WEBVTT - “I THINK THE OLD LADY I WORK FOR GOT KIDNAPPED” 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.560 Hey, folks, it's Lyle. Before we get into the episode, 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:04.440 I wanted to talk to you guys about a new 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.880 thing I'm doing where you can help support my lizard 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:12.680 endeavors by becoming a premium member of this podcast over 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:17.400 at Therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com. Premium members, or 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:20.479 gek Legends, as I call them, we'll be able to 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:24.360 get every new and existing episode of Therapy Gecko completely 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:27.720 ad free. 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Is that your real name? 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.280 Yeah? 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:22.800 What is what? 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:23.280 What is that? 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:24.560 I've never heard that name. 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:30.520 It's like a play on Uh, it's like a play 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:31.039 on the name. 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:34.520 You know, this is your real name? You never heard 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:42.160 n No, it's my name. All right, I'm gonna call 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.680 you uh v v What is it you wanted to 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:45.080 talk about? 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:53.640 Sho? Okay? All right, well I have an actual I 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:55.560 feel like this is a lot easier now that I'm 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.520 like speaking to you. Okay, I have an actual thing 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:02.320 that uh I wanted to talk to you about. So 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:06.360 the job that I work at, I'm not allowed to 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:11.400 discuss things that go on with the patients normally, but 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:15.720 I think I am I don't know, am I I 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:21.840 can see? Yeah? Yeah right, that's kind of like the situation, right, Okay, 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:23.359 all you had. 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:25.080 To do was tell me. Now I'm like thinking about 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:28.320 it. If I'm being offensive by asking you if Vintendo is 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:31.400 a real name. You kind of gas sled me into that. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:37.239 But that's okay. The uh well, and you don't have 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:38.440 to again, you don't have to tell me anything you 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:39.240 don't want to tell me. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:42.240 But no, I need I need to. 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:44.919 I need to tell you did what what's the job? 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:49.480 All right? 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:53.280 So essentially I exercise with old people. 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:55.320 You what adult people? 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:58.600 I exercise with old people? 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.280 Okay, m. 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:11.720 Okay, and sometimes the sessions can last like an hour 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.440 an hour and a half. And at this one particular 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:19.760 office I worked at, it's kind of like one patient 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:22.560 in at a time, so it's very much one on 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:26.120 one time. Now I spent like three sessions with this 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:30.000 one lady, and I've grown very fond of her. She's 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:34.520 ninety two. She has dementia, and she's like an absolute 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.160 like bad out of hell. Like she shows up to 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:42.000 the office and goes home with like ubers and keVs, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:48.240 and she barely knows how to use her phone. It's nuts. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:53.560 So one of like the last times I was working 0:03:53.640 --> 0:04:01.360 with her last week, we get to talk and I'm 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:04.000 walking her out to her car and I made a 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:11.920 silly joke about Willy Wonka and she basically says, Oh, 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:13.920 I know Willy Wonka. That's Johnny Depp. Do you know 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.880 who Johnny Depp is. I was like, yeah, I do. 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.880 So she goes, I have something to show you, but 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:25.120 you can't tell anybody. So she goes ahead and she 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.680 shows me and it's like a conversation between her and 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:33.159 Johnny Depp, and like the face on the content on 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:38.240 the contact is like like a head like a headshot 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:41.480 of Johnny Depp, and it was it's like the texts 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:46.080 were like, good morning, beautiful, this is Johnny Depp. What 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:49.719 are you doing this fun Monday morning? It was just 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:54.239 like the most ridiculous text between her and Johnny Depp. 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:59.600 And I was just like totally flabbergasted. And she's like, look, 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.320 he's go that he's going to send people. He's gonna 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.679 send like a car to take me to a jet, 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:11.320 take me to Johnny Depp. And I was like, this 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:15.920 lady's literally going to get stolen, fucking whatever, this fake 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.640 Johnny Depp. He's going to like actually give her to 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:23.919 the upper lumpus, like for real. And so I was 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:27.159 trying to like be nice to her and say, you know, 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.919 maybe it's not Johnny Depp after all, Maybe it's just 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:33.440 some somebody that you don't know on the internet. And 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.000 she was like, no, no, no, no, this is Johnny Depp. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.640 I'm positive of it. She says, there is one thing 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:39.720 I'm concerned. 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:39.880 About, though. 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.920 I hear that he's beaten his woman before, and I 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:47.359 just don't want him to do that to me, Like 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:53.520 what the fuck. So turns out she has some kids. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.000 I told the people that I work with, and everybody 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:00.640 was kind of like, it's not our position do anything 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:07.320 about that. So I want to ask you what do 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:07.760 I do? 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:18.160 Okay, first of all, that that's a wild story. 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.080 It's true story. It is really it's been weighing on me. 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:27.400 It's been like it's been like fifteen days now maybe, 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.479 and I know what we think about it. And she 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:35.839 hasn't shown up last week or the week before. Oh Jesus, 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.400 And I've been calling you since like the day. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:46.080 I didn't want to put Yeah, I'm fucking I'm fucking 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:54.479 with you. Oh my god, that's so wild. Wow. Okay, 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.560 here's the funny thing for I. For a second when 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:01.040 you said that, when she was talking about she knows 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.400 Johnny Depp, like I thought, I'm like, oh shit, you 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.000 met a woman who knows Johnny Depp. 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.760 That's what I thought for for a second too. And 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.680 then the contact picture on top of it was just 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:17.640 so ridiculous. It was so funny. Oh my top. Yeah, 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:19.720 this little lady, she got abducted. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:21.480 I don't know what to do. 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:31.240 So do you Okay, so you think you said this, 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:35.080 You were like, you said that this violates HIPAA in 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:36.679 some way, right. 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:44.640 Well, I know, I don't think so because you just 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:49.320 like can't use like specific like thinks. 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:53.360 You're allowed to that. I think you should tell somebody 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.760 because you. 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:58.840 I brought this up to like three four people. 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:00.600 Who who did you bring it up to? 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:11.360 Like perceptionist higher ups? And I was like, do I 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.280 take it upon myself to like go into her like 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.400 I don't know, we find people who are like owning 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.280 this or attached to this, Lady. 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:27.680 What did your higher up say when you told them 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:28.120 about this? 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:34.880 They were kind of like, Oh, that's crazy. Well, hopefully 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:35.760 that doesn't happen. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:44.120 They probably deal with so much like crazy like old 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:50.680 person dementia stuff that they're like, we can't we can't 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:54.160 save everyone, or they probably have a mentality like that 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.600 where they're just like like I'm sure they've all like 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.600 been in some situation like this before war where they're 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:03.920 all like, yeah, that just sounds like a crazy old 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.560 person thing, like yeah, whatever, you know, like it's not 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:12.480 a big deal to them. It's so wild. So the 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:18.439 so the texts were saying, do you tell me? Tell 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.719 me exactly? So what did these texts say? Did they do? 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.680 They say, like we're going to pick you up in 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:25.959 a car and ship like. 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:31.040 That, So she was like really trying to show off 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:33.839 after a certain point, and she's like scrolling through the 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:38.240 whole thing. So when it stopped, she like reversed it, 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.680 so like she went all the way up to the 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:44.280 beginning of the messages, and genuinely, it didn't seem like 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.959 they were talking for long. It seems like maybe they 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:50.840 had but two days three days worth of conversation in there, 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:55.800 and like some of like the earlier stuff was just 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:59.000 like good morning, beautiful, like what are you up to 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:03.160 right now, beautiful? It was just like really repetitive, like 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:08.320 cringey shit with like punctuation, so like periods and question 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:11.760 marks and stuff. And then like she would send back 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:17.440 like daisy emojis and whatnot. And then as she's like 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:20.959 going back to like the more recent stuff, you can 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:25.959 tell that there's like a longer texts on on Johnny 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.640 Depp's part, because I think he was really trying to 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:33.880 see all the deal here, and there was something about 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:39.320 like an offer to be flown somewhere, but I didn't 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:42.000 see a lot of like the context. I did see though, 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:44.920 that like one of the more recent things was talking 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:47.640 about a flight on his end. 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.720 Okay, here's another thing. Well, okay, the fact that you 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.280 said she stopped showing up is concerning. But I. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:01.480 But this this woman, this was this one was thinking 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.199 about this before even the thing. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:08.479 This woman is ninety two years old and has dimensioned 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:14.000 could I don't like, can she get in a how 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:18.160 does she can she go places without people? Can she 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:22.360 like physically mentally, like even get to the airport and 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:26.719 go on a flight and follow because she's like all 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.520 the instructions that you need to do that, like the 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:32.079 the the action of going to the airport, going through 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:37.880 airport security, booking a flight, doing all that shit. It's 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:39.880 kind of a like she can you do all of 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:43.640 that without some without needing help from somebody who says, hey, 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:49.160 why are you going to uh Taiwan? And when she 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:53.319 says Johnny jet that like can she even get that far? 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:56.280 God, I don't know. 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:03.520 I don't know. But just like the fact that, I mean, 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.120 what do you even do with like a ninety two 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:11.160 year old? That's another thing I was thinking about. I'm 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:16.000 sure that there's a market for weird shit, buth And 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:18.600 like the thing is is like the two kids, Like 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:23.520 from what I've gathered, supposedly just kind of like we're 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:26.720 around and then we're less around, and then we'ren't around 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:31.600 at all. So even if they were like give us 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:34.160 one hundred grand or your mom gets it, they might 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:38.880 be like kids, Grandma's not showing up a Thanksgiving. 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:42.720 Yeah. Yeah, this was just like. 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:46.040 The most like that thing, And I can't stop thinking 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:47.080 about it. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:51.719 So you told the higher up. The reception is told 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:57.240 a bunch of people, and nobody said. 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:57.920 It was like it was. It was received in like 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:02.000 more of like a kind of like a silly funny 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:03.280 like did you hear about this? 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:07.720 The problem is that it is the problem is that 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:11.239 it is like pretty funny. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:12.599 It is kind of hysterical. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:17.440 It's pretty funny. But I'm I'm comforted by the idea 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.559 that I don't I don't think she this woman can 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:23.120 get into an airplane by herself. I don't think she 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:24.920 can do all those things that you need to do 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.960 to be able to get into an airplane that's especially 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:29.720 like an airplane that like somebody. 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:32.080 Else is because then they. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.440 Have to like get like if if she's getting flown out, 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:38.559 then she has to like get find a way to 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:42.040 sign into a thing to get money from somebody and 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.760 then book a whatever. It's just too much stuff for 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.040 a then need two year old woman with dementia to 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:51.240 figure out without somebody stepping in. 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.400 God, I don't know. I mean, if they're driving to 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:58.079 her house, can it just end right? 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:02.280 There was their plan. It was their plan for her 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.560 to drive, for somebody to drive to her house. 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:08.000 I can't. I cannot say like I saw like anything, 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:09.160 but I did see it. 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:12.920 Like do you do you think about calling the police? 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:15.040 Oh God, or like. 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.040 Like a human trafficking line or something like that. 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:23.040 Jesus Christ, I mean, did. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:28.800 You say about any other like Johnny Depp? Guys, Johnny Depp? 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:34.160 Yeah, I mean, it's just like such a it's such 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:38.680 a name. It's like, I don't think that there's gonna 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:40.520 be like a repeat Johnny Steeler. 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:44.880 I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I don't, I'm gonna do this. 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:48.840 Let's open the We're gonna open the chat for questions. Okay, 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:51.280 I'm I'm I'm as out of loss about this as 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:51.600 you are. 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.720 But then that's the thing, right, Like I guess it 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:59.560 kind of supersedes. But then it's like also her personal trust, 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:01.040 like one of the first thing she said to me, 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.480 was like, now you can't. Now, you can't tell anybody 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.920 about this, and so like I thought about it for 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:08.440 like four minutes, and I was like, Nah, this is 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:09.640 fucked up. I gotta tell. 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:12.280 Someone, all right, I gotta say this. There's a there's 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:17.320 a user in the chat. Yeah, and their username is 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:22.160 creepy underscore guy And he said, is she hot? And 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:25.640 you don't have to answer that? Oh okay. Multiple people 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:28.160 are saying that, but that we don't we don't need that, 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:30.960 all right. A lot of people are saying this, a 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.360 lot of okay, a lot of people are saying this, 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.640 and this is, and this is, and this is and 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:37.080 by the way, by the way, I agree with this. 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:38.320 I agree with what a lot of people are saying 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:38.720 in the chat. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.840 She looked like the old Rose from the Titanic. 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:42.560 What's the old Rose? 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:49.560 Like the older version of Rose? Okay, she looked like 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.160 the old old version of Rose. 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.120 People are saying that it's a money scam. There's no 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:57.360 human in physical danger. You asked what would they want 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:59.560 with a ninety two year old woman, and the answer 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:06.400 is most likely money, which, don't get me wrong, sucks. 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:08.560 But I don't think she's gonna I don't think. I 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:10.080 don't think she's gonna get on a plane. She'll make 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.040 it her bank account wiped. But I mean, what does 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.960 she need money for? She's ninety two years old. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:23.120 God damn, I think I'll feel a lot better. 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:27.000 Wait, oh wait, wait back again. I have an idea. 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:28.560 Tell me. 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:34.520 You've some you go comb through. You're gonna have to 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:36.000 break a few rules for this. Here's what you do. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:43.280 You comb through the records of the hospital. No, you 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:48.160 comb through the records of the fitness place. You find 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:53.160 her phone number, You text her, and you say, what's 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:54.520 her name? What's her name? 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:55.160 Rose? 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:59.680 You say, Hey, Rose, I know you don't recognize this number, 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:08.760 but this is Amber heard. Whatever you do, under no circumstances, 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:13.400 should you get on a plane to visit my ex 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:17.720 husband Johnny Depp? And that'll convince her. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.600 Okay, that does break a funerals. 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:23.560 That's what you gotta do. 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:27.760 I love you. 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:30.560 I love you too. Man. Is there anything else you 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:31.960 want to say to the people of the computer before 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:32.159 we go? 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:34.720 Yes, you all scare me. 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:36.640 Have a good night? 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:37.840 Is better? 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:38.160 Brother? 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:40.720 How all? 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:42.000 From Artemis? 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:43.439 Hello? 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:46.720 Am I actually on air? 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:48.800 Yeah? Who is this? 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:49.840 This is Artemis? 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.000 Artemis. How old are you, Artemis? 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:54.639 I'm twenty four. 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:56.200 I can't believe that was the story. 0:17:57.000 --> 0:18:00.440 How's life, Artemis? 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:06.200 Life has been not too bad. I can't complain too much. 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.520 That's not true. Complain give me something everyone. Everyone who 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:13.680 says that is lying. There's always something to complain about. 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:18.240 That's my motto in life. I'm very unhappy. Give me something, 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:19.720 give me something to complain about. 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:23.960 I can complain about my ex boyfriend like people. 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.359 Okay, actually, you know what. I wanted to ask you 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:28.919 this before we do any of that, because I was 0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:33.119 mainly just trying to be funny. Is there anything in 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:36.439 particular you wanted to call in to talk about? 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:40.080 Uh? Kind of the situation I'm in right now with him? 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:43.719 I just needed Okay, all right, the ex boyfriend is 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:46.920 the Okay, all right, what's up? 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:51.120 To give you some background? We met in our twenties 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:52.600 because we worked. 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:52.960 The same job. 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.800 And after it's say about a few months, we started 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:05.080 talking and then we started dating. Okay, so fast forward 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:09.960 about six months, two years, we move in together. 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:12.400 Things are going great, things are. 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:16.639 Going nice, and then he happens to go through my 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:23.480 phone and see these old text messages that we're saying, like, 0:19:24.080 --> 0:19:27.520 because I was having second thoughts about being with him 0:19:27.560 --> 0:19:29.840 for a second, but I talked it out and I 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:31.399 told my friend. I was like, you know what I'm 0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:34.280 going to say. But for some reason this really made 0:19:34.359 --> 0:19:35.200 him mad. 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:37.159 All right? 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:39.320 So these were old texts that he found between you 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:41.359 and your friend where you were talking about how you 0:19:41.400 --> 0:19:46.520 weren't sure if you wanted to continue being with him. Yes, okay? 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.080 And why was he looking through your phone? 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:51.360 I have no idea. I didn't know he was doing 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.800 it because I was driving, so I wasn't really looking 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:54.480 at him. 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:59.080 All right, MM, was there anything in that? I mean, 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:02.000 first of all, I don't he should. I don't think 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:06.360 he should have been looking through your phone. I don't 0:20:06.359 --> 0:20:08.280 know how you feel about that or if that upset 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:08.800 you at all. 0:20:10.600 --> 0:20:13.919 It did, because I mean, I don't have anything to 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:16.800 hide the war. Are you like going through my individual 0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:18.720 messages looking for things? 0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:19.240 Yeah? 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:21.480 I don't think I think that's the I don't. 0:20:21.880 --> 0:20:22.240 I don't. 0:20:22.480 --> 0:20:27.639 I don't think that's very good. But was there I mean, 0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:30.000 I guess aside from that, was there anything in particular, 0:20:30.160 --> 0:20:33.119 that any quotes in particular that that he saw that 0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:36.560 he was upset? By. 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:41.800 Honestly, all I really said was I kind of want to. 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:45.800 Or I asked should I break up with. 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:49.560 Him to pursue something with someone else? 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:51.320 And they were like, do you really like him? 0:20:51.640 --> 0:20:53.359 And I was like, yes, I do like him a lot. 0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:57.600 And so they said, well, don't ruin it, just stay 0:20:57.640 --> 0:21:02.000 with him, and I was like, okay, so I don't. 0:21:01.800 --> 0:21:05.440 Do okay, but this is your ex boyfriend. So how 0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:06.480 recently did this happen? 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:10.840 That was when we were first together? 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:12.560 All right? 0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:14.480 So you guys, this has been all on and off, 0:21:14.800 --> 0:21:16.200 on and off situation going on? 0:21:16.680 --> 0:21:17.080 All right? 0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:21.360 And when how recently has how? For how long has 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:23.040 this recent off been off? 0:21:26.440 --> 0:21:29.920 The West broke up for the final time, like in 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:30.320 a ma. 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:34.840 Al right, it's been a while. It's been like three months? 0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:37.440 Yeah, I know. 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:39.640 Why are you guys? Are you guys in contact at all? 0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:42.479 No? 0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:46.080 See, I have talked to him since May yea, all right, 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:49.160 So what's the what are the contemplations in your head? 0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:50.800 Is it like I'm debating if I'm going to talk 0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:58.840 textas person? I'm what what what specifically in this is 0:21:59.040 --> 0:22:01.280 giving you problems? Is it the moving on? Is it 0:22:01.320 --> 0:22:02.480 the should I move on? 0:22:04.920 --> 0:22:09.600 It's more like I I have moved on. I have 0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:14.600 no feelings for him. Okay, but we are going to 0:22:14.640 --> 0:22:18.400 be attached to each other for at least eighteen years? 0:22:21.560 --> 0:22:22.640 Oh man? 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:26.439 Yeah? 0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:29.280 Is have have the eighteen years begun? 0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:32.600 They begin in December? 0:22:33.840 --> 0:22:34.600 Oh man? 0:22:36.280 --> 0:22:37.880 Yeah, that's the bad part. 0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:47.040 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. All right. Well was 0:22:47.080 --> 0:22:47.840 it an accident? 0:22:51.119 --> 0:22:55.920 It was not PLM, but it was not. 0:22:58.680 --> 0:23:01.760 What's the word unexpected? 0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:06.560 Does that mean we were having a bunch of raw 0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:08.960 sex and we're like fuck it. If anything happens, it happens. 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:09.800 And then it happened. 0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:11.600 Yeah? 0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:19.240 Okay, all right? And how long? How December? So you've 0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:20.520 been pregnant for how long? 0:23:22.320 --> 0:23:24.760 I will actually be six months on Wednesday? 0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:31.119 Wow? Okay? And like, look, by the way, you can 0:23:31.160 --> 0:23:32.560 talk to me about as much or as little of 0:23:32.640 --> 0:23:36.679 this as you want to. But at the beginning of this, 0:23:36.840 --> 0:23:39.520 where you were you like off the bat, like I'm 0:23:39.520 --> 0:23:41.960 gonna I'm gonna go through with this. I'm gonna keep. 0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:47.920 It, yeah, because I've always thought that, I'm like, if 0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:50.200 I do ever end up with a kid, I'm gonna 0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:53.160 keep it because the thought of giving it away would 0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:53.760 break my heart. 0:23:54.680 --> 0:23:58.840 Yeah, and uh, what about him? What's the conversation with him? 0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:00.439 Look like, is he want to be in in the 0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:02.399 life of the of the kid or is he is 0:24:02.440 --> 0:24:03.920 he what's his deal? 0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:07.000 His deal is that he hates me apparently on the 0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:12.280 devil and you know, we just don't talk. He told 0:24:12.320 --> 0:24:14.560 me not to talk to him, so I was like, Okay, 0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.040 don't hear people. Don't hear a word? 0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:19.720 Brothers Okay, So he doesn't want to be in the 0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:20.600 kid's life at all. 0:24:23.000 --> 0:24:27.119 He has actually threatened for full custody because I'm quote 0:24:27.200 --> 0:24:29.119 unquote mentally insane. 0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:34.199 So he has threatened you for full custody. Has he 0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.679 like reached out to you via a lawyer in the 0:24:36.720 --> 0:24:42.960 past three months? No, Okay, do you predict that he will? 0:24:43.080 --> 0:24:47.560 Has he had has he shown any interest of like, like, 0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:51.880 is he gonna pop up in December and just be like, hey, 0:24:51.880 --> 0:24:55.840 what's up? Like, what's what's his what's his deal? 0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:00.639 Thankfully he lives two states away, so. 0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:03.320 Very unlikely. 0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:13.120 Mm hm. Has he like and he hasn't reached out 0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:16.119 to you at all to be like, hey, here's the 0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:18.760 what's the plan with the baby? Like or showing any 0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:21.600 sign that he's gonna do anything to try to be 0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:24.200 in the in the in the life of the baby. 0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:31.520 No, because myself and others that talk to have all 0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:34.800 said that if he does try to go for custody, 0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:39.400 it will be just to make me upset, because outside 0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:40.840 of that, I don't see why. 0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:45.320 Yeah mmmm mmmm well look, I don't know how any 0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:50.080 of that ship works. I'm not a lawyer. But all right, 0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:53.200 so I mean, look, aside from your relationship with him, 0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:56.040 how are you feeling about having this kid? Do you feel? 0:25:56.640 --> 0:25:59.040 Are you excited about it? Are you are you scared 0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:01.320 about it? What's what's your feeling about that? 0:26:03.000 --> 0:26:07.480 Definitely nervous sighted I've always wanted to be a mom. 0:26:07.520 --> 0:26:10.359 I have no dream job, but I like raising a 0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:13.639 tiny person to see what kind of person they've become. 0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:16.920 You've always wanted You've always wanted to be a mom, 0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.639 So this has been a thing you've you've wanted for 0:26:19.680 --> 0:26:20.000 a bit. 0:26:22.040 --> 0:26:24.399 Yeah, but with him specifically. 0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:27.119 No, But it's happened, all right, So I guess that 0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:29.399 explains the whole Like we're going to do it, rob 0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:31.520 and whatever happens happens, because you were like, all right, 0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:37.000 if it happens, it would be something I wanted anyway, Well, 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:37.400 it was. 0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:44.399 That and before like all that happened, we hadn't talked 0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:47.199 for a while, and then he randomly started talking to 0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:49.640 me again and he was like, yo, you know, come 0:26:49.680 --> 0:26:51.880 move down here, come be here with me. I can 0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:52.600 take care of you. 0:26:53.160 --> 0:26:55.760 La la la la la. So I believed him. 0:26:55.920 --> 0:27:00.159 He's like, I've changed, I've turned a new belief. So 0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:02.359 I thought, you know, want not give him a you know, 0:27:03.240 --> 0:27:05.399 and that leak was still the same at the end 0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:05.760 of the day. 0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:13.760 Well, oh man, so I said, you're gonna have a kid. 0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:18.639 Mm hmm. It's very eye opening. 0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:22.480 That's cool. That's good that you that's good that you 0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:28.560 wanted it, you know, because I mean it sounds like 0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:30.840 it's not. It didn't just spring up on you like, oh, 0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:32.880 I'm trying this kid. This kid is going to ruin 0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:36.800 my I'm trying to become a social media influencer doing 0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:41.200 uh uh Roy Rogers muck bangs, and here's this child 0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:44.719 coming along to ruin my subscriber growth. This is what 0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:45.639 you wanted to do. 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:49.280 Yes, this is what I wanted. 0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.240 I mean, I stay together, by the way, I just 0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.359 want someone. I want just this is side note. If 0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:57.800 anyone does want to do the Roy Rogers muck Bank channel. 0:27:57.840 --> 0:27:59.560 You can do that idea. I'm not going to do it. 0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:02.080 That's a a you open source idea for anyone listening 0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:10.159 to this to take and roll with. All Right, So 0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:16.480 are you are you? You don't? You seem prepared. You 0:28:16.520 --> 0:28:20.960 seem prepared. I'm not worried about you. You seem you 0:28:21.000 --> 0:28:21.680 seem prepared. 0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:26.720 Yeah, I've kind of thought this through for a long time. 0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:33.679 Okay, so it's just the I get all right, so 0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:36.919 in this whole situation, in this whole situation, tell me, 0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:39.640 because there's a lot of moving parts, and you see 0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:43.280 and look in the moving parts that I would if 0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:45.960 I was in your situation be the most worried about. 0:28:46.120 --> 0:28:50.720 You seem pretty levelheaded and calm and and maybe the 0:28:50.760 --> 0:28:54.400 answer to this question is is nothing, but like what 0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:57.960 parts of the situation of the situation are bothering you? 0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:06.720 Not knowing if he will actually try for custody or. 0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:08.280 Not, and just. 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:11.520 The way things ended in general. 0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:21.040 Okay, Well, do you have a job, yes, Okay, what 0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:21.320 do you do? 0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.360 I'm aista cool? 0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:29.280 Okay. I was gonna say, you should talk to a 0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:33.280 lawyer about this. You should talk you should you should 0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:36.840 talk to a lawyer. They're they're gonna be the ones that, 0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:39.560 uh have you thought? Have you done anything like that? 0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:40.800 If you have, you googled it? 0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:44.600 Yeah, googled it. 0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:50.160 Okay, what did Google say? I'm the worst advice gecko 0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:52.360 in the world telling people to google stuff. 0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:59.480 I actually went to Reddit and someone read it told 0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.920 me I need to look at my state laws. So 0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:05.760 I did, and it says, because we are unwed, I 0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:07.920 have full custody and a. 0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:10.840 Few of his suggestions. 0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:16.280 To do so that way, he has to go through 0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:20.080 some steps in order to actually try to fight for 0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:20.800 said custody. 0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.920 What can I see you? What state? You're in? 0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:25.480 Indiana? 0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:30.440 Indiana? All right, So in Indiana, if you're not married, Uh, 0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:36.640 you you just have full custody of a kid. Yes, man, 0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:40.240 all right, that's pretty cool. I mean, I don't know, dude, 0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:42.320 if I were like, I don't know how the law works, 0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:45.080 but if I were a judge and it was like 0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:48.040 and it was like, you hung, you were chilling with 0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:52.200 this guy this baby for nine months and he didn't 0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:56.800 make any anything of any stuff, any any anything of 0:30:56.840 --> 0:31:00.000 any and you're just chilling with the baby. And then 0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:03.520 when the baby pops out, how's he gonna just. 0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:12.480 Show up, you know, yeah, because I'm not going out 0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:15.720 of my way to contact him because, like I said, 0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:18.560 he told me to stop talking to him, So I 0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:21.920 don't know what he wants me to do when the 0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:29.320 kid is born, Like it's at that point it's somewhat 0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:33.520 my responsibility to alert him that the baby is born, 0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:35.400 tell me not to talk to you. 0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:40.360 I don't know, man, I mean, he knows, he knows 0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:45.160 your he he knows you're pregnant. Mm hmm, I mean 0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:49.840 if he, dude, I don't know, I don't. I mean, 0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.000 you obviously you're obligated to tell him that you're pregnant, 0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:56.800 but like sending him a reminder email when the baby 0:31:56.880 --> 0:32:02.120 is born, it's like he fucking knows, you know. I 0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:02.360 don't know. 0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:06.720 If my first few appointments. 0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:10.320 Yeah yeah, yeah, dude, you gotta talk to a lawyer 0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:14.920 about this. But I don't know if the if all right, 0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:17.040 I'm not even I'm not even joking. I think if 0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:21.560 Reddit says you're good, like I wouldn't take that as 0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:24.480 gospel that you're good, but you're that means you're you're 0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:27.280 that means you're like probably good. 0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:36.320 Yeah, I mean I'm really hoping so like, I'm gonna 0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.440 definitely if I need a lawyer if he decides to 0:32:39.480 --> 0:32:42.840 try anything, which I really don't think he will, but 0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:44.320 there's always an off chance he might. 0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:47.400 He's not a therapy Pico fan, is he? 0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:53.560 Uh No? I that all right? 0:32:53.560 --> 0:32:56.400 Cool because that it'll be a it's been an interesting 0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:58.680 podcast for somebody to find out they have a son. 0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:06.320 Yeah, I don't know what the baby will be at. 0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:10.320 What does that mean? You don't know what the baby 0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:10.720 will be? 0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:18.000 Yeah, I'm trying to keep a surprise for myself and 0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:20.040 wait till like we have a little baby party. 0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:23.720 Oh Like, if it's a boy or a girl? Mm hmm, 0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:27.600 that's cool. Do you have a do which one? Do 0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:28.239 you hope it is? 0:33:31.840 --> 0:33:37.120 I'm hoping for my own sanity a girl because I 0:33:37.240 --> 0:33:41.120 just would know how to raise her better than a boy, 0:33:41.200 --> 0:33:43.640 because I don't know when they get to a certain point, 0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:50.360 how to like guide him through life with his man troubles. 0:33:51.800 --> 0:34:02.520 Yeah, yeah, life to ask but mm hm, that's so 0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:10.080 that's my only advice to you. Well, yeah, I don't 0:34:10.120 --> 0:34:12.160 think my mom ever walked in on me jerking off. 0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:18.200 Actually she might have once, but it was I was 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:20.239 like I was I was just kind of I had 0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:22.120 already like kind of ended and I was just kind 0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:25.520 of sitting there, so it wasn't as bad. It's like 0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:30.480 if it had happened while I was doing it. So 0:34:31.600 --> 0:34:35.680 I and I say that story to say that boy 0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:37.600 or girl, you'll be fine. You seem like you have 0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:44.640 a level head, you seem like a smart person. I'm glad. 0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:48.120 I'm glad that you're fulfilling a dream of yours. And 0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:49.799 you know, also sounds like you got you got good 0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:56.839 family around you too, So I think you'll be good. 0:34:57.480 --> 0:34:58.799 Do you think you'll be good? 0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:02.319 I think so. Yeah. 0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:05.680 I feel like I'm like mentally and emotionally prepared for this. 0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:11.200 That is more than most folks could say. I hope 0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:18.640 you understand that what is your what is your name again? 0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:21.160 Artemis? 0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:26.200 Artemis Artemiss? Is there any is there? Well? I guess 0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:31.319 is there anything else I can I can do for you? 0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:34.880 Or that you wanted to say or talk about or 0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:37.200 anything or anything at all before we go? 0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:48.000 I guess I could say that if someone promises you. 0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:52.120 That they will take care of you and love you. 0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:56.000 And do all sorts of things for you, make sure 0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:57.400 their actions back it up. 0:35:58.080 --> 0:35:59.520 I know people hear us all the time. 0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:01.800 Actions speak louder than words. 0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:05.279 That's extremely true. And don't trust. 0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:08.120 People that use therapy words out a context or wrongly. 0:36:08.160 --> 0:36:15.799 I mean, Artemis, good luck to you and have a 0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:16.279 the rest of the. 0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:19.960 Night you too, well, thank you. 0:36:25.760 --> 0:36:28.720 That's what I love about Amazon Prime. They promised today shipping, 0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:32.120 they deliver it. They didn't even pay me to say that. 0:36:33.520 --> 0:36:39.279 That's just what I thought about from that context. Paul 0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:47.960 from Hello, Hi, Hi, what's your name? Eclipse? What's up? 0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:48.920 How's it going? 0:36:50.840 --> 0:36:51.040 Yeah? 0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:53.240 It is wow? 0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:55.240 Oh my god, Oh my god. I had a feelure 0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:58.319 again in I'm like cleaning a house right now, and 0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:00.600 I don't know if I should fee the phone, but 0:37:00.600 --> 0:37:02.279 but I got you on my shoulder, so I think 0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:02.919 it should be good. 0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:06.080 Or is your cleaning a house like for somebody else? 0:37:07.360 --> 0:37:09.359 Yes, but they're not home right now. 0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:12.719 Okay, what is that your Is that your job? 0:37:14.520 --> 0:37:17.799 It's like a little side husholes thing try to make 0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:20.200 more money because I don't like working a real job. 0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:23.520 So like I spend a lot of energy trying not 0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:26.200 to work a real job by working doing lots of 0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:27.239 random things. 0:37:28.600 --> 0:37:30.719 I like that. I like that approach a lot. That's 0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:34.160 that's uh, that's a good approach, right, because you don't 0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:38.120 want to have to get like a nine to five, Like, uh, 0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.200 you know, you're committed for the rest of your life 0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:43.279 to this amount of hours being in this place at 0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:47.879 this what you're you know, taking taking gigs, that's all. 0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:50.919 That's I like that way of the way of doing things. 0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:52.160 Yeah. 0:37:52.160 --> 0:37:54.239 I actually just got a real job that only worked 0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:55.960 out like two days a week. It's the first time 0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:58.440 in my life. I'm like twenty six. I finally got 0:37:58.480 --> 0:37:59.280 a job at a cafe. 0:38:00.400 --> 0:38:00.720 Cool. 0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:01.400 Cool? 0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:06.080 What uh? What? What? What kinds of odd jobs do 0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:09.920 you do? Just like cleaning and do your uber drive 0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:10.759 or anything like that. 0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:16.759 I yeah, cleaning, I do some like random art commissioned stuff. Okay, 0:38:16.800 --> 0:38:20.399 I am the person who gave you the like being 0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.320 John Alkovic kick picture. 0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:27.120 Oh I know exactly who you are. 0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:30.960 Yeah from Vancouver. 0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:33.520 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:34.560 That was an amazing show. 0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:37.520 Everyone go to Aisle show if thanks man. 0:38:38.080 --> 0:38:40.080 That was that was one of my favorite. That was 0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:43.320 one of my favorite ones. Man, Vancouver. That was cool. 0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.120 I felt like that was one of those where I 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:47.160 got off the stage I was like, oh that actually 0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:53.919 that that went pretty well. That was fun. Hell yeah, Well, 0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:57.720 uh dude, is there anything in particular that you wanted 0:38:57.760 --> 0:38:59.520 to talk about? It's okay if not, we can keep 0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.400 we can talking about how Vancouver show topics. 0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:07.400 Yeah, the Vancouver Vancouver show. 0:39:11.000 --> 0:39:14.359 What yeah, give it. You can whatever whatever you want. Man. 0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:16.879 So I don't know. 0:39:17.040 --> 0:39:19.640 I think I'm just confused in life in general, Like 0:39:19.680 --> 0:39:22.160 a lot of people are that call into the show. 0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:27.280 So she was like, like, for with you, for example, 0:39:27.320 --> 0:39:29.720 like you just choose something and then all of a sudden, 0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:31.719 the ball can get rolling, and then you're like, in 0:39:31.800 --> 0:39:34.840 it's super deep because I'm like afraid to fully commit 0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:36.799 to something you don't know where it's going to go. 0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:39.680 Well are you if you are you talking about with me, 0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:42.319 Like I chose this gecko thing and now it's it's 0:39:42.360 --> 0:39:43.280 the ball is rolling. 0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:48.279 Yeah, Like you're just doing random stuff on Reddit and 0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:49.960 then I just like took off and now this is 0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:53.120 like your thing and everyone's like, don't ever stop while. 0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:59.560 Well, so, well, you know, this is actually is interesting 0:39:59.560 --> 0:40:01.239 that you bring this up because I've been thinking about 0:40:01.239 --> 0:40:04.919 this a lot. Is I didn't really chew. I didn't 0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.200 really there was no thing in my mind of like 0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:11.120 I'm going to become therapy Gecko and I'm going to 0:40:11.200 --> 0:40:13.440 dedicate my life to it. It wasn't like that at I was, 0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:18.600 like you said, trying different things, and then this started working. 0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:24.160 The reason I do this right now is because not 0:40:24.160 --> 0:40:29.280 the reason I just I like that. Okay. So the 0:40:29.360 --> 0:40:33.240 first like video I posted of this like instantly got 0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:39.040 like two million views, and I think the first the 0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:41.000 one of the first live streams ever did this went 0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.279 to the front page of Reddit. And if that, if 0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:47.280 it didn't, if something didn't happen immediately, that made me go, oh, okay, 0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:50.200 this isn't the most stupid idea in the world. I 0:40:50.200 --> 0:40:52.120 wouldn't have done it. I don't think therapy Gecko was 0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:54.560 one of those ideas I would have tried. I would 0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:58.040 have just gone at for years and been like, one 0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:01.000 day it's gonna catch on, you know. I would have 0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:04.680 done I would have done I'm I like doing stuff. 0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:10.160 I like tinkering around and and trying to do different things. 0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:14.160 Uh so I would have done something. But it wasn't 0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:15.839 like a choice kind of like what you're I mean, 0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:18.560 kind of what we're talking about. Yeah, it's just doing meantapising. 0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:22.760 And now the gecko has become an umbrella upon which 0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:26.440 I can now fuck around and do different different things. 0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:29.440 It's just I'm I do them as a gecko now. 0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:36.360 So what are you trying to? What are you afraid 0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:37.080 of choosing? 0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:42.160 Well? 0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:46.640 I guess gosh, I don't know. It just seems like 0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:48.759 people get sucked into doing jobs. So I love doing 0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:54.960 these littler things so they have no responsibilities attached or timelines. 0:41:57.239 --> 0:41:59.080 What would you do? What would you do? I mean, 0:41:59.080 --> 0:42:03.560 you're an artist. You gave me that that cool John 0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:07.319 Malkovich gecko piece? Or do you do you? Is that 0:42:07.400 --> 0:42:09.479 something you want to do as a career of some kind? 0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:13.680 What's funny was doing? I don't know if you have 0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:17.120 done any like music or art stuff before. As soon 0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:19.440 as you start to put too much importance on it, 0:42:20.000 --> 0:42:23.279 it kind of sucks the fun out of it. So 0:42:23.320 --> 0:42:25.480 I've been trying to figure out, like if I just 0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:29.879 need to figure out like exactly will be super fun 0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:32.920 for me for art, or if there's like a really 0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:36.960 important purpose attached to it, because then that'll maybe give 0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:37.359 me some. 0:42:37.280 --> 0:42:37.839 Sort of drive. 0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:40.560 I have very little drive to work or do stuff 0:42:40.680 --> 0:42:41.040 at all. 0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:47.719 Yeah, I feel that I feel that, well, you work 0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:54.479 just enough that you can, like not you how how 0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:56.520 how much time does it take for you to like 0:42:57.080 --> 0:42:58.640 pay rent and eat food? 0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:00.839 Not too much. 0:43:00.880 --> 0:43:03.440 I'm pretty lucky. I'm in like a really janky, weird 0:43:03.719 --> 0:43:08.239 house where everything is broken, but it's really cool. 0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:11.120 Okay, I like them, but I like that idea. I 0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:13.879 like that idea. I like the idea of getting your 0:43:13.960 --> 0:43:17.439 expenses to however little they can be without. 0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:19.520 You know, yeah, it's great. 0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:23.080 Yeah, and then just working like a little bit of 0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:25.960 like some random job like cleaning someone's house or doing 0:43:25.960 --> 0:43:28.640 boob or something like that, just to like cover all 0:43:28.640 --> 0:43:30.600 that stuff. And then you have just like and now 0:43:30.640 --> 0:43:32.040 you just have a bunch of free time. 0:43:33.560 --> 0:43:33.960 M hmm. 0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:35.160 It's great. 0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:37.080 It's a great which is amazing. I feel like I 0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:38.480 have a lot of freedom. 0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:39.600 That's fantastic. 0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:41.200 I have a lot of time, But I also don't 0:43:41.239 --> 0:43:42.920 have a lot of money, so I also don't have 0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:44.640 a lot of Freedom's so weird, paired. 0:43:44.440 --> 0:43:48.799 Off, M Okay, what do you want to do? Well, 0:43:48.880 --> 0:43:50.080 let's get into that. What do you want to do 0:43:50.360 --> 0:43:52.879 with your freedom that you cannot afford to do. 0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:54.919 Well? 0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.600 Travel for one. Okay, So I do really appreciate the 0:43:58.640 --> 0:44:01.359 place that I'm at like Fritish Columbia is so big 0:44:01.440 --> 0:44:03.800 that can spend a lot of time traveling. 0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:06.680 And what's your what's your dream destination if you could 0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:08.359 go anywhere in the world, where would you go? 0:44:09.520 --> 0:44:11.719 I don't know nothing. Maybe first time I want to 0:44:11.760 --> 0:44:15.360 go to Cuba. 0:44:14.920 --> 0:44:20.239 Southeast Asia, Southeast Southeast Asia, all right, I mean how 0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:21.880 much does it cut? How much is how much is 0:44:21.880 --> 0:44:24.360 a flight from Vancouver to Thailand? 0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.960 I truly have like around zero dollars all the time. 0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:29.880 But it's it's like it's weird. It's like a weird massickest, 0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:34.200 Like I like, it's like kind of fun trying to 0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:38.680 navigate life, like having very little money. 0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:44.120 Right, No, I understand, Like, like I really want a poutine, 0:44:44.120 --> 0:44:45.440 but I couldn't afford poutine. 0:44:46.520 --> 0:44:49.600 So I went to the community fridge when there happened 0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:52.759 to be a half open bag of frozen fries and 0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:57.000 the Boston Bravy and am W and I put some 0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:58.360 of my own cheese on there, and I made my 0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:01.719 own poutine. I felt just like so really good about that. 0:45:03.480 --> 0:45:05.840 You should you should because and the reason you should 0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:08.720 feel good about it is because you're you don't need, 0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:14.879 like you know, there's there's guys out there who have 0:45:14.960 --> 0:45:18.360 like a million, they have like two whatever, ten million dollars. 0:45:19.239 --> 0:45:24.799 If they had zero dollars, they'd be fucked. But there's 0:45:24.960 --> 0:45:29.720 nothing really you can't get like so fucked that you 0:45:29.800 --> 0:45:33.600 can't figure something out. You know, there's like a truck. 0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:39.239 There's a strong sense of like independence in there to 0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:39.880 be proud of. 0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:41.640 Is that? 0:45:41.840 --> 0:45:44.279 Is that what you feel like a sense of independence? 0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:49.160 Yeah, there's also like I know that like if I 0:45:49.200 --> 0:45:51.040 had like a hundred times more money, then I'm not 0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:53.239 going to be a hundred times happier. It could be 0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:58.959 a very little incentive to try to gain more by working. Yeah, yeah, 0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:01.040 spending your days doing stuff you don't like doing. 0:46:02.080 --> 0:46:04.439 Well, I mean, dude, ship if you can get over 0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:07.719 to Thailands, I don't know how long you're planning to 0:46:07.719 --> 0:46:11.759 stay there for, but uh, there's a there's I've I've 0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:13.600 talked about this all on here a lot, and I 0:46:13.640 --> 0:46:15.400 think about it just in my personal life. Like you 0:46:15.440 --> 0:46:20.560 can just find some remote gig or find some like 0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:23.800 work away gig in Thailand, and then you got to 0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:25.600 find a way to you know, save up the flight 0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:28.960 to get there, which will probably cost you know whatever, 0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:29.799 seven hundred dollars. 0:46:29.800 --> 0:46:31.719 It's a lot more doable, and I think I just 0:46:31.760 --> 0:46:32.759 got to get up with the hunts of. 0:46:34.719 --> 0:46:36.960 Well that's the that's the thing is is have you 0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:39.239 have you like priced it out at all? 0:46:40.960 --> 0:46:41.000 No? 0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:45.200 I really I really like, like I've been really enjoying 0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:48.680 just establishing myself in Vancouver also like just you know, 0:46:48.719 --> 0:46:51.880 getting friends and like you to be a part of 0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:53.600 communities and stuff. 0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:56.880 Cool. Good. 0:46:57.040 --> 0:46:58.600 So at the same time, it's like I don't want 0:46:58.600 --> 0:47:00.640 to leave yet, but it's definitely in like I have 0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:02.000 it in the back of my mind. It's like something 0:47:02.000 --> 0:47:02.560 I gotta do. 0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:07.520 Well, what else? What else is bothering you? 0:47:09.480 --> 0:47:17.400 H Oh, I don't know what is bothering me? I 0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:20.480 guess I just am continually bothered by like not being 0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:21.879 in the present moment all the time. 0:47:24.360 --> 0:47:26.799 You sound pretty in the present moment. You were you 0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:30.760 were talking about how you wanna you wanna establish yourself 0:47:30.760 --> 0:47:33.879 with Vancouver and you're going to things and hanging out 0:47:33.920 --> 0:47:36.400 with people and you're enjoying that. That sounds pretty present. 0:47:37.520 --> 0:47:39.600 I'm on like the path of it. But you know how, 0:47:39.600 --> 0:47:41.799 there's like a feeling of like just being kind of 0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:45.000 unsettled because you're like thinking about the future of past 0:47:45.080 --> 0:47:48.480 too much when like I don't know, like even just 0:47:48.480 --> 0:47:50.719 like right now, there's like beautiful views right now, and 0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:53.160 I'm trying to be grateful just to be able to 0:47:53.200 --> 0:47:57.520 see out this window. Yeah that I'm cleaning, it'd be great. 0:47:58.960 --> 0:47:59.440 Yeah. 0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:02.440 Yeah, but yeah, all the time, I got stuck into 0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:04.760 worrying about stuff, and I guess. 0:48:04.680 --> 0:48:05.360 That bothers me. 0:48:08.000 --> 0:48:09.880 Dude, I met this guy I was there was a 0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:15.600 dude who was like, Oh, there's a guy who I 0:48:15.680 --> 0:48:18.480 work at the air at the counter at the airport, 0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:20.600 and I was checking my bag in with him, and 0:48:20.640 --> 0:48:22.719 I was like, how are you doing? And he looked 0:48:22.719 --> 0:48:24.560 at me, and it was like seven o'clock in the morning, 0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:29.680 Like this guy woke up at four am. And he 0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:32.920 looked at me and very genuinely said, I'm doing fantastic. 0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:35.640 How are you doing? And I was like, do you actually? 0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.160 And just in a way where I was like, oh, 0:48:37.160 --> 0:48:38.920 this guy, this is not like a customer service and 0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:41.600 this guy, I could just feel that he meant it 0:48:41.719 --> 0:48:43.520 when he said it, and so I asked her. I 0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:45.160 was like, do you really do you really mean that? 0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:47.479 You look like you mean that, and we he didn't flinch. 0:48:47.520 --> 0:48:49.840 He was like, yes, absolutely, there's something to be grateful 0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:52.239 for every day. I'm just grateful to be here. And 0:48:52.320 --> 0:48:55.880 I was like, damn, this guy, this guy, and this 0:48:55.960 --> 0:48:58.600 guy is and this guy is like in this guy 0:48:58.600 --> 0:49:01.919 woke up at four o'clock in the morning to go 0:49:02.280 --> 0:49:08.279 get screamed at by hundreds of people every day at 0:49:08.480 --> 0:49:14.000 the airport and he's he's doing great, you know. And 0:49:14.040 --> 0:49:16.280 I was like, fuck, man, this this guy is something. 0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:20.239 What this guy's got something? What is it? What is 0:49:20.320 --> 0:49:23.120 you know? How do I access that? Some people I 0:49:23.160 --> 0:49:26.120 think are born with more of that than others. You know. 0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:29.360 No, I've been working on it pretty hard, like throughout 0:49:29.440 --> 0:49:32.319 the pandemic. I started listening to during like the very 0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:37.879 beginning back in that living with my parents, and yeah, 0:49:38.000 --> 0:49:39.160 just like the main thing I was working on, I 0:49:39.200 --> 0:49:41.760 was just trying to be happy or at least contend 0:49:41.840 --> 0:49:45.040 or whatever, like not fiending so much. 0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:47.400 Things. 0:49:48.000 --> 0:49:52.520 Yeah, I did an exercise. I was a journal today, 0:49:53.520 --> 0:49:59.439 just trying to you know, think about like, uh, sort 0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:02.240 of reassess that's my perspective on my own life instead 0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:05.040 of getting upset about it. It's a helpful thing to do. 0:50:06.520 --> 0:50:09.680 Indeed, Yeah, I find journaling is really hard. To keep 0:50:09.760 --> 0:50:12.800 up with or just like any habit it's very difficult. 0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:16.600 Vancouver's got nice trees. 0:50:18.239 --> 0:50:19.719 Oh, it is very nice here. 0:50:19.840 --> 0:50:21.680 That's what you say when you when you run out 0:50:21.680 --> 0:50:24.640 of conversation topics. But no, I shouldn't have even said that, 0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:29.520 because you you it actually ended up being a conversation topic. 0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:33.680 I can tell you about where I came from before Vancouver, 0:50:33.760 --> 0:50:35.759 because it's just on a trip that I'm like living here, 0:50:35.800 --> 0:50:37.879 like I can't believe that I have stayed in the. 0:50:37.800 --> 0:50:38.600 City for so long. 0:50:40.520 --> 0:50:44.480 Sure, yeah, so I came from a town of like 0:50:44.800 --> 0:50:50.440 four hundred people and there was no self service, and 0:50:50.520 --> 0:50:54.160 we didn't have Wi Fi or a toilet or there 0:50:54.200 --> 0:50:56.480 was no police there. Like it was just truly in 0:50:56.520 --> 0:50:59.160 the middle of nowhere and just kind of self governing 0:50:59.239 --> 0:51:02.560 and insane, kind of like Charlotte Park Boys but hippy 0:51:03.520 --> 0:51:04.319 mm hmmmm. 0:51:06.680 --> 0:51:08.319 And now you're in the big and now the big 0:51:08.360 --> 0:51:09.200 city of Vancouver. 0:51:09.840 --> 0:51:11.760 Now I'm in the big city, and it's weird because 0:51:11.760 --> 0:51:13.160 some of my friends are living in this kind of 0:51:13.200 --> 0:51:18.160 like commune situation and they just don't pay any money 0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:20.480 and they're having a great time, and I just am 0:51:20.520 --> 0:51:22.560 always wondering, like what the heck am I doing out here? 0:51:23.000 --> 0:51:24.719 What Dad? Are you doing out here? You just your 0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:27.279 friends are in a commune that sounds like you're That 0:51:27.320 --> 0:51:30.160 sounds like you're a kind of thing that sounds that 0:51:30.200 --> 0:51:32.560 sounds up. I've only known you for fifteen minutes, but 0:51:32.600 --> 0:51:34.160 that sounds extremely up your alley. 0:51:35.239 --> 0:51:37.120 Oh it's it sounds amazing. But you know, I have 0:51:37.160 --> 0:51:38.560 to get out of it, like I grew up there 0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:43.400 my entire life. Oh okay, yeah, and they're missing the 0:51:43.480 --> 0:51:45.120 arts scene. So I'm trying to figure out if I 0:51:45.160 --> 0:51:47.160 should go out there and just like start something. 0:51:48.239 --> 0:51:50.680 Why don't you, hey, hey, why don't you just start 0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:53.720 a commune? Someone's got to start it. Why just start 0:51:53.800 --> 0:51:56.000 the city Vancouver commune. 0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:00.840 That was amazing. I thought about making a weird underground society. 0:52:01.800 --> 0:52:03.279 I don't know how you. I don't know how you 0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:06.360 start a commune because you have to find a place 0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:08.040 to live that's free. 0:52:10.040 --> 0:52:10.120 Hee. 0:52:12.880 --> 0:52:14.440 Oh you know what you can do? Watch a b oh. 0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:17.960 I guess, I guess. I guess. If you get like, 0:52:19.840 --> 0:52:26.080 if you get like four hundred thousand people to give 0:52:26.120 --> 0:52:31.320 you one dollar, you can buy a plot of land 0:52:31.480 --> 0:52:35.480 and all of them can take turns living on it. 0:52:35.520 --> 0:52:39.440 Like a like a like a timeshare commune that's not 0:52:39.560 --> 0:52:40.600 like before? 0:52:40.960 --> 0:52:42.600 What's the math on that? Like you don't be able 0:52:42.600 --> 0:52:45.240 to live there like once every few years? 0:52:45.560 --> 0:52:50.640 Screw math? Math is uh, we we do we don't. 0:52:50.640 --> 0:52:53.160 We don't abandon our families to join communes to do 0:52:53.280 --> 0:52:58.280 math eclipse. You said your name was yeah the clips? 0:52:58.360 --> 0:52:59.400 Is there anything else you want to say to the 0:52:59.400 --> 0:53:00.719 people the compute here before we go? 0:53:00.960 --> 0:53:04.239 Thanks you guys all for listening and being a part 0:53:04.239 --> 0:53:07.279 of the gek team, and I hope you guys all 0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:10.840 enjoy your life you as well. 0:53:10.880 --> 0:53:18.719 Good luck with with with eating food and living in 0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:19.200 a place. 0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:23.600 Thank you so much. Have a good night. 0:53:25.040 --> 0:53:27.080 Hey folks, I'm about to play a clip from this 0:53:27.160 --> 0:53:32.080 month's bonus episode. 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