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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to I Do Part two. It's

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Speaker 1: your celebrity mentors Cheryl Burke and Jen Bessler back with you,

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Speaker 1: and we have a lot to talk about. Last time

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Speaker 1: we did this, we had a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: I think this time we have maybe more right. It's

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Speaker 1: just like always something happening in the world of divorce

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Speaker 1: and breakups.

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Speaker 2: Always it's it never gets old, does it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it never gets old and always fun to talk about,

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Speaker 1: especially with you.

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Speaker 2: Good to see you again, Good to see you always.

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Speaker 2: I hope to see you in person one day.

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Speaker 1: I know, right, I feel like we a little streams

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Speaker 1: that we haven't met in person. It feels like we.

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Speaker 2: Have I know. Should we talk about my partner?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 2: So I danced with Ryan Lockede many many decades ago.

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Speaker 2: It feels like though it wasn't It was probably just

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Speaker 2: a decade ago. He obviously has gone through a divorce,

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Speaker 2: not obviously, but for those that keep up with the Joneses,

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Speaker 2: that's what's been happening over in Lockedy world and has

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Speaker 2: now been a born again after a rocky year, which

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Speaker 2: is great, like more power to him. I just I

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Speaker 2: never saw signs of that when we were dancing together,

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Speaker 2: not like you know, by the way, people can totally

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Speaker 2: evolve and absolutely you know, turn to God when you've

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Speaker 2: hit rock bottom, it happens a lot. Well, he had

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Speaker 2: also just gotten out of rehab, yes, and that is

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Speaker 2: something I actually just found out recently. I had no

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Speaker 2: idea that he had such issues with substance abuse. Mind

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Speaker 2: you you know, when I danced with him, I was

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Speaker 2: not sober. So like we partied together a little bit,

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Speaker 2: like we would go out, but I would kind of

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Speaker 2: keep him on a tight leash because I'll never forget.

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Speaker 2: We went to go to we went to Vegas and

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Speaker 2: part of our package before you know, the stuff that

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Speaker 2: they air prior to our dance, we had to learn

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Speaker 2: from the Bellaggio show, oh from CIRCUSLA And so we

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Speaker 2: had to go to Vegas for a weekend and my

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Speaker 2: friends were there. Just it was a coincidence. We went

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Speaker 2: out and I was like Ryan at two am, I was.

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Speaker 4: Like, you better go back to your room. We've got

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Speaker 4: camera blocking tomorrow. I don't want to smell alcohol on you.

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Speaker 4: And supposedly for my friends, he pretended to go to

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Speaker 4: his room and then was out till seven in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I was so mad at him, but that was our relationship.

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Speaker 4: We were like brothers sister.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean listen, you can't say if he's if

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Speaker 1: he's found God, God bless him. I guess he exactly did, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he did a what is it called, uh

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Speaker 1: just got baptized baptized. See, I'm sorry jewish, he just

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Speaker 1: got back. But did he do it? Was it like

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Speaker 1: a whole thing.

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Speaker 2: With wa Yeah, with water, yes, definitely. I mean he's

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Speaker 2: a swimmer. Just kidding, kidding, okay, right. You know, he

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Speaker 2: said that he loved sharing his life with his fans followers,

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Speaker 2: but this divorced with Kayla, his ex wife, hasn't been

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Speaker 2: necessarily a smooth ride. I mean, what divorce is at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day. But they have issues, you know,

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Speaker 2: obviously with custody. She does mention I guess in court

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Speaker 2: that you know, he was suffering from substance abuse and

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Speaker 2: she didn't want him around the kids. I mean it

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Speaker 2: started to get I mean from the article that I read,

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Speaker 2: I guess she mentioned that one time he was sniffing

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Speaker 2: something in front of the kids and then was nervous

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Speaker 2: that he was going to drive the kids. But obviously

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Speaker 2: he denies that it's just a battle. I'm just grateful

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Speaker 2: I never had kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, so I feel like specifically from men, but

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of line after divorce, reinvention, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I had a lot of sort

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Speaker 1: of I don't know this obviously the specifics here, but

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Speaker 1: a lot of trauma. I mean is well, you do know,

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Speaker 1: very traumatic, right they say it's like up there one

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Speaker 1: some reach for alcohol and drugs. They want to reach,

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Speaker 1: want to and good for him, he's reaching for God. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so right, So I don't know. I mean I also, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I also think that a lot of times.

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Speaker 1: I hope it's not performative. I hope he means it.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if he is dating somebody I believe, or

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Speaker 2: is he engaged. I don't think he's engaged. Now he's dating.

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Speaker 1: Somebody Molly Gilahan Gillahan.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if maybe she's Christian, you know, you never know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I hope that she's you know, whoever, It

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter if she's Christian or not. Honestly, if she's

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Speaker 2: a great influence, that's a good sign. I mean, she

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Speaker 2: also comes from. I think she has kids of her

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Speaker 2: own as well. Have you ever had a spiritual awakening

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Speaker 2: after a breakup or a divorce?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not my pattern. Let's see, well, because I've been

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Speaker 1: you know, I've been married a while. But my pattern

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Speaker 1: was always to throw myself into something to numbt and

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Speaker 1: I never was smart enough to Thank God, I was

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Speaker 1: more like you know other men who my father I

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Speaker 1: used to say, it is a disgusting thing, And he

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Speaker 1: said a lot of disgusting things, one of which was

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Speaker 1: the only way to get over one person is to

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Speaker 1: get under another.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know, that's nasty. I mean my father was

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Speaker 2: quite nasty as well. Yeah, my father was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, are we sure? Are we not sisters?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I wish? But listen, I mean I think I I

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Speaker 1: some way probably followed that advice, not quite as literally,

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Speaker 1: but I always threw myself into stuff.

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Speaker 2: More than it's an addiction, I think it's something as

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Speaker 2: society today because we celebrate the hustle, and I think

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Speaker 2: hustle just equals numbing because we're just constantly needing to

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Speaker 2: stay busy and sitting in stillness is terrifying for I

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Speaker 2: think a lot of people, but I for I mean

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Speaker 2: for me, I definitely went. I did in a way,

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Speaker 2: turned to transcendental meditation as soon as I split, like

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Speaker 2: I needed and mind you, I was already looking into

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Speaker 2: it prior. Obviously you've also been sober.

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Speaker 1: You've been sober for a long time. So I'm seven

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Speaker 1: years old, so that's a long time. I mean you've

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Speaker 1: assuming that that there's a big spiritual component.

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Speaker 2: To your God. Yeah, it's it's absolutely that. You know,

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Speaker 2: we hand you know, our lives to God and we

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Speaker 2: you know, we have a higher power whether you want

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Speaker 2: to call it God or not, but you know, there

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Speaker 2: is that as far as the program goes, you know.

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Speaker 2: But I felt like, especially during COVID, you know, I

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Speaker 2: really dove into like all of these online courses, mental

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Speaker 2: health courses. I signed up for so much. And I

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Speaker 2: think it was just at that time though I was

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Speaker 2: still doing Dancing with the Stars because the show still happened,

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Speaker 2: but like there was something that I just wanted more of,

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Speaker 2: and I think it was just spirituality. I never really

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Speaker 2: I was born, I was baptized Catholic, my mother's Catholic,

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Speaker 2: but I never really I didn't really want to sit

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Speaker 2: up and stand up and stand up kidding.

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't like exercise, right, you don't like to Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I hate I hate it. I prefer just sitting

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Speaker 2: my ass down on chairs. But anyway, no, I can

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Speaker 2: just see it now. She hates Catholicism, like no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: not going there, folks.

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Speaker 1: This is a little bit I think. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: is we're getting off un attention. But I just during COVID,

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Speaker 1: I definitely was searching also, and a lot of Eckart toole.

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Speaker 2: God, he puts me to sleep though bad voice.

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Speaker 1: Oh his voice. I would take song walks and you know,

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Speaker 1: and maybe you know, after something like this, I could

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Speaker 1: like a divorce. That seems to be the healthiest way

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Speaker 1: to go, right, Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think it's all numbing at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day, right, We're all numbing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay. So apparently Russell Crowe is not interested in

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Speaker 1: getting married again, did you? Apparently he was on sixty

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Speaker 1: Minutes and he has his current girlfriend, Britney Theiro. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I'm saying that correctly, And there are

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Speaker 1: rumors that they were getting engaged and he said no way, no, how.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched the interview. It was yeah, he's definitely.

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Speaker 2: I mean he's sixty one, she's thirty three. Will it

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Speaker 2: last for No, nothing's forever, period. But at the end

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Speaker 2: get married ten years from now.

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Speaker 1: He seems to be pretty like firm with that. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: with not getting married, right, not getting married?

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Speaker 2: And honestly, I don't even know. People ask me all

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Speaker 2: the time if I would ever get married again. I said, well,

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Speaker 2: first I need to start dating. I mean, let's just

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Speaker 2: don't think I think once you've been married.

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Speaker 1: I'm positive. I'm not positive. But I would think that

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Speaker 1: he would be careful. I would think he would there

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Speaker 1: would be an ironclad But that's I.

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Speaker 2: Even go there, like, just don't get married. It's just

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Speaker 2: like the uncomfortable conversations, especially if he doesn't. I mean,

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Speaker 2: he seems to be in love with her.

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Speaker 1: I don't know this woman, so this is all speculation. Dude,

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Speaker 1: If you're thirty three and you're dating Russell Crowe, like,

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Speaker 1: are you doing it just for the front of it.

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Speaker 1: think at least the ones that I know, not necessarily everyone.

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Speaker 1: But now you're dating this older man and he's saying

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Speaker 1: guessing very beautiful, smart, wonderful person. I don't know mom,

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Speaker 1: her mom a little worried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, we also don't know. Maybe the mom

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Speaker 2: promotes it like we don't know. What do you think?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: But all I know is that that interview, that sit

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Speaker 2: down interview with Russell Crowe. Actually it was interesting because

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Speaker 2: I've been a fan of his and I've seen a

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Speaker 2: couple of his interviews. You could tell he's in a

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Speaker 2: place in his life where one he's grateful for all

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Speaker 2: the work that he's still able to get as a

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Speaker 2: sixty one year old actor who's done this for so

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Speaker 2: many years. He assumed that he was going to be

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Speaker 2: out of the business by now, and he said that

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Speaker 2: he's also it's great that he has boundaries now. As

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Speaker 2: far as not saying yes to everything. You know, you

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Speaker 2: can tell that his priorities have shifted, which I think

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Speaker 2: for me at least through that interview, he comes across

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Speaker 2: us a lot more happy, just happier and peaceful.

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Speaker 1: Really, do you think he's hot?

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Speaker 2: He was? Yeah, he was Gladiator and he was on

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Speaker 2: that Wait what was the movie with a two personality?

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Speaker 2: What was it?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? No, the two persons you mean the one?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, he with the three personality. That's Paris.

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Speaker 2: Hilton is not an original life. I know, a beautiful mind,

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Speaker 2: a beautiful mind, beautiful mind.

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Speaker 1: He was brilliant in that he was hot there. I

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Speaker 1: didn't think he was necessarily hot in that way. Maybe

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Speaker 1: So I can write a tell all though about my family,

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Speaker 2: These boys, though, I have to say I've hung out

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Speaker 1: But we can't have it.

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Speaker 2: She's so sexy to me, like I'm believing I'm I'm straight, okay,

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like Chris Martin gets such like hot women.

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Speaker 2: He went from Gwyneth Paltrow musician. I mean he is

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Speaker 2: He just needs to sing that.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't find him. I mean he's not my

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Speaker 1: You're hot. You're hot. Like yeah, wait, so can you

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Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about my my competitive life, which is

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Speaker 1: she's singing and she's like, it's all excited. And she

436
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Speaker 1: was in Hairspray too, I mean she's but yeah, so

437
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Speaker 1: I'm watching Hunting wives, and it took me a minute,

438
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Speaker 1: even though I.

439
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Speaker 2: Know, you know, you know her mm hmm, yeah, no,

440
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 2: I definitely back in my clubbing days. I think she

441
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,199
Speaker 2: was dating one of my friends who went out a

442
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Speaker 2: lot as well, and we like we just you know,

443
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Speaker 2: cross paths. And she seems really sweet and humble and

444
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: has stayed that way.

445
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Speaker 1: It seems like, yep, yeah, she had a hard time

446
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:09,199
Speaker 1: when she split from I was right standalone.

447
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: When you go through any type of heartbreak or split,

448
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 2: Like for me, at least, i'm I don't eat either,

449
00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: Like that's my way of handling the stress. I think

450
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 2: it's different for people, certain people, right, some people like

451
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: to stress eat and I just food is the last

452
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Speaker 2: thing I ever want when I'm going through something so painful.

453
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Speaker 1: I never thought I would get to a place in

454
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Speaker 1: my life where that I I like, that happened to

455
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Speaker 1: me where I would actually lose my appetite because I

456
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Speaker 1: was I was riddled with eating disorders, you know, growing

457
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Speaker 1: up and into my twenties. But now I don't know

458
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Speaker 1: if it's since my kid's been born, or when I

459
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Speaker 1: get anxious, I can't eat and I get this like

460
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Speaker 1: feeling that wells up in me and I just the

461
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Speaker 1: last thing I could do was like ingest shoe. Yeah yeah,

462
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Speaker 1: But it wasn't like that when I was younger. Usually

463
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Speaker 1: when I was younger, I was driven to eat.

464
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Speaker 2: Oh interesting.

465
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Speaker 1: But as I've gotten older, I definitely when I get

466
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Speaker 1: nervous and anxious, I just basically usually I just curl

467
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Speaker 1: up in my bed in a very tight ball and.

468
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Speaker 2: Yeah and hope and hope it was a bad dream.

469
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Speaker 2: What I love about this article, though, is that she's

470
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Speaker 2: really promoting the fact that she was really loving her

471
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Speaker 2: little girl inside of her and the way that she

472
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Speaker 2: was showing compassion and the self talk. I definitely can

473
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Speaker 2: take a page out of her book, because I think

474
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Speaker 2: that really is so important. It's more important than we think,

475
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Speaker 2: Like we all have that little person inside of us

476
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Speaker 2: that was not either properly raised or that needs that

477
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Speaker 2: mothering that maybe did they didn't get. And I think

478
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Speaker 2: it's so easy for me, at least to the negative

479
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 2: self talk really gets loud, especially because you know, I

480
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Speaker 2: live a welle and sometimes you know it's just you

481
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Speaker 2: don't you're not really aware of it unless you're a

482
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Speaker 2: freaking you know monk, But like you know, I know,

483
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Speaker 2: I have thoughts in my head.

484
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Speaker 1: I have I have become with therapy, many many, many

485
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Speaker 1: years of therapy because my therapist also says that I

486
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: have to like big girl Jennifer has to embrace a

487
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Speaker 1: little girl Jennifer if you guys, by the way, whoever's listening,

488
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Speaker 1: So she talked, so Brittany would say to herself, okay, baby,

489
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Speaker 1: like I'm just gonna read it straight from this article.

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Speaker 1: A kay, baby girl, do you want a bagel? Let's

491
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Speaker 1: get you a bagel. We're gonna toast it. We're gonna

492
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Speaker 1: put some cream cheese on it, said all you can eat. Okay,

493
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Speaker 1: that's okay.

494
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Speaker 2: And that is because of her split from her ex.

495
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Speaker 1: Yes, but I know that a lot of times my

496
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Speaker 1: own therapist will say when I get upset, like almost

497
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Speaker 1: like how to almost like embrace myself. You know what

498
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, put my arms and talk to myself,

499
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Speaker 1: is it?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

501
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Speaker 1: And remind myself that I'm an adult, right and what's

502
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Speaker 1: happening inside me is not feeling very adult or feels

503
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Speaker 1: like a scared little girl triggered. Yes, yes, when you

504
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Speaker 1: get triggered like that, and yeah, I think that's really

505
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Speaker 1: cool and really cool to share because I don't hear

506
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Speaker 1: people share that often, and it reminded me of what

507
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Speaker 1: I'm often told to do in therapy.

508
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Speaker 2: Right, I don't think a lot of people do this,

509
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Speaker 2: Like I think that you have to be here very

510
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: intentional and very self aware to even catch yourself and

511
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: the self talk to even know if you're doing if

512
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: you're saying negative things to yourself or not. Like to

513
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Speaker 2: even know that is pretty spectacular.

514
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Speaker 1: Actually, I agree. I agree. I'm happy here because I

515
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: love Yeah, I do too.

516
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Speaker 2: I love the message.

517
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Speaker 1: You know, I do too. No, I'm telling you that's

518
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: like anybody listening will spend a lot of money on

519
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: therapy to learn that.

520
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Speaker 2: So yeah, you and me both, I'm going to do

521
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Speaker 2: it for the rest of my life.

522
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and the breed and also to breed to

523
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Speaker 1: breathe to remind myself right, Oh yeah.

524
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Speaker 2: Breath is so important. Like I only know that through

525
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Speaker 2: because of dancing, But like if I wasn't dancing, I

526
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 2: don't think I'd have any sense of any body awareness. Breath.

527
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Speaker 2: How breath can literally change the way you feel and.

528
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Speaker 1: A second, your autonomic nervous system if you.

529
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Speaker 2: Everything, Oh yeah, it can change. It can from fear

530
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Speaker 2: to like just calmness in a matter of seconds if

531
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Speaker 2: you turn into your breath. But obviously there's certain techniques.

532
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Speaker 2: Do you listen to doctor Huberman his podcast? Oh fascinating.

533
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 2: I'm just so fascinated by just just how our brain works. Right,

534
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: and he's an I will I'll send you his podcast.

535
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Speaker 2: It's fascinating. Okay, good on you, Britney Snell. Congrats. I'm

536
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: gonna definitely try that. Hopefully it works.

537
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, do.

538
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Speaker 2: You want to talk about Tory spelling? This is yeah

539
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: so sad.

540
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, that's just been ugly for so long.

541
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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, core Tori, Yeah, you know,

542
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: I don't always mean by the way, I don't know

543
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: if it sounds like does he think it sounds like

544
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: we're always sort of more sympathetic to the woman, and

545
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: maybe when we were women. I think that would be

546
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Speaker 1: our inclination.

547
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Speaker 2: I think in this world we need it now more

548
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Speaker 2: than ever, because I'm pretty sure women are attacking women.

549
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 2: It's pretty it's happening often.

550
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Speaker 1: What have you watched Real Housewives on New Jersey, Cholbern.

551
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 2: No, I've just watched my social media, my social media accounts.

552
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 2: I mean they're just borderline like it's so toxic and

553
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 2: I cannot avoid it obviously, right, Yeah, yeah, I do

554
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: want coming at me all women, it's all women? Is

555
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: it really all women?

556
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: So depressing?

557
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: I mean it just shows you that so this whole time,

558
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 2: then when you're saying women support women, we're all full

559
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 2: of dead because it's like I've noticed a pattern too.

560
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 2: It's like when you look good, when you feel good,

561
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Speaker 2: when you just really do like feel like yourself, that's

562
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Speaker 2: when people try and tear you down. And then it's

563
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Speaker 2: when you are the opposite or you're struggling and they

564
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 2: see that, then they're there for you.

565
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Speaker 1: It's interesting and I think it's all about feeling less than,

566
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Speaker 1: not enough.

567
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well when I was a little girl, is what

568
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 2: I was going to say that that is the reason,

569
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: because I didn't feel supported and loved enough, I think

570
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Speaker 2: as who I was. That's why I found my identity

571
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 2: outside of myself. And that's now what I'm dealing with today.

572
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 2: It's like I am enough without whatever it is that

573
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 2: I think I was, because that has nothing to do

574
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 2: with the person that I am. Right, I am enough

575
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 2: regardless of what I'm doing as far as my job

576
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,239
Speaker 2: goes or my or my love life or whatever it is,

577
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter.

578
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: You know, my therapist and this is something that has

579
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Speaker 1: I don't know why. Some certain things that you learn

580
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: in therapy, right, they are they stick and they help

581
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: and they help and they help and they help. So

582
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,159
Speaker 1: she one day she just held up this pencil and

583
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: she said to me that, so life is not I

584
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,360
Speaker 1: don't know about life, but let's say even there's this feeling,

585
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: especially with fame, right that you're either at the top,

586
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: and if you're at the top, you're always worried about

587
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: the fall. Right, you're at the top, and the energy

588
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: is about your energy becomes about that. You know, when

589
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: you're not or you're at the bottom, you feel or

590
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: you feel like you're at the bottom. Right, But the

591
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: the ideal place to be is over here outside of

592
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: that and in dignity, right, in dignity and peace, knowing

593
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: that and gratitude and gratitude, knowing that no matter what,

594
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: you're just as special as you're just as special and

595
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: no more special than the person next to you. We

596
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: all hate polls, yes, and we are all there's without

597
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: doing anything, we are we are one.

598
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 2: I know that sounds ye, so cheesy, but seriously, we are.

599
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, And.

600
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 2: It's society that puts you on a pedestal and then

601
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: you either believe it and you go a little.

602
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: Deluttle the trick. That's the trick when you get any

603
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 1: kind I think of fame or even success in life,

604
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: to not feed into that, right, it's so hard that

605
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, but awareness, awareness, that's why it's

606
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: better to be famous when you're older. I had the

607
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: whole time as soon as I started house I thank

608
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: god it was in therapy for you know, twenty years

609
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: before and continued it. But that was a big part

610
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: of it for me once I got on the show.

611
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: And I don't have a kind of fame obviously that

612
00:28:59,040 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: you have or whatever.

613
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: You can't. I mean, you don't need to measure it.

614
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: Well, even a little bit of it is do things

615
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: to your head.

616
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: It's social media. Everyone goes through it too, everyone.

617
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: Talking about how it doesn't matter how everyone sees me.

618
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: I'm not at the top and I'm not at the bottom.

619
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm out, I'm not even I'm like away from that line.

620
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: Try to be you know, living in dignity blah blah blah,

621
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: and not no one's better than me, and I'm not

622
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: better than anyone.

623
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Speaker 2: Correct, And the noise does get loud. Yeah, So I

624
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: mean I wonder how Tory feels though, because Toy has

625
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 2: been like she's been raised in this type of environment

626
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 2: like she, I would assume she only knows that life

627
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: of celebrity, right.

628
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, listen, I think that even from her beginning,

629
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: right with nine to two and zero, everyone assumed it

630
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: assumed that she was it was all about being an

631
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: EPO baby. And yeah, and she came from this royal

632
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: family in Hollywood. Talk about getting beat up online and

633
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: this is you know, going back years fully, Yeah, well

634
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,479
Speaker 1: back back in the day, because what's unless I'm screwing

635
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: this up? But he was married when they got together.

636
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: I think I have no idea what I have to ask?

637
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: Yesther says yes, and she got a lot of shit

638
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: about it.

639
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 2: So she was the other woman.

640
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: She was the other woman, I got it. And they

641
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: were madly, madly, madly in love.

642
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 2: And he wasn't already separated or anything.

643
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I mean it happened so

644
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: famous too, who was it?

645
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: Well, oh, they met on a movie.

646
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: So she had to endure that write Everyone's judgment Dean

647
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: oh McDermott. Hello, Okay, So yeah, they had to deal

648
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: with a lot of that, and I was rooting for

649
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: them today. I got a lot of kids, tons tons

650
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: of kids.

651
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Speaker 2: I did run into her, and when I had my

652
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: other podcast with iHeart and I was in NAPA and

653
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 2: she was there, we didn't get to talk much. I mean,

654
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,479
Speaker 2: she also did Dancing with the Stars. I was so

655
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: proud of her for doing Dancing with the Stars because

656
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 2: she's been asked, I would say every single season and

657
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: she said, and I would try and convince her, like

658
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 2: just like nicely convincerr obviously, you know, you still need

659
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: to tell these people the truth of what the actual

660
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 2: thing is, what they're going to be stepping into. But

661
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: overall it was such a great experience. She had one

662
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 2: of the best partners, Pasha. I'm just happy she did

663
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 2: it because it's very much also an individual like achievement

664
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: as these celebrities come on because it is hard, right

665
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 2: and if you can get through it, no matter how

666
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 2: long you last, you feel so proud of yourself.

667
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: Is that what you tell people before they do it, Like,

668
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: what was your warning to her if.

669
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 2: They ask questions like, is it seven days a week? Yes,

670
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: it is seven days a week.

671
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: Right, but it's also for hours.

672
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be seven days a week. But

673
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: it's set your own risk because you're the one dancing, right, So.

674
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: I always wonder, like how when it starts?

675
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: It's not twenty four hours? Don't it's not big brother

676
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: right of course.

677
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: But I'm saying I know, but I'm saying, like people's

678
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: bodies that aren't in shape, right, and like, how do

679
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: you It must be so shocking.

680
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: To it's shocking to people whose bodies are in shape too,

681
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: because this is a way different way. You're not just it.

682
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: I mean, the way we move our bodies is not normal.

683
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 2: You're forcing your bodies to move ways that is not natural.

684
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: And the more awkward it feels, the better it looks

685
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: from the outside in.

686
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: All Right, you and I can go off on like tangents,

687
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: go ahead, it's really fun. But okay, I'm trying to like,

688
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: what is this what is this podcast about? Oh, divorce? Divorce?

689
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 2: Well, you know, there's so many different meanings of divorce,

690
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 2: but Tori spelling. Basically, she settles her divorce finally right

691
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: with Dean. She's requesting for spousal support two years after separating.

692
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, so she she has requested spousal, spousal and

693
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: child support, and so I guess they got. They filed

694
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: for divorce they feel like pretty recently.

695
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: So it obviously didn't end well.

696
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: So the filing didn't indicate whether or not they had

697
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: a prenup in place.

698
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, which means most likely that that wasn't the case.

699
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 2: Yeah right, Oh, well, more, I love her. I do

700
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 2: love Tori, so I'm just wishing her so much love.

701
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: I met her once at a an iHeart thing and

702
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: she was so so so sweet to me.

703
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: She is a sweet person, she really is, genuinely.

704
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

705
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor, jeez, Louise, I've never seen one episode of

706
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 2: The Bachelor, Bachelorette, Bachelor, Paradise, whatever the heck, I've never

707
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: not interested.

708
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: Well, I will tell you that I have many, many,

709
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: many I have seen many, many many, and the Golden Bachelor.

710
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: And I am friends with Teresa.

711
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 2: Oh so okay, yeah, just so you know, after reading

712
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: this whole long ass article, I'm also on Teresa's side.

713
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 2: Just FYI.

714
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: Well, I will tell you that, talk about a sweet,

715
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: kind human, he seems what a doll and I did

716
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: watch The Golden Bachelor and I interviewed a few of

717
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: those folks and she was just she's a special person.

718
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: Did you know Teresa prior to her being on the podcast?

719
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: No, I didn't, but we were actually all in Tahoe

720
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: together for yeah, and it was it was really great

721
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: and Leslie who was on Golden Bauchler two and that

722
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: she went really really far. And but anyway, so apparently,

723
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: according to Teresa, he said some whack a dutally dud

724
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: really kind of scary, right.

725
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: I mean red flag?

726
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, red was dark with the red black. I

727
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: don't know. So apparently she went to his house and

728
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: they took a walk around. They called it pretty lake

729
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: and he she said they were coming to the end

730
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: of the lake and he goes, do you see that's

731
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: shit up there? Uh, that's where I'm going to hide

732
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: your body after I kill you and chalk.

733
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 2: Cut you up into pieces like that is crazy, And

734
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 2: she said.

735
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: She was laughing, her nervous laugh, but he was.

736
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: Not, Okay, that is crazy. I would have ran for

737
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: the hills.

738
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know how in what context that was

739
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: you ever ask me. I didn't know about this. So

740
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: when I when Teresa and I became friends, I knew

741
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: that it was not good, but this just came out

742
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: so and she didn't mention it to me at all, right, creepy.

743
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he seems to be a little bit of

744
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 2: an attention grabber.

745
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 3: Uh.

746
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I think he loved you.

747
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: I think he loved the attention a little bit. Now,

748
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: mind you, there's two sides to every story. Absolutely, but

749
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: I don't know it was all a little I mean,

750
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: like I said, I never watched it, but yet I

751
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,399
Speaker 2: felt emotionally connected when they said they were divorcing after

752
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 2: just like a couple of days of being married.

753
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: Right, Yes, Well, I think also, I guess this was reacting.

754
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: This just came out like yes, because of his book, right,

755
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: and so maybe she was reacting to that. I mean,

756
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: she said, she goes, I don't think he would have

757
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: killed me. He says, I don't think that was true.

758
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: It just spoke to an underlying feeling about me, like

759
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 1: he wanted she felt like he just wanted to get

760
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: rid of her.

761
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: Right, that's so odd. Okay, So basically The Golden Bachelor

762
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 2: detailed his romance with his final Rose winner in his

763
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 2: memoir Golden Years. She's laying out her own perspective and

764
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: recently shared an unsettling memory with her former husband. Okay,

765
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: so yes, so this is why this is all happening. Okay,

766
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: got it.

767
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: God, she's reacting to all of his claims.

768
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: Well, there was quite a few from what I read.

769
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

770
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 2: Look, I there's been bachelor bachelorette contestants on Dancing with

771
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 2: the Stars, and I believe that. Look, it's not normal

772
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 2: the situation you're put in, right, Like everything moves so fast,

773
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: and then yeah, there is that moment of silent or

774
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 2: quiet time where it hasn't been announced who the winner is,

775
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: and then you have to do this like hide out.

776
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: Like it's just not a normal environment.

777
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: It seems like it would be romantic, but it's probably intense.

778
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sure, because like the camera is like some

779
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 2: you know, people don't know. Sometimes you perform in front

780
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: of the cameras, you don't know you're performing right, right,

781
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: you know, you're very aware of it, and then all

782
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: of a sudden's true, they're not there, and you're like, wait,

783
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 2: who is this person who's not always on?

784
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: Right?

785
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: Like I know I'm not always on in normal life.

786
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: Me neither, you know, it was nice about Golden because

787
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: you don't watch it, but as opposed to the others

788
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, Beginning Bachelor, and Bachelorette, the Golden Bachelor's I

789
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 1: felt like it was a very inspiring show and not listen.

790
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 1: They even had like Bachelor's in Paradise, they had both

791
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,439
Speaker 1: the golden and the younger ones, and the younger ones

792
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: were almost condescending, like, oh, they're so cute, they're look

793
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: at them thing. But like when it was just the

794
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor, it was really nice and see how older

795
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: people also, how like the guys interacted with each other

796
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: like a gentleman. For the bachelorette was so great and

797
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: even and the women they were actually making friends and

798
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: all of that was very inspiring. But in the end

799
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: it did not work out, and she actually said that

800
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,760
Speaker 1: he wanted her to quit working.

801
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 2: Well, they said that they supposedly discussed this and she

802
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: was going she said that she was going to quit.

803
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: From his side of the story, right right, I don't

804
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: think he should ever expect anybody to change their lives

805
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: for you, if you know what I mean, Like, you

806
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 2: can't change anybody right well.

807
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 1: Right, I mean, yeah, he's retired. I guess he wanted

808
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: her to hang out with him. I would never be

809
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: able to sleep for independence, and yes, exactly get.

810
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 2: Some insurance on that body of yours.

811
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. But you know, I don't, like I

812
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: said to you before, I'm not obviously I don't. I

813
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: wasn't there, even though I'm friends with Teresa and he

814
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: does a pod with Amy Robach and t J. Holmes

815
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: that you guys can listen to, so I would be

816
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: interested to hear in hearing his and no one does

817
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: a pod like those two, so I would be interested

818
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: in hearing you know what he had to say. So,

819
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: I mean, and it's I thought that because maybe of

820
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: their age, they would be able to keep it nice.

821
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 2: Oh well, well, I do believe though that maybe. Do

822
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: you think the network had anything to do with the

823
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 2: fact that they had to announce it publicly that they

824
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 2: were going to separate because it was so soon, right,

825
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: So I think it is whole thing.

826
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I think, I think, Yes, I think they did.

827
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: I guess there's a I guess you sign a contract

828
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: of course.

829
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: And by the way, like the amount of just everything,

830
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 2: I mean, they even said this in the article. Someone

831
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 2: referred to the fact that they didn't want to back out.

832
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 2: I mean the production of it, the people pleasing, the

833
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: fact that they you know, all these people traveled to

834
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 2: be there at their wedding. It's like that was on

835
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 2: TV and not the way I get it world right. Yeah,

836
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 2: it's a lot, it is, And you're not thinking about

837
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 2: yourself though you should because this is your day. You're

838
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: thinking about crap. I have people traveling from across the

839
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 2: world to come here, Like you're like, but this is

840
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: the rest of my life. It makes no sense now,

841
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: right if you think about it in like right, But

842
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: then when you're in a dress already and it's like

843
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 2: count down till the freaking prince and princess gets married,

844
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 2: you're gonna do it. You're doing it with a smile

845
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 2: on your face.

846
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: Well, he's already found someone else. Apparently he's already engaged,

847
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: So you know, would you do it? Would you go on?

848
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 4: No?

849
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't. Of course you wouldn't the bachelor.

850
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: No, there was talk of this many eons ago. But

851
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 2: I would have after it back back then when I

852
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 2: was drinking.

853
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,320
Speaker 1: Probably, well, if I was single, I think I would.

854
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 2: You would. Yeah, I could see you on it, really,

855
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 2: you know, what I can only assume this though, is

856
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: that I believe maybe was there a sense of like

857
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 2: just authenticity when you saw The Golden Bachelor, because they

858
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 2: weren't putting on a show.

859
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: Definitely from so during the Golden Bachelor, the women specifically felt,

860
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: they were not just felt because we I've actually interviewed

861
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: a few of them and they are authentic and on

862
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: the show. I what I saw on the show was

863
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: what I got, you know, when I was talking to

864
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: them on the pod and Esa and Leslie off the pod.

865
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: So yes. And in terms of the guys, you know

866
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette, they were adorable, they bonded and it.

867
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: Was a friendship special thrette right, yes.

868
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: Yes, well that was what was I think that show

869
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: so special? Yes, because you're mature enough that it's that

870
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Speaker 1: is important friendship, right.

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Speaker 2: But the Golden is specific because I don't know if

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Speaker 2: the other ones do that. Maybe they do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know about this season just not

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Speaker 1: so good. But anyways, my friend always a pleasure, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is such a pleasure. I love talking to you.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can see you on that show.

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Speaker 2: But you're married. We shouldn't even be talking about that.

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Speaker 1: Well no, just kidding, just kidding, next lifetime.

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Speaker 2: Don't manifest it unless you want to. I could help you.

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Speaker 1: Believe me, I ain't manifested nothing when it comes to my.

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Speaker 2: Technically, we just did, didn't we. We spoke it to exist.

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Speaker 1: Really say that. Don't get all nervous.

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Speaker 2: That is part of the manifested.

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Speaker 1: Really well, we have to talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Speak it into existence, girlfriends, and.

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Speaker 1: Not manifest while I'm speaking into into existence, never ever

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Speaker 1: to get separated or divorcekin And for you, my friend,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is that you want next, I want to.

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Speaker 2: Single forever, single forever. I love single life too much.

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Speaker 1: I love that you love it all right, guys, so listen.

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Speaker 1: Lots of headlines this week, crazy and so I mean,

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Speaker 1: I hope, we hope that you like gossiping with us,

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00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: just gossip, though I feel like we go deeper.

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Speaker 2: It's real, real, innocent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it is too. We'll go with that.

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Speaker 2: Check out I do part two after dark for more

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Speaker 2: of the real gossip.

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Speaker 1: Just kidding, yeah right, I love that. So listen. There's

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Speaker 1: one thing for sure. If you're listening and going through

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Speaker 1: a divorce or heartbreak right now, you are not alone

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00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: and If you need help getting through your heartbreak, call us,

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00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: email us. All the infos in the show notes, follow

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00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: us on socials. Make sure to rate and review the

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Speaker 1: podcast I Do Part two, an iHeart podcast where falling

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Speaker 1: in love is the main objective. Love you, Cheryl let

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Speaker 1: we fell in love.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, exactly. That's all that matters.

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Speaker 1: That's all it matters. Bye, guys, thank you. Bye.