1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: And this is nothing against UK. Great, I'm having a time. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: It's great, but you just realize that things that are different, 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: and you're like, I'm the asshole American. Right now, I'm 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: the asshole American and I get it. Calm Down with 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, of the jury, your verdict is guilty 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: of missing you. 8 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 3: Oh my god. I haven't literally, guys, this is not 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 3: a joke. I've not seen this woman's face. I haven't 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 3: talked to her other than a text message. No in 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 3: weeks telegram. 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 2: I mean I started writing letters to you Postmark John. 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: I've missed you so much. Oh my god, Ladies and gentlemen, 14 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Calm Down Podcast. We're reunited and it's 15 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: the only thing that feels so good. 16 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: Die. What's going on? Hi? Tell me about the bird. 17 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 3: You look so fresh. 18 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,639 Speaker 2: Oh, showered for the first time in three days here. 19 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 2: Oh that's not true, shower every night. 20 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 3: But you know what I mean. Actually, my hair. 21 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: There's a bird pecking on this skylight right before we 22 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 2: started recording over and over. That's what woke me up 23 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,839 Speaker 2: at four o'clock in the morning. Steve the other day, goes, 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: I'm going to kill this bird. I was like, you 25 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: can't kill the bird, because then you're going to shoot 26 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: a hole in the roof. We also can't kill animals, Okay, 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: we're here to rescue them. I'm like, I'm chucking this 28 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 2: empty water bottle over and over at the skylight. If 29 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: anyone has any suggestions on how to keep a bird 30 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 2: from pecking at a skylight incessantly. It has woken us 31 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: up every single morning. 32 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 3: Now, wow, are. 33 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: There multiple skylights in your house and so it's walking 34 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: over all of them? 35 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 3: Sure? Is huh it? Yep? 36 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: And I don't get it. I don't know if it 37 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: sees its reflection in it. I don't know what it's doing. 38 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if it thinks it's like a window 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: and it can go through running into it. No, you know, 40 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 2: I just like to complain about these things. I can't 41 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: find a solution. I'm looking for solutions from you. Hey, 42 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: forget the bird for a second. 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: We need to start from the beginning. 44 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: Oh my god, birds of a feather flock together, and 45 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: I have not seen you in months. I really love 46 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: that picture behind you. Can you say where you are? 47 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: I feel like we've been trying it up to where's Waldo. 48 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 3: I'm in the UK. 49 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: I've been here for a week and I am here 50 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: having a great time. 51 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 3: I'm just things are We'll get to it. So I'm 52 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 3: out here. 53 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm filming a game show for Fox with Ken Johng, 54 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: who is the funniest And it's not even like he's 55 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: not even like hangover funny or crazy Rich Asians, funny 56 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: movies he's been in or community. He has this laugh 57 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: where he throws his head back and he starts laughing, 58 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: and he apparently thinks everything I say is funny, which 59 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: makes me like him even more. 60 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 3: He's the funniest. 61 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: We got to get him on this. He is so 62 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: funniest dude ever. Like, he is just a funny, funny 63 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: guy and he makes things light because the days are long. 64 00:02:56,080 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: And yeah, but this is me outside of the game show. 65 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: This has nothing to do with this, and I'm grateful 66 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: of the opportunity and I hope it's a lot of 67 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: fun for everyone. Things are hard for me to grasp 68 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: in a different country. We got, we got the adapters. Hey, 69 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: I got, I got, I got all of these. 70 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 3: I have all of these and they won't fit into 71 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 3: the wall behind me. Why are we using different ones 72 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 3: all around? Yeah, we need a universal charger for it. 73 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: Wasn't going to this one. This one doesn't go into 74 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: this one. Then there's one that's you're supposed to just 75 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: pack five. 76 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. 77 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 2: And have you blown out one of your hair dryers 78 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: yet because you have the wrong voltage. That happened to 79 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: me actually recently. But wait, hold on, back up a second. 80 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 2: Can you tell us more about this game show? Because 81 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: I am so excited for you. You were born, well 82 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: you're born to do a lot of things, but two 83 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: things in particular, because we need to go all the 84 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 2: way back. The last time I saw you was in 85 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: New York. I know this has now been three weeks 86 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: ago at this point, that feels like three months. Yeah, 87 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 2: that's three were last time I saw you in New York. 88 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: You were there for upfronts for Fox. I was doing 89 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: stuff for Amazon. We went to a friend's house for dinner, 90 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: ended up in a Rose Hayes, rolling around on the 91 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: ground a time. 92 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 3: In a rose. 93 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, forget the app and your haze. You were in 94 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: a Rose Hayes. I'll take all the colors. I was 95 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: a Creola box. We had a great time, and then 96 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: fast forward to I left, you left, and then we 97 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: haven't seen each other since. So you then went on 98 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: to uh co host The Third Hour not the Third 99 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: Hour with Jennaen Friends on the Today Show, which like 100 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 2: years ago, Crush, did you have such a good time 101 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 2: doing that because you were She's the best point, you 102 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: were born to do that. 103 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: You were so good on it. 104 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: It was a really fun time, great week in New York, 105 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: fell as ship the week later after our baby news, 106 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: which I have to say really quick, the everybody that 107 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: reached out so sweet, like you know who made me 108 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 1: cry the most besides you and like their friends. I'll 109 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: cry right now. I just get a call and it's 110 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: Jay Glazer and I pick up and I just start crying. 111 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm like hi, and he's like I love you, and 112 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: I'm like I love you too. 113 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 3: He's so good at that, he's so good at that. 114 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: He's like go ahead, No, no, no, you go he no. 115 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: We just I just knew, Like it's not like I 116 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: talked to Glaze on the phone all the time, like 117 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: it's a quick text or it's a whatever. And then 118 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: the second I saw him call, I was like hi, 119 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: and he goes, I love you, and I just said 120 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: I love you too, like but show like that we 121 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: talk all the time about like our people and the 122 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: people that are there for you, and like our brothers, 123 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: Crissel were so lucky for our brothers. I mean, just 124 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: you know, it's not easy for men to reach out, 125 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: but I have to say that so many men did 126 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: because so many people. 127 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 3: Deal with this. 128 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: So, yeah, my life all is shit after New York, 129 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: after being in a Rose Hayes. 130 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very proud of you though, And obviously you 131 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: know this was something that you know, you and I 132 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: were texting and talking a lot about, but you as 133 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 2: you articulated on here, and I wish I could have 134 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: been on there with you to talk about it. But 135 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: you know, this platform is a safe place for you 136 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: to be able to talk about I mean, look, we've 137 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: both had shitty stuff happened in our lives and this 138 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: has been a sanctuary and so many people erin. I 139 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: will never know what it's like to go through what 140 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: you went through, but so many other people have, and 141 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: for you to talk about it, it says a lot 142 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: about your own growth in dealing with trauma, and you 143 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 2: were open about the fact that you're like, I wasn't 144 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 2: good about dealing with this before, and so I'm very 145 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: proud of you for doing that. 146 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 3: And it's not. 147 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 2: Easy to be vulnerable about things that are that of 148 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 2: that magnitude. So I'd be remissed if I didn't ask you, 149 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 2: because you have so many people, including myself first and foremost, 150 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 2: that care about you and Jared too. This isn't a 151 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 2: one way thing. It's not just you. It's you and 152 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 2: your husband. How are you guys doing? 153 00:06:57,160 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I ended up obviously having to regroup away and 154 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: get out here and come to work. Look, it's tough, 155 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: Like some days are good, some days are bad. Some 156 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: days are so busy you don't think about it. And 157 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: then you have the times that you're in the town 158 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: and you see a baby carriage. 159 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 3: You know, it's so it's not funny. 160 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: But you get back to when you have success with 161 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: having a baby, and then you don't. You're brought right 162 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: back to the world of like God, like, why. 163 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 3: Is this so difficult for me? 164 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: And you see a family of four and a family 165 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: of two and a family and then you remember, like, look, 166 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: life is so precious. Greg Olsen wrote me that in 167 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: a text last week, and he's just like it just 168 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: makes you remember, like what you went through to get 169 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: Mac and life is so precious. I think the one thing, 170 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: you know, and it's not the one thing, just the 171 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: many things that stick with me is that we kind 172 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: of you and I joked around like, oh my god, 173 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: how am I going to be with a girl? 174 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: Like? 175 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: How am I going to be with a girl? 176 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: And the one thing that like stuck with me is that, 177 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: like everybody says to you and I are such great 178 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: inspirations for girls, And then that was my last girl. 179 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 3: You know, it's like I can't have one. 180 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: But listen, I've got his son and he'll crush it 181 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: and I'll be really hard on him to be amazing girl. 182 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, there's that. 183 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: Well, I love you, and I wish I could reach 184 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: through here and give you a huge hug. I also 185 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: get can and have a time and great Aaron and 186 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 2: I have a vacation on the book, which everything I 187 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: cannot come soon enough for both of us. But I 188 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: sorry if I'm using this, because I probably shouldn't not 189 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: have just asked you this privately, but since we're talking 190 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 2: about it, I don't know, Like I always just keep 191 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: saying like I'm here for you. 192 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 3: I'm here for you. I'm here for you. 193 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 2: It's like, okay, but what does that actually mean? What 194 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 2: is the most No, but what is the most helpful thing? 195 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: Since we're you know, talking about how you can pay 196 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 2: it forward and how you can learn from these things, 197 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: like what's the most helpful thing that some people have 198 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: done or said? Like when you're going through something like this, 199 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 2: is it just a text or is it like sending 200 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 2: funny quotes like. 201 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 3: How how is it that other people can help you? 202 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know, or help anybody that's been through 203 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 1: this man or woman, right, And like, you know, I 204 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: do a good job when we're joking around. We were 205 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: on a text chain with one of our girlfriends and 206 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: we were talking about how I just wanted to get 207 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 1: into the car and like go work out, and then 208 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: like Tears in Heaven from Eric Clapton came on and 209 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: crime me around and I'm like, oh, and then you 210 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: and I started reciting Field Magnolia lines like I need that, 211 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, And I don't know how other people deal 212 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: with like, you know, grief and stuff, but humor, I 213 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: think feeling the feels. I was proud of myself and 214 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: grateful for you and my other girlfriends and guy friends 215 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: where I was like I'm sad. You know, like guys 216 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: like TV would write me or Kevin or my bosses 217 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: and I would just instead of saying, oh it's okay, 218 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: I was like, this is fucking brutal. And I didn't 219 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: do that last time, you know, So AnyWho, good, Okay, 220 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: Well I wanted to yeah, I mean staying busy, but 221 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: also not to suppress it. I'm proud of you for 222 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 1: not just being like, oh, I'm just going to move 223 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: on to the next thing. It's like, well you have 224 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: to life life Unfortunately, doesn't you know, push pause because 225 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: people are going through stuff. But your ability to recognize, like, hey, 226 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: I need to acknowledge these feelings, but then also stay 227 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: busy is important. We'll just know that you have a 228 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: big community of people. I'm the you know, the president 229 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: of your fan club and always here for you. 230 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 3: I love you. 231 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: But so many people, like I said, I've reached out 232 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 1: and it's like been part of it, been through it, 233 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: been part of that club. 234 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, no, it was. It was wild. 235 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: It's funny that you mentioned that funny, funny glacier, but 236 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 2: like you know, Glacier is so funny, Like we always 237 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 2: joke like Glaize, what are we doing? But it's amazing 238 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: how just a phone call when I had my phone 239 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 2: got hacked and bad things were leaked. Ye he called 240 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 2: and what he said the funniest thing, I won't even 241 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: repeat it that is so inappropriate but also exactly what 242 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 2: I needed. And I just started cracking up, and it's like, hey, 243 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 2: get through it. So you really do realize how great 244 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: your community is when bad things happen, and not that 245 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 2: you want them to happen, but at least you know 246 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: like how lucky you are because there's a lot of 247 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 2: people that don't have someone calling on the other line. 248 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 2: So for anyone that's going through stuff, consider us your 249 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: call on the other end of the line, because we 250 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: are here for you no matter what you're going through. 251 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 3: But I love you. I love you, Garrett. 252 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: And in an effort to take advantage of what little 253 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 2: time I have with you here, you know the times 254 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 2: the time change is. I mean, look, Hi, I'm not 255 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: saying anything that we don't know. I'm having to look 256 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: at the world clock thing on my phone. I'm like, 257 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,079 Speaker 2: can I text. 258 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 3: Her what she doing? Where's she going, so how much 259 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 3: longer are you over there? 260 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: Do not disturb when I'm sleeping, And like the random 261 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: time I think you were dming me and I was 262 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: dming you and I'm like, shit, I'll just text you back. 263 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: So yeah, the good news is I don't have much 264 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: time to do anything else. We are at the studio 265 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: pretty much from the early morning till we leave, probably 266 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: about ten thirty eleven at night, crushing it. 267 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 3: So this is the premise of the game. Okay, yeah, 268 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 3: tell us everything. 269 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: There are some cast of characters, and the best part 270 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: is Ken is all in for the comments and it's great. 271 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: So it's called ninety nine to be. We start off 272 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: with one hundred people and they are given a series 273 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 1: of challenges and your biggest thing is well, the only 274 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: thing is you don't have to finish first. You don't 275 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: have to be the best. You can be any age, 276 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: you can be in any shape. You just can't come 277 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: in last, and if you do, you are gone. I 278 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,599 Speaker 1: don't know if I'm allowed to say what the grand. 279 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 3: Prize is, but it's good. I would play this if 280 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 3: I could. 281 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so wait, what are some of the competitions? 282 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 2: Can you say, like, are they Are they trivia? Are 283 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 2: they physical? What's happening? Let's get physical. 284 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: Are competitions that you could set up at your house 285 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: and you never thought about it. 286 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 3: But this is what the joy and the beauty. 287 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: Of reality TV is. We walk away at night from 288 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: the studio thinking about the tears. I've seen three women 289 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: tackle each other, people have cried, people have like needed 290 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: a time out because they're having like a panic attack 291 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: for simple challenges that include balloons, rubber band shirt. But 292 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: when this amount of money is on the line, people are. 293 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 3: Losing it savage. 294 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: That's why, like reality TV is incredible. Like if you 295 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: think of the whole premise of The Bachelor, these women 296 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: are desperate and men for love, you. 297 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 3: Feed them alcohol. You've been in the track, right I have. 298 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 2: I went to the house in Mike Flice, who created 299 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 2: the show. I've known him for years through sports and stuff, 300 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 2: and he was like, you've got to come. I was 301 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: living in Malibu at the time. The mansion was in Malibu. 302 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 2: I don't know that still is. And he's like, you 303 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: got to come to one of these tape ins or 304 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: you know, like a night at the mansion. I was like, oh, 305 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 2: I'm bricking in so their setup was like in the garage, 306 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 2: and I'm like, they are just I mean, you don't 307 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: even again, one cocktail, it's not even about just like 308 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 2: pumping and full alcohol. One cocktail and You're exactly right. 309 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 2: Shit gets competitive. But by the way, you and I 310 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 2: would be the same way, like when you think, right, oh, 311 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 2: it's not a big deal, like I don't you know, 312 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: I'm just here to maybe find love. When somebody else 313 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: starts boxing you out and being like, oh, no, that's 314 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: my man, I'd be like, no, bitch, that's my man. 315 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 2: It's not even about the guy anymore. Now, it's about 316 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 2: me winning and you losing. And so shit is going down. 317 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 2: And I was sitting there watching it and I was like, 318 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: this happens every night. He's like, oh, yeah, why do 319 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 2: you think this show has been on for you know, 320 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 2: twenty five years or whatever it's been. 321 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, good for you. Yes, that was a dual check. 322 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: I did Dancing with the Stars and like, listen, it's 323 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: good competition, but it is true, like you're I was 324 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: talking about it with my assistant the other day. She 325 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: said she was watching an interview with somebody that competed 326 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: on Love Island. She's like you're away from your family, 327 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: you have no way to socialize, which I have felt 328 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: like because my friends are all asleep when I'm up 329 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: waste for my family. And then like you are not 330 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: on your like you're not eating the food you normally eat, 331 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: you're not working out, you're wasted. Like you're gonna say 332 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: shit and just say shit, it's not the show I'm doing. 333 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 3: But no, no, no, no, just these reality shit. Right. 334 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: He is amazing, amazing, And then you have Ken who 335 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: is just providing commentary of what he's seeing. And then 336 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: they wanted me to kind of set it up in sports, 337 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: you know terms like you see this job. There's a 338 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: competition of like nine. I'm like, Okay, this guy is 339 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: the Tom Brady or the Patrick Mahomes of the group. Look, 340 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: if they're having problems, he's talking them through it. I 341 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: like how he's trying to get him back on the 342 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: same page. And like so and so the group's over 343 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: here like showing her ass and her ass not really rass, 344 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: but you know, having like a a moment. 345 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 3: On the sideline. Yeah, I feel like how she is. 346 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 3: And I was like, look look at what a good 347 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 3: leader Ronald is over here. It's just cred Miller's so 348 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 3: good at your job, but like, oh I'm not. But 349 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 3: that's so fun. 350 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 2: Though. 351 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 3: There's one great moment. 352 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: So I saw somebody come in and this is where 353 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: like I resort back to the sidelines with this game. 354 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: I saw somebody come in and she had an ice 355 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: pack on her neck, and I said, oh shit, it's 356 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 1: so much so she has an ice pack and he goes, yeah, 357 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: she hurt her neck. And I go, how about and 358 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: ken'sa doctor. Go okay, doctor, I said, she's just overheated, 359 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: like she isn't I said, thank god, you're not doing 360 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: the freaking NFL. Can you imagine Saquon Barkley out for 361 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: the year with a quad injury. Oh no, wait, he 362 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: just has his shoulders frame like this guy. He's great, 363 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: that's right. 364 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 2: I always forget that he was an actual doctor. Didn't 365 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 2: he go to do to This guy went to Duke 366 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 2: so smart. 367 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 3: He got to get her to right. 368 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: Yes, family medicine, great, cool, great family practice. He's always 369 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: like Kaiser Permanente, like he's just whipping that out. 370 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 3: But she's so funny. 371 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: He got his start from jud Apatow in Knocked Up, 372 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: and he played doctor in it. And jud was like, 373 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to make you my project he was doing 374 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: while he was practicing stand up comedy because he loved 375 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: it so much. 376 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 3: But then he also, you know, was being a doctor. 377 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 3: And then he's like, I'm just gonna do this hysterically. 378 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 3: Wait what time is it there? Right now? 379 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: It's almost time for dinner. It's five point thirty. As 380 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm drinking my coffee, I just had another one? 381 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 3: Why not? 382 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: So? 383 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 3: Can I tell you what they don't have in the UK? Salads? 384 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: And it's not that they don't have them, but like 385 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 1: it's interesting to talk to people that live here. They're like, yeah, 386 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: you guys are obsessed with salads, and I was like, 387 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: we pretty much are. When you realize you can't get them. 388 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 1: You can get them, but it's not like they go 389 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: out a copper or sweet green or all that kind 390 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: of stuff. 391 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 3: And this is nothing against the UK. 392 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: Great, I'm having a time, it's great, but you just 393 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 1: realize that things that are different, and you're like, I'm 394 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: the asshole American right now. I'm the ass whole American 395 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 1: And I get it. 396 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 3: Ice. 397 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 2: Ice is always the thing whenever whenever I go to 398 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 2: Europe with all my travels ice is not a thing. 399 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,959 Speaker 2: Is like, you have to like request ice. And then 400 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 2: when we were in Italy, Steve and I, what was 401 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 2: it last year? The year before regular coffee? It's only espresso. 402 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 2: I'm like, can I just get a black cup of coffee? 403 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: It's always this intest Yeah, I'm like what so, yeah, 404 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: coffee was a big one. 405 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 3: And ice. 406 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: Good luck Pa, Ruby and our little state manager Katie 407 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: I know a good name, Yeah, Katie who I have 408 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: named Katie Nanna and she dies over that. 409 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,719 Speaker 3: And Ruby, who I called rude. Never had a pbn 410 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 3: J before they came into my trailer. I made them 411 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 3: and he goes, They're like friggin delicious, this is great. 412 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you people eating? You're not having 413 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 3: a poebe and hit. 414 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what does your typical day look like? 415 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 3: There? 416 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 1: Wake up, rush to the gym to clear my head 417 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: and try to look cute, and then quickly shower, breakfast, 418 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: your spy fire. 419 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, what we got? 420 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: Okay, really really gave me somewhere that I love. And 421 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 1: you can get a spinach in a mushroom situation, delicious, 422 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:14,399 Speaker 1: so many yogurt toppings. I'm so happy and afraid that 423 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: wakes you up, so it's you. 424 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 3: Know, it's not all frustrated your doctors. 425 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then get right to the studio and there 426 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: for about fifteen hours. 427 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:27,639 Speaker 3: My Gal, I love it. I'm so I'm so proud 428 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 3: of you. 429 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 2: This is great though, a game show and you because 430 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 2: this is the thing. So anyone that's ever seen Aaron 431 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 2: on QBC knows this. This is like, she can, you know, 432 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 2: host the Today Show, she can be on the silnce 433 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: of the super Bowl, she could do the game show. 434 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 2: Give give me a QBC moment with my gal. I'm 435 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 2: peeing my pants because it's it's the throwaway lines that 436 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: get me that most people aren't picking up off the floor, 437 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 2: but I. 438 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 3: Am anay attention. 439 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 2: I'm crying laughing, So I feel like that's definitely going 440 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 2: to be you on a game show that I got. 441 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 3: Don't edit around all of them. I know. 442 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 1: We've had some nights where we're just sitting and we're 443 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: waiting for things to be set up, and I'm just 444 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: sitting with Ken and I'm wearing a very light pant 445 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: and I've had to really clench because I'm so close 446 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:14,919 Speaker 1: to peeing my pants. 447 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 3: He is just he just thanks. 448 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: Like I was asking what particular night we were going 449 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: to be on, what people we were going up against, 450 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: and I guess I made a comment, and he's the 451 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: kind of laughter that goes. 452 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 3: Like that laughing. We had actually a fun night last night. 453 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: One of our one of our gals that's in charge 454 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: of this whole production. I don't know people's titled, but 455 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: I know she's a big Dale Claire. Shout out to 456 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: Claire in her skin. She owns a little wine shop 457 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: with her sister or her It's called the Wine Sisters 458 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: in a village and we all want them to have 459 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: a couple glasses of wine. And Ken showed up, and 460 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: you would have thought the Prime Minister or Prince William 461 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,360 Speaker 1: showed up. People were coming from different places to come 462 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 1: get a picture with the guy from the Hangover. 463 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 3: I love that. 464 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 2: He's probably so generous too. He's just like lining up 465 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: like it's Mickey Mouse. Just take a picture. That's so great. 466 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was great. 467 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: This is talking about me, and please tell me things 468 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 1: you've been up to. Why this is the This is 469 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: literally the first time you guys. I can't overstate this. 470 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 3: I have not been the headlines. You looks great. I 471 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 3: know you probably can't much about it, but you looks great. 472 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 3: Not in the headlines, but just gallivanting across her. 473 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:36,199 Speaker 2: Oh, the bachelorette party. The bachelorette party. I gotta tell you. So, 474 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 2: you know how we talk about all the time. We're like, okay, 475 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 2: we're like a lot of girls together. It's like, oh, 476 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 2: I should go. 477 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 3: Okay. 478 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 2: It's always like okay, like this, it's a lot like 479 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 2: let's relax, ladies. We don't need all of that. I 480 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 2: gotta tell you. I went in being like, hey, my 481 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: girlfriend's getting married. She wants me to come to the 482 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 2: bachelorette party. 483 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 3: I'm down. 484 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 2: I'm always up, up for a good time, and you 485 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,120 Speaker 2: are getting time on those well that's very sweet. But 486 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 2: again it's like I'm just along for the ride. 487 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 3: Okay. 488 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: This guest list is like I'm going to be in 489 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: the background, just observing whatever's going on here. 490 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 3: I got to tell you. 491 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 2: The second I land there and I get into this 492 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 2: incredible hotel, the che beautiful from the outside. My god, 493 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: I thought that I had like like princess diaries. It 494 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 2: was like so gorgeous, and we all so again I 495 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 2: go and being like again, a lot of women, it's 496 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 2: a lot is this going to be too much? I 497 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 2: left being like, why don't we have more girlfriends and 498 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: why don't we take trips like this? I had the 499 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 2: greatest time. Literally, it was so much fun. We stay together, 500 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 2: which is like a big deal. So it wasn't like 501 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 2: people were in separate hotel rooms, like we were all 502 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 2: in the same like area together. 503 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 3: You were in a giant room area. 504 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like an apartment thing or whatever. So 505 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 2: Toby Gonzalez and I were roommates, which already what a goal. 506 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,439 Speaker 2: She would be so much fun. But like everyone roomed up. 507 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: There was a couple of people that didn't stay, but 508 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 2: like of whatever. However, many girls there was like fourteen 509 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 2: and supping girls were like grown women. 510 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 3: Women. 511 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 2: There was like maybe a couple that didn't stay. But anyways, 512 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 2: so so much fun. The dinners, just the spectacle, the whole, 513 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 2: like paparazzi and all of that is like not something 514 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: that I'm familiar with. 515 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: So I was camble and connected. I would have been like, 516 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: no pictures, please, thank you God, please. You know they 517 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: were taking them of me exactly, They're not taking them 518 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: of me. 519 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 2: There was one point where we were all on a 520 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 2: boat and like the PAPARAZZI like for people like, you know. 521 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 3: You were so cute elementing around. I was like, that's 522 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 3: my girl. 523 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of them had to go below because 524 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 2: it was like getting crazy with pictures. 525 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 3: Not me. No one gets a shit that I'm there. 526 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: So I said to Elena, Lauren's sister, I was like, 527 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 2: we're staying out here, We're dancing. I was like, we 528 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 2: are on like this amazing boat. Yeah, hifel powers right here. 529 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 2: So we had so much fun. But yeah, oh my 530 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 2: there nights ended up with us all in matching robes 531 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 2: and like singing karaoke and like it was awesome. We 532 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 2: honestly we had such a good time and I left 533 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: there being like I should do trips like this more often. 534 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 2: I don't have that many girlfriends like you and I Mary, 535 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 2: so we could go on your Bachelor are not without 536 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: a couple of in rights that would come. 537 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 1: Here's the problem. I don't have that many girlfriends. For 538 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 1: the matter, the ones you have, we would have a 539 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: fire time. 540 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lot of fun, I got to 541 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 2: say though, and again Lauren's like an amazing host, but 542 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 2: like there was just there was a swag bag courtesy 543 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 2: of Chris and Kim that I really appreciate. I was like, 544 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 2: this is I was like, I felt bad. Toby and 545 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 2: I were in charge of planning something. We had karaoke. 546 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 2: Meanwhile the other ones are giving out. It was like 547 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 2: it was so much fun. I mean, but we had 548 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 2: karaoke and an astrologer as our thing. The other women 549 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 2: are like giving out these like incredible gifts. And I 550 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 2: looked at Toby. I was like, well, we're going to 551 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 2: provide the entertainment. If nothing else, we will make sure 552 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 2: that everyone has a good time. But yeah, it was 553 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 2: very fun. 554 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 3: It's good. And then what else has been going on? 555 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 3: What else has been going on on the rand? I'm 556 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 3: still here. 557 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 2: I'm trying to maximize as much time as I possibly 558 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 2: can here because I'm not here for the entire month 559 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 2: of June, which I already have extrain and guilt about. 560 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: I know you feel like that with Maclin. You're like 561 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,479 Speaker 2: working and you're like, I have mom guilt. I have 562 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 2: mom guilt where I'm like, I'm not going to be 563 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 2: with my animals, so I can only imagine what it's 564 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 2: like with your child. But yeah, I'm not going to 565 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 2: because we're traveling. I got the Belmont Steaks speak. There's 566 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 2: a horse right behind your head, girl, Belmont Steaks coming up. 567 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 2: So I'm going to do that next weekend, which I'm 568 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 2: excited about. You know, I love comforting around the Belmont Steaks. 569 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: Talk to me about American sports. It's just well because 570 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 2: unfortunately there's not a triple Crown contender, which always sucks. 571 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 2: But again, it's still a triple Crown race. There's a 572 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 2: lot of I'm going to do a feature on journalism. 573 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 3: What are the horses? That is this whole? 574 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: I mean, look, I look at my horse and eat Oz. 575 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: I love you, but I'm like, we gotta get you 576 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 2: going here. You're nowhere near thoroughbread status, buddy. These horses 577 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 2: are so bad. Incent machines and anyone that says that 578 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 2: they're not athletes, I'm like, are you insane? 579 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 3: Look at these horses. They're so beautiful. 580 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 2: So I'm just kind of geeked out to go and 581 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: like see these animals. And then I like going around 582 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 2: the stalls. I like talking to the trainers, like getting tipped, 583 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,199 Speaker 2: like I'm gonna all of a sudden become like a 584 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: jockey and race Oz like that around here. 585 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 3: But that's good. 586 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 2: The ranch is perfect, like it's like the perfect time 587 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 2: and here where it's I saw a rattlesnake. Though yesterday 588 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 2: I know you would not like this, and you the 589 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 2: only thing anyone that likes those Eric shanks. We actually 590 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 2: went back and good on our rattlesnakes. Because there's three 591 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 2: kinds of snakes that you see out here, a gardener snake, 592 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 2: a gopher snake, and a rattlesnake. Don't kill the gardener 593 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 2: or the gopher snakes you want them because the garfer 594 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 2: snakes will go off to the gophers. Gardener snakes are harmless. 595 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 2: Rattlesnakes like because they can kill you. If I came up, 596 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 2: I went to go, like, hose down Larry the pig 597 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: because it's starting to get a little hot. 598 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 3: This was last summer, those Larry the Pig. 599 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm peeing my pants with ken Jong and you're hosing 600 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 1: down Larry the Pig. 601 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 3: I mean, look at us, and then you're kinds of 602 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 3: snooze in parents. Yeah, not for me. What I went 603 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 3: to dow just a simple goal. Stars are just like us. 604 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 2: The rattlesnake was coiled up like it was like this, 605 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 2: and the head was up and I went to open 606 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 2: the gate and I just looked down and I was 607 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 2: like like, because then they're in striking boat, Like that 608 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 2: thing could have just went and killed me. I'm also 609 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere, so if that thing bites me, 610 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 2: I'm fucked. 611 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 3: Like I'm dead. 612 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly. So you have to like get it air, 613 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 2: you have to be airlifted. It's a whole thing. So 614 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 2: when I saw one yesterday, I was like, slowly back away, 615 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 2: slowly back away, and. 616 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 3: I just let it go. 617 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 2: I was like, eh, because it was kind of out 618 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere. I was feeding I have 619 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 2: another dog I haven't. 620 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 3: Talked to you about. 621 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, sweet neighbor who lives on like a 622 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: different property, a couple like miles away. She passed away 623 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 2: really suddenly, and she had before she passed away, she 624 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 2: told me like, if I you know, I'm not going 625 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,400 Speaker 2: to come back, and can you can you be Lollipop's mom? 626 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 2: I mean, talk about crying. So a dog, another great Pyrenees, 627 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 2: those big white ones. There's a reason that there's like 628 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 2: a ton of them up here is because they're ranch 629 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: dogs and they protect your chickens and all the other stuff. Anyways, 630 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: but this dog doesn't want to come with me because 631 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 2: it like lives there. So every time I go down there, 632 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 2: it's like timid. It won't let me pet it whatever. 633 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 2: So I'm just slowly but surely like reminding it. I'm like, 634 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm your mother. Uh but yeah, that was where the 635 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 2: Rattlesnake was. You know, I'm just out here. You're out 636 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: in London. I'm out on the ranch. Different kinds of 637 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 2: problems and situations present themselves, but here we are. 638 00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: I love so happy to see you. I really miss you. 639 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 1: Oh god, I know I really miss you. I miss 640 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 1: our group, I miss everything. Hey, shaking of this and 641 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: I think it's there's so many things in my fifteen 642 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: hour day. 643 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 3: I was just thinking about with this. I know we 644 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 3: were texting about it. 645 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: Shout out to our girl Taylor Swift forgetting her music MACS. 646 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: I was thinking about it, and I know rad I 647 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,719 Speaker 1: texted about it, but I was thinking about it more 648 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: and more, and like, look, we don't know the inside 649 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: story about like what it was like for her trying 650 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: to recreate the music. Obviously have heard about it, but 651 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: I when you think about the message that you never 652 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: want her to go through that and what it the 653 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 1: battle that was, but the message that that sent out 654 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: to women, like don't give up, go after what's yours, 655 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: like if. 656 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. 657 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: I just really like was thinking about that so much 658 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: last night when that news hit about she didn't give up. 659 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: She showed people like I will get it back. It 660 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: has a way of working itself out. I just think 661 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: that's so powerful. And at the time when it was 662 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: all happening, I wonder if she even thought that that 663 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: was what was the message that was out there. 664 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Yeah, this is not the same, 665 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 2: But all I could think about in that moment of like, 666 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,040 Speaker 2: how would I feel if something that was mine was 667 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 2: taken away from me without the opportunity to even have it. 668 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 2: Was going through a divorce and when she tries to 669 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 2: take things that are not theirs and legally you have 670 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 2: to hand it over or you have to do things 671 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 2: or give money, and you're like, it's not yours, it's 672 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:36,719 Speaker 2: not yours. 673 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: I worked so hard for this exactly, And essentially that's 674 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: kind of what she went through, was a divorce from 675 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 1: her manager and then yeah, she lost it with hers. 676 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: It's such a powerful message about it is with it. 677 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 2: And so to get that back, like I would feel 678 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: the same way, and I can't imagine too, Like you know, 679 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 2: mine was a monetary situation, but like when you think 680 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 2: about this with music, like that's your heart and soul 681 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 2: and blood, and that's your experiences and then for somebody 682 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 2: else to just own that is so like it feels like, 683 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 2: I don't know, probably feels like you've been robbed, right, 684 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,479 Speaker 2: or a number of different feelings in terms of like 685 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 2: something personal to you and how somebody else gets to. 686 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 3: Say it's theirs. 687 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, anyone that knows us knows how. 688 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 3: Much we love and care about that Gal. So happy 689 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 3: for her that she has that back, So happy for her. 690 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 691 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 2: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 692 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts.