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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey guys, it's Ashley and it's only

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Speaker 1: me today, which you know makes sense because I do

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Speaker 1: have like two and a half weeks to make up

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Speaker 1: four and then tomorrow it's all Ben because he is

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Speaker 1: hitting the road with a Bachelor Live show, and he's

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Speaker 1: going to be doing the podcast from Bachelor Live. I

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Speaker 1: think a lot of people still have questions about what

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Speaker 1: the show is all about, and I'm sure he's going

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Speaker 1: to give you all the answers tomorrow and then before

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Speaker 1: you know, you're gonna be buying tickets to it and

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Speaker 1: excited to see Ben live in action. But this is

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Speaker 1: me hi, and I will be joined with my co

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Speaker 1: host for the day because I can't talk to myself

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Speaker 1: for an entire half an hour like Ben does. Well,

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Speaker 1: I got producer Tory and producer Mark on the line

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Speaker 1: as well, and they'll be chiming in. And um, I

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Speaker 1: just thought it would start with talking about my honeymoon

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Right now, Jared and I are kind

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Speaker 1: of in a transition phase out of the honeymoon, not

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Speaker 1: the honeymoon phase, of course, but the actual vacation um

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Speaker 1: and into real life. Right now, we're in New York City.

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Speaker 1: We're doing four days here because I'm not somebody who

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Speaker 1: could ever do that thirteen fourteen hour flight from the

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Speaker 1: Mediterranean to Los Angeles. Actually it looked magical. Well, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, So, Jared. I decided to do four days

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Speaker 1: But the truth is we had to pick up our

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Speaker 1: dog Lois. My mom was dropping her off tomorrow, and

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Speaker 1: I had to see the Jonas brollers at Madison Square Garden,

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Speaker 1: Like I had to see them specifically at Madison Square Garden.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, Jared, they happened to be there

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Speaker 1: on our way over to the West Coast again. So

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Speaker 1: it's just a nostalgic thing for me. Back in two

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Speaker 1: us In Square Garden shows, so I couldn't not do

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Speaker 1: it this time eleven years later. Anyway, didn't you do

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Speaker 1: like an invite? Um? I got invited secret show back

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Speaker 1: in March. It was like the best, it was one.

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Speaker 1: It was maybe my favorite Jonas concert I've ever been to. Actually, yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was so much fun. But our honeymoon was quite magical.

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Speaker 1: We left the day after our wedding, which was really

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Speaker 1: just unreal, unreal. You guys heard a lot of stress

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Speaker 1: that I had going into it, especially that last month,

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Speaker 1: but you would never photos, You would never know. It

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Speaker 1: looked like the most magical wedding I've ever seen. Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, because it was. It was the ultimate perfect

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Speaker 1: minute detail that we focused on in that last month

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Speaker 1: or two was so worth it because the day was

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Speaker 1: designed for us. Our wedding planner, Troy Williams of Simply Troy,

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Speaker 1: not have even dreamed of. After the rehearsal dinner, I

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know how you're going to

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Speaker 1: out with this word dig digit tize and she wove

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Speaker 1: it together in this beautiful story. It was epic. Even

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Speaker 1: And you know what really got me and I think

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Speaker 1: you don't like to get in public, but it happens

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Speaker 1: like that over. Colton is on hold, So why don't

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Speaker 1: time for Creighton barre hole. So we'll do that and

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Speaker 1: come back with Colton. All right, sounds good, Colton. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: where are you? Oh no, I'm in Nashville right now? Okay? Cool?

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Speaker 1: Oh nice? What are you doing in Nashville? Just hanging

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Speaker 1: out visiting some friends and pernamente it like a little

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Speaker 1: bigly cap right. Oh nice. Um So, Cassie, I actually

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Speaker 1: from August. Who's like, actually like any likes even of

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Speaker 1: every time you guys are on a plane. What's that?

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Speaker 1: What is that? I thought you said that she has

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Speaker 1: a routine that she does all the time. Oh well,

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Speaker 1: in school, all she would do is like homework on

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Speaker 1: I personally, I haven't um respected her space and privacy.

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Speaker 1: I commented on one of her I commented on one

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Speaker 1: of her posts and just said, I'm proud of the

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Speaker 1: way that she's handled things. UM. It's not easy going

431
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Speaker 1: through it. She's gone through probably in the public eye, UM,

432
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Speaker 1: and I can feel very lonely at times. Two. But

433
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Speaker 1: you know, I hope that she just continues to make

434
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Speaker 1: the best decisions for her whatever that is. Hopefully dancing

435
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436
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Speaker 1: UM and something that she enjoys and has fun doing. UM.

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Speaker 1: You know, she's I feel like that could probably make

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441
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Speaker 1: for her emotional her like emotional getting over that you

442
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Speaker 1: know hurdle. Um. And then what I am super curious

443
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444
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445
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447
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Speaker 1: I don't eat any meat, and you have gone the

448
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452
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458
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459
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Speaker 1: don't want to keep getting the same thing, or feel

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Speaker 1: like all you're doing is eating you know, um lettuce

461
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Speaker 1: or you know, you can still have fun, you can

462
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466
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Speaker 1: with success. So actually, I think you definitely need to

467
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Speaker 1: try it for a month. I think you can do it.

468
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Speaker 1: Are you feeling better? Do you feel a difference in

469
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Speaker 1: your body? Yeah? Well I was. I was sort of concerned,

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Speaker 1: like my only hesitation all of this UM. I was

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Speaker 1: like I'm a big dude and I'm used to eating

473
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474
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Speaker 1: thought that was the only way you can get protein.

475
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Speaker 1: Well I was wrong. Obviously there's plant based protein out there,

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Speaker 1: And for me, my digestive system felt so much better

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478
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Speaker 1: I had in my other fitness goals. All right, I

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Speaker 1: definitely want to try those chicken nuggets. Once you said that,

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Speaker 1: I was like, all right and going to the grocery store.

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Speaker 1: The chicken nuggets and the spicy black bean burger are

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Speaker 1: my favorite. All right, we'll check it out. Well, thank

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Speaker 1: All right, Mark Torrey, I know you watched that episode

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Speaker 1: last night? Week or what an episode? I guess we

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Speaker 1: love tonight. Yeah, I mean there are two hours each

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Speaker 1: night we are we get so much content. I actually

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Speaker 1: didn't watch our screener for tonight's episode because I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to get confused, you know, like you get it's

569
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Speaker 1: all muddied. So what do you want to talk about? First?

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Speaker 1: There's a we can go through the couples. I think

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Speaker 1: let's just go through the couples. There's Clay Nicole, which

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Speaker 1: seemed to be pretty They seem to be going strong

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Speaker 1: right now. She called him his boyfriend or she called

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Speaker 1: him her boyfriend. Yeah, it seems like they had some

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Speaker 1: sexy time in the boom Boom room too, based on

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Speaker 1: you know, describe describer words. Yeah, here, there's a c

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Speaker 1: the realms. You're right there, there is. I think it's

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Speaker 1: an incentive to get people to go to the boom

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Speaker 1: Bom room and make drama over it. Is that the

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Speaker 1: actual name of the room or is that us have

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Speaker 1: nicknamed it as I don't know. I mean it's rolled

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Speaker 1: producers will refer to it as the Boom Boom Room.

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Speaker 1: Is there like a sign on the door? No, I

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Speaker 1: love that little chalkboard sign the Boom Room. That would

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Speaker 1: be cute. Maybe there is now. I haven't seen that

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Speaker 1: room in a couple of years. But Clay and Nicole

589
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Speaker 1: seemed to be doing well. But there, um, there's something

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Speaker 1: happens tonight because Clay sees his ex Angela, and I

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Speaker 1: think he said something along the lines of those feelings.

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Speaker 1: You know, they still linger miss that that's in the

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Speaker 1: scenes for the next next episode that will be tonight

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Speaker 1: because Angela Nicole, Okay, I know they're very cute. I

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Speaker 1: don't I'm not really worried. I think that they're going

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Speaker 1: to have a conversation because I think there's some there's

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Speaker 1: some hostility in the air. When we were at when

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Speaker 1: we were at Chris and Crystal's wedding, Angela was a

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Speaker 1: bridesmaid and she went down strutting her stuff. She was

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Speaker 1: like clicking her heels as she walked by. Clay and

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Speaker 1: You ex eat your heart out. You know. She came

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Speaker 1: to play. So we'll see. There was a lot of

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Speaker 1: other Uh, there's some things that I can't say. We'll

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Speaker 1: see how it plays out on the wedding episode. The

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Speaker 1: drama in tonight's wedding episode is going to revolve around

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Speaker 1: Derek and JPJ. Tasia isn't a bit of a love

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Speaker 1: triangle between them right now? She what she told me

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Speaker 1: at the wedding, which was literally twenty four hours after

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Speaker 1: the rose ceremony that we saw last night, doesn't It

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Speaker 1: doesn't seem to like line up with what we're seeing

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Speaker 1: on the show. It seems like a lot happens in

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Speaker 1: the twenty four hours between the rose ceremony and the wedding.

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Speaker 1: With Tasia, I think she's huh, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I think she she likes the idea of

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Speaker 1: one thing, but then like her heart's pulling her in

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Speaker 1: another direction. So we'll we'll see about that. That's all

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Speaker 1: I can say. I can't like spoil anything. Yeah, without

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Speaker 1: spoiler spoilers, let's just stay on this episode. And what

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Speaker 1: did you think when you heard her expressing interest in Derek.

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Speaker 1: Were you excited where you like that's a better fit

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Speaker 1: than JPJ. I think it makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: I can see Derek really being into Tasia. Um. JPJ

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Speaker 1: was so into her last week. I just thought, based

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Speaker 1: big eyes. You know, it's not a bad thing. It's

641
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: not a bad thing. It's just sometimes you can just

642
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: say you look stunning and just leave it at that.

643
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: You know, he is all over the place. He is

644
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: the he was made for Bachelor in Paradise. He's so

645
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: much fun to watch. He seems like he has a

646
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: really good heart. He means so well. The way that

647
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: he words things is just like unreal, unreal. I don't

648
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: I don't know how he grew in Minnesota, Montana, like Maryland.

649
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: It just makes no sense. Seems like a surfer bro. Yeah,

650
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: I've never heard someone talk like that before. But it's like,

651
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: there's nothing more you'd want in this world than j

652
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: p J just speaking whatever freely is on his mind.

653
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: Oh totally. If I was in Paradise, I remember when

654
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: I was at the wedding, everybody was talking about how

655
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: like JPJ was the person that they would go to

656
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: when they needed to have a heart to heart or

657
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 1: they need comfort. And now watching the season, I'm like, oh,

658
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: he would definitely be the guy that you go to

659
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: it for that because it seems like he'd always be

660
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: like yeah, oh, I totally get it, I totally get it.

661
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: I you know, he just would always be on your side,

662
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: Like I can't see him creating an argument exactly. Yeah,

663
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: it's almost like he's so simple, he's created drama. Yeah,

664
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: you're right, I agree. So he went on two dates

665
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: after Tasia said that she wanted him to go on

666
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: other dates. He went out with Haley, and he went

667
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: out with taj Wan. Tajwan came and went in one episode,

668
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: and she really created a storm. I think it was

669
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: like a moment of silent for Tajwan. That girl left

670
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: her heart on the beach. She was invested in him,

671
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: she really liked him. People were comparing me to her,

672
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 1: which was like kind of hilarious because she just could

673
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: not keep her cool, and I respect that so much.

674
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 1: Like air, your feelings are all your messiness. The one

675
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,760
Speaker 1: thing that I was like a little bit weird watching

676
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 1: Tajwan was that once she was like sobbing, I said,

677
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:48,919
Speaker 1: quote quote, she was more like screaming, and I didn't

678
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: see any water falling out of her eyes, and it

679
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: seemed as if she had like a half smile on

680
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: all the time. Am I wrong? I actually completely agreed,

681
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: But I didn't think the heat added so much more

682
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: stress on her that she just couldn't gather herself from

683
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: the moment she stepped on the beach. So it's like tears,

684
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: Like tears in her eyes might have just been a

685
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: little bit too much for her. She's like, I'm sweating

686
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: on every part of my body right now. Is it

687
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: really that hot down there, Ashley? It's insane, It is

688
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: so so hot. I actually can't believe how good the

689
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: cast looks most of the time. Amazing. They look fresh

690
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: and they don't look sweaty. But it's unbearable. And I

691
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: did it as a year old, but I don't think

692
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: I could do it at thirty one. I don't know

693
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: my tolerance for the environment that. I mean, it's a

694
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: lot harder for me to live in that environment now.

695
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: And it's hard to enter into any kind of friend group,

696
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 1: even if you're like in l A and somebody's like

697
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: come out with some friends and you have to go

698
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: be in that group and find a place and I

699
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: feel accepted. That's a lot of pressure. Yes, So she's

700
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: going in a social circle, wah, Yeah, integrating yourself in

701
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: any social environment, especially one that never ends. Like when

702
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: I mean it never ends, I mean like you go

703
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: to sleep with them, you wake up and have breakfast

704
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: with them. Right, It's hard, and honestly, really felt for

705
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 1: her until the Hailey and JP json Okay, yeah, there's

706
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: a lot of actually to touch on that the pigeon

707
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: versus the seagull. What does that mean? What is she

708
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: trying to say Ashley? She obviously was just trying to

709
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: be like, look, you're below us. Right. If she was

710
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: trying to say you're below us, she could be like

711
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: where swans where you know peacocks, and you are a pigeon.

712
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: But to say that we're seagulls and you're a you're

713
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: a pigeon didn't make so much sense because Haley was right,

714
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: seagulls really are the pigeons of the ocean. She was

715
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: trying to have her like notebook moment where you're like,

716
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm a bird if you're a bird. I think that's

717
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: what she was thinking. I think like, oh, we're just birds.

718
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: But then she picked the two kind of grimy birds

719
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: like I'm like, I don't know if I'd rather be

720
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: a pigeon or a seagull, which one would you rather be?

721
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: I think I'd rather be a seagull because I like

722
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: being by the beach, like I'd like to swoop in

723
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: and stuff. I'm not trying to like walk around, I

724
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: mean swooping like you know, dive in, you know, grab

725
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: some food in the ocean, not so much, you know,

726
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: walk around Central Park and like pick out crumbs. It's

727
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: just so funny because they really essentially are the same bird,

728
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: because seagulls do on the beach, Like I'm at the

729
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: beach a lot, and the next thing, you know, if

730
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: I leave my food unattended, it's getting swarmed by a

731
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: flock of seagulls. And then when you're in Central Park,

732
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: you're just meeting a ton of pigeons eating and all

733
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: your food is I don't get it, Tajuan, can you

734
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 1: let us know? Well, I just can't believe, like she's gone.

735
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: You know, she gave us some good stuff and now

736
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: she's gone. And Jen Saviana was also gone, And which

737
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: is so funny because just listening to a lot of

738
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: the guys a Bachelor Nation, guys love Jen Saviano. Obviously

739
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: she's beautiful, she's got that a. She's very alluring. You know,

740
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: she's kind of mysterious. Right, no one in Paradise picked

741
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: her up. I think it's just again she entered at

742
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 1: a rough time. Even Dean at one point was like

743
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: she has it like she's stunning. I think she's the

744
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: He said something very extravagant about her. Ben I mean

745
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: Ben Dean has always talked about Jen, even when we

746
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 1: first That's so funny. When we when we first met him,

747
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 1: he was like, have you ever met Jen Saviano? And

748
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, you've been like thinking, he's been

749
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: thinking about her for a couple of years. But he

750
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: and I loved how faithful he was to Kaitlin. I

751
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: think that they are adorable, despite the fact that about

752
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: to sea. We're about to sea go down, Actually you can.

753
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: I want to know your thoughts because I think Chris

754
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: actually made a mistake by picking Katie. Oh I don't, Oh,

755
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: don't tell me. Why are you kidding? I love Chris

756
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: and Katie so much. She loves him. She doesn't want

757
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: to say, but she so loves him. But I think

758
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: she's so young that I borderline. Is this infactuation or

759
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: is this is she Yeah, she's twenty seven. I think

760
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: Jen's's just solid. She was like here, here, I am,

761
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: take me if you have me, no games, And Katie's

762
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: like other people, which I get it. We were like

763
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: every girl deflects to protect themselves at a certain point

764
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: in the relationship, but I think that Jen might have

765
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: been a more solid pick. I don't know. I feel

766
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: the chemistry between Chris and Katie way more. I think

767
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: Jen would have been like a nice person for christ

768
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: who have dated for a couple of weeks, but that's

769
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: like the kind of dating that may like go three

770
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: or four days in real life and then fizzle out

771
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: and be like, you know, we don't have it. But

772
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: I think that he and Katie have it. I think

773
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: so differently. That's so crazy, and you know, there's two

774
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: different point of views, and I like having them both

775
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: on here. Something I was super confused about was that

776
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: JPJ picked Haley in the row ceremony. But I think

777
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 1: he showed more interest and what did you think? I

778
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: think she took more of his energy then Haley. Haley

779
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 1: and him, I think you could definitely see our infactuation,

780
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: like him putting the sunscreen specifically on her bottom, like

781
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: literally being Lord help me, God help me, My mom's

782
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: going to kill me, Like he just could not keep

783
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: his hands off of Haley. I think with Tajuan they

784
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 1: had more of a eccentric personalities separately, so together they

785
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: were able to appreciate each other. Okay, in appreciation, they

786
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,959
Speaker 1: had appreciation, But I want to know, do you think

787
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: if JPJ got called first with the rose, would he

788
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: have given it to taste? That is what makes me think.

789
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: Almost every week there's some situation where it's like it

790
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: really comes down to who gets the gross giver first.

791
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: And yeah, I definitely I do. I don't know. His

792
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: ego may have not let him pick Tasia because he

793
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: knew that, like he liked her more than she likes him.

794
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: I don't think JPJ has an ego, no ego that

795
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: so you don't think it would allow I mean, like

796
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: a human, you know, a human desire to be like,

797
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to go after somebody who I know

798
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: isn't as into me. I'm like the last person because

799
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: I was like Jared's like, I don't really know. I

800
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: think this is more of a friendship. I was like Jared, Jared,

801
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: well you accept this ross like every week. But you know,

802
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 1: sometimes intuition is very accurate. I know. I just think

803
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: that I'll be interesting interested to see j p J

804
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: and Haley pan out because I might need to look

805
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: this up right now. But how old is Haley? Haley

806
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: is six and JPJ is yeah, so it's I just

807
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: think that, and she we even saw the Cocktail Hour.

808
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: She doesn't really like jp j's whole package. Like she's like,

809
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: don't call me bro, don't call me dude, and like

810
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: got really defensive about it, and You're like, you're already

811
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 1: trying to change who he is just by his language.

812
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: When don't you get that, Like you never want a

813
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: guy to call you dude? I knew that when Jared

814
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: and I were just friends. He caught me like man

815
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: and dude a couple of times. I was like, can

816
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: you not that? You know, let's get market on this mark.

817
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: If a guy calls a girl a bro, but it's

818
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: clearly on Bachelor in Paradise, so he's looking for the one.

819
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: Should she be at that defensive about it? Depends on

820
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: the does depend on the guy, But I don't love it.

821
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: I do think it is a friend zone method. He's

822
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: not thinking you as the future, your mother of his children.

823
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 1: If he's calling you dude and bro is worse? Yeah.

824
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: I think he said bro and then man. Yeah, she

825
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: goes man, that's even worse. JPJ. I just think it's

826
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 1: part of his dialogue. I think he would even call

827
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 1: his wife dude. I've said dude to my wife before,

828
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 1: but it's not like you're a dude, it's like dude,

829
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: like this, yeah, can you believe? Like you know, it's

830
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: not referring to her as a dude. It's like, Wow,

831
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: how does she respond? She doesn't love it? She doesn't

832
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:36,479
Speaker 1: love it? But bro is weird? I think, yeah, bro, yeah,

833
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: Well anyway, I don't feel the chemistry beyond maybe like

834
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: physical attraction between Haley and JPJ. I think like that's

835
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: like I don't think that he's like brooding enough for her.

836
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: She says she wants goofy, but I think she actually

837
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: wants like a lot of she wants like stand up. Man.

838
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: Do you think she would be on the beach if

839
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: her sister wasn't in love right now? I think that

840
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: Emily would be there with her she was in a relationship.

841
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: I think it's hard. I think it's hard to have

842
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: a sibling or a really close friend in a relationship

843
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: that takes up all of their time and energy and love,

844
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: and then to be single. It's just like they live

845
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: a different lifestyle than you, and all your life you

846
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,439
Speaker 1: live the same lifestyle and all of a sudden it's

847
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 1: so different. So do you know what I hate most

848
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: what when the girls get portrayed as catty because we're

849
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: already kind of scene like that in society that girls

850
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: just get catty over guys. And then Tajwan she came

851
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: out swinging. She was like, it's so good to have

852
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: you here, Haley, just kidding. I was like, can I

853
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: spend her wine? It was just a passing thought though,

854
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 1: but we like kind of took it as a joke.

855
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 1: But at the same time, my eyes were like, really it.

856
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I can't. Is she

857
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: gonna get craped for it? Or people are just gonna

858
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: think it's funny because you can swing it both ways.

859
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: Half the people are going to say, is this funny?

860
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: And then half people are gonna be like, wow, that's

861
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: really intense, and come on now, listen. I'm sarcastic and

862
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: I know that it goes both ways, but you just

863
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: don't say that to someone, you know. I'm kind of

864
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: like a girl, let's get it together. This guy is

865
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: not worth you being portrayed as a caddy girl. Yeah,

866
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: or maybe he was to her. I don't know. Do

867
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: you think that her feelings were totally honest or do

868
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: you think that she was just exhausted hot found a

869
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: guy that she was attracted to. I think once you

870
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: find the person that you're attracted to, there you just

871
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: want it to be and you don't. You're like, I

872
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: don't want to look any further because it's a competition

873
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 1: and you need roses. You're like, I like this person,

874
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay with this person. Um. But I think

875
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people at this point in the competition,

876
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: if they're not in a relationship, they're just looking for

877
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: a way to get a rose, the way that we

878
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: see Christina and Blake giving each other roses. But I

879
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: actually didn't hate that move. I didn't hate the Chris.

880
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I think Christina has been a little bit

881
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: sly and a villainous this season. She's like laid all

882
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: her cards on the table. Yes, but at least I

883
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 1: think in this case, Blake didn't really like Caitlin and

884
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: it may have been a better move for him to

885
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: just give the rose back to Christina and not lead

886
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: Caitlin on anymore. Okay, but again, Mark, you can chime

887
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: in on this. If a guy promises a rose to

888
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: the problem to another girl who says, hey, listen, if

889
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: you're not totally invested in her, let like let her

890
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: know you shouldn't give her the rose. And then he

891
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: goes back to Caitlin and says, hey, actually, I'm second

892
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: guessing I don't want to give you the rose. But

893
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: she's like, you promised it to me. Yeah, he spoke

894
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: way too soon. Oh Mark, what No, I just I

895
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: feel in that situation he's not really a percent on

896
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: any of these girls. He shouldn't have said, but he

897
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: kind of said, I'm a hunter. I'm like he said,

898
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: I'm a hundred percent giving you my rose right now,

899
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 1: pretty easily sweat. Five minutes later he was like, I'm

900
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 1: a hundred percent not giving you my rose anymore. But

901
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: then I'm just like he could But he could have

902
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 1: easily said, Caitlin, Christina wants me to give the rose

903
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: to her as a friendship rose. Because here's the truth.

904
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 1: I don't think I see us going further. I'm going

905
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,319
Speaker 1: to get since I promise this to you, I'm going

906
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: to give you this rose, Caitlin, to you as a

907
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: friendship rose so you can go and find love. Couldn't

908
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: he have done the same situation to Caitlin who he

909
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: promised the rose too instead of Christina. Yeah, absolutely he

910
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: could have. Wouldn't have been more stand up or do

911
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 1: you think that would have made it a little bit

912
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: more Now he's just like slinging all these girls around.

913
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's so convoluted over here that I

914
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: think that Caitlin, I mean, Christina is just not is

915
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: just not very likable right now, So it's hard for

916
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,280
Speaker 1: us to root for her to go further on. Also,

917
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,760
Speaker 1: I would like her to name one person she's interested

918
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 1: in meeting. I think she just wants to stick around

919
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: and keeps during the pot I don't think she's interested

920
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: in seeing anybody come down those steps. I agree with

921
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: you too, there, I agree with you. So I don't.

922
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm really really not a fan of Christina.

923
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: I think she just went in with the intention she

924
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: was going to be the villain of the season. She

925
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: was like, I am going to revel feathers and I'm

926
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 1: going to get some screen time and I'm just gonna

927
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: do what I can to like make myself a character.

928
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: And I think she was like she planned on being

929
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 1: the absolute opposite she was the first time around, where

930
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: she was like very vulnerable and emotional and open. That

931
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: one really makes me upset. Well, you know what's so

932
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: interesting is that she and Dean have been there together

933
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: and they have not had any moments together and they

934
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: had such a tumultuous relationship. Because that's getting sucked intolf

935
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: this whole Kalin situation. Okay, so I think this is

936
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: something we really have to dissect. So basically, they have

937
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 1: a conversation that he doesn't think he's going to be

938
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: a good boyfriend to her in the real world, that

939
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: she doesn't fit into his drive across America and a

940
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: van lifestyle that he's attempting to do for a matter

941
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: of months, you know, maybe more than months. And he's

942
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: kind of just saying to her pretty honestly, this is

943
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: a paradise thing, and she very legitimately is like, then

944
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: why are you here? What I think? I mean? Even

945
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 1: he didn't really give her answers, Like he didn't even

946
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: really say he was like, I enjoy spending time with you,

947
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 1: but I suck at dating. I mean, he plugged the podcast.

948
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: Did you guys all love that? I was like, very

949
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: just plugged your podcast. It's so good. But he said

950
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: it's a challenging point of me to see us settling down,

951
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: which I'm okay with. I'm not okay with all of

952
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: his actions after this conversation, because he really didn't say like, yes,

953
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: you're right, no you're wrong. He was just kind of like,

954
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: here or here's how I'm feeling, and I'm gonna make

955
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: it kind of vague and then see how you respond.

956
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: I think the other really hard part of the conversation

957
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: was when he said, um, I I'm kind of looking

958
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: for an exception, like somebody here that is going to

959
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: make me want to drop the lifestyle I intend on living,

960
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 1: or like somebody that I can see fitting into that lifestyle.

961
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: And he basically was like, I don't know if I

962
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: see you being that exception, Am I am I misinterpreting

963
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: this because he even said like, I'm not the kind

964
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: of guy who wants to like go to dinner dinner

965
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: parties and talk about I feel We talked to Dean

966
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: about this on his podcast this week, and I think

967
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: that's exactly what he was saying, but the way he

968
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 1: presented it to us made it seem almost a little

969
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: bit more of romantic notion. Well in my mind, in

970
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: my mind, in the sense of that he's saying he's

971
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: not casting a role in his life. He's not saying

972
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm looking for my wife. I just need to find

973
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:26,879
Speaker 1: the one, But I'm on the lookout for a wife

974
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 1: who's gonna be my wife. Maybe it's you. Maybe it's you.

975
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: He's saying, I don't want a wife. I'm not going

976
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: to have a wife. I'm perfectly happy for the rest

977
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: of my life. But if I find someone and I

978
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: end up getting married, I know that person was so

979
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: amazing that she blew out every preconception I had about

980
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: how I want to live my future. Okay, but it's

981
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 1: a selfish way to date. Yeah, that's kind of like.

982
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: If you want to date like that, you have to

983
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: find a girl who wants to live that exact same

984
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: life and a girl who's saying that she wants to

985
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 1: but really truly wants to. Because Dean's face and personality

986
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: can make almost any girl say like, yes, that is

987
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,760
Speaker 1: the kind of life I want to you. It's true,

988
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: it is true. I just think that it's like his

989
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: actions with bringing her birthday kick, bringing her champagne, singing

990
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: happy Birthday, telling her she looks beautiful, like that explains

991
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: or his actions talk so much more than his words.

992
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: So she's kind of hung up on his words, being like,

993
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: he really didn't make me feel that much better. But then,

994
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, at all these grand gestures he's doing

995
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 1: for me. After that conversation where I can see where

996
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: he where his head is at right now. Well, they

997
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: also had that conversation where they talked about how Dean

998
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: makes any girl feel special. Dean doesn't just make girls

999
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: feel special. Dean can make anybody feel special. Yeah. I

1000
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: feel like his superpower in life and this is a

1001
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: this is amazing superpower is that he can make anyone

1002
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: just feel good and happy, Like all he has to

1003
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: do is like put his arm around you and smile

1004
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: and everything is better. My analysis of Dean is he

1005
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: can make anyone feel good and special except himself. Oh

1006
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: that's he doesn't make any sense. He doesn't even acknowledge

1007
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: that that's a superpower. I was like, Dean, your super

1008
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: power is making people happy, and I don't think he

1009
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 1: sees that. I'm like kind of speechless after that statement.

1010
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 1: That's really sad. Well it's sad but true. But I

1011
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,879
Speaker 1: and I get it from the women's perspective that when

1012
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 1: he gives you that kind of attention. He looks at

1013
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: you with those eyes. You're just like, I'm all in

1014
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,439
Speaker 1: and he's just he just never seems to be you. Guys. Yeah,

1015
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: you don't even know my bride'smaid's message. I have a

1016
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 1: group message with my bride'smaids, and for the past two

1017
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: weeks it's been blowing up with comments about Dean. They're obsessed,

1018
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: they are all in love, and Dean loves them all

1019
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: like the one that he walked My friend Courtney, who

1020
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: he walked down the aisle with, she's like, she's saying

1021
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: things I really can't put out there on air. She's

1022
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: married and she's just like coming up. I can't say it,

1023
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 1: but they're inappropriate and hilarious for a married woman to

1024
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:10,800
Speaker 1: be saying this. Courtney is married, but she's like, my

1025
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: husband's all in on this. It's just really funny, Like

1026
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: basically like she's like, my husband is down for a

1027
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: three set, yes, but the super with superpowers comes wisdom

1028
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 1: and he's not using any wisdom in this. You can't

1029
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: get into v I P. You can't pursue this girl

1030
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: who's obviously head over heels for you and continue continue

1031
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: to selfishly accept her love knowing in your head this

1032
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: is going to hit a wall. Well, I think that's

1033
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 1: what he thinks he's doing right now. So he made

1034
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: the same mistake that he did back in Bachelor in

1035
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: Paradise for where he treated one of the girls to

1036
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 1: a birthday celebration and she thought he really cared about her,

1037
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, he flips the switch

1038
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: and he thinks right now that what he's doing and

1039
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: maybe it is. Maybe he's right that what he's doing

1040
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: by breaking up with her is the best thing that

1041
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 1: he can do for her emotionally, that's true. But if

1042
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 1: that is what you think is right, then you shouldn't

1043
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: be giving them a birthday cakes. I think. I think

1044
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: that's where he that's where he loses himself every time

1045
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: he needs to kind of learn not to be super

1046
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 1: nice to somebody, because it does, even though it's just

1047
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: like his nature, it comes across as leading on. Like

1048
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: when I first watch it, my initial reaction is I'm

1049
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: so mad at him that he's doing this to Kalen.

1050
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't know what's going to happen, but

1051
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: predicting from his past b I P experiences, we can

1052
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: maybe see a breakup coming and initially gets so upset

1053
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: about that, being just classic Dean, But then I'm like,

1054
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: you are looking out for her best interest by ending it,

1055
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: so then therefore I have to support you. Do you

1056
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying? So in some weird way, I

1057
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: actually I think Dean looks his best when he's breaking

1058
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: up with these girls, right because he's doing what is right.

1059
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: He's doing what is right because he's not ready for

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00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: a real relationship or like the lifestyle he leads is

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00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: not conducive for a relationship or at least a relationship

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00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: with somebody who wants to live the lifestyle that Kaylin does,

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00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: which is really just a normal lifestyle, not a backup

1064
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: on um. So we'll see how this unfolds. We didn't

1065
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: really get to see the full conversation, should we just

1066
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: got to see her like going into is this really happening?

1067
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: Is this really happened? To your freaking kidding men? And

1068
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 1: literally everyone just stops and looks over the edge as

1069
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: they're walking down. Yeah. Oh, but I will say there

1070
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: was one comment that was made. It was like in

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00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: a teaser, and I think Demi sort of alluded to

1072
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 1: it as well. They were like Dean's true colors. And

1073
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 1: I didn't like it because that like alludes like Dean

1074
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 1: not being a good guy. Not Dean, just like not

1075
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 1: knowing what to do in situations like this, you know

1076
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like she's so fantastic. He's just like

1077
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: the warmest, one, most wonderful person. You're always going to

1078
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: want to be around him. He's just you know, he

1079
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: sucks at dating. That doesn't mean that like he truly

1080
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: does I have a I mean, this is a little

1081
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: segway question into something different. Do you think it's a

1082
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: little bit of a devil standard that Christian and Demi

1083
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: are able to stay on the island even though that

1084
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: she's not a bachelor person, Because if anybody had an

1085
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: ex that they were still in love with, they would

1086
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: have to walk away to go be with the X there.

1087
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's a very complicated scenario. And I

1088
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: want to give Nick credit for his point of view

1089
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: because it did make me see both sides. I think

1090
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: as a cast member, I was a little bit wearied

1091
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: last week when I was like, they're going to explore

1092
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: this in Paradise, But I don't know that this would

1093
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: fly in another you know, another kind of relationship, So

1094
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: it's weird that they're going to be able to stay.

1095
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: It just seems like you're breaking the Bachelor in Paradise rules.

1096
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: And then then Nick said that we should just screw

1097
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: thinking about the rules, because, as Chris Harrison always says,

1098
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: there are no rules, and in this case, should we

1099
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: break this quote unquote rule for the benefit of you know,

1100
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: for the society's benefit. And seeing a relationship like this

1101
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: bloom on an ABC National TV like, should like, should

1102
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: we just push this aside right now and forget about

1103
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: the rules and just celebrate this relationship. And now I

1104
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: see both sides. I can see why you'd be frustrated

1105
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: in them being allowed to to explore the relationship on

1106
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: Paradise when it's not the norm. But then I also

1107
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: see the side of it just like maybe it's just

1108
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: really culturally beneficial and we should just go along with

1109
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: it and that's fine. Wow, you actually really just changed

1110
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: my perspective on that. Well, thank you, But he really did,

1111
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: you know, he really did, because Etfort because I was

1112
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 1: definitely on like the I'm not sure if this is

1113
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: fair side, but you know, hey, that's I mean, that's true.

1114
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: How are we going to grow. I I agree, Like

1115
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: I said, I would literally changed my perspective on all that.

1116
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah. Alright, guys, we have a couple of

1117
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 1: great emails and one relationship that we have still yet

1118
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: to speak upon. But first you gotta take a break.

1119
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: Summer's almost over, guys. But there's something about summer food,

1120
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Speaker 1: you know, Burger's, grilling, all that stuff, that it just

1121
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 1: tastes better in the summer. So you've got to get

1122
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Speaker 1: on Blue Apron Summer menu before it's too late. You've

1123
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: got to try the customer favorite burger recipes with the

1124
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Speaker 1: Beyond Burger. You guys, it's a plant based burger. It's

1125
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: really the theme of this podcast right now is plant

1126
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: based meats or non meats. Um So Blue Apron has

1127
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Speaker 1: a delicious variety that you can try, and they are

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1129
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Speaker 1: no longer going to be a burden to make dinner.

1130
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: It's actually fun to learn new kitchen skills with each meal.

1131
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: Because of our hectic schedule, I feel like I have

1132
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: no other option than to eat out or you know,

1133
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: to pick up some crap, and it's not good for me.

1134
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 1: So I know, that when I have Blue Apron, I'm

1135
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: actually giving myself a wholesome meal instead of whatever came

1136
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: into bag. You know what I mean. Yes, this gets

1137
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:53,520
Speaker 1: delivered to my door in a box, but it has

1138
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: the healthiest ingredients and it's all super fresh, premium ingredients

1139
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: blends that otherwise would probably be difficult, expensive and time

1140
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 1: consuming for me to make. You know, I don't want

1141
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 1: to go to the grocery store and find a recipe

1142
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 1: and then come back and make it. That's like an

1143
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: over two hour process. And I don't think any meal

1144
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: is honestly worth us unless it's like a holiday meal.

1145
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 1: But like, I'm not going to just make our casual

1146
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,919
Speaker 1: weekday dinner and make it take two hours. So Blue

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Speaker 1: quick recipes. I just made this yellow tomato and zucchini

1149
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: passa with um. It was garlic ricotta. Was so good.

1150
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: I made it before we left and it just tastes,

1151
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: you know, like late and fresh. And you can start

1152
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: making these bragg worthy meals at home without the hassle.

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Speaker 1: When you try Blue Apron, you can check out this

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Speaker 1: dot com slash almost famous, and as Ben always says

1157
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: so perfectly, blue Apron a better way to cook you guys.

1158
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: The people on this line can vouch for me when

1159
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: when I say that I hate dressing up for work,

1160
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 1: I either like go all out dressing or I look

1161
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: like a slop fest. So when I'm recording this podcast,

1162
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: half the time, it's basically in what I wore to bed,

1163
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: and maybe I put yoga pants on. Yeah, you're you're

1164
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 1: you're mostly sporty. Sporty exactly, I sweatshirt with some nice leggings, yes, exactly.

1165
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: So Becca Tilly shows up every week and she looks

1166
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: perfectly put together. But since I got these beta brand

1167
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: work appropriate um dress pants, their dress pants, but they

1168
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 1: feel like yoga pants. Okay, so I'm going to show

1169
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: up to the office from now on, the I Heart

1170
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 1: Studio is now going to see me in work appropriate pants. Yeah,

1171
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 1: but they're ultra comfy and nobody would know how cozy

1172
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 1: I am in them. They have this wrinkle resistant four

1173
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: way stretch ponty knit fabric. It's like this special high

1174
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: brand fabric. It's it's better than your average yoga pants

1175
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 1: and it looks professional. It's it's mind boggling how this

1176
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 1: hasn't come out yet. And I know that the workplaces

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01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: that I have to be at usually aren't like super formal,

1178
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: they're not even like business casual. But I'm so excited

1179
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 1: for all the women out there to try a bit

1180
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:37,640
Speaker 1: of brand pants because they can literally wear stuff that

1181
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 1: feels like sweatpants to work now and still look super

1182
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 1: put together. They have some great pocket options to choose from.

1183
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,400
Speaker 1: There's this one style that has eight pockets. There's a

1184
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: style that has a deep invisible zipper with hand pockets.

1185
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: I love hand pockets. Goodness, you know, look like super

1186
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: You're like, hey, whatever, I'm cute in your arms because

1187
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Speaker 1: in your sides, um, they they got those hand pockets.

1188
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: You can leave your purse at home, you know, to

1189
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Speaker 1: put your idea in your cash in there, everything you need.

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Speaker 1: They give me a whole bunch of shapes and sizes,

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01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: all these different styles like boot cut, straight leg, skinny crops.

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Speaker 1: They have colors black, navy, gray, khaki, so basically you

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Speaker 1: can get one in each color, one on each style,

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Speaker 1: and then you can never wear uncomfortable pants to work again,

1195
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Speaker 1: I'm just so excud like everybody, I'm so excited for

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Speaker 1: everybody out and looking at the straight leg pant right now.

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Speaker 1: It's super cute with like a little heel they have.

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Speaker 1: But also you can wear that with boots, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know how we have that um that flat company

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Speaker 1: that we also have as a sponsor, and so many

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Speaker 1: people have been turned onto them, including Megan Markle. I

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Speaker 1: truly believe that Beta brand pants are going to be

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Speaker 1: the next wave in comfy professional wear. Beta brand is

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Speaker 1: an online fashion retailer. It's crowd It's a crowdfunding platform

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Speaker 1: for fashion, and they welcome feedback and they bring crowdsource

1206
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Speaker 1: ideas straight into the design rooms. Basically like so many

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Speaker 1: women are like, um, I'm really tired of for eight

1208
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 1: hours wearing these pants, so I would like to wear

1209
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: sweatpants to work. And then they basically created then to

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Speaker 1: or work day after wearing these. Alright, So the couple

1220
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: that we have not brought up is Mike in Sydney.

1221
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: Where have they been. Oh, there's another couple that we

1222
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 1: didn't bring up, you know why because they were nowhere

1223
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: to be seen either during this episode, and that was

1224
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: Hannah Ge and Dylan. I think that Yeah, handed Ge

1225
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 1: and Dylan are now like on the okay, we're an

1226
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: exclusive couple. Um, we're just in cruise mode. So we

1227
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 1: didn't see them at all totally, but we're just we're

1228
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:35,519
Speaker 1: supposed to assume that they're like happy in love and

1229
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: making out everywhere. But then Sydney and Mike, we don't

1230
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: have that feeling that they're you know, one solid because

1231
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 1: we've never we haven't seen very many serious conversations between

1232
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: between the two of them. I will even really remember

1233
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: them kissing truly. All we've seen is them doing cartwheels

1234
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 1: and handstands on the beach. That's what we get and

1235
01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: it's always in the opening credits. It's eve weird. It

1236
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,840
Speaker 1: is kind of weird. I want to know more. I

1237
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 1: would love to know more. Do you think do you

1238
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:11,640
Speaker 1: think they're keeping it quiet because he could potentially be

1239
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: the Bachelor? Or do you think that this puts them

1240
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: out of the running because we're not attached to his story? Well?

1241
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: I think I think if they wanted to be the Bachelor,

1242
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:26,599
Speaker 1: we should be bonding to him in um in some fashion.

1243
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 1: I can totally understand them not wanting like us to

1244
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: really feel him in Sydney because we're not gonna want

1245
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 1: to feel too attached to their love story if he's

1246
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: going to go on to be the Bachelor. But um,

1247
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 1: I think that we need to see like more moments

1248
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: of Mike chatting with other contestants or or just them

1249
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 1: chatting about fun stuff, maybe not serious stuff, more personality. Yeah,

1250
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 1: it's so weird that, like, somebody who's such a fan

1251
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: favorite has gotten so little screen time Paradise. But I

1252
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 1: definitely see your theory about the lack of screen time

1253
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: being because they just want to skip over the fact

1254
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: that he was even in Paradise and goes straight to

1255
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 1: him being the Bachelor. Okay, and then one last question

1256
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:13,719
Speaker 1: for you. Was it crazy as they made it seem

1257
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: that JPJ ate the food on the date? No, that

1258
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: was that was so ridiculous. I think most of us

1259
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 1: do end up picking or eating at the food. They

1260
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 1: just don't ever show it. And again, they never say

1261
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: you don't eat the food. They've literally never said don't

1262
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 1: eat the food. It's just that, yeah, it's cold, you're talking,

1263
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 1: and they tell you you you may not want to

1264
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: eat it because then you may be on camera chewing

1265
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 1: and like nobody looks their most attractive chewing. But nobody's

1266
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: e were like it's not edible or like you're it's

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Speaker 1: gross or you're not gonna want it. So that food

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01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: wasn't left out there for a couple hours before they

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01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 1: got there, so it was perfectly fine for him to

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01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 1: eat that. I'm pretty sure that they bring it out

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01:10:58,040 --> 01:10:59,680
Speaker 1: to you when you sit down. I don't know that

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01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 1: it's sitting there when you get there. And why can't

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01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: JPJ eat anything without throwing up? It's really weird. He

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01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,320
Speaker 1: says he has a very weak stomach, and it's apparent.

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01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you didn't have to tell us that

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01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 1: once or twice. We can see it. And I know

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01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: these dates are long, and I know that we only

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01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: get to see like three minutes of a three hour date,

1279
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 1: but it's pretty weird that he legitimately throws up right away,

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01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:25,680
Speaker 1: like he hits his stomach and then he regurgitates it.

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01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: It's so true. It's hilarious to watch because and it's

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01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 1: funny because he's laughing through throwing up. Unless he's so

1283
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 1: common for him, it must be very common. I thought

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01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:40,560
Speaker 1: it was funny the first time. Now I'm kind of like,

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01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 1: what's going on? Like he's just eating, sleeping and then

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01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 1: throwing up. I'm like, coron Olympius, what is going on?

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01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 1: Coron Olympia, that's what does that have to do? Because

1288
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: she was always eating and napping. Um, yeah, you're right.

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01:11:57,240 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 1: She was always like not seen anywhere because she was

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01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 1: falling asleep or sleeping, and then um, she would always

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01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: be eating all the food. Oh. I I was a

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01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 1: whole proponent about eating the food too. I'm like, I'm

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01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: never going to be in a position in my life

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01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: will there be a plate of food in front of

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01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 1: me and I'm not going to eat it. I don't

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01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 1: care him on TV. It is it hard being in

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01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 1: that bathing suit. Do you just get to a point

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01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 1: where you're like, I don't care, fill me up with

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01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 1: alcohol and food or do you guys? Oh no, No.

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Speaker 1: The only thing to do in Paradise besides talk is

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01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: to eat. And the food is so good there, so

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01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,759
Speaker 1: it's like you don't want to stop. Yeah, it's totally

1303
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: a freshman fifteen. But you're sweating so much I don't know,

1304
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 1: and your adrenaline is super high. Like my heart was

1305
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 1: just racing NonStop because um I was either heartbroken or

1306
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: it was so hot that I just feel like my

1307
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 1: metabolism was in like just the highest zone it could

1308
01:12:56,200 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: be in. So I just kept going. And what are

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01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: you guys allow to do? Are fun? You're never you're

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01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: not allowed to leave the beach unless you have a

1311
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 1: date card. But do they offer you games? Do they

1312
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: give you books? Like? What do you what do you

1313
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 1: allow to bring? Or what do they provide for you?

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01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: They don't provide anything. No, there's no games and stuff.

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01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,240
Speaker 1: You guys have to make up games back in the

1316
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 1: Bachelor Mansion, not in Paradise. They would give you the phones.

1317
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: We could play heads up or something like that, and

1318
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 1: they'd sometimes play a song or two, but there's no

1319
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 1: like card games or anything like that because it would

1320
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: be really bad TV. And to be honest, there's always

1321
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 1: something to talk about. You never really truly feel bored.

1322
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:41,240
Speaker 1: I know, it's really shocked. I know it's really weird.

1323
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm also somebody who doesn't get bored very easily. Like

1324
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 1: I could probably sit and stare at the ocean for

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01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 1: a couple of hours and just be pretty content with

1326
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 1: my brain. That's actually amazing, especially in that environment when

1327
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 1: you're daydreaming about who you want to be with. Do

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01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: you think that's why people get so like when Hajjuan

1329
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: was getting so aunty about everyone showing p d A,

1330
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:06,600
Speaker 1: it was because she didn't have anything to do and

1331
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 1: then the only person she would want to kind of

1332
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:10,760
Speaker 1: hang out with with on a date. Do you think

1333
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 1: that's why she was so anty? Do you think that

1334
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: was just her personality? I think it's just her personality.

1335
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: And she also got eliminated night one of Colton Seasons,

1336
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: which she didn't really understand how life in the bubble was,

1337
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: so that was probably an adjustment as well. Makes sense anyway. Okay,

1338
01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: so did we get some to some emails? Before we

1339
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 1: wrapped this stucker up. Well, there're actually a different vibe

1340
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 1: this week. You know, we get a lot of emails

1341
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: commenting on this week's show, But these are two interesting questions.

1342
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 1: One is from Diana. Does Chris Harrison just sit around

1343
01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:43,759
Speaker 1: and dress pants and a button down at all times

1344
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 1: while the calft is filming? Because when he needs to

1345
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:48,799
Speaker 1: pop in live, he comes in out of absolutely nowhere

1346
01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 1: and he's dressed impeccably. You know what, I don't know

1347
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 1: if I've ever seen Chris Harrison just dressed down. I

1348
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:58,719
Speaker 1: feel like he's always been in a button up because

1349
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:00,800
Speaker 1: you never ever seen him in T shirts and a

1350
01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: T shirt and jeans. No, that doesn't seem Chris Harrison

1351
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: to me. No, But like when he and Colton jumped

1352
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: the fence and he came running out, he looked like

1353
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 1: he always looks basically you'd expect to be like a

1354
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 1: hoodie and maybe a baseball cap. Did he have a

1355
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:18,560
Speaker 1: full glam squad on? Oh yeah, I mean he is

1356
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: a glam squad carry is his you know? He the

1357
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:26,320
Speaker 1: person that does the fashion for the lead also does

1358
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison's fashion. And I wonder, But then again, like

1359
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:32,720
Speaker 1: how fast I mean, how long does it really take

1360
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 1: to just throw on a jacket? Mark, That's true, that's

1361
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 1: a good point. It's like two it's like two minutes.

1362
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 1: So maybe he doesn't have it on, but it's always

1363
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: waiting in the wings. Well, this is from Marissa, and

1364
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 1: this is sweet. She says, I've been friends with my

1365
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 1: friend Paul for the past four years, and a little

1366
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: less than a year into our friendship, I could tell

1367
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 1: he had more than just friendship feelings towards me. At

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01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: one point, he told me he thought I was the

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01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: one and said and I said, I didn't think so

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01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: because it freaked me out. Well, for the past year,

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01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 1: I can't shake the feeling that he is my person.

1372
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: After a long time of him chasing me, I finally

1373
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:09,040
Speaker 1: told him I liked him, and he told me he

1374
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: wasn't ready to be in a relationship. We aren't together.

1375
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 1: We're at different stages of our lives. Currently. All my

1376
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 1: friends think I'm crazy and that I should give this

1377
01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:18,759
Speaker 1: whole thing up. I was just hoping to hear from Ashley.

1378
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 1: What made you know not to give up on Jared?

1379
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: Did Actley enormously in this email? Because this is you

1380
01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 1: and Jared um I feel like, I feel like my

1381
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: best advice to you is to move on. Like to

1382
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 1: a certain extent, I think you can have that lingering feeling.

1383
01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:39,760
Speaker 1: And I definitely had a lingering feeling with Jared like

1384
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:42,800
Speaker 1: it could always happen, like there's always a chance it

1385
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 1: may happen, and I actually think that chance is pretty great.

1386
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: But if if he's straight up saying no, like not now,

1387
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 1: then you have to live your life like no and

1388
01:16:56,760 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 1: not now are two different things, aren't they? Right? And

1389
01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: that was definitely something with me and Jared. I think

1390
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 1: like at some point, very early on, he he may

1391
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 1: have made a comment like maybe down the road or

1392
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: like I can we'll see you know, you don't know

1393
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: what the future holds, and then I'd really cling onto

1394
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:16,639
Speaker 1: those statements. But I wonder if he I mean, obviously

1395
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: it sounds like he meant that, but if a guy

1396
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 1: said that, because you're married now, but if a guy

1397
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 1: said that, I would be worried. He's just saying that

1398
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 1: because he feels guilty. He's just saying that to let

1399
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 1: me down easy to um know to To Jared's credit,

1400
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: he would never tell me that because he was always

1401
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 1: very careful in like being as he always tried not

1402
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: to lead me on in any way, so he would say, no,

1403
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 1: it's not going to happen to me, um, just so

1404
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't cling onto the idea. But I know

1405
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 1: that he would say to other people one day, we'll

1406
01:17:51,320 --> 01:18:00,200
Speaker 1: we'll see the fact that you're married, you're getting and

1407
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:02,720
Speaker 1: you're giving Paul a lot of credit. I know. The

1408
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: thing that throws me off is, I know Nick told

1409
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 1: you to stop pursuing Jared, but I feel like you're

1410
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,920
Speaker 1: what your friends say is super important, and her friends

1411
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: are saying she should move on, okay, So it's it's

1412
01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 1: a really case by case and like they say, and

1413
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 1: he's just not that into you. I know that I'm

1414
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: the exception to the rule, so I don't want Marissa

1415
01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:25,080
Speaker 1: to like totally cling on. And I do think the

1416
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 1: best thing you can do is go and do other people.

1417
01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 1: And if he doesn't, if you're gaining somebody else and

1418
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 1: he's he seems like totally cool with that, and he

1419
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: still wants to be like your friend and nothing more

1420
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: than you probably have your answer, and that's what Jared

1421
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 1: always says to It's like if the guy doesn't react,

1422
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 1: then then like it's probably just not going to happen

1423
01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 1: for you. But I feel hope for Marissa just because

1424
01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 1: he was the one that first said that she was

1425
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: his one, so like, I don't know why you would

1426
01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:00,759
Speaker 1: why she would give up? And and ends are interesting

1427
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 1: because I think some friends will be like you have

1428
01:19:04,200 --> 01:19:09,599
Speaker 1: to move on. But then in my case, Jared's best

1429
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:12,559
Speaker 1: friend from Rhode Island who I became friends with two

1430
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: throughout our friendship, he was always telling me like, you

1431
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 1: have no idea, like you guys are going to happen,

1432
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 1: Like you're gonna be together there. So it's just like

1433
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 1: kind of a whole bunch of friends can see from

1434
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of different point of view. And if

1435
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:32,040
Speaker 1: your friends aren't really good friends with Paul, then I'm

1436
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:33,680
Speaker 1: not even sure they're much of a source for you.

1437
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 1: But your advice earlier, live your life, move on as

1438
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 1: much as you can. If it is meant to be,

1439
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:44,120
Speaker 1: it will happen. Absolutely, That's what I think that's meant

1440
01:19:44,160 --> 01:19:46,760
Speaker 1: to be will be. And I think it's cheesy that

1441
01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this, but that quote, if you love something,

1442
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:51,479
Speaker 1: let it go, and if it comes back, it's yours

1443
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: forever is good. Good to live by what a happy

1444
01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:02,720
Speaker 1: ending thinking in a day is about. Probably, you know,

1445
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:05,720
Speaker 1: you're so lucky to have all that happened. I am

1446
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:09,679
Speaker 1: so lucky. I'm so lucky. This is the longest Jared

1447
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 1: and I have been apart in the past two weeks.

1448
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 1: When when I left the hotel room, it was like, Jared,

1449
01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm leaving you. It was like so weird. We literally

1450
01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: had not been like without a matter, We hadn't been

1451
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,320
Speaker 1: apart for more than like five yards in two weeks

1452
01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,280
Speaker 1: on our honeymoon. I can't wait till you guys are

1453
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 1: back in studio and I'm gonna squeeze the both of you. Well,

1454
01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 1: we miss you, guys, and we can't wait to see

1455
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 1: you next week. I hope Ben holds down the fort

1456
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 1: like I know he will tomorrow for all the next week,

1457
01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 1: so Chris and Crystal, Yeah, he'll have all the inside scoop.

1458
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:52,200
Speaker 1: There was a lot that happened that what happened there

1459
01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 1: on the set of the wedding could be an entire episode,

1460
01:20:56,880 --> 01:20:58,600
Speaker 1: So we'll see if it actually does turn out to

1461
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: be an entire episode. Oh my goodness. All right, guys,

1462
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 1: Well that's all for today. I've been Ashley and and

1463
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 1: Tory and Mark. Who have you been I've been to?

1464
01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:17,960
Speaker 1: Bye Bye? Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous

1465
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,120
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