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Speaker 2: Drew is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, but he's getting ghosted by a woman named Mia,

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and find out why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if

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Speaker 2: he wants one before we do all that, Drew, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from me?

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Speaker 3: Probably about ten days now, but who's counting.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm sorry about the ghosting, but let's just get

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Speaker 4: right into it. Can you tell us about your date

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Speaker 4: and what happened?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean what happened was we had what

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Speaker 5: I thought was an amazing date. It took her to

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Speaker 5: this barbecue place also like a super fun country bar.

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Speaker 5: You know, they got the mechanical bull, he got line dancing,

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Speaker 5: a bunch of great drink specials right off the bat.

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Speaker 5: She and Mia was always saying like, I'm always up

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Speaker 5: for an adventure, and she said she loves Luke Bryan

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Speaker 5: so boom plus. Not to brag too much, but Dan

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Speaker 5: there and I thought it would be a real good

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Speaker 5: opportunity to show off my rhythm, you know, anywhere.

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Speaker 3: I can get and move.

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Speaker 2: How'd that go?

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like you thought about the dancing.

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Speaker 5: It's just the date in general, because I feel like

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Speaker 5: the dancing went really well.

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Speaker 6: Let's start there.

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Speaker 5: Then, Yeah, okay, Well I feel like we moved really

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Speaker 5: well together. We had amazing chemistry on the dance floor,

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Speaker 5: and it was so good that I thought our bodies

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Speaker 5: would go real good together off the dance.

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Speaker 3: Floor, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Also, she ate her food with her hands, like

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Speaker 5: she wasn't afraid to get dirty.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was the best. She was so fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she got dirty.

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Speaker 2: All right, So that's another good sign.

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Speaker 6: I'd say, what are you hoping to get out of

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Speaker 2: Button?

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Speaker 4: Well, did she seem like she was into it? Was

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Speaker 4: she like having a good time when the dancing was

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Speaker 4: going on?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 5: I think, like the only thing that I could maybe

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Speaker 5: think of, Like, so, she was eating them with her

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Speaker 3: I was using a fork and a nice and.

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Speaker 5: Like maybe I made her feel a little bad or something,

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Speaker 5: but I don't think so, because she like tease me

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Speaker 5: about it, you know, because I was being all proper

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Speaker 5: and I was slumming it with her.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think honestly, I really honestly think she was joking

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Speaker 3: But maybe that's it. I really have no idea what

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Speaker 3: else it could be.

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Speaker 2: How did the day end?

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Speaker 3: We both went our separate ways.

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Speaker 5: We didn't you know, didn't get a chance to test

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Speaker 5: any dance theories out. But that's okay, because I want

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Speaker 5: to just make sure that we have a good, good

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Speaker 5: start to everything. And you know, as much as I

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Speaker 5: to find someone and have something meaningful. So she took

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Speaker 5: an Uber home and I took a Uber back to

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Speaker 5: my place because we didn't know who we'd be drinking,

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Speaker 5: and it was I thought it was a really nice

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Speaker 6: Did you guys text each other afterwards when you got

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Speaker 6: home or was did the goodbye end before the uber ride?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And the watch that you know, text me make sure

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Speaker 5: you get home okay, And she did that and that

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Speaker 4: Going back to your food theory, it is kind of

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Speaker 4: interesting how much pressure is put on matching your date

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Speaker 4: and how they eat, you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 4: if the person you're with is ordering a burger, Like,

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Speaker 4: get a burger. If the person you were with eats

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Speaker 4: their pizza with their hands, I'd be making fun of

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Speaker 6: So I don't know that that would be a deal breaker.

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Speaker 4: But maybe did you maybe say something that turned her

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Speaker 3: Maybe one of my jokes didn't land. But I can't

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't even be able to tell you what it was.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I said anything. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: We looked at each other's eyes a couple of times,

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Speaker 5: you know, those like little moments where you're like, this

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Speaker 2: You know, And other than maybe joking about her eating

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Speaker 2: her food with their hands, you can't think of anything else.

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Speaker 3: No, I really can't.

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Speaker 5: Like I know, I'm trying to be honest with you

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Speaker 5: guys too, like I I you know, I'm sure everybody says, well,

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Speaker 5: I can't think of anything, but I really can't.

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Speaker 6: Did you guys kiss?

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Speaker 3: We did not.

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Speaker 6: Maybe she doesn't think you're into her.

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Speaker 3: Did you get a hug at least at the end. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we hugged. Okay, we hug I got a little rib

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Speaker 2: We'll see if we can figure it out for You'll

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Speaker 2: play a song, come back, and then call her and Steve.

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Speaker 2: She'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and then maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date if you still want one. With

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Speaker 2: your first Day follow up Next.

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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Drew is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: Mia and has no idea why. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her. But before we do that, Drew, why don't

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Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory about why you think you're getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by Mia.

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Speaker 3: Well, we had an awesome date. Took her to barbecue

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Speaker 3: as a country bar.

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Speaker 5: We danced, and we danced really well together, and at

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Speaker 5: the end of the night we hugged. I got a

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Speaker 5: little rib sauce on my shirt and I couldn't wait

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Speaker 2: Oh, the rib sauce was from her hands. Just dip

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Speaker 2: a shirt and rib sauce and walk out, although that

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Speaker 2: would have been a move, you know.

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Speaker 6: Oh, and that maybe why you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna dither phone of it right now.

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Speaker 3: You're ready, I'm ready?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 2: This is Nia, Hey Mia, how are you? My name

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Speaker 2: is Jubil. I host a radio show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: Jubil Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi me and my name's Nina.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 6: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show called Jebel Show. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you've ever heard of us before I have. Hi, Okay, cool,

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Speaker 2: I'm nervous. Have you ever heard a first date follow

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Speaker 2: up before?

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Speaker 7: I have?

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Speaker 2: Well, you recently went out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and now you're ghosting them. And they emailed us to

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Speaker 2: ask you why you're ghosting them?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, any idea?

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Speaker 2: Who could be?

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Speaker 7: Well, I've only really had a one date in the

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Speaker 7: past couple of weeks, so I think I know. Is

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Speaker 7: his name Drew?

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Speaker 2: Yes? It is? Oh, okay, to just tell us where

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Speaker 2: you go? See, we really want to know.

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Speaker 7: Wow. Well, I mean we had the dame was actually

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Speaker 7: going really well and it was really fun. He took

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Speaker 7: pretty well and he was funny and silly, which is awesome.

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Speaker 7: And with the exception of there was this moment we

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Speaker 7: were dancing on the dance floor and this ballad Shania

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Speaker 7: a first date. And it just seems like there was

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Speaker 7: a lot in there that I was not ready to

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Speaker 2: So what song was it that came on?

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Speaker 3: Again?

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Speaker 7: Still the one that Shanaiya Twain song I love that

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Speaker 4: I cried to it all the time because like, you know,

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Speaker 4: I just want that one sting into your dad's eyes?

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Speaker 4: But did you say anything, Dad, Like, did you ask

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Speaker 7: Well? I did, I, you know, I was like are

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Speaker 7: So it wasn't as weird. It wasn't as weird after that,

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Speaker 7: I just felt like, is this guy going to say

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Speaker 7: I was not ready for that.

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Speaker 2: So so it was not coming across like maybe he

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Speaker 7: I felt like he was like locking eyes like still

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Speaker 2: Like you, Like I just met you and you're still

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Speaker 2: the one. I could see that being a bit much then.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I could too. I mean, you will you get

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Could you see yourself doing that?

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Speaker 4: Like if you happen to be looking at somebody in

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Speaker 2: Be on a first date? That's initially I thought maybe

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Speaker 2: he was thinking about a past relationship, you know, like

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Speaker 2: Let's just ask him. Miya. Yeah, he's on the phone

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Speaker 3: Oh hi, hi, Miya Hi.

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Speaker 5: was that, missy. It's not because I'm an ex. I

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Speaker 5: I didn't know what to say. So my grandparents had

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Speaker 5: they're just so in love still, and whenever I hear

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Speaker 5: that song, I think about my grandparents, and uh, you know,

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Speaker 5: it's just a real soft spot for me, are you, Drew, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say. If you're making

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Speaker 2: that up on the spot, that is genius.

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Speaker 6: That's actually really cute. And I kind of wish I

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Speaker 6: wish you told her that.

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Speaker 5: We were looking at each other and it wasn't like

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Speaker 5: a like a plan, like, oh my god, I got

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Speaker 5: to get this one, but I mean like I was

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Speaker 5: having a good time with her, and then I thought

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Speaker 5: about my grandparents when that song came on, and I

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Speaker 5: was trying not to cry.

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Speaker 3: But I guess I didn't do a good job, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I of course cried, I always do. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I got real emotional.

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Speaker 2: What do you think about that, Medya?

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Speaker 6: Does it change anything? Yah?

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Speaker 3: I mean that is a very good reason.

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Speaker 7: I just also felt like it was a little inappropriate

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Speaker 7: to be so emotional. I just didn't feel like to me,

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Speaker 7: that told me that, like we don't match, you know,

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Speaker 7: Like I'm not a super emotional person, but if one

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Speaker 7: is going to be the emotional person in the relationship.

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Speaker 3: I would like it to be me and not the.

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Speaker 7: Man I'm dating. Like I kind of want I want

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Speaker 7: to rock. I don't want a river, you know.

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Speaker 2: So, wow, you're not really into emotional guys like that.

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Speaker 7: I just feel like it's a lot of extra work,

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Speaker 7: and you know, I'm so sorry, Drew, but I just

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Speaker 7: feel like it's like a lot that I have to

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Speaker 7: then managed, you know. So, I mean.

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Speaker 6: It's an interesting take.

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Speaker 2: I did not expect that.

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Speaker 6: I really appreciate when a man shows his side.

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Speaker 7: Yeah I do too, when it's like the months into

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Speaker 7: the relationship, but not on the first date.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, let me ask you this question. Meal,

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Speaker 2: would you like to go on another day with Drew

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Speaker 2: will pay for it.

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Speaker 6: He won't cry.

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Speaker 7: If he doesn't cry, I'm going to gracefully decline, but

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Speaker 7: thank you so much for the offer.

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Speaker 2: No problem, Drew. I'm sorry, man, No the second day

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Speaker 2: for you.

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Speaker 5: You know, I appreciate you guys trying. It actually makes

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Speaker 5: me feel a lot better just having some closure. And uh,

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Speaker 5: while it stings, I'm glad she was honest. And uh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I guess that wouldn't work. Uh be you holding me

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Speaker 5: while I'm crying, holding you while you're crying? The uh,

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Speaker 5: this is crying all the time.

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Speaker 6: You know what, ladies, Drew a single if you're into

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Speaker 6: the crying tape.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: June's first day fall up