram and get 356 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: it popping. Now is the greatest time to create your 357 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,959 Speaker 1: own opportunity, take advantage of it. Wanting. Everybody is DJ 358 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: Nzy ANGELI ye Charlemagne, the guy. We are the breakfast club. 359 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: We got a special guest in the building, little keV, 360 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: the basket ist him chance because keV actually bought us chairs. 361 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: He brought us chairs. I did buy chairs. They took forever, 362 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: but it wasn't my fun. I know, so awkward coming 363 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: back up here until the chairs came. Yeah, I'm not 364 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 1: coming back to the chairs. Come thank you. He damned 365 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: right there. Little chairs. They don't go that high though, 366 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: the little chairs on purpose. Everybody come to here and 367 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: says they don't adjust. Hi. I'm like, it's good, hard though, 368 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: That's what I didn't so my feet could be as 369 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: supposed to. It has nothing to do with y'all. It 370 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: was all about me a whole lot more about Kevin 371 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: Hard after the originally his name that was his first 372 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: comedy sounds like a Philly battle rapper. But it definitely 373 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 1: it definitely has nothing but nothing that says success in it, 374 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: nothing that says I'm gonna make it. Can you tell 375 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: the people? Why are you a little kept the back, 376 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: little cast The bastard? That's the name that was my 377 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: first name is stand up comedy that um one of 378 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: my friends came up with because I was going when 379 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: I was gonna start performing. He was like, you need 380 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: a name, man. I was like, what you're talking about. 381 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: He said, you can't just go up there like that. 382 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: You need a name. And it was based off of, 383 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 1: you know, at the time the comedians that were popular 384 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: that was like Boost, Bruce Quake and all those guys 385 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: were real big. He's like, you need something people can 386 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: remember you buy and we were in the car he 387 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: was like the bastard. Honestly, I said, I was like, 388 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: what the bastard? So my friend came up with it 389 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 1: and we were in the car and they started announcing me. 390 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: Yo comes to the sage little calv the bastard, and 391 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 1: I was getting all hype. Okay, all right, I feel 392 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,479 Speaker 1: like it's dope that there was an old dirty out 393 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 1: there already, there was already a bastard in the game. 394 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: I didn't you know, you don't think when people give 395 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: you a name like that, you caught up in a moment, 396 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 1: Charlotte Magne. You don't become a negative Nancy all right, 397 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 1: went bastard in the game, or at that point in time, 398 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 1: I thought I was the only one. But what happened, 399 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: what happened stop? I realized it had nothing to do 400 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: with what I was talking about. Nothing that was nothing 401 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: that went with the bastard at all. And there was 402 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: one appointment. There was one job that I really wish 403 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: you would have done. This would have an epic. I 404 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: was gonna be a stripper, he was gonna be That 405 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: would even great. They I was this is me in 406 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: community college. Uh, money, money is dry. And I was 407 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 1: dealing with this girl and this chick. She was like, 408 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: you know, you should uh you should start dancing. Yeah. 409 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: We didn't get that far. We didn't get we got 410 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: it far enough for me to think about a routine. Uh, 411 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: that I should do. Like, we got far enough for 412 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: her to give me advice on a routine, and she 413 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: got some outfits and it had Yeah, she was like, dude, 414 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: this was you gotta wear. That's when I started getting skeptical. 415 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 1: But she was like, you know, this is what they wear. 416 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: She brought in one of these things, uh, that that 417 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: holds you, that hold you like this way you stay 418 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: right now that I don't know about all this. You know, 419 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm young. I'm like, I don't I don't want to 420 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 1: know about this. She's like, I'm telling you, I was 421 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: actually putting it down on this girl by the way too. 422 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: So Loki, she might have been trying to pay me. 423 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: You say she knew what she was working with. She 424 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: might have definitely tried to throw me out there to 425 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,479 Speaker 1: make some money, But at the time I didn't think 426 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: of it like that. Yeah, the dancing partner and everything 427 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: we was going. I convinced my boy that he should 428 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 1: do it too. Both y'all I want to go in 429 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: there blind. I wouldn't want to go in there blind man. 430 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: You tell a story about how y'all both went in 431 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,959 Speaker 1: the room and y'all had baby ords. I was did 432 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 1: y'all help each other put the baby or no, no, no, 433 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: this is this is just this is just us too, 434 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 1: oh brother, And then awkward is real. This was I 435 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: was eighteen eighteen, and I was like, yo, dude, she said, 436 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: we can make money, you know rent and everything was bad. 437 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: She said, we can go somewhere where nobody gonna see us. 438 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 1: He's like, you sure, man. I was like, dude, anybody 439 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: gonna see us? The way she talking like we're gonna 440 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: clean up, It's just a bunch of big girls. It's 441 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 1: just a bunch of big girls. So I said, she 442 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: said she will show us, help us out. So we uh. 443 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: She she had us in the living room. She's like, 444 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: y'all just gotta get a dancing routine. So the stools 445 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: was supposed to be the girl and we in the 446 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: h were in the living room. The classic genuine pony 447 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: is what I was gonna go with. So I was 448 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: working on a routine. This is a true story on 449 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: my mother. And while I'm trying to get my routine together, 450 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: my boy Chad and my brother and them came came in. 451 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: It came to like my brother always had a key, 452 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: so he just came in. They hear the music. Baby, 453 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: we just had jeans on, we had a shirts off, 454 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: so we were in there. We're there with oil on, 455 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 1: dancing music blasting. My brother's like, what the fuck is 456 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: going on? Hey? Hey, there was nothing that you could say, 457 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 1: even even though in my mind is justified, there was 458 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: nothing I could say my brother at that moment. And 459 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: in that moment, I'm like, yo, yo yo. I tried 460 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: to say yo, wait now, wait till be done, waitill 461 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: be done. This utine, I'm almost at the end. But 462 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 1: that's when I was like, no, man, I can't do this. 463 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: My brother, man, he's stupid, and say go take them 464 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: goddamn ump. I respected though, because you you were in 465 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: feeling you could have so dope, you could have freaking 466 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: went to robber start that. I wasn't gonna go that rout. 467 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: The only reason why I was even interested in doing 468 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: that because she had me so sold on the fact. 469 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 1: She's like, because you small, the big girl's gonna let you. 470 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm telling you, yeah, she had me so 471 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: so I'm not even lying. You see them being like, 472 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 1: there's no there's no room for error in this in 473 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: this in this story to tell a lot like it 474 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: was literally me. My back was against the wall, and 475 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I gotta figure it out, man. No, no, 476 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: no no. And just for the record, I wanted to 477 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: be clear, I never hit a stage. I never even 478 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: walked to a strip club. It was it was in 479 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: my living room. It's as far as it went. And 480 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: I never even put on the bottom. I never even 481 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: put on your outfit. No, I was just had jeans on. 482 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: I had my jeans on, we had a shirts off. 483 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 1: We was going over the routine and she was telling 484 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: us about the things to put on, like that's when 485 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: the information was throwing us off. And she's like, I 486 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: don't even know if y'all can dance. Let me see 487 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 1: what the dance so different if you would have hit 488 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: that stage, Oh I could have hit to say, well, 489 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: who knows, gentleman, you're ready to get dropped off, CHARLAMI 490 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: told us to the story last week. We're talking about 491 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: the book about how you walked in on a comedian off, 492 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: not just any comedian, not just any comedian, one of 493 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: one of the best to do it, Manu Patrise O'Neil. 494 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: When you walked in, That's why I listened people, This 495 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: is what this book. This story right here is legendary. Okay, 496 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 1: Patrise O'Neil uh. He comes to La Patrise needed to stay. 497 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: He needed a place to stay. So at the time 498 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: I was living in La I had a two bedroom apartment. 499 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,239 Speaker 1: Patrese comes, he's staying there. I'm like, dude, you come 500 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 1: and go as you want. Me and my men and 501 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: my ex were out, like we're just out and about 502 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 1: during the day. And she's like, all right, well, I'm 503 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: gonna go hang with my girls. I was like, are 504 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 1: you go ahead, I'm gonna go back to the crib. 505 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 1: So I'm not thinking about Patrese or whatever. If he 506 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,439 Speaker 1: is home, it doesn't matter. So I walk in and quiet, 507 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 1: like it's literally just quiet. I'm like, yore you here. 508 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 1: I'm hearing nothing right, it's not going to back. Just 509 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 1: in that back room where he is open the door. 510 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: You know, he's just he's in front of like I 511 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: had a big laptop, so you know, Patricia's big. Patrecas 512 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 1: in front of the laptop and I'm like, yo, what 513 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: you're doing man? He's like, like, you know, you know 514 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: when a person like turn turn over the look over 515 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: the shoulder, but they don't move their body like something 516 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: where he's like, YO, give me a second, give me 517 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: a second. And I was like, what you're doing. He's like, man, 518 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 1: give me a second. He moved and I saw like 519 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 1: baby or you on the top. I was like, what, yo, 520 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: you're watching port let's see. And then like he has 521 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: you know, Patricia's huge, so his little arm on the 522 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: other side. I was like, in front of them, you're 523 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: getting down. It's like, oh, come on man. He's like 524 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 1: he's like, come on, man, I don't know he's gonna 525 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: be home. Man. It's like, so I go and close 526 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: the door, and like two minutes go by, he come 527 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 1: back out. First of all, he's disgusting because he finished, 528 00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: Like when I close the door, he finished doing whatever 529 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: he was doing and he came back out. He was like, y'all, 530 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: I didn't expect you to be back, you know, normal 531 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: as you guys don't come back until late evening. I 532 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: thought I had some me time, he said. He said, 533 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: if there's anything I could do, he gave me a 534 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: hundred dollars. This is real. He's like, that's just for 535 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 1: the inconvenience. I was like making money at the fact 536 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 1: that I saw you in off. It's just disgusting to me, man, 537 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 1: I said, and you finished, He's like, well it was 538 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: a good you actually succeeded scene. He pat he was 539 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: a favorite guy, like you know, the guy's a saved scene. 540 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: Butt had scenes just saved all on my laptop, like 541 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 1: by the time he moved like his favorite sections, it 542 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: was on your laptop. It was my computer. Part about 543 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: that story, not to tell nobody, and you said, no, 544 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 1: as your friend, I'm gonna tell everyone. Now. This is 545 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: what he would want and heaven smiling right now. He 546 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: would want me to tell the story. I know, Patrice 547 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: Patrise is one of the biggest best ass you ever meeting, 548 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: and this is what we did. So I told the 549 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: story because that's a moment that I had with a legend. 550 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,479 Speaker 1: And in that moment, you know, that's the one thing 551 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: that I had on him. That's my that's my one. 552 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: I got you right, I got you good. But I 553 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: never said nothing, we're not. It's a lot. I told 554 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: the comedians we trashhim at the table one time and 555 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: his whole response was, y'all, don't y'all have like y'all 556 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: don't do it. We do, but not not enough. It's 557 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: not when we know they're coming in and out, all right. 558 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: We got more with Kevin Hart when we come back. 559 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,919 Speaker 1: We got to talk about his book some more and more. 560 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 1: So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the 561 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We're back morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee. 562 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got 563 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, Kevin Harts Here. Now's Charlomagne. 564 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 1: Why are you writing a book now? Why? Why am 565 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,360 Speaker 1: I writing a book now? I got too much information, man, 566 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 1: too many stories that I that I can tell that 567 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: can be of use to others, especially when you're talking 568 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: about success. So you know a lot of wrongs that 569 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: I've done, a lot of mistakes that I've made. I 570 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: think can be valuable to other people to know which 571 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: direction that they should have shouldn't go into, and you 572 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,879 Speaker 1: can take that information and put it to use. I 573 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: didn't have as much as I wanted to when I 574 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: was coming up, and I think that was a good thing. 575 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 1: That's why a lot of the mistakes that I made 576 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: I made. But now that I've learned and that I understand, 577 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 1: I'm in a position to give people a different piece 578 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: of knowledge. And that's what the book is about. Man. 579 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 1: It's about sharing this information so you can help people, 580 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 1: you know, uh, that are aspiring to be whatever it 581 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 1: is they want to be in life understand that there's 582 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: a will in his way as long as you're determined 583 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: to do it. It seems like you also learned a 584 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: lot writing this book because you got to sit down 585 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 1: with your dad ask him some questions that you might 586 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: have never known that. I want interview. I'm not your 587 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: dad is really the start of this book. You better 588 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: get that dump button ready. Talk to my dad as 589 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: you want to. Man. You know, it's it's it's crazy 590 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: because when me and my dad were talking and just 591 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,479 Speaker 1: going through everything, the stories, Uh, you know, my dad 592 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 1: was getting mad. He was getting mad because you know, 593 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: you're you're pulling stuff that he doesn't want to remember, 594 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: you know, he doesn't want to say think about. And 595 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: the fact that I'm laughing about it is what was 596 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: making him mad. You know. He's like, dude, you know, 597 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: to you it's joking. I'm like, it's not a joke. 598 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,719 Speaker 1: I'm just in a position where I can laugh at 599 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 1: the stupid as you did. You know, it doesn't affect me. 600 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm fine. You know, I made it. I said, your 601 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 1: other son is fine. I said, you're upset because of 602 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: the states. You may say you're mad at you. You're 603 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: not mad at me laughing. You're mad at you because 604 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: now you're in a sober state to look at the 605 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: things you did. And that's that's where we got into 606 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 1: it a couple of times. But you know, he's all overall, 607 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: he's fine, you know. But when you say he's the 608 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: star of the book, he's the star of my life 609 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: because if you look at the bulk of the stories, 610 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: if you look at the bulk of the crazy things 611 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: that I talk about, it stems from my dad being 612 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 1: a part of it in some way, shape or form. 613 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: Me talking about my dad stealing a dog in this book, 614 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: my dad stole a grown dog from one of just 615 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: from the neighbor man, like from people that live like 616 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: three blocks down. He just took their doll and brought 617 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: it home and say, y'all been asked for dog. There 618 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: you go. And you know, people came to the house 619 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: and they're like, yo, y'all took our dog. My dad 620 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: looked him and out nobody they called the dog. The 621 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: dog come running to him and He's like, well, how 622 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: am I supposed to let your dog? And he's like, 623 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: just what are you telling when you took the dog? 624 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: I mean my brother was like, Dad, I thought that 625 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: was our dog. Y'all get another one. But he just 626 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: shrugged it off, like drugs put you in a position 627 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: where you shrug it off. Ain't no big deal with 628 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: We'll find another one. He let you drive a boat, 629 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: let me crash a boat. Yeah, let you have nothing. 630 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: Well what do you do if you if you my 631 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 1: mom know you gotta put yourself in her position. She 632 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: let my older brother have everything, and he went down 633 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,479 Speaker 1: the wrong road. So her thing was with him. I'm 634 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: not gonna let him do nothing. I'm gonna make sure 635 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm right there. I had a babysitting until I was 636 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: fourteen fifteen stolen at him from your pops. Like she 637 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: didn't let me have none of that. I don't know. 638 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 1: My dad used to come with toys with no bags, 639 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: no no cases. Remember Dad bought me a bunch of 640 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: he men you remember he meant, he meant g I Joe's, 641 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: but they were all out the packaging and it got 642 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: me back. None of them brand new, none of them 643 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: had packaging. And the garbage bag. Hey man, that's for 644 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: that boy. Moms, I ain't bringing that hot stuff in here, 645 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: but you assume it stolen. My mom, she was like, 646 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: show me receipt, my dad, I ain't gonna do this this, 647 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: I ain't got time. He never show receipt. Honestly though, 648 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: what I love the most is that people are going 649 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: to see different layers to who I am. Like, you know, granted, 650 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 1: right now we're talking about the fun stuff in the book. 651 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: You're talking about me telling the story about when I 652 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: was about to strip, or you know, me when I 653 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 1: was coming up with the name Little Cata Bastard, when 654 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: I started comedy, or you know, my dad's stealing the dog. 655 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: But then there's some real, real, you know, deep stuff 656 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: in there, where you going to the death of my 657 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: relationship with my dad, of my feelings towards what my 658 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: dad was doing when he was doing at the time, 659 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 1: you know, my mom and me when we butted heads, 660 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: and how tough he got in that household at that time, 661 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 1: my brother and how he stepped up to play a 662 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: certain role in my life when it was important after 663 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: he was gone. I mean, you talk about the domestic violences, 664 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 1: violence and my ex wife being a possible alcoholic. Yeah, 665 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: that was a point in time where to check myself 666 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: and say, yo, are you are you an alcoholic? Are 667 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: you becoming an alcohol There's just so many different things 668 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: where I've I've seen myself grow from the experiences that 669 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 1: I made, from the good and the bad, And I 670 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 1: think people need to understand that nobody in life is flawless. 671 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: Nobody is perfect. You know, perfection is something that really 672 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: exists when you're talking about individuals. It's impossible. You can 673 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: try to be as perfect as you want, but ultimately 674 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna come across mistakes, You're gonna come across flaws. 675 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: And I think the real perfection is in perfecting your imperfections. 676 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: That's how you get to a place where you can 677 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: ultimately be happy with who you are. That's what made 678 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: me appreciate the book even more because when you talk about, 679 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: you know, fighting with your ads, or even the situations 680 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 1: when you were drunk before you call the DUI and 681 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: having accidents, you don't have to share that kind of 682 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: stuff actially. Now you are a brand, you're doing cartoons. Yeah, 683 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: like you had no reservations about shiting that kind of information, 684 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 1: Like it could affect your money. Now, well no, I 685 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: mean you know now you're not gonna I can't affect 686 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 1: my money because I'm in control of it. I'm my 687 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: own I'm my own man. So when you say you're 688 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: a brand, I am a brand. I'm in charging my brand. 689 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: You know, I'm putting those stories in there because people 690 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 1: don't realize the real, the real consequences behind it. And 691 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: I told you, yes, shown, I was like, it's very easy. 692 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 1: But now I'm good. I didn't drunk, I'm good, I balanced, 693 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: I don't drunk. I'm good. I'm sure you know you 694 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: took how many shots to being the took But it's 695 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: very easy to get in that car. I was that guy. 696 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: Now I'm good, come on, we out and I would 697 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: I make it home. I drive home. But I had 698 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: a problem. But you get comfortable with doing that. And 699 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: then when I got to Duy, I realized if I 700 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 1: were to get an accident, if this were to be tragic, 701 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: how many people fall down because of my my ignorance, 702 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: my my quick mistake, From the wife, from the kids, 703 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: from within my company, the people that worked for me, 704 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: from the brands that have put so much on the 705 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: table to go behind what it is that I'm saying 706 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: and doing. Yo, everything collapses off of a bad a 707 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: bad judgment. I said, why am I? Why am I 708 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: living to to to make an easy wrong. It's like, 709 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: just go in and get rid of that. Let's let's 710 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: x that out. Me and my ex wife when they 711 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: got they got violent. Were we fighting? Am I really fighting? 712 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: My am? I holding my hands up as if she's 713 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: a man right now? Oh my god, Yo, this is 714 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm out. I've really got my hands up to not defend, 715 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: but counter, like I'm waiting for you to throw a 716 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 1: bunchy because I'm about to counter the shit out. I'm like, 717 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: I'm really, I'm really like, I'm I'm not upset to 718 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: where I got a stance like when you stance. That's 719 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,399 Speaker 1: when I checked myself, as you say, what you want? 720 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,399 Speaker 1: All this comedy stuff is great. I could throw my hand. 721 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 1: I took a stance like okay, like I'm waiting. I'm 722 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: waiting because I was gonna I was gonna diep and 723 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: bow and I'm like, I'm like, oh my god, I'm 724 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 1: going like I'm lost, and what a level of anger 725 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: am I aunt that I've gotten here? I was like 726 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm all right, ke You're gonna take responsibility whether she 727 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 1: did whatever she did. You got to start taking responsibility. 728 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: So when I stopped justifying, that's when I started to 729 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: get smarter. And as I got smarter, the business got better. 730 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: As the business got better, the brain got bigger. It 731 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,919 Speaker 1: all goes together, man, And that's what I'm talking about 732 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: when I say information. This is information that I'm sharing. 733 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 1: The simple show that the person that you see is human. 734 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not sitting in front of you as 735 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: a robot or somebody that that doesn't do the things 736 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: you do. Ultimately, we're all people, were all individuals. We 737 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 1: got more with Kevin Hart. When we come back. We 738 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: got to talk Bill Cosby a little bit. And also 739 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: I see them go to the game the other day 740 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: with jay Z. Who'll pay for that jet? We'll talk 741 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,399 Speaker 1: about it when we come back to the Breakfast Club. 742 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Ye, Charlemagne 743 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club, Kevin Harts in 744 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: the building. Now. Yesterday Bill Cosby wasn't caught, and he 745 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: mentioned that he was kind of upset that a couple 746 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 1: of comedians didn't necessarily support him and you were one 747 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:10,400 Speaker 1: of them, or you be support him? He said, Okay, 748 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 1: what relationship, said Philly, where's Kevin Hart with the support? Well, here, 749 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 1: here's the thing. I'll be honest with you. Um, what 750 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,439 Speaker 1: is going on with him now is such a tough 751 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: thing because it tarnishes, you know, the reputation of what 752 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: America's favorite dad was, and that's that's unfortunate. It's unfortunate. 753 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 1: But without me knowing all the ends and outs of 754 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 1: this case, and of course you're innocent until proven guilty, 755 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 1: it's a tough position to stand in front of because 756 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 1: wrong is wrong and right is right. So if there 757 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 1: is a situation where he is wrong, you know he 758 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: will be remembered as that instead of this. But as 759 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 1: a comedian, I'm a storyteller because of Bill Cosby, because 760 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 1: of Eddie Murphy, you know, because of prior. When you 761 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: look at those guys, they did it to the best 762 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 1: of their ability and for the generation to come behind them, 763 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 1: there were they were our influences, you know. So Bill 764 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: Cosby plays a major influence. But I can't step into 765 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: that realm because that realm is such a messy realm 766 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: right now, and you don't know what you're stepping up 767 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 1: for yeah, like you don't like you know, I don't. 768 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to put myself in a position or 769 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,879 Speaker 1: I'm speaking on the behalf of of a man where 770 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 1: I mean, there's such a plethora of people that are 771 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 1: just it's it's possible, that's a that's a tough thing. Now, 772 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,399 Speaker 1: now you you know all about the Bill Maut Kathy 773 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 1: Griffin situations. Do you think comedians have a license to 774 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: say anything anything? No, you can play the freedom of 775 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 1: speech thing all you want. You can play the where 776 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 1: comedians it's a joke thing all you want. Ultimately, we 777 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 1: know what we're saying and you know the backlash that 778 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 1: can come from it. There was a point in my 779 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 1: time and stand up where I was using slander to 780 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: talk about homophobia, and at that point in time, nobody 781 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 1: would say anything. It wasn't it didn't come off offensive, 782 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: you know, it wasn't a big deal. But today people 783 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 1: are speaking up to the point where they take they 784 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:33,799 Speaker 1: take those words as as serious as we take racial slur. 785 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,800 Speaker 1: You know, so ultimately, I can't expect you to respect 786 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: me if I'm saying things that don't respect you. And 787 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: just because I have the title of a comedian doesn't 788 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: justify the things that I'm doing. It that I'm saying. 789 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 1: You know, I've seen Bill Maher come to the defense 790 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 1: of black people on several occasions. That's a bad judgment. 791 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:57,360 Speaker 1: You know. Granted, I don't think Bill Maher's a racist, 792 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,759 Speaker 1: but to say that, to say that and said the 793 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,880 Speaker 1: way you said it, as comfortable as you said it 794 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 1: in a joking form, You're wrong. Now, granted, you can 795 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: issue all the apologies you want. He says it, you know, 796 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 1: he says it around friends. Is not that something that 797 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: he's not gonna say anymore, But for you to say 798 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: it on your platform, that's tacking. On stage, you're not 799 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 1: gonna hear me go the cracker or the hunky. I'm 800 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 1: not gonna I'm not gonna do it. I do on 801 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 1: the radio all the time. I'm not. I'm not gonna 802 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 1: do it. I love I'm crack ass crackers. I'm not 803 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: gonna do it. I get it. I'm not gonna do it. 804 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it because of the relationships that 805 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,600 Speaker 1: I have, because of the people that I'm around, because 806 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,280 Speaker 1: of the platforms that I stand doing. So I'm conscious 807 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 1: of that. Now. Bill had great community timing in that 808 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 1: moment though, Hey man, listen, I'm not gonna go and 809 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 1: break the joke down. I'm not gonna the level of 810 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: comfort like the shoulder shrug. And I was like, yeah, 811 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 1: come on man, And then and then like he's like 812 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: the cockiness afterwards, how he flagged it off like I 813 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, that's bad, that's bad now. One of 814 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 1: the main takeaways I got from the book was about perspective. Yes, 815 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 1: a lot of things that happen in life. You could 816 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: look at it in one way, or you could look 817 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,360 Speaker 1: at it in another way. You could take the positive 818 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 1: out of it and make it funny and make it 819 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 1: something that you could learn from, or you could just 820 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 1: be negative and it feels like that's something that has 821 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 1: been with you since you were young. The best way 822 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:24,959 Speaker 1: to break it, Dad, is that's your life is a book. 823 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: You got different chapters in your life. Ultimately, you're going 824 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: to get to the end of your book. However you 825 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 1: want that book to end is up to you. Are 826 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: you learning from the chapters? Are you are you taking 827 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,839 Speaker 1: the positives out of the negatives to make the next 828 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: chapters better or are you the type of person that 829 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: can finish each chapter on a negative and shoulder shrugged. 830 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 1: Ultimately you're in control of that. So when you talk 831 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: about the life lessons, there's several life lessons. I mean 832 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 1: as funny as me, as me putting myself in a 833 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 1: situation to possibly almost strip is, there's a lesson in that. 834 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: Like Yo, as crazy as it was, desperation was in 835 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 1: and I was about to go to the ultimate route 836 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 1: of desperation. How do I get some quick money in 837 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 1: my pocket? All right, I'm about to show my what 838 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 1: I gotta do. That's that's how I get it, what 839 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 1: I gotta do. Better. Well, hey, brother, that's not even option. 840 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: I don't know how that got out there. That's not 841 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 1: even a possibility. All right, If they get that bad, somebody, 842 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,359 Speaker 1: somebody gonna did something to make me better. The better 843 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 1: check something in my veining, something flown through my veins. 844 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:35,040 Speaker 1: But the life lesson within that moment was there is 845 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:39,359 Speaker 1: no there is no win in the quick route. That's 846 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: what a lot of those moments are about. Man, there's 847 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 1: a life lesson in any and everything that I've done. 848 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: Me now, as a parent, why I stand while I 849 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 1: stand with my kids to day, it's because of how 850 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 1: my dad was with me. If my dad wasn't that 851 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 1: parent that missed and made mistakes, I wouldn't be as 852 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 1: one point as I am, because you wouldn't realize how 853 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 1: important it is to do and be those places that 854 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,399 Speaker 1: you normally wouldn't things to do and be. I gotta 855 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,839 Speaker 1: fly back to LA. I gotta fly back to LA. 856 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: I gotta do press interview interviews. I gotta get him 857 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: the plane fly landed my daughter's graduation. I'm gonna be 858 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 1: there for an hour so my baby can see me, 859 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,240 Speaker 1: so I can hug her, give her kids some flowers, 860 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: and I gotta go right back to the airport, get 861 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: back on the plane so I can go back and 862 00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,399 Speaker 1: be back where I just came from for the next 863 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: morning to do TV. Are you in the middle of 864 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: your book? Told you flying back to LA on the 865 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: day your book hour? And this little girl ain't even 866 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,319 Speaker 1: because all friends gonna be around. So I'm no, I'm 867 00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,840 Speaker 1: gonna get mad because you're not even gonna realize what 868 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 1: I did. So I'm gonna get a hug. Then, Okay, wait, 869 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: I gotta go for Parker's over there, all right. I 870 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,200 Speaker 1: spend fifty grand real quick just to go back and 871 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 1: forth because I gotta get back, but give me a hug. 872 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: I love you because I'm saying how important at it? 873 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: So the things that I do to break my neck 874 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,000 Speaker 1: because he didn't break his neck the same way, but 875 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't fall to him for that. I now know 876 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do, so my kids don't have 877 00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 1: the same feeling Properly. He didn't just look up that 878 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,799 Speaker 1: he would Jay fly to the game the first game 879 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:13,400 Speaker 1: NBA Finals, let's face for the jet JA did. Actually, actually, 880 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: I don't tell you how cool I was with that move. 881 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: I knew who I was about to call. I was 882 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 1: about to call and give my plane, and and I 883 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 1: was like, wait, whole probably going to the game game one. 884 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,760 Speaker 1: I know he in town. Let me call hold first, 885 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: and I hit him with it. Yo, what up? You're like, 886 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: what up you're doing? He's like, man, cool, what's you 887 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: knowing about this game? You go to the game. He's like, 888 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: come on, you know I am I heard that. I 889 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,640 Speaker 1: don't come with you once I once I heard. Once 890 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 1: I heard the door open, I'm getting on with you. 891 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,759 Speaker 1: Then I see you there, give me a plan for gas, 892 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,319 Speaker 1: money or nothing. No, that was he's going already that's true. 893 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 1: He was going already. Kevin gotta go, guys, gotta go. 894 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:51,839 Speaker 1: And let me just say where he's gonna be at 895 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 1: because he has his book tour happening now. He'll be 896 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,960 Speaker 1: in Philly on Wednesday right at the Philadelphia Free Library. 897 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 1: Then on Thursday, June eighth, and DC at Politics and Pros. 898 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: Then in Miami Friday June ninth at Books and Books, 899 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,480 Speaker 1: and then and Katie Houston, Texas at Books a Million 900 00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: on Saturday, June tenth, June eleventh, Minneapolis at Mall of America, 901 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 1: and in La Monday, June twelfth at Barnes and No 902 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: Book to Grow. Listen, Kevin's gonna shut all of these 903 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 1: places down. There's no way Kevin's gonna be allowed to 904 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: be in these bookstores no long It's gonna be crazy. 905 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:29,440 Speaker 1: It's impossible. That's what I want. I want share Pandemonium. Pandemonium. Man, 906 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:30,920 Speaker 1: let me tide out my book club because this is 907 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: the book in my book club that we are reading now, 908 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: Kevin Hart. It's really great read, man, it's a really 909 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 1: great read. I heard your book club is amazing too. 910 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's really fun. We're excited for your books. 911 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 1: It's gonna be great conversation based off of your experience. 912 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 1: It really is it? Really? I want to thank you 913 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: for waiting two months until after my book brief. Let 914 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,840 Speaker 1: me let me give my guys shout out that he deserves, 915 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 1: man shout out to you, Uh, not only for writing 916 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 1: a book, but taking advantage of an amazing opportunity that 917 00:44:58,280 --> 00:44:59,879 Speaker 1: you have. And I talked to him about this, Yester 918 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,080 Speaker 1: that I was like, Dude, I said, that's something that 919 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: that you can embark on and go so far because 920 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: you're so opinionated on the radio, You're you're you're so 921 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:13,320 Speaker 1: firm within your stance of your feelings, your thoughts and 922 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: how you feel. Other people do that and have that, 923 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,239 Speaker 1: but you've taken that and transformed it into a book. Man. 924 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,800 Speaker 1: That can go on to be so many books. So 925 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: I applaud you in your efforts, dude, and support you. 926 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: If you haven't got my Guys book, make sure you 927 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,720 Speaker 1: go support the Black privilege. Definitely told me that yesterday 928 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: and then he goes, but I'm gonna be number one. 929 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:36,359 Speaker 1: I'm already working on number two next week. I will 930 00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 1: work out the numbers later on. If the breakfast club 931 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:59,720 Speaker 1: the breakfast club, I was born to Donkey Donkey Devil 932 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Yeah, dopy to day goes to a young 933 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: man named Ugly God. Now, by a show of hands, 934 00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 1: if you don't know who Ugly God is, raise your hands. Okay, 935 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 1: we are on the radio and I can't see any 936 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,880 Speaker 1: of you all, but I'm gonna assume that a lot 937 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: of you, grown as adults who listened to the Breakfast 938 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,879 Speaker 1: Club have no idea who Ugly God is. Well, Ugly 939 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 1: God was on the twenty seventeen Double x Self Freshman cover. Now, 940 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: I am not the guy on the radio that started 941 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,919 Speaker 1: here trying to act younger than I am. My born 942 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 1: day is June twenty nine, and I am happy to 943 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 1: be here ages a blessing. I feel privileged to be 944 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,759 Speaker 1: growing older and growing and evolving every day. So when 945 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,879 Speaker 1: I look at the twenty seventeen Double Xelf Freshman, listen 946 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 1: to people on it look unfamiliar. He doesn't bother me 947 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 1: in the least bit. I'll call up one of my 948 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,320 Speaker 1: young boys, like DJ Academics a rally on Smash and 949 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,279 Speaker 1: tell him put me on. Well, Ugly God is one 950 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 1: of those young uns. They put me on too. Okay, 951 00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: he's twenty years old, and he is the leader of 952 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 1: a crew called the Little d Click. And when I 953 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,280 Speaker 1: say D I mean penis dropped on the clues bombs 954 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: for that name. Love it always under sling over deliver. 955 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,960 Speaker 1: Even if your penis isn't little say it is. No 956 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: expectation is the best expectation. Always remember that. But back 957 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 1: to Ugly Guy, it's safe to say that people are 958 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: still discovering who he is. I know the record water 959 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,400 Speaker 1: was it tuned? It's got like thirty million views on SoundCloud. 960 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 1: Let's play a little of it. See if it rings 961 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,360 Speaker 1: any belt for anyone. I just bring your bitch like 962 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 1: water with the water water water, water, water, water on 963 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 1: my bitch. I can't for whale like my cell phone. 964 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 1: Still don't know who he is? Heard the record maybe well. 965 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: Ugly Guy was pulled over for careless driving this weekend 966 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 1: and he had to nerve the audacity the unmitigated gul 967 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 1: to play the you don't know who I Am? Called? 968 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,799 Speaker 1: Oh yes, it was all captain on ig Live. Let's 969 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 1: hear it. Unless you hold that card the middle of 970 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,960 Speaker 1: the road, you continue to get tickets like this. I 971 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: just want you're warning before I don't know if he 972 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 1: has salt, but they probably know whose I am. Nobody 973 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 1: knows who don't think should mention before players Again, I'm 974 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 1: dying talking for him, warning for the careless water because 975 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:02,720 Speaker 1: they decent for all. You're long in twenty four in La. Okay, 976 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 1: what they're asking to do with me call him to 977 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: take a little time. But it's a fine thing. Yeah, 978 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,759 Speaker 1: you compare a fire man and don't know. I don't 979 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 1: low this work. I'm knowing looking me here, I'm but 980 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm through okay, ugly space, the space, ugly space. God. Look, 981 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,600 Speaker 1: I love because I love the confidence, young brother. I 982 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 1: would try listen. I love the confidence, young brother. But 983 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,000 Speaker 1: it's a thin line between confidence and arrogance. And let's 984 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,200 Speaker 1: deal with reality. Bro, Bro, I know you got thirty 985 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 1: million views on Water on SoundCloud. I know you're on 986 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 1: the twenty seventeen Double XL Freshman List. I know some 987 00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,719 Speaker 1: people are anticipating your the Booty tape that's actually the 988 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: name of his project, the Booty Tape. But you are 989 00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,200 Speaker 1: in no position to say to anyone you don't know 990 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: who I am. Okay, by the way, most people, if 991 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 1: you have to say you don't know who I am, 992 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,120 Speaker 1: then you probably nobody. One of my favorite quotes in 993 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 1: life is worn't hard until you no longer need to 994 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,080 Speaker 1: introduce yourself. Ugly Gods, you are in that space right now. 995 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,279 Speaker 1: That's space where you need to keep working hard and 996 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 1: introducing yourself to everyone. And even when you think you 997 00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,320 Speaker 1: are the biggest thing in the world, it will always 998 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,759 Speaker 1: be someone who doesn't know you. So don't ever think 999 00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 1: you are so big or that important that the whole 1000 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,560 Speaker 1: world knows you. Humble thyself before you are humbled. This 1001 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: situation made me think about two things. Once, maybe a 1002 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,719 Speaker 1: year ago, maybe two, I don't remember, I met Beyonce, right, 1003 00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 1: and Beyonce actually shook my hand and said, Hi, I'm Beyonce. 1004 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 1: Beyonce probably wanted to few people on this planet who 1005 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 1: everyone knows, introduced herself as if I was from another 1006 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 1: planet and possibly didn't know who he was. So I'm 1007 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: saying that to say, if one of the most well 1008 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,320 Speaker 1: known people on the planet isn't awesome, do you know 1009 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 1: who I am? Stuff? Then why does your twenty year 1010 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: old ass have that type of energy? The word of 1011 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,600 Speaker 1: the day, kids is humble. Do you remember when Jay Z, 1012 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 1: ironically Beyonce's husband, road the train wants to go perform 1013 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 1: at the ball Clay Center, and it was just massive 1014 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: crowd around him, and an old lady asked him, are 1015 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 1: you famous? Jay Z could have hit her with a 1016 00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,640 Speaker 1: do you know who I am? But he didn't. He's 1017 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 1: simply he said this. That's humility. That's humility. In the 1018 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,680 Speaker 1: words of Ralph waldor Emacent, a great man is always 1019 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 1: willing to be little. I just want you, young, and 1020 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,200 Speaker 1: to understand that you will go a lot further when 1021 00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,280 Speaker 1: you humble yourself. Okay. Matthew twenty three twelve says whoever 1022 00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 1: exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will 1023 00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 1: be exalted. If you don't, okay, if you don't know 1024 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 1: what exalted means high rank or status at a high 1025 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,919 Speaker 1: powerful level, held in high regard. You know the type 1026 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,080 Speaker 1: of person who doesn't have to say people, you know 1027 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,239 Speaker 1: who I am? All right? Okay, that's what that is. 1028 00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,200 Speaker 1: That's what exalted means. All right. You don't have to 1029 00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 1: say you know who I am because people already know 1030 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:49,400 Speaker 1: who they are. Well, those of you who like to 1031 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 1: exalt yourself by saying things like do you know who 1032 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 1: I am? You will be humbled. And humble people will 1033 00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 1: continue to rise because people will lift them up, because 1034 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,720 Speaker 1: we like to see people who aren't full of themselves. 1035 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 1: When Ugly God, you just got a lesson to humility, 1036 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,319 Speaker 1: and as long as you learn from it, you will 1037 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:06,680 Speaker 1: be fine. Just remember, humility is royalty without the crown. 1038 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 1: And if you can't remember that, next time you're in 1039 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,400 Speaker 1: a situation where you feel like exalting yourself, just just 1040 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 1: remember this, Cops, this cops voice in your head, I 1041 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,839 Speaker 1: don't love you has salt, but they probably know who 1042 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 1: I am. Nobody knows who you are before. Why I 1043 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,440 Speaker 1: need to hear that one more time? Please, I need 1044 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 1: to hear that one more time. I don't love you 1045 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,960 Speaker 1: has salt, but they probably know who I am. Nobody 1046 00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: knows who you before. That is God talking to that cop, 1047 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 1: telling the ugly God the humble thyself. Please give ugly 1048 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:40,600 Speaker 1: God to sweet sounds in the Hamletones. You are the donkey. 1049 00:51:43,680 --> 00:52:00,919 Speaker 1: The day you donkey, the day nobody knows who you are. Man, listen, 1050 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,800 Speaker 1: man humbles myself or you will be humble morning. Everybody 1051 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 1: is cj Envy angelu Ye, Charlomagne, the guy. We all 1052 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:11,160 Speaker 1: the breakfast club. So for ask ye eight drew five 1053 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,319 Speaker 1: five one oh five one. If you got a question 1054 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,879 Speaker 1: for ye? Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hey? What's your question 1055 00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,840 Speaker 1: for ye? What's your name? My name is Virgie. My 1056 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,160 Speaker 1: question is is that my best friend keeps going back 1057 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,839 Speaker 1: to the same guy, even though he keeps chooting on her. 1058 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: He keeps talking to other girls, and it's like I 1059 00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 1: keep telling her to do the same thing, like stop 1060 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,719 Speaker 1: talking to him, but on your business now. The only 1061 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 1: time that I really had to do something was when 1062 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:41,399 Speaker 1: one of my friends, her child's father, actually sent out 1063 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 1: nude pictures of her to her whole entire family, to 1064 00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 1: her boss at work, and he also was physically abusing her. 1065 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,400 Speaker 1: So at that point I told her we had to 1066 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,400 Speaker 1: go to the police and file a report, and she 1067 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,560 Speaker 1: had to worry about the safety of her kids. But 1068 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: when it comes to most of my friends that have 1069 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: been in those situations, even you, I'm sure you've been 1070 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,120 Speaker 1: in a situation where you've been with somebody way longer 1071 00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,880 Speaker 1: than you should have. So all you can do is 1072 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 1: be supportive, because you don't want your friend to not 1073 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: want to tell you when things are happening, And I 1074 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 1: know it gets a little repetitive and I've had to 1075 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 1: tell one of my friends, Listen, you complain about the 1076 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: same things all the time. Either you have to do 1077 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 1: something about it and change your situation because he's not changing, 1078 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 1: or maybe you need to just if that's what you 1079 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 1: want to choose to do, just do it and stop 1080 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,879 Speaker 1: complaining about it all the time, because sometimes I don't 1081 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: want to hear the same story over and over and 1082 00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:31,600 Speaker 1: over again, you know. But so it is what it is. 1083 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,360 Speaker 1: But there's gonna be a certain point when, you know. 1084 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,760 Speaker 1: And I told my friend the same thing. I said, Listen, 1085 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,880 Speaker 1: at some point he's gonna do. Are you gonna wait 1086 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 1: for him to do something so terrible that you absolutely 1087 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,640 Speaker 1: have to leave him alone and break up? Why do 1088 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,120 Speaker 1: you want to wait for that to happen? And just 1089 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 1: make sure you know. I think you're an incredible person. 1090 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 1: You're my friend, and the only reason I'm telling you 1091 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 1: this is because I'm your friend, you know. But at 1092 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,360 Speaker 1: the end of the day, she'll leave when she's ready 1093 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 1: for it. Ready, I bet you that's why you so 1094 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 1: you meddling another people? No, I do. That's the problem. 1095 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,320 Speaker 1: It's like every time she wants to talk, like I 1096 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 1: take away my time with my boyfriend to go help 1097 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: her out, and it's like, your man, don't tell you 1098 00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:15,759 Speaker 1: to mind your damn business. I mean, that's ad if 1099 00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 1: she wants if her friend wants to talk to her 1100 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,080 Speaker 1: about things, she's not gonna say, Okay, I'm a mama. 1101 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,560 Speaker 1: If she's asking her questions and wants her advice, but 1102 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 1: you have to tell her. Listen, it's the same story 1103 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 1: over and over and over again. Now until you do 1104 00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,319 Speaker 1: something different. I don't want to hear the same story 1105 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:30,840 Speaker 1: over and over again. Well that's fine. Why are you 1106 00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,840 Speaker 1: worry about what your friend doing? Your man getting his 1107 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: cheating off, so he gooda but be supportive. Be supportive 1108 00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,960 Speaker 1: of your friend, all right? Thank you? Bye? Ask Ye 1109 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 1: eight and Drew five eight five one oh five one 1110 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:45,839 Speaker 1: if you got a question for ye Cola. Now it's 1111 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ MVY, Angela, Yee, 1112 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,680 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfasts Club. Now we're 1113 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: in the middle of asking Ye, Hello, who's this ju Juicy? Okay, Juicy, 1114 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 1: what's your question for? Ye? So basically I feel like 1115 00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,279 Speaker 1: I understand celebrities, so like you know, all their fans 1116 00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 1: are crazy or whatever. But I feel like if I 1117 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 1: go to every show, like I'm up there supporting you. 1118 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,719 Speaker 1: I'm talking all my home girls about you. I play 1119 00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,520 Speaker 1: your music all the time. You know, anytime you come out, 1120 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:17,719 Speaker 1: I'm there supporting you. If I respectfully ask you succumb 1121 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,200 Speaker 1: with you know, a company to my appointment, you know 1122 00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 1: that basically it's gonna let me know if I got 1123 00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,160 Speaker 1: breadcancer or not. If I ask you as a fan like, hey, 1124 00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 1: I have you know, a lump in my breast? And 1125 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,600 Speaker 1: you know I have two appointments and the results you know, 1126 00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: come out, you know on the second appointment. And I wait, now, 1127 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:39,680 Speaker 1: who who are you asking? You're asking celebrities. Well, the 1128 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 1: person I asked, I've met him three times, so he knows. 1129 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not like a crazy fan like I'm 1130 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:49,799 Speaker 1: a fan who's met him. Okay, juicy Juicy Joe. All right, 1131 00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 1: So I support you as an artist, and I asked 1132 00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 1: you to. I want you to find out if I 1133 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,640 Speaker 1: got breadcaster or not. I'm crazy, yes, well, y celebrity 1134 00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 1: or not? You've met somebody three times? Right? And you 1135 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,800 Speaker 1: asking the comments. I wouldn't ask somebody I met three times? 1136 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,960 Speaker 1: Did you ask your mama what about your daddy. Yeah, 1137 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,400 Speaker 1: what about one of your best friends or something? My 1138 00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 1: mama is there and my dad is, like, he's not here, 1139 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,360 Speaker 1: So I'm not I have funds and I do have family, 1140 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 1: but I feel like, you know, you're somebody that you 1141 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 1: know is able to help me in the sense that 1142 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be in their client I wouldn't die if 1143 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,279 Speaker 1: I found out, you know what I mean? Definitely. I 1144 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,800 Speaker 1: don't want to say that because I don't want to 1145 00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,239 Speaker 1: be like a I'm not a crazy person and I 1146 00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm crazy for asking you to who 1147 00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,840 Speaker 1: is the celebrity? But Doc said, let me okay, so 1148 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:41,200 Speaker 1: he blocked you after you asked yes, like if it's 1149 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: not like I was, like, you know, crazier anything, and 1150 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: I felt like I was. I said, I would be 1151 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 1: grateful to have the support. That's what I said. I 1152 00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 1: think you should tell us who it is so maybe 1153 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: he'll feel guilty and then maybe he'll go with you 1154 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,279 Speaker 1: on your next support. Who is the person that's up? 1155 00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:58,799 Speaker 1: I can't I feel like what I give us a singer? Yes, 1156 00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 1: three songs? Be a sex with him? Why y'all trade 1157 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:09,400 Speaker 1: the trade? It's trade right? That was so sad. It's trade. 1158 00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:10,880 Speaker 1: I know it was trade. The reason I know it 1159 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: was trade is only trade. Fans would feel like he's 1160 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,960 Speaker 1: close enough with them to ask him to go right now? 1161 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 1: What is it so silly, like Juicy, don't sorry, I'm crazy. 1162 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I will just Juicy Juicy Juicy supporting the 1163 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,240 Speaker 1: whole music world because I feel like if I support 1164 00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:29,479 Speaker 1: you to that level, like I spent a lot of money, 1165 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 1: I traveled to shows like I was not because you know, 1166 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:34,919 Speaker 1: like I wanted something to return, just because I wanted 1167 00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 1: to support you as a fan, I'm like, you're I 1168 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: just want to say something here. Number one, I just 1169 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:42,960 Speaker 1: want to tell you I am sorry that you're dealing 1170 00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 1: with this with the lump in your breast and having 1171 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:49,080 Speaker 1: to go to these appointments and everything. Okay, so it's 1172 00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,360 Speaker 1: not like I think I'm a fan. It's not something. 1173 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm not crazy. I'm not. I'm a very good person, 1174 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,720 Speaker 1: like I'm I do a lot of people, like I 1175 00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 1: take care of my siblings. I'm the oldest mamm not crazy. 1176 00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:04,320 Speaker 1: More than seven times in a five minute conversation. But duty, 1177 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,160 Speaker 1: let me let me explain something to you. Okay, the 1178 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 1: artist is not asking you personally, Hey, I need you 1179 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: to come to my show. Hey, I need You're doing 1180 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:13,840 Speaker 1: this out of your own free will, and you should 1181 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: never do things to support people expecting them to do 1182 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: something for you in return. You should do it because 1183 00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,880 Speaker 1: you want to do it. You're right. So, if you 1184 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:25,400 Speaker 1: really support a person, and you're you know, a true, 1185 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,600 Speaker 1: true person that feels like connected to somebody, you go 1186 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:30,960 Speaker 1: to those shows. You spend your money because you want to, 1187 00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:32,960 Speaker 1: because it makes you feel good, and you should not 1188 00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:34,920 Speaker 1: say it because I've done this for you, you need 1189 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 1: to do this for me. I'm not. I'm just saying 1190 00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:41,040 Speaker 1: that I feel like when I did. How about you 1191 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 1: could ask him to just hey, can you offer me 1192 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 1: some kind words or let me know that I'm in 1193 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,080 Speaker 1: your thoughts, things like that. But you can't expect him 1194 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,000 Speaker 1: to leave what he has to do in his responsibilities. 1195 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,680 Speaker 1: He's only met you three times, and I'm sure he 1196 00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,560 Speaker 1: does appreciate your support and he loves the fact that 1197 00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:57,960 Speaker 1: you come out and support him. But you should never 1198 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 1: do anything in life expecting something in return. I never 1199 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: expect anybody to do anything for me. I can ask, 1200 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,360 Speaker 1: I can ask, and if you say no, I have 1201 00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 1: to respect that you're right, and I do respect that 1202 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: you don't even offer that man falaio or nothing. How 1203 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,120 Speaker 1: you know I did. I asked him out. I was like, hey, 1204 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,360 Speaker 1: I'll take you to Jenner. You know, I'm you know 1205 00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 1: what did you say? I will give you falatio out. 1206 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,320 Speaker 1: What I mean, it's tray s songs. He should already 1207 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:29,080 Speaker 1: know that, Like, it's not true, true, this is not okay, 1208 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:33,720 Speaker 1: my goodness anyway, just leave him alone. I don't expect anything. 1209 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 1: Continue to be a fan and a supporter and just 1210 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,360 Speaker 1: chill for things like that. You really have to call 1211 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,920 Speaker 1: on people that are very close to you, not somebody 1212 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:46,360 Speaker 1: that you've met three times. What my thing was when 1213 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:50,000 Speaker 1: I told ride a ride a ride, okay, don't make 1214 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:52,200 Speaker 1: any no, I'm like, wait, let me tell you. When 1215 00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,240 Speaker 1: I told my grandma, like, she just was like, oh 1216 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:55,640 Speaker 1: my god, it's the end of the world. So I 1217 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,800 Speaker 1: stopped telling people. You know, I was like, oh, well, 1218 00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,040 Speaker 1: I can't tell nobody else because she started crying and 1219 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,320 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, you're gonna die. Like so I was like, 1220 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:07,680 Speaker 1: if I tell anybody else post to me, you got 1221 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 1: breast breast. She doesn't know what it is, but you 1222 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,640 Speaker 1: don't know what it is, but I think the damn 1223 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:20,760 Speaker 1: doctor doctor that I made two appointments, and that's why 1224 01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,360 Speaker 1: I told him. I was like, hey, could you coming 1225 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,760 Speaker 1: for the one where she's gonna get trade someone's to 1226 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,880 Speaker 1: go to the doctor. Just go hand to your business 1227 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,200 Speaker 1: and worry about yourself. Okay, if you don't hang up 1228 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 1: on this dumb ass girl, Hey, oh my god, good 1229 01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:36,880 Speaker 1: like you, man, I would have you do. And you 1230 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 1: haven't trying to have patience with these people, and then 1231 01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,080 Speaker 1: you're talking to them and as soon as you call 1232 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:44,080 Speaker 1: it stupid, you the bad guy. That was the dumbest 1233 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:48,000 Speaker 1: thing I ever heard of, and hit up and asked 1234 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:49,600 Speaker 1: them to go with you. I'm not coming with you, 1235 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 1: Charlomagne busy. I got two daughters, I work hard, I 1236 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,440 Speaker 1: got a lot of other things that I got to 1237 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:58,880 Speaker 1: deal with you with your little entitled ass daddy. Okay, crazy, 1238 01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:01,960 Speaker 1: that is pray. The happing is that you were listening 1239 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: from the beginning, so you didn't hear all that. Ask 1240 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,040 Speaker 1: ye eight hundred five eight five one O five one 1241 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,600 Speaker 1: if you got a question for ye? Caller? Now was 1242 01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 1: the breakfast club for more stupid? With you? Holding everybody 1243 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 1: is t j n Vy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne and God 1244 01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,640 Speaker 1: we are the breakfast club. Is time to ask ye? Hello? 1245 01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:23,720 Speaker 1: Who this Hey? This is Vine from Detroit. What up 1246 01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 1: up to the d what's good? What's your course for easy? Okay? 1247 01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 1: Well I'm from Detroit. My baby daddy he from that 1248 01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 1: stop Brook that's where that's where I live. Okay, but 1249 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 1: I don't like them now because I was talking to 1250 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 1: fund the city or whatever, money or whatever, and then 1251 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:54,800 Speaker 1: then with money and my money, wait, slowdown, slowdown, slow down. 1252 01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,880 Speaker 1: So you guys are in Atlantic City, you're always making 1253 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,560 Speaker 1: money to get out? What were you guys doing? I 1254 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:06,240 Speaker 1: was tricking from okay, so y'ah an square. Yeah what 1255 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm talking like that. I was just getting money. We 1256 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,000 Speaker 1: was doing everybody to get much safe and I liked 1257 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:14,680 Speaker 1: the money or whatever. So he did end it basically 1258 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 1: and at the ending, well he keep doing a little 1259 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,600 Speaker 1: bit of everything. I'm just saying, like he's doing a 1260 01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 1: little bit of your fast. He touched his hands and everything. 1261 01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: Who's making money getting I was taking money from you 1262 01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,480 Speaker 1: hit the curtain taken with and told me I was 1263 01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:30,160 Speaker 1: in a white I'm in a play. So I did, 1264 01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:34,120 Speaker 1: and I robbed his hands, and you robbed your pants. 1265 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 1: I robbed my baby daddy. Now he's my baby daddy. 1266 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:40,280 Speaker 1: What you drink? What you drink? I'm took two rolex watching. 1267 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 1: I took the tor nail bag, I took whatever I 1268 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: took his other baby mama took the sake what was playing? 1269 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 1: The damn of tim Doo. And the neighbors been saying 1270 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:51,360 Speaker 1: that because they told me, are always in and out? 1271 01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: What size of those little are you? So? You so 1272 01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:59,479 Speaker 1: you ribbed your baby daddy along with his other baby mom. Yeah, 1273 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 1: and she don't like me because I called him watch 1274 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,439 Speaker 1: him to give her half up. But he's just the point. 1275 01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 1: It's just the point that he wanted me to fat there. 1276 01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,360 Speaker 1: How can I like together? You know what I'm saying, 1277 01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:15,040 Speaker 1: I work for and I'm going to school whatever. And 1278 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,600 Speaker 1: now he told me if he ain't taking care of 1279 01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:23,560 Speaker 1: my son unless I So, he's not gonna take care 1280 01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 1: of the child you guys have together unless you pay him. Yep. 1281 01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 1: Isn't that his job to kind of pay to take 1282 01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 1: care of his own child. He's saying, he can't take 1283 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 1: care of my son unless I take care of the family. 1284 01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:39,120 Speaker 1: And I told him I said no, I'm not about 1285 01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:41,400 Speaker 1: to do that. And then to now with tax season, 1286 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,080 Speaker 1: he's I don't know how the man is money, and 1287 01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,520 Speaker 1: he's trying to get my money. No, I'm not about 1288 01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:49,640 Speaker 1: to give your mom money. Well, okay, here's a lot 1289 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:55,640 Speaker 1: going on here. Yeah, he's just better thousand dollars. Well 1290 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,000 Speaker 1: he's broke. Okay. I think you got to sort these 1291 01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 1: things out. Number one first and foremost to take of 1292 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 1: your child. Right, you're not trying to be with him, 1293 01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 1: are you? I don't know, you don't know, so in 1294 01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 1: the way you are you want to get back together 1295 01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 1: with him. I just want to get some money. Hey, 1296 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 1: but all money ain't good money though, right, So I'm 1297 01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,320 Speaker 1: just saying, don't you want to be there for your 1298 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,520 Speaker 1: child and be a good example and a role model 1299 01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,160 Speaker 1: and make sure nothing happens to you and you don't 1300 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 1: go to jail or something worse happens. Yeah, that's the 1301 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: only thing that's in the way. You know. I can't 1302 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 1: be doing all that because I'm playing. I can't get 1303 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:32,640 Speaker 1: a book. You know what I'm saying. I've never been 1304 01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,800 Speaker 1: to jail, and you will get locked up at some point. 1305 01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 1: And I don't think jail for me, I couldn't. I 1306 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,840 Speaker 1: don't think it's for you either, listen, but it was 1307 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 1: in my own opinion. I think that you should be 1308 01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 1: happy that you managed to get away from this man 1309 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:49,840 Speaker 1: that was a pimp in doing everything else, because I 1310 01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,680 Speaker 1: was just gonna go down the wrong path for you. Listen. 1311 01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:55,080 Speaker 1: We all want to get money, right, but sometimes you 1312 01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 1: got to sacrifice and go through periods of time that 1313 01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: we're not making that much money so that later on 1314 01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:02,160 Speaker 1: in the future, in a couple of years from now, 1315 01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,240 Speaker 1: you can't legitimately make good money. But I'll tell the 1316 01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:07,680 Speaker 1: law school, I'll go to law school. I'm enter into 1317 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,479 Speaker 1: law school the year after that. But he's talking about 1318 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:12,440 Speaker 1: that in what Why are you even listening to what 1319 01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:13,840 Speaker 1: he has to say about what you want to do 1320 01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:17,240 Speaker 1: with your life because he's telling me I'll need direction. Now. 1321 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:20,400 Speaker 1: It sounds like somebody that's advising you to not go 1322 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,360 Speaker 1: to school and not go to law school and saying 1323 01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:24,400 Speaker 1: that that's getting in the way, is actually in the 1324 01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: way himself. It sounds like in order for him to 1325 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,600 Speaker 1: control you, he wants to make sure that you never 1326 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 1: make something more out of your life. Yeah, you're right, 1327 01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 1: so I'm ain't going back out there, and you know 1328 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:37,360 Speaker 1: he messing a mad other chicks too, oh of course, 1329 01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:40,280 Speaker 1: and he telling them the same thing he brought me 1330 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:43,760 Speaker 1: to his other chick, And you're okay with that. But 1331 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm I don't like, I'm gonna tell 1332 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,280 Speaker 1: you something right now. We always say, well, at least 1333 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:50,960 Speaker 1: ain't lye with At least he kept it real. At 1334 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:52,720 Speaker 1: least he's up front about it. These other dudes out 1335 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,840 Speaker 1: here and be lying, no, it's not at least that 1336 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,200 Speaker 1: it's not okay for somebody to do stuff like that 1337 01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:00,240 Speaker 1: to you just because they're being honest about it, all right, 1338 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:04,960 Speaker 1: But I mean, I prefer somebody to tell me. How 1339 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 1: about you would rather somebody not do that. You gotta 1340 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:10,640 Speaker 1: expect better for yourself and have better expectations for yourself. 1341 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 1: How about be with somebody that doesn't do those things, 1342 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,640 Speaker 1: that's not bringing you to other women's houses, that's not 1343 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:18,200 Speaker 1: cheating on you, that helps you take care of your family, 1344 01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:19,840 Speaker 1: that supports you and wants you to go to school 1345 01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:21,480 Speaker 1: and do better for your life. Why can't you find 1346 01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 1: somebody like that? Man? That's some square stuff though, like 1347 01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:30,000 Speaker 1: you want you to give them money doing nothing for 1348 01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,160 Speaker 1: you you listen forget about them doing something for you. 1349 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,400 Speaker 1: What about you doing something for yourself? I mean I 1350 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,520 Speaker 1: can do something for myself. I got my home, all right, good, Well, 1351 01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 1: you keep your own it's and take care of your 1352 01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,160 Speaker 1: child and handle that. Instead of thinking about getting this 1353 01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 1: fast money, think about securing a bag for later on 1354 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:51,160 Speaker 1: in the future, having a foundation, having your education together 1355 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: so you can do and be anything you want to 1356 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:56,520 Speaker 1: be in life. Here, I'm gonna take that advice. Y'all 1357 01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 1: have a good all right, you too. I hope you 1358 01:06:58,960 --> 01:06:59,840 Speaker 1: don't call him right now.