1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Forever. Hi, guys. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hey Sidney, Elizabeth Washington, Hello Marie, Samuel Foston. 3 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm doing great? Is that wait? Is 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: that your real it's Sam ye may Sam yet. 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: I know I used to say it all the time, 6 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 2: but then I've forgotten. It was like, is it really? 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 2: Your middle name is Malie? S'm your full stint. 8 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: Thank you you. 9 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 2: And my middle name is not Elizabeth, it's Britain. Just 10 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 2: so everybody knows Sydney Britton was It's b r I 11 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: T t O N Britain. And what is a Briton 12 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: says I don't know. I have no clue, like a 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: Briton filter. 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: No. 15 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: I mean allegedly this was like the middle name of 16 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: my dad, but I don't believe it. 17 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: So, okay, that was my grandmam's maiden name. Britain. Really 18 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: felt the same way. 19 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, just so you don't say anything messy, Okay, thank you, Okay, yeah, 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: don't say anything. 21 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Okay, check she just died. Appreciate it. Hello, Hello, Marie. 22 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: We're good, We're great. You know, we're here on time? No, 23 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 2: we were not. 24 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: Actually no, we're on time. Okay, we're doing better. Twenty twenty, 25 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: my resume. 26 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: Well, I don't really have a resolution, but I am 27 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: trying to be better about being on time and stuff. 28 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying. Did I did I talk about how I 29 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: was forty minutes late to a date? Yes? No? Last month? 30 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: Yes you did? You did forty almost not relate to 31 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: a date that was not that far from my house. 32 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: That's so rude. But he was twenty minutes late. 33 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: So on brand, but so rude. I mean me just 34 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 2: going to work this week? I was late almost every day. 35 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: But how late forty minutes late? 36 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: Well, they canceled our meetings so we didn't have morning 37 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: meeting anymore. So it was like, well, what am I 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: getting there at ten? For? You gotta be a work 39 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: at ten o'clock and you'll be late to that. Yeah, 40 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: ten o'clock is like a good start time. 41 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: I feel like for it. Sis, you got nerve? Ut 42 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: what time is your date? Okay? 43 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: Okay, but you know I had you want to look good, 44 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: but you don't want to look like you trying so hard? 45 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: But what did you do before the date? I got 46 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 2: ready for the day exactly. You had to tell you 47 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: out all day to get ready for the Trader Joe's. 48 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: I was doing laundry. 49 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 2: I was prepping, you know, I was making sure that 50 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 2: my you know, the lady lined up properly. I was 51 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: minding my business, That's what I was doing. What was 52 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 2: I an expert in this week? Thank you so much 53 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 2: for asking this week? I was an expert at being 54 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: an eyewitness. Last night, I was in my apartment minding 55 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: my business, and I heard voices screaming, and there was 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: a yellow cab parked in the middle of the street 57 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 2: with the lights on and the door open, and this 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: drunk white woman trying to get into my building. She 59 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 2: jumped out and didn't pay the fare, so the cab 60 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: driver jumped out and he was like, miss pay you 61 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: off to pay me my money, and she was like, 62 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 2: you're being a fucking aphol You're being a dickhead. She 63 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: was cursing this man out for his twenty four dollars 64 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: and he was like he I guess. He was standing 65 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 2: in the doorway and he would let her get in, 66 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: and she was screaming at this dude. So, you know, 67 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 2: I had to pause, you know, the movie I was 68 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 2: the film I was watching. I was watching Aladdin. 69 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: I paused for the seventeenth time. I was actually I 70 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: wasn't watching Aladdin. I was getting to start Aladdin. 71 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 2: I had just watched a Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler 72 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: movie on Netflix. 73 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: Pretty bad, yes, but uh. 74 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 2: Screaming at at her, at him, and then she's like, 75 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 2: I'm trying to. 76 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: Get you the money. I had the money. I'm trying 77 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: to get the money. 78 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: And he wouldn't let her leave, and people are walking 79 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: around and there's like a bus stop across the street. 80 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: This is in the middle of the night. And he's like, somebody, 81 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: please call the police. 82 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: It's a bunch of black people outside, nobody's gone, none 83 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 2: of us are police. 84 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: He's I'm trying to go live. 85 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, can y'all back up from under the fire 86 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: so I could get your faces? And then she just 87 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: takes off and runs up the street. She leaves him 88 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: in the doorway and she runs up the street. Make 89 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 2: such a dickhead, and she's screaming, and he's like he 90 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: gets he goes say this car and he picks up 91 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: his phone and he's trying to call the cops. 92 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: And then she comes. 93 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 2: Back because she lives here, right wasted, she lives here, 94 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: and he's she's still yelling at him, he's not yelling 95 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: at her. Oh you know, A captain Saba Babe comes 96 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 2: around the corner, a white man in a in a 97 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 2: new Balance, and he's like, sir, leave this woman alone. 98 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: Leave this woman alone. The door of his cab is 99 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 2: still open. 100 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: He's just trying to get his twenty four dollars. 101 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. The white dude is like, well, what happened? And 102 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: she's like, she's like, I already paid him. 103 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: I venmoed him. Oh my god, and he's being mean 104 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: to me. 105 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 2: I was like wow, and he's like. The white dude 106 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 2: is like, well, dude, if she already paid you, like 107 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: you know, like. 108 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: What's the problem. I'm in the window like wow. 109 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: So he's like, he says to the white girl, He's like, well, 110 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 2: show me show me your venmo and she's like no, 111 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 2: I'm not no. And he's like do you have money 112 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 2: on you? 113 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: Do you have your cards? He was like no. 114 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 2: He's like, well, so how am I supposed to? And 115 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 2: then she starts she turns on him. Of course she does. 116 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: Anyway, I don't know how it ended. 117 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 2: I jumped on the phone, but I think, God, I 118 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 2: don't know what he was there. It literally it was 119 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: like half an hour of him just trying to get 120 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,799 Speaker 2: his money. Yeah, and I was like, does she live here? 121 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 2: I wonder which one of my. 122 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: Neighbors she is. But she seemed like a fun one, So. 123 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, I've just seen dudes in your apartment. 124 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, now you're you're building. 125 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: Wow shot She said, well, you know you live in 126 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: a brothelsit whole house, the whole house April And I 127 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: was there. 128 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: I was ready and my phone was charged. I was 129 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: ready to shoot it if I needed to. But she 130 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: she didn't have no code on. She had on like 131 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 2: you know, like a BB shoe of course, and you know, 132 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: everything just slipped a Carlos. But yeah, but but the 133 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: whole time she's screaming, I heard her story change a 134 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 2: bunch of times, and I was like, if this had 135 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: been anybody but a drunk white woman, like this scenario 136 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: would have played out completely differently. Yeah, Like, did she 137 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: wish she was screaming the white dud popped up at it? Hey, bro, 138 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 2: leave for alone. She already paid you. What is this 139 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 2: guy bothering you? No, but she's bothering me. Praise be 140 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 2: a Becky, That's what it be, Not. 141 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 1: Praising a Becky. But anyway, Sidney, what were you an 142 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: expert in this week? What was I an expert in 143 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: this week? 144 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 2: I was I went through like a little TVT situation 145 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: because I wanted to be inspired, and something made me 146 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: watch Jamie Fox. 147 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: I might need security. 148 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 2: I watched his whole special again and I remember just 149 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 2: watching it when I was like younger and was like, 150 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 2: this is the funniest this is the best special out 151 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 2: And then I rewatched it and I was like, oh, 152 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 2: this is really problematic and no jokes, Like he's a 153 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 2: he's a character, right. It was like it felt like 154 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 2: a one man show. 155 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: He's like playing music. Yeah, he was. 156 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 2: Repeating himself a lot, and he was telling the story 157 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: about ll couj and that was probably the best part. 158 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: He gets into Africa and he talked about you know, 159 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:14,239 Speaker 2: you get instant aids there, and I was like, James, 160 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, how come they haven't repulled this up and 161 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: canceled Jamie Fox. Well, I mean because he's making fun 162 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 2: of Africa. White people don't care about Africa. Truth, That's 163 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: why he's not canceled. They're like, well, you do get 164 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 2: into the day's when you go you know what, I mean, like, 165 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: remember the white lady that went on a trip to 166 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 2: Africa and she tweeted before her flight took off headed 167 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: to Africa, hope I don't get AIDS and she put 168 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 2: her phone on airplumb mode. 169 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: Heard the tweet went viral and she landed. She was 170 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: fired from that was that. 171 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 3: Was the guy that was James Charles, the makeup the 172 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: first guy that was a cover girl. 173 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: No, oh my god, dude. 174 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: They paid eighteen dollars and just get get the Wi Fi? 175 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: Is that much in flight? It's a little expensive. What 176 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: did James say? When did he say? 177 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 3: It was like, I'm gonna at a bowla and then 178 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 3: he was when he landed, he was canceled. 179 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: They keep trying to cancel him, but he's. 180 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 3: Still he keeps on coming back. 181 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: He's still a cup of girl or whatever. So he's 182 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: herd p hees there it is. He keeps coming back. Yep. 183 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: So yeah, I was just wanted to be inspired comedically, 184 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 2: and I just found out, like all the stuff that 185 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: I thought was funny ten years ago not as funny 186 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty. I mean, I haven't seen the Special 187 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: in years, but I remember thinking it. 188 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: Was really really good too. Africa. Yeah. I mean Jamie 189 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: Vice is funny. He is, He's a funny person. 190 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: But I just if you look at a stand up 191 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 2: special and you want like set up punchline like Joe, 192 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: it's not. 193 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: That it's it felt very loose. I was like, did 194 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: he did he write it in this Day? Yeah? 195 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 2: But every comic is not a setup punchline, right right right? 196 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 2: A set up punchline comedian. No, I'll be telling these 197 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 2: long ass these long ass stories. I mean, I don't 198 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 2: think that they problem I'm not talking about getting AIDS, 199 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 2: but you should I add that to the sent No. 200 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: Will that get me an Academy award? No? 201 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 2: But speaking of a stand up comedian who's not problematic. 202 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: Academy award? 203 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, our guest today, she is a stand up comedian. 204 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 2: She's a writer, journalist, she's out here, she got a 205 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 2: freaking book out. She's an Amazon Yes, it's called Fuck 206 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: Your Diet, If your diet, your your diet. Wow, And 207 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 2: she's actually our dieting experts. 208 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: Give it up for Chloe Hood. Thank you. Chloe. Well, 209 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: first of all, do you have any thoughts on anything 210 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: that you heard thus far? I definitely would have called 211 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: the cops on the white lady. 212 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 4: Oh, I love calling the cops and white people any opportunity, 213 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 4: I'll be right there and I would have stayed in 214 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 4: the window with my curtain pulled back to see them. 215 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 1: Arrived, and I would have give him a callback. Number two. 216 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 4: I love calling a cop whenever I got that. That's 217 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 4: our reparations. Oh wow, calling cops and white especially when 218 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:58,599 Speaker 4: a wild, loud and drunk. 219 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: Your this lady took off. They need her little ankle boots, 220 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: ankle booties, and she's your neighbor. 221 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: Because who's to say she won't do that in the building, 222 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 4: Like what if she gets drunk? What if you try 223 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 4: to come home and she's drunk and she don't know you, 224 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 4: and she's saying, why are you coming to my building? 225 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 2: Said that tonge didn't even know that, didn't even know that. 226 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 2: It's a snowball effect. You let her get away with this. 227 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: Now she's not letting you know. She's not letting you 228 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: in your own damn building. 229 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 4: But you can have your new dick appointment coming by. 230 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 4: He down there waiting for you, buzzing in. She's like, 231 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 4: I don't know you, yea, who are you cock flocking? 232 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: Becky? You're an ass old Cock flocking Becky. Yeah, that's 233 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: a new one. Hashtag it merch and Jamie Fox, did 234 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: you remember the special? I never really watched that entire special. 235 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 4: I remember clips of it, like when he was doing 236 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 4: Brady Bunch, Right, he did a Brady Bunch in that one. 237 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. 238 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: No, no, he did any given Sunday. 239 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm saying, like the song, the Brady Bunch 240 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: song when. 241 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 2: He's playing oh yes on the piano yet, I mean. 242 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: I know that part. 243 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 4: But I never really gravitated towards Jamie Fox because I agree, 244 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 4: I don't think that his type of comedy was what 245 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 4: I was interested in. Also, I never thought about comedy 246 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 4: before I got into comedy. I never watched comedy like 247 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 4: let me see what they're doing because I'm gonna do 248 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 4: this day. 249 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: It never crossed my mind like that. 250 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: So no, I was just I was watching it to 251 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: watch it when I when it came out. 252 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, I see what you're saying. 253 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, So to me, he just I never I like 254 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 4: to show. I just always thought he was just silly. 255 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 4: So I never really was like, oh, let me see 256 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 4: what he think. 257 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of his interviews. 258 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: I just feel like when he does like a daytime 259 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 2: appearance or a late night of Parents, he's just fun. 260 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 2: It seems like, you know, he's a good guest. You 261 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 2: know his stories were good. He's like Jiffanny Hattish in 262 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: that way. Yeah, she's like him in that way. 263 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 4: And I think that's something that we should be really 264 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 4: cognitied of, like when you start doing press, how you 265 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 4: can like engage them and also always control the conversation 266 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 4: because they they don't really know what to access as comedians, 267 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 4: so you kind of always have to. And what they 268 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 4: do normally is like when you do a pre interview, 269 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 4: they'll ask you things so they can set you up 270 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 4: so you can just do your basically do your jokes. 271 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: In the interview. For him, anyway, he was like an 272 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: animated as possible. 273 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: Oh honey, he controls the narrative because I met him 274 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: several times and it's who it is, a Jamie fox 275 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: Chow He's talking and I was like, is anybody gonna 276 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 2: try to get into comb No, let him rock. 277 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: Well. 278 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 2: That was a cool thing about like Tiffany Hatters when 279 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: she was doing press for a girl Trip, she did 280 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 2: that she told that story about getting going on a 281 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: groupon with Will and Jada Smith and now she's the 282 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: spokesperson for groupon like she does ads for themful. 283 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: She was just being here. That was her truthful story. 284 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 4: That was honest, that she's she was cheap and she 285 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 4: got a group on and that was it, and. 286 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: Will Smith got on the group on her. 287 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 288 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: Well, I keep telling. 289 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: My story about Uber and they still haven't sponsored me yet. 290 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 1: This is crazy. You guys on late night you go, 291 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 1: so I have to be somebody got it? Okay, I 292 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: heard you? Yeah, I mean Sidney. 293 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 2: I feel like we've been telling you literally every week, 294 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 2: I want free stuff and we're like, you're not famous 295 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 2: you I. 296 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: Mean you definitely can you starting to get free? I 297 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: know that that wig is freeing. Okay, wig is fro Wow, 298 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: just tell my business. Thank you. Maven Hair. You guys, 299 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: I have a cold. 300 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 2: I'm dropping it you it will already be dropped. But 301 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 2: yes there's a cold. If you want to get Maven 302 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 2: hair a little bit, I'm trying to. 303 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: Get my hair back. What's the call? 304 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why she's sitting on his gold gave 305 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 2: you to Okay, I gave you. 306 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: Two black women sitting here. We want some free hair. 307 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 2: You ordered your hair and then they cook you up 308 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: with a free stylist. 309 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 4: They install it for So for the Sydney Special, does 310 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 4: it come with a metro card too? 311 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: Oh no no, no, no no no, shine, you gotta 312 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 1: walk there. 313 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: No, you get a stylust that's close to you, certified. 314 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 2: I will do it right. And you can see their work. 315 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 2: It's great Maven Hair. See their portfolio, you see, yes, 316 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: you can see what they work. 317 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: One. I'm gonna talk to you about it after I 318 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: got to step up my game up. I got you 319 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 1: to get you a cold boot. What kind of wigs 320 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: are you interested in? Like long swelling? 321 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 4: Okay, So I wore a wig on my breakfast club 322 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 4: interview and it's like it's a it's a one hundred 323 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 4: percent human hair. 324 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: Is really think and it matches this it looks like 325 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: your hair. Oh girl, they dragged me in them common. 326 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 4: Is this tranny? And I was like, this is coral. 327 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 4: But you know what's so weird to me? It's like 328 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 4: it was so crazy to me. I didn't take a 329 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: person at all, but it just felt the thing how 330 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 4: people's reaction to natural hair aesthetics, which is this wig 331 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 4: looks like blown out natural hair. But you're so used 332 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 4: to women, especially black women, having like silky, flowing in 333 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 4: the wind hair, that when you see a textured, straight hair, 334 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 4: you're just like, ugh, why is her hair like that? 335 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 4: And it's just like, this is what my actual hair looks. 336 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: It's called self hate. 337 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: Because like, like, and not everybody likes their hair to 338 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 2: be silky. 339 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: Like I love a blowout. I don't like shut door 340 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: a blowout. 341 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 2: Meanwhile, back at the ranch, I'm here, Brazilian. 342 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: Put your hair from Paraguay. Yeah, thank you. 343 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 4: No, I mean but that, I mean, that's the look 344 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 4: that you like. But to me, I just mean I 345 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 4: I was always so conscious about my hair anyway, because 346 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 4: I always wanted to like reflect something that's realistic for 347 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 4: a woman seeing it that's like, oh I could see 348 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 4: myself looking like that, not like I can never see 349 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 4: myself looking like that. And so I've always wanted to 350 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 4: manage my image to be on parallel with how I 351 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 4: look naturally. I don't everyone want to show up and 352 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 4: be like, who the fuck is that person that looks 353 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 4: nothing like Chloe? And so I just got a wig, 354 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 4: really nice wig. I still like, I'm aware, I don't 355 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 4: care keep wearing it from of course, but it just 356 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 4: thought it was interesting, Like the reaction was like what's 357 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 4: up with her? Like like like also the early comments 358 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 4: are always the trolls. Always people got some negatives say 359 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 4: so they were like what's upbout her hair? And then 360 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 4: like finally someone was like, oh, no, I think that 361 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 4: might be her hair, cause like the front of is 362 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 4: my hair. So yeah, you're actually talking about like when you. 363 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: Have long thing, beautiful hair, gorgeous, thank you. You're just 364 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: on the run. 365 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 2: You're on tour, so you don't have time to be 366 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: doing your own hair every single show. 367 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, And that was another thing. It was like I 368 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 4: had to come to terms. It was like I really 369 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 4: don't want to do my hair every day. And secondly, 370 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 4: it's all about like it's like quality control. It's like 371 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 4: being able to have the look that I want on 372 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 4: a daily basis without like freaking out, having a heart 373 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 4: attack and throwing my arms up in the air and 374 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 4: like wanting to cut the shit off. 375 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: You know. So it's just like I want to just 376 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: be able to have that look. But I miss my 377 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: hair really, I miss having hair sout what you're gonna do, 378 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: what you're doing, well, see, and it's. 379 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: So my head is so small that like I'm like 380 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: an XXS in weeks. 381 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: It's rude. Just make one nah, just I'm growing it. 382 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna grow it out. 383 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna bleach it one more time because i want 384 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 2: to be blonde for like the end of this month, 385 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: and then I'm gonna have to cut the blonde out 386 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna grow it out. 387 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: But I'm dread I keep cutting it. 388 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: I've been shaving it regularly because that those first six 389 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: months have grown it out. 390 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm dreading it because I know it's gonna look so bad. 391 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 4: No, but if this is the thing I've I've cut 392 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 4: my hair at least three or four, three or four 393 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: times in my life, like shaved it all the way off. 394 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 4: And what I realized that I wish I had done. 395 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 4: I wish I had done more fun cuts in that 396 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 4: grow out process. Like if I had done like a 397 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 4: taper cut with like designs in the back, like more 398 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 4: length in the front, some color, I probably would have 399 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 4: enjoyed that length more. But I let my ship grow 400 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 4: out like straight up willis different strokes. I feel like 401 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 4: I like a little homeless man and it just and 402 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 4: I should have probably styled it more. But also when 403 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 4: I was cut my hair like that, people weren't really 404 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 4: like cutting woman's hair with style. It was just like 405 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 4: you just got like, you. 406 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 2: Know, photos, we'll post that, we'll put that on page. 407 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 2: How long did it take you to grow your hair back? 408 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 4: My hair grows back whenever I cut it off about 409 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 4: I would say about like two and a half years, 410 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 4: like all the way back down to like my shoulders. 411 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have very very full, beautiful hair. 412 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: Edges are intact. 413 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: Where are you from l Brooklyn, New York? Going to 414 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,919 Speaker 1: raise I usually don't see people with edges like that. 415 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: One of a kind. Were bringing the best baby edges 416 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: is full? Love to see it. Yeah, here for it. Okay, 417 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: so let's talk about it. You have told you first 418 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: of all. 419 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 4: I'm six one, six one, probably about like two forty 420 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 4: pounds because I gain weight over the holidays. 421 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 1: You don't look like two forty because she's six one. Yeah, 422 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: because I'm six one. 423 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 4: Also, it's interesting as I've gotten older, where I carry 424 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 4: my weight has changed, So this time when I gained weight, 425 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 4: it's been mostly in my butt, in my thighs. 426 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: Look at you do, got a little boom there the 427 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 1: boom boom is cute. 428 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 4: Cover it because Sydney sexu' harassing me everything, oh stopping. 429 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: Last time I saw you. 430 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: Last time I saw you, we were taking pictures and 431 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 2: you were trying to cover your butt and I was like, 432 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 2: please take your coat off. I'm not taking photos for you, 433 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 2: and you got your butt. 434 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even really think about it like that. 435 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 4: I just you know what it is because growing up 436 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 4: I never used my body as like a sexual piece 437 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 4: of desire. It was never something I was like, oh, 438 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 4: I'm about to hit them with this. I never like shoulders, 439 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 4: yeah never. I never really like I mean, I got boobs, 440 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 4: I got butt, but I never capitalized in those things. 441 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 4: And as an adult, I don't think to like flaunt 442 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 4: those things in photos. 443 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: I don't think both to It's like a look back 444 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: at it. 445 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: So when you say you don't really you you didn't 446 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 2: really use your body, I mean you was paying for 447 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 2: all your meals in your twenties, in your teens, Yeah, 448 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 2: well I never. 449 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 1: I couldn't. 450 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 4: I couldn't be. It was hard for me to be 451 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 4: like a kept a kept girl. It was hard also 452 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 4: because I just didn't have a personality for it. 453 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: What's shut about that. What do you mean to tell 454 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 1: a man? Yeah, so I tried. 455 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 4: I have conversations right with this one guy who was 456 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 4: you know, fat ugly big, had money whatever, It's like 457 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 4: quintessential sugar daddy. And so I had all my girlfriends 458 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 4: being like, just try, just try to be kept like, 459 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 4: what's the problem. 460 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 1: Give us the backstory. Where did you meet this fat 461 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: ugly bald rich. 462 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 4: Well, I worked in I worked in entertainment, so I 463 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 4: was just I would be in parties all the time. 464 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: I worked at Source magazine and worked at Vibes. Look 465 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: at you, you are a TVT. Yeah yeah, so I would. 466 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 4: I would be at like part like Monday through Thursdays 467 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 4: when we would go out like after work. And this 468 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 4: is when people this is when recond companies have budgets, 469 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 4: so they would you know, I went to one party. 470 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. Went to one party was at Nikki Beach. 471 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 1: I remember Nikki Beach. Everything was white, everything was why 472 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: sand and seashell. 473 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 4: I don't know what the thing is. You never know 474 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 4: what it's for, but it's like something promotional, but. 475 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: Nobody just like a new lit something. 476 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 4: And they had Hennessy bottles like on the table and 477 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 4: as decorations like full real Hennessy bottles, and I just 478 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 4: went into this like big cylinder glass vase and like 479 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 4: went in and grabbed a Pennisy bottle and just put 480 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 4: it in my purse. 481 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: And his dude was like, yeah, I saw you. 482 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 4: And I was like and I don't care so and 483 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 4: I don't even drink Henessy, but I just like took 484 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 4: it and then we just started talking. 485 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 1: He was like, that's how you met him. He's like, oh, 486 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 1: she really needs my help. 487 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 4: He was like, yo, she don't give a fuck, Like yeah, yeah, 488 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 4: because I because I because also in those situations, even 489 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 4: like even in college, because I was always a bigger 490 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 4: girl and I was overweight and I was chunky, fat 491 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 4: and unpopular, bully, I never saw myself as being a catch, 492 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 4: like physically, like I knew mentally I was catch. Like 493 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 4: I could go total told any man. I could make 494 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 4: him laugh, I can impress him. I can like you know, 495 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 4: knock him down, tricks cheat him. But it was it 496 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 4: was always like the best analogy is like if I 497 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 4: met a guy, h it wouldn't be until like the 498 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 4: third time that we were around each other that he'd 499 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 4: be like, oh, Wow, you're pretty, because I never put 500 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 4: that first. I was always shooting shit with him or 501 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 4: like making him laugh or saying some real shit like 502 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 4: something like Intellectually, I was always like enticing him, and 503 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 4: then he would look at me one day and be like, 504 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 4: oh you are actually wow cute. 505 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: These men, yeah, they got but that was no. But 506 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 1: that was mean. But I was me. It wasn't. 507 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 4: I wasn't doing like, oh, what's up, Hey, how you doing. 508 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 4: I'd be like, Yo, what's up? What's good going? 509 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: I want to eat? Like that like that's how I 510 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: talk to guys. 511 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 2: So honestly, I feel like that is the blueprint. That's like, 512 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 2: you should be what's up? 513 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: What I want to eat? Yeah? 514 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 4: So I would I would meet guys like that and 515 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 4: they would be like, oh, you know you're so like, oh, 516 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 4: you're so funny, and so it. 517 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: Was just that was how I got guys. 518 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,959 Speaker 4: But then this one particular guy, he was just he 519 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,719 Speaker 4: just was used to being a sugar daddy, and so 520 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 4: I remember he would like pick me up and he 521 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 4: had like a Cadillac Escalate truck and all this shit 522 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 4: early bro yes, And so I lived like in West 523 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 4: Bowl fucking Queens and he would like pick me up 524 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 4: in the city and take me home. And I had 525 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 4: like a really big apartment because it was in West 526 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 4: Bobfuck Queens, but I live with my cousin. 527 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 1: And he was like listen. 528 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 4: He was like, I'll pay your rent, but I need 529 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 4: a key to your apartment and you can't have nobody 530 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 4: else over here, and I can come on over the 531 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 4: fuck I want. 532 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, thanks for your rent. Okay. 533 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: It was like it was like seven fifty. 534 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 4: That was like the entire that was for the entire 535 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 4: apartment that was that was like the entire apartment was 536 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 4: like seven fifty. 537 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, you didn't want to help you 538 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: on your cousin. 539 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 4: Now, I don't want to have a walking up in 540 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 4: my fucking apartment whenever he felt like that to me, 541 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 4: I just didn't like that sense of like not having 542 00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 4: control over my life. 543 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: And I realized that really come by living. 544 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 4: That he would he would have come once a yeah, yeah, 545 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 4: that's once too much, Sidney. 546 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: Would you would you take that offer if somebody was like, 547 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 2: I'll put your rent, but you can't have nobody over here, 548 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 2: and I want to be able to come over whenever 549 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 2: I want. 550 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: If the rent was twenty eight hundred. Yeah, I'm what 551 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, yeah, it'd be whatever right now, and 552 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: I absolutely now not where are you at now? Yeah, 553 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: but twenty eight hundred dollars a nice apartment if it 554 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 1: was come. 555 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: Through, dude, I don't want nobody in here anyway, you 556 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: know what. 557 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 4: But when I think about like the whole kept woman thing, 558 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 4: it just reminds me like Cassie is like the quintessential 559 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 4: kept woman. Yeah, and she wasted ten years of her 560 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 4: life with Diddy and they had nothing to show for it. 561 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: But did she it like she saw the world an album? Nobody? Nobody? No, 562 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: I don't think. 563 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 4: I think that she was first of all, to be 564 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 4: with somebody who you can't publicly be with because of 565 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 4: their image is already I feel like it's a blow 566 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 4: to your ego. She was out with him, no, no, no, 567 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 4: no no, But that was like the first like the 568 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 4: first like six or seven years, Like they wasn't even 569 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 4: in pictures again, like they like if you were so 570 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 4: if you were at a party with Diddy and I've 571 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 4: been at parties and he's been around New York City, 572 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,239 Speaker 4: same And if the photographer comes and you say you're 573 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 4: Cassie and I'm Diddy and were standing next to each other. 574 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: The photographer put the camera up. 575 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,959 Speaker 4: People be like, no, put your camera down, and then 576 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 4: he would go over to another side where she wasn't 577 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 4: there and then take pictures with like the boors the boy. 578 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: I feel like people say that Cassie wasted ten years 579 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: of her life, but she saw the world. She didn't 580 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 2: spend any money. He was probably giving her a cute 581 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 2: little allowance. And you know, she was not a good singer, 582 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 2: Like she was never going to be famous in that way. 583 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: And we talk about Cassie now, but she don't got 584 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: no real skills, uh, Marie. 585 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: I'm just saying like she's not a good actress and 586 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: she's not a good singer. 587 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 1: She's not. I mean, listen, she's listening. She's gorgeous. She's gorgeous. 588 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 4: She could have she's she could have been a Kylie 589 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 4: or a Kindle a Jenner. She could have had a 590 00:24:59,200 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 4: makeup line. 591 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 1: She could still do that. Yeah, I mean, now she's 592 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 1: a mom. I think her focus is different, but. 593 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 2: I mean, like, imagine your best, your best ten years, yeah, 594 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 2: but the last that she has a nineteen But their 595 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: life that Cassie has now is because of Diddy. I mean, 596 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: she met, she her trainer, She her trainer. Ook at God, 597 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. She has a Sunday. 598 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: I know she's happy, a long stretch, that's a long universe. 599 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: Blessed her. That's like putting ten years into a job. 600 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 1: It was a job. I was a waitress for ten years. Okay. 601 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 2: And you don't have you don't Cassie money. Well, I 602 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 2: have titties, but you don't have. 603 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: But paid for them. 604 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 2: I did exactly. Diddy would have paid for Cassie. Yeah, 605 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 2: it's all I'm saying. You know, it's it's a wind lose. No. 606 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta look at it like half full, half empty. 607 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 4: But to me, I don't. I could not be in 608 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,719 Speaker 4: a situation where I was in a relationship or a 609 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 4: business transaction with somebody and I just didn't have the 610 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 4: autonomy to do and be whoever I wanted to be. 611 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 1: You can do it for a little bit. 612 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 2: I could do I could do two three years, I 613 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: could do twelve months. Sugar daddies, if you're listening, how 614 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 2: at your beach Chloe. You keep saying that you were 615 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 2: like you grew up, you were really big. Like how 616 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 2: much did you weigh when you were young? 617 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? So I got when you were born. When I 618 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 1: was born, I was small. 619 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 4: I was like I don't like six pounds, no, maybe 620 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 4: like six pounds one ounce. 621 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 1: But I was like really long. It was like a tall, 622 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: like long baby. 623 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 4: And then I didn't get I didn't get big until 624 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 4: I just start getting wait until about like five or 625 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 4: six years old, and I would say probably around like 626 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 4: fourth or fifth grade. I was probably about my mother's 627 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 4: five five, So I was like probably like five two three. 628 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: In fourth grade. Damn, Chloe, Yeah, how old are you? 629 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 1: In fourth grade? Nine? You were five? 630 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 2: You were wow? Okay, so you were taller than your 631 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: mom al most almost Yeah. 632 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 4: I was definitely Like when I was like four or five, 633 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 4: I was like almost on her shoulder, so she I 634 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 4: know that she's five five, and so I was about 635 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 4: like five to two factory and probably like. 636 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: Close to like one hundred and liked, what so to me? 637 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: Now exactly you weighed this? 638 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 639 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: You were fourth grade? Yeah? Oh my god, glovey in 640 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: the mill? Was it not? 641 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 3: Is? 642 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 1: I just know? 643 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 4: I mean I think, of course it's of course it's 644 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 4: a diet, So I mean in my book, I talk 645 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 4: about like how we don't realize what we're exposed to 646 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 4: as a kid influences. 647 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: Our relationship with food. And my mother did a good job. 648 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: She didn't take me to fast food. 649 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 4: I wasn't allowed to do McDonald's like maybe like once 650 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 4: a year for like my birthday. But it was also 651 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 4: like a lot of processed stuff and sugars and you know, 652 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 4: things that we don't realize that we retain. And so 653 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 4: the biggest like aha moments. So as I got older, recently, 654 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 4: I started eating for my blood type. And based on 655 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 4: your blood type, they can tell you like the list 656 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 4: of foods that. 657 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: Don't work with your body. Oh, I don't even know 658 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: what my type. Blood type A is that popular or 659 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: is that old? No? 660 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 4: Oh no, it was like it was like the rare swear. Well, 661 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 4: the thing is that you you can definitely find out 662 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 4: your blood type. They have a little finger prick test 663 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 4: on Amazon. That's how I did it, And it's basically 664 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 4: like this like little medically treated like strip of paper 665 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 4: and you just poke your finger and then you put 666 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 4: a drop in and then however react to let you 667 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:15,400 Speaker 4: know which one. 668 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: Oh, do you know your blood type? No? But I 669 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: think I've never known I've never known it. 670 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 4: You should do it. You should do it, and it's cheap. 671 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 4: And that's what I'm telling people about it. Because if 672 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 4: you go to a doctor, they charge you, like, you know, 673 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 4: money for blood work. But if you can just do 674 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 4: a finger pricktests, Okay, I'm. 675 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 1: Gonna do it. It's like four or five dollars for it. 676 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 4: And so I'm blood type A and blood type A 677 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 4: should really be should really be vegetarian, vegan, and so 678 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 4: it makes a lot of sense because I stop eating 679 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 4: red meat. Like I'll eat it every once in a while, 680 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 4: like rare, but I don't buy red meat. I don't 681 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 4: cook red meat. I like, my brother has a steak, 682 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 4: I like, O need me get a bite, and that's 683 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 4: all I need. But I gave a red meat like 684 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 4: like twelve years old. I was like, I don't like it. 685 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm done. You gave it red meat when you were twelve. Yeah, 686 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: it's a big step. You are so mature. I was 687 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 1: just over it. I didn't like. I just I feel like, well, 688 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: you had like cool parents. 689 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 2: I just I feel like in my Haitian ass house, 690 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: I can't imagine being twelve and saying I don't eat 691 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 2: that type of food. 692 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's what we eat here. 693 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 4: Well, I've been I had by that point, I've been 694 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 4: through so many diet and weight issues. By that point, 695 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 4: they was like okay, find like were not because so 696 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 4: I'm jumping around, but like I gained. 697 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: I gained a lot of weight. 698 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 4: And then in elementary school and I was the youngest, 699 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 4: the tallest and the heaviest, and you know, I got 700 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 4: bullied all the time. And then my mother was gorgeous. 701 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 4: I mean she's still beautiful, but she was like fit, 702 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 4: like size four, long hair, you know, lighter than me. 703 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: Like you know, you got pictures, Yeah, I've seen pictures 704 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 2: of your mom. 705 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, like she you know, she gave me my mom 706 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 4: to me. She always gave me like Felicia vibes like 707 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 4: that mom like that like that look hurt, like very sick, 708 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 4: you know, shoulder pass like you know, fluffy hair like 709 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 4: that bangs, you know. And so she just didn't know 710 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 4: what to do to help me because I was so bullied. 711 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 4: I was bullied so much. So she just like gave 712 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 4: me slim fast one day, like she sent me to 713 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 4: school with some fast and so like for like two 714 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 4: weeks I had slim Fast. 715 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: She wrapped it in foil, and she was like, this 716 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: is gonna be a lot. She had it in a 717 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: paper bag like a homeless man. That's insanity. 718 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 4: And so then I went to school and I would 719 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,479 Speaker 4: you know, now I'm sitting at the table with my 720 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 4: I didn't I knew. I didn't know like the first day, 721 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 4: and I was like, all right, I'm just gonna drink 722 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 4: mam they gave me. And then the kids are like, 723 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 4: why are you not eating lunch? I was like, oh, 724 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 4: I have a milkshake. And it was like, oh, you're 725 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 4: going to give you a milkshake and I was like yeah, 726 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 4: And it was like, well, how she get in the 727 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 4: metal can? 728 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I will say I. 729 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 2: Drank slim Fast as a kid because I like the 730 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: way it tastes. I don't know who wanted in my house, 731 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 2: but I just liked it. 732 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 1: The way they taste. 733 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 4: I only like the chocolate one. It was really like 734 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 4: I don't like strawberry. 735 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 1: I like, I know you were a strawberry insure ish 736 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: in sure is shade Like none of that ship. Now 737 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: there's like that chalky milky. I don't like it. Shake 738 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: it real good, Yeah, cut it with some water. 739 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 2: No, no, no milk, yeah, well not anymore no oat milk. 740 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: We had oat milk. I love oat milk. 741 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, and so okay, So when I was talking 742 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 4: about to eat right for your blood type, so when 743 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 4: I was looking into it, it said that something I 744 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 4: should stay away from is pumpinnakle bread. 745 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: Pumpkinakle bread is not good for my blood type. 746 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 4: And it's interesting because that was the only bread we 747 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 4: ate in my house as a kid. And so you're 748 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 4: thinking about, like, well, when you eat. So I'm not 749 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 4: a scientist, but I've been on so many dies. So 750 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 4: when your body eats something that it doesn't accept, it 751 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 4: creates antibodies. And that's how that's how your body protects 752 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 4: itself in order to process this thing that it doesn't 753 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 4: really want to eat. And so you may have reactions 754 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 4: to things, but you don't know that that thing that 755 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 4: you ate made you have this reaction because you're eating 756 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 4: so many other things. It's not like it's not like 757 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 4: we eat like single meals of just one thing. So 758 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 4: if you're eating a salad and it has chickpeas and 759 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 4: olives and tomatoes and onions in it, and you're just 760 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 4: like I don't know something in that salad, but you don't. 761 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 4: You never know what it is until you eliminate that 762 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 4: thing in then, and then even when you eliminate something 763 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 4: from your diet, it takes twenty one days to purge 764 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 4: all the antibodies. 765 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: Twenty one days. 766 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, so if you ever do a cleans or a detox, 767 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 4: you should always do it for twenty one days so 768 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 4: that you can really purge your body of all the antibodies, 769 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 4: so you can really then one by one reintroduce things 770 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 4: into your diet to see how you react to it. 771 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 2: And twenty one days is the amount it takes to. 772 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 1: Pick up a habit. Yeah, look at that. Yeah, so smart, 773 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: okay a word. 774 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 4: And so I was thinking back, like damn, I was 775 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 4: just eating this bread that I shouldn't have been fucking 776 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 4: eating my whole childhood. Like who's to say like that 777 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 4: that's something that like contributed to like my body and 778 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 4: my digestive system and how I process certain things. And 779 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 4: I mean also now I learned that I can't eat 780 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:52,239 Speaker 4: I can't eat chickpeas, so no hummus, damn, no mango, tomato, coconut, cashews, bananas. 781 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: All the cool things everything that's life for you. Liuten Chloe, Yeah, 782 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: what can you eat? 783 00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 4: Am I supposed to eat wheat and gluten? You gluten freezees? No, 784 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 4: I'm not glut of free. Like there's certain things that 785 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 4: I realized, like when I eat, Like as an adult, 786 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 4: you eat things and you're just like, oh, I can't 787 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 4: eat that thing. And now I have more of an 788 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 4: understanding as to why I can't eat those things. If 789 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 4: you do the eating for your blood, So what can 790 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 4: you eat? I can eat a vegan, a vegetarian diet, 791 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 4: limited dairy, limited protein. That can do chicken, chicken, a turkey, 792 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 4: but red meats are not good for my body. Can 793 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 4: you still do fish, fish, white fishes, but certain fishes. No. 794 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 4: In the book that I have called eat Rite for 795 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 4: your Blood Type, it actually lists all the things to avoid, 796 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 4: things that are neutral for your body and things that 797 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 4: are good for your body. 798 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 1: Wow. 799 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:38,959 Speaker 4: And so that to me has been the most like 800 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 4: productive way of eating because, like I said, I've done 801 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 4: every diet. I've been on pills, I've been on powders, 802 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 4: I've been on no food, I've been on water diet. 803 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: So what's the first diet that you ever went on? 804 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: It was a slim fast. 805 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 4: It was slim fast in elementary school, and then it 806 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 4: was like another powder after that that my mother ordered. 807 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 4: And so she would like make the shake in the 808 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 4: morning and have me drink that, and then like drink 809 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 4: something else at lunch. 810 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 3: So that was. 811 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: Powdered and then after that, how long were you on that? 812 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 4: I mean I fought and kicked and screamed and we 813 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 4: would have knocked down, drag out arguments every day before school. 814 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 4: And my dad was like, just cut it out, like 815 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 4: she's miserable, just let her be this, like to make 816 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 4: her a sandwich. 817 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: Not a pound, because I didn't do no physical activity. 818 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 2: You were just like I'm just gonna eat, drink, yeah, 819 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 2: and this donna sit here, yeah, and it's gonna sit 820 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 2: my stuff. 821 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,400 Speaker 1: But that's another thing. 822 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 4: It's like when you grow up in New York City, 823 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 4: you don't as a kid, you really don't have a 824 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 4: lot of physical activity. 825 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: You don't. 826 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,040 Speaker 4: I mean, you go to gym class maybe once today 827 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:39,839 Speaker 4: or once every other day. Now kids go to gym 828 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 4: class once a week. 829 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 2: And in the eighties, growing up, we wasn't going outside 830 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 2: and playing, Like my family was not letting me go 831 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 2: outside and play like. 832 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 4: It was height of the crack epidemic. Even at my 833 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 4: elementary school when we went to the when we went 834 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 4: to the the playground, there was crack files everywhere. They 835 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 4: would have like to sweep before we could go outside 836 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 4: and play. So it was just like not a good 837 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 4: time to be outside just running around and you was 838 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 4: out running around me. 839 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: And your parents didn't really give a fuck, or they 840 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: wasn't there or something that was on the proud. 841 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 2: I grew up in Oakland, California, and like playing outside 842 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 2: was like the thing, that's the norm. Like I had 843 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: two big wheels, I had a bike, I had skates, 844 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 2: like climbing fences for you always bragging about I'm just like. 845 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 1: I had two big wheels. You know, that's just that 846 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:24,280 Speaker 1: was just life. 847 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 2: You know. 848 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: We didn't we didn't really have any big kids in 849 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: my class. We didn't. It was in New York City, 850 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: especially at that time. 851 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 4: It was like you better be careful because you know 852 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 4: they be snatching kids up and don't eat from the 853 00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,720 Speaker 4: ice cream truck. They put raizor blades in the bottom 854 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 4: of the cones. It was like all this other ship 855 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 4: that you just heard all the time. Peoples like nah, 856 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 4: I'm gonna let my kids go out. 857 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: Some like that. Yeah, I mean yeah. 858 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 4: I also came from a very protective family and I 859 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 4: was the first grandchild, so it was even more so 860 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:46,839 Speaker 4: they wasn't gonna let me. 861 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: Go out like that. I wasn't allowed to play outside. 862 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 4: Like run the streets. You ain't gonna be running that's 863 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 4: a thing. You ain't gonna be running these streets. And 864 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,760 Speaker 4: you're like, all right, be sitting. 865 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:54,879 Speaker 1: But I want to go out to But you would 866 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: watch other kids play outside. 867 00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, Or I would be in the backyard helping my 868 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 4: grandmother do some country ship like shell py or like cut. 869 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: Up deer meat. Cut up deer meat in your country, 870 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: dear meat. Where was the deer coming somebody? 871 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 4: You know, there was always a cousin of somebody that 872 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 4: just went hunting somewhere brought up some meat from down south. 873 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, the damn hub, you know. But I was just 874 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 1: over there eating Rudolph. That was very rare. 875 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,840 Speaker 4: But like, but yes, I was always with my grandmother 876 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 4: doing something of running errands. 877 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: But I wasn't just like out like that. 878 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 4: And so I that was like the first elementary schol 879 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 4: was on slim fast and like powdered ship. And then 880 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 4: when I got to junior high school not so much 881 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 4: because I went to a school with like a lot 882 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 4: of West Indian kids and they were big and they 883 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 4: was like you fine, Like I don't know what you're 884 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 4: tripping you. 885 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: Like, you're good? Yeah. Yeah. 886 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 4: And then when I got to high school, I started 887 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 4: playing basketball and I started losing weight because I was 888 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 4: working out. But then I wasn't eating because I didn't 889 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 4: know anything about like nutrition. I would eat a bowl 890 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 4: of honey nut cheerios in the morning and then go 891 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 4: to school and not eat all day because who's in 892 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 4: school lunch? 893 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 1: Not I not cool. You can be saying it eating 894 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: no school lunch. I was. I had a free lunch 895 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: in school because we was poor. 896 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I got free lunch too, but 897 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 4: you wasn't eating it because people was like, oh, you 898 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 4: eating the burgers from school. 899 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: That's gross. 900 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: My auntie made me lunch. But it was like it 901 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 2: was a senior no, hold on, hold on, it was 902 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 2: on wait a minutely, a white woman over there. 903 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, she you grew up in the seventh 904 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: Heaven House. She's senior citizen. 905 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 2: Though they're like they're making sandwiches with the thinnest amount 906 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 2: of mail, not enough one slice of meat. They were 907 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,359 Speaker 2: being very very particular about how much stuff they get. 908 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 1: They needed the baloney to last. For I love how I. 909 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 4: Said I didn't eat lunch at all, and she complained 910 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 4: about having a sandwich and the fact that someone made 911 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 4: her a sandwich. 912 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 2: She's like, my auntie made me a sandwich every she 913 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,279 Speaker 2: made me lunch every day. Is the worst sandwich you 914 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 2: probably had, ch And you had a fruit exactly. 915 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 1: There was a yogurt, a bruisse, dapple. No continue, Chloe, 916 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:00,320 Speaker 1: you know, well. 917 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 4: You know, because I played basketball, you got to keep 918 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 4: up appearances. You can't be just you know, only you 919 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 4: just had to be cool. So you didn't eat school lunch. 920 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 4: And I would have like a dollar and then I 921 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 4: would just eat like a candy bar from the Vendom machine. 922 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 4: And then I would have basketball practice and play for 923 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 4: like two three hours and then go home and be starving. 924 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 1: And I did that. 925 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I did that for like at least three 926 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 4: or four years. That didn't know until like one day 927 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 4: I passed out on the train. Yeah, I passed out 928 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 4: on the train because I was over hungry and I 929 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 4: hadn't eaten. I was just like doing physical activity, and 930 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 4: so I had. I realized, like in retrospect and writing 931 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 4: this book, I realized. I was like, I legit had 932 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:35,280 Speaker 4: an eating before. 933 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: Don wait when you passed out on the train. First 934 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 1: of all, what subway was it? I was a J train. 935 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: I was like, that was the worst train. 936 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,959 Speaker 4: No, it's not. It was fine. I was coming Acrosse 937 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,320 Speaker 4: to Windingsborg Bridge. My stop on a J train is 938 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 4: Marcy Avenue. So I was like like I was on 939 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:51,920 Speaker 4: and I was standing up. I was standing up, I 940 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,279 Speaker 4: was holding the railing, and I was like, I'm so hungry. 941 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 4: You know how you just talked to him. I'm like, 942 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 4: I'm so hungry. Just got this train. You be fine, 943 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 4: You fine, girl, don't worry. If you're just gonna walk 944 00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 4: home and take you out like ten minutes to get home, 945 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 4: you be fine. You get something to eat when you 946 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 4: get home. And as I'm like talking to myself, the 947 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 4: next thing I know, I'm like I'm on the floor 948 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 4: and I'm like pushing myself up and I'm looking around 949 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,760 Speaker 4: and everybody's like, oh my god, you just fainted. 950 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: And then like this woman was like, do you want 951 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 1: a banana. 952 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 2: I was like, no, I don't like banana, Like do 953 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: you want to see now I'm beginning. I was like no, no, no, 954 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 2: sit down and down. 955 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 4: So I just like like got off, like had a shame, 956 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 4: you know, like shame my head down. And then I 957 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 4: went downstairs and I had like like twenty cents in 958 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,360 Speaker 4: my pocket and I just went to like the Asian 959 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,640 Speaker 4: fruit stand gone. I was like, please, let me just 960 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 4: get an apple. He was like fine, and then he 961 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,840 Speaker 4: gave me apple. I just like devoured it on my 962 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 4: way home and didn't even tell my parents had like 963 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 4: passed out on the train. 964 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 1: And then wow, that was high school. 965 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,240 Speaker 4: And then when I got to college, I still played basketball, 966 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 4: but I started learning more about nutrition because we had 967 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 4: like a health you know, a health person and a 968 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 4: trainer and a coach, like three coaches, and so it 969 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 4: was like you should be eating this every day that 970 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,720 Speaker 4: like we sat this amount of calories. 971 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: This exactly what a meal is. 972 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 4: Portion control because you don't, i mean, growing up with 973 00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 4: a black family, you don't know nothing about portion control. 974 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 4: It was like it was on everything that's on your 975 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 4: plate when you're hungry, well not in my house. 976 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 1: No, you eat when they say it's not for you 977 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 1: to eat in Sydney, you just open the frid like 978 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 1: I'm taking these these six things. 979 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 4: Yea, no, you ate when they said you can eat. 980 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,320 Speaker 4: It's not time for dinner, Mom, I'm hungry. Dinner's not ready. 981 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 4: I'll let you know when it's ready to go back 982 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 4: to your room or mamam hungry eat an apple. 983 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: You guys really did grow up have some water tastes weird. Yeah, 984 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: I was a thing. You're thirsty, want water, but you 985 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,399 Speaker 1: ain't thirsty. But yeah. 986 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 4: And then my grandmother when she had me when I 987 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 4: was younger, like she watched me when my parents worked, 988 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 4: and so she would cook whatever, and it was not 989 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,800 Speaker 4: catered to a kid. It was grown ass people food 990 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 4: and I had to eat everything on my plate. 991 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 1: And so she taught me how to overeat. What's grown 992 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: ass people for? 993 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, man liver and lima beans. 994 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 1: Gravy onions. 995 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, grew up like that, you know, of course, lima beans, 996 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 4: all types of pork meat in it. Gross chicken gizzards, 997 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:07,399 Speaker 4: fried chicken, chicken gizard yeah, just ham huh oh. Yeah. 998 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 1: My mother would make gizzard and we never it's chewy 999 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:12,800 Speaker 1: it What is a gizzard? 1000 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 4: It's the insight and it's the internal organs of an animal. 1001 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 4: But like the butthole, like what's it's like, it's like 1002 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,240 Speaker 4: the tissues, like the fatty like fat it's like the liver. 1003 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 1: I heard in like I'm so lucky stuff and they 1004 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,680 Speaker 1: fry it real hard. Yeah. 1005 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, so like southern the southern Southern diet. So, 1006 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,280 Speaker 4: you know, growing up like that and not knowing portion controls. 1007 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 4: When I got to college, I had to like relearn. 1008 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 1: All that stuff. 1009 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 4: And then even then I was working out a lot, 1010 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,800 Speaker 4: and I was probably in the best shape of my life. 1011 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,839 Speaker 4: But I was also eating a lot. And so when 1012 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 4: I stopped playing basketball after my sophomore year, I'm still eating, 1013 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 4: like I'm burning all these calories, and I was eating 1014 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 4: ate a lot of fucking food. And then I gained 1015 00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 4: probably like like sixty pounds and like my junior year, 1016 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,240 Speaker 4: and I remember, why did you retire? As a sophomore, 1017 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 4: I stopped playing basketball because it was Division III. I 1018 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 4: knew I didn't want to like go I wasn't good 1019 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 4: enough to go far. I was just doing it. 1020 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 1: So I had an extracurricular activity. Also, what as far 1021 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:13,719 Speaker 1: as a female basketball. 1022 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 4: We WNBA or playing overseas, and I was like, I 1023 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:16,360 Speaker 4: don't want to do any of that. 1024 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: I'm not interested. 1025 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 4: And I knew that I wanted to do journalism, so 1026 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 4: I also realized that my schedule. I needed to stop 1027 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,279 Speaker 4: playing basketball so that I can internship because a lot 1028 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 4: of my friends did not get to do internships, and 1029 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 4: then when they graduated, it was like hard from the 1030 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,879 Speaker 4: good jobs because they had no work experience. So I'm 1031 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 4: very very very very very calculated. So I was like, 1032 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 4: I'm going to do this to get here, and then 1033 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 4: once I get to this point, I'm going to do 1034 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 4: what I need to do because I want to do 1035 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 4: something else. So I was like I had the best 1036 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,720 Speaker 4: of both worlds. I played basketball for two years in college. 1037 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,840 Speaker 4: A lot of those girls are still my friends to 1038 00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 4: this day. We do Christmas and see each other and 1039 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 4: like alumni games and all that stuff. And then I 1040 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 4: was like I got to focus on my career. And 1041 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 4: then once I got into journalism, it was like just 1042 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,520 Speaker 4: diet after diet. Oh in high school, I did the 1043 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,839 Speaker 4: weight loss pills and like, you know, that makes your 1044 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 4: heart speat up like a Feddrian. 1045 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: All the shit that they like take off the market. Yeah, 1046 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,719 Speaker 1: I remember that. Yeah, you order them on TV. You 1047 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: took a bunch of pills, Yeah, I did that. Did 1048 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: any of those? Did any of these diets ever work? No? No, 1049 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: they don't. 1050 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 4: None of them work. None of them work. None of 1051 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 4: them work. They don't work because you are altering your 1052 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 4: natural lifestyle to accommodate this thing. And that's the thing 1053 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 4: that gets you to lose weight. It's not the thing. 1054 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 4: It's like all the other shit. It's like, I'm about 1055 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 4: to start a diet, so let me go buy groceries 1056 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 4: and food prep. If you just did that, then you 1057 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 4: would still lose the way. You wouldn't need the pills, 1058 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 4: you wouldn't need the you wouldn't need the powder, you 1059 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 4: wouldn't need the shake. You would just be eating in 1060 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 4: moderation anyway. 1061 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,800 Speaker 2: And a shake wouldn't work if you're not working out anyway. 1062 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you might as well just do all the 1063 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 4: other stuff without the shake. And so I know a 1064 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 4: lot of times, like people when they see like the 1065 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 4: words fuck your diet, they're like, oh, she's telling us 1066 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 4: not to give a fuck about it, and it's like, no, 1067 00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. And then this week the whole 1068 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 4: thing with Lizzo and Jillian Michaels. Like that came a thing. Yeah, 1069 00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 4: that Julie Michaels was on this talk show. She was 1070 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,800 Speaker 4: on amt DM the BuzzFeed Twitter show, and somehow Lizzle 1071 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 4: came up and she was like, well are we you know, 1072 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 4: why are we celebrating her body? You know Who's just like, 1073 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 4: what are we going to do when she gets diabetes? 1074 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 4: And it's just like, we gotta stop trying to police 1075 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 4: fat bodies, Like we know she's a big girl and 1076 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 4: that's a part of what she why she is the 1077 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 4: artist that she is. It's her experience, and you don't 1078 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 4: really give a talk about her having diabetes. You just 1079 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,520 Speaker 4: want to fat shame her because if you care about 1080 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 4: everybody having diabetes, and you will be standing outside of 1081 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,279 Speaker 4: Dunkin Donuts be and like shut the ship down. 1082 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: We don't need fucking donuts every fucking day. 1083 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 2: And skinny people have diabetes too. It's called type A. 1084 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:44,359 Speaker 1: Okay, it's called hot. 1085 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like people throw around the 1086 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 2: words fat shaming too much, Like it's not we're not 1087 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 2: shaming y'all for being big. 1088 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: Some people are unhealthy, but that's the thing. 1089 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,240 Speaker 4: It's if you're worried about the health issue of people 1090 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 4: in general, not just bigger people. And I think that 1091 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,880 Speaker 4: that's what I tackle a lot, is that there's so 1092 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 4: many social and political things that influence how we eat 1093 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 4: in this country that affects all of us, not just 1094 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 4: fat people. So if you're worried about the quality of 1095 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 4: someone's diet, then you need to uphold that standard when 1096 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 4: you talk about corporate America, who's putting all this bullshit 1097 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,799 Speaker 4: in our food. So you can't be mad at me 1098 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,400 Speaker 4: that my body reacts to this shit differently than your body. 1099 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 4: That's really what it is. It's like, my body handles 1100 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 4: this shit differently than your body. And we both could 1101 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,759 Speaker 4: eat the same thing all the time, And I'm saying 1102 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 4: exercise eliminated, Like if we just have the same diet, 1103 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 4: you and I would still have different bodies, sure, because 1104 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 4: of just genetics and reactions to food. So a lot 1105 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 4: of times when we talk about like fat shaming and 1106 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,720 Speaker 4: being healthy, it's like, do you understand does a person 1107 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 4: have the economics to buy organic food, Do they have 1108 00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,000 Speaker 4: a car to go to the group supermarket in their neighborhood, 1109 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 4: Do they know anything about nutrition or portion control? Like, 1110 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:07,200 Speaker 4: it's like a lifetime of food lessons that need to 1111 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 4: be It's. 1112 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,759 Speaker 1: A lot of factors. It's a lot of factors. 1113 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 4: And I also think that when I say that we 1114 00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 4: need to have body positivity, it's like we should embrace 1115 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,160 Speaker 4: all types of bodies. But and the no circumstances am 1116 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,720 Speaker 4: I saying that that should dismiss the quality of one's health. 1117 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 4: I do think that people should be healthy. I know 1118 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 4: that I'm a healthy person and I don't have a 1119 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,080 Speaker 4: flat stummach. So somebody can come at me and be like, well, 1120 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 4: just lose your gut because you'll be better, And I'm like, 1121 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,879 Speaker 4: but I am in good shape. It's just you are healthy. Yeah, 1122 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 4: and I am healthy. But said, that's what I'm saying, 1123 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 4: like the optics have we have to eliminate this tradition 1124 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,359 Speaker 4: of like, well, if you don't have a six pack, 1125 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 4: then you doing something wrong. 1126 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,800 Speaker 2: And there's plenty of skinny people who are unhealthy in 1127 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:50,240 Speaker 2: these United States. I too, am a skinny, unhealthy person. 1128 00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 1: I was very disappointed in the fact that you said 1129 00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: you didn't drink water. 1130 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 2: I yeah, that is, but then you put it on 1131 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 2: your social media and I was like that, yikes. 1132 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, but actually can't know. 1133 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 2: Actually, a lot of people were in my DMS it 1134 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,400 Speaker 2: was like, thank you for posting that because it reminded 1135 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 2: me of how much water I don't drink and the 1136 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 2: fact that you need to be reminded to drink water 1137 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 2: from somebody's social media problematic. 1138 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 1: No, what is that? 1139 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 2: No, that's not true. There's a lot of things that 1140 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:18,840 Speaker 2: social media can help that. 1141 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,319 Speaker 4: No, Listen, I appreciate you for putting yourself out there. 1142 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,799 Speaker 4: I'm just saying as someone who knows you, Oh, you 1143 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 4: don't drink water. 1144 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 2: I'm saying it as somebody who drinks water and knows 1145 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,760 Speaker 2: that you need water in your body. 1146 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: That the fact that there. 1147 00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,200 Speaker 2: Are people who don't drink like I met somebody recently 1148 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 2: who said she don't eat fruits or vegetables, she doesn't 1149 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 2: like them. 1150 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, girl like hot trash on Tuesday. 1151 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,200 Speaker 1: It probably it smells like asparagus. That the thing isn't 1152 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: that crazy? 1153 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 4: But how do you how do you navigate life and 1154 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 4: not drink water? What is your aversion to it? The 1155 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 4: taste or you just don't have it in your daily 1156 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 4: like routine. 1157 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:58,240 Speaker 2: I think once you become like a chronic dehydrated person. 1158 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,719 Speaker 2: You don't crave water enough, and so you just are 1159 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 2: able to function without not drinking enough water. 1160 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,640 Speaker 1: But I've turning that around and I'm changing it. 1161 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 2: But it's not about craving water, right because people, I 1162 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 2: don't think people, because if you are thirsty, you'll drink something. 1163 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 1: It's not about nobody. It's not about craving the water. 1164 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: I mean for me. 1165 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 2: I guess it's different because when I was a kid, 1166 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,760 Speaker 2: my mom in the morning, first thing in the morning, 1167 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,360 Speaker 2: like after we brush our teeth, we would have a 1168 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 2: glass of water before we went to bed. 1169 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: You'd make us drink a glass of water. 1170 00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,600 Speaker 2: And I remember complaining, Oh, I don't like the way 1171 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 2: it tastes like, you know how you are now as 1172 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:37,520 Speaker 2: an adult. 1173 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,799 Speaker 1: But now like I hardly ever have juice, and I 1174 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 1: never have sod in my refrigerator. 1175 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 2: I don't drink sotal And when juice is in my refrigerator, 1176 00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 2: it stays in my fridge for weeks because I'll have 1177 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 2: like a little bit of juice and be like, I 1178 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 2: drink a giant glass of water in the morning, and 1179 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 2: I drink it every time I come in and out 1180 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:55,560 Speaker 2: of my house. 1181 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,640 Speaker 1: So it's not because you like the way it tastes. 1182 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,320 Speaker 1: It's just, you know, it's it's a habit. 1183 00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 2: It's a habit, and you know, not everybody has great habits. 1184 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 2: And I'm okay with saying that and then working on it. 1185 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 4: But the thing that I want to point out is 1186 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 4: that when you talk about like Lizzo and fat shaming 1187 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 4: and all that stuff, you're in a position to say 1188 00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,719 Speaker 4: that you don't drink water and you will be admired 1189 00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 4: and revered for it. 1190 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,399 Speaker 2: Now, if there's people just like Marie, that's like, eh, 1191 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,400 Speaker 2: that's gress. But on the flip side, there are people 1192 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 2: like who with Chloe's talking about. 1193 00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 4: And I do think that if you were, say a Lizzo, 1194 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 4: and you said I don't drink water, it would be like, oh, 1195 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,680 Speaker 4: you're discussed. It would be just uzzing much more negativity. 1196 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 1: I think. 1197 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:35,959 Speaker 4: I think people are like, oh, you don't drink water 1198 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 4: and you still look like this, like get it together, girl, 1199 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,320 Speaker 4: like take care of yourself, and a very lovely nice 1200 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 4: to you. 1201 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're nice to you about it. 1202 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 4: But if it was someone who they who could be 1203 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 4: viewed as undesirable saying the same thing, they would be 1204 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,399 Speaker 4: thrown under the bus and I think that has less 1205 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 4: to do about whether or not you care about the 1206 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,479 Speaker 4: person's health and how you react to how they look. 1207 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,279 Speaker 4: And so I think a lot of times when we 1208 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 4: talk about like fat shaming and body positivity, it's like, 1209 00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,399 Speaker 4: you don't like the way that person looks. It doesn't 1210 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 4: matter what they do in their life. You just having 1211 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,439 Speaker 4: aversion to how they look because they make you feel 1212 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 4: uncomfortable or they. 1213 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: Make you feel disgusted, And so a lot. 1214 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 4: Of times we put that shame on someone who's just 1215 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:11,399 Speaker 4: trying to live their life right. 1216 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 2: But the flip side is is that if like like 1217 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,799 Speaker 2: more plus sized girls are in like lingerie or in 1218 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 2: bikini or just like naked on the ground, then it's like. 1219 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: Oh, accept your body. Da da da da dah. 1220 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 2: But if you're a skinny girl doing that, it's like, oh, 1221 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 2: look at that thought, Oh she just wants attention, blah 1222 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,760 Speaker 2: blah blah. So it's like it's body shame in both ways. 1223 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I agree. 1224 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 4: I just want us to stop trying to be doctors 1225 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,320 Speaker 4: and figure out whether someone's healthy or not, because I 1226 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 4: think that's a personal conversation to me. To me, it's 1227 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,800 Speaker 4: the same thing as someone saying like when are you 1228 00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 4: gonna have a kid, when it's like, that's not your 1229 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:45,640 Speaker 4: fucking business. 1230 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:45,920 Speaker 1: To me. 1231 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 4: It's just like certain things are personal conversations, and I 1232 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 4: don't think that you should project, you know, or try 1233 00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,839 Speaker 4: to like intrude in someone's life. And when it comes 1234 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,439 Speaker 4: to like the whole diet industry, it's like. 1235 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,280 Speaker 1: It's all bullshit. It's just all bullshit. 1236 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,200 Speaker 2: Because those people are always going to exist though, you 1237 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like there's always going to be 1238 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 2: somebody who has an opinion about the lifestyle that you 1239 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:07,920 Speaker 2: live or you know, what you eat or how you dress, 1240 00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,960 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And especially as women, they 1241 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 2: love policing what we do with black women, especially when 1242 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,400 Speaker 2: we do what our hair. Like the way that people 1243 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 2: reacted to me and are still reacting to me when 1244 00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:19,799 Speaker 2: I shaved my head. 1245 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 1: It's like, it's none of your business. This doesn't affect you. 1246 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 1: But like, you know what I mean, Like people, I 1247 00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 1: have an aunt. 1248 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 2: Every time I speak to her on the phone, she's like, 1249 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,000 Speaker 2: this is you gotta get a boyfriend so you can 1250 00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 2: get married and have some babies. I'm like, none of 1251 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,240 Speaker 2: your children are married. They're all older than I am, 1252 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 2: and like this is it's a cop. Every single time 1253 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,280 Speaker 2: we speak, she's. 1254 00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 1: Like, you gotta you need a boyfriend so you can 1255 00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:42,680 Speaker 1: have a baby. 1256 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,320 Speaker 4: And yeah, I mean that's a very tra initiative viewpoint. 1257 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,480 Speaker 4: It's like you're not you're not whole until you have 1258 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 4: a partner, and it's just like that's not how women 1259 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,680 Speaker 4: operate these days. But I also think when it comes 1260 00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 4: to Black women's bodies, everybody feels like they have a say, 1261 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 4: and that goes, you know, all the way back to 1262 00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,840 Speaker 4: like you know, being as hot and top, which is 1263 00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:03,080 Speaker 4: like you know a South African woman who had a 1264 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 4: really big buzz, big but and they like paraded her 1265 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 4: around and put her in a circus and she died 1266 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 4: penniless because her body wasn't her own. 1267 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:11,440 Speaker 1: And if you. 1268 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 4: Paid extra money, you can like poke her with a 1269 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,760 Speaker 4: stick and she would be naked in this like circus exhibit. 1270 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 4: And so I think that's like symbolic of how people 1271 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 4: feel like they have ownership when it comes to our bodies. 1272 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 4: It's like they feel like they should be able to 1273 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 4: comment and say or touch your hair or smack our 1274 00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 4: butt or criticize our outfit because. 1275 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 1: They feel like we are theirs. 1276 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,359 Speaker 4: You know, they either they admire us from Afar they 1277 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 4: wish they were us. Like all these white women talking 1278 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 4: about Lizzle this is her spirit animal. It's like, what 1279 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 4: the fuck are you talking about? You want to be 1280 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,359 Speaker 4: a big black woman walking around? No, you just want 1281 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 4: to be able to carry yourself and Amanda that she does. 1282 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,360 Speaker 4: But they don't realize that her carrying herself that way 1283 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 4: is after years of being overlooked and you have to 1284 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 4: build yourself up and hype yourself up. 1285 00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,399 Speaker 1: And that's what black girl magic is about. 1286 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,239 Speaker 4: It's like, I gotta tell myself this affirmation because nobody 1287 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 4: else is gonna fuck me the shit. 1288 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1289 00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 4: And then when you yeah and say what about you know, 1290 00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,719 Speaker 4: beaige girl magic, whatever the hell that is? Yeah, but 1291 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,879 Speaker 4: they don't realize that our like our flyness is our 1292 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 4: defense mechanism. 1293 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: It's not we don't wake up and be like, I'm 1294 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: gonna be fly. 1295 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 4: It's like, yo, I have to make myself feel that 1296 00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be fly because nobody else is gonna tell 1297 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 4: me this ship and then they buy into it like oh, 1298 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:24,319 Speaker 4: I wish I could do It's like no, I have 1299 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 4: to do this, like this is the only way I 1300 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 4: can cope in the world is if I tell myself 1301 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,279 Speaker 4: that I'm enough, that I love myself, that my role. 1302 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,520 Speaker 1: I mean also that part. 1303 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, but but you but if you like this, if 1304 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,320 Speaker 4: you're if the world was your oyster you, you wouldn't 1305 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,439 Speaker 4: have to tell yourself these things because everybody else would 1306 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 4: be telling you these things. 1307 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,319 Speaker 1: Sydney's a true. Yeah. I mean, look at me. 1308 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm ideally a good body type. 1309 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,080 Speaker 1: I have a great face. 1310 00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,520 Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm talented, I'm funny, and I still get 1311 00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 2: told no, and I still have many issues and so 1312 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 2: like it doesn't matter about it just because of who 1313 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 2: I am and what I look like. I still have 1314 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,759 Speaker 2: to deal with all of the issues as a black 1315 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:11,879 Speaker 2: woman because I'm black. 1316 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,719 Speaker 4: But but because of how you look when you do 1317 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 4: speak about your issues, and I may be wrong, but 1318 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 4: are people like, oh, it's not that bad, Like do 1319 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 4: they try to minimize it? 1320 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 1: Because but look at all the other stuff that you have. 1321 00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,360 Speaker 1: You're cute. What do you mean you're depressed? You're pretty beautiful. 1322 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 1: If I look like you, I wouldn't be depressed. I 1323 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:32,280 Speaker 1: will say this on record. 1324 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 2: Black people tell me, like, what's the problem white people 1325 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 2: be like, oh no, I totally understand. Yeah, they it's 1326 00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 2: more brown people of color telling me like it could 1327 00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,520 Speaker 2: be worse. I mean you could be poor, you could 1328 00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,799 Speaker 2: have no job, Like it's not that bad, Like what 1329 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,279 Speaker 2: do you mean you're depressed? So, but I feel like 1330 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 2: that's that's also that's because black folks. Again, I think 1331 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 2: that kind of ties in with what Chloe's saying though, 1332 00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 2: about us having to like build ourselves up because for us, 1333 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,280 Speaker 2: it's like, well, it could be worse, like you could 1334 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 2: have this is this like I hear what you're saying. 1335 00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: I hear you, sys M, but I also hear you too, Chloe. 1336 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think that that's just that's just how 1337 00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,760 Speaker 4: we've had to cope with life. And it's not saying 1338 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 4: that your feelings aren't valid. Oh no, no, ye no, 1339 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,600 Speaker 4: I mean and I know that they're truly are valid. 1340 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,720 Speaker 4: But when you're presenting, when you're presenting your your life 1341 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,919 Speaker 4: to someone who should is way fucked up, they'll never 1342 00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,759 Speaker 4: step outside of themselves to acknowledge what your problem is 1343 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 4: because they're so worried about what their issues are, so 1344 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,400 Speaker 4: your shit seems minuscule, you know, And so even when 1345 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 4: it comes to like food and diet. It's like, well 1346 00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:40,439 Speaker 4: I want to lose x amount of weight and someone's like, well, 1347 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 4: they're about to cut my. 1348 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:41,839 Speaker 1: Foot off, bitch. 1349 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 4: So I wish I could just use sampan like like 1350 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 4: they like, there's no simp. 1351 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:47,640 Speaker 1: It's like not much sympathy. 1352 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,880 Speaker 4: And I think that that's something that we need to 1353 00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,839 Speaker 4: be like everybody, everybody's physical body is different. No one 1354 00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 4: has the answers. We don't know everybody's internal chemistry. But 1355 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,319 Speaker 4: I do think that when you're on someone who you 1356 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,200 Speaker 4: feel should look a certain way what they should do, 1357 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 4: we have to stop doing that. 1358 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,960 Speaker 1: Yep. Yeah, okay, wow. 1359 00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,480 Speaker 2: And I love that about your book that you you 1360 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,839 Speaker 2: give these like antidotes about yourself, but you also put 1361 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,920 Speaker 2: in like the history behind, like well this is why 1362 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 2: this is. 1363 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,279 Speaker 4: Happening because a lot of times people don't know. So 1364 00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,400 Speaker 4: I'll just give you some really quick ones like okay. So, 1365 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,399 Speaker 4: for example, the reason why American children started to become 1366 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 4: obese in the eighties is because President Ronald Reagan cut 1367 00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 4: the school lunch budget about one point four six billion dollars. 1368 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,680 Speaker 4: And when he did that, they relax all the restrictions 1369 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,400 Speaker 4: in the quality control on meat. 1370 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so we blaming Ronald Define for everything, yeah, for everything. 1371 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:41,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1372 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1373 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,200 Speaker 4: And so when they did that, what they did was 1374 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 4: they like, instead of a burger being eighty percent beef, 1375 00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 4: it could be fifty percent beef because they were cutting 1376 00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 4: the costs to make more profit. And they started putting 1377 00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,800 Speaker 4: to like tofu and soy and stuff and these burgers 1378 00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,359 Speaker 4: at kids eight. And that's why kids started getting fat 1379 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 4: because now you eating soy and filler instead of like 1380 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,439 Speaker 4: quality food. Same thing with what high fruit tolds corn syrup. 1381 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 4: They started putting that in everything in to cut costs 1382 00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,239 Speaker 4: because that's cheaper than like organic cane sugar when you 1383 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:08,960 Speaker 4: think about that. 1384 00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:13,360 Speaker 1: Crazy, But that's what I'm saying, Like, yeah, the stuff. 1385 00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 2: That that like people vote on, and the stuff that 1386 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:20,440 Speaker 2: the government did in this country twenty thirty fifty, one 1387 00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,240 Speaker 2: hundred years ago affects us so like negatively, right, Even 1388 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:25,240 Speaker 2: like Chinese food. 1389 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 4: The only reason why we have Chinese food in America 1390 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 4: the way that we do is because that was the 1391 00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,680 Speaker 4: only way for Chinese immigrants to get to this country. 1392 00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:34,160 Speaker 4: They had to work at a fine dining Chinese establishment 1393 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 4: and get a work visa in order to enter this country. 1394 00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,080 Speaker 4: Because they were not allowed to migrate here. And so 1395 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 4: like when you think about all of the things, when 1396 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 4: it's just like you're just looking at it. 1397 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: Oh, this is just pizzo. Oh this is just Chinese food. 1398 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 4: This is like there's so much other stuff when it, 1399 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,440 Speaker 4: like even history to it, so much history to it, 1400 00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,400 Speaker 4: and I think we don't really realize that, like the 1401 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 4: diets and all this other things. It's just like it's 1402 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 4: a money making scheme. And so like whenever you like 1403 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 4: fall like this, whenever you fall into like I'm about 1404 00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 4: to do Keto and it's like whenever you gotta wear 1405 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,960 Speaker 4: a Keto clothes and the Keto head band and ketak 1406 00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 4: because you. 1407 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 1: Got a Keto book. It's just like Keto book bed crazy. 1408 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 2: So Chlo, you obviously know what you're talking about because 1409 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 2: you've been through all the diets and you're giving us 1410 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 2: all the research and. 1411 00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:13,880 Speaker 4: One fund one fun chapter that's not really food related, 1412 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,200 Speaker 4: but it is about like self esteeming body is like 1413 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 4: chapter fifteen is all. 1414 00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 2: That's the chapter that I got opened marked into it 1415 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 2: because I mean, because we're talking about all this stuff 1416 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 2: and giving all these facts. 1417 00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 1: But the book is actually really funny. 1418 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:27,640 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna read this one sentence and then we 1419 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,640 Speaker 2: gotta actually we gotta wrap it up. But uh, it says, 1420 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 2: next time you're getting your back blown out, look back 1421 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 2: at that booty clapping and enjoy it. Sex is beautiful, 1422 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,000 Speaker 2: even if you don't think your body is. 1423 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:42,520 Speaker 1: Looking at the booty clapping behind you. Words by Chloe. 1424 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,080 Speaker 1: There you go if your diet. The book is funny. 1425 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I haven't read the whole thing because 1426 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:48,439 Speaker 2: I don't have a copy of the book. 1427 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm passing it, you know. Yeah. 1428 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,760 Speaker 2: But I also purchased it, purched it, purchased it in. 1429 00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 4: An audio bubble because you don't buy stuff. No, No, 1430 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 4: that's it was hard. 1431 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 2: It was hard to say, okay, bitch, wow, how do 1432 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 2: I get my money back? I purchased it on audio 1433 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,160 Speaker 2: books as well, Thank you, And I read it too, 1434 00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 2: so it would be me yeah, no, no. 1435 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,919 Speaker 1: A voice on the audio book. Yeah I did it. 1436 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:19,840 Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's fun. Come on, voice over work, Sidney. 1437 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,880 Speaker 2: Do you have any other questions before before we did? 1438 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 1: Well? No, I just felt like. 1439 00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 2: This is obviously still a journey because you I don't 1440 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,600 Speaker 2: know if you still talk about it, but plastic surgery, 1441 00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:34,760 Speaker 2: like because you want to get. 1442 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I want to. I do some stuff. I know. 1443 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 4: I was told that I can't get light bo Yeah, 1444 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,560 Speaker 4: I was told. I had a conversation with the plastic surgeon. 1445 00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,160 Speaker 4: They said with it, I can't get lipol because because 1446 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:46,760 Speaker 4: I had, I would have excess. 1447 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 1: Skin and then that would be another surgery. 1448 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 4: So if I wanted to get something, I would have 1449 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,560 Speaker 4: to get like a but I don't know if I 1450 00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:54,320 Speaker 4: want to get a Tommy tug, especially now because I 1451 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 4: don't have children, but I may want to have kids, 1452 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,800 Speaker 4: and so they explained that I could get a Tommy 1453 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,560 Speaker 4: tuck if but but I just wouldn't get my stomach 1454 01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:04,320 Speaker 4: muscles sewn up together because that's how all the girls 1455 01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 4: look like they have a corset. It's because they get 1456 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,960 Speaker 4: their muscles sewn together. Oh yeah, yeah. 1457 01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:09,800 Speaker 1: So it's a lot. 1458 01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:13,400 Speaker 2: It's just so crazy what we fucking do to ourselves, 1459 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,320 Speaker 2: I know. And it's just like, and you know why 1460 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,120 Speaker 2: what makes me so upset is that you put all 1461 01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:22,520 Speaker 2: this time into just trying to feel better about yourself 1462 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 2: and making your body look at least a little bit 1463 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,280 Speaker 2: of the way you want it, and then you still 1464 01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,120 Speaker 2: have fucking problems. Yeah, you still are like, oh, I 1465 01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:32,160 Speaker 2: don't love myself enough. 1466 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:34,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, And even when it comes to blast surgery, it 1467 01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,840 Speaker 4: took me to this point to even be okay with 1468 01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,160 Speaker 4: even thinking about it, because you know, it's like, well, 1469 01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,240 Speaker 4: can I be woke and have plastic surgery? Am I 1470 01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 4: still gonna be down for the calls and my good 1471 01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,280 Speaker 4: sister because we're taught that that's like, that's that's white 1472 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 4: people shit. 1473 01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 1: You don't, you know, we don't. 1474 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 4: You don't do that now because my surgery is more 1475 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,360 Speaker 4: affordable and more like what people are getting it done. 1476 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,480 Speaker 4: But then even when they first start to get it done, 1477 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 4: you talk about them like a dog, you know. So 1478 01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:58,919 Speaker 4: I just I just really had to come to terms 1479 01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 4: with like what I want it for myself, and I 1480 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:01,320 Speaker 4: may get it, I'm not. 1481 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but you know I means you happy 1482 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,560 Speaker 1: and you can afford it, or somebody offers to pay 1483 01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:06,680 Speaker 1: for it. 1484 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 4: I'm not taking sugar Addy money for noney. 1485 01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,520 Speaker 2: I mean, if there's a sugar Daddy on the pod 1486 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:15,960 Speaker 2: that would love to sponsor Chloe, you know. 1487 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,720 Speaker 4: Who says that he pays for boot for he already 1488 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,120 Speaker 4: already for he has a twenty thousand dollars limit. 1489 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:22,480 Speaker 1: And he will pay for titties. Well, he needs to 1490 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 1: pay for new God. Damn, Marie. I'm sorry that he 1491 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:33,520 Speaker 1: was joking. I don't nobody's looking at okay. 1492 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 2: Oh, I was thinking not him. I was thinking of 1493 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 2: white yeah, black already. 1494 01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:44,920 Speaker 1: Oh no, not him. I love him. Accuse Haitian. That's 1495 01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,080 Speaker 1: your brother, is he? Yes? Said? 1496 01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:50,040 Speaker 2: I like him as a friend. Chloe, anything you want 1497 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,160 Speaker 2: to leave us with before we go, Yes, please listen. 1498 01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:55,640 Speaker 2: I think the quest for perfection is overrated. Enjoy who 1499 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,959 Speaker 2: you are because that makes you unique. Please enjoy my book. 1500 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 2: Let me know what you think about it. 1501 01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:03,720 Speaker 4: Hit me up, send me an email, and you can 1502 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:05,680 Speaker 4: check me out. I'm going on tour. I will be 1503 01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:09,640 Speaker 4: in Philly and Uncle Bobby's bookstore. I'll be at DC 1504 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,880 Speaker 4: Comedy Love. I'll be a typewriter Dynasty in La Yes. 1505 01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 4: And then I'm doing Sketch Fest. You guys will be 1506 01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:19,760 Speaker 4: there too, yeah yeah, and in Boston and Vegas. So 1507 01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 4: just go to F the letter F and then you 1508 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:23,720 Speaker 4: are y O. You are diet d I E T 1509 01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,000 Speaker 4: dot com and you can see all my dates. 1510 01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:28,280 Speaker 2: And let them follow you on Instagram and they do that. 1511 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,960 Speaker 1: Yes, Chloe Underscore Hilliard h I L L I A 1512 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: R d Oh love it listen, need it so damn good. 1513 01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 2: I wish we could have got more in the book, 1514 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 2: but you know Chloe know what she's talking about. 1515 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 1: Uh Shore did love it? Listed, need it, want it. 1516 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:45,520 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being your friend, Thanks for 1517 01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 1: having me. I appreciate it. Shout out to you and 1518 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:52,200 Speaker 1: your future abs. I know I'm gonna trying not to 1519 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 1: thought it too much. 1520 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,880 Speaker 2: You guys, make sure that you rate comics, subscribe all 1521 01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:03,440 Speaker 2: that good stuff. And yeah, love herself. So yeah, bye friend, Bye, 1522 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 2: Hey guys, what's up? 1523 01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:07,080 Speaker 1: Before you go? Guess where we're gonna be. 1524 01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 2: We're going to be in San Francisco, Go treat. We're 1525 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,640 Speaker 2: gonna be at the full House House. No, that's not no, No. 1526 01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:18,160 Speaker 2: We're gonna be at the Punchline January the eighteenth, at 1527 01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 2: eleven thirty pm. It's a late show, but it's gonna 1528 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,600 Speaker 2: be a lit show, so nation lit, litt late, little late. 1529 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:25,680 Speaker 1: We will have we will have some merch for y'all. 1530 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:27,439 Speaker 1: We're gonna have a special guest. 1531 01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 2: I could have some you know, some special treats for 1532 01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,760 Speaker 2: you guys, but we don't want to say what it 1533 01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:36,400 Speaker 2: is A hashtag boppers. But yeah, come, it's an eleven 1534 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:39,520 Speaker 2: thirty show. We want to pack the house. We want 1535 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,880 Speaker 2: to meet you all, bring all your fun, interesting, open 1536 01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 2: minded friends. Yes, if you want to get the tickets, 1537 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,600 Speaker 2: we put it on Twitter. We also put it in 1538 01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,400 Speaker 2: our bio and the Unofficial expert on Instagram. Get them 1539 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 2: tickets right right, right now. It's on Live Nation. Yeah, 1540 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 2: get your tickets, get your outfit, bring your friends, and 1541 01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:00,000 Speaker 2: we'll see you on January eighteenthoo Bye bye. 1542 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,680 Speaker 1: Wherever Dog. 1543 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:06,760 Speaker 5: This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced by 1544 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:12,120 Speaker 5: Brett Baum, Joe Scilio, and Alex Ramsey. 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