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Speaker 1: and this is about black men, Jay, who has whipped

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Speaker 1: today is the seventeenth anniversary, of course, of nine eleven.

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Speaker 1: course of just nine days. Uh. The communications included threats

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Speaker 1: to Jay Z and Beyonce, telling Mr Warren to tell

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Speaker 1: jay Z he's a b and his wife is a

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Speaker 1: broke horror. Um, Yeah, yeah, it was horrible. It was Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Can I just ask a question, what do you got

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Speaker 1: to do to go to jail? Because they love black

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Speaker 1: people love for anything anything. Yeah, exactly exactly. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what though. Now you run over there with Mr

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Speaker 1: Carter if you want to m this is not it's

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Speaker 1: just not just that's not a safe song, Partner. Get

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Speaker 1: some people over there on that side of the camp

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Speaker 1: and gonna let you do that to him. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: was not him, But there's some people standing in that

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Speaker 1: area that's not gonna do. You're not gonna big. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Zimmerman went on to say, Steve, if I see either

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Speaker 1: of them in my life, they'll find themselves inside a

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Speaker 1: thirteen ft gator. What I mean, he can say this

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Speaker 1: and walk around free. Don't say that hearing it. He

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00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: don't even know when you start messing with Beyonce. He

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Speaker 1: don't even understand what to be hid due damn law enforcements.

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Speaker 1: You gotta hold up problems that damn be High man.

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Speaker 1: I rather have them than the police protect you, because

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Speaker 1: they don't care what the law. He is. Yeah. A

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Speaker 1: matter of fact, I'm thinking about taking out Stock. Isn't

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Speaker 1: the be High most It's the most valuable fan base

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen. As a matter of fact, I want

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Speaker 1: I want to be High to adopt me. I'm asking

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Speaker 1: to be high for your help with the national enquired

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Speaker 1: with radar online. I want to be high to help me.

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Speaker 1: Where is the dog? I'm saying. Look, this is a

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Speaker 1: direct message. Let me talk. Let me talk to my

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Speaker 1: social media right here. I'm asking to be high to

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Speaker 1: please adopt me. If you could just treat me as

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Speaker 1: Tampa good, as you treate create, as you treat Beyonce,

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Speaker 1: I'll be more than happy and go get all them

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Speaker 1: hate this that's coming after me. I won't to be

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Speaker 1: high to adopt a sixty one year old black man.

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Speaker 1: I need leadership, goddess and a family African be man.

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Speaker 1: That's what I want, all right, Steeve that it's time

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Speaker 1: to get caught up on mrs and true. Thanks everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is entered for the news. We are now at

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Speaker 1: the peak of the hurricane season, and forecasts say there

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Speaker 1: are storms approaching from the Atlantic and the Pacific. States

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Speaker 1: of emergency and evacuations declared a Virginia north to north

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Speaker 1: and South Carolina. White House spokesperson Sarah Hugby Sanders says

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Speaker 1: the President wants Americans to heat official warnings. He's tropical

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Speaker 1: storms and hurricanes are very dangerous, and we encourage anyone

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Speaker 1: in the past to heed the warnings of state and

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Speaker 1: local officials who have the expertise and knowledge of their

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Speaker 1: communities to provide the best on ground information. Looks like

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Speaker 1: the worst will be along the Southeastern coast. They're bracing

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Speaker 1: for Hurricane Florence, which is going to perhaps one of

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Speaker 1: the strongest storms to ever hit the mid Atlantic coast.

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Speaker 1: Today is September eleventh. This is a trip. It's that

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Speaker 1: time of year when we sadly reflect on an horrendous attack.

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Speaker 1: People's feelings now years later mixed very safe. I'm a

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Speaker 1: tied law enforcement and I think he is doing the

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Speaker 1: excellent jobs protecting passenger, to make sure that luve it

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Speaker 1: is good. Unfortunately, I don't feel any face where. I

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Speaker 1: still think that it's a hostile climate and anything can

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Speaker 1: happen at any time, and we can't defend ourself at

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Speaker 1: every moment, can't forget what happened. So, because that's nottain

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Speaker 1: still celebrate this consistent cloud of uncertainty that we are

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Speaker 1: now placed under. No, I don't feel safe mym the

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Speaker 1: loss of cousin. They only found the shoulder blade. I

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00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: definitely think they should continue to celebrate, but definitely, you can't.

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00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: When that day happened, they wasn't expecting to either, So

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Speaker 1: you can't say, window how the political thing that's going

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Speaker 1: on now and makes me good. And we can never

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Speaker 1: erase your pay or bring back those you lost. We

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Speaker 1: can honor their sacrifice by pledging our resolve to do

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Speaker 1: whatever we must to keep our people. I don't feel

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Speaker 1: safer because all the safety funders that President Obama put

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Speaker 1: in place is being rolled back with the current president.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that he's causing so much division, not

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Speaker 1: only in our own country, but amongst the international community too.

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00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: I definitely feel the safe, but um, no matter how

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Speaker 1: much security you get stopping people from coming in, there's

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Speaker 1: people already here. They're probably angry and could do something

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Speaker 1: at any given time. I think the president is causing

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Speaker 1: a lot of problems, and you know that's just you know,

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Speaker 1: everybody knows that because of the president's in place right now,

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Speaker 1: a lot of the work that hasn't done a thing undone.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like it's important for us uh as

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Speaker 1: you need as as people to put off trust in

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Speaker 1: our faith in God, because, like I said, some people

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00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: out of all control. They're going so much. We can do,

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Speaker 1: But we need to do what we can do while

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Speaker 1: we're here. As far as safety, I don't think we

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Speaker 1: can depend on America. I feel safe anymore. I feel like, Um,

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00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: we gotta look to each other and as well with

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Speaker 1: a higher power with you God. We need we need

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Speaker 1: to pay how much those people who are their lives?

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Speaker 1: This is okay, Steve Harvey Nation Attorney Benjamin Crump, our

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Speaker 1: special guest tell us about the Dallas police officers shooting.

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Speaker 1: That's what he's gonna do coming up on the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Stry Show. Hey, y'all joining

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Speaker 1: us now As promised, We've got a man who has

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Speaker 1: become just a fighter for justice for the downtrodden and oppressed,

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00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: always speaking up for people who don't have quite as

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Speaker 1: big a voice. He is the president of the Black

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Speaker 1: Lawyers Association. Here's our trusted source for insight on the

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Speaker 1: tragic deaths that have been occurring within our community and today,

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Speaker 1: what's sad to say that he's back with us to

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Speaker 1: talk about another senseless death in Dallas, Texas. Botham Sham

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Speaker 1: John Please, welcome to the show. Our fred attorney Benjamin Crump. Wow, welcome,

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Speaker 1: and all for having me. Uh, Steve again, we need

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Speaker 1: your platform because this situation is just shocking on every level.

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Speaker 1: They've been killing black people in America for driving while

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Speaker 1: black while we're in our cars, for walking while black

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Speaker 1: while we're in our neighborhoods, and now in this case,

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Speaker 1: living while black when he was in his own apartment,

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Speaker 1: not breaking the law, minding his own business. Police come

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Speaker 1: through the front door, shoot him twice in the chest

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Speaker 1: and kill him, and then they take three days to

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Speaker 1: arrest the officer. Okay, so Attorney Krump tell ex exactly

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Speaker 1: what the account of the incident is. They're claiming what happened. Well,

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Speaker 1: unfortunately we don't have both of them account because he's

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Speaker 1: no longer with this. But the police officer, this Amber Geiger,

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Speaker 1: Her account is she went to the wrong apartment allegedly,

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Speaker 1: and we have a lot of witness testimony, new information

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Speaker 1: coming out from neighbors that seemed to fly in the

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Speaker 1: face of what she's trying to allege. But she says

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Speaker 1: she went to the wrong apartment, the key wouldn't work,

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Speaker 1: and she thought it was her apartment. Somehow the door

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00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: came open. We still don't know the answers to that

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Speaker 1: because she has her FEARP Amendment rights as a police officer.

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Speaker 1: They won't tell us what she's saying, but what we

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Speaker 1: do know is based on her account, she believed her apartment, uh,

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Speaker 1: some intruder was in the apartment, and so she shot

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Speaker 1: and killed them. Now, these are the police officers who

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00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: are trained, Steve to uh decelerate uh situation, not escalated.

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Speaker 1: She's supposed to de escalate the situation. But that's not

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Speaker 1: what we had happened here. And think about this young

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Speaker 1: man who's an amazing him man. I know we thought

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Speaker 1: that world around a lot. He was a college educated,

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Speaker 1: uh young man. He was an accountant worker for Price

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Speaker 1: Waterhouse Cooper accounting firm. I mean, he was a singer

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Speaker 1: in the church. He loved to talk about, you know,

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Speaker 1: how people can pull themselves up by the bootstraps. His

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Speaker 1: mother was the secretary of the parliament back in their

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Speaker 1: island nation of St. Lucian, And he was doing everything right.

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Speaker 1: But today he is dead, I believe because that police

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Speaker 1: officer feared his black skin. Hey, Attorney Crump, hang on

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Speaker 1: one second, we'll be right back with more with more

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Speaker 1: about this case side of Dallas. We'll be right back.

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Speaker 1: You're listening. Hey, we're back. We'll continue our conversation with

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Speaker 1: attorney Benjamin Crump. Let me just comment about what you

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00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 1: just said. This is a trained officer, a police person

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Speaker 1: with trade, a woman who shot him. Okay, now let's

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Speaker 1: take a regular person. I come home, I live in

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Speaker 1: an apartment. I go to a door in my apartment

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Speaker 1: complex that I'm thinking is mine, but it's not. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I try to key, it don't work, nothing, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what, but somehow the door comes open. If he

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Speaker 1: opened it, if her key opened it, her key couldn't

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Speaker 1: have opened it because it wasn't right place. So this

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Speaker 1: man had to open the door for her. Now, when

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Speaker 1: he opens the door for her, whether it's her apartment

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00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: or not. But the stone cold fact is he was

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Speaker 1: in his apartment. What did he do when he opened

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Speaker 1: that door that deserves his death to make her shoot him?

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Speaker 1: And Steve, I thought you were also going to say,

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Speaker 1: if you would have done that, you would have killed them.

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Speaker 1: You would have been arrested that night. If I go

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Speaker 1: to someone's door and they opened their door and I

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00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: shoot them in their house, I know good in hell, Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to jail. It's not. It ain't no need

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Speaker 1: to me. What what am I fitness? Say when they

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Speaker 1: come Hey, man, hold off, I thought that was my place?

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Speaker 1: You thought? What? Sir? And Steve? Just two quick things.

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Speaker 1: Imagine the legal precedents this would have said had she

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Speaker 1: not been arrested. The fact that anybody can now say,

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Speaker 1: based on precedents in Dallas, Texas, I went to the

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Speaker 1: wrong door and I thought it was an intrudis. I

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Speaker 1: shot and killed them. The police officer in Dallas didn't

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Speaker 1: get arrested, So why are you arresting me? We can't

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00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: have that type of precedents in America. It has the

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00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 1: equal justice for everybody, and they can't have it both ways.

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00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: She's claiming she was off duty, but yet they're still

599
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: giving her uh special treatment because she's a police officer.

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00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: She killed him with her service revolver. There's a question

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Speaker 1: whether or not she identified herself. There are neighbors who

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00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: have accounts who totally contradict what she is saying, and

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Speaker 1: so it's gonna be interesting to see if both of them.

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Speaker 1: John gets the same process of the law. Well well okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: well okay, well the school, it's cool. Let's take that

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00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: fact that's open show. But the parting is you did

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Speaker 1: kill a man right for doing what? I know? Hey, Ben,

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Speaker 1: in this case right here, did they have some sort

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Speaker 1: of relationship the officer and Mr Botham John. The officer

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00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: has said they had no such relationship. Um, but they're

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00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: still trying to figure that out because based on some

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Speaker 1: of the things, and we're not at liberty to say

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00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: that the neighbors have said really doesn't make sense, uh,

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Speaker 1: with the things they heard occur before the shooting, and

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Speaker 1: you know this is an apartment complex. People can hear

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Speaker 1: things in apartment complex, especially at night when you know

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Speaker 1: it's a quiet hour. And with Steve with suggestions, Shirley

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00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: was very much like many sensible Americans because this is

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Speaker 1: not only shocking for the John family, this is astonishing

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Speaker 1: to sensible people when they hear this fact that he's

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Speaker 1: in his own apartment. Why isn't she arrested? And why

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Speaker 1: are the rules always different when it's a dead person

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Speaker 1: of color lying on the ground. It makes no sense,

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Speaker 1: It makes none. And I'll tell you what's really interesting

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Speaker 1: him ain't heard none from the FA say show you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna learning from trust Benjamin Crump, Thank you so

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00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: much for your efforts and your work. You are a

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00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: true soldier for justice. You are just what we needed

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Speaker 1: at this time and you, my brother, have stood up

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Speaker 1: and for that we want to thank you. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for making man. I will tell you,

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Speaker 1: Steve will your platform. You're allowing me to come and

633
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Speaker 1: talk about these cases. It really matters. And so from

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Speaker 1: the bottom of my heart and the family of Botham John,

635
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Speaker 1: thank you. To the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Attorney Benjamin Crump, everybody, and coming up next to the

637
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Speaker 1: nephew with the prank phone call for today right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at

639
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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

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Speaker 1: It's today's Strawberry letter, the subject a step mom that

641
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: may need to step away right now. It is a

642
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Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank phone call, you King of pranks.

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Speaker 1: What do you have their new dress signature boutique, new

644
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Speaker 1: dress signature boutique, run that thing. Thank you for telling signature. Yes,

645
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get along and I can I can

646
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Speaker 1: hardly hear you. Is this signature bouticularly? Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: Can you can you turn him using down a little

648
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Speaker 1: bit one moment. Okay, how was that? Yes, I can

649
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Speaker 1: hear you. How can I go? Is this signature the boutique? Please?

650
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: Yes it is? Okay, very well. I am looking for

651
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Speaker 1: an evening dress. So do you have evening dresses there? Sure?

652
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Speaker 1: I do? What style? And who? Are you? Looking for? Something?

653
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Speaker 1: In black? Perfectly long gown? We're having an extravaganza. Any

654
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: particular style you want? Low cut? I mean, is this

655
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Speaker 1: for your wife, your other girlfriend? No? No, my name

656
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Speaker 1: is Alfonso. It's for me. The problem with that? No, no,

657
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: there's no problem with you at all. Um, I just

658
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: need measurements. Okay, I'm looking probably for a size twelve,

659
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Speaker 1: but between the twelve and fourteen? Are you able to

660
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Speaker 1: do alterations if necessary? This is going to be put

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Speaker 1: tomorrow night. Okay. We do have an in house seamstress. Um,

662
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Speaker 1: you can come down and I can lay out something

663
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: for you and um you can just pick and choose

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Speaker 1: from what we have. Okay, very well? Also, Um, how

665
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Speaker 1: far are you located? I'm in my car now. I

666
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Speaker 1: want to get something done today because I definitely need

667
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Speaker 1: to have my dress to dress that I have before

668
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Speaker 1: it is actually ruined. So I want to make sure

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Speaker 1: that I am the UH. I have the best dress

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Speaker 1: athletes of travigants. Who are your dresses made by man?

671
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Speaker 1: We have all types of designers here. We have local designers.

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00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: Most of our um eating dresses are by our local designers.

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Speaker 1: So okay, I'll be on the high end. I don't

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Speaker 1: want any trash he crazy, look. I want something that's

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Speaker 1: gonna look very nice and elegant. No, we don't have

676
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Speaker 1: trascy here. That's some really nice, elegant sequence uh jewels.

677
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: We have all types of evening dresses here. Okay, very well. Um,

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Speaker 1: So I'll probably be there within the next hour. Is

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Speaker 1: that gonna work to you? Yes, I'll be here for

680
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Speaker 1: the rest of the evening till about six thirty okay,

681
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: And you're gonna have things pulled out for me to

682
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Speaker 1: look at. Can you start doing that now? Yes? I

683
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: can as soon as we get off the telephone. Okay.

684
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Speaker 1: You make sure you pull black, you pull reds, and

685
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: you pull blues okay, black, okay, black, reds and blues. Okay.

686
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: And you said a size twelve, I've told you what size?

687
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: Is that listening to me at all? I'm listening. I'm

688
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 1: just just making sure. I want to make sure my

689
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: my my clients are you know, well taken care of.

690
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: Let me let me explain something to you. You're doing

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Speaker 1: without funds up when I get there. I don't want

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Speaker 1: any out of you. Wait hold up, Okay, wait, hold up,

693
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: hold up, hold up. Now you've you don't have to

694
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,280
Speaker 1: try to me. I was just trying to be polite

695
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Speaker 1: and provide a good customer service. It's gonna need to

696
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: be testing me out, like I'm just letting you know

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Speaker 1: you're dealing with our funds out when I get I

698
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Speaker 1: don't want you. Don't You don't have to listen to me.

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Speaker 1: Quit quit talking while I'm talking up here on my

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Speaker 1: wait hold on, hey, hey, hey, you know what, we

701
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: can end this conversation because I don't have to talk

702
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: to you. You don't know me to talk to me

703
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 1: like that. First of all, I'm en route. I will

704
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: be there within an hour. I want you to have

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00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: all my laid out when I get there. Okay, And

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Speaker 1: I want you I want this boot completely closed for

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Speaker 1: two hours so our finds out control on what he

708
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: needs about any interruption by your other customers. Okay, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I don't know who the do you think I am

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00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: calling my shop just my shop. I run this I've

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00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: built from the ground. I'm trying to put on a

712
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: professional attitude to you and make you feel good. And

713
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: here you come with this book. You you don't know me. Listen,

714
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: I ain't that up. Shut them up. Listen to me.

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00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: I don't need customers like you I can get. I

716
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: got high dollar customers. So you take your where you find.

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00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: You can't shut shut the up, shut something. Listen to

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00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: what I got to say. Now you come calling me,

719
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: want me to do uh, provide a service to you.

720
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 1: I'm trying to provide a service for you. And then

721
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: you come cussing me how you don't know about me.

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00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: You don't know me. I need my dress. I don't

723
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: care what you need. You can go somewhere else and

724
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Speaker 1: get address. You won't be getting one from signature boutique.

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00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: Do whatever you need, you ain't getting it from me,

726
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: So get the stepping with it. Okay, just get tomorrow

727
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: now giving if it's a fabul landler, you ain't getting

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00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: it from here. I ain't serving you. I ain't got

729
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 1: time for this book. Stop me. I need my dress

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00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: for tomorrow. I'm going out with feelings. I need get

731
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: feelings and don't find you address him. Well, don't call

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00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: me with this. I don't have time for this. You

733
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: got me up in my shop clowning you. I don't

734
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 1: I don't need your service. I don't need your money.

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00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:19,439
Speaker 1: But let me say something out What if you ain't

736
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,399
Speaker 1: got to say you ain't got I'm there, I'm talking

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00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,439
Speaker 1: to you. Thank you. What is your name? My name

738
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: is giving. What is your name? My name is Matthew

739
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Speaker 1: Tommy from the Stave Harvey Morning. You do start praying

740
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:38,720
Speaker 1: by your girlfriend? Stay open you know what? Oh god,

741
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: that all ain't no good girlfriend? Oh my god, I'm

742
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: gonna keep from me for real her yo. Oh my god,

743
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm kicking. I'm kicking, Hiven, I'm kicking right, y'all play

744
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: out here. I'm over here, sweaty. Just got my weed

745
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: done yesterday. Now I gotta go back for her girl.

746
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: It all over there. Then when I seem don't let

747
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: me on the street control before you got one more thing,

748
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,280
Speaker 1: I got to ask your favorite. What's the baddest radio

749
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: show in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Dress. Anybody

750
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: need to dress? We're goodbody want a new dress at all?

751
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm here for the ignis. I'm here for the stupid.

752
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: There was never a question as long as you just

753
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: you know I might be wondering about it. I'm here

754
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: for the Stupidita, I don't bring it. I'm bringing it

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00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: to Nashville, Tennessee Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, step Timber nine

756
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: and thirty and most of the shows are gone. One

757
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: show was still a available Sunday night second show it's

758
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: still avail, but you can get some of those tickets

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00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,399
Speaker 1: Monday morning. I probably won't make a meal, but I'll

760
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: tell y'all that later. How many seats is as you know,

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00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: three three h your sir seven shows? Thinking about that, Nate,

762
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: and if I had eight, I really ain't gonna make

763
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: it money. I'm just letting you. You know you're cool

764
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 1: with that. You ain't gonna add No, I had it already.

765
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: I add it too. It was that five to two

766
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: and two. That's all you can do, though, Okay, but

767
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm am, I can't add a five o'clock. Well,

768
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 1: I mean you know that can am would mike all that?

769
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: You know till you added you know you're talking to

770
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: an old school pro dog. So until you added I really,

771
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: I ain't impressed. There's good that you said. They got you,

772
00:53:56,840 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: they got your picture all over the wall. Legend you

773
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 1: were legend living? Are you talking to me? This comedy

774
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: not for real talk? I ain't even collecting on the

775
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: real for comedy. There's five to present. Oh, I'm in

776
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: that status. That's all good. Yeah, And I'm trying to

777
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: get you there. That's cool. Until you do what legends do.

778
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: How are you gonna be a legend? You gotta do

779
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,320
Speaker 1: when you did all those shows? Did you make it

780
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: to work on Monday? I don't miss nothing? All right?

781
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry Letter for today,

782
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 1: the subject a step mom that may need to step away.

783
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: That's coming up right after this. You're listening to the

784
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, and it's time now for today's

785
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on dating,

786
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: on work, on sex, on parenting, and more, please submit

787
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey f M dot com

788
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. Tell him Steve, Yeah, excuse me,

789
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: that's exactly what I'm Yeah, And we could be reading

790
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: your letter just like we're gonna read this one. You

791
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 1: never know. Let's go hold on tight. We got it

792
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, A subject

793
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: a step mom that made need to step away. Dear

794
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, My husband and I have been married for

795
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: eleven years. My husband has three grown children from his

796
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: previous marriage, two sons and a daughter. His sons are

797
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: happily married, but his daughter is not. My husband's ex

798
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: wife constantly intrudes in our marriage and in her daughter's marriage.

799
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: The daughter will not keep her mom out of her

800
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: business and it upsets her husband. The ex wife has

801
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: also made my husband's life miserable, but I can deal

802
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: with that. It's my stepdaughter that is the problem. I

803
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: am not welcome at any of the grandchildren's birthday parties

804
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: or family get togethers because of her. I have tried

805
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: for many years to have a relationship with my stepdaughter,

806
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,479
Speaker 1: but she's not interested. I run around and buy things

807
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: for her children and help her father get gifts for

808
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: her children, and she will only thank my husband. She

809
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: has never told me thank you. She refers to our

810
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 1: home as her dad's house. It hurts my feelings that

811
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: she does not respect my marriage to her dad. My

812
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 1: husband always defends his daughter's actions and how he treats me.

813
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: He tries to make it better by making up lives

814
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 1: about how his daughter says to tell me hi when

815
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: they talk. Steve, how can I get my husband to

816
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: realize that his actions are just as bad as his

817
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: daughter's attitude. I'm not worried about the ex wife, but

818
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 1: I have to spend time with his daughter, So I

819
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 1: need to fix this situation. My family life is falling apart,

820
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: and I am the only one who seems to notice.

821
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: Uh what should I do? What should you do? You ask? Well,

822
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 1: first of all, I think you're doing way too much.

823
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 1: I think you should stop doing everything. Okay. Stop going

824
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 1: to places with them. They don't want you there anyway,

825
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 1: So stop going, Stop buying stuff uh for them, Stop

826
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: trying to make them like you. Stop you know, wanting

827
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: to thank you from the daughter and going and helping

828
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: you know, buy stuff and and get gifts and all

829
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: of that. And please stop letting this woman disrespect you

830
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: like this. Okay, Uh, you deserve much better. You know,

831
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 1: it's not about them, it's about you. And your husband

832
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: really needs to grow up here. Um, he needs to

833
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: speak up for you on your behalf. You're his wife.

834
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: You should come first. Okay, he shouldn't let anyone. I

835
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: don't care who it is. I don't care if it's

836
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: this crazy daughter that he has his meddling ex wife, anyone,

837
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 1: Uh come before you and treat you this way. My

838
00:57:56,280 --> 00:58:00,080
Speaker 1: husband always defends his daughter's actions and how he treats me.

839
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: Why is he defending her? Why isn't he defending you?

840
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: His wife, that's who, and you need to let him know, uh,

841
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: what is going on here? I'm your wife. He knows that,

842
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: but you haven't spoken up for yourself. You need to

843
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: let your husband know how it's going to be from

844
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 1: this day forward. He needs to You all need to

845
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: be a unit, present that unit to the family and

846
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: deal with it that way. Okay, maybe the daughter will

847
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: back down once she sees that the husband respects you

848
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: and sticks up for you, But you gotta stick up

849
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: for yourself to your husband first. Steve, Well, this is

850
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: a complete mess. Blended families are always difficult. I've had

851
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 1: my share of difficulties with it myself, especially when you're

852
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: dealing with these grown kids because they have their own

853
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: ideas of what they think should be had. I listened

854
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: to our grown kids. Marjorie, I probably wouldn't have got

855
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: married because they weren't bowling and decided, uh, since we're

856
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 1: just in him in them, that they don't think we

857
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: should get married. I call him a bunch of stupid

858
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: blankety blanks and walked out the room, simply because how

859
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: y'all ignorant? Asked gonna tell me something? Ain't none of

860
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: y'all got a husband, a wife, or a child. Now

861
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me how to behave So I can

862
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: understand that it's gotten way better since then, but that's

863
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 1: still friction every now and then. Your problem is that

864
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: the daughter has sided with the mother who is his

865
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 1: ex wife. She's totally taking her side. Not that's something

866
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: wrong with his ex wife, because if it wasn't, it

867
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't be his ex wife, it would be his current wife.

868
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: My husband's ex wife constantly intrudes in our marriage and

869
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: then her daughter's marriage. Well I thought you said his

870
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 1: sons are happily married, but his daughter is not. Oh

871
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: that means she's married but not happ Okay, Well, see,

872
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: first of all, his ex wife doesn't know how to

873
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 1: have a successful marriage, so any information that she's intruding

874
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: on with her daughter's marriage. Ain't gonna be helpful to

875
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: his daughter her daughter because she don't know how to

876
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: have a healthy marriage, and spreading dissension is her way.

877
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: So now the daughter can't stand you. Now what your

878
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: daughters is is. You are not welcome at any of

879
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: the grandchildren's birthday parties or family get togethers because of her.

880
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: I tried for many years and have relationship with my stepdaughter,

881
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: but she's not interested. I run around and buy things

882
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: for her children and help her father get gifts for

883
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: her children. She would only thank her husband. She would

884
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 1: only think my husband the lady. She's never told me

885
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: thank you. She refers to our home as her dad's house.

886
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: It hurts my feeling that she does not respect my

887
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 1: marriage to her dad, and you have every right to

888
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: be her. So what do you do? At one point,

889
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 1: it takes two to tank if the other person it

890
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: takes two people to take. It takes two people to

891
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: have a relationship. Relationship is two people. She don't want

892
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: the relationship. I agree with Shirley. Stop stop buying stuff

893
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: for the grandkids and all this. Stop shopping for your

894
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: husband now. If you can't get respected, she don't talk

895
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: to you, she don't thank you. Then see, let him

896
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: go buy stuff for the grandkids. Now, he caught between

897
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: the rock and a hard place, and we're gonna get

898
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: to that after the break. But he caught between the

899
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: rock and complay because I know what he tried to

900
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: He tries to make it better by making up lies

901
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: about the hys daughter says to tell me hi when

902
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: they talk. She already knows that's you know, good, Well,

903
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 1: let's said hi to me's she ain't ever said hi

904
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: to me, and I've been right here. But when the

905
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: hell she started sending a message? So you already noticed crazy.

906
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: But oh dude, he don't want you hurting the guy.

907
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: I ain't bad. He don't want you to hurt. But

908
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: at one point time a decision has got to be made.

909
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: His loyalty is to you, period. But he's suffering from

910
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: guilt though. You gotta understand his daughter is making him

911
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: feel guilty over the mom's condition mental stability. Oh this man,

912
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 1: and so you gotta you gotta understand that. But I'll

913
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 1: tell you what I think you should do when we

914
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: come all right, Steve, so um, when we come back,

915
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response to a step

916
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: mom that may need to step away twenty three after

917
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: the hour. We'll get into it right after this. You're

918
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, Steve, We're back with part

919
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: two of today's Strawberry Letter. A step mom that may

920
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,919
Speaker 1: need to step away is the subject. Let's recap, shall we. Well?

921
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 1: You know this woman is married his husband. They've been

922
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: married for eleven years. He got three grown children from

923
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: his previous marriage, two sons and a daughter. His sons

924
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 1: are happily married, but his daughter is not. My husband's

925
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 1: ex wife constantly intrudes in our marriage and then her

926
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 1: daughter's marriage. The daughter will not keep her mom out

927
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: of her business, and it upsets her husband. The ex

928
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 1: wife also made my husband's life miserable. Oh I know

929
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: what that is right there, that ex wife trying to

930
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 1: make your husband miss Oh Lord, been there. M I

931
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 1: tightened up right there. I got tight because Lord, I

932
01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: know what that is. Your ex wife make your life miserable.

933
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: Why won't she go sit her tail down some damn well,

934
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: get your ass off the internet. Quit selling stories to

935
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: the inquir Okay, to stop about me all the damn time.

936
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: This is not about you. I have to you know,

937
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: remind you of that, Steve, I think now it's a

938
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: good place. Well, but when he said the ex wife

939
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 1: has also made my husbands like miserable, that was directed.

940
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: You don't see Steve in that sentence. I know I do.

941
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: Two different people. Has nothing to do with you. Be objective, Steve.

942
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't know what that means. We'll

943
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: take yourself out of it. Take yourself out of it,

944
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: take yourself out of it. I wasn't in it until

945
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: she said ex wife has also made my husband's life miserable.

946
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: Now if that don't sound like she talked to me,

947
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: and I see, when God gives you a guilt, you

948
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: got to look at the gift for what it is

949
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 1: and appreciate. So now here's what you got to do.

950
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 1: Step away. You should step away. Ain't no need to

951
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: trying to be kind and keep getting rebuffed. You don't

952
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 1: have to just have a person keep spitting on you

953
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: in your face, stay out their face. That's all you

954
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: got to do. Remove yourself from all this shopping and

955
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 1: buying and trying to go to get togethers and stuff.

956
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: You know, I don't understand they having family events and

957
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: and then someone calling you right now. I hear your baby,

958
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: I'm popular. Somebody calling me when I wish that? Yeah,

959
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: here you talking about I got so many blocks and stuff.

960
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 1: You don't even want to stand up. Okay, back to

961
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: the letter, because you will get the stop of X.

962
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: Don't ask me how I know. I just know Shirley's right.

963
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: I would remove myself from the situation. I'm not worried

964
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 1: about the ex wife, but I have to spend time

965
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 1: with his daughter, so I need to fix this situation.

966
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 1: But his daughter don't want to fix the situation. Have

967
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 1: you ever just said, hey, listen, I love your father.

968
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: Your father loves me. I have nothing to do with

969
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 1: your father's break up. I'm tired of being blamed for it.

970
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: I've been nothing but kind to you and these grandchildren

971
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 1: I want us to have huh. She says that I

972
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 1: have tried for many years to have a relationship with

973
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: my stepdaughter. Well, I just told him what to say. Okay, Well,

974
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: just quit trying to have it. You just live your

975
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: life by ye and don't bring him damn kids over here. Now,

976
01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:00,720
Speaker 1: let's Christmas shop. You ain't about him damn kids. That's right.

977
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: I'm a sting, so say that one more time. Don't

978
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: come over here, no more, and don't bring them damn kids.

979
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 1: You talk about the kids to feel bad. No, okay,

980
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: no they're innocent. Don't bring over I'll tell you what.

981
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: If you want the kids to come over here from now,

982
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 1: send them over here by your hus You don't bring

983
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: your ass over here. But she's miserable in her marriage.

984
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: She's in an unhappy marriage, so misery loves company. Right. Well,

985
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,200
Speaker 1: that's why I say send him over here by the husband,

986
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: because he probably needs a break. I'm pretty sure he

987
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 1: loved to come over here to be killed, wash the

988
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: game with us and everything. He loved to come over

989
01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: there by himself, just to get away from your ain't love.

990
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: If I just stopped by and sit down, I ain't

991
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: got the driveway, I just come over. I just swing by,

992
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 1: Christie Kree, the light was on. Don't know that. Don't

993
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: really make her mad if she, you know, develops the

994
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:08,919
Speaker 1: relationship with the husband and they become good friends. Yeah,

995
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 1: so it's really no way to help people like that.

996
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: It's no terrible how loan this ex white thing can last.

997
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: Trust me another day. I'm shot over here. If you want,

998
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: I forgot what I was going to ask you now,

999
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 1: he keep going, yeah, I think answer this question was

1000
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 1: don't you think the husband should say something? Don't you

1001
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,600
Speaker 1: think the husband wants he's trying to say something what

1002
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 1: he needs to get them off his wife. You don't

1003
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: think that can do any You know what, He's got

1004
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 1: a delicate line because he don't want it's his daughter.

1005
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to lose the relationship with his daughter.

1006
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: He doesn't want the daughter to think he's picking the

1007
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: wife over her, and he don't want the wife to

1008
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: think that he's picking the daughter over her. He's caught

1009
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,639
Speaker 1: between the rock and hard place. This is really tough

1010
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: position to be, especially when coming to the women and boys.

1011
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 1: Boys get on with a lot quicker yeah, yeah, alright,

1012
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 1: Well listen, guys, we do have to go email us

1013
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 1: or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter, which

1014
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 1: was not about Steve. Uh no, it wasn't. Jay. My

1015
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:34,080
Speaker 1: son has actually told me Da, I know my mom,

1016
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 1: go to Steve Harvey him, go to my girls, Shirley

1017
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 1: at my Girls Shirley coming up in ten minutes comedy Roulette. Guys,

1018
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning show.

1019
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 1: It is time for comedy Roulette Jay breaking down, Yeah,

1020
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: breaking down every week, Planet, every week, Blaine It. We

1021
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: take four subjects. We put them on the wheel. We

1022
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:09,879
Speaker 1: spun the wheel wherever the wheel stop. All these comedians

1023
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 1: on this show right here would do the damn thing.

1024
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 1: That's how good we is. Put them up, spun the wheel.

1025
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 1: All right, here go the subject Number one. I know

1026
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:21,639
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but something in that story doesn't make sense. Okay,

1027
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 1: number two, do you ever have any good news when

1028
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: you call? Ever? Ever? Number three, I ain't saying the

1029
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 1: house is nasty, but dot dot dot dot dot dot.

1030
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 1: Number four, Oh, that's not what you said when when

1031
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:48,479
Speaker 1: when they were out of the room. Okay, Yeah, that's good.

1032
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 1: You could stop on either one. Yeah, let's go out

1033
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: of the room. Out of the room. Good news, bad news?

1034
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:04,559
Speaker 1: Oh you see what it stop doing. I ain't saying

1035
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:11,799
Speaker 1: the house is nasty, but I ain't saying your place

1036
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 1: and nasty. But the roach stopped me in the driveway. Man,

1037
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 1: I would not go in there. I'm leaving myself the

1038
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: roach the roach man, And if you want to your

1039
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 1: own will, but I'm out of hill. I'll tell you

1040
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: what I ain't saying your house is nasty, but everybody

1041
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 1: else in the family things, So I ain't only want

1042
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 1: to feel the same way about your house everybody else said.

1043
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: So you know what, I ain't. I ain't saying your

1044
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 1: house nasty, but you do have to wipe your feet

1045
01:11:55,240 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 1: before you go outside. I'm just my feet, that's nat

1046
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 1: Come on, see, I ain't saying your house nasty. But

1047
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 1: when I pulled up in the driveway, neighbor came out

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01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,719
Speaker 1: and said, so you're gonna go in without the hazards.

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01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: You're gonna just walk up in there with your clothes

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01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 1: out like that. I love it. Come on you. I

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01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:27,600
Speaker 1: ain't saying you plays magic, but it's smell like your

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01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 1: smoke cigars. And then and don't nobody smoke cigars. I

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01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: didn't care for that. It wasn't funny to look. Yeah,

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01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 1: I ain't saying your house nasty, but I can smell

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01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:58,559
Speaker 1: your toilet from out here that you like. I ain't.

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01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,600
Speaker 1: I ain't saying your house nasty, but when I called it,

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01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: I get an ear infection every time it's something wrong

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01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 1: over that. Man, come big, I ain't saying your house

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01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:19,559
Speaker 1: is nasty, but how come the flies won't go in there.

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01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:29,639
Speaker 1: They all just circling the house. I ain't saying your

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01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 1: places nasty, but all the milk and your refrigerator is cheese.

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01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 1: That's pretty nasty. I ain't saying your house, But why

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01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: is this dog got slippers on in here walking round

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01:13:53,800 --> 01:14:00,760
Speaker 1: with sniffers? Hits me? You know, I ain't ain't saying

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01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: your house nasty? But how come a skunk coming here

1066
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 1: and he passed out? How to sculk pass out? I ain't.

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01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 1: I ain't saying your house nasty? But what are you saying?

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01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:33,560
Speaker 1: But how come your carpet is bubbed? But here? I

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01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 1: ain't saying your place nast? But how come all your

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01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 1: windows in your house look like they tinted? What is

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01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 1: that dirt? I ain't say in your house nasty? But

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01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 1: in that corner that is not a water stain. I

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01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:56,800
Speaker 1: know that's just a water stay. No, no, damnit that

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01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:01,720
Speaker 1: most I know I know what that is. Try to

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01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: pass that off. I'm not saying your house is nasty,

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01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,640
Speaker 1: But how come the burglar broke in and left a

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01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: note and said clean this up. I'll be back then.

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01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 1: How come happen? Come on now, listen, nasty house? Right here?

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01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 1: I ain't saying your house nasty. But why is the

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01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:35,560
Speaker 1: TV show holders offering you two millions they offer you

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01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 1: to I'm just st Yeah, you got going on? What

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01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: the hell is in your I ain't saying you play,

1083
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:03,759
Speaker 1: but you got eight team boxes the old Jet magazine

1084
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 1: When you're gonna throw them out? Man, come on, man,

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01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: I ain't said your house nat but the whole wins

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01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 1: this skipping that We'll just go to the next year,

1087
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: one last one. I ain't saying your house nash, but

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01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 1: Jesus said when he comes back, he's not going back there.

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01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: The Lord, I'm coming back, but I will not. You

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01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 1: really need to do alright, guys, thank you. Coming up

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01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, people keep talking to

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01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 1: me about blank. We'll explain right after this. You're listening

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01:16:56,720 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 1: to the Stow So Steve, we got an email from

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01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 1: a listener. It says, my friend as a chef, people

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01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 1: always talk to him about cooking. Even if he wants

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01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 1: to talk about something besides food, the conversation inevitably goes

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01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: back to him being a great chef. The email goes

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01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:18,919
Speaker 1: on to say, I have a friend working for candidate

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01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:22,360
Speaker 1: running for office, and every conversation in which she protects

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01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 1: inevitably turns into politics. So, Steve, what does every conversation

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01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 1: in your life turn into? I mean, people talk about uh,

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01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 1: what TV? Money, what funny money? And advice success And

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01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: it's not that now. It's not that they asked for money.

1104
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 1: They want to discuss, you know, ideas for it, how

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01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,680
Speaker 1: to make more. I don't really mind that, you know.

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01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like when you meet a chef, you're

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01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna have questions because everybody loves inside information. A guy

1108
01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:57,639
Speaker 1: in politics, you want to get his opinion. You meet

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01:17:57,680 --> 01:18:00,200
Speaker 1: a probe football player, you want to get him make

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01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 1: sure about playing ball. Other teams high soon. So, man,

1111
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 1: have you ever faced and Rogers? That's just comming? So

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01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 1: you know, man, you know people, man, how was it? Man?

1113
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 1: You know? I mean, you know it's like people see

1114
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 1: Marjorie all the time. They're going, I bet he's just

1115
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 1: a hoop to live with. I bet he just funny

1116
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: all the time. The comedian. No, he's not funny at

1117
01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:26,560
Speaker 1: home at all. They're just gonna You're just saying that,

1118
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:31,519
Speaker 1: like I'm just at the house, just show never stopped, yea.

1119
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 1: Like they always want to ask tell me they have

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01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 1: a strawberry letter for me, A letter for you. What

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01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 1: you're always talk to you about? Tommy prank my mama,

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01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 1: prank my dad, prank my uncle. I'm not just when

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01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 1: the people I meet who meet me. Let me just

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01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,560
Speaker 1: clear this up. I don't know where Steve is. I

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01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:56,680
Speaker 1: don't know what he's doing for all of us. For

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01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 1: all I'm not with him. I don't know where the

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01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 1: hell he is. I don't talk to him that much.

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01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 1: I just don't know. And don't give me a damn

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01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 1: thing to give him. They're coming with that one. Oh

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01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:20,599
Speaker 1: I'm not taking it. You're going in with a bag sevening.

1131
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 1: But how do you not take the stuff? Oh? You

1132
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 1: know what I do. And I'm gonna admit this. I'm

1133
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: gonna say it. I'll take it. But I thought it

1134
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:34,679
Speaker 1: was I've watched him do it now. Yeah, I don't

1135
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: want to hurt nobody feeling. Oh yeah, you know what.

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01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: You know what I don't like, Jake. They roll up

1137
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:43,800
Speaker 1: on Tommy, got something just for you, dog, just for

1138
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 1: you whole type come back ten minute, lady. Here it is,

1139
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 1: get this to Steve. This is my book, and I

1140
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 1: know here like this book. It's kind of like his book.

1141
01:19:58,040 --> 01:20:01,680
Speaker 1: But not a bo like I heard step like gym

1142
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:04,800
Speaker 1: and chot and cake. I made one, just wrapped up.

1143
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:13,400
Speaker 1: I made I made two, one for you and one

1144
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 1: for Steve. Right the cake. Though. We can't eat something

1145
01:20:23,040 --> 01:20:26,640
Speaker 1: somebody we don't know hands and we can't get it,

1146
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 1: We can't put it in our person. I don't give

1147
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 1: damn about your feelings getting hurt. What you're not gonna

1148
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:39,560
Speaker 1: do is pais and me. Nobody eats food from a

1149
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 1: total strange. You can't do. It's not even smart. Oh.

1150
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: That reminds me of that meme where this person was

1151
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: washing chiplands in their tub, in their bathtub at home. Yes,

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01:20:52,560 --> 01:20:55,280
Speaker 1: that's why you can't take food from strangers. You don't

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01:20:55,320 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: know what their habits are. Top chilings, Yeah, I don't

1154
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 1: know how y'all ain't. Yeah it don't kind of ChIL

1155
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: in your sink? No, yeah, in the bathtub. Put them

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01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: in bath. I'm y'all vine no eat, no chilings, chill

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01:21:17,080 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 1: bath right right right man? Yeah, right after they got out,

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01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:28,479
Speaker 1: right after they got up, I'm gonna get right back

1159
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: in here with the child. How about this? Hey, save

1160
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 1: that water because I got the clean don't don't don't

1161
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 1: dream that. That's ridiculous. That's a nast We're back at

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01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:59,560
Speaker 1: that nasty house again. When you finished watching put some

1163
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: bleak just washing, didn't that, I didn't watch the chien

1164
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 1: just a little bit of hot water. When last time

1165
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:15,519
Speaker 1: you had some chiplings? Man, oh man, it's been years now.

1166
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:17,800
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I used to eat them. But man,

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01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 1: did you try to want in Paris? No? I never

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01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:26,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah to that rest. Yeah they were, they were

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01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:29,040
Speaker 1: on the menu. Jay. We came back and told Steve

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01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:36,720
Speaker 1: about yeah, yeah, chitterlings. Yeah, yeah, I think I'd go

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01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 1: with parents chilings before I go with bath. No, I

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01:22:41,040 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 1: don't want to go anyway, eat no chilling with a frasing.

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01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:54,800
Speaker 1: Wee weet that right, Yeah, yeah, that's what you're saying.

1174
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 1: You got some good chillen, you got the chilling. So

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01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 1: that's what Steve. What do you want us to do

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01:23:02,680 --> 01:23:04,439
Speaker 1: to stuff people be giving us to give you what

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01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:09,120
Speaker 1: you want to keep it? Man? You know I don't

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01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:11,599
Speaker 1: need another blanker with my family on it. I don't

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01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 1: need another blank I please, I'm not going to do

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01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:21,519
Speaker 1: with curl up on it a lot of it. You

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01:23:21,600 --> 01:23:24,559
Speaker 1: get paintings where you look like Harriet Tubman I'm like, yeah,

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01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:33,720
Speaker 1: that's nice, just like it and the good intentions do.

1183
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, I down man, that's Steve coming out more

1184
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorance. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

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01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:56,160
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. So Steve,

1186
01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 1: how's it going first week back on the new show

1187
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:01,800
Speaker 1: and everything? Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's getting good reviews and

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01:24:01,920 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 1: numbers were up over last year. We accomplished something that

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01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:12,799
Speaker 1: every show was down from last year. Television is changing

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01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: right before eyes except our show was up, so that

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01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:19,680
Speaker 1: was a good sign. It doesn't mean any shows are

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01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: endangering anything. It's just it's different. It's changing. It's just changing.

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01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:28,720
Speaker 1: The landscape of television is changing. The numbers that used

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01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 1: to be attainable aren't there anymore. Too many channels. People

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01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:38,120
Speaker 1: watch TV on their devices now, everybody records and watches later.

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01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: So television's totally changed the way they go about the business.

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01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:47,840
Speaker 1: So we'll just see what a lot of great responses,

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01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 1: really good response about it. I wasn't really concerned about it,

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01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 1: you know. Um, it's a change I wanted to make,

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01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:58,920
Speaker 1: so you know, I mean, plus my girls she likes

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01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm not really Um that really it's like really been

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01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:06,640
Speaker 1: helpful to me because I just edge it up on

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01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:10,720
Speaker 1: Tuesday mornings before I shoot, and then I do a

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01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 1: re clipping edge on Thursday, and then Friday said this

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01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:18,720
Speaker 1: Sunday Monday, I just leave it alone. I ain't got

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01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 1: the food with it, and you know, less makeup I

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01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:24,599
Speaker 1: got to wear. So I mean, you know what's y'all think,

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01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:31,840
Speaker 1: especially man, it pops with them and it shows more

1209
01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 1: personal that it's really personal. Yeah and lap back singing,

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01:25:36,960 --> 01:25:42,160
Speaker 1: clap back, yeah, clap back. I just added, because you

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01:25:42,240 --> 01:25:45,320
Speaker 1: know what, I know, we're taught at celebrities not to

1212
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:49,599
Speaker 1: comment on social media. Just leaving alone, keeping moving, don't

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01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 1: give it life. But sometimes man, you just get tired

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01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:55,200
Speaker 1: of people just fine off on and like on a

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01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 1: serious note, like it's really really sad what the inquiry

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01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 1: can do or ead our online. They don't care that

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01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 1: you have a family, they don't care you trying to

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01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:07,960
Speaker 1: make your marriage work. They don't care to how it

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01:26:08,080 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 1: affects your children. They just print lies. And they just printed, man,

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01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: I mean, a story with no truth to it at

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01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:20,519
Speaker 1: all and just print it just doesn't make any sense.

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01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:24,960
Speaker 1: So I decided I was just gonna clap back on someone.

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01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 1: You know what, you just you're fine at me. I

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01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 1: can't say nothing the time on this radio show. I

1225
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:34,639
Speaker 1: just got tired and I got a segment called speed

1226
01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:39,519
Speaker 1: claps back because I get tied. You fine off on me. Well,

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01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:41,360
Speaker 1: I told you about the layout. Was walking in there

1228
01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:43,800
Speaker 1: saying it so well. She said, I don't like to

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01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:48,800
Speaker 1: bid it makes you look old. I said, let's review

1230
01:26:48,840 --> 01:26:52,880
Speaker 1: a couple. I was born in nineteen fifty seven. I

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01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:57,320
Speaker 1: graduated in nineteen seventy four. I've been alive eleven years,

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01:26:57,439 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: longer than a half a century. I've got seven kids

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01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:13,760
Speaker 1: and five grandkids. Hell, I mean so, but and and

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01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 1: oh is the is the goal the alternative, right, So

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01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm embracing it, handling it well, you know, I don't

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01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:29,760
Speaker 1: look bad for sixty best look a sixty one year

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01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:31,320
Speaker 1: old in the world. Let's some cats out there and

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01:27:31,400 --> 01:27:35,439
Speaker 1: straight up shape. But I get that, you know, I'm

1239
01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 1: thinking about I'm really thinking about becoming the new doll.

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01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:43,360
Speaker 1: Soaky man, the most exciting man in the world. Interesting,

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01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 1: interesting in the world. I like him. I like to do.

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01:27:49,240 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 1: They got oh yeah, all right, well we'll be back.

1243
01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 1: They hiring people with beards, so here. We'll be back

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01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,200
Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:03,600
Speaker 1: You're listening the Steve Harvey Show. All right. Today is

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01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:10,160
Speaker 1: the seventeenth anniversary of nine eleven. Wow, we were at work.

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01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:12,680
Speaker 1: We were at Yeah, we were all at work in

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01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:16,479
Speaker 1: l A. Uh yeah, before the show went national all

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01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:19,880
Speaker 1: of that, Steve, I know you remember that day. Well. Well.

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Speaker 1: In New York, ongoing focus remains on the new one

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Speaker 1: World Trade Center in downtown Manhattan. The single skyscraper replaces

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Speaker 1: the iconic twin towers that were destroyed on September eleven,

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Speaker 1: two th one. We will never forget the lives lost

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Speaker 1: and the heroes, the first responders. Uh, it's never good

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Speaker 1: news when you see George Zimmerman's name in the trending topics. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think we mentioned him earlier in the show. Steve,

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Speaker 1: the man who killed Trayvon Martin is back in the

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Speaker 1: news for sending a series of threatening text and voicemail

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Speaker 1: messages to a private investigator hired to find people to

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Speaker 1: feature in the Jay Z docuseries Rest in Power the

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Speaker 1: Trayvon Martin story. When Zimmerman was asked to participate via

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Speaker 1: a voicemail, he responded by calling the p I his

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Speaker 1: name is Dennis Warren back fifty five times. He called

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Speaker 1: this man back fifty five times, leaving thirty six voicemails,

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Speaker 1: sixty seven text messages, and twenty seven emails over a

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Speaker 1: course of just nine days. Uh. The communications included threats

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Speaker 1: to Jay Z and Beyonce, telling Mr Warren to tell

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Speaker 1: Jay Z he's a b and his wife is a broke. Um. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was horrible, It was Yeah. Can I just ask

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Speaker 1: a question, what do he got to do to go

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Speaker 1: to jail? Because they love black people love for anything, anything,

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Speaker 1: exactly exactly. I'll tell you what though. Now you run

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Speaker 1: over there with Mr Carter if you want to, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get some people over there on that side of the

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Speaker 1: camp and gonna let you do that to him. Some

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Speaker 1: people standing in that area that's not gonna You're not

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Speaker 1: gonna be Yeah. Zimmerman went on to say, Steve, if

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Speaker 1: I see either of them in my life, they'll find

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Speaker 1: themselves inside a thirteen ft gator. What he can say

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Speaker 1: this and walk around free? You don't he don't even

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Speaker 1: know when you start messing with Beyonce. He don't even

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Speaker 1: understand what to bee Hive due damn law enforcement. You

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Speaker 1: gotta hold enough problems that damn right, man, I'd rather

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Speaker 1: have them than the police protects you because they don't

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Speaker 1: care what the law he is. Yeah, matter of fact,

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about taking out stock in the bed most.

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Speaker 1: It's the most valuable fan base I've ever seen. As

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Speaker 1: a matter of fact, I want to be hive to

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Speaker 1: adopt me. I'm asking to be high for your help

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Speaker 1: with the national enquired a radar online. I want to

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Speaker 1: be high to help me. Where is don't I'm saying, Look,

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Speaker 1: this is a direct message. Let me talk. Let me

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Speaker 1: talk to my social media right here. I'm asking to

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Speaker 1: be high to please adopt me. If you could just

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Speaker 1: treat me as temp as good as you treate create

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Speaker 1: as you treat Beyonce, I'll be more than happy and

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Speaker 1: go get all them hate this that's coming after me.

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Speaker 1: I wont to be high to adopt a sixty one

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Speaker 1: year old black man. I need leadership, goddess and a family,

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Speaker 1: A freaking be Steve Man, That's what I want, all right.

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Speaker 1: Steve is up next with today's closing remarks. We will

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Speaker 1: hear those at forty nine after the hour. Right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to Steven Show. All right, Steve, here

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Speaker 1: we go, last break of the day. Um, some parting

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Speaker 1: words for us with your closing remarks please all right? UM,

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Speaker 1: I guess um, without thinking about this much, I want

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Speaker 1: to talk to you about life, how fragile it is,

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Speaker 1: and I want to have something to say about mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm really not gonna get into the

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Speaker 1: whole situation, because, like I just be honest with you,

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Speaker 1: there are times, there are actually times when I'm actually

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Speaker 1: sick and tired of talking about it. I am exhausted

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Speaker 1: with the fact that the color of my skin has

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Speaker 1: to come into play in my everyday life, my just

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Speaker 1: day to day. I don't know. I really can't think

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Speaker 1: of any days really pistically why I do not have

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Speaker 1: to consider the color of my skin, the shape of

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Speaker 1: my nose and my lips wherever I go. The situation

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Speaker 1: I'm in, I very rarely I can think of a

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Speaker 1: day that I'm not made aware of it or I

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Speaker 1: have to factor it in. If you're not a person

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Speaker 1: of color or minority, you may not even be able

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Speaker 1: to understand what I'm saying. But I'll just give you

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Speaker 1: an example. When riding in the car and being stopped

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Speaker 1: by the police as me and my buddy Greg Calhoun

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Speaker 1: was doing last year after golf out in coming from

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Speaker 1: Montgomery to Alabama and his car and we were speeding

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Speaker 1: and we were supposed to get pulled over. We were speeding.

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Speaker 1: But what I had to do was immediately become aware

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Speaker 1: that I am a black man. Skip your money in

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Speaker 1: your fame. I don't have time to throw that out

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Speaker 1: at you. I got to get and start preparing myself.

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Speaker 1: As the officer approaches the car, I must understand without

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Speaker 1: him getting my I D I'm a black man, just

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Speaker 1: a black man. So I put my hands up on

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Speaker 1: the dashboard and the officer came to the passengers side

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Speaker 1: and said, why is your hands on the dashboard? I said,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want nothing to happen to me. The

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Speaker 1: officer said, while that's acting mighty suspicious. I said, no,

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Speaker 1: it's not. I'm just being safe, officer. If you don't mind,

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Speaker 1: she said, well, I'll need to see I D. I said,

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Speaker 1: my I D happens to be in a pouch in

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Speaker 1: the back seat. I would have to reach. She said,

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Speaker 1: we'll go ahead, and I was tense because I didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to be mistaken. When I'm on an

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Speaker 1: elevator and I get on, I am conscious of the

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Speaker 1: fact that me and my guy are the only ones

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Speaker 1: on the elevator. When I go to golf courses and

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Speaker 1: I oftentimes see that there are hardy any African Americans

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Speaker 1: out here, It's just me and one maybe the force

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Speaker 1: something that I'm playing with, and and and I'm just

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Speaker 1: always aware of it. If you're not that, you don't

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Speaker 1: have to be aware of it. But it's the awareness

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Speaker 1: that becomes draining at times. It's the fact that you've

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Speaker 1: got to be the only one on your floor, the

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Speaker 1: only one on the elevator, the only one in the cubicle,

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Speaker 1: the only one in your department, the only one at

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Speaker 1: the meeting, the only one in the cafeteria, the only

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Speaker 1: one on the on the trip, the only one, the

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Speaker 1: only one at the hotel, at the front desk, the

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Speaker 1: only one, the only one, the only one's kids that's

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Speaker 1: in the recital, the only one's kids that's at the

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Speaker 1: that's on the soccer team, the only one, the only one,

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Speaker 1: the only one, the only one. Gets to be exhausting

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Speaker 1: at times. This will not change. And two more people

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Speaker 1: who are not of color, can try to empathize or

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Speaker 1: sympathize or generalize or something with us to say, you

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Speaker 1: know what, I don't know how that feels, but I

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Speaker 1: bet that ain't right, because, as I've often said many times,

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Speaker 1: slavery didn't end just because black people got sick of

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Speaker 1: being slaves. We were sick of it the thought of it.

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Speaker 1: When they put us on them boats. Nobody wanted to

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Speaker 1: ride the boat over here and come be no slaves.

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Speaker 1: Nobody was under the belly of them slave ships, going, man,

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Speaker 1: this is nice. It's gonna be a new opportunity. Nobody.

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Speaker 1: So I want to wake up and just see what

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Speaker 1: it feels like to just go about my day without

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Speaker 1: having to calculate my race, without to have to calculate

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Speaker 1: the color of my skin, to watch other people get

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Speaker 1: paid a certain amount of money and then you don't

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Speaker 1: get paid a certain amount of money with the same

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Speaker 1: type of ratings, and then you got you got to

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Speaker 1: incorporate something else again. Now, I've been very blessed with

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Speaker 1: the life that I have, and I would not trade

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Speaker 1: mind for anything. With all this sick and tired of

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Speaker 1: being sick and tired. Also what makes this also tolerable.

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Speaker 1: For me, it is my love of who I am,

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Speaker 1: my love of our power to overcome, our power to

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Speaker 1: maintain in the struggle, our power to still be something

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Speaker 1: where we were brought here to simply be nothing, So

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Speaker 1: for us to have accomplished what we've accomplished. I'm grateful

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Speaker 1: and awful proud of that. So I guess my pride

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Speaker 1: just keeps me going on. I hope that guy will

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Speaker 1: continue to let whatever light that I can let shine

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Speaker 1: through my existence to inspire someone else to overcome when

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Speaker 1: it looked like you ain't gonna make it. Because that's

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Speaker 1: exactly what I've done, by the grace of God. I

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Speaker 1: have overcome against all the odds, even when they said

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Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna make it. And even though I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of being tired, I wouldn't trade places and be nothing else,

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Speaker 1: know how, because in this struggle has taught me so

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Speaker 1: many For all Steve Every contests, no purchase necessary, void

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Speaker 1: where prohibited participants must be legal US residents at least

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Speaker 1: eighteen years old unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules,

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