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Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine, Hey Bessies.

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Speaker 2: Today on the bright Side, we're popping off and dishing

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Speaker 2: on the biggest pop culture stories of the week with writer,

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Speaker 2: producer and podcast host Diosa fem which, alas Eleb spent

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Speaker 2: a year buying new clothes to avoid doing laundry, is

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Speaker 2: a tennis star turning the US Open into New York

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Speaker 2: Fashion Week? And what summer trends are we ready to retire?

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Speaker 2: It's Friday, August thirtieth. I'm Simone Boyce.

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Speaker 3: I'm Danielle Robe and this is the bright Side from

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Speaker 3: Hello Sunshine, a daily show where we come together to

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Speaker 3: share women's stories, to laugh, learn and brighten your day. Simon,

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Speaker 3: can you believe it's Labor Day weekend? How are we

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Speaker 3: already at the unofficial end of summer?

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Speaker 2: I cannot process how fast this year is already flying by.

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Speaker 1: I mean we're already in full It feels so surreal.

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Speaker 3: I just like it's almost January, which means it's the

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Speaker 3: new year. I just don't understand how this happened.

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Speaker 1: Crazy.

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Speaker 3: Well, this summer, we've had such beautiful, wide ranging conversations

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Speaker 3: with women that are truly impacting the world.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think of all the inspiring conversations we've had

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Speaker 2: about the Olympics with Andrea Joyce, Sonya Richards Ross, Sonny Choi,

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Speaker 2: and Rebecca Low.

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Speaker 3: Simone, I'm still dreaming in pasta since we talked with

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Speaker 3: Jodo Di Laurentis.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, me too. Did you try her olive

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Speaker 1: oil face scrub?

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Speaker 3: Yet?

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Speaker 4: No, you didn't make it for us. You were supposed

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Speaker 4: to make it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I forgot that was my assignment. I'm not the

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Speaker 3: chemist in this family.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll get to work on that.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, since we talked with Mikayla j Rodriguez,

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Speaker 2: I have been living by the Mikayla Jay school of thought,

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Speaker 2: which is take no mess.

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Speaker 3: It's so funny. Our whole office says it. Now we

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Speaker 3: are just taking no mess. And I'm going to quote

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Speaker 3: vitamin C. But as we go on, we remember all

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Speaker 3: the times we had together. This was truly a summer

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Speaker 3: to remember, Simone. But I'm really excited for what's to

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm still giggling at how corny that was, Daniel.

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Speaker 1: I'm ernest I like a little corny. Okay, I know.

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Speaker 2: This about you by now, in all honesty, This summer

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Speaker 2: has been one of the best summers of my life,

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Speaker 2: and a huge part of that is thanks to you,

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Speaker 2: Danielle and our amazing bright Side besties. I've had so

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Speaker 2: much fun with all of you and we can't wait

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Speaker 2: to pop off with you today. But before we do,

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Speaker 2: it's time to spotlight our favorite moment of the week,

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Speaker 2: brought to you by our friends at BMW.

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Speaker 3: This week, we're shining a light on someone who is

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Speaker 3: used to seeing her name and lights, but not for

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Speaker 3: what we're shouting out today. She's a singer with a

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Speaker 3: Lifetime Achievement Award and a one hundred percent approval rating.

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Speaker 3: Can you guess who it is? None other than Dolly

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Speaker 3: Parton one hundred percent approval rating.

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Speaker 2: Facts facts, big facts, Yes, obviously. In her career spanning

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Speaker 2: over fifty years, Dolly has simply defined country music. She's

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Speaker 2: acted in films, she's become an enduring American icon. But

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Speaker 2: for decades, she's also dedicated herself to making sure our

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Speaker 2: youth have books to read.

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Speaker 3: I know that Dolly sort of saved us from COVID,

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Speaker 3: but this is what I love Dolly for. She founded

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Speaker 3: the Dolly Parton Imagination Library back in nineteen ninety five

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Speaker 3: in honor of her father, Robert Lee Parton, who never

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Speaker 3: learned to read her write. So for almost twenty years,

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Speaker 3: the Imagination Library has sent one book per month for

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Speaker 3: free to kids under the age of five. And it

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Speaker 3: started out just for kids in Severe County, Tennessee, where

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Speaker 3: Dolly was born, but it has grown so much bigger

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Speaker 2: It's grown into this whole youth literacy movement. And this

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Speaker 2: week Kentucky and Missouri announced that they're participating in the

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Speaker 2: Imagination Library too, So the AP reported that almost half

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Speaker 2: of preschool age kids in Kentucky are enrolled, So that

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Speaker 2: is so exciting, and that is a lot of books.

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Speaker 2: Now with Tennessee, Kentucky, and Missouri on board, there are

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Speaker 3: Besties, you know how much we love books on this show,

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Speaker 3: and one of our favorite things about hosting The bright

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Speaker 3: Side is getting to have deep conversations with Reese's book

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Speaker 3: club authors every single month, like the interview that we

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Speaker 3: did this week with Rainbow Rawl about her book Slow Downce.

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Speaker 3: And we know how crucial it is to foster that

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Speaker 3: love of reading at an early age. To this day,

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Speaker 3: my dad and we would walk about eight or ten

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Speaker 3: and I would sit on his lap and we would

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Speaker 3: read book after book after book. And that's where I

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Speaker 3: fell in love with Shelle Silverstein and Rold dol And

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Speaker 3: I learned that magic was possible through these books. As

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Speaker 3: a kid, I loved the Shelle Silverstein books too. And

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Speaker 3: you know, now as a parent, this is something that

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Speaker 3: you need to model it for them. So I try

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Speaker 3: do it in fun places, we do it intense, we

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Speaker 3: It's all about eventizing it and making it, making it

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Speaker 3: a part of our lives as a family. Okay, someone

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Speaker 3: you know I love a quote. Can I give you

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Speaker 3: one of my favorite quotes?

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Speaker 1: Hit me.

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Speaker 4: It's from my mother. She says, lessons are caught, not caught.

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Speaker 1: So it's a good one.

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Speaker 3: I totally agree with you. Reading is something that is caught.

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Speaker 3: So Dollie, thank you for the work that you do.

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Speaker 3: All right, Simon and you ready to pop off?

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's get it started, okay. Joining us today is

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Speaker 2: Diosa fem A, writer, producer and co founder of Lokata Radio,

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Speaker 2: the production company behind the critically acclaimed podcast by the

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Speaker 2: same name, Diosa.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the bright Side.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited

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Speaker 5: to be here. Thank you, Diosa. Your last name? Is

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Speaker 5: this your real last name? Because you can't even write

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Speaker 5: how good that is? No, that is my stage name.

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Speaker 5: That's my stage name. That started as an Instagram handle

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Speaker 4: This is not my host name, Diosa.

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Speaker 3: Loka Tora Radio is all about archiving the present and

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Speaker 3: shifting culture forward. So for any of our besties who

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So, Loka Dora Radio was founded in twenty sixteen and

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Speaker 5: we so we've been podcasting since then. And the mission

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Speaker 5: behind is archiving our stories. And so when we were

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Speaker 5: really saying that they weren't necessarily getting the shine by

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Speaker 5: at the time, the Latina led podcasts were far and few,

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Speaker 5: being able to capture them in this moment in time

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Speaker 5: it's starting and then now looking eight years later where

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Speaker 2: Okay, Deosa, So your production company just recently launched another

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Speaker 2: podcast called Senora sex Ed that intends to break the

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Speaker 2: stigma and silence around sex and sexuality and LATINX communities.

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Speaker 2: I think this is so cool because I was raised

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Speaker 2: in a mixed race household.

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Speaker 1: My mom is black, my dad is white. I think

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Speaker 2: I didn't really feel like I had a place for it.

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Speaker 2: So why did you feel like it was important for

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Speaker 2: Did you have a similar experience growing up?

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Speaker 5: I did have a similar experience growing up, and I

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Speaker 4: I went to Catholic school K through twelve.

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Speaker 5: That really informed the type of education I was receiving.

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Speaker 5: It was very abstinence first, and my parents, you know,

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Speaker 5: so we're really prioritizing women that are in their forties

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Speaker 4: They're the cycle breakers.

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Speaker 5: Where there's the ones that decided I'm doing things differently

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Speaker 2: there's an intergenerational element to it as well.

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Speaker 3: So on your podcast, you and your co host Mala

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Speaker 3: Munos breakdown pop culture and current events. So I want

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Speaker 3: to know what's on your radar right now.

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Speaker 5: I think for me, what's on my radar right now

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Speaker 5: is there was an announcement that there's a remain of

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Speaker 4: I'm going to be honest.

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Speaker 5: On the one hand, it's exciting because I think, you know,

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Speaker 5: it's another Latino story and it's going to be produced

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Speaker 5: by a Latino production company, and so just the possibility

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Speaker 5: of what that could look like is really exciting. But

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Speaker 5: on the other hand, like the original La Bamba that

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Speaker 5: was written and directed by Luis Valdez is so good.

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Speaker 5: It's so good, it's almost like remaking Selena, right, which

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Speaker 5: it's one of those things where it's so good, does

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Speaker 5: it actually need to be remade? And should there may

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Speaker 3: Luis Valdez said that he's not sure why they're remaking it, right, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean I get the sense that he's not involved in

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Speaker 1: Are we ready to see it?

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Speaker 5: There are terms that really define a season, right, It's like,

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Speaker 1: I am here for the Brat. I don't really want

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Speaker 3: I love this green color that Simone and I fight

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Speaker 1: Not a shark truce. It's not a shark truth.

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Speaker 3: I love what it means. I'm into it. I don't

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Speaker 2: So for me, I feel like Brat is synonymous with summer.

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Speaker 2: It's hard to bring the Brat attitude into fall because

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Speaker 2: I feel like Bratt is a mindset, and so I

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Speaker 2: it's like coughing season, You're like cozying up. Bratt is

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Speaker 1: That's my take on this.

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Speaker 2: How about okay, now this one, maybe we can all

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Speaker 3: Yeah it's gone. I'm thirty three, so I can't do

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Speaker 2: Danielle and I were on a retreat with some of

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Speaker 3: There actually need to be like professional TikTok dance coaches.

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Speaker 2: Totally okay. Next, let's talk fashion. How do we feel

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't know Adidas sambas. Those have been

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Speaker 5: I'm actually I don't wear belly flats and I didn't

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Speaker 4: It's we're going to see it cycle through forever.

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Speaker 2: I think prep is going to be huge this fall.

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Speaker 2: I think the preppy aesthetic is going to be major.

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Speaker 2: The starchy white collars, the long sleeve shirts with the

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Speaker 3: I was with some gen z gels over the weekend,

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Speaker 3: If you want to see like what you're gonna be wearing,

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Speaker 1: I'm into it.

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Speaker 3: I think like the hit Me Baby One More Time,

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I told you, Daniel that I had my college girlfriend

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Speaker 2: you guys remember like the black high heel loafer like

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's all I wanted.

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Speaker 3: I would beg my mom for those me too, and

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Speaker 3: was one of our biggest battles when I was like thirteen.

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Speaker 2: I'm still bitter about it to this day. But now

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Speaker 2: I have my own money, mom, and I can go

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Speaker 2: buy my own high heeled loafers.

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Speaker 1: But I love those. It's hilarious.

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Speaker 3: We have to hit pause on popping off with diosa fem,

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Speaker 3: but we'll be right back, and we're back with diosa Fem.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's pivot to a discussion about music. Sabrina Carpenter's

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Speaker 2: Espresso was the song of the summer she's got her

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Speaker 2: whole album out, Short and Sweet. Do we think that

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Speaker 2: What are you guys going to be playing on repeat?

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Speaker 5: So I've been listening to chapel Rone also summer, and

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Speaker 1: These last few years have been huge for Latin pop.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, who are you?

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Speaker 1: Who are you excited about right now?

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Speaker 5: Oh? There's so many She's not poppy, but I've been

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Speaker 5: listening to Girl Ultra. She does indie sleeves. I listen

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Speaker 4: I love Becky G and I love what she's doing.

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Speaker 3: Also, I am obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter. I think she

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Speaker 4: Made for this her.

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Speaker 3: I have not heard music like this since Katie Perry

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Speaker 3: and that's what makes it a hit. So Brina Carpenter

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Speaker 4: She is the espresso to my decaf. I am so

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love her too.

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Speaker 2: I just read that she and Barry Kyogan maybe just

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Speaker 3: I don't care about him. I'm like, she is going

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Speaker 4: Kids and Ben Savage.

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Speaker 3: They did the remake and I interviewed her every single

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Speaker 1: I love that, love that story.

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Speaker 4: I love that. I feel like the pop stars are

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Speaker 3: Another thing on my mind is Naomi Osaka, serving both

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Speaker 3: Serena is a fashion girly. And she appeared on the

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Speaker 1: You know, that's my super suit.

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Speaker 3: So she said it provided her strength, a sense of self,

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Speaker 2: You have to find the things that make you feel

441
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Speaker 2: like yourself. So for me, that was going on hot

442
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 2: girl walks with my best friend and eating cake.

443
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 1: I did that in the fourth trimester, which is like

444
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: right after you have the baby. That made me.

445
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: Feel like myself again, or going for hikes or I'm

446
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 2: trying to think if there were any clothes that I wore.

447
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 1: That is a thing there. It takes a long time.

448
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 2: I always say that it takes about two years until

449
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: you really feel like yourself again. And during that period

450
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 2: you're probably not fitting into your clothes. You probably have

451
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 2: to buy a lot of new and that process can

452
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: be a bit disorienting and you're kind of rediscovering who

453
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: you are and reconnecting with self. I love this for her,

454
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 2: and I love that she took such a bold swing

455
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Speaker 2: with this outfit.

456
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Speaker 1: I think it's.

457
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: Really cool to see female athletes these days expressing themselves

458
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 2: through fashion. I mean it's not like it's anything new.

459
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,439
Speaker 2: We saw a flow Joe do it on the track.

460
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 2: But when you look at the WNBA tunnel fits like

461
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 2: people like Skyler, Diggan Smith, Kelsey Plum, Asia Wilson, like,

462
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 2: it's so cool to see them stunting and like getting

463
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 2: the same recognition for their fashion that the male.

464
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: Athletes always get.

465
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Speaker 2: I look at someone like Alona mar as Well and

466
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: the way that she puts on red lipstick as a

467
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 2: rugby player in the Olympics. It makes her feel feminine,

468
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 2: makes her feel like herself. I love this for her

469
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: and I think it was just such an iconic moment too.

470
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 2: It made me think about Zendaia's character and challengers Tashi,

471
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: who is for sure a fashionisa on the court. My

472
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: one question about this Naomio Soka fit is was it

473
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: obstructing her game at all?

474
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Speaker 1: That bow was quite oversized.

475
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 4: And it was beautiful. I love the outfit.

476
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 5: I actually just started playing tennis a couple months ago,

477
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 5: so I sent it to my tennis group.

478
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 4: Chat and was like, are we recreating this or what?

479
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 5: And one of the girls said yeah, I want to

480
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 5: sew a big bow onto my skirt, honestly, And so

481
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 5: I think, I don't know. I think tennis outfits are

482
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 5: really in right now, even if you don't play tennis.

483
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 5: So I definitely see this look probably being recreated. And

484
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 5: she said that it was her best game yet, right,

485
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 5: and so I think that the outfit was probably not

486
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 5: obstructing her, and I assume she probably practiced in it beforehand,

487
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 5: and so the bow was probably made so that it

488
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 5: could move with her. And I loved all the ruffles,

489
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 5: I loved the detail of the bow in her headphones.

490
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Speaker 4: I just thought it was so good.

491
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Speaker 5: And I agree with what you said, Simone, like I

492
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:05,719
Speaker 5: love seeing the way women can take these historically like

493
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 5: predominantly masculine spaces like sports like athletics and really show

494
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 5: their personality. We saw that at the Olympics, and we're

495
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 5: seeing that now. We've seen it many many years with

496
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 5: many athletes, like you said, and so I love to

497
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 5: just see that personality shine through and that style, and

498
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 5: I think it goes to show it's a good reminder

499
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 5: that as women, we can really put on this armor.

500
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 5: Fashion is not just this frivolous thing that we can

501
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 5: partake in and it's not just trendy for a lot

502
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 5: of us. It can be a way to really represent

503
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 5: who we are and where we come from. And I

504
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 5: think that that's what Naomi did, and I.

505
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: Think also these athletes, by them leaning into their sense

506
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 2: of self expression, they're reminding us that we don't have

507
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: to just be one thing. That if we're an athlete,

508
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean that we only have to present as

509
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 2: strong and muscular, Like you can be strong, and you

510
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: can also bring a sense of femininity to the if

511
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 2: that makes you feel like you.

512
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 3: And we're finally allowing that as a culture because I

513
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 3: think for a long time, even at work, I mean,

514
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 3: Sheryl Sandberg's book lean In has an entire chapter about

515
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 3: the dress code in corporate environments and how like female

516
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 3: lawyers are expected to wear skirt suits or suits because

517
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 3: the default is men wearing a suit, and so we're

518
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 3: always expected to sort of fall into what they're doing.

519
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 3: And I think these women are setting a new default.

520
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: You Know, what I always think about whenever I fly

521
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: is the fact that it seems to me like flight

522
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: attendants don't really have a say in how they dress.

523
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: On most airlines, it seems like they're still dressing like

524
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: nineteen sixties pan Am flight attendants, And if that's how

525
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 2: they want to dress, my thing is like, let the

526
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 2: women choose if that's how they want to dress and

527
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: that's how they feel most confident, like they can do

528
00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 2: their job great. However, I do want if they actually

529
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: have a choice, Like do they really want to wear

530
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: heels as they're running through the airport with a carry on?

531
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 2: Like the idea of wearing heels in the airport is

532
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: absolutely psychotic to me, Like I could never.

533
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally, I completely agree, And men are allowed to

534
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 3: wear pants, they should have the option.

535
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 1: I don't totally. Okay, we have another fashion hot take.

536
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: So in a video for GQ published US this week,

537
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: Channing Tatum, who is doing the press rounds for his

538
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 2: new movie Blink Twice, admitted to buying new T shirts

539
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: for an entire year to avoid doing laundry. My king,

540
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: I fully support you in this. I feel so seen

541
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: right now because I absolutely hate doing laundry. So he

542
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: called this moment the quote year of the Fresh White Tea,

543
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 2: and he said that this was actually a while ago,

544
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 2: back in nineteen ninety nine or the year two thousand

545
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: and he says that it was a beautiful year, probably

546
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: because he wasn't tied to his washing machine and dryer.

547
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: Let's all be real here, have we ever bought new

548
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 2: clothes to avoid doing laundry?

549
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: I certainly have.

550
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 3: I've only done this traveling, like if I'm missing sometimes,

551
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 3: like I forgot to pack all my underwear, and it's

552
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 3: like you need underwear, you know, so you gotta go

553
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 3: and figure that out. But at home, laundry is my

554
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 3: absolute favorite chore.

555
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: I love doing it.

556
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 3: I don't have a washer dryer in my apartment right now,

557
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: which makes me sad for many reasons.

558
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: Wait, Danielle, the reason why you love doing laundry is

559
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 2: because you don't have a washer and dryer in your apartment.

560
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: No, No, I've had one before, Like when I lived

561
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 3: in Chicago and could afford a better apartment, I had

562
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 3: a washer dryer, and I would. I love laundry. It

563
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: smells so good. I love folding it. I find it therapeutic. Okay,

564
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 3: what I don't like is making the bed.

565
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: Because I was.

566
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: Gonna say, if you're having someone else fold your laundry,

567
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: then yeah, I would love that too.

568
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 4: That sun's great.

569
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 3: No, No, like I have it like down in my basement,

570
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 3: but it kind of freaks me out because everybody in

571
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 3: the building uses it and it's like, ok, my clothes

572
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 3: never come out quite the way I'd like them too.

573
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 4: But when I first moved.

574
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 3: To La I lived in a garage and I didn't

575
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: have any option, and so I would go to a

576
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: laundromat and I would call my mom and cry because

577
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 3: I truly never felt more sorry for myself than I

578
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 3: was when I was sitting at a laundromat. You just

579
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 3: start to think about all the things going wrong in

580
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 3: your life. It's really a tough place for me.

581
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: I remember the first apartment that we had a washer

582
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: and dryer in, and it was major.

583
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 4: It was like, it's such a big deal.

584
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: It's huge. You feel like I finally, I finally made

585
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: it okay, and.

586
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 3: An ice maker, Like I don't have an ice maker

587
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: and I have to like make those little cubes.

588
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, diosa, are you a Danielle or a Simone in

589
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: this scenario?

590
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: Are you do you like doing laundry?

591
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 4: I'm in the middle.

592
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 5: I think the channing has enough resources to send out

593
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 5: to get his laundry washed and folded, so that's a

594
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 5: little interesting to.

595
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 4: Me early on when he was magic micing up.

596
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 5: I do feel like it's probably more cost effective to

597
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 5: just wash your shirts, right, But I think that I'm

598
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 5: in the middle of both of you, So I don't

599
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 5: necessarily disdain doing the laundry.

600
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 4: I don't like putting it away. It takes me too long.

601
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 5: Like I will do my laundry and I will fold it,

602
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,479
Speaker 5: but by the time I put it away, like days

603
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 5: have gone by. Yeah, And my husband gets mad at

604
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 5: me and he's like, you need to put your clothes away.

605
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 5: And so he has started to do my laundry because

606
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 5: he just can't stand the way I do it, and

607
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 5: so he has started to wash my clothes.

608
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 2: My husband does our laundry too. We have different chores

609
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: that we each do. He's laundry inclined, like he's actually

610
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: like good at it, so he does that.

611
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: I do some other stuff. I think it's all about

612
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: finding your strengths in the relationship.

613
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 3: Have you guys heard of Brittany Mahomes, Patrick mahomes wife.

614
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 2: Yes, chiefs player, his wife got it, got sports.

615
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Brittany Mahomes has made a lot of recently.

616
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: But what I liked that she said the other day

617
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 3: is that she gets way more stressed than her husband,

618
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 3: Patrick mahomes on these game days.

619
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Speaker 1: So he is one of the top quarterbacks in the NFL.

620
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: He plays with Travis Kelce, Taylor Swift's boyfriend, and during

621
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: a recent podcast episode, she was like, Patrick does not

622
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 3: get nervous or stressed at all because it's what he

623
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 3: likes to do, but she gets super stressed and nervous

624
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 3: for him. And I thought that was really sweet. Do you, Simone,

625
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 3: do you get stressed? You're making a face at me.

626
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 3: Do you get stressed when Michael is doing important stuff

627
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:38,479
Speaker 3: at work?

628
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: No? This is not sweet.

629
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Speaker 2: This is codependency, and this is like, this is bad

630
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: for her mental health. Why would you want to take

631
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: on someone else's stress? This is so unsustainable to me.

632
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: Oh wow, maybe I'm a little codependent honestly, because I

633
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: totally understand this. I feel like, if we're a unit,

634
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: your stress is my stress.

635
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: Kind of I don't know about that.

636
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 2: I mean I'm trying to think, like, Okay, so my

637
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: husband is a screenwriter and he premiered a film that

638
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 2: he wrote at sun Dance like five years ago. That

639
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: was a really big deal, and we all went to

640
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 2: the premiere, and so there was a lot of, you know,

641
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: emotions around that. I can't say that I was nervous.

642
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 2: I was like, I was excited for him. I think

643
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: there's certainly anticipation, but I can't imagine taking on boards

644
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: like my partner's work stress.

645
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: That would be too much for me. Diosa, what do

646
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Speaker 1: you think? Yeah?

647
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 4: I agree.

648
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 5: I think there's that empathy that you have for your

649
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 5: partner or your significant other where you're like, I hope

650
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 5: that everything works out for you, and I'm sending you

651
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 5: the best vibes, but I'm not going to take it

652
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 5: on as my own stress because I have my own

653
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 5: things to worry about. So I think it's that fine

654
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 5: line of you have the empathy, you want to be supportive,

655
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,719
Speaker 5: you send them the best vibes, but you're not going

656
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 5: to be breaking a sweat over it either.

657
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 4: I think it also depends what it is.

658
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 3: Laughing so hard because I've literally broke in a sweat.

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Speaker 3: Like my last boyfriend, if he had an event that

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Speaker 3: my hands and knees scrubbing floors, doing whatever I needed

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Speaker 3: to do. Like I'm like, I had this thing in

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Speaker 3: my family that I really loved. My brother's name is Blake.

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Speaker 3: If Blake was applying for college and he needed a

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Speaker 3: and everybody's got a pitch in the way that they

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, wait, okay, so this is beautiful. I'm all

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Speaker 2: in support of this. I'm so here for dropping everything

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Speaker 2: helping your spouse when they need it, like being that emotional,

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Speaker 2: tangible support for them. But I gotta draw the line

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Speaker 2: on your nerves. And also the counter to this is

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Speaker 2: how does her taking on his stress help him, because

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Speaker 2: then he's going to be thinking about how nervous she

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Speaker 2: is for him while he's playing. I think the best

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Speaker 2: thing that you can do is help your spouse or

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Speaker 2: partner try to imagine the best possible outcome both of

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Speaker 2: you get on board beforehand envisioning this is going to

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Speaker 2: go so well, you're going to crush it, hyping them

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Speaker 2: up as opposed to absorbing the stress.

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Speaker 4: I think that's a great point.

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Speaker 3: And where is the stress coming from Like if he

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Speaker 3: Is that why she's stressed during the game. I guess

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Speaker 3: we have questions that's a red.

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Speaker 5: Flag, like is he taking out We don't know these people, right,

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Speaker 5: but I think in general, like if your partner's coming

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Speaker 5: like being mean to you, like that's obviously not okay.

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Speaker 5: But they're coming home and like they're going to be

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Speaker 5: a little different, They're going to be withdrawn. Let them

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Speaker 5: process their own feelings, like that's okay, But are they

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Speaker 5: taking it out on you?

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Speaker 3: That's obviously a way different conversation. Yeah, dio, So it

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Speaker 3: sounds like you went to a lot of therapy. Amen

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Speaker 3: to you.

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Speaker 4: I did I have.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think I'm a little enmeshed with people.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little worried about this, dynam mc danielle. Do

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Speaker 2: we think that Taylor gets nervous for Travis before one

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Speaker 2: of his little games?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Chris, I love that you call it

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Speaker 1: a little game.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I one of his little ball games. We have

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Speaker 2: seen that footage of her and Blake Lively and the

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Speaker 2: girl gang in the VIP box at the games and

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Speaker 2: they're like, oh my god, like so dramatic, you know,

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Speaker 2: And I mean, I guess you're just kind of getting

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Speaker 2: caught up in the spirit of sports, which is great. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I guess that's kind of like a different thing than

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Speaker 2: like being like super stressed. It's about being invested in

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Speaker 2: each other at the end of the day, Well said

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Speaker 2: Sea Money.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, Diosa, thank you so much for popping

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Speaker 3: off with us today.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. This was so

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Speaker 5: much fun. We talked about everything.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Deosa Yosa Fem is a writer, producer, storyteller and co

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Speaker 3: We need to take a quick break, but we'll be

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Speaker 3: right back. Stay with us.

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Speaker 1: We're back, all right, Danielle.

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Speaker 2: A weekend trip in the city sounds magical, and so

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Speaker 2: many of our besties are traveling this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I'm always looking for ways to make it simple for me.

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Speaker 2: That's the piece that incentivizes me to actually get away.

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Speaker 3: I like to maximize my time, and I need the

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Speaker 3: peace of mind that everything is in play. I don't

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Speaker 3: is the thing that's hardest for me because if you

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Speaker 4: Go run out and find it.

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Speaker 1: So true.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I love the Ever Fun travel makeup

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is such a good wreck. You have me

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Speaker 2: really curious. I might have to add this one to

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Speaker 2: Kart to be honest. I don't always keep my travel

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Speaker 4: Yeah, do it, Simon.

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Speaker 2: This week's episodes were recorded by Josh Hook and Joel Morales.

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Speaker 3: Special thanks to Connell Byrne and Will Pearson.

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Speaker 1: I'm Simone Boyce.

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Speaker 3: Have a great long weekend and we'll see you all

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