1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: My coworker excluded me from his wedding because I'm single. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: That's so rude. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 3: Singleism. Don't do it, kids. 4 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: So I've been working for my company for seven years now, 5 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: five of which have been spent on my current team. 6 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: There are fifteen people on it, and I'd say we 7 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 1: are all pretty close relatively speaking. I have a coworker 8 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 1: named Bob thirty three mail disgusting, who joined the team 9 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: when I did. By the way, this comes from Weddings 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: Invite sixty nine and if you want to send in 11 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: your story, go to our slash Okay story time. Yes, 12 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: that rhymed boom. During the pandemic, he announced to everyone 13 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: on a Zoom meeting that he was now engaged. 14 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 3: Hooray, Oh my god. 15 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: But fast forward to this January and Bob says that 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: his wedding would be held in September of this year 17 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: at a really beautiful winery. About five months ago, the 18 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: invite started coming in for everyone on the team but mine. 19 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: Oh what everyone on the team? 20 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: Everyone but mine but mine? 21 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: Sophia, what did you do? I waited a few weeks, okay, 22 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: but nothing came. So I went to Bob and asked 23 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: him if my invite got sent out. Oh put a 24 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: very cringey icy the comments. If you see what's about 25 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: to cringely happen. He gave me a solemn look and 26 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: told me that I wasn't invited because of a spacing 27 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: issue that just. 28 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: Hits just a dagger to the heart when everyone else 29 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: is invited. 30 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 4: But you spacing issue. Wouldn't that be good because you're 31 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 4: one person? 32 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because it's easier. 33 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 3: Hey, there's an odd table boom. Put him in. 34 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: My other John two scared Sophia, frightening my face, spitting 35 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: out fortune cookies was to intimidating. He said he tried 36 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: to make it work but he just couldn't and hoped 37 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 1: that I didn't take it personally. 38 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 2: I would take it intensely personally. 39 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,919 Speaker 1: He also said that I'd be sure to get wedding 40 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: favors and a piece of. 41 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: Cake that's like rubbing salt on the wound. 42 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, just like just yeah, just don't even do that. 43 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: He also asked me to keep it to myself and 44 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: please not make a big deal out of it. I 45 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: honestly didn't know what to say, so I guess I 46 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: just said okay and walked away. 47 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 3: I won't lie. I was upset. 48 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: I hate feeling excluded, and it was doubly worse because 49 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: everyone else on the team was going except for me. 50 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: And honestly, I really like weddings. They're usually very fun. 51 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: I kept it to myself, but I wasn't happy. The 52 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: day of the wedding came three weeks ago and it 53 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: went by without a hitch. 54 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 3: Everyone on my team had a grand time and said 55 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 3: it was beautiful. 56 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: The food and party was great as well, and apparently 57 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: everyone got a dozen fresh apple cider donuts. Everyone got 58 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: a dozen fresh apple side That is a fy your. 59 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 3: Wedding party favor man, And I never even got that 60 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: cake or wedding favors. 61 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 2: By the way, if anyone told me, just in general 62 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: that they got a fresh apple side er donut, I'm 63 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: sawing angry any circumstance, and I don't get one on 64 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: the floor. 65 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: Honestly, they should be in jail. They should be How 66 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: dare they think it's legal to tell the Queen? 67 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 3: Hey, I am eating an apple sider donut. It's delicious. 68 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: I'm loving it. Where's and not one for the Queen? 69 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 2: What were we taught in school? If you don't have 70 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: enough to share it with the class. Don't don't bring 71 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: it in. 72 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 3: That's true. Don't bring it up in Florida. 73 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: They just said, hey, if someone brings in something, then 74 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: just defend yourself. 75 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: Just stand your ground kids, That's what they told us. 76 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: They said, stand your ground because they will attack you 77 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: for what you have. 78 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 3: Fool, stay in your ground. That's what they said to 79 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 3: the chun Florida education system. 80 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: So at work the following Monday, my team member Sherry 81 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: told me that everyone was confused. 82 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: As to where I was. Apparently Bob said I was 83 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: sick and couldn't make it. 84 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 2: You're gonna lie, You're gonna lie. 85 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: Come on, Bobby, Bobby, Bob, you are doing f up 86 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: after f up, I was confused and then pissed. I 87 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: straight up told her I wasn't invited and left it 88 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: at that. She looked shocked and asked me to confirm, 89 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: and I said, yes, I wasn't invited. Well, Sherry told someone, 90 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: because about five people asked me if I wasn't invited, 91 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: and I said it was true. Today was Bob's first 92 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: day back after his honeymoon, and it must have gotten 93 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: back to him that I spilled the beans. 94 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 3: He approached me. 95 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: In the break room, and he was upset that I 96 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: told Sherry that it wasn't a big deal. I missed 97 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: the wedding. I said, how would you like to be 98 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: excluded from something everyone else is going to. We went 99 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: back and forth a bit before Bob walked away. I 100 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: was pretty upset, so upset that my project manager came 101 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,559 Speaker 1: to ask me if I was okay because she heard 102 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: about me not being invited. I didn't want it to 103 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: go this far, so I said yes. But other team 104 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,119 Speaker 1: members came up to me and said that Bob should 105 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: have invited me, and it was wrong that he didn't. 106 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: At least the teammates got crazy. 107 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: You've got a consensus among the team that you should 108 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 2: have been there, so you should feel vindicated, even if 109 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 2: you don't have your donuts. 110 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 3: That is true. 111 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: That is true, and we should feel vindicated that the 112 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: s the other Queen Hannah has donated forty dollars in 113 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: the members only Life, Ladies and Gentlemen. Hannah, the mother 114 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: freaking goat who needs no words to prove her go 115 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: to not a word. 116 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 3: Not a single peep. But we will get back to 117 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: the story. 118 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: So look, I realized that it was his wedding day, 119 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: and he's allowed to invite who he wants, but I'm 120 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: allowed to be upset that I wasn't invited? Right, So, Reddit, 121 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: am I the a hole for telling people that I 122 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: wasn't invited to the wedding and being. 123 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 3: Upset about it? Edit? 124 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: Sorry, I forgot to put in the original post that 125 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old male quick atit to Wow. Guys, 126 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: thanks for the support. My inbox is not banging for mercy. 127 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: We have an update after this. But let's answer Opie's question. 128 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: Is he the a hole? 129 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: No, because it's not like he went around and just unprompted, 130 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: said yes, I wasn't invited to this wedding. Where's my 131 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: note at? He didn't do that. Someone said, hey, like 132 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: why weren't you at the wedding? 133 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 3: Or heard you were sick? 134 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 2: You're feeling better? He was like, oh no, I wasn't invited. 135 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 3: Simply the truth. He didn't stir the pot anymore, simple facts. 136 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 3: Talk to me. 137 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 4: Question, Yes, Devil's advocate. Two things. One is he weird too? 138 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 4: Did the bride he had a weird feel from him 139 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 4: at a work party and is like, oh I don't 140 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 4: like him, don't buy him. 141 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: Three the bride is in love with. 142 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: Him, intrigue. Totally possible that we have a bad narrator here. 143 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 4: That's a conspiracy theory. So for you, that's yeah, it's you. 144 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: I see you. 145 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 4: What did you just get those confused? 146 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: I see you the bride going to say that I 147 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: love you. 148 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 4: It's a conspiracy theory. 149 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: No, that's a nice but so far, Yeah, I mean, 150 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: it's totally possible that there's a bad narrator here as 151 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: of now, just totally just having to guess from what 152 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: we're going on. I'm gonna say that OPI seems like 153 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: a pretty chill, rational dude. 154 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: But it seems like he's well liked within the office. 155 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: Everyone's asking Hi about oh hey, they're like because they 156 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: were like, oh man. 157 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: I missed you. Yeah, essentially, yeah, I. 158 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 2: Wouldn't do that to someone I didn't like. I probably 159 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: wouldn't have brought up the wedding at all if I 160 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 2: didn't like them. 161 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: But it is possible. 162 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: Maybe in this update we learned that op is actually 163 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: for Coca Buffs. We don't know, but there's only one 164 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: way to find out. 165 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 3: Updates. 166 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: I want to thank you all for the responses, especially 167 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: for the wedding invites. 168 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 3: That is fire. 169 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: I'm just getting tons of wedding You know what I want. 170 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: I don't want a wedding invite. I want a donut. 171 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: Where is my fresh apple cider donut? 172 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: Sophia's like inbox full of wedding invites. I want an 173 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: inbox full of freakin' donuts. 174 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, that's. 175 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: Clearly the worst thing that happened in this story. 176 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: I really wanted a donut. 177 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 2: Right, doesn't that sound great? 178 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: This is tough, This is tough. 179 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: Anyways, Well, I have an update to the story, and 180 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: it took an interesting turn. You see, Bob and I 181 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: were in the office today. He came to me and 182 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: asked if we could talk. He asked if we could 183 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: clear the air over some drinks with his wife after work, 184 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: and I said okay. After work, I met Bob and 185 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: his wife Pam in the bar. They both apologize for 186 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: not inviting me and making me feel excluded. Bob apologized 187 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: for lying and getting mad about it. The reason they 188 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: didn't invite me is because they didn't want single guys 189 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: at the wedding. They went to a big wedding back 190 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen. We're getting some explanation that was ruined 191 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: when a bunch of wasted single guys started hitting on 192 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: all of the women there. A few of the boyfriends 193 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: and husbands got pissed and it turned into a big fight. 194 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: People were arrested and it completely ruined the wedding. 195 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 2: What I feel like, that's not that's not them being single, 196 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: It's just them being terrible, Sophia. 197 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: Two things happened. One there were single men there. Two 198 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: they got wasted, hit on a bunch of women and 199 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: ruin the party. Therefore, every if you are a single man, 200 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: you will go to a wedding, you will get wasted, 201 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: and you will ruin it. 202 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 3: That's a fact, does it. 203 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 2: That's called correlation, right, No, I'm correlation, not causation. 204 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 3: No, No, it is facts. It is facts. 205 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: See another example for you, John Riley, Sam going to 206 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: our our good friend's wedding in the summer. 207 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: Right yeah, John and Riley not single. We are committed. 208 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 2: Sam. 209 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 3: Well, well, now get arrested. 210 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: It is Austin they get they get so anyways, just kidding, 211 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: I love you Sam, So a. 212 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 4: What if we could get him arrested? That would be 213 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 4: so funny, just to prove the story, right. 214 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 3: Just to prove that the point is true. 215 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,719 Speaker 4: What could he get arrested for and be okay with 216 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 4: mine's urinating outside? I'd be all right with that. 217 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to pull a you and get back to 218 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: the stories I'm going to produce myself right here, yo. 219 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: So I found it hard to believe, but they showed 220 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: me a couple of Facebook videos of them at a 221 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: wedding and it looks like a dang Royale rumble going on. 222 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: I was even shown a few Facebook statuses confirming their story. 223 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: Pam said that she was sort of traumatized by this 224 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: and swore they'd have no single guys at their wedding 225 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: so stupid. Well, the wedding came and Pam stuck to 226 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: what she said. Only family couples, single women, or trusted 227 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: single men were to be invited. 228 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: Ooh that see, but that burns. That burns because you're 229 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 2: not a trusted single man. 230 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: Pam said that there were only about ten single guys 231 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: there and they were all family members or groomsmen. She 232 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: said that the party turned out amazing this way since 233 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: women didn't have to worry about being hit on. Pam 234 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: said it truly wasn't personal and that he's so sorry 235 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: for not inviting me, but would do it again. I 236 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: asked if she and Bob didn't trust me enough to 237 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: control myself. She said that Bob vouched hard for me, 238 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: but she was sticking to her principles. The compromise was 239 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: that she'd have to explain it if anyone asked, and 240 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: that Bob got to choose the honeymoon destination. 241 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 2: It seems like she didn't explain it though, or I 242 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 2: think it was like asked her directly. 243 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 3: Perhaps she'd have to explain it if anyone asked, so, 244 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: which is exactly what happened. 245 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so oh oh now it's happening. 246 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, because Op asked. Yes, Bob was like, hey remember that, Yeah, 247 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 3: made you promised. 248 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 2: I feel like they should have preempted this. Yeah, so 249 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 2: that people aren't like. 250 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 3: What the heck? True? True? Yeah, Bob told the truth. Yeah. 251 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: If we're going to say it anyways, you might as 252 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: well do it before people are. 253 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 3: Not a spacing issue. 254 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Come, I don't lie currently. 255 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: She said that she had a sister around my age 256 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: and I was just her type and she wanted. 257 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 3: To keep her away from me, lock her away. 258 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: I was a little offended at that, but she says 259 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: that it's for my own good. 260 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 3: I know what's best for you, OPI. Her sister is 261 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: a little bit of a salute her words, not mine, yoinks, 262 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 3: and she didn't want to get her hooks in me 263 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 3: again her words. Wow. Bob said he should have. 264 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: Handled it better, and he wanted to be honest, but 265 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: it wouldn't have made much of a difference, so he 266 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: hoped I wouldn't mind as much. Plus, he figured I 267 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to go to a wedding as a single 268 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: guy anyways. 269 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: What but isn't that like the thing, like you go 270 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 2: to the wedding. 271 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 3: That's the whole thing. 272 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 2: That's like, there's so many movies about this. Four Weddings 273 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: at a Funeral. Didn't like that movie. 274 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 3: Actually, I haven't seen it. It's just a bunch of cheating. 275 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: All the all the. 276 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: Wrong comps are cheating. I'm sorry. 277 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 2: I know all of them have cheating in it, and 278 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 2: I hate it. Why it pisses me off? 279 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 3: Why do they do with Sophia? 280 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm like, is this romantic? 281 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 3: Can we just find someone and be with them and 282 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 3: not come on? Anyways? Also, Amelia hamp he should ask 283 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 3: for compensation. 284 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: Donutsy, Oh my gosh, yeah, you should say, hey, yeah, 285 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: totally get it, but you promised I. 286 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 3: Wouldn't get cake. 287 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: You want to settle out of quarantine. Here's my deal, 288 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: one hundred apple cider donuts. 289 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 2: I want a Baker's one hundred. 290 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 3: A Baker's one hund clean and simple. 291 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: I told them that I was kind of hurt they 292 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: thought that I would act like a creeper at their wedding. 293 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: Pam assured me that she saw I was a nice, smart, 294 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: funny guy, but she just wanted to make sure their 295 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: wedding went off without a hitch. They promised to make 296 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: it up to me, but I told them it wasn't necessary. 297 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: Pam insisted on it and said that I had to 298 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: know how sorry she was, so we made plans to 299 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: have dinner at their expense at a very nice restaurant 300 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: in the city this weekend. So in the end, I 301 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: guess it wasn't anything I did, but I still feel 302 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: kind of insulted, but I guess I get a free 303 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: dinner out of it. 304 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 3: At it. There are a lot of comments here suggesting 305 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 3: that I'm being naive, a door mated and letting them 306 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 3: off easy for basically calling me a creep. I won't lie. 307 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 3: I think you all might be right. 308 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: I do believe in the high road on most occasions, 309 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: but I don't think this should be one of those times. 310 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: As a side note, I don't believe that wanting to 311 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 1: see the best in people or taking them at their 312 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: work makes you naive. I had a call an hour 313 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: ago with my project manager and explain the entire situation. 314 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: She advised me to go to HR and make. 315 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: A complaint since it could lead to a hostile work. 316 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 4: Environment, because it could get to favoritism too as well. 317 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 3: Ooh, I have a meeting with him set on Monday. 318 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: I don't really want to make a formal complaint just 319 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: to have it on file in case anything happens. To 320 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: be honest, I don't think it will. Bob doesn't seem 321 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: like that kind of person, but I've been wrong plenty 322 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 1: of times before. As per the advice here, I won't 323 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 1: be going to dinner with Bob and Pam. I will, however, 324 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: insist on a public apology that doesn't imply that I'm 325 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: a creep, and insisting on some fresh apple cider donuts 326 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: who not store bought but fresh, trash fresh. Thank you 327 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: for making me see the truth throughout it, although I'm disappointed, 328 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm turning down some wagoo steak, so all of you 329 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: owe me one haha. And then final update. I can't 330 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: post any further updates on the sub. I'll post more 331 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: on the profile and guess what OP gives us yet 332 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: another update. 333 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 3: We're not even halfway through the story. 334 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 2: If it's not a recipe for an apple cider Dona, 335 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: then I don't want this. 336 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 3: Update, Sophia. 337 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: I want to pour some bone chilling rain on this parade, 338 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: some bone chilling rain. I'm gonna give you, Sofia, Sofia, Sofia. 339 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a real life example, a firsthand, 340 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: real life example. Yeah, I worked at a company. Yeah 341 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: there was someone hired there literally the same time as me. 342 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 3: But work. 343 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: Let's let's call this person Sarah, right, Sarah's getting married Sarah, 344 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: and then Sally right, Sally what we were hired around 345 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: the same time. 346 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 4: Those are my cousin's names. 347 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 3: I won't I won't say anything further than that. 348 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: But Sarah, Sarah invited Sally to the wedding, right, they 349 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: did work closer together. I did not get invited to 350 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: the wedding. I was at the time a twenty year 351 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: old mate. 352 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: Hot. That is not what I was going for. Hot. 353 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 3: It was like, I am a prime physical condition, you know, 354 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: I'm like basically a college kid. 355 00:14:55,440 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, both we probably I worked with Sarah. Let's ten 356 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: months something like the close to a year before the 357 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: actual wedding happens, so obviously the planning and the invites 358 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: is way before that all of that. Jazz I did 359 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: not receive an invite to this wedding. 360 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 3: Was I kind of hurt? Yeah? I was like, ah, dang, 361 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 3: that would have been fun. 362 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: Like all my friends that worked there, like or a 363 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: lot a lot of other people I knew that were 364 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: mutuals and everything were going right. However, I was like, 365 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: you know, it's her wedding, Like she probably wanted to 366 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: keep it kind of small, so I said, you know, 367 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything to her or anything, you know. 368 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: So I'm kind of a little bit struggling here. I do, like, 369 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: I hate the reason they didn't invite him. I hate 370 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: that they invited everyone else. I hate that Bob Liede, 371 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: I hate that the PAM was like like again, insinuating like. 372 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 3: All of this stuff. 373 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: But if we get to the bottom line, could we 374 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: not say that, hey, this is her wedding and whatever 375 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: she wants to do, just go with I think it. 376 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: Is No, I think it is totally her choice. It's 377 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 2: just kind of rude. Like it can still be rude 378 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: and still fully be her choice. 379 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, hey, you are well within your right to 380 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: do this, but it also is rude. Two things can 381 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: be true at. 382 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 3: The same time. 383 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:04,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, I don't think you could, you know, necessarily 384 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 2: go out and like complain to everyone at the office 385 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 2: and be like this is unacceptable. 386 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 3: But you can be like that was kind of, you know, 387 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: kind of messed up. I agree with this take. I 388 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 3: agree with this take. Excellent, But we're going. 389 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: To get into and see what because we're not even 390 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: halfway through this. Oh boy, we've got a lot more. 391 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: We've got a lot of recipes to get through. 392 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: We are cooking, so buckle UPO update to more context. 393 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: Hey everyone, thanks for stopping by. I am only allowed 394 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: one update here, so I'm going to provide more detail 395 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: with a self post. Unfortunately, there isn't an update to 396 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: the story yet. Honestly, this thing is stup a hack 397 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: and I really just want to move on and forget 398 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: this whole thing. Happened, but reality is often disappointing. But 399 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: first I want to clarify a few things. I had 400 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: to omit a lot of information because of the character 401 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: counts for the story. 402 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 3: I got a few. 403 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: Posts and dms asking why I felt entitled to be invited. 404 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: I want to make it clear I don't feel entitled 405 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: to anything. Yes, I wanted to be invited, but as 406 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: I said, if they had been honest with me from 407 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: the beginning, I wouldn't have minded as much. They were 408 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: allowed to do what they wanted on on their wedding day. 409 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: My problem was the subterfuge. I hope, I said, They're right, 410 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: used to mask their choice. 411 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 412 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 2: But like deception, I learned. 413 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 3: Two new words. What shog run roaho. 414 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 4: Rogan something like that something. 415 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: And subtrifuge subterfuge, which is a great word. I've heard 416 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: it a million times, but I never actually knew. 417 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like like you're doing You're pulling all these 418 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 2: tactics to like. 419 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 4: Run rugshod, run rugshod, run rugshod. I mean, I don't 420 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 4: know what's to completely ignore the opinions, rights, or feelings 421 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 4: of others. 422 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 2: Someone says rugs Jellybus says rugshod. 423 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting learning words today. I'm not usually this indecisive, 424 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 1: but this is a weird situation and I don't exactly 425 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: know how to handle it. And I've never talked to 426 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: Bob about women ever. We don't have that kind of relationship. 427 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 1: None of the men on my team do. I think 428 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: the women do it amongst themselves, but I can't be 429 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 1: sure about that. I'm choosing to believe Pam about her 430 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: experience dealing with men. If recent year have shown us 431 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 1: anything is that we need to believe women when they 432 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: say they've been harassed or worse. The trusted men quote 433 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 1: unquote were made up of family members and groomsmen who 434 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: were explicitly told. 435 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: Not to flirt with the women. 436 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: Pam had to turn away some of her single guy friends, 437 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: and Bob had a crap ton of guy friends who 438 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: wanted to go, but were also turned away. Bob and 439 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: Pam's after party was going for a club vibe. Pam 440 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 1: and some of her friends had very bad experiences being 441 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: hit on at clubs, and Pam wanted to ensure their safety. 442 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: She got the idea to exclude guys from going to 443 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 1: women only clubs. According to her, the vibe was so 444 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: much better when women could get wasted and shake their 445 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:40,479 Speaker 1: booties and not be harassed by thirsty guys, which is 446 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: like a totally valid and you know, like this is 447 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: the thing that I would appreciate. 448 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 2: Probably yes, But also I'm just like wondering, why are 449 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: you friends with people that you think. 450 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: Would do this? You know, that's the question that begs 451 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 3: to be asked. 452 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 2: Because like I would say, all of my male friends, 453 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 2: I would trust, like we trust them, all of them 454 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 2: to come to you know, party like this and for 455 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 2: me to not be or my friends to not be harassed. 456 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 3: So I'm like, that is the question, why are you 457 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 3: friends with these people? 458 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: And apparently Bob had a whole freaking gaggle of them 459 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 1: in a gaggle? So is there is there some misalignment here? 460 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: Is there something that's gonna happen between Bob and Pam once? Yeah, Bob, 461 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just I'm not saying an icy you, 462 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: but I'm saying an icy question. 463 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 3: Was that? What was that for Riley? 464 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 4: That's what Bob's gonna doing? 465 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 3: Bob for Oh, he was just uh. 466 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 4: Bob's coming gonna come in logging. 467 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 3: Shout out to Hannah Now. 468 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: The women at the wedding appreciated the lack of guys 469 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: on the dance floor, but some complained about the lack 470 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: of guys at the wedding because I, like Sophia said, 471 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: ratio off, it's a. 472 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 3: Common show up to the wedding, and I'm like, it's 473 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 3: a rendezvous spine, if you know what I'm saying. 474 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: The Royal rumble happened at the wedding of one of 475 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: their closest friends. The friend and her husband were devastated. 476 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 3: Their wedding was ruined. 477 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: It was so bad they committed to having a five 478 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: year val reyne whole getting crazy. 479 00:19:56,000 --> 00:20:00,160 Speaker 2: Their wedding was so bad that they that's. 480 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 3: Just run it back. Honestly, was having another wedding at 481 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 3: that point. That's why I would do. 482 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 2: Like that one didn't count everyone who ruined our wedding. 483 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 2: Pay us, Yes, pay us for another one. 484 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 3: There we go. I like that. 485 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 1: Also, they were stuck with a large cleanup bill from 486 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 1: the venue for damages. 487 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: God the wow, definitely you've been at this wedding. 488 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 3: I want to see this, I was gonna say. 489 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that would be great to be 490 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 2: at this wedding. But actually I don't know if I 491 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 2: would want to be at this wedding given the problem 492 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 2: was women being harass, So may I don't want to 493 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 2: be at the. 494 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: Wedding maybe one you want to sit out. As for me, 495 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: it was seventy thirty on me being invited. It all 496 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: came down to that Pat didn't know me at all 497 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: outside of my super Maudio maker level design. Love that 498 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,479 Speaker 1: Bob really fought hard for me, but Pam was too unsure. 499 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 1: And then she remembered her sister. According to Pam, although 500 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: she loves her sister to death, again, this is her 501 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: talking about her sister, her sister is a huge salute 502 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: and goes from guy to guy with the change of 503 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: the wind. 504 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 2: Which is her right. 505 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yo, Pam is like that Pammy to judging. 506 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 2: Your sister is an adult, Like what do we do? 507 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 1: And also I'm sorry, but my money is that like 508 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 1: she's actually just like living her life and is like 509 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,360 Speaker 1: not that big of a deal at all and nowhere 510 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: close to warrant her sister calling her that to a 511 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: near stranger. 512 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just like very judgmental, not. 513 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 3: So just mental. 514 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 4: It also hurt that you're getting get invited, and you 515 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 4: could have had a date there waiting for you. 516 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 517 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, One she tells you you're no invited. Two, there 518 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 2: would be a person there who would be like super 519 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 2: into you. 520 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, she'd be so into you. 521 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 4: Less things even more. 522 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 3: Wow, dude, good point, Riley. 523 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: Apparently I'm dangerously her type and she would have been 524 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: all over me. I asked what was wrong with that, 525 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 1: and she said her sister doesn't deserve a sweet guy 526 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: like me, and she didn't want her to get her 527 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 1: hooks in me. 528 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 3: Yike, She's like, I. 529 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 2: Love my sister, but she doesn't deserve sweet people. 530 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: Golly, Pam, Pam, you can get worse and worse. Yeah, 531 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: Macer's racer says, I hate Pam. Dude, this sealed my fate. 532 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: Bob said it would look horrible if I wasn't invited. 533 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 1: That's when she came up with a compromise of taking 534 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: the heat for it. He was just hoping that I 535 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't mind not going. Maybe out naive, but I'm choosing 536 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: to believe Bob about feeling horrible for not inviting me. 537 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: He seemed really broken up about it. Either he's a 538 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: dang good actor or he is telling the truth. He 539 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 1: acknowledged that the way he handled it was terrible. According 540 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 1: to him, there was no way of doing this that 541 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: wasn't awkward. As for why he lied, apparently he panicked 542 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: and couldn't think of anything better than a spacing issue. 543 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: Him getting mad at me for not going along with 544 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: it wasn't necessarily about me, but being mad at Pam 545 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: for putting him in that situation. 546 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: Get that much about right. 547 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: He promised to make a full apology in front of 548 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: the team when we were all together in the office 549 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: again in a few weeks. Pam did say that she 550 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: felt terrible about me and the other guys she had 551 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: to exclude, but she would do it again to ensure 552 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: the safety of the woman around her. She was extremely 553 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: insistent on making it up to me. She said that 554 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: we should be friends going forward. Offered a nice home 555 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: cooked meal to me, followed by some. 556 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 3: Wine and a round of Mario Kart. 557 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: I'm guessing by the way Opie works on Mario Kart, 558 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: which is fire because he said she didn't know me 559 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: except for making around. 560 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 3: Maybe they were just playing. 561 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's it, Like there's like some games on Mario 562 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 4: you can like create levels and everything like that. Yeah, 563 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,880 Speaker 4: it's probably a nerd. 564 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: I just got really excited that OPI was Mariot. 565 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 3: That would have been pretty dang. 566 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 4: I mean, we can still think that we should play it. 567 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 3: Okay, we should play should we need to have another 568 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 3: game night? That's true, that's true. 569 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 4: But you know what I'd be doing if I was OPI, 570 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 4: I was a single guy. Hey, Pam's sister, you want 571 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 4: to play some Mario Kart? Yeah? 572 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 3: You DM her. 573 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 2: Like, what's up? What's up? 574 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 3: What's up? Shot a up? You're amazing? And I want 575 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 3: to buy you a dinner and give you the world. 576 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, and just be like, oh, do you guys mind 577 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 4: if we do like a double date. 578 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 2: I think Pam would be like that. 579 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 3: I think she would be. 580 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 4: But then but then we get to her, but you 581 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 4: get some blackmail on Pam so that she can't say that. 582 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,879 Speaker 4: If she does say something, then you let everyone know. 583 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 3: I think you just don't go have dinner with Pam. 584 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 3: You just DM the sisters. 585 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 4: Now we got to make Pam suffer a little bit here. 586 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 4: We're gotta make Pam boil inside, just absolutely rage. 587 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 3: Or one hundred Apple cider donuts. That's the deal. 588 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 2: That's my deal. 589 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: I get the donuts bore. I say it, I get 590 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 3: to date. 591 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 2: Your sister, or you give me one hundred donuts. 592 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 3: That's the deal. John? 593 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 4: How many? 594 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 3: How many? What? 595 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 4: How many? 596 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 3: Are you asking you? What? I think? How many? 597 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: There is no amount of donuts, money, or anything in 598 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: the world. 599 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 4: You don't know how many you could. 600 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 2: What what are Oh? Hi, I don't think he was 601 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 2: asking I think as how high? 602 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 4: How many? 603 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 3: Riley? 604 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: No, this is a terrible No, Riley, why would you 605 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 2: desecrate the donuts? 606 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 1: I thought you were saying one thing, which was terrible. 607 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 1: You were saying another thing, which is also terrible, which is. 608 00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: Equally as terrible, but in a whole different way. 609 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: So I am once again going to pull a U 610 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: and produce myself back into the story. 611 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 4: I just want to know. 612 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 1: So that's when the expensive restaurant solution was offered. Okay, 613 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 1: I accepted because it seemed like a fair compromise at 614 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: the time. They didn't even have to really apologize for it. 615 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: But they were offering me dinner, so I took it. 616 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: I'll take a free, fancy dinner. Yeah, in hindsight, I 617 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: shouldn't have, but at that point I just wanted to 618 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: get out of there. 619 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 3: And go home now for shh. So, after reading the comments. 620 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: Calling me a doormat, I decided to not accept their 621 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 1: dinner offer. 622 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 3: So we took it back. We took it back. 623 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 1: We are absolutely not going to do this dinner. I 624 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 1: called Bob on his work phone to explain my change 625 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: of heart. He was disappointed, but understood by reasoning. I 626 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: parroted some of the talking points, and he said he understood. 627 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 1: He wouldn't make a big deal out of it and 628 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: we could just move on. I thanked him for being 629 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: cool about it, and he hung up. I thought that 630 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: would be the end of it, but not five minutes 631 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: later and Bob calls me back. I grown and pick 632 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 1: up the phone. So surprisingly it was Pam on the 633 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: other side. 634 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 3: Pam stays doing too much? What too much? 635 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 2: Leave this poor man alone? 636 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 3: We be doing too much. 637 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: She didn't come at me hostile, but she did sound upset. 638 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: She wanted to know why I didn't want to come anymore. 639 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 1: I explained what I told Bob about how they basically 640 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: insisted I was a creep. I told her I didn't 641 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: want to involidate her experiences, but I didn't have to 642 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: accept being told I'm a potential predator okay, and I'm 643 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: not talking about the movie that I haven't seen, she said, 644 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: and that she didn't mean it like that, and she 645 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: thinks that I'm a good person, but couldn't risk it 646 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: for her wedding. She was practically begging me to meet 647 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 1: her in person to clear the air further. She kept 648 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 1: on saying that we could be the best of friends 649 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 1: if I'd given her the chance to explain better. But 650 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: low key, Pam, you already had to sit down to 651 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: fully explain. 652 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you had your moment. You could have taken all 653 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 2: that time in the lead up to prep a response. 654 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 2: You could have invited him to the wedding. There were 655 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,919 Speaker 2: a lot of should have, could have, would us. And 656 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,159 Speaker 2: also someone earlier in the chat had a good point 657 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: of Pam saying that he's too good for her sister, 658 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 2: but also implying that he can't come to the wedding 659 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 2: because he's a creep. 660 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 3: Yes, so I just don't think they'd like op. 661 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 4: I think they think OPI's weird, and I think they 662 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 4: won't say it, and they're trying to bribe them with 663 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,239 Speaker 4: food to shut them up. 664 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: I will say I do think they're being honest because 665 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 1: of just how quite honestly the detail of what they're saying. 666 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,160 Speaker 1: But it's like you can do with what you want 667 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 1: with your wedding. But also Bob, like, I wonder if 668 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: Bob had any of his friends at this way. 669 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't seem like none of the men were 670 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 2: allowed to come, or at least like nut like or 671 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 2: single men. 672 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it did, like almost zero percent of his single 673 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 1: male friends come. And let's assume he has mostly male 674 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: friends because he is a guy that. 675 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 3: Kind of sucks. That would suck, That would suck. 676 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: I said no, thanks, and then I had to go, 677 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: but I'm sorry that she went through what she went through. 678 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: I ended the call by saying, by the way, I 679 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: didn't even get those donuts, and. 680 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 3: Then I hung up. 681 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 2: Yes, priorities, and also, you don't need to be friends, 682 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 2: Like why is Pam so insistent that they have to 683 00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 2: be friends. You don't have to be friends. Just apologize. 684 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 4: She's a people pleaser and she doesn't like when people. 685 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: We could because exactly soul mates don't tell Bob. 686 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like the people people pleaser one oh one 687 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 2: is when you like hurt someone and you're like, no, 688 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 2: but we can be friends. 689 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:19,479 Speaker 3: No, we don't need to be friends. 690 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: Just just cut it, cut it, cut it cut. It's 691 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 1: been quiet since then, but Bob is back in the 692 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 1: office on Monday, and I fear Pam might do something. 693 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 3: Drastic bring it. 694 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 1: I hope this thing is over, but I fear it 695 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: might not be. But in any case, I'll update if 696 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,679 Speaker 1: anything happens. And there's an update number three, And you 697 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna spoil the title. It is Bob's 698 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: wasted confession. That is the title of the next update. Sophia, 699 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: what do you think the confession is going to be. 700 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 3: There's a couple options. Yes. 701 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 2: One, he goes, I hate my wife Pam. Two, he goes, 702 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 2: oh pee, I'm in love with you. 703 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: Ooh. 704 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: Three he says I always wanted you at that wedding, 705 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 2: but Pam's force my hand. That was kind of a conversation. 706 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 3: You come in threes, not gonna lie. Number two. Yeah, 707 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 3: number two was kind of speaking to me right now, 708 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 3: drunken confession. I feel like that might be it. 709 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 2: Dude, number Wait, no, I have a better number three. 710 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 2: Number three there were never any donuts. 711 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: Now, that would be the saddest thing of all that 712 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: would make me bring tears to mind. That would make 713 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 1: me cry, real tears, real tears, ladies and gentlemen. But 714 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: we have the answer because good. I'm good for now, 715 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 1: thank you. Maybe after this we have the answer because 716 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: we have Update number three, Bob's wasted confession. 717 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 3: Hey everyone, Hi. 718 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: So, as I mentioned in my last update, I reached 719 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: out to Bob and explained that I wouldn't be taking 720 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: him and Pam up on their weekend dinner offer. 721 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 3: He was disappointed, but agreed with me. 722 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 1: Pam called me back a few minutes later and fought 723 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: hard to keep the plans. I declined and left it 724 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: at that, hoping that would be the end of it. 725 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: It wasn't, boy, and now this silly drama continues. I 726 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: went in two hours early on Monday so that way 727 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: I could potentially avoid a Bob after work chat. Those 728 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: are the worst chats we don't want to have after 729 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: we've worked all day. Surprisingly, Bob came in an hour early, 730 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 1: lining him up to potentially leave with me. Bob looked exhausted, 731 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: and I don't mean tired, I mean mentally. I've seen 732 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: Bob tired. We've worked many late nights and projects together. 733 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: I've seen him hung over. This wasn't any of that. 734 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: I almost can't describe it. He just looked worn down. 735 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 4: Dude, dude, time out, time out? Marriage did this to Bob. 736 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 4: I'm wondering if this one small issue happened between him 737 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 4: and a coworker, what other small issues has happened or 738 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 4: like come up? She was very stern about this part. 739 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 4: She seems like a stubborn person. What else is under 740 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 4: the veil here? Has there been a tsunami? 741 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: He said, many of my single male friends going to 742 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: go has he basically had a tsunami of people. 743 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 2: Saying like, hey, why wasn't I invited? 744 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's just like, I can't do it, do 745 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 3: this anymore. 746 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 2: He's like, I wanted them to come. 747 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 4: Dude, the amount of boys' nights he's not going to 748 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,479 Speaker 4: be invited to anymore. 749 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 750 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 2: They're like, wow, dude, you put your put your bros 751 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: second and your gardening tools first. 752 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 3: And Sophia doesn't do that. I don't do that. That's right. 753 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 4: That's right. 754 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 3: You heard me, put my gardening tools first. That's right. 755 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 3: She gardens. She plants. Okay, ladies and gentlemen, let it 756 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 3: be known. That's right. 757 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: So Bob shot me a nod sup, and I gave 758 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: him one back and. 759 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: We got to work. 760 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 1: I kept my meeting with or hr rep is a 761 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: wonderful lady named Sally. I told Sally the whole story, 762 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: and she said, in her fifteen years of work in. 763 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 3: HRF, she has never heard a more story. 764 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: We shared a good laugh, and she told me that 765 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: it would be unofficially logged just in case Bob or 766 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: Pam did anything crazy. 767 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 3: I see you in the comments. 768 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: She told me she thinks that Bob is harmless, but 769 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: to keep my eye sharp. The rest of the day 770 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: was uneventful. The most interesting thing that happened was I 771 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: saw Bob's face buried in his hands for a good 772 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: minute or so. 773 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:52,400 Speaker 3: Dang. 774 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: With two hours to go, I go to the break 775 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: room for some water. Bob follows me in and approaches cautiously. 776 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 1: I gave him a surprise look, and he just threw 777 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: his hands up as if to say, he's not hostile. 778 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm safe. I'm safe. Don't worry, don't worry. I come 779 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: in peace. I come in peace. He said. He knows 780 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm the last person I want to talk to you 781 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: right now, but he needs to talk to me. I said, fine, 782 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: but I angled us over to where the security camera was. 783 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 2: Whoa, oh, jeesus, it's getting serious in the bathroom in 784 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 2: the break in the breaker, Oh. 785 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 4: He was in the bathroom. I was like, oh really. 786 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 3: I went to the urinal cavage and got a good 787 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 3: full view. 788 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 4: In a way, I have cameras in my bathroom because 789 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 4: there's not a door to my to my bathroom, and 790 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 4: there's like so many cameras in. 791 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 3: You that is kind of you have. You have cameras, 792 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 3: very adjacent cameras near your bathroom, near your bathroom. 793 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: But I say, I can't tell if op is actually 794 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 2: like vindicated and all of this kind of like precautions 795 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 2: and stuff, or if Reddit's just getting. 796 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 3: To him explain that more well, because I haven't really. 797 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 2: Necessarily seen anything from Bob and Pam that seems like 798 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 2: they're trying to interfere with his work life. It feels 799 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 2: like they're. 800 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 3: Just making a mountain out of a mole hill kind of. 801 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 2: A little bit, Yeah, yeah, a little bit. So I'm 802 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 2: just wondering because it seems like all the Reddit people 803 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 2: were like, don't do this, or your work will be 804 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, infringed, bond, blah blah blah, and I 805 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 2: haven't seen proof. 806 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 3: Of that yet. Yeah, because like it's better to be 807 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 3: safe than sorry. 808 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: There's other people who didn't get inviting invited to weddings 809 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: in the workplace and didn't say anything and it was 810 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: it was all fine in the end, just saying some 811 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: people have done that. 812 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 3: So Obie says paraphrasing here, but he said. 813 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: I won't ever speak to your to you again if 814 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: you don't want me to, but let me buy you 815 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: around and explain all the things. 816 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 3: Pam didn't tell you. 817 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: When we met the other day, Bob sounded desperate, something 818 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: I'd never seen from him before. 819 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 3: Then he hit me with the money quote. 820 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 1: Look, man, I could really use a friend right now, 821 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: and I've always considered you a friend who because he 822 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: burned all. 823 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,479 Speaker 2: Over Ye, I'm gonna say Bob's all saw his friends. 824 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 2: Oh he's the last holdout, and he's like, I've got 825 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 2: one more person that I could possibly convince to be 826 00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 2: my friend. 827 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: And you know why he's asking Ope, specifically, he's the 828 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 1: only one he works with. So it's like, hey, this 829 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: guy can't fully avoid me, so let me let me 830 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: let me corner the one guy I can. You know, 831 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: everyone else is just friends. They can just you know, 832 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: go and it's over. Well, sorry to disappoint everyone here, 833 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,839 Speaker 1: but I'm a global softie. I agreed to talk with him. 834 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: I would just out of curiosity. 835 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 3: I would too, I'd be like, what's the whole story, 836 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 3: what's the teesis? But I told him that there would 837 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 3: absolutely be no more meetings on this situation after this. Yeah, 838 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 3: we gotta put us hope. 839 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 2: I would be pretty freaking frustrated, Like to go from Heyley, 840 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 2: I was kind of bummed. I wasn't in bet of 841 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 2: the wedding to having a full blown conspiracy. I'd be like, 842 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:38,720 Speaker 2: just get. 843 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 3: Me the daduts. 844 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: We need to get the CEO involved, We needed to 845 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: contact the Secretary of Defense. We need to go to 846 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,839 Speaker 1: the highest authority, the LAMB. So he agreed and said 847 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: he'd meet me after work. So after work we walked 848 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: to our usual bar, the same one that him and 849 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: Pam met me with at the first time. I suspected 850 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: Pam might be there, but she wasn't. Nevertheless, I kept 851 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 1: my eye open for her. Once we sat down, Bob 852 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,239 Speaker 1: apologized again. This one seemed even more genuine than the 853 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: first one. I told him that he didn't need to 854 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: keep apologizing. I got it the first time. He said 855 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: that he had to apologize because there is a lot 856 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 1: more to the story about the wedding than I thought. 857 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: Bob explained that he fought Pam like heck to get 858 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: her to give up these single men's exclusion, but she 859 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 1: was set on it. They argued for months and a 860 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: lot of people offered different solutions. Bob suggested a smaller 861 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: wedding with only intimate family and friends, a good idea. 862 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: Pam shot that down. She had always dreamt of a 863 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: big wedding with lots of people there, and a small 864 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 1: wedding did not bit her dream. Her parents said, why 865 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: not hire a security guard. Pam said that she wanted 866 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 1: the possibility eliminated completely. 867 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 2: Married men can also be or like you know, men 868 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 2: in relationships can also be creepy. 869 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 3: According to Pam's logic, as soon as you are a man, 870 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 3: you married man, you're a sterile frickin' you're just you're 871 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 3: just in a bubble. 872 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 2: You become Jesus. 873 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: He is and he will not hit on your sister 874 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: in law. She said that a few single men could 875 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: stand to not be invited to a party for once 876 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 1: in their lives. Heay, did it cured. Bob said that 877 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: he had a lot of friends who wanted to come 878 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: and that they would be hurt if they weren't invited. 879 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: Pam said that she was making sacrifices too, a lot 880 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: of her guy friends wanted to come to the party 881 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: as well. Bob finally relented and said that if exclusion 882 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 1: were to happen, he wanted nothing to do with that 883 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: decision and wanted it to be known that it was 884 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,920 Speaker 1: out of his hand. Pam said that she'd take the 885 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 1: heat for it if it came to that, but didn't 886 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: think people would go crazy over it. She also gave 887 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 1: Bob the choice of their honeymoon destination since he was 888 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: making a big sacrifice. They went to the French riviera 889 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: in case anyone was curious. 890 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:49,280 Speaker 3: That's nice, That is nice. Where's my donuts? Bob said. 891 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: The wedding reception and party were amazing. He said that 892 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,799 Speaker 1: so many women were there but were wasted off their 893 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 1: behinds and falling over themselves. Apparently they did feel safe, 894 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 1: but a wasted vocal minority was complaining about the lack 895 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 1: of hot guys to dance with. 896 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,760 Speaker 4: A complete opposite happenings. 897 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:13,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, there weren't men to hit on and to getting 898 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 1: their business. Bob even laughed because one of them was 899 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: going around calling it a lesbian wedding since there were 900 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:20,439 Speaker 1: only women there. 901 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 3: Oh and some. 902 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: Women were absolutely hitting on the handful of single guys there. 903 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 1: But Pam didn't mind that as much. 904 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 2: She was like, those men went through my very very 905 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 2: hard to get through. 906 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: What's it called the ten step Pam process for not 907 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 1: being a creep. 908 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,240 Speaker 3: According to Pam. 909 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 2: It's a very long interview process. There's a lot of 910 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,839 Speaker 2: things to go through. I do a full background check 911 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 2: in all of them. 912 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 3: Point one percent graduation, right. 913 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 2: I actually put them through like the what is it 914 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 2: the twelve Herculean tasks that he has to do? You 915 00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,959 Speaker 2: know that Hercules had to do all this? Oh yeah, 916 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 2: basically he has. 917 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 3: To do all these like really hard tasks. The twelve 918 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:04,920 Speaker 3: Herculean tasks. 919 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 2: I think they're twelve. There might have been ten, fourteen, 920 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 2: we don't know quite remember, but we're saying twelve. We'll 921 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: say twelve. We're saying in twelve, it's your nice number. 922 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 3: Come on. 923 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,840 Speaker 1: Bob said that he wasn't rubbing it in, just setting 924 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 1: up a point. So after the honeymoon, they came home 925 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:23,240 Speaker 1: to what Bob described as a pr firestorm. Apparently Pam 926 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 1: had lied to her guy friends about why they weren't invited. 927 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 2: Even after she had promised to tell them the truth. 928 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 2: She has a lie and Miss Jaybird, this is vetting, 929 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:33,839 Speaker 2: which was the word I. 930 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,799 Speaker 3: Was betting for process vetting process. 931 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 1: Thanks Miss Jaybert one of her close friends, and let 932 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: it slip the real reason they weren't invited. 933 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 3: They were effing furious. 934 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 1: She was flooded with angry calls and messages from her 935 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,800 Speaker 1: friends about Pam, essentially calling them potential predators. Pam explained 936 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,439 Speaker 1: her position multiple times to her friends. 937 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 3: But it fell on deaf ears. Yeah, it's it's. 938 00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 1: One thing for ope, the acquaintance coworkers. Yeah that, but 939 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: close friends, Yeah, that's tough. She has lost many friends 940 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 1: over this. One of the guys said, if you think 941 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 1: that I'm a boop, then why the f are we 942 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 1: even friends? 943 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 3: Yes, a little too far, but like. 944 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 2: But like to I think it is. It is an extreme, 945 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,840 Speaker 2: yeah way to say it, but I understand the point 946 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 2: of Like, if you think I am a creepy person, 947 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 2: why would you ever be friends with me? 948 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 3: Just don't talk to me. 949 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 1: Just don't don't build up this expectation that like, we're 950 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 1: cool with each other. Yeah, come on, Pam has been 951 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: crying for days and her work life has become terrible. 952 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: She might even need to leave her job over it. 953 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,760 Speaker 1: By this point, Bob had had a few hard drinks 954 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,959 Speaker 1: and was tipsy, so he let loose a little more. 955 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: The tea has not been fully sipped yet. He said 956 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 1: that her decision had cost him friends of his own. 957 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 1: So many of his guy friends were furious to learn 958 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: they were excluded, and for the reason why. On the 959 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 1: day of the wedding, about six or so of his 960 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: closest friends who were excluded decided to go on a 961 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: fishing trip as they screw you. 962 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 3: To Bob and Pam the cherry. 963 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 1: On top of that, petty cake, they decided to donate 964 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars and some items to a local women's shelter. 965 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 3: Okay, I love that Bob. 966 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: Bob was devastated and none of the guys are returning 967 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: his calls their messages. 968 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 2: They're like, we support we support women so much. They 969 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 2: were donating the women's shelter. 970 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,359 Speaker 1: How much money did you spend on your wedding and 971 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: not the women's shelter. 972 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you got you support women. Where's your donation. 973 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 3: And we can catch fish. 974 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 4: I will say if I had a friend and a 975 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 4: friend group and they did like they went off the 976 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,839 Speaker 4: deep end and they let their wife kind of make 977 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 4: this call for him, I'd be like, dude, we lost 978 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 4: you man, where's my where's my buddy at? Where where's 979 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 4: Bob at? Bob's gone? 980 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know where's I don't know 981 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 3: who Bob is anymore. 982 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,800 Speaker 4: Pamchin there, Pam's calling the shots. 983 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hey, Pam, Hey, nice to meet you. Yeah, 984 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 3: that's what you are, Bob. You're PAMs. Pam, You're just 985 00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 3: Pam two point Oh, you're just Pam two point Pam, 986 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 3: little puppet exactly, Ham was a little puppet. 987 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,040 Speaker 1: Bob was devastated that none of those guys are returning 988 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 1: his calls or messages. Even their families are upset with 989 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 1: them over their exclusion. Pam's parents are publicly supportive, but chastise. 990 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 3: Her behind the scenes. Behind closed doors, she. 991 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: Doesn't have anyone but her bridesmaids at about three of 992 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 1: her friends who believe in her cause. Bob said that 993 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: at one point that Pam was hysterical and screaming. 994 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 3: Why couldn't anyone just understand. 995 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 2: My point of view? 996 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe what I was hearing. But there was 997 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,280 Speaker 1: more to this crazy story. 998 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 2: Oh boy. 999 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 1: You see at this point, we were about an hour 1000 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,560 Speaker 1: in and Bob was nice and tipsy, so I pride 1001 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: for more information. 1002 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 2: Op, He's just like getting Bob more and more drinks. 1003 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like and. 1004 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 2: He was divulging all of the secrets to me, and 1005 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 2: he's like, what else. 1006 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 3: Did your friend? What else is on your main mind? Bob? 1007 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 3: What else you want to get off your check? 1008 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 2: And this is all happening in the breakroom, no, in 1009 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 2: the bar. I was like, has he got all of 1010 00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:59,360 Speaker 2: this on video? 1011 00:41:59,480 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 3: Dude? 1012 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: He's just throwing He's just throwing back the hard seltzers 1013 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: from the office fridge. 1014 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,240 Speaker 3: You know. So I've let me tell you my vibe. 1015 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 3: She doesn't not my friend. She thinks that they and 1016 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 3: she hates you. 1017 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 2: And their boss comes and he's like, hey. 1018 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 3: Hey, boss, you something. You're my best friend. Wipe it 1019 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 3: is my guy right here. 1020 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 2: He's like, Boss, you're my best friend too. I've always 1021 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 2: thought that I love you, Boss, I love you. I'm 1022 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 2: sorry I'm sorry. Sorry, I didn't invite you to my 1023 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 2: wedding either. 1024 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 1: Also, I literally just put together something in my brain 1025 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: that is maybe relevant. But I'm just proud of myself 1026 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,880 Speaker 1: for realizing this. OP has a team of fifteen people. 1027 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:43,879 Speaker 1: It's probably a majority women team because only women and. 1028 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,279 Speaker 3: Men relationships were allowed to go. Yeah. 1029 00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,560 Speaker 1: Probably, so that means OPI he's the only single guy 1030 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,800 Speaker 1: in the whole team, which means it's probably a majority 1031 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 1: female team. 1032 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,399 Speaker 3: Brilliant. I just realized that, just. 1033 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,919 Speaker 2: A little more information for y'all some more. 1034 00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 3: I was proud I had reading comprehension and ig you extrapolated. 1035 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,240 Speaker 2: I extrapolated, and that's that's a sign of genius. 1036 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 3: I had to keep myself a little some there. Thanks 1037 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 3: for indulging me. 1038 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: So I I took, I did, I did, and I 1039 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 1: did not. I don't know what I got. Who knows 1040 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: why you do that? 1041 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 3: Same? Sorry? 1042 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 1: Ley so Bob said that at first, Pam was sticking 1043 00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: to her her decision that exclusion was a good idea, 1044 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 1: but she started to waver a little bit. She said 1045 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: that most people understood where she was coming from, but 1046 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,520 Speaker 1: it was too heavy handed and even a little sexist. 1047 00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,240 Speaker 1: It's actually miss andry. Yes, I mean. 1048 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 2: Sexist still works in this word still works in the context. 1049 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, miss andres, but that's in there too, Hurrah. 1050 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 1: Bob and Pam have had multiple blow ups over this 1051 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,399 Speaker 1: whole situation, and they're not in a good place right now. 1052 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 1: He said that instead of feeling giddy about his new 1053 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,279 Speaker 1: wife and basking in the glow of being married, he's 1054 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 1: harboring a ton of resentment towards her because she's cost 1055 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,800 Speaker 1: him a lot of his friends and ruined their lives 1056 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,400 Speaker 1: over a stupid party. As for me, Pam apparently really 1057 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:06,319 Speaker 1: likes me. One of her biggest regrets of this entire 1058 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 1: situation is not getting to know me before the wedding, 1059 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 1: he said. 1060 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 3: Pam thinks I'm one of the coolest people she's ever met. 1061 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 3: I asked Bob how she made that determination from a 1062 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 3: fifteen minute chat, and he laughed and said, I don't know, man, 1063 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,800 Speaker 3: she probably has a crush on you or something. Dude, 1064 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 3: no freaking way, who called that? Who called that? Oh? 1065 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 2: I didn't exactly. I said that he had a crush 1066 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:29,359 Speaker 2: on But you know. 1067 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 3: Did we call that? 1068 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure you did. You guys were like, oh, yeah, she's. 1069 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 3: We said that Bob was in love with Peep. 1070 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,319 Speaker 2: You know what. No, no, no, we said it at 1071 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:38,280 Speaker 2: the very beginning. 1072 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 3: Run the tape, Run it back, editor, roll the clip, 1073 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 3: roll the clip. Nice. 1074 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but also, like Bob, this is a weird reaction. 1075 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 2: I guess he's like super drunk, but he's like, yeah, 1076 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 2: I had to crush on you. 1077 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe it's good on here. I still wish 1078 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: Bob was in love with him. That would have just 1079 00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:55,440 Speaker 1: been Shaw. 1080 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 3: Dropper, icing on top of the cake, icing on the cake. 1081 00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, she probably has a crush on 1082 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:00,800 Speaker 3: your something. I laughed. 1083 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,759 Speaker 1: But that made the situation a little bit weird. As 1084 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 1: for Pam's sister, she is a salute, but not in the. 1085 00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 3: Way you may think. Where is this going? 1086 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 1: Bob explained that Pam's sister, Beth is by all accounts, 1087 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 1: a very smart, successful, and respectful woman. She just so 1088 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 1: happens to like Spicy Sleep and power Tour and more 1089 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: power Tour. 1090 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,080 Speaker 2: Wow, what's the problem there? 1091 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 3: What's the problem. 1092 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,800 Speaker 1: Bob explained that Beth is really into the think scene 1093 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: and is into things like ethical non monogamy. She frequently 1094 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 1: mentions her adventures to Bob and Pam, and it got 1095 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 1: them into that lifestyle as well. 1096 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so they're being super freaking judgmental. 1097 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no oh no no no no 1098 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 3: no tell them, John, I see you in the chat. 1099 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:51,839 Speaker 3: Do I tell him? Do I just give the ice? 1100 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 3: Say it? Say it? 1101 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 1: Bob and Pam OPI didn't get a slice of the cake, 1102 00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 1: but they want a slice of op. 1103 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,919 Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I was thinking, too, little little third 1104 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 2: to that pie. 1105 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:03,319 Speaker 3: If you will. 1106 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 4: And that's why she didn't want single guys there because 1107 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 4: it would attempt her to be with them because they 1108 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 4: opened their relationship, got into the non monogamy lifestyle. And 1109 00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 4: if there was a lot of hot single guys there, 1110 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 4: the bride would have been like, but. 1111 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 2: I think she would have liked that. 1112 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,279 Speaker 4: Then she would have liked that. But she's like, oh, 1113 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,200 Speaker 4: now I'm getting into a married relationship. I don't want 1114 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:22,760 Speaker 4: that temptation. 1115 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 2: But I think they're I think they're still into it. 1116 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 2: I think they're still into the I think they're like 1117 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 2: married and they're like still into that vibe, which is 1118 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 2: maybe why Bob is so chill about saying like, oh 1119 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 2: I think she's a crush on you. 1120 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,840 Speaker 3: That's that's when I'm picking up. That's what I'm picking up. 1121 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 1: I was a little surprised and asked for clarification, and 1122 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 1: he said, yeah, she kind of got us into some 1123 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:39,880 Speaker 1: of that stuff. 1124 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,760 Speaker 3: I was shocked. 1125 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,120 Speaker 1: I mean, how often do you hear about your coworker 1126 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,080 Speaker 1: who is into BDSM all the time it happens. 1127 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,839 Speaker 3: But hey, no king Shamin from. 1128 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 2: Me over here, Oh king Shaman. 1129 00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 3: There we go. 1130 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: So it turns out that Beth isn't some soul sticking 1131 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,880 Speaker 1: home wrecking out of control soakbass. 1132 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 3: She's just a regular woman who loves spicy sleep. Yeah. 1133 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 2: I thought that's it. It's really obvious, and. 1134 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 3: That is that's like exactly what we said. 1135 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like she's just like. 1136 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:07,880 Speaker 3: No woman, She's just a woman. 1137 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 2: She's just a woman having a good time. 1138 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 3: Excuse me, wait, you have a uterus? Oh boy, stop, 1139 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,440 Speaker 3: you better keep that uterus to yourself. 1140 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: You and you you're telling me you like to have 1141 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,920 Speaker 1: spicy sleep like basically every human. 1142 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 3: Oh boy, illegal, go. 1143 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 2: To jail to h double hockey sticks for that. 1144 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 3: Hockey god, grow up, we've graduated fourth grade. 1145 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 2: And also just like incredibly hypocritical from Pam dude. 1146 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 3: Right and now she's trying to slide it. Come on, Pam. 1147 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 3: You so Bob said that Pam was scared that we 1148 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,040 Speaker 3: would hit it off because she's jealous, which is basically 1149 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 3: what Riley said. 1150 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you doubted me got him. 1151 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 1: It's true. I doubted him too, but I was proven wrong. Yeah, 1152 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: I'll take that. 1153 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 2: I thought you were just saying for like all of 1154 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 2: the women. 1155 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 3: I thought you were talking of for all the guys, 1156 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:57,399 Speaker 3: all the guys. 1157 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like she didn't want all the guys because 1158 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 2: she thought that she was gonna Maybe you said both things. 1159 00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 2: I disagree with one of your points, and I agree. 1160 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 4: She didn't want all the hot guys there because she 1161 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,719 Speaker 4: would have been tempted. Yes, I don't agree, but I 1162 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 4: was right. 1163 00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 2: No, you were right about pant her not wanting Ope 1164 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 2: there because Pam, I mean, Beth would have wanted him 1165 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 2: and she was jealous. 1166 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no no. I just understood that. 1167 00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she said to She's saying that she 1168 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 2: didn't want Ope there because she liked Ope. 1169 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 3: And Beth was there she didn't want I guess we'll 1170 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,320 Speaker 3: just keep going. Okay, I see you, Riley, I see you. 1171 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 3: I see you. 1172 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 1: We share many of the same interests and have similar personalities. 1173 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: According to Bob, Pam wasn't lying about that, nor that 1174 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,840 Speaker 1: I was exactly her type. She likes tall guys, and 1175 00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: from what I've heard, she'd have been all over me 1176 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:45,520 Speaker 1: if she found out I was single. 1177 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:53,839 Speaker 3: So he's just tall, tall glass of water. 1178 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,399 Speaker 1: The type of glass of water that you would want 1179 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 1: to grab in that break room that Bob and Ope 1180 00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 1: so frequently share. 1181 00:48:58,680 --> 00:48:58,919 Speaker 3: Yep. 1182 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: Well, now, wow, I was curious, so I asked Bob 1183 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,320 Speaker 1: if he had a picture. He pulled up her Instagram, 1184 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 1: and I must say she was dang gorgeous. She looks 1185 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:07,560 Speaker 1: like Pam's twin. 1186 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 2: No, she'sa is also dang gorgeous. 1187 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 1: And gorgeous, only she was a little bit thicker. I'm 1188 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,760 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I was pretty peeved at Pam all 1189 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:17,319 Speaker 1: over again. 1190 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,919 Speaker 3: Well. Bob said that Pam has always been a little 1191 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 3: jealous of Beth. 1192 00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:22,759 Speaker 1: I don't know why. Pam is a stunner herself and 1193 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,440 Speaker 1: looks just like Beth. Bob said that as an f 1194 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 1: you to Pam, he'd give her my instance so we 1195 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 1: could d each other and he'd put in a good 1196 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,240 Speaker 1: word for me and I thanked him profusely. 1197 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 2: Heck, heck, yeah, this is working out. 1198 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 3: This is not what I expected. No low key little flabbering. 1199 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 2: But again, this all feels like we're trying to cover 1200 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,320 Speaker 2: up that he's not going to get these donuts. Feels 1201 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:49,359 Speaker 2: like a band aid on a festering. 1202 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 3: Wound, a mass conspiracy. 1203 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:53,000 Speaker 2: And yeah, and I don't like this. I don't like this. 1204 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,359 Speaker 2: I think they're trying to divert a piece attention from 1205 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 2: the donuts. 1206 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 3: My attention was I'll tell you, yeah, you forgot about them. 1207 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 2: I forgot you forgot about them, didn't you. 1208 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 3: I'll never forget forgot about donuts. 1209 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 1: He said that Pam was so desperate to make amends 1210 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 1: with me because I made a big impression on her 1211 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,920 Speaker 1: and she thinks that we'd be really good friends if 1212 00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 1: we hung out. Bob said that she was just grasping 1213 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,640 Speaker 1: at straws at this point. She's lost all of her 1214 00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:19,759 Speaker 1: friends and she wanted to make another one. He said 1215 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,879 Speaker 1: that he'd rain Pam in so that she wouldn't bother 1216 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,800 Speaker 1: me anymore. By this point, Bob is more than tipsy. 1217 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 1: He says that he's been having doubts about this marriage 1218 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 1: because the wedding process and the aftermath have been a nightmare. 1219 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,440 Speaker 1: He thinks it'd be really shallow to divorce her over this, 1220 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,880 Speaker 1: but his life has been ruined by her choices. I 1221 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,319 Speaker 1: was shocked, and he said, don't tell Pam please. I 1222 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,280 Speaker 1: swore I wouldn't tell her anything. 1223 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:42,439 Speaker 3: Bob paid for our. 1224 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 1: Drinks and he said he was going to take public 1225 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: transportation home, but I told him he needs an uber. 1226 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,080 Speaker 3: He thought me on that, but I insisted, and he 1227 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 3: agreed to take one. 1228 00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:50,879 Speaker 1: I put him in the uber, send him on his way, 1229 00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:53,359 Speaker 1: and an hour later, Pam texted me from his work phone. 1230 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 1: She told me, thank you for taking care of my hubby. 1231 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,760 Speaker 3: You're a good person. Curly, Curly, just such a good person. 1232 00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 3: You can't have your apple sider donuts and eat them too, No, no, no, 1233 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:04,719 Speaker 3: no no, that's what we can't do. 1234 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it seems like you can't have you can't 1235 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:08,640 Speaker 2: even have your apple side. 1236 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: You can't even have your apple side or donut. I can't 1237 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: even exist, dude. I didn't respond, and that brings us 1238 00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,120 Speaker 1: to now. I hope that this is mostly the end, 1239 00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 1: but it seems like Pam might be desperate enough to 1240 00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: do something rash in any case, I will keep you 1241 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 1: fine folks updated, and we have update number four and 1242 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: I will once again completely. 1243 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:35,160 Speaker 3: Spoil the title A date with Beth Ellie sister dude Gold. 1244 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 2: That I'm trying to find where to get hot fresh EPI. 1245 00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 2: They can't be stopped. 1246 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 3: I'm dead. It doesn't seem like we can't get them. 1247 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 3: She's like, I stopped. We're in the midute episode, but 1248 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,360 Speaker 3: really there's no actual blaze I could get them, Sophia. 1249 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:52,799 Speaker 3: Where we're getting there. 1250 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 2: We're about to get into a freaking date. 1251 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 3: But what are your thoughts right here? Date is incoming? 1252 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I honest think if I were Opie, I would 1253 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 2: kind of try my best to cut off Bob and 1254 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 2: Pam to the best of my ability, or to at 1255 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,840 Speaker 2: least to the extent that you can when you're working 1256 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 2: with them, because it seems like everything around them is 1257 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,880 Speaker 2: just it's just a lot of drama. 1258 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 3: It's not good. It ain't good. 1259 00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like they seem like Bob is over here spilling 1260 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:25,600 Speaker 1: all these secrets. You know, Pam did made this decision 1261 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 1: with the wedding, and they're in. 1262 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:32,239 Speaker 2: They're pulling you into this drama, either for nefarious or 1263 00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 2: for somewhat spicy sleep reasons. 1264 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 3: We don't know, it. 1265 00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 2: Just seems a little messy. Yeah, He's like, maybe we 1266 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,759 Speaker 2: don't want to we don't want to step in that. 1267 00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1268 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 1: Maybe here's here's another thing, like because it seems like 1269 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 1: Bob is chill with like OPI and everything, and like, yeah, 1270 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 1: oh my wife is a crush on you. But is 1271 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 1: he like trying to sow the seeds of discord between 1272 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,799 Speaker 1: him and his wife because she's like taken a liking 1273 00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 1: to him. There's just like if like so many like 1274 00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:03,239 Speaker 1: sub yeah, thing's going on here and I don't know 1275 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: what to think. 1276 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 3: I don't know. I just don't know. 1277 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,640 Speaker 1: But what I do know is that I should get 1278 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 1: into this next update A date with Beth an update 1279 00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 1: date if you will. Hey, everyone, nothing major has happened, 1280 00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,879 Speaker 1: but I do have a small updates. Bob is true 1281 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 1: to his word and gave Beth my Instagram. She messaged 1282 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 1: me last week and we got to talking. The conversation 1283 00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,719 Speaker 1: went so well that we agreed on a coffee date 1284 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:29,279 Speaker 1: this past weekend. Well, sorry to disappoint the naysayers out here, 1285 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:34,440 Speaker 1: but the date went extremely well. We talked about a 1286 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 1: lot our hobbies, interests, futures, jobs, and families. 1287 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 3: Bob is right. 1288 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,480 Speaker 1: We are remarkably similar, even down to some of our 1289 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 1: specific food tastes. 1290 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,520 Speaker 3: Wow, that's a match made in heaven. 1291 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 1: The date went so well that we met at a 1292 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,919 Speaker 1: bar next to her office for some afterwork drinks. And yes, 1293 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 1: that date went amazing as well. Could you go as well? 1294 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,319 Speaker 1: Look at you go? Now here's the part I think 1295 00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: you're all going to like. We are going to do 1296 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 1: a hike this coming weekend, and a long way. We're 1297 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,080 Speaker 1: going to make a stop at the winery where Bob 1298 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:04,280 Speaker 1: and Pam had. 1299 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:09,640 Speaker 3: Their wedding and pick me up some gosh dang apple cider. 1300 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:13,399 Speaker 3: Down up. That's what I like to hear. 1301 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 2: I feel completely normal about this, right, so normal, So 1302 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:17,320 Speaker 2: normal about that? 1303 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 3: Cool calm and collective, so calm. I'm calmly happy, like 1304 00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 3: the smooth, refreshing taste of a fresh apple cider. Dons. 1305 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:30,919 Speaker 1: Golly, well, I think if all goes well with the state, 1306 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask her to be my girlfriend. 1307 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 3: She just feels special. 1308 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,279 Speaker 2: Wait, like they've been on have they been on like. 1309 00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:39,319 Speaker 3: Three dates too? 1310 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 4: Sometimes? 1311 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 3: You know? 1312 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 1: But he said, he said, if it all goes well, 1313 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 1: you know, if this keeps going the way it's going, 1314 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 1: He's okay, he's thinking about it. Okay, So that's it. 1315 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,320 Speaker 1: I'll let you know how that hike day goes. But honestly, 1316 00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,360 Speaker 1: I think the situation is mostly settled for now. Bob 1317 00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 1: has been keeping his distance, but he hooked me up 1318 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,560 Speaker 1: and Pam hasn't been in contact with me for a 1319 00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:58,000 Speaker 1: week now. 1320 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 2: I said, thank God, thank God. 1321 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 1: Truly, after the hike, it'll probably be my last post. 1322 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:07,560 Speaker 1: I don't intend on milking this for any unnecessary drama, 1323 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,960 Speaker 1: but wouldn't you know, Here comes the milk, Here comes 1324 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:12,160 Speaker 1: the freaking milk. 1325 00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:13,319 Speaker 2: Watch those donuts down. 1326 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 3: Oh good, golly, coumers. It's just worked so perfectly. 1327 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:21,240 Speaker 1: And I will say that this is indeed the last 1328 00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 1: and final installment in the saga. 1329 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,920 Speaker 3: Who So let's go Update number five the final chapter 1330 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,440 Speaker 3: question mark. Hey y'all, Hello. 1331 00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,439 Speaker 1: I want to thank you for you all sticking through 1332 00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:38,320 Speaker 1: this crazy ass saga, and also for your congratulations forgetting 1333 00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 1: with Beth. 1334 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,400 Speaker 3: It means a lot. Now, onto the update. 1335 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,480 Speaker 1: As I mentioned last time, me and Beth had met 1336 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 1: and gone on a few dates. She's truly an amazing woman. 1337 00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:49,600 Speaker 1: She's smart, bunny, driven, and very nice. I am absolutely 1338 00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 1: smitten with this girl. 1339 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:51,319 Speaker 3: Lol. 1340 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,960 Speaker 1: Well, we had a hike this past Saturday and it 1341 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 1: was beyond amazing. The weather was perfect, the foliage was beautiful, 1342 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 1: and the view from the top of the mountain was amazing. 1343 00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 1: We had a picnic at the top of said mountain, 1344 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,040 Speaker 1: and during a lull in the conversation, I summoned all 1345 00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 1: of my courage and. 1346 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:12,840 Speaker 3: Asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend. 1347 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,320 Speaker 3: This is the third date, third date. That's kind of 1348 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:16,480 Speaker 3: what's wrong with this. 1349 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:17,480 Speaker 2: It's a little crazy. 1350 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 3: Third date. 1351 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 2: That's pretty quick. 1352 00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,799 Speaker 3: He's going in, that's pretty quick. 1353 00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,880 Speaker 2: What do you mean what you didn't ask Angie to 1354 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 2: be your girlfriend after the third date? It's I'm not 1355 00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 2: saying like, oh, you can't know that you want them 1356 00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:32,480 Speaker 2: to be your your you know, partner, but after three dates, 1357 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:34,359 Speaker 2: but you know, maybe she'll say it and then it's 1358 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 2: fine and it's none of my beeswax. 1359 00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:41,760 Speaker 4: Yeah wait right, Riley's about to do some some serious 1360 00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 4: math in the background here to figure it out. I 1361 00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,400 Speaker 4: feel like if I was seventeenth, so it was exactly 1362 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 4: a month after I met her. 1363 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,319 Speaker 1: But how many dates that you had? How much like, yeah, 1364 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 1: dedicated dates if you had a. 1365 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:53,560 Speaker 3: Guess, I. 1366 00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:59,919 Speaker 4: Can confirm. I can confirm one second one, just one 1367 00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 4: hot one. 1368 00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. 1369 00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 1: We're not going to say he's gonna get the real, 1370 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:08,680 Speaker 1: the real, oh, from from the thing, from from the thing. 1371 00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:15,200 Speaker 1: I won't say anymore. I won't say anymore one two, three, wow, three. 1372 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,160 Speaker 3: Or four three or okay? Okay, all right, my lord 1373 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:18,680 Speaker 3: should happened? 1374 00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,840 Speaker 4: You know, after she made me the toe bag, there 1375 00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,360 Speaker 4: you go, I was like, please be my girlfriend. 1376 00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,560 Speaker 3: Okay, well, there you freaking go. He said, I'm trying 1377 00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 3: to tell you about me a relationship. You got me, 1378 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 3: you got me, there you go. Hmm, there we go. 1379 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,280 Speaker 3: It's cute. So back though pee story. 1380 00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,880 Speaker 1: I was waiting for a more opportune time, but I 1381 00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 1: guess I just got swept up in the moment and view. 1382 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:42,720 Speaker 1: She smiled and laughed and said I was the corniest 1383 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 1: person alive for asking in. 1384 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,920 Speaker 3: Such a cliche place. But she said she loved corny 1385 00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 3: and cliche. 1386 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:56,000 Speaker 1: She said yes, and we sealed it with a kiss. 1387 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 3: And donuts, and they got donors. Don't come on, dude. 1388 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,480 Speaker 1: On our way back, we finally stopped by the winery 1389 00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,200 Speaker 1: where we had their wedding. 1390 00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 2: Okay, they hadn't had the donuts. 1391 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:03,080 Speaker 3: We're up. 1392 00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:07,200 Speaker 1: We are quickly approaching, quickly approached Precipice, and man, it 1393 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: was beautiful. It had panoramic views of the mountains and 1394 00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 1: the vineyard was very pretty. But I wasn't there for 1395 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:16,640 Speaker 1: the view, Okay, I was here for some guess starn 1396 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 1: apple cider donuts. 1397 00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 3: Okay. 1398 00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: I feel like you and OPI are just so aligned 1399 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: in your mission, your freaking your god given purpose to 1400 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:30,760 Speaker 1: find these freaking donuts. Finally, enough we got there kind 1401 00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: of like and almost missed the fresh donuts of the day. 1402 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 1: That would have been tragic. 1403 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 3: I would have cried. That would have been tragical. 1404 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,320 Speaker 1: They got them in time, got them in time. Thankfully 1405 00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: we got some of the last batches. God, those donuts 1406 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 1: were absolutely delicioso. We got two dozen each and even 1407 00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 1: got some apple filling cider donuts. 1408 00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:51,280 Speaker 3: I would have said it that way, But where is 1409 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:54,240 Speaker 3: this winery? Dude, right? Drop the address? We gotta go, 1410 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,160 Speaker 3: drop that, Addie. The weight was worth it. After we 1411 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:57,880 Speaker 3: went back to our. 1412 00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 1: Apartment and made dinner together, did I get you? I've 1413 00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,240 Speaker 1: never had such an amazing day with a woman. It 1414 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,920 Speaker 1: was just perfect. I didn't want to leave, but I 1415 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,520 Speaker 1: couldn't be presumptuous. When I picked up the keys to go, 1416 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,400 Speaker 1: she grabbed my She grabbed me and said, I quote, 1417 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 1: if you seriously think you're leaving, then you're out of 1418 00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 1: your freaking mind. 1419 00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,160 Speaker 3: That's a good line. That's a good line downtown. 1420 00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:27,600 Speaker 1: I must have had the biggest smile on my face. 1421 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 3: So we spent the rest of the weekend together. 1422 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh the week Wow. 1423 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 3: We had a wonderful Sunday brunch and a nice walk around. 1424 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:41,760 Speaker 1: The city hold my brun, holding hands, walking through the city, 1425 00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:44,920 Speaker 1: going into some stores and sight seeing. Unfortunately for me, 1426 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,280 Speaker 1: we had to part ways last night because well, we 1427 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 1: had work in the morning. 1428 00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 3: I was damn near in tears. 1429 00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 1: This is going to sound dramatic as heck, but I've 1430 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 1: spent the last few hours at work being totally miserable. 1431 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:57,600 Speaker 3: Then I'm not with Beth. 1432 00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,320 Speaker 1: It's like when you're in high school and you get 1433 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 1: your first boyfrien friend slash girlfriend. 1434 01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 3: And you can't stand to be apart from each other. 1435 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 1: But if you don't want sappy love stories, you're here 1436 01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:08,440 Speaker 1: for the drama. Well, me and Beth made it official 1437 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,680 Speaker 1: on Instagram on Sunday. 1438 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:11,360 Speaker 4: Oh wow. 1439 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,880 Speaker 3: Apparently Pam saw on her sister's profile. 1440 01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 1: She texted Beth Sunday and night, how do you know Pete? 1441 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:29,360 Speaker 1: And she said Bob introduced us. Remember you didn't? No, yikes. 1442 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,440 Speaker 1: Pam only replied with, I knew this would happen. We 1443 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 1: figured that might mean trouble down the road, but we 1444 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: don't care. 1445 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,560 Speaker 3: Pam can be as mad as she wants. 1446 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:39,439 Speaker 2: But that's the thing. 1447 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,000 Speaker 3: Why is she Why is she mad? Why is she 1448 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:45,080 Speaker 3: mad if she wanted to do this? And why are 1449 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 3: you mad? Dear listener? 1450 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,080 Speaker 2: No, though you were asking me why I. 1451 01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,040 Speaker 3: Was, Sophia, why are you mad? 1452 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Because our listeners aren't listening to full episodes with stories 1453 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 2: just like this. 1454 01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:56,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 1455 01:00:56,720 --> 01:01:00,000 Speaker 2: Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms. 1456 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,919 Speaker 1: Wait, but if they go to those places, how could 1457 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 1: they possibly locate these episodes? 1458 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 2: Sofia, easy, just search up Oka story time. 1459 01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 3: Thank and I won't be mad, Thank God, thank god. 1460 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,840 Speaker 1: We that is the solution that everyone. You guys, if 1461 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 1: you're watching this right now and you're not listening to 1462 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 1: a full upside on Spotify, I'm mad at you. 1463 01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 3: I'm furious. I'm mad about. 1464 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,840 Speaker 2: Two things right now that you guys aren't listening to 1465 01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 2: full episodes of stories like this. And I don't have 1466 01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,960 Speaker 2: a Baker's dozen of Apple Cider's donuts. 1467 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 3: That's infuriating, Tans. That's infuriating, infuriating, But Sofia, I have 1468 01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:32,439 Speaker 3: to ask you again, another querson ask me, we are 1469 01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 3: we are almost at the finish line here. There's still 1470 01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 3: some storry left, but we're almost at the finish line. 1471 01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,240 Speaker 3: Give me some closing thoughts. What are we feeling? You're 1472 01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,920 Speaker 3: thinking it choked a little, yeah, you know, it's it's emotional. 1473 01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 2: My closing thoughts are that the op seems to be, 1474 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,000 Speaker 2: you know, did not get invited into a wedding? 1475 01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 3: Yes, but did get a girl? About that? 1476 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:50,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1477 01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, the point of the story. Did not get invited 1478 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,480 Speaker 2: a wedding, did get a girlfriend? Did get his Applesiter's donuts, 1479 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 2: Apple Cider Donuts. There we go, and Pam still seems 1480 01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 2: like a nuisance. But I think you just don't talk 1481 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,320 Speaker 2: to Pam. Just leave her out of the equation. 1482 01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,280 Speaker 3: What if that becomes your sister in law? Mmm, still 1483 01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:06,240 Speaker 3: leave her out of the equation. 1484 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: But it gets even more crazy because remember Bob was like, Hey, 1485 01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I want to be in 1486 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:12,880 Speaker 1: this marriage anymore. 1487 01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, So are you going to continue to be friends 1488 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:16,440 Speaker 2: with Bob? 1489 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:17,160 Speaker 3: Probably not? 1490 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 2: It seems like you and Bob I feel like Bob. 1491 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 3: Then you become brother in law's only. 1492 01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 2: If he's married to Pam still, But what if he 1493 01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:23,960 Speaker 2: leaves that? 1494 01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:27,840 Speaker 3: No, yeah he might. I don't think he's gonna last long, Sam. Yeah, 1495 01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 3: and then and then you just have to deal with Pam. 1496 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 3: And then it's two against one. Wow, you're right, m 1497 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 3: you're right, m hm. That could very easily happen. Yeah. Yeah, 1498 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:37,600 Speaker 3: let's let's see if it does. 1499 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:41,040 Speaker 4: The misery still does not escape the person that caused it. 1500 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 4: Pam will always be stuck with you, with Beth. She 1501 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,240 Speaker 4: will have to go to holidays with Beth being happy 1502 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,440 Speaker 4: someone she is jealous of, and you're with her. 1503 01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:51,520 Speaker 1: Okay, what would be This is just like so hilariously 1504 01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,960 Speaker 1: full circle. She doesn't invite single guys to her wedding, 1505 01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: which causes her marriage to fall apart and also simultaneously 1506 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: causes her sister to marry this guy she's actually interested in, 1507 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,600 Speaker 1: and then she has no husband. 1508 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 3: The wedding was a flop. The wedding ruined everything, and 1509 01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:11,720 Speaker 3: that's called the butterfly effect. 1510 01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:15,040 Speaker 1: Those are some beautiful monarch wings. I don't want to 1511 01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:19,480 Speaker 1: see spread and fly's. That's the only ones I've yikes. Well, 1512 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,440 Speaker 1: this morning I actually went up to Bob and I 1513 01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,760 Speaker 1: thanked him for introducing me to Beth. He explained that 1514 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 1: he and Pam had a huge fight over him introducing us. 1515 01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:30,080 Speaker 1: He said he didn't care about it, though it was 1516 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 1: worth it just to get us together, and it was 1517 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 1: a big f you to paym They're not sounded the 1518 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:36,560 Speaker 1: greatest place. 1519 01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:40,040 Speaker 3: Don't like your wife Ooo? Yikes, you're trying to throw 1520 01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,160 Speaker 3: an f you at her, right, dude? Come on? 1521 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 1: I told him I buy him around as a thank you, 1522 01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,320 Speaker 1: but he said don't worry about it and that that 1523 01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 1: was the least he could do. 1524 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,360 Speaker 3: So that's it for this update. 1525 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,320 Speaker 1: I like to hope that this is the end, but 1526 01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,000 Speaker 1: Pam seems pretty upset with us being together. Either way, 1527 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm just so happy with Beth. She's a once in 1528 01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:57,800 Speaker 1: a lifetime kind of person. And rest assured. I will 1529 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:01,080 Speaker 1: update you if anything further happens. Piece of Love, what. 1530 01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 2: An epic story like? Talk like how you got together 1531 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 2: with your partner? 1532 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:07,080 Speaker 3: Right? 1533 01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 2: Like they try to keep us apart, couldn't couldn't keep us, 1534 01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 2: couldn't do. 1535 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:12,680 Speaker 3: It, couldn't do it? Get ready for this? 1536 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,440 Speaker 1: Sofi people ask them like at parties or whatever, like, oh, 1537 01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:16,320 Speaker 1: how'd you guys meet? 1538 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 3: Uh? Just watch this episode of Okay story Time, all. 1539 01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,920 Speaker 2: Laid out, all laid out, and you know what for 1540 01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:23,600 Speaker 2: their wedding, their wedding, that's what they do. 1541 01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,360 Speaker 3: Apple cider donuts. 1542 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 1: Apple cider fall themed wedding. Let's take it all the way. 1543 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,920 Speaker 2: We're drinking apple cider, we're eating apple cider ice cream. 1544 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:36,520 Speaker 4: You're getting married in apple donuts, orchard, apple orchard. 1545 01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:41,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, your dress looks like an apple popping champagne. 1546 01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:42,080 Speaker 3: You mean apple. 1547 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,240 Speaker 4: You go to my freaking hometown and it's during the 1548 01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:47,800 Speaker 4: Apple Apple festival. 1549 01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 3: Yeah that part. 1550 01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:52,400 Speaker 4: Just go to do that everything? Hi, you could do 1551 01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 4: all that within a five mile yes, no joke. 1552 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,120 Speaker 3: It was so good. Yeah, so hungry. 1553 01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,960 Speaker 4: Also, have you realized that phones bananas used to resemble phones, 1554 01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 4: but now it's just pop darts. Pop tarts resemble phones now. 1555 01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 2: Oh oh, so like if you yeah, because you could 1556 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,200 Speaker 2: before you could be like hello with a banana. 1557 01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 3: You should make one of those deep thoughtful tiktoks like 1558 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,240 Speaker 3: before bananas resembled phones, but now they just look like 1559 01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 3: pop darts. Oh wow, that's crazy. You should do one 1560 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:18,960 Speaker 3: of those. 1561 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 2: It's like they really like majestic music and you're just 1562 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 2: like watching like those videos of like waterfalls and like 1563 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:28,680 Speaker 2: it's like going over mountains. They're like before phones used 1564 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,560 Speaker 2: to look like bananas, and. 1565 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:33,680 Speaker 3: It's like ban feel you, I feel you. Yeah, but 1566 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 3: that's all we got. That's a good story. I'm I'm happy. 1567 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:37,240 Speaker 2: I'm happy. 1568 01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,080 Speaker 3: Sophia's happy, well as happy as one can be without 1569 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 3: apple cider. Yeah. Yeah, but that's all we got. 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