1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: Horrible decision. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: We reached the climax, y'all, announcing our Climax Tour. We 4 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: are going to be going all over the country and 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: Canada east coast, Midwest, west coast, South. Mandy's going to 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: tell you all about how to secure your tickets because 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all you don't want to let this sell out. 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 2: Y'all heard it right. 9 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: We are hitting sixteen cities for the official Climax Tour, 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: brought to you by Horrible Decisions. 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Know, like like let 22 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: me be a little Hollywood with the no okay, y'all. 23 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: I can't send you welcome, y'all. I'm your girl, Maddie 24 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: b A k A pet Stallion, a k A that bitch, 25 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: a k A pull cork pumps and everything else. 26 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 2: Y'all. I am single again and back on the proud. Sorry. 27 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: I am just so happy. And I don't even got 28 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: no do. I didn't get you, see what you la, 29 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: dusty people. I'm weazy, y'all. 30 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: God now I also got some dick too, but out 31 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: here getting Caucasian man on the Hollywood what's called the 32 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Vegas Trip. Last night, as you can hear, I love 33 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: at you sound like that because we're about to talk 34 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: about bro. 35 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 2: You know what's funny? 36 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: As the night increased, like it was right around three 37 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: point fifty, and everybody's voices started to go, and I was. 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: Like, but you guys don't have your podcast. It was bad. 39 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: I was drinking the tea. I don't even hold you. 40 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: That's why I went to the Lakers game, like I'm 41 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: not drinking beer, only no more liquor. I have to record, You're. 42 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 2: Only this is the hard looking to be sucking up 43 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 2: my boys. 44 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: But you know what, let me introduce this goddamn guess 45 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: we got y'all gonna like this one right here, y'all 46 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: around up applause, do it at your desk, whatever you're doing. 47 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: We're joined with Brendan Cole good Man, author, right, extraordinance 48 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 1: and a lot of things, a lot of things. 49 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: But we're gonna get into it. Let's start. But you're 50 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: a real rider, not just to one. 51 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 1: No, people's tweets are so fucking good, yes said I'd 52 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: be like, okay, well, what do they do out of this? Like, 53 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: you know, you're never really sure because I feel like 54 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: Twitter is such a place to find for me at 55 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: least to understand writers, directors, and to understand people in 56 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: that industry and really see their craft in like real time. 57 00:02:58,760 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 2: Yeah. 58 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: I do think it's a talent to be able to 59 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 3: put out something funny or or profound in that little 60 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 3: amount of characters. 61 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 2: Like that's I mean. 62 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: I went through your tweets and that's how we came 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: up with the line Okay, oh he got some thought, I. 64 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 3: Got thoughts I do. I do. 65 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: You know what else has shown us the writers can't 66 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: really write. I'll live in l a half and half 67 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: and this w g a strike. Well, so my a 68 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: lot of my work has kind of halted too, which 69 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: kind of great. 70 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 2: We all have a nice little blace. 71 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: It's like that COVID thing you're like when when you 72 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: realize it's over, you're like, oh, I. 73 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:34,839 Speaker 2: Should have enjoyed that. I should have taken some time. 74 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: I been going to some of. 75 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: The protests and seeing some of the signs and the 76 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: girls aren't that funny and it's gidding you are sorry. 77 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: Some of it is like some of them like some 78 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: of them. 79 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: Some of it's really good, and some of it's like 80 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: are you a part of the w are you pre. 81 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 3: That's that was like my stress about going It was like, well, 82 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: I have to come up with something funny and cute. 83 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: I just won't like, just pay me, that's all. You 84 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: might have annoyed with the cute because. 85 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: It's not cute like Black Lives Matter, No, no, no, it 86 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: was a Breonna Taylor and people would like put their 87 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: ass up, but let's talk about Breonna Taylor. 88 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: Girl like going on. 89 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's kind of what I've been 90 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: feeling through the strike. But I'm glad that you are 91 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: here to talk about it with us, because at first 92 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: I feel like we all saw it and we're like, Okay, 93 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: we get no late Tonight TV and the writers aren't 94 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: getting paid. The biggest thing I've learned from it was 95 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: about streaming. Hey, can you tell us a little bit 96 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: about what's been going on? 97 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 2: I mean with the streaming of it all. 98 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 3: Listen, about four years ago when I first got my 99 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 3: first job at big Mouth, that we were there was 100 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: like a pending strike. We were debating if it was 101 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 3: going to happen, and it was around streaming, but there 102 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,799 Speaker 3: was only Netflix on Hulu and like a couple others 103 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 3: of the time, right, everything else. 104 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: At that point was like kind of still linear. 105 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, now they're all streaming, right, and so it wasn't 106 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 3: really affecting that many people, so the strike didn't happen. 107 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 3: But this time around, everyone is streaming, and so the 108 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 3: writers are saying, listen, y'all are making these shows and 109 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 3: then selling them and making more money off of it, 110 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 3: but we're not seeing any residuals. We're not because back 111 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 3: in the day with just like on the on actual 112 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 3: TV like Fox and you see you get residuals. So 113 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: like you can like make a life as a writer 114 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 3: as an actor with streaming, they just want to pay 115 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 3: you upfront. 116 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: And then not pay you again. But they're still making 117 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: money and that's the problem. 118 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: And just so you guys are aware, like just to 119 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: make it Layman's terms, because like, when I really thought 120 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: about it, let's say I was telling Mandy a show 121 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: like Blackish for Kenya Barris, right, constant residuals obviously, because 122 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: it's one of. 123 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: The greatest shows ever. 124 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: We sear fucking airplanes, all of that, And what if 125 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: it just went straight to Netflix, yes, and then he 126 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: never got paid again. I wouldn't have a job. There 127 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: would be so many fucking things that, you know what 128 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying, wouldn't come after this. And I think we 129 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: all don't really realize how we're kind of contributing to 130 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: that culture. And it's almost like the elimination of physical 131 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: CDs too. 132 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like I mean, well in the musical artists, yes, 133 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 3: as talking about that too, Like the streaming. It's like 134 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: I think what he had said is like here you 135 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 3: are seeing all these like millions of streams, but it's 136 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 3: not coming back to money, Like you're not able to 137 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 3: see or account for how much that is in your 138 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 3: bank accoun You're seeing that like, oh, it's super successful. 139 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: It's number one on Netflix, number one on this but 140 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 3: it's like, okay, but then somebody got to be making 141 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: money if it's number one, right, not the people who 142 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: are actually creating, the artist, the writers and y'all. 143 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: That is our ted talk on the gotta get. 144 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: You said it so quickly and humbly. You are a 145 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 2: writer on one of my. 146 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: Favorite animated shows, probably of all time at this point, 147 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: Big Mouth, and it has it's been off human resources. 148 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: And for those of you who enjoyed our episode with 149 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: miss Kiki Palmer, she. 150 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,239 Speaker 2: Is a voice. Yes, my opposite were both. 151 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, characters on Big Month. Have you wrote on like 152 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: or do you just write on the whole show? 153 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: I write on the whole show. 154 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: But on season five when they introduced Keiki's character, they 155 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 3: also introduced my character, Walter, so it was the two 156 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 3: love bugs. So Nick Birch got Walter and Missy got Rochelle, 157 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 3: who is played by Kiki, and so like, I was 158 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 3: really really instrumental in that because obviously writing voicing. 159 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: Now we've been talking about hr because the way we 160 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: be coming in here talking about second D. Can you 161 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: ask that show, how where do you draw the lines with? Okay, 162 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: we're working, but we're also talking about the most rauncheous 163 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: and saying the most inappropriate things. 164 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: Oh yes, human resources, both of them. So Big Mouth 165 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: is basically a bunch of kids going through puberty and 166 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 3: they have creatures. Hormon monsters are like that kind of 167 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: the the a list of it all. And then there 168 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 3: are other creature shame wizard, love bugs, and it's just 169 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 3: like personifying their emotions. And then Human Resources is the 170 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 3: same idea, except it's adults. 171 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: So it's able to like. 172 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: We talked about birth, there's one character who is just 173 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 3: had a baby, and there's another character who is about 174 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 3: to pass away. So just able to like tackle more 175 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 3: subjects outside of puberty. 176 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: Oh I like that. It's like it's unexpected. Thank you. 177 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 3: It's unexpected because you're like, we're making a lot of 178 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: dick jokes, but also there's a lot of heart to it. 179 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: There's there's a period jokes, there is come jokes, jackov jokes. 180 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 2: Some of the characters and the Mouth our liking boys 181 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 2: in your room. Our room is actually big. 182 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 3: So when I first started, there was a lot of 183 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 3: us are a full time, maybe at eight of us 184 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 3: were a full time, and then a bunch that were 185 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 3: part time. We call them so they would come in 186 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 3: and consult. But at the largest maybe it was like 187 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: fifteen of us. Wow, which is a really big room. 188 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 3: Like a lot of rooms are like four or five 189 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 3: six people. We were like at max maybe fifteen. 190 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 2: I'm like obsessed with everyone who created it. 191 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: And so for the icebreaker, we're gonna have plain because 192 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: I want to know what your home hormone monster would. 193 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 2: Say about you. 194 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: You as well, We're gonna talk about what we think 195 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: our hormone monsters would say about us with these followings. 196 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: We all know I'm a crier. 197 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So what would your hormone monster say? Is your 198 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,359 Speaker 1: current favorite horn category? 199 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 3: Ooh, current favorite PRN category? Like ammateure submissive? 200 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: Shit? 201 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 3: You could type that in submissive yeah not shit shit sorry, 202 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 3: but like amateur submissive stuff? 203 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: What is amateur submission? 204 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 3: Like what I mean we both heard that instead of 205 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: a porn said yes, yes, submission at home? 206 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 2: Not submission? 207 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: Do you like when like the TV? Like if you 208 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: heard big mouth in the back? Like do you like 209 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: hearing TV shows in the back? 210 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely? It discs? Know what I'm saying. How amateur do 211 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: you like it? Oh? 212 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: Oh? 213 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 214 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: Like when you watch because TV commercially playing in the 215 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: background and I don't. 216 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 2: Want to hear one eight hundred. 217 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to like filmed on like your little 218 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 3: you know, a little iPhone eight You know what I'm saying, 219 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 3: Like I wanted to still look a certain way. 220 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 2: But you amateur. 221 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: Like only fans porn, Yes, only at least creators. They'll 222 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: put some money and they'll use some cameras like this. Sure, yes, 223 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: you know, we appreciate that. I appreciate you don't ire 224 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: a little editing, you know. 225 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: Okay, here I'm looking at trans porn but very specific. 226 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: Oh you know trans women that are getting double but 227 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: like d DP, well technically it's see see and I watched. 228 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: I like watching women. No, I don't like your opposite. 229 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 1: I like to see the dick and the ball swing. Okay, 230 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: this next one, what is your newest kink or odd 231 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: thing that you're doing sexually currently? 232 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 3: Oh my god, somebody introduced me to like bite it 233 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 3: like they wanted me to bite that. Wait, bite them 234 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: where like around there, like thighs and ass. I don't 235 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 3: know if they wanted to leave a mark butt being 236 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 3: like harder harder. 237 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: It was really like, did you ever close your teeth 238 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: or you were just like yeah, but it's okay. Yeah. 239 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 3: So it's like it's not what I imagined to me. 240 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 3: It's like little little skin like pinch, but oh and 241 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: that's what he that's and like it's like massaging it 242 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 3: with the teeth and like going up and down and 243 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,599 Speaker 3: getting it wet, like like it was such a turn on, 244 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 3: Like they were so because they were so turned on. 245 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 3: I'm turned on if you're turned on, like okay, flexible, 246 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 3: so like if it turns. 247 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: You on, I feel like you stayed that. But let's 248 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: buy the limit and there's a limit. 249 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 2: The limit is he limit. 250 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 3: I'm willing to talk about it like it's it wouldn't 251 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 3: turn me on, Like I don't want somebody on me, 252 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 3: but if like it turns you on, then like i'd 253 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: be down, Like but I also want to the logistics 254 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 3: like we're doing that in the bed, we're doing that 255 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 3: in the shower, like where we pe. 256 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: I realized my mind right now is going I'm a 257 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: little embarrassed to say what, Like it's really odd for 258 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: me too. So right now I'm extremely turned on by captions. 259 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: Hear me out, So you know, I watch porn on 260 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: Twitter I literally will look for pages that there's porn happening, 261 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: but the caption will make a scenario. So it's like 262 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: Disney Game, pay his breads. So yeah, and I'm just 263 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 1: literally I'm I'm like, just by the caption, oh, pay 264 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: him his money. 265 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 2: And and they're. 266 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: Literally they're not even acting about the scene, but the 267 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: caption itself gives. 268 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 2: You you know what this says. 269 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: It's just want to like those times you know where 270 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: someone's so overloaded on sex, it has. 271 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 2: To be they start to retract. It has to be. 272 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: I realized I want whole, Like my uber driver went 273 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: the wrong way and I made him pay for it, 274 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: and this is how I did it and scene and 275 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: like all of the cat we understand why you're hearing. 276 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 2: Literally a better storyline than that. 277 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: Like my homeboy came over and said his baby mama tripping, 278 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: so I told him I canna stuck his dig better 279 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: than she can and sing and I'm just like, I'm like. 280 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 2: Why do you love? I like, is a Nigga cinema 281 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 2: you would like this to buy? Would be on a 282 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 2: DVD outside of a gas station. I'm not gonna lie. 283 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: That's what I like is given realness y'all be asking 284 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: if I like real niggas. Yes, because none of my 285 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: porn is about basketball players or rich motherfucker's and mansions. 286 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 2: It's just about a nigga playing a video game. So 287 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 2: I don't watch porn. 288 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: To be like can I can I or what I 289 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: clearly I'm watching gay men have sex. 290 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 2: I'm not their cup of tea. And I know this. 291 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: I just here's another embarrassing thing. And this is where 292 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: I feel like this may really be my problem with 293 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,119 Speaker 1: why I kept going back to that niggas. I realized 294 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm coming off they both have to be attractive. So 295 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,839 Speaker 1: I'm realizing that my like view on good looking people. 296 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 2: Is getting worse. I'm like, damn, y'all fine, y'all look 297 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 2: so good. 298 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm coming to just niggas looking look good, Oh my god, 299 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: looking good to you. 300 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: I don't like they look like metrical. 301 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: They look like they was hired by Tyler Perry and. 302 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 2: You can go to a party. Don't do that. Don't 303 00:13:53,840 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 2: do this. Perry hires dark skin, Mary, fuck you want 304 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 2: to go. 305 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: I got dark skin niggas on my roster. They all 306 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:08,959 Speaker 1: shades of brown man. Yes, are this color the one 307 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: nigga and he had green. 308 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 2: Eyes, Michael and a green I'm the judge. Do you 309 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: see you see what. 310 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: He don't let me see? Now, I'm gonna show you 311 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: all here. I'm gonna show you all. 312 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you need a Hero Center visit, she said, 313 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 2: I need know. Is this what we're doing? Do you 314 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 2: want we could go. 315 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: You Your pussy is still black lives, black fish lives matter. 316 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 2: Oh y'all so fing this y'all cracking? They are black. 317 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 2: We're not going no, no, no, no mind you bro. 318 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: I am the one on this couch who only and 319 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: has ever only black men, white. 320 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 2: Colonizer. Okay, you know what crazy? I white many night 321 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 2: now five four or five years. Don't roll off the 322 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 2: last bit that little one. White kids? Sorry fun and 323 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: you know what's funny? I mean I said last night. 324 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you or dirty white boys like I 325 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: realized I like hood niggas, or like the white boys 326 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: that look like they have a shower. 327 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: They're like the skateboarders, the dirty white boys. So this 328 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 2: is something we talked Brooklyn, Yes, like Brooklyn type white. 329 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: I don't I don't know them here we go call 330 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 2: them white nigga. Sorry, sorry, sorry, white boys what. 331 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: White. 332 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 2: Truly, they have a little bit of sway that I'm 333 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 2: not saying, like I don't bee you want nigga. 334 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: Really awful y'all y'all have about my type. 335 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 2: And Brady, you ain't even seeing my Sorry, sorry, don't 336 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: listen to this. 337 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: I wait to see the green eyes to me, I was, 338 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: I was, that's. 339 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 2: We don't do that. 340 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I feel like I got another one but two. So anyway, 341 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: I gotta think get into our vanilla ship. God damnit, 342 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: so our vanilla ship. She loves squirrel like I'm down. 343 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: I barely even deal with bi racials. Okay, I. 344 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 2: Want to unpeg this. We love Look at me, my 345 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 2: I just heard. I want to unpeg this. 346 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: I want to let me get all right, right, listen, 347 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: I got that good dick from from some past that. 348 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 2: Was about the dick that you got. I would. 349 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: I got, Yeah, talk about your dick. 350 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: So okay, first off, was a new dick or old dick? 351 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 2: It was old dick. Okay, but I can't tell y'all 352 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 2: who because we was made. I'll be talking about it 353 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: on the pod game. 354 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: So he was doing some writers ship okay, and he 355 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: was like, yo, I'm in the area I'm in Hollywood. 356 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool, He's like, let me come 357 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: see your new spot. So I was getting ready to 358 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: go to Vegas and I was thinking to myself, no way, 359 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: I'll have an oh no, no, it was a Vegas Kiki 360 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: had a premiere party for a visual album, Big Boss Key. 361 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 2: Y'all go check that out on the Key TV. So 362 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: she had a premiere party and Kiki, this is why 363 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 2: I'm mistress screening. 364 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: Okay, you wait, let me tell you what's the worst. 365 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 2: But I saw a party. But listen, mind you. I 366 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: left ki La. Now we were so like what they're 367 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 2: gonna do? I'm making to the party girl. 368 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: We was in Miami and I was getting tired, and 369 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 1: he was like, okay, well I was to see you 370 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: on Wednesday, right, And I was like yeah, Now I 371 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: feel even worse because I already bailed twice. 372 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 2: So anyway, all right, I'm home. I'm literally getting ready. 373 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck it, We'll just have a quick bite 374 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 1: and then I'm going downtown to Kiki ship Key's. 375 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: The screening started at seven thirty, then came over in 376 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: five fifty. 377 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: That was already I honestly thought we were gonna eat 378 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: and be done. 379 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 2: He was in my house. 380 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 1: And fucking and he had these full lass lips and 381 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: he was like, what's up boy? 382 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: No, he was like, so Nina did her little thing. 383 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 2: I was like, who do you remember him? So? 384 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 1: Nina's my dog. So anyway, I was getting dressed. He 385 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: was looking at me and he was like, well, I 386 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: can tell you missed me. And I was like, I 387 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about. And then he 388 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 1: was like, let me see your room. 389 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 2: And then I walked me in my room. Maybe he 390 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 2: didn't say that. I don't think what happened was he 391 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 2: had no shirt on in my room. He was like, oh, 392 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 2: I'm just chilling. Oh my god. 393 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: He started washing the Laker games. So then I was like, well, 394 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: now you're about to make me get in the bed. 395 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: He's like, no, go ahead, dress you somewhere to go. 396 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: So then instead of sitting on the bed, he sat 397 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,239 Speaker 1: on a chair spread his legs and you know when 398 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: they sit on. 399 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: A chair and it's just big, and he was like, 400 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 2: what am I gonna do? So then he was like, 401 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: you have any condoms mind you? 402 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: I just moved in. I said let me look. I'm 403 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: telling you sounded like having expected. I don't know whose 404 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: condoms he was bro, but we used them. He fucked 405 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: me so good And the only funny thing that happened 406 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: is I had to turn the Lakers game off in 407 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 1: the Middlesex because my brain was like, what if you're 408 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: looking at both? Anyway, it was great and I still 409 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: made it sick. That's why I have my hair. I 410 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: had these cute little ponytails and ship the next day 411 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: when you got on zoom is that what the next morning? 412 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: And didn't they was they were sliding down? 413 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 2: They would you know? 414 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: So I wore bunder her ship. That's why I took 415 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: no pics. But it was a great event, fabulous. They 416 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 1: had lamb and ship. 417 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 2: It was nice. 418 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: Okay, your turn, last time you because you just had it. 419 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 3: What it's older because we knew each other last year 420 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 3: and we all going back and then we re meat. 421 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: But it's a it's a nigga who really puts me 422 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 3: in my place and I love Come on, I've learned 423 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 3: that I'm really like like being submissive, like like call 424 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 3: me a slat bitch or slap me out, oke me 425 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 3: out like that is you like slaps like flapp. 426 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 2: It, tell me I'm your good. You're good boy, You're 427 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: good girl. 428 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,719 Speaker 1: Wait you want to be what other things will you do? 429 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: Like we do you like this shirt? Like what do 430 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: you do? 431 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, like while they're smoking a joint. 432 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 1: That's oh my god, oh my god, I have your 433 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: yes God, he did. 434 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 2: The same thing over back to that. I was down 435 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 2: legs over and I just looked up at him. He 436 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 2: smoked that motherfucker look at. 437 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 3: Just like that's part of the king cannabis. Oh my god, 438 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 3: that's it music. 439 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 2: I'm not see what I mean when I saw you. 440 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 2: That turned me on. 441 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: So so say for here, so my digtail, he come 442 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 1: over whatever because I'm single now, So I was like, 443 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 1: is that time come back over? He's always gonna come 444 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: back over. So he comes over and he gets real 445 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: comfortable too. So I'm like, you just looked up and 446 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: he didn't have a shirt. As soon as he came 447 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: through the door, whole outfit came off, chain came off. 448 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: He's sitting on my fucking couch in his box, and 449 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm just like, let's keep ready. 450 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 2: So we just having a conversation and it just he goes, 451 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 2: I'm horny. That's a nigga. 452 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: I've been horny because it's late at that time, I said, 453 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 1: I've been waiting forty eight hours for this dick. 454 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 2: I literally took a nap so I could be up 455 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 2: when he came over. So we have some drinks. 456 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: He's smoking a blank it's cute or whatever, and I 457 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: go down and just start stucking his big, old, big 458 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 1: old dick, and I'm like, oh, So then I got 459 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: like rub his nipples. 460 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 2: Because I'm rubbing the nipple, not hardwire. I'm your home. 461 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: So then we go to fucking mind you like just 462 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 1: got out of damn near literally last weekend would. 463 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 2: Have made three years with so many So I'm back. 464 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: It's condom dick, and I'm just like, okay, but it 465 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 1: was so good the whole time. We're fucking I like really, 466 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: and I think I mentioned this. I like talking especially 467 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: with someone that I know I'm not your only I'd 468 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 1: be like, hmm them, mother bitch is donna take your dick. 469 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, I miss you. This your 470 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 2: pussy forever? Yes, well, I mean I said, I h 471 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 2: you're here, Yeah, this is your pussy. 472 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: Well no, no, no, I like that. I let him 473 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,479 Speaker 1: know this is this is really your pussy. This is 474 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: really your pussy so much. No no, no, no, Like it's like 475 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't lying to him, like this is how bad 476 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: I know it is. So we've been fucking for a 477 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: long time. And there's a lot of niggas around New 478 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: York to be around him, like, and a lot of 479 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: his mixiness them niggas being my phone. And when I 480 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: tell you, I had to let him know there's so 481 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: many of your friends that be trying to slide. But 482 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 1: this dick's so good that I don't want to ruin 483 00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: it or have other niggas talk shit because I know 484 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: and I'm loyal. I love that ain't mine, but but. 485 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 2: Loyal to the dick. This is, that's my dick. It 486 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: is whatever? 487 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: Is it? 488 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 2: Everything else? 489 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: Do you know how bad it? Literally could not talk 490 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: to me. I'll be like it's fine, literally like totally fine, 491 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: totally fine. 492 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: I don't need you. It's fine. 493 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 1: I won't go to literally, And then when it came, 494 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: and then he was sucking for a long time and I. 495 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 2: Was like, okay, I love feed me. There was a 496 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 2: long time, well mind you. 497 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: I told him he needed to give me three nuts 498 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: and after that one, I said, yeah, so I don't 499 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: need three That was actually fine. 500 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 2: How long it very, I don't even know, but because 501 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 2: I was just letting Alexa play. 502 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 1: I've had like ten rounds like in a night, like 503 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: a lot of nuts, but this one I made it. 504 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 1: I was real kinky. I said, oh, I want to 505 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: taste it. So he took off the condom and started 506 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: shooting it all upon me. It went in my face, 507 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: it went in my mouth, then it went all right here. 508 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: So I said, you have to feed it to me. 509 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,959 Speaker 1: So I took his hand and made him wipe off 510 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 1: his net off, and I just. 511 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: I like liked it all off his hands. So what 512 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 2: I like. 513 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 3: When they eat it when they eat their own cut. 514 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 3: So yeah, so that's when they wipe it off you 515 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 3: and then they eat. 516 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: So I don't get into that, but I also I 517 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 1: love this, okay, but wait to set the scene for us, because. 518 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:20,439 Speaker 2: I do want to say. 519 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:21,719 Speaker 3: I want to mention when you see the chain off. 520 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 3: So one of my guys he wears like a like 521 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 3: a like a lock chain or whatever. He takes it 522 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 3: off and puts it on me. 523 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 2: So like which like, I'm gonna make him do that 524 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 2: next thing. It's a cute little it's expensive change on 525 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 2: his change. 526 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 3: Well, this one is like it's like it's like it 527 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 3: looks like one of those like bike locks or whatever. 528 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 2: I forget what that. You know, it's like a bondage. 529 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: Wait does he do on his necklace? Because I feel 530 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: like he would feel crazy for nutting on his nut. 531 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think you did well that 532 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 2: a cream pie? 533 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 1: Okay, look at so a lot of times when we 534 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 1: hear about stories with men eating their own come it's 535 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 1: snowballing and I would say in HEATERO relationships, tell us 536 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: about maybe a sexy time and someone either licked it 537 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: off of you where they licked it from, if they 538 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: shout it into their mouth. 539 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 2: Oh word, one of my guys. 540 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: This about to be an episode too on Big Mouth. 541 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: I need a snowball and eating nut episode cartoon that you. 542 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 2: Need to make it. The sperms are talking to each 543 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 2: other word you know what I mean. We've definitely everything. 544 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 2: We had ship talked to the boys. Yeah, poop mad 545 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 2: the guy Andrew couldn't ship and then the ship comes 546 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 2: down and talk it's not it's not, but yeah, my. 547 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 3: Guy was eating me out, sucking me on all fours, 548 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 3: flipped me over, came on my stomach and my chest 549 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 3: and then like looked at me and then like licked it. 550 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 2: I'm your hormone monster. It was. I love getting cleaned up. Yeah, yeah, wow, 551 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 2: it's it's heaven. 552 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: Dear well, we're all being really nasty and really filthy. 553 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: And guess what, guys, Doctors are now warning us that 554 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: oral sex is causing an epidemic of throat cancer. I 555 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold you. I gotta I gotta let the 556 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 1: people know. We gotta be educational just a little bit. So. 557 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: The University of Birmingham professor his Sean Mahanna says, it's 558 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: a human don't do that because I feel like that's 559 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: just don't because you don't know how it is or 560 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: how we pronounce it. But I'm gonna say this. He 561 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 1: says that the human papoloma virus is the cost I 562 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: said that bitch, I got it right. Is the cost 563 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: of the rise, which is HPV, y'all. It's HPV. That 564 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: is just HPV. Is it has a long A said, 565 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: it's so fast blown catch the human paloma I like 566 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: a poloma bites which all APV. 567 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 2: So made away anyway for the. 568 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: Oral pharoligeal cancer. It shi, bro, this is this is 569 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: Hollywood a lot, bitch. That's where I read from baby okayline. 570 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: The main risk factor is the number of lifetime sexual partners, 571 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 1: especially oral sex. Well, bitches, all sex partners, I'm sucking dick. 572 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 1: Another report by the CDC estimated the HPV infections in 573 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: the United States called seventy percent of oral cancer. HPV 574 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 1: is sexually transmitted, and for oral cancer, the main risk 575 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: factor is the number of partners you actually have. Those 576 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: with six look look at his number, bitch. 577 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:51,479 Speaker 2: All y'all listening. 578 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: It says those with six or more lifetime oral sex 579 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: partners lifetime are eight point five times more like to 580 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 1: develop oral cancer than those who did not practice oral sex. 581 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: So my question to you guys is sub dick or 582 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 2: get cancer. There are a lots. Doctor Sebby has shown 583 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 2: us the way out, and doctor Sebbi did not say 584 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 2: this is how you don't get throw cancer. Well, bitch, 585 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you like this. 586 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 1: Some of y'all remember when I said I was on 587 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: lex Pro and I couldn't come, but also I was 588 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: feeling suicidal. That's why they put me on lexipro. Well, 589 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: after I couldn't come, might as well kill yourself. So y'all, 590 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 1: I guess I can't say what kind it says or 591 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: through your throat. 592 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 2: But I can catch it early because I know I'm 593 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if. 594 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: There's stages for this one. Look, I didn't do that 595 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: much research because it's signing, But what about once you 596 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: get it out and wait, let me see antibody. Here's 597 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: actually the real question. Is oral cancer terminal? 598 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,239 Speaker 2: Like if you could just live with it? Is it 599 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 2: like oh right? Is it like her PHSP or whatever? 600 00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 2: So I mean, I think. 601 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: More than seventy five out of one hundred people survived 602 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: their cancer. 603 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 2: That's more. Wait, I think the oral cancer is uh 604 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 2: oh wait, no, this isn't good, bitch. Sixty eight percent 605 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: of people with oral cancer survived for five years. I 606 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: didn't stop this. I feel like we all know someone 607 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,479 Speaker 2: that we love that we lost the cancer. 608 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: Well, my best friend is a is a cancer survivor, 609 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: but she has lost people. And mouth cancer does have 610 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: four stages as well, zero or five because there's stage zero, 611 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: so zero. 612 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 2: One, two, three. I didn't know there's a stage zero. 613 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: There's a stage zero that's like early early yeah, so yeah, 614 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: survival orde is not great it's giving five years. Wait second, 615 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: you pussy, that's oral sex. You said suck dick or god? 616 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: Okay, well oral sex or eating ass like like anything. Damn, 617 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 2: I wonder if it's from eating to see another day. 618 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 2: You have five years to you know? 619 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 3: All right, okay, all right, like we need more information. 620 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 3: This is crazy, sitting dick. I don't think we can, okay, okay, 621 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 3: but but I would. But they also fries do this too. 622 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 3: I think fries are now wait wait wait French fries 623 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 3: can cause cancer? 624 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 2: What type of French fries speak. 625 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 3: Fries? 626 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 2: It can't be the ones from Checkers them thinks so 627 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 2: good good. I haven't seen the Checkers and Forever pop 628 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 2: fries the other day. What well, that's probably like secondary 629 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 2: because I don't think the Checkers rallies rallies. Okay, okay, Georgia, 630 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 2: but the pope was too. I love. 631 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: A good yeah, they like they can't No, first off 632 00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: me for that, I know you're city talking about everybody 633 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: in the room. 634 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,959 Speaker 2: That's the fast food fried Checkers, Jack Checkers at McDonald 635 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 2: number one checker. 636 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: Ma'am like the gay ma'am. 637 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I ain't gonna lie, I'll be bad. And they 638 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 2: don't Sunday Listen. 639 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 1: I'll be like, look at my fingers. Y'all don't like me, 640 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: but this chicken. I'll take a number. 641 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 2: That chick Sunset. 642 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: There's an in and out that's so busy that across 643 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 1: the streets there's a Chick fil A. 644 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 2: Literally, I was eating the bunkets and I was like, bro, 645 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 2: the gays back burst off. I am a hypocrite, you are, 646 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 2: Oh sure? 647 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: Am? I still wore h and m Gucci Ballanci. I 648 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: get everything that y'all said, cancel. 649 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 2: On the edge of life. Okay, you were like that. 650 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 2: You were trying to post Mela don't give just body 651 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: I put in. 652 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 1: And this is wait, this is how toxic My ballinc 653 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: Yaga bag is a Gucci collapse. 654 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 2: It's both, it's given, it's but it's cute. Ay you. 655 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: I actually really want they put that little boy in 656 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: that monkey shirt. 657 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 2: I can't. 658 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 1: And that's when I was in here the same day. 659 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: I hope their sales happening. 660 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 2: Bitch, I'm running my god, bitch, har right in here? 661 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 2: Where are we? 662 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 3: Oh? 663 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna give even with Nigga. Guess what. 664 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 1: I furnished my whole studio with Wayfair and they show 665 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 1: was selling kids in cabinet. 666 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 2: How they was my god that the kids in cabinets 667 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 2: was like the pink. It was shot trafficking. And I said, 668 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 2: I said, thirty five percent off, bitch, I don't give 669 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: you kids. 670 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: It's always fucking kids. First off, but secondly, y'all can 671 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 1: see here and be fake. 672 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: He's gonna lets Target do nothing, please Tea, be honest. 673 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: Hey, thick thigh girls, this skirt Target guy all the 674 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: good strength short stree. They got great ship. No Target 675 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: clothes from Target maybe for a minutes. Not the same 676 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: though market market is that girl and weird. This is 677 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 1: not an ad buttuff. 678 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 2: You know they lovede suit. They do. 679 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: They always do some collapse of black designers though they 680 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: Target is cute, stuff is gray. Their stuff is great. 681 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: Shout out to Target, baby, it's given. I've actually said 682 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: on the air a few times, like so I dropped 683 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: Tesla and realizing how much I saving gas, how easy 684 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: the car is. I'm like Elon be testing the water 685 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 1: and I'm honest. He could really get on Twitter and 686 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: be like I hate black people, and I'll be like, well, 687 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 1: I had it years ago. I had already bought my 688 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: price before Balinciaga did all that ship. 689 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 2: Don't do that, man, It was purchased, you know, kind of. 690 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 2: He ain't really pushed us to what's I told you. 691 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 2: I saw him with no shoes on, didn't I Kanye 692 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: with no shoes. 693 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: He was wearing no shoes. He's trying to do some 694 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,240 Speaker 1: kind of like sock shoe thing. I saw him shopping, 695 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 1: and I was like, do I feel bad? 696 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 2: Friend? He's trying to bring back Jaggings. 697 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: I cannot approve. I do not want to see no man. 698 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 1: He was looking real thick too. 699 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 2: I said. 700 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: And I like a little thick man. But I don't 701 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: want him to know Jaggings. So he better not be 702 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: out here making Jagan's cue for the boys. 703 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I like that. I disagree. Y'all 704 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 2: want a man in a jaggon, a tall tea, tea 705 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 2: and jazz, a tall tea and a jagging Are you 706 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 2: kidding me? Right now? Stop laughing? She hung over. 707 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:53,440 Speaker 1: This is why she's talking to You're definitely also the 708 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 1: things you drink in Vegas, everything is a different color. 709 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 2: Why is that? 710 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: Vegas says, he just drunk juice, Just drink liquor and clubs. Sold, 711 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 1: y'all gotta stop drinking all this. 712 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 2: They were like, like a tequila or blue tequila, it's stronger. 713 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 2: Oh no, it's given just blue carolself added to tequila. 714 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 2: Well I never been what you know? It should all 715 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,840 Speaker 2: be clear. Yeah. Anyways, we're gonna get into our hoardr 716 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: so our hordrve for you. 717 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 1: We would love for you to just share a sex 718 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 1: tip with our audience before we get to our horrible decision. 719 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 2: Oh ass eating, I say, oh you, yes, a tip 720 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 2: for ass eating. Y'all pay attention, take notes, even if 721 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 2: you at your desk. 722 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 3: Please, So I say, T t SS tease taste speed suction. Wow, 723 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 3: I like it so like, if this is the whole, 724 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 3: you gotta tease it first, because niggas want to just 725 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,439 Speaker 3: like go right in and that is not and this. 726 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 2: Is what this is. Literally just with your tongue, with 727 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 2: your mouth. 728 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 3: No, when you teasing it, you can tease it with 729 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 3: your finger, you piss it, spin on it. 730 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,479 Speaker 2: But just like teasing tease. You know what I'm saying. 731 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 2: Let me see how good I am again? 732 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 3: T T T T T T S S T S 733 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 3: S tease taste speed suction, tease taste speed section. I 734 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 3: always say the hole is the door. You gotta knock 735 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 3: on the door first. You can't just be I think 736 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 3: you missed as. 737 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: This is, yeah, but the as should go first. It 738 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: should be as T T S S. 739 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 2: Smell, Oh what that's given? Maiming straight niggas. 740 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, for you, what's the stink oft boody you? I 741 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: don't eat it if the smell, that's why you started. 742 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 2: There's a differences. 743 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 3: I'm talking about how you eat an ass, but like 744 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 3: the person needs to clean ass, okay, yes. 745 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 1: But as a person still eating ass while you're down 746 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,760 Speaker 1: at the balls, give a little That's. 747 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 2: Part of the teas, honestly, because like when you when 748 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 2: you do a little finger, you pass that by. That's 749 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 2: what you You just know that you were doing like 750 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 2: this is it yellow? You do this like this and 751 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 2: be like. 752 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 3: Okay, cool, okay, you know immediately, you know immediate tease. 753 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 2: Okay, so tease, knock on that door. It's the door. 754 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 3: You gotta open the door first, so tease it, lick it. 755 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 3: Whatever taste is flat tongue niggas want to be kermit, 756 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 3: but don't fuck the flat tongue like you eat ice cream. 757 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 2: Taste it, like, really enjoy that ship. 758 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 1: It sounded like a fart. You heard that I did. 759 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what that was. It was somebody else. 760 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 2: I can't after that. That wasn't me eating. 761 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 3: But also some people like a little They want you 762 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 3: to push out a little air, so farting. Have you 763 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 3: have you experienced that? You're talking people like when you 764 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:27,919 Speaker 3: fart on them, fart in their mouth? 765 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 2: Okay, when they asked you for it. 766 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 3: I didn't ask for it. I can't do it on cue. 767 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 3: But yes, people want you to like, wait, niggas, they 768 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:39,959 Speaker 3: just say, cannot fart in your mouth. 769 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 2: They want me to faright in their mouth? Is it? 770 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 2: You said it's the air, so it's not air the 771 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 2: smell you kissed them after? 772 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 3: Well, I haven't done it, but I have had a 773 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 3: nigga like you know when you just got a bottle 774 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 3: air happened? 775 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 2: Right? You gotta eat tacobo before, just eat some. 776 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 1: Taco bell didn't just get some Mexican and you could 777 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 1: be all, do you know that one place Mexic India? 778 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 2: But you want like a clean fart, You don't want 779 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,399 Speaker 2: a smelly, nasty line. I mean, but if it's smell 780 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,439 Speaker 2: like jeloopa, that's my favorite motherfucking taco. You really still 781 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 2: got to talk about it. I'm embarrassed to say I 782 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 2: love it. Chiloopah, that's fine, but you don't want that. 783 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: And then it added like a dorito something over there. 784 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: I said, I don't let people see me. I put 785 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: my hood on. 786 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 2: I go in order in lee. Do you also need 787 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,399 Speaker 2: to talk about breakfast? You heat? Are you done? 788 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: You just said, Oh my god, Popeye sprice e girl, 789 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,479 Speaker 1: that is the chicken of our lives. 790 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,360 Speaker 2: Stop, okay, we're on so speed. 791 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 3: So like playing with the rhythm, which I say, like, 792 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 3: if you play some music in the background, you can 793 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 3: follow the rhythm of the music if you need that 794 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 3: support what any song like I put on my little 795 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 3: heated radio. 796 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 2: Heated radio. 797 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 3: I literally was like, okay, yeah, whatever, because because people 798 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 3: a little renaisance, because people do the same rhythm and 799 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 3: you don't, that gets boring. 800 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 2: So like think about your speed, changing up that rhythm exactly. 801 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 2: That's money bag. Yeah wait, but you said flat tongue. 802 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 3: Flat, Yes, when you taste it, because that little you know, 803 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 3: have you ever had somebody trying to eat your puss, 804 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 3: your ass and it's just like it's bullshit. Yeah, this 805 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,359 Speaker 3: small tongue, long, flat tongue like you eat an ice 806 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 3: cream and it's such a that's advanced. But like you 807 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 3: can like like like pull, like you're making out with 808 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 3: a fighter. 809 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 2: He's a sucker baker, he's a hero using me, you 810 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 811 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:30,319 Speaker 1: Cool on that's how you get as So we're gonna 812 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 1: go ahead and smell. 813 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 2: Smell all out here eating hetero ass baby tells a 814 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 2: little different strike from the club. 815 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 3: And now you just don't want to watch between their 816 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 3: toes and they don't watch their whole I don't understand. 817 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 2: Now how you know about this between the to the whole. 818 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 3: Thing on the internet when white people are like, we 819 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 3: don't wash our feet, they don't watch the don't and 820 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,400 Speaker 3: the toes or like what was it? Was it actual 821 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 3: cutch or whatever it said, like they don't shower every 822 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 3: day or something like that. 823 00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:58,840 Speaker 2: Remember that that was a whole big thing on them. 824 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: Know of course, but I'm trying to think, Yeah, I 825 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 1: was really sad. I just was waiting for you to 826 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: tell some footship. But I like, I like Jake Jaylahan 827 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 1: and he admitted to that. 828 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't want to see you 829 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 2: want to be the one white man that white kids 830 00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 2: last night. Please you could just ask me like you've 831 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 2: had to get like, I don't understand it's over. It 832 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 2: was just one night thing. 833 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,360 Speaker 1: All right, Well, y'all we are here at our horror blad. 834 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: This is the yeah, and we gonna talk about healthy love. 835 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: So we've been real, we've been real, uh kinky with it. 836 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 1: But this actually came from a lot of what you 837 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: post on your Instagram, your sweet and also you gotta 838 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: be you to embrace the messy life and step into. 839 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,480 Speaker 2: Who you really are. How to embrace the messy life? 840 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 2: I love that. 841 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 1: Well, clearly it's real messy of niggas asking you to 842 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: fart in them out, But I wanted to start with 843 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: what does healthy love actually. 844 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 2: Look like to you? 845 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 1: In air quotes as inn't healthy because you know we're 846 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 1: not talking about using condom, daring sex. 847 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,279 Speaker 2: We're talking about just healthy love. 848 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 3: I always say communication is my kink, and I think 849 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 3: like the foundation of a healthy relationship is being able 850 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 3: to communicate, Like if you can't talk to a nigga, 851 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 3: if you can't express what you're going through in a 852 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 3: in a respectful, loving way right. 853 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 2: If we can't have that, then like it's trash. That's 854 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 2: what I'm singing again. Yes, yeah, So healthy love, I. 855 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 3: Think is rooted in being able to communicate with each 856 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 3: other so that you can actually meet each other's needs 857 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 3: in a loving manner. 858 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 1: So even when love is healthy, I think I have 859 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: like this, really I might have trauma now with this 860 00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:38,480 Speaker 1: word love based on my last experience. But is love 861 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: supposed to hurt? Or should it be hard? I know 862 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: that people assume that like. 863 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 3: Love is a hard, relationships are hard. 864 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 2: I think with love comes heartbreak to like death. 865 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I still think like love can be painful, 866 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like there's different stages 867 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 1: of love to like there's different growing pains, like absolutely, I. 868 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 3: Think hurt and pain are probably worth differentiating, right, like 869 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 3: that a breakup could be painful, but you talking to 870 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 3: me crazy hurts, right actually, and that shouldn't Love shouldn't hurt, 871 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:15,919 Speaker 3: but it can have pain. 872 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: I didn't think I would share this, but woo tea, 873 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,880 Speaker 1: I spill it your coffee. I recently had a breakup 874 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 1: with someone I was dating, okay, just because time really 875 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: wasn't meshing well and just our lives aren't in the 876 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,720 Speaker 1: right place, very right person, long time. And the breakup 877 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,359 Speaker 1: was the first time we said we loved each other. 878 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 1: It was very painful. Wow yeah, And it was just like, oh, like, 879 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: I can't believe this is coming to an end because 880 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: I love you. And it was very I don't want 881 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 1: to use the word amicable, but it was like very mutual, 882 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: I guess, and also super confusing because you're like, damn, well, 883 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: why do we have to stop doing this if we 884 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:52,319 Speaker 1: love each other? 885 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 2: But the relationship just really wasn't going anywhere. 886 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: I hated to use the word pointless, but it's like, 887 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: all right, if you can't make time for me and 888 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 1: I can't make time for you, and I'm getting so frustrated. 889 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 1: And every time we fight it's because the other ones traveling. 890 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:04,919 Speaker 1: We're busy, Like what. 891 00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 2: Can we do? Our lives aren't going to change. We 892 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 2: live so yeah. 893 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 1: But you know, afterward he was telling me, like how 894 00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 1: you talk to his family about it? And he was 895 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:13,920 Speaker 1: like this about like a fucking movie saying good bye 896 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: to you, And I was like, I felt the same way. 897 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 1: I've never had a breakup where I told someone I 898 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:18,439 Speaker 1: loved you for the first time. 899 00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 2: That afternoon. 900 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, we both we ended it, but also were like, 901 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 3: I love you, like, but this has to end because 902 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,840 Speaker 3: it's just not working anymore. 903 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,239 Speaker 1: And see I had the opposite experience, so clearly I 904 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 1: went back to this nigga twelve times, and this is 905 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 1: the well. When I ended like that, there was always 906 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 1: still the desire to want him around, to want to 907 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 1: be with him, and I was like, damn, we keep 908 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 1: trying to make it work and it's not working for 909 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,319 Speaker 1: honestly all twelve times. It's a myriad of reasons. But 910 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 1: then I started like looking at it and I was like, oh, manipulation, 911 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: emotional abuse, Yeah, yeah, this isn't adding up. But I 912 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,160 Speaker 1: literally was on the phone with my best friend this 913 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: morning and I got my makeup down so I'm not 914 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:06,439 Speaker 1: gonna cry, but literally I said, this is the first 915 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 1: time I hate him, so I. 916 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 2: Know it's over. I do for you. 917 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 1: The idea of seeing him makes puts a pit in 918 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: my stomach. Our last conversation was so so toxic, and 919 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: things were said that I can't unhear and whatever, I 920 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,319 Speaker 1: don't care how mad you are, there's just certain things. 921 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:25,919 Speaker 2: I can't look back. 922 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: And he said something I was like, ooh, I can't. 923 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 1: I don't even think I would get wet for you anymore. 924 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 1: And we also broke up, and he knew plans that 925 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: I was going to have last Friday, and he showed 926 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,759 Speaker 1: up knowing that my friends were gonna be there. 927 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 2: I ended up not showing. 928 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 1: Up because I was out with Van like till forever, 929 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 1: and by the time I wrapped up being with Van, 930 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:49,840 Speaker 1: I was like, it's too late, I'm not gonna go. 931 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 1: But he showed up in that setting to the sex flook, 932 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,919 Speaker 1: showed up. I had friends that were there. He knew 933 00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 1: I was gonna be there because I was supposed to 934 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,920 Speaker 1: go with mine. He showed up to a sex and 935 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 1: knowing that the friend that was there has come back 936 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 1: and told me everything every time, you know, and I 937 00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,920 Speaker 1: was like even her boyfriend was like I saw him, 938 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,359 Speaker 1: and I was like, that's so nasty of you, Like 939 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 1: you came to either hope to fuck me again or 940 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:18,759 Speaker 1: to make me see you in a space to make 941 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:19,439 Speaker 1: me feel less. 942 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, I hate him. I didn't go. 943 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 1: I just found out that he was there, and I 944 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 1: was like, he was there because he knew I was 945 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:27,839 Speaker 1: going to be there, Because this was a plan that 946 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: we made fired. 947 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 2: To us breaking up, So I said, you still went, 948 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 2: you nasty mother. 949 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 3: Biggest a maybe, But I think that that's the thing about, 950 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 3: like say, ending when you love each other as opposed 951 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,919 Speaker 3: to continuing, and then you get to a place where 952 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 3: you have to hurt each other. 953 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 1: Well, because I loved him so much, I felt like, 954 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 1: well we both love each other, let's just keep working 955 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,239 Speaker 1: at it because it's not it's relationship. 956 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:49,960 Speaker 2: I've got to do it. 957 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 3: As a kid, you're like what, But as an adult 958 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,360 Speaker 3: I really learned, like what's love got to do with that? 959 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 3: Love is a beautiful thing, but that does not mean 960 00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 3: that we should be in a relationship. You can love 961 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 3: a lot of people, it doesn't mean that we're meant 962 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 3: to be together. And being able to know the difference 963 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 3: is really hard and sometimes you got to go through 964 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,439 Speaker 3: some dark shit to learn the difference. But I now 965 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,200 Speaker 3: with all the partners that I have, it's like, well, 966 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 3: love is great, romance is great, but like it really 967 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 3: doesn't have much to do with like can we be together? 968 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 2: Mostly? Fuck it thing? I have to say. 969 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,320 Speaker 1: It just sounds like it's super cliche, but to anyone 970 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 1: listening that might be confused if they're in the right 971 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: relationship or not. The men that have loved me the most, 972 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,280 Speaker 1: the men that I feel like I was the healthiest 973 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,800 Speaker 1: with and not only loved them, but I loved myself 974 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: in those relationships. 975 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 2: Come on, yeah, very like. 976 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,360 Speaker 1: I can think about moments in my life where I 977 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 1: was happy and great and the men that were there, 978 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: I really loved myself around them. 979 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 2: I loved myself away from them. 980 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: Because trust me, you probably know we all do when 981 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 1: you leave an and you're feeling angry or also like, 982 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: if you're away from them, you're not even comfortable. I 983 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 1: got to be around you just to feel good, because 984 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,399 Speaker 1: this doesn't feel right when we're not. And I think 985 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: when you can love who you are in that space 986 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: when they're not around, love the person that they're making 987 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 1: you feel like, love bringing. 988 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 2: Out of you. 989 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 1: I think that I was able to be the best 990 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: version of myself with him, which in therapy frustrated me 991 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 1: because I'm like, well, damn, let me just go back 992 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 1: to being a mean as But don't they think that 993 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 1: that was just you being able to see you. I 994 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 1: think he brought the best out of me, and I 995 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 1: think it had to do with the pandemic, me really 996 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: wanting to show it better, me having money and not 997 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 1: being as transactional in this relationship. Like I literally became 998 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: the best version of bitch. I was cooking and loved cooking, 999 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,400 Speaker 1: and you know I didn't even want to cook for 1000 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 1: a nigga back then. 1001 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 2: So who I showed up with? I didn't think that 1002 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,439 Speaker 2: could be a submissive. I don't think that. I think 1003 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 2: a light on that. Yeah, I agree. 1004 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,279 Speaker 1: No, No, no, I don't think it's because well context, No, 1005 00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,719 Speaker 1: first boyfriend, right, I don't think he's responsible for it. 1006 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,399 Speaker 1: I think you got to see yourself in a different way. 1007 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 1: But I do think that. 1008 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 2: It came from me not being in a space of 1009 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 2: survival or all the other ways. Yeah. 1010 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 1: Right, and you have some You tweeted that a friend 1011 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 1: of yours said this, and I wanted to deep dive 1012 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 1: into this before homele mail. But when it comes to 1013 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:10,320 Speaker 1: your relationships, there's a difference between company and community. Yes, 1014 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 1: one will eventually drain you, while the other always pours 1015 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,319 Speaker 1: into you. So be intentional about where and with whom 1016 00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:22,000 Speaker 1: you spend your time. It's valuable, like you now, we 1017 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,280 Speaker 1: can dive into that as well, but in an attachment 1018 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:29,439 Speaker 1: to that saying you saying it's valuable like you, it's 1019 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 1: also just as important to know that you have to 1020 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 1: love yourself in order to give love. So how do 1021 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 1: you compare the difference between company and community? 1022 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,399 Speaker 3: I think company is white noise, right, It's like it's 1023 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,400 Speaker 3: people that you're around and they fill you up because 1024 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,960 Speaker 3: it's like, oh, I don't like being by myself. And 1025 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 3: so you got all these friends, but you're not necessarily 1026 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 3: connected partners or partners, and you're not necessarily connected on 1027 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 3: a heart level. You're not necessarily connected on a spirit 1028 00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 3: or soul love, but you're connected, and like we're socialized. 1029 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 1: What do you think for people that aren't sure spiritual 1030 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: and soul level, what do you think that brings out you? 1031 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:09,319 Speaker 2: Can you talk a little bit about that? I think 1032 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 2: it's easier said and I feel like you're hearing it. 1033 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 2: But what does it mean? What does it feel like 1034 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:18,920 Speaker 2: when you connect with someone on a soul level? I 1035 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 2: think that it's it's such a visceral, primal feeling. 1036 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 3: And I think think about like your best friend, right, 1037 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 3: like the person that wants the best for you always, Like, 1038 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 3: what is it like to be with your best friend? 1039 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 3: It feels easy. You're not putting on a show. You 1040 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 3: feel safe, you feel secure, You feel like you can 1041 00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 3: tell them anything and there's no judgment, right like you 1042 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,239 Speaker 3: want to. When they win, you're as excited as could be. 1043 00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 3: When they're sad, you're also sad. 1044 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 2: And you want to. 1045 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,840 Speaker 3: When they feel like home, Yeah, they feel like home 1046 00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 3: right Like that feeling that to me is community. And 1047 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,800 Speaker 3: so that feeling that we have with our best friends 1048 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 3: is what I think we should want from our partners, 1049 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,359 Speaker 3: want from any of our social situations. Whereas company is like, oh, 1050 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 3: we both joy music and so we can have a 1051 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:01,879 Speaker 3: good time. 1052 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,120 Speaker 2: We could laugh together. But am I safe in. 1053 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 3: Every facet of who I am here? Or are there 1054 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 3: moments here where I'm like, I don't know if I 1055 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 3: can share with you? 1056 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 2: I don't know or who? That made me feel something? 1057 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 3: You made me feel a little weird when you said that, Like, 1058 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,799 Speaker 3: is that happening? Are you holding yourself back at all? 1059 00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 3: That to me is company. If you're giving your full self, 1060 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 3: your weird ship like goofy weir, like you could be 1061 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 3: your weird, awkward goofy full self, then that's community. 1062 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 2: I let it. I'm gonna be my big ass host 1063 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 2: self with you. 1064 00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Like I have people that like I can talk, 1065 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be my host self. I'm gonna be my 1066 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 1: host self. I want to be able to be my 1067 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 1: whole self. 1068 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 2: I want you to be able to know I have 1069 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:44,479 Speaker 2: whole ass friends. I love being able to talk about 1070 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:44,879 Speaker 2: host shit. 1071 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 1: You can, But in the same time, don't act like 1072 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,759 Speaker 1: you're fully accepting of who I was, who I am, 1073 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,560 Speaker 1: my whole ship, and then use my sexual liberation to 1074 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:58,240 Speaker 1: also bring me down. But you don't weaponize the parts 1075 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 1: of me that I assume that you accept. 1076 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 2: Yes, you know what I mean. Everybody, in the beginning 1077 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 2: of things, it's all good. 1078 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 1: They're like, oh, I like, I hear this so many 1079 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,719 Speaker 1: times in friends that are sex workers or strippers or exports. 1080 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,719 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I get your money, da da da. And 1081 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 1: then slowly but surely, it's like they start shopping away 1082 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 1: at you. And I think that, like, we also need 1083 00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,399 Speaker 1: to get to a place where And we were saying 1084 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,440 Speaker 1: it a few weeks ago when I was saying that 1085 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 1: HOWX gaves me advice, one of my friends told me, 1086 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,400 Speaker 1: you show way too much of yourself in the beginning. 1087 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 1: He's like, you're an open book and you're so used 1088 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 1: to doing it for work, yep, that you need to 1089 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 1: reserve that shit. Don't tell that nigga why you broke 1090 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 1: up with your last X, Like let him just like 1091 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,400 Speaker 1: wait for a second, give it a be and let 1092 00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 1: him kind of discover it before he knows everything about you, 1093 00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,759 Speaker 1: because your past relationships, the things other men have done 1094 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,239 Speaker 1: to you are also going to show him exactly like 1095 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 1: where you're not the holes. But you know what I'm saying, 1096 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 1: how to show up, which you don't like, it's gonna 1097 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,359 Speaker 1: make them show up as maybe a representative. 1098 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,200 Speaker 3: But also but do you also find that there's I 1099 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,440 Speaker 3: would say yes, But also there are people that you 1100 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 3: meet and you do share meet and they're able to 1101 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,319 Speaker 3: hold it, and it's like when they can, it's like, oh, 1102 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 3: then you're my people. 1103 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 2: Because I am an open book. 1104 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 3: And so like I like somebody, I'm gonna tell oh, 1105 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 3: I like to do this, this and this, and they're 1106 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 3: gonna go, oh, there's too much information. 1107 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 2: I think it's gotta be maybe a hybrid. 1108 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:15,359 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a balance because a lot 1109 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: of times, especially women were so emotional. We're like dumping 1110 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:23,160 Speaker 1: on people, and I think that's probably maybe where you've 1111 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: got to find the happy place. It's like, okay, well 1112 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: tell me about your last relationship. Always make sure you're 1113 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 1: starting with something great about that person. Don't be like, 1114 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's terrible. I mean things like that 1115 00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 1: kind of making sure you're careful about that. I think 1116 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,560 Speaker 1: super intimate details can be super scary. But and it's 1117 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 1: because sometimes you never know, right Like for example, everybe 1118 00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: else we got to start talking to our team then, 1119 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 1: because the way they be clipping these these goddamn clips 1120 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 1: of us, I'm like, god, damn it. Maybe knowing everything 1121 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: our clips are a little bit too much. Y'all need 1122 00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 1: to just do the vanilla social media. Some of our 1123 00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 1: horrible clips one like why why are you talking about when? 1124 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,799 Speaker 1: But no, I mean, like, for example, a nigger be like, 1125 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 1: oh my ex never cooked for me, So what is 1126 00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 1: this new woman' gonna do all the time? 1127 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:11,239 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 1128 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 3: It's like, but I also think societally, we've we've also 1129 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 3: created a society where we have to hold ourselves back 1130 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 3: because social media has so much uh that we're putting 1131 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,359 Speaker 3: out and we're curating, and so I think there's also 1132 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,280 Speaker 3: a little bit of that, like me working on finding 1133 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 3: the people who can actually hold all of me and 1134 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,399 Speaker 3: knowing that that's not going to be the. 1135 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 2: Best of majority. 1136 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,760 Speaker 1: Yep, I just want a nigga with no social media anyway. 1137 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: Let's do that real quick. We're gonna do whole mail. 1138 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 1: Because this is a cute one. It's a funny one. 1139 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,359 Speaker 1: My sneaky link asked me to be his wedding day. 1140 00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:41,719 Speaker 2: Here we go. 1141 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,200 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I hope you both are doing well. I've 1142 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,439 Speaker 1: been fucking this guy on and off for four years now. 1143 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,280 Speaker 1: He is the cousin of my really good friend's husband. 1144 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 1: Let's just say I had my eye on him since 1145 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen. Baby, it's been a long time. 1146 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 2: Back. 1147 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: In twenty nineteen, my friend and her husband joined me 1148 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 1: for a birthday dinner where I got wasted and asked 1149 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,440 Speaker 1: hers been to FaceTime. We exchanged numbers and immediately hit 1150 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,400 Speaker 1: it off. We started hanging out when on a few dates, 1151 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 1: had great sex, and enjoyed each other's company overall. He 1152 00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:11,239 Speaker 1: then asked me to join him for a wedding after 1153 00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,959 Speaker 1: six months of dating. The wedding was so much fun. 1154 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,280 Speaker 1: We danced strength and I fucked him in the bathroom 1155 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 1: at the wedding. I'm a Piscey's like wheezy, and I 1156 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 1: am very much a lover girl. 1157 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 2: I just tell me she is. I thought he was 1158 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,120 Speaker 2: going to make me his girlfriend. Well I was very wrong. 1159 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 1: Two weeks later he started disappearing and not responding. However, 1160 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: would still fuck me on occasions. Pass forward to twenty twenty. 1161 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 1: I had brunch with my friend where I shared that 1162 00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 1: we were still fucking occasionally. That's where she let me 1163 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: know that he had a girlfriend. I cut him off, 1164 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,279 Speaker 1: but then it became messy. Girl, he can cut you off. 1165 00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:45,040 Speaker 1: He ain't cut him off. 1166 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:46,160 Speaker 2: I cut girl. 1167 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,799 Speaker 1: I cut him off, but then it became messy, which 1168 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 1: is a whole nother story. Now, in twenty twenty three, 1169 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,160 Speaker 1: I recently got out of a relationship and wanted to fuck. 1170 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,400 Speaker 1: He was still consistently texting me, so I went for it. 1171 00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: We've been sleeping with each other consistently, so much so 1172 00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,080 Speaker 1: he asked me to join him for a wedding this month. 1173 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:07,080 Speaker 1: I am extremely physically and sexually attracted to him, but 1174 00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,439 Speaker 1: not really attracted to anything else after that. 1175 00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 2: But the same niggas first Yet, I don't. 1176 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 1: Want to give him the wrong idea. If I went 1177 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:18,160 Speaker 1: to this wedding, what would y'all do? 1178 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:22,280 Speaker 2: I say, cat not feelings. 1179 00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:25,279 Speaker 1: But also he betrayed you once you also see the 1180 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 1: things that y'all did mean much to him that he 1181 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 1: could still just show up. 1182 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 2: He disappeared on you got a girlfriend. Ain't talk to you. 1183 00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,400 Speaker 1: Ladies, don't know what it is. This is what she 1184 00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,399 Speaker 1: wanted ione tell you what she wants to hear. 1185 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:38,840 Speaker 2: See. 1186 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 1: She wants to know how to get him to be 1187 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 1: hearty and girl, ain't no answer. By the time we 1188 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 1: read this, you probably already said yeah, you might be 1189 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,680 Speaker 1: getting right now, sucking his dick in the bad. The 1190 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,719 Speaker 1: other issue is that a lot of y'all bitches don't 1191 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,240 Speaker 1: be saying no, And when you don't say no to things, 1192 00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:02,040 Speaker 1: you leave no room for them to chase. Everything you 1193 00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 1: do is yes, yes, yes, yes yes. At the end 1194 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,000 Speaker 1: of the day, if you have somewhat of a desirable nigga, 1195 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: whether you height money, fucking girl, why nothing with me 1196 00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 1: to stop felt good? He said, you just be so busy. 1197 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 1: I need to know at least two days in advance, 1198 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,520 Speaker 1: he says, So I gotta get an appointment for that. 1199 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 2: Plus I said, you do I need a week or two. Hello, 1200 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:24,920 Speaker 2: you see what happened to me? I missed the screening? 1201 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 2: What I was he needn't do? He knew, he. 1202 00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:31,359 Speaker 1: Knew, he knows how he gotta pop in. He can't 1203 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 1: even said nothing. 1204 00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,400 Speaker 2: Up with your ass? And he knew he was Like 1205 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,360 Speaker 2: just think, lady's gotta say no. You're listening. 1206 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 3: So like it's about loving yourself right and knowing what 1207 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,959 Speaker 3: you're worth, right, Like you have to know your worth 1208 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 3: and your value, and like you deserve a nigga who 1209 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,120 Speaker 3: wants to show up for you, who wants to parade 1210 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,200 Speaker 3: you around, who wants to make you feel safe and protect. 1211 00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I think she's conflating him wanting to show her 1212 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: around by inviting her to this, so now she's reading 1213 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 1: into it like it means more. I'll tell you what 1214 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 1: he does. He thinks you're fun, he thinks you're presentable 1215 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:00,880 Speaker 1: enough for a wedding. He thinks you can carry conversation. 1216 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,840 Speaker 1: But I'm going to a wedding in two ways, and 1217 00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:08,600 Speaker 1: I don't ask. I ain't gonna tell y'all which nickname 1218 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:13,719 Speaker 1: on here, but he said he'll join me, and I'm like, okay, but. 1219 00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:17,760 Speaker 2: You're going to it ain't like it ain't no, but 1220 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 2: you know what it is. 1221 00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 3: That's the thing, Like you're not putting another story on its. 1222 00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 2: Weddings, be doing a little bit. 1223 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: I did think I'm fine and I'm not normally friends 1224 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 1: with fine niggas. We gotta work on that anyway, Brandon. 1225 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,880 Speaker 1: Let them know you gotta be you, how to embrace 1226 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 1: this messy life and stepping into who you really are 1227 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:37,919 Speaker 1: where they can get it, what they can expect from 1228 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 1: this book? 1229 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 2: What does this book do for the people? For the people? 1230 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,560 Speaker 3: It really explores the question who would I be of 1231 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 3: society never got its hands on me? That's the governing question. 1232 00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,120 Speaker 3: Who would I be if society never got its hands 1233 00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 3: on me? I am black, I'm gay, I binary. And 1234 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:52,479 Speaker 3: there's a lot of boxes that we get put into 1235 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:55,120 Speaker 3: as women, as as black folks, like you got to 1236 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:56,440 Speaker 3: be this, you can't do that, You got to look 1237 00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 3: like this, you gotta say this, And what would happen 1238 00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 3: if you put all that down? Would you want to 1239 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 3: put on heels as a cis man? Would you want 1240 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:04,479 Speaker 3: to have kids the woman? 1241 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:04,920 Speaker 2: If not? 1242 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,280 Speaker 3: Like these things are okay, We never are curious enough 1243 00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,160 Speaker 3: to ask ourselves. We just do what our moms told us, 1244 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,440 Speaker 3: what our dads told us, what society, what schools, what 1245 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 3: politicians tell us, as opposed to taking a second to. 1246 00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,560 Speaker 2: Going well what do I want? Who do I want 1247 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:20,480 Speaker 2: to be? Who am I? So? Who would you be? 1248 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,080 Speaker 3: A society never got its hands on you? So this 1249 00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:25,400 Speaker 3: book goes through my relationship to race, gender, sexuality, But 1250 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 3: most importantly they're intersectionality of it. Right, Like, as ts 1251 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 3: Madison says, I'm not black then queer, I'm black and 1252 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,000 Speaker 3: queer at the same damn time. Right, So how does 1253 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 3: that show up? How do I show up? And how 1254 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,560 Speaker 3: do I get to define what that looks like? As 1255 00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 3: opposed to letting society tell me what a black queer 1256 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 3: person should be? 1257 00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 2: Now we need how you Gonna lie? That's the elevator pitchure? 1258 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 2: The motherfucking year. 1259 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:56,360 Speaker 1: Wowis pr go through that? I wrote down to myself. 1260 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:01,440 Speaker 1: So so for joining us. 1261 00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,280 Speaker 2: Because I was trying to get you the last time 1262 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 2: I know. 1263 00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:06,760 Speaker 1: Besides the two TV shows you mentioned, is there anywhere 1264 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 1: else people can watch the mirror. 1265 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,440 Speaker 2: Works support your words? Yeah, I'm on Instagram at Brandon 1266 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:11,040 Speaker 2: Kyle Goodman. 1267 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 3: And then Human Resources comes out June ninth on Netflix 1268 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 3: and Big Mouth Season seven will be out later this year. 1269 00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,920 Speaker 2: A lot of cool new cast members. 1270 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but if you go to the Instagram, that's 1271 00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 3: where everything is. 1272 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,439 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, and guys make sure 1273 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 2: now hold on, I'm gonna look into the camera. It 1274 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:34,080 Speaker 2: is mine. No, I'm feeling. We are coming to the Midwest. 1275 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 2: June ninth. 1276 00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 1: We are in Detroit. June tenth, Yeah, June tenth. We 1277 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 1: are in Cincinnati. June eleventh, we are in Shattown, Honey. 1278 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 1: Go to whorehive dot com. Go all the way to 1279 00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,640 Speaker 1: the bottom click tour. Get your tickets now. Chicago is 1280 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,600 Speaker 1: sold out for me and greet and Cincinnati is right behind, 1281 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,920 Speaker 1: as well as Detroit. Also, if you are west coast 1282 00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,200 Speaker 1: down south east coast, all. 1283 00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,880 Speaker 2: Of the tickets are there. We are hitting seventeen cities. 1284 00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 1: That's right, y'all heard it by now maybe we have 1285 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 1: announced the city that's been added. I don't know, but 1286 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,720 Speaker 1: check our instagram at Horrible Underscore Decisions for all updates 1287 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 1: on what's happening with our tour. It is the Climax tour, honey. 1288 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:12,280 Speaker 1: And when we say it's the last one, it's because 1289 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: we're busy. 1290 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:13,720 Speaker 2: But we come it. 1291 01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,400 Speaker 1: It's the biggest, the bestest, and you short a climax 1292 01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,040 Speaker 1: on this tour with us, all right, and. 1293 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 2: Make sure you join our patreon. This patreon talking to 1294 01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:26,000 Speaker 2: the mic like you know what you're doing. What does 1295 01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 2: climax mean? 1296 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Does the last tour I mean the last yes, yes, yes, 1297 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 1: but also the show ain't going nowhere but touring. Baby, 1298 01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,480 Speaker 1: it's a lot take a lot out of us. We 1299 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,200 Speaker 1: ain't We don't even live on the same coast, bitch. 1300 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,480 Speaker 1: If you can't come figure it out like Beyonce, here 1301 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 1: it is, let me give you all a little hit too. 1302 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 1: I just looked at the percentage of tickets gone. Shout 1303 01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 1: out to New York. It is our last date, bro, 1304 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: and it is our biggest venue, and. 1305 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 2: It's half sold out already already in November. 1306 01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:59,280 Speaker 1: Charlotte is also half Detroit Stamn near there, and then 1307 01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,040 Speaker 1: there's one other city. Well, I do want to also 1308 01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:04,160 Speaker 1: let you guys know we are officially sold out of 1309 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:08,760 Speaker 1: meet and greet in Chicago, in Orlando, in New York, 1310 01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 1: in DC, and in I want to say, Arizona or 1311 01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 1: one of the cities we've never been to. But we 1312 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,600 Speaker 1: are officially sold out of Meet and greet in five cities. 1313 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 1: There are about three cities with less than ten tickets left, 1314 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 1: so if you want to meet us, get your tickets now. 1315 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,440 Speaker 1: Poor hive dot com y'all, thank y'all so much for 1316 01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,280 Speaker 1: tuning in, So get another episode of horrible. 1317 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:34,840 Speaker 2: This is you find me. 1318 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 4: Dating each other and hurting each other's feelings, like being 1319 01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,320 Speaker 4: okay with hurting each other's feelings? 1320 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,919 Speaker 1: Do you how do you I want to like, sorry 1321 01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:47,040 Speaker 1: to cut you out now? Do you grow together? 1322 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 2: How do you not grow apart? Do you have to 1323 01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:50,640 Speaker 2: date each other? 1324 01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,200 Speaker 4: You have to be like not just go with their feelings, 1325 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 4: like you don't always feel like doing something, but you 1326 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 4: show up just like and for your kid. 1327 01:01:58,480 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 2: And I know that. 1328 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:04,640 Speaker 4: It's conditional with the husband, but I need to still 1329 01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 4: feel pursued and he wants to feel respected and he 1330 01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 4: wants to feel heard. And people are different, right, Some 1331 01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:15,240 Speaker 4: people maybe aren't as indigender roles as I am. 1332 01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:16,800 Speaker 2: I totally love. 1333 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 4: Being in my feminine energy and I like him and 1334 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,440 Speaker 4: his masculine and yeah we have yin and yang and 1335 01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:27,240 Speaker 4: sometimes I'm in my masculine and he's more in his feminine. 1336 01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:31,480 Speaker 4: But I think that that's like how you better one another. 1337 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: Tell me the dark side of I dated a guy 1338 01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:37,720 Speaker 1: when I was very young. I mean, he was very 1339 01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,720 Speaker 1: controlling and I called myself the housewife because I stayed 1340 01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:41,200 Speaker 1: at home and he